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Speaker 1: Carly Waddell and Evan Bass welcome baby number two Charles

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Speaker 1: would be but it would create a story, Sydney, and

425
00:21:01,600 --> 00:21:05,399
Speaker 1: that's what we're stories, good stories. Well anyways, listeners, is

426
00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:07,120
Speaker 1: it weird? Is and not? I don't know. Some people

427
00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:09,560
Speaker 1: like it, some people don't. I don't like the idea

428
00:21:09,920 --> 00:21:13,760
Speaker 1: of following somebody on my phone, but that's just me.

429
00:21:13,960 --> 00:21:17,639
Speaker 1: I'm also, you know, thirty going on seventy. It feels

430
00:21:17,680 --> 00:21:20,440
Speaker 1: like sometimes when it comes and it comes to technology. Um.

431
00:21:20,600 --> 00:21:22,600
Speaker 1: Colton Cassie also we brought it up, but we didn't

432
00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:26,359
Speaker 1: talk about it. Uh, they are not living together. They

433
00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:30,240
Speaker 1: discussed this publicly. This has also been a discussion. Um

434
00:21:30,600 --> 00:21:32,560
Speaker 1: that's came up in my life. Recently on the how

435
00:21:32,640 --> 00:21:36,840
Speaker 1: Man Think podcast with I Heart Radio. Um, what are

436
00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:42,200
Speaker 1: your thoughts sitting about living together in an exclusive dating relationship? Also,

437
00:21:42,359 --> 00:21:46,840
Speaker 1: let's move that into uh like a fiance engagement relationship.

438
00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:48,680
Speaker 1: And I want to give you my backstory. Right, So,

439
00:21:48,800 --> 00:21:52,159
Speaker 1: I grew up in a small conservative town. Um, it

440
00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:55,600
Speaker 1: is a part of kind of the moral fabric to

441
00:21:55,760 --> 00:21:59,480
Speaker 1: relationships that you don't live together until marriage. That was

442
00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:03,159
Speaker 1: kind of how how I was raised. Um, even though

443
00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:05,159
Speaker 1: I think my parents probably did for a little bit. Um,

444
00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:08,320
Speaker 1: it was just like kind of what people, um thought

445
00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:10,359
Speaker 1: in my town. My parents have never really spoken out

446
00:22:10,359 --> 00:22:12,240
Speaker 1: against it, by the way, Um, it's just kind of

447
00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:15,040
Speaker 1: the idea around it. And then, um, Laura and I

448
00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:17,479
Speaker 1: moved in together after our engagement the show, it got

449
00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:20,120
Speaker 1: a lot of controversy. I didn't realize it because I've

450
00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:22,560
Speaker 1: been very outspoken about my faith in Jesus. I fully

451
00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:25,000
Speaker 1: believe in Jesus, and when we moved in together, I

452
00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:28,119
Speaker 1: didn't even think about how the repercussion from the masses

453
00:22:28,119 --> 00:22:29,720
Speaker 1: would feel. But it was a lot of comments like

454
00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:32,240
Speaker 1: I thought, you said this, but this is the actions

455
00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:35,119
Speaker 1: you're choosing. No, I didn't know how to necessarily process

456
00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:36,639
Speaker 1: that because there's a lot of reasons why you move

457
00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:39,720
Speaker 1: in together. One uh, financially, it's it's a lot easier

458
00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:41,840
Speaker 1: to Laura and I didn't really know each other, so

459
00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:44,040
Speaker 1: we knew we had to learn a little bit about

460
00:22:44,040 --> 00:22:46,280
Speaker 1: each other. Move on from Laura. Now you know, Jessica

461
00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:47,600
Speaker 1: and I are not living together. We actually live in

462
00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:50,320
Speaker 1: two separate cities, Nashville and Denver. Um. One of the

463
00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:52,439
Speaker 1: things that we want to do right is to I mean,

464
00:22:52,480 --> 00:22:54,160
Speaker 1: I I love this woman. I want to make sure

465
00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:57,000
Speaker 1: that we cultivate the healthiest relationships. And now we're a

466
00:22:57,040 --> 00:22:59,960
Speaker 1: place of saying, okay, it's time to take that next step.

467
00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:02,359
Speaker 1: How do we do it well? And I want to

468
00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:05,560
Speaker 1: hear from you all what you think. I also on

469
00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:08,240
Speaker 1: Colton Cassie, like, they're both religious as well, so I

470
00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:09,879
Speaker 1: think that might play a factors to why they're not

471
00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:12,640
Speaker 1: living together. Um. I also think that if I want

472
00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:15,199
Speaker 1: to marry someone personally like, I would want to live

473
00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:17,520
Speaker 1: with them first, because that changes the dynamic of everything,

474
00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:20,119
Speaker 1: no matter like friends, family, anything like living together as

475
00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:22,480
Speaker 1: a whole other animal. So I would just want to

476
00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:25,040
Speaker 1: It's a picture into what your life will be. And

477
00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:27,360
Speaker 1: I think that's the best way to do it. It's

478
00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:30,560
Speaker 1: just like forcing yourself into like, but I'm not, Like,

479
00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:32,600
Speaker 1: I don't come from a background where it's like, you

480
00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:35,119
Speaker 1: don't live together before marriage, so that's where I'm at.

481
00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:38,160
Speaker 1: It's it's like a foreign thought. Yeah, he's also living

482
00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:40,960
Speaker 1: in modern times too, so it kind of changes things. Yeah,

483
00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:43,840
Speaker 1: I agree, Um, but I would actually say modern times

484
00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:48,000
Speaker 1: actually would would almost allow us to live um farther

485
00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:52,240
Speaker 1: apart because of FaceTime phone all that. Um but Eastern marketing.

486
00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:54,680
Speaker 1: Any strong thoughts on this? Well, you know, the other

487
00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:56,960
Speaker 1: trend is that like Kaylie Kuoko and effort to some

488
00:23:57,080 --> 00:24:00,480
Speaker 1: others that are married and not living together, and her

489
00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:03,200
Speaker 1: new partner were married for a while and not living together.

490
00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:05,920
Speaker 1: They planned to eventually, but right now it's not convenient.

491
00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:07,800
Speaker 1: So even though they're married, they're having separate homes. And

492
00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:10,600
Speaker 1: they said it's really helping a lot. Tanya about a

493
00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:12,520
Speaker 1: guy in an airplane last week who he and his

494
00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:14,080
Speaker 1: wife are only together three days a week, and then

495
00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:16,159
Speaker 1: four days a week he's in a different house and

496
00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:18,960
Speaker 1: that that just keeps it exciting. That makes us three

497
00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:21,359
Speaker 1: days really exciting and fun and fresh. Yeah, for me,

498
00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:23,560
Speaker 1: we lived together for a year before we got married.

499
00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:25,680
Speaker 1: It was right at the time I proposed, which was

500
00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:28,399
Speaker 1: timed well because her parents were not happy about it.

501
00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:31,960
Speaker 1: When I proposed that, then it became okay again. Was

502
00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:34,760
Speaker 1: it a faith background. It was. Once we proposed, they

503
00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:36,480
Speaker 1: decided it was okay for us to live together and

504
00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:38,640
Speaker 1: it worked out. Because it's like you say, it's the convenience,

505
00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:40,240
Speaker 1: it's the money, it's that sort of thing. There's lots

506
00:24:40,280 --> 00:24:43,199
Speaker 1: of reasons to do it. Yeah. Yeah, well, I mean

507
00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:45,520
Speaker 1: I don't have a strong faith. I'm a godless man.

508
00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:51,240
Speaker 1: But we we didn't move in together to we and floral.

509
00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:54,840
Speaker 1: You know when I when I I roamed the countryside

510
00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:57,200
Speaker 1: looking for for someone to beat up. But um, we

511
00:24:57,320 --> 00:24:59,679
Speaker 1: got engaged though we didn't moving together. Unt we got

512
00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:02,199
Speaker 1: engaged because my my now wife said, Um, I've done

513
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:03,920
Speaker 1: this so too many guys. I've moved in with them

514
00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:06,960
Speaker 1: and like God in our lives all intertwined and then

515
00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:08,720
Speaker 1: broken up. I don't want to do that again. I

516
00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:10,520
Speaker 1: don't have the time to waste on that. Yeah, I

517
00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:12,080
Speaker 1: feel like I would want to be engaged and then

518
00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:14,240
Speaker 1: move in instead of just like dating. So that's what

519
00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:15,840
Speaker 1: we did, and then we got engaged. It was like

520
00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:17,320
Speaker 1: a year period before we got married, and I was like,

521
00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:19,440
Speaker 1: there's something you don't like about me. You better figured

522
00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:24,159
Speaker 1: out this. You know. I was talking about this with

523
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:26,359
Speaker 1: Jessica because we're trying. We are we're talking through these

524
00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:28,480
Speaker 1: kind of conversations. We started to have them. And we're

525
00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:30,760
Speaker 1: at dinner of the night in New York, um and

526
00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:32,800
Speaker 1: we're sitting have a beautiful dinner and we start talking

527
00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:34,720
Speaker 1: about our future and it was exciting. Conversation was really

528
00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:37,080
Speaker 1: fun for us. And I brought up this topic because

529
00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:38,720
Speaker 1: it was brought up to me and one of the

530
00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:40,840
Speaker 1: guys on the Halman Think podcast said, you know, you

531
00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:43,080
Speaker 1: shouldn't be doing this for anybody but yourselves one. You

532
00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:44,720
Speaker 1: need to make this decision as a couple, and I

533
00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:46,960
Speaker 1: said I would agree with that. They also part is

534
00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:48,280
Speaker 1: that you know what the families are against it. You

535
00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:51,160
Speaker 1: don't want to burn those bridges. I love Jessica's family,

536
00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:54,800
Speaker 1: she loves my family. I want to respect what they want.

537
00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:57,440
Speaker 1: I want to walk through this wisely because I don't

538
00:25:57,560 --> 00:26:00,960
Speaker 1: need to just jump into marry living with somebody for

539
00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:04,000
Speaker 1: with with with burning every bridge ever had with her family.

540
00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:05,119
Speaker 1: You know, I don't want to do that. I want

541
00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:07,600
Speaker 1: to respect them. And I said, Jessica, what are your

542
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:10,040
Speaker 1: pros and cons to to not living together, because that's

543
00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:12,600
Speaker 1: what she doesn't want to do it. And she said something.

544
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:14,960
Speaker 1: I said, oh, and I phrase it with wouldn't it

545
00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:17,120
Speaker 1: be great if we live together so you would find

546
00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:19,240
Speaker 1: out things about me that you don't like, so that

547
00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:21,760
Speaker 1: it wouldn't work? And she says, the difference is once

548
00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:24,520
Speaker 1: we're married, the things we don't like we're gonna work

549
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:28,600
Speaker 1: on blending and compromising on. And I she said, I

550
00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:30,400
Speaker 1: know you well enough to know that you would want

551
00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:32,320
Speaker 1: to compromise for me. And I hope you know that

552
00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:34,560
Speaker 1: I want to compromise for you, and we'll make our

553
00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:37,040
Speaker 1: lives work. But we'll do that once we're married. So

554
00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:39,480
Speaker 1: there's there isn't an out, like we're in this thing

555
00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:42,399
Speaker 1: and I and I and I think if we live

556
00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:44,960
Speaker 1: together before we even engaged, or even as we're engaged,

557
00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:46,800
Speaker 1: it's too easy to say no, it's too easy to

558
00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:49,520
Speaker 1: go because living together cannot be easy. I cannot imagine

559
00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:53,040
Speaker 1: that in any relationship. It's like super a super easy transition.

560
00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:56,440
Speaker 1: So that's my thought. I don't know. It's an interesting

561
00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:58,000
Speaker 1: topic it's one that we're talking about more and more.

562
00:26:58,080 --> 00:26:59,920
Speaker 1: But Cassie and Colton are not living together in public

563
00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:03,680
Speaker 1: about it? Um yeah, these thoughts are so fun and

564
00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:06,280
Speaker 1: so exciting. Please email us if you think you should

565
00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:08,720
Speaker 1: live together before marriage or not. Um. Right now, I'm

566
00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:11,000
Speaker 1: on the side of not. We'll see. Hey. Colton gives

567
00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:14,520
Speaker 1: Peter Webber advice for his new season. This new season

568
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:17,560
Speaker 1: ended filming this last week. We have no clue what happened.

569
00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:19,640
Speaker 1: We're gonna try to keep it that way. We don't

570
00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:22,800
Speaker 1: want to ruin anything. I do know. Uh, Peter Webber,

571
00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:25,760
Speaker 1: I cut his face up at some point. That's the Yeah,

572
00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:29,520
Speaker 1: that was bad. He's still good looking. He's gonna be fine. Um. So,

573
00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:32,399
Speaker 1: Colton says this to Peter Webber. He goes my season

574
00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:36,680
Speaker 1: specifically exemplified that there's an expectation to get engaged. But

575
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:40,439
Speaker 1: my only advice is, just like, it's your life. At

576
00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:42,600
Speaker 1: the end of it, they have another bachelor, they have

577
00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:45,280
Speaker 1: another bachelorte. So you really need to keep in mind

578
00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:47,800
Speaker 1: to do what's best for you and what's best for

579
00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:51,280
Speaker 1: your relationship because it's your real life. I think that's

580
00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 1: an important piece is Colton says it it's true, it's

581
00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:58,920
Speaker 1: your real life. People like the cameras go down, the

582
00:27:58,960 --> 00:28:02,240
Speaker 1: show stops airing, your life doesn't stop at that moment.

583
00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:06,359
Speaker 1: It keeps going and there's still repercussions from that. Sydney,

584
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:09,240
Speaker 1: any immediate thoughts. I agree with that because I think

585
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:13,440
Speaker 1: what sometimes people fall into the show, it's they I

586
00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:16,320
Speaker 1: feel like they have to follow a certain storyline. And

587
00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:18,720
Speaker 1: I think he makes a good point, like it doesn't

588
00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:21,840
Speaker 1: have to always end how the show designed it to end,

589
00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:25,080
Speaker 1: and I think that makes a successful relationships. So that way,

590
00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:27,040
Speaker 1: you're meaning your person where you're supposed to be at

591
00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:29,639
Speaker 1: versus like forcing you guys into this one little like

592
00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:33,040
Speaker 1: hole um And it seemed to work out for Colton,

593
00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:35,280
Speaker 1: which is good. But I think it's like pushing boundaries

594
00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:36,880
Speaker 1: with the show as well, because I think that they're

595
00:28:36,920 --> 00:28:39,640
Speaker 1: having a lot of different outcomes at the end of

596
00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:42,040
Speaker 1: this versus just like the typical everyone gets engaged and

597
00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:43,920
Speaker 1: they're happy at the end of it. So I don't know, Ben,

598
00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:45,680
Speaker 1: we need to lead. Do you feel the pressure from

599
00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:48,640
Speaker 1: the producers I need to make this interesting, entertaining, exciting.

600
00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:50,840
Speaker 1: Do you lose sight of your own life and think

601
00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:53,440
Speaker 1: of what's best for the show. You know, I think

602
00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:55,480
Speaker 1: it would be incredibly hard to know there's two hundred

603
00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:58,120
Speaker 1: people standing around you on those last few days and

604
00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:01,080
Speaker 1: not finish this thing out. I think it is a

605
00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:03,040
Speaker 1: lot of pressure. I don't think I recognize it at

606
00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:08,120
Speaker 1: the time. I think I realized, Um, I realized what

607
00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:11,040
Speaker 1: was at stake here. I also, you know, the language

608
00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:13,560
Speaker 1: of how special would this be if this was the

609
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:15,360
Speaker 1: end of your loves or the start of your Latin

610
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:17,920
Speaker 1: next chapter. How special would it be if your whole

611
00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:21,400
Speaker 1: love story was documented on television? How special would it

612
00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:23,479
Speaker 1: be if you could show her in this moment how

613
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:26,320
Speaker 1: much you care. That language starts to seep inside and

614
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:29,920
Speaker 1: you're like, Yeah, it would be special, it would be great.

615
00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:31,640
Speaker 1: What if I how do I explain it? If I

616
00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 1: just walk off this thing? Um? But my every year

617
00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:37,240
Speaker 1: I get to talk to the bachelor, at least I

618
00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:41,280
Speaker 1: have until I get too old. And I remember with Nick,

619
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:43,400
Speaker 1: there was this moment I was really pumped for Nick

620
00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:45,280
Speaker 1: because I knew this was something he was excited about.

621
00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:47,520
Speaker 1: And I remember my only advice as I was like

622
00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:49,880
Speaker 1: thinking through what I want to Tom was don't feel

623
00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:53,640
Speaker 1: the pressure to get engaged. Don't don't carry that weight.

624
00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:56,880
Speaker 1: Don't carry that burden because engagement is a real thing.

625
00:29:57,760 --> 00:29:59,360
Speaker 1: And then I've been the follow ups been asked to me,

626
00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:02,920
Speaker 1: you know, do I regret than proposing? I don't. I

627
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:05,880
Speaker 1: think it's Carrie. It's added a layer to my life

628
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:08,280
Speaker 1: that I not have to explain and and ask for,

629
00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:12,640
Speaker 1: you know, understanding on. But I don't regret it because

630
00:30:12,720 --> 00:30:14,720
Speaker 1: it was what I thought was right at the time

631
00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:20,120
Speaker 1: and it just didn't work out. Um, here's my problem

632
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:22,120
Speaker 1: with this statement, though, I think I think Colton spot

633
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:25,400
Speaker 1: On and I just said it to Nick. I would

634
00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:27,520
Speaker 1: hate for any bachelor to walk into the season in

635
00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:29,640
Speaker 1: the back of his mind thinking that not making that

636
00:30:29,720 --> 00:30:33,240
Speaker 1: commitment was the wrong thing. That like starting to like

637
00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:36,920
Speaker 1: because it's so easy to doubt yourself already, especially when

638
00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:38,840
Speaker 1: you're in this world, that it's going to be so

639
00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:42,840
Speaker 1: easy to say, huh, I'm not into it. I gotta go. Yeah,

640
00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:46,320
Speaker 1: I don't want that either, What Sidney, if you're at

641
00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:51,920
Speaker 1: the end there, would you be um upset if they

642
00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:55,800
Speaker 1: didn't like if the guy didn't do it? Yeah, I

643
00:30:55,840 --> 00:30:58,040
Speaker 1: would be upset, especially if I was like ready and

644
00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:00,720
Speaker 1: I like knew, because I would the whole process. While

645
00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:03,000
Speaker 1: you're there, you're so unsure about how they feel about

646
00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:05,040
Speaker 1: you because they're not really allowed to say anything. So

647
00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:06,520
Speaker 1: then if I were to get to the end and

648
00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:09,880
Speaker 1: he still didn't propose, I would be like, well, so

649
00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:12,200
Speaker 1: do you like me? It's hard I would I would

650
00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:15,640
Speaker 1: want that validation, especially at the end. Well, we're gonna

651
00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:18,600
Speaker 1: bring up somebody that has proposed at the end. Um.

652
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:22,440
Speaker 1: She is the new co host of The Bachelor Live

653
00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:28,560
Speaker 1: on Stage show with Me starting February one. Becca, Good friends, Welcome, Welcome.

654
00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:33,520
Speaker 1: How's it going, guys? Good? Really good. Becca. We're just

655
00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:35,520
Speaker 1: getting out of a conversation and before we start talking

656
00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:36,920
Speaker 1: about this tour and all the great things that you

657
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:39,240
Speaker 1: and I are going to do on it. Um, what

658
00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:42,680
Speaker 1: do you think about Colton's advice to Peter to say

659
00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:45,720
Speaker 1: don't feel like you need to get engaged into the season.

660
00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:49,680
Speaker 1: Good advice, bad advice? Or is it just exactly what

661
00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:53,160
Speaker 1: somebody needs to hear. I mean, truly, I think that's

662
00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:56,440
Speaker 1: exactly what somebody needs to hear. I know that. I

663
00:31:56,520 --> 00:32:00,160
Speaker 1: mean I remember the pressure I felt going in good

664
00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:02,840
Speaker 1: time around on the bad short being like okay, I

665
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:05,040
Speaker 1: don't want to push anything if I'm not ready. And

666
00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:07,920
Speaker 1: the luckily the production team was great about being like,

667
00:32:08,600 --> 00:32:11,560
Speaker 1: this is your choice, like this is potentially like your life,

668
00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:14,200
Speaker 1: your partner, and if it feels right, go for it.

669
00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:17,040
Speaker 1: And so I think it's if it feels right, of course,

670
00:32:17,160 --> 00:32:20,080
Speaker 1: like follow your heart, Peter and and hopefully find the one.

671
00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:22,239
Speaker 1: But I would never want anyone to feel like they

672
00:32:22,320 --> 00:32:26,560
Speaker 1: had to be forced into something, um, you know, like

673
00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:28,880
Speaker 1: some other bad schors may have felt. Do you feel

674
00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:33,520
Speaker 1: forced into being engaged to Garrett? No? Not at all. Um.

675
00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:36,200
Speaker 1: The only time I say then, do I feel forces

676
00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:38,120
Speaker 1: when he keeps me up a night because he's snoring

677
00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:42,600
Speaker 1: so loud it's got to push I know. Oh, trust me,

678
00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:45,360
Speaker 1: I've been taking videos like crazy from every night. I'm

679
00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:47,880
Speaker 1: gonna make it like a whole snoring compilation of him.

680
00:32:48,280 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 1: Oh that'll be cute for like an anniversary gift. I

681
00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:54,320
Speaker 1: don't know this, but Becca and Garrett had this thing

682
00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:55,840
Speaker 1: on social media. Think it was yesterday or the day

683
00:32:55,840 --> 00:32:58,280
Speaker 1: before that made me laugh so hard. So uh, men

684
00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:00,920
Speaker 1: know their dog must have torn up the house, like

685
00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:03,680
Speaker 1: just torn up the shoes and the cow whatever. And

686
00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:07,480
Speaker 1: then you see this video of Becca like holding minnow

687
00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:09,760
Speaker 1: and like scratching her belly and Garrett on the couch

688
00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:11,200
Speaker 1: video tape and her being like, this is a great

689
00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:14,320
Speaker 1: way to, like, you know, reinforce bad behavior. And I

690
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:18,440
Speaker 1: thought it was so funny. I like to say Garrett

691
00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:22,120
Speaker 1: is the disciplinarian one out of us. I like, I

692
00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:24,280
Speaker 1: just can't I can't yell at her. I can't get

693
00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:26,360
Speaker 1: mad at her everything she does, even if she's a

694
00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:28,600
Speaker 1: little turret. She just is such a cutie pie. So

695
00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:31,160
Speaker 1: I listed to him and then hope that she just

696
00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:33,440
Speaker 1: loves me more when I spoil her. That's a good

697
00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:36,880
Speaker 1: cop back up, Um, how are you going to spoil

698
00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:40,320
Speaker 1: me when we start this tour? Well, then if you

699
00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:42,560
Speaker 1: two of my shoes woods, I probably won't give you

700
00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:45,959
Speaker 1: a belly rub, you know, but I will say if

701
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:47,920
Speaker 1: we have a great show, I'll take you out for

702
00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:50,320
Speaker 1: a beer every night. Oh I can do I can

703
00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:53,760
Speaker 1: do that. I like that, Sidney. So I don't know

704
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:56,120
Speaker 1: if you've you've heard a little bit background here. Um,

705
00:33:56,240 --> 00:33:58,680
Speaker 1: the Batchel Live on Stage tour is starting February one

706
00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:01,680
Speaker 1: in Arizona, and the whole concept is this Batchel Nation

707
00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:05,800
Speaker 1: has been so good um to the show, and so

708
00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:09,279
Speaker 1: a team came together and said, let's make a live

709
00:34:09,400 --> 00:34:12,399
Speaker 1: traveling tour. So we're going to I don't know back

710
00:34:12,440 --> 00:34:17,480
Speaker 1: what is at sixty six cities. We're quite a lot.

711
00:34:17,680 --> 00:34:19,800
Speaker 1: Beck and I are gonna be literally on tour buses,

712
00:34:20,600 --> 00:34:25,440
Speaker 1: um with professional dancers and production and musicians like everything.

713
00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:26,640
Speaker 1: And then Beck and I will be on this bus

714
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:29,840
Speaker 1: as well. Um, Garrett will be traveling. Jessica will be

715
00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:32,200
Speaker 1: traveling with us. Um men, I was gonna be traveling

716
00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:33,719
Speaker 1: with us. But here's the concept of the show. Because

717
00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:35,160
Speaker 1: a lot of people want to ask and and Becca

718
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:38,480
Speaker 1: Police feel free to to chime in where you want here. Um,

719
00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:41,120
Speaker 1: We're gonna go to each city, sixty six cities, pick

720
00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:43,600
Speaker 1: a new bachelor in each of these cities. So sixty

721
00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:48,439
Speaker 1: six different bachelors, ten women at each location, and they're

722
00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:51,319
Speaker 1: gonna be dating in real life on stage in front

723
00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:53,719
Speaker 1: of two thousand people. Who how many show up to

724
00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:57,040
Speaker 1: the auditorium, all down to the very end, will they'll

725
00:34:57,080 --> 00:35:00,400
Speaker 1: give out a final rose? Wow? How many are you

726
00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:02,759
Speaker 1: staying in each city? One? It's a two and a

727
00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:07,960
Speaker 1: half our show, Okay, it's like every night and then

728
00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:09,920
Speaker 1: sleep on the bus, wake up in a new city.

729
00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:12,239
Speaker 1: It's just we're just gonna banging at sixty six in

730
00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:14,160
Speaker 1: a row. So are they expected to be engaged at

731
00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:18,759
Speaker 1: the end? I hope we get one. Um, but po,

732
00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:21,680
Speaker 1: I could see like two and a half hours of

733
00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:26,360
Speaker 1: love really, you know, totally like moving into this romantic

734
00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:28,360
Speaker 1: scenario where your love stories. She could play out in

735
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:29,719
Speaker 1: front of two thousand people in two a half hours.

736
00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:31,880
Speaker 1: At the end you're engaged. No that the request is

737
00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:34,440
Speaker 1: this is at the end? I can't give There's a

738
00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:36,440
Speaker 1: really cool twist to the show at the very end.

739
00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:38,920
Speaker 1: But he is asking one woman, Hey, would you like

740
00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:42,200
Speaker 1: to accept my rose? And she gets Then then the

741
00:35:42,239 --> 00:35:44,520
Speaker 1: twist is that she has the power at that moment

742
00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:48,759
Speaker 1: to say yes, no or something else um, which is

743
00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:50,480
Speaker 1: going to really make the show fun I think for

744
00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:52,919
Speaker 1: everybody involved. Now, the question that we always get asked,

745
00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:54,839
Speaker 1: why the Bachelor? Right at the Bachelor att we're starting

746
00:35:54,840 --> 00:35:57,839
Speaker 1: at the Bachelor. We hope to do the Bachelor atte um.

747
00:35:58,000 --> 00:35:59,440
Speaker 1: We hope that we can do a lot of these

748
00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:01,920
Speaker 1: kind of shows. But for the first go around, please

749
00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:04,040
Speaker 1: come and watch us at one of these sixty six cities.

750
00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:06,239
Speaker 1: Beckat Coofer and I are going to be hitting the road.

751
00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 1: Becca A tour of us. We're taking tour buses. What

752
00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:16,279
Speaker 1: is your strategy for tour bus life? Oh? Man, you know,

753
00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:18,960
Speaker 1: I feel like I need to uh talk to some

754
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:23,520
Speaker 1: rock stars who have done this, because I like knowing

755
00:36:23,640 --> 00:36:25,120
Speaker 1: me and I feel like Ben, you're kind of the

756
00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:27,360
Speaker 1: same way. I need a loan time sometimes, So this

757
00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:34,080
Speaker 1: will definitely be interesting. We will luckily have our own bathrooms,

758
00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:37,280
Speaker 1: which will be nice. Um, but it's going to be interesting.

759
00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:39,080
Speaker 1: I think the main thing that's going to be tough

760
00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:43,319
Speaker 1: for me is the whole packing situation because I am

761
00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:47,560
Speaker 1: notorious for overpacking and these tour buses aren't huge, so

762
00:36:47,680 --> 00:36:50,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have probably one little small suitcase that I'll

763
00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:54,239
Speaker 1: have to cram everything into, which at this point I'm

764
00:36:54,239 --> 00:36:57,360
Speaker 1: gonna know it's doable. I'm sure Garrett will probably have

765
00:36:57,520 --> 00:36:59,719
Speaker 1: to throw out a lot for me and help me. Um,

766
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:01,560
Speaker 1: but I think it will be fun. You know, not

767
00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:03,640
Speaker 1: many people can say that they've lived on a tour

768
00:37:03,800 --> 00:37:06,560
Speaker 1: bus for part of their life, and so I don't

769
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:09,719
Speaker 1: want to go in with and with an open head

770
00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:11,719
Speaker 1: and hard and to just really soak it all in

771
00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:14,800
Speaker 1: for all it's worth. And I'm sure we'll have some

772
00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:17,719
Speaker 1: days where you know, we're neither alone time, and we're

773
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:20,600
Speaker 1: gonna be down or stressed or sick or whatever it

774
00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:23,440
Speaker 1: might be. But I think overall, with Ben and the

775
00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:26,359
Speaker 1: entire team traveling with us will keep everyone's spirits high

776
00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:28,759
Speaker 1: and just make it a really good run. I think

777
00:37:28,800 --> 00:37:31,320
Speaker 1: Hannah when she was bout for it, how to take breaks,

778
00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:33,240
Speaker 1: like what she called them stare at the wall breaks.

779
00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:35,960
Speaker 1: So she would schedule in like fifteen minutes where she

780
00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:37,840
Speaker 1: would just literally stare at the wall and like no

781
00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:39,279
Speaker 1: one would talk to us. Maybe you need some of

782
00:37:39,320 --> 00:37:42,879
Speaker 1: the healthy my whole thing. And I think I killed

783
00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:45,120
Speaker 1: then this before I used to because you don't have

784
00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:47,759
Speaker 1: any alone time. You always have somebody with you. That

785
00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:49,719
Speaker 1: I used to pretend that I had to go to

786
00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:53,160
Speaker 1: the bathroom really bad, and I would legit just sit

787
00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:56,399
Speaker 1: I never going to the bathroom and just sit there

788
00:37:56,440 --> 00:37:59,480
Speaker 1: for quiet time for like ten fifteen minutes, because you know,

789
00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:02,200
Speaker 1: you need, you need to need your own time sometimes. Yeah,

790
00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:04,680
Speaker 1: that's gonna be a great thing. I'm just gonna take

791
00:38:04,719 --> 00:38:06,239
Speaker 1: a lot of advantage to try to clean up my

792
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:11,359
Speaker 1: my coaling. Um. The well, here's the thing. I'm all

793
00:38:11,440 --> 00:38:14,960
Speaker 1: for equality, but there's one thing that's very obvious. When

794
00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:17,719
Speaker 1: it comes to minimum, that just is not equal. And

795
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:19,640
Speaker 1: that's the fact that Beck, when you talk about packing,

796
00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:22,239
Speaker 1: I'm talking about literally bringing one suit on the road

797
00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:24,480
Speaker 1: with me and wearing it at all sixty six locations,

798
00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:28,200
Speaker 1: probably basketball shorts and a T shirt, and then that's it.

799
00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:31,000
Speaker 1: Like that's all, and you're gonna be stressing out and

800
00:38:31,080 --> 00:38:34,200
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna hang up a suit, same suit. You

801
00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:36,759
Speaker 1: have the luxem here's the thing. You can accessorize with

802
00:38:36,880 --> 00:38:40,480
Speaker 1: your ties, pocket squares, and you can get away with it.

803
00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:43,680
Speaker 1: Like girls, we need options. I feel like if I

804
00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:48,200
Speaker 1: wear the same gown every night, I'll definitely get bored

805
00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:49,640
Speaker 1: of it, and I think people are going to get

806
00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:51,960
Speaker 1: bored of it too, So I'm gonna need, you know,

807
00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:54,960
Speaker 1: hopefully a couple of dresses there. But luckily, I'm not

808
00:38:55,000 --> 00:38:56,440
Speaker 1: going to give too much away of what we're doing

809
00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:59,319
Speaker 1: on stage, but we will have some costume changes when

810
00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:02,919
Speaker 1: will will come in handy with the having the stage

811
00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:05,239
Speaker 1: manager keep tracks of those bad boys. I hope I

812
00:39:05,280 --> 00:39:07,480
Speaker 1: turned into a unicorn at some point. I don't think

813
00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:09,200
Speaker 1: it's a thing, but I just really I feel like

814
00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:13,440
Speaker 1: that we could make it happen. Um Becca before we

815
00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 1: let you go here? What is something? So I was

816
00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:19,480
Speaker 1: announced as the host I don't know months ago, um,

817
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:22,560
Speaker 1: and then there has been the plans the whole time

818
00:39:22,560 --> 00:39:24,040
Speaker 1: we would have a co host and we were working

819
00:39:24,080 --> 00:39:26,600
Speaker 1: through things and then Becca got chosen and we had

820
00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:29,239
Speaker 1: to wait a little bit to announce it. I'm ecstatic

821
00:39:29,320 --> 00:39:31,040
Speaker 1: that Becca is my co host. I don't know if

822
00:39:31,080 --> 00:39:36,239
Speaker 1: you know. She's terrific. Um. She's funny, she's smart, She's

823
00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:38,279
Speaker 1: gonna be easy get along with for four months. And

824
00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:40,319
Speaker 1: I love Garrett. I think Garrett's the best, So I'm

825
00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:42,239
Speaker 1: pumped to be with him, and Jessica loves him as well.

826
00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:44,960
Speaker 1: Outside of our time together, BECA because I know that's

827
00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:47,560
Speaker 1: probably number one. What is the thing that you're most

828
00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:51,880
Speaker 1: excitedful when it comes to this? To her? Oh, cute things.

829
00:39:52,160 --> 00:39:57,520
Speaker 1: So number one is just meeting everyone in all the cities.

830
00:39:57,520 --> 00:39:59,840
Speaker 1: I know we're gonna be offering v I P. We

831
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:03,640
Speaker 1: didn't greets after each show. I mean, I've traveled quite

832
00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:06,080
Speaker 1: a bit, but there's a lot of cities that I've

833
00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:08,640
Speaker 1: never been to that are on this tour. So I'm

834
00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:12,480
Speaker 1: just excited to check out the cities to meet the people. Um,

835
00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:15,400
Speaker 1: and just to get like feel the vibe from the audience.

836
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:18,360
Speaker 1: Like I really want to like like play off of

837
00:40:18,480 --> 00:40:20,520
Speaker 1: everyone in the crowd. And I think that's kind of

838
00:40:20,600 --> 00:40:23,120
Speaker 1: what's going to get us going night by night because

839
00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:24,560
Speaker 1: we're gonna have a lot of shows in a row

840
00:40:24,600 --> 00:40:26,000
Speaker 1: ban so it's really going to be up to the

841
00:40:26,040 --> 00:40:30,160
Speaker 1: audience to you know, help keep us up and spirited

842
00:40:30,239 --> 00:40:33,759
Speaker 1: and all that fun stuff. Um. I'm also very excited.

843
00:40:34,160 --> 00:40:38,320
Speaker 1: So side note, I'm a huge footie. So during the days,

844
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:40,880
Speaker 1: we'll have some downtime to explore the cities, so I

845
00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:43,520
Speaker 1: want to eat my heart out. I want to hit

846
00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:46,600
Speaker 1: all of the great local spots. So for anyone listening,

847
00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:49,560
Speaker 1: if we're coming to your cities, please be at any

848
00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:53,160
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850
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Speaker 1: a goot cocktail after the show, whatever it might be. Um.

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Speaker 1: So that's another thing I look forward to. It's just

852
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Speaker 1: exploring the cities. That is a great point. I never

853
00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:05,879
Speaker 1: thought about that, but you literally just made my life.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna have so so much fun eating um. But

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Speaker 1: we're gonna get you know what, fat and happy. That

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00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:16,040
Speaker 1: sounds awesome. M Hey, if you want to see Becca

857
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Speaker 1: on the tour in one of these sixty six cities,

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Speaker 1: Were pumped about it, works out about it Becca. Let's

860
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Speaker 1: make some love happen all across the US of a bet.

861
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Speaker 1: Thank you for coming on the podcast. Thanks, guys, can't

862
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Speaker 1: wait to see Speaking of love, Um, we're gonna talk

863
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Speaker 1: with you. One is on Blake Hortsman announcing that he

904
00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:49,440
Speaker 1: will be back at Stage Coach this year. He's ready

905
00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:52,440
Speaker 1: for a redemption story. I'm not sure what that looks like.

906
00:43:52,719 --> 00:43:55,279
Speaker 1: I don't need. Yeah, it's not good, I'm sure. I

907
00:43:55,360 --> 00:43:57,320
Speaker 1: don't know how I feel about he just going like

908
00:43:57,400 --> 00:43:59,560
Speaker 1: be sober the whole time and just like you know,

909
00:43:59,640 --> 00:44:04,200
Speaker 1: past out. That would be terrific. But how terrible does

910
00:44:04,280 --> 00:44:07,040
Speaker 1: that sound? I thought the sobriety part as much as

911
00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:09,520
Speaker 1: like you're just at a place at a festival, people

912
00:44:09,520 --> 00:44:12,080
Speaker 1: are just like waiting for you to mess up. Basically,

913
00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:15,680
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's not gonna why I would never

914
00:44:15,760 --> 00:44:17,080
Speaker 1: want to go back there. I'd be like I would

915
00:44:17,120 --> 00:44:21,360
Speaker 1: have like trauma so there's two paths. I'm saying. He

916
00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:25,839
Speaker 1: walks in and everybody like has Blake Hortsman signs like yeah,

917
00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:28,160
Speaker 1: or he walks in and everybody's going to make the

918
00:44:28,200 --> 00:44:33,239
Speaker 1: blake yeah. Like what happens to this this whole thing? Um,

919
00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:36,040
Speaker 1: it's gonna be It's gonna be a lot. Um. If

920
00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:38,279
Speaker 1: I were him, I would never want to be near

921
00:44:38,440 --> 00:44:42,239
Speaker 1: a music vessel ever again. But for whatever reason, he

922
00:44:42,360 --> 00:44:44,120
Speaker 1: thinks he's this is the same thing he didn't PARENTI

923
00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:45,880
Speaker 1: see he's gonna He thought he was going to redeem

924
00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:47,879
Speaker 1: himself the every day he got there. So now he's

925
00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:49,680
Speaker 1: going back to the place where it all began and

926
00:44:49,800 --> 00:44:52,319
Speaker 1: thinks he's going to redeem himself. I mean, I don't

927
00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:54,759
Speaker 1: know how you do that. I really don't know. I

928
00:44:54,800 --> 00:44:57,920
Speaker 1: wonder if Stage was just paying him. It's yeah, it's

929
00:44:57,960 --> 00:44:59,520
Speaker 1: got to be one of those things, right, it has

930
00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:04,160
Speaker 1: to be. I can confirm that they are. I've never

931
00:45:04,200 --> 00:45:07,399
Speaker 1: been to stage coach. I like. I like country music,

932
00:45:07,520 --> 00:45:10,640
Speaker 1: I like festivals. If somebody offered me money to come

933
00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:12,600
Speaker 1: to their festival, I would say yes, because Hi, I'm

934
00:45:12,640 --> 00:45:16,560
Speaker 1: buying the tickets. I just think this is a really

935
00:45:16,680 --> 00:45:20,359
Speaker 1: dangerous scenario and it's gonna you know, what's going to happen,

936
00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:22,879
Speaker 1: and truth be told, he's gonna get there and nothing

937
00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:24,960
Speaker 1: while it's gonna happen, Nothing weird's gonna happen. He's gonna

938
00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:27,239
Speaker 1: be on his best behavior, and if he's not, it's

939
00:45:27,280 --> 00:45:29,560
Speaker 1: going to backfire so bad. But he's gonna be on

940
00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:32,480
Speaker 1: his best behavior. It's all going to go fine. But

941
00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:35,960
Speaker 1: nobody's gonna talk about that either because it's not a story. Oh,

942
00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:41,759
Speaker 1: Blake went to stage Coach and he hopefully we'll stay

943
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:45,320
Speaker 1: of it. We'll see if he's not this for the ages,

944
00:45:46,840 --> 00:45:48,759
Speaker 1: get back to Paradise. If he's not, I hope there's

945
00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:50,839
Speaker 1: Blake Corts been like signs at stage Coach one day,

946
00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:54,919
Speaker 1: like come see Blake, Yeah, this is this is where,

947
00:45:55,280 --> 00:45:59,200
Speaker 1: this is the stage at this season of Paradise. Had

948
00:45:59,200 --> 00:46:02,080
Speaker 1: Stage Coach mentioned so many times, just like this podcast,

949
00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:05,880
Speaker 1: Um that do you think the festival was ecstatic about this?

950
00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:07,759
Speaker 1: It's like the best thing that's ever happened to them.

951
00:46:07,760 --> 00:46:11,480
Speaker 1: I'm sure right. Free advertising. It was over and over

952
00:46:11,600 --> 00:46:15,640
Speaker 1: and over. I will never forget it, Like everyone was

953
00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:17,680
Speaker 1: talking about it and now they're like using it to

954
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:19,960
Speaker 1: promote it more. When you were down there. Did it

955
00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:21,839
Speaker 1: feel like everybody's talking about it too. I think they

956
00:46:21,880 --> 00:46:24,919
Speaker 1: had to request to use the term stage host because

957
00:46:24,960 --> 00:46:27,239
Speaker 1: it was being brought up in interview so much. So. Yeah,

958
00:46:28,960 --> 00:46:31,080
Speaker 1: there is an episode I forget which one. It blurs

959
00:46:31,120 --> 00:46:34,160
Speaker 1: together at some point, but like two or three different

960
00:46:34,200 --> 00:46:36,640
Speaker 1: women came back to back to back, all at that

961
00:46:36,760 --> 00:46:40,160
Speaker 1: point admitting that stage Coach had They had an interaction

962
00:46:40,200 --> 00:46:43,400
Speaker 1: with Blake at stage Coach and it was like, is

963
00:46:43,480 --> 00:46:47,520
Speaker 1: humorous the right word or just like nail biting cringe worthy?

964
00:46:47,640 --> 00:46:49,360
Speaker 1: Like there were so many emotions to that because it

965
00:46:49,400 --> 00:46:51,480
Speaker 1: was like I met Blake a stage coach, I met

966
00:46:51,520 --> 00:46:53,080
Speaker 1: Blake at stage chich and then I think somebody else

967
00:46:53,120 --> 00:46:55,200
Speaker 1: came on and was like I met Blake at stage coach,

968
00:46:55,440 --> 00:46:58,879
Speaker 1: but nothing happened, like they had to like preface it. Yeah. Yeah,

969
00:46:58,920 --> 00:47:00,920
Speaker 1: it's almost like the potations like sending the next one,

970
00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:03,839
Speaker 1: sending the next stage person, like they just like line

971
00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:06,440
Speaker 1: them all up and it was beautifully done. But um,

972
00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:11,000
Speaker 1: it led to Blake's ultimatumize It definitely did. If you

973
00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:13,160
Speaker 1: want to see the expert of stage coach, Blake Courtsman,

974
00:47:13,160 --> 00:47:16,480
Speaker 1: He's gonna be there this year. Okay, final topic. This

975
00:47:16,600 --> 00:47:19,400
Speaker 1: one's an interesting one. I want to get clarity on

976
00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:21,440
Speaker 1: it from Tasia at some point, but until then, let's

977
00:47:21,480 --> 00:47:24,359
Speaker 1: just weigh in what we think. JPJ and Tasia, as

978
00:47:24,520 --> 00:47:26,719
Speaker 1: we announced a few weeks ago, have officially broken up.

979
00:47:27,320 --> 00:47:30,120
Speaker 1: Um they did just now speak up about their breakup.

980
00:47:30,160 --> 00:47:33,279
Speaker 1: Tasia said his nine to job was hard on their relationship.

981
00:47:34,320 --> 00:47:37,239
Speaker 1: So I think taking that comment out of context is

982
00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:40,520
Speaker 1: really bad. But that that is the That is the

983
00:47:40,640 --> 00:47:43,080
Speaker 1: last that was That was the line that was the

984
00:47:43,160 --> 00:47:46,200
Speaker 1: title of the article. Now I get it. It's if

985
00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:49,800
Speaker 1: that's not true, Okay, tell me why. Because her I

986
00:47:49,920 --> 00:47:53,000
Speaker 1: knowing her and talking to her, she liked his nine

987
00:47:53,080 --> 00:47:55,560
Speaker 1: to five job Like that was something that intrigued her

988
00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:58,840
Speaker 1: about him, that he was like essentially normal and not

989
00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:02,040
Speaker 1: trying to like go into this whole influencer life. I mean,

990
00:48:02,080 --> 00:48:03,479
Speaker 1: he was doing it on the side, but it wasn't

991
00:48:03,520 --> 00:48:07,000
Speaker 1: like his whole like job. She I think that was

992
00:48:07,080 --> 00:48:09,560
Speaker 1: what attracted her to him the most, was that he

993
00:48:09,719 --> 00:48:12,160
Speaker 1: was like smart and driven and had that like real

994
00:48:12,280 --> 00:48:14,919
Speaker 1: job that he had. Well, in this world, it isn't

995
00:48:14,960 --> 00:48:17,919
Speaker 1: common to find somebody with that real job. It is hard.

996
00:48:17,960 --> 00:48:21,040
Speaker 1: I mean, I would say for myselfie like even um,

997
00:48:21,800 --> 00:48:24,640
Speaker 1: the balance of a five on top of so I

998
00:48:24,920 --> 00:48:27,799
Speaker 1: you know, now full time I do generous But back

999
00:48:27,840 --> 00:48:29,360
Speaker 1: in the day when The Bachelor was going on, and

1000
00:48:29,440 --> 00:48:31,080
Speaker 1: the Bachelor, I kept my job do the whole thing

1001
00:48:31,160 --> 00:48:33,160
Speaker 1: for a software company, so I was clocked and clocked

1002
00:48:33,200 --> 00:48:36,319
Speaker 1: out and it was really difficult to do all those above.

1003
00:48:36,360 --> 00:48:38,160
Speaker 1: Friday evening I would fly to wherever I have to

1004
00:48:38,239 --> 00:48:40,840
Speaker 1: be to do press or event or whatever. And it

1005
00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:43,000
Speaker 1: was fun and that was exciting and was cool, and

1006
00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:45,560
Speaker 1: then right back on Monday to my desk and it's exhausting,

1007
00:48:45,600 --> 00:48:47,680
Speaker 1: and it's weird and it feels like two separate lives,

1008
00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:52,080
Speaker 1: but it's healthy, it is. I think that she also,

1009
00:48:52,160 --> 00:48:54,200
Speaker 1: because he was so much younger, because he had that

1010
00:48:54,320 --> 00:48:56,680
Speaker 1: like real, like fine ance job, she would like it

1011
00:48:56,760 --> 00:48:58,440
Speaker 1: almost made it more okay for her that she was

1012
00:48:58,520 --> 00:49:00,359
Speaker 1: dating him, you know what I mean. So then when

1013
00:49:00,360 --> 00:49:02,200
Speaker 1: he left that she was like, oh, that's not what

1014
00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:05,759
Speaker 1: we agreed on, like when they left. Yeah. So so

1015
00:49:05,880 --> 00:49:08,480
Speaker 1: I think taking that that that comment out of context

1016
00:49:08,560 --> 00:49:12,919
Speaker 1: probably cause a little injustice here. Um, But if if

1017
00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:16,600
Speaker 1: that was if that comment was made okay, if it

1018
00:49:16,680 --> 00:49:18,799
Speaker 1: would just not sit right with you, right I mean

1019
00:49:18,960 --> 00:49:21,680
Speaker 1: nine to five job in this world would be super respectful. Yeah,

1020
00:49:21,680 --> 00:49:23,320
Speaker 1: because then you have like from five on to like

1021
00:49:23,400 --> 00:49:25,120
Speaker 1: do whatever you need to do. That's a lot of time.

1022
00:49:26,560 --> 00:49:30,000
Speaker 1: Take some content exactly your thing. Yeah. Also they were

1023
00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:32,200
Speaker 1: living on two different coasts they were she was in

1024
00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:34,320
Speaker 1: l A and he was in Maryland. That tough. That

1025
00:49:34,400 --> 00:49:37,040
Speaker 1: didn't help either, And I'm sure getting to Maryland is

1026
00:49:37,080 --> 00:49:42,200
Speaker 1: not easy. Now. Um, well, hey, I uh before we

1027
00:49:42,239 --> 00:49:44,239
Speaker 1: close up the podcast, I got to give a shout out.

1028
00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:46,480
Speaker 1: We have a few very special guests in studio today.

1029
00:49:47,160 --> 00:49:49,680
Speaker 1: We have Maddie, Rebecca and Kylie of from the Generous

1030
00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:52,880
Speaker 1: Team Today listen to this. So this morning one of

1031
00:49:52,920 --> 00:49:56,640
Speaker 1: the old producers of The Bachelor, along Gael yes Um

1032
00:49:56,880 --> 00:49:59,239
Speaker 1: and his girlfriend Molly, came with us to the l

1033
00:49:59,320 --> 00:50:01,640
Speaker 1: A Mission. A few weeks ago on the podcast, we

1034
00:50:01,719 --> 00:50:03,680
Speaker 1: talked to Bob Dalton about a campaign we're doing the

1035
00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:07,160
Speaker 1: Sackcloth and Ashes, where we would uh sell blankets and

1036
00:50:07,280 --> 00:50:09,520
Speaker 1: then for every blanket sold, one would be donated to

1037
00:50:09,719 --> 00:50:12,759
Speaker 1: l A Mission. On top of that, the proceeds would

1038
00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:15,160
Speaker 1: then be donated back and everybody would receive a bag

1039
00:50:15,239 --> 00:50:18,440
Speaker 1: of coffee from Generous. Right, So today was our blanket

1040
00:50:18,520 --> 00:50:20,359
Speaker 1: drop where we passed out the blankets. We we went

1041
00:50:20,400 --> 00:50:22,719
Speaker 1: to the l A Mission. We hung out there. First off,

1042
00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:25,279
Speaker 1: if you're in l A. Uh, they need volunteers, they

1043
00:50:25,320 --> 00:50:27,239
Speaker 1: need funding, they need support. The l A Mission is

1044
00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:31,400
Speaker 1: doing some amazing things. Um. Eight hundred meals served per day, uh,

1045
00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:35,759
Speaker 1: free of charge to people without a home. That's incredible. Um.

1046
00:50:35,920 --> 00:50:38,719
Speaker 1: Not only that they have education programs, Uh, they have

1047
00:50:39,760 --> 00:50:42,560
Speaker 1: safe places for housing. Um. I mean the front page

1048
00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:44,320
Speaker 1: of the l A Times that they had an article

1049
00:50:44,360 --> 00:50:47,000
Speaker 1: about how unhappy people are in the l A area

1050
00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:50,759
Speaker 1: with the policies being passed for homelessness. Um, well, if

1051
00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:53,160
Speaker 1: you want to do something about that, stop complaining and

1052
00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:56,200
Speaker 1: get out there and help yourself at the Los Angeles Mission.

1053
00:50:56,200 --> 00:50:58,400
Speaker 1: But anyways, this generous team came into l A with us.

1054
00:50:58,440 --> 00:51:00,600
Speaker 1: Today they're in studio. I want to thank them for

1055
00:51:00,640 --> 00:51:02,960
Speaker 1: their hard work, their efforts to put on an amazing,

1056
00:51:03,040 --> 00:51:06,880
Speaker 1: amazing campaign with sackcloth and ashes. Um. Hey, if you

1057
00:51:06,880 --> 00:51:09,240
Speaker 1: want to give for the holiday season, go to generous

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Speaker 1: coffee dot com. Get some coffee for your friends. It's

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Speaker 1: worth it and being generous. Everybody loves coffee. I like you,

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Speaker 1: good time, You're a good time. Um, hey, I want

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Speaker 1: to say thanks to Sydney for coming in to day. Uh,

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Speaker 1: it's always a pleasure. Um. You know, Becky Cooper is

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Speaker 1: actually supposed to step in today and co host and

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Speaker 1: then we're like Sydney's closer Beca can't make it and

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Speaker 1: you're in the building and I want to just say

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Speaker 1: thank You're you're really good at this, like thank you,

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Speaker 1: And there's there's a skill set to this that you

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Speaker 1: just bring and it's always fun to talk to you,

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Speaker 1: so please come back always down. Um. Also, if if

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Speaker 1: you have any bit single in the Los Angeles area

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Speaker 1: and looking to date Sydney, I don't know why you wouldn't. Um,

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Speaker 1: can you just give before we say goodbye to you? Like? Uh,

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Speaker 1: five things why somebody should date you? Like your you

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Speaker 1: dance you what else? Like I'm I think I'm pretty chill. Um,

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Speaker 1: I am driven, I'm fun, I am open to new things.

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Speaker 1: And um I can also get deep. Yeah yeah, pick

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Speaker 1: on how you want. It sounds like something else. Um,

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Speaker 1: she's a great time. We love her on here Sydney

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Speaker 1: thinks again and uh, until next time, you gotta follow

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Speaker 1: my lead here. I think you probably remember this. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna say something here and you're gonna do it right after. Right.

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Speaker 1: I've been been, I've been Sydney and we'll talk to

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Speaker 1: you soon. Yeah. Follow the Benn and Ashley I Almost

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