WEBVTT - Minisode: Ditching a Date with Chelsea + Catherine 

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<v Speaker 1>Okay for the High and Mighty Tour people, we are

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<v Speaker 1>rocket and rolling. These are the shows we have coming up.

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<v Speaker 1>May fifteenth, I will be in Saratoga. May sixteenth, Monterey,

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<v Speaker 1>May seventeenth, Modesto. I will be in port Chester on

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<v Speaker 1>June fourth, and we added two new dates to the

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<v Speaker 1>High and Mighty Tour. On June third, I am coming

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<v Speaker 1>to Saratoga Springs, New York, so pre sale has begun

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<v Speaker 1>for that, and then on June twenty eighth, I am

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<v Speaker 1>coming to Nantucket and pre sale has started on that.

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<v Speaker 2>June fifth, I will be in Boston, Massachusetts. June twelfth,

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<v Speaker 2>I will be in Portland, Oregon. And June thirteenth, I

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<v Speaker 2>will be in Seattle, Washington. June twenty seventh is going

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<v Speaker 2>to be Hyennas, Massachusetts. August sixth is Red Bank, New Jersey.

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<v Speaker 2>August seventh, I'm coming home to Montclair, New Jersey. August

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<v Speaker 2>fifteenth is Calgary, Alberta, Canada. September eighteenth, Santa Barbara September nineteenth,

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<v Speaker 2>San Diego. September twenty fifth, I will be at the

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<v Speaker 2>Beacon in New York City. September twenty sixth, I will

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<v Speaker 2>be in Philadelphia. September twenty seventh, New Haven, Connecticut. October second, Atlanta, Georgia,

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<v Speaker 2>October third, Baltimore, Maryland, October fourth, Saginaw, Michigan, October ninth, Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania,

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<v Speaker 2>October tenth, Toronto, Canada, October sixteenth. I'm coming to Boise, Idaho,

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<v Speaker 2>October seventeenth, Spokane, Washington, November seventh. I will be in

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<v Speaker 2>San Francisco and November thirteenth, Salt Lake City November twentieth,

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<v Speaker 2>Austin November twenty first, Houston, Texas, November twenty second, Irving, Texas.

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<v Speaker 2>December fifth.

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<v Speaker 1>I am adding a second show in Denver for those

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<v Speaker 1>of you who can get tickets to the first one.

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<v Speaker 1>And on December sixth, I will be coming to Vancouver, Canada.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, those are all my dates for the High and

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<v Speaker 2>Mighty Door. Go to Chelsea Handler dot com for tickets.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi.

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<v Speaker 2>How are you king, Chelsea?

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<v Speaker 3>Hi?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm great. I actually just got back from a nice

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<v Speaker 4>little trip to Mexico with two of my girlfriends. I

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<v Speaker 4>go on every years. Yeah. Good, yeah, very very toasty

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<v Speaker 4>and warm.

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<v Speaker 1>D It's nice to feel arrested after a vacation.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah yeah. And it's nice to have something to look

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<v Speaker 4>forward to every year, where it's like this is where

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<v Speaker 4>we go. Well, I have a follow up. This is

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<v Speaker 4>Charlotte who called in on our Judy Career episode a

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<v Speaker 4>while back. So she was frustrated because her wife was

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<v Speaker 4>the bread winner but had had like a job change

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<v Speaker 4>and had gotten fired from her job a couple of times.

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<v Speaker 4>They have a little kid, and you had recommendations like

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<v Speaker 4>do a gratitude journal and like change your attitude, start

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<v Speaker 4>looking positively, and she was like in a tough spot

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<v Speaker 4>with her marriage. So she says, Hi, Chelsea, I wanted

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<v Speaker 4>to send a quick follow up. Not long after our call,

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<v Speaker 4>something pretty amazing happened. About three weeks after we talked.

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<v Speaker 4>My wife got an awesome new job, and then a

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<v Speaker 4>week after that, I was promoted at my job. Oh,

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<v Speaker 4>oh my gosh, I know now I'm actually up for

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<v Speaker 4>another promotion. And I have my first appointment with a

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<v Speaker 4>fertility doctor this week to get busy having a second kid.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not sure exactly how to explain it, but there

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<v Speaker 4>really is something powerful about reminding yourself every day what

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<v Speaker 4>you're grateful for. Taking a moment to folks on that

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<v Speaker 4>seems to shift your mindset in a really positive way,

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<v Speaker 4>and that's been pretty incredible to see how things have

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<v Speaker 4>started falling into place since then. Thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 4>You're really helping people in a time like now we

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<v Speaker 4>all really need it. Thank you so much, Chelsea, and

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<v Speaker 4>see you in port Chester, Charlotte. Oh cute. I love that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>that's nice. Yeah, so glad to hear things are going well,

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<v Speaker 4>it's nice, it was like. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And also to frame it in that way that it

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<v Speaker 1>shifts your mindset, M like that.

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<v Speaker 4>It's true.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like you can't really put your finger on what's different,

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<v Speaker 1>but it does make you right. I like the other

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<v Speaker 1>thing that I heard recently, which is not too when

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<v Speaker 1>you when you have a feeling, to have the opposite,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like there's an opposite feeling to every feeling,

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<v Speaker 1>Choose that one when you have a bad feeling.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, yeah, yeah, and focus on the positive. It's very serious,

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<v Speaker 4>Miniso today, it's very serious. We just recorded with was

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<v Speaker 4>not serious at all. It's not serious at all. And

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<v Speaker 4>like I have a contact high, so I know you're

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<v Speaker 4>doing amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>Earlier that day, should we smoke this joy?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Why not? You know, Mama lipstick? Do you? I'll

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<v Speaker 3>give you your own you already started without.

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<v Speaker 4>Me, No, I had, and this is from yesterday.

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<v Speaker 1>I was, I'm so glad that you're the guest today

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<v Speaker 1>because I was, like, I want to. I haven't sat

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<v Speaker 1>and smoked a joint in my new podcast room for

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<v Speaker 1>a podcast guest in a while.

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<v Speaker 4>Most people are sober these days.

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<v Speaker 5>Have you noticed this?

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<v Speaker 3>Why?

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<v Speaker 2>Why? Why do you think that is.

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<v Speaker 1>Such a thing.

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<v Speaker 3>They went too hard, they did wrong shit, and they

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<v Speaker 3>got burnt out real easier, real quick.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but I know people that have gone too.

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<v Speaker 2>Hard and then they're back in.

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<v Speaker 3>Everybody can reel it back in.

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<v Speaker 4>You ever got cocktail too?

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<v Speaker 5>I like this.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm having a cocktail. I'm having a little old tom gin,

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<v Speaker 4>which is my new favorite thing.

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<v Speaker 3>That's going too far right there, that's run right there.

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<v Speaker 4>I have to be able to read later, So I.

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<v Speaker 3>Girl, you need to see my actu and on what.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, that's what we were talking about before. I feel

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<v Speaker 4>like a lot of people went too hard with gin

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<v Speaker 4>in college or whatever, and they just like they got

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<v Speaker 4>sick on it once and they can't stand.

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<v Speaker 3>Up now that's stick on it multiple times.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you like that? Chelsea? Him the vi calumonade that

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<v Speaker 2>you're drinking.

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<v Speaker 3>Could be stronger, but yeah, that's okay.

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<v Speaker 4>It could be stronger. It's a day drink, but I

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<v Speaker 4>like that.

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<v Speaker 3>Is that what it is?

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<v Speaker 2>It's kind of like a light drink so that you

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<v Speaker 2>can have.

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<v Speaker 4>A couple of.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I want to, don't you?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it a drink?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's like this, but I think it's got weed

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<v Speaker 3>in it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, yeah, probably yet. But I love anything that

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<v Speaker 1>he does. His weed is strong.

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<v Speaker 3>I heard Snoop said, that's the only person who I've smoked.

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<v Speaker 1>He was, Yeah, I smoked weed with Willie Nelson. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>on his trailer, in his trailer on.

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<v Speaker 4>It why do It?

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<v Speaker 1>And it was I was high the next day when

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<v Speaker 1>I got up. Yeah, there was two times where I've

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<v Speaker 1>gotten so high that the next morning I was still high.

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<v Speaker 4>When are you performing at Netflix? As a joke? May nine, the.

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<v Speaker 3>Ninth at the Ice House and then I think I'm

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<v Speaker 3>doing sense with Shaq and Burke Crasher.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so you can get chicks at Netflix? Is a

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<v Speaker 5>Make sure to check out Lunell's full episode on May

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<v Speaker 5>twenty first to hear the whole conversation. And now back

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<v Speaker 5>to our minisoda.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, So here's our featured question. It's our wondering question,

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<v Speaker 4>and she says, Dear Chelsea, I've been a weekly listener

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<v Speaker 4>of your podcast for the last few years. I love

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<v Speaker 4>your humor and your commitment to destigmatizing mental health and therapy.

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<v Speaker 4>Since you're a total badass in the gym, I have

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<v Speaker 4>a health and fitness question for you. I'm a working

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<v Speaker 4>mom in my late thirties. I love to work out,

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<v Speaker 4>but my time is limited during the week, and I

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<v Speaker 4>can only squeeze in twenty to thirty minutes in the morning.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm consistent working out every day, but I've hit a plateau.

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<v Speaker 4>How can I maximize my Monday through Friday thirty minute

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<v Speaker 4>workouts to still build my strength and see change. What's

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<v Speaker 4>the ideal balance of strength versus cardio versus recovery. I

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<v Speaker 4>feel like since I don't work out very long each day,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm hesitant to take rest and recovery days. I have

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<v Speaker 4>free weights, a stationary bike, and a treadmill. Cheers Caitlin, Hi, Caitlin.

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<v Speaker 4>I love these kinds of questions. It's so ridiculous. But

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<v Speaker 4>I will say that I would just wait train. If

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<v Speaker 4>I had thirty minutes every day, I would wait train.

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<v Speaker 4>Or you can sprint every few days on the treadmill,

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<v Speaker 4>because that's really good for like fat burning and like

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<v Speaker 4>also life. It's good to have some cardio, but I

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<v Speaker 4>don't do cardio on the regular cardios like data artists.

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<v Speaker 2>It's out I know, yeah, it's out of style. And

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<v Speaker 2>I do do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Just sometimes, like if I want, you know, need to sweat,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'll do it. But I don't do a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of cardio anymore. I used to be obsessed with it,

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<v Speaker 1>and I used to be much less lean.

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<v Speaker 4>Well that's the thing is like in the nineties and

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<v Speaker 4>two thousands, they were like, oh, yeah, cardio, cardio, cardio,

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<v Speaker 4>and then we realized like, oh, it's actually not doing

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<v Speaker 4>much for especially for women. Yeah, yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasted so many hours of my life running after nothing.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, your cardio is gonna come from like chasing your kids,

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<v Speaker 4>going on walks with them, running around at the park,

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<v Speaker 4>Like walking is really good for you. But that's just

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<v Speaker 4>doing naturally. Yeah for sure.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, we have a couple more really quick questions, Chelsea.

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<v Speaker 4>The first one is from Kendra. She says, Dear Chelsea,

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<v Speaker 4>I was supposed to be a date at a bar,

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<v Speaker 4>but left after he was twenty minutes late, no text,

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<v Speaker 4>no show. An hour later, he said his phone had

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<v Speaker 4>died and apologized profusely. Should I give him another chance?

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<v Speaker 4>It was a third date, Kendra, third date, first time

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<v Speaker 4>that happened. Mm, yeah, I would give him another Maybe die,

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<v Speaker 4>I know, but I'm a little bit liked he my

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<v Speaker 4>phone dies? Yeah, okay, all right, So speaking from personal experience,

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<v Speaker 4>you need another chance.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean not a lot, but it's happened. But when

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<v Speaker 1>I'm supposed to yeh, And I.

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<v Speaker 4>Feel like if he's out already, he doesn't get a

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<v Speaker 4>chance to charge his phones. That's why maybe it was

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<v Speaker 4>a You can't just back up with him for that, Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>all right, I can't directive him another chance. So our

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<v Speaker 4>last question today comes from Lucy. She says, I'm writing

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<v Speaker 4>in because I recently lost my best friend to a dude.

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<v Speaker 4>She's always been someone who gets her sense of worth

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<v Speaker 4>from male attention. She'll date a guy and morph into them,

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<v Speaker 4>adopt their interests, humor and lifestyle, and yeah, we all

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<v Speaker 4>sink into our partners to a point. But her current

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<v Speaker 4>boyfriend has become her whole world. Well, I've completely dropped

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<v Speaker 4>out of it. We used to talk every day, share everything,

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<v Speaker 4>but now I barely hear from her. If I'm being honest,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't even miss her, mainly because the her she

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<v Speaker 4>has become isn't the one I knew. But I can't

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<v Speaker 4>throw it all away. She is my person. It's not

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<v Speaker 4>her fault that she faonds to men. But how do

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<v Speaker 4>I get her to see it? Side note? The dude

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<v Speaker 4>and I are perfectly friendly, but Jesus fuck, please don't

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<v Speaker 4>leave us alone together? Zero vibe. It's like we both

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<v Speaker 4>forget that we know how to speak lucy brutal. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>so how do we get her like vibing with her

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<v Speaker 4>friend again?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know that you can. Well, no, not while

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<v Speaker 1>the guys in the picture. And if she's acting like

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<v Speaker 1>that with guys, I don't know. I think people have

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<v Speaker 1>to outgrow that stuff. I don't know how you remind

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<v Speaker 1>telling someone you don't like their boyfriend is unhelpful information?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? Most often? Yeah. Well, and I wonder like, is

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<v Speaker 4>there a way to say, like, I feel like I'm

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<v Speaker 4>missing you just as you are without this guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah that's a good Yeah, that's a nice way to say.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't know how you could say that wrong.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, right, Like I think that's a text of like

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<v Speaker 4>to say, yeah, like I'd love to go to coffee, like,

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<v Speaker 4>let's get some coffee. I want to spend some time

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<v Speaker 4>just with you. And then when you're at coffee or

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<v Speaker 4>dinner or whatever, you can address and just be like, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>like I really wants some more, like I miss you,

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<v Speaker 4>like alone time with you. Yeah, yeah, Okay, I support that.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, Lucy, problem solved and we're on for today.

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