1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:05,000 Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rat An. iHeartRadio podcast. 2 00:00:08,160 --> 00:00:10,200 Speaker 1: It's good having you back over there pushing the button. 3 00:00:12,440 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 2: Hello everybody, We're scrubbing in. 4 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 3: There's so much to talk about today. 5 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:23,960 Speaker 1: There's so much to talk about today. I literally when 6 00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 1: Hannah texted us yesterday, I gave her just like two 7 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:27,960 Speaker 1: things off the top of my head. But really I 8 00:00:28,080 --> 00:00:30,680 Speaker 1: made my own list because we have so much to cover. 9 00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 2: Well, where do we begin? I mean, a lot has 10 00:00:33,920 --> 00:00:37,040 Speaker 2: happened since we actually recorded the last podcast. 11 00:00:37,280 --> 00:00:40,480 Speaker 1: A lot has happened. So do we talk about sex 12 00:00:40,520 --> 00:00:42,960 Speaker 1: and city first and then catch up on our lives 13 00:00:43,120 --> 00:00:44,279 Speaker 1: or do we reverse it? 14 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:46,600 Speaker 2: Well, let's talk about last week's podcast. 15 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:49,480 Speaker 3: Okay, and my little tricky trick. 16 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:53,640 Speaker 1: So, first of all, I did not realize that you 17 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 1: had done that until Monday when Crystal posted the video 18 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:02,840 Speaker 1: on the scrubbing in Instagram with your Instagram story, and 19 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:05,640 Speaker 1: then she clipped all the times that Becca was using 20 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:11,560 Speaker 1: these weird words or whatever. I didn't understand, and then 21 00:01:11,600 --> 00:01:13,679 Speaker 1: it literally took me a while to understand that that's 22 00:01:13,720 --> 00:01:16,560 Speaker 1: what was what had happened. Well, I actually thought you 23 00:01:16,560 --> 00:01:17,200 Speaker 1: were on drugs. 24 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 2: I well, it was just funny because it was like 25 00:01:19,920 --> 00:01:22,319 Speaker 2: the perfect storm that made it funny because you were 26 00:01:22,400 --> 00:01:24,480 Speaker 2: so stressed out about jingle Ball and had so much 27 00:01:24,520 --> 00:01:26,760 Speaker 2: to do that you were like in the zone. And 28 00:01:26,840 --> 00:01:29,080 Speaker 2: I had blocked you from the story when I first 29 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:30,120 Speaker 2: posted it, which. 30 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:31,800 Speaker 1: First of all, I didn't know you could do that. 31 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:34,560 Speaker 1: She blocked me from her story. 32 00:01:35,240 --> 00:01:38,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, you can hide your story from someone without blocking them. 33 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 1: Which is great knowledge for me for twenty twenty two. 34 00:01:41,440 --> 00:01:44,039 Speaker 2: Yeah, Instagram has some great little hidden features. You can 35 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 2: also unfollow people, like I can remove followers so like 36 00:01:48,440 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 2: without them knowing or having to have like a nasty 37 00:01:51,720 --> 00:01:54,520 Speaker 2: conversation or dialogue. If there's like a troll, I can 38 00:01:54,600 --> 00:01:56,840 Speaker 2: just simply remove them from my following. Then they don't 39 00:01:56,840 --> 00:01:58,000 Speaker 2: see my stuff anymore, you know. 40 00:01:58,120 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 1: By the way, speaking of twenty twenty two, do you 41 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 1: know what were and I were moving from my vocabulary? 42 00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 2: Troll? 43 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 1: Troll? Okay, they just they just get too much attention 44 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:06,520 Speaker 1: and I'm over it. 45 00:02:06,760 --> 00:02:07,680 Speaker 3: What are you gonna call them? 46 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:09,880 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna call I'm not gonna talk about them. 47 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 3: Oh I see, Okay, they don't exist. 48 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:13,680 Speaker 1: To me, all right, great? 49 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, So, speaking of troll, I was a little troll and. 50 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:20,519 Speaker 1: Troll. 51 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:24,640 Speaker 2: I was like, just send me like funny words and 52 00:02:24,760 --> 00:02:27,400 Speaker 2: I'm gonna just you know, I thought it'd be funny 53 00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 2: to try it, but my whole plan was to try 54 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:35,320 Speaker 2: and do it without anyone, like without laughing. So I 55 00:02:35,400 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 2: was trying to put them in there, but everyone's reactions 56 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 2: were so funny that I couldn't do it, like seriously, 57 00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 2: because even Mark and Easton were funny. 58 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:47,400 Speaker 1: But no, but you, to me, the laughter was because 59 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 1: we kept asking you what you were on. I thought 60 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 1: you were giggling at that. 61 00:02:50,960 --> 00:02:51,920 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, well I was. 62 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:53,240 Speaker 3: I was like laughing at all of it. 63 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:55,799 Speaker 2: But I was like trying to there were so many 64 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:57,680 Speaker 2: funny ones, and I was like, there's no way I'm 65 00:02:57,680 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 2: gonna be able to like merge this into the conversation. 66 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:03,639 Speaker 2: Like the Crazier than a Snake's Armpit was a real 67 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 2: stretch and I made it work, but like it was 68 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 2: really funny. 69 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:10,240 Speaker 1: And by the way, we did this call to action 70 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:12,000 Speaker 1: at the end of the podcast, because I was like, 71 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 1: this was the worst podcast we've ever done in the 72 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:15,160 Speaker 1: history of twenty twenty one. 73 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, Tonny was like, I hate this podcast, and I 74 00:03:17,440 --> 00:03:20,240 Speaker 2: was thinking, I think it might be better than you realize 75 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 2: she thinks. 76 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:22,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, So at the very end, I did a little 77 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:27,160 Speaker 1: call to action for people to dm us thousands. 78 00:03:27,160 --> 00:03:28,320 Speaker 2: I did, and. 79 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:31,320 Speaker 1: I did by six am Monday morning, meaning they listened 80 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:33,320 Speaker 1: to it right when it went up and they listened 81 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:36,160 Speaker 1: the whole way through. It was thousands by six am 82 00:03:36,200 --> 00:03:39,120 Speaker 1: on Monday. I was shook to my core. It made 83 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 1: me reinvigorated to up our notch of the podcast for 84 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:45,120 Speaker 1: twenty twenty two because the fact that that many people 85 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:47,960 Speaker 1: were going all the way to the very end really 86 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 1: made me feel a certain type of way. 87 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 2: Well, people were like, who doesn't go to the end 88 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:52,240 Speaker 2: of a podcast? 89 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 3: Because you did say that. 90 00:03:53,600 --> 00:03:55,520 Speaker 2: A lot of people messaged me and they were like, wait, 91 00:03:55,560 --> 00:03:57,320 Speaker 2: who doesn't go to the end of the podcast? 92 00:03:57,320 --> 00:03:58,920 Speaker 3: And I was like, yeah, where did you get that from? 93 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:00,840 Speaker 1: Because they were saying in the Facebook group that they 94 00:04:00,880 --> 00:04:01,840 Speaker 1: skipped the middle. 95 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:07,160 Speaker 2: Okay, you're reading like seven comments and associating whole listeners. 96 00:04:08,080 --> 00:04:08,760 Speaker 1: I do do that. 97 00:04:09,000 --> 00:04:10,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, you do, I do too. 98 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:10,680 Speaker 1: Yeah. 99 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:13,920 Speaker 2: I read one email and everyone hates me and I'm like, oh, 100 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 2: just one person. 101 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:18,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, the T word, the t R O L L word. 102 00:04:18,480 --> 00:04:19,919 Speaker 1: Who are such people? 103 00:04:20,400 --> 00:04:21,440 Speaker 3: Who are such people? 104 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:25,479 Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah? So then Easton had seen my story I 105 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:27,960 Speaker 2: think after we finished recording, and he was like wave 106 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:31,880 Speaker 2: over the words and I was like boloney, crazier than 107 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:34,640 Speaker 2: a snake's arm bit and Tanya, which Tania was my 108 00:04:34,800 --> 00:04:39,960 Speaker 2: favorite because you were just like like felt disrespected. 109 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:45,599 Speaker 1: That was a sneaky little game and I do have 110 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:49,200 Speaker 1: to say touche because it was funny. The funniest thing 111 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:51,320 Speaker 1: is I guess you unblocked me from your story right 112 00:04:51,360 --> 00:04:55,640 Speaker 1: after because I fully saw her thing. But I look 113 00:04:55,640 --> 00:04:58,360 Speaker 1: at Instagram without audios, so I didn't even connect the dots. 114 00:04:58,400 --> 00:05:01,400 Speaker 2: I was just like, oh, she said she watched it 115 00:05:01,440 --> 00:05:04,440 Speaker 2: on mute, so it would be when it really nothing. 116 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:06,839 Speaker 2: I think I had text over it, but we'll let 117 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 2: that little I mean, you were in the zone for 118 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:12,479 Speaker 2: jingle ball makes sense. So thank y'all for the entertainment 119 00:05:12,480 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 2: because you all had me like dying laughing. 120 00:05:14,360 --> 00:05:15,640 Speaker 3: At the messages. 121 00:05:15,880 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 2: And also shout out to Crystal who does our Instagram 122 00:05:20,240 --> 00:05:24,599 Speaker 2: Okay video she does on the reel she crushes it. 123 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:27,599 Speaker 2: It was so funny, So that was fun for me. 124 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:31,120 Speaker 2: You never know what I'm gonna. Yeah, you really stepped 125 00:05:31,160 --> 00:05:31,400 Speaker 2: it up. 126 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:33,840 Speaker 1: You really stepped it up a notch. That that show, 127 00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:37,040 Speaker 1: I have to say, And then I also didn't want 128 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:40,240 Speaker 1: to clarify something else because people got a lot of 129 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 1: DMS about this. I posted about my deodorant, the one 130 00:05:42,680 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 1: that I'm using now, the deodorant, the natural deodorant that 131 00:05:45,720 --> 00:05:48,000 Speaker 1: I'm using, is actually called like crystal. It's like a 132 00:05:48,160 --> 00:05:50,480 Speaker 1: crystal and you rub it into your armpit, and I 133 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:53,520 Speaker 1: posted it, and everybody that listens to the podcast DNV 134 00:05:53,640 --> 00:05:56,000 Speaker 1: and said, when you mentioned it on the podcast, I 135 00:05:56,120 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 1: envisioned you actually taking like one of your like love 136 00:05:58,600 --> 00:05:59,960 Speaker 1: crystals and like rubbing it. 137 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:02,440 Speaker 3: And honestly, that's good of what I thought too, that's. 138 00:06:02,279 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 1: What Yeah, yeah, no, it's like an actual brand called Crystal. 139 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:10,760 Speaker 1: I'm kind of like some weird crystal lady, like rubbing 140 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:12,000 Speaker 1: stones on my armpits. 141 00:06:12,520 --> 00:06:16,600 Speaker 2: I was like, all right, speaking of So I'm scrolling TikTok, 142 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:18,719 Speaker 2: you know, and I don't know if it's because I 143 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:21,760 Speaker 2: follow you now that's your own TikTok, but I get 144 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:26,000 Speaker 2: all these period things now that weren't there before. And 145 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:28,760 Speaker 2: this one was talking about actually don't know, I don't 146 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:31,919 Speaker 2: want to be disrespectful to the culture, but basically she 147 00:06:32,040 --> 00:06:36,000 Speaker 2: said she puts her period blood on her face every 148 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:43,440 Speaker 2: month for her skin care, and that it like is like, well, 149 00:06:43,480 --> 00:06:47,320 Speaker 2: you know, that's like the this is so graphic. That's 150 00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:49,440 Speaker 2: she was like basically like, that's the blood that was 151 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:51,840 Speaker 2: going to create a child. I mean, that's what you 152 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:55,480 Speaker 2: create a human life with. And so it has like 153 00:06:55,560 --> 00:06:59,599 Speaker 2: so many things in it that are so good for you, 154 00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:00,400 Speaker 2: just you body. 155 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:02,159 Speaker 3: And I would totally do that. 156 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 2: I knew you would say that. 157 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:05,919 Speaker 1: I totally would. I'm gonna do some research just to 158 00:07:05,960 --> 00:07:08,560 Speaker 1: make sure that well, just to make sure this is legit. 159 00:07:09,000 --> 00:07:12,280 Speaker 4: A man produces a substance that can create life as well, 160 00:07:12,400 --> 00:07:14,240 Speaker 4: and then I'm not going to go anywhere you. 161 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:17,920 Speaker 2: Should put on your well men have really naturally good skin. 162 00:07:18,000 --> 00:07:20,920 Speaker 2: I feel like it's so you know, you don't have 163 00:07:21,000 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 2: to do the extra go the extra mile like like 164 00:07:23,680 --> 00:07:26,760 Speaker 2: some of us. But it was a cultural she was saying, 165 00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:28,679 Speaker 2: it's like in her culture, and yeah. 166 00:07:28,520 --> 00:07:31,520 Speaker 1: Because like the way that my cup is in my vagina, 167 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:35,160 Speaker 1: it actually collects my blood like a cup, like it's 168 00:07:35,560 --> 00:07:39,720 Speaker 1: just a jar and slap that on my phone. 169 00:07:39,760 --> 00:07:43,280 Speaker 2: I actually think it was part of the culture, like 170 00:07:43,440 --> 00:07:46,280 Speaker 2: the women when they were on their period aren't allowed 171 00:07:46,360 --> 00:07:49,760 Speaker 2: or this was maybe historical thing. I don't know if 172 00:07:49,760 --> 00:07:54,080 Speaker 2: it's current, but they weren't allowed to participate in like 173 00:07:54,280 --> 00:08:00,160 Speaker 2: real like practices or rituals because they were too power. 174 00:08:00,200 --> 00:08:02,320 Speaker 3: Full when they were in their period. I feel that 175 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:04,560 Speaker 3: you feel powerful. 176 00:08:04,680 --> 00:08:06,160 Speaker 1: Yeah. 177 00:08:06,200 --> 00:08:09,640 Speaker 2: So I was like, you know, I didn't ask for 178 00:08:09,720 --> 00:08:12,040 Speaker 2: this on my for you page, but I'm gonna bring it. 179 00:08:12,040 --> 00:08:13,080 Speaker 3: It's a good podcast. 180 00:08:13,760 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 2: I was like, I wonder if Tanya would be like, oh, 181 00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:18,240 Speaker 2: that's a little much for me, or she'd be like, 182 00:08:18,280 --> 00:08:22,400 Speaker 2: I'm so down, which down as we expect, she's down down. 183 00:08:22,560 --> 00:08:24,600 Speaker 1: I'm gonna look into it first. Although I do trust 184 00:08:24,680 --> 00:08:27,480 Speaker 1: you wholeheartedly, I trust you totally completely. I'm gonna do 185 00:08:27,480 --> 00:08:28,880 Speaker 1: my own research and. 186 00:08:28,760 --> 00:08:31,960 Speaker 2: Then, yeah, don't base it off one single TikTok. 187 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 1: I mean. 188 00:08:34,840 --> 00:08:36,160 Speaker 5: She's done it before, she'll do it. 189 00:08:36,240 --> 00:08:36,800 Speaker 4: Yeah. 190 00:08:36,880 --> 00:08:40,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm like, by the way, I'm confused now because 191 00:08:40,360 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 5: a friend of my wife's her name is Kiki, and 192 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:44,800 Speaker 5: she lived down in San Diego and she and her 193 00:08:44,840 --> 00:08:48,160 Speaker 5: friends listen thank you for doing that. Anyway, she texted 194 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:51,200 Speaker 5: my wife and said, tell Mark, I rubbed crystals ont 195 00:08:51,200 --> 00:08:54,280 Speaker 5: of my armpits. So now I'm thinking, does she rub 196 00:08:54,320 --> 00:08:56,480 Speaker 5: actual crystals or is she referring to the Crystal brand 197 00:08:56,600 --> 00:08:57,520 Speaker 5: Natural deodorant. 198 00:08:57,800 --> 00:08:59,880 Speaker 1: It's probably the Crystal brand Natural because it looks like 199 00:08:59,880 --> 00:09:00,520 Speaker 1: a crystal. 200 00:09:01,280 --> 00:09:05,200 Speaker 2: Wait. I was watching Mark Space while we were having 201 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:07,600 Speaker 2: that conversation, and he was like looking up at the 202 00:09:07,640 --> 00:09:11,079 Speaker 2: ceiling with like a totally perplexed like, wait a second. 203 00:09:12,640 --> 00:09:15,160 Speaker 5: I what I was deep in thought. 204 00:09:15,480 --> 00:09:18,440 Speaker 2: I find that people who really are into crystals and 205 00:09:18,480 --> 00:09:20,920 Speaker 2: like crystals, that would be something that they wouldn't be 206 00:09:21,000 --> 00:09:23,000 Speaker 2: opposed to doing. Right. 207 00:09:23,640 --> 00:09:25,880 Speaker 5: This is also a whole foreign world to me, So 208 00:09:25,920 --> 00:09:27,840 Speaker 5: I really am not sure, but it seems like people 209 00:09:27,920 --> 00:09:30,200 Speaker 5: are really into crystals. Nothing's off the table when it 210 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 5: comes to the crystals. 211 00:09:31,559 --> 00:09:34,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, but this, I mean, I would imagine that it's 212 00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:37,120 Speaker 1: the Crystal brand because it looks like a crystal. Okay, 213 00:09:37,160 --> 00:09:41,960 Speaker 1: all right, Because crystals in their right, in their truest form, 214 00:09:42,240 --> 00:09:47,160 Speaker 1: are for not for like stopping smell or perspiration. They're 215 00:09:47,280 --> 00:09:49,840 Speaker 1: they're for you know, energy and things like that. 216 00:09:50,679 --> 00:09:52,720 Speaker 2: So it's pulling out the toxins of your body. 217 00:09:52,880 --> 00:09:54,960 Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know. I don't know the benefits, 218 00:09:55,000 --> 00:09:56,120 Speaker 1: but I mean, I'll look into it. 219 00:09:56,559 --> 00:09:57,600 Speaker 2: Have you been smelling good? 220 00:09:58,480 --> 00:10:01,320 Speaker 1: Honestly? The crystal's working. I have like a two tiered system. 221 00:10:01,320 --> 00:10:03,560 Speaker 1: They're both natural deodorants, and I don't know what the 222 00:10:03,559 --> 00:10:06,079 Speaker 1: other one's called, but I do the crystal after I shower, 223 00:10:06,160 --> 00:10:08,360 Speaker 1: and then I do the other one midday. And I think, 224 00:10:08,400 --> 00:10:10,960 Speaker 1: I'm I mean, I'm definitely sweaty, Like I like, I'm 225 00:10:11,040 --> 00:10:16,000 Speaker 1: dripping sweat right now. But you can't stop that without aluminum. 226 00:10:16,520 --> 00:10:18,080 Speaker 5: So the detox is over. 227 00:10:19,520 --> 00:10:22,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm using now I'm using natural deodorance 228 00:10:22,640 --> 00:10:24,520 Speaker 1: without like all the harmful things. 229 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 3: But you just are drenched in sweat. 230 00:10:30,520 --> 00:10:33,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, what do you do for that? You can't do anything? 231 00:10:33,840 --> 00:10:34,680 Speaker 1: You just like pattern? 232 00:10:36,120 --> 00:10:36,839 Speaker 5: I bet there is. 233 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:39,480 Speaker 1: They do have like pads like that you wear like 234 00:10:39,520 --> 00:10:41,800 Speaker 1: when you're in your period. They have pads for your arms, 235 00:10:41,840 --> 00:10:43,440 Speaker 1: like the actually saw that. 236 00:10:43,600 --> 00:10:45,800 Speaker 2: I thought, like, if you were someone who was on 237 00:10:46,040 --> 00:10:49,800 Speaker 2: air and you wore like light like silky blouses that 238 00:10:49,880 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 2: show sweat marks easily, that would be a great what. 239 00:10:54,520 --> 00:10:57,200 Speaker 1: I've done that. I was doing Daily Pop one day 240 00:10:57,200 --> 00:11:00,240 Speaker 1: and I was wearing a pink silk blouse and I said, 241 00:11:00,600 --> 00:11:03,880 Speaker 1: I sweat really bad, especially when I'm doing TV stuff. 242 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:06,760 Speaker 1: She has no problem, will put pits, pit things in 243 00:11:06,800 --> 00:11:09,600 Speaker 1: your in your blouse, right, I will post this picture 244 00:11:09,640 --> 00:11:11,560 Speaker 1: in the Facebook group. If you want a good giggle, 245 00:11:11,600 --> 00:11:14,040 Speaker 1: I'll post it in the Facebook group because it's me 246 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:17,000 Speaker 1: with my arm up and it's just like a pool 247 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:19,319 Speaker 1: of even even with the paths. 248 00:11:19,360 --> 00:11:23,839 Speaker 2: Oh man, We'll never forget when the freaking Bachelor used 249 00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:27,959 Speaker 2: my my photo with the one where I have sweat 250 00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:28,679 Speaker 2: marks on it. 251 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:30,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, the most. 252 00:11:30,080 --> 00:11:35,200 Speaker 2: Rude, as if they didn't have the the tactics to 253 00:11:35,400 --> 00:11:36,439 Speaker 2: edit that out for me. 254 00:11:36,520 --> 00:11:38,640 Speaker 1: The tactics, you know what I want to say, Though 255 00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:40,439 Speaker 1: sweating is sexy. 256 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:44,319 Speaker 2: I disagree, but like it is natural and it is human, 257 00:11:44,400 --> 00:11:47,920 Speaker 2: and I don't like that there is like a weird Yeah, 258 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:49,960 Speaker 2: and I love that you just said your armpits are 259 00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:53,320 Speaker 2: like drenched next to me, But like, I don't think 260 00:11:53,360 --> 00:11:57,040 Speaker 2: it should be like this thing we're we're like people 261 00:11:57,080 --> 00:11:58,199 Speaker 2: are shamed for it. 262 00:11:58,440 --> 00:12:01,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, when I'm at my work class and I'm dripping, 263 00:12:01,320 --> 00:12:04,080 Speaker 1: like so I like that though, Oh I. 264 00:12:04,080 --> 00:12:06,280 Speaker 2: Like that, but what I'm supposed to feel pretty and 265 00:12:06,360 --> 00:12:10,120 Speaker 2: like glamorous sweating is not sexy to me. 266 00:12:10,720 --> 00:12:11,120 Speaker 1: Yeah. 267 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:13,200 Speaker 3: I think you would agree with that too. 268 00:12:13,280 --> 00:12:17,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree. We have to get to sex and 269 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:18,000 Speaker 2: the city and. 270 00:12:18,640 --> 00:12:20,480 Speaker 1: I know, but I have one story that I gotta 271 00:12:20,559 --> 00:12:22,800 Speaker 1: tell you. Oh, I told you, but it's just so 272 00:12:22,920 --> 00:12:24,600 Speaker 1: good because I'm gonna pull up. I want to get 273 00:12:24,600 --> 00:12:27,760 Speaker 1: the name of the scrubber that saw us. So yeah, 274 00:12:27,800 --> 00:12:30,520 Speaker 1: I talked on the podcast about when Red Star and 275 00:12:30,520 --> 00:12:32,840 Speaker 1: I went to Nashville for the wedding. We sat across 276 00:12:32,840 --> 00:12:35,360 Speaker 1: the flight from a guy that I had dated in 277 00:12:35,400 --> 00:12:40,200 Speaker 1: the past and they became chummy thicke as thieves buddy buddy. 278 00:12:40,760 --> 00:12:45,000 Speaker 1: So he had been hitting us up about hanging out 279 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:47,320 Speaker 1: the three of us here in La. He's, you know, 280 00:12:47,400 --> 00:12:49,800 Speaker 1: new to LA, doesn't really have a lot of friends, 281 00:12:49,920 --> 00:12:54,720 Speaker 1: and so uh, he has been wanting to hang out 282 00:12:54,760 --> 00:12:56,280 Speaker 1: this and he lives in a certain part of town, 283 00:12:56,320 --> 00:12:59,280 Speaker 1: which we were going to be at for some the 284 00:12:59,600 --> 00:13:04,200 Speaker 1: epic music event, and so I said, let's get drinks before. 285 00:13:05,600 --> 00:13:09,040 Speaker 1: So it was me Red Star and then this guy 286 00:13:09,040 --> 00:13:11,480 Speaker 1: that I dated for like two years at this bar 287 00:13:11,679 --> 00:13:15,640 Speaker 1: and I get a DM from a scrubber that her 288 00:13:15,880 --> 00:13:18,760 Speaker 1: I don't know what her name is, Oh, shout out 289 00:13:18,760 --> 00:13:22,200 Speaker 1: to you, and she saw us there and she said, 290 00:13:22,240 --> 00:13:24,760 Speaker 1: I have to tell you. I walk into this bar 291 00:13:24,840 --> 00:13:27,200 Speaker 1: tonight and I freak out because I see you Red Star, 292 00:13:27,280 --> 00:13:29,199 Speaker 1: and I'm thinking, how do I say hello. Suddenly I 293 00:13:29,240 --> 00:13:31,880 Speaker 1: look again and I see the guy and I start 294 00:13:31,920 --> 00:13:35,240 Speaker 1: crying laughing thinking about Nashville Plain Ride. I'm telling my friends, 295 00:13:35,240 --> 00:13:38,000 Speaker 1: no one understands anyway. I regret not saying hello, but 296 00:13:38,040 --> 00:13:39,880 Speaker 1: I wanted to be respectful. I just want to say 297 00:13:40,520 --> 00:13:42,000 Speaker 1: you and Red Star are the cutest. Also, I was 298 00:13:42,080 --> 00:13:44,880 Speaker 1: crying laughing because him and Red Star gave each other 299 00:13:44,920 --> 00:13:46,400 Speaker 1: the biggest hug at the end of the night. 300 00:13:47,200 --> 00:13:48,800 Speaker 2: It's so funny to me. 301 00:13:49,400 --> 00:13:52,560 Speaker 1: And he was asking us about dating and like telling 302 00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:54,520 Speaker 1: us different stories of girls that he was, you know, 303 00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:57,440 Speaker 1: going out with and stuff, and it's just it really 304 00:13:57,600 --> 00:14:01,240 Speaker 1: is just a fun funny scene. 305 00:14:01,400 --> 00:14:03,680 Speaker 2: Well the best part so well, not the best part. 306 00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:07,760 Speaker 2: Tanya texts me before when they were like trying to 307 00:14:07,800 --> 00:14:12,160 Speaker 2: hang out or something, and she goes, yeah, Red Star 308 00:14:12,200 --> 00:14:13,800 Speaker 2: said he can't do it, and I told him, like 309 00:14:14,000 --> 00:14:15,920 Speaker 2: I can just go with him, like and it just 310 00:14:15,960 --> 00:14:17,480 Speaker 2: be the two of us. And I was like, and 311 00:14:17,480 --> 00:14:19,119 Speaker 2: she was like, he didn't like that, really. 312 00:14:19,000 --> 00:14:20,840 Speaker 3: Because we always talk about Red Stars like. 313 00:14:21,000 --> 00:14:24,960 Speaker 2: The most chill, unbothered, like never gets jealous ever. But 314 00:14:25,200 --> 00:14:27,800 Speaker 2: like she goes, yeah, he didn't really like that. I'm like, 315 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:30,680 Speaker 2: of course he didn't like that like, you dated this guy. 316 00:14:30,720 --> 00:14:33,000 Speaker 2: It's not like he really is just like some friend. 317 00:14:33,080 --> 00:14:35,240 Speaker 2: He's not like, oh yeah, go take him to dinner 318 00:14:35,280 --> 00:14:37,720 Speaker 2: and hang out. I was like, you were just trying 319 00:14:37,720 --> 00:14:39,600 Speaker 2: to push some buttons and you know it. She was like, 320 00:14:40,280 --> 00:14:45,880 Speaker 2: you're right, and it worked. But now we three are 321 00:14:45,720 --> 00:14:48,680 Speaker 2: sure to like, actually I'm more of the trio. 322 00:14:48,800 --> 00:14:51,240 Speaker 1: I feel like, yeah, that's true. I mean definitely your 323 00:14:51,240 --> 00:14:54,280 Speaker 1: way way wait wait wait wait wait wait wait yeah, 324 00:14:54,280 --> 00:14:56,240 Speaker 1: I hope so yeah, but it was just funny and 325 00:14:56,280 --> 00:14:58,200 Speaker 1: the fact that scrubbing and Listener was there and saw 326 00:14:58,280 --> 00:15:00,200 Speaker 1: us was a del light. 327 00:15:01,200 --> 00:15:03,440 Speaker 2: Rub my water and my hydroflast today. 328 00:15:03,560 --> 00:15:05,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you. Nice lid on there. 329 00:15:05,520 --> 00:15:08,840 Speaker 2: Nice lid that shuts. Okay, I think we take a 330 00:15:08,880 --> 00:15:10,320 Speaker 2: break and come back and talk about Sex and the 331 00:15:10,360 --> 00:15:11,880 Speaker 2: City because there's a lot to discuss. 332 00:15:12,080 --> 00:15:15,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, and we have very opposing. 333 00:15:14,840 --> 00:15:17,680 Speaker 2: Not very opposing, we don't have very opposing, but we 334 00:15:17,760 --> 00:15:21,720 Speaker 2: have opposing thoughts. So we're gonna take a break and 335 00:15:21,760 --> 00:15:38,560 Speaker 2: we'll be right back. All right, you guys, we're back. 336 00:15:38,640 --> 00:15:41,480 Speaker 2: So Sex and the City, Well, the new reboot is 337 00:15:41,520 --> 00:15:44,040 Speaker 2: in just like that is the title of it. It 338 00:15:44,080 --> 00:15:50,000 Speaker 2: premiered was off Friday Thursday, Thursday, I was so Tanya 339 00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:53,680 Speaker 2: and I had different reactions and Easton Easton. Tanya and 340 00:15:53,720 --> 00:15:57,720 Speaker 2: I were texting about this and Easton was basically the 341 00:15:57,720 --> 00:16:00,680 Speaker 2: first one, and he's like, do you guys like don't 342 00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:05,000 Speaker 2: don't even watch it? Basically like it sucked, Like it's whatever. 343 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:06,720 Speaker 2: I can't remember what you said, but you were basically 344 00:16:06,720 --> 00:16:08,600 Speaker 2: it didn't make me excited to watch it. 345 00:16:08,760 --> 00:16:11,360 Speaker 1: But that's the reaction I was seeing. Universally. I was 346 00:16:11,400 --> 00:16:13,600 Speaker 1: seeing a lot of my friends posting about it saying 347 00:16:14,160 --> 00:16:16,240 Speaker 1: I can't even finish, let me know if it gets better, 348 00:16:16,720 --> 00:16:18,600 Speaker 1: blah blah blah. So that was the sentiment that I 349 00:16:18,640 --> 00:16:19,920 Speaker 1: was hearing in the. 350 00:16:20,080 --> 00:16:24,400 Speaker 6: In the verse, well, I was like one of the 351 00:16:24,440 --> 00:16:27,880 Speaker 6: few people who like, actually enjoyed the second movie, which 352 00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:28,880 Speaker 6: everyone hated. 353 00:16:29,040 --> 00:16:31,600 Speaker 2: So I was like, you know, I'm gonna give it 354 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:34,440 Speaker 2: a chance, so I turned it on. First of all, 355 00:16:35,080 --> 00:16:39,600 Speaker 2: Carrie Bradshaw's hair was like the instant star of the 356 00:16:39,600 --> 00:16:42,840 Speaker 2: show for me, Like, yeah, her hair was incredible, but. 357 00:16:43,600 --> 00:16:47,280 Speaker 1: She's the only one to me that like snapped okay, yes. 358 00:16:47,280 --> 00:16:48,560 Speaker 3: So okay, we agree. 359 00:16:48,880 --> 00:16:53,600 Speaker 2: I felt like Carrie effortlessly was back like s JP 360 00:16:53,960 --> 00:16:57,280 Speaker 2: was Carrie Bradshaw like she in my mind, she just 361 00:16:57,400 --> 00:17:00,080 Speaker 2: is Carrie Bradshaw at this point. Yeah, I felt like 362 00:17:00,160 --> 00:17:04,440 Speaker 2: Miranda and Charlotte. It was forced. I didn't feel like 363 00:17:04,480 --> 00:17:06,920 Speaker 2: an effortlessness there. And I felt like they were making 364 00:17:06,920 --> 00:17:09,040 Speaker 2: them seem like they were like geriatric age. 365 00:17:09,320 --> 00:17:12,960 Speaker 4: Oh my god, wait, we're in spoiler country right, like 366 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:13,880 Speaker 4: we're entering Oh. 367 00:17:13,840 --> 00:17:15,879 Speaker 2: Sorry, yeah, I know. 368 00:17:16,000 --> 00:17:19,040 Speaker 1: I posted a TikTok and everybody was like, oh my gosh, 369 00:17:19,080 --> 00:17:20,760 Speaker 1: a spoiler. 370 00:17:20,440 --> 00:17:23,199 Speaker 2: And I was like, stay off social media, right, but. 371 00:17:23,200 --> 00:17:25,040 Speaker 1: I mean I did in my caption, right, you know 372 00:17:25,160 --> 00:17:26,240 Speaker 1: when mister Big dies. 373 00:17:31,320 --> 00:17:36,400 Speaker 4: Yeah damn. Yeah, we're in spoiler country now, but we're 374 00:17:36,440 --> 00:17:38,920 Speaker 4: text about this. They make them all seem way too old. 375 00:17:38,960 --> 00:17:41,400 Speaker 4: I mean, they're supposed to be like fifty five. That's 376 00:17:41,480 --> 00:17:44,080 Speaker 4: not that old. I'm sorry, like they're I know, and. 377 00:17:44,080 --> 00:17:47,800 Speaker 1: They're all like losing their hair. 378 00:17:46,600 --> 00:17:50,760 Speaker 4: The see was pulling out one of those like horn 379 00:17:50,840 --> 00:17:52,520 Speaker 4: things you put in your ear, like hey, what was 380 00:17:52,560 --> 00:17:56,760 Speaker 4: that sunny? It's just like, oh my god, it. 381 00:17:56,600 --> 00:18:00,280 Speaker 2: Was that trove me insane. I'm like, I did you've 382 00:18:00,320 --> 00:18:00,959 Speaker 2: turned ninety? 383 00:18:01,000 --> 00:18:03,000 Speaker 1: And I don't know because to me, like fifties the 384 00:18:03,040 --> 00:18:03,560 Speaker 1: new forty. 385 00:18:04,160 --> 00:18:05,920 Speaker 2: Well, and that's what I thought. I thought the whole 386 00:18:05,960 --> 00:18:07,879 Speaker 2: story was going to be like they crushed it in 387 00:18:07,920 --> 00:18:10,159 Speaker 2: their thirties and now they've gotten older and they're still 388 00:18:10,240 --> 00:18:12,600 Speaker 2: killing it in NYC and like living their life and 389 00:18:12,640 --> 00:18:14,520 Speaker 2: we're just like catching up with them. And it felt 390 00:18:14,520 --> 00:18:17,119 Speaker 2: like I, like, all of a sudden, had this irrational 391 00:18:17,160 --> 00:18:21,399 Speaker 2: fear about getting older. Watching I was like, oh no, yeah. 392 00:18:21,480 --> 00:18:24,480 Speaker 1: Honestly, between the hearing laws and the death, I. 393 00:18:24,440 --> 00:18:29,720 Speaker 2: Was just like the death, the death, spoiler alert again 394 00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:33,400 Speaker 2: if you haven't watched and you haven't seen this somewhere, 395 00:18:33,400 --> 00:18:34,600 Speaker 2: and then spoiler alert. 396 00:18:34,520 --> 00:18:36,080 Speaker 4: I'm sure we'll spend a lot of time on the death. 397 00:18:36,119 --> 00:18:39,960 Speaker 4: But like something else I really didn't like about this, 398 00:18:40,520 --> 00:18:44,440 Speaker 4: none of the many things Carrie's podcast. Carrie has a podcast. Now. 399 00:18:44,560 --> 00:18:46,800 Speaker 4: Oh no, I was ready for this. I knew it 400 00:18:46,880 --> 00:18:49,520 Speaker 4: was coming. I was ready for it to be stupid. 401 00:18:49,800 --> 00:18:53,000 Speaker 4: But the thing I like even less is that it's 402 00:18:53,000 --> 00:18:56,359 Speaker 4: not her podcast. She's like a third mic on another 403 00:18:56,480 --> 00:18:59,360 Speaker 4: podcast and she's like, Hi, I'm Carrie, and I don't 404 00:18:59,359 --> 00:19:01,200 Speaker 4: really know how to be on a podcast, and it's 405 00:19:01,240 --> 00:19:04,720 Speaker 4: just as like it just made me so bummed because 406 00:19:04,880 --> 00:19:05,560 Speaker 4: I don't think that's it. 407 00:19:05,640 --> 00:19:07,600 Speaker 3: And I was like, Carrie just talk she knows how 408 00:19:07,640 --> 00:19:08,000 Speaker 3: to do. 409 00:19:07,920 --> 00:19:10,000 Speaker 4: This, like she's done this before. She's like, I don't know. 410 00:19:10,040 --> 00:19:12,080 Speaker 4: I just like and she comes in she's like, Oh, 411 00:19:12,119 --> 00:19:14,000 Speaker 4: I'm Carrie Bradshaw and I just don't know what to 412 00:19:14,000 --> 00:19:16,680 Speaker 4: say on a podcast. And because podcasts are for young 413 00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:19,200 Speaker 4: people and I'm, as you can tell, not young anymore. 414 00:19:19,320 --> 00:19:22,080 Speaker 4: And it's just like I found it so infuriating. 415 00:19:22,640 --> 00:19:25,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, So I like went into this show watching it 416 00:19:25,960 --> 00:19:29,359 Speaker 1: very very low expectations because everybody in my life was 417 00:19:29,400 --> 00:19:33,240 Speaker 1: telling me, don't watch it, it's so bad. So I 418 00:19:33,280 --> 00:19:36,800 Speaker 1: start watching it and I am. I watched it like 419 00:19:36,840 --> 00:19:39,040 Speaker 1: ten am. I wish I had a martini in my hand. 420 00:19:39,160 --> 00:19:42,200 Speaker 1: I was back with my girls, with my gal pals. 421 00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:47,040 Speaker 1: I was loving life. There were cringey moments, for sure, 422 00:19:47,400 --> 00:19:49,760 Speaker 1: because I think what I loved about Sex and City 423 00:19:50,440 --> 00:19:52,760 Speaker 1: in the nineties the shows didn't try to be current. 424 00:19:52,800 --> 00:19:55,639 Speaker 1: They were just like in their own little world, and 425 00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:57,680 Speaker 1: now everything's trying to be current, and I'm just I 426 00:19:57,720 --> 00:19:59,879 Speaker 1: don't want that. It's like it's a different it's a 427 00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:01,760 Speaker 1: escape for me. I don't need them to talk about 428 00:20:01,840 --> 00:20:04,919 Speaker 1: air kissing because of COVID and the funerals that they 429 00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:07,040 Speaker 1: had to do over zoom, like I just don't I 430 00:20:07,040 --> 00:20:09,919 Speaker 1: don't need it, I don't want it, So that to me, 431 00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:12,119 Speaker 1: that was the only thing that really like put me off, 432 00:20:13,520 --> 00:20:14,760 Speaker 1: and then that was the only thing. 433 00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:18,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I'm I'm with you in this since I 434 00:20:18,280 --> 00:20:20,760 Speaker 2: was like excited I had, Like I watched it and 435 00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:24,480 Speaker 2: like was entertained. I just was like cringing so much 436 00:20:24,560 --> 00:20:27,880 Speaker 2: at certain parts, and I oh Mark. So the other 437 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:31,600 Speaker 2: podcast host is Sada Ramirez, who played Cali Torres on 438 00:20:31,640 --> 00:20:35,919 Speaker 2: Grays and Atomy. But she but she's non binary, gender 439 00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:38,399 Speaker 2: fluid in real life and on the show, so like 440 00:20:38,800 --> 00:20:42,280 Speaker 2: there's this whole conversation about talking about like sex and masturbation, 441 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:45,159 Speaker 2: and Carrie's like I don't feel comfortable talking about that, 442 00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:47,960 Speaker 2: which I really too, Like I'm definitely would say the 443 00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:53,159 Speaker 2: more reserved one of those topics on our podcast. But 444 00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:55,800 Speaker 2: the other thing, I just felt like I felt like 445 00:20:55,880 --> 00:20:58,520 Speaker 2: she was such a better actress on Grey's Anatomy. 446 00:20:58,920 --> 00:21:00,880 Speaker 1: Oh cutting deep. 447 00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:03,040 Speaker 2: Like I just feel like no, like I felt like 448 00:21:03,160 --> 00:21:06,400 Speaker 2: she was Calie Torres, and I feel like it's it's 449 00:21:06,440 --> 00:21:07,080 Speaker 2: the same thing. 450 00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:09,520 Speaker 3: Like I hope that as the show progresses. 451 00:21:09,040 --> 00:21:11,879 Speaker 2: There's more comfort with the characters in there you know 452 00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:14,600 Speaker 2: what I'm saying. But anyways, they go by they and 453 00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:16,879 Speaker 2: them not saying that they're not a good actor. I 454 00:21:16,960 --> 00:21:19,560 Speaker 2: was just saying that the character was not an effortless 455 00:21:19,600 --> 00:21:24,399 Speaker 2: like after being Calie Torres, it didn't feel like I 456 00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:26,520 Speaker 2: could just switch my brain off like that. Well right, 457 00:21:26,960 --> 00:21:31,920 Speaker 2: But anyways, the other thing was that Cynthia or what's her. 458 00:21:31,920 --> 00:21:34,960 Speaker 1: Name, Miranda, Yeah, we can just call them by their characters. 459 00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:40,960 Speaker 2: Okay, Miranda was trying like there was this whole thing 460 00:21:41,040 --> 00:21:43,760 Speaker 2: about trying to be she's kind of like a Karen, 461 00:21:44,920 --> 00:21:46,960 Speaker 2: but she's trying to be whoa. Yeah, And it was 462 00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:50,040 Speaker 2: in a sense it's relatable of like trying like we're 463 00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:53,119 Speaker 2: all trying to learn and be like sensitive and but 464 00:21:53,320 --> 00:21:56,239 Speaker 2: her professor, she's she has a black professor, and so 465 00:21:56,280 --> 00:21:59,240 Speaker 2: she's trying to not say the wrong thing so badly 466 00:21:59,280 --> 00:22:01,920 Speaker 2: that she's saying every thing wrong, which, like I think 467 00:22:01,960 --> 00:22:04,640 Speaker 2: to an extent we can relate to and like, well, 468 00:22:04,640 --> 00:22:07,120 Speaker 2: as we're all learning. But it got to a point 469 00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:10,600 Speaker 2: where I was like, what is going on? Like what 470 00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:13,680 Speaker 2: is this? Like why is this still going into the 471 00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:16,560 Speaker 2: second episode? Yeah, I think there was some resolution, So 472 00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:18,920 Speaker 2: I think that part of it will be over. 473 00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:21,480 Speaker 5: I think that's an interesting point you're making, though, because 474 00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:23,960 Speaker 5: when people are doing a TV show, even today, you 475 00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:25,560 Speaker 5: just do a TV showing. You don't think we got 476 00:22:25,560 --> 00:22:28,159 Speaker 5: to pack it in with current references. But on reboots 477 00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:30,560 Speaker 5: there is some sort of pressure to make it a 478 00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:32,720 Speaker 5: fish out of water, like I was at home in 479 00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:34,800 Speaker 5: the nineties. But WHOA, This twenty twenty one world is 480 00:22:34,960 --> 00:22:37,120 Speaker 5: so bizarre to me, and that's not necessary. You could 481 00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:39,960 Speaker 5: just do everyday stuff that we all deal with. Like 482 00:22:40,040 --> 00:22:42,280 Speaker 5: my daughter, the twelve year old is obsessed with friends 483 00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:43,760 Speaker 5: that she watches it twenty four hours a day and 484 00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:46,320 Speaker 5: she never thinks to herself, wow, this feels twenty years 485 00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:49,520 Speaker 5: old even though it is, because it's just everyday situations 486 00:22:49,520 --> 00:22:50,080 Speaker 5: and you could do that. 487 00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:53,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. I know, that's the thing that that really turned 488 00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:57,000 Speaker 1: me off. But other than that, I really was enjoying it. 489 00:22:57,080 --> 00:22:59,600 Speaker 1: I was in like blissful heaven for the first I'd 490 00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:04,679 Speaker 1: sayty minutes, watching Carrie in big like dance around their 491 00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:09,760 Speaker 1: kitchen and cook dinner and seeing Harry just looking at 492 00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:13,679 Speaker 1: Charlotte the way that he looks at her like Steve 493 00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:14,360 Speaker 1: is Steve. 494 00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:15,200 Speaker 2: Oh. 495 00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:20,040 Speaker 1: But I was just really in like a euphoric state 496 00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:23,600 Speaker 1: of bliss until the end of the episode. 497 00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:25,880 Speaker 3: Did Charlotte bug you at all? 498 00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:30,399 Speaker 1: In the first episode, Charlotte started to bother me a 499 00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:33,720 Speaker 1: lot more in the second episode. Yeah, I was just like, really, girl, 500 00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:36,240 Speaker 1: it's not about you. It's not about you, like, suck 501 00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:38,480 Speaker 1: up your tears. And I understand because I'm very emotional, 502 00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:41,359 Speaker 1: and I feel like I understand why she felt that 503 00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:44,560 Speaker 1: blame for it because she made Carrie go to this, 504 00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:47,640 Speaker 1: you know, her daughter's recital, and if she hadn't been there, 505 00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:49,399 Speaker 1: she could have been with him and maybe saved him. 506 00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:51,240 Speaker 1: But it's all it's all those what if you know, 507 00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:54,240 Speaker 1: So I understand why she was so upset about it. 508 00:23:54,280 --> 00:23:56,520 Speaker 1: But it was just like, it's not about you. 509 00:23:57,640 --> 00:24:00,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, because I posted like, tell me how much is 510 00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:04,239 Speaker 2: Tanya Charlotte? And then I watched the second episode, I 511 00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:07,880 Speaker 2: was like, okay, wait, no, Tanya, it's not not much 512 00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:09,680 Speaker 2: of a Charlotte in this series. 513 00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:12,199 Speaker 1: Day I was a Charlotte. You have a lot of Charlotte. 514 00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:13,840 Speaker 1: I have a lot lot of Charlotteans, all right. 515 00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:16,200 Speaker 5: So for those of us who have a passing knowledge 516 00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:18,040 Speaker 5: of section in the City and are not going to 517 00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:20,480 Speaker 5: be watching the new update because of everything that's going 518 00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:23,639 Speaker 5: on today. In this conversation, so Big dies at the 519 00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:25,200 Speaker 5: end of the first episode. 520 00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:30,280 Speaker 1: Mark he gets on a Peloton ride, right, so I 521 00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:30,959 Speaker 1: heard about this. 522 00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:33,040 Speaker 5: I heard about the whole Peloton drama. This is nice. 523 00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:34,159 Speaker 5: He's putting it together for me. 524 00:24:34,560 --> 00:24:37,119 Speaker 1: So he's riding his bike like he does. So he 525 00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:40,159 Speaker 1: picked up his bike riding Peloton during the pandemic. So 526 00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:42,800 Speaker 1: he was on his bike ride while Carrie was at 527 00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:44,359 Speaker 1: the recital for Charlotte's daughter. 528 00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:47,440 Speaker 3: His thousandth ride, his thousand ride. 529 00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:50,480 Speaker 1: He gets off the bike, he gets in the shower, 530 00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:53,760 Speaker 1: turns on the shower, and then all of a sudden, 531 00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:57,160 Speaker 1: you feel you see him like grab his his shoulder 532 00:24:57,280 --> 00:25:00,240 Speaker 1: or his heart, and then he kind of just like 533 00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:04,960 Speaker 1: falls in the shower. Before he got in the shower, 534 00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:07,360 Speaker 1: he had texted Carrie and said, let's go to them. 535 00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:08,720 Speaker 1: Are they going to the Hampton? Let's go to the 536 00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:11,320 Speaker 1: Hampton's tonight. So Carrie like leaves the thing. She was 537 00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:13,280 Speaker 1: gonna go get drinks with her friends, but she decided, 538 00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:14,800 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna get drinks. I'm gonna go. We're gonna 539 00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:17,600 Speaker 1: leave tonight for the Hampton. So she comes home and 540 00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:21,440 Speaker 1: he's still alive to my knowledge. 541 00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:26,479 Speaker 6: Yeah, well yeah, he's like looks blestter, he's blinking, and 542 00:25:26,520 --> 00:25:31,040 Speaker 6: she just runs over to him and holds him and 543 00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:31,920 Speaker 6: cries and. 544 00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:35,119 Speaker 3: Kisses him, doesn't call nine one, doesn't. 545 00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:38,000 Speaker 1: Call nine one one, doesn't perform CPR, and then all 546 00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:40,480 Speaker 1: of a sudden, the episode ends and she said, and 547 00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:42,920 Speaker 1: just like that Big Big died. 548 00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:48,000 Speaker 2: What yeah, wow. 549 00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:50,920 Speaker 4: I started laughing once that happened. I was like, this 550 00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:53,960 Speaker 4: is how they can do it. I'm sorry, like and 551 00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:57,879 Speaker 4: just like that Big died, Like are you kidding me? 552 00:25:58,359 --> 00:26:02,800 Speaker 1: Like if I like, I don't even want to put 553 00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:06,680 Speaker 1: that scenario on myself, why would you not call nine 554 00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:07,040 Speaker 1: one one? 555 00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:11,120 Speaker 2: Well, a lot of people are saying that she like 556 00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:14,040 Speaker 2: maybe she knew, like this is it? Like I'm just 557 00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:18,760 Speaker 2: gonna hold him and like, yeah, they're they're on there, 558 00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:20,640 Speaker 2: like literally they're on their alps. 559 00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:22,760 Speaker 3: Because they're geriatric. 560 00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:27,520 Speaker 2: So I think, I don't know. I don't that. I 561 00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:29,879 Speaker 2: was so upset because it felt like and it was 562 00:26:29,880 --> 00:26:30,800 Speaker 2: in slow mo, just. 563 00:26:31,080 --> 00:26:34,040 Speaker 1: A whole like you can hold them and care for them. 564 00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:36,320 Speaker 1: It's called the cell phone. You put up your cell 565 00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:40,360 Speaker 1: phone nine one, holding your husband and calling nine one one. 566 00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:44,200 Speaker 2: Oh thank you for individual. I just feel like, I 567 00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:47,240 Speaker 2: why didn't she do CPR or something. This is a lesson. 568 00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:50,560 Speaker 2: Everyone should know CPR, because like she was just trying 569 00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:53,199 Speaker 2: to kiss him and I'm like, he cannot kiss he 570 00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:54,720 Speaker 2: is dying. Help. 571 00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:57,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, that was a bizarre. 572 00:26:58,280 --> 00:26:59,920 Speaker 2: This is what I think happened. I think Chris is 573 00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:01,960 Speaker 2: it Chris Noath, Chris No, Let's just call it mister 574 00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:04,199 Speaker 2: Big Oh. Mister Big Big did not want to be 575 00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:07,040 Speaker 2: fully in the series, but he was like, listen, I'll 576 00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:10,600 Speaker 2: be in this first episode to have the storyline end. 577 00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:13,280 Speaker 3: And that's what he did. 578 00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:16,159 Speaker 2: And I I feel like at least it wasn't just 579 00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:17,360 Speaker 2: like where's big Oh? 580 00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:18,400 Speaker 3: He left Carrie. 581 00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:21,120 Speaker 2: I mean I'm not even like the biggest big fan, 582 00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:23,320 Speaker 2: Like I wasn't even like, oh my gosh, he's the 583 00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:27,080 Speaker 2: most amazing man and like, wow, you know, it's always 584 00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:27,639 Speaker 2: team Aiden. 585 00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:29,760 Speaker 3: I know Easton has issues with this. 586 00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:32,359 Speaker 2: What if they bring Aiden oh Man, Easton might not 587 00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:33,600 Speaker 2: even watch. Well. 588 00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:35,119 Speaker 1: No, So I do want to talk about why I 589 00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:38,440 Speaker 1: think that they killed him off because I went through 590 00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:41,000 Speaker 1: a spiral. I was crying. I didn't stop crying for hours, 591 00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:42,680 Speaker 1: and then I couldn't watch the second episode because I 592 00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:44,119 Speaker 1: was crying too much, so I had to watch it 593 00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:47,920 Speaker 1: the next Yeah, the death really shook me, like poor 594 00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:50,040 Speaker 1: Red Star, because I was like, I don't like wait 595 00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:50,840 Speaker 1: in life anymore. 596 00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:53,760 Speaker 2: I just want to like do things today. I don't know, yeh, 597 00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:56,160 Speaker 2: Like I went down to spiral Red Stars. 598 00:27:56,359 --> 00:27:58,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, so the next day I watched the second episode 599 00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:02,359 Speaker 1: and which was even worse, and I was sobbing during 600 00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:04,159 Speaker 1: that one as well. But then I was reading articles 601 00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:06,760 Speaker 1: about why they killed him off and it's because they 602 00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:09,520 Speaker 1: want to show what dating in your fifties. 603 00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:11,600 Speaker 5: That's what I was like, Yes, then now she's single 604 00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:14,720 Speaker 5: and now she can go out and meet boys, and it's. 605 00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:16,640 Speaker 1: Like the old she's gonna be like on the apps 606 00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:18,000 Speaker 1: and like trying to do you know what I mean. 607 00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:19,639 Speaker 1: Like in the old days, she didn't have the apps, 608 00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:21,439 Speaker 1: so she's gonna be probably on the apps and doing 609 00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:23,199 Speaker 1: all that stuff. But I was like, couldn't they have 610 00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:23,919 Speaker 1: killed Steve. 611 00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:28,200 Speaker 2: I'm honestly, I know it's so harsh, but like I'm 612 00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:29,200 Speaker 2: so with you on that. 613 00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:31,840 Speaker 1: Like we didn't even get to see Kerrie in Big 614 00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:35,240 Speaker 1: at all because the series ended with them, you know, 615 00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:37,960 Speaker 1: getting married or whatever the movie and then we never 616 00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:39,080 Speaker 1: got to see their day to day. 617 00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:41,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, but they couldn't have. They couldn't have. I mean, 618 00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:45,200 Speaker 2: if he didn't want to be in it, then there 619 00:28:45,280 --> 00:28:45,720 Speaker 2: was no. 620 00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:48,200 Speaker 1: Well if your theory is correct, but your theory is 621 00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:49,960 Speaker 1: not standing on a leg of truth. 622 00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:51,880 Speaker 2: I think there's an article that said he didn't want 623 00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:53,280 Speaker 2: to be a part of this full series. 624 00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:55,840 Speaker 4: Remember the article, like having conversations that he wasn't gonna 625 00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:57,080 Speaker 4: be in it at all, and we were talking like 626 00:28:57,120 --> 00:28:59,000 Speaker 4: are they going to kill him like before the show 627 00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:01,160 Speaker 4: starts or is he just gonna leave? Like those are 628 00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:03,680 Speaker 4: the two options. And then he's back. And I was 629 00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:05,960 Speaker 4: so excited because Carrie and Big are the only couple 630 00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:07,440 Speaker 4: they don't have a child, and I was like, Oh, 631 00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:09,400 Speaker 4: they're gonna like do this thing of like should we 632 00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:11,360 Speaker 4: ever have kids? Like what's going on with my legacy? 633 00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:14,160 Speaker 4: Like that kind of thing, as like Miranda and Charlotte's 634 00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:15,960 Speaker 4: children are like having these big life moments. I was 635 00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:18,360 Speaker 4: excited for that as a childless man who's getting older. 636 00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:22,240 Speaker 4: But no, they take him from me before my very eyes. 637 00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:23,280 Speaker 4: I have to watch him die. 638 00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:24,240 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 639 00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:28,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, that was that was most So I'm hoping the 640 00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:31,880 Speaker 1: first two episodes were like emotional setting the scene, and 641 00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:34,880 Speaker 1: I'm helping the rest of the series is fun dating 642 00:29:35,520 --> 00:29:37,560 Speaker 1: Carrie the girls. 643 00:29:38,080 --> 00:29:41,280 Speaker 2: I will say this, I'm very much looking forward to 644 00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:45,080 Speaker 2: the next episode. So they did their job because they 645 00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:49,640 Speaker 2: got everyone talking. Everyone's like even literally Haley and I 646 00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:52,480 Speaker 2: were talking about it. She never watched it, and she goes, wait, 647 00:29:52,560 --> 00:29:55,520 Speaker 2: so and I was telling her like a dramatic fashion 648 00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:58,320 Speaker 2: what happened is if she care, and she actually did 649 00:29:58,360 --> 00:30:00,000 Speaker 2: care and she was like, wait, can I see this scene? 650 00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:03,160 Speaker 2: And I was like wow. So people, I think even Mark, 651 00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:05,360 Speaker 2: even though we didn't sell it to you, with this conversation, 652 00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:08,400 Speaker 2: I do think they got people talking enough that people 653 00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:10,680 Speaker 2: were like, I'm gonna see what this is all about. 654 00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:14,200 Speaker 2: Like I had people respond to my post and they 655 00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:16,800 Speaker 2: were like, I didn't even watch ever watch Sex and 656 00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:19,080 Speaker 2: the City, but I watched this episode. I can't believe 657 00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:21,880 Speaker 2: they killed him off, so like that people are talking 658 00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:22,440 Speaker 2: about it. 659 00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:25,440 Speaker 1: I posted that video of myself crying and I said, like, 660 00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:26,520 Speaker 1: what the sorry? 661 00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:26,840 Speaker 2: Uh? 662 00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:33,080 Speaker 1: And I got again inundated with dms of people because 663 00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:35,000 Speaker 1: people were just so shook by it. 664 00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:39,560 Speaker 5: So there one more question, Where's Samantha. She's just like 665 00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:40,520 Speaker 5: off in Paris or something. 666 00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:42,560 Speaker 1: I was gonna as great question. 667 00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:48,520 Speaker 2: Well, she's in London because Carrie was her client client 668 00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:52,480 Speaker 2: and Carrie basically was like, I can't take you on 669 00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:56,480 Speaker 2: anymore and fired her as a client. And so Samantha 670 00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:58,760 Speaker 2: didn't handle it well and she moved to London. 671 00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:00,680 Speaker 3: So that she's alive, so I think. 672 00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:02,840 Speaker 1: She's not like responding to any other texts and stuff. 673 00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:06,920 Speaker 2: She's not. But but Carrie gets to the funeral and 674 00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:10,120 Speaker 2: she didn't want any flowers there. Wait what So just this. 675 00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:12,920 Speaker 4: Part was the only part that really hit me emotionally. 676 00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:17,959 Speaker 2: To it chills and tears and there was like this 677 00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:21,400 Speaker 2: beautiful like floral arrangement on top of the casket, and 678 00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:23,720 Speaker 2: cares like where are the funeral planners? 679 00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:25,200 Speaker 3: Like I said, I didn't want any flowers. 680 00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:28,360 Speaker 2: He wouldn't want flowers And she goes, well, we know 681 00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:31,239 Speaker 2: you said you didn't want flowers, but here this is 682 00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:33,520 Speaker 2: who they're from or something, and she opens the cart 683 00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:36,480 Speaker 2: that says love Samantha or something, and so she goes 684 00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:39,560 Speaker 2: keep the flowers. So there was like some peace. 685 00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:40,880 Speaker 1: There, yeah, which I enjoyed. 686 00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:45,520 Speaker 4: M I just hated how they I know that Samantha, 687 00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:46,960 Speaker 4: I know the Kim Kastroll wasn't going to do it, 688 00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:48,720 Speaker 4: and that should have been a reason to not do 689 00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:52,240 Speaker 4: this at all. But like, the thing that really upset 690 00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:54,400 Speaker 4: me was, I don't know if you remember the Lizie 691 00:31:54,440 --> 00:31:57,480 Speaker 4: Maguire movie, but Miranda is not in the movie, and 692 00:31:57,520 --> 00:31:59,400 Speaker 4: in the very beginning to go, she is at home 693 00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:02,040 Speaker 4: visiting her parents in Mexico or something like that, and 694 00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:04,320 Speaker 4: it's just like, I just always hate like the like 695 00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:07,000 Speaker 4: actress doesn't want to come back. They are now on 696 00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:08,240 Speaker 4: a long trip somewhere. 697 00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:12,479 Speaker 2: Well, I really think that they thought they could convince 698 00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:16,560 Speaker 2: her to come back or something. Yeah, so here's my theory. 699 00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:20,000 Speaker 2: They set this up like they're all like feeling old 700 00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:22,760 Speaker 2: and like in a rut in their. 701 00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:24,040 Speaker 1: Life and people are dying. 702 00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:27,040 Speaker 2: People are dying, and they're like feel like they're not living, 703 00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:31,400 Speaker 2: and they're like like life is flashing by, and I 704 00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:35,840 Speaker 2: think there's gonna be this switch. Also correct me if 705 00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:39,360 Speaker 2: I'm wrong. There was something going on with uh cha 706 00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:45,120 Speaker 2: is Sadaamira's character ch Randa RANDI. I agree, And I 707 00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:49,040 Speaker 2: think she's gonna be over Steve's geriatric ways and I 708 00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:51,960 Speaker 2: don't know if she's gonna I don't know what's gonna. 709 00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:53,960 Speaker 1: Happen, But we'll cheat, she'll break up with him. 710 00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:56,160 Speaker 2: Well, it might be that because Cynthia Nixon is a 711 00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:58,520 Speaker 2: lesbian in real life, so maybe there was that, like 712 00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:02,520 Speaker 2: just natural chemistry too much. Yeah, I don't know. I 713 00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:04,760 Speaker 2: think I was like, I was like, I think that 714 00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:08,040 Speaker 2: was something. So we'll see that what happens there. But 715 00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:11,120 Speaker 2: I think like Miranda's gonna dye her hair back red. 716 00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:13,040 Speaker 2: I think there's just gonna be this all of a sudden, 717 00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:13,640 Speaker 2: this switch. 718 00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:16,320 Speaker 1: Wait, I'm I am foaming at the mouth for the 719 00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:20,200 Speaker 1: next episode. I am I am fully in, I am happy, 720 00:33:20,320 --> 00:33:24,200 Speaker 1: I am ecstatic, and I'm also annoyed at everybody talking 721 00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:28,760 Speaker 1: on my girl Charlotte. She was just very selfish, not 722 00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:29,960 Speaker 1: about her cared about her face. 723 00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:31,480 Speaker 3: Oh well, I didn't see anything. 724 00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:32,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, there was a lot of talks about her face 725 00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:34,560 Speaker 1: in the way that she looks like too much filler, 726 00:33:34,680 --> 00:33:36,480 Speaker 1: too much this, too much that, and it's like, you 727 00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:39,040 Speaker 1: know what, you're damned if you do, you're damned if 728 00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:41,720 Speaker 1: you don't. If she likes her face like. 729 00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:46,000 Speaker 2: That, I honestly thought everyone looked great, like I was like, 730 00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:48,040 Speaker 2: I That's why I was so annoyed that they were 731 00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:50,760 Speaker 2: making them seem so old because I was like, everyone looks. 732 00:33:50,600 --> 00:33:52,520 Speaker 3: So good, the fashion felt so good. 733 00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:55,080 Speaker 2: Like I don't know, I just thought it was it 734 00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:56,680 Speaker 2: didn't need to go in that weird direction. 735 00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:59,200 Speaker 3: But maybe there's a purpose for it because they. 736 00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:00,240 Speaker 1: Have everyone gonna have a. 737 00:34:02,000 --> 00:34:02,720 Speaker 2: Rejuvenation. 738 00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:04,960 Speaker 3: I think that's what's gonna happen. 739 00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:11,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, it was so great seeing Stanford again and being Stanford. 740 00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:15,439 Speaker 1: But like, oh my god, I'm scared for for that. 741 00:34:15,560 --> 00:34:16,640 Speaker 2: What are they going to do with that? 742 00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:18,719 Speaker 1: I don't know, but I can't handle another one on 743 00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:19,200 Speaker 1: the show. 744 00:34:19,560 --> 00:34:21,799 Speaker 2: So for those of you who don't know Stanford, what 745 00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:22,759 Speaker 2: I don't want? 746 00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:24,799 Speaker 4: What is Willie Carson is the actor's name. 747 00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:29,000 Speaker 2: He passed away during filming, so I think he's in. 748 00:34:28,960 --> 00:34:31,160 Speaker 1: The first four episodes, but yeah. 749 00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:33,960 Speaker 2: I don't know what. I don't know what happens. But 750 00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:36,239 Speaker 2: I was like this is I read about it and 751 00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:37,759 Speaker 2: I was like, this is devastating. 752 00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:40,080 Speaker 4: He's pretty significant in those first two episodes, like he 753 00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:45,040 Speaker 4: gets a lot. Yeah, that was that was hardbreat just 754 00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:46,520 Speaker 4: to see him because it was he was one of 755 00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:48,959 Speaker 4: the like characters. I was like really excited to come back, 756 00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:49,920 Speaker 4: and I know. 757 00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:52,200 Speaker 1: You know what I did love though, because I think 758 00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:55,800 Speaker 1: everybody can relate to this when she gets BIG's ashes 759 00:34:56,440 --> 00:35:00,359 Speaker 1: and she calls Stanford and Miranda, but she's and called 760 00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:04,000 Speaker 1: Charlotte because you have those friends, and you're like, you 761 00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:05,400 Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like you have friends that you 762 00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:07,879 Speaker 1: have in your life for different purposes. They all bring 763 00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:10,840 Speaker 1: a different energy, they all bring a different piece of advice. 764 00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:12,760 Speaker 1: So it's like I have those friends in my life 765 00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:14,840 Speaker 1: that like I go to if I need advice about 766 00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:17,560 Speaker 1: this or if I need advice about this. I have 767 00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:20,280 Speaker 1: different friends that I go to, and I like that 768 00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:21,359 Speaker 1: Carrie has that as well. 769 00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:24,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, and that was kind of where I kind of 770 00:35:25,120 --> 00:35:28,160 Speaker 2: I understood Charlotte's pain of like why didn't you call 771 00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:28,760 Speaker 2: me first? 772 00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:33,880 Speaker 3: But it was also like this is not about you, Charlotte. 773 00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:34,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, chill. 774 00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:36,759 Speaker 3: That part wasn't like you, thank you. 775 00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:38,560 Speaker 1: But I know my strength and my weaknesses and I 776 00:35:38,640 --> 00:35:40,360 Speaker 1: don't think I'm not going to handling that either, so 777 00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:41,200 Speaker 1: I wouldn't be offended. 778 00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:44,520 Speaker 2: I would see you crying at a funeral home, oh yeah, 779 00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:45,719 Speaker 2: like while like. 780 00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:49,000 Speaker 1: Helping you pick somebody's pick out of casket for somebody, 781 00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:50,080 Speaker 1: I'd be crying more than you. 782 00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:53,200 Speaker 2: Yeah. And then the funeral director comes in or the mortician, 783 00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:56,600 Speaker 2: and they like addressed Tanya like before they addressed me 784 00:35:56,719 --> 00:36:01,880 Speaker 2: because she's crying harder. That feels pretty accurate, feel for aggurate. Yeah, 785 00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:04,600 Speaker 2: but yeah, it's interesting because even though I was like, 786 00:36:04,680 --> 00:36:06,560 Speaker 2: this is so crazy and there were so many things 787 00:36:06,600 --> 00:36:09,000 Speaker 2: I didn't like, I've been talking about it and thinking 788 00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:10,279 Speaker 2: about it since I watched it. 789 00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:13,920 Speaker 3: So someone did something right there. 790 00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:17,360 Speaker 5: You go, that's all they want eyeballs and people talking yeah. 791 00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:37,040 Speaker 2: Win yeah, And then Peloton comes out? Oh my wait, 792 00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:40,360 Speaker 2: like within how many hours? 793 00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:41,480 Speaker 3: Like seventy two hours? 794 00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:44,200 Speaker 1: Okay, so I read the article, Oh what happened? It 795 00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:49,440 Speaker 1: was Ryan Reynolds's marketing company, right, They reached out to 796 00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:53,440 Speaker 1: mister Big within I guess it was within twenty four 797 00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:56,600 Speaker 1: hours of the episode airing. They were in talks with 798 00:36:56,719 --> 00:37:00,960 Speaker 1: Peloton already. So they get mister Big on board, they film, 799 00:37:01,120 --> 00:37:05,160 Speaker 1: they shoot, they get contracts, all this within literally forty 800 00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:07,560 Speaker 1: eight hours and put out this ad and he's like, 801 00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:12,200 Speaker 1: the ad was basically mister Big with an actual Peloton instructor. 802 00:37:11,680 --> 00:37:13,360 Speaker 3: Saying like that was his Peloton. 803 00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:17,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, saying and just like that. I don't remember 804 00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:18,680 Speaker 1: exactly what it was, but it was a Peloton ad 805 00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:22,000 Speaker 1: and it was so well done because it wasn't bashing 806 00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:24,000 Speaker 1: sex in the city. It was just kind of a 807 00:37:24,040 --> 00:37:25,680 Speaker 1: nod to it. And it was just the fact that 808 00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:28,359 Speaker 1: they did that. Cherry on top. 809 00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:30,680 Speaker 4: Ryan Reynolds reads the disclaimer at the very end, and 810 00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:33,399 Speaker 4: then it really quickly it's like now valid, No, fifty 811 00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:36,240 Speaker 4: states he's alive, Just like, yeah, very funny. 812 00:37:36,600 --> 00:37:39,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, And they were like, Peloton actually increases health. 813 00:37:39,239 --> 00:37:43,000 Speaker 1: And I meche was very well done. 814 00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:46,080 Speaker 3: By all everybody. Everyone round of appause. 815 00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:47,600 Speaker 1: But I do want to know how much they paid 816 00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:49,560 Speaker 1: mister big to be in that. He must have got 817 00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:54,560 Speaker 1: a big paycheck for that, because Peloton was probably foaming 818 00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:57,759 Speaker 1: at the mouth to get that done. He could have 819 00:37:57,760 --> 00:37:59,160 Speaker 1: been like, I want fifty million dollars. 820 00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:02,360 Speaker 2: They would have been like, oh, yeah, you're right, honestly, 821 00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:04,400 Speaker 2: you're right. Yeah. 822 00:38:04,640 --> 00:38:08,920 Speaker 1: If anybody listening knows DM me, I just I'm very curious, 823 00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:10,680 Speaker 1: yea anyone in his paycheck on that. 824 00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:13,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, that might come out. That could be news that 825 00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:13,839 Speaker 2: comes out. 826 00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:14,640 Speaker 1: I love it. 827 00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:16,360 Speaker 3: So yeah, that's our review. 828 00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:18,440 Speaker 2: If you didn't even watch, then that was probably a 829 00:38:18,800 --> 00:38:25,200 Speaker 2: terrible segment for you, by way. 830 00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:27,880 Speaker 1: But I just want to say to to mister Big 831 00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:30,319 Speaker 1: if he did get a big which he probably did 832 00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:32,640 Speaker 1: get a big paycheck from Peloton, I want to say that, 833 00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:35,200 Speaker 1: as Sex and City fans, I appreciate that he did, 834 00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:37,759 Speaker 1: even though he is now dead. I appreciate that for 835 00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:41,680 Speaker 1: our sake, he came back and he wanted to, you know, 836 00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:45,920 Speaker 1: like be apart. So the bigger picture gave me closure. 837 00:38:46,120 --> 00:38:52,319 Speaker 1: So bring on his paychecks, you know, Samantha. 838 00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:51,560 Speaker 5: You're moved. 839 00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:52,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. 840 00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:55,040 Speaker 4: Big is my favorite of Carrie's men. I'm I'm glad 841 00:38:55,040 --> 00:38:56,880 Speaker 4: we got to see him. I'm very sad he's gone. 842 00:38:56,960 --> 00:38:59,120 Speaker 4: If this paves the way for Aiden to come back, 843 00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:01,239 Speaker 4: I will literally can't from my HBO Max account. I 844 00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:02,760 Speaker 4: will be absolutely furious. 845 00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:06,880 Speaker 1: No, I was like, if HBO Max does anything to 846 00:39:06,960 --> 00:39:10,359 Speaker 1: my precious little Harry, I will have words with them and. 847 00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:11,640 Speaker 3: I will spam safe. 848 00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:14,400 Speaker 2: No one cares. I mean everyone likes him, but like 849 00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:16,160 Speaker 2: he's not like, no one cares, you. 850 00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:18,840 Speaker 1: Know, if they do anything to him and Charlotte, I 851 00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:21,480 Speaker 1: will have words. I will spam them with hate. I 852 00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:22,480 Speaker 1: will do things. 853 00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:24,239 Speaker 3: No, No, you're I think you're good, but. 854 00:39:26,200 --> 00:39:30,280 Speaker 2: I guarantee Aiden shows up at some point. 855 00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:33,160 Speaker 4: He's confirmed to come back and I'm oh, yeah, like 856 00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:37,120 Speaker 4: the actors signed on and I'm not happy about this. 857 00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:40,839 Speaker 4: It's gonna suck. It's gonna say Aiden sucks. I hate him. 858 00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:43,480 Speaker 4: Okay's my big. 859 00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:45,000 Speaker 1: Bad Greek wedding, and you'll think different. 860 00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:45,640 Speaker 2: I've seen my. 861 00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:47,600 Speaker 4: Big fat Greek wedding. He's fine in that. I just 862 00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:48,840 Speaker 4: don't like the character of Aiden. 863 00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:51,719 Speaker 2: Wait, the actor. You thought he was emotionally manipulative? Is 864 00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:52,239 Speaker 2: that what it was? 865 00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:56,520 Speaker 4: Yes, and that's gonna happen again to aggrieving Carrie Bradshaw, 866 00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:57,520 Speaker 4: that's gonna happen again. 867 00:39:58,160 --> 00:40:01,799 Speaker 2: No, it's gonna be so sweet and like comforting to her. 868 00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:03,520 Speaker 2: I don't think they're going to date. 869 00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:05,319 Speaker 3: I just think he's gonna show up for her. 870 00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:08,120 Speaker 4: If they don't date, If he just shows up and 871 00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:09,880 Speaker 4: offers some kind words, that will be the way to 872 00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:12,480 Speaker 4: keep me on board. I don't want them to date. 873 00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:15,120 Speaker 2: What if? What if? What if he comes back and 874 00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:17,720 Speaker 2: totally like changes all your feelings about Aiden. 875 00:40:18,800 --> 00:40:21,120 Speaker 4: I mean that'll be a first, but uh, And just 876 00:40:21,160 --> 00:40:21,880 Speaker 4: like if. 877 00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:24,919 Speaker 5: He apologizes, he apologize for being so manipulative in the past, 878 00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:25,759 Speaker 5: that I'm gonna be better. 879 00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:28,720 Speaker 4: There's a scenery he's like, I shouldn't have replaced your laptop. 880 00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:31,919 Speaker 4: I'm very sorry. I shouldn't have done that. Then I'd 881 00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:32,480 Speaker 4: be down with that. 882 00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:34,879 Speaker 5: He's been in therapy for eighteen years. He's better. 883 00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:36,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, Oh we think, we hope. 884 00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:38,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, who knows? 885 00:40:38,520 --> 00:40:42,960 Speaker 2: Okay, Well, is it just me and Mark who watched Grace? Yeah, 886 00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:44,839 Speaker 2: all right, Mark, let's talk about it. 887 00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:46,600 Speaker 5: Well, we don't know if it's spend much time on 888 00:40:46,680 --> 00:40:47,440 Speaker 5: and we can move on. 889 00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:49,680 Speaker 2: I think, well, there's not a lot to talk about, 890 00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:51,360 Speaker 2: but there is some stuff to talk about. 891 00:40:52,560 --> 00:40:54,680 Speaker 3: Joe and Link are gonna end up together. 892 00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:56,839 Speaker 5: I'm all for that. They're the two most attractive people 893 00:40:56,880 --> 00:40:58,680 Speaker 5: on the show. I'm all for those two together. 894 00:40:59,200 --> 00:41:01,600 Speaker 2: Me too. Always I always felt like it was going 895 00:41:01,680 --> 00:41:04,480 Speaker 2: to be them, and then they always seem to pull apart. 896 00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:06,920 Speaker 2: But that's definitely inevitable, right. 897 00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:09,440 Speaker 5: I think so and I and I'm here for it. 898 00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:13,000 Speaker 2: She's gonna pine for him, well, he pines for Amelia 899 00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:14,480 Speaker 2: for a second, and. 900 00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:17,799 Speaker 5: The Tanya Maggie's back. That's, you know, come on. 901 00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:20,560 Speaker 3: Okay in real life. 902 00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:25,799 Speaker 2: So she did that, and then Amelia is definitely gonna 903 00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:26,840 Speaker 2: end up with the new doctor. 904 00:41:27,719 --> 00:41:28,279 Speaker 5: Definitely. 905 00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:33,359 Speaker 2: There's I don't name their name. I know what you're 906 00:41:33,360 --> 00:41:40,279 Speaker 2: talking about what happened with Meredith and just nothingview. 907 00:41:40,760 --> 00:41:44,360 Speaker 5: Well, she saved his donor's life in the in surgery. 908 00:41:45,000 --> 00:41:46,000 Speaker 5: Remember he was in the room. 909 00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:48,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, but it wasn't like I mean right. 910 00:41:48,760 --> 00:41:50,640 Speaker 5: It wasn't a big step for in the relationship. In fact, 911 00:41:50,640 --> 00:41:51,520 Speaker 5: it might have missed it back. 912 00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:54,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, he seemed kind of off or something about that. 913 00:41:57,440 --> 00:42:01,000 Speaker 2: But so mainly it was Lincoln Joe and but why 914 00:42:01,000 --> 00:42:05,240 Speaker 2: do they do those cheap, the cheesy scene of how 915 00:42:05,320 --> 00:42:09,880 Speaker 2: the actor fell on the play And they're like, you 916 00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:11,440 Speaker 2: know what, I know? 917 00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:13,120 Speaker 5: And I had the same thought. 918 00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:16,720 Speaker 2: Because it wasn't always like this. They had those crazy 919 00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:20,680 Speaker 2: scenarios that seemed unrealistic, but it was not like that. 920 00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:23,360 Speaker 5: So Lincoln Joe took their kids to a little theater 921 00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:26,720 Speaker 5: in the park and it's Rapunzel and so the prince 922 00:42:26,840 --> 00:42:29,719 Speaker 5: is climbing Rapunzel's hair and he falls off of her 923 00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:32,400 Speaker 5: hair because he has a heart attack or something, and 924 00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:34,880 Speaker 5: he cracks open his leg on the stage and they're like, 925 00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:37,279 Speaker 5: is there a doctor in the house? Now, I get it, 926 00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:39,319 Speaker 5: And I did roll my eyes when it happened, because 927 00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:41,720 Speaker 5: it's kind of hilarious that everywhere they go this happens. 928 00:42:41,840 --> 00:42:45,600 Speaker 5: But I also like them showing off these superpowers of 929 00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:48,360 Speaker 5: being doctors and how cool that is that anytime anybody 930 00:42:48,560 --> 00:42:50,880 Speaker 5: injures themselfs anywhere, they can just jump into action and 931 00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:52,360 Speaker 5: be the heroes. And I think that's kind of do 932 00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:53,239 Speaker 5: you know what's like? 933 00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:55,719 Speaker 1: So whenever I've been on a plane and something like 934 00:42:55,719 --> 00:42:59,200 Speaker 1: that has happened, it's not like that. It's not is 935 00:42:59,239 --> 00:43:01,680 Speaker 1: there a doctor on the plane and then somebody comes 936 00:43:01,680 --> 00:43:05,200 Speaker 1: on the intercom and says, we have a medical emergency? 937 00:43:05,600 --> 00:43:11,080 Speaker 1: Is there anybody any doctor on the floor. It's very calm, cool, collected. 938 00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:14,520 Speaker 1: I've never experienced anything where their flailing around is a doctor. 939 00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:21,000 Speaker 2: Well, it's either I don't think it's I don't think 940 00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:25,760 Speaker 2: it's Camilla Luddington or Chris Cormac. I think it's the writing. 941 00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:29,120 Speaker 2: I don't know. There's just something that's that got so 942 00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:32,759 Speaker 2: corny because Grace has always been known for having like 943 00:43:33,120 --> 00:43:34,440 Speaker 2: ridiculous scenarios. 944 00:43:35,360 --> 00:43:39,320 Speaker 5: They used a fake sword to like secure the tourniquet. 945 00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:40,800 Speaker 2: I can't. 946 00:43:40,920 --> 00:43:45,160 Speaker 5: I can't use pens from the crowd to give the 947 00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:47,239 Speaker 5: guy the eppie he needed, because there are enough people 948 00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:49,040 Speaker 5: there who are still just sitting in their seats, even 949 00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:52,080 Speaker 5: though this was all going on because with with peanut 950 00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:54,560 Speaker 5: allergies and they all EpiPens anyway, it was kind of 951 00:43:54,560 --> 00:43:57,600 Speaker 5: sid He's been enough time talking about TV shows that 952 00:43:57,680 --> 00:44:00,759 Speaker 5: a good portion of the audience probably didn't watch. Yeah. 953 00:44:00,840 --> 00:44:03,200 Speaker 1: I would also just in case anybody does work for 954 00:44:03,320 --> 00:44:06,000 Speaker 1: HBO Max, if they would like to borrow my single, 955 00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:06,680 Speaker 1: just like that. 956 00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:10,120 Speaker 2: I thought about that. 957 00:44:10,400 --> 00:44:12,719 Speaker 1: I know I did too, if anybody would like the 958 00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:16,759 Speaker 1: rights to use it, HBO Max, please slide into my door. 959 00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:19,319 Speaker 2: What was the one that was like had like a 960 00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:19,920 Speaker 2: beat to it? 961 00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:25,480 Speaker 1: James James Maasli Yeah, and just like that, just. 962 00:44:25,560 --> 00:44:31,560 Speaker 2: Like that opening podcast, I did think about that. We 963 00:44:32,440 --> 00:44:35,640 Speaker 2: have to do our contest for a new opening for 964 00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:36,080 Speaker 2: the show. 965 00:44:36,239 --> 00:44:40,880 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I don't think people were submitting because Amy 966 00:44:40,880 --> 00:44:43,440 Speaker 1: didn't say anything, so I figured nobody was submitting anything. 967 00:44:44,040 --> 00:44:46,040 Speaker 3: Oh well, submonim to us? 968 00:44:46,960 --> 00:44:48,480 Speaker 1: Well, how do they do that on Facebook? 969 00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:50,000 Speaker 3: On Instagram? 970 00:44:50,200 --> 00:44:50,520 Speaker 2: Damn? 971 00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:53,560 Speaker 1: Can you DM like a song like that? 972 00:44:54,360 --> 00:44:54,600 Speaker 2: Yes? 973 00:44:54,960 --> 00:44:56,160 Speaker 1: All right, I don't know. Can you? 974 00:44:56,280 --> 00:44:57,160 Speaker 4: I don't know if you can? 975 00:44:57,520 --> 00:44:59,919 Speaker 2: Or video just video clip of the song. 976 00:45:00,200 --> 00:45:02,239 Speaker 5: We have an email address, right. 977 00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:04,600 Speaker 1: Beca is the more tech savvy of the two of us. 978 00:45:04,520 --> 00:45:08,200 Speaker 3: So Easton here, So Easton's the text aboy. 979 00:45:08,040 --> 00:45:13,560 Speaker 4: Yeah Easton at iHeartMedia dot com. Send those over flood 980 00:45:13,560 --> 00:45:15,799 Speaker 4: my universal ideas. 981 00:45:16,080 --> 00:45:18,360 Speaker 5: They don't have to be fully produced songs. If you 982 00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:19,399 Speaker 5: have an idea that might be cool. 983 00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:21,560 Speaker 3: We're open to creative suggestion. 984 00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:23,800 Speaker 4: I will say I've gotten some d ms with ideas, 985 00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:25,920 Speaker 4: but they were all just like, you should use the theme 986 00:45:25,880 --> 00:45:29,120 Speaker 4: song from Cray's Anatomy, and I'm like, it's kind of taken. 987 00:45:30,480 --> 00:45:31,120 Speaker 4: I don't think we can. 988 00:45:31,239 --> 00:45:32,959 Speaker 3: I think we have the funds for the rights. 989 00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:35,080 Speaker 4: I don't think we can use that one. But other 990 00:45:35,120 --> 00:45:35,960 Speaker 4: ideas I'll take. 991 00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:41,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, great, all right, do we have an email. 992 00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:43,800 Speaker 5: We have a couple of them, but first let's. 993 00:45:43,560 --> 00:46:00,480 Speaker 2: Take a break. Okay, we're back with emails. 994 00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:05,120 Speaker 5: Mark, This first one is a rarity. It's not about dating, 995 00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:09,120 Speaker 5: Allison says. I'm a single, twenty seven year old modern woman, 996 00:46:09,280 --> 00:46:11,479 Speaker 5: and I recently moved back to my hometown after working 997 00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:14,000 Speaker 5: in a different city for two years. Before I left town, 998 00:46:14,120 --> 00:46:15,920 Speaker 5: I was in a Bible study with a group of friends, 999 00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:18,400 Speaker 5: some of whom were married and some were not. The 1000 00:46:18,440 --> 00:46:20,640 Speaker 5: group has changed slightly in the past two years. It 1001 00:46:20,640 --> 00:46:23,120 Speaker 5: has now made up of four married couples and one 1002 00:46:23,200 --> 00:46:25,640 Speaker 5: other single guy. But just to know there's nothing romantic 1003 00:46:25,680 --> 00:46:28,279 Speaker 5: between me and this single guy. Well, since I've moved home, 1004 00:46:28,320 --> 00:46:30,680 Speaker 5: they've invited me back to join the group, but they 1005 00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:34,120 Speaker 5: will do other things together outside of Bible Study night, 1006 00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:37,560 Speaker 5: and they won't invite me. They go to movies, they 1007 00:46:37,600 --> 00:46:40,040 Speaker 5: go to the farmer's market, they go to dinners as 1008 00:46:40,080 --> 00:46:42,920 Speaker 5: a group. They don't ask me to come except to 1009 00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:44,759 Speaker 5: the Bible study. What do I do? 1010 00:46:46,520 --> 00:46:49,280 Speaker 3: That sucks? First of all? 1011 00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:56,080 Speaker 2: And you know, sometimes, like with Bible studies, there's this 1012 00:46:56,360 --> 00:47:00,960 Speaker 2: idea of especially the leader. Sometimes there's like include everyone 1013 00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:04,359 Speaker 2: invite everyone to the Bible study. But sometimes people want 1014 00:47:04,400 --> 00:47:07,840 Speaker 2: to be invited to like things outside of the Bible study, 1015 00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:11,719 Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. Like, I think they may 1016 00:47:11,800 --> 00:47:14,000 Speaker 2: feel like they're really doing their part as your friend 1017 00:47:14,040 --> 00:47:16,720 Speaker 2: by inviting you to that thing that y'all do weekly 1018 00:47:16,800 --> 00:47:19,360 Speaker 2: and that are a part of and that that is 1019 00:47:19,400 --> 00:47:22,200 Speaker 2: part of your like faith and something that's really important to. 1020 00:47:22,160 --> 00:47:23,880 Speaker 1: You, But they. 1021 00:47:25,440 --> 00:47:29,080 Speaker 2: Don't either know, I don't know if it's intentional or 1022 00:47:29,120 --> 00:47:31,279 Speaker 2: not that they're not inviting you, but if everyone else 1023 00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:34,480 Speaker 2: is there, it's like why I would feel the exact 1024 00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:37,680 Speaker 2: same way as you, Like, why am I being invited 1025 00:47:37,719 --> 00:47:39,840 Speaker 2: to one thing but like left out of everything else? 1026 00:47:42,400 --> 00:47:43,160 Speaker 1: So what's your advice? 1027 00:47:43,520 --> 00:47:48,200 Speaker 2: I would I don't know that I would do what 1028 00:47:48,520 --> 00:47:50,719 Speaker 2: my advice is, but what I would hope I would 1029 00:47:50,719 --> 00:47:53,440 Speaker 2: be able to do, Alison, is have a conversation with 1030 00:47:53,480 --> 00:47:56,040 Speaker 2: someone that you feel the safest and most comfortable with 1031 00:47:56,280 --> 00:47:59,120 Speaker 2: the group and say, hey, you know, I love being 1032 00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:01,120 Speaker 2: a part of this group and it's part of my 1033 00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:03,439 Speaker 2: routine and I love everyone in here and it makes 1034 00:48:03,480 --> 00:48:04,760 Speaker 2: me feel like I'm a part of something. 1035 00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:06,360 Speaker 3: But I would love to be a part of the 1036 00:48:06,440 --> 00:48:07,480 Speaker 3: other social. 1037 00:48:07,160 --> 00:48:09,279 Speaker 2: Things that y'all do, and sometimes I feel really left 1038 00:48:09,280 --> 00:48:11,759 Speaker 2: out from those things when I see y'all together, is 1039 00:48:11,800 --> 00:48:15,680 Speaker 2: they're you know, like if y'all do something or go 1040 00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:18,800 Speaker 2: to the movies or Allison, I have the best idea, 1041 00:48:18,840 --> 00:48:20,360 Speaker 2: what if you plan the event? 1042 00:48:20,880 --> 00:48:22,200 Speaker 3: Like what if you plan the outing? 1043 00:48:22,360 --> 00:48:23,799 Speaker 1: But yeah, that's what I would, That's what I was 1044 00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:26,760 Speaker 1: gonna say. Just have like you start planning events, inviting 1045 00:48:26,760 --> 00:48:31,400 Speaker 1: them over to your place for you know whatever, and 1046 00:48:31,480 --> 00:48:32,160 Speaker 1: she's night. 1047 00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:36,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's night. And like if you and like you 1048 00:48:36,680 --> 00:48:38,319 Speaker 2: say hey I want to go see a movie or hey, 1049 00:48:38,400 --> 00:48:40,240 Speaker 2: let's go to eat or hey, come over and let's 1050 00:48:40,600 --> 00:48:44,279 Speaker 2: you know, watch a show something, And then if if 1051 00:48:44,360 --> 00:48:46,640 Speaker 2: people aren't showing up, then I think it's time you 1052 00:48:46,719 --> 00:48:49,600 Speaker 2: evaluate finding new friends. 1053 00:48:50,040 --> 00:48:52,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I also think sometimes too, you know, like 1054 00:48:52,320 --> 00:48:55,640 Speaker 1: you can't control anybody else in your life. You can 1055 00:48:55,640 --> 00:48:58,239 Speaker 1: only control the way that you react to it. So 1056 00:48:58,239 --> 00:49:00,000 Speaker 1: if they're not inviting new things, I think my first 1057 00:49:00,000 --> 00:49:02,520 Speaker 1: but my first step would be to invite them to 1058 00:49:02,560 --> 00:49:06,440 Speaker 1: do things with you outside. But also, you know, I 1059 00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:09,960 Speaker 1: had a Bible study where it was just that I 1060 00:49:10,000 --> 00:49:12,280 Speaker 1: had one of my best friends in the Bible study 1061 00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:14,480 Speaker 1: with me, So she and I had a relationship outside 1062 00:49:14,520 --> 00:49:16,239 Speaker 1: of it, but other than that, we were just we 1063 00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:18,279 Speaker 1: would meet every other week and we would do our 1064 00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:21,680 Speaker 1: Bible study, and it was what it was, you know 1065 00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:23,440 Speaker 1: what I mean, Like, I think that people are in 1066 00:49:23,480 --> 00:49:27,440 Speaker 1: your life for different reasons, and you can maybe like 1067 00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:29,960 Speaker 1: that's what they're in your life for, and if maybe 1068 00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:33,880 Speaker 1: you make other friends to do socializing with or whatever. 1069 00:49:34,239 --> 00:49:37,000 Speaker 2: Actually, and I just read that's been two years since 1070 00:49:37,040 --> 00:49:40,120 Speaker 2: you were originally in this group of people and they've 1071 00:49:40,160 --> 00:49:43,759 Speaker 2: gotten married. It's a different dynamic now. So yeah, it 1072 00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:46,759 Speaker 2: might just be that it's like maybe they think, like, oh, 1073 00:49:46,840 --> 00:49:50,040 Speaker 2: she might not want to be around us, like married couples, 1074 00:49:50,080 --> 00:49:52,160 Speaker 2: Like they might not even realize that you even want 1075 00:49:52,239 --> 00:49:54,480 Speaker 2: to be a part, so it might be worth communicating, 1076 00:49:54,800 --> 00:49:58,200 Speaker 2: and that might look like you making the plan so 1077 00:49:58,239 --> 00:50:00,000 Speaker 2: that they understand that you do want to hang out 1078 00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:00,399 Speaker 2: with them. 1079 00:50:00,440 --> 00:50:02,280 Speaker 3: So I think it's just you, Like you're the one. 1080 00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:04,080 Speaker 2: Who kind of left for a couple of years and 1081 00:50:04,120 --> 00:50:06,560 Speaker 2: now you're coming back so it's kind of you finding 1082 00:50:06,560 --> 00:50:09,000 Speaker 2: your place in the group again with the changes. 1083 00:50:09,280 --> 00:50:13,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, good advice. I have nothing to add. Wow, this 1084 00:50:13,239 --> 00:50:15,680 Speaker 5: is anonymous. She says. I've been with my boyfriend almost 1085 00:50:15,680 --> 00:50:18,279 Speaker 5: six years. We're both twenty three years old, so high 1086 00:50:18,320 --> 00:50:21,600 Speaker 5: school sweethearts. We now live together, but at very opposite schedules. 1087 00:50:21,640 --> 00:50:23,839 Speaker 5: He works evenings and midnights. I have a normal nine 1088 00:50:23,840 --> 00:50:25,480 Speaker 5: to five. There are many days we don't see each 1089 00:50:25,480 --> 00:50:27,160 Speaker 5: other and it's hard to find time to spend together, 1090 00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:31,200 Speaker 5: especially intimate time. Probably about a year into our relationship, 1091 00:50:31,239 --> 00:50:33,719 Speaker 5: we had a conversation about porn because he watched it. 1092 00:50:34,040 --> 00:50:35,520 Speaker 5: I told him I didn't like that, and I don't 1093 00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:37,640 Speaker 5: want I don't want that to continue. I have many 1094 00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:39,520 Speaker 5: reasons why I think this, and I expressed them all 1095 00:50:39,520 --> 00:50:42,560 Speaker 5: and he understood and he stopped. The other night, porn 1096 00:50:42,640 --> 00:50:44,480 Speaker 5: came up and I asked him as a joke, have 1097 00:50:44,560 --> 00:50:47,440 Speaker 5: you been watching it? Well, he says he has started again. 1098 00:50:47,719 --> 00:50:51,160 Speaker 5: He blamed it on our opposing schedules. He's broken boundaries before, 1099 00:50:51,239 --> 00:50:53,120 Speaker 5: but nothing serious. But I feel like this is a 1100 00:50:53,160 --> 00:50:55,920 Speaker 5: major boundary cross. I believe in a way this is cheating. 1101 00:50:56,239 --> 00:50:58,799 Speaker 5: He had a sexual experience with someone who was not me. 1102 00:50:59,560 --> 00:51:01,399 Speaker 5: I don't know if this is worth throwing away six 1103 00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:03,600 Speaker 5: good years and all the hard work we've done to 1104 00:51:03,640 --> 00:51:05,719 Speaker 5: get to where we've gotten to, or if you have 1105 00:51:05,719 --> 00:51:08,560 Speaker 5: any advice on how to work things out. 1106 00:51:09,400 --> 00:51:10,040 Speaker 2: You want to leave. 1107 00:51:11,719 --> 00:51:17,560 Speaker 1: I'm torn. Oh I'm torn because I don't see it 1108 00:51:17,600 --> 00:51:21,480 Speaker 1: as cheating, but she does. And if she sees it 1109 00:51:21,520 --> 00:51:29,520 Speaker 1: as cheating, then and he's not stopping. To me, that 1110 00:51:29,840 --> 00:51:34,000 Speaker 1: feels like you shouldn't continue on. If it feels like 1111 00:51:34,080 --> 00:51:38,040 Speaker 1: cheating to her, then that's for her, you know what 1112 00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:41,200 Speaker 1: I mean, Like that's how she feels. And I wouldn't 1113 00:51:41,200 --> 00:51:43,239 Speaker 1: be able to continue on with somebody if I felt 1114 00:51:43,280 --> 00:51:46,520 Speaker 1: like I was being cheated on. Yeah, but that's just 1115 00:51:46,560 --> 00:51:49,239 Speaker 1: not personally how I feel. Because to me, porn is 1116 00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:52,560 Speaker 1: very I mean, I don't like it. I wouldn't want 1117 00:51:52,640 --> 00:51:55,640 Speaker 1: Red Star watching it either, but I don't think I would. 1118 00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:57,120 Speaker 1: I would break up with him if he. 1119 00:51:57,120 --> 00:52:00,359 Speaker 2: Started, but there are certain things that maybe if he 1120 00:52:00,400 --> 00:52:03,360 Speaker 2: did that that would make you feel like a boundary 1121 00:52:03,360 --> 00:52:05,839 Speaker 2: had been crossed that other people might not see as 1122 00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:08,560 Speaker 2: a boundary. I think the whole issue is she communicated 1123 00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:10,719 Speaker 2: that it was a boundary, that something she didn't like 1124 00:52:10,840 --> 00:52:15,040 Speaker 2: and he and he stopped, but then he continued doing it, 1125 00:52:15,080 --> 00:52:19,160 Speaker 2: and she feels betrayed in a sense that her conversation 1126 00:52:19,560 --> 00:52:22,279 Speaker 2: and her feelings were not heard still. 1127 00:52:22,320 --> 00:52:26,640 Speaker 1: And blames it on their opposing schedules, but like, that's life, dude, 1128 00:52:26,920 --> 00:52:27,560 Speaker 1: figure it out. 1129 00:52:28,160 --> 00:52:31,000 Speaker 2: I think that it's I don't know that this is 1130 00:52:31,120 --> 00:52:34,440 Speaker 2: me personally. I think it's worth having a conversation again 1131 00:52:34,480 --> 00:52:37,520 Speaker 2: and like really expressing how hurtful it is that that 1132 00:52:37,760 --> 00:52:40,880 Speaker 2: line was crossed for you and that you do feel 1133 00:52:40,880 --> 00:52:43,960 Speaker 2: like there's this sense of like cheating element to it, 1134 00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:46,839 Speaker 2: where you feel that he had that, you know, a 1135 00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:49,200 Speaker 2: sexual experience, but someone with someone that wasn't you. But 1136 00:52:49,920 --> 00:52:54,560 Speaker 2: I think that they're also I don't know that just 1137 00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:57,680 Speaker 2: going straight to breaking up with someone after six years 1138 00:52:57,719 --> 00:53:00,799 Speaker 2: if you have a healthy and good relationship, unless you're 1139 00:53:00,840 --> 00:53:04,040 Speaker 2: just like looking for a way to out or something. 1140 00:53:04,239 --> 00:53:04,680 Speaker 2: I don't know. 1141 00:53:04,920 --> 00:53:08,359 Speaker 5: Yeah, that conversation will tell you a lot. Like if 1142 00:53:08,360 --> 00:53:12,160 Speaker 5: he expresses remorse and promises to do better and all 1143 00:53:12,160 --> 00:53:14,440 Speaker 5: that stuff, then I think maybe you give him that chance. 1144 00:53:14,440 --> 00:53:17,200 Speaker 5: But if he digs in his heels and he's like, 1145 00:53:17,200 --> 00:53:19,240 Speaker 5: why are you so controlling and all this sort of stuff, 1146 00:53:19,280 --> 00:53:20,799 Speaker 5: then I don't know. 1147 00:53:21,520 --> 00:53:23,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm with you, though, I mean, I think you 1148 00:53:23,520 --> 00:53:26,440 Speaker 2: have a conversation. How he responds to the conversation will 1149 00:53:26,480 --> 00:53:27,160 Speaker 2: be your answer. 1150 00:53:27,800 --> 00:53:30,600 Speaker 5: But I also don't know how. You know, as a 1151 00:53:30,880 --> 00:53:34,400 Speaker 5: guy with daughters. It's a concern how prevalent it is 1152 00:53:34,520 --> 00:53:37,560 Speaker 5: among teenage boys today. I'm not aware of that when 1153 00:53:37,600 --> 00:53:39,799 Speaker 5: I was a kid. Yeah, when I was a kid, 1154 00:53:39,800 --> 00:53:41,520 Speaker 5: you had to go to great efforts to see it. 1155 00:53:41,560 --> 00:53:43,359 Speaker 5: Now it's piped into their bedroom at a high rate 1156 00:53:43,400 --> 00:53:46,160 Speaker 5: of speed twenty four hours a day. Yeah, and that's 1157 00:53:46,160 --> 00:53:48,080 Speaker 5: going to be really interesting how that affects dating and 1158 00:53:48,120 --> 00:53:50,719 Speaker 5: society over the next twenty years. But so I don't 1159 00:53:50,800 --> 00:53:52,840 Speaker 5: know what that's like. So maybe it's just kind of 1160 00:53:52,840 --> 00:53:55,680 Speaker 5: a regular thing for guys his age, and that's not 1161 00:53:55,719 --> 00:53:57,759 Speaker 5: something they want to change because that's they've been living 1162 00:53:57,800 --> 00:53:58,919 Speaker 5: with it that way for a long time. 1163 00:53:59,320 --> 00:54:02,120 Speaker 1: Okay, up the whole porn thing and how that's going 1164 00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:08,560 Speaker 1: to change, sexual whatever. I would like to talk about 1165 00:54:08,960 --> 00:54:11,120 Speaker 1: sex robots maybe in the next podcast. 1166 00:54:11,239 --> 00:54:14,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, that'll be another conversation for another day. 1167 00:54:14,480 --> 00:54:17,640 Speaker 1: Because I've had this conversation with friends of mine about 1168 00:54:17,719 --> 00:54:20,120 Speaker 1: how they think, like some women just don't want to 1169 00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:25,719 Speaker 1: deal with men and their cheating ways and their bs, 1170 00:54:25,800 --> 00:54:27,839 Speaker 1: and like these sex robots are going to look and 1171 00:54:27,880 --> 00:54:29,840 Speaker 1: feel and talk like humans. 1172 00:54:31,200 --> 00:54:33,239 Speaker 2: So you just have a sexual robot instead of a man, 1173 00:54:33,920 --> 00:54:34,879 Speaker 2: is what the point is? 1174 00:54:34,920 --> 00:54:36,080 Speaker 1: Correct? 1175 00:54:36,480 --> 00:54:38,080 Speaker 5: I don't know how any women are straight, to be 1176 00:54:38,120 --> 00:54:39,279 Speaker 5: honest with you, I don't get it. 1177 00:54:39,640 --> 00:54:40,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, don't. 1178 00:54:40,920 --> 00:54:43,440 Speaker 5: I don't see what the appeal is here. 1179 00:54:43,880 --> 00:54:47,640 Speaker 4: Nothing to offer, nothing, sincerely. 1180 00:54:49,920 --> 00:54:56,719 Speaker 2: No, I disagree, I do disagree, but I don't see it. 1181 00:54:57,520 --> 00:54:59,839 Speaker 2: But the fact that y'all are both two men saying 1182 00:54:59,840 --> 00:55:02,719 Speaker 2: that as a little concerned with the better men that 1183 00:55:02,840 --> 00:55:06,719 Speaker 2: I know. Thoughts for thoughts, Yeah, well we'll take that 1184 00:55:06,800 --> 00:55:08,560 Speaker 2: into consideration. 1185 00:55:08,400 --> 00:55:10,800 Speaker 4: Especially from like the sexual point of view. Like I 1186 00:55:11,080 --> 00:55:13,160 Speaker 4: just I just feel like sex as a man is 1187 00:55:13,200 --> 00:55:17,400 Speaker 4: nothing but disappointing and in times upsetting. I'm being serious. 1188 00:55:18,280 --> 00:55:23,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, he's right. Yeah, i'd say more often than not. 1189 00:55:23,239 --> 00:55:27,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think both genders have a lot to offer, 1190 00:55:27,320 --> 00:55:28,520 Speaker 2: and I'll believe it in that. 1191 00:55:28,560 --> 00:55:31,719 Speaker 4: You're but it's not true. 1192 00:55:32,640 --> 00:55:34,839 Speaker 2: You know. The funny thing when we were a jingle ball, 1193 00:55:34,880 --> 00:55:37,359 Speaker 2: I was saying, like, Doja cat was performing, and I 1194 00:55:37,360 --> 00:55:41,640 Speaker 2: guess I I've never I know what Dojakat looks like, 1195 00:55:41,640 --> 00:55:44,040 Speaker 2: but I've never like seen her perform or anything. She's 1196 00:55:44,200 --> 00:55:47,120 Speaker 2: so like hot that I was like, do I want 1197 00:55:47,160 --> 00:55:47,839 Speaker 2: to be her? 1198 00:55:48,080 --> 00:55:49,920 Speaker 3: Or do I have like a crush on her? Like 1199 00:55:50,000 --> 00:55:52,600 Speaker 3: I was like, where do you draw the line? 1200 00:55:53,480 --> 00:55:54,160 Speaker 1: Hard to say? 1201 00:55:54,800 --> 00:55:57,440 Speaker 2: Tani was like, stop filming, and I'm. 1202 00:55:57,280 --> 00:56:02,960 Speaker 1: Like, Becca's like filming Dojaquat. That was filming the screen, 1203 00:56:03,120 --> 00:56:04,960 Speaker 1: you know, like the people that film the screen, there 1204 00:56:04,960 --> 00:56:06,560 Speaker 1: are a lot of I was like, are we fifty? 1205 00:56:06,600 --> 00:56:08,240 Speaker 1: Are we in Sex and the City and you're sixty 1206 00:56:08,239 --> 00:56:10,680 Speaker 1: five years old? Filming the scream that. 1207 00:56:10,600 --> 00:56:14,320 Speaker 2: Doja Cata was doing a cool like transition from stage 1208 00:56:14,360 --> 00:56:18,359 Speaker 2: to screen. Literally one of my videos, Tony goes, why 1209 00:56:18,360 --> 00:56:21,759 Speaker 2: are you filming that? It's like you're ruined it there. 1210 00:56:21,840 --> 00:56:22,720 Speaker 5: Yeah. 1211 00:56:22,760 --> 00:56:25,520 Speaker 1: I did get a lot of dms because we were all. Actually, 1212 00:56:25,560 --> 00:56:27,279 Speaker 1: I loved it so much because we were all there's 1213 00:56:27,320 --> 00:56:30,239 Speaker 1: like seven of us smushed in in four seats of 1214 00:56:30,320 --> 00:56:32,400 Speaker 1: jingle Ball, so like all my best friends just like 1215 00:56:32,440 --> 00:56:36,000 Speaker 1: smushed into like four seats and so Red Star like 1216 00:56:36,000 --> 00:56:37,680 Speaker 1: we would be dancing and he like put I was 1217 00:56:37,680 --> 00:56:39,520 Speaker 1: filming back and he put his arm an Becca, and 1218 00:56:39,560 --> 00:56:42,399 Speaker 1: I'd have some DMS from people being like I don't 1219 00:56:42,440 --> 00:56:44,279 Speaker 1: like the way his arm is around her, and I'm like, 1220 00:56:44,320 --> 00:56:47,080 Speaker 1: oh my god, these people get some new friends the 1221 00:56:47,160 --> 00:56:47,720 Speaker 1: tea words. 1222 00:56:48,440 --> 00:56:50,879 Speaker 5: Yeah, Tanya, you might have bailed on this. But did 1223 00:56:50,920 --> 00:56:54,520 Speaker 5: you see the day of episode that Doja Kata is in? 1224 00:56:54,680 --> 00:56:56,120 Speaker 1: What season two? 1225 00:56:57,520 --> 00:56:57,759 Speaker 2: No? 1226 00:56:58,160 --> 00:56:59,919 Speaker 1: I think we just started season two. 1227 00:57:00,160 --> 00:57:03,120 Speaker 5: There's an episode of Dave that Dojakat features in prominently, 1228 00:57:03,160 --> 00:57:05,279 Speaker 5: and you will feel even more drawn to her. I 1229 00:57:05,320 --> 00:57:09,360 Speaker 5: think after that episode Funny, she's funny, she's great in it. 1230 00:57:09,440 --> 00:57:12,440 Speaker 5: She's just very appealing and and and that's honestly, I 1231 00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:14,280 Speaker 5: think my favorite Dave episode is that one. 1232 00:57:14,400 --> 00:57:16,720 Speaker 4: I think it stands pretty well on its own too, Like, 1233 00:57:16,760 --> 00:57:18,840 Speaker 4: if you haven't seen, you can just watch that and 1234 00:57:18,960 --> 00:57:21,240 Speaker 4: just like if you know who little Dicky Dojakat, you'll 1235 00:57:21,320 --> 00:57:21,720 Speaker 4: enjoy it. 1236 00:57:21,960 --> 00:57:22,440 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1237 00:57:22,520 --> 00:57:24,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, there was just something about she's she can dance, 1238 00:57:24,960 --> 00:57:27,560 Speaker 2: she could sing, she just has a cool presence. 1239 00:57:27,600 --> 00:57:29,720 Speaker 3: Her body's insane, her makeup looked great. 1240 00:57:29,760 --> 00:57:34,560 Speaker 1: They were just like, yeah, she's cool. Yeah, but she 1241 00:57:34,680 --> 00:57:36,560 Speaker 1: was one of my favorite interviews at the Billboard Awards. 1242 00:57:36,760 --> 00:57:37,880 Speaker 2: You sure to interview her. 1243 00:57:38,160 --> 00:57:39,360 Speaker 1: I got to give her her award. 1244 00:57:39,800 --> 00:57:43,520 Speaker 3: Well, I know, Tanya, you're so cool. 1245 00:57:43,840 --> 00:57:49,919 Speaker 2: Harry styles and dojakat stop. All right, Well that about 1246 00:57:49,920 --> 00:57:51,960 Speaker 2: wraps it up. Sorry, if you're not a Sex and 1247 00:57:52,000 --> 00:57:54,880 Speaker 2: the City or Gray's Anatomy fan or TV fan in general, 1248 00:57:54,960 --> 00:57:56,640 Speaker 2: today's episode is not for you. 1249 00:57:58,280 --> 00:58:00,360 Speaker 4: And just like that, we lost some just like that, 1250 00:58:00,720 --> 00:58:01,520 Speaker 4: and just like. 1251 00:58:01,520 --> 00:58:05,480 Speaker 2: That, and just like that, our listeners dropped. 1252 00:58:06,000 --> 00:58:08,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, but now that I know that people listen to 1253 00:58:08,160 --> 00:58:11,040 Speaker 1: the end, I do have some homework, so uh, you know, 1254 00:58:11,040 --> 00:58:13,760 Speaker 1: I love homework. And we're rounding out the year. We're 1255 00:58:13,840 --> 00:58:15,920 Speaker 1: rounding out twenty twenty one, and I would just like 1256 00:58:16,200 --> 00:58:20,160 Speaker 1: to know from our Scrub sisters their peaks and their 1257 00:58:20,200 --> 00:58:25,200 Speaker 1: pits of this season of the podcast. So things that 1258 00:58:25,240 --> 00:58:27,640 Speaker 1: they really love, things that they hated. I want to 1259 00:58:27,640 --> 00:58:29,240 Speaker 1: hear it. So DM me those. 1260 00:58:30,120 --> 00:58:33,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, DM me just to say, hey, if you think 1261 00:58:33,120 --> 00:58:35,320 Speaker 2: about it, so that I feel included. 1262 00:58:35,840 --> 00:58:37,520 Speaker 1: You can do you want? Do you want them to 1263 00:58:37,560 --> 00:58:40,120 Speaker 1: see them too? I can say, DM both of us. 1264 00:58:40,400 --> 00:58:43,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, they do a lot of people DM me. Last 1265 00:58:43,040 --> 00:58:44,560 Speaker 3: time it was nice. I felt included. 1266 00:58:44,720 --> 00:58:46,760 Speaker 1: Okay, otherwise my prank. 1267 00:58:46,840 --> 00:58:49,080 Speaker 3: So I would hope that I would feel included. 1268 00:58:48,680 --> 00:58:51,360 Speaker 1: By your peaks and your pits, because I will compile 1269 00:58:51,400 --> 00:58:52,320 Speaker 1: a list. 1270 00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:56,280 Speaker 2: All right. Cool, On that note, have a great week everybody. 1271 00:58:56,520 --> 00:58:57,560 Speaker 1: I love you.