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Speaker 1: Reality with the King is hosted by me, Carlos King.

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Speaker 2: I'm an executive producer who have produced some of your

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Speaker 2: favorite shows from the Real Housewives in Atlanta, New Jersey

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Speaker 2: and my own creation, The Love and Marriage Franchise and

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Speaker 2: Bell Collective. Every episode, we recap reality television from the

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Speaker 2: Real Housewives Franchise to The Bachelor or Selling Sunset, in

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Speaker 2: addition to celebrity guests, whether in the unscripted space or

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Speaker 2: scripted as well. Hey, rain Drops on today's episode of

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Speaker 2: Reality with the King, I'm so thrilled because I am

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Speaker 2: speaking to the woman who I and you rain Drops

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Speaker 2: have been saying needs to go visit doctor Terry debrou

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Speaker 2: because she may need back surgery for carrying this season.

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Speaker 1: Give it up, o men, the Princess.

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Speaker 3: What a compliment. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: You're a pretty woman.

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Speaker 3: You're so sweet, and you're pink.

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Speaker 1: You're so sad a match.

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Speaker 3: We're pretty cute together. Honestly, did we manifest this? Probably? Probably?

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Speaker 3: I manifested a lot of good things today other than

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Speaker 3: the traffic girl, I could not get here today.

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Speaker 2: No, but listen, I'm because look I told you guys,

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Speaker 2: I wasn't lying. I have Amanda's book rich as fuck,

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Speaker 2: and look, I need you to sign an autograph this.

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Speaker 1: Of course before you leave. Yes, absolutely, I bought this

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Speaker 1: at twenty twenty three.

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Speaker 3: That the I think the reason I'm here. I think

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Speaker 3: the reason I said like no, because you get a

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Speaker 3: lot of people wanting you to talk about a lot

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Speaker 3: of you know, how to is go on the show

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Speaker 3: and everyone wants to talk to you. The reason I said no,

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Speaker 3: I want to do that. One I want to talk

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Speaker 3: to him is because you did a real that said

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Speaker 3: I read her book before she was a housewife and guys,

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Speaker 3: it's good, it's good. And I was like, that's the

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Speaker 3: podcast I want to go on.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, but I want to start there because the

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Speaker 2: thing with me is this my audience knows that I'm

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Speaker 2: very spiritual.

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Speaker 1: I'm big on manifestation.

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Speaker 2: I read tons of books about self improvement, self help.

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Speaker 2: One of my favorite books is now I'll have a

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Speaker 2: brain part about my favorite book? Why can I think

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Speaker 2: of It's probably not no, it's well, it's not the

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Speaker 2: Law of attraction, but like the Alchemist is one of

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Speaker 2: my favorite book.

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Speaker 3: This is an amazing book, an amazing concept. Everything he

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Speaker 3: wrote is good. Paul Okahuila or how his books are.

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Speaker 2: Yes, but this is also really good because I am

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Speaker 2: a money magnet and and and.

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Speaker 3: I believe that no, no, no, no, no, Yes, I.

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Speaker 1: Have a money magnet. Okay, well maybe that's why you.

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Speaker 3: Get me, because you understand that when I say manifest

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Speaker 3: manifesting money, plying energetic and spiritual principles the money in business,

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Speaker 3: you don't hear me saying sit around and meditate and

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Speaker 3: do nothing. You've done the work. You get that this

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Speaker 3: is work. It's looking at this shit, looking at your

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Speaker 3: limiting beliefs and livecen stories around money is so much work.

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Speaker 3: It's so much work.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and so talk to my audience because I do

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Speaker 2: feel like they don't along with your cast, don't understand.

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Speaker 3: Daily sending light in life.

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Speaker 2: Explain to my audience some of the tips. I do

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Speaker 2: want them to buy the book, which is fucked, but

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Speaker 2: talk them through some of the tips that you talk

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Speaker 2: about in terms of the relationship with money, how to

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Speaker 2: attract it, not having limiting beliefs, like all of the

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Speaker 2: things that I believe.

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Speaker 3: In so much. I mean, where do we want to start?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 3: We could start so many places. So here's what the

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Speaker 3: journey was like for me. I start a life coaching business.

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Speaker 3: I'm nearly done with my master's degree. The first time

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Speaker 3: And I was like, wait, this is all I've ever wanted,

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Speaker 3: So I'm realizing there's like an identity piece, there is

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Speaker 3: But like everything you say constantly when you're on this

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Speaker 3: makes you crazy.

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Speaker 1: Well, I want to talk back to my story.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna make it. I know it's long, right now,

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Speaker 3: It's okay. I quit my PhD program. My stipend stops

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Speaker 3: And I'm like, what is that? Do I have some

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Speaker 3: So I'm just a girl running a life coaching business,

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Speaker 3: I'm like, I think I have to start talking about this.

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Speaker 3: want to make money, It'll mean they're ostracized by their family.

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Speaker 3: They're a peer group, their community, they came from their church.

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Speaker 3: They're like even in therapy world, where people had private

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Speaker 3: pretend like we didn't want money. Like a lot of

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Speaker 3: looking at all of this all the time, and then

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Speaker 3: eventually I create a course called Money and Toddy Makeover.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, let me just start breaking this down. So

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Speaker 3: there's like a manifestation piece, but there's a big psychology piece,

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Speaker 3: and there's a big what you believe about yourself in

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Speaker 3: your life please, And it's all of this together. And

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Speaker 3: that course has grown and grown and grown and grown.

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Speaker 3: It's now like has thirty hours of content or something.

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Speaker 3: I've added to it every year for like fourteen years.

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Speaker 3: And I put a lot of that same information in

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Speaker 3: you think that summed it up?

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Speaker 1: I receive it.

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Speaker 2: And the reason why I receive it, Amanda, is because

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Speaker 2: I know that there is a such thing as Limington believes.

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Speaker 2: You have to you have to believe you deserve it,

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Speaker 2: and you have to be okay with wanting it.

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Speaker 3: You have to be okay desiring it. You have to

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Speaker 3: believe you're worthy of it. You have to be Your

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Speaker 3: universe isn't saying you aren't worthy of this much. That destiny,

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Speaker 3: your financial destiny, wasn't written in the chalkboard in the sky.

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Speaker 3: But it's fully up to you decide what kind of

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Speaker 1: Well, we were seeing that this season.

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Speaker 2: I mean, we just discover that Dereite owes a lot

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Speaker 1: Do you think when Deree was googling three hundred.

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Speaker 2: And fifty seven pages to find out you were in

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Speaker 3: I think it may have gone better for her because

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Speaker 3: here's the thing, and I think this is why I'm

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Speaker 3: getting a lot of help. People assume that manifesting means

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Speaker 3: I'm getting people to question the constructs they build their

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Speaker 3: and hard work. So what does Deit believe about money?

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Speaker 3: I don't fucking know. But say she believes it's hard

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Speaker 3: Say she believes there's just enough. Maybe you make just enough,

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Speaker 3: but then it's gone really really quickly. Can I tell

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Speaker 2: Well, this is reality with the King and I'm Carlos King.

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Speaker 2: I think the unfortunate thing is you came on this

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Speaker 3: But no one's gonna try to dig up shit on Rachel.

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Speaker 3: She's Rachel.

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Speaker 1: I said that on my podcast States Spade.

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Speaker 3: She is Rachel Zoe.

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Speaker 3: Now, no one's trying to figure out the bad in her.

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Speaker 3: She is iconic. We all know who she is. That

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Speaker 2: Honestly, are you disappointed in how some of the audience

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Speaker 3: The braggadocious doesn't bother me really that much because I

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Speaker 3: fucking new money. I also inspire and empower and encourage

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Speaker 3: women to make their own money, so like anyone who

435
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Speaker 3: follows my work and follows the advice is likely going

436
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Speaker 3: to be new money. I mean, I've had some people

437
00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:39,720
Speaker 3: that come from money and my work for sure, but

438
00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:41,920
Speaker 3: a lot of us become new money. So I think

439
00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:46,000
Speaker 3: that's a good fucking thing. Delusional. I think some amount

440
00:20:46,040 --> 00:20:48,200
Speaker 3: of delusion is absolutely required to create a life that

441
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Speaker 3: doesn't make sense for you. So I think we need

442
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Speaker 3: to lean into delusion a little.

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Speaker 1: Bit, agreed, like, not fully, but you got to have

444
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Speaker 1: a little bit of delusion to you got to have this.

445
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Speaker 3: You gotta have exactly. You have to have some imagination

446
00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:01,920
Speaker 3: to be able to look at a life that isn't

447
00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:04,920
Speaker 3: there yet and believe it's possible for you. That is delusion. Yeah,

448
00:21:04,960 --> 00:21:06,159
Speaker 3: you can have your feet on the ground and be

449
00:21:06,200 --> 00:21:08,800
Speaker 3: grounded and be intentionally delusional, which I think I've been

450
00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:12,920
Speaker 3: pretty good at. I mean, they heard me talk about

451
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Speaker 3: the Malibu Barbie scene, which they made sound so silly,

452
00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:19,560
Speaker 3: but like it's true. I've been working on this life

453
00:21:19,600 --> 00:21:22,879
Speaker 3: I live now, my entire life. But I didn't just

454
00:21:22,920 --> 00:21:24,639
Speaker 3: dream of it as a little girl. I never stopped

455
00:21:24,720 --> 00:21:27,359
Speaker 3: dreaming of it and working toward it every day for

456
00:21:28,119 --> 00:21:30,960
Speaker 3: so many years now. And then, what else did you

457
00:21:31,040 --> 00:21:35,280
Speaker 3: say aloof I don't know. I think it's pretty clear

458
00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:38,400
Speaker 3: I'm neurodivergent, Like I don't have a super normal brain.

459
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Speaker 3: So that means some of the time I don't perceive

460
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Speaker 3: a social situation correctly, and a lot of the time

461
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Speaker 3: I don't care if I'm perceiving a social situation. Character

462
00:21:46,920 --> 00:21:49,520
Speaker 3: social hierarchy is not in my value system. I don't

463
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Speaker 3: get it. I don't understand. It doesn't make sense to me,

464
00:21:51,520 --> 00:21:54,200
Speaker 3: like networking doesn't make sense to me, like my brain

465
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Speaker 3: and the way my brain works doesn't do any of that.

466
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Speaker 1: I thought I was the only one who don't like networking,

467
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Speaker 1: and I don't.

468
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Speaker 3: I think all neurodivergent people we can't handle it because

469
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Speaker 3: it feels fake to us.

470
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Speaker 1: It freaks us out a man that you're my people.

471
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Speaker 1: I tell people networking is the biggest scam in the world.

472
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Speaker 3: Can you I'm gonna go here and pretend to have something,

473
00:22:12,920 --> 00:22:14,840
Speaker 3: like to get something from you, to.

474
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Speaker 2: Get something in exchange for that I'd rather get on

475
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Speaker 2: my own, which leads me to do you think the

476
00:22:19,440 --> 00:22:21,960
Speaker 2: reason why some of these girls may not understand you

477
00:22:22,240 --> 00:22:24,440
Speaker 2: is because and this is not shade because you talked

478
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Speaker 2: about in your interview. Is it because you did not

479
00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:31,160
Speaker 2: have to depend on a man to make your money

480
00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:34,040
Speaker 2: and your your income isn't?

481
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Speaker 1: Isn't because you may already into it.

482
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Speaker 3: I mean, but like Rachel, well Rachel didn't Mary into it,

483
00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:42,520
Speaker 3: but she comes from money bose. I'm not super clear

484
00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:46,840
Speaker 3: on her at her her spouse who passed had money,

485
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Speaker 3: and I know that there was there was something hard

486
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Speaker 3: because she mentioned it to me once or we were

487
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Speaker 3: in a car with a group of us. She said

488
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Speaker 3: he died and she didn't know what to do financially

489
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Speaker 3: when he died. But we know she at some point

490
00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:04,400
Speaker 3: obviously did her thing and made a lot of money.

491
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Speaker 3: But we know there was some point on the journey

492
00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:07,640
Speaker 3: where she was dependent on a manner. At least that's

493
00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:09,440
Speaker 3: how it sounded to me. Do you know are you

494
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Speaker 3: clear on that?

495
00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:12,800
Speaker 2: Well? Based based on some of that and then obviously

496
00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:17,040
Speaker 2: the worst she's done with Nephilix and Apple not Apple Uber,

497
00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:22,760
Speaker 2: were you surprised when Bows made comments? She even made

498
00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:25,760
Speaker 2: some most watch What Happens Live, you know, making seem

499
00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:29,840
Speaker 2: like your career as a scam.

500
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Speaker 3: I want everyone to watch the reunion for what she

501
00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:36,000
Speaker 3: says about that. I just want everyone to watch the reunion.

502
00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:40,359
Speaker 3: Just watch the reunion. So I was surprised when I

503
00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:44,760
Speaker 3: saw it. You're gonna need to watch. I can't spoil

504
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Speaker 3: what she ends up saying about that.

505
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Speaker 1: What do you think of bowse.

506
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Speaker 3: It's at that's This is a hard one because I

507
00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:58,440
Speaker 3: liked her so much in so many moments when we're

508
00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:01,080
Speaker 3: quoting there, we talk about this reunion, so people are

509
00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:02,480
Speaker 3: going to see me talk to us talk about it.

510
00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:05,200
Speaker 3: I think probably the day we met, we quoted Bible

511
00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:07,600
Speaker 3: verses back and forth to each other about abundance. I

512
00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:10,040
Speaker 3: was quoting like, with faith as small as a muster seed,

513
00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:12,480
Speaker 3: and Mark eleven, verse twenty three and twenty four say

514
00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:13,800
Speaker 3: of the mountain be cast into the sea and it

515
00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:15,240
Speaker 3: she'll be done if you believe in your heart and

516
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Speaker 3: do not doubt. Like we were talking about manifestation from

517
00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:20,119
Speaker 3: a very biblical place before Darite got there, and I

518
00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:21,920
Speaker 3: was like, me and this girl are going to be fine.

519
00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:24,160
Speaker 3: We both say praise the Lord to shit all the time,

520
00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:29,120
Speaker 3: Like you know. I think in some ways she does

521
00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:31,600
Speaker 3: understand me a lot. I think she's very into mindset.

522
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:34,480
Speaker 3: I think she knows mindset is a really, really big deal.

523
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Speaker 3: I think she decided to get stuck on the manifestation part,

524
00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:41,760
Speaker 3: the word manifestation instead of the fact that both of

525
00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:46,639
Speaker 3: us believes very similar things about connecting to God or

526
00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:48,760
Speaker 3: whatever we want to call it to create a wonderful life.

527
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Speaker 3: I think we don't have that different views.

528
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Speaker 2: Mask comment that bows makes into Night's episode. We were

529
00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:58,280
Speaker 2: all sort of like taking him back by it because

530
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Speaker 2: she's pretty much inferring that you're fake.

531
00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:04,320
Speaker 1: Mm hmm, that there's two size to you.

532
00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:10,560
Speaker 3: And it's just not true. Like I don't hide anything.

533
00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:13,480
Speaker 3: I don't hide anything. They bring up the colt. I say,

534
00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:15,840
Speaker 3: let's talk about it, like anything they ever brought up.

535
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:19,320
Speaker 3: I'm like, what do you want to know? It's like,

536
00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:22,760
Speaker 3: if here's how it feels to me, if I'm not

537
00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:26,720
Speaker 3: flying off the handle about something, if there isn't dirt

538
00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:30,560
Speaker 3: to dig up, if everything is really good in my life,

539
00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:33,000
Speaker 3: then it must be fake. Eddie and I were talking

540
00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:35,359
Speaker 3: about this this weekend. We're having a little delightful weekend

541
00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:37,600
Speaker 3: at Newport Beach in our house where kids are running around,

542
00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:39,280
Speaker 3: we're happy, the sin is shining. We get in a

543
00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:41,280
Speaker 3: little tip about something I remember what our little tif was.

544
00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:43,520
Speaker 3: We cleared up pretty quickly and I was like, this

545
00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:46,439
Speaker 3: is what I wish people could see. It's like, it's

546
00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:49,560
Speaker 3: not that it's a perfect life. It's just very intentionally

547
00:25:49,720 --> 00:25:52,919
Speaker 3: created from where I want my kids to be spending

548
00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:55,560
Speaker 3: their weekends to where I want us to be going

549
00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:56,840
Speaker 3: or what I want us to be eating like and

550
00:25:57,040 --> 00:25:58,480
Speaker 3: how I just want us to be living like the

551
00:25:58,560 --> 00:26:00,520
Speaker 3: lifestyle of the quality of life to me and Eddie

552
00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:02,320
Speaker 3: having a little tiff and knowing how to resolve it

553
00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:05,240
Speaker 3: and then having Sunday afternoon sex, like people could never

554
00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:08,400
Speaker 3: just know. Why is it skeptical that life is good

555
00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:12,440
Speaker 3: when someone's known for manifestation? And manifestation is such like

556
00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:17,040
Speaker 3: a buzzword. So like, let's break it down. I'm really

557
00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:19,760
Speaker 3: good at being what I call in the book the

558
00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:23,000
Speaker 3: gentle observer, the person who observes their thoughts all day

559
00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:26,680
Speaker 3: long and notices what they're thinking. And I'm very aware

560
00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:29,800
Speaker 3: of how my thoughts affect my emotions and how my

561
00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:32,400
Speaker 3: emotions affect my vibration, and how all of that affects

562
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:34,760
Speaker 3: my fucking life. So I don't let myself think crazy

563
00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:38,200
Speaker 3: shit all day, right, So, like I'm very good, And

564
00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:43,040
Speaker 3: that's neuroplasticity, intentionally thinking certain thoughts to create new neuropathways,

565
00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:47,200
Speaker 3: to have new expectations. Like we're talking about neuroscience. Like

566
00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:49,960
Speaker 3: if in my book, if we like, I made it you,

567
00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:52,240
Speaker 3: I made it reader friendly. But if I wanted to

568
00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:55,000
Speaker 3: make it like super Mensa, like I could have had

569
00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:57,959
Speaker 3: some parts of neuroscience, some parts we could put quantum

570
00:26:58,000 --> 00:27:00,480
Speaker 3: physics over the top, Like, I mean, a lot of

571
00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:03,240
Speaker 3: this is fucking rooted in science. Wait where was I

572
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:05,040
Speaker 3: going with this? Oh? So like I've.

573
00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:07,560
Speaker 1: Intentionally mask I being fake.

574
00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:12,880
Speaker 3: I've intentionally created lie. I intentionally created a good life

575
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:16,400
Speaker 3: and it was not necessarily easy. But yeah, it is good.

576
00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:19,840
Speaker 3: It looks good because it is good, And that's what

577
00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:23,240
Speaker 3: they were questioning. I saw Sutton on Entertainment Tonight the

578
00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:25,760
Speaker 3: other day saying something like she should just tell us

579
00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:27,399
Speaker 3: what's really going on in her family, because we all

580
00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:30,080
Speaker 3: have stuff in our families too, And I'm like, there's

581
00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:34,200
Speaker 3: nothing going on in my family. One, I'm never ever, ever, ever,

582
00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:35,879
Speaker 3: ever in a million year is going to talk about

583
00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:37,000
Speaker 3: my step kid's mom.

584
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:37,680
Speaker 1: Ever.

585
00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:40,520
Speaker 3: Two, we get along great. She was at my house last.

586
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:42,879
Speaker 2: Night, Like there's just like, you know, but do you

587
00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:46,159
Speaker 2: find a rich No pun intended that I made that

588
00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:50,200
Speaker 2: comment knowing that, you know, she doesn't really talk much

589
00:27:50,240 --> 00:27:54,280
Speaker 2: about We just learned this season that her ex husband

590
00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:57,200
Speaker 2: left her for her friend.

591
00:27:57,840 --> 00:27:59,879
Speaker 3: Well, and she shares that with us, and you know,

592
00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:02,840
Speaker 3: I think every woman on the planet's like, oh, that

593
00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:04,960
Speaker 3: would hurt instinct. And she's handling with a lot of grace.

594
00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:06,879
Speaker 3: And I think we've all told her she's handling with

595
00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 3: a lot of grace, and she shared that. But it's like, okay,

596
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:16,120
Speaker 3: no one is sharing everything. Everyone is deciding what parts

597
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:18,760
Speaker 3: of their lives they're willing and comfortable to bring to

598
00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:22,159
Speaker 3: the show based on kind of agreements they have with

599
00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:24,680
Speaker 3: themselves and their friends and their family. Like Kyle has said,

600
00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:26,399
Speaker 3: I was dating someone they did not want to be

601
00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:28,480
Speaker 3: on this show. I will never talk about this. Like,

602
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:32,480
Speaker 3: so everyone's kind of doing this like juggle. Eric is like,

603
00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:35,239
Speaker 3: I'm gonna bring the domestic violence thing forward. I mean,

604
00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:36,959
Speaker 3: that's beautiful of her. I was's like, I'm gonna bring

605
00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:39,600
Speaker 3: the fertilities so forward. Everyone's showing parts of their life.

606
00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:44,520
Speaker 3: Knock on fucking what. I don't have anything bad happening.

607
00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:46,600
Speaker 3: I don't have anything bad happening.

608
00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:53,920
Speaker 2: You know, when you decided to join the show, you

609
00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:56,640
Speaker 2: clearly have a lot of money because you bought Kyle

610
00:28:56,800 --> 00:29:00,440
Speaker 2: Richard's home. Yes, and not only did you buy It's love,

611
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:05,040
Speaker 2: you also renovated it, okay, which which of course is

612
00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:06,400
Speaker 2: additional money to.

613
00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:09,320
Speaker 3: Do that cash money, Like I don't have a construction

614
00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:12,240
Speaker 3: owner or anything, Like I'm using my money to renovate

615
00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 3: from my income every month.

616
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:21,479
Speaker 1: Yes, what is your relationship like now with Kyle?

617
00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:26,280
Speaker 2: Because she did make a comment recently about feeling like

618
00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:28,600
Speaker 2: it was opportunistic of you to.

619
00:29:30,480 --> 00:29:32,040
Speaker 1: Have the book come out?

620
00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:35,280
Speaker 3: What book? This book?

621
00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:38,760
Speaker 2: A new book, your new book, and she was on

622
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:42,760
Speaker 2: Amazon Live and she felt that it was a little

623
00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:44,280
Speaker 2: bit opportunistic of you to.

624
00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:50,520
Speaker 1: Have this book be so ready available after.

625
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:55,200
Speaker 3: You after bringing it up. I think I said, didn't

626
00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:58,760
Speaker 3: I say in an interview, I will capitalize. Didn't I

627
00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:01,440
Speaker 3: say that, Yeah, You're gonna put me through this shit

628
00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:02,840
Speaker 3: all summer and I'm not gonna make money. On the

629
00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:05,960
Speaker 3: other side, Uh, yeah, gonna capitalize. What do they icking

630
00:30:06,040 --> 00:30:09,560
Speaker 3: want me to do? Not make money on this bullshit? Yeah,

631
00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:12,920
Speaker 3: I'm gonna monetize. That's crazy, Okay, But let me give

632
00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:14,840
Speaker 3: you a little more context. When I will own that

633
00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:17,720
Speaker 3: all day long, I saw an opportunity to make some

634
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:21,760
Speaker 3: many Yeah, I'm going for it. Who wouldn't. We're not

635
00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:24,400
Speaker 3: gonna pretend, But I'll give you some context because it's worthwhile.

636
00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:27,680
Speaker 3: I outlined the book. It's so, this is my money.

637
00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:29,640
Speaker 3: But I have four books I'm gonna write in my lifetime.

638
00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:31,200
Speaker 3: I've known this for years and year, so this is

639
00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:33,680
Speaker 3: the money book. Now we're writing the God Book. I

640
00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:36,320
Speaker 3: outlined the God Book when I was pregnant with Canaan

641
00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:38,280
Speaker 3: and Zion, like pulled over on the side of the

642
00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:40,320
Speaker 3: road and wrote the outline in the notes of my phone,

643
00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:46,200
Speaker 3: like like you know what a download. The download was there.

644
00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:48,240
Speaker 3: I knew what the book needed to be outlined it.

645
00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:50,040
Speaker 3: And I don't have time to write a book right

646
00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:51,560
Speaker 3: now because I have four kids and two of them

647
00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:53,520
Speaker 3: are early little and like, I have a business, and

648
00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:55,320
Speaker 3: I was gonna put off this book for probably like

649
00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:56,960
Speaker 3: three more years. I just didn't think I had the

650
00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:58,680
Speaker 3: time in this space to write a book. But then

651
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Speaker 3: to read starts bringing up theok and she's bringing up

652
00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:03,440
Speaker 3: the cult, and she's bringing up the cult. She's bringing

653
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:05,960
Speaker 3: up the cult. So I go and look at the outline.

654
00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:07,920
Speaker 3: After the Santa Monica dinner, I look at the outline.

655
00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:10,920
Speaker 3: I'm like, I could start writing this now. I was like,

656
00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:14,160
Speaker 3: I'll probably have time in Italy because it's busy. When

657
00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:17,400
Speaker 3: we're on cast Trust, there is like chunks of downtime.

658
00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:19,120
Speaker 3: I was like, I think I probably start this while

659
00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:21,560
Speaker 3: we're in Italy. I was like, I should thank Derriy

660
00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 3: for bringing it up and inspiring me to start it

661
00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:29,280
Speaker 3: in Italy. So I so, uh wait, they see that

662
00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:32,600
Speaker 3: I'm getting the episodes confused now they see that you

663
00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:35,240
Speaker 3: haven't seen that yet. Me think, durat No, okay, so

664
00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:37,280
Speaker 3: that's what you do see tonight. Okay, So you see

665
00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:40,600
Speaker 3: me at dinner in Italy the first Italy episode. I

666
00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:45,360
Speaker 3: thank Drie and then I get on. I get on

667
00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 3: my insist stories and I'm like, hey, guys, you've been

668
00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:50,239
Speaker 3: asking for the God Book forever. Here it is. I'm

669
00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:52,360
Speaker 3: writing it. Here's the intro. I show them the intro

670
00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:56,360
Speaker 3: and I just started it. It was always going to

671
00:31:56,400 --> 00:31:58,440
Speaker 3: be written, but I am starting it now because we

672
00:31:58,480 --> 00:32:01,360
Speaker 3: talked about it on a reality show. Yeah, ye is

673
00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:02,040
Speaker 3: that crazy?

674
00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:04,000
Speaker 1: No, it's what they all do, all the girls.

675
00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:07,000
Speaker 3: It's not opportunistic because I didn't plan it, had to

676
00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:08,600
Speaker 3: read and not brought it up. I wouldn't be writing

677
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:10,680
Speaker 3: it right now. Thank you to read.

678
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:13,840
Speaker 1: I think it's mar I think it's mar one thing

679
00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:14,120
Speaker 1: that I.

680
00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:16,560
Speaker 3: Do want to I'm right working on chapter seven right

681
00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:18,200
Speaker 3: now and it's coming along and I'm proud of it.

682
00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 3: It's a good book. It's a better book than this book?

683
00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:21,400
Speaker 1: Can I get advanced copy?

684
00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:22,400
Speaker 3: Absolutely? Thank you.

685
00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:27,120
Speaker 2: You made a comment that a lot of housewives dinan

686
00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:29,280
Speaker 2: I like of other franchises.

687
00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:33,400
Speaker 1: You made a comment that you're one of the first.

688
00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:36,840
Speaker 3: I said, one of right, you said you did just

689
00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:40,040
Speaker 3: say the first. I said one of right. Okay, yeah,

690
00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:43,400
Speaker 3: I said one of I think, I said. Because my team,

691
00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:45,480
Speaker 3: I had my team go look it up. Okay, So

692
00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:47,280
Speaker 3: here's let me tell you what happened on my end.

693
00:32:47,360 --> 00:32:49,960
Speaker 3: I walk out of Good Morning New York and TMZ

694
00:32:50,120 --> 00:32:53,960
Speaker 3: is standing there and they say, Amanda, what do you

695
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:56,560
Speaker 3: say about being what do you say about all this

696
00:32:56,640 --> 00:32:59,120
Speaker 3: commotion about being one of the first bread winning housewives?

697
00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:01,360
Speaker 3: And I was like, well, if that's true, it's an honor.

698
00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:03,040
Speaker 3: Thank you so much. And then I get in the van.

699
00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:04,920
Speaker 3: I say to my team, I think I'm missing something.

700
00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:07,760
Speaker 3: I don't think TMZ. I think tmsz's talking. I don't

701
00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:09,720
Speaker 3: know what TAMZ is talking about. So they start looking

702
00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:12,040
Speaker 3: it up and they find it in the Entertainment Tonight clip.

703
00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:14,840
Speaker 3: Bryce says, you know, you're a different kind of housewife

704
00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:16,840
Speaker 3: and I don't know what I said first, and they say, yeah,

705
00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:18,320
Speaker 3: I think I'm maybe one of the first Bread Winning

706
00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:20,240
Speaker 3: a Housewives l Da Da Da Da Da. I was

707
00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:22,920
Speaker 3: just saying, I'm not a typical housewife. What does lord

708
00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:25,680
Speaker 3: housewife mean? What does lord housewife mean?

709
00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:30,520
Speaker 2: Well, the Webster Dictionary definition of a housewife is a

710
00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:32,600
Speaker 2: stay at home mom who.

711
00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:34,840
Speaker 3: Works inside the home, doesn't make money out the home.

712
00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:40,960
Speaker 3: Guard h yeah, so okay, So I like, honestly, I'm

713
00:33:40,960 --> 00:33:43,200
Speaker 3: gonna be really honest. I said this to Kyle off camera,

714
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 3: be really honest. I didn't know that the women on

715
00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:50,160
Speaker 3: the show made money. I didn't know outside of Bethany Frankel,

716
00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:51,640
Speaker 3: I didn't know the women on the money on the

717
00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:54,960
Speaker 3: show made money. When I toured Kyle's house the first

718
00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:57,000
Speaker 3: time in Alexia was one of the agents touring the

719
00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:59,920
Speaker 3: house her daughter. I pointed out a room that's now

720
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:02,080
Speaker 3: to Lilah's room, and I said, what did you guys use.

721
00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:02,440
Speaker 2: That room for?

722
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:04,000
Speaker 3: Was that like your homework room? And she was like, no,

723
00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:05,920
Speaker 3: it's my mom's office. I was like, I thought your

724
00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:09,640
Speaker 3: mom was a housewife, which is crazy, because of course

725
00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:11,400
Speaker 3: Kyle works very hard. No one on the planet is

726
00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:13,840
Speaker 3: doubting that. But when all I didn't know anything about

727
00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:16,719
Speaker 3: Kyle Richard's at all, nothing other than she was on

728
00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:18,440
Speaker 3: a show called Real Housewives. So I thought that meant

729
00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:21,200
Speaker 3: she didn't work or make money. Like I apologize Kyle

730
00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:24,960
Speaker 3: and humanity. I didn't know. So I have this perception

731
00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:26,880
Speaker 3: that the women on the show, that the whole premise

732
00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 3: is that they don't work or make money. And then

733
00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:31,239
Speaker 3: I'm asked to be on the show and i watch

734
00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:34,600
Speaker 3: an episode. I watch an episode from season ten, very random,

735
00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:36,279
Speaker 3: and Kyle's doing a fashion show. I'm like, okay, so

736
00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:39,000
Speaker 3: they have various endeavors. This isn't a show about women

737
00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:41,160
Speaker 3: who don't make money. But I don't like, I'm just

738
00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:43,760
Speaker 3: catching up to the fact that I have no Bravo

739
00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:44,880
Speaker 3: legacy in my brain.

740
00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:49,000
Speaker 1: So you don't know about like the other franchises, the

741
00:34:49,040 --> 00:34:49,479
Speaker 1: other women.

742
00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:51,600
Speaker 3: I've never seen a single episode of any franchise.

743
00:34:52,120 --> 00:34:53,719
Speaker 1: You've never seen them Real Housewives.

744
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:56,520
Speaker 3: Well, now I've seen episode one of season ten.

745
00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:57,880
Speaker 1: No prior to joining.

746
00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:01,880
Speaker 3: Right before I joined, I watch episode season ten and

747
00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:03,839
Speaker 3: that was it. That was it. And then now I've

748
00:35:03,920 --> 00:35:06,200
Speaker 3: seen some of the episodes I'm in. I stopped watching

749
00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:06,840
Speaker 3: in Sedona.

750
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:13,760
Speaker 2: How do you feel about joining this zeitgeist of scripted

751
00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:18,440
Speaker 2: television because the Bravo audience, sister, They're like no other

752
00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:19,120
Speaker 2: fan base.

753
00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:19,399
Speaker 1: In the world.

754
00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:21,120
Speaker 3: It's really an interesting thing.

755
00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:22,360
Speaker 1: Do you regret doing it?

756
00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:25,360
Speaker 3: No, I don't regret doing it, and I don't have

757
00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:29,480
Speaker 3: regrets here for multiple reasons. One, I like the rest

758
00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:32,200
Speaker 3: of the season for me. Everyone keep watching. I think

759
00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:34,560
Speaker 3: they see more of me. Now do we get to

760
00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:36,320
Speaker 3: the depths of my soul and the aner workings of

761
00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:38,800
Speaker 3: my being? And does everyone get to know my heart fully? No,

762
00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:40,839
Speaker 3: because it's really hard in an environment like that where

763
00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:43,080
Speaker 3: everyone's questioning you. But I do have a stronger rest

764
00:35:43,120 --> 00:35:49,480
Speaker 3: of the season. So watch two. We've had some iconic moments.

765
00:35:50,080 --> 00:35:53,680
Speaker 3: I walk up to, like the barista at any coffee

766
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:57,319
Speaker 3: shop and they're like half home enough out yeah, like right,

767
00:35:58,040 --> 00:36:00,799
Speaker 3: So some of that zeitgeistness is really cute and really fun,

768
00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:04,360
Speaker 3: Like I enjoy that stuff, like it's part of the culture,

769
00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:07,640
Speaker 3: the webbings of our culture. It's it's interesting to be

770
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 3: a part of that. And then my third reason was

771
00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:13,960
Speaker 3: we Amanda Francis, Inc. Has attracted a lot, a lot

772
00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:18,520
Speaker 3: of people, a lot now tens of thousands of new

773
00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:21,759
Speaker 3: people reading my book, which is amazing. But also I

774
00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:24,720
Speaker 3: very intentionally created a lot of like offers at various

775
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:26,799
Speaker 3: prices over the past few months. Like we've always had

776
00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:29,040
Speaker 3: some low cost offers, some things that are twenty dollars

777
00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:31,000
Speaker 3: and thirty dollars, but in the past few months, I've

778
00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:32,320
Speaker 3: done a lot of like pay what you feel to

779
00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:35,160
Speaker 3: pay five dollars, eleven dollars, And there's a lot of

780
00:36:35,200 --> 00:36:37,680
Speaker 3: people like kind of opening up to spirituality for the

781
00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:41,480
Speaker 3: first time. And that's like my actual job. It's my

782
00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:43,799
Speaker 3: actual job. So it's okay if like the haters don't

783
00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:46,319
Speaker 3: want to come by a five dollar thing, but we're

784
00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:49,200
Speaker 3: getting my team is getting emails constantly like you're opening

785
00:36:49,239 --> 00:36:50,920
Speaker 3: me up to a whole new world. You're helping me

786
00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:53,759
Speaker 3: reconcile my relationship with God, recon some my relationship with money.

787
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:57,640
Speaker 3: Like to me, that's really meaningful, important work. So yeah,

788
00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:02,200
Speaker 3: And I think as people watch their they're not called reruns,

789
00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:04,000
Speaker 3: I don't know what they're called anymore in twenties races.

790
00:37:04,440 --> 00:37:07,080
Speaker 3: As the show lives on, they'll probably always be people

791
00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:09,080
Speaker 3: who watch it and hate me, but there'll be other

792
00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:10,880
Speaker 3: people that watch it and get curious enough to come

793
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:13,120
Speaker 3: check things out. And that's a good thing.

794
00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:14,760
Speaker 1: Would you come back from another season.

795
00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:20,640
Speaker 3: Decisions have not I have not made a decision. I

796
00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:21,160
Speaker 3: have not made it.

797
00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:22,040
Speaker 1: I would like you too.

798
00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:25,640
Speaker 3: Okay, let's talk through this. What do you think I'm

799
00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:26,800
Speaker 3: gonna get out of this? Like?

800
00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:28,200
Speaker 2: What do you like?

801
00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:29,279
Speaker 3: How's this gonna go?

802
00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:31,719
Speaker 2: Well? I think that the thing, the thing that you're

803
00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:34,080
Speaker 2: bringing to the show this season is a new perspective,

804
00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:37,439
Speaker 2: right absolutely, And you are somebody we haven't seen on TV,

805
00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:39,560
Speaker 2: especially on the Housewise before. You are a woman who

806
00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:42,200
Speaker 2: made her money in a very peculiar way that is

807
00:37:42,320 --> 00:37:45,920
Speaker 2: interesting and fascinating and new. And you're millennial, right so

808
00:37:46,520 --> 00:37:49,880
Speaker 2: I do think you represent a large group of women

809
00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:54,359
Speaker 2: who understand everything that you're talking about. And I love

810
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:57,279
Speaker 2: the fact that you stand on business, you know, like

811
00:37:57,440 --> 00:37:59,440
Speaker 2: you say what you mean and you mean what you say.

812
00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:06,640
Speaker 2: And we appreciate the fact that you are somebody that

813
00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:12,640
Speaker 2: appears right to be very confident but also very vulnerable

814
00:38:12,920 --> 00:38:15,759
Speaker 2: and are giving us the truth. And even when they

815
00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:17,880
Speaker 2: brought up a cult and they tried to make it

816
00:38:17,960 --> 00:38:21,319
Speaker 2: something so controversial, you lean into and you said, if

817
00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:24,239
Speaker 2: you ladies want to know the story, I have time

818
00:38:24,320 --> 00:38:26,520
Speaker 2: to talk about let's talk about it now. But I

819
00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:28,040
Speaker 2: don't want to talk about it at a time where

820
00:38:28,040 --> 00:38:30,520
Speaker 2: I'm dealing with something else that's more important. So I

821
00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:32,439
Speaker 2: say all of that to say and as somebody who's

822
00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:35,160
Speaker 2: produced more than ten years of Housewives, I'm saying to

823
00:38:35,200 --> 00:38:37,120
Speaker 2: you as a former producer that.

824
00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:38,560
Speaker 3: You've produced Housewives.

825
00:38:38,640 --> 00:38:41,840
Speaker 1: Yes, I did Atlanta and Jersey, so you.

826
00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:43,880
Speaker 3: Really know the inners of all of us. This is

827
00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:46,239
Speaker 3: this is really you really really know.

828
00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:47,520
Speaker 1: Okay, this is my wheelhouse.

829
00:38:47,640 --> 00:38:54,080
Speaker 2: And as a person who understands how the sausage is made,

830
00:38:54,680 --> 00:38:58,840
Speaker 2: my advice to you is to come back, okay and

831
00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:04,440
Speaker 2: continue to grow because we need someone like you to

832
00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:09,479
Speaker 2: represent a different lifestyle of women who are making money

833
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:12,439
Speaker 2: because we've seen in other various ways. And that's fine

834
00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:16,960
Speaker 2: and applaud and yay, go girl, but there's another avenue

835
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:20,439
Speaker 2: that we haven't been exposed to. And just because people

836
00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:23,200
Speaker 2: may not understand it initially, it doesn't mean you have

837
00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:25,000
Speaker 2: to walk away from something because they don't get it.

838
00:39:25,200 --> 00:39:27,200
Speaker 1: If anything, you lean into it, well.

839
00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:30,640
Speaker 3: Here's okay. Are we good?

840
00:39:31,280 --> 00:39:32,439
Speaker 1: Your lucky huh?

841
00:39:32,920 --> 00:39:35,719
Speaker 3: Okay? If I were to do it again, there was

842
00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:38,960
Speaker 3: there are things I would understand more. I would understand

843
00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:42,000
Speaker 3: that people aren't just all trying to be friends. I

844
00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:44,879
Speaker 3: would understand that people are going to try to bring

845
00:39:45,040 --> 00:39:46,799
Speaker 3: up stuff on you. People are going to come at

846
00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:51,200
Speaker 3: you at very strange angles with very different thinking than

847
00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:53,040
Speaker 3: what I'm used to. So I think if I were

848
00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:55,600
Speaker 3: sitting at a table right now and someone came and

849
00:39:56,040 --> 00:39:59,720
Speaker 3: we've recorded the reunion now, so I felt I felt

850
00:39:59,760 --> 00:40:02,719
Speaker 3: this way. The way the woman kind of threw things

851
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:04,520
Speaker 3: at me was the same way it had always been,

852
00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:08,520
Speaker 3: but I felt more ready. I felt more like, okay,

853
00:40:08,920 --> 00:40:11,920
Speaker 3: like I'm going to squash that talk about this, move

854
00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:14,919
Speaker 3: to that. Like I felt more ready, and I felt

855
00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:18,880
Speaker 3: more emotionally regulated, like which I felt pretty emotionally regulated

856
00:40:18,960 --> 00:40:21,440
Speaker 3: the whole time, but I felt like, no, I can

857
00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:25,479
Speaker 3: actually be really really grounded while you guys do whatever

858
00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:27,160
Speaker 3: the fuck you want to do. Like it doesn't you know,

859
00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:29,560
Speaker 3: if it affected me way less, it was less overwhelming,

860
00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:32,400
Speaker 3: less overwhelming. So I think I could come into a

861
00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:35,759
Speaker 3: new season and have that going for me. I think

862
00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:40,040
Speaker 3: I would probably go a little crazier on outfits, not

863
00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:42,399
Speaker 3: to an eric A degree, But I was just wearing

864
00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:43,920
Speaker 3: like my favorite stuff from my closet, you know what

865
00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:46,280
Speaker 3: I mean. I wasn't like trying to make a costume.

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Speaker 3: But I think I would be I think I'd bring

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Speaker 3: To me? Like fuck off? I think that more of

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Speaker 3: that would come out. But it's as you know, it's

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Speaker 3: a lot of work, a lot of work. But and

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Speaker 3: it's a lot of work, not like anything else I've done.

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Speaker 3: I love hard work. This is in a category of

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Speaker 3: anything else. You can't compare it to any other job.

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Speaker 3: It's not like anything.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, Amanda, Thank you for having me.

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Speaker 2: Reality with the King is executive produced by me Carlos King,

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