Speaker 1: Hey, it's your brand new second podcast. Thanks for being here,
Speaker 1: and thanks Alexis for sticking it out this week.
Speaker 2: Oh thank you.
Speaker 3: Guys.
Speaker 1: If you have to hear my cough in the background
Speaker 1: the segments, it's trying to gross.
Speaker 2: Do you make a drinking game out of it this week?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Every time you hear me cough in the podcast, take
Speaker 2: a shot.
Speaker 1: All right, And your episode today is really about sending
Speaker 1: something to the wrong person.
Speaker 2: We've all done it, but probably not to this level.
Speaker 1: No, not on this level, that's for sure. You're gonna
Speaker 1: hear what's up in a second. But first comment, Yeah.
Speaker 2: Us are not found.
Speaker 1: That said, I'm bunking lessons in school listening to this,
Speaker 1: but I keep laughing, so I'm gonna get caught. Wait,
Speaker 1: bunking guessing skipping is.
Speaker 3: When you're like in a bunk bed with somebody.
Speaker 2: Does he mean flunking?
Speaker 3: That makes sense now.
Speaker 2: Flucking?
Speaker 5: I don't know either way.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna guess not paying attention in school. Okay, yeah, bunk,
Speaker 2: that's bunk. I don't know. Maybe it's new slang. I'm
Speaker 2: gonna start using it.
Speaker 1: I think it just ended by you trying that using
Speaker 1: without doing Yeah I did new episode starts right now.
Speaker 6: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date updates.
Speaker 3: What would you say is a brave or courageous first
Speaker 3: date skydiving?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I was gonna say eating one of
Speaker 1: those lobster boil things.
Speaker 2: It's just so messy and stuff.
Speaker 3: I mean, that's sloppy. I don't know if that's necessarily
Speaker 3: courageous breakage. Yeah, I was thinking more whitewater rafting or
Speaker 3: listening to Brook and Jeffrey podcast on a Bluetooth speaker
Speaker 3: in the middle of a whole foodser coaster that takes bravery?
Speaker 3: Why And I only asked because one of our listeners
Speaker 3: says she convinced a guy to do something extremely brave
Speaker 3: for their first date activity, and she's requested our help. Today,
Speaker 3: let's welcome Amy the Brave Maker to the show. Hey, Amy,
Speaker 3: how you doing?
Speaker 5: Hey guys, I'm doing good. All right.
Speaker 2: It sounds like you already had the courage.
Speaker 3: To do this.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I do it all the time.
Speaker 2: You do it all the time.
Speaker 3: All right. We'll get to the brave activity that you
Speaker 3: forced this guy to do. But let's learn about him.
Speaker 3: Who is he and how did you meet him?
Speaker 5: So his name's Emmett and I met him through dating
Speaker 5: app and so in my profile I list that I
Speaker 5: love doing cold plunges dipping ice water, right yeah, yeah yeah.
Speaker 1: Do you like to do it as like a health
Speaker 1: setter or you going out into the wild and finding
Speaker 1: some cold water to get into.
Speaker 5: I actually have like a cold plunge tub in my
Speaker 5: back deck.
Speaker 3: Yeah, pretty cool, What a great comparison.
Speaker 2: We had to like a pilate studio house flattering.
Speaker 3: So that was your first date activity? How did that
Speaker 3: come up?
Speaker 5: Yeah? So that's kind of how he approached me. Messaging me,
Speaker 5: he was like, I don't think I have the cajone
Speaker 5: is to do a cold plunge, like on a first date.
Speaker 2: You're like challenge excepted.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I was like it kind of sparked a flirty
Speaker 5: conversation and I was like, I do it all the time,
Speaker 5: you get used to it. And he would be totally fine.
Speaker 7: See this is kind of cute because even someone like
Speaker 7: me who would never do this, Like if a girl
Speaker 7: was like I challenge you like for our date, I
Speaker 7: would do it, yeah, you know, and to bond and
Speaker 7: like get on your.
Speaker 5: Comfort zone exactly. And it was just like it was
Speaker 5: really friendly competition kind of pushing back and forth, and
Speaker 5: he was like, oh, it's more of a second or
Speaker 5: third date thing.
Speaker 2: That's funny, that's funny.
Speaker 1: Wait, did you invite him over to your house then?
Speaker 1: Since you have I don't know, bucket at your house
Speaker 1: filled with.
Speaker 5: Ice, I don't know what you got, that's exactly what
Speaker 5: it is. And then I totally convinced him to do
Speaker 5: it after a little bit of lighte pushing.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I feel like the bravest part of this
Speaker 1: is you inviting a guy from a dating app straight
Speaker 1: to your house.
Speaker 5: Oh, well, you know what I do, the girl thing
Speaker 5: I tell people, you know what I mean, like for sure?
Speaker 7: Good?
Speaker 3: You make him very aware that there are cameras on
Speaker 3: site and anything that happens, I have one more so
Speaker 3: you'd be chill. Okay, So you convinced him to do it?
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, he came over. You know, I got us
Speaker 5: some liquid courage, and I did it first to show
Speaker 5: him like, not full of it.
Speaker 4: I'm not a baby.
Speaker 5: I can totally do it. My money where my mouth is.
Speaker 3: Now he has to and then yeah, then.
Speaker 5: He went for it.
Speaker 3: Wow, it go.
Speaker 5: I was really impressed. I mean when he got in
Speaker 5: he totally screamed. I scream I think I've ever heard,
Speaker 5: but he totally did it. And you know, we dried off,
Speaker 5: laughed about it. Just like, grab my portable heater and
Speaker 5: watch the movie.
Speaker 4: It was.
Speaker 5: It was a really nice date.
Speaker 2: It sounds actually pretty romantic.
Speaker 4: It was really great.
Speaker 5: It was really up there for top dates. And like,
Speaker 5: after a bit, we just like hugged and he left
Speaker 5: and I felt really great about it. And and then
Speaker 5: I did something kind of stupid. Uh yeah, like after
Speaker 5: he left, I thought it went really well. So I
Speaker 5: was like, oh, well, IM going to send a picture
Speaker 5: to my friends because I think this might go somewhere.
Speaker 1: Like not a not a sneaky picture that you took
Speaker 1: a picture that you grabbed from his dating profile.
Speaker 4: R oh yeah, from his profile page.
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, I don't think you want to send the
Speaker 3: picture of the guy straight out of the cold plunge.
Speaker 5: To no hinder than that how things work?
Speaker 3: Okay, so how do you mess that up? Yeah?
Speaker 5: I accidentally sent it to him instead of my friends.
Speaker 2: Wait, yeah, what did the message say?
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, it wasn't that.
Speaker 5: I was just like, look at this cutie. I got
Speaker 5: him to go in this cold plunge and I followed up.
Speaker 5: I was like, Hey, I'm so sorry. I was trying
Speaker 5: to send to my friends because you're so cute, as
Speaker 5: you said, cutie.
Speaker 1: That is Chriz sending a picture of Don't you think
Speaker 1: you'd be flattered?
Speaker 7: IDN?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I guess.
Speaker 2: She's showing you off already. She's excited about you as
Speaker 2: long as he's into her equally. You know, if he
Speaker 2: wasn't into her and then that happens, I feel like
Speaker 2: it's a turn off.
Speaker 3: That's a good point. I mean, how did he respond
Speaker 3: to it?
Speaker 5: I thought he was into me, but then I got
Speaker 5: like no response from him. Even the next day, I wrote,
Speaker 5: I'm really sorry, would you forgive me? It was just
Speaker 5: it was a mistake, And then I still didn't get
Speaker 5: an answer.
Speaker 4: I haven't gotten any answer since. Wow.
Speaker 3: I mean he puts up on social media.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it sounds like you were saying anything explicit
Speaker 1: or yeah. I mean, you guys had just joked so
Speaker 1: much prior to that, it seems like he could have
Speaker 1: laughed it off.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Or you've come off as a totally superficial person
Speaker 3: that only cares for him about his cute looks.
Speaker 2: Jeff, Yeah, so I'm get out of a cold plunch.
Speaker 3: Yeah, no way.
Speaker 2: He was looking good.
Speaker 5: And what I don't get is like, towards the end
Speaker 5: of the date, I felt we really hit it off.
Speaker 5: It felt like we were going to have a second date.
Speaker 5: It just it felt really good. And I'm usually not
Speaker 5: like delusional about these things.
Speaker 7: That's like why you were sending it to your friends.
Speaker 7: Like I said, he's like pretty approved. Now you got
Speaker 7: to show him off to everybody. Hey, what do you
Speaker 7: think of him?
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, we'll see how delusional you really are or
Speaker 3: aren't when we come back. Yeah, we'll give you the
Speaker 3: full de Lulu test when we do your second date
Speaker 3: update and call Emmett right after.
Speaker 6: This Broken Jeffrey in the Morning second date updates.
Speaker 3: Talk about an awkward ending. It's broken Jeffrey in the
Speaker 3: Morning because our listener Amy had a solid first date
Speaker 3: with the guy that she liked named Emmett. Fact went
Speaker 3: so well they were already planning their next hangout when
Speaker 3: Amy quote and these are her words, screwed it all
Speaker 3: up because she meant to send Emmett's profile pick to
Speaker 3: some of her girlfriends, trying to show him off a
Speaker 3: little bit, but instead sent it straight to him, probably
Speaker 3: with a bunch of hard eyes and pickle emojis underneath,
Speaker 3: because I know how you ladies do so immediately, Yeah, Jeff,
Speaker 3: I know, I've seen Brooks text They are weird. So
Speaker 3: immediately she sent him an apology and explained what happened,
Speaker 3: got no response, and now her fate lies in our
Speaker 3: supple hands. Amy, would you prefer to go by the
Speaker 3: name Shamey for the next few minutes because I do
Speaker 3: feel the same. Man, we're just joking.
Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's an innocent mistake. We've all
Speaker 1: done something really stupid like that before. Like for him
Speaker 1: to not understand it and not respond like that kind
Speaker 1: of sucks.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but you also understand that it is a little
Speaker 3: bit creepy to be sent photos of yourself.
Speaker 2: Yeah that's you don't think all girls do that, then
Speaker 2: you're stupid. I'm a lexus on that.
Speaker 1: I'm so excited when I get a text from my
Speaker 1: friends after they go out with somebody.
Speaker 3: But I think that's the thing.
Speaker 5: We all know.
Speaker 7: Everybody does it, but to see it happen, it's just
Speaker 7: like kind of jarring.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it could freak you out, so.
Speaker 2: It should be flattering that that's just how we have
Speaker 2: to paint it.
Speaker 3: Okay, bro, you tell him that you should be flattered,
Speaker 3: you should be Okay, we're gonna see if even answers
Speaker 3: the phone, and I'm gonna doll his number right now.
Speaker 3: Let's do it. You ready, Amy, I'm ready? Okay, here
Speaker 3: we go.
Speaker 4: Hello.
Speaker 3: Hey, is this Emmett?
Speaker 4: Yeah? This is emmittt.
Speaker 3: Hey man. This is a radio show called Broken Jeffrey
Speaker 3: in the Morning. How you doing.
Speaker 4: What's going on? Not much?
Speaker 3: BROA, No, we're kidding. By the way, this is part
Speaker 3: of a segment that we're doing. It's called a second
Speaker 3: date update. We do have a reason for calling you.
Speaker 4: The only date I've gone on here recently would be
Speaker 4: a lady named Amy. Is that you're calling about.
Speaker 7: You're helping us here.
Speaker 3: A lady sounds like you are hot for her.
Speaker 2: What a coincidence?
Speaker 3: That is funny because Amy is the person who reached
Speaker 3: out to us wanting to get a hold of you. Okay,
Speaker 3: because according to her, you have not been really talking
Speaker 3: to her at all since your date.
Speaker 4: That would be correct.
Speaker 2: Yes, is there a reason?
Speaker 3: Because Amy thinks there might be a reason.
Speaker 4: I'd be curious to know what that reason is.
Speaker 2: Well, it feels like it should be obvious.
Speaker 3: Yes, she told us that after the date, she was
Speaker 3: happy with how things went and excited, very excited, and
Speaker 3: wanted to show a photo of you to some of
Speaker 3: her girlfriends.
Speaker 4: And she sent me my own picture.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so she thinks maybe that weird did you out
Speaker 3: or the scared you away?
Speaker 4: It was a little strange. I mean, I'm not sure
Speaker 4: how much she told you, but the picture was like altered.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like screenshotted it off your page.
Speaker 4: Off your dating app, right, I mean I know the
Speaker 4: picture she got it from, but it looked weird. It
Speaker 4: was different.
Speaker 2: Do you have an Android iPhone? And Android probably.
Speaker 3: A green bubble behind it. I didn't understand.
Speaker 4: Videos.
Speaker 2: It's really funny, is that it?
Speaker 4: No, it wasn't that. I compared the two pictures. It
Speaker 4: made me look like twenty pounds wider.
Speaker 1: What oh hey, oh wait, I thought you were gonna
Speaker 1: say like she put a cool filter on it, like
Speaker 1: she made you skinny.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it looked a lot skinnier. My chin has never
Speaker 4: looked so narrow in my life.
Speaker 2: Hey, we'll get you strong chin.
Speaker 1: Oh right, that has to be some mistake, like why.
Speaker 7: Would yeah or whatever she did I'm with you.
Speaker 3: It's it's weird. What are you thinking?
Speaker 4: I don't know. Maybe she ai'd the thing or something,
Speaker 4: ran it through some kind of filter or something.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, why would she do that?
Speaker 4: Though?
Speaker 2: Maybe she wanted to make him look hotter for her friends.
Speaker 3: But she's not a superficial person. Maybe.
Speaker 2: I mean there are some friend groups that get weird
Speaker 2: with each other and competitive.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I can understand how that would make
Speaker 3: you feel weird.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, I'm not like an ogre or something,
Speaker 4: and that's like so instant.
Speaker 2: I would be reallyed.
Speaker 3: But you know what'd make you probably feel really weird
Speaker 3: is if I told you that Amy was like secretly
Speaker 3: listening in on this phone call just so she could
Speaker 3: hear your explanation for avoiding That would be weird, Right,
Speaker 3: You want to talk to her because that is kind
Speaker 3: of what's happening.
Speaker 4: Oh, she's listening to this.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's how it works.
Speaker 4: Okay, Well, I want to know what's up? Why she
Speaker 4: enhancing me? What's going on here?
Speaker 3: I'm telling you she's listening right now, and you can ask.
Speaker 4: Her that Amy, are you? Yeah?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 4: What is going on?
Speaker 5: I mean, look, I feel like everybody can use a
Speaker 5: little like help looking better. The filters are there. I
Speaker 5: just kind of wanted to show what your potential could be.
Speaker 5: Oh it was, hey, not twenty pounds, it was like
Speaker 5: ten to fifteen masks.
Speaker 3: Oh, okay, you're overreacting.
Speaker 4: I'm overreacting. And in the additional pan that you gave
Speaker 4: my skin, Oh.
Speaker 2: He was, that's kind of nice.
Speaker 5: I mean it's I mean, it's just it's just a tan.
Speaker 5: I mean, it's just a tan. It's not like I
Speaker 5: changed your nose or anything. I didn't do anything like crazy, permit.
Speaker 5: It's nothing that you couldn't do if you worked out more,
Speaker 5: put in a little bit more effort.
Speaker 1: And say like, maybe this is something that you think
Speaker 1: is normal because you do it to your own pictures.
Speaker 5: Well doesn't everybody? I could like your zoom felts are
Speaker 5: on when you're on, you know what I mean?
Speaker 3: And like, what are you saying that you're against self improvement?
Speaker 3: That you don't want you don't think people could get
Speaker 3: any better than they actually are.
Speaker 1: Self improvement is something that you do to improve yourself,
Speaker 1: not something you do to improve someone else, whether they
Speaker 1: like it or not.
Speaker 3: Sometimes you need to be shoved into self improvement.
Speaker 5: I mean it was all tiny. It was like the skin,
Speaker 5: it was a minimal amount of like weight loss and
Speaker 5: like and just like a slight whitening of the.
Speaker 4: Teeth, and it was he whitened my freaking peek.
Speaker 5: Well, I mean just a little bit. I mean, your
Speaker 5: teeth are really straight, so it's not like I had
Speaker 5: to do a bunch of staff and like, I mean,
Speaker 5: other than that, your teeth are perfect.
Speaker 1: Other than that, that is not the compliment you think
Speaker 1: it is, Amy, I mean.
Speaker 5: I'm just trying to be honest.
Speaker 3: I mean, and all these improvements are so much cheaper
Speaker 3: when you do them on photoshop and not in real life.
Speaker 3: I think that's true. Amy.
Speaker 1: Were you attracted to him or were you actually hoping
Speaker 1: that these changes would happen if you started dating him?
Speaker 5: And was definitely attracted to him. But I do a
Speaker 5: lot to take care of myself, hence cold plunge, And yeah,
Speaker 5: I would hope that somebody would take care of themselves
Speaker 5: the way that I did if I were in a
Speaker 5: relationship with them.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's always good to start something where you just
Speaker 1: totally want to change the other person.
Speaker 3: Do you feel loved right now?
Speaker 4: I don't know what's the thing right now, this is
Speaker 4: just the weirdest thing ever.
Speaker 3: Amy is taking a big risk here. She didn't have
Speaker 3: to say that she whitened your teeth, but she sees
Speaker 3: the potential in you and your teeth that should be inspiring.
Speaker 4: She did have to confess, so she sent me the picture.
Speaker 2: Right, you deserve someone who likes you for you.
Speaker 3: Crickets from the room. Okay, So look, I believe that
Speaker 3: any woman who goes through that much trouble. I'm guessing
Speaker 3: it took at least an hour and a half to
Speaker 3: photoshop and AI all the bad stuff out of your photo.
Speaker 3: And she did that for you, and that level of
Speaker 3: dedication deserves a second chance. If you ask me, if
Speaker 3: you say yes, we will pay for another date with her.
Speaker 4: Oh no, no, it would be embarrassed to ever be
Speaker 4: seen in front of her friends. They're gonna be like,
Speaker 4: this doesn't look anything like this guy.
Speaker 3: But if you put in the work, then you won't
Speaker 3: have to be embarrassed.
Speaker 2: This man to run into all these red flags.
Speaker 3: Because it's the photo sounds really hot.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I don't think about that though. Her friends are
Speaker 7: going to have an image of you in their.
Speaker 4: Head, right, it's gonna be like shallow how but in
Speaker 4: real life.
Speaker 3: Look, EMMITTT if you say no, at least, hey, now
Speaker 3: you have a better dating picture profile, you can more
Speaker 3: women do him, just the better.
Speaker 4: Version of a free headshut. I guess well.
Speaker 3: It's there. It's up to you. Man, you want to
Speaker 3: see Amy one more time, We'll pay.
Speaker 5: If it makes you feel better. Send like the original
Speaker 5: photo to my friends.
Speaker 1: The group.
Speaker 2: Why him? Why do I not believe you?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 5: I mean like, I'll have him with me when I
Speaker 5: do it. Like I swear, I wasn't trying to make
Speaker 5: him feel bad. That photo was not for him.
Speaker 1: I just don't let him see the responses from your
Speaker 1: friends because I have a feeling they're not going to
Speaker 1: be very nice.
Speaker 3: Well, we still need to hear from Emma. Is it
Speaker 3: a yes or no regret.
Speaker 4: I'm going to see yes because they have a lot
Speaker 4: of matches right now on my algorithms.
Speaker 3: So this is true love.
Speaker 2: I feel like this is the rock bottom. Jeff So, I.
Speaker 5: Know he did the colunch first date, and I think
Speaker 5: second date canning Salon, Oh my god, oh.
Speaker 3: Speaking alexis.
Speaker 2: Third date dead office?
Speaker 5: Lucky you.
Speaker 6: Reoking Jeffrey in the morning man.
Speaker 3: You try to show someone their true potential and you
Speaker 3: get blasted for it.
Speaker 2: Dude, I don't think we went hard enough. I mean,
Speaker 2: that's so messed up.
Speaker 7: It is messed up, like in the weirdest way, trying
Speaker 7: to find the light in it.
Speaker 3: She was like, this is what you could be. I
Speaker 3: want to inspire.
Speaker 1: If a guy said a photo of me to his
Speaker 1: buddies and where I was skinnier and hotter with bigger boobs,
Speaker 1: I would be so pitched.
Speaker 3: You know what you say that you're right in. There's
Speaker 3: no way I've seen pictures of your mom though, Brooks. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I feel I'm just saying. Amy never told us that
Speaker 3: she was going to do that, so I think the
Speaker 3: whole room was absolutely surprised. But I did have some
Speaker 3: conversations with her and told her that she could do
Speaker 3: our photos on our website. Oh, because I think we
Speaker 3: could all improve for sure. So head over to our
Speaker 3: podcast you might see an updated photo already, with our
Speaker 3: skin a little bit tanner, teeth, a little bit whiter. Josh,
Speaker 3: please don't make ash any skinner be a piece of paper.
Speaker 1: It looks like I'm finally doing botox again.
Speaker 3: Yeah, go find it subscribe to our podcast, Abrook and
Speaker 3: Jeffrey