WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Taking The Plunge 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:02.920 Hey, it's your brand new second podcast. Thanks for being here, 0:00:03.120 --> 0:00:05.400 and thanks Alexis for sticking it out this week. 0:00:05.559 --> 0:00:06.320 Oh thank you. 0:00:06.320 --> 0:00:06.520 Guys. 0:00:06.559 --> 0:00:08.200 If you have to hear my cough in the background 0:00:08.200 --> 0:00:10.000 the segments, it's trying to gross. 0:00:10.039 --> 0:00:11.800 Do you make a drinking game out of it this week? 0:00:11.920 --> 0:00:12.119 Yeah? 0:00:12.200 --> 0:00:14.080 Every time you hear me cough in the podcast, take 0:00:14.080 --> 0:00:14.480 a shot. 0:00:15.560 --> 0:00:19.120 All right, And your episode today is really about sending 0:00:19.160 --> 0:00:20.320 something to the wrong person. 0:00:21.040 --> 0:00:23.040 We've all done it, but probably not to this level. 0:00:23.160 --> 0:00:25.599 No, not on this level, that's for sure. You're gonna 0:00:25.600 --> 0:00:28.840 hear what's up in a second. But first comment, Yeah. 0:00:28.560 --> 0:00:31.520 Us are not found. 0:00:31.120 --> 0:00:33.720 That said, I'm bunking lessons in school listening to this, 0:00:33.960 --> 0:00:36.680 but I keep laughing, so I'm gonna get caught. Wait, 0:00:36.760 --> 0:00:40.360 bunking guessing skipping is. 0:00:40.360 --> 0:00:41.840 When you're like in a bunk bed with somebody. 0:00:42.240 --> 0:00:43.199 Does he mean flunking? 0:00:44.159 --> 0:00:45.440 That makes sense now. 0:00:47.159 --> 0:00:47.680 Flucking? 0:00:48.440 --> 0:00:49.520 I don't know either way. 0:00:49.560 --> 0:00:53.320 I'm gonna guess not paying attention in school. Okay, yeah, bunk, 0:00:53.600 --> 0:00:56.240 that's bunk. I don't know. Maybe it's new slang. I'm 0:00:56.280 --> 0:00:57.160 gonna start using it. 0:00:57.200 --> 0:00:59.880 I think it just ended by you trying that using 0:01:00.080 --> 0:01:05.640 without doing Yeah I did new episode starts right now. 0:01:06.280 --> 0:01:09.160 Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date updates. 0:01:10.319 --> 0:01:13.919 What would you say is a brave or courageous first 0:01:14.040 --> 0:01:15.200 date skydiving? 0:01:15.319 --> 0:01:17.920 Oh my god, I was gonna say eating one of 0:01:17.959 --> 0:01:19.200 those lobster boil things. 0:01:19.240 --> 0:01:23.080 It's just so messy and stuff. 0:01:24.640 --> 0:01:26.920 I mean, that's sloppy. I don't know if that's necessarily 0:01:26.959 --> 0:01:31.520 courageous breakage. Yeah, I was thinking more whitewater rafting or 0:01:32.360 --> 0:01:35.920 listening to Brook and Jeffrey podcast on a Bluetooth speaker 0:01:35.959 --> 0:01:40.319 in the middle of a whole foodser coaster that takes bravery? 0:01:40.640 --> 0:01:43.480 Why And I only asked because one of our listeners 0:01:43.520 --> 0:01:47.640 says she convinced a guy to do something extremely brave 0:01:47.720 --> 0:01:51.880 for their first date activity, and she's requested our help. Today, 0:01:51.960 --> 0:01:56.120 let's welcome Amy the Brave Maker to the show. Hey, Amy, 0:01:56.120 --> 0:01:56.680 how you doing? 0:01:57.120 --> 0:02:00.400 Hey guys, I'm doing good. All right. 0:02:00.520 --> 0:02:02.760 It sounds like you already had the courage. 0:02:02.440 --> 0:02:02.840 To do this. 0:02:03.240 --> 0:02:04.720 Oh yeah, I do it all the time. 0:02:04.960 --> 0:02:05.840 You do it all the time. 0:02:06.240 --> 0:02:09.320 All right. We'll get to the brave activity that you 0:02:09.600 --> 0:02:11.880 forced this guy to do. But let's learn about him. 0:02:12.080 --> 0:02:13.440 Who is he and how did you meet him? 0:02:14.240 --> 0:02:16.240 So his name's Emmett and I met him through dating 0:02:16.280 --> 0:02:20.600 app and so in my profile I list that I 0:02:20.639 --> 0:02:28.160 love doing cold plunges dipping ice water, right yeah, yeah yeah. 0:02:28.160 --> 0:02:30.359 Do you like to do it as like a health 0:02:30.360 --> 0:02:32.919 setter or you going out into the wild and finding 0:02:32.960 --> 0:02:34.280 some cold water to get into. 0:02:35.120 --> 0:02:38.640 I actually have like a cold plunge tub in my 0:02:38.680 --> 0:02:39.079 back deck. 0:02:42.240 --> 0:02:44.239 Yeah, pretty cool, What a great comparison. 0:02:46.800 --> 0:02:50.200 We had to like a pilate studio house flattering. 0:02:50.919 --> 0:02:53.600 So that was your first date activity? How did that 0:02:53.760 --> 0:02:54.200 come up? 0:02:55.080 --> 0:02:58.400 Yeah? So that's kind of how he approached me. Messaging me, 0:02:58.520 --> 0:03:00.639 he was like, I don't think I have the cajone 0:03:00.760 --> 0:03:02.839 is to do a cold plunge, like on a first date. 0:03:04.480 --> 0:03:06.040 You're like challenge excepted. 0:03:06.520 --> 0:03:09.040 Yeah, I was like it kind of sparked a flirty 0:03:09.080 --> 0:03:11.400 conversation and I was like, I do it all the time, 0:03:11.600 --> 0:03:13.760 you get used to it. And he would be totally fine. 0:03:13.880 --> 0:03:16.040 See this is kind of cute because even someone like 0:03:16.080 --> 0:03:18.240 me who would never do this, Like if a girl 0:03:18.360 --> 0:03:20.120 was like I challenge you like for our date, I 0:03:20.120 --> 0:03:23.000 would do it, yeah, you know, and to bond and 0:03:23.040 --> 0:03:23.799 like get on your. 0:03:23.639 --> 0:03:26.120 Comfort zone exactly. And it was just like it was 0:03:26.160 --> 0:03:29.400 really friendly competition kind of pushing back and forth, and 0:03:29.400 --> 0:03:31.200 he was like, oh, it's more of a second or 0:03:31.280 --> 0:03:32.000 third date thing. 0:03:33.600 --> 0:03:34.680 That's funny, that's funny. 0:03:34.840 --> 0:03:37.200 Wait, did you invite him over to your house then? 0:03:37.280 --> 0:03:39.880 Since you have I don't know, bucket at your house 0:03:39.880 --> 0:03:40.320 filled with. 0:03:40.320 --> 0:03:42.680 Ice, I don't know what you got, that's exactly what 0:03:42.720 --> 0:03:44.760 it is. And then I totally convinced him to do 0:03:44.840 --> 0:03:46.920 it after a little bit of lighte pushing. 0:03:47.160 --> 0:03:48.960 I'm sorry, I feel like the bravest part of this 0:03:49.120 --> 0:03:51.240 is you inviting a guy from a dating app straight 0:03:51.240 --> 0:03:51.760 to your house. 0:03:54.920 --> 0:03:56.360 Oh, well, you know what I do, the girl thing 0:03:56.400 --> 0:03:59.400 I tell people, you know what I mean, like for sure? 0:03:59.520 --> 0:03:59.680 Good? 0:04:00.160 --> 0:04:02.280 You make him very aware that there are cameras on 0:04:02.480 --> 0:04:08.360 site and anything that happens, I have one more so 0:04:08.360 --> 0:04:12.160 you'd be chill. Okay, So you convinced him to do it? 0:04:12.600 --> 0:04:14.560 Yeah, yeah, he came over. You know, I got us 0:04:14.560 --> 0:04:17.680 some liquid courage, and I did it first to show 0:04:17.720 --> 0:04:18.760 him like, not full of it. 0:04:18.880 --> 0:04:19.520 I'm not a baby. 0:04:19.560 --> 0:04:22.599 I can totally do it. My money where my mouth is. 0:04:22.720 --> 0:04:24.960 Now he has to and then yeah, then. 0:04:24.839 --> 0:04:25.560 He went for it. 0:04:25.960 --> 0:04:27.440 Wow, it go. 0:04:28.120 --> 0:04:30.400 I was really impressed. I mean when he got in 0:04:30.560 --> 0:04:34.200 he totally screamed. I scream I think I've ever heard, 0:04:35.400 --> 0:04:37.839 but he totally did it. And you know, we dried off, 0:04:37.960 --> 0:04:40.520 laughed about it. Just like, grab my portable heater and 0:04:40.560 --> 0:04:41.200 watch the movie. 0:04:41.240 --> 0:04:41.440 It was. 0:04:41.520 --> 0:04:42.719 It was a really nice date. 0:04:42.920 --> 0:04:44.599 It sounds actually pretty romantic. 0:04:45.279 --> 0:04:46.120 It was really great. 0:04:46.160 --> 0:04:48.160 It was really up there for top dates. And like, 0:04:48.520 --> 0:04:50.560 after a bit, we just like hugged and he left 0:04:50.640 --> 0:04:53.840 and I felt really great about it. And and then 0:04:53.880 --> 0:04:57.640 I did something kind of stupid. Uh yeah, like after 0:04:57.680 --> 0:04:59.400 he left, I thought it went really well. So I 0:04:59.480 --> 0:05:00.720 was like, oh, well, IM going to send a picture 0:05:00.760 --> 0:05:05.680 to my friends because I think this might go somewhere. 0:05:05.160 --> 0:05:07.680 Like not a not a sneaky picture that you took 0:05:07.720 --> 0:05:09.760 a picture that you grabbed from his dating profile. 0:05:09.839 --> 0:05:11.320 R oh yeah, from his profile page. 0:05:11.360 --> 0:05:12.920 Okay, yeah, I don't think you want to send the 0:05:12.960 --> 0:05:15.520 picture of the guy straight out of the cold plunge. 0:05:15.279 --> 0:05:21.120 To no hinder than that how things work? 0:05:21.279 --> 0:05:23.560 Okay, so how do you mess that up? Yeah? 0:05:23.800 --> 0:05:27.160 I accidentally sent it to him instead of my friends. 0:05:28.920 --> 0:05:31.479 Wait, yeah, what did the message say? 0:05:31.680 --> 0:05:33.240 Oh my gosh, it wasn't that. 0:05:33.400 --> 0:05:35.440 I was just like, look at this cutie. I got 0:05:35.480 --> 0:05:37.800 him to go in this cold plunge and I followed up. 0:05:37.839 --> 0:05:39.440 I was like, Hey, I'm so sorry. I was trying 0:05:39.440 --> 0:05:41.640 to send to my friends because you're so cute, as 0:05:41.720 --> 0:05:42.520 you said, cutie. 0:05:42.520 --> 0:05:44.720 That is Chriz sending a picture of Don't you think 0:05:44.760 --> 0:05:45.600 you'd be flattered? 0:05:45.880 --> 0:05:46.200 IDN? 0:05:46.400 --> 0:05:47.760 Yeah, I guess. 0:05:47.560 --> 0:05:50.760 She's showing you off already. She's excited about you as 0:05:50.760 --> 0:05:52.719 long as he's into her equally. You know, if he 0:05:52.800 --> 0:05:54.480 wasn't into her and then that happens, I feel like 0:05:54.520 --> 0:05:55.160 it's a turn off. 0:05:55.200 --> 0:05:57.120 That's a good point. I mean, how did he respond 0:05:57.160 --> 0:05:57.479 to it? 0:05:57.760 --> 0:05:59.520 I thought he was into me, but then I got 0:05:59.560 --> 0:06:03.839 like no response from him. Even the next day, I wrote, 0:06:04.000 --> 0:06:06.760 I'm really sorry, would you forgive me? It was just 0:06:06.880 --> 0:06:09.320 it was a mistake, And then I still didn't get 0:06:09.320 --> 0:06:09.840 an answer. 0:06:09.960 --> 0:06:12.600 I haven't gotten any answer since. Wow. 0:06:12.839 --> 0:06:14.320 I mean he puts up on social media. 0:06:14.560 --> 0:06:18.960 Yeah, and it sounds like you were saying anything explicit 0:06:19.200 --> 0:06:22.960 or yeah. I mean, you guys had just joked so 0:06:23.080 --> 0:06:24.840 much prior to that, it seems like he could have 0:06:24.920 --> 0:06:25.600 laughed it off. 0:06:25.839 --> 0:06:28.919 Yeah, Or you've come off as a totally superficial person 0:06:28.960 --> 0:06:31.119 that only cares for him about his cute looks. 0:06:32.320 --> 0:06:34.599 Jeff, Yeah, so I'm get out of a cold plunch. 0:06:34.839 --> 0:06:35.800 Yeah, no way. 0:06:35.800 --> 0:06:36.520 He was looking good. 0:06:37.120 --> 0:06:39.040 And what I don't get is like, towards the end 0:06:39.040 --> 0:06:40.880 of the date, I felt we really hit it off. 0:06:40.920 --> 0:06:42.599 It felt like we were going to have a second date. 0:06:42.760 --> 0:06:45.719 It just it felt really good. And I'm usually not 0:06:45.920 --> 0:06:47.839 like delusional about these things. 0:06:48.920 --> 0:06:50.719 That's like why you were sending it to your friends. 0:06:50.760 --> 0:06:52.480 Like I said, he's like pretty approved. Now you got 0:06:52.520 --> 0:06:54.000 to show him off to everybody. Hey, what do you 0:06:54.080 --> 0:06:54.560 think of him? 0:06:54.640 --> 0:06:57.200 Yeah, well, we'll see how delusional you really are or 0:06:57.240 --> 0:07:00.080 aren't when we come back. Yeah, we'll give you the 0:07:00.560 --> 0:07:03.200 full de Lulu test when we do your second date 0:07:03.279 --> 0:07:05.160 update and call Emmett right after. 0:07:04.960 --> 0:07:09.080 This Broken Jeffrey in the Morning second date updates. 0:07:10.560 --> 0:07:14.000 Talk about an awkward ending. It's broken Jeffrey in the 0:07:14.080 --> 0:07:17.360 Morning because our listener Amy had a solid first date 0:07:17.400 --> 0:07:20.480 with the guy that she liked named Emmett. Fact went 0:07:20.600 --> 0:07:23.240 so well they were already planning their next hangout when 0:07:23.360 --> 0:07:27.040 Amy quote and these are her words, screwed it all 0:07:27.120 --> 0:07:31.600 up because she meant to send Emmett's profile pick to 0:07:31.680 --> 0:07:34.400 some of her girlfriends, trying to show him off a 0:07:34.400 --> 0:07:38.960 little bit, but instead sent it straight to him, probably 0:07:39.000 --> 0:07:41.760 with a bunch of hard eyes and pickle emojis underneath, 0:07:41.800 --> 0:07:46.880 because I know how you ladies do so immediately, Yeah, Jeff, 0:07:47.280 --> 0:07:51.240 I know, I've seen Brooks text They are weird. So 0:07:51.520 --> 0:07:55.560 immediately she sent him an apology and explained what happened, 0:07:55.960 --> 0:08:00.560 got no response, and now her fate lies in our 0:08:00.840 --> 0:08:04.040 supple hands. Amy, would you prefer to go by the 0:08:04.120 --> 0:08:06.040 name Shamey for the next few minutes because I do 0:08:06.080 --> 0:08:10.880 feel the same. Man, we're just joking. 0:08:11.080 --> 0:08:13.480 I mean, I think it's an innocent mistake. We've all 0:08:13.600 --> 0:08:16.560 done something really stupid like that before. Like for him 0:08:16.600 --> 0:08:19.160 to not understand it and not respond like that kind 0:08:19.200 --> 0:08:19.640 of sucks. 0:08:19.880 --> 0:08:22.520 Yeah, but you also understand that it is a little 0:08:22.520 --> 0:08:24.680 bit creepy to be sent photos of yourself. 0:08:25.080 --> 0:08:26.920 Yeah that's you don't think all girls do that, then 0:08:26.920 --> 0:08:29.880 you're stupid. I'm a lexus on that. 0:08:30.000 --> 0:08:32.080 I'm so excited when I get a text from my 0:08:32.320 --> 0:08:33.760 friends after they go out with somebody. 0:08:33.800 --> 0:08:34.760 But I think that's the thing. 0:08:34.800 --> 0:08:35.400 We all know. 0:08:35.559 --> 0:08:38.200 Everybody does it, but to see it happen, it's just 0:08:38.240 --> 0:08:39.000 like kind of jarring. 0:08:39.120 --> 0:08:40.400 Yeah, it could freak you out, so. 0:08:40.520 --> 0:08:42.320 It should be flattering that that's just how we have 0:08:42.360 --> 0:08:42.800 to paint it. 0:08:42.880 --> 0:08:45.800 Okay, bro, you tell him that you should be flattered, 0:08:45.920 --> 0:08:49.000 you should be Okay, we're gonna see if even answers 0:08:49.000 --> 0:08:50.960 the phone, and I'm gonna doll his number right now. 0:08:51.200 --> 0:08:53.880 Let's do it. You ready, Amy, I'm ready? Okay, here 0:08:53.960 --> 0:08:54.240 we go. 0:09:02.760 --> 0:09:03.120 Hello. 0:09:04.000 --> 0:09:04.960 Hey, is this Emmett? 0:09:05.720 --> 0:09:06.480 Yeah? This is emmittt. 0:09:07.240 --> 0:09:09.880 Hey man. This is a radio show called Broken Jeffrey 0:09:09.920 --> 0:09:13.440 in the Morning. How you doing. 0:09:14.240 --> 0:09:20.240 What's going on? Not much? 0:09:20.280 --> 0:09:27.280 BROA, No, we're kidding. By the way, this is part 0:09:27.320 --> 0:09:28.840 of a segment that we're doing. It's called a second 0:09:28.920 --> 0:09:30.760 date update. We do have a reason for calling you. 0:09:31.160 --> 0:09:33.240 The only date I've gone on here recently would be 0:09:33.360 --> 0:09:37.360 a lady named Amy. Is that you're calling about. 0:09:40.320 --> 0:09:41.400 You're helping us here. 0:09:41.320 --> 0:09:46.559 A lady sounds like you are hot for her. 0:09:46.760 --> 0:09:47.760 What a coincidence? 0:09:47.880 --> 0:09:50.319 That is funny because Amy is the person who reached 0:09:50.360 --> 0:09:53.280 out to us wanting to get a hold of you. Okay, 0:09:53.600 --> 0:09:57.439 because according to her, you have not been really talking 0:09:57.480 --> 0:09:58.920 to her at all since your date. 0:10:00.280 --> 0:10:01.319 That would be correct. 0:10:01.480 --> 0:10:03.960 Yes, is there a reason? 0:10:04.320 --> 0:10:06.199 Because Amy thinks there might be a reason. 0:10:07.200 --> 0:10:09.440 I'd be curious to know what that reason is. 0:10:11.000 --> 0:10:12.840 Well, it feels like it should be obvious. 0:10:13.000 --> 0:10:15.640 Yes, she told us that after the date, she was 0:10:15.640 --> 0:10:18.760 happy with how things went and excited, very excited, and 0:10:18.880 --> 0:10:20.720 wanted to show a photo of you to some of 0:10:20.760 --> 0:10:21.760 her girlfriends. 0:10:22.520 --> 0:10:24.720 And she sent me my own picture. 0:10:25.080 --> 0:10:28.280 Yeah, so she thinks maybe that weird did you out 0:10:28.360 --> 0:10:29.320 or the scared you away? 0:10:30.120 --> 0:10:33.200 It was a little strange. I mean, I'm not sure 0:10:33.240 --> 0:10:38.679 how much she told you, but the picture was like altered. 0:10:40.160 --> 0:10:42.440 Yeah, like screenshotted it off your page. 0:10:42.280 --> 0:10:44.960 Off your dating app, right, I mean I know the 0:10:44.960 --> 0:10:48.680 picture she got it from, but it looked weird. It 0:10:48.800 --> 0:10:50.000 was different. 0:10:51.000 --> 0:10:53.600 Do you have an Android iPhone? And Android probably. 0:10:55.240 --> 0:10:58.040 A green bubble behind it. I didn't understand. 0:11:00.200 --> 0:11:00.520 Videos. 0:11:00.559 --> 0:11:01.960 It's really funny, is that it? 0:11:02.559 --> 0:11:05.320 No, it wasn't that. I compared the two pictures. It 0:11:05.360 --> 0:11:07.360 made me look like twenty pounds wider. 0:11:07.920 --> 0:11:10.800 What oh hey, oh wait, I thought you were gonna 0:11:10.800 --> 0:11:12.840 say like she put a cool filter on it, like 0:11:12.960 --> 0:11:14.000 she made you skinny. 0:11:14.760 --> 0:11:17.160 Yeah, it looked a lot skinnier. My chin has never 0:11:17.160 --> 0:11:18.480 looked so narrow in my life. 0:11:18.800 --> 0:11:21.079 Hey, we'll get you strong chin. 0:11:21.200 --> 0:11:26.200 Oh right, that has to be some mistake, like why. 0:11:26.000 --> 0:11:30.040 Would yeah or whatever she did I'm with you. 0:11:30.080 --> 0:11:32.080 It's it's weird. What are you thinking? 0:11:32.720 --> 0:11:35.040 I don't know. Maybe she ai'd the thing or something, 0:11:35.080 --> 0:11:37.400 ran it through some kind of filter or something. 0:11:37.760 --> 0:11:40.040 Oh my god, why would she do that? 0:11:40.120 --> 0:11:40.360 Though? 0:11:40.520 --> 0:11:44.240 Maybe she wanted to make him look hotter for her friends. 0:11:44.040 --> 0:11:47.040 But she's not a superficial person. Maybe. 0:11:47.120 --> 0:11:50.240 I mean there are some friend groups that get weird 0:11:50.320 --> 0:11:51.920 with each other and competitive. 0:11:52.200 --> 0:11:54.839 Yeah, I mean I can understand how that would make 0:11:54.880 --> 0:11:55.920 you feel weird. 0:11:56.240 --> 0:11:58.120 Yeah, I mean, I'm not like an ogre or something, 0:11:58.160 --> 0:12:00.239 and that's like so instant. 0:12:00.400 --> 0:12:01.520 I would be reallyed. 0:12:01.720 --> 0:12:04.080 But you know what'd make you probably feel really weird 0:12:04.400 --> 0:12:06.520 is if I told you that Amy was like secretly 0:12:06.600 --> 0:12:08.680 listening in on this phone call just so she could 0:12:08.679 --> 0:12:12.520 hear your explanation for avoiding That would be weird, Right, 0:12:12.640 --> 0:12:14.520 You want to talk to her because that is kind 0:12:14.520 --> 0:12:15.240 of what's happening. 0:12:15.440 --> 0:12:17.160 Oh, she's listening to this. 0:12:17.400 --> 0:12:18.400 Yeah, that's how it works. 0:12:19.080 --> 0:12:20.880 Okay, Well, I want to know what's up? Why she 0:12:21.040 --> 0:12:22.640 enhancing me? What's going on here? 0:12:23.080 --> 0:12:26.160 I'm telling you she's listening right now, and you can ask. 0:12:26.000 --> 0:12:29.439 Her that Amy, are you? Yeah? 0:12:29.520 --> 0:12:29.840 Yeah? 0:12:29.920 --> 0:12:30.880 What is going on? 0:12:31.800 --> 0:12:34.480 I mean, look, I feel like everybody can use a 0:12:34.480 --> 0:12:38.400 little like help looking better. The filters are there. I 0:12:38.520 --> 0:12:41.400 just kind of wanted to show what your potential could be. 0:12:42.280 --> 0:12:46.760 Oh it was, hey, not twenty pounds, it was like 0:12:46.920 --> 0:12:49.800 ten to fifteen masks. 0:12:50.520 --> 0:12:52.360 Oh, okay, you're overreacting. 0:12:52.679 --> 0:12:55.960 I'm overreacting. And in the additional pan that you gave 0:12:56.040 --> 0:12:57.680 my skin, Oh. 0:12:57.600 --> 0:12:59.560 He was, that's kind of nice. 0:13:00.679 --> 0:13:03.560 I mean it's I mean, it's just it's just a tan. 0:13:03.880 --> 0:13:05.360 I mean, it's just a tan. It's not like I 0:13:05.440 --> 0:13:09.040 changed your nose or anything. I didn't do anything like crazy, permit. 0:13:09.040 --> 0:13:11.640 It's nothing that you couldn't do if you worked out more, 0:13:11.720 --> 0:13:13.160 put in a little bit more effort. 0:13:17.760 --> 0:13:19.880 And say like, maybe this is something that you think 0:13:19.960 --> 0:13:22.040 is normal because you do it to your own pictures. 0:13:22.280 --> 0:13:24.600 Well doesn't everybody? I could like your zoom felts are 0:13:24.640 --> 0:13:25.959 on when you're on, you know what I mean? 0:13:25.960 --> 0:13:29.400 And like, what are you saying that you're against self improvement? 0:13:30.480 --> 0:13:32.439 That you don't want you don't think people could get 0:13:32.480 --> 0:13:34.240 any better than they actually are. 0:13:34.400 --> 0:13:37.120 Self improvement is something that you do to improve yourself, 0:13:37.200 --> 0:13:40.000 not something you do to improve someone else, whether they 0:13:40.120 --> 0:13:40.679 like it or not. 0:13:40.920 --> 0:13:43.360 Sometimes you need to be shoved into self improvement. 0:13:43.920 --> 0:13:46.360 I mean it was all tiny. It was like the skin, 0:13:46.480 --> 0:13:49.120 it was a minimal amount of like weight loss and 0:13:49.200 --> 0:13:51.360 like and just like a slight whitening of the. 0:13:51.360 --> 0:13:56.280 Teeth, and it was he whitened my freaking peek. 0:13:58.559 --> 0:14:01.040 Well, I mean just a little bit. I mean, your 0:14:01.080 --> 0:14:02.800 teeth are really straight, so it's not like I had 0:14:02.800 --> 0:14:04.960 to do a bunch of staff and like, I mean, 0:14:05.000 --> 0:14:06.400 other than that, your teeth are perfect. 0:14:06.480 --> 0:14:09.800 Other than that, that is not the compliment you think 0:14:09.840 --> 0:14:11.800 it is, Amy, I mean. 0:14:11.720 --> 0:14:12.960 I'm just trying to be honest. 0:14:13.200 --> 0:14:15.280 I mean, and all these improvements are so much cheaper 0:14:15.280 --> 0:14:17.600 when you do them on photoshop and not in real life. 0:14:17.800 --> 0:14:19.000 I think that's true. Amy. 0:14:19.040 --> 0:14:21.320 Were you attracted to him or were you actually hoping 0:14:21.400 --> 0:14:23.880 that these changes would happen if you started dating him? 0:14:24.240 --> 0:14:27.240 And was definitely attracted to him. But I do a 0:14:27.280 --> 0:14:30.520 lot to take care of myself, hence cold plunge, And yeah, 0:14:30.520 --> 0:14:33.560 I would hope that somebody would take care of themselves 0:14:33.560 --> 0:14:34.880 the way that I did if I were in a 0:14:34.920 --> 0:14:35.800 relationship with them. 0:14:35.880 --> 0:14:36.200 Yeah. 0:14:36.280 --> 0:14:38.160 Yeah, it's always good to start something where you just 0:14:38.200 --> 0:14:39.600 totally want to change the other person. 0:14:40.240 --> 0:14:41.560 Do you feel loved right now? 0:14:43.120 --> 0:14:44.720 I don't know what's the thing right now, this is 0:14:44.760 --> 0:14:45.800 just the weirdest thing ever. 0:14:46.400 --> 0:14:49.320 Amy is taking a big risk here. She didn't have 0:14:49.400 --> 0:14:51.640 to say that she whitened your teeth, but she sees 0:14:51.720 --> 0:14:55.880 the potential in you and your teeth that should be inspiring. 0:14:56.480 --> 0:14:59.040 She did have to confess, so she sent me the picture. 0:14:59.240 --> 0:15:03.680 Right, you deserve someone who likes you for you. 0:15:03.840 --> 0:15:07.160 Crickets from the room. Okay, So look, I believe that 0:15:07.280 --> 0:15:11.240 any woman who goes through that much trouble. I'm guessing 0:15:11.240 --> 0:15:13.400 it took at least an hour and a half to 0:15:13.480 --> 0:15:16.320 photoshop and AI all the bad stuff out of your photo. 0:15:16.640 --> 0:15:20.360 And she did that for you, and that level of 0:15:20.400 --> 0:15:23.240 dedication deserves a second chance. If you ask me, if 0:15:23.280 --> 0:15:26.040 you say yes, we will pay for another date with her. 0:15:26.840 --> 0:15:29.440 Oh no, no, it would be embarrassed to ever be 0:15:29.520 --> 0:15:31.160 seen in front of her friends. They're gonna be like, 0:15:31.200 --> 0:15:33.560 this doesn't look anything like this guy. 0:15:33.840 --> 0:15:35.800 But if you put in the work, then you won't 0:15:35.800 --> 0:15:36.760 have to be embarrassed. 0:15:37.600 --> 0:15:40.120 This man to run into all these red flags. 0:15:39.800 --> 0:15:41.520 Because it's the photo sounds really hot. 0:15:42.000 --> 0:15:44.600 Yeah, I don't think about that though. Her friends are 0:15:44.600 --> 0:15:46.080 going to have an image of you in their. 0:15:45.960 --> 0:15:48.800 Head, right, it's gonna be like shallow how but in 0:15:48.840 --> 0:15:49.640 real life. 0:15:50.280 --> 0:15:52.840 Look, EMMITTT if you say no, at least, hey, now 0:15:52.880 --> 0:15:56.800 you have a better dating picture profile, you can more 0:15:56.840 --> 0:16:01.320 women do him, just the better. 0:16:01.240 --> 0:16:03.280 Version of a free headshut. I guess well. 0:16:05.000 --> 0:16:07.000 It's there. It's up to you. Man, you want to 0:16:07.000 --> 0:16:09.240 see Amy one more time, We'll pay. 0:16:09.360 --> 0:16:11.640 If it makes you feel better. Send like the original 0:16:11.680 --> 0:16:14.120 photo to my friends. 0:16:15.160 --> 0:16:15.520 The group. 0:16:16.000 --> 0:16:19.840 Why him? Why do I not believe you? 0:16:19.840 --> 0:16:19.920 No? 0:16:20.040 --> 0:16:21.880 I mean like, I'll have him with me when I 0:16:21.920 --> 0:16:24.000 do it. Like I swear, I wasn't trying to make 0:16:24.080 --> 0:16:26.280 him feel bad. That photo was not for him. 0:16:26.360 --> 0:16:29.280 I just don't let him see the responses from your 0:16:29.280 --> 0:16:30.960 friends because I have a feeling they're not going to 0:16:30.960 --> 0:16:31.480 be very nice. 0:16:31.520 --> 0:16:33.000 Well, we still need to hear from Emma. Is it 0:16:33.040 --> 0:16:35.080 a yes or no regret. 0:16:35.720 --> 0:16:39.880 I'm going to see yes because they have a lot 0:16:39.920 --> 0:16:42.000 of matches right now on my algorithms. 0:16:42.200 --> 0:16:45.440 So this is true love. 0:16:46.360 --> 0:16:50.080 I feel like this is the rock bottom. Jeff So, I. 0:16:50.400 --> 0:16:52.560 Know he did the colunch first date, and I think 0:16:52.680 --> 0:16:54.920 second date canning Salon, Oh my god, oh. 0:16:55.960 --> 0:16:57.200 Speaking alexis. 0:16:58.280 --> 0:17:00.160 Third date dead office? 0:17:00.680 --> 0:17:01.280 Lucky you. 0:17:03.400 --> 0:17:06.040 Reoking Jeffrey in the morning man. 0:17:06.080 --> 0:17:09.359 You try to show someone their true potential and you 0:17:09.440 --> 0:17:10.960 get blasted for it. 0:17:11.040 --> 0:17:13.960 Dude, I don't think we went hard enough. I mean, 0:17:14.320 --> 0:17:15.280 that's so messed up. 0:17:15.480 --> 0:17:18.359 It is messed up, like in the weirdest way, trying 0:17:18.400 --> 0:17:19.480