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Speaker 1: Hey, it's your brand new second podcast. Thanks for being here,

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Speaker 1: and thanks Alexis for sticking it out this week.

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Speaker 2: Oh thank you.

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Speaker 3: Guys.

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Speaker 1: If you have to hear my cough in the background

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Speaker 1: the segments, it's trying to gross.

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Speaker 2: Do you make a drinking game out of it this week?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Every time you hear me cough in the podcast, take

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Speaker 2: a shot.

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Speaker 1: All right, And your episode today is really about sending

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Speaker 1: something to the wrong person.

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Speaker 2: We've all done it, but probably not to this level.

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Speaker 1: No, not on this level, that's for sure. You're gonna

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Speaker 1: hear what's up in a second. But first comment, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Us are not found.

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Speaker 1: That said, I'm bunking lessons in school listening to this,

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Speaker 1: but I keep laughing, so I'm gonna get caught. Wait,

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Speaker 1: bunking guessing skipping is.

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Speaker 3: When you're like in a bunk bed with somebody.

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Speaker 2: Does he mean flunking?

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Speaker 3: That makes sense now.

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Speaker 2: Flucking?

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Speaker 5: I don't know either way.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna guess not paying attention in school. Okay, yeah, bunk,

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Speaker 2: that's bunk. I don't know. Maybe it's new slang. I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna start using it.

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Speaker 1: I think it just ended by you trying that using

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Speaker 1: without doing Yeah I did new episode starts right now.

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Speaker 6: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date updates.

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Speaker 3: What would you say is a brave or courageous first

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Speaker 3: date skydiving?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I was gonna say eating one of

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Speaker 1: those lobster boil things.

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Speaker 2: It's just so messy and stuff.

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Speaker 3: I mean, that's sloppy. I don't know if that's necessarily

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Speaker 3: courageous breakage. Yeah, I was thinking more whitewater rafting or

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Speaker 3: listening to Brook and Jeffrey podcast on a Bluetooth speaker

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Speaker 3: in the middle of a whole foodser coaster that takes bravery?

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Speaker 3: Why And I only asked because one of our listeners

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Speaker 3: says she convinced a guy to do something extremely brave

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Speaker 3: for their first date activity, and she's requested our help. Today,

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Speaker 3: let's welcome Amy the Brave Maker to the show. Hey, Amy,

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Speaker 3: how you doing?

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Speaker 5: Hey guys, I'm doing good. All right.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like you already had the courage.

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Speaker 3: To do this.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I do it all the time.

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Speaker 2: You do it all the time.

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Speaker 3: All right. We'll get to the brave activity that you

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Speaker 3: forced this guy to do. But let's learn about him.

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Speaker 3: Who is he and how did you meet him?

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Speaker 5: So his name's Emmett and I met him through dating

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Speaker 5: app and so in my profile I list that I

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Speaker 5: love doing cold plunges dipping ice water, right yeah, yeah yeah.

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Speaker 1: Do you like to do it as like a health

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Speaker 1: setter or you going out into the wild and finding

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Speaker 1: some cold water to get into.

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Speaker 5: I actually have like a cold plunge tub in my

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Speaker 3: Yeah, pretty cool, What a great comparison.

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Speaker 2: We had to like a pilate studio house flattering.

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Speaker 3: So that was your first date activity? How did that

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Speaker 5: Yeah? So that's kind of how he approached me. Messaging me,

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Speaker 5: he was like, I don't think I have the cajone

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Speaker 5: is to do a cold plunge, like on a first date.

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Speaker 2: You're like challenge excepted.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I was like it kind of sparked a flirty

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Speaker 5: conversation and I was like, I do it all the time,

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Speaker 5: you get used to it. And he would be totally fine.

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Speaker 7: See this is kind of cute because even someone like

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Speaker 7: me who would never do this, Like if a girl

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Speaker 7: was like I challenge you like for our date, I

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Speaker 7: would do it, yeah, you know, and to bond and

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Speaker 5: Comfort zone exactly. And it was just like it was

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Speaker 5: really friendly competition kind of pushing back and forth, and

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Speaker 5: he was like, oh, it's more of a second or

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Speaker 2: That's funny, that's funny.

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Speaker 1: Wait, did you invite him over to your house then?

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Speaker 1: Since you have I don't know, bucket at your house

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Speaker 5: Ice, I don't know what you got, that's exactly what

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Speaker 5: it is. And then I totally convinced him to do

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I feel like the bravest part of this

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Speaker 5: Oh, well, you know what I do, the girl thing

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Speaker 5: I tell people, you know what I mean, like for sure?

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Speaker 7: Good?

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Speaker 3: You make him very aware that there are cameras on

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Speaker 3: site and anything that happens, I have one more so

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Speaker 3: you'd be chill. Okay, So you convinced him to do it?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, he came over. You know, I got us

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Speaker 4: I'm not a baby.

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Speaker 5: I can totally do it. My money where my mouth is.

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Speaker 3: Now he has to and then yeah, then.

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Speaker 5: He went for it.

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Speaker 3: Wow, it go.

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Speaker 5: I was really impressed. I mean when he got in

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Speaker 5: he totally screamed. I scream I think I've ever heard,

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Speaker 5: but he totally did it. And you know, we dried off,

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Speaker 5: laughed about it. Just like, grab my portable heater and

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Speaker 4: It was.

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Speaker 5: It was a really nice date.

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Speaker 2: It sounds actually pretty romantic.

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Speaker 4: It was really great.

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Speaker 5: It was really up there for top dates. And like,

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Speaker 5: after a bit, we just like hugged and he left

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Speaker 5: I did something kind of stupid. Uh yeah, like after

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Speaker 5: was like, oh, well, IM going to send a picture

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Speaker 1: Like not a not a sneaky picture that you took

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Speaker 1: a picture that you grabbed from his dating profile.

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Speaker 4: R oh yeah, from his profile page.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, I don't think you want to send the

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Speaker 5: To no hinder than that how things work?

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Speaker 3: Okay, so how do you mess that up? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I accidentally sent it to him instead of my friends.

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Speaker 2: Wait, yeah, what did the message say?

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, it wasn't that.

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Speaker 5: I was just like, look at this cutie. I got

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Speaker 5: I was like, Hey, I'm so sorry. I was trying

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Speaker 5: to send to my friends because you're so cute, as

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Speaker 5: you said, cutie.

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Speaker 1: That is Chriz sending a picture of Don't you think

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Speaker 1: you'd be flattered?

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Speaker 7: IDN?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I guess.

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Speaker 2: She's showing you off already. She's excited about you as

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Speaker 2: long as he's into her equally. You know, if he

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Speaker 2: it's a turn off.

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Speaker 3: That's a good point. I mean, how did he respond

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Speaker 5: I thought he was into me, but then I got

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Speaker 5: like no response from him. Even the next day, I wrote,

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Speaker 5: I'm really sorry, would you forgive me? It was just

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Speaker 4: I haven't gotten any answer since. Wow.

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Speaker 3: I mean he puts up on social media.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and it sounds like you were saying anything explicit

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Speaker 1: or yeah. I mean, you guys had just joked so

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Speaker 1: laughed it off.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Or you've come off as a totally superficial person

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Speaker 2: Jeff, Yeah, so I'm get out of a cold plunch.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no way.

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Speaker 2: He was looking good.

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Speaker 5: And what I don't get is like, towards the end

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Speaker 5: of the date, I felt we really hit it off.

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Speaker 5: It felt like we were going to have a second date.

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Speaker 5: It just it felt really good. And I'm usually not

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Speaker 5: like delusional about these things.

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Speaker 7: That's like why you were sending it to your friends.

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Speaker 7: Like I said, he's like pretty approved. Now you got

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Speaker 7: to show him off to everybody. Hey, what do you

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, we'll see how delusional you really are or

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Speaker 3: aren't when we come back. Yeah, we'll give you the

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Speaker 3: full de Lulu test when we do your second date

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Speaker 3: update and call Emmett right after.

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Speaker 6: This Broken Jeffrey in the Morning second date updates.

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Speaker 3: Talk about an awkward ending. It's broken Jeffrey in the

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Speaker 3: Morning because our listener Amy had a solid first date

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Speaker 3: with the guy that she liked named Emmett. Fact went

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Speaker 3: so well they were already planning their next hangout when

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Speaker 3: Amy quote and these are her words, screwed it all

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Speaker 3: up because she meant to send Emmett's profile pick to

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Speaker 3: some of her girlfriends, trying to show him off a

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Speaker 3: little bit, but instead sent it straight to him, probably

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Speaker 3: with a bunch of hard eyes and pickle emojis underneath,

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Speaker 3: because I know how you ladies do so immediately, Yeah, Jeff,

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Speaker 3: I know, I've seen Brooks text They are weird. So

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Speaker 3: immediately she sent him an apology and explained what happened,

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Speaker 3: got no response, and now her fate lies in our

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Speaker 3: supple hands. Amy, would you prefer to go by the

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Speaker 3: name Shamey for the next few minutes because I do

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Speaker 3: feel the same. Man, we're just joking.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's an innocent mistake. We've all

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Speaker 1: done something really stupid like that before. Like for him

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Speaker 1: to not understand it and not respond like that kind

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Speaker 1: of sucks.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but you also understand that it is a little

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Speaker 3: bit creepy to be sent photos of yourself.

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Speaker 2: Yeah that's you don't think all girls do that, then

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Speaker 2: you're stupid. I'm a lexus on that.

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Speaker 1: I'm so excited when I get a text from my

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Speaker 1: friends after they go out with somebody.

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Speaker 3: But I think that's the thing.

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Speaker 5: We all know.

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Speaker 7: Everybody does it, but to see it happen, it's just

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Speaker 7: like kind of jarring.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it could freak you out, so.

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Speaker 2: It should be flattering that that's just how we have

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Speaker 2: to paint it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, bro, you tell him that you should be flattered,

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Speaker 3: you should be Okay, we're gonna see if even answers

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Speaker 3: the phone, and I'm gonna doll his number right now.

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Speaker 3: Let's do it. You ready, Amy, I'm ready? Okay, here

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Speaker 3: we go.

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Speaker 4: Hello.

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Speaker 3: Hey, is this Emmett?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? This is emmittt.

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Speaker 3: Hey man. This is a radio show called Broken Jeffrey

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Speaker 3: in the Morning. How you doing.

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Speaker 4: What's going on? Not much?

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Speaker 3: BROA, No, we're kidding. By the way, this is part

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Speaker 3: of a segment that we're doing. It's called a second

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Speaker 3: date update. We do have a reason for calling you.

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Speaker 4: The only date I've gone on here recently would be

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Speaker 4: a lady named Amy. Is that you're calling about.

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Speaker 7: You're helping us here.

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Speaker 3: A lady sounds like you are hot for her.

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Speaker 3: That is funny because Amy is the person who reached

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Speaker 4: That would be correct.

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Speaker 4: And she sent me my own picture.

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Speaker 1: What oh hey, oh wait, I thought you were gonna

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it looked a lot skinnier. My chin has never

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Speaker 2: Hey, we'll get you strong chin.

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Speaker 1: Oh right, that has to be some mistake, like why.

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Speaker 4: I don't know. Maybe she ai'd the thing or something,

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Speaker 2: I mean there are some friend groups that get weird

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I can understand how that would make

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Speaker 3: But you know what'd make you probably feel really weird

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Speaker 3: hear your explanation for avoiding That would be weird, Right,

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Speaker 4: Oh, she's listening to this.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's how it works.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, I want to know what's up? Why she

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Speaker 4: Her that Amy, are you? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: What is going on?

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Speaker 5: I mean, look, I feel like everybody can use a

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Speaker 5: just kind of wanted to show what your potential could be.

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Speaker 5: Oh it was, hey, not twenty pounds, it was like

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Speaker 3: Oh, okay, you're overreacting.

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Speaker 4: I'm overreacting. And in the additional pan that you gave

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Speaker 2: He was, that's kind of nice.

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Speaker 5: I mean it's I mean, it's just it's just a tan.

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Speaker 5: I mean, it's just a tan. It's not like I

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Speaker 5: It's nothing that you couldn't do if you worked out more,

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Speaker 1: And say like, maybe this is something that you think

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Speaker 5: Well doesn't everybody? I could like your zoom felts are

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Speaker 5: on when you're on, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: And like, what are you saying that you're against self improvement?

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Speaker 1: Self improvement is something that you do to improve yourself,

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Speaker 3: Sometimes you need to be shoved into self improvement.

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Speaker 5: I mean it was all tiny. It was like the skin,

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Speaker 4: Teeth, and it was he whitened my freaking peek.

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Speaker 5: Well, I mean just a little bit. I mean, your

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Speaker 5: I'm just trying to be honest.

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Speaker 3: I mean, and all these improvements are so much cheaper

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Speaker 5: And was definitely attracted to him. But I do a

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Speaker 5: I would hope that somebody would take care of themselves

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's always good to start something where you just

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Speaker 3: Do you feel loved right now?

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Speaker 4: I don't know what's the thing right now, this is

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Speaker 3: Amy is taking a big risk here. She didn't have

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Speaker 4: She did have to confess, so she sent me the picture.

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Speaker 2: Right, you deserve someone who likes you for you.

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Speaker 3: Crickets from the room. Okay, So look, I believe that

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Speaker 3: And she did that for you, and that level of

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Speaker 3: dedication deserves a second chance. If you ask me, if

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Speaker 4: Oh no, no, it would be embarrassed to ever be

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Speaker 4: this doesn't look anything like this guy.

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Speaker 3: But if you put in the work, then you won't

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Speaker 2: This man to run into all these red flags.

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Speaker 3: Because it's the photo sounds really hot.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I don't think about that though. Her friends are

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Speaker 4: Head, right, it's gonna be like shallow how but in

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Speaker 3: Look, EMMITTT if you say no, at least, hey, now

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Speaker 3: you have a better dating picture profile, you can more

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Speaker 3: women do him, just the better.

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Speaker 4: Version of a free headshut. I guess well.

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Speaker 3: It's there. It's up to you. Man, you want to

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Speaker 5: If it makes you feel better. Send like the original

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Speaker 1: The group.

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Speaker 2: Why him? Why do I not believe you?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 5: I mean like, I'll have him with me when I

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Speaker 5: do it. Like I swear, I wasn't trying to make

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Speaker 1: I just don't let him see the responses from your

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Speaker 3: Well, we still need to hear from Emma. Is it

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Speaker 4: I'm going to see yes because they have a lot

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Speaker 3: So this is true love.

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Speaker 2: I feel like this is the rock bottom. Jeff So, I.

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Speaker 5: Know he did the colunch first date, and I think

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Speaker 5: second date canning Salon, Oh my god, oh.

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Speaker 3: Speaking alexis.

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Speaker 2: Third date dead office?

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Speaker 5: Lucky you.

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Speaker 6: Reoking Jeffrey in the morning man.

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Speaker 3: You try to show someone their true potential and you

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Speaker 2: Dude, I don't think we went hard enough. I mean,

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Speaker 7: It is messed up, like in the weirdest way, trying

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Speaker 3: She was like, this is what you could be. I

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Speaker 1: If a guy said a photo of me to his

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Speaker 3: You know what you say that you're right in. There's

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Speaker 3: I feel I'm just saying. Amy never told us that

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Speaker 3: our photos on our website. Oh, because I think we

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Speaker 3: could all improve for sure. So head over to our

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Speaker 3: podcast you might see an updated photo already, with our

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Speaker 3: skin a little bit tanner, teeth, a little bit whiter. Josh,

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Speaker 1: It looks like I'm finally doing botox again.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, go find it subscribe to our podcast, Abrook and

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Speaker 3: Jeffrey