1 00:00:02,520 --> 00:00:12,719 Speaker 1: Two teas in a pod with Teddy melancan't and camera Jedge. Okay, 2 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 1: so we are back to teas in a pod. I 3 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:18,279 Speaker 1: feel like we've been on fire, Tam. We're NonStop. I 4 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 1: know it's been rough, it's been rough, but it's also 5 00:00:22,920 --> 00:00:26,560 Speaker 1: been fun. I feel like we're aficionados at this point. Um. 6 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 1: The first thing I want to talk about when we 7 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:31,240 Speaker 1: get to Potomac is there's been so much conversation before 8 00:00:31,280 --> 00:00:34,200 Speaker 1: we even get into the episode about me a social 9 00:00:34,240 --> 00:00:39,159 Speaker 1: media post about cancer on February. UM. I wanted to 10 00:00:39,200 --> 00:00:41,280 Speaker 1: start talking about it just because I know I have 11 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:45,599 Speaker 1: personally been posting about my melanoma stuff, and I know 12 00:00:45,800 --> 00:00:48,360 Speaker 1: that I have made sure to be very clear and 13 00:00:48,400 --> 00:00:54,560 Speaker 1: accurate with every single detail because it will be picked apart. Um. 14 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 1: But you're seeing what's happening going on with UH, with 15 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:02,760 Speaker 1: me UH. And as this episode continues on and people 16 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:05,640 Speaker 1: are saying she's doing it for attention, UM, and she's 17 00:01:05,680 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 1: not giving full information. The reason I get full information 18 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:10,200 Speaker 1: is because for me. I told this to Ed one 19 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:13,640 Speaker 1: last night. I said, listen, I feel like I need 20 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:16,319 Speaker 1: to continue giving every bit of information because there's so 21 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 1: many people that don't know about melanoma. They don't do 22 00:01:19,680 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 1: skin checks and they're also afraid. And if I can 23 00:01:22,959 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 1: give as much information, not only does it feel like 24 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:27,960 Speaker 1: I have a purpose and there's a reason why I'm 25 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:30,319 Speaker 1: going through all of this, but also it makes me 26 00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:32,960 Speaker 1: feel better that I'm on a podcast that talks about people, 27 00:01:33,160 --> 00:01:39,280 Speaker 1: So like, maybe somewhere up there the good will outweigh 28 00:01:39,319 --> 00:01:44,360 Speaker 1: the bad. Lord she's helping people here, so it's okay 29 00:01:44,400 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 1: that you're a ship stir on your podcast. I'm just kidding, 30 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:50,760 Speaker 1: but like she was like, and it's helping me to 31 00:01:50,840 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 1: be open and vulnerable and share my details. But this 32 00:01:53,760 --> 00:01:57,640 Speaker 1: is me a social media post on about cancer on February. 33 00:01:58,080 --> 00:02:00,720 Speaker 1: Same time. Last week, Dr called me. It's Sven thirty one, 34 00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 1: am MEA. I'm so sorry about your test results came 35 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 1: back and I need you to go to John Hopkins 36 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:09,280 Speaker 1: Cancer Center today for further evaluation. You can only imagine 37 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 1: the overwhelming amount of emotion G and I endure trying 38 00:02:12,200 --> 00:02:15,400 Speaker 1: to figure out why. However, even with such terrible news, 39 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 1: I felt an extreme amount of peace and energy, and 40 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 1: still that allowed to remain strong. I've been in and 41 00:02:20,160 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 1: out of visits to specialists every day, and the storm 42 00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:25,560 Speaker 1: is not over, but this experience is changing. I'm working 43 00:02:25,560 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 1: with a phenomenal team of physicians and I appreciate the 44 00:02:28,480 --> 00:02:31,760 Speaker 1: outpouring of support. I have not been diagnosed as of yet, 45 00:02:32,120 --> 00:02:34,120 Speaker 1: so please keep me in your prayer. I know God 46 00:02:34,120 --> 00:02:36,560 Speaker 1: has a plan, and I know we are often challenged 47 00:02:36,560 --> 00:02:39,240 Speaker 1: to remain humbled, that tomorrow is not promised and that 48 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:41,880 Speaker 1: our days on this earth are numbered. A message from 49 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:45,800 Speaker 1: my heart, a gentle reminder to live, love, and forgive 50 00:02:45,919 --> 00:02:49,640 Speaker 1: as if today was your last. Be great kings and queens. 51 00:02:51,320 --> 00:02:55,400 Speaker 1: So that's that's where it's. You know, it's different than 52 00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:57,640 Speaker 1: what's something that I've done so which is like here, 53 00:02:57,720 --> 00:03:01,840 Speaker 1: I would post a picture of my melanomas and I 54 00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:05,120 Speaker 1: say post pet scan update. Looking at the pet scans 55 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:07,799 Speaker 1: and I think I'm predisposed to melanomas. I will need 56 00:03:07,840 --> 00:03:10,720 Speaker 1: a wide and says in surgery removal and a nodal mapping. 57 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:13,280 Speaker 1: During the surgery, they will also do a simple sentinel 58 00:03:13,360 --> 00:03:16,200 Speaker 1: limp node biopsy because the PET scan they can't see 59 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:18,400 Speaker 1: if it's spread to the limp noodes. I'm getting two 60 00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:21,280 Speaker 1: more biopsies of two new locations today and the surgery 61 00:03:21,320 --> 00:03:23,919 Speaker 1: is on Tuesday, spots three and four from this picture. 62 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:25,800 Speaker 1: The pick near my shoulder are the ones that they 63 00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:28,520 Speaker 1: are concerned with being is that they are melanoma and 64 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:31,120 Speaker 1: they are close to the limp noodes and will be large, 65 00:03:31,440 --> 00:03:34,359 Speaker 1: will be a large connected removal. Then I will meet 66 00:03:34,400 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 1: with the geneticist to see if I could possibly have 67 00:03:36,560 --> 00:03:39,320 Speaker 1: the Braka to mutation. Thank you for the outpouring of 68 00:03:39,360 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 1: love and support. Please go get checked. So there's a 69 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 1: way of kind of closing it together and giving people information. 70 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 1: That being said, you know what, she may not have 71 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:51,120 Speaker 1: all the information. I don't want to judge. I just 72 00:03:51,200 --> 00:03:54,040 Speaker 1: know how I personally did it. And that's this is 73 00:03:54,080 --> 00:03:57,480 Speaker 1: what's going to cause a lot of driveable this whole season. Yeah, 74 00:03:57,520 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 1: but I don't see anything terribly wrong with her posts. 75 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 1: It just sounds like somebody that's really scared. She got information. 76 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:07,680 Speaker 1: I mean, getting information that you have any kind of cancer, 77 00:04:07,760 --> 00:04:12,200 Speaker 1: positive cancer is scary. I've had it, You've had it, 78 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 1: like it's it's a scary situation. And maybe she spoke 79 00:04:15,560 --> 00:04:18,479 Speaker 1: too soon without having all the facts. But and that's 80 00:04:18,480 --> 00:04:20,400 Speaker 1: the hard thing with being in the public is when 81 00:04:20,520 --> 00:04:24,280 Speaker 1: you have a you have a social platform. Yeah, and 82 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:26,920 Speaker 1: we all do things at the wrong time that you know. 83 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 1: But it's not like she's blatantly lying. It's something she 84 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:31,240 Speaker 1: just made up the story and just pulled it out 85 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 1: of her ass. She's obviously going she said, and seen 86 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:37,240 Speaker 1: um on this week's episode, Like she's still going through 87 00:04:37,480 --> 00:04:39,640 Speaker 1: tests and scans and all these things and they're still 88 00:04:39,640 --> 00:04:43,280 Speaker 1: trying to figure it out. So I mean, yeah. Her 89 00:04:43,279 --> 00:04:45,720 Speaker 1: second post from March twenty five was love. So many 90 00:04:45,760 --> 00:04:47,839 Speaker 1: of you reached out to check in, and I want 91 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:50,080 Speaker 1: to let you all know I'm okay. Each day comes 92 00:04:50,080 --> 00:04:52,920 Speaker 1: with new challenges. So far no cancer, although I'm still 93 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:55,960 Speaker 1: undergoing testing and we will surgically remove the two lumps 94 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:59,480 Speaker 1: for biopsy. As for now, everything is looking good. Please 95 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:02,120 Speaker 1: don't worry. It's not my intent to worry yet. Remember 96 00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:05,880 Speaker 1: the message behind God's faces us with these challenges, live 97 00:05:05,960 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 1: love and for gifts tomorrow. It's not promised. Love you 98 00:05:08,279 --> 00:05:10,360 Speaker 1: all so much, I really do. Public hugs and all 99 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:15,039 Speaker 1: thank you prayer warriors. So yeah, that's all the information 100 00:05:15,120 --> 00:05:17,560 Speaker 1: we can really give on this. I hope she's okay. 101 00:05:17,760 --> 00:05:20,040 Speaker 1: I hope she's okay. I know that going through things 102 00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:22,359 Speaker 1: can be stressful, especially when you're in the public, and 103 00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:25,440 Speaker 1: we have to remember this is also she's she's newer 104 00:05:25,480 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 1: to housewives and having this many people judge every word 105 00:05:30,480 --> 00:05:32,120 Speaker 1: that comes out of your mouth, and if you say 106 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:35,160 Speaker 1: it wrong, you know it be critiqued. Um. But if 107 00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:37,760 Speaker 1: she's going through her time, our prayers go out to her. 108 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 1: And now we'll get into the episode. What do you 109 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 1: think about the episode? Overall? That was good? Yeah, it's 110 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:56,360 Speaker 1: pretty good. I love Photomic. Potomic is one of my favorites. 111 00:05:57,080 --> 00:06:00,839 Speaker 1: Are so beautiful, the girls are so beautiful. Um. It 112 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:03,280 Speaker 1: starts off with Robin tells the group of ladies that 113 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:07,039 Speaker 1: Karen's spring party that they can all they can't all 114 00:06:07,080 --> 00:06:09,839 Speaker 1: sit there acting like Robin and Giselle were the only 115 00:06:09,880 --> 00:06:13,560 Speaker 1: ones questioning me as post on Instagram. Then the editors 116 00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:17,320 Speaker 1: slashed to all of them. I mean, I don't feel 117 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:19,960 Speaker 1: like Karen said anything bad. I think she just said, 118 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:21,680 Speaker 1: you know, that's probably not the way I would have 119 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:24,680 Speaker 1: done it, But people do in different ways. But anytime 120 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:27,039 Speaker 1: you see like a flashback, you instantly think, oh, she's 121 00:06:27,040 --> 00:06:29,200 Speaker 1: shaking her But I don't think it was much of 122 00:06:29,200 --> 00:06:32,080 Speaker 1: a shade. Yeah, I mean, but then Karen opens up 123 00:06:32,080 --> 00:06:34,480 Speaker 1: about her breast augmentation. Which I have to say, I 124 00:06:34,520 --> 00:06:36,880 Speaker 1: was kind of confused watching this scene. I was like, 125 00:06:36,960 --> 00:06:39,240 Speaker 1: is she about to get her boobs done? Or is 126 00:06:39,279 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 1: this a post op appointment? Because she was like talking 127 00:06:41,520 --> 00:06:43,479 Speaker 1: about like they were up here and now they're here 128 00:06:43,480 --> 00:06:46,040 Speaker 1: and this and this and suck this, and I still 129 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:49,440 Speaker 1: don't know. I think by what we've gotten to is 130 00:06:49,480 --> 00:06:52,599 Speaker 1: that she's gotten it, because then she said she wants to. 131 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:55,520 Speaker 1: She would encourage younger women to not do anything in 132 00:06:55,520 --> 00:07:01,799 Speaker 1: their twenties, rush for implants and to be an example. Like, guys, 133 00:07:01,839 --> 00:07:04,599 Speaker 1: if you want to get my advice in regards to 134 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:06,800 Speaker 1: plastic surgery, if you want it, you can afford it, 135 00:07:06,800 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 1: and you can go to a reputable doctor. Do what 136 00:07:09,480 --> 00:07:12,320 Speaker 1: makes you happy. But don't go get one that's not 137 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:14,440 Speaker 1: in a safe place just because you really want to 138 00:07:14,520 --> 00:07:18,080 Speaker 1: change something. That's my biggest And be smart about what 139 00:07:18,080 --> 00:07:22,960 Speaker 1: you're doing and who your doctor is and do your research. Yeah. Um, 140 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:25,120 Speaker 1: but I mean I think you can still be a 141 00:07:25,120 --> 00:07:27,840 Speaker 1: good example. You have breast plants, breast implants or not? 142 00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:32,240 Speaker 1: So did she have hers removed and lifted in a 143 00:07:32,280 --> 00:07:35,120 Speaker 1: new implant? Put in or new implant? Right? She not 144 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 1: have implants? Like I'm so confused, no, because then they 145 00:07:37,480 --> 00:07:39,400 Speaker 1: flashed back to her wedding photo and she said, the 146 00:07:39,440 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 1: first time around, I did it, he liked it or 147 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:45,320 Speaker 1: I don't know. That's the thing about Karen. You don't 148 00:07:45,440 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 1: really know what she's saying. Oh really, okay, Yeah, you'll 149 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:51,240 Speaker 1: start just getting to know Karen. Like there was one 150 00:07:51,240 --> 00:07:53,400 Speaker 1: time last season where she was like said something to 151 00:07:53,720 --> 00:07:56,200 Speaker 1: Giselle about like sing sing and dad da da, but 152 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:59,600 Speaker 1: like Giselle had never gone to sing sing like she 153 00:07:59,680 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 1: was just gonna be funny and like used a phrase 154 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:05,080 Speaker 1: but it had made no sense. Um, But we loved 155 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:07,240 Speaker 1: Karen at Bravo con by the way. She was funny 156 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:11,000 Speaker 1: and nice and super sweet. All right. Then get into 157 00:08:11,040 --> 00:08:15,320 Speaker 1: the Ashley. Ashley has her friend Deborah over and she 158 00:08:15,480 --> 00:08:19,000 Speaker 1: talks about things. She talks about things don't feel different 159 00:08:19,040 --> 00:08:21,840 Speaker 1: between her and Michael because they still live together. She 160 00:08:21,880 --> 00:08:24,160 Speaker 1: says Michael is going to stay in their condom since 161 00:08:24,200 --> 00:08:26,640 Speaker 1: he doesn't want to live in a house with a yard. 162 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:30,800 Speaker 1: Such a weird thing to say. She says she will 163 00:08:30,840 --> 00:08:33,720 Speaker 1: start dating and entertaining, but feels guilty since still married, 164 00:08:34,240 --> 00:08:36,360 Speaker 1: she has been coping with everything going on in her 165 00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:40,360 Speaker 1: life by doing TikTok dances and says it brings her 166 00:08:40,440 --> 00:08:44,880 Speaker 1: feeling of accomplishment. Okay, the TikTok dancing comment killed me, 167 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:47,480 Speaker 1: But also I need to note now I want to 168 00:08:47,520 --> 00:08:50,079 Speaker 1: ask her if she ended up hooking up with Luke 169 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:53,240 Speaker 1: from Summer House at Bravo con because remember Andy did 170 00:08:53,280 --> 00:08:55,360 Speaker 1: that whole thing, and I saw lots of pictures of 171 00:08:55,400 --> 00:08:58,080 Speaker 1: them together, lots of pictures saw them walking through the 172 00:08:58,120 --> 00:09:02,840 Speaker 1: crowd together. We saw him on the red carpet. Um. 173 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:05,199 Speaker 1: Who knows. It could be one of those things like 174 00:09:05,679 --> 00:09:09,360 Speaker 1: just they decided to latch onto for press, or they 175 00:09:09,400 --> 00:09:11,840 Speaker 1: could have been really going for it. I do remember 176 00:09:12,240 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 1: feeling the need to have like a twenty five minute 177 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:17,880 Speaker 1: conversation with her about why I don't think you should 178 00:09:17,880 --> 00:09:21,360 Speaker 1: live with your ax. What are your thoughts on that. 179 00:09:22,400 --> 00:09:25,760 Speaker 1: I personally think that as much as you think that 180 00:09:25,880 --> 00:09:31,560 Speaker 1: you can compartmentalize, I think doing living life with your 181 00:09:31,559 --> 00:09:36,040 Speaker 1: ex and showing your kids that relationship it's going to 182 00:09:36,120 --> 00:09:38,840 Speaker 1: be confusing to your kids and how they are ultimately 183 00:09:38,960 --> 00:09:42,760 Speaker 1: going to have a loving relationship moving forward. Yeah. I 184 00:09:42,760 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 1: mean a lot of couples do that nesting thing when 185 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:47,920 Speaker 1: they get divorced, where you know there's two houses, and 186 00:09:48,800 --> 00:09:51,440 Speaker 1: the kids stay remain in one house and the you know, 187 00:09:51,520 --> 00:09:54,720 Speaker 1: alternating parents go back and forth. But that's all good 188 00:09:54,720 --> 00:09:59,040 Speaker 1: and dandy until somebody gets in another relationship. That's all 189 00:09:59,040 --> 00:10:02,400 Speaker 1: good and dandy until this The reason they obviously are 190 00:10:02,400 --> 00:10:05,760 Speaker 1: getting divorces because they can't get along. There is something, 191 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:08,160 Speaker 1: you know, like, no matter what we can say, it's 192 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:11,840 Speaker 1: because you know, she's now wanting to no longer be 193 00:10:11,880 --> 00:10:14,880 Speaker 1: in an open relationship, and he still does. The point is, 194 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:18,120 Speaker 1: at some point it's going to piss her off, or 195 00:10:18,320 --> 00:10:21,600 Speaker 1: it's gonna piss him off the second that she's it's 196 00:10:21,600 --> 00:10:24,719 Speaker 1: impossible to think that a couple is not ever if 197 00:10:24,760 --> 00:10:27,120 Speaker 1: you chose to get married at some point you really 198 00:10:27,120 --> 00:10:30,200 Speaker 1: loved each other and had passionate feelings and intimacy, and 199 00:10:30,280 --> 00:10:32,559 Speaker 1: trying to disguise it so that you can all live 200 00:10:32,559 --> 00:10:35,079 Speaker 1: in one house, I think is harder for the kids. 201 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:37,000 Speaker 1: Is not ever going to go back with him. She's 202 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:41,600 Speaker 1: so beautiful, she's got such a cute, perky personality. She's 203 00:10:41,640 --> 00:10:45,000 Speaker 1: gonna landsome really hot dude and live happily ever after. 204 00:10:45,640 --> 00:10:48,079 Speaker 1: I hope so, because she is fun um. But the 205 00:10:48,320 --> 00:10:53,440 Speaker 1: the editors showing the TikTok's were hilarious. Hold on, but 206 00:10:53,520 --> 00:10:56,480 Speaker 1: we didn't discuss one other thing from the party. What 207 00:10:57,120 --> 00:10:59,960 Speaker 1: when they were at the party and they showed Jacqueline, 208 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:02,160 Speaker 1: which is the new friend of the one that all 209 00:11:02,200 --> 00:11:05,280 Speaker 1: that stuff happens with Mia, where Miya shows the like 210 00:11:06,280 --> 00:11:12,880 Speaker 1: the her fighting with her husband video, they put um Jacqueline, 211 00:11:14,280 --> 00:11:20,480 Speaker 1: MIA's best friend. They put it in quotes like soon 212 00:11:20,559 --> 00:11:22,559 Speaker 1: to me and like then they showed all the flashbacks 213 00:11:22,559 --> 00:11:24,840 Speaker 1: of them being best friends. Like this wasn't like a 214 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:28,880 Speaker 1: housewife best friend. This was like they were like middle school. 215 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:31,880 Speaker 1: It's great, like since they were kids, they've been best friends. 216 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:35,000 Speaker 1: And so she's now on as a friend. Yes, And 217 00:11:35,040 --> 00:11:40,319 Speaker 1: then she posted the video of her best friend physically 218 00:11:40,360 --> 00:11:44,760 Speaker 1: going after her husband and they're fighting all over Twitter 219 00:11:44,800 --> 00:11:49,439 Speaker 1: and Instagram. So things are about very very messy. It's 220 00:11:49,520 --> 00:11:51,560 Speaker 1: very messy. But I did like that they put in 221 00:11:51,720 --> 00:11:56,520 Speaker 1: quotes best friend because normally you don't get the quotes there. Yeah, wait, 222 00:11:56,520 --> 00:11:59,600 Speaker 1: did we not talk about the ascraft to Katie and 223 00:11:59,600 --> 00:12:01,959 Speaker 1: she came men and grabbed raise us right now? Is 224 00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:05,920 Speaker 1: Katie Karen's friend? Oh so Katie, just to give you backstory, 225 00:12:06,360 --> 00:12:09,760 Speaker 1: Katie used to be on the show at the beginning. 226 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:12,600 Speaker 1: Then she came on I think it was two seasons ago, 227 00:12:13,280 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 1: and she had kind of like what appeared to be 228 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:22,600 Speaker 1: allegedly a breakdown, and then like things just went wild 229 00:12:22,760 --> 00:12:27,400 Speaker 1: on her Instagram and she had a breakup. I don't 230 00:12:27,559 --> 00:12:29,160 Speaker 1: I don't want to, I don't want to speak out 231 00:12:29,160 --> 00:12:30,920 Speaker 1: of turn, but something happened with her kids and her 232 00:12:30,920 --> 00:12:35,360 Speaker 1: ex husband and just so Katie's dock, Katie's bat was 233 00:12:35,400 --> 00:12:38,560 Speaker 1: back this and she had some some grabby hands man 234 00:12:38,679 --> 00:12:43,240 Speaker 1: she was grabbing raise ass like in patent it and 235 00:12:43,240 --> 00:12:46,720 Speaker 1: and uh, Karen was just sitting there. I'm sure I 236 00:12:46,800 --> 00:12:50,200 Speaker 1: was just sitting there. Didn't necessarily love it, especially because 237 00:12:50,240 --> 00:12:54,000 Speaker 1: I think in the first episode, who did right? Pick 238 00:12:54,240 --> 00:12:57,680 Speaker 1: as who he would because number one Katie person would 239 00:12:57,720 --> 00:13:01,040 Speaker 1: be it was Katie, right, it's Katie. Yeah, so that 240 00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:03,280 Speaker 1: that would be a hard No, that ain't happening. You're 241 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:08,840 Speaker 1: not touching my husband's ass, yes, um yeah yeah. So 242 00:13:09,080 --> 00:13:13,680 Speaker 1: then we get there, then we get to the d 243 00:13:13,960 --> 00:13:20,880 Speaker 1: M S and what's going on with uh Candice and 244 00:13:21,000 --> 00:13:24,640 Speaker 1: Chris and sliding into the d M. I mean, here's 245 00:13:25,000 --> 00:13:28,720 Speaker 1: my true thought on this entire thing. I don't think 246 00:13:28,800 --> 00:13:30,920 Speaker 1: Chris was doing anything wrong here? Do I think the 247 00:13:30,960 --> 00:13:33,439 Speaker 1: timing is weird? Yes? But do I think that if 248 00:13:33,440 --> 00:13:36,600 Speaker 1: it's you work at a bar and you're all If 249 00:13:36,920 --> 00:13:41,280 Speaker 1: I worked at the W and I saw Eddie was 250 00:13:41,440 --> 00:13:45,720 Speaker 1: at you know, what's something comparable to the W, you know, 251 00:13:46,440 --> 00:13:50,240 Speaker 1: at the sky bar and it was out, and I 252 00:13:50,320 --> 00:13:51,760 Speaker 1: just d M and said, no, you should come to 253 00:13:51,760 --> 00:13:55,120 Speaker 1: the W instead. Yeah, well, this is my take on it. 254 00:13:55,480 --> 00:13:59,800 Speaker 1: She He was responding to her story. She obviously posted 255 00:13:59,800 --> 00:14:02,840 Speaker 1: a story that she was out somewhere right, and he 256 00:14:02,960 --> 00:14:05,440 Speaker 1: just simply said, should have went to the W. I 257 00:14:05,559 --> 00:14:09,280 Speaker 1: do not think that that was bad at all. And 258 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:11,480 Speaker 1: I also didn't think it was bad that at the 259 00:14:11,520 --> 00:14:15,120 Speaker 1: reunion he talked to he wanted to talk to Giselle 260 00:14:15,160 --> 00:14:22,720 Speaker 1: privately and her glamour, because Giselle openly said, I feel 261 00:14:22,760 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 1: like he was coming on to you know, like she 262 00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:26,080 Speaker 1: was like no, But I didn't like that he was 263 00:14:26,120 --> 00:14:30,160 Speaker 1: talking to me by myself. Um well, what I did 264 00:14:30,240 --> 00:14:33,520 Speaker 1: like was that they broke the fourth wall. I know, 265 00:14:33,920 --> 00:14:36,520 Speaker 1: watching Candice walk off and get Piste off, I would 266 00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:38,240 Speaker 1: have done the same thing, like, hey, you can put 267 00:14:38,240 --> 00:14:41,440 Speaker 1: after my husband then piece out, But she put up 268 00:14:41,440 --> 00:14:44,440 Speaker 1: with him for a long time, she had multiple conversations 269 00:14:44,480 --> 00:14:48,160 Speaker 1: about it. I personally don't think like there's not something 270 00:14:48,200 --> 00:14:52,720 Speaker 1: explosive they're bringing up, Like he's not saying yeah, but 271 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:55,040 Speaker 1: she knows where it's going. They're gonna start saying that 272 00:14:55,080 --> 00:14:58,800 Speaker 1: her husband shady. That's what I'm saying. I think that 273 00:14:58,880 --> 00:15:01,640 Speaker 1: she allowed a lot of the conversation before she lost it. 274 00:15:02,080 --> 00:15:04,040 Speaker 1: Then finally she was like, you know, this has got 275 00:15:04,040 --> 00:15:08,200 Speaker 1: to stop because you know already it looks like he, 276 00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:10,160 Speaker 1: you know, doesn't have it. Like last season they made 277 00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:11,760 Speaker 1: it look like you didn't have a job, you didn't 278 00:15:11,760 --> 00:15:14,240 Speaker 1: do anything, you're just drinking too much, like they showed 279 00:15:14,280 --> 00:15:16,120 Speaker 1: all that, and now this season they're trying to say 280 00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:18,560 Speaker 1: that he's coming onto the women. I did appreciate that 281 00:15:18,640 --> 00:15:22,560 Speaker 1: Robin had her back. Yeah, I loved Robin, really loved Robbin. 282 00:15:22,600 --> 00:15:24,760 Speaker 1: In this episode, I feel like she's stuck up. I 283 00:15:24,840 --> 00:15:27,400 Speaker 1: don't know, I just I my beliefs are kind of 284 00:15:27,440 --> 00:15:29,760 Speaker 1: obviously she has more history with these girls, not too 285 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:32,440 Speaker 1: I don't even know what happened last season, but so far, 286 00:15:32,560 --> 00:15:35,880 Speaker 1: I just I agree with Robin is always pretty much 287 00:15:35,920 --> 00:15:40,360 Speaker 1: the voice of reason, which is of course why I 288 00:15:40,440 --> 00:15:44,240 Speaker 1: like her to um and then Candice had good point. 289 00:15:44,280 --> 00:15:46,720 Speaker 1: She's like, he's just trying to rebrand the w where 290 00:15:46,760 --> 00:15:49,080 Speaker 1: he works, and he feels like he has a close 291 00:15:49,120 --> 00:15:51,240 Speaker 1: relationship with you guys. We've all been doing the show 292 00:15:51,280 --> 00:15:54,920 Speaker 1: for a long time. And I personally agree if from 293 00:15:55,000 --> 00:15:57,840 Speaker 1: if you, if Eddie or any of the Beverly Hills 294 00:15:58,000 --> 00:16:00,320 Speaker 1: husband sent me a message like you guys to come 295 00:16:00,360 --> 00:16:02,800 Speaker 1: here instead, I would have not thought twice about it 296 00:16:02,920 --> 00:16:04,960 Speaker 1: if you would have sent me a d M that said, 297 00:16:05,000 --> 00:16:08,920 Speaker 1: like you look hot. Yeah, that's that's different. But he 298 00:16:09,040 --> 00:16:11,440 Speaker 1: was responding to her story. If you looked at showed 299 00:16:11,440 --> 00:16:13,320 Speaker 1: that she doesn't matter if you're respond to a story 300 00:16:13,480 --> 00:16:15,960 Speaker 1: or not well because she was probably out, she's probably 301 00:16:15,960 --> 00:16:18,000 Speaker 1: out of here and she was doing that and he 302 00:16:18,080 --> 00:16:22,680 Speaker 1: just said should have went here. Big deal. Regardless of 303 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:25,240 Speaker 1: you're responding to a story or you're you're sending an 304 00:16:25,240 --> 00:16:28,080 Speaker 1: individual d M, you're still making a choice to message 305 00:16:28,080 --> 00:16:30,360 Speaker 1: in person. But what he messaged was not bad, so 306 00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:34,680 Speaker 1: to me, it makes a good deal. Um. Then what 307 00:16:34,760 --> 00:16:38,320 Speaker 1: happens then? Giselle tells Ashley that she feels like she's 308 00:16:38,360 --> 00:16:40,960 Speaker 1: playing with divorced by one minute getting divorced and one 309 00:16:40,960 --> 00:16:43,640 Speaker 1: minute buying a house. With Michael actually tried to bring 310 00:16:43,640 --> 00:16:46,320 Speaker 1: it up up a point that Giselle and her ex 311 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:48,960 Speaker 1: reconciled at some point, and says she didn't know there 312 00:16:49,000 --> 00:16:53,120 Speaker 1: was a statue of limitations on someone's affections. Ashley says 313 00:16:53,160 --> 00:16:55,880 Speaker 1: the compromise of Michael is choosing to help her since 314 00:16:55,960 --> 00:16:57,960 Speaker 1: she can't afford a house as she wants. What do 315 00:16:58,000 --> 00:16:59,720 Speaker 1: you think happening? Well, first of all, how long is 316 00:16:59,880 --> 00:17:02,760 Speaker 1: she even on the show? Seven years? Yeah, she can 317 00:17:02,800 --> 00:17:07,240 Speaker 1: afford a house. She can afford a house. Which did 318 00:17:07,240 --> 00:17:10,240 Speaker 1: you see that? She says, a house that she of 319 00:17:10,400 --> 00:17:12,800 Speaker 1: the size that she wants. Did you see the house 320 00:17:12,840 --> 00:17:18,760 Speaker 1: she's in? Yes? No? Did we Yes? The one with 321 00:17:18,760 --> 00:17:22,440 Speaker 1: the purple walls, the condo, Oh, even the one she's 322 00:17:22,480 --> 00:17:26,200 Speaker 1: currently in. That's his house. Okay, well that's the house 323 00:17:26,240 --> 00:17:30,040 Speaker 1: he wants to stay in. If I'm not mistaken, aren't 324 00:17:30,080 --> 00:17:37,879 Speaker 1: houses in that area? Um? Affordable? Nod? Like really really expensive? 325 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:41,320 Speaker 1: That condo is like crazy, crazy expensive. It just looks 326 00:17:41,359 --> 00:17:43,760 Speaker 1: like that because it's filled with ten tons of kids, crap, 327 00:17:43,880 --> 00:17:45,800 Speaker 1: every it's stilled. You can't even like anything. I was 328 00:17:45,880 --> 00:17:49,760 Speaker 1: getting itchy watching. Yeah, that's that's like a really really 329 00:17:49,800 --> 00:17:54,640 Speaker 1: expensive condo. Building and it's just jam like imagine being 330 00:17:54,640 --> 00:17:57,720 Speaker 1: in a bachelor pad crammed with ten thousand kids. Choice, 331 00:17:57,840 --> 00:18:01,119 Speaker 1: that's what it is. Um. I thought I was a 332 00:18:01,160 --> 00:18:03,719 Speaker 1: little bit cheaper till in that area, almost like Jersey 333 00:18:03,920 --> 00:18:06,879 Speaker 1: Like Jerseys, like for two million dollars you can get 334 00:18:06,920 --> 00:18:08,960 Speaker 1: a giant house, like two million dollars you get a 335 00:18:09,000 --> 00:18:11,920 Speaker 1: condo here in Orange County. No, no, I think that that, 336 00:18:12,240 --> 00:18:14,800 Speaker 1: especially where he currently lives. And I think what her 337 00:18:14,880 --> 00:18:18,080 Speaker 1: friend said, I hate when when they say this, but 338 00:18:18,200 --> 00:18:20,280 Speaker 1: I think what Michael Darby is trying to do is 339 00:18:21,280 --> 00:18:27,760 Speaker 1: as cheaper keeper. Is he really wealthy? Well no, but 340 00:18:27,960 --> 00:18:29,480 Speaker 1: I don't know how wealthy is I don't know his 341 00:18:29,600 --> 00:18:32,040 Speaker 1: bank statements. But do you know how much it costs 342 00:18:32,040 --> 00:18:34,399 Speaker 1: to get a divorce and then pay child support on 343 00:18:34,440 --> 00:18:39,760 Speaker 1: two kids and um spousal support and all of those things? 344 00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:44,119 Speaker 1: Right now? I'm guessing he manages everything right now, and 345 00:18:44,160 --> 00:18:47,080 Speaker 1: it's more simple. This is totally just my guess. It's 346 00:18:47,119 --> 00:18:49,800 Speaker 1: more simple to just all keep handling everything that you 347 00:18:49,800 --> 00:18:51,880 Speaker 1: want to do, then go to court and have people 348 00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:55,400 Speaker 1: did through his finances and then he is And did 349 00:18:55,440 --> 00:18:57,840 Speaker 1: we not here in the first episode that she is 350 00:18:57,880 --> 00:19:03,440 Speaker 1: not represented by an attorney. She's I think she said 351 00:19:03,440 --> 00:19:05,359 Speaker 1: that she was letting him handle everything, which is a 352 00:19:05,480 --> 00:19:08,439 Speaker 1: huge mistake. I think, you know, I think she's going 353 00:19:08,480 --> 00:19:10,640 Speaker 1: to learn from these mistakes, and I think hopefully more 354 00:19:10,680 --> 00:19:13,000 Speaker 1: people will tell her. But I think she also has 355 00:19:13,000 --> 00:19:15,960 Speaker 1: a good heart, and she she really loves her kids obviously, 356 00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:18,040 Speaker 1: and she wants him to be involved, and she's hoping 357 00:19:18,040 --> 00:19:20,480 Speaker 1: that if they keep it this way, that hopefully he'll 358 00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:22,480 Speaker 1: be a more hands on dad because she did not. 359 00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:26,280 Speaker 1: Her backstory is she did not have any relationship with 360 00:19:26,320 --> 00:19:28,600 Speaker 1: her dad, and a couple of seasons ago, she tries 361 00:19:28,640 --> 00:19:30,840 Speaker 1: to even like go see him on camera and he 362 00:19:30,880 --> 00:19:35,679 Speaker 1: refused to. So her story is incredibly heartbreaking. UM. So 363 00:19:35,720 --> 00:19:37,760 Speaker 1: you know how important it is for her to try 364 00:19:37,760 --> 00:19:40,680 Speaker 1: to keep that relationship. She's so you see all the sacks. Yeah, 365 00:19:40,760 --> 00:19:43,320 Speaker 1: so in uh, in three weeks, I'll have time to 366 00:19:43,680 --> 00:19:48,920 Speaker 1: go back and watch us last season. Who. Um. Then 367 00:19:49,080 --> 00:19:52,000 Speaker 1: Giselle tells Candice about how Chris made her feel uncomfortable 368 00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:56,119 Speaker 1: at the reunion. Um. Candice says Chris thinks all of 369 00:19:56,119 --> 00:19:58,560 Speaker 1: them as friends and sisters. Giselle says Chris made her 370 00:19:58,560 --> 00:20:01,920 Speaker 1: a hundred percent uncomfortable and Candice walks away from the conversation. 371 00:20:02,280 --> 00:20:08,719 Speaker 1: Candice tells Eric processor the exact producer, that he doesn't 372 00:20:08,760 --> 00:20:11,879 Speaker 1: want that he doesn't want her there if they're going 373 00:20:11,920 --> 00:20:14,240 Speaker 1: to talk about her husband and how Michael Darby is 374 00:20:14,240 --> 00:20:17,120 Speaker 1: available for that for the ask grabbing mother who likes 375 00:20:17,160 --> 00:20:21,439 Speaker 1: to make people actually feel uncomfortable. Who that was a 376 00:20:21,480 --> 00:20:25,000 Speaker 1: good one. Who. It's so funny because I did not 377 00:20:25,119 --> 00:20:27,960 Speaker 1: watch Potomac prior, but I knew who that guy was 378 00:20:29,480 --> 00:20:31,560 Speaker 1: because he was always anywhere. He was always in the 379 00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:36,760 Speaker 1: press um And then fan thoughts, we've kind of about 380 00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:40,800 Speaker 1: what about the dancing, Well, I just moved through the 381 00:20:40,880 --> 00:20:43,639 Speaker 1: dancing like nothing happened. I know, but I want to 382 00:20:43,640 --> 00:20:45,240 Speaker 1: see it. I would love for us to do a 383 00:20:45,359 --> 00:20:50,639 Speaker 1: dance like that. We would be Robin. I was so 384 00:20:50,760 --> 00:20:54,520 Speaker 1: relating to Robin during those dance. No, Robin would be 385 00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:58,080 Speaker 1: better than even us. I can probably probably us in 386 00:20:58,200 --> 00:21:00,080 Speaker 1: heels by the way. I have your heels, but we 387 00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:06,480 Speaker 1: switched I have yours. I mean, are you kidding me? That? 388 00:21:06,600 --> 00:21:10,879 Speaker 1: I would be horrible? But she's all she was owning it. 389 00:21:11,240 --> 00:21:14,040 Speaker 1: She knew and and actually clearly knows how to dance. 390 00:21:14,280 --> 00:21:16,480 Speaker 1: I see her on TikTok all the time. Actually, no 391 00:21:16,560 --> 00:21:19,199 Speaker 1: side of dance, Candice, no side of dance. Wendy was 392 00:21:19,240 --> 00:21:22,840 Speaker 1: doing a good job. Now tell me is Wendy. Is 393 00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:26,280 Speaker 1: Wendy a house ide for a friend aid, She's a 394 00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:29,800 Speaker 1: household Okay, I don't know. I'm telling you. I'm being honest. 395 00:21:29,960 --> 00:21:31,960 Speaker 1: She was a big She was a big part of 396 00:21:32,040 --> 00:21:34,080 Speaker 1: last season. There was a lot of drama involving her. 397 00:21:34,160 --> 00:21:38,680 Speaker 1: Because Wendy is was like a political I'm so bad 398 00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:42,240 Speaker 1: with politics, but like a political spokesperson of some sort, 399 00:21:42,359 --> 00:21:45,679 Speaker 1: like and very like her first season, very buttoned up, 400 00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:49,240 Speaker 1: very like, everything's perfect. And then second season she came 401 00:21:49,240 --> 00:21:53,160 Speaker 1: back and she had new tips and new ass. My god, 402 00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:54,879 Speaker 1: I love this. Oh my god, I have to watch 403 00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:57,600 Speaker 1: last season. I can go back and watch because the 404 00:21:57,640 --> 00:21:59,879 Speaker 1: transition of Wendy it's huge. But Wendy is going to 405 00:21:59,920 --> 00:22:02,280 Speaker 1: be involved in big drama, which he spilled at Bravo 406 00:22:02,359 --> 00:22:06,560 Speaker 1: con involving drinks being thrown. It's in the trailer, so 407 00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:10,080 Speaker 1: I can wait. We're in for it for a lot 408 00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:13,160 Speaker 1: um and the fan thoughts are all the same things 409 00:22:13,160 --> 00:22:15,680 Speaker 1: we thought. We think this is gonna be an awesome season. 410 00:22:16,119 --> 00:22:18,760 Speaker 1: I think we're gonna see a lot more of the 411 00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:22,520 Speaker 1: friends of and I'm excited for Tim to catch up 412 00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:24,440 Speaker 1: and you guys to keep and break in the fourth 413 00:22:24,440 --> 00:22:26,680 Speaker 1: wall is something I think that I mean, I don't 414 00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:28,400 Speaker 1: really and they could always I don't really want them 415 00:22:28,400 --> 00:22:30,200 Speaker 1: to do it to me, but I think it's great 416 00:22:30,240 --> 00:22:36,639 Speaker 1: to watch I do. Great, great, gosh. Well, you guys. 417 00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:39,080 Speaker 1: We will be back later on in the week to 418 00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:43,320 Speaker 1: recap real Hounds of Beverly Hills re union, Oh my god, 419 00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:51,320 Speaker 1: Salt Lake City. So we'll talk to you all then. Bye.