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Speaker 1: All right. See this is from Wanda in Shreveport. Wanda says,

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Speaker 1: I have a niece that my husband and I raised.

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Speaker 1: Her mom is my sister, and my sister needs to

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Speaker 1: borrow some money from us to get an apartment. My

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Speaker 1: husband told her that we've done all we can do.

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Speaker 1: I pleaded with him, and he said that we helped

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Speaker 1: my sister's child, and now that she has grown, we're done.

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Speaker 1: If it was his sister, he would gladly get it

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Speaker 1: to her. Would I be wrong to give my sister

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Speaker 1: the money she needs?

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Speaker 2: Well, here we go again.

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Speaker 3: If the money that your sister needs has to come

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Speaker 3: out of you and your husband's joint money, then you're

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Speaker 3: gonna have to have a discussion.

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Speaker 2: With your husband.

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Speaker 1: He already couldn't know that.

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Speaker 3: He said no, And that's because they don't have the

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Speaker 3: faux bank accounts I've told people to get. Now, if

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Speaker 3: you had your own money, your separate allowance, you could

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Speaker 3: do with it what you want. And if he had

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Speaker 3: his own separate he can help his sister, his brother

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Speaker 3: without referring to you. But once you have to go

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Speaker 3: into the joint account, you're gonna have to have this discussion.

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Speaker 3: And this is what you're having a problem because you

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Speaker 3: say yes and he say no. So now, if you're

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Speaker 3: going to do it anyway, you're gonna create a ripple

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Speaker 3: in your house. Yeah, and that's just all to it.

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Speaker 3: So if the ripple is worth it, then go ahead.

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Speaker 3: I don't do ripples no more.

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Speaker 1: Your ripple free.

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Speaker 2: Like.

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Speaker 3: So, you're saying that your husband would gladly do it

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Speaker 3: for his sister, but we're not talking about that case

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Speaker 3: right now. We're talking about your sister. And y'all haven

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Speaker 3: already raised her child. Now, if you continue to enable

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Speaker 3: your sister, what is your sister gonna do for herself?

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Speaker 1: Well, that's what she want got up money for an

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Speaker 1: apartment she wants to get.

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Speaker 2: Well, I understand that. Then you know, I personally would

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Speaker 2: help my sister. But yeah, it's gonna create a problem though. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: just know that going in next question.

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Speaker 1: All right, all right, we have time for another one.

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Speaker 1: This is from Christian and Decatur. Christian says, it's been

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Speaker 1: twenty years since I saw my ex girlfriend and she's married. Now,

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Speaker 1: that didn't stop us from having sex. I was cool

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Speaker 1: with having sex with her while she was in town

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Speaker 1: for the weekend. Yeah, that's what it says, but it

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Speaker 1: was heavy on her conscience. When she got back home,

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Speaker 1: she opened up to her husband and told her about

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Speaker 1: our fling. He has called me several times. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: he has called me several times saying he wants to

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Speaker 1: talk about what happened. I did not sign up for that.

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Speaker 1: Do I have to talk to this man about what

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Speaker 1: I did? Wow, he ain't gonna talk to you.

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Speaker 2: No, this is not gonna be about time he gonna

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Speaker 2: do something to you.

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Speaker 1: Well, she was feeling guilty, so she get her conscience. Yeah, well,

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Speaker 1: she was feeling guilty. Well, Sureley, I'm with Steve and

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Speaker 1: Tommy some you got take tea green all right, greedy

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Speaker 1: as Yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 3: I ain't ever felt no guilt like that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, really well, she was feeling guilty so much so

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Speaker 1: that she confessed to her husband.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's too much. You got another conversation. You got

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Speaker 2: to talk to people and know that they're gonna do

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Speaker 2: that kind of stuff. You gotta you gotta, you gotta

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Speaker 2: know what people.

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Speaker 3: You need to run that by your free in the

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Speaker 3: something first, for you go in that confessing. Before you confess,

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Speaker 3: run it by somebody.

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Speaker 1: You haven't you ever done something Steve, You guys, that

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Speaker 1: has been weighing heavily on your mind. You know, haven't

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Speaker 1: you ever done something like that? I wanted to get

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Speaker 1: it off you. You wanted to get it off you guilt? Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's what she's That's.

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Speaker 2: What she did. Got me when I took a shower,

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Speaker 2: I get it off.

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Speaker 1: For real, refreshed, we through, we through mind clear, all

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Speaker 1: minds clear an clip. But she couldn't do that. She

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Speaker 1: could not do that. She couldn't live with that guilt

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Speaker 1: on her conscience.

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Speaker 2: So you go tell your husband you cheat it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, tell your husband you cheat it. And not only

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Speaker 1: do you put yourself in jeopardy, but you put the

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Speaker 1: person you cheat it with in jeopardy. I mean, it

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Speaker 1: was just a fling to him. Well, oh my goodness, right,

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Speaker 1: you're gonna do it is Shut up. She broke all

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Speaker 1: the cheating rules on me.

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Speaker 2: Listen to me, it'll go away.

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Speaker 3: All right.

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Speaker 2: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show