1 00:00:02,600 --> 00:00:06,720 Speaker 1: Ever been less waiting by the phone. It's the Fred 2 00:00:06,760 --> 00:00:08,600 Speaker 1: Shell Andy. Good morning, welcome to the show. 3 00:00:08,600 --> 00:00:11,200 Speaker 2: How are you, good morning, Thanks for having me. I'm 4 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:11,640 Speaker 2: pretty good. 5 00:00:11,680 --> 00:00:14,240 Speaker 1: I'm pretty good, okay, but pretty good? So why just 6 00:00:14,280 --> 00:00:16,479 Speaker 1: pretty good? I mean, I know the purpose of this 7 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:17,840 Speaker 1: is to find out if you've been ghosted, and you 8 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:20,079 Speaker 1: feel like maybe you have been. So what happened with 9 00:00:20,160 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 1: this woman? Claire tell us everything? 10 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:25,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, So I met Claire on Hinge. I was 11 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:29,479 Speaker 2: pretty excited when we matched, you know, I asked for 12 00:00:29,520 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 2: her number, did the whole usual situation when you're trying 13 00:00:32,760 --> 00:00:35,960 Speaker 2: to meet up on those things. We agreed to go 14 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 2: out for a drink. She was like, she seemed pretty 15 00:00:38,360 --> 00:00:41,279 Speaker 2: into it. We had We had a great time, Like, 16 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:44,440 Speaker 2: the conversation was easy, good sense of humor. 17 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:48,040 Speaker 3: We definitely connected. And you know, the bonus was, we 18 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 3: went back to my place in a nice little makeout session, 19 00:00:50,920 --> 00:00:54,160 Speaker 3: and I can't think of a single thing that went wrong. 20 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:57,400 Speaker 3: And now she's just not responding to me at all. 21 00:00:57,680 --> 00:00:59,120 Speaker 3: So I'm a little confused. 22 00:00:59,320 --> 00:01:01,880 Speaker 1: Right, So you're about this, You were hoping to hear 23 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:04,200 Speaker 1: from her again after the date. You're pretty sure when 24 00:01:04,240 --> 00:01:06,160 Speaker 1: you reached out she'd say, yeah, sure, let's go out 25 00:01:06,200 --> 00:01:09,399 Speaker 1: another time. Except you did, and she hasn't responded to 26 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 1: you at. 27 00:01:09,959 --> 00:01:13,480 Speaker 3: All at all. Like actually, honestly, I thought maybe she 28 00:01:13,520 --> 00:01:16,080 Speaker 3: would reach out first, Like I was definitely like, I 29 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:17,920 Speaker 3: waited a couple of days, you know, did that whole 30 00:01:17,959 --> 00:01:19,959 Speaker 3: thing and nothing. 31 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean we've discussed this before, the waiting thing. 32 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:25,400 Speaker 1: It depends on the person that you're waiting on or 33 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 1: thinking you should wait for. Sometimes people want to hear 34 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:30,120 Speaker 1: from you sooner some people. Sometimes people don't. But whatever 35 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:32,720 Speaker 1: the case may be, you didn't wait for her entirely. 36 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:34,399 Speaker 1: You did reach out, she's just not responding. 37 00:01:34,560 --> 00:01:35,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you know. 38 00:01:35,600 --> 00:01:37,920 Speaker 3: A couple of days later, I was like, okay, well whatever, 39 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:41,800 Speaker 3: maybe she's busier. I don't know. So sent her text message, 40 00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:44,560 Speaker 3: didn't get a response, send her follow up tech message. 41 00:01:44,600 --> 00:01:46,600 Speaker 3: I didn't want to be pushy, and you know that's 42 00:01:46,640 --> 00:01:47,920 Speaker 3: sort of where it ended. 43 00:01:48,040 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 1: Okay, well, let's we're gonna call Claire. You'll be on 44 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:53,240 Speaker 1: the phone, we'll ask some questions. At some point you're 45 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 1: welcome to jump in on the call, and hopefully we 46 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:56,720 Speaker 1: can figure out what's going on, straighten things out, and 47 00:01:56,760 --> 00:01:59,040 Speaker 1: set you guys up on another date that we pay for. 48 00:01:59,080 --> 00:02:01,760 Speaker 1: All right, Andy, that sounds great. I'm gonna play one song. 49 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 1: We'll be back in two minutes. Okay, perfect, Let's see 50 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:07,160 Speaker 1: what happens next efter the weekend. Back in three minutes. 51 00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 1: The Fred Show is commercial free. 52 00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:10,239 Speaker 4: It's the weekend. The Fread Show is on. 53 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:13,959 Speaker 1: Good morning, Thank you for waking up with us, Andy, Yep, 54 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 1: welcome back. Let's call Claire. You guys, you went on 55 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:18,640 Speaker 1: a date. You thought everything went really well. You made 56 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:20,679 Speaker 1: out at the end of the date, even and you 57 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:22,400 Speaker 1: waited for her to reach out to you, which may 58 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 1: have been a mistake. But just after a couple of 59 00:02:24,440 --> 00:02:26,400 Speaker 1: days you're like, no, I'll reach out and ask her 60 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:28,760 Speaker 1: out again. Except she has not responded to you, and 61 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:29,680 Speaker 1: you want to know why. 62 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:32,399 Speaker 3: Absolutely there. I can't think of a single reason why 63 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:33,440 Speaker 3: she wouldn't be responding. 64 00:02:33,480 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 1: All right, We're gonna call her now and find out. 65 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:43,640 Speaker 1: Good luck, Andy. Thanks, Hello, Hi is this Claire? 66 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 5: This is she? 67 00:02:47,080 --> 00:02:47,960 Speaker 4: Hey Claire, good morning. 68 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 1: My name is Fredam calling from the Fred's Show, the 69 00:02:50,080 --> 00:02:52,080 Speaker 1: radio program, and I do have to tell you that 70 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:54,080 Speaker 1: we are on the radio right now and I would 71 00:02:54,120 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 1: need your permission to continue with the call. 72 00:02:55,600 --> 00:02:56,680 Speaker 4: Can we ch out for a second. 73 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:03,399 Speaker 5: Yeah, I guess. I mean if I went something, well. 74 00:03:03,520 --> 00:03:06,320 Speaker 1: Maybe you may have won something and I'll explain. But 75 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:08,200 Speaker 1: we're calling on behalf of a dude named Andy who 76 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 1: says he recently went on a date with you that 77 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:11,400 Speaker 1: he thought went pretty well. 78 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:15,560 Speaker 4: Do you remember, Andy, Yeah, the date. 79 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:22,600 Speaker 5: Did go well. Yeah, it was fun. We made out. 80 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:30,520 Speaker 6: And honestly, when when after we made out, we were 81 00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:34,000 Speaker 6: at his place and at his house, I just I 82 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:34,639 Speaker 6: swear to about it. 83 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 5: I just saw the biggest red flag in the world. 84 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:41,120 Speaker 4: Okay, okay, okay. 85 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:43,640 Speaker 6: I went into the kitchen to get a glass of water, 86 00:03:43,960 --> 00:03:46,800 Speaker 6: and I noticed he had one of those like dryer 87 00:03:46,880 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 6: rates board calendars and I love those things. 88 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:51,600 Speaker 5: So I went to like touch it, you know, I 89 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 5: love them. 90 00:03:52,760 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 1: And as I wait, A hold on, so I was 91 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 1: gonna be clear on this. Like in his kitchen he 92 00:03:56,240 --> 00:03:58,640 Speaker 1: had like one of those office max like I don't. 93 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:00,960 Speaker 5: Know, calendar on it. 94 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:04,200 Speaker 1: You could like write on it, like you know, practice 95 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 1: for the kids or whatever at three or you know, 96 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:07,440 Speaker 1: I don't know whatever. 97 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:10,200 Speaker 6: Yeah, but like this one he kept us his own 98 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:12,760 Speaker 6: calendar and like you have to refill it at the 99 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:15,640 Speaker 6: beginning of each month. Because you have to put in 100 00:04:15,680 --> 00:04:16,880 Speaker 6: the right dates and everything. 101 00:04:16,920 --> 00:04:17,480 Speaker 5: So it's just. 102 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:21,599 Speaker 1: Sure, okay, yeah, all right, so what what was. 103 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:21,960 Speaker 3: On with it? 104 00:04:22,600 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 6: Well, okay, so keep that in mind that like at 105 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:27,080 Speaker 6: the beginning of each month you have to write it 106 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:32,159 Speaker 6: in and I was looking at it and all of 107 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:36,479 Speaker 6: a sudden, I see, like for one full week it 108 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 6: says Amanda's period. 109 00:04:39,160 --> 00:04:41,080 Speaker 5: I don't even know if I'm allowed to say that, 110 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 5: Like you're but I don't know who the hell Amanda is. 111 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:51,440 Speaker 6: But like, if he's concerned about this woman's period each month, 112 00:04:52,160 --> 00:04:54,919 Speaker 6: then like I probably should not be involved. 113 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:56,160 Speaker 5: That's the truly. 114 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:00,160 Speaker 1: In the kitchen on the I've heard of tracker, and 115 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:02,119 Speaker 1: I've heard of you know, I don't know code words. 116 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:06,240 Speaker 6: I'm a woman, and I don't even I mean, I 117 00:05:06,320 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 6: track it with an appy, That's what I mean. 118 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:11,160 Speaker 4: I don't mean, like, yeah, they. 119 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:15,320 Speaker 1: Don't put like an eye tagging or whatever those things 120 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:21,160 Speaker 1: are called. Let me bring Andy in because I'm really curious, Andy, 121 00:05:21,160 --> 00:05:23,279 Speaker 1: who the hell is Amanda and why are we tracking that? 122 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:24,880 Speaker 4: Yeah? 123 00:05:26,520 --> 00:05:29,160 Speaker 3: I don't actually I don't know what she's talking about. 124 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:31,320 Speaker 4: You don't know what she's talking about. 125 00:05:32,240 --> 00:05:35,480 Speaker 2: I mean, that was like if that was an honestly, 126 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:37,560 Speaker 2: I don't really pay much attention to that dry rate 127 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:37,919 Speaker 2: for it. 128 00:05:38,000 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 3: So like I don't know each month. 129 00:05:41,080 --> 00:05:43,719 Speaker 1: But I had this current month and you have to 130 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:46,640 Speaker 1: write the days in. It sounds like so you somebody 131 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:48,119 Speaker 1: would have filled it out this month. 132 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:49,800 Speaker 4: Do you know anyone named No? 133 00:05:50,560 --> 00:05:54,560 Speaker 2: I think, what do you know anyone named Amanda? 134 00:05:54,839 --> 00:05:55,239 Speaker 3: No? 135 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:57,640 Speaker 4: No, well, I mean. 136 00:05:57,520 --> 00:05:59,160 Speaker 5: It's a lot you wouldn't know. 137 00:05:59,560 --> 00:06:03,359 Speaker 7: I mean I I dated a girl named Amanda like 138 00:06:04,400 --> 00:06:07,200 Speaker 7: a while, so you know, because that would be that 139 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:10,400 Speaker 7: would be a yes, I do know someone and who 140 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:13,039 Speaker 7: is you know, private health information you have access to 141 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:15,240 Speaker 7: and you're tracking for your personal knowledge. 142 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:17,760 Speaker 4: And you're saying this that you haven't seen a Samanda 143 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:18,279 Speaker 4: in how long? 144 00:06:18,880 --> 00:06:22,680 Speaker 3: Oh, like a really long time, like really. 145 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:23,240 Speaker 4: Like a week or two. 146 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:26,800 Speaker 6: She's literally she's opulating right now. 147 00:06:26,839 --> 00:06:29,640 Speaker 5: And I know that because it was. 148 00:06:30,640 --> 00:06:34,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, no, no, you know that that that No. 149 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:37,800 Speaker 2: I I I forget sometimes about like filling that in. 150 00:06:37,880 --> 00:06:40,960 Speaker 3: So that's got to be from like months ago, like 151 00:06:42,400 --> 00:06:43,440 Speaker 3: a long time. 152 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:45,839 Speaker 5: Ago, killed in already it had our. 153 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 4: Explain that. 154 00:06:50,920 --> 00:06:53,919 Speaker 2: I think, you know, like she she went on like 155 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:56,200 Speaker 2: when we were dating and like filled it in and 156 00:06:56,200 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 2: like put it on and it was kind of a joke, 157 00:06:58,480 --> 00:07:00,560 Speaker 2: like it was something we'd kind of laugh about, you know, 158 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:01,640 Speaker 2: like I'm gonna. 159 00:07:01,440 --> 00:07:02,920 Speaker 3: Put it up there so you know, and you could 160 00:07:02,920 --> 00:07:04,680 Speaker 3: play on ahead, you. 161 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 1: Know, I know, Yeah, this is this is definitely sus 162 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:13,320 Speaker 1: I mean, this is not adding up. Like why you 163 00:07:13,360 --> 00:07:15,200 Speaker 1: say you don't pay attention to the calendar, but you 164 00:07:15,240 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 1: put their date on it. You say you don't know 165 00:07:17,240 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 1: this woman, but you do you know? 166 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:25,080 Speaker 8: Yeah, man that he doesn't know put it on the calendar. 167 00:07:25,920 --> 00:07:30,800 Speaker 6: Yea, even if she did, when was the last time 168 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:33,200 Speaker 6: she was there that she felt comfortable enough to add 169 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:34,280 Speaker 6: her period to yours? 170 00:07:34,440 --> 00:07:37,120 Speaker 4: I mean it would have been this month. Calendar might 171 00:07:37,120 --> 00:07:41,320 Speaker 4: be on there. Yeah, dude, yeah, I don't want you 172 00:07:41,360 --> 00:07:41,840 Speaker 4: to own this. 173 00:07:41,920 --> 00:07:44,360 Speaker 1: Why don't you just say, like I don't know, you 174 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:47,520 Speaker 1: still dabble with her or something doing something. 175 00:07:48,200 --> 00:07:51,600 Speaker 2: I mean listen, like I don't know, fine, sure whatever, 176 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:54,040 Speaker 2: we're like not exclusive, we're hanging out. 177 00:07:54,440 --> 00:07:56,200 Speaker 4: We've come a long way in the last three or 178 00:07:56,200 --> 00:07:56,640 Speaker 4: four minutes. 179 00:07:56,680 --> 00:08:03,840 Speaker 8: Someone you don't even know exactly, not a dabble, non exclusively, 180 00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 8: and he knows when to and when not to, so 181 00:08:08,800 --> 00:08:11,920 Speaker 8: he schedules his dates. 182 00:08:11,960 --> 00:08:15,800 Speaker 1: Okay, alright, I'm sorry, but you come off like a 183 00:08:15,840 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 1: big ass loser now or not a loser as well? 184 00:08:19,160 --> 00:08:20,800 Speaker 4: Losing was that was Freudian slip. 185 00:08:20,960 --> 00:08:22,600 Speaker 1: You come off like a big ass liar, is what 186 00:08:22,640 --> 00:08:25,960 Speaker 1: I meant to say, because you just completely changed the story. 187 00:08:26,040 --> 00:08:28,200 Speaker 1: So you could have just said that from the beginning 188 00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:31,040 Speaker 1: and she might have understood. But now I don't know 189 00:08:31,040 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 1: what I believe about you. 190 00:08:32,720 --> 00:08:35,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I don't know. I guess I forget 191 00:08:35,080 --> 00:08:38,760 Speaker 3: that I'm not I mean, You're just I mean, I'm 192 00:08:38,760 --> 00:08:40,560 Speaker 3: going now because I'm kind of caught. 193 00:08:40,840 --> 00:08:42,959 Speaker 4: You think, you know, you could have just said wait, 194 00:08:43,040 --> 00:08:44,679 Speaker 4: but he literally. 195 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:47,319 Speaker 6: Just admitted that he's only copping to it because he 196 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:50,920 Speaker 6: was cost So if he wasn't caught, then he would 197 00:08:50,920 --> 00:08:51,800 Speaker 6: just continue lying. 198 00:08:51,960 --> 00:08:53,800 Speaker 4: Right, this is not what I wouldn't even admit that. 199 00:08:53,840 --> 00:08:54,880 Speaker 5: You're a bad liar. 200 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:58,559 Speaker 6: Though you realized like you might have gotten away with this, 201 00:08:58,600 --> 00:09:00,080 Speaker 6: it's not even good at what you try to. 202 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:02,319 Speaker 1: You might have gotten away with this because Andy, you 203 00:09:02,320 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 1: could have just been like, yeah, I broke up with 204 00:09:03,920 --> 00:09:05,760 Speaker 1: her while ago. Sometimes I don't know why she'd put 205 00:09:05,760 --> 00:09:08,720 Speaker 1: that whatever, but I'm single and i'm you know, maybe 206 00:09:08,760 --> 00:09:10,680 Speaker 1: this woman would have said, Okay, I'll give you another shot, 207 00:09:10,720 --> 00:09:12,960 Speaker 1: but no, not now. I guarantee Claire you don't want 208 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:13,720 Speaker 1: to go out with him again. 209 00:09:14,040 --> 00:09:16,800 Speaker 5: No, definitely, definitely not. 210 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:19,040 Speaker 4: Okay, Well, we'll look clear. 211 00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:20,439 Speaker 5: Okay, thank you, thank. 212 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:23,840 Speaker 1: You for your time and for the explanation. And Andy, 213 00:09:23,880 --> 00:09:25,920 Speaker 1: I don't know, man, I might. I might take that 214 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 1: old dry erase board down one work things out with 215 00:09:29,720 --> 00:09:30,400 Speaker 1: what's your face? 216 00:09:30,400 --> 00:09:37,280 Speaker 4: So one of the next weeks she'll be good. Yeah, Jesus, Oh. 217 00:09:37,280 --> 00:09:40,000 Speaker 1: My god, guys, I'm sorry it's not going to work out. 218 00:09:40,000 --> 00:09:41,000 Speaker 1: Best of luck to both of you. 219 00:09:41,440 --> 00:09:44,319 Speaker 5: Oh, I'm very much okay, but thank you.