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Speaker 1: Radio station. It don't mean to sound like old timey um,

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Speaker 1: but so I have my Exfinity cable right and it

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Speaker 1: So how long is it going to be before somebody

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Speaker 1: until someone just bundles all the streaming services together so

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Speaker 1: you pay one fee and get them all. Well, with Exfinity,

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Speaker 1: but some of it you have to pay for still,

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Speaker 1: Oh I thought you you have those services? Well I

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Speaker 1: I mean, I assume they're still making the show, but

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Speaker 1: That's I got to ignore. Well, F one. The thing

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Speaker 1: the morning to watch this, right, that's sure, but you

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Speaker 1: at Yea and the drivers like jump around to different

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Speaker 1: of I don't know it's this. He's good, but that

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Speaker 1: Then I'm watching The Plane Fields, the Girl from Plane

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Speaker 1: streaming services. I got you on Apple TV. Trade with people.

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Speaker 1: one h three five kids step them, Good morning, thanks

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Speaker 1: you're going to the dentist. Yeah, I am. Yeah, And

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Speaker 1: that's what you should do today, is that you should

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Speaker 1: Do you want to buy me something? No, never mind,

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Speaker 1: I'm not winning. You choose last till you choose it

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Speaker 1: scraper fly at what's flying? But polishing? What are they

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Speaker 1: Everyone's gonna need to go home. All the rest of

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Speaker 1: A moment of silence for yet another breakup. Kanye West

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Speaker 1: and girlfriend Chaney Jones have called it quits after five

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Speaker 1: It's unclear who broke up with who, but don't you

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Speaker 1: at a movie with another woman. Kanye and the Kim

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Speaker 1: Kardashian look alike started dating back in February, right after

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Speaker 1: he ended things with Julia Fox uncut Jens remember her? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I actually thought things I'd be serious between these two.

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Speaker 1: She literally got a Ya tattoo on her wrist if

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Speaker 1: Today is also Kanye's forty fifth birthday, so maybe you

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Speaker 1: Thank you, don't you're a liar. I miss you though.

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Speaker 1: By thank you, she sees she message with me, she's

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Speaker 1: You're done, Military, you're done. Do you believe that? Do

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Speaker 1: if you ask them to do something that's like not

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Speaker 1: at their level, they look at you with like discuss,

423
00:21:00,600 --> 00:21:02,960
Speaker 1: are we talking about just like a high school athlete?

424
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Speaker 1: College athlete? Are we talking about pro athlete? Does it matter? Like? Both?

425
00:21:07,560 --> 00:21:11,280
Speaker 1: Like both? Because I'm in college right now and so

426
00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:15,920
Speaker 1: many of the people just walk around with such high egos. Yeah,

427
00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:17,760
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of especially up to at

428
00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:20,399
Speaker 1: the college level and maybe even at the pro for

429
00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:22,800
Speaker 1: certain people, but certainly in the college level. These people

430
00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:26,880
Speaker 1: have been coddled their whole lives, like middle school, even

431
00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:29,560
Speaker 1: like like Little League young kids, it's like you're going

432
00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:33,480
Speaker 1: to be something, you are something, and then yeah, it's

433
00:21:33,520 --> 00:21:36,040
Speaker 1: like the coaches embedded in them when they're younger, like

434
00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:37,760
Speaker 1: you're going to be great one day, and then they

435
00:21:37,800 --> 00:21:41,880
Speaker 1: just they make it their whole personality. Okay, all right, Julianna,

436
00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:46,080
Speaker 1: thank you, have a good day. Thank you. Don't subscribe

437
00:21:46,119 --> 00:21:48,439
Speaker 1: to the way of thinking that if you date or

438
00:21:48,520 --> 00:21:50,679
Speaker 1: marry a professional athlete, that you should expect to be

439
00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:53,159
Speaker 1: cheated on. I've heard people say that theory before, and

440
00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:55,720
Speaker 1: I don't agree with that common yeah, but I don't.

441
00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:58,040
Speaker 1: I don't think that that should be the accepted I

442
00:21:58,080 --> 00:22:01,160
Speaker 1: think it's more common than it is someone not cheat.

443
00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:03,240
Speaker 1: I don't think that's true. I don't know if I

444
00:22:03,240 --> 00:22:05,159
Speaker 1: think that's true. I know some pro athletes, and some

445
00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:07,840
Speaker 1: were bad guys, and some were good guys. They didn't.

446
00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:10,240
Speaker 1: I don't think fifty percent of all pro athletes cheat

447
00:22:10,280 --> 00:22:13,600
Speaker 1: on their wives. I do oh wow, oh yeah, I

448
00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:16,720
Speaker 1: really do. I've seen enough. I really I think some do.

449
00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:20,720
Speaker 1: I have maybe sport wise. I think it differs in

450
00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:22,760
Speaker 1: what sport you play. Yeah, I guess they might differ,

451
00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:25,840
Speaker 1: Like I'm not I don't think golfers are like guilty

452
00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:30,880
Speaker 1: of this, Yeah, Tiger Woods. I think it's I think

453
00:22:30,960 --> 00:22:33,920
Speaker 1: being a bad guy and a pro athlete are mutually exclusive.

454
00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:35,639
Speaker 1: I mean, I think I didn't say they're bad guys,

455
00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:37,800
Speaker 1: but I think they have more of an opportunity to cheat,

456
00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:39,760
Speaker 1: you know. And I think you've means drinking and stuff

457
00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:42,480
Speaker 1: doesn't mean guys do it just because you have an opportunity.

458
00:22:42,920 --> 00:22:45,720
Speaker 1: If one guy gets less opportunity and a guy gets more,

459
00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:48,440
Speaker 1: it's more common that the guy who gets more opportunity

460
00:22:48,480 --> 00:22:51,760
Speaker 1: every night while he's drinking, I've seen, I've seen a lot.

461
00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:56,240
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know. Julia, Hi, good morning, Hi,

462
00:22:56,320 --> 00:22:58,720
Speaker 1: good morning. How are you guys? Hey, how are you great?

463
00:22:58,720 --> 00:23:00,720
Speaker 1: Thanks for calling? Thanks listening? You were used to date?

464
00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:05,840
Speaker 1: Ah um. Less about the actual profession, but somebody with

465
00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:09,560
Speaker 1: the same profession as me. So I'm a I'm an

466
00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:12,280
Speaker 1: occupational therapist, and I just feel like I worked so

467
00:23:12,320 --> 00:23:14,000
Speaker 1: hard for this and I kind of want it to

468
00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:17,520
Speaker 1: be mine, as selfish as that is, And like, I

469
00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:20,280
Speaker 1: don't want to feel like I'm competing with somebody, Like

470
00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:22,040
Speaker 1: I want to come home and tell all the stories

471
00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:25,159
Speaker 1: about you know, the cool things I've seen and not

472
00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:27,600
Speaker 1: have like my husband or significant other, and be like,

473
00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:31,239
Speaker 1: oh yeah, one up in here interesting. Because Julie, I can.

474
00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:34,359
Speaker 1: I can argue both ways. For like media people, for example,

475
00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:36,919
Speaker 1: because that's what we do. I can argue that I

476
00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:39,440
Speaker 1: think media people should be with media people because there's

477
00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:41,800
Speaker 1: this is just a weird job and it has strange

478
00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:44,920
Speaker 1: demands and standards, and I think that only somebody else

479
00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:47,680
Speaker 1: who does it can understand what it is to get

480
00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:49,520
Speaker 1: up at four in the morning and to you know,

481
00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:51,400
Speaker 1: it's just and I'm not saying it's a hard job.

482
00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:53,400
Speaker 1: It's not, Julie, You're hard. Your job is much harder

483
00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:56,479
Speaker 1: than mine. But I feel like most people don't get it.

484
00:23:57,160 --> 00:23:59,480
Speaker 1: On the flip side, though, I feel like media people

485
00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:01,919
Speaker 1: to your Julia would also be you know, you'd have

486
00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:03,639
Speaker 1: to meet both people would have to be at the

487
00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:06,920
Speaker 1: top of their game, right because otherwise one person's career

488
00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:08,840
Speaker 1: is always going to come first. You know, if I

489
00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:11,280
Speaker 1: if I'm just starting out and you know, market one

490
00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:13,880
Speaker 1: hundred in Tuscaloosa, and I meet my girlfriend and she's

491
00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:16,040
Speaker 1: on TV. I'm on the radio. For example, one of

492
00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:17,760
Speaker 1: us is going to get a bigger job, and then

493
00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:20,119
Speaker 1: we have to decide do I go with you or

494
00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:22,480
Speaker 1: do I you know, whose career is going to be bigger,

495
00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:25,720
Speaker 1: and I suppose that that can get difficult. Thank you, Julia,

496
00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:29,239
Speaker 1: I have a good day. Thank you too. It's just like,

497
00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:30,879
Speaker 1: I don't know. There are a lot of jobs. I'm

498
00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:32,600
Speaker 1: sure that you know. People driving to work right now

499
00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:35,159
Speaker 1: are waking up and they're thinking, like nobody really gets

500
00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:38,120
Speaker 1: People think this is an easy job, or people think

501
00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:39,760
Speaker 1: that this is I know you want to give examples

502
00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:41,719
Speaker 1: because I don't want to upset anybody, but it's like,

503
00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:43,600
Speaker 1: you know, you think I do this all day, but

504
00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:46,040
Speaker 1: you don't really know because you've never done it. And

505
00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:48,879
Speaker 1: maybe if you did, then you would understand, you know,

506
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:52,240
Speaker 1: the demands, and maybe you would understand me a little better. Yeah.

507
00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:54,240
Speaker 1: I think there's pros and cons of dating somebody in

508
00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:56,320
Speaker 1: your same industry because I feel like, hey, you guys

509
00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:58,399
Speaker 1: can relate and then there's this and then yeah, like

510
00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:01,120
Speaker 1: you understand each other. But I think the cons outweigh

511
00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:02,960
Speaker 1: that I do. I think it's a big walk a

512
00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:04,840
Speaker 1: walk a show at home, and I think it's like,

513
00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:06,879
Speaker 1: you know, one career is always gonna kind of like

514
00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:09,639
Speaker 1: overshadow the other. It's just how it's gonna go. Plus

515
00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:12,000
Speaker 1: like I don't know, meet at people like we think

516
00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:15,520
Speaker 1: we're quote but we're not. I don't know egos you're making,

517
00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:17,600
Speaker 1: like if you like you said, if if one person

518
00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:19,840
Speaker 1: is on top of the other person's not there, but

519
00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:22,720
Speaker 1: I don't. I mean, I've only done on a couple

520
00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:26,080
Speaker 1: of times, but in those cases, one person was way

521
00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:30,000
Speaker 1: bigger than me in her career, and admittedly I was

522
00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:31,920
Speaker 1: a little jealous, but I was also just starting out.

523
00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:34,159
Speaker 1: In another case, we were both doing fine and we

524
00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:36,000
Speaker 1: shut it all off at home, like we got to

525
00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:38,000
Speaker 1: be normal people because neither one of us were doing

526
00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:39,560
Speaker 1: the walk a walk up because they were both too

527
00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:41,479
Speaker 1: tired to do it, you know. And it's like I

528
00:25:41,480 --> 00:25:44,040
Speaker 1: think I meet people and they're like, you don't communicate much,

529
00:25:44,040 --> 00:25:45,440
Speaker 1: you don't talk a lot. You know, you want to

530
00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:46,680
Speaker 1: take a nap, you want to do this. I'm like,

531
00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:48,800
Speaker 1: because I'm I've used all my words before you got

532
00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:50,840
Speaker 1: out of bed, and so give me a minute, you know,

533
00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:52,400
Speaker 1: I mean, And that's something that a lot of people

534
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:54,880
Speaker 1: I don't think can understand. And it's not I don't.

535
00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:56,640
Speaker 1: I don't sit here and say that our job is hard.

536
00:25:56,720 --> 00:25:59,200
Speaker 1: It's just different. The demands are just different. Hey, Aaron,

537
00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:05,919
Speaker 1: good morning. Hi, Hi Aaron. You won't date somebody who Well,

538
00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:09,080
Speaker 1: it's not about me. But I can relate to what

539
00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:11,560
Speaker 1: you were saying about a pilot because my dad was

540
00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:14,280
Speaker 1: a pilot, and I believe that he was very narcissistic

541
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:18,840
Speaker 1: and controlling. He was like an airline pilot. Yeah, okay,

542
00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:21,719
Speaker 1: all right, and so you think that personality trait crossed

543
00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:27,240
Speaker 1: over into his romantic life and in a negative way. Yeah, okay,

544
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:29,199
Speaker 1: all right, So you know pilots for you, that's what

545
00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:32,840
Speaker 1: you're saying. No, what about like a hobby Hi, I'm

546
00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:34,760
Speaker 1: a hobby pilot. What about me? I just like just

547
00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:36,800
Speaker 1: for fun, little put put plaine just on the weekend.

548
00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:40,359
Speaker 1: Maybe that's a little bit different. Yeah all right, good.

549
00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:43,639
Speaker 1: So you just want me to assert control and narcissism

550
00:26:43,640 --> 00:26:45,360
Speaker 1: when it comes to saving your life on the weekend,

551
00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 1: But during the week I better be you know, a

552
00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:51,240
Speaker 1: big pussycat, that's what you're saying. Well, well, if it's

553
00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:53,320
Speaker 1: for like a small company and just on the weekend,

554
00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:54,879
Speaker 1: but it's a little bit different. I see, No, I

555
00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:58,160
Speaker 1: can see what you're saying, that same weekend trip all

556
00:26:58,160 --> 00:27:05,840
Speaker 1: the time without you. Oh stop, I gotta go fly

557
00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:07,880
Speaker 1: this weekend, babe. I'm sorry, I gotta go. I gotta

558
00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:10,359
Speaker 1: go to piece again. I'm going to Vegas again. They

559
00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:12,399
Speaker 1: gotta find me out there. You guys know the story

560
00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:16,560
Speaker 1: about the guy that I feel I feel partially responsible

561
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:19,160
Speaker 1: for this, but I helped him enable. Yep. I helped

562
00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:23,639
Speaker 1: him enable. I helped a enable of friends at the

563
00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:27,520
Speaker 1: time husband to get his pilot's license to buy an airplane,

564
00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:29,680
Speaker 1: only to find out the whole thing was a sham. Yep,

565
00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:32,919
Speaker 1: the entire thing was a sham. Multiple women. And he

566
00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:35,040
Speaker 1: told this woman that he was renting the plane when

567
00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:37,520
Speaker 1: he actually owned it, so that he, you know, hopefully

568
00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:39,840
Speaker 1: she wouldn't figure out about that that he was using

569
00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:42,679
Speaker 1: the airplane to see people in multiple cities apparently. And

570
00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:46,040
Speaker 1: I helped this guy that's so premeditated, Like, I don't know,

571
00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:48,439
Speaker 1: I feel like cheating. You know, sometimes people make a

572
00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:51,720
Speaker 1: mistake like to do that whole thing just to cheat

573
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:54,080
Speaker 1: to get your pilots. Like it's also kind of I

574
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 1: mean he was, I guess telling her that it was

575
00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:58,440
Speaker 1: for work. But all that stuff is trackable these days,

576
00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:00,320
Speaker 1: so it's like again, he was saying he was going

577
00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:03,760
Speaker 1: to see clients, so that's that checks out. But it's like, wow, yeah,

578
00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:05,960
Speaker 1: I'll sit on his He left his iPad at the

579
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:09,120
Speaker 1: house and it's always the iPad. You guys don't get

580
00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:12,920
Speaker 1: your text to your other devices, so you'll forget about that. Responsibly,

581
00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:17,760
Speaker 1: come on, one of the up to everyone in the military. Yes, yes,

582
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:21,240
Speaker 1: these are the these are the the rules of our show.

583
00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:26,159
Speaker 1: It's in the show. Constitution. Treat cheap, responsibly, give it

584
00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:28,719
Speaker 1: up to the people in the military. Always give it up.

585
00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:32,720
Speaker 1: Um wild, animals go wild. I'm trying to think of

586
00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:37,440
Speaker 1: the other ones. Hey, Alex, Yeah, this is a specific one.

587
00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:41,480
Speaker 1: You won't date a what a CNA, But I mean

588
00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:45,000
Speaker 1: anyone in the nursing field. I have never had any

589
00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:49,520
Speaker 1: good experience with them. Well theyre so starting off, you know.

590
00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:53,200
Speaker 1: I started in college and I went to a bipartisan

591
00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:57,360
Speaker 1: school where it was mostly engineering and mostly nursing, and

592
00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:00,960
Speaker 1: they're just they never have any I'm for you, you

593
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:04,200
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like they're always on call, they

594
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:07,000
Speaker 1: always have their boards. They always have this. And I

595
00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:09,880
Speaker 1: have a friend who's dating uh right now, she's just saying,

596
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:14,520
Speaker 1: ain't going for her nursing, and she's just he can't

597
00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:17,080
Speaker 1: even hang out with me because he's always chasing her tail,

598
00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:19,480
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I just feel like it's

599
00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:23,600
Speaker 1: very toxic to where they're very self centered interested because

600
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:26,120
Speaker 1: I guess I would do the opposite. You're you're helping

601
00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:28,880
Speaker 1: people my best friends. N Well yeah, but you're you're

602
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:31,800
Speaker 1: helping random people, which I guess I understand what you're saying.

603
00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:34,720
Speaker 1: But you know that's not going to work in a relationship.

604
00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:38,720
Speaker 1: You have to dedicate time to the relationship too, so

605
00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:40,440
Speaker 1: you have to know, yeah, you know, I get you

606
00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:45,440
Speaker 1: or your own person like, like I said, relationship specific,

607
00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:47,480
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Yeah, no, thank you, Alex,

608
00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:49,880
Speaker 1: have a good day. Well yeah, that's fine. But I

609
00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:53,400
Speaker 1: also noticed that a lot of people are bringing up

610
00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:57,760
Speaker 1: the whole narcissistic personality types. Like everyone that's spoken here

611
00:29:58,080 --> 00:29:59,600
Speaker 1: is they said like, oh, I could never be with

612
00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:02,120
Speaker 1: an art That's what I heard. It's not I've never

613
00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:03,720
Speaker 1: I could never be with an athlete, I could never

614
00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:05,840
Speaker 1: be with a doctor. It's just you can't stay in

615
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:09,960
Speaker 1: narcistic personality, so you have to overlook that. Okay, I

616
00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:12,800
Speaker 1: guess that's to take away here is look at the people,

617
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:16,120
Speaker 1: got it, Alex sex Man, thanks again, No, thank you

618
00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:19,840
Speaker 1: having getting medical attention homeboys. Yeah, he said, saving random people.

619
00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:22,400
Speaker 1: I wasn't trying to hang up on them. I'm just like,

620
00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:24,600
Speaker 1: I gotta go, brother, I mean, I apologize. I didn't

621
00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:26,680
Speaker 1: mean to. Just like we go. That's all the nurses

622
00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:28,840
Speaker 1: out there. Hold on everyone, I want to We'll come

623
00:30:28,840 --> 00:30:30,400
Speaker 1: back to this in just a second. So everyone is

624
00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 1: holding on. Hold on. We'll take a couple more phone

625
00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:35,120
Speaker 1: calls when we get back after after these words. I

626
00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:37,960
Speaker 1: have to say though, I also think that it's possible.

627
00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:40,640
Speaker 1: Like I had friends who had parents who were doctors

628
00:30:40,680 --> 00:30:43,880
Speaker 1: growing up, and they got no medical care zero, because

629
00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:46,320
Speaker 1: it's like they first of all, their parents are doctors,

630
00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:48,240
Speaker 1: so they look at all, you're fine, you know, because

631
00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:50,880
Speaker 1: they just know, I guess. Second of all, they go

632
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Speaker 1: to work and they care for people all day. I'm

633
00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:55,480
Speaker 1: sure the same is true with nurses, and like anything else,

634
00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:57,360
Speaker 1: you come home and you probably you are done taking

635
00:30:57,400 --> 00:31:00,040
Speaker 1: care of people. You want someone to take care of you.

636
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Speaker 1: You know. I can imagine. I think that's just human

637
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Speaker 1: on one. We'll be right back show life from America's

638
00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:14,360
Speaker 1: Greatest city of Chicago, m an i Heeart Radio station.

639
00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:17,440
Speaker 1: It's the Fred Show. Daniel Martin, Hey, you will never

640
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Speaker 1: date a Just to wrap this up, you'll never date

641
00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:23,400
Speaker 1: a one us not your profession about would not date

642
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Speaker 1: a girl in the sorority, in a sorority, or who

643
00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:30,840
Speaker 1: was in a sorority in a sorority currently in a sorority.

644
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Speaker 1: What's your problem with the sorority girl? Well, problem with

645
00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:38,800
Speaker 1: that is I've had bad past experiences with that. I

646
00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:40,520
Speaker 1: just think it's way too much of a john am

647
00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:42,400
Speaker 1: I going into it. I mean, the right out of

648
00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:44,080
Speaker 1: high school. All they want to do. You know, it's

649
00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:47,440
Speaker 1: this party, party, party. I just I mean, have my

650
00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:50,920
Speaker 1: experienced there. There's no trust during the whole thing. Okay,

651
00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:53,600
Speaker 1: all right, well hey your sister for life? You know?

652
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:57,920
Speaker 1: Are you where you go to school? I used to

653
00:31:58,000 --> 00:32:03,720
Speaker 1: go to college Page, but I'm the sorority that I

654
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:07,680
Speaker 1: didn't know cood Head then they do, Uh no, they

655
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:10,800
Speaker 1: don't know major. I see. Okay, all right, thank you, Daniel,

656
00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:16,120
Speaker 1: have a good day. Fine, Frank Then, man, where I

657
00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:18,640
Speaker 1: went to college. You had to be in a fraternity. Basically,

658
00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:20,760
Speaker 1: you were either in a fraternity or you were not,

659
00:32:20,920 --> 00:32:22,880
Speaker 1: or you didn't get invited to anything. You had to

660
00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:25,520
Speaker 1: be Greek. Yeah, I mean it was relatively seven thousand

661
00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:27,800
Speaker 1: people went to my school something like that, So you

662
00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:29,080
Speaker 1: kind of had to do it. And then as soon

663
00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 1: as I figured out how stupid it was, I had left.

664
00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:32,400
Speaker 1: But I did it. I did it for a minute.

665
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:34,120
Speaker 1: Well I did it. Yeah, I did it for like

666
00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:36,800
Speaker 1: a year and a half. Lived in a fraternity house

667
00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:41,360
Speaker 1: for a while. Um, yeah, because I went because all

668
00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:43,080
Speaker 1: my friends, like all my friends in the door and

669
00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:45,480
Speaker 1: we all joined the same fraternity. So I just like, okay,

670
00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:48,160
Speaker 1: fine whatever. Yeah, And so I did it. Remember like

671
00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:50,400
Speaker 1: the handshake and stuff like, I do you remember the handshake.

672
00:32:50,880 --> 00:32:52,960
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest with you, Like looking back on

673
00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:54,520
Speaker 1: a lot of the stuff that we had to do

674
00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:57,680
Speaker 1: to get in and this and some of the initiation

675
00:32:57,800 --> 00:33:00,880
Speaker 1: stuff and the ceremony eas and stay. It was a

676
00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:03,440
Speaker 1: little I'm not ready to talk about it yet. It's

677
00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:08,120
Speaker 1: not it's not really changed. We're not really okay. It

678
00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:11,200
Speaker 1: was really like I don't know, there's a lot, you know,

679
00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:13,680
Speaker 1: I did that that was. That was half of my

680
00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:16,440
Speaker 1: college experience. The other half was working on a radio station.

681
00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:18,520
Speaker 1: And I don't I don't know which one scarred me more,

682
00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:24,640
Speaker 1: but one of the other. First show the money. Why

683
00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:28,480
Speaker 1: were you left waiting by the phone? Josh, good morning,

684
00:33:28,720 --> 00:33:31,400
Speaker 1: Good morning, Welcome to our program here we call this

685
00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:34,200
Speaker 1: waiting by the phone. Of course, tell us about Angel,

686
00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:37,720
Speaker 1: who I guess you met on tender, about any conversation

687
00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:40,000
Speaker 1: you had, about any dates that you've been on, and

688
00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:42,480
Speaker 1: what's going on now and how we can help. Yeah,

689
00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:45,520
Speaker 1: so I ended up, he said, we met on tender

690
00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 1: and we ended up liking each other. I guess because

691
00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:51,160
Speaker 1: we experience number I feel. We went out for one

692
00:33:51,240 --> 00:33:55,240
Speaker 1: day and like I never get dosted, so I can't

693
00:33:55,240 --> 00:33:57,640
Speaker 1: even figure out what could have happened. We have her

694
00:33:57,680 --> 00:34:00,239
Speaker 1: bail on me, liked it, but I haven't heard from

695
00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:03,120
Speaker 1: her at all. So in the history of Josh, never

696
00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:06,360
Speaker 1: a ghosting. I mean, everybody wants you. You go out,

697
00:34:06,400 --> 00:34:10,520
Speaker 1: you have one hundred percent batting record as it pertains

698
00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:13,920
Speaker 1: to dates, and everybody calls you back. Okay, okay, it's

699
00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:16,680
Speaker 1: not so much like people don't like me. Put the

700
00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:20,120
Speaker 1: tail me. Okay, I see what you're saying, okay, so people, Okay,

701
00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:24,000
Speaker 1: that sounds less arrogant then, so you you people communicate

702
00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:26,800
Speaker 1: with you. At least they don't just disappear, right, Okay,

703
00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:29,759
Speaker 1: all right, Well, we're gonna call this girl Angel. We'll

704
00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 1: see if we can get her on the phone. You'll

705
00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:33,000
Speaker 1: be on the phone too. We'll ask some questions and

706
00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:34,879
Speaker 1: hopefully we can figure out what's going on at some point.

707
00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 1: You're welcome to jumping on the call, and if we

708
00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:39,120
Speaker 1: could straighten the sound, we'll set you guys up on

709
00:34:39,160 --> 00:34:41,719
Speaker 1: another date that we pay for. Okay, okay, thanks, can

710
00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:44,080
Speaker 1: you hang online? Play a song? I'd say right here,

711
00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:45,640
Speaker 1: you've got to hear what happens next. We'll do part

712
00:34:45,680 --> 00:34:48,239
Speaker 1: two of Waiting by the Phone right after this song

713
00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:52,000
Speaker 1: on what three five three pair Harry Styles tickets you

714
00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:55,440
Speaker 1: win tomorrow morning with us on the Friend Show Harry

715
00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:58,640
Speaker 1: Styles three pairs, sets your alarm, putting in your calendar

716
00:34:58,680 --> 00:35:00,759
Speaker 1: or whatever. Make sure you're here tomorrow morning to win.

717
00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:03,840
Speaker 1: It's one h three five Kiss FM. Part two of

718
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Speaker 1: Waiting by the Phone. Good morning, Josh, Let's do this. Yeah,

719
00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:10,239
Speaker 1: all right, welcome back. Let's call Angel. You guys met

720
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:13,479
Speaker 1: on tender had a great date, and you were saying

721
00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:16,120
Speaker 1: that women don't typically ghost you. They either go out

722
00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:18,440
Speaker 1: with you again or they communicate directly with you. So

723
00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:21,680
Speaker 1: the idea of being ghosted is driving you crazy, which

724
00:35:21,719 --> 00:35:24,760
Speaker 1: I mean, I think is true for a lot of people. Yeah,

725
00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:26,960
Speaker 1: I don't know, just kind of you know, you just

726
00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:31,719
Speaker 1: really just get in my head and it all right.

727
00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:35,080
Speaker 1: You don't tell me and we'll go off at the ways.

728
00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:37,839
Speaker 1: But or might be something's going on. Maybe we can

729
00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:39,759
Speaker 1: straighten this out hopefully and then we'll set you guys

730
00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 1: up on another day. We're gonna call her right now.

731
00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:51,640
Speaker 1: Good luck, all right, thank you? Hello, hist its Angel,

732
00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:55,640
Speaker 1: Hi Angel, good morning. It's Fred from the Fred Show,

733
00:35:55,640 --> 00:35:58,080
Speaker 1: the Whole Cruise here one or three five Kiss FM

734
00:35:58,080 --> 00:35:59,759
Speaker 1: in Chicago. And I have to tell you before we

735
00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:01,400
Speaker 1: go you further with the call, that we are on

736
00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:04,480
Speaker 1: the radio right now and I need your consent to continue.

737
00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:08,520
Speaker 1: Is that okay? Yeah? Yeah, that's okay, Okay, thank you

738
00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:11,279
Speaker 1: so much. Um, we're calling on behalf of a guy

739
00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:15,000
Speaker 1: named Josh who you met on Tinder. Apparently do you

740
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:19,840
Speaker 1: remember going out with him? Yeah? I do remember, Okay, Um, Well,

741
00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:22,279
Speaker 1: he preached out to us and described what he thought

742
00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:25,239
Speaker 1: was a successful date and he really wanted to go

743
00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:27,879
Speaker 1: out with you again. He says though, that you you're

744
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:30,640
Speaker 1: not responsive to him at all, and he's wondering why,

745
00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:32,640
Speaker 1: so can you maybe fill us in on the whay

746
00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:36,160
Speaker 1: you're not calling him back? I'm sure. So yeah, I'm

747
00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:40,319
Speaker 1: Madam On's Tinder and uh we went out for drink

748
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:43,000
Speaker 1: stuff first and then we went back to his house

749
00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:47,400
Speaker 1: to you know, watch the movie. When he came across,

750
00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:49,520
Speaker 1: as you know, he gave him three vibes. Honestly, I'm

751
00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:53,520
Speaker 1: being honest. He was screen sharing his the movie to

752
00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:58,799
Speaker 1: his TV, and um mine managed to drop a one

753
00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:06,360
Speaker 1: of those you know vps. Okay, whoa, So he's screens

754
00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:10,440
Speaker 1: sharing his Okay, he's using his phone to put the

755
00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:13,040
Speaker 1: movie on the TV, right, so it's like connected with

756
00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:16,000
Speaker 1: Apple TV whatever it is. And then so you therefore

757
00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:18,759
Speaker 1: you're gonna see stuff that pulls up on his phone potentially,

758
00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:21,640
Speaker 1: and so in order to get to the movie, he

759
00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:24,759
Speaker 1: like thumbs through and he gets somehow comes across the

760
00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:28,399
Speaker 1: picture of his man part right, and I'm throwing off

761
00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:30,560
Speaker 1: and thinking a back if I'm like, what is happening?

762
00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:33,359
Speaker 1: Why are we? Why am I staring at you. I'm

763
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:35,759
Speaker 1: gonna tell you right now, I don't understanding. We pause

764
00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:40,080
Speaker 1: and reflect on that, or did you just kind of yeah, honestly,

765
00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:43,000
Speaker 1: I was just so very like thinking aback. I was

766
00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:45,920
Speaker 1: just like I felt like preten I've been seeing But

767
00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:48,399
Speaker 1: then I was just like, you know what, he didn't feel.

768
00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:50,200
Speaker 1: The screen said a story about that I met a

769
00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:51,719
Speaker 1: girl one time, but this is a long time ago.

770
00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:54,279
Speaker 1: But I met a couple. They come up to me

771
00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:56,120
Speaker 1: and they're like, Fred, listen to the show all the time.

772
00:37:56,120 --> 00:37:58,160
Speaker 1: We love it. Um, we want to show a picture

773
00:37:58,160 --> 00:38:00,239
Speaker 1: of our dog. We know you love dogs. So the

774
00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:02,759
Speaker 1: guy pulls up his phone. It pulls the phone, it

775
00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:04,520
Speaker 1: goes to the pictures. The first picture that comes up

776
00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:07,920
Speaker 1: as a picture of a woman's another region, and the

777
00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:10,200
Speaker 1: first thing he thinks to say to me is that's

778
00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 1: not hers. I mean, I'm assuming it was, but he

779
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:17,680
Speaker 1: was trying to save face with her. But then she

780
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:19,880
Speaker 1: looks like, well, basically you just told him that you have.

781
00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:22,520
Speaker 1: There was a no win situation for this guy. The

782
00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:25,320
Speaker 1: dog was beautiful anyway. UM, I forgot to mention the

783
00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:28,560
Speaker 1: Josh this here. I'm sorry, okay, Josh, oh wow, you

784
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:31,600
Speaker 1: got to explain yourself here. Okay, yeah, yeah, Oh so

785
00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:35,279
Speaker 1: first of all, that was my bad. I really wasn't

786
00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:38,200
Speaker 1: trying to show you that on the first date. Okay,

787
00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:41,120
Speaker 1: because that's but let me say okay, let me say

788
00:38:41,160 --> 00:38:45,520
Speaker 1: for the record, all right, you know the dudes are

789
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:47,839
Speaker 1: always asking girls when he'll send me news, send me news.

790
00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:50,320
Speaker 1: They don't never have, you know, And but dude' always

791
00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:53,239
Speaker 1: weird about sending them back My bad, right that I'm

792
00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:55,520
Speaker 1: confident enough in my body. And by what she said

793
00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:57,799
Speaker 1: it was so she's saying that it was a she's

794
00:38:57,800 --> 00:39:00,240
Speaker 1: saying it was a pig. For the record, it wasn't

795
00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:05,080
Speaker 1: just a big okay, I'm wait what else? What else

796
00:39:06,239 --> 00:39:09,200
Speaker 1: it was? It was a picture of It was a

797
00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:11,240
Speaker 1: picture of me, all right. It was just a picture

798
00:39:11,239 --> 00:39:13,560
Speaker 1: of me and I'm laying in the bed and and

799
00:39:13,560 --> 00:39:16,880
Speaker 1: and yes that is the focus. However, all right, it

800
00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:20,200
Speaker 1: wasn't just something. Why did you show her this? How

801
00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:22,799
Speaker 1: did this come up? Okay? And it just looks like

802
00:39:22,960 --> 00:39:25,399
Speaker 1: it's on my phone. It's on my phone, and I

803
00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:27,840
Speaker 1: just started trying to do the screen share thing because

804
00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:30,880
Speaker 1: I'm ripping my homeboys Hulu. Okay, I have it on

805
00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:34,480
Speaker 1: my phone. Well, the part of the story we can

806
00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:38,000
Speaker 1: all relate to killing people's or at least having our art.

807
00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:40,399
Speaker 1: Why are we talking about this? Why did she see

808
00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:44,520
Speaker 1: a picture of your man? Why Hulu or Netflix or

809
00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:47,360
Speaker 1: what I've heard? You were choosing me my photo. Op,

810
00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:51,160
Speaker 1: Look that was my bad. But you saw how big

811
00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:57,720
Speaker 1: it was? Like like, I mean like, I mean, like, well, yeah, yeah, whatever,

812
00:39:57,800 --> 00:40:00,880
Speaker 1: But I mean you saw I'm bigg world. Does that

813
00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:07,080
Speaker 1: work for you? What size TV? Was it? If you

814
00:40:07,120 --> 00:40:09,879
Speaker 1: were screen sharing on an eight, it always looks big.

815
00:40:13,280 --> 00:40:16,080
Speaker 1: I mean, it doesn't matter. I wasn't. I'm just I

816
00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:18,839
Speaker 1: was I was a girl. I'm still I can't believe

817
00:40:18,840 --> 00:40:22,359
Speaker 1: you just said that. Wow. Having by the way, like

818
00:40:22,360 --> 00:40:25,640
Speaker 1: like how often, I mean, I want to know, Josh,

819
00:40:25,719 --> 00:40:28,279
Speaker 1: if you've you've probably done this before. So it's like

820
00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:32,280
Speaker 1: most women, I know, if they're not connected to you,

821
00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:34,839
Speaker 1: you know, in some sort of other way, they don't

822
00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:36,840
Speaker 1: really care how big or small it is. It doesn't

823
00:40:37,160 --> 00:40:38,960
Speaker 1: They're not like us, you know. And I'm not saying

824
00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:42,319
Speaker 1: that women aren't attracted to things visually, but men are

825
00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:45,440
Speaker 1: visual first. I mean, do you think just because it's big,

826
00:40:45,840 --> 00:40:47,920
Speaker 1: she's just gonna be like, oh, let me let me

827
00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:50,240
Speaker 1: do that with you, right Like I was just gonna

828
00:40:50,400 --> 00:40:52,600
Speaker 1: pump up on me right then and there absolutely not

829
00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:55,319
Speaker 1: he is okay, you know what, Like I said, it

830
00:40:55,440 --> 00:40:58,400
Speaker 1: was also showed. It was also showing my body. Oh

831
00:40:58,440 --> 00:41:01,839
Speaker 1: I'm thinking we'll look too, sees them bite I got

832
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:04,520
Speaker 1: you know, I got that hammer. You know what you

833
00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:10,120
Speaker 1: got that hammer? You know what happens like, Okay, it's

834
00:41:10,160 --> 00:41:13,440
Speaker 1: subliminal advertising. He's kind of show it a little bit

835
00:41:13,600 --> 00:41:16,160
Speaker 1: or lean, but then they're thinking about it. If you

836
00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:19,360
Speaker 1: haven't done that before, Okay, it works more than you

837
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:22,279
Speaker 1: would say. Well, it's not working right now, so let

838
00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:24,080
Speaker 1: me make sure I understand the play by play here.

839
00:41:24,080 --> 00:41:26,440
Speaker 1: So we go back to my house, I screen share

840
00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:30,920
Speaker 1: a movie. Accidentally, we stumble on a picture of me naked,

841
00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:34,320
Speaker 1: and then that is gonna that's gonna secure the bag.

842
00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:39,799
Speaker 1: Like in medias good I mean, you know you know

843
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:42,400
Speaker 1: what I mean. He's got me to hype them off

844
00:41:42,440 --> 00:41:46,200
Speaker 1: every day. Yeah, subliminal. I would be humiliated. I would

845
00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:48,879
Speaker 1: be so embarrassed if that happened to me. I don't know,

846
00:41:49,040 --> 00:41:52,399
Speaker 1: that's not that's not something that's not advice I'm taking. Man. Well,

847
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:54,680
Speaker 1: all I'm saying is give it. Look, give it a shot.

848
00:41:55,200 --> 00:41:57,319
Speaker 1: All we're saying is look where we are right now.

849
00:41:57,400 --> 00:42:02,560
Speaker 1: It didn't work. He sounds remorseful, like maybe he wishes

850
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:05,200
Speaker 1: he hadn't done it. Angel, I'm not maybe a little

851
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:08,400
Speaker 1: bit slightly to do it either if I lost the

852
00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:11,439
Speaker 1: day and anything. So well, I'm just trying to see

853
00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:13,880
Speaker 1: if I can fix this for for everybody here, Like,

854
00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:16,799
Speaker 1: would you consider another day with him? Absolutely not? By

855
00:42:16,840 --> 00:42:22,200
Speaker 1: the way, was it a hammer? Absolutely not? Okay, all right,

856
00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:27,319
Speaker 1: you know now, okay, now you're lying, Okay, okay, Oh

857
00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:33,280
Speaker 1: you're one of those guys anyway, that's bad, you know. Okay? Um, Angel,

858
00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:36,040
Speaker 1: thank you for your time. Josh, best of luck to you.

859
00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:39,640
Speaker 1: I wouldn't maybe take that one out of your playbook. Man,

860
00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:43,560
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm to re consider some of my techniques.

861
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Speaker 1: all this and more at Fredshow Radio dot com. Shelley,

879
00:43:42,320 --> 00:43:45,319
Speaker 1: you recently got married and then boom boom bam got

880
00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:48,480
Speaker 1: the baby coming, and so I might be able to

881
00:43:48,480 --> 00:43:49,840
Speaker 1: relate to this story that I have a couple of

882
00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:52,399
Speaker 1: minutes to tell you about. This is pretty wild, but

883
00:43:52,719 --> 00:43:57,120
Speaker 1: it happens. I'm trying to see which city somewhere in Illinois. Though.

884
00:43:57,400 --> 00:44:01,840
Speaker 1: A woman has revealed that she married her ex husband's

885
00:44:02,040 --> 00:44:07,200
Speaker 1: best man after he declared his love for her in

886
00:44:07,239 --> 00:44:11,319
Speaker 1: his congratulatory speech during her first wedding. Do you follow that?

887
00:44:13,080 --> 00:44:17,160
Speaker 1: The guy she married? So like, imagine showbiz Mike his

888
00:44:17,320 --> 00:44:20,000
Speaker 1: best man, did you guys have speeches at your wedding? Brother,

889
00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:22,560
Speaker 1: because we came to we came to the anti party,

890
00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:24,200
Speaker 1: but did you be case he has speeches? And so

891
00:44:24,239 --> 00:44:26,360
Speaker 1: imagine if he had said in his speech that he

892
00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:31,680
Speaker 1: was in love with you, Oh god, that'd be no

893
00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:34,399
Speaker 1: go for me. Like I can't picture because I just

894
00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:38,160
Speaker 1: I'm thinking of his brother. But that's a really way

895
00:44:38,239 --> 00:44:41,319
Speaker 1: got married and then they divorced. Is that? So that's

896
00:44:41,440 --> 00:44:44,080
Speaker 1: the way the story. The way that I understand is

897
00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:47,360
Speaker 1: is like at the time, it was like a haha, funny,

898
00:44:47,560 --> 00:44:49,680
Speaker 1: like he stood up and it was the tris the

899
00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:51,480
Speaker 1: picture that they have is like him standing you know,

900
00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:53,640
Speaker 1: it's like the front table, the lead table, and the

901
00:44:53,680 --> 00:44:55,840
Speaker 1: couples in the middle, and then he stands up and

902
00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:57,719
Speaker 1: gives his speech and a lot of people try and

903
00:44:57,719 --> 00:45:00,920
Speaker 1: get waka walka in these speeches, try and be like

904
00:45:00,960 --> 00:45:03,200
Speaker 1: stand up comedians or whatever, and it's like you're not.

905
00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:05,680
Speaker 1: But so he says something like that. So this woman's

906
00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:09,520
Speaker 1: name is Desiree White. She's thirty two. Her ex husband.

907
00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:12,520
Speaker 1: They got married in twenty ten. One of their mutual

908
00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:15,760
Speaker 1: friends joined them for the big day. The event planner

909
00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:19,040
Speaker 1: had been friends with this guy since high school. They

910
00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:24,920
Speaker 1: formed a friendship, all this, YadA YadA, and so during

911
00:45:25,040 --> 00:45:29,719
Speaker 1: his speech, I guess, he said that he was in

912
00:45:29,760 --> 00:45:33,399
Speaker 1: love with her. She was stunned and brushed off the declaration.

913
00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:37,000
Speaker 1: But just a year later, as she sat weeping after

914
00:45:37,040 --> 00:45:42,040
Speaker 1: her breakup, this guy kissed her, re relaying his adoration

915
00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:45,840
Speaker 1: for her. And now twenty twelve they get married and

916
00:45:45,880 --> 00:45:49,200
Speaker 1: they now are still married, and they have four children,

917
00:45:49,239 --> 00:45:54,040
Speaker 1: and she's never been happy. Oh wow, So it was

918
00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:57,239
Speaker 1: just like one of those maybe meant to be eventually,

919
00:45:57,320 --> 00:45:59,960
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. That's kind of crazy. Wow.

920
00:45:59,560 --> 00:46:04,720
Speaker 1: Oh shoot your shot. It's never too late. Yeah, I guess.

921
00:46:04,920 --> 00:46:07,920
Speaker 1: I mean, I have so many thoughts. Can you imagine?

922
00:46:07,920 --> 00:46:10,880
Speaker 1: I mean, if you're the I don't know who, I

923
00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:13,319
Speaker 1: don't know who initiated the breakup after a short period

924
00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:15,200
Speaker 1: of time of those guys being married. But like you

925
00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:18,279
Speaker 1: gotta think she's saying it was just one big coincidence,

926
00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:19,920
Speaker 1: or like, oh, I can't believe it happened like this.

927
00:46:19,960 --> 00:46:21,640
Speaker 1: I brushed it off, never thought anything of it, but

928
00:46:21,640 --> 00:46:23,360
Speaker 1: I'd be if I were the ice husband, I'd be like,

929
00:46:23,360 --> 00:46:25,400
Speaker 1: have you been thinking about this the whole time? You

930
00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:29,359
Speaker 1: know that I never have a chance kind of thing. Yeah,

931
00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:31,279
Speaker 1: but I was. I was watching a video the other day,

932
00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:34,920
Speaker 1: I think it was on social Instagram about the biggest

933
00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:38,080
Speaker 1: thing that people have in life is their regrets. Like

934
00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:41,640
Speaker 1: that's the regrets the chances you don't take. So maybe

935
00:46:41,640 --> 00:46:43,879
Speaker 1: it's what you know, one of those things like Kyl said,

936
00:46:43,880 --> 00:46:46,960
Speaker 1: shoot your shot, shoot it. I think about this sometimes,

937
00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:48,560
Speaker 1: and actually I wanted to talk about that a little

938
00:46:48,560 --> 00:46:51,000
Speaker 1: bit later about regrets and all that, But I think

939
00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:54,759
Speaker 1: about it sometimes when someone is married and one of

940
00:46:54,840 --> 00:46:58,719
Speaker 1: the other tragically passes away and then the person who's

941
00:46:58,719 --> 00:47:01,960
Speaker 1: remaining winds up like the best friend of that person.

942
00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:05,600
Speaker 1: I wonder about that sometimes, Like obviously the person's dead,

943
00:47:06,120 --> 00:47:09,640
Speaker 1: so they're you know, that doesn't really matter, but I

944
00:47:09,719 --> 00:47:12,880
Speaker 1: kind of just wonder, like, what's that, Like, you know,

945
00:47:12,920 --> 00:47:15,960
Speaker 1: if you marry the person who your good buddy was

946
00:47:16,040 --> 00:47:19,680
Speaker 1: married too, it's like I don't know, and I know

947
00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:21,640
Speaker 1: what happens, And I hope people like that maybe you

948
00:47:21,640 --> 00:47:23,839
Speaker 1: can grieve together and like I hope that you know,

949
00:47:23,840 --> 00:47:25,919
Speaker 1: it's I'm sure it winds up, you know, working out

950
00:47:26,000 --> 00:47:28,200
Speaker 1: many times. But I often think like that would be

951
00:47:28,239 --> 00:47:31,760
Speaker 1: a weird thing if I don't know, if something happens

952
00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:33,960
Speaker 1: to somebody and then I wind up marrying the guy's wife.

953
00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:36,080
Speaker 1: I just like, it just makes it seem like you

954
00:47:36,120 --> 00:47:41,520
Speaker 1: were interested in that person the whole time. While yeah, yeah, kinda.

955
00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:44,120
Speaker 1: And I also have some insecurities about that too, because

956
00:47:44,120 --> 00:47:47,160
Speaker 1: I would be like, and this is unfair. I'm acknowledging

957
00:47:47,160 --> 00:47:50,520
Speaker 1: it's unfair. But in the case where I'm marrying somebody

958
00:47:50,560 --> 00:47:52,799
Speaker 1: who is widowed, I think I would be like, did

959
00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:56,200
Speaker 1: you you never would have been with me if not

960
00:47:56,280 --> 00:47:58,279
Speaker 1: for that, you know what I mean, Like, we never

961
00:47:58,280 --> 00:48:00,840
Speaker 1: would have chosen me. You'd probably still be happy and married.

962
00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:03,200
Speaker 1: And I often wonder, like, there's a person like that

963
00:48:03,239 --> 00:48:07,120
Speaker 1: who loses their loved one. Do they ever think about that,

964
00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:11,080
Speaker 1: Like I was perfectly happy and now I got you,

965
00:48:11,080 --> 00:48:13,200
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like it's I'm admitting that

966
00:48:13,200 --> 00:48:15,480
Speaker 1: it's an insecurity and people obviously have the ability to

967
00:48:15,520 --> 00:48:17,480
Speaker 1: move on, But I would think about that a lot,

968
00:48:17,520 --> 00:48:19,279
Speaker 1: like you would never have chosen me, You'd still be

969
00:48:19,360 --> 00:48:21,640
Speaker 1: married to the other person. Yeah, but that's how life is.

970
00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:24,120
Speaker 1: It's a bunch of unexpected stuff. You know, it does

971
00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:26,680
Speaker 1: take a secure person to be with someone who's a widow.

972
00:48:26,760 --> 00:48:30,399
Speaker 1: But you know, life is all things changing our path,

973
00:48:30,560 --> 00:48:34,479
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah. I have a cousin. She's a wonderful girl,

974
00:48:34,520 --> 00:48:37,279
Speaker 1: and she lost tragically lost her husband in a plane crash.

975
00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:39,560
Speaker 1: And they didn't have any kids yet or whatever, but

976
00:48:39,600 --> 00:48:41,400
Speaker 1: they were very happy. I think they were like college

977
00:48:41,440 --> 00:48:43,680
Speaker 1: sweethearts and the whole thing. And now she's married to

978
00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:45,960
Speaker 1: another great guy. I had a couple of kids. They

979
00:48:45,960 --> 00:48:47,360
Speaker 1: have a good life together. They've been married for a

980
00:48:47,360 --> 00:48:50,759
Speaker 1: long time, and I just I don't know. I admire him,

981
00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:55,400
Speaker 1: and I wonder if he ever ever thinks like God.

982
00:48:56,120 --> 00:48:58,840
Speaker 1: If not for that, I'm not even none of this

983
00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:01,040
Speaker 1: even happens. And so yeah, I guess you can look

984
00:49:01,080 --> 00:49:02,960
Speaker 1: at it two ways. You can look at it pessimistically,

985
00:49:03,040 --> 00:49:04,880
Speaker 1: or you can look at it like, well, I'm sorry

986
00:49:04,920 --> 00:49:09,080
Speaker 1: that bad thing happened, but but what resulted was this

987
00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:11,719
Speaker 1: wonderful thing, which is I found my wife and it

988
00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:15,160
Speaker 1: we had a beautiful family and whatever. But me, the overthinker,

989
00:49:15,480 --> 00:49:18,640
Speaker 1: I'd be sitting there going I wonder if he was

990
00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:23,480
Speaker 1: better than me and anything. Oh, No, oh god, I

991
00:49:23,920 --> 00:49:29,320
Speaker 1: would think. That's that's how my brain. I'm serious. I'd

992
00:49:29,320 --> 00:49:31,799
Speaker 1: be like, like him, did you like him better than me?

993
00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:35,879
Speaker 1: You know, like that, you know what I'm saying, like

994
00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:43,480
Speaker 1: like that, you know, oh, Fred, you would be that. Well.

995
00:49:43,520 --> 00:49:46,120
Speaker 1: I don't think nobody would think about anybody else. There

996
00:49:46,160 --> 00:49:52,319
Speaker 1: wouldn't be time for that. But I'm telling you, I'm

997
00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:54,600
Speaker 1: just being honest. I'm being honest. I'm an overthinker and

998
00:49:54,600 --> 00:49:56,520
Speaker 1: this is a kind of crap that goes through my brain.

999
00:49:56,920 --> 00:49:59,360
Speaker 1: But anyway, I'm really glad it didn't happen at your wedding, Shelley,

1000
00:49:59,440 --> 00:50:03,400
Speaker 1: so that would be really weird. No, it's actually funny

1001
00:50:03,440 --> 00:50:05,880
Speaker 1: because we just got our wedding video back and I

1002
00:50:05,920 --> 00:50:07,759
Speaker 1: think I might have mentioned you guys, his brother, my

1003
00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:10,000
Speaker 1: husband's brother, gave a terrible speech. I'll just say it

1004
00:50:10,000 --> 00:50:13,239
Speaker 1: openly because everybody thought it. And he was just saying

1005
00:50:13,280 --> 00:50:14,799
Speaker 1: he was trying to be funny, like do the stand

1006
00:50:14,880 --> 00:50:17,080
Speaker 1: up comic thing, and it did not work. It felt

1007
00:50:17,120 --> 00:50:19,759
Speaker 1: totally flat. Instead, it just came off like what are

1008
00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:22,919
Speaker 1: you talking about? And we got our wedding video back

1009
00:50:22,960 --> 00:50:25,440
Speaker 1: and there was not a single comment from him, like,

1010
00:50:25,560 --> 00:50:27,360
Speaker 1: none of his speech made it into the video, and

1011
00:50:27,440 --> 00:50:33,480
Speaker 1: I was laughing because yeah, yeah, I know it's yea,

1012
00:50:33,520 --> 00:50:37,080
Speaker 1: I remember, yeah, yeah. My sister gave the speech at

1013
00:50:37,080 --> 00:50:39,799
Speaker 1: her sister's or at her best friend's wedding, and I

1014
00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:42,200
Speaker 1: she asked me for advice, Not that I'm the greatest

1015
00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:44,719
Speaker 1: public speaker, because I'm not, but I was like, do

1016
00:50:44,880 --> 00:50:47,359
Speaker 1: not tell a joke, Like, don't tell a joke, because

1017
00:50:47,400 --> 00:50:49,719
Speaker 1: if you tell a joke, you tell doesn't land. You're

1018
00:50:49,719 --> 00:50:52,000
Speaker 1: gonna feel like crap for the rest of the speech.

1019
00:50:52,040 --> 00:50:54,400
Speaker 1: You know, you're gonna just like, just don't do it.

1020
00:50:54,440 --> 00:50:56,439
Speaker 1: Just go up there and say something sweet, don't don't

1021
00:50:56,600 --> 00:51:01,799
Speaker 1: roast the person like this is not love, Rose. It's

1022
00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:06,480
Speaker 1: so funny. It was bad the wedding, making the rehearsal

1023
00:51:06,560 --> 00:51:09,239
Speaker 1: dinner or the bachelor party or something. But don't you've

1024
00:51:09,280 --> 00:51:11,960
Speaker 1: not at the wedding, not with Grandmama there or whatever,

1025
00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:20,320
Speaker 1: Rose Rose, And it goes a little too Ronchi. I'm like, yes, okay, Gina,

1026
00:51:20,560 --> 00:51:22,799
Speaker 1: Hey Tina, thanks for hanging on. Good morning. How are you.

1027
00:51:23,760 --> 00:51:27,239
Speaker 1: I'm good. How are you, Tina, I'm great. Thanks for calling.

1028
00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:30,640
Speaker 1: So you heard us talking a second ago about the

1029
00:51:29,800 --> 00:51:34,560
Speaker 1: h the croomsman, the best man who wound up marrying

1030
00:51:34,680 --> 00:51:39,160
Speaker 1: the woman, and he spoke at the wedding about how

1031
00:51:39,160 --> 00:51:41,040
Speaker 1: he loved her, and then they were only married for

1032
00:51:41,080 --> 00:51:42,839
Speaker 1: like a year, and then he swoops in and now

1033
00:51:42,880 --> 00:51:44,560
Speaker 1: they're married. Kind of strange, and then we got on

1034
00:51:44,600 --> 00:51:48,080
Speaker 1: this tangent about other stuff. But what's your story? So

1035
00:51:48,360 --> 00:51:51,680
Speaker 1: my story is when I was twenty one, I lost

1036
00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:56,160
Speaker 1: my fiance who was also the father of my child. Sorry,

1037
00:51:56,239 --> 00:52:01,320
Speaker 1: and I about a year later met my new husband,

1038
00:52:01,360 --> 00:52:04,040
Speaker 1: who at the time, I mean, he was just amazing,

1039
00:52:04,120 --> 00:52:07,279
Speaker 1: Like he wanted to date me after I had lost him,

1040
00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:09,879
Speaker 1: but knew I needed time to heal, so he kind

1041
00:52:09,880 --> 00:52:12,759
Speaker 1: of stayed back a little bit and gave me some time.

1042
00:52:12,800 --> 00:52:15,480
Speaker 1: But he was amazing. Let me keep pictures up of

1043
00:52:15,600 --> 00:52:18,680
Speaker 1: my fiance. He's been in my son's life since before

1044
00:52:18,719 --> 00:52:23,720
Speaker 1: he was two. He's like the parents of my deceased

1045
00:52:23,719 --> 00:52:27,479
Speaker 1: fiance adore him like we're all They take our kids.

1046
00:52:27,520 --> 00:52:30,960
Speaker 1: We have three kids together now and I have four totals,

1047
00:52:31,239 --> 00:52:33,680
Speaker 1: which my oldest considers him dad because it's all he's

1048
00:52:33,680 --> 00:52:38,640
Speaker 1: ever known. And you know, they, the deceased grandparents or

1049
00:52:38,719 --> 00:52:42,680
Speaker 1: the parents of my fiance, take all of our kids

1050
00:52:42,760 --> 00:52:46,520
Speaker 1: like they're all I love that. Yeah, it doesn't an

1051
00:52:46,520 --> 00:52:53,440
Speaker 1: amazing story. While I do think and miss my deceased fiance,

1052
00:52:53,719 --> 00:52:55,719
Speaker 1: like I really feel like he had a hand in

1053
00:52:56,160 --> 00:52:59,799
Speaker 1: helping to find this person, and he's been a god

1054
00:53:00,360 --> 00:53:02,759
Speaker 1: for real. That's a wonderful That's a wonderful story. And

1055
00:53:02,800 --> 00:53:06,080
Speaker 1: again I spoke about my own insecurity, and I would

1056
00:53:06,080 --> 00:53:09,160
Speaker 1: like to believe that I could be like your husband

1057
00:53:09,239 --> 00:53:11,680
Speaker 1: now is, and I know my parents would be that way,

1058
00:53:11,719 --> 00:53:15,760
Speaker 1: and you know, all those things. I just I wondered

1059
00:53:15,920 --> 00:53:19,759
Speaker 1: that question, Tina, if you ever consider the fact that

1060
00:53:19,840 --> 00:53:21,680
Speaker 1: even though your life is great now you're with this

1061
00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:23,839
Speaker 1: amazing man and he's good to your kids and you've

1062
00:53:23,880 --> 00:53:26,920
Speaker 1: evolved as a family, you know, do you of course

1063
00:53:26,960 --> 00:53:29,279
Speaker 1: you think about this other person because it wasn't like

1064
00:53:29,360 --> 00:53:33,239
Speaker 1: something bad, It wasn't like something happened in your relationship

1065
00:53:33,320 --> 00:53:38,960
Speaker 1: that led you to feel differently. The person just passed away.

1066
00:53:39,080 --> 00:53:43,200
Speaker 1: Yeah right, Yeah. And ironically, like two weeks before my

1067
00:53:43,280 --> 00:53:46,680
Speaker 1: fiance died, we had watched the movie Pearl Harbor, where

1068
00:53:46,760 --> 00:53:50,319
Speaker 1: in that movie there's a guy that goes off to

1069
00:53:50,480 --> 00:53:53,080
Speaker 1: war and that he's presumed dead and I don't remember

1070
00:53:53,080 --> 00:53:55,680
Speaker 1: if they're married or it's her fiance, but she ends

1071
00:53:55,760 --> 00:53:58,840
Speaker 1: up with his friend and then he ends up coming back.

1072
00:53:59,480 --> 00:54:02,080
Speaker 1: But my piante at the time was like, if I

1073
00:54:02,080 --> 00:54:04,520
Speaker 1: if something ever happened to me and you dated any

1074
00:54:04,560 --> 00:54:08,960
Speaker 1: of my friends, I would haunt you. Oh no, I

1075
00:54:08,960 --> 00:54:11,080
Speaker 1: think he knew his friends weren't good enough for me

1076
00:54:11,120 --> 00:54:13,560
Speaker 1: and his son. So I definitely didn't, you know. And

1077
00:54:13,760 --> 00:54:15,839
Speaker 1: there was a couple that tried, but uh yeah, I

1078
00:54:15,880 --> 00:54:18,239
Speaker 1: wasn't going down that route because one, I didn't want

1079
00:54:18,239 --> 00:54:21,920
Speaker 1: to be haunted and I think that's weird. Well, if

1080
00:54:21,920 --> 00:54:24,680
Speaker 1: it makes you feel better, Tina, I've told the story

1081
00:54:24,719 --> 00:54:27,560
Speaker 1: before and it's not a secret. But I a great

1082
00:54:27,600 --> 00:54:31,360
Speaker 1: friend of mine, of all of ours, really, but probably

1083
00:54:31,400 --> 00:54:36,120
Speaker 1: one of my closest friends in life. He I knew

1084
00:54:36,200 --> 00:54:41,720
Speaker 1: him for ten years. Yeah, and he one day early

1085
00:54:41,760 --> 00:54:43,400
Speaker 1: on he introduced me to his wife, who's like a

1086
00:54:43,440 --> 00:54:46,680
Speaker 1: ten out of ten. This guy, my boy Joe, My

1087
00:54:46,719 --> 00:54:50,960
Speaker 1: boy Joe was like his personality was a twelve out

1088
00:54:50,960 --> 00:54:53,160
Speaker 1: of ten, his heart was a twelve out of ten.

1089
00:54:53,239 --> 00:54:55,680
Speaker 1: He was probably a seven out of ten looking guy,

1090
00:54:56,080 --> 00:54:57,839
Speaker 1: you know, just he was an okay looking guy. But

1091
00:54:57,920 --> 00:55:00,239
Speaker 1: she was a model. She is a model. And I

1092
00:55:00,320 --> 00:55:02,920
Speaker 1: used to joke with him to his face. I used

1093
00:55:02,920 --> 00:55:05,600
Speaker 1: to joke with him anything ever happens to you, she's

1094
00:55:05,640 --> 00:55:10,040
Speaker 1: mine and he's and he'd laugh and he'd go he'd go, oh, yeah, whatever, dude, Okay,

1095
00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:12,839
Speaker 1: sure fine, if you're the only one though, and we'd laugh,

1096
00:55:12,920 --> 00:55:15,439
Speaker 1: we'd laugh. That guy passed away of cancer. I miss

1097
00:55:15,520 --> 00:55:19,439
Speaker 1: him every day. But but now I think about that joke.

1098
00:55:20,200 --> 00:55:26,120
Speaker 1: Oh god, how could you know? Um? And no, I'm

1099
00:55:26,160 --> 00:55:29,800
Speaker 1: not with his wife, but I think I think about

1100
00:55:29,800 --> 00:55:31,120
Speaker 1: that all the time. But I'm glad we were able

1101
00:55:31,160 --> 00:55:32,600
Speaker 1: to laugh about it at the time. But does this

1102
00:55:32,760 --> 00:55:37,120
Speaker 1: make me a horrible person? Maybe? I think I joke

1103
00:55:37,239 --> 00:55:39,720
Speaker 1: like that and some are serious and some are joking.

1104
00:55:39,880 --> 00:55:46,160
Speaker 1: So um, yeah, no, it's not a horrible person. Typical male. Yeah,

1105
00:55:46,360 --> 00:55:48,440
Speaker 1: sounds about it, right, Tina. I'm so glad you called.

1106
00:55:48,480 --> 00:55:51,279
Speaker 1: That's a wonderful Mine's not a wonderful story. Yours is? Uh,

1107
00:55:51,600 --> 00:55:55,520
Speaker 1: have a great day? Okay, thank you too. Yeah. Yeah,

1108
00:55:55,680 --> 00:55:58,319
Speaker 1: I mean, how could you know? You know? How could

1109
00:55:58,320 --> 00:56:01,880
Speaker 1: you know? I just love someone so much that it

1110
00:56:01,920 --> 00:56:09,440
Speaker 1: doesn't matter. Oh, I was referring to my dumbass. Oh

1111
00:56:09,480 --> 00:56:14,359
Speaker 1: I mean, no, no one saw that one coming. So yeah,

1112
00:56:15,480 --> 00:56:25,120
Speaker 1: is it though? Oh? I mean I guess I was

1113
00:56:25,200 --> 00:56:30,560
Speaker 1: complimented that. Um he never said like, oh hell no, yeah,

1114
00:56:30,600 --> 00:56:34,840
Speaker 1: I mean that's you know, that's a nice takeaway. Um.

1115
00:56:34,880 --> 00:56:38,240
Speaker 1: My mom says though, that if she were to pass

1116
00:56:38,440 --> 00:56:42,959
Speaker 1: before my dad this similar sentiment, that, um, she would

1117
00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:47,080
Speaker 1: haunt She calls them sluts and hose um anyone who

1118
00:56:47,120 --> 00:56:49,520
Speaker 1: he would my father would date after her, and she

1119
00:56:49,520 --> 00:56:51,440
Speaker 1: says she would haunt them as well. So that's not

1120
00:56:51,440 --> 00:56:55,960
Speaker 1: an uncommon thing. My mom says that. So, yeah, she's

1121
00:56:55,960 --> 00:56:59,400
Speaker 1: a rapper. Basically, my mom. My dad's not allowed to

1122
00:56:59,440 --> 00:57:02,279
Speaker 1: do anything except more in her loss every day, and

1123
00:57:02,360 --> 00:57:05,279
Speaker 1: but my mom, on the other hand, is allowed to

1124
00:57:05,320 --> 00:57:08,160
Speaker 1: marry a gay man. Apparently that's that's my mom's plan.

1125
00:57:08,760 --> 00:57:10,400
Speaker 1: We should have her on to talk about it one day.

1126
00:57:10,400 --> 00:57:11,799
Speaker 1: But she got it all planned out. Where do you

1127
00:57:11,800 --> 00:57:14,560
Speaker 1: think the overthinking comes from. She's got it all planned out.

1128
00:57:14,640 --> 00:57:16,560
Speaker 1: He's not allowed to date and if he does, she'll

1129
00:57:16,600 --> 00:57:19,800
Speaker 1: torture them from heaven. And she, on the other hand,

1130
00:57:19,880 --> 00:57:21,480
Speaker 1: is allowed to move on with the gay man. So

1131
00:57:23,400 --> 00:57:25,720
Speaker 1: there you go. I don't know if there's logic there

1132
00:57:25,800 --> 00:57:30,640
Speaker 1: or what, but mom rules. Tomorrow morning. Harry Styles tickets

1133
00:57:30,720 --> 00:57:33,480
Speaker 1: three pairs starting at seven on the Fred Show, one

1134
00:57:33,600 --> 00:57:35,720
Speaker 1: h three five kids, set them good morning, thanks for

1135
00:57:35,720 --> 00:57:40,440
Speaker 1: having us on. I'm an awful people. It's terrible. But

1136
00:57:41,240 --> 00:57:44,960
Speaker 1: more than half of Americans in a survey don't know

1137
00:57:45,040 --> 00:57:50,360
Speaker 1: the names of all four of their grandparents. They don't

1138
00:57:50,400 --> 00:57:52,080
Speaker 1: know the names of all four of their grandparents. And

1139
00:57:52,200 --> 00:57:57,640
Speaker 1: I am absolutely blanking on my birth grandfather's name. I

1140
00:57:57,720 --> 00:58:01,760
Speaker 1: never met him. Yeah, same, my birth grandfather. I know it.

1141
00:58:02,200 --> 00:58:04,920
Speaker 1: I know it. And I heard he was an incredible

1142
00:58:04,960 --> 00:58:07,240
Speaker 1: man and that I would have loved him so much,

1143
00:58:07,720 --> 00:58:09,760
Speaker 1: and he did hold me as a baby and stepping

1144
00:58:09,800 --> 00:58:13,240
Speaker 1: he died. I feel absolutely terrible right now. But his

1145
00:58:13,280 --> 00:58:17,520
Speaker 1: wife's name, my grandmother was Loretta. Um. Of course I know,

1146
00:58:17,760 --> 00:58:20,240
Speaker 1: you know, being Fritz, the grandparents I grew up with.

1147
00:58:21,000 --> 00:58:24,480
Speaker 1: But I am I'm one of these people. Do you know,

1148
00:58:25,560 --> 00:58:30,280
Speaker 1: honestly all four of your grandparents' names? No, No, I don't.

1149
00:58:30,320 --> 00:58:33,640
Speaker 1: I never met my dad's parents. They lived in the Philippins.

1150
00:58:33,640 --> 00:58:36,240
Speaker 1: I've never met them. I don't know much about them.

1151
00:58:36,280 --> 00:58:40,040
Speaker 1: I never really knew my my mom's dad. He died

1152
00:58:40,160 --> 00:58:42,920
Speaker 1: when I was like four. You guys didn't ask them, No,

1153
00:58:43,000 --> 00:58:46,240
Speaker 1: I've asked. I just know something. There are a few

1154
00:58:46,240 --> 00:58:49,720
Speaker 1: components that play here. One is that my father and

1155
00:58:49,760 --> 00:58:51,480
Speaker 1: I are are stranged, so he's not in the picture.

1156
00:58:51,520 --> 00:58:53,320
Speaker 1: So it's not like it's been thirty years since I

1157
00:58:53,320 --> 00:58:55,480
Speaker 1: would have heard anything about this guy, you know what

1158
00:58:55,480 --> 00:58:57,160
Speaker 1: I mean. So, but there's no excuse. I mean, he's

1159
00:58:57,200 --> 00:58:59,800
Speaker 1: my grandfather and I should know it. I can't believe

1160
00:58:59,840 --> 00:59:01,680
Speaker 1: I'm waiting. It would be so curious, I feel. I

1161
00:59:01,680 --> 00:59:05,080
Speaker 1: think it's because you're not like around them. That's really it,

1162
00:59:05,240 --> 00:59:07,800
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like you said, is being disconnected. Yeah,

1163
00:59:07,800 --> 00:59:10,720
Speaker 1: I've never met my biological grandparents from my dad's side

1164
00:59:10,960 --> 00:59:13,280
Speaker 1: and then my stepdad's side. Obviously he has a mom

1165
00:59:13,280 --> 00:59:15,240
Speaker 1: and a dad. I grew up with his grand mom,

1166
00:59:15,280 --> 00:59:17,320
Speaker 1: which is my grandma, Grandma Helen, but I don't know

1167
00:59:17,360 --> 00:59:19,600
Speaker 1: her husband's name. But even like my great grandparents, like,

1168
00:59:19,640 --> 00:59:21,320
Speaker 1: I didn't meet them, and I asked so many questions

1169
00:59:21,360 --> 00:59:23,480
Speaker 1: about them in their life and I know their names,

1170
00:59:23,640 --> 00:59:25,800
Speaker 1: that's the other thing. But I met I met some

1171
00:59:25,880 --> 00:59:28,560
Speaker 1: of them too. Yeah, but like the ones I didn't meet,

1172
00:59:28,560 --> 00:59:30,040
Speaker 1: like I want to see, I don't know. Maybe I

1173
00:59:30,200 --> 00:59:32,280
Speaker 1: just asked you many questions. You are a big cousin

1174
00:59:32,640 --> 00:59:37,480
Speaker 1: or no? I love their life. I feel really, I

1175
00:59:37,480 --> 00:59:39,280
Speaker 1: feel really terrible about him. But are you one of

1176
00:59:39,280 --> 00:59:42,560
Speaker 1: these people? Like, could you know all? So there's three

1177
00:59:42,560 --> 00:59:44,160
Speaker 1: of us right here that don't know all four of

1178
00:59:44,160 --> 00:59:48,160
Speaker 1: our grandparents' names? Wow? Okay, well and then you do

1179
00:59:48,400 --> 00:59:51,080
Speaker 1: I have six because I had step grandparents. Um, and yes,

1180
00:59:51,120 --> 00:59:52,760
Speaker 1: I know them, Mom, I didn't really know them either,

1181
00:59:53,000 --> 00:59:55,880
Speaker 1: my step grandparents. I knew one of them. I'm just nosy.

1182
00:59:55,960 --> 00:59:59,880
Speaker 1: I think maybe. No, I think you're thoughtful, and you know,

1183
01:00:00,360 --> 01:00:02,320
Speaker 1: I think about the guy because I would love to

1184
01:00:02,360 --> 01:00:05,000
Speaker 1: have met him for a lot of reasons, because I

1185
01:00:05,000 --> 01:00:07,520
Speaker 1: like would always ask my mom about her grandma and

1186
01:00:07,560 --> 01:00:09,520
Speaker 1: like her grit, Like I just was curious about like

1187
01:00:09,520 --> 01:00:12,840
Speaker 1: what they would do. And yeah, I never asked those questions. Yeah. Well,

1188
01:00:13,120 --> 01:00:15,680
Speaker 1: if if you guys want to start trying, it's very rewarding.

1189
01:00:15,760 --> 01:00:19,000
Speaker 1: Yeah maybe, yeah, you know, yeah, it's interesting to learn

1190
01:00:19,040 --> 01:00:21,000
Speaker 1: about it, like his life was so different for them

1191
01:00:21,000 --> 01:00:23,400
Speaker 1: and the stories. Oh I asked my mom about my

1192
01:00:23,480 --> 01:00:26,920
Speaker 1: grandparents in Poland, and it's just look wild, like you know,

1193
01:00:26,920 --> 01:00:29,800
Speaker 1: like my grandpa who just passed away like two months ago. M. Yeah,

1194
01:00:29,880 --> 01:00:32,080
Speaker 1: like he used to like hide when the Nazis came in,

1195
01:00:32,200 --> 01:00:34,959
Speaker 1: Like it's wild. Stories are so dope, like they lived

1196
01:00:34,960 --> 01:00:38,120
Speaker 1: in such a different times. You can learn so much

1197
01:00:38,160 --> 01:00:40,720
Speaker 1: from these old folks. I'm grateful for it, you know,

1198
01:00:41,520 --> 01:00:43,120
Speaker 1: the family that I have in the family that I

1199
01:00:43,160 --> 01:00:46,120
Speaker 1: know and don't know for that matter. And I but

1200
01:00:46,320 --> 01:00:50,120
Speaker 1: what I do regret having met Rufio and Paulina. You know,

1201
01:00:50,120 --> 01:00:53,560
Speaker 1: when I grew up in Arizona, I didn't and really

1202
01:00:53,600 --> 01:00:56,080
Speaker 1: really good throughout my career moving around, I didn't really

1203
01:00:56,120 --> 01:01:01,720
Speaker 1: know people who were potentially first generation Americans. And I'm

1204
01:01:01,720 --> 01:01:03,560
Speaker 1: doing the air quote thing like I didn't know people

1205
01:01:03,600 --> 01:01:06,480
Speaker 1: like everyone I knew was like like me, you know,

1206
01:01:06,600 --> 01:01:10,000
Speaker 1: but maybe three or four generations removed from actually coming here.

1207
01:01:10,320 --> 01:01:12,200
Speaker 1: And I don't know if it's just a result of

1208
01:01:12,240 --> 01:01:14,880
Speaker 1: where I was living or who I was around, or

1209
01:01:14,960 --> 01:01:16,640
Speaker 1: I don't really know, but it wasn't until I moved

1210
01:01:16,680 --> 01:01:18,120
Speaker 1: here that I met a lot of Maybe this is

1211
01:01:18,120 --> 01:01:20,800
Speaker 1: just because of a more multicultural city then a lot

1212
01:01:20,840 --> 01:01:23,760
Speaker 1: more diversity than other places where I've lived, but I didn't.

1213
01:01:24,200 --> 01:01:29,080
Speaker 1: I regret that I wasn't closer to German. I regret

1214
01:01:29,080 --> 01:01:31,880
Speaker 1: that I wasn't closer to that so that I really

1215
01:01:31,960 --> 01:01:34,160
Speaker 1: knew what that was like. I would really like to

1216
01:01:34,200 --> 01:01:36,080
Speaker 1: have known and I know the history of our family

1217
01:01:36,120 --> 01:01:38,320
Speaker 1: because I've asked people who do know, you know, before

1218
01:01:38,320 --> 01:01:41,160
Speaker 1: they died, But I never met those people. And I

1219
01:01:41,200 --> 01:01:44,200
Speaker 1: guess I wish I were closer to my heritage because

1220
01:01:44,200 --> 01:01:48,040
Speaker 1: now my heritage is Arizona and in in chicagoan you know,

1221
01:01:48,120 --> 01:01:49,360
Speaker 1: I mean know what I'm saying, like, I don't know.

1222
01:01:49,440 --> 01:01:52,600
Speaker 1: That's that's That's what I'm about, I guess, And I

1223
01:01:52,640 --> 01:01:54,840
Speaker 1: wish I knew. You guys know about Poland and you

1224
01:01:54,840 --> 01:01:56,680
Speaker 1: can go to Poland, you can see your family there.

1225
01:01:57,600 --> 01:02:00,240
Speaker 1: You know, you could do all of that, and I

1226
01:02:00,240 --> 01:02:02,880
Speaker 1: am I can't really do Can you do that? You can't? Yeah,

1227
01:02:03,000 --> 01:02:05,880
Speaker 1: my grandparents Italy and Ireland. Yeah, so you still have

1228
01:02:05,920 --> 01:02:07,680
Speaker 1: family that you know and talk to that live in

1229
01:02:07,680 --> 01:02:09,440
Speaker 1: those places. I don't. I can't do it. Yeah, I

1230
01:02:09,440 --> 01:02:12,400
Speaker 1: mean I obviously don't go there and the regular But

1231
01:02:13,000 --> 01:02:16,640
Speaker 1: what a DNA test tell you stuff like that. I'm

1232
01:02:16,640 --> 01:02:19,400
Speaker 1: sure to throw in that twenty three and me at you, Fred, Yes, yes,

1233
01:02:19,480 --> 01:02:22,600
Speaker 1: it sure does. Like it's also gonna tell me, you know,

1234
01:02:23,440 --> 01:02:25,840
Speaker 1: if my if my parents have other children that I'm

1235
01:02:25,880 --> 01:02:28,000
Speaker 1: unaware of, and if I have children that I'm gonna

1236
01:02:28,040 --> 01:02:29,800
Speaker 1: unaware of, and I don't need it. I don't need it.

1237
01:02:29,800 --> 01:02:32,960
Speaker 1: It's won and it's gonna sell my saliva to the CIA,

1238
01:02:33,000 --> 01:02:35,680
Speaker 1: and I don't They don't need to know. It's really cool,

1239
01:02:35,920 --> 01:02:39,840
Speaker 1: but does it work like someone else has had taken

1240
01:02:39,840 --> 01:02:42,040
Speaker 1: the tests as well, Like so you can sign out

1241
01:02:42,040 --> 01:02:43,720
Speaker 1: of that. You can, Fred would opt out of that

1242
01:02:43,760 --> 01:02:46,440
Speaker 1: option to show you who else your family is. But

1243
01:02:46,480 --> 01:02:49,120
Speaker 1: it does show your your lineage down to like literal

1244
01:02:49,480 --> 01:02:52,720
Speaker 1: villages that your family was from. It showed like my

1245
01:02:52,800 --> 01:02:54,920
Speaker 1: axe found out he was like some kind of Irish

1246
01:02:55,000 --> 01:02:58,840
Speaker 1: royalty and he wouldn't shut up about it. But like,

1247
01:02:58,920 --> 01:03:01,240
Speaker 1: it's really cool. It's so like if you're related to

1248
01:03:01,280 --> 01:03:03,280
Speaker 1: some of the first people on Earth. I mean, it's

1249
01:03:03,320 --> 01:03:04,760
Speaker 1: just I don't know. I love it. But you can

1250
01:03:04,760 --> 01:03:06,920
Speaker 1: opt out of finding all that other family that you

1251
01:03:06,920 --> 01:03:08,760
Speaker 1: don't want to find out about, yacause I've heard of

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01:03:08,920 --> 01:03:12,400
Speaker 1: good and bad situations of people reaching out and going, hey,

1253
01:03:12,400 --> 01:03:14,840
Speaker 1: we're related and we didn't know it and that works

1254
01:03:14,840 --> 01:03:17,400
Speaker 1: out really great. And then I've heard of bad situations

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01:03:17,400 --> 01:03:19,400
Speaker 1: where people are reaching out going hey we're related, and

1256
01:03:19,400 --> 01:03:22,800
Speaker 1: it's like I'm not really interested. Part yeah, so I'm okay,

1257
01:03:22,920 --> 01:03:24,800
Speaker 1: But the CIA is still going to get my saliva

1258
01:03:25,240 --> 01:03:27,160
Speaker 1: to that part as well, do not set like that

1259
01:03:27,280 --> 01:03:29,320
Speaker 1: you can say to get rid of your saliva when

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01:03:29,320 --> 01:03:31,320
Speaker 1: they're done testing. At that being said, I also just

1261
01:03:31,360 --> 01:03:33,320
Speaker 1: put my email on like socially and to look at

1262
01:03:34,160 --> 01:03:38,280
Speaker 1: some you know, so some internet star a little while ago,

1263
01:03:38,360 --> 01:03:41,200
Speaker 1: so that one. Yeah, yeah, listen to the anti you

1264
01:03:41,200 --> 01:03:43,800
Speaker 1: can learn more about Yeah, I gave, I gave. I

1265
01:03:43,840 --> 01:03:45,800
Speaker 1: had to scan my social security guard and said it

1266
01:03:45,880 --> 01:03:47,360
Speaker 1: to someone to look at this. But I'm really worried

1267
01:03:47,360 --> 01:03:53,080
Speaker 1: about my saliva twenty three and me, I'm gonna be

1268
01:03:53,120 --> 01:03:55,760
Speaker 1: careful with this story too. But it's tap to ances

1269
01:03:55,800 --> 01:03:57,240
Speaker 1: a bit so that the kids don't know what I'm

1270
01:03:57,280 --> 01:04:03,320
Speaker 1: talking about. But scientists are warning against using shockwave therapy

1271
01:04:04,880 --> 01:04:10,320
Speaker 1: with targeted sound waves to enhance blood flow to improve

1272
01:04:10,960 --> 01:04:17,040
Speaker 1: a man's performance in the bedroom shockwaves on the yeah

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01:04:17,080 --> 01:04:20,840
Speaker 1: what uh more. People are turning to shockwave therapy as

1274
01:04:20,840 --> 01:04:26,600
Speaker 1: an alternate to traditional ED treatments. One appealing option is

1275
01:04:26,720 --> 01:04:30,000
Speaker 1: one that seeks to cure the ED rather than temporarily

1276
01:04:30,040 --> 01:04:32,200
Speaker 1: treating it. However, there's a lack of high quality evidence

1277
01:04:32,200 --> 01:04:35,360
Speaker 1: supporting the use of shockwave therapy. We don't need evidence,

1278
01:04:35,440 --> 01:04:39,920
Speaker 1: let's just shock them off. Clear, We're okay, let's go. Currently,

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01:04:39,920 --> 01:04:42,680
Speaker 1: the Food and Drug Administration is not approved shockwave therapy.

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01:04:42,720 --> 01:04:46,120
Speaker 1: It's not covered by insurance. The American Urology Association considers

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01:04:46,120 --> 01:04:50,240
Speaker 1: shockwave therapy investigational and recommends it researchers only use it

1282
01:04:50,240 --> 01:04:53,000
Speaker 1: in clinical trials. The whole thing would cost about thirty

1283
01:04:53,000 --> 01:04:55,040
Speaker 1: four hundred bucks for the entire treatment, about five hundred

1284
01:04:55,040 --> 01:05:01,560
Speaker 1: bucks per treatment, six treatments. And I don't know, like

1285
01:05:01,640 --> 01:05:06,040
Speaker 1: it's like shocking it like yeah, I don't. Yeah, it

1286
01:05:06,200 --> 01:05:07,720
Speaker 1: sounds some kind of sound waves, So I don't know

1287
01:05:07,760 --> 01:05:09,280
Speaker 1: if it's like the shot that you think it is,

1288
01:05:09,400 --> 01:05:11,360
Speaker 1: or if it's just like the sound like a shockwave,

1289
01:05:11,440 --> 01:05:15,080
Speaker 1: like a front. Yeah, like when a place. I don't

1290
01:05:15,080 --> 01:05:18,440
Speaker 1: think they're looking to see how deep it is yourself.

1291
01:05:18,560 --> 01:05:23,840
Speaker 1: So ten meters here we go. If they're using sonar R,

1292
01:05:24,240 --> 01:05:30,680
Speaker 1: then it's a little it's a little blip on the screen, sir. Yeah,

1293
01:05:33,680 --> 01:05:37,120
Speaker 1: we're still waiting for a return on that. Captain looks

1294
01:05:37,160 --> 01:05:49,320
Speaker 1: like about fifty whoa come iceberg over here. Um Patients

1295
01:05:49,320 --> 01:05:52,160
Speaker 1: considering shock wave therapy for this should be evaluated by

1296
01:05:52,200 --> 01:05:54,640
Speaker 1: urologists who are equipped to conduct a formal men's health

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01:05:54,680 --> 01:05:58,600
Speaker 1: evaluation and provide a data driven, in patient centric discussion

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01:05:58,600 --> 01:06:01,480
Speaker 1: of treatment options. So I guess such a thing is

1299
01:06:01,520 --> 01:06:08,280
Speaker 1: you can yeah, yeah, he can administer that on some

1300
01:06:08,440 --> 01:06:13,040
Speaker 1: people always it up too high. Oh my bad, I

1301
01:06:13,080 --> 01:06:17,200
Speaker 1: didn't realize. I didn't realize. Also today in that same realm,

1302
01:06:17,200 --> 01:06:20,600
Speaker 1: and again I'm being careful, you know, I'm yeah, because

1303
01:06:20,600 --> 01:06:25,880
Speaker 1: we don't get nasty until eight o'clock. Then we get nasty.

1304
01:06:26,120 --> 01:06:29,800
Speaker 1: A psychologist has shared a handy trick that could help

1305
01:06:29,840 --> 01:06:34,440
Speaker 1: you deal did to help you deal with speed in

1306
01:06:34,480 --> 01:06:36,800
Speaker 1: the bedroom, you know, to maybe extend things a bit.

1307
01:06:37,160 --> 01:06:39,400
Speaker 1: Doctor Julie Smith took to TikTok to break down how

1308
01:06:39,400 --> 01:06:41,640
Speaker 1: the mind works when it comes to avoiding certain thoughts.

1309
01:06:42,040 --> 01:06:44,840
Speaker 1: Smith shared her expertise and a thirty eight second reel

1310
01:06:44,880 --> 01:06:48,080
Speaker 1: that begins by prompting viewers to not think about sex

1311
01:06:48,560 --> 01:06:51,200
Speaker 1: for the next twenty seconds. She said, I'm a psychologist

1312
01:06:51,200 --> 01:06:52,840
Speaker 1: and I want to show you something about how your

1313
01:06:52,840 --> 01:06:55,280
Speaker 1: mind works. All you have to do is not think

1314
01:06:55,320 --> 01:06:57,760
Speaker 1: about it. A few seconds later, she has viewers if

1315
01:06:57,760 --> 01:07:01,120
Speaker 1: they were indeed thinking about it. She said, that's because

1316
01:07:01,120 --> 01:07:03,720
Speaker 1: your mind doesn't deal with negatives that well. As soon

1317
01:07:03,760 --> 01:07:05,840
Speaker 1: as you try not to think about something you're already

1318
01:07:05,880 --> 01:07:07,400
Speaker 1: thinking about it. She know that this is part of

1319
01:07:07,440 --> 01:07:10,120
Speaker 1: the reason why so many people struggle with addiction, dieting,

1320
01:07:10,160 --> 01:07:13,200
Speaker 1: and interested thoughts. She then shared the trick to tackling

1321
01:07:13,240 --> 01:07:16,400
Speaker 1: the issue is to simply let the thoughts pass actively

1322
01:07:16,440 --> 01:07:18,240
Speaker 1: fill your attention with the things that you want to

1323
01:07:18,280 --> 01:07:21,920
Speaker 1: be thinking about instead. So I guess like, if you

1324
01:07:21,920 --> 01:07:24,480
Speaker 1: get too excited and you're thinking about it and that

1325
01:07:24,520 --> 01:07:26,960
Speaker 1: affects your performance, you should just like let that go,

1326
01:07:27,360 --> 01:07:31,120
Speaker 1: as opposed to the old trick where you think about roadkill.

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01:07:31,760 --> 01:07:35,120
Speaker 1: Is that what works for you, guys? No, I mean,

1328
01:07:35,200 --> 01:07:37,200
Speaker 1: do you think about something sometimes you haven't have been

1329
01:07:37,320 --> 01:07:39,200
Speaker 1: something about. I don't know if you remember the old

1330
01:07:39,200 --> 01:07:41,280
Speaker 1: Wendy's Lady, the words the beef lady. That's what I

1331
01:07:41,280 --> 01:07:50,600
Speaker 1: think about. Oh, I would think about that lady, lady Elaine,

1332
01:07:51,520 --> 01:07:55,280
Speaker 1: but I think she's fine. That wouldn't work. That wouldn't

1333
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Speaker 1: do it. Live from America's Greatest City, Chicago, an I

1334
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Speaker 1: Heart radio station. Is there anything you guys are insecure

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01:08:11,520 --> 01:08:14,000
Speaker 1: about in your homes? Like, if you have people over,

1336
01:08:14,880 --> 01:08:16,640
Speaker 1: is there anything that you think like, I got to

1337
01:08:16,640 --> 01:08:18,640
Speaker 1: make sure this has to be an order or I

1338
01:08:18,680 --> 01:08:22,160
Speaker 1: don't want this to happen, you know, when my friends

1339
01:08:22,160 --> 01:08:26,800
Speaker 1: are over family in the house. Yes, the whole house.

1340
01:08:29,040 --> 01:08:30,760
Speaker 1: I put the work in. I hope it's okay to

1341
01:08:31,080 --> 01:08:33,839
Speaker 1: you know, the standards of people, like are you aware

1342
01:08:34,120 --> 01:08:37,759
Speaker 1: of are you aware of a problem in the house,

1343
01:08:37,800 --> 01:08:40,519
Speaker 1: Like sometimes we have a sewage issue and like, oh boy,

1344
01:08:40,720 --> 01:08:43,600
Speaker 1: you know whatever because I bring this up because um,

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01:08:43,640 --> 01:08:48,160
Speaker 1: seventy percent of people, according to this study, are worried

1346
01:08:48,160 --> 01:08:51,800
Speaker 1: that their house smells bad when they have guests over,

1347
01:08:52,400 --> 01:08:55,599
Speaker 1: but it would smell bad to others. Um. The average

1348
01:08:55,600 --> 01:08:58,880
Speaker 1: person spends almost two hundred and thirty bucks a year

1349
01:08:58,880 --> 01:09:02,200
Speaker 1: on items to improve their homes aroma. The other thing

1350
01:09:02,240 --> 01:09:04,400
Speaker 1: about that, if you think about it, is if your

1351
01:09:04,400 --> 01:09:06,639
Speaker 1: house didn't smell bad and you're in it every day,

1352
01:09:06,800 --> 01:09:09,479
Speaker 1: you may not know. That's what's scary. Yeah, you don't know.

1353
01:09:09,560 --> 01:09:11,160
Speaker 1: You don't know if your house smells are not right.

1354
01:09:11,840 --> 01:09:14,240
Speaker 1: But doesn't every house have a scent anyway? Yes, you

1355
01:09:14,280 --> 01:09:16,880
Speaker 1: know what I mean. But it can be a bad one, right,

1356
01:09:16,920 --> 01:09:18,559
Speaker 1: And that's the point though, is it? Like if you

1357
01:09:18,680 --> 01:09:20,840
Speaker 1: if you're smelling it every day, you may not recognize it.

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01:09:20,840 --> 01:09:22,760
Speaker 1: It's not a good one. I'm insecure about that. It

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01:09:22,840 --> 01:09:24,439
Speaker 1: was a lot of things I feel about in my house,

1360
01:09:24,479 --> 01:09:26,120
Speaker 1: but that's one of them. When I was a little kid,

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01:09:26,280 --> 01:09:28,559
Speaker 1: I was told my house smell like sauerkraut, and I'm

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01:09:28,600 --> 01:09:30,640
Speaker 1: not even Germans. I was really confused about that. I

1363
01:09:30,680 --> 01:09:32,040
Speaker 1: was like, we don't even really eat that. I know

1364
01:09:32,080 --> 01:09:34,040
Speaker 1: what they're trying to say, because my mom makes certain

1365
01:09:34,040 --> 01:09:36,760
Speaker 1: foods that probably smell like that. Um So now I'm

1366
01:09:36,800 --> 01:09:38,880
Speaker 1: like lighting candles everywhere, you know what I mean. I'm

1367
01:09:39,040 --> 01:09:42,120
Speaker 1: very insecure about it. Incense just going like I don't know.

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01:09:42,160 --> 01:09:46,000
Speaker 1: To me, I can see that one or three five

1369
01:09:46,439 --> 01:09:48,200
Speaker 1: is how you get ahold of the fread show. I

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01:09:48,200 --> 01:09:50,160
Speaker 1: think I'm more insecure about like if I go to

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01:09:50,240 --> 01:09:52,920
Speaker 1: someone's house, I have to use their bathroom. I'm insecure

1372
01:09:53,040 --> 01:09:55,800
Speaker 1: that somehow I would break, that the toilet would break

1373
01:09:56,120 --> 01:09:58,200
Speaker 1: or something, and then I would be the one responsible

1374
01:09:58,200 --> 01:10:01,080
Speaker 1: for it, like I'm diamond dumber, like that movie the

1375
01:10:01,120 --> 01:10:03,720
Speaker 1: toilet gets cloged and there's no plunger around it, Like well,

1376
01:10:03,880 --> 01:10:07,400
Speaker 1: and I'm certainly not doing that. Yeah, somebody, if I'm

1377
01:10:07,479 --> 01:10:09,160
Speaker 1: like dating someone and I'm at their house for an

1378
01:10:09,200 --> 01:10:10,760
Speaker 1: extended period of time, you know you got it? Do

1379
01:10:10,800 --> 01:10:14,080
Speaker 1: you got to and yeah, that's a valid concern that

1380
01:10:14,360 --> 01:10:17,120
Speaker 1: I would somehow there would be an issue and it

1381
01:10:17,120 --> 01:10:20,200
Speaker 1: would be my sort of stuff there, and I don't know,

1382
01:10:20,240 --> 01:10:21,479
Speaker 1: I mean, how do you deal with that? You're at

1383
01:10:21,479 --> 01:10:23,320
Speaker 1: someone else's house. Now, what if you don't have the

1384
01:10:23,320 --> 01:10:26,160
Speaker 1: proper tools to solve the problem there? You know, then

1385
01:10:26,240 --> 01:10:27,800
Speaker 1: I mean you gotta go out there, and you gotta

1386
01:10:27,920 --> 01:10:29,599
Speaker 1: you gotta own it. You gotta be like I am,

1387
01:10:29,640 --> 01:10:34,439
Speaker 1: in fat human. Yeah, you just leave, Yeah, you bring

1388
01:10:34,439 --> 01:10:36,599
Speaker 1: the whole We had a waiting by the phone where

1389
01:10:36,640 --> 01:10:39,639
Speaker 1: she took it out and put it in her bag. Yeah, yeah,

1390
01:10:39,680 --> 01:10:40,840
Speaker 1: she took it out and put it in her back.

1391
01:10:40,840 --> 01:10:42,280
Speaker 1: And then there was another one. I don't think it

1392
01:10:42,400 --> 01:10:44,160
Speaker 1: was waiting by the phone maybe or just someone called

1393
01:10:44,200 --> 01:10:46,040
Speaker 1: and told the story that they'd put it in her

1394
01:10:46,200 --> 01:10:49,559
Speaker 1: in the cat's litter box. I read that somewhere that

1395
01:10:49,600 --> 01:10:51,160
Speaker 1: they took the poop out and then and then they

1396
01:10:51,160 --> 01:10:52,840
Speaker 1: were like it was the cat and the guys like

1397
01:10:52,880 --> 01:10:55,240
Speaker 1: my cat died like two weeks ago or whatever, so

1398
01:10:55,280 --> 01:10:59,679
Speaker 1: it was her human stuff in the thing though, Oh yeah,

1399
01:11:00,000 --> 01:11:03,000
Speaker 1: you homeowner. Like obviously, like I said, I put in

1400
01:11:03,000 --> 01:11:05,800
Speaker 1: the work like design wise and the furniture wise, I

1401
01:11:05,800 --> 01:11:07,680
Speaker 1: feel like I'm being judged and all of it. If

1402
01:11:07,680 --> 01:11:10,719
Speaker 1: someone comes over, you know, like is it esthetically okay

1403
01:11:10,760 --> 01:11:12,360
Speaker 1: with the people that are there, even though they're just

1404
01:11:12,360 --> 01:11:14,439
Speaker 1: sitting in the king, you know, and if it's clean,

1405
01:11:15,040 --> 01:11:17,960
Speaker 1: obviously we the house got to be clean. I feel

1406
01:11:18,000 --> 01:11:20,479
Speaker 1: so judged because growing up, my mom always said that

1407
01:11:20,520 --> 01:11:22,920
Speaker 1: was a reflection of you. So like having guests over,

1408
01:11:23,120 --> 01:11:25,759
Speaker 1: like I didn't understand why. You know, my uncle Roman

1409
01:11:25,880 --> 01:11:27,479
Speaker 1: was coming over and I had to clean the bathtub

1410
01:11:27,479 --> 01:11:29,280
Speaker 1: because he's I'm going in the bathtub, but you have

1411
01:11:29,360 --> 01:11:31,680
Speaker 1: to clean everything. So now Hobby and I when our

1412
01:11:31,680 --> 01:11:33,639
Speaker 1: parents are coming over, we're like scrubbing because you don't

1413
01:11:33,640 --> 01:11:36,080
Speaker 1: want to look like, you know, like scums. I don't know. Yeah,

1414
01:11:36,160 --> 01:11:38,160
Speaker 1: like comes I think that's the only thing I worry

1415
01:11:38,160 --> 01:11:39,800
Speaker 1: about is that my house would be dirty in a

1416
01:11:39,800 --> 01:11:42,960
Speaker 1: way that I somehow didn't know. He's like, like I

1417
01:11:43,000 --> 01:11:45,200
Speaker 1: missed a spot or something, you know, I guess that's

1418
01:11:45,040 --> 01:11:48,800
Speaker 1: that's sure. Yeah, that's what would worry me, I think,

1419
01:11:49,160 --> 01:11:52,720
Speaker 1: Or yeah, the cleaning. Otherwise, I don't care if you

1420
01:11:52,720 --> 01:11:54,400
Speaker 1: don't like the stuff on my walls, or you don't

1421
01:11:54,400 --> 01:11:56,160
Speaker 1: like my furniture or whenever, I don't. I don't really

1422
01:11:56,200 --> 01:11:57,840
Speaker 1: care about that. You don't live there, and I guess

1423
01:11:57,880 --> 01:12:00,400
Speaker 1: I would be afraid that I would miss something obvious,

1424
01:12:00,400 --> 01:12:02,240
Speaker 1: and that even that somebody else would uncover it and

1425
01:12:02,320 --> 01:12:06,519
Speaker 1: be like, oh my god, this guy's discussed um the smell.

1426
01:12:06,560 --> 01:12:08,880
Speaker 1: I don't worry about the smell too much. But I

1427
01:12:09,200 --> 01:12:12,519
Speaker 1: also I burn candles all day. Yeah, yeah, your house

1428
01:12:12,520 --> 01:12:15,600
Speaker 1: doesn't have a smell. No, No, that's good. Would you

1429
01:12:15,600 --> 01:12:17,519
Speaker 1: tell me if it did? Yeah? I probably would. Well,

1430
01:12:17,520 --> 01:12:19,720
Speaker 1: I mean every place has like a smell that like

1431
01:12:19,840 --> 01:12:22,200
Speaker 1: it's either the detergent or whatever. It kind of smells

1432
01:12:22,200 --> 01:12:23,800
Speaker 1: like the people that live there. But yours doesn't really

1433
01:12:23,840 --> 01:12:25,679
Speaker 1: have a smell at all, which is probably what you want.

1434
01:12:25,960 --> 01:12:28,679
Speaker 1: It just smells nice and clean. Like me, it's nice,

1435
01:12:28,800 --> 01:12:32,479
Speaker 1: nice and pristine clean. Don't open my closets though, that's

1436
01:12:32,560 --> 01:12:35,200
Speaker 1: I think that's a euphemism for my what's in my

1437
01:12:35,240 --> 01:12:38,080
Speaker 1: brain too? Yeah, I think my psychologist thinks the same thing.

1438
01:12:38,120 --> 01:12:40,160
Speaker 1: I wouldn't open your closets like my close like some

1439
01:12:40,200 --> 01:12:42,120
Speaker 1: of them are organizing, some of them. There's that one

1440
01:12:42,280 --> 01:12:44,599
Speaker 1: I got, the one closet that's complete and total disaster.

1441
01:12:44,680 --> 01:12:47,640
Speaker 1: Of course, Rufio went and opened it right full to

1442
01:12:47,920 --> 01:12:50,280
Speaker 1: your house. But a full tour of my house doesn't

1443
01:12:50,280 --> 01:12:53,200
Speaker 1: include all the closets, roof going underwear door too. I

1444
01:12:53,479 --> 01:12:56,000
Speaker 1: would have if you could have found it full tour.

1445
01:12:56,360 --> 01:12:59,080
Speaker 1: I can't. But that reminds me a full tour of

1446
01:12:59,120 --> 01:13:01,639
Speaker 1: someone's house does not include the insides of that giving

1447
01:13:01,680 --> 01:13:03,960
Speaker 1: a full tour to everyone on Instagram because we were live,

1448
01:13:04,040 --> 01:13:06,760
Speaker 1: but we don't open closet tour. That's not part warned it.

1449
01:13:06,800 --> 01:13:09,040
Speaker 1: I said, what's in there? You said, my messy closet

1450
01:13:09,080 --> 01:13:10,960
Speaker 1: and you open it and I was like, we didn't

1451
01:13:10,960 --> 01:13:12,800
Speaker 1: show it. We didn't show it to the people. You

1452
01:13:12,880 --> 01:13:16,000
Speaker 1: showed me personally because you opened it. I didn't open it.

1453
01:13:16,240 --> 01:13:19,120
Speaker 1: I don't even know what you're talking about. It didn't

1454
01:13:19,120 --> 01:13:22,600
Speaker 1: need to happen. Yeah, I mean everything appears to be

1455
01:13:22,600 --> 01:13:24,960
Speaker 1: clean and organized, and then you got that one closet.

1456
01:13:24,960 --> 01:13:26,839
Speaker 1: This is a complete and total I just push everything

1457
01:13:26,880 --> 01:13:28,439
Speaker 1: into the closet that I don't want to deal with,

1458
01:13:28,479 --> 01:13:30,720
Speaker 1: and then finally, one day I'll just deal with the closet. Right,

1459
01:13:30,760 --> 01:13:32,600
Speaker 1: But I haven't doubt with the closet yet. So I

1460
01:13:32,800 --> 01:13:34,240
Speaker 1: have a seat on my couch. This is why I

1461
01:13:34,280 --> 01:13:36,439
Speaker 1: spent hundreds of dollars on therapy everybody. I think it

1462
01:13:36,479 --> 01:13:41,080
Speaker 1: makes perfect sense. The Repair, Harry Styles tickets. You win

1463
01:13:41,240 --> 01:13:44,960
Speaker 1: tomorrow morning with us on The Friend Show Harry Styles

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01:13:45,040 --> 01:13:47,519
Speaker 1: three pairs. Set your alarm, put it in your calendar

1465
01:13:47,560 --> 01:13:49,599
Speaker 1: or whatever. Make sure you're here tomorrow morning to win.

1466
01:13:49,800 --> 01:13:52,880
Speaker 1: It's one h three five Kiss FM. It's the Fresh

1467
01:13:52,920 --> 01:13:57,639
Speaker 1: Show on Do You Have One? It takes the battles.

1468
01:13:58,200 --> 01:14:04,080
Speaker 1: You're definitely gonna be called nus. I'm not sitday. Hey,

1469
01:14:05,520 --> 01:14:08,040
Speaker 1: we made Chase him freestyle last week. Yeah, I can't

1470
01:14:08,080 --> 01:14:09,519
Speaker 1: remember what he said. I let's go back and listen

1471
01:14:09,560 --> 01:14:14,719
Speaker 1: to him your song. I wasn't here last week. It's okay.

1472
01:14:14,760 --> 01:14:18,840
Speaker 1: It's Jason Brown crushed for Pride Mouse. So I don't

1473
01:14:18,880 --> 01:14:27,840
Speaker 1: know what I just said. Let's go Pride Month. Whoa whoa, whoa. Hey, hey, hey,

1474
01:14:28,040 --> 01:14:32,519
Speaker 1: Pride Mouse. I love Pride Mouse. One of my one

1475
01:14:32,520 --> 01:14:38,000
Speaker 1: of my favorite mouths of all the mouse. So it's Alicia,

1476
01:14:39,680 --> 01:14:45,640
Speaker 1: Alicia High. Yeah, welcome to the program. Welcome to the game.

1477
01:14:45,760 --> 01:14:47,880
Speaker 1: Is definitely gonna be Paulina. For those of you who

1478
01:14:47,880 --> 01:14:50,440
Speaker 1: don't know this game, he was invented out of necessity.

1479
01:14:50,439 --> 01:14:52,960
Speaker 1: One day Shelley was gone and Pauline is like, I'll

1480
01:14:52,960 --> 01:14:55,639
Speaker 1: do it. I'll step up, and so general knowledge questions

1481
01:14:55,920 --> 01:14:58,400
Speaker 1: and we just never know. We never know what Pauline

1482
01:14:58,479 --> 01:15:02,519
Speaker 1: is going to say in this game. The prize today, Alicia,

1483
01:15:02,560 --> 01:15:06,799
Speaker 1: if you win, Um, you're going to Nick Cannon Presents

1484
01:15:07,000 --> 01:15:10,080
Speaker 1: MTV While and Out live at the Hollywood Casino Amphitheater

1485
01:15:10,200 --> 01:15:14,879
Speaker 1: on June eleventh. Live Nation dot Com Future is still available.

1486
01:15:15,200 --> 01:15:21,679
Speaker 1: Tell us about you, Alicia. That's amazing. Um. I am

1487
01:15:21,760 --> 01:15:24,599
Speaker 1: a twenty four I was on the southwest side of Chicago.

1488
01:15:24,800 --> 01:15:27,720
Speaker 1: I am a banker. Oh okay, are you banking as

1489
01:15:27,720 --> 01:15:32,960
Speaker 1: we speak. I'm in the bathroom. Yes, yes, girl, playing

1490
01:15:33,000 --> 01:15:34,439
Speaker 1: the game. I hope nobody has to come in there

1491
01:15:34,439 --> 01:15:39,080
Speaker 1: and do any other name deposit. You know. Yeah, I'm tired.

1492
01:15:39,120 --> 01:15:46,200
Speaker 1: I'm very tired. I've grown tired. You know this this

1493
01:15:46,400 --> 01:15:56,519
Speaker 1: some never mind, We're gonna leave it there. Um, Paulina,

1494
01:15:56,560 --> 01:16:00,439
Speaker 1: with all due respect, audios, get out, get us. Oh

1495
01:16:00,520 --> 01:16:03,680
Speaker 1: my happy birthday. Oh yes, happy birthday to Paulina. We're

1496
01:16:03,720 --> 01:16:07,599
Speaker 1: still celebrating. She makes us celebrate for weeks on weeks.

1497
01:16:08,600 --> 01:16:11,439
Speaker 1: She always says, yeah she does. Okay, here we go, Alicia.

1498
01:16:11,560 --> 01:16:17,520
Speaker 1: Question number one, how many years are in two decades.

1499
01:16:20,040 --> 01:16:23,640
Speaker 1: What is the national bird of the United States of

1500
01:16:23,640 --> 01:16:29,360
Speaker 1: America American bald Eagle. The late wife of George Washington

1501
01:16:29,600 --> 01:16:34,920
Speaker 1: had a birthday yesterday. Name her Martha Washington. She's not

1502
01:16:34,960 --> 01:16:38,240
Speaker 1: a looker either. God maybe for her time she was.

1503
01:16:38,360 --> 01:16:41,040
Speaker 1: She she was a hottia for her time. There right in?

1504
01:16:41,320 --> 01:16:48,880
Speaker 1: Which continent is the Eiffel Tower located Europe? What is

1505
01:16:48,880 --> 01:16:54,400
Speaker 1: the Michigan guide typically used for rating Michelin? Michel I'm sorry, Michelin,

1506
01:16:54,439 --> 01:16:57,519
Speaker 1: I misread. What is the Michelin guide typically used for

1507
01:16:57,640 --> 01:17:02,599
Speaker 1: rating fancy? There you go, that's a five. That's a five,

1508
01:17:03,000 --> 01:17:05,600
Speaker 1: five right there. I mean, no problem for her. She

1509
01:17:05,720 --> 01:17:08,479
Speaker 1: got a The banker gotta five. What at least he

1510
01:17:08,520 --> 01:17:10,280
Speaker 1: got a five. It's like nothing like I didn't even

1511
01:17:10,320 --> 01:17:13,840
Speaker 1: take boom boom. You're very smart, Yeah, she's very smart.

1512
01:17:14,560 --> 01:17:17,559
Speaker 1: Hide in the bathroom, supposed to be banking. Somebody losing money?

1513
01:17:17,640 --> 01:17:21,439
Speaker 1: Right now? Um, all right? What if I were to

1514
01:17:21,479 --> 01:17:23,599
Speaker 1: say to you, Alicia, the stock market just it just

1515
01:17:23,600 --> 01:17:25,280
Speaker 1: went wait wait, wait, wait up right now, we'll write

1516
01:17:25,320 --> 01:17:31,320
Speaker 1: a second. Does that concern you? I I hope your

1517
01:17:31,320 --> 01:17:34,680
Speaker 1: clients don't either. Um, here we go. Question number one Paulina. Yes,

1518
01:17:35,200 --> 01:17:41,760
Speaker 1: how many years are in? Two decades? Twenty years? We

1519
01:17:41,800 --> 01:17:46,120
Speaker 1: got one? What is the national bird of the United

1520
01:17:46,160 --> 01:17:49,599
Speaker 1: States of America? That is an eagle, a bald eagle.

1521
01:17:51,479 --> 01:17:55,280
Speaker 1: All the other eagles were upset. They're like not us,

1522
01:17:55,760 --> 01:17:59,320
Speaker 1: the bald ones. Though. The late wife of George Washington

1523
01:17:59,400 --> 01:18:03,880
Speaker 1: had a birthday yesterday. Name her beautiful woman. I didn't

1524
01:18:03,920 --> 01:18:07,400
Speaker 1: know if he had a wife. Three not the mistress,

1525
01:18:07,439 --> 01:18:19,479
Speaker 1: the wife. What's her name? James Jane Washington, your boy,

1526
01:18:19,960 --> 01:18:23,920
Speaker 1: she'd ub to Martha Martha Washington. You knew that I did.

1527
01:18:24,640 --> 01:18:27,200
Speaker 1: Martha the first ever first lady. She was the first.

1528
01:18:27,439 --> 01:18:29,680
Speaker 1: We got a couple more, a couple more pre you here, Yeah,

1529
01:18:29,720 --> 01:18:31,559
Speaker 1: she was. She was an influencer. She should have seen

1530
01:18:31,600 --> 01:18:37,639
Speaker 1: her TikTok. She was doing those dances in which continent

1531
01:18:37,800 --> 01:18:41,599
Speaker 1: is the Eiffel Tower located continent? That's Europe? That's right.

1532
01:18:41,720 --> 01:18:46,479
Speaker 1: And finally, what is the Michelin guide typically used for

1533
01:18:46,680 --> 01:18:51,840
Speaker 1: raiding restaurants? That's right? But you lost? You lost? Hey? Man?

1534
01:18:51,960 --> 01:18:57,160
Speaker 1: Was she losing? Um? Oh, that's okay. Your record now

1535
01:18:57,400 --> 01:19:00,840
Speaker 1: is five hundred thirty seven and thirty seven. Alicia is

1536
01:19:00,880 --> 01:19:07,720
Speaker 1: the winner. You are a legend. Paulina is about to

1537
01:19:07,720 --> 01:19:10,479
Speaker 1: have a losing record in this game. That's not good.

1538
01:19:10,960 --> 01:19:14,280
Speaker 1: Lose like benefits and stuff. We'll have to get back

1539
01:19:14,280 --> 01:19:16,200
Speaker 1: to you with it. Yes, yes, you're gonna start losing

1540
01:19:16,240 --> 01:19:20,120
Speaker 1: privileges around here. He'll you don't longer get your naptime.

1541
01:19:21,720 --> 01:19:24,799
Speaker 1: You have to wear it yet exactly you gotta address

1542
01:19:24,840 --> 01:19:31,240
Speaker 1: like Jane Washington. You know, people don't talk enough about

1543
01:19:31,280 --> 01:19:37,200
Speaker 1: Jane Watson. We don't hear enough about her contributions. Um,

1544
01:19:36,040 --> 01:19:40,959
Speaker 1: you tickets a while and out at Hollywood Casino, Amphitheater

1545
01:19:41,040 --> 01:19:43,320
Speaker 1: that you're a great sport gold get out of the

1546
01:19:43,320 --> 01:19:47,840
Speaker 1: bathroom and enjoy your price. Have a good day, Okay,

1547
01:19:46,800 --> 01:19:51,200
Speaker 1: thank you. Hold on Wednesdegond Paulina one talking about this

1548
01:19:51,280 --> 01:19:53,519
Speaker 1: why I love this game so much, you know, bringing

1549
01:19:53,560 --> 01:20:06,439
Speaker 1: attention to the forgotten Jane Washington fresh. The latest entertainment

1550
01:20:06,439 --> 01:20:09,679
Speaker 1: news is on The Fred Show Inventing Anna and Ozark.

1551
01:20:09,760 --> 01:20:13,080
Speaker 1: Actress Julia Garner has been offered the role of Madonna

1552
01:20:13,200 --> 01:20:16,439
Speaker 1: in her upcoming biopick, and she was also hand picked

1553
01:20:16,439 --> 01:20:19,439
Speaker 1: by Madonna herself. Madonna will direct the film herself, which

1554
01:20:19,520 --> 01:20:22,000
Speaker 1: I think is pretty cool. Who else was considered for

1555
01:20:22,000 --> 01:20:25,599
Speaker 1: the role, well, It's reported that Florence Pew, Euphoria star

1556
01:20:25,680 --> 01:20:29,439
Speaker 1: Alexa Demi and Odessa Young were highly considered. I kind

1557
01:20:29,439 --> 01:20:32,479
Speaker 1: of totally seen Alexa Demi aka Maddie Perez playing a

1558
01:20:32,479 --> 01:20:36,360
Speaker 1: young Madonna. Baby Rexa and Sky Ferreira have also been floated.

1559
01:20:36,760 --> 01:20:40,280
Speaker 1: The audition process was reportedly grueling, but I'm hearing that

1560
01:20:40,360 --> 01:20:43,360
Speaker 1: Julia Garner was the favorite from all the candidates. Her

1561
01:20:43,400 --> 01:20:47,320
Speaker 1: team is considering and expected to accept this offer. Morena

1562
01:20:47,400 --> 01:20:50,680
Speaker 1: check out online. Today Lallapalooza announced the latest addition to

1563
01:20:50,720 --> 01:20:53,840
Speaker 1: their lineup. Find out who's replacing Doja Cat at Fred

1564
01:20:53,920 --> 01:20:57,519
Speaker 1: Show radio dot com. Eight fee, one three five is

1565
01:20:57,520 --> 01:21:00,120
Speaker 1: our number. But this story we talked about it yesterday.

1566
01:21:00,240 --> 01:21:03,120
Speaker 1: It's on the website. But a dad to be brought

1567
01:21:03,160 --> 01:21:06,880
Speaker 1: an entire video game console to his partner's twenty one

1568
01:21:06,880 --> 01:21:09,639
Speaker 1: hour labor on Wednesday, and now viral TikTok. The soon

1569
01:21:09,680 --> 01:21:11,639
Speaker 1: to be father can be seen with the whole setup,

1570
01:21:11,680 --> 01:21:14,600
Speaker 1: the TV, the headset, everything's at the foot of the

1571
01:21:14,640 --> 01:21:18,360
Speaker 1: hospital bed gaming while his girlfriend watches. The caption says,

1572
01:21:18,400 --> 01:21:20,960
Speaker 1: my boyfriend brought his entire gaming system to the hospital

1573
01:21:21,280 --> 01:21:25,240
Speaker 1: during my twenty one hour long induction. One point six

1574
01:21:25,280 --> 01:21:28,680
Speaker 1: million views on this thing. People are freaking out about this,

1575
01:21:28,800 --> 01:21:31,600
Speaker 1: saying that he's a bad guy and he's not attentive,

1576
01:21:31,720 --> 01:21:34,080
Speaker 1: and they can't believe that he couldn't go a day

1577
01:21:34,080 --> 01:21:36,000
Speaker 1: without his video games. I mean, this is the whole thing.

1578
01:21:36,040 --> 01:21:39,280
Speaker 1: There's a monitor, there's a there's a gaming system, there's

1579
01:21:39,320 --> 01:21:43,160
Speaker 1: another TV. Literally, he's talking to his buddies on the headset.

1580
01:21:43,240 --> 01:21:46,439
Speaker 1: He's wrapped in a blanket because god forbid, he's uncomfortable somehow,

1581
01:21:47,160 --> 01:21:49,360
Speaker 1: and he's playing a stupid game. I don't know what.

1582
01:21:49,439 --> 01:21:52,280
Speaker 1: He's some kind of war game of some kind. I

1583
01:21:52,320 --> 01:21:54,519
Speaker 1: guess there's two schools of thought here, you know. The

1584
01:21:54,520 --> 01:21:57,519
Speaker 1: first is that my sister was induced. It took forever,

1585
01:21:57,640 --> 01:22:00,320
Speaker 1: and all they did was just basically sit there and wait.

1586
01:22:00,640 --> 01:22:03,200
Speaker 1: There's not a whole lot that you can do. It's

1587
01:22:03,240 --> 01:22:05,320
Speaker 1: my sister. I think it took like thirty six hours,

1588
01:22:05,360 --> 01:22:07,519
Speaker 1: and so at least the guy was occupied, I suppose,

1589
01:22:07,920 --> 01:22:11,840
Speaker 1: and it wasn't bothering you. On the other side, this dude, Like,

1590
01:22:11,840 --> 01:22:14,200
Speaker 1: what does this say about this guy's like future parenting

1591
01:22:14,200 --> 01:22:16,599
Speaker 1: abilities if he can't, you know, focus on you for

1592
01:22:16,680 --> 01:22:20,400
Speaker 1: a day while you extract a child from your body.

1593
01:22:20,920 --> 01:22:24,280
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know, but but what we're about

1594
01:22:24,280 --> 01:22:26,040
Speaker 1: to have a kid, Shelley, Like, what comes to mind

1595
01:22:26,080 --> 01:22:28,400
Speaker 1: for you is if shobis Mic shows up with a

1596
01:22:28,560 --> 01:22:30,760
Speaker 1: you know, Sudoku puzzle and it is like, yo, just

1597
01:22:30,800 --> 01:22:32,040
Speaker 1: don't leave me alone for a while. I got to

1598
01:22:32,080 --> 01:22:33,960
Speaker 1: solve this thing. I mean, oh my god, why I'd

1599
01:22:34,040 --> 01:22:37,160
Speaker 1: rather be Sudoku than a whole video game setup. But

1600
01:22:37,200 --> 01:22:40,479
Speaker 1: the eye would be so mad. I would be so

1601
01:22:40,560 --> 01:22:42,960
Speaker 1: mad if he did this. I feel like it is

1602
01:22:43,000 --> 01:22:45,000
Speaker 1: such a big day. It's like the biggest day of

1603
01:22:45,040 --> 01:22:47,760
Speaker 1: your life to have a kid and to be on

1604
01:22:47,840 --> 01:22:50,920
Speaker 1: a video game console for the whole thing. Like I'm

1605
01:22:50,960 --> 01:22:52,800
Speaker 1: I'm like, we're in the process of like we're gonna

1606
01:22:52,800 --> 01:22:56,639
Speaker 1: start baby classes soon and stuff, and he like I've

1607
01:22:56,640 --> 01:22:58,959
Speaker 1: been telling him, like you need to be my support system,

1608
01:22:58,960 --> 01:23:00,840
Speaker 1: like you need to help with me breathing, and like

1609
01:23:00,960 --> 01:23:04,040
Speaker 1: all these different things that you do, focus and all

1610
01:23:04,040 --> 01:23:06,320
Speaker 1: this stuff. I would just be I would be infuriated.

1611
01:23:06,560 --> 01:23:08,320
Speaker 1: And like you said, maybe in a situation he was

1612
01:23:08,360 --> 01:23:10,400
Speaker 1: waiting a while or something and so he was just

1613
01:23:10,439 --> 01:23:12,880
Speaker 1: like zoning out. I don't know, but he brought all

1614
01:23:12,880 --> 01:23:14,800
Speaker 1: I mean, like who carried all her stuff in while

1615
01:23:14,840 --> 01:23:17,840
Speaker 1: he's in here wheeling in a video system. But I

1616
01:23:18,160 --> 01:23:21,640
Speaker 1: want to know that. I asked the question is how worthless?

1617
01:23:22,720 --> 01:23:24,519
Speaker 1: If you're listening now, when you had a baby, how

1618
01:23:24,560 --> 01:23:28,719
Speaker 1: worthless was your husband? Or was it sweet that he tried?

1619
01:23:29,400 --> 01:23:32,800
Speaker 1: Or was it annoying that he tried? Would you rather

1620
01:23:32,840 --> 01:23:35,240
Speaker 1: that he had been distracted with something else? Because you know,

1621
01:23:35,280 --> 01:23:37,760
Speaker 1: you hear all the time about we joke about the tent.

1622
01:23:38,000 --> 01:23:39,879
Speaker 1: You know, when the baby comes out in the movies,

1623
01:23:40,120 --> 01:23:42,559
Speaker 1: there's a tent over the legs and the you know,

1624
01:23:42,760 --> 01:23:44,880
Speaker 1: nether regions and nobody, and the baby just comes out

1625
01:23:44,920 --> 01:23:47,840
Speaker 1: like perfectly clean, and you know, and here here's your baby.

1626
01:23:47,840 --> 01:23:50,280
Speaker 1: It's all wrapped in a blanket out of your vagina,

1627
01:23:50,360 --> 01:23:52,040
Speaker 1: which is amazing how I was able to I didn't

1628
01:23:52,040 --> 01:23:54,360
Speaker 1: realize it came out in its own blanket, Like that's crazy,

1629
01:23:54,680 --> 01:23:57,280
Speaker 1: But in the movies it does. But yet that is

1630
01:23:57,320 --> 01:24:01,439
Speaker 1: not the way that it is a life, as Rufio

1631
01:24:01,560 --> 01:24:04,160
Speaker 1: knows and Klin knows having watched her sister being born,

1632
01:24:04,240 --> 01:24:07,839
Speaker 1: And it's like, I just I wonder this guy is worthless?

1633
01:24:07,880 --> 01:24:09,840
Speaker 1: But would you rather than he'd be over there doing

1634
01:24:09,880 --> 01:24:13,439
Speaker 1: that than doing all this? I mean, do you think

1635
01:24:13,479 --> 01:24:15,040
Speaker 1: Mike will be helpful or do you think he's gonna

1636
01:24:15,080 --> 01:24:18,639
Speaker 1: be just deer in the headlights. Um, I really am

1637
01:24:18,680 --> 01:24:21,400
Speaker 1: not sure because he normally he for me, is kind

1638
01:24:21,400 --> 01:24:24,519
Speaker 1: of like my rock, like he kind of keeps me grounding.

1639
01:24:24,680 --> 01:24:26,639
Speaker 1: But I don't know if he understands, like fully, what's

1640
01:24:26,640 --> 01:24:29,120
Speaker 1: happening yet, Like, I don't know if he understand because

1641
01:24:29,120 --> 01:24:32,439
Speaker 1: you know, I'm here watching berthing videos and I've told

1642
01:24:32,479 --> 01:24:34,680
Speaker 1: you I've watched so many now at this point that

1643
01:24:35,040 --> 01:24:36,840
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's it's kind of crazy how many

1644
01:24:36,840 --> 01:24:39,519
Speaker 1: birds I've seen now. But I'm curious if he's either.

1645
01:24:40,000 --> 01:24:43,480
Speaker 1: I would imagine that he is going to be pretty

1646
01:24:43,560 --> 01:24:47,160
Speaker 1: low key and chill and like do okay, but inside

1647
01:24:47,200 --> 01:24:48,879
Speaker 1: he might be like, oh my gosh, this is crazy.

1648
01:24:48,960 --> 01:24:51,760
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know well. And Shelley, I

1649
01:24:51,800 --> 01:24:56,599
Speaker 1: was thinking about you yesterday because I like my sister.

1650
01:24:56,720 --> 01:24:58,760
Speaker 1: You know, we went out to the dinner before she

1651
01:24:58,840 --> 01:25:00,880
Speaker 1: went to the hospital to be induced, and she was

1652
01:25:00,960 --> 01:25:02,800
Speaker 1: just you know, hey, here we go. I mean, I

1653
01:25:02,800 --> 01:25:04,519
Speaker 1: know she was ready for Polly to come out, but

1654
01:25:04,560 --> 01:25:06,680
Speaker 1: it was just like, hey, you know, we're doing this thing. Me,

1655
01:25:06,760 --> 01:25:09,040
Speaker 1: on the other hand, I would be losing my mind,

1656
01:25:09,160 --> 01:25:12,360
Speaker 1: Like in my mind, I would be just overthinking this

1657
01:25:12,640 --> 01:25:15,040
Speaker 1: thing out of this small area, and it might take

1658
01:25:15,080 --> 01:25:16,760
Speaker 1: a long time, and it might hurt a lot, and

1659
01:25:16,800 --> 01:25:19,280
Speaker 1: I might poop myself and I might it's going to be,

1660
01:25:19,680 --> 01:25:21,720
Speaker 1: you know, healing, and oh my god, And here you

1661
01:25:21,760 --> 01:25:24,479
Speaker 1: are over here watching all these videos of what's gonna

1662
01:25:24,520 --> 01:25:27,320
Speaker 1: happen to you. I just I wonder what the kind

1663
01:25:27,320 --> 01:25:29,439
Speaker 1: of what the right move is do you do you

1664
01:25:29,479 --> 01:25:32,519
Speaker 1: go in kind of oblivious because it doesn't really matter, right,

1665
01:25:32,560 --> 01:25:34,960
Speaker 1: It's happening one way or another. So whether you know

1666
01:25:35,000 --> 01:25:37,120
Speaker 1: what's going to happen or not, it's still happening. So

1667
01:25:37,160 --> 01:25:39,240
Speaker 1: I think I might go in kind of oblivious. I

1668
01:25:39,280 --> 01:25:41,120
Speaker 1: don't know. If I sit there and watch videos all day,

1669
01:25:42,640 --> 01:25:44,960
Speaker 1: I know. But the thing is is like I like

1670
01:25:45,040 --> 01:25:48,280
Speaker 1: to be overly prepared, if anything, especially for this situation

1671
01:25:48,360 --> 01:25:51,760
Speaker 1: where I have no idea. I've never seen like I've

1672
01:25:51,800 --> 01:25:53,920
Speaker 1: never seen a birth before these videos I've been watching

1673
01:25:54,000 --> 01:25:56,880
Speaker 1: or anything. So I have just I've been I consider

1674
01:25:56,960 --> 01:25:59,559
Speaker 1: it's studying. There's lots of things and tips and tricks

1675
01:25:59,560 --> 01:26:01,120
Speaker 1: and things that you can do, so I've been reading

1676
01:26:01,160 --> 01:26:04,360
Speaker 1: about a lot of it. Jean, let's talk to Jean,

1677
01:26:04,479 --> 01:26:09,080
Speaker 1: good morning. How are you doing. I'm well, how are you? Jeez? Yeah,

1678
01:26:09,280 --> 01:26:11,839
Speaker 1: good morning, thanks for calling. Happy Friday. You're a paramedic

1679
01:26:11,920 --> 01:26:15,920
Speaker 1: and a a firefighter. What happened, brother Fred? I'm glad I

1680
01:26:15,960 --> 01:26:18,400
Speaker 1: got through. I love listening to the show. You know

1681
01:26:18,479 --> 01:26:21,920
Speaker 1: you're you're in old school. I know you go all back, brother,

1682
01:26:22,040 --> 01:26:24,360
Speaker 1: brother Fred. We dropped that a decade ago, but hey,

1683
01:26:24,400 --> 01:26:26,120
Speaker 1: I love it. I love it. If you know that,

1684
01:26:26,120 --> 01:26:27,600
Speaker 1: that means you've been around for a long time. So

1685
01:26:27,760 --> 01:26:35,640
Speaker 1: kudos to you. Oh yeah, baby, yeah. Well, speaking of babies, Hey,

1686
01:26:35,800 --> 01:26:39,559
Speaker 1: so I was going through paramedic school. I had to

1687
01:26:39,600 --> 01:26:44,320
Speaker 1: go into a teaching hospital Loyola for childbirth as part

1688
01:26:44,360 --> 01:26:48,519
Speaker 1: of a learning experience for school and clinical trials and UM.

1689
01:26:49,040 --> 01:26:52,840
Speaker 1: Prior to the young lady giving birth. I had to

1690
01:26:52,840 --> 01:26:54,640
Speaker 1: walk in there and ask for her permission for me

1691
01:26:54,720 --> 01:26:58,040
Speaker 1: to watch her give birth as part of a learning

1692
01:26:58,080 --> 01:27:01,080
Speaker 1: experience and help the doctors and nurses out or whatever. Right,

1693
01:27:01,280 --> 01:27:03,400
Speaker 1: because it could happen, right, I mean, you could get

1694
01:27:03,439 --> 01:27:06,920
Speaker 1: called onto an emergency and find out that somebody's like

1695
01:27:07,400 --> 01:27:08,800
Speaker 1: you don't have time to get to the hospital. We

1696
01:27:08,800 --> 01:27:10,320
Speaker 1: I do this right now. It happens all the time

1697
01:27:10,320 --> 01:27:13,880
Speaker 1: in the car. It happens all the time, Absolutely it does.

1698
01:27:14,720 --> 01:27:17,240
Speaker 1: And so we're sitting in there and she's like, yeah,

1699
01:27:17,280 --> 01:27:19,000
Speaker 1: that's fine. You know. I explained her that I'll be

1700
01:27:19,000 --> 01:27:20,840
Speaker 1: out of the way and I'm mostly gonna observe and

1701
01:27:20,880 --> 01:27:23,479
Speaker 1: if they'd eat help, I'll step in. But so the

1702
01:27:23,560 --> 01:27:27,240
Speaker 1: guy's whoever husband boyfriend was sitting in the corner on

1703
01:27:27,280 --> 01:27:31,719
Speaker 1: his phone playing Candy Crush, absolutely not interested what's happening.

1704
01:27:32,120 --> 01:27:35,760
Speaker 1: And later I found out when the doctor asked him

1705
01:27:35,840 --> 01:27:37,320
Speaker 1: if he wanted to cut the car, and he just

1706
01:27:37,400 --> 01:27:41,080
Speaker 1: looked over, said no, thanks, just completely not interested in

1707
01:27:41,120 --> 01:27:44,240
Speaker 1: the whole process. But it was his fourth kid, you know,

1708
01:27:44,360 --> 01:27:46,240
Speaker 1: he his wife knew what she had to do. I

1709
01:27:46,280 --> 01:27:48,439
Speaker 1: think the wife preferred to be alone. Plus there was

1710
01:27:48,439 --> 01:27:50,840
Speaker 1: like people swarming her. There was a lot of doctors around,

1711
01:27:51,280 --> 01:27:53,679
Speaker 1: and I was just taken back because I was like, wow, dude,

1712
01:27:53,720 --> 01:27:56,320
Speaker 1: this is like a child being born. This is awesome.

1713
01:27:56,400 --> 01:27:58,960
Speaker 1: It was my first time seeing it. So I just

1714
01:27:59,000 --> 01:28:02,680
Speaker 1: feel like, teach are all. Sometimes the wife's preferred for

1715
01:28:02,760 --> 01:28:04,880
Speaker 1: them to set out of the way. Wow, And this

1716
01:28:04,960 --> 01:28:07,040
Speaker 1: guy's over here trying to set a personal best on

1717
01:28:07,240 --> 01:28:10,240
Speaker 1: Candy Crush. But hey, Gean, thank you for your service man.

1718
01:28:10,280 --> 01:28:12,800
Speaker 1: Thanks for being a paramedic and a firefighter. We appreciate you.

1719
01:28:16,280 --> 01:28:18,320
Speaker 1: I see you, buddy. Look at that man. He going

1720
01:28:18,439 --> 01:28:22,439
Speaker 1: old school to start today. Hey Rebecca, Hi, good morning,

1721
01:28:23,040 --> 01:28:26,479
Speaker 1: Hi Rebecca. So this dude UM is making worldwide news

1722
01:28:26,520 --> 01:28:30,519
Speaker 1: because he brought an entire video game system, including I

1723
01:28:30,560 --> 01:28:32,719
Speaker 1: don't know why I'm so offended by this, but including

1724
01:28:32,760 --> 01:28:34,559
Speaker 1: the headset so he could talk to his buddies and

1725
01:28:34,560 --> 01:28:37,600
Speaker 1: play a stupid game while in the hospital while his

1726
01:28:37,680 --> 01:28:39,720
Speaker 1: wife is waiting to give birth. Do you have a

1727
01:28:39,760 --> 01:28:44,639
Speaker 1: similar experience, UM, I would have preferred that actually compared

1728
01:28:44,680 --> 01:28:48,240
Speaker 1: to my first experience. And I am married to this personnel,

1729
01:28:48,280 --> 01:28:52,200
Speaker 1: so I know this is gonna sound really horrible. Hi.

1730
01:28:53,880 --> 01:28:57,000
Speaker 1: I My labor went very quick, like four hours, no

1731
01:28:57,200 --> 01:28:59,640
Speaker 1: pain met. I was twenty years old. This is, you know,

1732
01:28:59,680 --> 01:29:02,960
Speaker 1: twenty something years ago, and I had like six nurses

1733
01:29:03,000 --> 01:29:05,439
Speaker 1: and got starts on a room and everybody was like,

1734
01:29:05,479 --> 01:29:07,240
Speaker 1: oh my god, he's so great because he'd be like

1735
01:29:07,360 --> 01:29:11,879
Speaker 1: three two, three four, and then because it was horrible.

1736
01:29:11,960 --> 01:29:13,640
Speaker 1: It was it was very painful, and so I was

1737
01:29:13,680 --> 01:29:16,240
Speaker 1: a streamer. So then in the middle he went then

1738
01:29:16,360 --> 01:29:19,640
Speaker 1: down and whispered he to shut up. Your his stairs.

1739
01:29:19,640 --> 01:29:26,080
Speaker 1: But that's just crazy. Yeah, and you'll marry this guy.

1740
01:29:26,360 --> 01:29:28,760
Speaker 1: So I think he's not a horrible person because I

1741
01:29:28,800 --> 01:29:30,519
Speaker 1: hear the story and I'm like, this guy sounds like

1742
01:29:30,560 --> 01:29:34,360
Speaker 1: a d No, he's known a horrible person, but I mean,

1743
01:29:34,400 --> 01:29:36,519
Speaker 1: you know what flax happened when you're young and you're

1744
01:29:36,600 --> 01:29:38,840
Speaker 1: kind of like questioning your life twenty five years later.

1745
01:29:38,880 --> 01:29:43,200
Speaker 1: But it's okay, Like it's all just his number. I

1746
01:29:43,280 --> 01:29:48,479
Speaker 1: just want to talk. It was good. We have we

1747
01:29:48,520 --> 01:29:51,720
Speaker 1: have other children, and none of my experiences were like that,

1748
01:29:52,400 --> 01:29:54,559
Speaker 1: but I mean he was. He was also really young

1749
01:29:54,640 --> 01:29:57,000
Speaker 1: and probably scared out of his mind because he has

1750
01:29:57,040 --> 01:29:59,400
Speaker 1: never hurt anybody's scream like that. Maybe I don't ca.

1751
01:30:00,000 --> 01:30:02,960
Speaker 1: You're like, take your game boy and shut up. Go

1752
01:30:03,000 --> 01:30:06,559
Speaker 1: over here, here's the gaming system. Please. Really I would

1753
01:30:06,560 --> 01:30:08,800
Speaker 1: have chose that. So yeah, but I love you. I

1754
01:30:08,840 --> 01:30:11,519
Speaker 1: love you guys. Great, thank you so much. We love

1755
01:30:11,520 --> 01:30:14,240
Speaker 1: you too. Have an amazing day. Good weekend too, Okay,

1756
01:30:14,280 --> 01:30:20,280
Speaker 1: thank you? Okay, wow, whoa, whoa. I read the little

1757
01:30:20,320 --> 01:30:23,320
Speaker 1: description that Jason type did, I'm like, ah, this may

1758
01:30:23,320 --> 01:30:29,120
Speaker 1: not end well, but they're still together. So hey, Nikki, hi, hi, Nikki?

1759
01:30:29,680 --> 01:30:32,720
Speaker 1: Was your was your man. Was your partner a good morning,

1760
01:30:32,720 --> 01:30:34,680
Speaker 1: I'm glad you're here. Was your partner helpful or or

1761
01:30:35,160 --> 01:30:39,080
Speaker 1: unhelpful when you gave birth? No? He completely shut down

1762
01:30:39,200 --> 01:30:43,360
Speaker 1: the whole process. Two situations where the first one, I

1763
01:30:43,479 --> 01:30:46,960
Speaker 1: dialated from four to ten met out of ten minutes

1764
01:30:47,680 --> 01:30:50,519
Speaker 1: and like to call the nurse, like my remote fell,

1765
01:30:50,560 --> 01:30:53,360
Speaker 1: I told music and so much pain. He drops the

1766
01:30:53,400 --> 01:30:57,840
Speaker 1: remote twice before calling the nurse. And then when the

1767
01:30:57,920 --> 01:31:00,800
Speaker 1: whole like labor is about to happen, stood holding my

1768
01:31:00,840 --> 01:31:04,240
Speaker 1: hand like a normal person, He's banking on my hair.

1769
01:31:05,680 --> 01:31:11,560
Speaker 1: So I'm like saving birth and I'm saying why I

1770
01:31:11,640 --> 01:31:17,080
Speaker 1: mean no, he said. He said, it was just a reaction,

1771
01:31:17,240 --> 01:31:19,719
Speaker 1: and I'm like, what's going on to my head? Hurt

1772
01:31:20,280 --> 01:31:25,639
Speaker 1: as like I'm getting birth? Oh my god, Nicky, thank

1773
01:31:25,680 --> 01:31:27,080
Speaker 1: you for calling us. A great story. I have a

1774
01:31:27,080 --> 01:31:31,839
Speaker 1: good day. Good bye. Pulling on your hair the baby's

1775
01:31:31,920 --> 01:31:37,360
Speaker 1: maid not how it comes out. Come on, Samantha, Hey, Hey,

1776
01:31:37,439 --> 01:31:40,200
Speaker 1: how are you? I Samantha? Good morning? What's your story?

1777
01:31:40,240 --> 01:31:43,840
Speaker 1: Glad you called? Okay? So I have two kids, UM,

1778
01:31:43,880 --> 01:31:47,519
Speaker 1: and I had my first son when I was nineteen.

1779
01:31:47,600 --> 01:31:50,880
Speaker 1: My husband was nineteen UM, and he was on his

1780
01:31:50,960 --> 01:31:54,519
Speaker 1: phone the entire time, and then we had our second

1781
01:31:54,560 --> 01:31:56,759
Speaker 1: son a little later. He was also on his phone

1782
01:31:56,800 --> 01:31:58,920
Speaker 1: the entire time, and I ended up talking him about

1783
01:31:58,960 --> 01:32:00,639
Speaker 1: it because it upset me because I'm like, I want

1784
01:32:00,640 --> 01:32:02,920
Speaker 1: you to be a part of this experience. And he

1785
01:32:03,040 --> 01:32:06,400
Speaker 1: basically had explained to me like that this process was

1786
01:32:06,439 --> 01:32:09,040
Speaker 1: so foreign to him and he saw how much pain

1787
01:32:09,080 --> 01:32:11,639
Speaker 1: I was in and how like my mom was able

1788
01:32:11,640 --> 01:32:14,880
Speaker 1: to comfort me more that he just he wanted to

1789
01:32:14,920 --> 01:32:17,000
Speaker 1: take a step back because he didn't want to like

1790
01:32:17,120 --> 01:32:19,519
Speaker 1: interfere with that, and he felt like other people could

1791
01:32:19,520 --> 01:32:23,120
Speaker 1: give me more comfort. I guess so I could totally

1792
01:32:23,200 --> 01:32:25,160
Speaker 1: understand people like being upset about it. But I think,

1793
01:32:25,200 --> 01:32:27,080
Speaker 1: like some of the other callers said, I think it's

1794
01:32:27,120 --> 01:32:29,960
Speaker 1: just very um it just depends on the person, and

1795
01:32:31,000 --> 01:32:33,800
Speaker 1: I think the mom giving birth because I think all

1796
01:32:33,840 --> 01:32:38,080
Speaker 1: situations can be so different. Wow, well, interesting perspective. Thank you, Samantha,

1797
01:32:38,160 --> 01:32:42,639
Speaker 1: have a great day, good weekend. I gotta think that's hard, Rufio,

1798
01:32:42,680 --> 01:32:44,720
Speaker 1: because you did it with Ashland and Jess a couple

1799
01:32:44,760 --> 01:32:46,360
Speaker 1: of years ago. But like you see that she's in

1800
01:32:46,400 --> 01:32:48,599
Speaker 1: tremendous pain. There's nothing you can really do, but here's

1801
01:32:48,600 --> 01:32:50,360
Speaker 1: the person that you care about most in the world.

1802
01:32:50,560 --> 01:32:53,600
Speaker 1: I mean, you gotta feel kind of powerless. Yeah, I

1803
01:32:53,640 --> 01:32:57,040
Speaker 1: mean because she's like describing pain and you don't know

1804
01:32:57,200 --> 01:32:59,760
Speaker 1: what it is. And you know, you're trying your best,

1805
01:32:59,800 --> 01:33:03,160
Speaker 1: like getting ice chips and ice cubes and stuff like

1806
01:33:03,240 --> 01:33:05,600
Speaker 1: that for her to chew on and stay calm and

1807
01:33:05,840 --> 01:33:09,360
Speaker 1: stay cool. But like when she's in pain, like you

1808
01:33:09,479 --> 01:33:12,080
Speaker 1: feel so helpless. But I'm not sitting there like on

1809
01:33:12,200 --> 01:33:14,519
Speaker 1: my phone like ten feet away. I'm like right there

1810
01:33:14,560 --> 01:33:17,400
Speaker 1: next to her, trying to do anything I can just

1811
01:33:17,520 --> 01:33:21,479
Speaker 1: to comfort her. Yow, don't let me find out you

1812
01:33:21,520 --> 01:33:30,800
Speaker 1: did that. Hey, guys, we're live right now. TikTok. You

1813
01:33:30,840 --> 01:33:34,040
Speaker 1: know in here on grub like this looks this looks

1814
01:33:34,080 --> 01:33:38,920
Speaker 1: pretty good for lunch. I'll take you tomorrow morning. Harry

1815
01:33:38,920 --> 01:33:42,360
Speaker 1: Styles tickets three pairs starting at seven on The Fred Show.

1816
01:33:42,400 --> 01:33:44,679
Speaker 1: One h three five, Get step m. Good morning, Thanks

1817
01:33:44,680 --> 01:33:56,040
Speaker 1: for having us on Fun. Okay, what are we learning

1818
01:33:56,080 --> 01:33:59,640
Speaker 1: today about the animals theme this week? Guys, we got

1819
01:33:59,720 --> 01:34:02,320
Speaker 1: an animal theme in the Fun. Fact the number one

1820
01:34:02,439 --> 01:34:06,480
Speaker 1: radio segment in the country. We got teeth and tongue.

1821
01:34:06,560 --> 01:34:09,240
Speaker 1: This is the number one radio segment in the entire country,

1822
01:34:09,560 --> 01:34:12,160
Speaker 1: without a doubt. The most clever, creative thing we've ever

1823
01:34:12,200 --> 01:34:16,160
Speaker 1: come up with around here. Guys, this this is uh intense.

1824
01:34:16,240 --> 01:34:18,880
Speaker 1: Are you ready, kaylen Klein, you need to hear this. Yes,

1825
01:34:20,080 --> 01:34:25,280
Speaker 1: female ferrets die if they don't mate once they go

1826
01:34:25,360 --> 01:34:30,080
Speaker 1: into heat. So I'd be out. That's a lot like um,

1827
01:34:30,960 --> 01:34:35,799
Speaker 1: like like blue balls on that is extremely painful and

1828
01:34:35,560 --> 01:34:38,640
Speaker 1: can give us a condition that can kill us. Oh,

1829
01:34:38,680 --> 01:34:40,920
Speaker 1: I was thinking like if they don't find a partner

1830
01:34:41,120 --> 01:34:44,040
Speaker 1: and no, no, no, no, So I'm making that no. Yeah,

1831
01:34:44,040 --> 01:34:46,600
Speaker 1: but as a as everybody knows, blue balls is a

1832
01:34:46,640 --> 01:34:51,439
Speaker 1: serious condition. You cannot leave a man hanging like that. Unbelievable. No. Um.

1833
01:34:51,520 --> 01:34:53,400
Speaker 1: When a female ferret goes in the heat, their bodies

1834
01:34:53,439 --> 01:34:56,839
Speaker 1: produce a high amount of a hormone, estrogen, which will

1835
01:34:56,880 --> 01:35:00,800
Speaker 1: continue to be produced in mass until she has made it.

1836
01:35:01,200 --> 01:35:04,720
Speaker 1: Having such high quantities of estrogen for a prolonged for

1837
01:35:04,760 --> 01:35:10,400
Speaker 1: a prolonged period will eventually result in a plactic anemia,

1838
01:35:10,479 --> 01:35:13,400
Speaker 1: which is caused by the damage sustained by the bone,

1839
01:35:13,439 --> 01:35:16,360
Speaker 1: marrow and blood cells by high levels of the hormone.

1840
01:35:17,320 --> 01:35:20,880
Speaker 1: Email ferrets will die if they don't mate once they

1841
01:35:20,920 --> 01:35:25,439
Speaker 1: go into heat. Sometimes it feels like that. Yeah, when

1842
01:35:25,439 --> 01:35:28,800
Speaker 1: you're really randy, when you're really feeling it, when you're

1843
01:35:28,840 --> 01:35:32,160
Speaker 1: really just die you you feel like if if you don't,

1844
01:35:32,840 --> 01:35:36,320
Speaker 1: if you're not satisfied. Yeah, I'm gonna use that. Yeah,

1845
01:35:36,439 --> 01:35:38,280
Speaker 1: like you men use blue balls, I'm gonna use them.

1846
01:35:38,320 --> 01:35:40,120
Speaker 1: Be like, I might die. I don't get the impression

1847
01:35:40,160 --> 01:35:42,720
Speaker 1: that you have to convince too many people, right, you

1848
01:35:42,840 --> 01:35:46,599
Speaker 1: gotta do this or I'm gonna die. If you don't

1849
01:35:46,640 --> 01:35:48,960
Speaker 1: do this and save my life right now then I

1850
01:35:48,960 --> 01:35:52,880
Speaker 1: mean maybe maybe mentally, you know, from a spiritual standpoint,

1851
01:35:52,880 --> 01:35:55,679
Speaker 1: but I'm pretty sure you'll live for a long time.

1852
01:35:59,479 --> 01:36:02,840
Speaker 1: I think you're gonna be well. Yeah, okay, all right,

1853
01:36:02,880 --> 01:36:05,360
Speaker 1: well you guys, thanks for guessing what times you lunch day?

1854
01:36:06,320 --> 01:36:12,000
Speaker 1: That's my question. The duck guld platypum fun fact on

1855
01:36:12,040 --> 01:36:17,280
Speaker 1: the French show Pauling is up to it again and

1856
01:36:17,400 --> 01:36:21,200
Speaker 1: brought to my attention um from an inside source Pauline

1857
01:36:21,240 --> 01:36:25,040
Speaker 1: in that you you and Habvey your boyfriend, had a

1858
01:36:25,080 --> 01:36:29,880
Speaker 1: few adult beverages. Yes, recently, It's like within the last

1859
01:36:29,920 --> 01:36:32,799
Speaker 1: few days. Yeah, so we did a little day drinking.

1860
01:36:32,800 --> 01:36:35,920
Speaker 1: If you will, Okay, if you will, I will, I

1861
01:36:36,000 --> 01:36:40,760
Speaker 1: will later on today. In fact, m so you you

1862
01:36:40,800 --> 01:36:43,680
Speaker 1: were having some you you were having some beverages, some libations,

1863
01:36:43,800 --> 01:36:47,800
Speaker 1: and you tried to convince Haavey. You know what I

1864
01:36:47,800 --> 01:36:51,160
Speaker 1: feel about this, but you aggressively tried to convince Haavey

1865
01:36:51,240 --> 01:36:55,960
Speaker 1: to go to the courthouse and get married at the courthouse. Yeah,

1866
01:36:55,960 --> 01:36:57,720
Speaker 1: I picked him against the wall and I said, let's

1867
01:36:57,760 --> 01:37:00,880
Speaker 1: do this. This is this is a mostly true right now, Yes,

1868
01:37:00,960 --> 01:37:03,559
Speaker 1: it is mostly true. So I was like so close

1869
01:37:03,600 --> 01:37:06,400
Speaker 1: to being like, why don't we just like knock out

1870
01:37:06,439 --> 01:37:09,000
Speaker 1: the whole thing, Like don't even do the wedding. We

1871
01:37:09,000 --> 01:37:10,840
Speaker 1: don't got to do the whole announcement, Like let's just

1872
01:37:10,880 --> 01:37:12,760
Speaker 1: go to the courthouse. Like we have this inside joke

1873
01:37:13,040 --> 01:37:15,679
Speaker 1: that like, oh, I'll meet you at the courthouse or whatever. Um,

1874
01:37:15,720 --> 01:37:18,560
Speaker 1: that's like how he gets, you know, certain things from me.

1875
01:37:18,600 --> 01:37:21,280
Speaker 1: It's like our little inside joke, if you will. So like, yeah,

1876
01:37:21,280 --> 01:37:23,160
Speaker 1: I know. So I'm always like we eat the courthouse. So,

1877
01:37:23,640 --> 01:37:25,559
Speaker 1: you know, we were drinking, having a grand old time,

1878
01:37:25,600 --> 01:37:28,120
Speaker 1: actually had a lot of fun um, and then I

1879
01:37:28,240 --> 01:37:29,880
Speaker 1: was like, why don't we just make this more fun

1880
01:37:29,960 --> 01:37:32,160
Speaker 1: and let's just go to the courthouse. But then I

1881
01:37:32,200 --> 01:37:34,000
Speaker 1: felt really bad because I didn't want to pull us

1882
01:37:34,320 --> 01:37:36,519
Speaker 1: Selena Cantonia where she does that and then like her

1883
01:37:36,560 --> 01:37:39,519
Speaker 1: family hears about it on the radio that she got married. Like,

1884
01:37:39,560 --> 01:37:41,360
Speaker 1: you guys are gonna tell my family that we got

1885
01:37:41,439 --> 01:37:45,240
Speaker 1: married to right, just gonna let this happen or not?

1886
01:37:45,960 --> 01:37:47,840
Speaker 1: I love you so much, but are you gonna let

1887
01:37:47,920 --> 01:37:50,840
Speaker 1: us happen or not? You just can't just let it happen? Hi, guys,

1888
01:37:50,920 --> 01:37:53,559
Speaker 1: I am I just like to to, you know, tug

1889
01:37:53,640 --> 01:37:56,720
Speaker 1: is like I don't know, like no, no, no. I

1890
01:37:56,800 --> 01:37:58,400
Speaker 1: like to like mess with him, like I like to

1891
01:37:58,479 --> 01:38:02,200
Speaker 1: just like you're not messing it? Changed? Yes, thanks changed fairly.

1892
01:38:02,320 --> 01:38:05,439
Speaker 1: I understand Paulina talk. But if you said, if he said, yes,

1893
01:38:05,760 --> 01:38:08,599
Speaker 1: you just go do it, I feel like I'm bluffing.

1894
01:38:08,600 --> 01:38:11,080
Speaker 1: Don't to be honest too, I like kind of I

1895
01:38:11,120 --> 01:38:12,640
Speaker 1: feel like I like to just like see where to

1896
01:38:12,720 --> 01:38:14,320
Speaker 1: rise out of him. Yes, like, okay, let's do it,

1897
01:38:14,360 --> 01:38:16,040
Speaker 1: let's do it, let's do it. I know one day

1898
01:38:16,080 --> 01:38:17,880
Speaker 1: we will do it. But at the same time, like

1899
01:38:17,880 --> 01:38:20,000
Speaker 1: why knock out like or why not just like do

1900
01:38:20,040 --> 01:38:21,600
Speaker 1: it instead of like doing the whole wedding and the

1901
01:38:21,600 --> 01:38:23,840
Speaker 1: whole thing. That's a whole different conversation though. I think

1902
01:38:23,880 --> 01:38:26,439
Speaker 1: maybe he should propose to you first, But why not

1903
01:38:26,479 --> 01:38:29,679
Speaker 1: just meet me there? Don't you want to be proposed too? Yeah?

1904
01:38:29,720 --> 01:38:32,960
Speaker 1: I do, and I will be at least have that. Yeah,

1905
01:38:32,680 --> 01:38:35,120
Speaker 1: but like, doesn't it sound kind of spontaneous and fun

1906
01:38:35,200 --> 01:38:38,800
Speaker 1: Like I'm all about sponts If you're engaged, are you?

1907
01:38:39,000 --> 01:38:41,720
Speaker 1: It's also spontaneous if he, you know, plans out this

1908
01:38:41,760 --> 01:38:44,320
Speaker 1: thing and you you're you're surprised when he gets down

1909
01:38:44,320 --> 01:38:46,439
Speaker 1: on one knee and proposes to you. Oh no, I

1910
01:38:46,520 --> 01:38:49,160
Speaker 1: know that. I will be very excited for of course,

1911
01:38:49,200 --> 01:38:51,240
Speaker 1: and like, you know, it's funny too. He actually told

1912
01:38:51,240 --> 01:38:53,760
Speaker 1: me he has that plan, and I almost got the

1913
01:38:53,800 --> 01:38:54,840
Speaker 1: out of him too, But then I was like, you

1914
01:38:54,880 --> 01:38:57,519
Speaker 1: know why, I know That's how I was like, fallback,

1915
01:38:57,680 --> 01:38:59,559
Speaker 1: let him handle that, let him let him do that.

1916
01:38:59,600 --> 01:39:01,120
Speaker 1: I told him, I want you to have that moment,

1917
01:39:01,360 --> 01:39:05,200
Speaker 1: but like you're so welcome. But then I thought about

1918
01:39:05,240 --> 01:39:06,760
Speaker 1: it and I was like, I really like want to

1919
01:39:06,760 --> 01:39:09,680
Speaker 1: know what he's got planned. He's pretty good at You're

1920
01:39:09,720 --> 01:39:11,840
Speaker 1: gonna find out when he wants you to know. You'll

1921
01:39:11,840 --> 01:39:13,840
Speaker 1: be the first to know what he has planned. But

1922
01:39:13,920 --> 01:39:15,680
Speaker 1: when I'm just gonna get out with the courthouse, Like,

1923
01:39:15,760 --> 01:39:17,760
Speaker 1: what's wrong with that? You don't want that. You really

1924
01:39:17,800 --> 01:39:20,200
Speaker 1: don't want that to you. I think it's right. I

1925
01:39:20,200 --> 01:39:22,479
Speaker 1: think it's romancing. But I know you and I you've

1926
01:39:22,479 --> 01:39:24,200
Speaker 1: been talking about your wedding for so long that I

1927
01:39:24,200 --> 01:39:26,479
Speaker 1: think you would regret that. Your mom would be so

1928
01:39:26,520 --> 01:39:29,400
Speaker 1: mad at Oh man, my mom would kill me. Really,

1929
01:39:29,840 --> 01:39:32,200
Speaker 1: family would be sad too. I think they'd be sad.

1930
01:39:32,600 --> 01:39:35,040
Speaker 1: My mom, to be honest, would love it. Yeah, And

1931
01:39:35,080 --> 01:39:37,479
Speaker 1: I don't blame her, like she wants it for us,

1932
01:39:37,560 --> 01:39:38,640
Speaker 1: you know what, any more than I think as we

1933
01:39:38,760 --> 01:39:40,880
Speaker 1: lived together already and like, you know, we want a

1934
01:39:40,920 --> 01:39:43,400
Speaker 1: family and stuff, so like I know, she's like, you're

1935
01:39:43,439 --> 01:39:45,799
Speaker 1: living in all the stuff he did before was not simple.

1936
01:39:45,840 --> 01:39:47,920
Speaker 1: But now the priest came over to the bless our

1937
01:39:47,920 --> 01:39:49,400
Speaker 1: house and we bought it first, and then he was

1938
01:39:49,439 --> 01:39:51,479
Speaker 1: even like when's the wedding, And we're like, oh, you

1939
01:39:51,479 --> 01:39:53,360
Speaker 1: didn't lie. You didn't lie to him. You didn't tell

1940
01:39:53,439 --> 01:39:54,840
Speaker 1: him that you didn't live together. I can't lie to

1941
01:39:54,880 --> 01:39:58,519
Speaker 1: the priest. Yeah, no, okay, no I wasn't. I don't

1942
01:39:58,520 --> 01:40:00,640
Speaker 1: know what's worse meeting that you live sin too a

1943
01:40:00,720 --> 01:40:02,320
Speaker 1: priest or telling him that you're not. I don't know

1944
01:40:02,360 --> 01:40:04,320
Speaker 1: what's worse. I'm trying to help the church do a

1945
01:40:04,360 --> 01:40:07,240
Speaker 1: whole rebrand here anyway, Like we gotta gotta be more accepting.

1946
01:40:07,479 --> 01:40:09,439
Speaker 1: We really know what I'm saying because you're Catholic, right

1947
01:40:09,479 --> 01:40:12,200
Speaker 1: I am, Yes, and i'd say something. You know, we

1948
01:40:12,280 --> 01:40:14,280
Speaker 1: had some issues with the baptism of my niece and

1949
01:40:14,280 --> 01:40:15,559
Speaker 1: the whole thing. I'm like, do you have a lot

1950
01:40:15,600 --> 01:40:17,360
Speaker 1: of people banging out of the door to become a Catholic?

1951
01:40:17,560 --> 01:40:20,240
Speaker 1: Say like, I'm here, I'm here to try and like,

1952
01:40:20,400 --> 01:40:22,479
Speaker 1: you know, rejuminate things a little bit, and you're giving

1953
01:40:22,520 --> 01:40:24,400
Speaker 1: me a lot of problems. Yeah, it's up in through

1954
01:40:24,400 --> 01:40:26,880
Speaker 1: hoops here. Yeah, I don't know if my mom, I

1955
01:40:26,920 --> 01:40:29,040
Speaker 1: think would love it, Like yeah, she'd be a little sad, like, oh,

1956
01:40:29,080 --> 01:40:30,760
Speaker 1: I didn't know, but I think at the end of

1957
01:40:30,760 --> 01:40:32,920
Speaker 1: the day she would be being the strong Catholic woman

1958
01:40:32,960 --> 01:40:34,880
Speaker 1: she is. She'd be very happy. But yeah, no, I

1959
01:40:34,920 --> 01:40:37,080
Speaker 1: would never do that to our families because we're the

1960
01:40:37,120 --> 01:40:38,960
Speaker 1: first ones to get married. Like he's the oldest, I'm

1961
01:40:38,960 --> 01:40:40,840
Speaker 1: the oldest, So we don't want to take that away

1962
01:40:40,880 --> 01:40:43,760
Speaker 1: from our parents and our family members. But a part

1963
01:40:43,760 --> 01:40:45,840
Speaker 1: of me when I was drinking was like, this could

1964
01:40:45,840 --> 01:40:49,200
Speaker 1: be really spontaneous. You guys are going to get engaged

1965
01:40:49,240 --> 01:40:51,320
Speaker 1: and married and have kids and have an amazing life.

1966
01:40:51,320 --> 01:40:53,840
Speaker 1: I'm sure of it. I think you should stop talking

1967
01:40:53,840 --> 01:40:56,040
Speaker 1: about it and stop joking about it completely. That's my

1968
01:40:56,080 --> 01:40:58,360
Speaker 1: take on this. You didn't ask for it, but it anyway.

1969
01:40:58,360 --> 01:41:01,600
Speaker 1: From Uncle Fred over here, big bro, just let the

1970
01:41:01,680 --> 01:41:04,439
Speaker 1: man have this. Let the man do this for you,

1971
01:41:04,520 --> 01:41:07,280
Speaker 1: all right, it's to your benefit. No, I know it's

1972
01:41:07,280 --> 01:41:09,880
Speaker 1: gonna be fine. He's he's got something planned. That man's

1973
01:41:09,920 --> 01:41:13,439
Speaker 1: up to something. Okay, it's gonna be it. Wrigley Field

1974
01:41:13,520 --> 01:41:16,880
Speaker 1: Cubs first show. Oh, I told him him. I hope

1975
01:41:16,920 --> 01:41:21,040
Speaker 1: so Cubs versus Socks. I could do anything else versus

1976
01:41:22,560 --> 01:41:26,000
Speaker 1: right there at home. Play high the organist that they're like, dude,

1977
01:41:26,040 --> 01:41:29,920
Speaker 1: maybe play a little song for you, organist, play bad

1978
01:41:29,960 --> 01:41:37,719
Speaker 1: money for me. That Noby and his favorite place on earth,

1979
01:41:40,360 --> 01:41:42,400
Speaker 1: doing the thing that he's been held at gun points

1980
01:41:42,400 --> 01:41:48,479
Speaker 1: to do because he's started of hearing about it. Let

1981
01:41:48,560 --> 01:41:52,200
Speaker 1: him do it, Let him have it. Fine, fine, and

1982
01:41:52,200 --> 01:41:55,160
Speaker 1: we're going to another story next week. You guys, don't

1983
01:41:55,360 --> 01:41:58,240
Speaker 1: you think he bought a ring yet? Do? Um? No?

1984
01:41:58,280 --> 01:42:00,320
Speaker 1: But he's asked me my thoughts on it. We've talked

1985
01:42:00,360 --> 01:42:02,800
Speaker 1: about that that's normal, that's good. Yeah, he's asked me

1986
01:42:02,920 --> 01:42:06,120
Speaker 1: my style. I've said this to you before. I just

1987
01:42:06,200 --> 01:42:10,320
Speaker 1: feel like he should plan this. He probably wants to

1988
01:42:10,360 --> 01:42:12,960
Speaker 1: make it special. He probably wants to get you a beautiful,

1989
01:42:13,000 --> 01:42:14,920
Speaker 1: big ring that you'll be proud of, and the whole thing.

1990
01:42:15,080 --> 01:42:18,080
Speaker 1: He probably wants all that. But if you keep talking

1991
01:42:18,120 --> 01:42:20,679
Speaker 1: about it, then it's gonna feel like when it happens,

1992
01:42:20,800 --> 01:42:23,400
Speaker 1: almost like you made him do it, like it was

1993
01:42:23,439 --> 01:42:25,920
Speaker 1: your idea and not his. And I don't think that

1994
01:42:25,920 --> 01:42:28,559
Speaker 1: that's what you want, don't ye. From now, it's not

1995
01:42:28,640 --> 01:42:30,200
Speaker 1: like remember how I had to ride your ass, even

1996
01:42:30,200 --> 01:42:32,559
Speaker 1: though you probably aren't riding his ass because he's probably

1997
01:42:32,560 --> 01:42:37,000
Speaker 1: already planning it anyway. But oh, I just yeah, no,

1998
01:42:37,120 --> 01:42:39,599
Speaker 1: we were on the same page. For everybody listening rolling

1999
01:42:39,600 --> 01:42:41,719
Speaker 1: their eyes at me, probably because it's the millionth time,

2000
01:42:41,840 --> 01:42:44,160
Speaker 1: I'm like no, Like, we literally are on the same page,

2001
01:42:44,160 --> 01:42:46,000
Speaker 1: and I've told him I want him to have this,

2002
01:42:46,439 --> 01:42:51,400
Speaker 1: just not a ridley Field. Okay, cancel it, Yeah, somebody

2003
01:42:51,400 --> 01:42:53,320
Speaker 1: get on the phone canceling. Cancel the whole thing, the

2004
01:42:53,400 --> 01:42:56,040
Speaker 1: operations off. We're gonna do the so