WEBVTT - EP 44: '90s Head Ft. BBOD, Maino, and Uncle Murda 0:00:00.760 --> 0:00:03.720 What's up West up? It's angela. Ye, it's lip service. 0:00:03.880 --> 0:00:07.920 I'm Stephanie Santiago, I'm g G McGuire. Here we go, lady. 0:00:08.200 --> 0:00:12.440 If we get to introduce ourself, we are B B 0:00:12.680 --> 0:00:15.960 O D bad bitches on deck, that's right. And we 0:00:16.000 --> 0:00:19.160 know you are from loving hip hop? Do you hate 0:00:19.160 --> 0:00:21.840 that we know you from loving hip hop? Like, oh, 0:00:21.840 --> 0:00:25.720 that's fine, Okay, that's cool. I hate it. You know 0:00:25.960 --> 0:00:29.280 me from being B B O D. You know me 0:00:29.360 --> 0:00:32.239 from B and B B O D. It started up 0:00:32.240 --> 0:00:34.800 with more y'all though, and then things got wood. Dad. 0:00:35.040 --> 0:00:36.479 It used to be four of us. We were a 0:00:36.560 --> 0:00:39.680 group of four. And then the first girl who left, 0:00:39.720 --> 0:00:42.720 she actually left and went solo. Our ex manager got 0:00:42.720 --> 0:00:45.200 in her head and she went solo. She's not even 0:00:45.240 --> 0:00:50.120 doing music anymore. Oh B O D. Yes. And then 0:00:51.840 --> 0:00:54.920 a girl that left, um, she had a kid. Her 0:00:54.960 --> 0:00:57.160 kid was like four or five, and she was doing 0:00:57.200 --> 0:00:59.520 bad in school because she was missing her mom. She 0:00:59.600 --> 0:01:03.040 sackled by stuck of you for a daughter. Okay, that's friend, 0:01:03.160 --> 0:01:06.720 that makes sense, that does make sense. That's important. All right, Well, 0:01:06.760 --> 0:01:08.440 this is lip service. So you know we're gonna get 0:01:08.480 --> 0:01:11.679 all in our business. So we always start off at 0:01:11.720 --> 0:01:14.160 the tip of the day, and today's tip of the 0:01:14.240 --> 0:01:16.720 day is what is something that you do as a 0:01:16.760 --> 0:01:23.280 women to make sure that you're fresh to the goddamn doctor. No, 0:01:23.480 --> 0:01:26.320 just like part of the thing that's part of your 0:01:26.360 --> 0:01:30.000 daily routine and the daily thing. You know, everybody their 0:01:30.040 --> 0:01:32.160 own little things that make you gotta wash your ask 0:01:32.240 --> 0:01:34.399 more than one today? Okay, what are you going more 0:01:34.400 --> 0:01:36.560 than one? Definitely has a special way to she cleans 0:01:36.560 --> 0:01:39.560 her vagina. Yeah, Like I talked about this all the time. 0:01:40.440 --> 0:01:43.560 You know, you gotta like bend down and go and 0:01:43.640 --> 0:01:46.920 clean aside, like you gotta really, yeah, really getting there 0:01:47.240 --> 0:01:56.000 your fingers. You're not gonna hurt it, don't be go 0:01:56.200 --> 0:01:59.680 for it. Next, I would say, my the first thing 0:01:59.680 --> 0:02:02.040 I do when I wake up, it's definitely washed my face. 0:02:02.120 --> 0:02:04.360 I try to keep my my skin clear. I have 0:02:04.480 --> 0:02:07.760 like a big thing with my skin. When I break out, 0:02:07.960 --> 0:02:09.960 every pimple to me, even if I don't pop it, 0:02:09.960 --> 0:02:11.880 I get a mark. So I think crazy about it. 0:02:11.960 --> 0:02:16.280 I was skin exfoliation. It is important every single day. 0:02:16.440 --> 0:02:21.840 I have an old stripper trip. Okay, okay, So you 0:02:22.040 --> 0:02:26.920 take deodorant and with your finger you put it in 0:02:27.000 --> 0:02:30.000 the crease of your thigh where your thigh meets your 0:02:30.160 --> 0:02:34.040 outer lit that little crease where you're yea, where your 0:02:34.080 --> 0:02:39.359 atlastic is on your that the area yeah yeah yeah, 0:02:39.480 --> 0:02:42.120 And it's not really putting the deodorant like on or 0:02:43.040 --> 0:02:45.919 it increases to help keep that well. I personally don't 0:02:45.919 --> 0:02:49.320 wear underwear, so that kind of keeping dry wearing panties, 0:02:49.639 --> 0:02:52.720 but it also helps keep you fresh. And that was 0:02:54.280 --> 0:02:57.880 well me personally, um, after being a stripper for so 0:02:57.919 --> 0:03:01.760 long and like wearing panties as pants. Basically I just 0:03:01.800 --> 0:03:05.000 don't want to wear them over top of underneath my clothes, 0:03:05.080 --> 0:03:06.720 Like I just don't want to wear them. And the 0:03:06.760 --> 0:03:08.519 atlanstic in that area that I was just talking about 0:03:08.560 --> 0:03:11.080 the Atlantic after a while, the atlanstic, it bothers me. 0:03:11.120 --> 0:03:14.520 And it doesn't feel weird with jeans with no pain. No, 0:03:15.600 --> 0:03:18.640 I guess where I'm used to wear anytime, like nder 0:03:19.080 --> 0:03:20.840 like I wear a panty liner, like if it's like 0:03:20.840 --> 0:03:24.600 not stretching jeans. Yeah, but you put that pants erectly 0:03:24.600 --> 0:03:28.880 in your gene the jeans. Yeah, okay, so what if 0:03:28.880 --> 0:03:30.480 that when you have on a short skirt, Well, then 0:03:30.520 --> 0:03:33.360 I wear panties, so you do sometimes Okay, yeah, but 0:03:33.440 --> 0:03:35.080 I don't really have a lot of them, and I don't. 0:03:35.160 --> 0:03:37.600 That's not a regular everyday thing for me. I have 0:03:37.680 --> 0:03:41.800 a lot of panties. I almost every single one of 0:03:41.800 --> 0:03:45.760 my bras has a matching underwear. You know what I'm saying. 0:03:46.480 --> 0:03:49.960 Couple different ten bras. But I only wear underwear when 0:03:50.000 --> 0:03:53.480 I'm I'm gonna have sex. That's just weird. Why you're 0:03:53.520 --> 0:04:02.640 gonna take them over, No, because you know exactly I wear. 0:04:02.840 --> 0:04:05.600 I wear underwear when I'm gonna have sex or when 0:04:05.640 --> 0:04:07.560 I'm on my period. That's well, of course, when I'm 0:04:07.560 --> 0:04:11.400 on my period, yeah, I do wear that, but I 0:04:11.520 --> 0:04:14.600 wear I wear the Granny, the big cotton haines her 0:04:14.640 --> 0:04:19.320 Way strip when you're on your period, Yes you want to, 0:04:19.760 --> 0:04:25.839 and you cut the actually strip with a tampon, Ain't 0:04:25.839 --> 0:04:29.040 Nobody tells her that, Yeah, don't you go swimming or 0:04:30.320 --> 0:04:37.640 well most women. I have my period this weekend in Miami, 0:04:33.480 --> 0:04:42.800 and well, basically I hate cardboard applicator tampons. I don't know, 0:04:43.400 --> 0:04:46.000 it just bothers me. I like the plastic ones better. 0:04:46.040 --> 0:04:48.240 And in Miami we could only find the cardboard one. 0:04:48.320 --> 0:04:50.440 So I was wearing past most of the week and 0:04:50.440 --> 0:04:52.040 when we win the beach. I was like, fun this, 0:04:52.240 --> 0:04:55.200 I'll put a washcloth, like a thick wash cloth, and 0:04:55.240 --> 0:04:58.440 I put it to go downstairs. And then once I 0:04:58.480 --> 0:04:59.840 got in the water, I took it out because not 0:05:00.000 --> 0:05:02.560 here he stops on the water. Wait a second, Oh 0:05:02.640 --> 0:05:07.640 my god, And was like, take that paths like a 0:05:07.760 --> 0:05:11.040 wash cloth on. Yes, she did, and then you took 0:05:11.080 --> 0:05:13.039 everything out in the water. But so you must not 0:05:13.040 --> 0:05:15.240 have been bleeding heavily for that. And then she wanted 0:05:15.279 --> 0:05:16.800 me to get in the water with her, and she 0:05:16.920 --> 0:05:25.520 was the sharks would have been coming for you. All right, Well, 0:05:25.560 --> 0:05:29.240 there's some great tips for us. All right now, I 0:05:29.320 --> 0:05:30.800 wanted to ask you a being that you guys, you 0:05:30.920 --> 0:05:34.279 consider yourself that you guys best friends with each other? Okay, 0:05:34.680 --> 0:05:36.760 what is the definition of friendship? Because I feel like 0:05:36.880 --> 0:05:39.200 nowadays it gets misconstrued. People be like, let's see what 0:05:39.200 --> 0:05:41.599 the BFF word floating around so freely. Girl. I just 0:05:41.640 --> 0:05:44.320 told mold Off this weekend, said, stop calling all these 0:05:44.360 --> 0:05:47.039 girls your best friends, because when the holidays and birthdays 0:05:47.080 --> 0:05:49.920 come around, ain't nobody here but me. So you tell 0:05:50.000 --> 0:05:55.760 your definitions that you have a bun just friendship. People 0:05:55.800 --> 0:05:58.599 would be like, oh, that's my girl. That's my friend, 0:05:58.640 --> 0:06:00.479 I shout out. You go on the green and posted 0:06:00.520 --> 0:06:02.839 picture and be like, oh me and my you know 0:06:02.960 --> 0:06:05.080 my home girl. You know what, I think, it is 0:06:05.080 --> 0:06:09.880 not bff. I think you have different people for different things. 0:06:10.640 --> 0:06:12.599 Like you might have a girlfriend that want to go out, 0:06:12.680 --> 0:06:15.160 so she might be your chill buddy. Or you might 0:06:15.200 --> 0:06:18.279 have a girlfriend that might always have to connect like 0:06:18.320 --> 0:06:20.840 the niggas that's gonna sponsor the event, so you hang 0:06:20.839 --> 0:06:23.640 out with heart for that reason. LEXI just get jealous. 0:06:24.040 --> 0:06:26.760 So you say said it that your friends not my 0:06:26.800 --> 0:06:28.720 best friend. No, but she writes best friends. So when 0:06:28.720 --> 0:06:34.200 you go on Instagram today, I would my hangout buddy 0:06:34.200 --> 0:06:36.480 today and blah blah blah. Don't it might be a 0:06:36.640 --> 0:06:40.240 suff no, because I do think that sometimes in this business, 0:06:40.400 --> 0:06:42.600 you know whatever, and in general with people like we 0:06:43.240 --> 0:06:45.279 people tend to say, oh, that's your friend, just could 0:06:45.279 --> 0:06:47.760 you posted one picture on Instagram? But it's not really 0:06:47.839 --> 0:06:50.400 your friends. It's somebody I know. And I have a 0:06:50.440 --> 0:06:52.279 lot of people that I know that I'm I'm I 0:06:52.279 --> 0:06:54.280 feel like I'm cool with you when I see you out, 0:06:54.279 --> 0:06:56.039 were good, But we don't talk on the phone. We 0:06:56.120 --> 0:06:59.240 don't you know, go to each other's families. We don't 0:06:59.360 --> 0:07:03.560 celebrate days together. We just cool associates. Yeah, I know 0:07:03.640 --> 0:07:06.080 her social buddy. So there's a big difference. I know 0:07:06.120 --> 0:07:08.440 Stephanie ain't got no you know I you know, I 0:07:08.440 --> 0:07:12.080 don't funk with anybody listening. I was in Detroit with 0:07:12.120 --> 0:07:14.400 Stephanie and she was at the club tonight. I'm thinking 0:07:14.440 --> 0:07:20.840 she's gonna have like an entourage and about myself about myself, no, 0:07:21.080 --> 0:07:23.240 straight up, because you guys are my friends. I could 0:07:23.240 --> 0:07:25.800 consider Gi my friend, and I consider Angela and my friend. 0:07:25.960 --> 0:07:30.880 We eat together, we do think housing together. You know, 0:07:30.960 --> 0:07:33.920 we go exactly. We might even have sleepovers, you know 0:07:33.960 --> 0:07:36.640 what I mean. We're friends. But there's a difference between 0:07:36.720 --> 0:07:39.520 somebody who I called my friend and then somebody who 0:07:39.600 --> 0:07:42.280 I know, like you said, an acquaintance. I know a 0:07:42.320 --> 0:07:45.559 lot of people, but I consider a very small group 0:07:45.600 --> 0:07:47.840 of people my friends. All right, sin, since we're talking 0:07:47.880 --> 0:07:51.440 about friends, when is a man off limits? Okay? Now, 0:07:51.480 --> 0:07:53.160 you know how y'all go out and you might see 0:07:53.160 --> 0:07:56.520 a guy. Maybe you both like him, but is it 0:07:56.600 --> 0:07:59.320 off limits if nobody got with him yet. If she 0:07:59.360 --> 0:08:02.160 says she like him first, but you like him, we 0:08:02.200 --> 0:08:05.280 had that situation before, but we let like we pick 0:08:06.080 --> 0:08:12.200 who takes it for the team, and all that just 0:08:12.280 --> 0:08:15.080 happens because you know, some girls are very competitive with 0:08:15.120 --> 0:08:17.000 each other. Like if you say, oh, you're not, I 0:08:17.000 --> 0:08:18.360 think he's cute, and then all of a sudden, you 0:08:18.440 --> 0:08:21.520 don't even think we like the same type of guys. Yeah, 0:08:21.760 --> 0:08:26.800 let's talk about the type of guys you like. Nah, 0:08:27.960 --> 0:08:29.840 because we've seen you on Love and Hip Hop and 0:08:29.880 --> 0:08:37.559 you was messing with with Cisco. Very was that for TV? 0:08:38.920 --> 0:08:43.079 You know what? Me and Cisco became friends. Like when 0:08:43.160 --> 0:08:46.600 I met him, I met him through Raleigh. She introduced us, 0:08:46.640 --> 0:08:49.080 like he saw a video that she put up on 0:08:49.120 --> 0:08:51.160 her Instagram page about me, and he was just like, oh, 0:08:51.200 --> 0:08:52.679 I want to meet her. And then when I got 0:08:52.720 --> 0:08:54.440 to know him, I was like, damn, he's so much 0:08:54.480 --> 0:08:57.199 different than what he is on television. And in the 0:08:57.280 --> 0:08:59.880 moment we got on the show together and he switched, 0:09:00.120 --> 0:09:04.640 was like, oh baby, bye bye. You feel like everybody 0:09:04.640 --> 0:09:09.680 be switching when the cameras come on. Everybody everybody because 0:09:09.760 --> 0:09:12.520 you seemed a little off guard. That's why a lot 0:09:12.559 --> 0:09:14.920 of them bitches can't take me. Because I'm gonna tell 0:09:14.920 --> 0:09:16.439 it like it is bitch. You turn it up for 0:09:16.480 --> 0:09:18.200 the TV, but you picked the right one because I 0:09:18.200 --> 0:09:20.559 don't get about this camera. I'm gonna meet you outside. 0:09:20.920 --> 0:09:24.439 Did you guys go into the show with any expectations 0:09:24.480 --> 0:09:25.880 of how it would be or what it would be 0:09:25.920 --> 0:09:30.120 like and if was it different? If so? Honestly, I 0:09:30.160 --> 0:09:33.360 don't think we had expectations. But we had other people 0:09:33.400 --> 0:09:35.080 that we hung around who were on Love and Hip 0:09:35.040 --> 0:09:38.640 Hop Chrire, so we already knew what goes down. Like 0:09:38.679 --> 0:09:41.960 we were signed to Stevie J before he was even 0:09:42.000 --> 0:09:43.559 on Love and Hip But see the reason that y'all 0:09:43.640 --> 0:09:47.920 ended up on the show. No, not really, but to 0:09:48.040 --> 0:09:49.880 me it was like manifested because he would be with 0:09:49.920 --> 0:09:52.320 him all the time. When we lived with for like 0:09:52.360 --> 0:09:55.680 a month, people current Rashida all the time, So to 0:09:55.760 --> 0:09:58.600 me it was like it was kind of manifested. So 0:09:59.320 --> 0:10:01.840 but you felt like things, Do you feel like it 0:10:01.880 --> 0:10:04.360 was like a setup, Like, Okay, go at them and 0:10:05.640 --> 0:10:07.640 do you like the outcome? Like the way the show came, 0:10:08.080 --> 0:10:10.600 I don't. I mean some of the ways that they 0:10:10.640 --> 0:10:13.240 portrayed us is just like I don't care how you 0:10:13.280 --> 0:10:17.360 make us look. But the music was like my major issue, 0:10:17.600 --> 0:10:19.640 like they fucked up a lot about music the way 0:10:19.640 --> 0:10:22.839 that they edited it, Like they'll edit certain songs beat 0:10:23.440 --> 0:10:25.959 on purpose, but they wouldn't do it to anyone else. 0:10:26.360 --> 0:10:28.240 So like that was my major. They weren't on they're 0:10:28.240 --> 0:10:30.199 really trying to promote your music, they would just know, 0:10:30.559 --> 0:10:33.120 but they'll promote everybody else's music because you had did 0:10:33.200 --> 0:10:34.720 have a performance and they made it look like you 0:10:34.760 --> 0:10:37.960 guys were just not on point. Girl performance lives like 0:10:38.000 --> 0:10:41.599 the very first So the very first self cipher. The 0:10:41.920 --> 0:10:44.480 only person that messed up at that cipher was Mariah Lynton. 0:10:44.520 --> 0:10:46.000 They didn't show it and they didn't show it, like 0:10:46.040 --> 0:10:49.480 she forgot her lyrics and stop rapping and they didn't 0:10:49.520 --> 0:10:52.600 show it. So it's like from the beginning, dude, was 0:10:52.840 --> 0:10:55.440 did you guys ever had our best intentions at heart? 0:10:56.559 --> 0:11:00.839 I know you didn't think um okay, So I'm saying 0:11:01.200 --> 0:11:03.920 the reason the access because my best friend was on 0:11:04.200 --> 0:11:06.199 Love and Hip Hop and I know her well, and 0:11:06.280 --> 0:11:11.280 you know they portrayed on TV. It's not even close, 0:11:13.280 --> 0:11:15.720 like even the sight for they the way we wrapped 0:11:15.720 --> 0:11:20.080 at our actual verse, they cut it up. Not only 0:11:20.160 --> 0:11:21.720 was it all beat, but they cut it up where 0:11:21.880 --> 0:11:24.640 we wasn't even really making sense as as a hip hop, 0:11:24.640 --> 0:11:26.720 aren't as a rapper? People like what are y'all talking about? 0:11:26.920 --> 0:11:29.080 Like they took our first two bars and put it 0:11:29.120 --> 0:11:31.360 at the end. They took the beginning like the end 0:11:31.360 --> 0:11:33.640 and put it at the beginning. So when we watched 0:11:33.679 --> 0:11:37.880 it like it like it was crazy speaking of you 0:11:37.920 --> 0:11:41.120 guys music, I don't even want to say the name 0:11:41.120 --> 0:11:49.480 of its own, but everybody, how do you say now? 0:11:49.520 --> 0:11:53.800 I don't I can't say itious? That's that? That delicious? Yeah, okay, 0:11:53.960 --> 0:11:57.480 I wasn't sure you gotta say. You gotta say it 0:11:57.559 --> 0:12:06.280 right now, like we couldn't that thought that licious guy. 0:12:06.320 --> 0:12:07.679 I just wanted to make sure I had it right 0:12:08.440 --> 0:12:13.280 because I was confused. Now did they ever tell you, like, okay, 0:12:13.320 --> 0:12:15.040 you know, in order for y'all to stay on, you 0:12:15.120 --> 0:12:17.760 gotta Did you ever felt like you had to do 0:12:17.840 --> 0:12:22.959 certain things to keep it interesting? No, Um, it was 0:12:23.000 --> 0:12:26.000 a couple of setups, but nothing that we felt like 0:12:26.080 --> 0:12:29.320 we had to do. I merely forced anything on us. 0:12:29.320 --> 0:12:31.079 But it was a situation where you'd be like really, 0:12:31.840 --> 0:12:34.600 and then we have to still proceed, Like the situation 0:12:34.679 --> 0:12:36.520 with with the uncle when she walked in the studio 0:12:36.520 --> 0:12:38.720 with me Andy. I did not know their girl was coming. 0:12:39.480 --> 0:12:41.520 But the crazy thing about it is like God works 0:12:41.520 --> 0:12:44.199 in mysterious ways. Old day I was asking them, like, yo, 0:12:44.240 --> 0:12:46.040 can I get something to drink? Like it was like 0:12:46.160 --> 0:12:50.160 my like, and they wouldn't give me nothing to do. 0:12:50.880 --> 0:12:53.959 But then she the juice and that's the only thing 0:12:54.000 --> 0:12:58.120 in her whole entire pocketbook because she left her pocketbook 0:12:58.120 --> 0:13:00.559 and I emptied the ship out. So I'm like supposed 0:13:00.559 --> 0:13:03.360 to side up. So you already know what it is, 0:13:03.400 --> 0:13:05.160 all right. Now, let's talk about some things that's going 0:13:05.160 --> 0:13:06.240 on in the world. And I want to see how 0:13:06.280 --> 0:13:08.240 y'a would react to this, all right, So I'm sure 0:13:08.280 --> 0:13:10.880 y'all saw Hazel E and Cat Williams right, they were 0:13:10.960 --> 0:13:13.240 dating in and now things have gone a little crazy 0:13:13.280 --> 0:13:15.720 with Cat and they're not dating anymore. And people felt 0:13:15.760 --> 0:13:19.240 like she deserted him. Okay, Now, at what point do 0:13:19.320 --> 0:13:22.760 you say, I'm not messing with a man anymore? Even 0:13:23.000 --> 0:13:24.800 you know, sometimes people feel like if a guy is 0:13:24.800 --> 0:13:26.800 at his lowest, that's not the time that you're supposed 0:13:26.800 --> 0:13:31.000 to leave him. Okay. It depends how he's treating you, 0:13:31.040 --> 0:13:34.880 if he's disrespecting you, if things aren't good at home, 0:13:35.120 --> 0:13:37.120 then I think it's tom the goal. But if he 0:13:37.200 --> 0:13:39.120 is at his lowest and he wants to change or 0:13:39.160 --> 0:13:41.640 you can help him, then don't leave him, especially if 0:13:41.640 --> 0:13:43.200 he's done a lot for you. Have ever had to 0:13:43.200 --> 0:13:45.959 be with somebody that was perhaps not where they wanted 0:13:45.960 --> 0:13:48.240 to be in life, or maybe a little bit crazy 0:13:48.280 --> 0:13:51.800 acting and you had to hold him down? No, because 0:13:51.800 --> 0:13:57.920 I'm not holding nobody down for really, not even if 0:13:57.920 --> 0:14:00.599 he was in love, even the joints that go to 0:14:00.679 --> 0:14:05.360 job like baby the judge broke us up, it's over, 0:14:06.800 --> 0:14:11.000 that's foul, that's fun. I will ride or die with 0:14:11.080 --> 0:14:15.960 the lowest. I'm lying, I'm lying, but no, No, but 0:14:16.000 --> 0:14:18.360 that's a flaw, And I think that's a character flaw 0:14:18.440 --> 0:14:21.800 for me, like being the be like, oh he's he's 0:14:21.800 --> 0:14:24.720 a ball, It's okay. I'll give him some money. You 0:14:24.880 --> 0:14:27.320 give guys money. No, I mean I would. If it's 0:14:27.360 --> 0:14:29.160 my boyfriend and I'm in love with him and he's 0:14:29.240 --> 0:14:32.080 funked up, there's a big chance I will. I'll pay 0:14:32.120 --> 0:14:36.640 your niggas bills if with you, Yes, but what if 0:14:36.640 --> 0:14:39.680 I'm but I have to be it. But you know 0:14:39.800 --> 0:14:42.320 that right now, I'm in a place where, you know, like, 0:14:42.360 --> 0:14:44.680 I'm not taking no ship. I'm not even inviting guys 0:14:44.760 --> 0:14:47.120 over to you know, watch a movie in my house 0:14:47.200 --> 0:14:49.640 at this point in my life. But you know, there's 0:14:49.680 --> 0:14:52.080 been times I was gonna I was gonna write it 0:14:52.120 --> 0:14:57.880 all with my ex boyfriend. I tried, I tried, I 0:14:58.000 --> 0:14:59.960 wasn't worth the effort, and I was gonna do it. 0:15:00.120 --> 0:15:02.760 I did put forth the effort, and that told us 0:15:02.760 --> 0:15:05.120 she was going to ride that thing to the wheels. 0:15:05.160 --> 0:15:10.640 Only three years he broke up with me. That didn't 0:15:10.640 --> 0:15:13.280 even last three weeks. How do you decide when you're 0:15:13.320 --> 0:15:15.440 letting man come over your house for the first time, 0:15:16.520 --> 0:15:18.120 Because I know that has to be a weird thing 0:15:18.160 --> 0:15:21.040 for all of us, Like it depends on what decide 0:15:21.040 --> 0:15:22.760 if you're gonna give him some no, like let him 0:15:22.760 --> 0:15:27.760 come over just like alone, one on one. Now he 0:15:27.800 --> 0:15:30.040 gets to see where I'm at. That's not something that 0:15:30.080 --> 0:15:31.720 you do right away. That has to be something that 0:15:31.760 --> 0:15:35.880 you you know, m hmm. You know what I always 0:15:35.880 --> 0:15:37.680 do whenever I have a guy over for the first time, 0:15:37.800 --> 0:15:40.920 I always make sure I'm not by myself. Yeah, because 0:15:41.160 --> 0:15:43.440 you know, he's not thinking he's going anywhere. You know 0:15:43.480 --> 0:15:45.520 what I mean, he's not being invited to the bed 0:15:45.600 --> 0:15:47.240 room with your best to get I think I have 0:15:47.280 --> 0:15:49.200 to go to their house first, Like you can't come 0:15:49.200 --> 0:15:52.120 to my house first. For me, there's two times I'm 0:15:52.160 --> 0:15:56.680 inviting a guy over, like he's my boyfriend or I'm 0:15:56.720 --> 0:16:04.480 really drunk beside that nobody's coming to my house. But 0:16:04.520 --> 0:16:07.120 if you're really drunk, you have to know him still 0:16:07.200 --> 0:16:10.160 like kind of well, or you have just met him. No, no, 0:16:10.360 --> 0:16:13.200 you have to. But you see, being that's why I 0:16:13.800 --> 0:16:17.960 just can't be drunk, because you know, if I like 0:16:18.040 --> 0:16:21.840 a guy a little bit and I'm drunk, I'll be like, Okay, okay, 0:16:22.000 --> 0:16:24.680 let's go spoke a blot in my house and you 0:16:24.680 --> 0:16:27.720 know what that means. Now, listen, this did happen to 0:16:27.800 --> 0:16:31.000 somebody I know, right she uh was talking to this 0:16:31.200 --> 0:16:32.760 She wasn't even talking to me. It was just cool. 0:16:33.360 --> 0:16:35.520 And he said he has some weeds, so she was like, Okay, 0:16:35.560 --> 0:16:38.680 I'm gonna come over and smoke, and so automatically he 0:16:38.720 --> 0:16:41.880 assumes that means it's about to go down. Yeah, he 0:16:42.000 --> 0:16:43.880 was offering to eat a pussy and all kind of stuff, 0:16:43.920 --> 0:16:45.600 and she was like, whoa, I just came over here 0:16:45.640 --> 0:16:49.000 to smoke right now, as a woman, should you go 0:16:49.080 --> 0:16:51.600 to a man's house with no intentions of doing anything, 0:16:52.040 --> 0:16:53.920 you know, just to smoke, I think is a problem. 0:16:53.920 --> 0:17:01.320 I think guys jump out the window and you're aware 0:17:01.440 --> 0:17:03.640 just going to people's houses unless it's somebody I know 0:17:04.040 --> 0:17:06.000 like that, Like if I know you really well, we've 0:17:06.000 --> 0:17:08.040 been friends for a long time. But if I know 0:17:08.080 --> 0:17:10.960 you might kind of like me and you're not ready, 0:17:11.040 --> 0:17:13.960 the same thing. I'm not trying to invite him over. 0:17:13.960 --> 0:17:15.720 I would take my home girl over with me, right, 0:17:16.119 --> 0:17:18.760 but even not only your apartment. Like even when we 0:17:18.840 --> 0:17:20.879 go on dates, me and more as friends, we always 0:17:20.920 --> 0:17:23.439 bring each other when we first start dating a god, like, 0:17:23.480 --> 0:17:27.360 come on, girl going to Jenner, Like we this weekend, 0:17:27.440 --> 0:17:31.840 this weekend, don't blow it up. But you know that's 0:17:31.840 --> 0:17:33.760 how it is. Guys always said, would be like, it's 0:17:33.760 --> 0:17:35.200 so hard for me to get you one on one 0:17:35.200 --> 0:17:37.520 by yourself. You always say that to me because I'm 0:17:37.520 --> 0:17:40.040 always around people. So anytime I have something to do, 0:17:40.080 --> 0:17:42.080 I've had a multitask, I'd be like, oh yeah, let's 0:17:42.119 --> 0:17:44.159 go out. I gotta go to this thing anyway. This 0:17:44.160 --> 0:17:46.159 dinner is just coming, and it's hard for me to 0:17:46.200 --> 0:17:47.760 do that one on one thing because I try to 0:17:47.880 --> 0:17:50.280 lump it together. But doesn't that annoy guys? If you 0:17:50.320 --> 0:17:51.840 go out on a date, you can bring guys, but 0:17:51.880 --> 0:17:54.560 I don't care, no, not if your homegirl is cool. 0:17:54.560 --> 0:17:56.800 I don't think it annoys though. No, you never know. 0:17:56.840 --> 0:17:58.879 A guy would be like, why do you bring friends? 0:17:59.480 --> 0:18:02.639 You know how, God, I don't have a grand friend. 0:18:03.160 --> 0:18:05.520 Let's don't have any friends. He said, yes you do. 0:18:05.760 --> 0:18:07.960 I mean I have you guys, but you guys have boyfriends, 0:18:08.760 --> 0:18:11.160 and your boyfriends are gonna be okay with may come over. 0:18:13.400 --> 0:18:16.440 Nobody ever said I asked you for a threesome. I mean, 0:18:16.480 --> 0:18:19.760 guys asked that all the time, all the time. Have 0:18:19.840 --> 0:18:21.720 you done it? I haven't had a three. I think 0:18:21.760 --> 0:18:23.959 I put it. Um. I put it out there right 0:18:24.000 --> 0:18:25.920 from the very beginning, and I'm not as a girl, 0:18:26.119 --> 0:18:30.399 so guys don't even try even try, yeah, exactly unless 0:18:30.400 --> 0:18:38.640 I'm drunk, even if especially like thing like it's just 0:18:38.720 --> 0:18:42.359 expected now, but I know it's Yeah. It kind of 0:18:42.359 --> 0:18:44.719 seems like for you women think to keep a man, 0:18:44.760 --> 0:18:50.080 they gotta do that, especially these industry relationships. Right Well, 0:18:50.119 --> 0:18:51.560 I don't think that that's the only way I'm gonna 0:18:51.640 --> 0:18:53.600 keep my man. I just really like, you know, some 0:18:53.640 --> 0:19:00.520 people think that girls like enjoy some some men enjoy 0:19:00.560 --> 0:19:03.480 other women. So it just depends. And you know what, 0:19:03.480 --> 0:19:05.080 I always say, it's had enough for a man to 0:19:05.119 --> 0:19:07.960 handle one woman. So it's kind of exactly like, please 0:19:08.040 --> 0:19:11.560 these guys, oh my god, with two of me, as 0:19:11.600 --> 0:19:15.760 if like you get three backshots and gods that we 0:19:15.800 --> 0:19:18.840 do all the time. I don't understand, like where do 0:19:18.920 --> 0:19:21.080 guys get the energy? I where do you get the 0:19:21.160 --> 0:19:22.840 energy to be with two women if you can't even 0:19:22.920 --> 0:19:28.400 handle one? Yeah? No, I definitely like they probably have four. 0:19:29.960 --> 0:19:31.520 How are you going to handle both of us? They say, 0:19:31.880 --> 0:19:35.560 I'm gonna do what I'm gonna do it. Now you're 0:19:35.600 --> 0:19:38.879 getting more penis throwing at you since doing hip right 0:19:38.880 --> 0:19:41.399 through the d M Oh my gosh. Even it's not 0:19:41.440 --> 0:19:43.679 even only DM. They hashtag B B O D and 0:19:43.680 --> 0:19:46.119 it's just oh yeah, we had a hashtag with someone 0:19:46.160 --> 0:19:51.240 with the with the dick and a remote control. That's 0:19:51.280 --> 0:19:55.080 the that's the classic thing. That's how you can compare 0:19:56.880 --> 0:19:59.240 compared to you need something to it. But he posted 0:19:59.280 --> 0:20:03.560 it on must not DM on Instagram. Must have been 0:20:03.600 --> 0:20:06.000 proud of his no when I'm nine out of ten 0:20:06.000 --> 0:20:07.920 times when I asked a guy for the package pick, 0:20:07.960 --> 0:20:10.880 I'd be like, put it next to the remote, okay 0:20:11.240 --> 0:20:13.360 if I ever did, or you gotta put it next 0:20:13.359 --> 0:20:17.840 to like a lot that hasn't happened something. Yeah, so 0:20:17.960 --> 0:20:23.440 you could come here with my ass clothes like it's brail. 0:20:23.600 --> 0:20:30.359 I don't need no pick girl, that's right. No, but 0:20:30.400 --> 0:20:33.560 that's your boyfriend. You know, in the beginning, when you're 0:20:33.600 --> 0:20:36.280 dating somebody, or even when you're dating somebody for a 0:20:36.320 --> 0:20:39.880 few months and they're away, you know you're sending each 0:20:39.920 --> 0:20:45.680 other pictures. You're sending that pictures nudes. Tell no, I'm 0:20:47.119 --> 0:20:51.359 to send out pictures, you know, face no case, that's true. 0:20:51.720 --> 0:20:54.760 Face you know you sent that. If somebody would be 0:20:54.760 --> 0:20:59.800 like this, you can be like, that's photoshop. I don't 0:21:00.240 --> 0:21:03.040 for a picture. I won't send pictures. I don't send 0:21:03.240 --> 0:21:05.160 I'm like you, I want to send my ass through 0:21:05.160 --> 0:21:08.359 the mail. You never said to Vachina and not before. Guys. 0:21:08.760 --> 0:21:11.000 Now it's like, well it could still come out come 0:21:11.000 --> 0:21:18.399 out of the different. I got called at one time. 0:21:18.400 --> 0:21:21.160 I never did it again, but you did this behind. 0:21:21.160 --> 0:21:23.080 I took this bomb as pussy pick and I sent 0:21:23.160 --> 0:21:29.920 it to like everybody wasn't around something little fun nigga 0:21:30.040 --> 0:21:33.080