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Speaker 1: Trending stories headlines just starts your Tuesday space sky space

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Speaker 1: SpaceX is aiming to launch Starship, the most powerful rocket

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Speaker 1: ever built, on its sixth test flight today. It's also

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Speaker 1: the vehicle selected to land US astronauts on the Moon

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Speaker 1: as soon as twenty twenty six. Last month, SpaceX succeeded

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Speaker 1: for the first time and bringing back and safely landing

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Speaker 1: the rockets booster called super Heavy. Nice whoa that's taller

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Speaker 1: than a twenty story building. Similar to the last test,

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Speaker 1: SpaceX this week will try and catch the spacecraft mid

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Speaker 1: air with a set of massive metal arms called chopsticks.

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Speaker 1: They're gonna catch Super Heavy with the chopsticks.

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Speaker 2: I guess, okay, yeah, I don't know what's going on here,

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Speaker 2: Butcher siting.

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Speaker 1: You're just looking out the window watching all this, like

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Speaker 1: go on, Yeah, Butcher and Sunny are out there going

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Speaker 1: can you catch up with We've been trying to get

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Speaker 1: home now. I'm just trying to get a ride. I'm

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Speaker 1: trying to mom, come pick me trying to get mom

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Speaker 1: and come pick me up now. For some time every

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Speaker 1: day now, they just keep sending everybody else home. And

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Speaker 1: then I saw yesterday that in the Russian part of

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Speaker 1: this of the space station.

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Speaker 2: There's an air leak. There's a leak.

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Speaker 1: It's a leak in the space station. Also the space station,

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Speaker 1: I guess, is set to retire, and not that long.

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Speaker 1: It's been up there for a while. Like this whole

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Speaker 1: going to space thing is nothing new. They're acting like

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Speaker 1: it is. But now they're up there in this aging

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Speaker 1: thing they're about to retire that has an air leak

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Speaker 1: in it. And they were supposed to be home when

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Speaker 1: they're you know, on their couch like two months ago.

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Speaker 2: These astronauts been leaking for five years. No, well, I

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Speaker 2: fix it.

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Speaker 3: Now sounds better than here.

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Speaker 1: So that's that's gonna happen. There could already be snow.

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Speaker 1: I feel like it was not that cold, not that

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Speaker 1: long ago in most parts of the country, and now

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Speaker 1: we're talking about snow lake. This week, two storm systems

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Speaker 1: are set to move across the country, with the first

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Speaker 1: rain and in the first I guess rain and then

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Speaker 1: the second maybe some snow storms in the southern planes

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Speaker 1: shifted north, giving rainfalls in the Midwest and central plans.

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Speaker 1: Memphis and Atlanta could see rainfall by the middle of

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Speaker 1: this week. You see in front of the map right

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Speaker 1: now as I describe this.

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Speaker 2: This cold front, and it's due point.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, with the due point, what happens when the due

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Speaker 1: point of the temperature are close to each other for

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Speaker 1: the sad havoc, it's just you know, yeah, visible fog.

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Speaker 1: That's what happens the temperature and due point are close.

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Speaker 2: I heard a tsunami's coming. That's no, none of that.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, Memphis, Atlanta could see rainfall. New York City

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Speaker 1: and Boston could see rain snow, and Montana, Oregon, Idaho,

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Speaker 1: New Mexico, Wyoming in Utah. Hold on, I need some

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Speaker 1: music for this's listening. Well, no, this story is for you. Okay,

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Speaker 1: it's for you. It's terrible news. Oh no again, you

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Speaker 1: already know, don't you? What here comes Sarah McLaughlin. Well,

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Speaker 1: you're right about that. It just takes forty five minutes

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Speaker 1: from my apple. I actually have to call Sarah macglaughlin

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Speaker 1: to get her out of bed Towe to start singing.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, it's part of the She has to pick

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Speaker 1: up her dial, do her dial up, Internet log in,

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Speaker 1: authenticate better authenticate, Kiky, what do you of all the

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Speaker 1: different things that I would associate to you? What what

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Speaker 1: could what are the possibilities in your mind what this

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Speaker 1: story could be.

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Speaker 3: It's either TikTok or Spirit Airlines.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Spirit Airlines. Oh god, that's filed for bankruptcy.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that mean okay.

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Speaker 4: This is a bounce back plan. They're gonna come back

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Speaker 4: stronger than ever.

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Speaker 3: This is the plan.

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Speaker 4: Yeah really, yes, we already met about this, me and

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Speaker 4: my board members.

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Speaker 2: Is good. Okay, So what is to tell you how?

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Speaker 1: They're gonna tell you know what, Spirit for bankruptcy, But

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Speaker 1: tell me how they're coming back.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So they filed for bankruptcy, right, and then they're

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Speaker 4: gonna think they make y'all think that they need prayer

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Speaker 4: and they're sad, and then really we're in the laugh

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Speaker 4: prepare for a major comeback. Yeah, and when we come back,

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Speaker 4: people will have seats, You will not have to pay

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Speaker 4: for water.

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Speaker 3: You will have the little air over your head that

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Speaker 3: will work. Wait wait, wait, you're gonna give them more.

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Speaker 2: So you tell me about they're going to turn it

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Speaker 2: into delta, is what you said? Yeah, Wow, they're coming

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Speaker 2: back strong.

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Speaker 1: Just wait, man, Like, depending on where you live, I

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Speaker 1: don't know if the places where people I mean you

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Speaker 1: get let's do it's on iHeart app anywhere, but the

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Speaker 1: places I'm thinking of are not big Delta hubs. But

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Speaker 1: everyone talks like Delta is like flying private. Everyone talks

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Speaker 1: like Delta is like a PJ. Everyone raves about it.

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Speaker 1: It's amazing. That was my hub in Detroit. I miss

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Speaker 1: it every day. You in Chicago, you're either on American

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Speaker 1: or United. Yeah, people Harrison Raleigh, I feel like you're on.

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Speaker 1: There's like a gate for every airline. Yeah, you can

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Speaker 1: go VLO, you can go Southwest, you can go United America.

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Speaker 1: I mean, isn't like you can you can go Bahama's Air.

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Speaker 1: Out of there, Bahamas Air one day, I'm like, what

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Speaker 1: the hell, what are we doing?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well that But it's I feel like it's just

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Speaker 1: like thirty one flavors, Like every air airline has one

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Speaker 1: gate there, so you're good to go, but but not Delta.

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Speaker 1: But everyone talks about you get the bisk Off cookies,

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Speaker 1: like forget about it.

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Speaker 4: Oh that's how you're going to talk about Spirit.

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Speaker 1: When Spirit announced that it's filed for Chapter eleven bankruptcy

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Speaker 1: protection after a fight with lost his growing dad and

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Speaker 1: a failed merger, the company said in the statement that

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Speaker 1: it secured a pre arranged deal with bondholders. It includes

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Speaker 1: three hundred million in financing, and they planned to exit

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Speaker 1: bankruptcy the first quarter of twenty twenty five. How will

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Speaker 1: this affect you, Kiki as a customer?

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Speaker 2: It won't. Yeah, it shouldn't at all.

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Speaker 1: The most important thing to know is that you can

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Speaker 1: continue to book and fly down in the future.

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Speaker 2: So there you go. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I never thought they had any money anyway.

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Speaker 2: Oh you didn't.

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Speaker 4: I mean, you can't get anything on the flight. So

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Speaker 4: like they were already acting broke.

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Speaker 2: That's fine. I kept trying to merge with Frontier. I

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Speaker 2: was like, blept.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it was the outcome of that.

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Speaker 1: Right, They're gonna paint a Hyaena on the side of

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Speaker 1: the airplane, but it's still going to.

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Speaker 3: Be ratchet, right, Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the front of your airplanes are all cool. They

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Speaker 1: got like a picture of a bear on the tail.

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Speaker 1: You're like, ooh, that's neat, like you know, and then

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Speaker 1: you get in the waiting room, right exactly exactly. I

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Speaker 1: wish that I similar to what I was saying before about,

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Speaker 1: you know, having the bandwidth to text radio personalities and

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Speaker 1: tell them they suck. I wish I cared enough about

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Speaker 1: anything to write a company and complain about their bottle redesign.

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Speaker 2: But it's happening.

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Speaker 1: In what's trending today, Tropicana customers are in revolt over

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Speaker 1: an orange juice bottle redesign.

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Speaker 2: Can you imagine?

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Speaker 1: Like, I don't get me wrong, I've either I'm trying

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Speaker 1: to think of an example, but there's stuff I've bought

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Speaker 1: and they changed the recipe or they changed the bottle,

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Speaker 1: or they changed the packaging, And in my mind, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I don't like this, But i cannot honestly tell you

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Speaker 1: that I've ever taken the time to be like, now,

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Speaker 1: who do I tell about that? Cause they're gonna They're

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Speaker 1: definitely gonna change it back if I complain.

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Speaker 2: For sure.

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Speaker 1: Tropicana recently ditched it's distinct orange juice in a clear, plastic,

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Speaker 1: circular shaped bottle with a thinning neck and a crown

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Speaker 1: like bottle cap, known as the Kraff. Over the summer,

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Speaker 1: it rolled out a more traditional looking plastic bottle and

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Speaker 1: down sized from fifty two to forty six. They also

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Speaker 1: narrow the label to fit the more compact bottle. Now,

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Speaker 1: I get it if you're upset because of the shrinkflation

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Speaker 1: thing where you know, same price or more for less product.

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Speaker 1: But they're saying that it actually costs less for less product.

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Speaker 1: But man, can you imagine being that pissed off about

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Speaker 1: an orange juice bottle? It is a big change, it is.

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Speaker 4: I'm kind of upset about it.

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Speaker 1: I don't look, it'll still be seven bucks anymore.

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Speaker 4: Something about when you grab and it was all voluptuous,

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Speaker 6: Was, yeah, you grab it by the bottleneck and po

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Speaker 6: your orange juice.

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Speaker 2: God forbid, I grab it the exact same place.

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Speaker 6: I ain't got no neck Yetore is that guy for

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Speaker 6: the thumb from a head?

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Speaker 3: It looks like a zempic, like got ahold of Chopicanno?

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Speaker 2: Exactly, Who's Vegas stuff fancy?

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Speaker 7: Now?

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Speaker 2: Would you say tropic Who's mega stuff fancy?

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Speaker 1: Now? I don't know if you guys have a fine

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Speaker 1: two here I am in Einstein's bagos. I don't know

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Speaker 1: if you guys. You might have a twenty twenty four

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Speaker 1: ice cooled top coan.

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Speaker 3: No I get the Aldie versions.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I don't know about her.

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Speaker 1: That might be called Tropicana c H T R O

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Speaker 1: p H A n A S Tropica.

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Speaker 2: And this didn't have it on spirit, but it may

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Speaker 1: Over one hundred hamsters are loose on a flight in Portugal,

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Speaker 1: grounding the plane for days. Escapee hamsters not one, but two,

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Speaker 1: but one hundred and thirty two. This is a tap

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Speaker 1: Air Portugal flight in Lisbon had human passengers as well

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Speaker 1: as hamster's, ferrets and birds that were headed to a

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Speaker 1: pet store. I don't know if they were like they

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Speaker 1: gave him seats or something. I don't know what happened here,

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Speaker 1: but some of the hamsters decided to escape. It took

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Speaker 1: days to account for all the critters and the airplane.

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Speaker 2: Was able to go again.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if they got loose in like the

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Speaker 1: cargo area, and then you know, there's all kinds of

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Speaker 1: nooks and crannies and crevices all over the airplane, so

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Speaker 1: they were crawling around that thing trying to find everywhere

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Speaker 1: those little guys went.

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Speaker 2: That's all you need, is it.

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Speaker 1: Hamster gnawed away at some wires somewhere, and you're over

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Speaker 1: Lisbon and hamster guy just ate the wrong one.

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Speaker 2: It's not good, guys.

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Speaker 1: One single solitary day to day national play Monopoly day.

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Speaker 1: It's a game that never ever ends. That starts to

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Speaker 1: never have anyone ever played Monopoly to completion? Has anyone

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Speaker 1: ever played a game of Monopoly where you could honestly

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Speaker 1: say at the end I won? Has anyone ever played

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Speaker 1: Monopoly where you were the banker and didn't cheat?

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Speaker 2: No, No, it wasn't see there you go?

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Speaker 1: Well yeah, yeah, well I will say the app the

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Speaker 1: Monopoly it's pretty good.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're playing Monopoly in your phone.

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Speaker 2: You are the person who played the fake you.

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Speaker 1: You had a seam character Monopoly Fred.

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Speaker 3: Everything was shut down. Things are open now.

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Speaker 2: What does that matter to me? The house now? Entertainment reporters.

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Speaker 2: Next Friend Show. The Friend Show is on. It's stay

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Speaker 2: or go. Hi, Eric, Good morning Eric, How you doing? Welcome? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: how's it going, y'all?

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Speaker 1: Hey man, what's going on? Oh he's ready to go,

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Speaker 1: he's getting right to it. Uh, what's going on with

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: So basically, I'm just I'm calling for some advice.

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Speaker 2: Uh.

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Speaker 8: So, I've been dating my girlfriend for a little over

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Speaker 8: a year now, and we recently just moved in together,

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Speaker 8: and I love having her around all the time.

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Speaker 9: But the real problem is that she's super messy, like

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Speaker 9: nest here than I ever thought popped like she leaves

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Speaker 9: her bed because she eats it it and then she

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Speaker 9: forgets and then she starts her laundry and leaves the clothes.

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Speaker 8: In the washer to the point where they are stinky.

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Speaker 8: And then you know, she leaves clothes that are dry

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Speaker 2: It's just ridiculous.

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Speaker 8: And like every time I try to talk to her

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Speaker 8: then she does it for like a day, then goes

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Speaker 1: So this is not something that you knew in the

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Speaker 1: year that you've dated her, Like you never noticed these

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Speaker 1: things when she would stay your house or when you'd

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Speaker 1: go to hers. You never noticed that she'd Because I

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Speaker 1: don't know if this this is not something that people

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Speaker 1: just pick up, Like she didn't move into your house

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Speaker 1: be dirty or messy or whatever else.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like this is something that people

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Speaker 1: have done their whole lives.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, but I think it wasn't like as obvious to me.

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Speaker 8: Usually she would she wouldn't cook that much and you

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Speaker 8: get takeout and stuff like that. When I would go

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Speaker 8: over to her place and she came over to mind

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Speaker 8: more often, so I didn't see her in her an

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Speaker 8: all men as well well.

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Speaker 1: Plus it's easier to conceal when people, you know, when

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Speaker 1: people are on top of it.

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Speaker 2: You're trying to make an impression. So I think she was.

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Speaker 8: Better and now that we're in it togetherability, so you've

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Speaker 8: gone to her and been like, hey, look, I need

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Speaker 8: you to at the very least change your clothes, you know,

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Speaker 8: from the washer to the dryer so it doesn't get

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Speaker 8: whatever that moldies.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, right, whenever you'll do whatever that is, I need

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Speaker 1: you to like it at the very least, you know,

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Speaker 1: can you fold the clothes or get them out of there?

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Speaker 1: Can you kind of pick up after you like you've expressed,

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Speaker 1: because I mean, if you're a perfectionist or you're like,

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Speaker 1: tend to like things the way I like, and I've

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Speaker 1: little bit. That doesn't mean that I have to necessarily

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Speaker 1: settle for people who are inconsiderate or who don't respect

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Speaker 1: the fact that we're sharing space. Right, So I assume

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Speaker 1: you've said something, and what it's her response?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I compromise. I went to the middle.

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Speaker 8: Like initially, I did take a step back and say, like,

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Speaker 8: things don't need to be perfect. And I know that

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Speaker 8: you're you and on me, but even on the stuff

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Speaker 8: that I mean basics like just my pet peeves, dirty

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Speaker 8: dishes in the sink, moldy laundry, or just like and

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Speaker 8: food in the bed is really gross to me, especially because.

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Speaker 2: It's sharing the bed, you know, with her. I don't

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Speaker 2: think this is too much you ask.

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Speaker 1: It's not like he's saying everything has to be ironed

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Speaker 1: and hung, color coded and crazy people stuff like that.

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Speaker 2: You know he's asking for. I don't want you to

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Speaker 2: eat in the bed.

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Speaker 1: I want you to pick up your stuff, and I

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Speaker 1: want you to you know, spaces we have to share,

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Speaker 1: like I need you to sort of handle your business

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Speaker 1: in those are I don't think these guys asking for

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Speaker 1: too much. But the thing is she may not, she

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Speaker 1: may never do those things. She may be very comfortable

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Speaker 1: and things like that. So I feel like you either

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Speaker 1: way in which you're incompatible.

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Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, that's Ruth Fatter.

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Speaker 6: I have a question for you, Eric, Are you cleaning

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Speaker 6: up after her? Like are you enabling it by like, oh,

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Speaker 6: though dises are all in there, and then you empty

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Speaker 6: the sink and you take her clothes out. Are you

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Speaker 8: Well, at the beginning, yeah, I was doing it just

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Speaker 8: to be nice and forgiving and accepting. But then I

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Speaker 8: like to make a point at some point when I

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Speaker 8: after the couple times of asking her, I left it

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Speaker 8: and was like, look at this, like can we just

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Speaker 8: take a look at this right now.

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Speaker 2: And yeah, yeah, no, continue, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 8: No, I'm just thinking that it's like it's not fair

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Speaker 8: and I needed to have an example to show her.

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Speaker 8: But for the most part, yeah, I was enabling a

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Speaker 8: little bit, but I'm just tired of it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we're gonna talk about you behind your back now, Eric,

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Speaker 1: except you can have the radio on the iHeart app

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Speaker 1: as well. Thank you for calling good luck? Yeah, thank

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Speaker 1: you eight five five three five. This is my hot take.

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Speaker 1: This is very controversially ready. This is a deal breaker.

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Speaker 1: This is a deal breaker. Really, this is going to

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Speaker 1: be an issue for the rest of their lives together.

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Speaker 1: This is a person who doesn't who feels comfort, doesn't emphasize,

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Speaker 1: it's not as concerned with organization and kindliness and and

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Speaker 1: I've dealt with people like this before, and we I mean,

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Speaker 1: I think there's compromise to be had, but you're not

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Speaker 1: going to change a person like this, fundamentally, You're not

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Speaker 1: going to They're not just going to turn into the

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Speaker 10: What I have changed, I've made changes, made change. Yes,

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Speaker 10: so you and my husband Hobby are very similar. Like

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Speaker 10: it's like clean this and that, and I had to

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Speaker 10: respect that this is also his space and his home.

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Speaker 10: So like I've had to make those changes because I

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Speaker 10: can be miss messy little thing.

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Speaker 2: I could miss messy little thing.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, miss messy thing.

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Speaker 2: That's like a cabbage patch, don't characters.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I think you can get people to say

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Speaker 1: I think I think like taking your clothes out of

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Speaker 1: the washer and dryer and folding them is a reasonable

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Speaker 1: thing to ask. I think not eating in bad might

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Speaker 1: be a reasonable thing to ask. I think I don't

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Speaker 1: think leaving dishes in this thing for someone else to

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Speaker 1: clean is. It's an unreasonable thing to ask for that

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Speaker 1: not to happen. But now we're asking for three or

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Speaker 5: Jury is hard, though it is. I mean it's really hard.

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Speaker 5: It's never ending, okay, But see here, I'm a guy

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Speaker 5: in all honesty. The clothes that I wash and don't dry,

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Speaker 5: clean or whatever and don't hang, they sit in my

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Speaker 5: driver for a long time. I live alone, though no

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Speaker 5: one else is using this equipment, so I think it

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Speaker 5: would be unfair for me to wash my clothes and

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Speaker 5: they need to leave them there. So now when my partner,

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Speaker 5: you know, who lives with me, And that's a wild hypothetical,

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Speaker 5: but that person would then go to wash their clothes

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Speaker 5: and then realize not only can they not wash their clothes,

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Speaker 5: now they have to re wash mine, dry them, and

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Speaker 5: fold them in order for them to handle their business.

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Speaker 2: I don't think that's fair.

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Speaker 3: It's all the part of love.

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Speaker 2: Though you know, no one's folding the clothes to the

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Speaker 2: other person. You, So now we're just throwing them somewhere.

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Speaker 2: They're gonna go, They're.

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Speaker 6: Gonna go into the basket, and I'm gonna use the

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Speaker 6: washing machine.

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Speaker 3: Oh I fooled my boyfriend's clothes.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, you.

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Speaker 3: Hold your wife, slaunch my back? I scratch yours.

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Speaker 4: You know I leave my stuff in the dry air.

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Speaker 3: You need to use it, Just take it out.

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Speaker 4: You know I leave dishes in the scene, Just go

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Speaker 4: ahead and put them in a dish washer or something.

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Speaker 2: So you want a maide, No, no, no, no.

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Speaker 4: Because it's like you would do the same. I would

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Speaker 4: do the same for you. You know, you scratch my back,

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Speaker 4: I scratch yours?

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Speaker 2: How you scratching? Yeah? Where's his match? Getting back in

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Speaker 4: I my thought, if you cleaned up everything before I

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Speaker 2: See now here we go, Here we go, Here we go.

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Speaker 1: And I know it sounds crazy, and I'm I'm as

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Speaker 1: somebody who's like, if the cup is here, I need

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Speaker 1: it here, Like I need to let that go. But

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Speaker 1: it also doesn't mean that you don't have to respect

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Speaker 1: shared space, And it doesn't mean that you know that

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Speaker 1: that our living room becomes your storage room.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't mean that I have to now as your partner,

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Speaker 1: I'm expected to do your laundry for you every single time.

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Speaker 2: It's just kind of inconsiderate.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, I agree, And I don't think that it's like

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Speaker 10: weird or anything. I think there's just certain types of people, right,

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Speaker 10: there's the friends and there's the Paulina's Now.

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Speaker 3: The reason I say that too is because the resentment

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Speaker 10: So like if you and I were married or dating

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Speaker 10: Fred and I was doing that constantly at home, resentment

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Speaker 10: would start to grow. You'd be really you'd be really

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Speaker 10: sick with me. At one point, you'd be a girl.

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Speaker 10: I know you're my girlfriend, but like get it together,

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Speaker 10: and then what we're gonna fight. We're gonna fight, and

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Speaker 10: then we're probably gonna break up. So I don't see

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Speaker 10: it being crazy. I think it could really, you know,

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Speaker 10: destroy a relationship. Unfortunately, and said this before. This is

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Speaker 10: why I don't have a problem with people living together.

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Speaker 10: I mean problem, that's not the right way to phrase it.

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Speaker 1: This is why I can understand why people live together

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Speaker 1: ahead of time, and I can understand how people can

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Speaker 1: ultimately break up over things like this, Because this has

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Speaker 1: learned behavior. This is its deeper psychological behavior. I'm not

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Speaker 1: a level of insensitivity and a level of inconsiderateness, if

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Speaker 1: that's a word, because I don't think that's too much

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Speaker 1: to ask. If I expect you to fold the toilet

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Speaker 1: like you know, I need you to color code your closet,

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Speaker 1: or the refrigerator has to be perfectly in order. I mean,

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Speaker 1: these are things that that's my own OCD. These are

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Speaker 1: things that I would need to compromise on, But basic cleanliness,

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Speaker 1: I don't think that's too much to ask, And I'm

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Speaker 1: not certain that you're going to change that in somebody.

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Speaker 1: And I think you're exactly right ful, Lina. I feel

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Speaker 1: like the fights be start there and then they become

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Speaker 1: like you know, your ratchet as ex girlfriend still text

441
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Speaker 1: in it before long. You know, here we are on

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Speaker 1: Morey Hey, Ashley, good morning.

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Speaker 2: Good morning. Hey, what do you want to say, sir go?

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Speaker 3: I think he should go.

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Speaker 7: I agree with you fred basic cleanliness, and once she

446
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Speaker 7: starts having.

447
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Speaker 11: Kids, she's just going to make more excuses why she

448
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Speaker 11: can't do something and it's just gonna be worse.

449
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Speaker 1: He should just go now, And like how many times

450
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Speaker 1: do you have to do the basic thing for the

451
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Speaker 1: other person and they don't do it before? Now you

452
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Speaker 1: realize not only are they not going to do it,

453
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Speaker 1: they expect you to do it now and they're okay

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Speaker 1: with it. Like it's almost like sometimes I wonder when

455
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Speaker 1: you ask someone to do the same thing over and

456
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Speaker 1: over again and they don't do it, like they're doing

457
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Speaker 1: it on purpose at a certain point.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, now exactly, And there's a line right in

459
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Speaker 2: her limit. Yeah yeah, I agree.

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Speaker 1: Actually, thank you, have a good day you too, And again,

461
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Speaker 1: like there's a I think there's a line we would

462
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Speaker 1: all agree, there's a place that's like considerate and minimum expectation,

463
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Speaker 1: and then there's you know.

464
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Speaker 2: A latent disrespect.

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Speaker 1: Right right then on the other end of it, I

466
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Speaker 1: think there's a a standard that's just ridiculous, Like I

467
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Speaker 1: don't you know what I mean some of the references

468
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Speaker 1: I made, Like there's a there's an organization in cleanliness,

469
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Speaker 1: and then there's excessive on both sides, So I think

470
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Speaker 1: they've both got to come to the middle. But he's

471
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Speaker 1: not talking about stuff that's unreasonable to me. The examples

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Speaker 1: he gave, Hey, Jake.

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Speaker 12: Hey, what's going on?

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Speaker 11: Fred Rufio, Jason Brown, kaylen A Kiky.

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Speaker 1: Now you look at this guy, Jakes, Hey, yeah, you

476
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Speaker 1: know everybody's there.

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Speaker 2: Go all right.

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Speaker 11: So here's what I think. I think this is a

479
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Speaker 11: deeper conversation. There's no immediate red flags. I think you

480
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Speaker 11: need to stay. However, if this behavior is consistent, and

481
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Speaker 11: after time after time again it's being brought up, then

482
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Speaker 11: it's then, I mean action speaks to himself. I think

483
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Speaker 11: you would have to go. If after such brutal honesty conversations,

484
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Speaker 11: if it's if it's disregarded, if it's ignored, if no

485
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Speaker 11: actions have been taken, if it's just words, then unfortunately,

486
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Speaker 11: that's where you got to draw the line, because it

487
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Speaker 11: does come down to respect, It does come down to

488
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Speaker 11: those little actions because it is his space. Although in

489
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Speaker 11: the adage, this adage just reminds me you never truly

490
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Speaker 11: know someone until you move in with them.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's biblical.

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Speaker 1: That's in classic classic key, elastic key. What is it Ecclesiastes.

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Speaker 1: It's in that one Ecclesiastes. Yeah, yeah, that's the thing, right,

494
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Speaker 1: it's in the Bible. Jake is over here preaching biblically.

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Speaker 1: Hey Jake, thank you, man, have a good day.

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Speaker 11: Hey, love you all, love the tent and keep them coming.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: That's Ecclesiastes ten sixty four. Yeah both, Hey, Jesse, how

499
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Speaker 1: you doing? It's it's either old or new.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Hey, Jesse, what do you want to say?

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Speaker 2: Is there go? Oh, he's got to go.

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Speaker 13: It's uh, I'm dealing with that same thing at all home. No,

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Speaker 13: I mean, I'm not going anywhere, but it leads to

504
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Speaker 13: bigger things. And next thing, you know, you have a

505
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Speaker 13: four bedroom house with four bedrooms full of things and

506
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Speaker 13: stuff that is just overwhelming.

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Speaker 1: And people are talking, Jesse about kids. This is not

508
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Speaker 1: going to get any better with If you can't cleanup

509
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Speaker 1: after yourself, you're not going to clean after further, you know,

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Speaker 1: additional humans.

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Speaker 13: Well, and that's kind of where I'm at too, because

512
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Speaker 13: you know, me and my wife just got.

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Speaker 2: Married and congratulations.

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Speaker 13: She keeps saying, don't worry, I'm going to change. But

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Speaker 13: what happened, you know, she took a year off to

516
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Speaker 13: play in the wedding, and nothing changed in that whole

517
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Speaker 13: year because you know she works too, but now she

518
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Speaker 13: didn't work that year and there wasn't a change in anything.

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Speaker 13: Nothing's changed. And then so now it leads to, like

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Speaker 13: you just said, kids and what's going to change. You're

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Speaker 13: going to be a stay at home mom, which is

522
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Speaker 13: what she wants or whatever. So and then you go

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Speaker 13: to there like I'm in that same boat right now.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know that it's going to change, man,

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Speaker 1: but I hope it does for you. And yeah, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's the overwhelming thing that we're getting text

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Speaker 1: Like overwhelming is people saying this is kind of a personality.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to call it a flaw, but it's

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Speaker 1: this is in your DNA. I feel like, Jesse, thank

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Speaker 1: you man, have a good day and good luck.

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Speaker 14: Well.

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Speaker 1: I had a roommate and we didn't get along in college.

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Speaker 1: The only room I ever had, and this duo was

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Speaker 1: it wasn't messy per se, but he was sort of

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Speaker 1: His half of the room is somewhat disheveled, and I

536
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Speaker 1: used to organize it, not organize it, but I clean

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Speaker 1: it basically like make it not disheveled, because my side

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Speaker 1: of the room wasn't. And I realized over time he

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Speaker 1: hated me for that because that's how he wanted his

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Speaker 1: space to be, and he had every right to have that,

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Speaker 1: it was his side of the room. But like, and

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Speaker 1: I guess I learned that that there are people who

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Speaker 1: find this is the way they want to live, like

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Speaker 1: for whatever reason it's I don't know, they find comfort

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Speaker 1: in it or something, and I had to respect that.

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Speaker 1: But what I did know is that he and I

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Speaker 1: would not be good roommates moving forward. Marry the guy,

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Speaker 1: because you know, I'm not going to clean up after

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Speaker 1: him all the time. And I guess the thing is,

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Speaker 1: would you agree you have to find someone to be

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Speaker 1: with who has at least similar sensibilities.

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Speaker 2: In that way?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, then again, if two people are messy, then you

554
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Speaker 1: know you're gonna live in a pig stye.

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Speaker 2: So I don't know, you.

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Speaker 7: Just need to have like respect, you know, I definitely

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Speaker 7: changed some things, like when I moved in with my boyfriend.

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Speaker 3: I think you just have to be willing to like

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Speaker 3: meet them where they are.

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Speaker 1: To listen to what they're you know, yeah, they're asking

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Speaker 1: for Betsy. Hi, okay, so you're saying, and just if

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Speaker 1: you're just tuning in, by the way, stayre go. This

563
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Speaker 1: dude is married to a woman who leaves her clothes

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Speaker 1: in the in the not only the dryer, but in

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Speaker 1: the washer and lets them get all mildy. We get nasty,

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Speaker 1: eats in the bed, leaves dishes in the sink. He

567
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Speaker 1: said like, hey, look, can you help out with this?

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Speaker 1: Can we not do all that? And she doesn't stop.

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Speaker 1: It continues to happen, it persists. So what do you think,

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Speaker 1: stare go?

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Speaker 12: I think he should go, and I love you guys

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Speaker 12: and everything like that.

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Speaker 2: He should go, he should go.

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Speaker 12: They both should go their separate ways. And it definitely

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Speaker 12: says it in Ecclesiastes the Old Testament.

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Speaker 14: Leave.

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Speaker 12: It's the Old Testament.

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Speaker 14: And I am about fifteen years into a relationship that's

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Speaker 14: very similar. I'm not going anywhere, but as an older

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Speaker 14: person looking at a younger person, you need to go

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Speaker 14: because if you've met somewhere in the middle, then okay,

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Speaker 14: then we're listening.

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Speaker 12: To each other, we're understanding.

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Speaker 14: But like my partner is very tidy, very cleanly. I

585
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Speaker 14: can be like Paulina, miss messy wilfain.

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Speaker 7: And but I also.

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Speaker 14: Do all the laundry in the house. I do all

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Speaker 14: the cooking in the house.

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Speaker 7: His version of cooking.

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Speaker 14: Is takeout.

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Speaker 7: And so the dishes, and he works two jobs seasonally,

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Speaker 7: so I am to put everything in the dishwasher, you know,

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Speaker 7: clean it. Like right now there's dirty dishes in the

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Speaker 7: think probably know when he wakes up, he's probably gonna

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Speaker 7: like roll his eyes. But being that fifteen years in,

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Speaker 7: if it's already like that right now, I've made changes,

597
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Speaker 7: I've met in the middle. But if I put out

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Speaker 7: too many little decorations on the.

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Speaker 14: Table for a holiday, he will go around and change

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Speaker 14: them because there'll be too many things on that table.

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Speaker 2: It's clutter bets.

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Speaker 1: What you're saying basically is you're fifteen years in, you're invested,

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Speaker 1: so you deal with it. But if you had it

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Speaker 1: to do over again, this is this is enough of

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Speaker 1: an issue that it might not lead to a fifteen

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Speaker 1: year relationship again.

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Speaker 14: Yeah, like I'd be like three years in, I'd be like,

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Speaker 14: thank you for what you've taught me, but I think

609
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Speaker 14: we should go away our separate ways.

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Speaker 1: Okay, fair enough. So this is like you're what you're saying,

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Speaker 1: is fundamentally this is an issue? Yes, okay, I mean

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Speaker 1: I've heard that song before.

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Speaker 2: It's too late time. That's you. I gotta go have

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Speaker 2: a good day. I appreciate you.

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Speaker 13: I'm like, I have.

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Speaker 14: Four more years than you know.

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Speaker 12: Our kid is eighteen, so oh lord year.

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Speaker 2: So right, she's got a calendar.

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Speaker 1: Invited their divorces man in about three years and oh

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Speaker 1: my goodness, yeah three point seven five years.

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Speaker 2: But I was like, she's out of here.

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Speaker 1: Look, Betsy, I gotta go have a good day, all right,

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Speaker 1: thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 14: Bye.

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Speaker 2: Okay, there it is. She a love to say.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you want to let the streets know in a

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Speaker 3: couple of.

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Speaker 1: Years, right, everybody, make sure you're around. In about three

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Speaker 1: point seventy five to four years, I'm going to be

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Speaker 1: on the market.

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