WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Driving Me Bonkers

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<v Speaker 1>Second date date, Alexis, how many times has Brooke offered

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<v Speaker 1>to set you up on a date with a guy

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<v Speaker 1>she knows and you've said things good? Yeah? What do

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<v Speaker 1>you not trust Brooke to have any cool, young, hunky

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<v Speaker 1>male friends for you? I think we have different definitions

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<v Speaker 1>a cool, young hunky Yeah? Or are you worried that

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to show up and it's going to be

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<v Speaker 1>a play date with her son? That might be better

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<v Speaker 1>than who you guys are almost the same age? Yeah, couple.

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<v Speaker 1>One day, well, one of our listeners, Lily was fighting

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<v Speaker 1>the same way Alexis was. Her friend wanted to set

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<v Speaker 1>her up on a date, and Lily kept on saying no, Lily,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome to the show. How you doing? Hey, I'm good.

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<v Speaker 1>It's good to be here. I mean, I take it

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<v Speaker 1>your friend wasn't good help because you're calling us instead.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually that's the thing. My friend ended up being great help.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh oh that's not usual. Yeah, well, so she hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>been trying to set me up for a long time.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been single for probably about a year now. Is

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<v Speaker 1>she one that like sets you up with anyone she knows?

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<v Speaker 1>Or is it the same person she's been trying to

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<v Speaker 1>hook you up with. Yeah, yeah, the same person. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>well that's weird too, because now it's like this guy

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<v Speaker 1>can't get a date either, So that's smart. Well, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you're both red flags though, Yeah, very vibrant heard red

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<v Speaker 1>and red mate green. Yeah, so you eventually met up

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<v Speaker 1>with him? Yeah? Well I kept saying no, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because my whole idea was like, look, I can find

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<v Speaker 1>a guy on my own, you know, like I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to ruin our friendship if things get weird, like

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<v Speaker 1>the guy doesn't work for it. And that's why, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I think she just might feel bad. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I just didn't want to like make things weird between us. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a different level of pressure when it's all right, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>do you know this guy's name? Yeah, his name was Matt,

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<v Speaker 1>Matt Matt. And did you get to like look at

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<v Speaker 1>his socials? Like, did she give you any proof of

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<v Speaker 1>what the goods were beforehand? No? She was just like

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<v Speaker 1>take it from me, trust me. This guy a winner,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I think you would really hit it off. She

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<v Speaker 1>must be persistent for you to finally cave. He was,

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<v Speaker 1>because I didn't cave. She tricked me. Oh what do

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<v Speaker 1>you mean, yes, we had a big work event the

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<v Speaker 1>other week. Do you like celebrate the big workwin. So

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<v Speaker 1>we all went out to the club and after the club,

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<v Speaker 1>somebody was like, hey, let's bring the party back to

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<v Speaker 1>my play. So we all ended up at a house

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<v Speaker 1>party and he was there and that was by design. Yeah, definitely. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So what did you think when you saw Matt So? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>he's easy on the eyes, he's great, and we ended

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<v Speaker 1>up just chatting casual style, um, because you didn't do

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<v Speaker 1>the formal chat with him chat he didn't take a

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<v Speaker 1>large bow. Yeah that's nice. But did he know that

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<v Speaker 1>your friend had been trying to hook you two up?

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<v Speaker 1>Because sometimes that's really awkward, but it's also could be

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<v Speaker 1>something new bond over. He didn't say oh, we didn't

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<v Speaker 1>say you don't know if you knew? Oh, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>But at one point in our conversation he just drops

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<v Speaker 1>that he doesn't know how to drive, and I was like, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>what is like? Is it that he never tried to learn,

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<v Speaker 1>or that he tried so many times and failed that

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<v Speaker 1>he gave up could get a license? I mean, can

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<v Speaker 1>you actually fail that many times? I know, No, he

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<v Speaker 1>just never bothered to learn. It just just wasn't a thing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>if you live in a big city, you really don't

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<v Speaker 1>need trees that just got their license. Yeah it's because

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<v Speaker 1>you're fourteen. Or maybe he's from a wealthy family where

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<v Speaker 1>he has a chauffeur and he doesn't need to learn. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>thought first time, But it doesn't matter. I mean, was

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<v Speaker 1>that okay with you? Well, so of course it's getting

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<v Speaker 1>late and I'm in a very good food so I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>hold up, I'm going to teach you how to drive

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<v Speaker 1>right now. Come with me late night, after the club, girl.

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<v Speaker 1>I think after the club, after the house park. Oh no, Basically,

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<v Speaker 1>we went to a nearby mall parking lot and I

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<v Speaker 1>taught him about and drive. It fun because I just

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<v Speaker 1>remember learning to drive with my dad and a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of screaming and yelling at each other, stressful and how

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<v Speaker 1>many casualties were there that night? Thankfully none? It's good.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was a fun time. We just drove

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<v Speaker 1>in circles and laughed a lot, and at the end

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<v Speaker 1>he thanked me for teaching him, and there was a

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<v Speaker 1>little kiss. Oh. I thinked my driving instructor the same way.

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<v Speaker 1>Kiss and drive in the Backseaton next, so I drove

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<v Speaker 1>him back to his place. Yeah, he kissed me good

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<v Speaker 1>night and that was it. Oh my god, technically a little.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean the next day we texted back and forth

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit and it was just like a yeah, thanks,

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<v Speaker 1>that was fun. Ha ha ha laughed a lot. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that wasna. He was more lighthearted than that. Oak. Have

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<v Speaker 1>you checked with your friend who was setting you guys up?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure she totally knows. Yeah, of course I checked

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<v Speaker 1>with her because I was like, oh my god, you

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<v Speaker 1>were right. He's amazing and we had a great time. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>kiss waking out. But no, she hasn't heard from him either,

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<v Speaker 1>and she is just as frustrated about this as I am,

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<v Speaker 1>because for once, her matchmaking skills seem to have worked.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah right ye d He's like, I'm finally going to

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<v Speaker 1>be able to go on a road. Yeah. Yeah, he's

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<v Speaker 1>in another country right now, getting dozens of dates left

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<v Speaker 1>and right. We're gonna find out. We're gonna call him

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<v Speaker 1>in just a minute here and Brooke is gonna backseat

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<v Speaker 1>drive the conversation. And bad of a job I'm doing.

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<v Speaker 1>Somebody needs to be in control. Yeah, your second date

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<v Speaker 1>update right after this second. How many rom coms have

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<v Speaker 1>that scene where one character teaches the other how to

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<v Speaker 1>drive a stick shift through a cornfield? Yeah, and then

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<v Speaker 1>they veer off almost hit a cow and they laugh

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<v Speaker 1>about it and make out for hours in the backseat. Dang,

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't seen that. I didn't eat that either. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>who's in that one? Ryan Gosling and the white girl

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<v Speaker 1>here girl. Well, that scene played out in real life

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<v Speaker 1>the other day for our listener, Lily. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>there are kind I mean, no cows. It was and

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<v Speaker 1>it was just a regular automatic car with a millennial

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<v Speaker 1>who hadn't learned for the first thirty years of his

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<v Speaker 1>life out of job, but she taught him how and

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<v Speaker 1>it turned out to be a great night with laughter

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<v Speaker 1>and kissing. But now the romance is stuck in neutral.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're gonna call this guy and try and kick

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<v Speaker 1>it back into drive sport mode. Yeah. You ready to

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<v Speaker 1>do this, Lily, I'm so ready. Yes, Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we're like four cylinder show. It's fine in

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm excited for you. It's weird that your

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<v Speaker 1>friend doesn't know either. That was so adamant that you

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<v Speaker 1>two go out. I think that That's the strangest part

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<v Speaker 1>is he's not just calling not you back, but not

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<v Speaker 1>talking to her either. Yeah right, yeah, just like disappeared

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<v Speaker 1>or something. I don't know. Well, let's get some answers.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna call him right now. We'll see what he

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<v Speaker 1>has to say. Here we go. Hello, Hey, is this

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<v Speaker 1>Matt speaking? Who's this? My name is jeff You may

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<v Speaker 1>have heard this voice before on a radio show called

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. He doesn't drive. You

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<v Speaker 1>may not listen, that's true. Do you have podcasts? Sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not familiar with it. Sorry. Uh, well, you're on

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<v Speaker 1>a segment right now called a Second Date Update, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're trying to help one of our listeners get back

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<v Speaker 1>in touch with you after you two hung out the

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<v Speaker 1>other night. Her name's Lily. Oh my god. Oh well

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<v Speaker 1>really is that a good or that? Oh? We can't tell,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I don't um, I don't really want to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about this. That's okay, okay, okay, I understand your hesitation.

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<v Speaker 1>But this is how the segment works. Like Lily knows

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<v Speaker 1>that she may be hearing something that might be a

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<v Speaker 1>little awkward, a little uncomfortable, but she's just super confused

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<v Speaker 1>after having a really nice time with you the other night. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just, Um, is this a very difficult situation really

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<v Speaker 1>on your side? Is it something personal for you then,

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<v Speaker 1>because it sounds pretty easy on her side, she liked you,

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<v Speaker 1>she'd like to go out again. Yeah, it's it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>very much on my side. Okay, Oh all right. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you plan to reach out to Lily at any point?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I'm just trying to figure out a way to

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<v Speaker 1>do it. What do you mean, just with a call

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<v Speaker 1>or text? Maybe we can help you out if you're

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<v Speaker 1>going through something and you need to like work things through. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>wait a minute, So are you like involved with somebody,

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<v Speaker 1>because you can just be honest with us about that, bro. No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not involved with anybody. It's it's it's it's more

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<v Speaker 1>complicated than that. You're married all of many people. No,

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<v Speaker 1>not that either. Do you want us to just play

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<v Speaker 1>the guessing game for you? Yes? I don't think there's

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<v Speaker 1>any way you guys would guess this one. All right?

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<v Speaker 1>If you could give us just a little bit of information,

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<v Speaker 1>because Lily could really use a little closure on this.

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<v Speaker 1>She really felt for you the night that she hung

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<v Speaker 1>out and she's been completely out of whack for the

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<v Speaker 1>last week, trying to figure out what's going on. Okay, um,

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<v Speaker 1>I liked her too. So we have a mutual friend

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<v Speaker 1>who's been like trying to set us up for like

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<v Speaker 1>two or three months now. About that okay, oh yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was in on it. And we met at a

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<v Speaker 1>party and we had this amazing experience and driving around

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<v Speaker 1>the parking lot of this some mall and she was

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<v Speaker 1>really cool. So, you know, I lived near our friend,

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<v Speaker 1>so I just like walked over her house the next

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<v Speaker 1>morning excited to tell her the news, and I'm like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>Lily and I we finally went out on that date. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so you did talk to her friend? Oh yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>she was I don't know how to scratch. She just

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<v Speaker 1>like had this look of shock on her face. I

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<v Speaker 1>thought she was the one that set it all up.

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<v Speaker 1>So you guys would meet at the post. Well that's

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<v Speaker 1>what I thought. So then she just like blurked out

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<v Speaker 1>that she was just upset because she and like her

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<v Speaker 1>trying to like set me up with Lillie has decided

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<v Speaker 1>that she's now like fallen for me. Hold on, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Lily's friend now admits that she has feelings for you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and I thought she was joking, so, you know, did

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<v Speaker 1>you laugh? I sure did, oh wow. But she was like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not a joke. Oh no, she wants to be

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<v Speaker 1>with me, and I like her as a friend. We've

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<v Speaker 1>known each other for a long time, but I never

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<v Speaker 1>thought of her that way, especially with her trying to

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<v Speaker 1>get me to date somebody else. So it sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>there might be there might actually be feelings there for

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<v Speaker 1>Lily's friend too, from the way you're talking about it,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know I had. I'd never thought about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I understand because they do say a lot of times

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<v Speaker 1>when your friends first things tend to be so yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's why is she sitting It's like telling somebody to

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<v Speaker 1>order fries when it's you that really wants the fries. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe she was hoping that Lily would reject him so

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<v Speaker 1>that she would be like, see, I guess there's nobody

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<v Speaker 1>left for you. But that's a weird way to go

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<v Speaker 1>about it. Yeah, that's going to be a lot of information, Matt.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's not a horrible position for you to be in,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's kind of a really bad situation for Lily. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys got to tell him. Now. I just gotta

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<v Speaker 1>tell you, Matt, this is super awkward. But Lily's been

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<v Speaker 1>on the other line listening and hurt the whole thing. What, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's Lily. Hey Matt, Hey, Hey Lily. Oh, I'm really sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I still know you're on the like on this call.

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<v Speaker 1>I It's not how I wanted you to find out.

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<v Speaker 1>I so overwhelmed. I just I don't know what this means. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought my friend had my best interest at heart

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<v Speaker 1>and had my back, and now I just feel like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll say, it doesn't sound like your friend did this

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<v Speaker 1>maliciously or tried to hurt you in any way. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like maybe your friend lied to you on purpose.

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<v Speaker 1>She definitely lied about saying that she didn't hear from

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<v Speaker 1>Matt after the date. Well, what is she going to say?

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<v Speaker 1>I heard from him. I confess my love to him.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought she doesn't know what to say either. Probably

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<v Speaker 1>her defense, Lily, she was trying to tell you how

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<v Speaker 1>great of a guy she he is, and he's so

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<v Speaker 1>great of a guy. She felt for him too. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it makes sense. She's like trying to convince you over

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<v Speaker 1>and over again, and then it finally dawns in her like,

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<v Speaker 1>wait a minute, am I going for him? It's really

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<v Speaker 1>making me rethink our entire friendship and like what else

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<v Speaker 1>she might be keeping from me? That that's true? Oh Mad,

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<v Speaker 1>this is so messy for you to be in little up. Yeah. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to ruin anyone's friendship like mine with

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<v Speaker 1>our friend or you guys. So the three of us

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<v Speaker 1>could get together, get in a room talking out. I like,

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<v Speaker 1>how you think, man, this is good problem solving. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>all have some drinks again. But what's what's wrong with

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<v Speaker 1>that broke? It's the women want. If you were twenty

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<v Speaker 1>years younger and a few drinks deep, you would be

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<v Speaker 1>all over this. You'd say, seven more girls in here

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<v Speaker 1>and let's have a really good time. God, Matt, have

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<v Speaker 1>you gone out with the other girl already? The friend? No?

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<v Speaker 1>Not at all? Okay, okay jokes aside. In all honesty,

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<v Speaker 1>Matt sounds pretty sincere, like he just wants them to

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<v Speaker 1>all be together so they could talk about what's really

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<v Speaker 1>going on. The secrecy and the keeping things from each

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<v Speaker 1>other that's not working. So Matt, I just I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what the right course of action here is because

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<v Speaker 1>I liked you, and I man, I don't know. I really,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have an answer for you. I think I

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<v Speaker 1>think you gotta talk to our friends first. Oh man,

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<v Speaker 1>so you can't decide between them. Still, I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>it's a matter of deciding. I mean, like, yeah, that'd

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<v Speaker 1>be a pretty messy road for Matt to take. So

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, maybe it's not a bad idea for all

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<v Speaker 1>three of you guys to talk it out together and

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<v Speaker 1>we could pay to have you meet up at a

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant or something like that. Oh whoa, that's I gotta

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta put the gotta put a big old yellow

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<v Speaker 1>flag out there on that one. Want to talk to

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<v Speaker 1>you don't like restaurants? Should we go somewhere else? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I just I've got so much to work out. I

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<v Speaker 1>had no idea this was gonna go this direction. Yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry this is happening. I know this is a

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<v Speaker 1>lot keep us. Yeah, I hope more than anything, your friendship,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, true, gets through this. And then Matt, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you're in a win win situation. So yeah, let us

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<v Speaker 1>know who you think. Matt. I don't know if it

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<v Speaker 1>does win win as you guys think. Okay, Okay. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean if I if I end up with either of them,

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<v Speaker 1>it's you know, there's gonna be the baggage of the

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<v Speaker 1>last week. It's gonna be tough. Just like when you

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<v Speaker 1>learn parallel parking from one of them, it's like the

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<v Speaker 1>same thing. You're gonna have one of them behind you

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<v Speaker 1>being like, no, do the other thing, crank the wheel

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<v Speaker 1>to the right. You know, a lot of adults don't

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<v Speaker 1>know how to drive. Guy working Jeffrey in the morning, Man,

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of wanted to ask Lily if she would

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<v Speaker 1>like to do an awkward Tuesday phone call to her

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<v Speaker 1>friend go on, I don't know, I'm sure. Well, it

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<v Speaker 1>seemed like Lily was kind of reeling in the moment,

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<v Speaker 1>So maybe we'll ask her off the air. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not like we can just Oh my god, she is

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<v Speaker 1>gonna need help with that convo though. Yeah, friend, obviously

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<v Speaker 1>is it coming to her. She knows it's so awkward. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but I've heard that stuff happen sometimes, where you're close

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<v Speaker 1>with a person and you try and set him up

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<v Speaker 1>romantically and suddenly you catch feelings and end up dating them.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh man, you've heard that before. I feel like it's

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<v Speaker 1>the opposite two girls are fighting, like, come on, you

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<v Speaker 1>date the no No. I really hope that we do

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<v Speaker 1>get an update though from this invested in there to

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<v Speaker 1>find out who he picks, or if he picks no

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<v Speaker 1>One and goes in a completely different direction. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe after this he doesn't have any choices anymore, or

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<v Speaker 1>maybe we broke him from dating forever. So if you'd

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<v Speaker 1>like to be broken from dating forever, email the show.

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<v Speaker 1>We can help make that happen. And you can always

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