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Speaker 1: Second date date, Alexis, how many times has Brooke offered

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Speaker 1: a play date with her son? That might be better

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Speaker 1: than who you guys are almost the same age? Yeah, couple.

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Speaker 1: One day, well, one of our listeners, Lily was fighting

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Speaker 1: the same way Alexis was. Her friend wanted to set

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Speaker 1: her up on a date, and Lily kept on saying no, Lily,

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Speaker 1: welcome to the show. How you doing? Hey, I'm good.

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Speaker 1: It's good to be here. I mean, I take it

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Speaker 1: your friend wasn't good help because you're calling us instead.

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Speaker 1: Actually that's the thing. My friend ended up being great help.

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Speaker 1: Oh oh that's not usual. Yeah, well, so she hasn't

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Speaker 1: been trying to set me up for a long time.

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Speaker 1: I've been single for probably about a year now. Is

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Speaker 1: she one that like sets you up with anyone she knows?

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Speaker 1: Or is it the same person she's been trying to

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Speaker 1: well that's weird too, because now it's like this guy

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Speaker 1: can't get a date either, So that's smart. Well, hey,

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Speaker 1: you're both red flags though, Yeah, very vibrant heard red

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Speaker 1: with him? Yeah? Well I kept saying no, you know,

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Speaker 1: because my whole idea was like, look, I can find

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Speaker 1: I just didn't want to like make things weird between us. Okay,

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Speaker 1: there's a different level of pressure when it's all right, Okay,

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Speaker 1: do you know this guy's name? Yeah, his name was Matt,

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Speaker 1: Matt Matt. And did you get to like look at

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Speaker 1: his socials? Like, did she give you any proof of

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Speaker 1: what the goods were beforehand? No? She was just like

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Speaker 1: Like I think you would really hit it off. She

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Speaker 1: must be persistent for you to finally cave. He was,

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Speaker 1: because I didn't cave. She tricked me. Oh what do

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Speaker 1: you mean, yes, we had a big work event the

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Speaker 1: other week. Do you like celebrate the big workwin. So

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Speaker 1: we all went out to the club and after the club,

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Speaker 1: party and he was there and that was by design. Yeah, definitely. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So what did you think when you saw Matt So? Well,

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Speaker 1: he's easy on the eyes, he's great, and we ended

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Speaker 1: up just chatting casual style, um, because you didn't do

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Speaker 1: large bow. Yeah that's nice. But did he know that

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Speaker 1: Because sometimes that's really awkward, but it's also could be

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Speaker 1: say you don't know if you knew? Oh, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: But at one point in our conversation he just drops

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Speaker 1: you actually fail that many times? I know, No, he

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Speaker 1: Somebody needs to be in control. Yeah, your second date

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Speaker 1: update right after this second. How many rom coms have

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Speaker 1: the other day for our listener, Lily. I don't think

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Speaker 1: So we're gonna call this guy and try and kick

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Speaker 1: has to say. Here we go. Hello, Hey, is this

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Speaker 1: Matt speaking? Who's this? My name is jeff You may

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Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. He doesn't drive. You

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Speaker 1: a segment right now called a Second Date Update, and

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Speaker 1: we're trying to help one of our listeners get back

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Speaker 1: other night. Her name's Lily. Oh my god. Oh well

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Speaker 1: really is that a good or that? Oh? We can't tell,

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Speaker 1: you know, I don't um, I don't really want to

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Speaker 1: But this is how the segment works. Like Lily knows

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Speaker 1: it's just, Um, is this a very difficult situation really

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Speaker 1: it's not a joke. Oh no, she wants to be

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Speaker 1: that she would be like, see, I guess there's nobody

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Speaker 1: about it. Yeah, that's going to be a lot of information, Matt.

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