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Speaker 1: Hi, everyone, it's Sophia. Welcome back to this bonus episode

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Speaker 1: of Work in Progress. I'm excited because this is actually

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Speaker 1: part two in our flip the mic scenario where two

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Speaker 1: of my best friends, Jenny and Vanessa put me in

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Speaker 1: the hot seat last month. You've heard of sit down

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Speaker 1: with some Margarita's to talk about who and how often

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Speaker 1: I am star struck by? Oh my god, it's honestly mortifying.

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Speaker 1: How I hope this podcast brings people together and so

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Speaker 1: much more. I won't keep you any longer because these

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Speaker 1: are fun ones. Without further ado, here is part two

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Speaker 1: of chatting with my besties. I have a really good

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Speaker 1: question for you. Oh god, I have a mouth all

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Speaker 1: advice from this Margharita. It's very good. So it's from

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Speaker 1: a very big fan, Sammy. Is actually an incredible question,

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Sammy. It is if you could go back

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Speaker 1: to one moment in your life, knowing what you know now,

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Speaker 1: just to relive it. You can't change it. What moment

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Speaker 1: there's like a moment I experienced in high school and

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Speaker 1: it took me a long time. I mean a long

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Speaker 1: time after high school to realize that there was a

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Speaker 1: group of girls whose acceptance I wanted so much. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I went to a very very small um all girls school,

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Speaker 1: and there was definitely a mean girls vibe. There's three

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Speaker 1: three friends me, no, that means four. This is a

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Speaker 1: strong margharita. There's four of us who are still really

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Speaker 1: close from high school. And like those three girls or

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Speaker 1: girls I really cherish, but in a in the sort

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Speaker 1: of larger group of us in my very small girls school,

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Speaker 1: there was like a definite mean girl vibe and I

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Speaker 1: don't think I really understood what it was. And I

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Speaker 1: I I've done some therapy about like how punished I

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Speaker 1: was by that environment. By some I mean a lot,

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Speaker 1: And I can think of moments when I was really

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Speaker 1: our friendships and our group of friends and like the

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Speaker 1: family of friends we've built, I would really love from

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Speaker 1: having done as much work on myself as an individual

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Speaker 1: all as I have, i'd really like to be a

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Speaker 1: a way. I mean, yeah, like I know that sixteen

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Speaker 1: a way where I could probably also understand that the

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Speaker 1: it would be really hard, but I also think it

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Speaker 1: and observe them because of what I think it would do. Always,

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Speaker 1: I think it would make me. I think it would

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Speaker 1: give me information, more information for the groups of young

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Speaker 1: think it would give me more information in how to

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Speaker 1: Not that it makes me feel better then, but I

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Speaker 1: and it does not excuse it at all, but it

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Speaker 1: You know. I also will because I know that's kind

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Speaker 1: It was honestly one of the best. And then we

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Speaker 1: we almost died that night, gas pump in our throat.

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Speaker 1: would give anything to do that night on and even

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Speaker 1: how happy were it was so good. I mean, we're

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Speaker 1: But if we could go back standing in a crowd

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Speaker 1: was a great question, Vanessa. How are you going to

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Speaker 1: what direction to go? You look nervous. No, I'm not nervous. Um,

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Speaker 1: Mm hmmm. I like this question because so you obviously

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Speaker 1: film other places, and so you've gotten to be home

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Speaker 1: I will say first and foremost, I love being home,

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Speaker 1: Like I want us to live up to our highest ideals.

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Speaker 1: in the landscape the timeline of the world, America is young.

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Speaker 1: Like we're kind of a teenager and all the other

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Speaker 1: two hour lunch. Yeah it's great. But then yeah, same

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Speaker 1: Million Dollar Baby. No spoilers, so sorry, perfectly and it

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Speaker 1: like rapid rapid rapid fire a fire round, dear god,

427
00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:02,879
Speaker 1: let's do a rapid fire good? I mean, because some

428
00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:05,640
Speaker 1: of these are actually really good, quite deep. Okay, wait,

429
00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:08,800
Speaker 1: someone asked about the Tramplaine workout. So, oh my god, Vanessa,

430
00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:11,400
Speaker 1: it's our moment. This is our moment. It just says

431
00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:18,600
Speaker 1: Trampline workout question mark from Amber. Guys, is it really

432
00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:24,920
Speaker 1: you know, come jump with us. Yeah, we know you're

433
00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:28,080
Speaker 1: like touring with Lord, but we miss you. We love Laura.

434
00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:32,640
Speaker 1: The Trampline workout are We have a mutual friend who

435
00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:35,960
Speaker 1: started doing it. We started seeing it and one day

436
00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:38,480
Speaker 1: Sof and I were like, let's see what it's all about.

437
00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:40,240
Speaker 1: We were like, we really need to be in the mix.

438
00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:42,200
Speaker 1: And here's what's fun about it is it's the most

439
00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:47,840
Speaker 1: insane workout, but it's basically a dance class and it's hilarious,

440
00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:52,240
Speaker 1: and they're at least once every class. I'm like, I'm done,

441
00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:54,119
Speaker 1: I can't do it, I can't keep up. My body

442
00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:57,679
Speaker 1: has expired. We're finished. And then something happens where you

443
00:26:57,720 --> 00:27:00,120
Speaker 1: get over the hump. I think this is what runners

444
00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:03,400
Speaker 1: you run runners. I think this is what runners talk about,

445
00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:05,919
Speaker 1: where like you're suffering and you're miserable, and then you

446
00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:09,959
Speaker 1: get over some metaphorical hurdle and then you feel like

447
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:12,880
Speaker 1: you're on fire, like you could go forever. That's kind

448
00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:15,119
Speaker 1: of what happens to me at trampoline class. And I

449
00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:17,880
Speaker 1: don't run unless I'm being chased, let's be clear, So

450
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:22,360
Speaker 1: I will never have a runners high. But this, this

451
00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:24,639
Speaker 1: is like I can't, I can't, I'm done. There's no

452
00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:28,360
Speaker 1: way I could do anymore. Then really like exhilarating when

453
00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:30,399
Speaker 1: everyone clicks in. For those of you who have no

454
00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:32,720
Speaker 1: idea what we're talking about, just look up the nests.

455
00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:36,280
Speaker 1: They're based out of New York and e SS like Vanessa,

456
00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:39,479
Speaker 1: but the exactly and I was since my calling, but

457
00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:43,359
Speaker 1: everyone looks absolutely insane, and I'm not a d answer

458
00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:46,040
Speaker 1: and I'm not coordinated, so I feel insane. I tell

459
00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:49,040
Speaker 1: you what Trayvon said. No, we have a friend, you guys,

460
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:51,959
Speaker 1: Trayvon for you, who's incredible, who just want an oscar

461
00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:55,119
Speaker 1: this year? For two distance strangers. It's an incredible short film.

462
00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:57,919
Speaker 1: Yes I'm using this to sham we'll see plugs movie. No,

463
00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:00,119
Speaker 1: I'm not in it. And that's not the points. Our

464
00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:02,760
Speaker 1: friend and he's brilliant, and he responded to one of

465
00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:05,200
Speaker 1: our stories, Vanessa, and he goes, this looks like women

466
00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:08,800
Speaker 1: training for combat. And I responded and I said, dance

467
00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:11,240
Speaker 1: combat is the only kind of combat I ever want

468
00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:13,600
Speaker 1: to be in. And then I realized, like maybe this

469
00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:19,680
Speaker 1: is the future. It's like synchronized swimming meets dance, a

470
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:23,000
Speaker 1: distraction you don't realize you're working out, and then you're like, great,

471
00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:28,760
Speaker 1: we're done. Okay. Next question, Jenny, what do we each

472
00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:37,399
Speaker 1: miss most about living together? I miss I missed the

473
00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:43,120
Speaker 1: moments of just like peels of laughter because there was

474
00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:47,160
Speaker 1: always like a ridiculous thing around a corner always, and

475
00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:51,040
Speaker 1: that was fun. Also, Caudle puddles on the couch of Vanessa,

476
00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:56,240
Speaker 1: literally being sixty seconds of any show. I feel safe.

477
00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:59,760
Speaker 1: I know it really. But then as she always is

478
00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:02,040
Speaker 1: like the worst kind of like it's funny if you're

479
00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:04,320
Speaker 1: a person who falls asleep, just fall asleep and just

480
00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:07,560
Speaker 1: own it. Vanessa will never own it. And she'll be like,

481
00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:10,880
Speaker 1: I just close my eyes for two seconds. What happened?

482
00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:13,760
Speaker 1: And it's been three hours and a whole movie is done,

483
00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:15,840
Speaker 1: so like, don't be mad at me. She's like, wait,

484
00:29:15,880 --> 00:29:17,760
Speaker 1: don't be mad at me. But I just like blinked

485
00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:20,560
Speaker 1: and I just did he die? And I'm like, all right,

486
00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:25,320
Speaker 1: I gotta go. You never speak again. I think what

487
00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:28,400
Speaker 1: I am is the most is I like being in

488
00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:31,360
Speaker 1: my bed and then you guys coming in and like

489
00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:32,959
Speaker 1: one of you standing on the door, one of you

490
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:35,120
Speaker 1: sitting on the edge of the bed and just like talking,

491
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:37,560
Speaker 1: and then everyone talking about their day or whatever, and

492
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:40,239
Speaker 1: then like postmating breakfast, yeah, and then we're like what

493
00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:42,120
Speaker 1: are we doing? And then we're like okay, And but

494
00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:45,160
Speaker 1: just like the hangs that would happen like that. I

495
00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:48,760
Speaker 1: love that. Yeah, I'm trying to think of like, yeah,

496
00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:53,479
Speaker 1: always just like having built in friends, you know, like

497
00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:55,880
Speaker 1: at any you know, you could either be alone and

498
00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:57,840
Speaker 1: then two seconds later it's like, oh, like so if

499
00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:00,280
Speaker 1: just got home or Vanessa just got home, and like, oh,

500
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:02,960
Speaker 1: this new show's out, let's watch it, let's gap, let's

501
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:05,680
Speaker 1: figure it out. Just always someone around to like to

502
00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:13,160
Speaker 1: laugh and order too much food with and at all. Yeah, yeah, um,

503
00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:16,320
Speaker 1: should we do one more? How do you inspire each other?

504
00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:19,640
Speaker 1: That's not a casual question. Okay, you want to do

505
00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:24,240
Speaker 1: a favorite thing to do together? I mean I guess

506
00:30:24,240 --> 00:30:27,000
Speaker 1: we could do both. Okay, maybe let's answer the second one.

507
00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:30,320
Speaker 1: First piece of advice, I feel like the advice you've

508
00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:33,560
Speaker 1: ever given each other. So it's like I got to

509
00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:37,440
Speaker 1: think about that. These are such intense questions. I mean,

510
00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:40,440
Speaker 1: I feel like we kind of covered. Like favorite thing

511
00:30:40,480 --> 00:30:43,440
Speaker 1: to do together is usually like a cuddle puddle anywhere.

512
00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:50,400
Speaker 1: Take out exists, no like time schedule, just sitting and

513
00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:53,120
Speaker 1: existing and hanging. I will say, Also, one of my

514
00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:56,280
Speaker 1: very favorite things is the rare occasions where we've gotten

515
00:30:56,360 --> 00:31:01,320
Speaker 1: Vanessa to drink coffee. Hates it, which is funny, but

516
00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:06,640
Speaker 1: I really you get so amped. It's great. Coffee doesn't

517
00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:09,600
Speaker 1: affect me at all, and so when when you have

518
00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:14,640
Speaker 1: a coffee, I'm like, wow, this is fun to just walk. Um,

519
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:17,760
Speaker 1: what were the other two I forgot already? Maybe the

520
00:31:18,080 --> 00:31:20,360
Speaker 1: best piece of advice you've given each other, or how

521
00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 1: you inspire each other. I mean, you ladies are always

522
00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:31,480
Speaker 1: inspiring me, just with like we weirdly are interconnected in

523
00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:33,720
Speaker 1: some ways. I think in our work, like there's something

524
00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:35,680
Speaker 1: we can relate to each other in the you know,

525
00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:38,440
Speaker 1: each of our businesses, but we all do different things.

526
00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:41,760
Speaker 1: And it's really nice to have a support system within

527
00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:45,320
Speaker 1: your friend group of people who understand, you know, at

528
00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:48,959
Speaker 1: least a part of what's happening, and kind of you know,

529
00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:51,680
Speaker 1: cheer you on to be better and to go for

530
00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:56,440
Speaker 1: what you want in life and in your career. I'd

531
00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:59,440
Speaker 1: agree with that, just that there's I don't ever feel

532
00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:04,080
Speaker 1: like competition. It's like full support. Everyone's a fan of

533
00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:06,280
Speaker 1: each other, and I think that that's rare, and I

534
00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:09,240
Speaker 1: think that's such a gift in our friend group and

535
00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:11,360
Speaker 1: and with the three of us have just like constantly

536
00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:15,040
Speaker 1: being each other's like biggest fans. Yeah for the people

537
00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:17,600
Speaker 1: that you know, we call to cry with and to

538
00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:22,400
Speaker 1: be like this is really hard. Yeah, totally, Yeah, that's

539
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:26,200
Speaker 1: what I was saying. And it's interesting too, Like you guys,

540
00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:29,640
Speaker 1: I will say, have been so good for me. It's

541
00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:32,120
Speaker 1: really really easy for me to show up for you.

542
00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:34,920
Speaker 1: It's like literally all I ever want to do, Like

543
00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:37,920
Speaker 1: what's happening anywhere else? Who cares? Like what are you doing?

544
00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:42,960
Speaker 1: I'll be there. And you guys have really like five

545
00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:49,680
Speaker 1: forcing me. You've been very unwilling to not show up

546
00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:50,920
Speaker 1: for me in the ways I show up for you

547
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:52,400
Speaker 1: where I'm like, no, I don't need it, and you're like,

548
00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 1: that's not the point. You didn't It's none of us

549
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:58,480
Speaker 1: need it. And you've really like helped me to kind

550
00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:00,960
Speaker 1: of put my guard down. And I I even think about,

551
00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:04,200
Speaker 1: like the example that comes to mind the number of

552
00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:06,400
Speaker 1: times you guys have been like what do you mean

553
00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:08,479
Speaker 1: you just had a movie come out? What do you

554
00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:12,320
Speaker 1: mean you just partorted a company? Like And you'll yell

555
00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:15,680
Speaker 1: at me and be like tell us stuff not just

556
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:17,720
Speaker 1: like life stuff for like let's come over for dinner,

557
00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 1: but like what are you doing? Like why what is

558
00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:24,240
Speaker 1: this tendency you know that I have? And you'll say

559
00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:26,720
Speaker 1: to me that you have to like not talk about this,

560
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:29,960
Speaker 1: and and it really made me confront the fact that

561
00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:32,720
Speaker 1: I love to celebrate other people, but I feel weird

562
00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:39,080
Speaker 1: celebrating myself, and I realized how much that had changed,

563
00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:43,720
Speaker 1: you know, in our friend group, but certainly like in

564
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:46,280
Speaker 1: this house and thanks to you guys, and in this

565
00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:50,960
Speaker 1: house that will always be our house to be clear. Um,

566
00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:55,320
Speaker 1: when I got the link to Good Sam and we

567
00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:57,960
Speaker 1: like had all our friends come over and we watched

568
00:33:58,000 --> 00:34:04,160
Speaker 1: the pilot, and I was like, yeah, but it was

569
00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:06,360
Speaker 1: like so fun and that's just not a thing I

570
00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:09,880
Speaker 1: have ever really done before. And you guys were like, no,

571
00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:12,360
Speaker 1: we're watching it. We're throwing a party, we're ordering food,

572
00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:17,879
Speaker 1: we're having we're inviting everyone, and it was such a

573
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:21,720
Speaker 1: special hang. And I just cherished that I have friends

574
00:34:21,719 --> 00:34:24,520
Speaker 1: in my life who care as much about me owning

575
00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:27,920
Speaker 1: my stuff as I care about them owning their's. I

576
00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:32,160
Speaker 1: think that there's a tendency to be like, no, I'm good,

577
00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:36,080
Speaker 1: and you guys are like, no, that's stupid. I'm like, okay,

578
00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:41,200
Speaker 1: that's definitely inspiring. I think when when you have, you know,

579
00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:43,880
Speaker 1: for anybody at home, like when you have a community

580
00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:47,239
Speaker 1: that not only that you love, but that loves you,

581
00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:52,279
Speaker 1: and that encourages you to to let that be like

582
00:34:52,520 --> 00:34:57,839
Speaker 1: a three sixty experience, that's pretty special. I don't agree.

583
00:34:57,840 --> 00:34:59,880
Speaker 1: I also just like very quickly want input. I'm just

584
00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:04,080
Speaker 1: having just a throwback to all of us dating just

585
00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:07,120
Speaker 1: like the cheers, like not just sharing like this like

586
00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:10,319
Speaker 1: when did I But like, i mean, let's be very clear,

587
00:35:10,320 --> 00:35:12,200
Speaker 1: but that's not I've never dated in our lives, but

588
00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:15,319
Speaker 1: like the people that we are now deeply in we

589
00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:17,799
Speaker 1: went on some days, yeah, like I have stories. Yeah,

590
00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:19,839
Speaker 1: I'm sure we don't need to go there, but like

591
00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:23,880
Speaker 1: I'm talking about like over the PEP talks, but also

592
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:27,680
Speaker 1: like deep therapeutic sessions of like you can do this

593
00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:31,120
Speaker 1: because I mean, I'm I'm guessing now this is like

594
00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:33,920
Speaker 1: a through line through most people in the world, but

595
00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:37,680
Speaker 1: like we're all pretty dysfunctional in that space and hold

596
00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:41,920
Speaker 1: a lot of weird history and so definitely for all

597
00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:43,920
Speaker 1: I just like have moments of like seeing each of

598
00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:47,440
Speaker 1: us in different positions of like the PEP talks, that

599
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:50,479
Speaker 1: you can do this and like you know you've got this.

600
00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:54,080
Speaker 1: Also just being so excited for each other no matter

601
00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:56,960
Speaker 1: what it is, you know. I think that's the biggest

602
00:35:57,040 --> 00:36:02,320
Speaker 1: thing too. I think that like being able to support

603
00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:07,759
Speaker 1: each other through opening up and being vulnerable, you know,

604
00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:11,280
Speaker 1: not only as friends, but in that most risky sort

605
00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:17,640
Speaker 1: of vertical of of a romantic relationship, but also you know,

606
00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:22,799
Speaker 1: being really clear about what people deserve. Like what an

607
00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:26,000
Speaker 1: amazing thing when your friends say no, you deserve better,

608
00:36:26,760 --> 00:36:29,320
Speaker 1: or your friends look at you and say, I'm so

609
00:36:29,960 --> 00:36:32,080
Speaker 1: happy you're with a person who treats you this way.

610
00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:35,520
Speaker 1: You know, those can be some of the most powerful

611
00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:42,200
Speaker 1: mirroring experiences. And it's so fun. You know, obviously I'm

612
00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:45,239
Speaker 1: speaking on my own behalf, but it's fun for me,

613
00:36:45,600 --> 00:36:48,440
Speaker 1: and it's fun for me and Grant to be like,

614
00:36:48,480 --> 00:36:49,880
Speaker 1: oh my god, how fun is it going to be

615
00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:53,200
Speaker 1: to be eighty with like Ricard and Vanessa and Jenny

616
00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:56,400
Speaker 1: and Jess, Like, oh, how fun? Like we think about

617
00:36:56,440 --> 00:36:58,560
Speaker 1: like the little trips the six of us go on,

618
00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:01,439
Speaker 1: and we're just like this is cool, Like we know

619
00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:03,399
Speaker 1: we know what our life is going to be our

620
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:07,759
Speaker 1: favorite humans, and that how like how lucky we are

621
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:10,520
Speaker 1: to win the lottery of having our favorite friends and

622
00:37:10,560 --> 00:37:16,800
Speaker 1: then to do it as units is insane Fine country country.

623
00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:23,799
Speaker 1: It's beyond special. Yeah, for sure, I'm so thankful for

624
00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:26,839
Speaker 1: like what this little family of the three of us

625
00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:29,320
Speaker 1: has been. You know, it's been such a foundation and

626
00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:31,120
Speaker 1: a rock I think for all of us, you know,

627
00:37:31,239 --> 00:37:34,520
Speaker 1: through so many different things in life, and to get

628
00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:37,720
Speaker 1: to see where we've all come from, where we started,

629
00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:41,200
Speaker 1: and I'm like, I'm really proud of all of the guys.

630
00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:45,719
Speaker 1: We really made it through. Yeah, there's been some u

631
00:37:46,600 --> 00:37:50,960
Speaker 1: dark time, so questionable moments, but here we are. It's

632
00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:56,360
Speaker 1: also nice, I think when you realize everybody has those, Yeah,

633
00:37:57,400 --> 00:38:00,279
Speaker 1: but we we got to like go through it to other.

634
00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:03,520
Speaker 1: Being a rock climbing team. You're like, I got you.

635
00:38:04,239 --> 00:38:07,520
Speaker 1: Don't step on that, don't all right, It's okay. Now

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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna I'm gonna pull you up. I got you, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I got you vice versa and vice versa and vice versa. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I love you, We love you. Yeah, I'm glad we

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Speaker 1: got some Thanks for having us back on just like this,

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Speaker 1: for trusting us to take over your show from here

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Speaker 1: on out. I'm so sorry to see your last one,

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Speaker 1: you know what. It's been great to leave it in

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Speaker 1: your hands. And I can't wait to see what happens

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Speaker 1: when you guys. I can't wait. Beyonce, you heard it here,

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Speaker 1: you heard it here. We'll see you soon. I love

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Speaker 1: how nervous I was you were really nervous. All it

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Speaker 1: takes a little tequila and you're ready to go. Jenny

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Speaker 1: was not nervous at all, and I was like, do

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Speaker 1: we have do we know what we're doing? Like, but

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Speaker 1: also you were nervous, and then the minute we hit

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Speaker 1: record and pick up your mike and you're like, hello,

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Speaker 1: let's talk, welcome science, swear what's going on? But we

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Speaker 1: have for you tonight is especially you're so good and

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Speaker 1: natural and it's amazing to watch. Honestly that is like,

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Speaker 1: obviously why you do what you do. I was gonna say,

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Speaker 1: you should, you should do this, Maybe maybe we'll have

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Speaker 1: you back on the show. So if you're pretty good

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Speaker 1: at this, but like watching you like talk to people,

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Speaker 1: you're like, it's it's insane. That is not there is

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Speaker 1: any person in my life that I'd like trust to

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Speaker 1: be like okay, and you're going to go speak to

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Speaker 1: this person, it would be I shut down completely and

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Speaker 1: seen you gotta go. Um, Yeah, we've come to an end.

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Speaker 1: We did it. Thank you to the audience for your

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Speaker 1: great questions. Sammy shout out forever. Yeah, and you know,

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Speaker 1: any of the people who we fan girled on this episode,

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Speaker 1: you're welcome anytime, Yes, anytime when Vanessa and I take over.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. Oh wow, I've if you had as much

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Speaker 1: fun listening as we did making this episode For you guys,

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Speaker 1: it's a joy to be able to laugh with my gals.

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