1 00:00:16,120 --> 00:00:21,119 Speaker 1: Hey, hey, hey, we're back. 2 00:00:21,320 --> 00:00:23,639 Speaker 2: We're black, We're. 3 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:32,800 Speaker 1: Ambition, ambition, ambition, amision. I'm so excited that baby's back 4 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:38,880 Speaker 1: to the studio, back, she's in the stew. 5 00:00:39,320 --> 00:00:43,159 Speaker 3: I'm in this, in this, I survive. I am a 6 00:00:43,200 --> 00:00:45,560 Speaker 3: survivor of the triple demic. I think I need like 7 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:49,880 Speaker 3: a bingo card for the viruses. I know I sound crappy, 8 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:51,720 Speaker 3: but this is the best I have felt in an 9 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:57,080 Speaker 3: over a month. Yeah, the flu was first, blue knocked 10 00:00:57,080 --> 00:00:59,480 Speaker 3: me down. Got my flu shot, and I'm pro vaccination, 11 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:01,639 Speaker 3: but what the hell? Who made the flu shot this year? 12 00:01:01,720 --> 00:01:04,319 Speaker 3: Because it was not giving what it needed to give 13 00:01:04,400 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 3: to my immune system? Okay, yeah, I got the flu. 14 00:01:07,040 --> 00:01:09,800 Speaker 3: Then Rio got the flu. Somehow my husband, who I 15 00:01:09,880 --> 00:01:12,120 Speaker 3: was badgering to get his flu shot, didn't get the 16 00:01:12,120 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 3: flu shot. He did not get the flu, so he 17 00:01:15,680 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 3: was walking around all healthy and annoying but anyway, and 18 00:01:19,920 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 3: then flew to bronchitis to er trip to make sure 19 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:26,360 Speaker 3: I wasn't gonna like lose my lungs. It was. It's 20 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:28,959 Speaker 3: been a it's been a it's been a rocky few weeks. 21 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:33,520 Speaker 3: But I'm so so grateful for my health and Rio's 22 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 3: back in daycare today. Homeboy was not happy to go 23 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:41,640 Speaker 3: back because he's been attached to my hip for eleven days. 24 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 3: But yeah, it's rough out there, but I'm so happy 25 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:46,120 Speaker 3: to be back to How are you? 26 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:48,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm good, I'm good. I'm so happy you're back. 27 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:50,720 Speaker 1: I was like, I missed Mantra, you miss Kevin. 28 00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 3: I know, I can't believe I didn't know that was good. 29 00:01:53,760 --> 00:01:55,520 Speaker 3: I mean, it wouldn't have mattered anyway because I couldn't 30 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 3: have talked. But yeah, I didn't know it was gonna 31 00:01:57,800 --> 00:01:58,480 Speaker 3: be so soon. 32 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:00,080 Speaker 2: But he didn't know. 33 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 3: We wanted him. 34 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 1: More everything he wanted. And Kevin was literally awesome. Miss Tina, 35 00:02:05,800 --> 00:02:10,480 Speaker 1: his his wife was so beautiful. She came just for 36 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 1: a second just to say, hey, she's super introverted, so 37 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 1: she didn't want to, but like they're just like this 38 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 1: amazing couple of I don't know when that's gonna air. 39 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:18,920 Speaker 1: We don't know when, Like you know, it might have 40 00:02:18,960 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 1: aired already, No it did. Yeah, I forget what it's 41 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:25,359 Speaker 1: called increased the increased decrease or something, but it's that 42 00:02:25,400 --> 00:02:27,880 Speaker 1: listener Kevin that we read his letter about his wife. 43 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 2: We had him in the studio. He was just like 44 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:31,040 Speaker 2: such a great. 45 00:02:30,840 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 1: Sport, funny, hilarious. He was like, y'all grabbed me from 46 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:36,560 Speaker 1: philth and he was like, and I did write the 47 00:02:36,560 --> 00:02:40,240 Speaker 1: second letter Tina. Remember we were like the secondary my wife. 48 00:02:40,280 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 1: Tina was so beautiful, like Tina's like say it right, 49 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 1: He's a knife to his back. 50 00:02:47,720 --> 00:02:51,400 Speaker 2: So much he was he was honestly super delightful. But 51 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 2: you were missed. 52 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 3: I was like, may day, yeah, man, talk about I 53 00:02:57,040 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 3: was just telling the last listener, the last b a 54 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 3: q A, like, don't compare your to where you think 55 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:03,440 Speaker 3: you ought to be right now. It has been so 56 00:03:03,720 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 3: tough because like, for a minute, you just forget. It's 57 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:09,800 Speaker 3: like you're floating through this like misery stew and you 58 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:13,040 Speaker 3: just forget. Who even am I anymore? Like do I 59 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 3: make money? Am I a business person? Am I just 60 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 3: a human Kleenex? Just disposal? Like you know, just chasing 61 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:23,040 Speaker 3: around a snotty child and feeling horrible myself. It's really 62 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:26,600 Speaker 3: hard when you get knocked down like that. But I 63 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:29,800 Speaker 3: did do some things that I'm proud of. I really 64 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:33,160 Speaker 3: worked on, like changing my own intrusive thought, you know, 65 00:03:33,240 --> 00:03:36,800 Speaker 3: my narrative, Like it's okay to just rest, you don't 66 00:03:36,840 --> 00:03:39,320 Speaker 3: have to turn your sick leave into read a bunch 67 00:03:39,360 --> 00:03:41,520 Speaker 3: of books and ketch up on podcasts and like, huh, 68 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:44,440 Speaker 3: you know so, Michelle Obama, I'll get to your book 69 00:03:44,440 --> 00:03:47,360 Speaker 3: in the new year, probably, even though I bought it, 70 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:51,720 Speaker 3: like and just just heal and try, I didn't even 71 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 3: put up This is a big thing for me. How 72 00:03:54,040 --> 00:03:57,200 Speaker 3: many like all this Christmas magic, all the holiday magic, 73 00:03:57,760 --> 00:03:59,640 Speaker 3: how much of that burden is on the shoulders of 74 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:02,720 Speaker 3: like you know, wanted to like keep it alive. And 75 00:04:02,840 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 3: usually that's me. I'm the one putting lights up on 76 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:07,440 Speaker 3: the roof and the trees and all that. And this 77 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 3: year it's we're already we're gonna be gone to Atlanta 78 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:13,240 Speaker 3: next week. And I had to give up. I made 79 00:04:13,320 --> 00:04:18,520 Speaker 3: peace with not putting up Christmas decorations outside. I did 80 00:04:18,640 --> 00:04:21,680 Speaker 3: drag my sick child and my sick self to the 81 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:24,880 Speaker 3: Christmas tree farm just for five minutes to get a tree. 82 00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:30,080 Speaker 3: It stood undecorated for like a week. But yeah, just 83 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:32,359 Speaker 3: trying to just like, Okay, Christmas does not look like 84 00:04:32,400 --> 00:04:35,520 Speaker 3: how I think it ought to look. But thank god 85 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:39,560 Speaker 3: we're healthy again. It's really scary when you have your 86 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:42,120 Speaker 3: son and he's so little and he's so sick and 87 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:46,000 Speaker 3: it could have been a lot worse. So but yeah, 88 00:04:46,080 --> 00:04:49,720 Speaker 3: just trying to be grace great, give myself grace. I'm 89 00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:54,200 Speaker 3: doing my last Negotiation masterclass of twenty twenty two this 90 00:04:54,279 --> 00:04:57,599 Speaker 3: week on Thursday. It was supposed to be tomorrow, but 91 00:04:57,720 --> 00:05:01,440 Speaker 3: I pushed my own deadline. See yeah, I was like, 92 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 3: I can fix this, so I hopefully get more of 93 00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 3: my voice back. So I hope to see somebody all 94 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:11,799 Speaker 3: there for my last Negotiation masterclass. And yeah, just trying 95 00:05:11,839 --> 00:05:16,359 Speaker 3: to just stay healthy and stay calm and not be 96 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:18,159 Speaker 3: so hard on myself towards the end of the year. 97 00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:21,840 Speaker 2: Honestly, this end of the year, I have been so. 98 00:05:24,240 --> 00:05:26,320 Speaker 1: Like I don't have the motivation to do anything except 99 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:28,920 Speaker 1: for like the podcast and like the occasional. Luckily, I 100 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 1: don't have anything planned, you know, next year. I'm definitely 101 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 1: just I have an X all on December, but because 102 00:05:35,120 --> 00:05:37,159 Speaker 1: I just you know, it's the end of the year, 103 00:05:37,240 --> 00:05:39,040 Speaker 1: and I'm like, yeah, Like even today, I was supposed 104 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:40,640 Speaker 1: to do the Today Show in like a couple of weeks. 105 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:42,359 Speaker 1: They called to it like, oh, we don't have we 106 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:44,360 Speaker 1: don't have space for the segment. I was like, yay, 107 00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:48,160 Speaker 1: I mean oh, just because I'm just upseying, you know. 108 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:51,920 Speaker 2: I just I just feel just kind of dry. 109 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:54,599 Speaker 1: I haven't bought any Christmas presents yet, which is like 110 00:05:54,760 --> 00:05:55,920 Speaker 1: I don't know when they're gonna arrive. 111 00:05:56,440 --> 00:05:58,120 Speaker 2: I just, you know, it's crazy. 112 00:05:58,120 --> 00:05:59,720 Speaker 1: The other day, like I was walking and I was 113 00:05:59,720 --> 00:06:02,440 Speaker 1: as wrong with you? You know, you're kind of dragged. 114 00:06:02,520 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 1: I'm like, Tiffany, great, damn it. Sometimes we forget that 115 00:06:05,839 --> 00:06:08,599 Speaker 1: like you're you're we're human, you know, And I'm like, 116 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:10,479 Speaker 1: it's the time of year. Jarrelle loved this time of year, 117 00:06:11,040 --> 00:06:15,640 Speaker 1: and you know, and it just doesn't feel like Christmas. 118 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 1: And I just had to because I literally had to. 119 00:06:17,480 --> 00:06:20,000 Speaker 1: I literally said to myself, what happened with you? Nothing's wrong, 120 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:21,960 Speaker 1: nothing's happened. And I'm like, are you are we? 121 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 3: Are you kidding? You know? 122 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:26,679 Speaker 1: And it's like this is our Like although he passed 123 00:06:26,680 --> 00:06:31,080 Speaker 1: away last November, that December, it was so crazy it 124 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:33,640 Speaker 1: I remember Lissa had COVID. She was like upstairs in 125 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:35,400 Speaker 1: her room, she couldn't come out. Nobody was coming over 126 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:38,599 Speaker 1: for Christmas. So it didn't really feel like Christmas anyway. 127 00:06:38,600 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 1: So it didn't the him not being here that it 128 00:06:42,720 --> 00:06:45,160 Speaker 1: wasn't the biggest part of Christmas because it was literally 129 00:06:45,240 --> 00:06:48,039 Speaker 1: like no one was out for Christmas. My parents, like 130 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 1: no one went to visit anyone, and literally just Alyssa 131 00:06:50,880 --> 00:06:51,680 Speaker 1: was just in her room. 132 00:06:51,560 --> 00:06:52,760 Speaker 2: And I just put food by the door. 133 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:55,839 Speaker 1: So it was already like this is weird in general, 134 00:06:56,200 --> 00:06:58,720 Speaker 1: but this Christmas it's like kind of quote unquote normal. 135 00:06:59,080 --> 00:07:00,760 Speaker 1: And then I guess it's just kind of hit me. 136 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:04,120 Speaker 1: Like I did a toy drive for him along with 137 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:04,599 Speaker 1: his family. 138 00:07:04,680 --> 00:07:06,520 Speaker 3: We raised like we. 139 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:08,720 Speaker 1: Almost people b are almost five thousand dollars worth of toys, 140 00:07:08,720 --> 00:07:11,880 Speaker 1: which is awesome, and so we did it with connecting 141 00:07:11,880 --> 00:07:16,280 Speaker 1: connection with me. Way, yeah, it's been awesome, But I 142 00:07:16,440 --> 00:07:19,320 Speaker 1: just I don't know, I'm in this like weird space 143 00:07:20,320 --> 00:07:24,120 Speaker 1: where like I was talking like I went to this 144 00:07:24,320 --> 00:07:25,920 Speaker 1: and we have to go the next year when you're 145 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:29,120 Speaker 1: with so a girlfriend in min Hand Naime is Renee 146 00:07:29,120 --> 00:07:33,400 Speaker 1: blew It. She has this every year in New York. 147 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:37,400 Speaker 1: She has this annual Black Woman Like I don't know, 148 00:07:37,560 --> 00:07:40,520 Speaker 1: I guess you would like a not a festival, but 149 00:07:40,600 --> 00:07:43,480 Speaker 1: like basically all the entrepreneurs are black women, and you 150 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:45,760 Speaker 1: can go and purchase gifts. So it's maybe like fifty 151 00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:49,960 Speaker 1: or sixty black women, and they have everything from licens. Yes, 152 00:07:50,080 --> 00:07:52,440 Speaker 1: black black woman own business and so everything from lip 153 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:56,360 Speaker 1: glosses to like press on nails, to T shirts to 154 00:07:56,480 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 1: jewelry to It was honestly, Mandy incredible because it was 155 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 1: just like and then like the whole space was filled 156 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:05,480 Speaker 1: with black women supporting black women. You know, of course 157 00:08:05,520 --> 00:08:07,800 Speaker 1: anyone was allowed, but it was like ninety percent of 158 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:08,520 Speaker 1: black women. 159 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:09,360 Speaker 3: Ah. 160 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:10,680 Speaker 1: Yes. It was like I think she only had it 161 00:08:10,680 --> 00:08:12,040 Speaker 1: one day and I'm like, girl, you need to do 162 00:08:12,080 --> 00:08:14,560 Speaker 1: this more often. Because it was when I say incredible, 163 00:08:14,880 --> 00:08:16,840 Speaker 1: because you know, like women we've been doing the most. 164 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:20,440 Speaker 1: Meaning like everyone was just excellent, you know, like they 165 00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:23,600 Speaker 1: had this amazing brand stories and just like I mean, 166 00:08:23,640 --> 00:08:25,280 Speaker 1: and you know, I'm not even a big shopper. I 167 00:08:25,360 --> 00:08:27,320 Speaker 1: want to say I patronized like seventy five percent. I 168 00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:28,600 Speaker 1: was like, I'll take one of those. I don't even 169 00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:29,280 Speaker 1: I don't. 170 00:08:29,120 --> 00:08:29,960 Speaker 2: Even wear wait speeds. 171 00:08:29,960 --> 00:08:32,120 Speaker 1: I'm wearing waste speeds right now because I'm just like 172 00:08:32,160 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 1: I don't box wispeds. I'm like, I'll take wte speeds. 173 00:08:34,360 --> 00:08:36,160 Speaker 1: I'll take Look, I don't even wear press on there. 174 00:08:36,280 --> 00:08:39,520 Speaker 1: I bought press up there. It was just like this 175 00:08:39,720 --> 00:08:43,400 Speaker 1: beautiful because there is the statistic that says that the 176 00:08:43,480 --> 00:08:47,160 Speaker 1: black dollar doesn't make like it leaves the black hand 177 00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:49,080 Speaker 1: as soon as it comes in, and then like I 178 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:52,079 Speaker 1: think it's like other communities, it's like it will touch 179 00:08:52,160 --> 00:08:54,840 Speaker 1: like five hands before it loves the community ten hands, 180 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:56,960 Speaker 1: but the black dollar doesn't even touch one hand before 181 00:08:56,960 --> 00:08:59,840 Speaker 1: it loses the community. And so, like, you know, that 182 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:03,040 Speaker 1: just felt like that's not true, you know what I mean. 183 00:09:03,160 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 1: And so to me, that felt, you know, like awesome 184 00:09:06,800 --> 00:09:08,839 Speaker 1: and amazing. And I got to also see one of 185 00:09:08,920 --> 00:09:12,080 Speaker 1: my mentors, Bevy Smith, who pulled me to the side 186 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:15,079 Speaker 1: and was like, Tiffany, you are in the season of allowing. 187 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:18,360 Speaker 1: She's like, you know, you have done so much work 188 00:09:18,400 --> 00:09:20,840 Speaker 1: for so long that you're in a space where I 189 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:23,800 Speaker 1: want you to just allow things to come into your space. 190 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:27,600 Speaker 1: If something happens, great, If it doesn't happen, okay, you 191 00:09:27,640 --> 00:09:29,800 Speaker 1: are not to chase, You're not to run after. That's 192 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:31,360 Speaker 1: not the season that you're in. And you know that's 193 00:09:31,400 --> 00:09:33,679 Speaker 1: already the feeling I've been getting anyway, and so I've 194 00:09:33,720 --> 00:09:36,640 Speaker 1: just been really like blue sighing and like like cranking 195 00:09:36,679 --> 00:09:40,760 Speaker 1: down and just allowing opportunities to come or not and 196 00:09:40,800 --> 00:09:41,959 Speaker 1: being okay either way. 197 00:09:42,400 --> 00:09:44,000 Speaker 2: And so yeah, it's. 198 00:09:43,800 --> 00:09:49,040 Speaker 1: Just like just this different season for myself financially, personally, professionally, 199 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:51,640 Speaker 1: and I'm just like you know, navigating and seeing my 200 00:09:51,640 --> 00:09:54,400 Speaker 1: way through. But I am excited because January first, your 201 00:09:54,440 --> 00:09:58,320 Speaker 1: girl will be in Kenya. I've never been before. Yes, 202 00:09:58,440 --> 00:10:00,520 Speaker 1: I'm going to Kenya for like a week speaking at 203 00:10:00,559 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 1: this Safe Journey retreat that one of my play cousins 204 00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:07,760 Speaker 1: does every year. Her name is Ejama Indi Yama and 205 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:11,679 Speaker 1: Ebo means safe journey and so yeah, so she does 206 00:10:11,720 --> 00:10:13,560 Speaker 1: it every year and she had asked me in twenty 207 00:10:13,679 --> 00:10:15,760 Speaker 1: nineteen because but I could I was doing IVF and 208 00:10:15,800 --> 00:10:18,320 Speaker 1: I couldn't be away. So I saw she was doing 209 00:10:18,320 --> 00:10:19,719 Speaker 1: it again this year and I was like, oh, w 210 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:22,360 Speaker 1: are you still looking for speakers and she said yeah. 211 00:10:22,360 --> 00:10:23,920 Speaker 1: I was like, oh I still like to speak AKA 212 00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:30,040 Speaker 1: free Vacation. Yeah, I'm excited to bring my sister Lisa. 213 00:10:30,080 --> 00:10:35,120 Speaker 1: We've never traveled together before, like well as adults, and 214 00:10:35,160 --> 00:10:40,760 Speaker 1: so yeah, this is the baby right, yes, yes, it 215 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:42,440 Speaker 1: was just her birthday and I saw just how much 216 00:10:42,480 --> 00:10:46,320 Speaker 1: a baby she was. I was like, I just you know, 217 00:10:46,520 --> 00:10:47,920 Speaker 1: those of you who grew up the youngest of a 218 00:10:47,920 --> 00:10:52,360 Speaker 1: big family. You don't even understand the heavy lifting us 219 00:10:52,400 --> 00:10:54,120 Speaker 1: grown folks have to do for y'all babies. 220 00:10:54,280 --> 00:10:55,880 Speaker 3: If it's a baby boy, it's even worse. 221 00:10:56,400 --> 00:10:58,360 Speaker 1: I mean, I can only imagine, especially if it's girls 222 00:10:58,400 --> 00:10:58,960 Speaker 1: ahead of the boy. 223 00:10:59,080 --> 00:11:04,839 Speaker 3: I know, Oh my family, Okay, hi baby brother. Well 224 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:07,960 Speaker 3: I'm glad. I mean Jesus, Like, if there's ever a 225 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:11,200 Speaker 3: time to feel weird and like to just be with 226 00:11:11,240 --> 00:11:13,120 Speaker 3: that grief and checking with yourself, I feel like this 227 00:11:13,160 --> 00:11:16,800 Speaker 3: is the time, in this moment for you. What's helpful 228 00:11:16,920 --> 00:11:19,200 Speaker 3: because I feel like as a friend, you know, of 229 00:11:19,240 --> 00:11:21,320 Speaker 3: course I'm always thinking about you and how you're feeling, 230 00:11:22,559 --> 00:11:23,959 Speaker 3: but what do you and you and I think it's 231 00:11:23,960 --> 00:11:25,719 Speaker 3: also a difficult time for a lot of people during 232 00:11:25,760 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 3: the holidays for whatever reason, grieving. I'm getting emotional. I'll 233 00:11:30,400 --> 00:11:32,120 Speaker 3: tell you, guys why. It's just I can't control it 234 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:36,640 Speaker 3: anymore then. Anyway, like to check in with people want 235 00:11:36,760 --> 00:11:38,160 Speaker 3: I want to say, this is the time of year 236 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:39,640 Speaker 3: to check in with your loved ones and make sure 237 00:11:39,679 --> 00:11:42,240 Speaker 3: that people you haven't heard from know that they're loved, 238 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:45,800 Speaker 3: because I mean, the mental health suicide rates, it all 239 00:11:45,840 --> 00:11:48,760 Speaker 3: goes up this time of year. But yeah, I'm just 240 00:11:49,120 --> 00:11:53,480 Speaker 3: wondering from your perspective, what is helpful and what feels 241 00:11:53,480 --> 00:11:56,040 Speaker 3: good to you now, well what feels. 242 00:11:55,720 --> 00:11:57,959 Speaker 1: Good to me? Honestly, before, you know, when after it 243 00:11:57,960 --> 00:12:00,040 Speaker 1: first happened, I didn't want to talk about it. I 244 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:02,080 Speaker 1: don't talk about I don't talk, don't don't bring him by. 245 00:12:02,080 --> 00:12:03,640 Speaker 2: I don't want to. You know, it was just too much. 246 00:12:04,240 --> 00:12:07,520 Speaker 1: And now I've entered into a space where not that 247 00:12:07,520 --> 00:12:09,559 Speaker 1: I want to talk about it with strangers and whole foods, 248 00:12:09,640 --> 00:12:10,880 Speaker 1: you know, like I still don't want. 249 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:12,439 Speaker 2: To do that, but I appreciate you. 250 00:12:13,440 --> 00:12:17,120 Speaker 1: But I do love the stories I get to tell 251 00:12:17,160 --> 00:12:19,880 Speaker 1: with friends and people who knew him, you know, Like 252 00:12:19,960 --> 00:12:23,920 Speaker 1: how like right about now, you know, Jerobi opening the 253 00:12:23,960 --> 00:12:27,800 Speaker 1: door like oh you say the podcast like or a 254 00:12:27,880 --> 00:12:30,280 Speaker 1: door of creek, Like are you like, are you guys 255 00:12:30,280 --> 00:12:31,400 Speaker 1: gonna get that door fixed? 256 00:12:32,280 --> 00:12:33,079 Speaker 2: You want a sandwich? 257 00:12:33,160 --> 00:12:35,600 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm taping the podcast like I do every 258 00:12:35,679 --> 00:12:38,760 Speaker 1: single time at the sum day, and so like that 259 00:12:39,160 --> 00:12:41,840 Speaker 1: like brings joy. Like even Alisa and I were hanging 260 00:12:41,880 --> 00:12:43,960 Speaker 1: out the other day taping Tiktoks and we were just 261 00:12:44,000 --> 00:12:47,720 Speaker 1: talking about like, you know, just like reminiscing about you know, 262 00:12:47,800 --> 00:12:50,680 Speaker 1: her father and and just like you know, fun things 263 00:12:50,720 --> 00:12:53,760 Speaker 1: and like just like just like you know, just just 264 00:12:53,840 --> 00:12:57,880 Speaker 1: stories and so that I've been enjoying. And I would say, 265 00:12:58,000 --> 00:13:01,720 Speaker 1: what I'm really enjoying more than anything is that like 266 00:13:01,760 --> 00:13:03,640 Speaker 1: two years ago, I was either working or home. 267 00:13:03,760 --> 00:13:06,120 Speaker 2: That was it. I really didn't make time for anything else. 268 00:13:06,120 --> 00:13:08,240 Speaker 1: I mean my family, yes, but like but now I 269 00:13:08,320 --> 00:13:13,480 Speaker 1: find myself making time for friendships beyond like like my 270 00:13:13,559 --> 00:13:14,199 Speaker 1: three core. 271 00:13:14,080 --> 00:13:15,000 Speaker 2: Friends, you know what I mean. 272 00:13:15,280 --> 00:13:17,719 Speaker 1: Like the last night, a friend of mine, her name 273 00:13:17,760 --> 00:13:19,640 Speaker 1: is Tiffany as Well, was like, Oh, I'm gonna be 274 00:13:19,640 --> 00:13:21,559 Speaker 1: in the city. You know, you want to come for dinner. 275 00:13:21,640 --> 00:13:24,839 Speaker 1: And old Tiffy would have been like the city yet, 276 00:13:24,920 --> 00:13:27,520 Speaker 1: not girl, Let's just have a phone call. But I 277 00:13:27,600 --> 00:13:30,960 Speaker 1: went and it was so great, you know, to like 278 00:13:31,040 --> 00:13:34,600 Speaker 1: be out. And then Ross Mac from the Netflix special, 279 00:13:34,600 --> 00:13:37,720 Speaker 1: the young black man who was a leading football player. 280 00:13:38,080 --> 00:13:40,200 Speaker 1: Ross was like, he like message because we got cool, 281 00:13:40,240 --> 00:13:42,000 Speaker 1: you know. After the Netflix special he messaged me. He 282 00:13:42,040 --> 00:13:44,720 Speaker 1: was like, Oh, I'm in town and being in the 283 00:13:44,760 --> 00:13:47,400 Speaker 1: city to do something. I would love to have lunch 284 00:13:47,679 --> 00:13:50,560 Speaker 1: And I said okay, And it was so awesome. He's 285 00:13:50,600 --> 00:13:53,400 Speaker 1: like the nicest guy him. His wife got married in 286 00:13:53,440 --> 00:13:55,920 Speaker 1: twenty twenty. Although they've been like college sweethearts, I think 287 00:13:55,920 --> 00:13:57,840 Speaker 1: he's like no high school sweethearts. And they had two 288 00:13:57,960 --> 00:14:00,079 Speaker 1: kids in like the last two years, so you know, 289 00:14:00,160 --> 00:14:02,560 Speaker 1: he's just running around. I was like, oh, so you 290 00:14:02,600 --> 00:14:04,400 Speaker 1: came to the city and left your poor wife with 291 00:14:04,480 --> 00:14:08,679 Speaker 1: them babies at home, and so but it was such 292 00:14:08,679 --> 00:14:10,839 Speaker 1: a nice lunchcause he was just such a nice guy, 293 00:14:11,679 --> 00:14:16,040 Speaker 1: like such a nice guy, and so I just what 294 00:14:16,240 --> 00:14:22,520 Speaker 1: I crave now more than anything is connectedness, you know, Yes, 295 00:14:22,800 --> 00:14:25,000 Speaker 1: like he had this lunch with people that I care 296 00:14:25,040 --> 00:14:27,600 Speaker 1: about or that like I'm cool with, or just just 297 00:14:27,680 --> 00:14:32,840 Speaker 1: connecting because life really is so short and you know, 298 00:14:32,960 --> 00:14:36,040 Speaker 1: and so I've just found myself like wanting to add 299 00:14:36,080 --> 00:14:39,800 Speaker 1: to like the love that's in the air, you know 300 00:14:39,840 --> 00:14:42,880 Speaker 1: what I mean, and thought indeed and action. So even 301 00:14:42,880 --> 00:14:45,200 Speaker 1: if I don't call someone or if someone comes up 302 00:14:45,240 --> 00:14:48,600 Speaker 1: and thought, like I had this really terrible dream about 303 00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:51,120 Speaker 1: my high school best friend where she was like really 304 00:14:51,160 --> 00:14:53,520 Speaker 1: sick and I got scared, and so normally I'd be like, 305 00:14:53,520 --> 00:14:56,200 Speaker 1: she's fine, but I was like, no text her. So 306 00:14:56,280 --> 00:14:57,920 Speaker 1: I text her. I say, hey, Manica, you know we 307 00:14:57,920 --> 00:14:59,200 Speaker 1: text every once in a while, you know. But I 308 00:14:59,200 --> 00:15:01,360 Speaker 1: was like, just you know, I had this terrible dream. 309 00:15:01,760 --> 00:15:04,600 Speaker 1: Are you okay? Do you need anything? And she was like, yeah, 310 00:15:04,640 --> 00:15:06,680 Speaker 1: I'm fine, and I was just like, you know, I 311 00:15:06,760 --> 00:15:08,080 Speaker 1: just I just had this dream, so I just wanted 312 00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:09,400 Speaker 1: to reach out. She's like, well, thank you so much 313 00:15:09,400 --> 00:15:11,760 Speaker 1: for checking in, but yeah, no, I'm all good, but 314 00:15:11,800 --> 00:15:14,520 Speaker 1: how are you? You know? And so like I'm trying 315 00:15:14,560 --> 00:15:18,520 Speaker 1: to lean into when someone comes to mind a text, 316 00:15:18,600 --> 00:15:20,800 Speaker 1: a call or do you want to have lunch? And 317 00:15:20,800 --> 00:15:25,520 Speaker 1: so I'm really enjoying this stage where I am learning 318 00:15:25,720 --> 00:15:30,120 Speaker 1: to be Tiffany and then Budgetista has to fit around 319 00:15:30,160 --> 00:15:32,840 Speaker 1: Tiffany versus the opposite how I was for so many years, 320 00:15:32,880 --> 00:15:35,200 Speaker 1: which was I was the budgetista and Tiffany had to 321 00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:38,840 Speaker 1: fit around the Budgetista and that's not so anymore. So yeah, 322 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:40,720 Speaker 1: just for anything, It's just like, I mean, if you 323 00:15:40,720 --> 00:15:43,480 Speaker 1: don't know me personally, sending light and love because I 324 00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:45,200 Speaker 1: can feel it. I couldn't before just was I was 325 00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:47,880 Speaker 1: so overwhelmed by grief, but I can feel it now. 326 00:15:48,400 --> 00:15:50,840 Speaker 1: Or if you do see me, like you know, just 327 00:15:50,880 --> 00:15:53,560 Speaker 1: like continuingly the like, the love and the blessing. You 328 00:15:53,560 --> 00:15:54,960 Speaker 1: guys are so awesome when we see each other in 329 00:15:54,960 --> 00:15:56,880 Speaker 1: person you know, you guys are always giving me the 330 00:15:56,960 --> 00:16:00,160 Speaker 1: unwonted hugs for Mandy because you think it's funny. Hey, 331 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:06,440 Speaker 1: jokes on you. I like that naciate them. So yeah, 332 00:16:06,480 --> 00:16:08,520 Speaker 1: I mean, a man, you've been such an awesome friend. 333 00:16:08,560 --> 00:16:11,400 Speaker 1: I just sor like I remember, just start two hard talks, 334 00:16:12,080 --> 00:16:13,800 Speaker 1: like you know, when I was away that like, although 335 00:16:13,800 --> 00:16:15,440 Speaker 1: I was not at Brown Ambition, min and I were 336 00:16:15,480 --> 00:16:19,760 Speaker 1: still like in you know, constant connection because we're friends 337 00:16:19,800 --> 00:16:22,280 Speaker 1: in real life, you know, and that was just like 338 00:16:22,400 --> 00:16:24,480 Speaker 1: such a lifeline, you know. 339 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:26,760 Speaker 2: And so yeah, I just say. 340 00:16:27,200 --> 00:16:28,600 Speaker 1: You know, reach out to the people that you care 341 00:16:28,640 --> 00:16:31,320 Speaker 1: about and make time for them in general, you know, 342 00:16:31,480 --> 00:16:33,640 Speaker 1: because that means more than anything this time of year. 343 00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:36,720 Speaker 3: I almost feel like the pandemic may really helped introverts 344 00:16:36,760 --> 00:16:39,440 Speaker 3: and normalize like taking time for yourself and saying no 345 00:16:39,520 --> 00:16:42,960 Speaker 3: to social engagements and things like that. But jokes aside, 346 00:16:43,080 --> 00:16:45,840 Speaker 3: we need that, you know, human connection and you can 347 00:16:45,880 --> 00:16:48,040 Speaker 3: really define your boundaries and what that looks like for you. 348 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:51,560 Speaker 3: But I'm tired of like trying to make friends with 349 00:16:52,280 --> 00:16:54,120 Speaker 3: make plans with friends and then it takes like three 350 00:16:54,200 --> 00:16:56,000 Speaker 3: months later and you go back to text them and 351 00:16:56,000 --> 00:16:57,680 Speaker 3: you're like, oh, yeah, we were supposed to get coffee. 352 00:16:57,760 --> 00:16:57,960 Speaker 1: Nil. 353 00:17:00,080 --> 00:17:03,120 Speaker 3: Right, it is short. Life is short, and like going 354 00:17:03,160 --> 00:17:05,159 Speaker 3: out of your way to make the time. It's almost 355 00:17:05,200 --> 00:17:07,800 Speaker 3: like an active love because how crucial with time right 356 00:17:08,320 --> 00:17:11,720 Speaker 3: to spend time with someone. That's that's the only resolution 357 00:17:11,760 --> 00:17:13,480 Speaker 3: I'll make in twenty twenty threes. I want to spend 358 00:17:13,480 --> 00:17:15,880 Speaker 3: some time with Tiff in person, because I haven't done 359 00:17:15,880 --> 00:17:19,320 Speaker 3: that in a long time. Well, thanks for sharing. 360 00:17:19,640 --> 00:17:22,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, and so we be man, I want to give 361 00:17:22,359 --> 00:17:22,760 Speaker 1: you a hug. 362 00:17:22,800 --> 00:17:26,960 Speaker 3: Are you I am? I'm fine, I'm gonna Yeah, it's 363 00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:29,960 Speaker 3: been a it's been a Yeah, it's just this time 364 00:17:29,960 --> 00:17:34,679 Speaker 3: of year. I think it's yeah, reflecting and there's so 365 00:17:34,760 --> 00:17:38,119 Speaker 3: much good. There's so much bad, you know, but just 366 00:17:38,160 --> 00:17:41,359 Speaker 3: trying to focus on the good what helps me. I 367 00:17:41,440 --> 00:17:45,000 Speaker 3: never realized this until I had a kid, how wonderful 368 00:17:45,080 --> 00:17:49,040 Speaker 3: children are. I find myself wanting to be around kids 369 00:17:49,359 --> 00:17:51,440 Speaker 3: that aren't even my own, Like I don't know who 370 00:17:51,440 --> 00:17:54,680 Speaker 3: I am. I kind of get the whole preschool teacher 371 00:17:54,720 --> 00:17:57,200 Speaker 3: thing now, Yeah, I why that was something like that 372 00:17:57,200 --> 00:18:01,560 Speaker 3: anyone would want to do. Yeah, spending time with Rio 373 00:18:01,680 --> 00:18:03,560 Speaker 3: and seeing even taking it back to school today and 374 00:18:03,600 --> 00:18:08,000 Speaker 3: seeing the little babies and Yeah, it's it's that's what 375 00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:08,560 Speaker 3: it's all about. 376 00:18:08,640 --> 00:18:12,120 Speaker 1: I think there's a pureness there that you're like you 377 00:18:12,240 --> 00:18:16,320 Speaker 1: just get to. I mean, I honestly loved teaching preschool 378 00:18:16,320 --> 00:18:18,280 Speaker 1: because I don't care what kind of terrible day you're having, 379 00:18:19,080 --> 00:18:21,639 Speaker 1: Like the way kids just crack open your heart and 380 00:18:21,640 --> 00:18:23,240 Speaker 1: pour and they're like, m having. 381 00:18:23,119 --> 00:18:23,479 Speaker 3: A bad day. 382 00:18:23,480 --> 00:18:25,399 Speaker 2: I don't care about that. Miss Tiffany, you look. 383 00:18:25,320 --> 00:18:31,000 Speaker 1: So pretty today. I'm like, you know, or like Miss Tippany, 384 00:18:31,040 --> 00:18:33,000 Speaker 1: that's what they didn't what they say my name, Miss Tiffany, 385 00:18:33,040 --> 00:18:36,040 Speaker 1: Miss Tiffany, you're my favorite person, or just sitting in 386 00:18:36,080 --> 00:18:38,240 Speaker 1: your lab or like can you hold me? And you're 387 00:18:38,359 --> 00:18:40,639 Speaker 1: just like yo, these kids love me no matter what. 388 00:18:40,680 --> 00:18:42,440 Speaker 1: And I just put her on time out to look 389 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:44,920 Speaker 1: at her manipulating her way out trying to be my bestie. 390 00:18:45,440 --> 00:18:47,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm wondering if you I was gonna forget that 391 00:18:47,760 --> 00:18:49,920 Speaker 3: I promised him my new truck. If you just fell 392 00:18:50,000 --> 00:18:54,000 Speaker 3: them to his classroom today, you will never forget. They 393 00:18:54,040 --> 00:18:56,360 Speaker 3: just help you. I feel like it helps me see 394 00:18:56,400 --> 00:18:59,960 Speaker 3: the joy and everything. Like it's snowed yesterday for snow 395 00:18:59,760 --> 00:19:02,920 Speaker 3: and York City, or at least in the suburbs where 396 00:19:02,920 --> 00:19:04,000 Speaker 3: I lived at snow and Newark. 397 00:19:04,480 --> 00:19:05,119 Speaker 2: Yeah it didn't. 398 00:19:05,280 --> 00:19:07,119 Speaker 3: We got snow and I wasn't feeling great. I was 399 00:19:07,160 --> 00:19:09,119 Speaker 3: trying to finish one of my shows. It was the finale, 400 00:19:09,200 --> 00:19:11,680 Speaker 3: and I was like, I'll put this on pause, throw 401 00:19:11,680 --> 00:19:14,560 Speaker 3: O Rio in his his snowsuit and get him outside 402 00:19:14,560 --> 00:19:17,520 Speaker 3: so we can like catch some snowflakes for like twenty minutes. 403 00:19:17,560 --> 00:19:21,520 Speaker 3: And yeah, those little small moments like that. I mean, 404 00:19:21,560 --> 00:19:23,320 Speaker 3: heading into twenty twenty three, I feel like it's the 405 00:19:23,320 --> 00:19:26,119 Speaker 3: time to think about reflecting on the last year, and 406 00:19:26,160 --> 00:19:28,520 Speaker 3: you know, it's like resolutions, and I I'm all for 407 00:19:28,600 --> 00:19:30,359 Speaker 3: setting those goals for the next year. I have my 408 00:19:30,400 --> 00:19:34,160 Speaker 3: own business goals. I went back and checked my twenty 409 00:19:34,200 --> 00:19:37,879 Speaker 3: twenty two business resolutions. I didn't meet them all. I 410 00:19:37,920 --> 00:19:42,880 Speaker 3: didn't even meet half of them. But yeah, it's okay. 411 00:19:43,080 --> 00:19:46,000 Speaker 3: But that being said, I'm really proud of, like at 412 00:19:46,040 --> 00:19:48,920 Speaker 3: least what I've accomplished in this in this last year. 413 00:19:49,560 --> 00:19:53,080 Speaker 3: And I hope I'm granted the time and health and 414 00:19:53,240 --> 00:19:57,119 Speaker 3: energy to do even more next year. Yeah, there's so 415 00:19:57,200 --> 00:19:57,920 Speaker 3: much to be done. 416 00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:00,600 Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, I just what I wish for everyone 417 00:20:00,760 --> 00:20:05,560 Speaker 1: is like health, happiness, love, connectedness and the other things 418 00:20:05,560 --> 00:20:08,280 Speaker 1: will take care of themselves. Like, don't get me wrong, 419 00:20:08,320 --> 00:20:11,240 Speaker 1: as someone who has achieved all the goals and dreams 420 00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:14,360 Speaker 1: and at one point had nothing and at one point 421 00:20:14,480 --> 00:20:16,280 Speaker 1: was in the middle, I feel like I seen the gamut, 422 00:20:16,880 --> 00:20:22,439 Speaker 1: and the place where it feels best has nothing to 423 00:20:22,440 --> 00:20:25,679 Speaker 1: do with that external stuff. It's really just like some 424 00:20:25,720 --> 00:20:27,600 Speaker 1: of my happiest moments is just going to see Roman 425 00:20:27,640 --> 00:20:30,239 Speaker 1: and Amelia at the house down the street, Like I 426 00:20:30,280 --> 00:20:32,480 Speaker 1: love ringing the doorbell and hearing them squeal, like as 427 00:20:32,480 --> 00:20:34,560 Speaker 1: if so One or Amelia were one to the window 428 00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:38,040 Speaker 1: to peek outside but confirmed it's aunty, and then they'll 429 00:20:38,119 --> 00:20:40,360 Speaker 1: run and screaming, so so you hear all those tussling 430 00:20:40,400 --> 00:20:42,280 Speaker 1: because they have to hide under the covers or how 431 00:20:42,720 --> 00:20:44,919 Speaker 1: pretend like they're not home that Carol opens the door, 432 00:20:44,960 --> 00:20:47,000 Speaker 1: and that have to always be like where are Roman 433 00:20:47,119 --> 00:20:48,080 Speaker 1: and Amelia? 434 00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:49,520 Speaker 2: I wonder if they're home? 435 00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:53,040 Speaker 1: You know, Like that is like those are some of 436 00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:56,920 Speaker 1: the best times, you know, and it's just like there's 437 00:20:57,000 --> 00:21:00,639 Speaker 1: just I cannot ex express that. I just hope that 438 00:21:00,680 --> 00:21:03,880 Speaker 1: people don't trade in the actual good life they have 439 00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:07,920 Speaker 1: for the one that they see displayed on social media 440 00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:11,119 Speaker 1: or otherwise. Because so many of those people that you 441 00:21:11,160 --> 00:21:13,760 Speaker 1: see are not very happy because I know them personally, 442 00:21:14,280 --> 00:21:17,320 Speaker 1: you know, they have all the things, you know, but 443 00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:20,119 Speaker 1: they're very well aware that that's all they have, you know, 444 00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:23,920 Speaker 1: and they're working toward back to what you have, the connectedness, 445 00:21:23,920 --> 00:21:26,679 Speaker 1: the family, the friends, the love you know, and so 446 00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:29,159 Speaker 1: you know, don't get me wrong, where all adults and 447 00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:31,480 Speaker 1: bills have to be paid and things like that. Yeah, yes, yes, 448 00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:34,560 Speaker 1: but you know there's something to be said for those 449 00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:38,720 Speaker 1: like core spaces of joy and to protect them with 450 00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:42,120 Speaker 1: everything because in the end, that is the thing that 451 00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:44,720 Speaker 1: you will wish for more of. Like when I was 452 00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:46,639 Speaker 1: standing by Jirell, knowing that he wasn't going to make 453 00:21:46,640 --> 00:21:49,320 Speaker 1: it in the hospital, I remember distinctly saying, Tiffany, in 454 00:21:49,359 --> 00:21:51,520 Speaker 1: this moment, what matters most, because this is probably the 455 00:21:51,520 --> 00:21:54,840 Speaker 1: most important lesson you'll ever have. And there was nothing 456 00:21:54,880 --> 00:21:58,160 Speaker 1: came up about business. The only thing I thought about 457 00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:01,600 Speaker 1: was like just connectedness and time and love, like I 458 00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:04,359 Speaker 1: wish I had more time. I'm so glad you around 459 00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:07,720 Speaker 1: knew how much I loved him, you know, like and 460 00:22:07,960 --> 00:22:10,680 Speaker 1: like it. That was literally it. That was the only 461 00:22:10,720 --> 00:22:12,200 Speaker 1: thing that came up that I was so glad he 462 00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:14,119 Speaker 1: knew how much I loved him, and I wish I 463 00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:16,560 Speaker 1: had more time. Nothing else came up, and it was 464 00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:18,800 Speaker 1: very clear to me that love was like the most 465 00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:23,080 Speaker 1: important thing, because nothing else came up. And so yeah, 466 00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:26,280 Speaker 1: I just you know, while you still have your people, 467 00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:29,800 Speaker 1: lean into that. Whoever's coming to mind as I'm saying this, 468 00:22:29,920 --> 00:22:33,720 Speaker 1: text them, call them, reach out to them, make concrete 469 00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:37,040 Speaker 1: plans to say, let's have lunch on Friday or Saturday, 470 00:22:37,359 --> 00:22:38,359 Speaker 1: or come over to the house. 471 00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:40,000 Speaker 2: It doesn't have to be a big deal. Come up 472 00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:41,080 Speaker 2: to the house. We'll order pizza. 473 00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:43,960 Speaker 1: I just want to see your face, you know, like 474 00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:46,520 Speaker 1: make that the I hope that for twenty twenty three, 475 00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:49,879 Speaker 1: there's so much divisiveness in this country that like, I 476 00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:52,879 Speaker 1: hope for twenty twenty three that the pendulum swings in 477 00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:55,520 Speaker 1: the other way and we'd lead more into connectedness. You know, 478 00:22:57,280 --> 00:23:00,320 Speaker 1: I sure the exact same prayer, exact same heurt prayer, 479 00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:01,320 Speaker 1: exact same hope. 480 00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:05,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, look at us, just a couple of softy I 481 00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:05,680 Speaker 3: know this. 482 00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:07,040 Speaker 2: Is our sat the episode. 483 00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:10,440 Speaker 1: We're gonna take a break, Okay, y'all, We're gonna take 484 00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:11,920 Speaker 1: a break and we're gonna come back for a quick 485 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:14,040 Speaker 1: brown Boost Brown Break. All right, We'll see you in 486 00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:15,000 Speaker 1: a minute. 487 00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:17,520 Speaker 2: We're back, y'all. 488 00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:25,240 Speaker 1: All right, it is time for Brown Boost Brown. 489 00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:27,359 Speaker 3: Yes, is the last Brown Boost Brown Break of twenty 490 00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:27,920 Speaker 3: twenty two. 491 00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:34,080 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go first. I feel like it is probably 492 00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:37,199 Speaker 1: more deep mine is not super super deep mine Brown. 493 00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:40,399 Speaker 2: I guess it's like, I guess it's kind of like 494 00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:41,080 Speaker 2: a boost, is that? 495 00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:41,239 Speaker 3: Like? 496 00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:45,000 Speaker 1: So I'm looking to purchase another property, like a condo, 497 00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:46,520 Speaker 1: because I think I don't want to lessarily live in 498 00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:47,080 Speaker 1: the househouse. 499 00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:49,399 Speaker 2: So you all know, already put an offer in. 500 00:23:49,600 --> 00:23:53,080 Speaker 1: It wasn't accepted, but the jewelry set out because there's 501 00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:55,679 Speaker 1: another property going on selling that same building, and I 502 00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:57,240 Speaker 1: just feel like, I don't know, I just feel like 503 00:23:57,280 --> 00:23:59,320 Speaker 1: that place is mine at the price that I won't 504 00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:02,399 Speaker 1: so I'm boosting for that in the future. That like, 505 00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:06,399 Speaker 1: because it still has not sold, and I just feel 506 00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:08,760 Speaker 1: like like it's it's the perfect location. It's close by 507 00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:10,960 Speaker 1: where I already live, so I still get to be 508 00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:14,119 Speaker 1: by my tribe and my family. I spoke to Alyssa 509 00:24:14,119 --> 00:24:16,120 Speaker 1: about it because I wasn't sure how she feel and 510 00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:18,040 Speaker 1: at first she was like, Oh, I thought you weren't 511 00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:19,879 Speaker 1: going to move until maybe after like when I went 512 00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:22,119 Speaker 1: to college. And I said, well, I don't know, like 513 00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:24,199 Speaker 1: you know, at the end of the day, I you know, 514 00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:27,080 Speaker 1: I have not bought the place. But and she said, well, 515 00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:29,159 Speaker 1: will you still keep a room for me? Because I 516 00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:31,200 Speaker 1: told them no, matter where I move, you know, she's 517 00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:33,639 Speaker 1: still my BoatUS baby. And then there'll be a room. 518 00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:35,280 Speaker 1: I say, yes, there's four bedrooms and you will have 519 00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:37,800 Speaker 1: a room just for you. I get to decorating the 520 00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:41,119 Speaker 1: ground up. I said, yes, with your TikTok money. 521 00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:44,600 Speaker 2: But I don't know. 522 00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:46,600 Speaker 1: It was just like this boost for like I guess 523 00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:51,159 Speaker 1: for that there's transitions happening beginning. Yeah, just a new beginning. 524 00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:52,680 Speaker 1: And what I love is I'm not selling this house. 525 00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:55,040 Speaker 1: I love this house and said, my sister and her 526 00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:56,919 Speaker 1: kids will live here, which is like perfect because they 527 00:24:56,960 --> 00:24:58,240 Speaker 1: have their schools around the corner. 528 00:24:58,720 --> 00:25:00,360 Speaker 2: I would be living literally. 529 00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:02,520 Speaker 1: A seven minute walking distance from this house, so I'd 530 00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:05,040 Speaker 1: still be all my friends Jermaine and Rihanna and my 531 00:25:05,080 --> 00:25:07,919 Speaker 1: friend Cabrella is down the street. And it's just, you know, 532 00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:11,760 Speaker 1: it's just it feels like a new beginning within like 533 00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:14,880 Speaker 1: already this beautiful construct of like this life I've built 534 00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:17,840 Speaker 1: for myself and so yeah, I'm just boosting that life 535 00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:20,480 Speaker 1: and whatever it turns out to be. I'm just I'm 536 00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:22,520 Speaker 1: so happy that I get to, like, you know, Alyssa 537 00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:25,200 Speaker 1: is still in my life. Me and Chante, her mom, 538 00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:27,080 Speaker 1: have always been cool. We continue to be cool, if 539 00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:29,520 Speaker 1: not cooler, just checking in. We had like an hour 540 00:25:29,560 --> 00:25:31,560 Speaker 1: conversation the other day, just checking in, making sure she 541 00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:35,159 Speaker 1: was good. And Terrell, Jirell's twin brother, and I are 542 00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:37,960 Speaker 1: closer than ever. He's really like my brother, my annoying. 543 00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:42,159 Speaker 3: Brother himself into the house. 544 00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:45,000 Speaker 2: I mean, her together. He doesn't do that no more. 545 00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:48,120 Speaker 1: I just you know, we're this family that's just figuring 546 00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:51,200 Speaker 1: it out and we're still you know, close and in 547 00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:54,840 Speaker 1: some instances even closer. So my booster is just really 548 00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:57,680 Speaker 1: just for family and friends and for transitions that allow 549 00:25:57,720 --> 00:25:58,560 Speaker 1: you to stay grounded. 550 00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:01,399 Speaker 3: Well, beautiful, did you put an offer in? 551 00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:04,240 Speaker 2: No, I'm gonna wait until favorites. I'm my girl. 552 00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:05,960 Speaker 1: She's about to feel the heat because your own pal 553 00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:07,640 Speaker 1: is going to breathe again. 554 00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:08,960 Speaker 2: Okay this week? 555 00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:12,360 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I know the housing market 556 00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:15,639 Speaker 3: is so tough right now. Yeah, all right, Well my 557 00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:19,399 Speaker 3: boost is I mentioned I'm like really emotional these days. 558 00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:22,600 Speaker 3: I can't help it. Another reason in the last few 559 00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:26,679 Speaker 3: weeks have been so challenging is because I was really 560 00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:33,600 Speaker 3: sick and also I'm really pregnant. I'm going another baby. 561 00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:38,040 Speaker 3: Act really surprised, as if you didn't know. Yeah, number 562 00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:41,800 Speaker 3: two is on the way, and no, it hasn't sunk in. No, 563 00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:43,680 Speaker 3: I can't believe it. Even though I was a part 564 00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:47,880 Speaker 3: of this process and I did make an adult decision 565 00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:51,560 Speaker 3: to try for another one, I just forgot. Like my husband, 566 00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:54,399 Speaker 3: there's no such thing as a miss. He's like always 567 00:26:54,440 --> 00:26:56,920 Speaker 3: going to swing for the fences, always going to be 568 00:26:56,960 --> 00:27:01,600 Speaker 3: a home run. So you know his record is untarnished. 569 00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:08,959 Speaker 3: But yeah, baby baby Manrique twenty twenty three, and we 570 00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:10,600 Speaker 3: know it's the gender. It's gonna be. 571 00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:14,840 Speaker 2: A boy, another boy. Girl. 572 00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:18,240 Speaker 3: Listen, it's fine. You know this is our starter hole. 573 00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:21,720 Speaker 3: They can they can tear it up. But yeah, that's 574 00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:24,200 Speaker 3: been it's been. I'm four months a long, I'm about 575 00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:27,080 Speaker 3: four months. So the babies do at the end of 576 00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:30,360 Speaker 3: at the end of May, and Rio does. He knows 577 00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:32,399 Speaker 3: exactly what the baby is. He knows. As a brother, 578 00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:36,119 Speaker 3: he's always asking like, where's my brother. He'll just be 579 00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:38,280 Speaker 3: doing his thing, and then he'll get sad all of 580 00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:40,639 Speaker 3: a sudden. He's like, I want my baby brother to 581 00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:44,560 Speaker 3: play with me. Where is he at? He's saying, in 582 00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:49,200 Speaker 3: this womb for as long as I can keep him there. 583 00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:54,240 Speaker 1: He just turned three his birthday Thanksgiving. Okay, yeah, that's awesome. 584 00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:55,760 Speaker 1: So he'll be like three and a half years older. 585 00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:56,600 Speaker 1: That's a good that's a good. 586 00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:59,640 Speaker 3: Little it's a bord. I hope he's potty trained by them. 587 00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:02,560 Speaker 3: We have not this child. This child just wants to 588 00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:05,080 Speaker 3: wear diapers. I don't know what to do. Oh my god, 589 00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:07,120 Speaker 3: I'm trying to give myself grace. So I'm like, okay, 590 00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:08,919 Speaker 3: and they say they're not going to go to college 591 00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:10,560 Speaker 3: and diapers, Like yeah, hear it out. 592 00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:13,360 Speaker 1: I remember, Like Chet's like, oh my kid only eats 593 00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:15,480 Speaker 1: with a spoon and we use four. I'm like, I've 594 00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:17,280 Speaker 1: not yet met a college dude. I'm not going to 595 00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:18,919 Speaker 1: say this is boss, but that only eats with this food. Like, 596 00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:20,280 Speaker 1: they'll just give him some space. 597 00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:22,440 Speaker 3: He right, he's not going to go on a date 598 00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:23,280 Speaker 3: on the diaper. 599 00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:25,040 Speaker 1: But that is. So we're having the thing. I'm like, 600 00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:25,960 Speaker 1: we're having up. 601 00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:30,240 Speaker 3: They we're heaving a boy yeah, so send me all year. 602 00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:32,240 Speaker 3: I don't know if you have if you have two kids, 603 00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:35,359 Speaker 3: actually don't tell me. I know it's I know it's crazy. 604 00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:37,119 Speaker 3: I know I'm insane. I know it's hell on earth 605 00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:40,280 Speaker 3: and it's really really hard. I'm going into it with 606 00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:41,840 Speaker 3: full understanding of what I'm. 607 00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:43,880 Speaker 2: People say, the two kids is not bad. It's the third. 608 00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:46,120 Speaker 1: It's the three kids that's like, what have I done? 609 00:28:46,320 --> 00:28:48,560 Speaker 3: Well, Listen, now that I'm having another boy, the question 610 00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:50,520 Speaker 3: is now like, well, are you gonna try for a girl? 611 00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:54,640 Speaker 3: I'm like, can I get this one out first? My god, like, 612 00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:59,280 Speaker 3: people are relentless? What am I like? It's a miracle. 613 00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:03,440 Speaker 3: I even had the get out of my face. Yeah, 614 00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:06,160 Speaker 3: I'm excited. I'm excited not to spend a lot of 615 00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:10,960 Speaker 3: money on new clothes. Oh true, yeah, true. But now 616 00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:14,160 Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm I'm figuring out as a business owner. Wait, 617 00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:18,760 Speaker 3: I had to pay for my own maternity leave. So yeah, 618 00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:22,120 Speaker 3: the the wheels have been put in motion since like 619 00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:24,600 Speaker 3: September when I found out I was pregnant. Of like, 620 00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:26,520 Speaker 3: how I can position my business so that I can 621 00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:29,600 Speaker 3: take time off and all of that. But yeah, here's 622 00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:33,320 Speaker 3: that's my goal for the next few months. It's really 623 00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:37,280 Speaker 3: like squirreling away and battening down the hatches so that 624 00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:40,680 Speaker 3: I'm prepared to take a little break and have another baby. 625 00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:43,000 Speaker 3: It's crazy, but a blessing, very crazy. 626 00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:46,720 Speaker 1: Congratulations. The babies are such a blessing. And you're already 627 00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:51,160 Speaker 1: a good mama, so it's just a pretty good at it. Yeah, 628 00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:53,520 Speaker 1: you already good at it. Okay, can you make cute kids? 629 00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:57,560 Speaker 1: Because really it's sick. He's not my refrigerator. All the 630 00:29:57,600 --> 00:29:59,160 Speaker 1: qu kids, well, all the kids because they're all cy 631 00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:01,320 Speaker 1: are my refrigerator, Like when you guys send me like 632 00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:02,680 Speaker 1: the you know I have the Christmas card? 633 00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:06,360 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, you need to see your school photo. Actually, 634 00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:07,960 Speaker 3: let me show you what's right here on my desk 635 00:30:08,280 --> 00:30:12,880 Speaker 3: school photo this year. I can look at this, Look 636 00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:17,360 Speaker 3: at my handsome boy, Look at his little hands. I 637 00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:18,479 Speaker 3: can't even take it. 638 00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:20,360 Speaker 1: See if you watch this on YouTube, you'd be able 639 00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:20,880 Speaker 1: to see. 640 00:30:21,120 --> 00:30:24,800 Speaker 3: You can see my baby or thank god he's out 641 00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:26,720 Speaker 3: the house, because there's lots of ten days have been 642 00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:30,600 Speaker 3: how on earth? But yeah, thanks, thanks in advance for 643 00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:33,520 Speaker 3: your well wishes and Auntie Tiffany. 644 00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:39,040 Speaker 1: Yes, yes always so congratulations again, make sure you hit 645 00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:42,640 Speaker 1: up Mandy money on Instagram and Twitter and wish Mandy 646 00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:46,920 Speaker 1: some you know, give her some good baby giju. I'm 647 00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:50,680 Speaker 1: just good energy and you know, just a happy, healthy, 648 00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:53,800 Speaker 1: smooth pregnancy fingers crossed. 649 00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:58,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, more a flu no more browniis please please just 650 00:30:58,040 --> 00:30:59,680 Speaker 3: stay the f away from. 651 00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:01,640 Speaker 2: This episode. 652 00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:03,800 Speaker 1: Was definitely like we're gonna call it, maybe we're called 653 00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:04,600 Speaker 1: the snappy. 654 00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:09,800 Speaker 3: Episode Happy reflecting, Yes, reflecting, that's all I do. I'm 655 00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:11,520 Speaker 3: either like you just be lucky you didn't get like 656 00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:14,760 Speaker 3: really pissy, irritable Mandy, because that's the other the Doctor 657 00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:17,720 Speaker 3: Jackyll and Doctor Hyde of my pregnancy is. I am 658 00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:21,240 Speaker 3: either wanting to like wring your throat to my husband specifically, 659 00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:26,320 Speaker 3: or I'm just like thinking about babies and like the 660 00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:29,240 Speaker 3: world and like just sad and I'm just happy sad, 661 00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:31,239 Speaker 3: sad and happy and joyful and all those things. So 662 00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:35,240 Speaker 3: I can't be held accountable for my emotional breakdowns in 663 00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:37,360 Speaker 3: the future. Okay, I am committed. 664 00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:41,600 Speaker 1: I want to come to basically come and see you. Really, Yeah, 665 00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:43,400 Speaker 1: I am, I'm gonna come to Long Long Island. 666 00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:45,720 Speaker 3: Girl. 667 00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:47,120 Speaker 1: Wait, where do you live? 668 00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:48,719 Speaker 3: I live in Westchester. 669 00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:51,920 Speaker 2: I don't know why people say western. 670 00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:53,080 Speaker 3: Lives in Long Island. 671 00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:55,440 Speaker 2: I don't know, is that far from each other? 672 00:31:56,360 --> 00:32:04,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm a lot close. Okayo, he lives on Long Island. 673 00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:05,120 Speaker 3: Maybe that's why you're thinking. 674 00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:07,120 Speaker 1: Oh maybe that's why. Yes, Oh okay, good, so I'll 675 00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:09,720 Speaker 1: cover to west just it's one of them verbs. It's 676 00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:12,360 Speaker 1: okay far yes, I mean I'll come up on a Sunday. 677 00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:14,680 Speaker 1: So that was like, you know, lazy traffic, well lazy 678 00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:15,280 Speaker 1: ish you know. 679 00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:18,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, when we're when we're all really healthy and. 680 00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:19,760 Speaker 2: Well, I'll let you know. 681 00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:23,600 Speaker 1: All right, y'all, we hope you enjoyed this week's episode. 682 00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:28,080 Speaker 1: We miss Nandy and she's back with the baby, so 683 00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:29,600 Speaker 1: you know it's three of us want here or whatever. 684 00:32:30,160 --> 00:32:31,680 Speaker 3: You're not gonna show you the bump yet, but the 685 00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:32,440 Speaker 3: bump is bumping. 686 00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:35,680 Speaker 1: Oh so you know we wish her well. So yes, 687 00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:39,720 Speaker 1: if just continue to listen, tell tag a friend, go 688 00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:41,840 Speaker 1: back and listen to prior episodes. You know, we hope 689 00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:44,640 Speaker 1: you've enjoyed. Branhambish We love the well wishes. You can 690 00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:48,520 Speaker 1: always tweet us, instagram us all the things. 691 00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:48,960 Speaker 2: We love it. 692 00:32:49,160 --> 00:32:49,760 Speaker 3: We love it. 693 00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:53,120 Speaker 1: You could do Brandna Bishon or the Budgeonista or Mandy money. 694 00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:55,560 Speaker 1: You know, we love it all the same, So we 695 00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:59,800 Speaker 1: wish you an amazing holiday season and an amazing new Year. 696 00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:01,720 Speaker 1: We will see you in the new year. 697 00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:06,720 Speaker 3: I'm at the holidays, ba Fam. Love y'all, Yes, love y'all. Hey, 698 00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:09,000 Speaker 3: ba Fam. We could not do this show without your 699 00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:11,920 Speaker 3: support or the support of our team behind the scenes. 700 00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:15,800 Speaker 3: The Brown Emission Podcast is produced by Cumulus Podcast Network. 701 00:33:15,880 --> 00:33:19,360 Speaker 3: It's edited by the wonderful Emani Crosby and produced by 702 00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:23,120 Speaker 3: Tanya Bustos. Dennis Stimplinsky is our in house tech curu, 703 00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:26,280 Speaker 3: and I am Bandy Woodchard Santos your co host, and 704 00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:28,200 Speaker 3: I will see y'all next week.