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Speaker 3: Thank you. Nephew's subject.

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Speaker 1: I don't think we're really cousins, Dear Stephen Shirley. In

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Speaker 1: high school, I liked a girl and she liked me.

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Speaker 1: We talked on the phone and hung out together all

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Speaker 1: the time, and her mom and my mom were close too,

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Speaker 1: so she always was at my house or I was

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Speaker 1: at hers. By the time we graduated from high school,

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Speaker 1: we were even closer, and I told her that I

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Speaker 1: wanted her to be more than my friend. She's always

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Speaker 1: been really close to her mom and tells her everything,

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Speaker 1: so she told her mom that she and I were dating.

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Speaker 1: Her mom told her that I was her cousin. When

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Speaker 1: she told me we were related, I felt strange because

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Speaker 1: we had kissed a few times, we never questioned it.

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Speaker 1: Though we stopped dating and remained very close cousins, we

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Speaker 1: still did everything together and told each other everything, and

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Speaker 1: by the time we were in our mid twenties, we

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Speaker 1: had both had a bunch of bad relationships and always

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Speaker 1: ended up back together. I realized that I loved my

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Speaker 1: quote unquote cousin and she's a perfect woman for me.

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Speaker 1: So I finally asked my mom if we were really related.

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Speaker 1: My mom said, we're related somewhere down the line, but

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Speaker 1: there is no way for us to find out now

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Speaker 1: because all of the older relatives are deceased. I told

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Speaker 1: my mom that I'm in love with her and I

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Speaker 1: want to be with her. My mom told me to

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Speaker 1: follow my heart. I couldn't wait to tell my cousin

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Speaker 1: how I really felt, and I was relieved when she

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Speaker 1: told me she's been in love with me forever. Since then,

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Speaker 1: we've made love a few times, and I asked her

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Speaker 1: to marry me. She wants to do a search of

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Speaker 1: our family tree first. I don't think we're cousins and

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Speaker 1: this is only postponing our happiness. Should we search for

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Speaker 1: answers or not? Hmm, Well, I'm with you on this one,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I just don't believe your guys are cousins.

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Speaker 1: I don't believe. I think maybe you know, her mom

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Speaker 1: told her that because she didn't want you guys dating

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Speaker 1: for whatever reason.

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Speaker 3: And you know, I.

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Speaker 1: Don't want you guys, not because I don't want it

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Speaker 1: to be true or anything. I just don't believe your mom.

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Speaker 1: Both of them are telling the truth. Even your mom

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Speaker 1: said you were related somewhere down the line, she didn't

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Speaker 1: even know, and she said there's no one in your

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Speaker 1: family to validate it. But I mean, there are ways

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Speaker 1: you can search to find out. It's just, I don't know,

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Speaker 1: suspicious the way they handled everything and the way they

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Speaker 1: told you, and for that very reason, Yes, I think

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Speaker 1: you should find out if you're related. I think you

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Speaker 1: should do the search. I mean, knowledgeous power, the truth

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Speaker 1: will set you free. What if you want to have

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Speaker 1: children down the line, you know this is something you

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Speaker 1: should know, whether or not you're related.

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Speaker 3: There's a lot to consider.

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Speaker 1: You need a fact so you can make an informed,

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Speaker 1: a clear headed, right decision, and nothing just based on

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Speaker 1: your emotions. Like your mom told you, just to follow

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Speaker 1: your heart. It sounds like you don't care, though, if

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Speaker 1: your cousins are not and your mom certainly doesn't care,

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Speaker 1: but your girl wants to know and it's important to her.

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Speaker 1: So I think you should do the search, and you know,

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Speaker 1: whatever you guys find out, let the ships fall, you

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Speaker 1: know where they may. I don't think you're really cousins.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, and if you find out that you're not,

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Speaker 4: Steve, Well, this is a short response for me because

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Speaker 4: I don't even understand. There's no advice to give in

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Speaker 4: this letter, like you don't know them. I have sections

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Speaker 4: why I break down what somebody said and what the

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Speaker 4: other person said is none of that in him?

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Speaker 3: And he just wants to know should they search? That's

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Speaker 4: Anyway, It ain't about that to me. If your mother

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Speaker 4: if the woman that she's really close to, and y'all

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Speaker 4: been over each other's house, if that ain't your mother's sister,

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Speaker 4: and that woman that's not your other's sister, this girl

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Speaker 4: that you're dating, and okay, let me put you the

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Speaker 4: woman and your mama are not sisters, and then her

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Speaker 4: So now that's established right there. Now this y'all cousin

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Speaker 4: somewhere down the line. Black people know what's happening. I

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Speaker 4: fear if you lamb if all of them is dead.

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Speaker 4: Black people know what's happening.

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Speaker 2: Now. What didn't happen is.

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Speaker 4: One of the men in the family and strayed off somewhere,

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Speaker 4: had a child out of where, and one of your

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Speaker 4: aunts or mama's is them. Now everybody dead?

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Speaker 2: Stuff. Y'all got bibles? Open up there with old bibles

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Speaker 2: and read who who? You ain't gonna see your name?

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Speaker 4: And there, well, now once you don't see your name,

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Speaker 4: this open and shut case. They know all the old

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Speaker 4: people dead. Well, hot man, So what are we talking

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Speaker 4: about here? So I don't really think it's a case

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Speaker 4: of if you do the search, what you're gonna find,

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Speaker 4: you're not gonna find anything. And y'all already you were

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Speaker 4: in love with the girl. She in love with the girl,

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Speaker 4: I mean, she in love with you. I mean what

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Speaker 4: y'all if.

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Speaker 1: They want kids, they're too far down the line for

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Speaker 1: that to affect anything you're saying.

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Speaker 4: I think they're way Wait. Let me tell you something.

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Speaker 4: It was something dangerous. The boy's mother would not have

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Speaker 4: said follow your heart.

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Speaker 1: But the other mothers was the one that said their cousins.

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Speaker 1: I think she said it because she didn't want them

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Speaker 1: to date.

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Speaker 4: She just said that, well, okay, tell her mama, ask

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Speaker 4: or ask her mama how.

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Speaker 2: But she didn't even.

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Speaker 4: Tell how these She can't even tell how these other

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Speaker 4: two is related, the two women.

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Speaker 2: What's their relationship?

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Speaker 3: They're just they're just really close.

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Speaker 2: You know, only okay, cousins.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but they did it, you know they did it right, Yeah, it's.

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Speaker 3: In the letter.

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Speaker 2: They said it in the letter, Yes, in the letter.

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Speaker 3: We'll have part two of Steve.

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Speaker 1: Coming up at twenty three minutes after be our subject.

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Speaker 3: I don't think we're really cousins. We'll get back into

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Speaker 3: it right after this.

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Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's interesting Strawberry letters.

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Speaker 3: Subject. I don't think we're really cousins.

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Speaker 6: All right.

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Speaker 4: This guy was in high school. He liked a girl

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Speaker 4: and they she liked him. They talked on the phone,

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Speaker 4: hung out together all the time. Her mom and my

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Speaker 4: mom were close too, so she was always at my house.

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Speaker 4: Never once in this letter does this say her mom

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Speaker 4: and his mom was related. By the time they graduated

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Speaker 4: high school, we were even close. I told her, we

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Speaker 4: want to be more than friends. She's always been really

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Speaker 4: close to her mom and tell us everything. So she

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Speaker 4: told her mom she and I were dating. Her mom

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Speaker 4: told her I was her cousin. But your mama ain't

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Speaker 4: related to the boys.

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Speaker 3: Mama, they're just clumbed.

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Speaker 2: So now where that come from? Well, she told me

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Speaker 2: we related. I felt strange because I had kissed a

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Speaker 2: few times. We never questioned it.

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Speaker 4: Told we stopped dating and remained close everything together. Then

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Speaker 4: I loved my cousin and she's a perfect woman for me.

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Speaker 4: So this dude go to ask his mama if they

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Speaker 4: really related. The mother said, y'all related somewhere down the line,

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Speaker 4: but ain't no way to find out because all the

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Speaker 4: older relatives are dead.

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Speaker 2: You compline, well, okay, when's we talking about this folk?

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Speaker 4: I told my mom that I'm in love with her

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Speaker 4: me to follow my heart. So then he ran and

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Speaker 4: told the girl, who is he thinks his cousin, how

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Speaker 4: it really felt. And he was relieved when she told

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Speaker 4: me she been in love with me forever. Well then

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Speaker 4: since then they'd have made love a few times, and

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Speaker 4: I asked her to marry me. She wants to do

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Speaker 4: a search of our family tree first because she don't

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Speaker 4: want to come up get in bass. You know, then

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Speaker 4: half these people you think it's dead gonna show up

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Speaker 4: at the wedding.

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Speaker 2: Well it ain't this strange.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 2: I'm birstay At Gertrue's niece.

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Speaker 4: You know, Frederick was your uncle, great great great great uncle,

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Speaker 4: Frederick Frederick Douglas. Boy, you got afro just like young being.

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Speaker 4: So she wants to do a search and to think.

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Speaker 4: And he said I don't think we cousins, and this

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Speaker 4: is only postponing our happiness.

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Speaker 2: Should we search for answers or not? Okay, let me

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Speaker 2: explain something to you. Son.

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Speaker 4: When you get through searching, it ain't gonna change one

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Speaker 4: thing you feel about this girl.

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Speaker 2: Come on, boy, when.

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Speaker 4: You get through searching, it ain't gonna erase the fact

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Speaker 4: that y'all in love with each other and y'all being together.

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Speaker 4: It ain't gonna erase nothing, no matter what the search say.

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Speaker 4: And if you find out you somewhere way down the line,

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Speaker 4: how far down the line is it?

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Speaker 5: Now?

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Speaker 2: How many people got.

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Speaker 3: To die save?

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Speaker 1: So?

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Speaker 6: Well?

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Speaker 2: Are you evidence is dead? Down the line is dead?

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Speaker 4: But your mother and her mother ain't even related? So

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Speaker 4: what are y'all talking about?

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Speaker 3: See?

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Speaker 1: I think her mother didn't want them miss date because

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Speaker 1: immediately when she told him that they stop dating.

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Speaker 4: If there's no relation between the two friends, well that

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Speaker 4: could be happening because maybe they just friends and the

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Speaker 4: two kids is in other families.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, yeah, that's a possibility.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 1: That's why I don't think their cousins. I don't think

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Speaker 1: it will hurt anything to do with search them.

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Speaker 4: See the problem with that is we're talking about two

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Speaker 2: See, once you have mothers involved, it ain't No, you

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Speaker 2: ain't in the family.

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Speaker 4: What you mean this woman is the mother of the boy.

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Speaker 4: Follow your heart is the mother of the girl. Right,

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Speaker 4: So how are these two kids related?

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Speaker 2: How am I missing something?

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Speaker 3: It could be through Could it be through marriage? I

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Speaker 3: don't know.

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Speaker 4: Two women were married to the same brothers. Are some

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Speaker 4: friends that could happen, But.

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Speaker 1: Now, yeah, I don't think they're I just don't think

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Speaker 2: What's that test you take? Did we had that test

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Speaker 2: one day? What if the name of that thing ancestry doctor.

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Speaker 2: That's it right there.

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Speaker 3: I just did one. I just did a test. I

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Speaker 3: just did it.

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Speaker 2: I had people do mind for me.

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Speaker 1: So that's what I'm saying. You don't have to have

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Speaker 1: living relatives, you know. So his mom said, everybody's dead

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Speaker 1: to prove whether or not there.

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Speaker 4: I can find stuff on my mother's side, but he

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Speaker 4: goes back to my father and it stops.

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Speaker 6: So if down the line ain't here, you can still

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Speaker 6: find out what's going on.

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Speaker 3: He love it, though, What's what's gonna happen to him?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she loves him, she wants she's the one that

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Speaker 1: wants to know. I mean you do have to consider. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you have smaller children and everything.

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Speaker 6: You know.

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Speaker 3: Are you out, Steve? You're done well, I told you,

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Speaker 3: because you got awfully quiet right there.

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Speaker 2: It was hard to raise anyway.

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Speaker 3: Wait, that's the truth.

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Speaker 2: You said them. Oh yeah, you're going.

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Speaker 4: To have a situation with him if there ain't nothing

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Speaker 4: wrong with him.

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Speaker 3: All right, listen, guys.

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