WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Surprise Bar Bachelorette

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update. If you've ever been set up by

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<v Speaker 1>a friend for a blind date, you know how awkward

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<v Speaker 1>that can be, especially if the friend who's setting you

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<v Speaker 1>up is Brook.

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<v Speaker 2>My god, no, no, I am so good at this.

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<v Speaker 2>One of my friends actually got married to the person

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<v Speaker 2>I said her up.

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<v Speaker 1>But the problem is Brook is notoriously competitive. So right

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<v Speaker 1>after she introduces you to the date, Brook undoes an

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<v Speaker 1>extra button and tries to flirt and then steal the

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<v Speaker 1>guy right back. Mommy can give it, take you. That's

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<v Speaker 1>how it's done. Apparently isn't as awkward as the blind

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<v Speaker 1>date situation. One of our listeners found herself tossed into

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<v Speaker 1>the other night the Brook button yourself back up and

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<v Speaker 1>let's say, hi Robin, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, thanks my buttons.

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<v Speaker 1>We're in a safe space now, but it's still uncomfortable

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit. Yeah. So you went out on a

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<v Speaker 1>blind date set up by a friend.

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<v Speaker 3>I did it was something else, did I did?

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<v Speaker 4>I hear the sales pitch from your friend, like why

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<v Speaker 4>you should do this?

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<v Speaker 1>Let's tell us how it started.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, So I'm recently single. Okay, my friends were

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<v Speaker 3>just really encouraging me to go on and get out there.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, jump back on the horse. And it

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<v Speaker 3>had been a long time since I'd been on any

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<v Speaker 3>sort of dating app.

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<v Speaker 5>I thought you were going to say any horse, Well

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<v Speaker 5>that too, okay, And what did that feel like on.

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<v Speaker 2>The dating apps for your first time in a while.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I wasn't really sure what to do, and so

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<v Speaker 3>my friend, like my bestie, said I can make a

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<v Speaker 3>profile for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well.

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<v Speaker 1>Dangerous.

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<v Speaker 3>I was a little hesitant, but I mean she does

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<v Speaker 3>know me the best, so I just trusted her.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I has my best friend to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I would argue my mom knows me better

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<v Speaker 1>than anybody else, and she set up a dating profile

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<v Speaker 1>for me and that turned out freaking horribly. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, maybe that's different. I'm sure your friend

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<v Speaker 1>was kinder than my mom was. Tell us how it went,

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<v Speaker 1>how did it go?

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<v Speaker 3>So basically, I get a call from her like a

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<v Speaker 3>week after. I guess she's been really monitoring my Oh she's.

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<v Speaker 2>Still logged in.

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<v Speaker 1>We're exciting.

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<v Speaker 5>I thought, like, she set it up for you and

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<v Speaker 5>then she let you go, like you know, give you wings,

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<v Speaker 5>let you fly.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like she took full control over your dating profile.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess I wasn't ready for the wings just yet.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>He told me that she found the perfect match for me, Like, Hey,

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<v Speaker 3>we're going to go to this nice bar tomorrow and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna come with you.

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<v Speaker 2>What way?

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<v Speaker 1>Now she's pulling a Brook move. But does that mean

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<v Speaker 1>she told the guy, Hey, I'm setting up my friend

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<v Speaker 1>or was she acting like you?

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<v Speaker 3>She said she was setting up me.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Okay, so there's honesty from the beginning.

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<v Speaker 1>Before you went to the bar, did she show you

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<v Speaker 1>at least a photo of the guy that you're about

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<v Speaker 1>to meet?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>No, No, she didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a real blind.

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<v Speaker 3>Definition blind date. Yeah, and I was like, okay, well,

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<v Speaker 3>can I at least get his name? And no?

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<v Speaker 7>No?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So is he there when you walk into the bar?

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<v Speaker 6>She didn't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, her friend would know. Her friend would tell her.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't know, but I will say. Right after walking in,

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<v Speaker 3>this really cute guy comes up to me and he says, Oky,

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<v Speaker 3>you must be Robin.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, and he's cute.

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<v Speaker 3>She picked a good one. His name is Jay.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, good work on your friend.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh. So here's where it gets crazy. My

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<v Speaker 3>friend comes in and then she shows me two more guys.

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<v Speaker 3>She's like, hey, they hide a cal and Jack. And

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<v Speaker 3>at this point I'm really confused.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I'm confused too.

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<v Speaker 3>So she made a very public announcement and I quote,

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<v Speaker 3>this is my hot best friend Robin. She's recently single.

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<v Speaker 3>I all here to give her her own TV experience

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<v Speaker 3>as the Bachelor.

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<v Speaker 1>Ret No, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 3>Invited like twenty guys.

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<v Speaker 2>It was men. Twenty men were waiting for just one men,

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<v Speaker 2>but not all of them new.

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<v Speaker 3>Not all of them new, And like I saw a

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<v Speaker 3>few guys walk out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I would walk out.

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<v Speaker 2>That wasn't because you. They just couldn't handle the competition.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, how did you feel when your friend sprung

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<v Speaker 1>that on you, that suddenly we're going to be meeting

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of dudes all in one night.

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<v Speaker 6>I was horrified.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, So what did you say to your friend?

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<v Speaker 2>Was she did she get that? You were? Like mortified?

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<v Speaker 3>I think she got it. But she pushes me, which

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<v Speaker 3>most of the time is a good thing. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>you know we balanced each other out.

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<v Speaker 1>So did you start talking to all these dudes?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's just I just imagine her with a clipboard

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<v Speaker 4>her friend in a corner, just crossing names off.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, all right, next, come on, I got to organize.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a casting call.

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<v Speaker 1>She's doing side interviews.

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<v Speaker 3>She just might have done that. I wouldn't be surprised.

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<v Speaker 1>My god, I mean, did you end up like vibing

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<v Speaker 1>with any of these dudes?

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<v Speaker 3>Surprisingly?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, okay, they're at least like three or four that

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<v Speaker 3>I was.

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<v Speaker 1>Really so, are we calling four guys right now? What's

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<v Speaker 1>going on? Which one are we calling?

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<v Speaker 6>Well?

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<v Speaker 3>I really like the first guy that was there right in.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you told us his name Jay.

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<v Speaker 7>Jay.

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<v Speaker 2>Got really distracted by the twenty dudes forgotten it and

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<v Speaker 2>why did Why did Jay stand out?

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<v Speaker 3>He was just like really smart and son. We had

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<v Speaker 3>good like banter.

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<v Speaker 6>And all that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he's on time. He was the first one there.

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<v Speaker 1>So Jay was your favorite from the Bachelorette experience?

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<v Speaker 3>Like him? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you ever end up going out with him again

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<v Speaker 1>after the bar?

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<v Speaker 3>So we exchanged numbers, okay, and we've been texting and

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<v Speaker 3>all that, and it was really nice. But recently I've

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<v Speaker 3>been kind of putting in more energy to the whole

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<v Speaker 3>trying to plan something part of it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like he's fading a little bit.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and I just I don't know why keeps pulling away?

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<v Speaker 6>Now?

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<v Speaker 2>Interesting? I mean, how long has it been since your

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<v Speaker 2>guys is first meeting?

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<v Speaker 3>Now, I guess it hasn't been that long, like a

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<v Speaker 3>few weeks.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a long time. Yeah, that's a long time. Did

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<v Speaker 2>you ever go out with any of the other guys now?

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<v Speaker 6>No?

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<v Speaker 2>Wow?

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<v Speaker 1>Is the one and only.

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<v Speaker 2>All eggs one basket hunt?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, thank god, here's what we're doing. We're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>come back. We're gonna call Jay for you, and we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna invite him into the Fantasy suite to ask him

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<v Speaker 1>did he all go out with you? One morning? With

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<v Speaker 1>your second date? Up games right after that second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>Anybody who's seen The Bachelor or The Bachelorette knows the

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<v Speaker 1>relationships that start on those shows have a notoriously high

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<v Speaker 1>success rate of going I lost seasons. I'd say almost

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<v Speaker 1>three of those couples are still on speaking terms, which

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<v Speaker 1>is pretty good. I'd like, we may get divorced before

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<v Speaker 1>the marriage. But I bring it up because one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners, Robin, had her own bachelorette experience the other night,

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<v Speaker 1>did not know what was happening until she arrived at

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<v Speaker 1>the bar and her friend surprised her with twenty dudes.

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<v Speaker 1>It was hero, this is not your moment.

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<v Speaker 6>This is.

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<v Speaker 1>Why buttons back up, please. Robin spooks to all of

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<v Speaker 1>them that night, at least the ones who didn't immediately

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<v Speaker 1>leave when they found out what was happening. But the

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<v Speaker 1>guy that she liked the best was actually the first

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<v Speaker 1>one she met, named Jay. They had a great time

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<v Speaker 1>after that, so we do apologize for broke. After that night,

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<v Speaker 1>Robin feels like she's been putting more effort into like

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<v Speaker 1>seeing him again. She wants some help moving things along.

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<v Speaker 4>What we didn't ask is have you asked your best

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<v Speaker 4>friend for advice before you came to us?

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<v Speaker 2>Or we are we done with her advice?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well I think I'm taking just a little break.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Yeah, we'll go back.

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<v Speaker 1>To her after we're done calling Jay here. First, Let's

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<v Speaker 1>see if he picks up and has any explanation, and

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<v Speaker 1>if he.

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<v Speaker 2>Doesn't want to go out with you again. Bonus, you

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<v Speaker 2>got some backup numbers still right from that night. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean yeah, okay, the overflow guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe let's just trying to focus on Jay for now.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to dial his number let's hopefully he picks up.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go. Hello, Hey, we're looking to speak with

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<v Speaker 1>Jay speaking. Hey Jay, you are speaking with a radio

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<v Speaker 1>show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 7>Good morning, Oh wow, hey, good morning. How you doing?

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<v Speaker 2>Cuttle voice? I think he has an accent, sir, I mean, no,

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<v Speaker 2>wonder he was the first one.

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<v Speaker 1>You sound pretty comfortable being on the radio here, do

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<v Speaker 1>you do you listen.

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<v Speaker 7>Every now and then? Yeah, I would say, yeah, oh

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<v Speaker 7>no accent.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, we can turn Brooks microphone off.

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<v Speaker 2>I am just jokeing.

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<v Speaker 1>We're all very excited to talk to you because we've

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<v Speaker 1>heard about you through one of our listeners that you

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<v Speaker 1>met the other night and she had a really good

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<v Speaker 1>time with you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well a couple of weeks bill, right.

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<v Speaker 1>Huh it's someone that you met named Robin.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh yeah, you definitely remember Robin.

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<v Speaker 2>Bro that's like the craziest Yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, no, I definitely do. You're You're absolutely right, I

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<v Speaker 7>remember Robin.

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<v Speaker 4>And she didn't say like you're ghosting or anything like that.

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<v Speaker 4>It sounds like you guys have been chatting a little

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<v Speaker 4>bit via text.

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<v Speaker 7>We have, but it's it's been pretty nice.

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<v Speaker 1>I could say, yeah, okay and we've heard about how

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<v Speaker 1>you and Robin met that first night, with the way

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<v Speaker 1>that her friend set up the big thing at the bar,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm wondering, how what was that like for you.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm actually really surprised she even told you. She explained

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<v Speaker 7>to you guys what happened.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, yeah, did you know going in that her friend

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<v Speaker 4>was setting up like a bachelorette experience.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, that's the thing. I walked in there. I'm expecting

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<v Speaker 7>this nice, quiet meetups.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my don't know you Yeah, you had no idea.

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<v Speaker 7>I had no idea what was going on. No, but

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<v Speaker 7>I walk in the door and it's like a conveyor

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<v Speaker 7>belt of people lived up.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh no, I want to crawl into all that.

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<v Speaker 2>Poor girl.

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<v Speaker 7>Honestly, I felt really bad for her because she seemed shocked.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't really think she walked in there expecting this

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<v Speaker 7>to be like a party for Robin.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, nobody anything but the friends. I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>safe to say that she had no idea either. So

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<v Speaker 1>you guys were both in the same boat of surprise.

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<v Speaker 7>We were both shocked, which I think is why we

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<v Speaker 7>actually hit it off, because you know, she was having

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<v Speaker 7>conversations with other people and I will say, it looks

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<v Speaker 7>like she was hitting it off with some people, but

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<v Speaker 7>like we really matched on the fact that it was

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<v Speaker 7>really uncomfortable to be standing there in a room directed

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<v Speaker 7>just for you.

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<v Speaker 4>So what if you guys like you sounds like you

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<v Speaker 4>had a real connection and you're excited.

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<v Speaker 2>Were you going to ask her out and you just

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<v Speaker 2>don't got around to it?

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<v Speaker 7>Or so here's the thing. My friends we were talking

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<v Speaker 7>about it and they said, Wow, that was actually a

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<v Speaker 7>really cool thing, and maybe you should try that for yourself.

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<v Speaker 7>Why don't we do this for you?

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<v Speaker 3>Wait?

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<v Speaker 1>Wait what Yeah, you're doing the same thing as she's doing.

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<v Speaker 7>So I gave them the password for my dating app

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<v Speaker 7>and they kind of just wait, went from there and

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<v Speaker 7>set it up.

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<v Speaker 2>And if that's the case, why isn't Robin invited? She

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<v Speaker 2>should be on the list.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not very fair to Robin, who like chose you

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<v Speaker 1>that night. Out of all the guys she met at

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<v Speaker 1>her Bachelor a lot.

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<v Speaker 4>More girls are gonna walk out the room when they

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<v Speaker 4>probably a.

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<v Speaker 1>Zero unless it's open bar that night, and the guys

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<v Speaker 1>are the thirsty ones.

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<v Speaker 7>I just figured that if she was doing it, maybe

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<v Speaker 7>I should do it.

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<v Speaker 4>So wait, so you want to go out with Robin,

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<v Speaker 4>but you want to wait and see what your options

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<v Speaker 4>are is out and I'm.

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<v Speaker 7>Sure Robin's going out with like three or four of

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<v Speaker 7>the other guys from that night, So it's probably not

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<v Speaker 7>just me.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, that wasn't what we heard from her, But

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 7>True.

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<v Speaker 1>We do have a way that we could find out,

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<v Speaker 1>because I need to let you know, Jay that there

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<v Speaker 1>is someone waiting out in the secret limo outside of

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<v Speaker 1>the studio, the one to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 2>We would hand out carnation.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, surprise, it's Robin.

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<v Speaker 2>She's on the phone.

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<v Speaker 7>She's on the phone. What do you mean she's on

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<v Speaker 7>the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she's been on the other line listening this

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<v Speaker 1>entire time. That's how this second.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, Hi, Hi Robin.

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<v Speaker 6>Hey this is really weird.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah a little bit. Have you been though?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I don't what kind of question is that?

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<v Speaker 3>From what I just heard, it sounds like you're just

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<v Speaker 3>waiting for something better to come along.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, I wouldn't say that's the case. I mean I

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<v Speaker 7>was exploring options, aren't you exploring options? That night? It

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<v Speaker 7>was casual. I like, yeah, I still like.

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<v Speaker 6>You, Okay, I'm.

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<v Speaker 7>Honestly I mean, the reason I haven't made like an

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<v Speaker 7>official date yet is because I'm I'm of a little

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<v Speaker 7>worried that I might really get attached.

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<v Speaker 6>To you and make me you know, God forbid, my

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<v Speaker 6>every love story needs like a little test with twenty

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<v Speaker 6>random women.

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<v Speaker 4>But isn't that the whole problem with dating right now

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<v Speaker 4>is you always feel like there's something better, like just

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<v Speaker 4>like the choices are endless right now, and so you're

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<v Speaker 4>isn't like you scroll through the app and it's just

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<v Speaker 4>choice after choice after choice, if your choice. At some

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<v Speaker 4>point you got to take yourself out of that like

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<v Speaker 4>hamster wheel and say this is.

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<v Speaker 1>It Hamster's having fun on the wheel right now. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but Robin, what I'm hearing here is this bachelor pad

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<v Speaker 1>event for him has not happened yet, and it does

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<v Speaker 1>seem like you two actually do get along pretty well.

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<v Speaker 1>So maybe right now you want to try and talk

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<v Speaker 1>to him and convince him to cancel his upcoming bachelor.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I mean, I can't force you to do anything,

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<v Speaker 3>I know, that's not even my place.

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<v Speaker 6>However, I will say.

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<v Speaker 3>If the only thing holding you back is just the

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<v Speaker 3>fact that you think you're gonna like me too much,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean that's a little silly.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, okay, that's a fair point.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't want to let my friends down though, either.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Honestly think if you go to that and you have

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<v Speaker 4>a date with her before, you'll be able to compare.

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<v Speaker 3>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Book is plotting her key party ida like she

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<v Speaker 1>always does. But I personally think that in my opinion,

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<v Speaker 1>I honestly believe that you should call off the event

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<v Speaker 1>because you say you like Robin as much as you

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<v Speaker 1>say it, prove it take her out on a date,

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<v Speaker 1>a date that we would pay.

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<v Speaker 7>I think that's a great idea. Okay, but I can't

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<v Speaker 7>do that. Oh why, No matter what after the event,

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<v Speaker 7>I'm gonna text you. I'm gonna call you.

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<v Speaker 2>Lucky you Robin.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to say to Jay before we end this?

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I know that I probably shouldn't. I know

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<v Speaker 3>that I should like be a priority. But let's just

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<v Speaker 3>go on one day.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait what after all that you're going to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with him?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I really think that they're going to work out. I

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<v Speaker 2>know you think I do.

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<v Speaker 4>I think that he's gonna go and there's gonna be

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<v Speaker 4>like not a great selection of people that his friends picked.

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<v Speaker 2>Out for him, and he's going to be like, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>an idiot. Robin's amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, the dudes are way worse at picking

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<v Speaker 1>out girls.

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<v Speaker 2>I bet the half of them are catfishes.

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<v Speaker 1>You would stick around if a guy said to you, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I really really like you, but I'm going to date

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<v Speaker 1>twenty other women. First, I haven't even gone.

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<v Speaker 7>Out of a date.

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<v Speaker 2>She doesn't have DIBs on anything.

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<v Speaker 1>They can't go on a date as twenty other ones lined.

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<v Speaker 2>Up for who does it? These days?

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<v Speaker 1>I give up on relationships and love, don't you, Jack?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what? They're still hard for you. You can

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<v Speaker 1>email the show. We'll call that person and then the

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<v Speaker 1>twenty five other people that you're also sort of interested in,

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<v Speaker 1>ye try and get you a second date.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why this segment works, where everyone gets a date.

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jeffrey in the morning,