WEBVTT - Conversation About Ratfishing 0:00:01.800 --> 0:00:04.400 What's Up and welcome back to another episode of No 0:00:04.519 --> 0:00:07.480 Sealers Podcast with your hosts Now fuck That with your 0:00:07.520 --> 0:00:10.200 loaw glasses Malone. 0:00:14.840 --> 0:00:20.360 I'm generalizing everybody, like I'm generalizing when i'm speaking, but 0:00:20.520 --> 0:00:22.160 I'm just I am in a way. 0:00:22.200 --> 0:00:24.759 I'm just speaking on the experiences of what I see. 0:00:25.120 --> 0:00:27.400 That's a bullshit cop out people use when they don't 0:00:27.480 --> 0:00:28.000 like the truth. 0:00:29.080 --> 0:00:32.159 I agree, that's a bullshit cop out. 0:00:32.600 --> 0:00:36.280 You can't say that it's true about every single person 0:00:36.320 --> 0:00:37.199 and everyone. 0:00:37.320 --> 0:00:38.239 You have to say some. 0:00:39.720 --> 0:00:44.080 Like it's like some makes it sound like it's a 0:00:44.120 --> 0:00:49.440 ten percent. Not it's a proprillari ninety percent. Deal with it, like. 0:00:49.440 --> 0:00:52.440 What you're trying to do, exclude you know I'm talking about. 0:00:52.200 --> 0:00:55.840 You, Yeah, one hundred percent. I could see where people 0:00:55.880 --> 0:00:58.600 will get bothered by some of the stuff Joways says 0:00:58.840 --> 0:01:03.520 because he says it in sort of like a way 0:01:03.560 --> 0:01:06.200 that comes off a little more nice and caring. So he, 0:01:06.640 --> 0:01:09.800 being the more nice and caring voice, says some ship 0:01:09.920 --> 0:01:12.240 that rubs you the wrong way, it's gonna hurt because 0:01:12.280 --> 0:01:14.600 he's he's he's like the advocate. He's like, oh no, 0:01:14.680 --> 0:01:17.160 he's a nice one. He doesn't like me I have 0:01:17.200 --> 0:01:17.839 to look in the mirror. 0:01:20.200 --> 0:01:22.759 Okay, man, I don't be liking him too as much 0:01:22.760 --> 0:01:23.080 as you. 0:01:24.120 --> 0:01:25.680 I'm crying because. 0:01:27.800 --> 0:01:30.479 But you know, I try to be respectful. Man. 0:01:30.520 --> 0:01:33.920 They make it tough. Though I don't admire everybody ship, 0:01:34.080 --> 0:01:39.480 they make it tough, man, just know. 0:01:44.560 --> 0:01:51.640 Okay. So I thought about this terminology finally. I call 0:01:51.720 --> 0:01:57.760 it rat fishing. Yes, And rat fishing is like when 0:01:57.840 --> 0:02:01.919 a rat when when a woman usest tactics to fish 0:02:02.000 --> 0:02:06.880 me in out of the pool, cood rat tactics. So 0:02:07.080 --> 0:02:07.960 like rat fishing. 0:02:10.720 --> 0:02:11.600 Yeah, that's funny. 0:02:11.960 --> 0:02:14.919 At first, I thought you was talking about niggas, calling niggasches. 0:02:14.960 --> 0:02:18.160 That didn't tell At first, that's what I thought he 0:02:18.200 --> 0:02:18.880 was talking about. 0:02:19.400 --> 0:02:25.240 No, no, but uh, it's economy interesting. 0:02:27.040 --> 0:02:30.560 So I was looking at the stuff and my homeboy 0:02:30.720 --> 0:02:33.720 was complaining about this girl and he like, look at 0:02:33.720 --> 0:02:38.160 the kind of picture she posting, Like his girl was 0:02:38.280 --> 0:02:43.640 on Instagram like posting pictures and I'm like, wait a minute, 0:02:43.680 --> 0:02:49.240 She's like, is she rat fishing for attention? Because I 0:02:49.320 --> 0:02:52.080 know her, so I'm like, she's not really a rat 0:02:52.120 --> 0:02:53.920 like that. Like she married, she been married for like 0:02:53.960 --> 0:02:56.400 twelve years, but she in a space to where she 0:02:56.600 --> 0:02:59.440 wants God's attention, So she's rat fishing. 0:03:00.480 --> 0:03:03.920 It's kind of like, uh, what Steph Curry wife was 0:03:03.919 --> 0:03:05.200 saying she was yearning. 0:03:04.919 --> 0:03:07.800 For Yeah, that type of intension. But did she start 0:03:07.880 --> 0:03:10.359 rat fishing. I don't think she started rat fishing. Did 0:03:10.440 --> 0:03:12.000 kind of go through a phase of rat fishing. 0:03:12.440 --> 0:03:14.880 Yeah, when she got like got in good shape and shit, 0:03:15.000 --> 0:03:16.760 she started getting the cracking. 0:03:18.240 --> 0:03:18.520 Yeah. 0:03:18.680 --> 0:03:21.240 She was never a bad looking lady neither. I don't 0:03:21.280 --> 0:03:24.079 know why. Yeah, I don't know. 0:03:24.120 --> 0:03:25.720 They was trying to say she was, though. 0:03:25.960 --> 0:03:28.079 I guess it's this thing where they feel like when 0:03:28.120 --> 0:03:33.680 you somebody like rich or wealthy or celebrity, that your 0:03:33.800 --> 0:03:37.840 mate is supposed to have this specific, significant aesthetic. 0:03:39.200 --> 0:03:44.720 M Yeah, So how would you feel, Pete if a 0:03:44.840 --> 0:03:48.040 girl you're interested in was rat fishing? Is it fail 0:03:48.120 --> 0:03:52.800 to say, Okay, let's we don't have a woman on 0:03:52.800 --> 0:03:57.440 this podcast, right, but let's really try to be intellectual 0:03:58.240 --> 0:04:02.400 and figure out why women are rat fishing now that 0:04:03.240 --> 0:04:06.160 now because they're not rats, I think that's the goal, right, 0:04:06.200 --> 0:04:10.240 So they're just using the tactics of the rat to fish. 0:04:15.240 --> 0:04:18.479 Why do women rat fish, Pete? 0:04:19.880 --> 0:04:24.920 Because in a lot of cases, it's the same thing 0:04:24.960 --> 0:04:32.120 that we I think we're talking about this before. It's 0:04:32.200 --> 0:04:42.000 their primary source indicator for self esteem. You know, I 0:04:42.040 --> 0:04:44.720 think I think you get desensitized to the man who 0:04:44.760 --> 0:04:49.560 loves you telling you he loves you you're pretty. Yeah, 0:04:49.560 --> 0:04:52.320 I heard that, Been there, done that. I want these 0:04:52.440 --> 0:04:55.159 random guys hitting on me so I know it's true 0:04:55.560 --> 0:04:57.680 because that's the number one way for me to feel 0:04:57.720 --> 0:04:58.560 good about myself. 0:04:59.360 --> 0:05:01.359 And you bet also you better not. 0:05:01.640 --> 0:05:03.640 But just because I want that, I also want you 0:05:03.720 --> 0:05:07.039 to continue to tell me no, how much, oh yeah, 0:05:07.200 --> 0:05:09.400 how bad and beautiful I am too, even if I'm 0:05:09.400 --> 0:05:10.320 sorry you saying it. 0:05:10.360 --> 0:05:12.360 I need it like you better keep saying it though, 0:05:12.960 --> 0:05:13.360 mm hmm. 0:05:15.480 --> 0:05:20.080 Do you feel like the average guy it's asked to 0:05:20.120 --> 0:05:23.760 compete with strangers like the in a relationship or in 0:05:23.800 --> 0:05:27.120 the marriage, like they're trying to compete with giving the 0:05:27.240 --> 0:05:31.200 old lady attention as much as strangers. 0:05:31.960 --> 0:05:43.000 A thousand percent people get left all the time, do they, Yeah, yeah, 0:05:43.160 --> 0:05:43.599 they do. 0:05:45.320 --> 0:05:48.560 I need more. I need more information. 0:05:48.160 --> 0:05:52.000 Pete, Well, I think about fifty two percent of marriages 0:05:52.000 --> 0:05:54.680 and the divorce not death in this country. Else, what 0:05:54.720 --> 0:06:01.599 do you need? Fuck, I'll bet you this much too. 0:06:03.560 --> 0:06:06.680 They said the number one This is we'll get a 0:06:06.680 --> 0:06:08.440 little you want to intellectual, get a little data different, 0:06:08.480 --> 0:06:12.039 a little data driven. Right now, it's more than half 0:06:12.040 --> 0:06:14.720 of marriages in the divorce not death. The number one 0:06:14.920 --> 0:06:19.800 reason for divorce and marriages in this country is money. Well, 0:06:20.040 --> 0:06:22.760 primary earners in most marriages are men, so they're not 0:06:22.760 --> 0:06:28.960 going to divorce themselves. The women do the divorcing over money. 0:06:30.120 --> 0:06:36.080 Why Probably because they got this little idea of seed 0:06:36.120 --> 0:06:38.200 plants it in the back of their head that they 0:06:38.200 --> 0:06:40.120 can find somebody who makes a little bit more. 0:06:41.680 --> 0:06:42.760 Is that really it? Though? 0:06:44.000 --> 0:06:44.640 Tell me it's not. 0:06:45.839 --> 0:06:48.120 I mean why why? Why is that? Why is that 0:06:48.160 --> 0:06:49.799 the percentage. 0:06:50.680 --> 0:06:52.200 Ask the people get into divorces? 0:06:52.440 --> 0:06:54.560 That's what I'm saying, Like, if that, if that's what 0:06:54.600 --> 0:06:56.640 the data is saying, like and it's some money being 0:06:56.839 --> 0:06:58.279 like it iss, dudes? 0:06:58.360 --> 0:07:02.280 Is dudes divorcing like women because of money? My deal? 0:07:03.200 --> 0:07:05.400 The only reason if you're the primary earner you would 0:07:05.400 --> 0:07:07.200 divorce the other person because of money is if they're 0:07:07.200 --> 0:07:09.720 blowing through all of your money. Yeah, even if they're 0:07:09.760 --> 0:07:11.560 blowing through all your money, they're still going to be 0:07:11.600 --> 0:07:13.720 the ones divorcing you because you ran out of money. 0:07:14.960 --> 0:07:17.320 Yeah, they're gonna say is your fault for letting me 0:07:17.360 --> 0:07:18.000 blow through it. 0:07:18.560 --> 0:07:18.840 Yeah. 0:07:19.960 --> 0:07:21.680 You should have been a better leader, You should have 0:07:21.680 --> 0:07:24.520 been better, you should have hit it better. 0:07:24.280 --> 0:07:25.200 You should have made more. 0:07:25.920 --> 0:07:26.960 Yeah. 0:07:27.000 --> 0:07:29.440 So it all goes down to you should have made more. 0:07:31.160 --> 0:07:34.080 Yeah. Yeah, and you know who, you know who at 0:07:34.160 --> 0:07:37.560 least can pretend to appear to be making more. All 0:07:37.600 --> 0:07:43.320 those fucking guys hard eye emoging you in your inbox? 0:07:43.360 --> 0:07:46.680 Would you post your rat trap pictures when you rat 0:07:46.720 --> 0:07:49.840 fish it exactly? Rat fish rat fish pictures? 0:07:49.880 --> 0:07:53.000 Yeah, Like, I won't the attention to holes get the 0:07:53.080 --> 0:07:55.280 rats get, but I don't want to be looked at 0:07:55.320 --> 0:07:55.880 as a rat. 0:07:57.920 --> 0:08:01.800 It's the interest rate envy principle from the other earlier episode. 0:08:02.280 --> 0:08:06.400 Oh the three p's no no this is that was 0:08:06.440 --> 0:08:08.120 something related to the three pece. 0:08:08.240 --> 0:08:11.720 Yeah, interest rate envy is I'm going to get the 0:08:11.720 --> 0:08:16.520 thirty year fixed five percent. That's the marriage, not the 0:08:17.160 --> 0:08:20.200 junk bond pussy where I can get twenty percent but 0:08:20.240 --> 0:08:22.080 the bottom could fall out in any time. But then 0:08:22.120 --> 0:08:24.240 the married girl goes out with her girlfriend, sees them 0:08:24.280 --> 0:08:27.920 out there junk bond attention like crazy. They get interest 0:08:28.040 --> 0:08:30.040 rate envy. Next thing you know, they're torking on the 0:08:30.080 --> 0:08:32.400 coffee table at the club because they need attention to 0:08:32.400 --> 0:08:34.559 to feel good about themselves, because God forbid, Ashley gets 0:08:34.600 --> 0:08:35.160 more attention in. 0:08:35.240 --> 0:08:46.680 Her no siblings, gl Pete spot like normal, who got 0:08:46.720 --> 0:08:49.560 my man? Joey Westside, who's starting to contribute a lot. 0:08:49.880 --> 0:08:52.640 I see people, I see some girls come talk to 0:08:52.679 --> 0:08:55.600 me about Joey Westside's opinion. One half of the LA. 0:08:55.559 --> 0:09:02.480 Giants said, don't get pussy. 0:09:03.120 --> 0:09:05.640 That was the critique. 0:09:06.880 --> 0:09:10.000 Ironically, I think that's the problem. I said that, oh, 0:09:10.000 --> 0:09:12.320 they get pussy. This is why they came up with 0:09:12.360 --> 0:09:16.400 these ideas. It's because they are having sex with a woman. 0:09:17.400 --> 0:09:21.000 They didn't just come up with this just because they 0:09:21.160 --> 0:09:24.160 looking at women from the outside. And I noticed that 0:09:24.240 --> 0:09:28.320 it's like like women don't want to hear anything negative 0:09:28.480 --> 0:09:32.960 about themselves for sure, for. 0:09:32.920 --> 0:09:35.199 Sure, allergic to accountability. 0:09:35.960 --> 0:09:39.480 Yeah, we already established that. Shout out to my brother Mukh. 0:09:40.840 --> 0:09:44.880 Yes for sure, So we shouldn't we not even we're 0:09:44.880 --> 0:09:47.440 not even suposed to have opinions about them at all. 0:09:49.880 --> 0:09:51.480 Yeah, I don't care I have opinions. 0:09:51.480 --> 0:09:53.720 So you're about you supposed to just shut up and 0:09:53.840 --> 0:09:58.599 just do as they say. 0:09:59.600 --> 0:10:05.560 That's so true, Well true, I guess so look, close 0:10:05.600 --> 0:10:07.040 your mouth and open your wallet. 0:10:07.960 --> 0:10:08.320 Man. 0:10:09.520 --> 0:10:15.920 Okay, let me get to my point. What do you 0:10:16.120 --> 0:10:21.400 tell a dude who's old lady is rat fishing and 0:10:21.440 --> 0:10:24.160 they're in a relationship or mary? Is it safe to 0:10:24.160 --> 0:10:24.920 say it's over? 0:10:29.720 --> 0:10:31.880 I don't like to just I wouldn't want to put 0:10:31.920 --> 0:10:34.000 that because I don't know. 0:10:34.360 --> 0:10:37.080 I wouldn't know. Is it safe to say it? It's 0:10:37.120 --> 0:10:40.320 safe to say it. Yeah, it's safe to say it. 0:10:40.360 --> 0:10:46.559 Doesn't make it absolute. But that is kind of crazy 0:10:46.600 --> 0:10:49.880 if you're in a relationship and you out here rat fishing, like, 0:10:49.960 --> 0:10:51.720 why what are you doing that for? And then if 0:10:51.760 --> 0:10:53.880 you ask them, okay, so why why are you doing that? 0:10:54.080 --> 0:10:57.480 The first thing they gonna say is for myself? It 0:10:57.480 --> 0:10:59.280 ain't for no attention. I don't care about it. I 0:10:59.280 --> 0:11:01.760 don't know why women don't like they admit they like. 0:11:01.760 --> 0:11:06.080 A fucking stupid themselves on their own bathroom wall. 0:11:06.120 --> 0:11:10.520 Then see, you do like attention, and it's okay. We 0:11:10.600 --> 0:11:12.520 all be wanting attention sometimes, right. 0:11:12.920 --> 0:11:16.280 I think I think you solve the problem when you 0:11:16.360 --> 0:11:17.559 admit you want attention. 0:11:18.320 --> 0:11:21.520 It's that's it. Now. Now it's like cool, like, okay, 0:11:21.760 --> 0:11:23.520 you want attention. But now she. 0:11:23.559 --> 0:11:32.240 Felt bad about wanting that attention. Huh, And that's aw 0:11:32.720 --> 0:11:37.160 using they are. That's how like they're wired? Are they 0:11:37.240 --> 0:11:39.559 wires are like like when you be at the studio 0:11:39.600 --> 0:11:42.559 and you see all that ship behind it behind the console, 0:11:43.000 --> 0:11:43.240 and that. 0:11:43.200 --> 0:11:44.240 Shit be just crazy. 0:11:44.520 --> 0:11:48.719 That's that's their minds right there. Why don't they want 0:11:48.760 --> 0:11:52.640 to admit they like attention? Pete? If that if innately 0:11:53.120 --> 0:11:58.560 women desire attention, what's the issue in wanting attention, why 0:11:58.559 --> 0:11:59.480 won't they admit that? 0:12:00.760 --> 0:12:04.079 Well? I think it's the type of attention. For one, 0:12:04.120 --> 0:12:09.040 they want attention. It's easy to put all a little 0:12:09.080 --> 0:12:10.520 less clothes and show a little. 0:12:10.280 --> 0:12:11.080 Skin and get attention. 0:12:11.160 --> 0:12:14.640 It takes ten minutes. Otherwise, you got to earn attention 0:12:14.760 --> 0:12:16.439 a long way on the marriage by some sort of 0:12:16.480 --> 0:12:19.640 an accomplishment that could involve work. They're lazy, they're not 0:12:19.640 --> 0:12:23.400 going to want to do that. Furthermore, I think it 0:12:23.400 --> 0:12:26.560 comes down to that there's this I want to do 0:12:26.600 --> 0:12:29.160 what I want to do, but I want to be 0:12:29.200 --> 0:12:31.920 perceived how I want to be perceived conflict, And those 0:12:31.960 --> 0:12:37.880 two run perpendicularly to one another. True, So if you 0:12:37.920 --> 0:12:39.920 call them out on their shit, then then then they're 0:12:39.920 --> 0:12:43.040 in the intersection of their own conflict because well, I 0:12:43.040 --> 0:12:45.280 actually all to do what I want to do, and 0:12:45.400 --> 0:12:46.760 you shouldn't be able to think about me how you 0:12:46.800 --> 0:12:49.360 want to think about me. It's like, well that's not reality. 0:12:49.559 --> 0:12:53.520 So how's that working for you? That's never gonna, never 0:12:53.559 --> 0:12:53.960 gonna play. 0:12:54.400 --> 0:12:58.000 I always say that if you wear a police uniform, 0:12:58.320 --> 0:12:59.880 people might think you're the police. 0:13:00.920 --> 0:13:01.720 This is for sure. 0:13:03.880 --> 0:13:07.599 Yeah, so if you out here such that if you 0:13:07.720 --> 0:13:10.719 wear a police uniform it's a crime. 0:13:13.200 --> 0:13:21.400 That is true. You're impersonating. Yeah, imagine a motherfucker in 0:13:21.440 --> 0:13:24.560 your in a car behind you in a police car 0:13:25.320 --> 0:13:31.400 with a uniform, pulling you over and just walking up 0:13:31.440 --> 0:13:34.000 talking to you like yeah, I'm not the police, and 0:13:34.080 --> 0:13:35.600 you're like, but you're in the car, like, well it 0:13:35.640 --> 0:13:38.640 don't matter. It doesn't matter that I'm in the car, but. 0:13:38.600 --> 0:13:42.880 You're wearing don't mean I'm a police? Did I did 0:13:42.880 --> 0:13:43.400 I arrest? 0:13:45.040 --> 0:13:45.760 That's a woman. 0:13:48.760 --> 0:13:56.239 It's like like guys who have, you know, regular jobs, 0:13:56.720 --> 0:14:00.079 but want to dress what a lot of jewelry and 0:14:00.080 --> 0:14:02.200 and have a nice not not a nice car, but 0:14:02.320 --> 0:14:05.240 like like a box Chevy on twenty eighth you you 0:14:05.360 --> 0:14:08.479 kind of look like a drug dealer and then complaining 0:14:08.520 --> 0:14:11.480 about getting pulled over when you drive through an area? 0:14:11.559 --> 0:14:15.800 What are some drug sales? Police should spend more time 0:14:17.080 --> 0:14:22.440 pulling over women profiling them as prostitutes. 0:14:23.400 --> 0:14:24.960 If you if you rat fish and that's. 0:14:24.840 --> 0:14:27.520 Fair, M. 0:14:27.560 --> 0:14:29.320 You could be just you could just be hitting the 0:14:29.400 --> 0:14:31.840 liquor store on fig but wearing some bullshit. But you 0:14:31.880 --> 0:14:34.280 ain't one of the holes. And now you offended because 0:14:34.280 --> 0:14:35.600 they thought you was, Hey. 0:14:35.440 --> 0:14:37.520 What the fuck you wearing the same shit she went. 0:14:37.480 --> 0:14:41.000 On Figueroa on fig. 0:14:43.920 --> 0:14:44.160 Or. 0:14:44.320 --> 0:14:47.520 Now that so much prostitutors moved to the internet, they 0:14:47.520 --> 0:14:54.280 should just be getting warrants into your Instagram in box. M. 0:14:55.440 --> 0:14:56.239 It's fucking. 0:14:58.760 --> 0:15:01.600 So this can't be into actual at all. Their positioning 0:15:02.080 --> 0:15:04.240 on this can't be intellectual at all. 0:15:04.640 --> 0:15:06.960 I'm sorry you asking if a woman's position is going 0:15:06.960 --> 0:15:08.560 to be intellectual at all. Is that just happened. 0:15:11.280 --> 0:15:12.840 You're trying to give them grace. 0:15:12.960 --> 0:15:15.240 Yes, because I'm sure they think if. 0:15:15.120 --> 0:15:16.960 They want grace, they can go to church. 0:15:18.240 --> 0:15:21.600 They do go there after the club on Saturday. But 0:15:21.640 --> 0:15:26.080 that's not the point. The point I'm saying is. The 0:15:26.160 --> 0:15:32.160 point I'm saying is they have to for months going 0:15:32.200 --> 0:15:38.160 to hell. Man. What I'm saying is they have to 0:15:38.240 --> 0:15:45.400 think period. Women are not stupid. They know how to think, right, 0:15:45.920 --> 0:15:50.080 But I just think they choose to feel more than 0:15:50.120 --> 0:15:53.560 they choose to think, Like right, they put their intuition 0:15:54.600 --> 0:16:00.200 over the processing. You know that we call thinking what 0:16:00.320 --> 0:16:04.240 feels better. So I think that's why they find themselves 0:16:04.280 --> 0:16:07.320 in that position to be rat fishing, whereas like, well, 0:16:07.480 --> 0:16:09.320 all of these girls are doing it, so it can't 0:16:09.320 --> 0:16:12.880 be that bad. You get what I'm saying. Does that 0:16:12.920 --> 0:16:13.360 make sense? 0:16:13.680 --> 0:16:16.880 Yeah? And I think a relative to men, men are 0:16:16.960 --> 0:16:23.680 conscious of the sustainability of systems in general because like 0:16:23.840 --> 0:16:29.000 through civilizational history, we're out more, they're in more, you know, 0:16:29.880 --> 0:16:33.640 so they're more so just like focused on doing what 0:16:33.680 --> 0:16:35.480 they want to do for themselves the way they want 0:16:35.480 --> 0:16:37.520 to do it, et cetera, because they're in more. It's 0:16:37.560 --> 0:16:43.920 throughout history, Yeah, and culture gets handed down generationally. Well, 0:16:43.960 --> 0:16:46.720 now they're out more and they're doing things that are 0:16:46.720 --> 0:16:51.520 not systems sustainable, and you start to see some of 0:16:51.520 --> 0:16:56.400 the ramifications kicking in, Like the state of relationship health 0:16:56.680 --> 0:16:58.720 in the community is not so strong. 0:17:00.040 --> 0:17:03.600 Give me some examples, like what do you mean, Well. 0:17:03.400 --> 0:17:05.439 There's not a lot of high marriage rate, there's a 0:17:05.440 --> 0:17:07.560 lot of high single parent rate. There's a lot of 0:17:07.640 --> 0:17:11.439 high unhappiness rates, all kinds of things like that. And 0:17:11.480 --> 0:17:15.960 if this particular behavior contributes to a lot of those things, 0:17:17.280 --> 0:17:20.159 it's acting in a manner of self interest in the 0:17:20.200 --> 0:17:24.240 way that is not bigger picture system sustainably conscious. 0:17:25.720 --> 0:17:29.880 Back to that interest envy. What they don't understand that 0:17:30.320 --> 0:17:33.879 the single woman that they're looking at, that's you know, 0:17:34.960 --> 0:17:39.119 that's having these high yield situations are far few and 0:17:39.200 --> 0:17:43.200 in between, and at a cost that's that's not even 0:17:43.200 --> 0:17:46.440 sustainable over the long world. 0:17:46.880 --> 0:17:48.480 Yeah, you know what, It's kind of like, it's like 0:17:49.800 --> 0:17:52.760 everybody on the freeway, you know, there's the merge, two 0:17:52.840 --> 0:17:56.399 lanes are coming together, there's traffic, so one asshole pulls 0:17:56.440 --> 0:17:58.200 out to the riot and tries to cut off twenty 0:17:58.240 --> 0:18:06.560 cars up at the front, right. Yeah, the greater you know, 0:18:07.200 --> 0:18:10.119 seven to ten south can sustain that one car, but 0:18:10.200 --> 0:18:13.080 if every car did that at all times, it would 0:18:13.119 --> 0:18:15.960 be pandemonium. There has to be system order in order 0:18:15.960 --> 0:18:17.399 for the thing to even work. 0:18:18.640 --> 0:18:20.680 Which is why I sen's the law to just cross 0:18:20.760 --> 0:18:27.000 multiple lanes exactly. And women do have that wanting to 0:18:27.040 --> 0:18:30.560 be everything that's deep. 0:18:32.600 --> 0:18:40.520 Yeah, man, they there's some interesting special creations man. 0:18:41.400 --> 0:18:41.640 Yeah. 0:18:41.800 --> 0:18:48.399 Yeah, you ever met a girl rat fishing a single 0:18:48.440 --> 0:18:50.600 girl rat fishing pete, and she tried to hold it 0:18:50.640 --> 0:18:53.240 like she wasn't ratting, like she wasn't a rat. 0:18:53.400 --> 0:18:54.440 I have met a woman before. 0:18:55.200 --> 0:18:58.560 Tell me about meeting that woman before that was rat fishing. 0:18:59.080 --> 0:19:02.959 And then you approached her in like a true rat. 0:19:03.160 --> 0:19:05.240 Maybe you didn't approach it like a true rat. Maybe 0:19:05.280 --> 0:19:09.080 you was like you still gave her a level of respect, 0:19:09.160 --> 0:19:09.920 you didn't treat her. 0:19:11.200 --> 0:19:13.800 It depends you got to operate in the self serving fashion. 0:19:13.880 --> 0:19:18.440 So you can't just like, you know, you don't necessarily 0:19:18.440 --> 0:19:19.760 want to blitz on first and ten. 0:19:21.000 --> 0:19:23.720 But I mean. 0:19:26.040 --> 0:19:29.200 That's the that's the whole thing. It's like, you're not 0:19:29.240 --> 0:19:31.720 really going to effectively meet a woman that way. It's 0:19:31.800 --> 0:19:35.560 very rare because they're not in it for interactions, in 0:19:35.640 --> 0:19:40.399 it for one way street attention. They just want, you know, 0:19:40.680 --> 0:19:45.000 reinforcement of their own ego at every opportunity possible. 0:19:45.760 --> 0:19:49.080 Just okay, well tell me logically, how do they think 0:19:49.160 --> 0:19:53.640 that's supposed them? Sorry? What tell me logically? I'm asking you? 0:19:54.320 --> 0:19:54.960 Yeah, what was that? 0:19:55.040 --> 0:19:55.119 That? 0:19:55.240 --> 0:19:58.240 No, the word you just used logically, why did you 0:19:58.320 --> 0:19:58.880 use that word? 0:19:58.960 --> 0:19:59.880 Because I'm talking to. 0:20:01.560 --> 0:20:03.640 But in the context of them. 0:20:03.960 --> 0:20:07.760 No, No, I'm asking you to logically process for me. 0:20:08.160 --> 0:20:11.480 You if you were, if you're an attorney in court 0:20:12.400 --> 0:20:23.720 defending a woman rat fishing, I would tell her to plea. 0:20:24.440 --> 0:20:27.439 She like, no, peak, that's the logical thing to do. No, 0:20:27.880 --> 0:20:30.240 she said, no, Pete, I do not want to please. 0:20:30.280 --> 0:20:31.879 I want you to beat this case. I have the 0:20:31.880 --> 0:20:35.359 one hundred thousand dollars for this case for you to 0:20:35.400 --> 0:20:40.760 defend me and this accusation of rat fishing. Logically, how 0:20:40.760 --> 0:20:44.879 would you explain that mentality. Let's say a husband is 0:20:44.960 --> 0:20:48.240 divorcing his wife because he caught her rat fishing. 0:20:49.359 --> 0:20:52.159 Yeah, well, what you're going to have to do is 0:20:52.200 --> 0:20:54.160 you're going to have to turn it into a self 0:20:54.200 --> 0:20:57.000 defense case. You're going to have to go on a 0:20:57.080 --> 0:20:59.920 laundry list of all the shortcomings that the male performed 0:21:00.000 --> 0:21:02.879 which begrudgingly drove this woman to those actions. Because it 0:21:02.880 --> 0:21:05.560 couldn't possibly be her own interest, in her own personal 0:21:05.560 --> 0:21:07.080 flaws that drove out to these actions. You gotta be 0:21:07.119 --> 0:21:13.160 driven by an external force of dissatisfaction, shortcoming, et cetera. 0:21:13.200 --> 0:21:16.320 And we aren't in any way, shape or form going 0:21:16.320 --> 0:21:19.320 to self incriminate. We're gonna hide behind the Fifth Amendment 0:21:19.320 --> 0:21:22.159 at any opportunity if we're going to ask the question 0:21:22.200 --> 0:21:25.080 of the woman, do you maybe possibly see that you 0:21:25.119 --> 0:21:27.680 have a trend for not picking the right type of man, 0:21:28.200 --> 0:21:30.040 Because that's not good. We don't want to go anywhere 0:21:30.080 --> 0:21:31.639 near that. We're gonna stay far away from that. 0:21:31.960 --> 0:21:33.199 Away from accountability. 0:21:33.440 --> 0:21:38.240 Yeah, we they're inability to pick the right man. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, 0:21:38.400 --> 0:21:41.000 that's that's like a hair follicle. We don't want that. 0:21:41.760 --> 0:21:44.159 So we're gonna we're gonna stay away from the DNA, 0:21:44.560 --> 0:21:48.960 and we're gonna just just just go behind you know theory. Yeah, 0:21:49.080 --> 0:21:51.840 just just no fence, no hold on the other guy 0:21:52.160 --> 0:21:55.240 hard no, yeah, put it on the other guy. She 0:21:55.440 --> 0:21:58.520 you felt, you know, now you felt threatened, but I 0:21:59.040 --> 0:22:04.080 felt ignored. I felt dissatisfied. If all these are the things, 0:22:05.359 --> 0:22:05.960 of course. 0:22:06.200 --> 0:22:12.840 So take the traditional woman approach, which is disregarding accountability. Absolutely, 0:22:14.920 --> 0:22:17.320 holy shit, for sure. 0:22:17.359 --> 0:22:19.399 Great way of letting you letting it be known that 0:22:19.440 --> 0:22:20.399 it's the man's fault. 0:22:20.800 --> 0:22:23.720 Really, where this trial's gonna live or die is in 0:22:23.840 --> 0:22:27.960 jury selection, because you need you need twelve women otherwise, 0:22:29.920 --> 0:22:31.879 otherwise the jury is a best going to be as 0:22:31.920 --> 0:22:34.320 hung as the gentleman, you know, being trapped in the 0:22:34.400 --> 0:22:37.359 rat fishing you know, trial scenario. 0:22:37.480 --> 0:22:42.240 Yes, huh could you deal with your wife rat fish 0:22:42.280 --> 0:22:42.760 and Joey? 0:22:42.920 --> 0:22:43.440 If you know? 0:22:45.080 --> 0:22:47.000 How many pictures would it take before you be like 0:22:47.040 --> 0:22:52.439 this is enough? Immediately the first picture? 0:22:53.800 --> 0:22:56.600 Oh yeah, immediately, because it'd be so new to me. 0:22:56.640 --> 0:22:58.400 I'll be like, what's this? What's that? 0:22:58.920 --> 0:23:00.959 She's like, well, you know I'm posting a picture. 0:23:01.640 --> 0:23:03.440 No, it's not a picture, that's ass. 0:23:03.840 --> 0:23:05.879 No, But I'm wearing a swimsuit. 0:23:06.560 --> 0:23:16.120 Remember her house party three? That ain't no, that's ass. Okay, 0:23:16.520 --> 0:23:18.919 if you got on a bikini, If you got on 0:23:19.000 --> 0:23:21.000 a bikini you at the beach, that's fair. 0:23:21.040 --> 0:23:23.159 But what kind of bikini though? Is you turned around? 0:23:23.240 --> 0:23:25.160 Is it with the throng? You know what I'm saying? 0:23:25.200 --> 0:23:29.359