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Speaker 1: Second date. A girl on the phone for today's second

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Speaker 1: how you doing, Maddie, I'm good. How are y'all doing?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, you do sound like someone who just

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Speaker 1: comes on so strong. Maddie. Where did you meet this guy?

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Speaker 1: Kind of a weird story, but I actually met him

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Speaker 1: on the app Offer up. Do you know what that is? Yeah? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's like the cooler form of Craigslist, but it's a

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Speaker 1: little less murdery. Yeah, you just like buy and sell

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Speaker 1: stuff from people like Facebook Marketplace. Yeah. So, anyway, I

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Speaker 1: was going to buy this guitar from this guy named Derek.

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Speaker 1: Do you play guitar? No, I'm redoing my apartment, but

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Speaker 1: I thought it would look cute. I have just like

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Speaker 1: reading the whole thing. Okay, buying musical instruments for decoration,

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Speaker 1: that's cute. I mean, like if I have a party

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Speaker 1: someone else could play in, or it's obviously just a

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Speaker 1: Because I'm guessing the guy that you bought the guitar

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Speaker 1: from is who you went out with. Yeah, we guy

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Speaker 1: named Derek. We met at a coffee shop and I

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Speaker 1: to him and I was like, he was really cute

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Speaker 1: then with guitars, tell you now to stay away. When

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Speaker 1: he offered to buy my coffee, okay wow, And I

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Speaker 1: if he's offering then right, So did you guys actually

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Speaker 1: give him the money and that was it. Yeah, we

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Speaker 1: like talked very briefly. I mean, he bought my coffee,

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Speaker 1: We exchanged guitars and like harded ways and then like

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Speaker 1: not even an hour later, he texted me okay, and

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Speaker 1: he was like, I didn't want to like ask you

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Speaker 1: You guys went on a date date. Yeah, that's a

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Speaker 1: classy move. Where did he take you? It was one

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Speaker 1: of those bars where you throw axes. Oh yeah, you

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Speaker 1: to hold axes. He plays guitar like hard and so

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Speaker 1: many red flags already. How was the axe throwing? Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, it was so fun. You have to go,

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Speaker 1: but they do cut you off like you can only

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Speaker 1: have like two drinks. Oh, it's just smart, right, So

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Speaker 1: I invited him back my place, but it was like

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Speaker 1: not that late. Yeah, you could play me a song

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Speaker 1: I know how this night ended for her. Well you're

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Speaker 1: he plays me at Sweet Caroline, And I jokingly was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: is that the best song you know how to play? Joe, No,

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Speaker 1: you can't poke funded a man playing guitar for you

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Speaker 1: that that's a serious moment for any guy. I'm with you, though,

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Speaker 1: as soon as you said, he started playing Sweet Carolina,

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Speaker 1: Like I thought he was going to like show off

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Speaker 1: I mean, what did he say? He was like, Oh no, no,

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Speaker 1: I can play this off like mumbly, you know how

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Speaker 1: mean that's like obviously a Joe. It wasn't really though, obviously. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: So that's why you think that you maybe offended him.

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Speaker 1: I mean that's all I can think of, because I

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Speaker 1: weird fun day. How long has it been since he

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Speaker 1: ten days or something? Wow? Okay, Well, if we get

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Speaker 1: she bought a guitar are from him on a marketplace app.

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Speaker 1: Totally joking. Yeah, Well it may have offended him and

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Speaker 1: the joke might not have come across because now she's

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Speaker 1: not getting a call back from this guy. Derek Brooke,

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Speaker 1: maybe you have some mom advice for this young single woman.

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Speaker 1: I am also a woman who has dated many men. Okay,

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Speaker 1: it'd fallen for guitar players myself twenty years ago. Drawn

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Speaker 1: your experien It's a trap, that's all I'm saying, Maddie.

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Speaker 1: They're all a trap. Okay. And maybe maybe he doesn't

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Speaker 1: Oh it's like his move Yeah no, no, no, it

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Speaker 1: was like really cute it for him. To play a song.

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Speaker 1: But I mean, if you're going to like serenade a

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Speaker 1: in the lap ten twenty years, right, I mean it's

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Speaker 1: you're not actually judging your date based on his guitar knowledge, totally. Okay, Okay,

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Speaker 1: we're all clear. Now let's give Derek a call. Are

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Speaker 1: you ready? Yes, let's do this. I'm to be quiet,

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Speaker 1: right yeah, So so try and be quiet and we'll

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Speaker 1: try and get the reason why he's not calling you back. Okay, Okay,

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Speaker 1: here we go. Hello, can I speak to Derek please?

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Speaker 1: This is Eric. Hey, my name's Young Jeffrey from the

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Speaker 1: radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. How are

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Speaker 1: sounds like some angry listening that you've been doing. Very

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Speaker 1: I have? Sorry, I feel like we're annoying you, Derek?

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Speaker 1: Is this a bad time? How can I help you? Okay,

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Speaker 1: we're doing a segment, right, now called a second date update.

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Speaker 1: It's where we call people who are blowing someone off

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Speaker 1: after they went on on a date with that person. Okay,

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Speaker 1: and so you recently went up with a girl named

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Speaker 1: Maddie and she's wondering why you're not calling back. Oh

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Speaker 1: oh my god? Whoa. Oh so you remember Maddie? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Like obviously that's his excuse. Okay, so that's not the

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Speaker 1: I mean, you were attracted to her at some point? Right? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I mean, look, she seemed like she was a lot

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Speaker 1: wait is it her high maintenance coffee order? That? No? No,

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Speaker 1: ask her why though, Well, she said that she thought

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Speaker 1: That is kind of funny in an unstable kind of way.

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Speaker 1: I mean, eco cho, I'm sorry. How rude are you?

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Speaker 1: Did you really just say slow down? Maddie? Yeah? Yeah, okay, wait, Maddie,

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Speaker 1: doors It seems like a good reason to move on. Maddie. Well,

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Speaker 1: he is because it's easier. I don't think anyone's debating that,

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Speaker 1: But I mean, why would you want to live next

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Speaker 1: to that? Yeah, Maddie, if this guy is such a

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Speaker 1: him to make him what he deserves to see me

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Speaker 1: hanging out with my girlfriend. But Maddie, that's what social

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Speaker 1: partying with your friends, like on Instagram. I know I

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Speaker 1: He blocked me on Venmo people. Oh wow, he doesn't

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Speaker 1: even want your money, Betty, You are better than him.

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Speaker 1: Stops doing to this level. I mean, you cannot let

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Speaker 1: of get I know, I'm not gonna lie in uno.

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Speaker 1: So that doesn't none of this feels awkward to you, Maddie.

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Speaker 1: You feel totally comfortable seeing him all the time. And yeah,

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Speaker 1: he is the one that should have left, and hopefully

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Speaker 1: he'll get the picture and he'll leave. Oh okay, so

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Speaker 1: you're waiting him out. Okay, well at least you're not

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Speaker 1: going to move when he moves. Yeah, you're waiting him

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Speaker 1: out or you're not over him. I don't know, we're

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Speaker 1: I mean I think we're we're like flying somewhere. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: in both zones right now? Well, yeah, I mean either way, Like,

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Speaker 1: whatever the reason is, you shouldn't tell a guy who

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Speaker 1: you're on a first date with that your ex lives

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Speaker 1: in the same building as you. Like that just a

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Speaker 1: really weird vibe. And okay, honestly just makes the guy

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Speaker 1: scared and made me want to just run away. I'm

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Speaker 1: sorry I made you feel that way. But I just

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Speaker 1: wanted you to know that if we ran into him,

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Speaker 1: or if he was around, then you would have known,

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Speaker 1: you know. But like just you just don't think about it.

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Speaker 1: I don't think about it. What's wrong with you? Stop

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Speaker 1: thinking about it? Okay o, Maddie. He does bring up

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Speaker 1: a good point, Maddie. I mean that's like more like

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Speaker 1: fourth date topic. Once you've got the guy hooked and

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Speaker 1: then he can't go back because he already likes you,

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Speaker 1: that's when you drop knowledge like that. I barely see him.

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Speaker 1: I see once a week at most, and it's like

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Speaker 1: in passing. I mean, yeah, I think the real question is, Maddie,

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Speaker 1: are you sure you're ready to move on? Are you

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Speaker 1: sure you're ready to date? Yeah? Honestly, Derek, you have

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Speaker 1: nothing to worry about. Your like way bigger than him.

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Speaker 1: And if we did see him and like things that

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Speaker 1: in times, you could definitely beat him up. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: I would have to move for you to date me.

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Speaker 1: Is that what you're saying? I mean, that's like the

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Speaker 1: bare minimum that you have to do to Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: Now who's been high maintenance your expectations here. Let's let's

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Speaker 1: see if if Derek is open for this. Derek, would

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Speaker 1: you be willing to go out on a second date

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Speaker 1: with Maddie? We will offer to pay for it. Yeah. No,

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Speaker 1: Why Hey, she's got to wash her and dryer. Derek,

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Speaker 1: you could bring over loads of laudry. That's very enticing.

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Speaker 1: But I'm good, I'm good. Okay, Maddie. Have we learned

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Speaker 1: anything from this? Yeah? But he's high maintenance and the worst.

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Speaker 1: I think that's right. Yes, men are high maintenance and

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Speaker 1: the worst. Yea, and the worst. We are the worst, Maddie.

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Speaker 1: I am so sorry. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning