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Speaker 1: going to read this one right here.

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Speaker 2: Right now. You never know, it could be yours.

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Speaker 3: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight.

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Speaker 3: We got it for you. Here it is Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, nephew. Subject.

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Speaker 1: He's a big man with a small mind, Just Stephen Shirley.

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Speaker 1: I used to think I was the luckiest girl in

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Speaker 1: my city because of who I was dating. My boyfriend

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Speaker 1: is tall, with creamy brown skin and a decent body.

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Speaker 1: He's on the city council, and he sits on the

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Speaker 1: board of a very prestigious private club in our city,

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Speaker 1: and he's known for making things happen in our community.

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Speaker 2: Dating him is not what I expected it to be, though.

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Speaker 1: As soon as he changes out of his suit, he

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Speaker 1: reverts to the little boy from the hood, and it's scary.

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Speaker 2: To be around him.

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Speaker 1: He won't just have one drink, it's half the bottle.

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Speaker 1: So I have to entertain him and laugh at his

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Speaker 1: drunken sense of humor.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know he smoked in a ray of things,

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Speaker 1: but he does, and he tried to do it in

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Speaker 1: my house, but that's a no.

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Speaker 4: No.

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Speaker 1: Sex is just as ghetto as he is, and it's

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Speaker 1: a turn off unless he's sober. When he's drunk, he

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Speaker 1: says all kinds of crazy things to me, like we're

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Speaker 1: in a music video. There's no telling what he will say,

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Speaker 1: and sometimes I can't help but laugh. In his car,

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Speaker 1: he keeps mouth washed, breath mint, and gum to hide

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Speaker 1: what he did the night before. The thing that really

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Speaker 1: bothers me about him is how closed minded he is

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Speaker 1: in real life. We've been together for five months, and

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Speaker 1: we decided that we'd meet each other's family during the holidays.

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Speaker 1: He told me that he doesn't fly at all, so

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Speaker 1: we'd have to drive. I did not push the issue

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Speaker 1: because clearly he's heared to fly. He's never been out

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Speaker 1: of the country and said he has no interest in

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Speaker 1: seeing anything outside of Michigan. Yesterday, he said I should

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Speaker 1: not hang on his every word because black people won't

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Speaker 1: ever be equal to white he says he tells the

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Speaker 1: community what they want to hear. Can I reprogram this

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Speaker 1: forty four year old man's brain and show him how

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Speaker 1: to live? Or is this as good as it gets?

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Speaker 1: Should I run for the hills. I don't even know

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Speaker 1: why you guys are together at all, because there you go.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you've been with this man for five months

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Speaker 1: and you're already trying to change him. You said you

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Speaker 1: want to reprogram his brain. I mean you're still getting

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Speaker 1: to know him, and so far you don't like anything

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Speaker 1: about him. I mean, this is.

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Speaker 2: Who he is.

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Speaker 1: And while you have major issues with how and who

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Speaker 1: he is, he seems to be fine with who he is.

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Speaker 2: You said dating him is not what you thought.

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Speaker 1: It was going to be, and and yeah, that's a no,

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Speaker 1: a resounding no. If you didn't know that he smokes

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Speaker 1: everything like you say, and that he drinks, and you

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Speaker 1: said it's scary to be around him. You said even

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Speaker 1: sex with him is ghetto unless he's sober. I mean,

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Speaker 1: your letter is full of complaints about this man, full

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Speaker 1: of judgments about this man. Why are you still dating

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Speaker 1: this man? Are you waiting for him to change? Because

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Speaker 1: that's not going to happen. He doesn't want to fly

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Speaker 1: at all. He's not interested in traveling anywhere outside of Michigan.

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Speaker 1: We love Detroit, we love Michigan, all of that, but

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Speaker 1: there's a whole world out there waiting to be seen.

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Speaker 2: And I just don't understand what you guys have in common.

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Speaker 2: You have not named one thing.

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Speaker 1: This forty year old man slash city councilman is stuck

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Speaker 1: in his ways, and you can't change him, no matter

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Speaker 1: how much you may want to. He's got power and

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Speaker 1: position in his city, and he's cool with just the

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Speaker 1: way things are. So your decision is to either accept

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Speaker 1: who he's gonna be, or.

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Speaker 2: Just get out while you can.

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Speaker 4: Steve Lord, he's strawberry letters man. For those of you

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Speaker 4: to think we make this up, listen to me. Ain't

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Speaker 4: nobody got this type of mind on the show. Can't

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Speaker 4: nobody come up with this right here?

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Speaker 3: This is not Listen to me. The whole letter is

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Speaker 3: a contradiction.

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Speaker 4: I don't understand how people write this much information and

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Speaker 4: read it back and press sin.

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Speaker 3: This don't make no sense, Dear Stephen Shirley.

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Speaker 4: I used to think I was the luckiest girl in

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Speaker 4: my city because of who I was dating.

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Speaker 3: When did you think this?

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Speaker 4: When? I gotta just say when, because right after this

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Speaker 4: then you say, he's on the city council sits on

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Speaker 4: the board of a proceduous private club. He's known for

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Speaker 4: making things happen in our committey, in our community.

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Speaker 3: But then right after that, after you told me what

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Speaker 3: the guy was.

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Speaker 4: Then you said, dating him is not what I expected

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Speaker 4: it to be though, right, okay, So when did you

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Speaker 4: think you was the.

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Speaker 3: Luckiest girl in the city because of who you was dating?

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Speaker 4: Because as soon as you started dating it, you said

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Speaker 4: it turned out to be not what you think it was.

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Speaker 4: You know, he tall, with creamy brown skin and a

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Speaker 4: decent body. See right there, that's a that's that's up

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Speaker 4: for a conjecture. Decent body. That means we're dealing with

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Speaker 4: several flaws. But he's tall, in creamy whatever, any powerful,

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Speaker 4: So you overlooked it.

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Speaker 3: But den you say dating him wasn't that you expected

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Speaker 3: it to be.

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Speaker 4: As soon as he changes out of his suit, he

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Speaker 4: reverts to the little boy from the hood, and it's

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Speaker 4: scared to be around him. He won't have this wine

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Speaker 4: drink is half the bottle, So I gotta entertain him

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Speaker 4: and laugh and his drunken sense of humor.

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Speaker 3: No you don't, No, you don't.

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Speaker 4: I didn't know he smoked at a rare things he does,

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Speaker 4: and he's tried to do it in my house, and

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Speaker 4: that's a no no.

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Speaker 3: All right.

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Speaker 4: Now he's smoking weed and a couple of other things.

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Speaker 4: I don't know what if he's smoking.

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Speaker 2: All right, Hang on, Steve's stop this him.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll have part two of your response coming up

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Speaker 1: at twenty three minutes.

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Speaker 2: After the hour.

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Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry letter subject is he's a big man with

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Speaker 1: a small mind. We'll get back into it right after this.

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Speaker 2: You're listening hard morning show.

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Speaker 1: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: The subject is a big man with a small mind.

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Speaker 4: All right, So let me take you all through this quickly.

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Speaker 4: This woman wrote us and said she used to think

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Speaker 4: she was the luckiest girl in the city because of

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Speaker 4: who she was dating. Her boyfriend is tall, creamy, brown skinned,

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Speaker 4: decent body. So the title of the letter now throws me.

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Speaker 4: He's a big man with a small mind, brown skinned,

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Speaker 4: decent body, brown skinned, decent body. Subject of the letter,

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Speaker 4: he's a big man with a small mind. Okay, all right,

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Speaker 4: So fat boy is now in the leuth I overlooked

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Speaker 4: at it one time. Tyler letter is, he's a big

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Speaker 4: man with a decent body. Now, when we big man

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Speaker 4: with decent body, we fat ass dudes, that's what we are.

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Speaker 2: Wow, I don't know how you got that out of that.

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Speaker 4: Well, Charley, come on, now, yeah, he's a big man

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Speaker 4: and he's brown skinned, creamy, he got decent body.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but she meant like a big man in the

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Speaker 1: city's city councilman.

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Speaker 2: You know he's a mover and what now?

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Speaker 4: Okay, then, then what she had to say, decent body folk,

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Speaker 4: it's fat man's man.

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Speaker 2: You would have said that, Okay, all right, she said it.

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Speaker 2: She said.

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Speaker 4: Anyway, Well, as soon as he get home and change

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Speaker 4: out that suit, he becomes a little hood boy. He

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Speaker 4: don't just have just half a drink. He gotta drink

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Speaker 4: half a bottle. Then you gotta entertain and laugh at

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Speaker 4: these drunk and sense of humor. No you don't, But

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Speaker 4: you're doing it because you think started dating all this prestige.

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Speaker 3: That's what it was.

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Speaker 4: Sex is just as ghetto as it is, and it's

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Speaker 4: a turnoff unless he is sober because when he drunk,

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Speaker 4: he say all kinds of crazy things to me, like

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Speaker 4: we're in a music video, and there's no telling what

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Speaker 3: And sometimes I can't help but laugh.

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Speaker 4: Wait a minute, hold up, now, sex is funny?

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Speaker 3: Who liked funny sex?

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Speaker 2: Who do that?

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Speaker 3: Anybody? You're a comedian, but who liked funny sex? Though?

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Speaker 3: Ha ha he he Hell.

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Speaker 4: It's serious, probably one of the one of my most

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Speaker 2: I'm having all jokes asiety.

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Speaker 4: Ha ha ha he he what anybody in here for that?

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Speaker 4: In his car he keeps mouth washed breadth, mouthwashed breath

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Speaker 4: mints and gum to hide what he's had the night before.

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Speaker 3: That ain't gonna get it. You got to brush your

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm telling you right now, you've been up all

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Speaker 4: night drinking, smoking weed and stuff. You can't chew no

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Speaker 4: gum and get this out. I'm telling you that right

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Speaker 4: And I don't smoke weed. I smoke cigars. And I'm

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Speaker 4: telling you right now, it's a process. You got to

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Speaker 4: get that doctor Trishnas or whatever the name of that.

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Speaker 3: Creatures.

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Speaker 4: That you can't dilute it either. You got to go

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Speaker 4: and put it straight on up.

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Speaker 3: In there.

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Speaker 4: Set your mouth to fire. Burn, don't don't dilute with

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Speaker 4: a little water. They got the little line in the

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Speaker 4: cap or throw it back, deal with it as long

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Speaker 4: as you can. Then get you some toothpaste out and

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Speaker 4: then double back on it.

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Speaker 3: All right, now, let's go.

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Speaker 4: The thing that really bothers me about him is it's

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Speaker 4: how closed minded he is in real life. We've been

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Speaker 4: together for five months and we decided that we meet

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Speaker 4: each other's family during the holidays. He told me he

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Speaker 4: don't fly at all, so we had to drive. I

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Speaker 4: didn't push you the issue clearly because he's scared to fly.

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Speaker 4: He's never been out the country, said he has no

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Speaker 4: interest in seeing anything outside of Michigan. What where is

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Speaker 4: this great guy you was talking about when you was

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Speaker 4: lucky girl in the world. Where this dolet? Because he

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Speaker 4: done fell apart in this damn lett he well, hoodies,

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Speaker 4: he talked to you nasty doing sex, he laughing doing sex.

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Speaker 4: Yet now it's time to go meet his family. You

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Speaker 4: got to drive because homeboy don't want to fly, No

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Speaker 4: damn well, So all your vacation is spent behind the

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Speaker 4: wheel of the car.

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Speaker 3: But you ain't got too far to drive.

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Speaker 4: Because he don't want to drive outside of all Right,

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Speaker 4: yesterday he said I should not hang on to his

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Speaker 4: every word because black people won't ever be equal to whites.

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Speaker 3: Damn.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that ain't the plan I've had in my life.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna just share that with you.

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Speaker 3: Here.

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Speaker 4: I've been equal. I'm telling you that right now. I

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Speaker 4: was equal at birth. Now we might not get treated

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Speaker 4: that way, but I'm I'm.

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Speaker 2: I'm equal in the constitution.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but I'm better than some of them too. I

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Speaker 4: ain't gonna lie to you.

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Speaker 3: You can print that.

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Speaker 2: This is not about you.

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Speaker 3: It just did it. I can't help her with him.

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Speaker 3: He lost.

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Speaker 4: I ain't lost, he said. He tells the community what

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Speaker 4: they want to hear. Can I reprogram this forty four

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Speaker 4: year old man brain to show him how to live?

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Speaker 4: Or is as good as it gets? Should I run

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Speaker 4: for the hills. You can't change nobody that don't want

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Speaker 4: to change. Ladies, stop meeting these men thinking you're gonna

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Speaker 4: change them.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 4: They can be changed, but they have to want to

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Speaker 4: be changed. And I've said this a thousand times on

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Speaker 4: this show, and here it goes one thousand and one.

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Speaker 4: All men can change, all men will change. But there

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Speaker 4: is only one woman we will change for, and you

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Speaker 4: are not it because he ain't changing a damn thing.

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Speaker 4: I'ma put these hoodies on. I'm gonna drink this drink.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna tell you all this stuff i'd heard any

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Speaker 4: ill while we having six. I'm not getting on no airplane.

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Speaker 4: I'm driving in this car. I'm not leaving the state

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Speaker 4: of Michigan. I'm never gonna be the same as a

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Speaker 4: white man. How you the luckiest girl for dating hem?

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Speaker 4: Who the hell you the girl you dating?

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Speaker 3: Sambo?

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