1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:01,320 Speaker 1: It's time. 2 00:00:02,040 --> 00:00:06,880 Speaker 2: Yeah for ask the CLO Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey. 3 00:00:06,960 --> 00:00:07,680 Speaker 3: Here we go. 4 00:00:08,520 --> 00:00:12,520 Speaker 2: Glow in South Florida, says, I'm married and my husband 5 00:00:12,520 --> 00:00:15,600 Speaker 2: told me that he's always wanted a threesome, so I 6 00:00:15,720 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 2: was considering it for his fortieth birthday. He got overly 7 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 2: excited and sent me pictures of five women for me 8 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:23,680 Speaker 2: to select from. 9 00:00:24,079 --> 00:00:24,640 Speaker 1: Should I be. 10 00:00:24,640 --> 00:00:27,360 Speaker 2: Concerned that he already had a list of women? And 11 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:29,360 Speaker 2: do I have to choose one of them? 12 00:00:29,440 --> 00:00:33,159 Speaker 4: Please advise where do you think the fantasy came from? 13 00:00:34,800 --> 00:00:39,919 Speaker 4: But see the fact that you are considered it. He went, okay, cool, 14 00:00:40,520 --> 00:00:45,320 Speaker 4: will let me help you? And now your concern is 15 00:00:45,360 --> 00:00:47,800 Speaker 4: should I be concerned about him the fact that he 16 00:00:48,080 --> 00:00:50,360 Speaker 4: wants to introduce that it into your marriage. Your bigger 17 00:00:50,440 --> 00:00:53,440 Speaker 4: concern is you entertaining it. So you ain't no need 18 00:00:53,479 --> 00:00:55,920 Speaker 4: of you getting mad at your hook because you're entertaining 19 00:00:55,960 --> 00:00:58,639 Speaker 4: this mess right here. So just let us know how 20 00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:03,280 Speaker 4: it work out for you. That's a lot happening in 21 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:06,960 Speaker 4: that room, you know that, boy, people, there's a lot happening. 22 00:01:07,160 --> 00:01:11,160 Speaker 3: Listen, a lot lot. 23 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:14,560 Speaker 4: You got to ask to talk to some people so 24 00:01:14,600 --> 00:01:16,319 Speaker 4: you can get some clearity on how it's done. 25 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:19,040 Speaker 3: Don't go in there trying to feel your way through 26 00:01:19,080 --> 00:01:23,039 Speaker 3: that relationship. 27 00:01:23,319 --> 00:01:27,040 Speaker 2: Go ahead, shit Skyler and Saint Louis writes, I'm thirty 28 00:01:27,440 --> 00:01:29,920 Speaker 2: and my boyfriend of six years recently broke up with 29 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:32,160 Speaker 2: me and he moved on quickly, and now he lives 30 00:01:32,200 --> 00:01:34,400 Speaker 2: with a woman that is five years older than him. 31 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:36,679 Speaker 2: He's very rude when I talk to him, and he 32 00:01:36,720 --> 00:01:39,520 Speaker 2: said she doesn't want him speaking to me. I lost 33 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:42,880 Speaker 2: my best friend and lover. How can he let her 34 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:44,680 Speaker 2: control who he talks to? 35 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 4: Why are you trying to talk to it? You hold 36 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:50,400 Speaker 4: You're trying to hang on to somebody that don't want you. 37 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:56,360 Speaker 4: That's all to it. And I've lost my best friend. 38 00:01:56,480 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 4: Your no, he wasn't your best friend. If that was 39 00:01:58,400 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 4: your best friend, you need to get some better friend. 40 00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:00,440 Speaker 3: Fads. 41 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:06,360 Speaker 4: See, you all keep redefining what holds a lot of 42 00:02:06,360 --> 00:02:09,919 Speaker 4: people from their futures. They keep being defined by your past. 43 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 4: He was my lover and my best friend. Here just 44 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:16,679 Speaker 4: his girlfriend for six months. He ain't even live with you. 45 00:02:16,760 --> 00:02:19,839 Speaker 4: He'd have moved in with this other woman. So that's it. 46 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:22,680 Speaker 4: You know who you think? Quit trying to be something 47 00:02:23,080 --> 00:02:25,120 Speaker 4: that you worried. It wasn't even healthy for you in 48 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 4: the first place, He gone, how can she control who 49 00:02:30,919 --> 00:02:32,720 Speaker 4: he talked to? He don't want to talk to you, 50 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 4: That's right, Jesus, all right, called Yes, let's go show. 51 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:44,600 Speaker 2: Moving on to Mike Clo and Queens, Mike writes, I've 52 00:02:44,639 --> 00:02:47,600 Speaker 2: been dating this great woman for five months. I love 53 00:02:47,880 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 2: everything about her except her feet. 54 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:54,840 Speaker 1: She doesn't believe in getting pedicures. 55 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:57,080 Speaker 2: I take care of myself and I love for my 56 00:02:57,120 --> 00:03:01,800 Speaker 2: woman to have moisturized feet and polished toenails. I've thought 57 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:05,799 Speaker 2: about doing the pedicure myself. Would that be sweet or offensive? 58 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:07,959 Speaker 3: I don't know how you gonna do it, because I 59 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:09,480 Speaker 3: ain't gonna be able to go down there like that. 60 00:03:09,840 --> 00:03:12,160 Speaker 4: You got her bad feet. I'm not the labor hold. 61 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 4: You're foot in my hands without comment. First of all, 62 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:16,800 Speaker 4: I gotta take this COVID mad mask off so you 63 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 4: can hear what I got to say. 64 00:03:18,280 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 3: And then I think it just ain't gonna work right here. 65 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:24,040 Speaker 3: Who's wrong with you? Ladies? 66 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:26,520 Speaker 4: Y'all can't be laying in the bed and y'all feet 67 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:28,639 Speaker 4: at the foot of the bed in the blanket come 68 00:03:28,720 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 4: up and you can't tell whose foot belong to? Who 69 00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 4: I want my woman's foot to look like it's her foot. 70 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:37,120 Speaker 4: I want to have toenail polish on it and stuff. 71 00:03:37,640 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 4: I just got a pedicure the other day. She don't 72 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:44,080 Speaker 4: get pedicured. She don't all her feet. What what you 73 00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:46,360 Speaker 4: gotta make? You gotta make this a mandate dog. You 74 00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:49,200 Speaker 4: got to say, hey, this is offensive. You're too beautiful 75 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 4: to do that. Pay for the pedicure. Had the lady 76 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:54,440 Speaker 4: come to the house. They got mobile pedicure units and everything. 77 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 4: Now you know, had once a week here she come. 78 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 4: It's got a standing the appointment period. But they have 79 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 4: a standing appointment. The first one's gonna be some work. 80 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:09,800 Speaker 4: She's gonna be snatching her foot back because. 81 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:13,600 Speaker 3: It's gonna take a minute on that person. 82 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:16,440 Speaker 4: And you got to make sure that the person that's 83 00:04:16,440 --> 00:04:18,839 Speaker 4: doing the pedicure is gentle. Because I had the lady 84 00:04:18,880 --> 00:04:20,640 Speaker 4: one time. I don't know who she thought I was. 85 00:04:21,880 --> 00:04:26,560 Speaker 4: She I looked down there and she had my whole 86 00:04:26,640 --> 00:04:31,720 Speaker 4: big toe inside of her fist filing me and I 87 00:04:31,760 --> 00:04:36,799 Speaker 4: could I was hyperventilating because I was because my big 88 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 4: toe has never been away. 89 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:41,040 Speaker 3: From the rest of his friends for any. 90 00:04:40,880 --> 00:04:44,520 Speaker 4: Extended they come to they always touching my toes. 91 00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:45,160 Speaker 3: I like, got it. 92 00:04:45,279 --> 00:04:48,160 Speaker 4: I can't spread my toes where they don't touch. I 93 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:50,359 Speaker 4: don't have I don't have baby toes. I got grown 94 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:53,240 Speaker 4: ass man toe. My foot don't look like a web. 95 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:56,240 Speaker 4: My toes is always touching. And she reached down and 96 00:04:56,320 --> 00:04:59,920 Speaker 4: took my big toe and had it inside her fist 97 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:03,920 Speaker 4: and was just filing it. I couldn't even breathe. Good man, 98 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 4: I was hyper ventilating because I was scared. And Mississippi 99 00:05:10,080 --> 00:05:13,240 Speaker 4: Monica had referred her and had her come to my 100 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:14,600 Speaker 4: office in Chicago. 101 00:05:15,520 --> 00:05:17,120 Speaker 3: She's never been back. 102 00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:21,080 Speaker 1: Evil Monica has his little baby feet. 103 00:05:21,839 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 4: Man, I get my big toe looked like a microphone. 104 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:27,159 Speaker 4: You sit up here and there pull it away from 105 00:05:27,200 --> 00:05:28,960 Speaker 4: the rest of them, I said, Man. 106 00:05:29,600 --> 00:05:33,520 Speaker 1: The temptations and the big toe of these is the. 107 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:44,840 Speaker 5: Indeedded this is a group, all right, all right, So 108 00:05:45,080 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 5: you think he should go ahead and do it, Just 109 00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:48,599 Speaker 5: schedule it and get it out. 110 00:05:48,440 --> 00:05:51,839 Speaker 1: Of the way, whether it's defensive or not. She'll get 111 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:52,240 Speaker 1: over it. 112 00:05:53,120 --> 00:05:53,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, all right. 113 00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:57,520 Speaker 2: So last one joy and little Rock says, I'm forty 114 00:05:57,560 --> 00:06:00,360 Speaker 2: one and I'm dating a wealthy man that has four 115 00:06:00,440 --> 00:06:04,720 Speaker 2: cars and a mansion. But he has the smallest m 116 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:09,440 Speaker 2: oh wow. Male body part, and you know which one 117 00:06:09,480 --> 00:06:14,440 Speaker 2: I'm talking about. Ever, Okay, he says, I'm sure he 118 00:06:14,560 --> 00:06:18,719 Speaker 2: knows I'm faking it, so I shut up. 119 00:06:19,279 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 1: So I should be honest. 120 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:22,880 Speaker 2: So should I be honest and see if there are 121 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 2: ways we can make the experience better? 122 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:27,360 Speaker 1: Or do I keep faking it? 123 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:30,479 Speaker 4: I don't know what you're gonna do to make it better. 124 00:06:30,520 --> 00:06:32,679 Speaker 4: I don't really know what you're gonna do. But you 125 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:36,200 Speaker 4: do understand why he's worked so hard to become wealthy, 126 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:40,320 Speaker 4: because he needed all the other stuff. He got them cars, 127 00:06:40,360 --> 00:06:43,600 Speaker 4: he got that mansion, he got this money, and now 128 00:06:43,600 --> 00:06:45,279 Speaker 4: he got somebody gonna just play long. 129 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:48,440 Speaker 3: With the game, and you just watil you're making with 130 00:06:48,520 --> 00:06:48,839 Speaker 3: the game. 131 00:06:48,920 --> 00:06:51,000 Speaker 4: I don't know what you're gonna do, you know, unless 132 00:06:51,040 --> 00:06:54,159 Speaker 4: you could just allow him to you know, since he's 133 00:06:54,160 --> 00:06:55,919 Speaker 4: so small, you're gonna have to let him, you know, 134 00:06:57,760 --> 00:07:04,159 Speaker 4: you know, let's let's not be vulgar anything. But maybe 135 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:06,599 Speaker 4: you're just gonna have to suggest to him to use 136 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:08,360 Speaker 4: more things. 137 00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:10,480 Speaker 3: You know, might have to just say to him, you know, 138 00:07:11,560 --> 00:07:13,200 Speaker 3: you might have to say something you have to. 139 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:15,760 Speaker 1: So you're saying she should be honest. 140 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 3: Well, he well, he needs help and he don't have 141 00:07:20,200 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 3: enough of He know it. 142 00:07:22,800 --> 00:07:23,320 Speaker 1: He know it. 143 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:27,760 Speaker 2: So you're saying she should be honest and see if 144 00:07:27,760 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 2: there are ways that they can make the experience better. 145 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 1: That's what she wants to. 146 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 3: Well, I don't know what he's gonna do. I'm trying 147 00:07:33,120 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 3: to I don't know what he can do. Unws. You're 148 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 3: gonna allow him to. 149 00:07:37,800 --> 00:07:39,680 Speaker 1: In a mansion and all that money isn't enough. 150 00:07:39,920 --> 00:07:41,720 Speaker 3: You got to buy some more calls or something. He 151 00:07:41,800 --> 00:07:42,600 Speaker 3: gotta do something. 152 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:45,080 Speaker 2: He got to do something, all right, Celo, is your 153 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 2: voice trails off? 154 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:51,640 Speaker 1: Thank you? You're listening Morning show