1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,040 Speaker 1: I basically told my son I don't love him, but 2 00:00:03,120 --> 00:00:04,960 Speaker 1: he's so annoying, so he deserved it. 3 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:06,160 Speaker 2: Am id a hole. 4 00:00:06,800 --> 00:00:08,000 Speaker 3: That's so sad. 5 00:00:08,160 --> 00:00:09,240 Speaker 2: I mean, but he's annoying. 6 00:00:09,280 --> 00:00:11,320 Speaker 3: Though, Oh my god, no you cannot. 7 00:00:11,440 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 1: He keeps asking are we there yet? And I said, 8 00:00:14,080 --> 00:00:15,159 Speaker 1: I don't love you. 9 00:00:15,240 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 4: Even if you have annoying children who don't like riding 10 00:00:18,040 --> 00:00:21,800 Speaker 4: on the freeway, you have to love them. 11 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:25,279 Speaker 2: This hits home for Sovia. You have to love me. 12 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:27,960 Speaker 1: Ima never said that she didn't love us. She just 13 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:32,919 Speaker 1: showed no, my mom loves us. Okay, all right, despite 14 00:00:33,000 --> 00:00:35,760 Speaker 1: what I told him, I love my son more than anything. 15 00:00:36,120 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 2: I have three, but I love him least. He was 16 00:00:39,159 --> 00:00:39,640 Speaker 2: my kid. 17 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:43,120 Speaker 1: They were all raised to respect everyone, regardless of their differences. 18 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:45,520 Speaker 1: My twenty one year old and my nineteen year old 19 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:49,159 Speaker 1: have that down great. My sixteen year old, however, is 20 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:52,080 Speaker 1: bullying a gay boy in his class, and I was 21 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:55,080 Speaker 1: less than happy when I found out. His cousin told me, 22 00:00:55,240 --> 00:01:02,240 Speaker 1: I don't love this kid either, see before homophobia dog. 23 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:05,280 Speaker 1: I gave him the chance to invite him over for 24 00:01:05,319 --> 00:01:08,240 Speaker 1: dinner and apologize, but he refused. 25 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:11,200 Speaker 4: Okay, I don't like this kid. Kind of sucks, but Like, 26 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 4: imagine if the kid who was like homophobic. 27 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:16,920 Speaker 3: With my mom says, you. 28 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 2: Gotta come over for dinner? 29 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:20,319 Speaker 3: So why don't I know? 30 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:24,280 Speaker 4: I was really awful to you, But she's making I 31 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:24,759 Speaker 4: don't know. 32 00:01:25,120 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 2: I don't know why. Yeah, you kind of sound like 33 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:34,520 Speaker 2: the girl from these Credibles. I only know by Jack Jack. 34 00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:39,520 Speaker 3: The babysitter Jack, and I'm baby hitting him. But he's 35 00:01:40,160 --> 00:01:40,720 Speaker 3: right now. 36 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, it's kind of a weird request to 37 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:45,560 Speaker 2: be like, Hey, I know you bullied me, but do 38 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 2: you want to come over to my family? Uh? 39 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 1: Do you want to come to my home? And so 40 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:52,320 Speaker 1: we could all bully you? Like that sounds like he's 41 00:01:52,320 --> 00:01:54,920 Speaker 1: the only one who's homophobic. I didn't learn this from 42 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 1: my parents. I learned it from Andrew Tate. Actually, Andrew 43 00:01:58,280 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 1: Tate doesn't homophobic. He's just a sexist. 44 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:02,280 Speaker 3: He got arrested. 45 00:02:02,360 --> 00:02:02,920 Speaker 2: What did you do? 46 00:02:04,520 --> 00:02:08,480 Speaker 4: I don't know what's up? Who knows what also homophobic? 47 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:10,519 Speaker 4: Those two probably usually. 48 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:13,520 Speaker 2: Let's you know, let's kind him a break, let's kind 49 00:02:13,560 --> 00:02:14,080 Speaker 2: of a black. 50 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:18,160 Speaker 1: Let's just label a misogynist and at a sex track. 51 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 1: You know, he has enough on to play that bad 52 00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:25,200 Speaker 1: without being He wouldn't say sorry. 53 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:25,959 Speaker 2: At all. 54 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 1: I get it, it's embarrassing being told off in front 55 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:31,200 Speaker 1: of your friends, but I don't care. I wasn't happy 56 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 1: about this. I ended up grounding him, but it didn't 57 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:36,240 Speaker 1: seem to be affecting him at all, and he clearly 58 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 1: wasn't learning his lesson. Vegan go vegan, vegan for thirty days. 59 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:40,079 Speaker 2: Call back. 60 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 1: I contacted the family and let them know what was 61 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:44,720 Speaker 1: going on, and they agreed to meet up for dinner, 62 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 1: and again I gave my son a chance to apologize. 63 00:02:48,360 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 1: He got extremely upset, slash angry, maybe both, and said 64 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:55,080 Speaker 1: that nobody even liked the f slur. 65 00:02:55,280 --> 00:03:02,360 Speaker 3: I read ahead and I was very shy. That's awful, 66 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:03,400 Speaker 3: that's all bad. 67 00:03:03,720 --> 00:03:08,640 Speaker 2: God, I'm loving this kid. No, I don't love him sentence. 68 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:11,079 Speaker 3: I feel like a lot of like middle like middle 69 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:11,799 Speaker 3: school to like. 70 00:03:11,760 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 4: Early I don't know, high school aged boys can easily 71 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:18,480 Speaker 4: go down like the far right track, and you got 72 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:19,480 Speaker 4: to feel. 73 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:21,360 Speaker 1: A lot, especially in middle school, and think it's like 74 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 1: I just remember in middle school. I mean I didn't 75 00:03:23,760 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 1: throw any of this stuff around, but a lot of 76 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:27,320 Speaker 1: this stuff was like thrown around. It was a different 77 00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:29,320 Speaker 1: time too, but like a lot of kids were like 78 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 1: throwing around like oh that's gay or whatever, and mostly 79 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:39,840 Speaker 1: thrown at me. But like I think, uh, but I 80 00:03:39,880 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 1: think like this is I mean, like I think you 81 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 1: should know better by this point. 82 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, he's twenty twenty three and he's sixteen. 83 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:49,120 Speaker 2: Yeah you should know. You should know. 84 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:51,920 Speaker 3: That's on him. I don't love him, of course. 85 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:54,240 Speaker 2: I apologize and the family left. I can't believe he 86 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 2: said that. The kids, Oh my god. 87 00:04:00,480 --> 00:04:02,760 Speaker 4: I don't think she. I think that's I mean, definitely 88 00:04:02,760 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 4: on the kid. But like if the kid hasn't said that, 89 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 4: he's going to apologize and has like been repeatedly been like. 90 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:11,280 Speaker 2: I don't like this kid, Yeah, exactly. 91 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:12,200 Speaker 3: Don't invite the parents of. 92 00:04:12,280 --> 00:04:15,680 Speaker 1: Like it's like it's like the kid hasn't practiced versus 93 00:04:15,680 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 1: piano recital was like, let's put you in the Disney concert. Like, 94 00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:20,640 Speaker 1: Rol hasn't even done the reps he needs to do 95 00:04:20,680 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 1: at home, he doesn't need to practice. Don't put him 96 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 1: in front of like the main stage Primetime TV. 97 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:31,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, that other kid was like, Wow, this kid's gonna 98 00:04:31,680 --> 00:04:34,160 Speaker 4: be homophobic in front of my parents for sure. 99 00:04:34,880 --> 00:04:35,120 Speaker 2: Dude. 100 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:38,160 Speaker 1: It's like putting Alex Jones on national television, Like you're 101 00:04:38,160 --> 00:04:39,719 Speaker 1: not going to get anything good. 102 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:40,000 Speaker 2: Out of that. 103 00:04:40,279 --> 00:04:42,040 Speaker 3: No, no, no, that was a bad idea. 104 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:44,679 Speaker 1: My son and I got into a very big argument 105 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 1: when they left, where he said he wasn't sorry and 106 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 1: again that nobody likes his kid. I told him that 107 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 1: I don't like him very much either. Right now, he 108 00:04:52,320 --> 00:04:54,360 Speaker 1: got quiet, apologized. 109 00:04:53,680 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 2: And went to his room. 110 00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 3: Oh so she didn't even say that she didn't love him, 111 00:04:56,200 --> 00:04:57,159 Speaker 3: she just didn't like him. 112 00:04:57,279 --> 00:05:00,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, Oh well I don't like this kid either, like him. I. 113 00:05:00,800 --> 00:05:03,480 Speaker 1: I've now been told that he's apologized to the student 114 00:05:03,520 --> 00:05:05,920 Speaker 1: he was bullying, and his grounding has been lifted. He's 115 00:05:05,960 --> 00:05:09,000 Speaker 1: still hiding in his room and we very rarely speak. 116 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:11,680 Speaker 1: My ex husband says I shouldn't have told him I 117 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:14,320 Speaker 1: don't like him. That there's no excuse, and of course 118 00:05:14,360 --> 00:05:17,040 Speaker 1: that behavior is the reason we're not together, because I 119 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:19,120 Speaker 1: can't help but be a miserable. 120 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:22,960 Speaker 4: A whole unbelievable. Sounds like misogyny and homophobia. 121 00:05:23,080 --> 00:05:26,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, I wonder where he's learning. Probably not from the law. 122 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:28,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, if they're split up, then it's probably from the dad. 123 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:29,320 Speaker 3: He probably sucks. 124 00:05:29,640 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 1: I understand it may not have been the nicest thing 125 00:05:31,920 --> 00:05:33,640 Speaker 1: to hear, but he was not listening to a word 126 00:05:33,680 --> 00:05:36,680 Speaker 1: I was saying and being a downright bully. Yeah, am 127 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:39,120 Speaker 1: I the a hole? And there is an update, But 128 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:40,599 Speaker 1: first I want to hear from me, Sophia. What do 129 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:42,359 Speaker 1: you think I want to well tippy top on those keyboards. 130 00:05:42,400 --> 00:05:43,839 Speaker 1: Let us know what you guys think of the comments. 131 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 1: But what do you think Sophia is op the ahole? 132 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 4: I don't think so, because Okay, in the beginning she 133 00:05:49,279 --> 00:05:51,880 Speaker 4: says that she says I didn't love him, but then 134 00:05:52,279 --> 00:05:55,240 Speaker 4: during the actual story, she says, I just said I 135 00:05:55,279 --> 00:05:58,880 Speaker 4: didn't like him, and I feel like that's completely different. 136 00:05:58,960 --> 00:06:01,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, because like love is this, like it feels like 137 00:06:01,400 --> 00:06:03,760 Speaker 1: this forever feeling yea where it's like, you know, like 138 00:06:03,760 --> 00:06:06,359 Speaker 1: there's times where my sister's been super annoying. 139 00:06:06,520 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't like what you're doing right now. 140 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 3: I'm never annoying light dude. 141 00:06:11,120 --> 00:06:14,359 Speaker 1: But we were growing up, Sophia would like hurt herself 142 00:06:14,600 --> 00:06:15,640 Speaker 1: and trip and she. 143 00:06:15,640 --> 00:06:19,400 Speaker 2: Would say, Sam, and then my mom would go over. 144 00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:21,279 Speaker 2: I'd be like, Sam, what were you doing? 145 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:24,000 Speaker 1: And I would get in trouble and this was constant, 146 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:28,280 Speaker 1: so sovia I did not like that and I did 147 00:06:28,279 --> 00:06:28,960 Speaker 1: not like you in. 148 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:32,960 Speaker 2: That moment that I love you, I love dude. Yeah, 149 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:34,880 Speaker 2: I actually don't think she's being an a hole. I 150 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:37,120 Speaker 2: think the ax is being the able. 151 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think. 152 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:39,800 Speaker 4: I think there's something up with him, and I think 153 00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:42,040 Speaker 4: he is teaching his son god I agree. 154 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:44,040 Speaker 1: But yeah, there is an update, so let's get into it. 155 00:06:44,080 --> 00:06:46,000 Speaker 1: A lot has happened since I made my post, so 156 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:48,080 Speaker 1: I figured I just pop in to let people know 157 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:50,039 Speaker 1: how to unfold it. I've had a little chit chat 158 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:52,040 Speaker 1: with my son to get to the bottom of his behavior, 159 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:55,520 Speaker 1: and turns out he'd asked his victim on a date 160 00:06:55,880 --> 00:06:57,799 Speaker 1: and was turned down. 161 00:06:58,200 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 3: No, that's so sad. 162 00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:06,359 Speaker 4: This is like Glee, Oh Kurt, Kurt's bully and Glee, 163 00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:10,480 Speaker 4: he's like super homophobic. But then uh, which is a 164 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:13,200 Speaker 4: bad plot line. And we don't like that because it's 165 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:16,240 Speaker 4: kind of a yeah, but it's portraying like a negative But. 166 00:07:16,280 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 2: Like that happens, there's there's there's like it happens so much. 167 00:07:19,520 --> 00:07:23,920 Speaker 1: That like that often the people who are that hurl 168 00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:27,360 Speaker 1: the worst homophobia are like are are just like like 169 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:28,720 Speaker 1: repressing their identity. 170 00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:30,800 Speaker 4: It happens. But I think we need to show more 171 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 4: positive representations relationship presentations. But I mean, we've seen so 172 00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:36,840 Speaker 4: many of those. I feel like we need some more 173 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:37,400 Speaker 4: positive ones. 174 00:07:37,480 --> 00:07:40,160 Speaker 1: Okay, fair, fair, fair, but it does happen, yes, Like, 175 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 1: think about some of those congressmen that are like I 176 00:07:42,440 --> 00:07:45,360 Speaker 1: hate all gays and that literally like you will find 177 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:49,360 Speaker 1: out later that they're having multiple side pieces, multiple duty 178 00:07:49,400 --> 00:07:52,240 Speaker 1: side pieces. Instead of acting like a normal human being, 179 00:07:52,280 --> 00:07:54,240 Speaker 1: he decided to be spiteful and start bullying the boy. 180 00:07:54,400 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 1: He's still making up for it, and we've had a 181 00:07:56,440 --> 00:07:59,040 Speaker 1: talk about consent in the fact that nobody is obligated 182 00:07:59,040 --> 00:08:01,680 Speaker 1: to date him. He I understand he was hurt, but 183 00:08:01,800 --> 00:08:04,080 Speaker 1: he should have spoken to me. After all, it's what 184 00:08:04,160 --> 00:08:08,480 Speaker 1: I'm here for. My ex is also openly hall but 185 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 1: were boom and he no longer wants to visit him 186 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:15,880 Speaker 1: on weekends. So hopefully his father will no longer make 187 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:17,040 Speaker 1: such a great impression. 188 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:19,680 Speaker 4: Oh oh, and making I thought he was making an 189 00:08:19,680 --> 00:08:21,840 Speaker 4: impression on like, I don't know other families. 190 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:22,760 Speaker 2: The other family. No, no, this kid. 191 00:08:22,880 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 1: I also want to thank everyone for their kind words 192 00:08:24,760 --> 00:08:27,240 Speaker 1: to this mama who thought she'd handled a tough situation 193 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:30,400 Speaker 1: very very poorly. I appreciate all the kindness. 194 00:08:30,640 --> 00:08:32,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a tough situation. 195 00:08:32,400 --> 00:08:33,959 Speaker 2: A situation I feel like we call it. 196 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:36,440 Speaker 1: I mean, like usually when kids, like you know, pick 197 00:08:36,520 --> 00:08:40,200 Speaker 1: up bad behavior, it's often from a parent. Yeah, not always, 198 00:08:40,240 --> 00:08:42,480 Speaker 1: but often, And so I think we called it where 199 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:44,440 Speaker 1: it's like, Okay, the dad is homophobic for sure. 200 00:08:44,640 --> 00:08:46,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, and I think, yeah, there's some of that like 201 00:08:47,040 --> 00:08:49,640 Speaker 4: fear of not wanting to be like added and stuff. 202 00:08:49,800 --> 00:08:51,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, but what would you do in this situation? 203 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:53,280 Speaker 1: Like how would you deal with a kid who is 204 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:56,319 Speaker 1: initially saying like the astler, yeah, we don't know the 205 00:08:56,840 --> 00:08:59,360 Speaker 1: background and then now that this came out or how 206 00:08:59,480 --> 00:09:01,320 Speaker 1: he came out, like, how would you handle it? How 207 00:09:01,320 --> 00:09:03,640 Speaker 1: would you make sure that he knows that he's safe? 208 00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:06,800 Speaker 1: And also, you know, I think she handled pretty well, 209 00:09:06,840 --> 00:09:09,480 Speaker 1: But I'm wondering if any parents have had their son 210 00:09:09,600 --> 00:09:12,200 Speaker 1: or daughter come out and how they've dealt with it 211 00:09:12,240 --> 00:09:13,960 Speaker 1: and felt about it, because you know, it's a really 212 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:17,560 Speaker 1: hard moment sometimes for the kid and also can be 213 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:20,480 Speaker 1: a really great moment for the parent to show. Like 214 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:23,200 Speaker 1: whatever situation, We know you're loved so love to hear 215 00:09:23,200 --> 00:09:25,080 Speaker 1: your stories. Put him in the comments below, and we 216 00:09:25,200 --> 00:09:28,200 Speaker 1: just love reading the comments, especially the comments for public subscribers. 217 00:09:28,200 --> 00:09:31,840 Speaker 3: Public subscriber comments are the best, the best. 218 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:33,160 Speaker 2: We're going to read something right now. 219 00:09:33,240 --> 00:09:33,600 Speaker 3: Okay. 220 00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:36,760 Speaker 4: This comes from the video My mom is pregnant and 221 00:09:36,800 --> 00:09:40,480 Speaker 4: I think my husband is the father, where Opie's mom 222 00:09:40,600 --> 00:09:43,160 Speaker 4: steals Opie's man and then gets pregnant. 223 00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:44,040 Speaker 2: Yikes. 224 00:09:44,800 --> 00:09:50,040 Speaker 4: Fragmented Dreams says ho level five thousand facts. 225 00:09:49,800 --> 00:09:53,040 Speaker 1: That mom is a hoe to the five thousandth power yikes. 226 00:09:53,360 --> 00:09:54,079 Speaker 2: A eighth the. 227 00:09:54,040 --> 00:09:56,160 Speaker 1: Great r R Public subscriber. We just read you in 228 00:09:56,160 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 1: the last one too. I love it when you two 229 00:09:57,880 --> 00:10:01,280 Speaker 1: do these. I read this one. It's awful, Poor op A. 230 00:10:01,440 --> 00:10:03,640 Speaker 2: I think I really appreciate that you already read it 231 00:10:03,679 --> 00:10:05,520 Speaker 2: and you're still watching us. We love you too. 232 00:10:05,840 --> 00:10:08,280 Speaker 3: This comes from Rabbie Child. 233 00:10:08,400 --> 00:10:11,720 Speaker 4: Hurry, you sound like this Clash Royale content creator Sir 234 00:10:11,880 --> 00:10:15,240 Speaker 4: tag cr As For the unprotected s stuff, it probably 235 00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:17,120 Speaker 4: has to do with menopause. 236 00:10:16,880 --> 00:10:19,280 Speaker 1: Right, So she's like, oh, I don't have to have 237 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:23,280 Speaker 1: sex with a condom because I'm on menopause and I 238 00:10:23,320 --> 00:10:24,600 Speaker 1: can't get pregnant anyway. 239 00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:27,280 Speaker 3: But you can still get an STD save sex. 240 00:10:27,160 --> 00:10:31,800 Speaker 1: Unless your daughter's husband is only cheating on her with 241 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:32,600 Speaker 1: you anyway. 242 00:10:32,679 --> 00:10:35,000 Speaker 2: We'll see you with the next one. I strummed out 243 00:10:35,000 --> 00:10:37,640 Speaker 2: of my sister's wedding because she refused to accept my 244 00:10:37,720 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 2: son as trains am I ahole Okayop, sounds like you're 245 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:47,480 Speaker 2: a little intolerant. It's Pride month. It's pride gosh Don's sake. 246 00:10:47,840 --> 00:10:52,920 Speaker 1: Literally like, come on, let comes flags fly, Let the 247 00:10:53,280 --> 00:10:56,080 Speaker 1: byes be by and the bys be by gone. 248 00:10:56,679 --> 00:11:02,679 Speaker 2: Amen, brother, Amen. Now I am a forty five year 249 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:06,360 Speaker 2: old single father of three. So this this dad is, 250 00:11:06,400 --> 00:11:08,560 Speaker 2: you know, doing it all on his own. 251 00:11:08,559 --> 00:11:12,199 Speaker 1: Wow, single father. Hear about single mothers, but you never 252 00:11:12,240 --> 00:11:13,440 Speaker 1: hear about the single fathers. 253 00:11:13,440 --> 00:11:15,720 Speaker 2: Shout out to you, op, single father. 254 00:11:15,880 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 1: I feel like usually when I hear single father, it's 255 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 1: usually like always widow. 256 00:11:22,480 --> 00:11:25,679 Speaker 2: I feel like I always hear that too, or widowed 257 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:30,200 Speaker 2: with the wife passes away. Yeah, a single father, that 258 00:11:30,280 --> 00:11:32,480 Speaker 2: is true. I feel like I've heard that too. 259 00:11:32,720 --> 00:11:35,280 Speaker 1: Because I feel like it's hard to be a single 260 00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:39,000 Speaker 1: fought like, like, what are the other scenarios that you 261 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:40,080 Speaker 1: can become a single father? 262 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:43,960 Speaker 2: Divorce and you get the kids? Yeah, but I think probably. 263 00:11:43,840 --> 00:11:45,959 Speaker 1: Usually like in most states, it's like like the woman 264 00:11:46,040 --> 00:11:48,800 Speaker 1: almost always gets the kids, unless like she's on math 265 00:11:48,920 --> 00:11:49,200 Speaker 1: or something. 266 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:52,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I believe. I believe most like court cases, it 267 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:54,760 Speaker 2: typically refers to the woman. The woman gets the kids, 268 00:11:54,760 --> 00:11:58,480 Speaker 2: but not in this case their math or death involved. 269 00:12:00,960 --> 00:12:08,280 Speaker 2: We make very astute assumptions. Guys, get a twisted let's 270 00:12:08,280 --> 00:12:13,360 Speaker 2: get that on a myth or death. The saddest game 271 00:12:13,400 --> 00:12:17,920 Speaker 2: show show you please from Okay, pick up this game, 272 00:12:19,000 --> 00:12:25,920 Speaker 2: literally the worst game you know networks? Maybe Fox News Willows. 273 00:12:25,240 --> 00:12:28,280 Speaker 1: Gets one, the one the prize winner gets like a 274 00:12:28,320 --> 00:12:31,199 Speaker 1: ton of meth a metric ton, not like like a 275 00:12:31,559 --> 00:12:34,120 Speaker 1: metaphorical ton, like a whole ton of math. 276 00:12:34,160 --> 00:12:37,280 Speaker 2: Like a kilo. I don't know how they Yeah, how 277 00:12:37,280 --> 00:12:37,840 Speaker 2: many kilos? 278 00:12:38,240 --> 00:12:41,800 Speaker 1: I think it's a thousand, a thousand kilos a metric ton. 279 00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:43,680 Speaker 2: God, that's a lot. It's a lot of myth. 280 00:12:45,559 --> 00:12:50,000 Speaker 1: So their mother passed away ten years ago. Ah, death, 281 00:12:52,559 --> 00:12:54,920 Speaker 1: you choked the my gum. I'm about to experience death. 282 00:12:55,520 --> 00:12:58,000 Speaker 2: We're dying on the first episode. Guys. Wow, well look 283 00:12:58,000 --> 00:13:02,400 Speaker 2: look we've already played the game show already. Sam's done. 284 00:13:03,120 --> 00:13:06,480 Speaker 2: I was it was death. Where's my meth? Yeah, where's myth? 285 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:10,960 Speaker 2: Where's my demanded? I have three sons, seventeen year old Andrew, 286 00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:14,440 Speaker 2: fifteen year old Connor, and fourteen year old Max Man. 287 00:13:14,480 --> 00:13:17,840 Speaker 2: Those are those are kids? In quick secession, just like. 288 00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:24,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, back to back many they were getting where they 289 00:13:24,040 --> 00:13:25,200 Speaker 1: were popping it. 290 00:13:26,760 --> 00:13:30,320 Speaker 2: After that. I don't think that one works. Popping it 291 00:13:30,360 --> 00:13:35,679 Speaker 2: in the grave. Oh nice, try it was. It was 292 00:13:35,720 --> 00:13:40,000 Speaker 2: a valiant effort. I'm going to be put in the grave. Yeah. 293 00:13:40,120 --> 00:13:42,400 Speaker 2: Well the gum, the gum, you know it already. The 294 00:13:42,440 --> 00:13:44,480 Speaker 2: gum already was trying to kill me. By the end 295 00:13:44,520 --> 00:13:46,560 Speaker 2: of the second we have we have so many more 296 00:13:46,600 --> 00:13:50,240 Speaker 2: episodes that are more opportunities for to die, to die. Yeah, 297 00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:54,280 Speaker 2: there's there's many, many, many opportunities. Now here's the thing. 298 00:13:54,760 --> 00:13:58,880 Speaker 2: Connor was born female, but he is trans. He came 299 00:13:58,920 --> 00:14:01,480 Speaker 2: out as trans about five years ago and now has 300 00:14:01,640 --> 00:14:06,960 Speaker 2: socially transitioned but not yet physically. So basically got is 301 00:14:07,040 --> 00:14:10,000 Speaker 2: trans identifies as a woman, hasn't had the surgeries and 302 00:14:10,000 --> 00:14:14,240 Speaker 2: whatnot to write completely changeover. But he's like wearing like 303 00:14:14,640 --> 00:14:16,719 Speaker 2: you know, yeah, it seems like all the kind of 304 00:14:16,760 --> 00:14:20,360 Speaker 2: like social norms he is is. Okay, yeah, that's cool. 305 00:14:20,360 --> 00:14:22,520 Speaker 1: It's kind of like you know, like the I like, 306 00:14:22,640 --> 00:14:26,080 Speaker 1: you know, how there's this is totally somewhat unrelated, but 307 00:14:26,120 --> 00:14:27,680 Speaker 1: you know how they when they they're. 308 00:14:27,480 --> 00:14:29,880 Speaker 2: Going back to the death side of it, right, right, right. 309 00:14:29,920 --> 00:14:31,600 Speaker 1: You know how when they say you die you die too, 310 00:14:31,680 --> 00:14:34,680 Speaker 1: deaths it's like when when you when you actually die, 311 00:14:35,480 --> 00:14:38,720 Speaker 1: and then when someone remembers you for the last time. 312 00:14:39,000 --> 00:14:42,920 Speaker 2: I haven't heard that thing before. But then okay, yeah, yeah, yeah. 313 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:46,000 Speaker 1: So I'm thinking, like, I don't know why that came out. Well, 314 00:14:46,040 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 1: I know, I do know why I came out, because 315 00:14:47,240 --> 00:14:51,000 Speaker 1: it's like when you socially transition, and then the final 316 00:14:51,400 --> 00:14:55,040 Speaker 1: form is when you do the surgeries. Yeah, that's that's 317 00:14:55,080 --> 00:14:57,720 Speaker 1: like you don't have to do surgeries to be trans right. 318 00:14:57,960 --> 00:15:01,000 Speaker 2: I think I think it's you know, kind of whatever, 319 00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:03,200 Speaker 2: whatever you feel fair. I'm sure a lot of people 320 00:15:03,280 --> 00:15:06,240 Speaker 2: like if I bro if I was like, I'm not 321 00:15:06,280 --> 00:15:09,760 Speaker 2: supposed to have a penis, get this thing off, get 322 00:15:09,800 --> 00:15:14,400 Speaker 2: it off off. Wait. Even more so, if I was 323 00:15:14,440 --> 00:15:16,600 Speaker 2: a woman right now, I would be like, give me 324 00:15:16,640 --> 00:15:19,760 Speaker 2: a penis. Like I know, I'm supposed to have a penis. 325 00:15:21,360 --> 00:15:25,080 Speaker 2: I know it, you know what I mean? So I 326 00:15:25,080 --> 00:15:27,480 Speaker 2: would want to I would want it, You would want 327 00:15:27,640 --> 00:15:29,560 Speaker 2: you would want the penis. Of course, if I was 328 00:15:29,560 --> 00:15:31,480 Speaker 2: a woman right now, I'd be like like with my 329 00:15:31,640 --> 00:15:34,520 Speaker 2: everything else, soul, brain, whatever, when you when you call 330 00:15:34,560 --> 00:15:36,200 Speaker 2: it just like in a woman's body. I'm like, yeah, 331 00:15:36,240 --> 00:15:39,160 Speaker 2: I am a man, like give me that, give me 332 00:15:39,200 --> 00:15:42,600 Speaker 2: a penis, give me that penis hashtag give me that penis. 333 00:15:42,640 --> 00:15:48,400 Speaker 2: Literally that would be me. So back to our story, 334 00:15:48,880 --> 00:15:51,160 Speaker 2: give John that penis. Give me a penis. 335 00:15:51,160 --> 00:15:56,600 Speaker 1: Guys, I am desperate for somebody a penis today. Please 336 00:15:57,080 --> 00:16:00,960 Speaker 1: eight hundred, donate your penis so John can be the 337 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:02,040 Speaker 1: man he's always. 338 00:16:01,720 --> 00:16:04,840 Speaker 2: Wanted to give me your penile organ and see that. 339 00:16:05,000 --> 00:16:07,000 Speaker 1: I could be like I could also just be like 340 00:16:07,040 --> 00:16:09,920 Speaker 1: a like a Tinder bio, you know, give me your penis, 341 00:16:10,080 --> 00:16:10,880 Speaker 1: give me your penis. 342 00:16:10,960 --> 00:16:13,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a very succinct. You'd get a lot of responses. 343 00:16:15,160 --> 00:16:21,360 Speaker 2: Your inbox would be flooded. Oh my god, I would 344 00:16:21,400 --> 00:16:23,960 Speaker 2: not want to see those. No, those are that. Those 345 00:16:23,960 --> 00:16:27,080 Speaker 2: are some movie messages on fire not care to read. 346 00:16:28,240 --> 00:16:31,760 Speaker 2: Although unless I know you're looking for penises, I mean, 347 00:16:31,760 --> 00:16:33,880 Speaker 2: if that's what you're looking for, I have a friend 348 00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:37,440 Speaker 2: that looks for penises to harvest, not for not quite that. 349 00:16:37,520 --> 00:16:40,800 Speaker 2: But she said, uh, is it wrong that I explicitly 350 00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:44,560 Speaker 2: put I am looking for a seven inch or more 351 00:16:44,920 --> 00:16:49,120 Speaker 2: penis in the very top line of my profile. That 352 00:16:49,200 --> 00:16:51,560 Speaker 2: was the question that she asked me, and I was like, 353 00:16:51,640 --> 00:16:55,200 Speaker 2: I mean, if it's what you want, go crazy. She 354 00:16:55,320 --> 00:16:58,400 Speaker 2: was very, very explicit. Wow did she go with like 355 00:16:58,440 --> 00:17:02,160 Speaker 2: a measuring stick? Probably honestly she was like, hey, you 356 00:17:02,280 --> 00:17:06,840 Speaker 2: gotta be this tall. She was right, literally, dude is 357 00:17:06,960 --> 00:17:12,640 Speaker 2: a long ride. She was an interesting and interesting case. Yeah. 358 00:17:12,720 --> 00:17:16,000 Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know if it's I guess it's bad. 359 00:17:17,040 --> 00:17:20,480 Speaker 2: It's shallow for sure, of course. Show If that's what 360 00:17:20,560 --> 00:17:22,000 Speaker 2: you want and you want to put it out there, 361 00:17:22,160 --> 00:17:23,320 Speaker 2: I guess that's fine. 362 00:17:23,119 --> 00:17:25,240 Speaker 1: But you're just gonna get you know, the only thing 363 00:17:25,280 --> 00:17:26,760 Speaker 1: deep is going to be that dick. The rest of 364 00:17:26,800 --> 00:17:30,960 Speaker 1: the relationship is going to be exactly I like it. 365 00:17:31,600 --> 00:17:35,520 Speaker 2: Hell yeah, we're coming back, ladies and gentlemen. So my sister, 366 00:17:35,800 --> 00:17:39,440 Speaker 2: thirty eight female, just got married. Me and my sons 367 00:17:39,560 --> 00:17:43,920 Speaker 2: were also invited. So my family has known that Connor's 368 00:17:43,960 --> 00:17:46,840 Speaker 2: trans for about two years now. Cool. Some of the 369 00:17:46,880 --> 00:17:52,320 Speaker 2: family has adjusted well and others not so much. I 370 00:17:52,320 --> 00:17:56,560 Speaker 2: can imagine a split decision, imagine. Although I will say 371 00:17:56,720 --> 00:18:00,520 Speaker 2: I think it is awesome that the dad is accepting it, 372 00:18:00,600 --> 00:18:02,160 Speaker 2: not just because of general like oh you should accept 373 00:18:02,160 --> 00:18:06,159 Speaker 2: people and stuff, but I think particularly as a child 374 00:18:06,280 --> 00:18:10,880 Speaker 2: close to adulthood, like that can there can be lots 375 00:18:10,920 --> 00:18:13,439 Speaker 2: of trauma there of just like you know, you're like 376 00:18:13,560 --> 00:18:15,679 Speaker 2: think about as you're as you're growing up as a teenager, 377 00:18:15,680 --> 00:18:18,480 Speaker 2: you're already trying to find yourself and if someone's just 378 00:18:18,600 --> 00:18:23,040 Speaker 2: like you can't be what you want to be, literally, 379 00:18:23,040 --> 00:18:24,879 Speaker 2: Like I think I think that's like very cool and 380 00:18:24,880 --> 00:18:29,600 Speaker 2: I think it'll save Connor like a lot of like therapy. 381 00:18:30,000 --> 00:18:36,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, support, Yeah, it's important, Yeah, for anyone going through 382 00:18:36,080 --> 00:18:39,359 Speaker 1: any kind of like trying to understand themselves like that 383 00:18:39,480 --> 00:18:40,760 Speaker 1: especially and then you can do as. 384 00:18:40,680 --> 00:18:44,560 Speaker 2: A parent is such a critical age, Like, so that 385 00:18:44,640 --> 00:18:47,200 Speaker 2: is cool. Shout out to you, Op, Shout out to Op. 386 00:18:48,040 --> 00:18:52,639 Speaker 2: And my sister was indifferent about it. In different what 387 00:18:52,640 --> 00:18:53,480 Speaker 2: does it mean to be? 388 00:18:53,960 --> 00:18:54,040 Speaker 4: Like? 389 00:18:54,440 --> 00:18:57,040 Speaker 1: Is it like, what does that mean I would be different? 390 00:18:57,080 --> 00:18:58,400 Speaker 1: That seems that seems like. 391 00:18:58,640 --> 00:19:02,399 Speaker 2: That's the question, right, Like she's different, but maybe she 392 00:19:02,520 --> 00:19:05,000 Speaker 2: just hasn't told you how she really. 393 00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:08,760 Speaker 1: It sounds like she feels different, but she's just saying 394 00:19:08,840 --> 00:19:11,560 Speaker 1: indifferent to not stir the pot. Sounds like she's not 395 00:19:11,600 --> 00:19:13,440 Speaker 1: the much sportive sister in the world. 396 00:19:13,520 --> 00:19:15,760 Speaker 2: Right. I think you're I think you're picking up on 397 00:19:15,920 --> 00:19:20,120 Speaker 2: some stuff that's about to happen here. Now. My sister's 398 00:19:20,119 --> 00:19:24,919 Speaker 2: wedding was super well organized to the very last easy detail. 399 00:19:25,240 --> 00:19:27,399 Speaker 2: It's good wedding. She wanted all of the men to 400 00:19:27,440 --> 00:19:29,800 Speaker 2: wear a shirt and a tie and all the women 401 00:19:29,920 --> 00:19:34,320 Speaker 2: to wear sun dresses. So it's we're completely coordinated here. 402 00:19:34,320 --> 00:19:38,160 Speaker 1: Like okay, everything, But that's like that's actually is that? 403 00:19:37,840 --> 00:19:42,520 Speaker 1: That's not Usually the attendees can wear whatever they want. Yeah, 404 00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:44,480 Speaker 1: and like I mean you have like the brides and 405 00:19:44,880 --> 00:19:50,760 Speaker 1: the bridemaids are usually everyone attendance. That's kind of a 406 00:19:50,480 --> 00:19:51,280 Speaker 1: lot of big ass. 407 00:19:51,359 --> 00:19:53,600 Speaker 2: But I think I'll give it to if it's your 408 00:19:53,600 --> 00:19:55,239 Speaker 2: wedding and you're the bride offense we want, Okay, I'll 409 00:19:55,240 --> 00:19:57,080 Speaker 2: give it to you. Kind of a lot in my opinion. 410 00:19:57,080 --> 00:20:00,240 Speaker 2: But you know, so I'm going to do a nudist wedding. Ooh, 411 00:20:00,840 --> 00:20:06,440 Speaker 2: there we go. No clothes? Uh? Common with clothes you're 412 00:20:06,640 --> 00:20:08,040 Speaker 2: going away the. 413 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:12,280 Speaker 1: Main item for tonight's course salonm I you seen this 414 00:20:12,400 --> 00:20:12,840 Speaker 1: basic of me? 415 00:20:13,200 --> 00:20:16,680 Speaker 2: Now? I texted her a picture of our family's outfits 416 00:20:16,720 --> 00:20:19,600 Speaker 2: the day before the wedding and guess what she responded with? 417 00:20:19,800 --> 00:20:27,200 Speaker 2: What did she say? Where is Naio's dress? Ouch? Yeah, 418 00:20:27,280 --> 00:20:31,040 Speaker 2: that ain't it? I was a bit surprised, and I 419 00:20:31,160 --> 00:20:33,720 Speaker 2: told her not to dead name my son, and to 420 00:20:33,720 --> 00:20:36,359 Speaker 2: be clear, dead naming is basically using the wrong gender 421 00:20:36,480 --> 00:20:39,080 Speaker 2: for someone. And I also. 422 00:20:38,880 --> 00:20:44,600 Speaker 1: Said, well, so dead naming is using their previous name. 423 00:20:45,040 --> 00:20:48,560 Speaker 2: Uh right, you might be yeah, maybe specifically like their 424 00:20:48,600 --> 00:20:49,639 Speaker 2: previous Yeah. 425 00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:52,600 Speaker 1: So it's like if your if your name is John 426 00:20:52,880 --> 00:20:55,200 Speaker 1: and then you transition to a woman, now your name 427 00:20:55,280 --> 00:20:58,639 Speaker 1: is Johnetta. If I called you John, that would be 428 00:20:58,720 --> 00:21:02,399 Speaker 1: dead naming game, because that's your real name anymore. You 429 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:05,000 Speaker 1: have transitioned into a new, beautiful human. 430 00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:09,440 Speaker 2: It is specifically referring to their gender before they transitioned. Yes, 431 00:21:09,680 --> 00:21:14,760 Speaker 2: it's basically not acknowledging that they have transitioned. And I 432 00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:18,120 Speaker 2: also said that he will be wearing a shirt and 433 00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:21,360 Speaker 2: tie like the rest of the men, or we are 434 00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:25,080 Speaker 2: not going to go wow, OPI is like solidarity, dude, 435 00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:27,600 Speaker 2: He's OP is laying down the law. He is there 436 00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:37,120 Speaker 2: for his child respect. So she responded back, fine, just fine, 437 00:21:40,880 --> 00:21:43,840 Speaker 2: she's so fine with it, right, She's totally okay with it. 438 00:21:43,880 --> 00:21:47,720 Speaker 2: She's going to be so excited. No, Now we're at 439 00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:52,960 Speaker 2: the reception and my sister again got mad that Connor 440 00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:56,520 Speaker 2: was wearing a tie. Why, Like, why get mad? It's 441 00:21:56,520 --> 00:21:58,679 Speaker 2: the stupidest thing in the world. It's the stupidest thing 442 00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:01,520 Speaker 2: in the world. Like, so did Connor wear a tie? 443 00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:05,199 Speaker 2: Even even if there was a woman who identified as 444 00:22:05,240 --> 00:22:07,439 Speaker 2: a woman and she wanted to wear the tie, It's like, 445 00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:13,440 Speaker 2: why not? Who cares clothe? It's just clothes. That's why 446 00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:15,840 Speaker 2: you need to have a nudist wedding, like Sam over here. 447 00:22:15,880 --> 00:22:20,879 Speaker 2: No clothes, no color coordination to match, you know, just 448 00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:24,840 Speaker 2: just cakes and sausages. Yeah, that's you know, that's the 449 00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:28,160 Speaker 2: great equalizer that it really is though it really is. 450 00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:30,960 Speaker 2: You can't you can't like try to be flashy, show 451 00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:31,680 Speaker 2: off your good. 452 00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:33,840 Speaker 1: Tea or anything like no, no, no, no, no, you got 453 00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:38,680 Speaker 1: me all equal underneath, exactly all the same under the hood. 454 00:22:40,520 --> 00:22:43,040 Speaker 2: After she made that comment, she didn't say too much 455 00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:46,880 Speaker 2: after that. But then we go to sit down at 456 00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:52,439 Speaker 2: our table. There was a card there that read Naya 457 00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:57,120 Speaker 2: Connor's old name, come on dead name again. I went 458 00:22:57,160 --> 00:22:59,320 Speaker 2: to my sister about it, and she said that they 459 00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:05,440 Speaker 2: used quote their real name. That's just it's rude, bro, 460 00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:08,360 Speaker 2: Just be like why why be an asshole like this? 461 00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:13,399 Speaker 1: Like what I just I don't understand why like, like, 462 00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:14,560 Speaker 1: what's the big deal? 463 00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:14,800 Speaker 2: You know? 464 00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:18,239 Speaker 1: That is the question, Like what if you wanted to 465 00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:25,280 Speaker 1: start calling yourself mister octopus man? Yes, right, which is ridiculous, 466 00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:27,639 Speaker 1: but you're like, hey, this means a lot to me. 467 00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:29,520 Speaker 1: I want to be known as mister octopus man. 468 00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:30,720 Speaker 3: I would call you mister. 469 00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:36,840 Speaker 2: That's what I want. I want eight penises and that's me. 470 00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:40,919 Speaker 2: Give John all your penises. Literally, who cares it's not 471 00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:45,320 Speaker 2: your penis or anything. Yeah, it doesn't. That doesn't make 472 00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:47,159 Speaker 2: sense to me. Why would I care? It's like the 473 00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:53,240 Speaker 2: dumbest thing. And also, like, I feel like conservative. 474 00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:58,800 Speaker 1: Ideology generally is like, don't infringe on other people's rights, 475 00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:00,760 Speaker 1: autonomy for the individe exactly. 476 00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:03,120 Speaker 2: Let people do what they want, don't don't control. 477 00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:07,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know this is America freedom baby expression. 478 00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:13,800 Speaker 2: That's right. Get that penis. Hell yeah. Now at this point, 479 00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:16,359 Speaker 2: I went back to my sister and I told her 480 00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:19,960 Speaker 2: that me and the boys are leaving, and she told me, 481 00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:25,360 Speaker 2: don't you dare cause a scene at my wedding. This 482 00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:28,280 Speaker 2: is this is the worst part. Naya can be a 483 00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:33,760 Speaker 2: guy any other day. Wow, Just why the question? 484 00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:37,560 Speaker 1: I feel like like the sister is creating the drama 485 00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:38,840 Speaker 1: that is ruining her wedding. 486 00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:42,120 Speaker 2: So like, you are the problem. Why don't you tell 487 00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:44,679 Speaker 2: yourself to stop creating your own drama on? 488 00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:46,880 Speaker 1: Why don't we try that? Why don't you just not 489 00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:51,200 Speaker 1: create drama for one day? Yes, there we go, Come on. 490 00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:52,800 Speaker 2: There we go. We need to say them at the wedding. 491 00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:58,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, teach some sense into that old right withered nogging 492 00:24:58,880 --> 00:24:59,240 Speaker 1: of hers. 493 00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:03,000 Speaker 2: That's right. At this point, I called her a bigot. 494 00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:07,800 Speaker 2: We all got up and left. My family says, My 495 00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:10,560 Speaker 2: family says, I ruined the wedding. 496 00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:19,800 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, like, hmmm, I mean, it sounds 497 00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:24,200 Speaker 1: like the sister was just kind of being rude over 498 00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:27,040 Speaker 1: the Yeah, yeah, I mean, do you need to yell 499 00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:27,920 Speaker 1: and call her a bigot? 500 00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:30,320 Speaker 2: You could argue that he was maybe like a little 501 00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:33,879 Speaker 2: bit like did he have to walk out of the 502 00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:36,960 Speaker 2: wedding or whatever. I guess one could say that he 503 00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:40,480 Speaker 2: could have stayed. But also like, I don't think there's 504 00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:43,320 Speaker 2: anything wrong with him leaving either, you know, I think 505 00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:44,840 Speaker 2: he had every right to leave. Yeah, he had every 506 00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:45,320 Speaker 2: right to leave. 507 00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:50,760 Speaker 1: And it's also it's like he is setting example of 508 00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:53,359 Speaker 1: how he thinks his son should be treated. 509 00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:55,959 Speaker 2: I think that's what's most important, right right, Like, as 510 00:25:56,040 --> 00:25:58,480 Speaker 2: you know, sure, I'm sure his son will go through 511 00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:03,040 Speaker 2: potentially some some challenging situations in his adult life when 512 00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:06,040 Speaker 2: he's on his own and he's setting the example like basically, 513 00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:09,520 Speaker 2: you deserve respect. Actually I do. I do really like that, And. 514 00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:12,880 Speaker 1: So like you, even if this is family, even if 515 00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:15,760 Speaker 1: this is like a really important day for this person, 516 00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:22,560 Speaker 1: like you still deserve respect in every instance, especially this instance. Yeah, 517 00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:24,480 Speaker 1: and so I could see like this is almost like 518 00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:29,320 Speaker 1: setting the precedent for his whole life. A thousand percent agree, 519 00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:32,280 Speaker 1: So I guess like definitely not the ale for sure. 520 00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:36,120 Speaker 2: I think we've decided gabble, gabble, gabble, not the ale. 521 00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:38,280 Speaker 2: That's really cool, that's really cool, I think. Shout out 522 00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:39,520 Speaker 2: to you, Op, Shout out to Op.