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Speaker 1: Hi. I am Kate Hudson and my name is Oliver Hudson.

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Speaker 1: We wanted to do something that highlighted our relationship and

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Speaker 1: what it's like to be siblings. We are a sibling revalry. No, no,

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Speaker 1: sibling you don't do that with your mouth revelry. That's good, Oliver.

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Speaker 1: I'm so happy because we finally got to get Andra

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Speaker 1: and Nadilla on sibling revelry. They're just it's there's there's special,

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Speaker 1: special people. And and Dee was amazing and the work

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Speaker 1: that she is doing, you know again and watching and

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Speaker 1: with autistic children, and you watch her sister, who is

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Speaker 1: this superstar just revering her you know, sibling revelry at

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Speaker 1: its best, and it's just beautiful to sort of watch,

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Speaker 1: you know, how she gushes over her service and her

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Speaker 1: life and what she's doing. Yeah, I cried, I secretly

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Speaker 1: was I cried a little bit. No one saw inside,

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Speaker 1: I know, And you could tell. Dee's energy is just

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Speaker 1: really amazing. She's got that she's got that special sauce.

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Speaker 1: You know that you that you can't it's like you

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Speaker 1: you just know she's got a really beautiful soul. But anyway,

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Speaker 1: no need to keep anybody waiting. This was exciting for

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Speaker 1: us and we loved interviewing them. This is Andre and Nadia. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I'm so happy this worked out. Me too, I'm so excited. Hi.

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Speaker 1: How are you? Oh? Well, thank you so much. We

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Speaker 1: were talking about your names and how often people probably

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Speaker 1: get the pronunciation of both of your name's wrong. Yes,

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Speaker 1: people probably say Andre but it's Andra ah and people

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Speaker 1: say Nadia but it is Yeah, exactly exactly. I want

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Speaker 1: to throw that up immediately for everybody out there. What

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Speaker 1: happens when someone gets that wrong? Do you just let

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Speaker 1: them get it wrong? Or do you usually correct them?

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Speaker 1: What do you do? D do you correct them? Get

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Speaker 1: your name? I correct them usually the first time, and

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Speaker 1: then they keep getting it wrong. I'm just like, you

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Speaker 1: know what, whatever, that's my name. I think for me,

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Speaker 1: I'm just like, it's fine. It's just more energy to

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Speaker 1: be like I know, in most situations, I'm gonna walk

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Speaker 1: and do someone's gonna be like hey Andre, imna be

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Speaker 1: like hey boo and then just leave it at day.

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Speaker 1: But I know you feel it too, because I'm sure

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Speaker 1: everywhere you go they're always like Cotte. Yeah, It's more

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Speaker 1: like it's more like I get every Kate. I've been

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Speaker 1: Kate Winslet, I've been Kate, KATEI Homes, I've been Kate Blanchet.

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Speaker 1: Right now, I'm not any of those Kates. Well good,

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Speaker 1: I don't know you guys have never met Allie right? No,

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Speaker 1: unfortunately no, But I'm here now. You know I'm here.

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Speaker 1: Now you get to meet now, right? Guess do you

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Speaker 1: and Kate? Do you and Kate know each other? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: We met when it was Marshall the first time that

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Speaker 1: we met. I feel like we met before, Like I

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Speaker 1: feel like we met before, but I think it was

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Speaker 1: more like I was a fan from Afar and we

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Speaker 1: had like connections from Afar. Well likewise same thing too,

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Speaker 1: because I just remember meeting you and being like, oh wow,

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Speaker 1: Kate Hudson knows who I am. This is crazy. When

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Speaker 1: we met was at the Marshall, you know, at the Marshall.

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Speaker 1: Mm hmmm. And where are you guys? Where are you

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Speaker 1: guys right now? Are you in separate yeah? Separate states? Yes,

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Speaker 1: I'm in Washington State. Yeah, and I'm in Los Angeles, California.

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Speaker 1: You know what I was thinking to and we'll start

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Speaker 1: that I was saying during the Golden Globes you know,

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Speaker 1: we our family was at home. We were all at home,

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Speaker 1: and like I was sitting and you know how they

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Speaker 1: and like the whole family just is sitting around me,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, I don't know if this is what

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Speaker 1: felt so relieved that when when you were on your

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Speaker 1: whole family, because did they try to do they try

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Speaker 1: to give you the thing in the beginning, They're like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: well we really only want you on camera. And then

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Speaker 1: I was like no, and they were like you and

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Speaker 1: one other person. I was like, y'all, I gotta just

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Speaker 1: tell you it's gonna be everybody, it's going to be.

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Speaker 1: I honestly think that they thought that my family would

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Speaker 1: So it's yeah, I didn't even get the memo. I

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Speaker 1: remember looking at everybody else going I'm not this isn't right.

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Speaker 1: This just is not right. See now, I'm glad so

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Speaker 1: we saved each other because I felt the same way.

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh man, they're really not gonna be

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Speaker 1: we've all been like quarantining together, you know, I was

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Speaker 1: the actual event, you know what I mean. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was no I let them know in the beginning.

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Speaker 1: I was like, sorry, I'm just gonna go ahead and

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Speaker 1: break that rule right now. It was so fun and

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Speaker 1: it was such a joy to watch you win. Thank

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Speaker 1: you so much. I just love you in that movie.

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Speaker 1: You're just thank you, thank you so much. It was crazy,

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Speaker 1: my gosh, that experience. Well let's start now it's about

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Speaker 1: you guys. So let's start with where did you grow up?

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Speaker 1: Let's see where did we grow up? D We grew

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Speaker 1: up in San Diego, California, Southeast I'm very specific Southeast

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Speaker 1: San Diego, just in case everybody's like, wow, well, because

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Speaker 1: I think, like you know, San Diego is like very

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Speaker 1: assumes if you grew up in San Diego, then you

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Speaker 1: would have been the bomb. I would have been so

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Speaker 1: happy with that, no problem. But you know, I like

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Speaker 1: to where we grew up. It was like primarily like

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Speaker 1: and I feel like most people just don't know about

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Speaker 1: this area, that it doesn't exist. But that's where all

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Speaker 1: you know, tout Southeast San Diego specifically, you know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying. Yeah, people like a different idea of what

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Speaker 1: San Diego looks like San Diego. It's like surfboards and yeah,

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Speaker 1: absolutely yeah, and the city actually wants it to stay

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Speaker 1: As soon as I get this golden globe, I'm bringing

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Speaker 1: it right back to the city. How many siblings are there? Uh,

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Speaker 1: there's four of us in total, right, Yeah, it's me

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Speaker 1: her and two brothers. Yeah, Jackson, And who's the oldest.

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Speaker 1: I'm the oldest, is the oldest, even though she looks

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Speaker 1: the youngest. Right, This industry, this industry is stressing me.

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Speaker 1: The fuck you always says that look at her. No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: Billy Holliday snatched my youth. So now my oldest sister

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Speaker 1: looking like the one I took care of. I want

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Speaker 1: like it snatched your youth. I know you're hyperbolic, but

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Speaker 1: it was it tough? I mean, did it really cause

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Speaker 1: focus on them before the movie pictures, before the movie selfies.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if people realize that when you're taking

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Speaker 1: But you know, and also you know, look Lee, Lee

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Speaker 1: I honestly, my only barometer was Lee and everybody on set.

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Speaker 1: or you know, like co stars, you know, just coming

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Speaker 1: so for my mom, she says that she attributes it

421
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422
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423
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Speaker 1: being this thing that's like you can't do this, you

424
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425
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Speaker 1: she was like discover that, she was like, oh peace,

426
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Speaker 1: I'm out. And how old? How old were you guys?

427
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Speaker 1: I mean, were you younger when she actually went through

428
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Speaker 1: that realization you would know better than me, d How old? Yeah?

429
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Speaker 1: I think I was. I was sixteen when I said

430
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431
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Speaker 1: a few years after that Mom kind of stopped going

432
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Speaker 1: Yeah she did, that's true. Yeah, I was just I

433
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434
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435
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436
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Speaker 1: together or dad and mom still together? Nah, oh no, no, Okay.

437
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438
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439
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440
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441
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442
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443
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444
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445
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446
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Speaker 1: your in your life? What was his vibe? Like, I

447
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448
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449
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450
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451
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452
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453
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454
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455
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457
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458
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459
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460
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461
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462
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Speaker 1: a disciplinear and he was strict, but he was funny

463
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Speaker 1: as hell. I mean, he's like, it was clown. My

464
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Speaker 1: dad is such a jokester, like so, I don't know, Yeah,

465
00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:14,080
Speaker 1: remember when he used to embarrass you when we pull

466
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467
00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:18,680
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468
00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:22,600
Speaker 1: Ye yes, yeah, he would always say, because I hated

469
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470
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Speaker 1: the Tupac coming up into my high school with a

471
00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:33,720
Speaker 1: busted out speaker. And then he would wear these holy

472
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473
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474
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Speaker 1: then I'm going to come out of the van and

475
00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:45,040
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476
00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:47,600
Speaker 1: my dad had a thing for mess shirts like most

477
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478
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Speaker 1: why are your nipples always out? Oh yeah, those football

479
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480
00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:04,440
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481
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482
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483
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484
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485
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna call you D now since that's yeah D.

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534
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Speaker 1: for a living, Oh gosh, what do I do? I'm

535
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Speaker 1: an RBT, so I work with kids with autism currently

536
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Speaker 1: right now, but my special kid, I just love him

537
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538
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539
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540
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541
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543
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544
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545
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546
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547
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548
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549
00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:35,760
Speaker 1: what we do that she works with kids with autism,

550
00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:38,720
Speaker 1: writes children's books, and actually just started a daycare as

551
00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:41,760
Speaker 1: well too. So I don't know, I'm like super duper

552
00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:44,760
Speaker 1: freaking proud of her and just like I don't know,

553
00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:46,960
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554
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Speaker 1: this is my sister. She's a hero, you know what

555
00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:53,720
Speaker 1: I mean? How do you work with kids with autism?

556
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:58,640
Speaker 1: I actually I work one on one with him, and

557
00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:03,080
Speaker 1: I have a partner as well that works alongside me,

558
00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:07,320
Speaker 1: and we work in the house and some of the

559
00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:10,320
Speaker 1: things are just getting him, you know, he has behaviors.

560
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Speaker 1: So just getting him just on a routine, you know, uh,

561
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562
00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:24,560
Speaker 1: so he remembers how to do it basically, and then

563
00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:28,800
Speaker 1: just doing tasks, taking him on walks, you know, just

564
00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:31,160
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565
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Speaker 1: in high school. So I also follow him in high school,

566
00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:37,160
Speaker 1: you know, at his high school as well. But just

567
00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:41,720
Speaker 1: building that relationship, you know, like knowing that like you

568
00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:45,640
Speaker 1: care about them, and even if you feel like they

569
00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:49,240
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570
00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:52,800
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571
00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:57,640
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572
00:32:57,720 --> 00:33:00,360
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573
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574
00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:05,480
Speaker 1: will look at me and just smile and and be

575
00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:08,800
Speaker 1: like d you know, and so much I love him,

576
00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:10,640
Speaker 1: so I have so I swear to you, like half

577
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Speaker 1: my my camera, like my total album is Christian of Christian. Yeah. Yeah,

578
00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:17,000
Speaker 1: but I will say I want to chime in here too,

579
00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:19,160
Speaker 1: because I think a part of what the DAS therapy

580
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Speaker 1: is also is working with the parents as well too,

581
00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:24,000
Speaker 1: And how to you know, you can't discipline, rite or

582
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583
00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:30,080
Speaker 1: I think you just assume that they're acting out and

584
00:33:30,120 --> 00:33:31,920
Speaker 1: they're not. So I think it's also therapy for the

585
00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 1: parents as well to how to actually you know, manage

586
00:33:34,840 --> 00:33:38,240
Speaker 1: and to to not just cope, but to help you know,

587
00:33:38,280 --> 00:33:40,720
Speaker 1: the child thrive. So it's it's it's really amazing to

588
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589
00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:46,360
Speaker 1: now he's grown, and just every kid that you you've

590
00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:50,240
Speaker 1: ever worked with, it's it's pretty amazing. Yeah, it's definitely amazing. Amazing.

591
00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:52,760
Speaker 1: What do you I mean, what are the goals with

592
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593
00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:56,920
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594
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00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:04,560
Speaker 1: you know, to make sure their life is as good

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Speaker 1: as it can be. Yeah, So in school we have

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Speaker 1: it's called i EP goals. So it's basically a program

598
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599
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Speaker 1: through the year, it could be something as simple as

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Speaker 1: you know, being able to do addition, you know, and

601
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Speaker 1: then and then you kind of progress a little bit

602
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Speaker 1: more doing maybe harder addition, you know, multiplication hopefully you

603
00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:42,080
Speaker 1: know it just it takes time and just doing it

604
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Speaker 1: every single day. But you have to do it every

605
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Speaker 1: single day because a lot of times they don't, they

606
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607
00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:53,480
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Speaker 1: And I think, I think what you might be asking

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610
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Speaker 1: that he can how can he function as in the

611
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Speaker 1: you know what I mean is that, like what's the goal?

612
00:35:02,080 --> 00:35:04,279
Speaker 1: Then that is the goal? Yeah, that is the goal.

613
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:10,000
Speaker 1: So they basically they graduate high school and then they

614
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Speaker 1: go into a transition academy till they're about twenty one,

615
00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:16,000
Speaker 1: so they actually have to go a little bit longer.

616
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Speaker 1: So they're high school, they walk, but they don't really

617
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Speaker 1: get a diploma until they finish transition academy and then

618
00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 1: so the goal is basically to be able to have

619
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620
00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:31,759
Speaker 1: of the kids aren't probably will never be able to

621
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623
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Speaker 1: as we can. Yeah. Yeah, God, I just love her.

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Speaker 1: Do you ever do do you ever look at d

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626
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629
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630
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631
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Speaker 1: it's a blessing. But the truth of the matter is

632
00:36:10,760 --> 00:36:12,839
Speaker 1: all of this stuff I do because I love it, right,

633
00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:15,160
Speaker 1: Because I always say I want to honor God and

634
00:36:15,200 --> 00:36:18,160
Speaker 1: I want to serve people. But my my real personal

635
00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:20,600
Speaker 1: goal is just to be able to provide a platform

636
00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:23,400
Speaker 1: in some way or whatever for my siblings, for my

637
00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:25,000
Speaker 1: family to do the things that they want to do,

638
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:27,360
Speaker 1: you know. Like, So for me, it's like even in interviews,

639
00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:29,640
Speaker 1: I think people and I feel bad because sometimes people

640
00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:31,279
Speaker 1: be like, why are you so nonchalant? I'm like, my

641
00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:33,560
Speaker 1: sister works with kids with autism. I mean, look, you

642
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:34,880
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like, what are we talking? Like?

643
00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:37,840
Speaker 1: You know I do I've always, I think I've always

644
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:40,360
Speaker 1: looked at her as a hero like that, but I

645
00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:42,439
Speaker 1: mean even more now just as an adult to see

646
00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:44,880
Speaker 1: just like the path that she's chosen and how she's

647
00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:47,920
Speaker 1: what she's just made of her life, and you know

648
00:36:47,960 --> 00:36:50,399
Speaker 1: what she represents is like I don't know. I I'm

649
00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:52,880
Speaker 1: literally floored by her all the time. So I'm not

650
00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:56,600
Speaker 1: just gassing because we're in this conversation. She knows all

651
00:36:56,600 --> 00:36:59,360
Speaker 1: the siblings know the three of us are okay, she's

652
00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:06,360
Speaker 1: like super, Oh my god, it's just so amazing. And

653
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:09,080
Speaker 1: then the brothers are they what are they into? Well?

654
00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:12,040
Speaker 1: So how would so? I mean, I can you know

655
00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:15,200
Speaker 1: Josh is definitely my brother Josh, or actually my brother

656
00:37:15,239 --> 00:37:17,240
Speaker 1: Josh deals with like antique furniture and all that stuff

657
00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:20,439
Speaker 1: as well too, but he's just he's creative in sort

658
00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:24,600
Speaker 1: of like the scientific way. So he does like alternative

659
00:37:24,719 --> 00:37:27,680
Speaker 1: energy research, right, that's the right title. I'll be feeling

660
00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:30,040
Speaker 1: so bad, you guys, because sometimes you'd be talking about

661
00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:32,880
Speaker 1: it and I'd be like, yes, yeah, mechanisms, go with

662
00:37:33,040 --> 00:37:37,160
Speaker 1: the duophisms and you've got the shooby dude, Okay, we're

663
00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:40,319
Speaker 1: gonna get it all together. I'd be like, that's so amazing. Yeah.

664
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:44,120
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I gotta go, I gotta You're terrible.

665
00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:49,600
Speaker 1: I would sit there and listen, you're awful. But but yeah,

666
00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:52,360
Speaker 1: so he does that. My younger brother, actually, my younger

667
00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:54,919
Speaker 1: brother is super creative. So I'm gonna say this out

668
00:37:54,920 --> 00:37:58,560
Speaker 1: loud on this call. My younger brother is a songwriter,

669
00:37:58,719 --> 00:38:01,920
Speaker 1: a singer, a musician, and a producer. And I'm just

670
00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:05,719
Speaker 1: like amazing, But I don't know. He's still younger, so

671
00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:07,640
Speaker 1: he feels like, I don't know if I'm good enough

672
00:38:07,640 --> 00:38:09,480
Speaker 1: and to all stuff. So I'm saying this in the

673
00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 1: interview so I can basically force it and manifest it.

674
00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:15,359
Speaker 1: But I want him to produce records with me because

675
00:38:15,400 --> 00:38:20,279
Speaker 1: he's so I mean, he plays guitar, piano, drums, bass, programs. Right,

676
00:38:20,400 --> 00:38:22,360
Speaker 1: he's actually really phenomenal, you know what I mean. I

677
00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:24,520
Speaker 1: think it's just the idea of doing it scares and

678
00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:26,960
Speaker 1: but and did he was he? Was he young like you?

679
00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:28,759
Speaker 1: I mean, did he come up with that sort of

680
00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:31,480
Speaker 1: musical gene? And just there was that in him? And

681
00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:33,200
Speaker 1: by the way, for you too, where did you start?

682
00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:35,640
Speaker 1: As well? As it's sort of two parter, but first

683
00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:39,000
Speaker 1: of all, not like me, yes, like me, but not

684
00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:41,920
Speaker 1: like me, like far far far better than me. And

685
00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:44,640
Speaker 1: I'm not even just exaggerating, like I always tell the label,

686
00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaker 1: I was like, y'all fucked up, but it's too late.

687
00:38:46,120 --> 00:38:48,200
Speaker 1: You signed me already. You really should have got Jackson,

688
00:38:48,239 --> 00:38:53,600
Speaker 1: you know. But no, he always he taught himself, like

689
00:38:53,680 --> 00:38:55,520
Speaker 1: every instrument, you know. And I was started when I

690
00:38:55,520 --> 00:38:57,080
Speaker 1: was young too. I think I discovered I could see

691
00:38:57,080 --> 00:38:58,960
Speaker 1: when I was like six years old, and probably around

692
00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:01,520
Speaker 1: the same time for Jackson too. And then I was

693
00:39:01,560 --> 00:39:04,040
Speaker 1: introduced to Billie Holliday actually at a really young age

694
00:39:04,080 --> 00:39:06,680
Speaker 1: when I was like eleven, and so just like a

695
00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:09,240
Speaker 1: slow burned kind of obsession with her and with jazz,

696
00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:11,239
Speaker 1: you know, as I that I explore even more when

697
00:39:11,239 --> 00:39:15,120
Speaker 1: I graduated really high school. But yeah, he's always just

698
00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:17,960
Speaker 1: taught himself every instrument, has always just made music, has

699
00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:21,640
Speaker 1: been great at music, you know, led remember when he

700
00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:23,640
Speaker 1: led like praise teams at church and stuff like that.

701
00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:26,960
Speaker 1: So he's always been so good. So to me, it's

702
00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:30,279
Speaker 1: my goal for the next iteration of music is to

703
00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:33,160
Speaker 1: just produce records with him, you know. So he's just

704
00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:36,120
Speaker 1: like does he not want you to put him on?

705
00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:38,800
Speaker 1: Meaning he's like he wants it to do it himself,

706
00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:41,120
Speaker 1: or is he concerned it all about sort of a

707
00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:47,040
Speaker 1: you know hookpotism. Yeah, he's probably like I mean, it's

708
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:49,319
Speaker 1: never really been explicitly like I don't want you to

709
00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:51,719
Speaker 1: be responsible for but he is a hard worker, so

710
00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:53,799
Speaker 1: he's like me where it's like, so, I don't think

711
00:39:53,800 --> 00:39:55,880
Speaker 1: that he is really like I don't want it to

712
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:58,319
Speaker 1: be through you. I think he just for him. He's like,

713
00:39:58,360 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 1: I don't feel good enough, like I don't field, which

714
00:40:00,520 --> 00:40:02,520
Speaker 1: is so crazy because I was like, neither am I.

715
00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:04,000
Speaker 1: I don't like the sound of my own damn voice,

716
00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:05,279
Speaker 1: but they still pay me for it, you know what

717
00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:07,279
Speaker 1: I'm saying, like, just come on and do it, you know. Like,

718
00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:11,319
Speaker 1: but but he just is he wants to I need

719
00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:13,120
Speaker 1: more schooling and I need to learn all of these

720
00:40:13,120 --> 00:40:15,400
Speaker 1: little details, and I'm like, you can do that, and

721
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:17,279
Speaker 1: you can also make records. At the same time, he's

722
00:40:17,360 --> 00:40:19,560
Speaker 1: very good. I'm gonna eventually force him into it. I'm

723
00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:23,399
Speaker 1: very persuasive. So that's what I can't wait to hear

724
00:40:23,640 --> 00:40:27,920
Speaker 1: what he does. Yeah, no, you definitely, he's so good.

725
00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:31,400
Speaker 1: Nadia knows he's so so so dope. Wait, can I

726
00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:33,960
Speaker 1: put it seat like this? So I've built this pseudo

727
00:40:34,080 --> 00:40:36,879
Speaker 1: studio in my house. I don't play piano. I have

728
00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:39,680
Speaker 1: a keyboard Nord stage three. I don't play guitar. I

729
00:40:39,719 --> 00:40:43,040
Speaker 1: have a really great guitar. I don't, you know, work

730
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:45,319
Speaker 1: on these programs logic. I have all this shit in

731
00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:47,399
Speaker 1: my house just for the times when he comes over

732
00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:49,520
Speaker 1: and visits and decides he wants to tinker around on

733
00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:52,200
Speaker 1: steps so he'll get there, you know what I'm saying. Yeah,

734
00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:56,280
Speaker 1: you don't play any instruments at all. Oh, I'm terrible.

735
00:40:56,520 --> 00:40:59,680
Speaker 1: Can you write on anything? Can you write? Yeah? I

736
00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:03,000
Speaker 1: mean yeah, I can't write. You're right, No, that's a

737
00:41:03,080 --> 00:41:05,640
Speaker 1: that's a good question too. So I don't formally play piano,

738
00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:07,640
Speaker 1: but I can actually produce stuff on it just because

739
00:41:07,680 --> 00:41:09,200
Speaker 1: just by ear, you know what I mean. So that's

740
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:11,080
Speaker 1: how I how I really do it, you know, stuff

741
00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:13,200
Speaker 1: like that. But yeah, not to like you know, I

742
00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:16,600
Speaker 1: don't have the reason, you know, the theory, the reason

743
00:41:17,200 --> 00:41:20,680
Speaker 1: come on the theory whatever in the in the house. Like,

744
00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:27,279
Speaker 1: was there a moment when you started to sing and

745
00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:31,640
Speaker 1: everyone was like whoa, she can really sing? Or was

746
00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:36,239
Speaker 1: it like you just sang and nobody really you know,

747
00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:38,680
Speaker 1: because like some people have these things where their whole

748
00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:41,719
Speaker 1: family is like whoa. Wo other families are like oh,

749
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:44,440
Speaker 1: she just sings all the time, and yeah, it drives

750
00:41:44,480 --> 00:41:47,560
Speaker 1: me crazy, you know. And that one, look, I'm all

751
00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:51,880
Speaker 1: that that one. That one was like me my issue

752
00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:54,040
Speaker 1: growing up. I think that's why I always had so

753
00:41:54,120 --> 00:41:56,280
Speaker 1: much doubt is that every time I would sing, everybody

754
00:41:56,320 --> 00:42:01,600
Speaker 1: was like, oh she goes again. Goodness, wait a minute,

755
00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:04,600
Speaker 1: so you're actually just probably this amazing singer and did

756
00:42:04,640 --> 00:42:07,000
Speaker 1: we just weren't able to explore it. See, come on, Oliver,

757
00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:10,239
Speaker 1: you gotta just be like, why I have my own problems.

758
00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:12,640
Speaker 1: My dad was gone. I was trying to figure my

759
00:42:12,680 --> 00:42:19,320
Speaker 1: own shit out, like I couldn't be supported. No, I

760
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:21,319
Speaker 1: don't think it was I don't think it was really

761
00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:23,160
Speaker 1: like a Wow, she could sing. I think it was

762
00:42:23,160 --> 00:42:25,320
Speaker 1: more like wow, she wants shut up, or like she

763
00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:27,040
Speaker 1: better be able to sing, or like I don't know.

764
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:29,439
Speaker 1: We just were always immersed in music, so nobody really

765
00:42:29,480 --> 00:42:32,640
Speaker 1: cared to be honest with you that much. I think.

766
00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:36,120
Speaker 1: I mean, I was shocked when I came back. I

767
00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:37,799
Speaker 1: lived in Monterey for a little while. I came back,

768
00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:40,359
Speaker 1: and I was like, I did not know you could

769
00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:45,200
Speaker 1: sing like that? Oh really you have? Yeah? Okay, I did, Okay,

770
00:42:45,320 --> 00:42:48,239
Speaker 1: But but then when we started singing in stores. As

771
00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:51,919
Speaker 1: we went into the stores. I was like, okay, because

772
00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:53,840
Speaker 1: it wants to be seen, Like I just like to

773
00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:56,200
Speaker 1: go in the store shop. She likes to announce when

774
00:42:56,200 --> 00:43:05,680
Speaker 1: she's there about singer's tourette that she has. Oh my gosh, right, okay, listen,

775
00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:10,400
Speaker 1: she's not wrong. This is all correct. But you know

776
00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:12,800
Speaker 1: it was just practice. Ye, you know it was practice.

777
00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 1: That's I know. It's like I'm just kidding. I'm just

778
00:43:15,600 --> 00:43:18,520
Speaker 1: fucking with her. It's like you can't help it. Just random,

779
00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:21,960
Speaker 1: just sneeze and melodies come out and someone will say

780
00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:26,879
Speaker 1: a word and you'll think of a song, and you know, oh, Kate, Kate,

781
00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:29,680
Speaker 1: that's how we grew up. I mean, you would say

782
00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:31,960
Speaker 1: something to mom or ask us some sort of a question.

783
00:43:32,280 --> 00:43:34,880
Speaker 1: She would turn the question into a song for her

784
00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:37,680
Speaker 1: own personal enjoyment and not answer what the hell it

785
00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:39,160
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786
00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:42,160
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787
00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:47,720
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788
00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:49,319
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789
00:43:49,400 --> 00:43:59,719
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Speaker 1: that are beer glasses. That yeah, because cores Light, you

840
00:47:00,320 --> 00:47:02,359
Speaker 1: can go two ways, that's right. Because you can drink

841
00:47:02,400 --> 00:47:04,560
Speaker 1: it straight out of the can, which is really beautiful

842
00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:06,720
Speaker 1: and freezing cold. But if you have an ice glass

843
00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:09,919
Speaker 1: and you pour it in a frozen glass, a frozen mug,

844
00:47:12,719 --> 00:47:16,000
Speaker 1: just give it a little extra little extra ice. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

845
00:47:16,040 --> 00:47:17,759
Speaker 1: When you take a sip, there's a little bit of

846
00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:21,399
Speaker 1: a crunch because it freezes it just a little bit.

847
00:47:25,080 --> 00:47:29,839
Speaker 1: It's a cold loggered, cold filtered, cold package, crisp, refreshing.

848
00:47:30,440 --> 00:47:35,280
Speaker 1: It's perfect for a moment to unwind this summer. Oliver

849
00:47:35,640 --> 00:47:38,840
Speaker 1: cores Light is the official beer of slowing down this summer.

850
00:47:38,840 --> 00:47:42,000
Speaker 1: Because as the beer that's made to chill, we want

851
00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:45,560
Speaker 1: you to savor every second of summer. Get course light,

852
00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:48,960
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853
00:47:49,239 --> 00:47:55,160
Speaker 1: All right, celebrate responsibly. Corse Brown Company, Golden Colorado. I

854
00:47:55,200 --> 00:47:57,320
Speaker 1: feel like they should have you do that for their commercial.

855
00:47:57,560 --> 00:48:00,400
Speaker 1: I want to. I'm just saying that I wanted to

856
00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:02,440
Speaker 1: keep that in Corse Light. I feel like that should

857
00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:06,680
Speaker 1: be all of ours on your commercions. I'm auditioning every

858
00:48:06,680 --> 00:48:13,520
Speaker 1: time I read the ad. Once all the kids are

859
00:48:13,560 --> 00:48:16,759
Speaker 1: out of their twenties, like everybody's like you look at

860
00:48:16,800 --> 00:48:19,759
Speaker 1: each other around like a Thanksgiving table, and you're like,

861
00:48:20,000 --> 00:48:23,840
Speaker 1: we're all adults now. Yeah, yeah, like does it feel

862
00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:27,480
Speaker 1: tight or do you get or or you know? Or

863
00:48:27,640 --> 00:48:30,880
Speaker 1: is it or could it be better? Honestly, Okay, don't

864
00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:34,040
Speaker 1: say anything about my communication, d okay, because you know

865
00:48:34,360 --> 00:48:40,360
Speaker 1: that I still love no. I mean, in my opinion,

866
00:48:40,560 --> 00:48:42,919
Speaker 1: I think we are all it's almost like we sit

867
00:48:42,960 --> 00:48:44,919
Speaker 1: around and it's not necessarily like I mean, I guess

868
00:48:44,920 --> 00:48:46,880
Speaker 1: you have random moments where we go we're growing up,

869
00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:48,920
Speaker 1: but I still annoy the shit out of all of

870
00:48:48,960 --> 00:48:50,360
Speaker 1: them the way I did when I was young, you

871
00:48:50,400 --> 00:48:53,239
Speaker 1: know what I mean? And then so I feel like

872
00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:56,920
Speaker 1: Nadya still basically takes care of everybody the way she

873
00:48:57,000 --> 00:49:00,879
Speaker 1: dated when we were young. You know, Jackson and Josh

874
00:49:01,000 --> 00:49:03,480
Speaker 1: like same thing. They just ignore me. Jackson continues to

875
00:49:03,520 --> 00:49:06,879
Speaker 1: pretend he's not exactly like me. Josh continues to talk

876
00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:09,799
Speaker 1: about the inventions and the stuff. So I don't know. Yeah,

877
00:49:09,840 --> 00:49:11,919
Speaker 1: it's like, I don't know, would you say that we're

878
00:49:12,200 --> 00:49:14,200
Speaker 1: I think that we're very close, you know what I'm saying.

879
00:49:14,440 --> 00:49:17,480
Speaker 1: I think we're really close. We're close now, We're Yeah,

880
00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:19,839
Speaker 1: we are super super close, you know what I mean. So, yeah,

881
00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:22,040
Speaker 1: and that's a blessing honestly, because I know it's not

882
00:49:22,400 --> 00:49:25,200
Speaker 1: always like that, you know what I mean. Yeah. Yeah,

883
00:49:25,280 --> 00:49:29,360
Speaker 1: the more we interview people, the more we get people

884
00:49:29,400 --> 00:49:34,600
Speaker 1: writing in about sibling relationships, you realize that they're so complex,

885
00:49:34,680 --> 00:49:37,960
Speaker 1: Like people who have really tight families that work their

886
00:49:38,000 --> 00:49:42,960
Speaker 1: shit out and like deal with each other's nuances and yeah,

887
00:49:42,960 --> 00:49:46,120
Speaker 1: and each one has their own individual relationships with each other,

888
00:49:46,280 --> 00:49:48,879
Speaker 1: you know, like you and d might have your own

889
00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:52,960
Speaker 1: thing and then Dean Jackson have their own thing and

890
00:49:53,120 --> 00:49:56,759
Speaker 1: special and separate, and sometimes you know, there's friction. Yeah,

891
00:49:56,800 --> 00:49:59,920
Speaker 1: it's all different. Do you guys think there are closer

892
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:05,320
Speaker 1: relationships like our Josh and Jackson and you and d close. Yeah,

893
00:50:05,400 --> 00:50:07,600
Speaker 1: it just depends on what they all like. Got me?

894
00:50:07,760 --> 00:50:09,280
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. That one, I'm just kidding.

895
00:50:11,080 --> 00:50:12,799
Speaker 1: I just use it as leverage, you know what I mean.

896
00:50:12,920 --> 00:50:16,080
Speaker 1: I'm just kidding. No, I mean, what would you say,

897
00:50:16,160 --> 00:50:19,040
Speaker 1: D What do you think? Like, I feel like we're

898
00:50:19,200 --> 00:50:22,560
Speaker 1: all close. I know, it's so weird. It's the same.

899
00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:27,400
Speaker 1: I don't think that I have a favorite. Yeah, you know.

900
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:30,040
Speaker 1: I mean, you're listen, I'll play it to you like this.

901
00:50:30,960 --> 00:50:34,920
Speaker 1: Nadia doesn't have a favorite because she's all of our favorites,

902
00:50:34,960 --> 00:50:36,799
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So we're all close. But

903
00:50:36,840 --> 00:50:38,799
Speaker 1: like I said, we all know that, like, all right,

904
00:50:38,840 --> 00:50:42,120
Speaker 1: Nadia's if we're gonna save one, we should probably go

905
00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:44,280
Speaker 1: with her. You know what I'm saying. If the house

906
00:50:44,440 --> 00:50:46,920
Speaker 1: was burning and one person needs to be thrown out,

907
00:50:47,360 --> 00:50:55,120
Speaker 1: cans gonna do? You got the album? But so wait,

908
00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:57,600
Speaker 1: what about you guys? Is there like a like you know,

909
00:50:57,800 --> 00:51:01,520
Speaker 1: like kind of a closer or you know, yeah, it

910
00:51:01,560 --> 00:51:05,399
Speaker 1: ebbs and flows. You know. It's also you know, when

911
00:51:05,440 --> 00:51:09,600
Speaker 1: you're coming from a family that has had instability too,

912
00:51:10,560 --> 00:51:13,320
Speaker 1: you know, it's just an interesting dynamic because you know,

913
00:51:13,360 --> 00:51:15,360
Speaker 1: we made jokes. I'm like, I had didn't have the

914
00:51:15,400 --> 00:51:18,360
Speaker 1: capacity to be the brother for Kate to love her

915
00:51:18,600 --> 00:51:20,759
Speaker 1: the way that she probably should have been loved as

916
00:51:20,760 --> 00:51:22,600
Speaker 1: her older brother, because I was kind of dealing with

917
00:51:22,640 --> 00:51:25,360
Speaker 1: my own shit, you know. So only sort of in

918
00:51:25,400 --> 00:51:29,880
Speaker 1: our later years did she and I get closer and

919
00:51:29,960 --> 00:51:34,040
Speaker 1: come together, you know. And then I'm having an amazing

920
00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:37,280
Speaker 1: relationship with my younger brother. Now he's ten years younger

921
00:51:37,320 --> 00:51:40,080
Speaker 1: than me, but it's imparting all of this like beautiful

922
00:51:40,080 --> 00:51:42,080
Speaker 1: wisdom because I'm going through some shit right now, just

923
00:51:42,080 --> 00:51:44,759
Speaker 1: with anxiety. I was on lexipro and I'm coming off

924
00:51:44,800 --> 00:51:47,520
Speaker 1: of all. That's a whole other story, right, you know,

925
00:51:47,560 --> 00:51:52,719
Speaker 1: but he is, he is actually, you know, saying some

926
00:51:52,760 --> 00:51:59,160
Speaker 1: pretty amazing things to me anxiety. He's on inside presence.

927
00:51:59,200 --> 00:52:03,000
Speaker 1: I'm like laugh, but you know, I just realized. I was, like,

928
00:52:03,040 --> 00:52:05,200
Speaker 1: you're right. When you have a sibling dynamic where you

929
00:52:05,200 --> 00:52:07,920
Speaker 1: guys have maybe seen some shit, have been through together,

930
00:52:08,160 --> 00:52:10,600
Speaker 1: like even earlier, just talking about abstitute fathers, We're like

931
00:52:10,640 --> 00:52:16,840
Speaker 1: ha ha, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I think it's something

932
00:52:16,880 --> 00:52:19,200
Speaker 1: about like laughter, you know, what was that doctor or

933
00:52:19,239 --> 00:52:22,400
Speaker 1: whatever sort of a while ago. I'm probably misquoting this

934
00:52:22,440 --> 00:52:25,000
Speaker 1: because I can't remember shit, but like, you know, he

935
00:52:25,000 --> 00:52:27,000
Speaker 1: heard himself he had like cancer or something like that,

936
00:52:27,080 --> 00:52:29,279
Speaker 1: and then he kind of like literally just went into

937
00:52:29,280 --> 00:52:31,200
Speaker 1: a room and to just laugh and laugh and laugh

938
00:52:31,239 --> 00:52:33,120
Speaker 1: and laugh and supposedly heal him. So it was something

939
00:52:33,200 --> 00:52:35,239
Speaker 1: like that. I mean, but just the idea that like

940
00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:37,480
Speaker 1: laughter and humor, you know what I mean, really is

941
00:52:37,480 --> 00:52:39,759
Speaker 1: more than coping, but it's like healing. So no, I

942
00:52:39,840 --> 00:52:42,200
Speaker 1: totally makes Oh God, for sure. And by the way,

943
00:52:42,280 --> 00:52:46,000
Speaker 1: humor is literally the sort of backbone of our family.

944
00:52:46,080 --> 00:52:49,080
Speaker 1: I mean, yes, it's our humor is our north star,

945
00:52:49,239 --> 00:52:51,600
Speaker 1: we know, so thank you and your family for that.

946
00:52:51,640 --> 00:52:55,360
Speaker 1: We know we all actually benefited from your guys as humor,

947
00:52:55,440 --> 00:53:00,560
Speaker 1: So thank you. Oh man, we should do some speed

948
00:53:00,640 --> 00:53:02,920
Speaker 1: roundies because that usually doesn't turn into a speed round

949
00:53:04,600 --> 00:53:07,279
Speaker 1: that'ssing out with me? Wait, why did I have to

950
00:53:07,280 --> 00:53:10,400
Speaker 1: do like a song association for l earlier? Like and

951
00:53:10,440 --> 00:53:12,960
Speaker 1: I just think people just assume they're like, you're gonna

952
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:15,520
Speaker 1: just say something genius because you do music and you

953
00:53:15,560 --> 00:53:18,200
Speaker 1: do the They were like sing a song with the

954
00:53:18,239 --> 00:53:22,839
Speaker 1: word together in it. I was like, next, they were

955
00:53:22,880 --> 00:53:26,400
Speaker 1: like a song with right there. I was like a

956
00:53:26,400 --> 00:53:29,600
Speaker 1: song with the word thinking it. I was like, I

957
00:53:29,640 --> 00:53:34,000
Speaker 1: can't think of anything next one? Please? No? Then no?

958
00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:36,160
Speaker 1: Then I came up with a round I got I

959
00:53:36,200 --> 00:53:39,680
Speaker 1: got no Tevin Campbell, Oh no, no, no, no, no,

960
00:53:40,000 --> 00:53:47,040
Speaker 1: Raphael about thinking of you? Oh yeah, my first time

961
00:53:47,360 --> 00:53:54,200
Speaker 1: I ever laid my face. But give me my phone.

962
00:53:54,200 --> 00:53:56,359
Speaker 1: I'm recording this. I'm recording this for Ray right now.

963
00:53:57,200 --> 00:54:01,279
Speaker 1: I love I did do think. I didn't read this thing.

964
00:54:01,440 --> 00:54:05,040
Speaker 1: I ultimately am able to find it after twenty hours. Okay,

965
00:54:05,239 --> 00:54:11,360
Speaker 1: let's do this. One word to describe each other. One

966
00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:16,640
Speaker 1: word to describe Nadia. I don't know. I just want

967
00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:21,399
Speaker 1: to say like love or perfect, but whatever. One word

968
00:54:21,440 --> 00:54:25,640
Speaker 1: to describe Nadia is Can I say like solid? It

969
00:54:25,680 --> 00:54:27,000
Speaker 1: just means like a rock, you know what I mean?

970
00:54:27,080 --> 00:54:37,480
Speaker 1: Like just consistent? Yeah, consistent for sure? Oh for polite.

971
00:54:37,840 --> 00:54:48,279
Speaker 1: Don't be polite. It's fine for Andra is ew why

972
00:54:48,280 --> 00:54:51,680
Speaker 1: did you just call me Andrew? What? I have a

973
00:54:51,760 --> 00:54:57,239
Speaker 1: minute I have to say? And because minetic they call

974
00:54:57,320 --> 00:54:59,400
Speaker 1: me songs, you should just call me songs. They call

975
00:54:59,480 --> 00:55:04,120
Speaker 1: me so like I was like, I refused the hell

976
00:55:04,160 --> 00:55:14,120
Speaker 1: out of it. Okay, Sanji, that's what I call that's

977
00:55:14,120 --> 00:55:21,680
Speaker 1: what I call her. Sondra. Yeah, Ah is generous, very generous,

978
00:55:21,719 --> 00:55:27,040
Speaker 1: just like with her time, you know, her just giving.

979
00:55:27,280 --> 00:55:31,759
Speaker 1: You know, if somebody is in need, she'll just help

980
00:55:31,800 --> 00:55:36,839
Speaker 1: them out, move them into her house. You know, she's

981
00:55:36,920 --> 00:55:40,520
Speaker 1: just very generous, very generous person. One word to describe

982
00:55:40,880 --> 00:55:50,200
Speaker 1: your relationship mm hmmm, I would just say peace mm hmm. Yeah,

983
00:55:51,239 --> 00:55:56,000
Speaker 1: I would say, I mean to borrow your words. Solid.

984
00:55:56,239 --> 00:55:59,880
Speaker 1: I mean we are you know, we're just solid. You know,

985
00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:04,600
Speaker 1: we never fight. We just you know, we joke around.

986
00:56:05,080 --> 00:56:07,080
Speaker 1: That actually is kind of crazy. When was the last

987
00:56:07,080 --> 00:56:09,120
Speaker 1: time we actually fought. I think it was probably you

988
00:56:09,160 --> 00:56:10,640
Speaker 1: know the last time we probably thought was when you

989
00:56:10,680 --> 00:56:13,120
Speaker 1: were a teenager and I would when you got grounded

990
00:56:13,120 --> 00:56:18,759
Speaker 1: and I wouldn't stop going to your friend's house. Yeah, yeah,

991
00:56:18,760 --> 00:56:21,960
Speaker 1: we really don't fight. That's crazy. No, I don't fight. Yeah,

992
00:56:22,040 --> 00:56:27,719
Speaker 1: Who's who's more patient? I mean, Nidia, it depends on

993
00:56:27,760 --> 00:56:30,839
Speaker 1: the scenario, It depends on No, you're right, you're right,

994
00:56:31,160 --> 00:56:35,640
Speaker 1: because sometimes yeah, sometimes Nadia her few you know, like

995
00:56:36,040 --> 00:56:38,120
Speaker 1: even with the moving people into my house and doing

996
00:56:38,160 --> 00:56:39,520
Speaker 1: this stuff, like I feel like I have a pretty

997
00:56:39,560 --> 00:56:41,359
Speaker 1: long fuse when it comes to that, or people like

998
00:56:41,440 --> 00:56:42,840
Speaker 1: just doing a weird shit around me, you know what

999
00:56:42,880 --> 00:56:45,640
Speaker 1: I mean, It's a lot shorter after Billie Holiday. I'm

1000
00:56:45,680 --> 00:56:50,520
Speaker 1: not gonna lie, but but yeah, no, I would say, like,

1001
00:56:52,640 --> 00:56:54,920
Speaker 1: damn no, both of us are pretty similar, just different,

1002
00:56:54,920 --> 00:56:56,840
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Yeah, I think I'm patient.

1003
00:56:57,040 --> 00:57:00,720
Speaker 1: Of course with kids, I'm super patient. Yeah, but little

1004
00:57:00,719 --> 00:57:04,120
Speaker 1: things like losing something, I go crazy. I get mad

1005
00:57:04,160 --> 00:57:10,320
Speaker 1: and then I blame my husband and I'm not wear sign.

1006
00:57:11,920 --> 00:57:18,400
Speaker 1: I'm a Capricorn. Capricorn, both Capricorns. Yeah, okay, January December

1007
00:57:18,440 --> 00:57:23,040
Speaker 1: thirty sixteenth, Yeah, December thirtieth for me. Oh cool? What

1008
00:57:23,120 --> 00:57:27,200
Speaker 1: about your first concert? My first concert? Do you know?

1009
00:57:27,320 --> 00:57:28,880
Speaker 1: D did we go to any? I don't feel like

1010
00:57:28,880 --> 00:57:31,360
Speaker 1: we never wad and we were young. Your concert was

1011
00:57:31,400 --> 00:57:34,640
Speaker 1: my first concert? Oh yeah, true. We didn't really have

1012
00:57:34,720 --> 00:57:36,720
Speaker 1: money for shit like that. The first concert I did

1013
00:57:36,880 --> 00:57:40,680
Speaker 1: go to, I remember specifically was an n Sync concert

1014
00:57:40,720 --> 00:57:42,640
Speaker 1: because I had this friend in school and she had

1015
00:57:42,680 --> 00:57:45,040
Speaker 1: this birthday party and she was obsessed within Sync and

1016
00:57:45,080 --> 00:57:46,400
Speaker 1: so she was like, I just want all my friends

1017
00:57:46,400 --> 00:57:48,320
Speaker 1: to go to an n Sync concert. So I had

1018
00:57:48,320 --> 00:57:50,080
Speaker 1: to pretend I knew the words the whole time I

1019
00:57:50,160 --> 00:57:53,080
Speaker 1: was there. I was fuck like everybody was so into it,

1020
00:57:53,120 --> 00:57:54,880
Speaker 1: and I was like, Oh, I just hook onto the

1021
00:57:54,920 --> 00:57:57,720
Speaker 1: one life. I don't know it's gonna be may That's

1022
00:57:57,720 --> 00:58:02,360
Speaker 1: like the only line I could remember. Also, I feel

1023
00:58:02,360 --> 00:58:06,920
Speaker 1: like mom was really strict girl. She didn't let us

1024
00:58:06,960 --> 00:58:09,680
Speaker 1: watch that well, she didn't let me watch stuff. First

1025
00:58:09,680 --> 00:58:11,600
Speaker 1: of all, she frowd we was just broke. She was

1026
00:58:11,680 --> 00:58:14,320
Speaker 1: just like, concerts are back. I was like, nah, we

1027
00:58:14,400 --> 00:58:16,640
Speaker 1: just broke. You just came up with an excuse instead

1028
00:58:16,640 --> 00:58:20,440
Speaker 1: of being like, can't afford it. Yeah, I guess when

1029
00:58:20,440 --> 00:58:23,800
Speaker 1: it was at that that weird freaking churchy whatever place,

1030
00:58:23,880 --> 00:58:27,960
Speaker 1: whatever it was. Yeah, who was the most rebellious as

1031
00:58:28,000 --> 00:58:33,360
Speaker 1: a kid? You? Was it? Me? Dear? Yes, okay, no,

1032
00:58:34,240 --> 00:58:38,680
Speaker 1: but you were wild as fuck at one point. Wow.

1033
00:58:39,680 --> 00:58:41,880
Speaker 1: I remember going to the school one time, you know

1034
00:58:41,920 --> 00:58:44,600
Speaker 1: what I mean. And it did have to defend herself,

1035
00:58:44,640 --> 00:58:45,840
Speaker 1: you know, because we kind of grew up in the

1036
00:58:45,880 --> 00:58:49,919
Speaker 1: hood whatever. So like, you know, so she people don't

1037
00:58:49,960 --> 00:58:51,840
Speaker 1: know that she's because she has a different father. But

1038
00:58:51,880 --> 00:58:54,440
Speaker 1: my mother's black and white, so she's mostly white, but

1039
00:58:54,440 --> 00:58:56,040
Speaker 1: she's mixed with black as well too. You know, people

1040
00:58:56,040 --> 00:58:57,960
Speaker 1: don't know, so people kind of picked, you know what

1041
00:58:58,000 --> 00:58:59,640
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Start some ship with her, like when she

1042
00:58:59,720 --> 00:59:01,800
Speaker 1: was young girl or whatever, so she had to like

1043
00:59:01,880 --> 00:59:03,640
Speaker 1: really fucking fight. I remember we pulled up to the

1044
00:59:03,640 --> 00:59:05,480
Speaker 1: school to pick her up from school. One time she

1045
00:59:05,560 --> 00:59:08,240
Speaker 1: was hell young smoking cigarettes. My dad caught her. Another

1046
00:59:08,280 --> 00:59:10,520
Speaker 1: time we pulled up to the school, she fucking slamming

1047
00:59:10,560 --> 00:59:15,560
Speaker 1: some girl into the bleachers. I was like, damn, she's crazy. Yeah,

1048
00:59:15,640 --> 00:59:17,360
Speaker 1: because I mean, people would come up to me and

1049
00:59:17,400 --> 00:59:20,479
Speaker 1: be like, well, your family's black, but do you fight

1050
00:59:20,560 --> 00:59:24,040
Speaker 1: like a black girl? And so I literally got into

1051
00:59:24,040 --> 00:59:26,560
Speaker 1: fights in the street just people will come up to

1052
00:59:26,600 --> 00:59:30,200
Speaker 1: me all the time. Yeah, all the time. But you know,

1053
00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:32,240
Speaker 1: but I will say I think both of us, the

1054
00:59:32,320 --> 00:59:35,040
Speaker 1: two you're talking to, probably the two most rebellious in

1055
00:59:35,440 --> 00:59:40,640
Speaker 1: the family. Yeah for sure, Yeah, definitely. M What about

1056
00:59:40,640 --> 00:59:47,600
Speaker 1: your first celebrity crush? I know you're, uh, who was

1057
00:59:47,640 --> 00:59:55,280
Speaker 1: Mine's JTT? Yeah, Jonathan Taylor Thomas, Jonathan Taylor Thomas, Taylor Thomas.

1058
00:59:55,480 --> 00:59:58,160
Speaker 1: And then it switched so crazy, like it was hell

1059
00:59:58,200 --> 01:00:01,080
Speaker 1: of Stark. It was like JTT, you know, because everybody

1060
01:00:01,120 --> 01:00:02,760
Speaker 1: loved him. I was like, oh damn, he's on the

1061
01:00:02,760 --> 01:00:05,120
Speaker 1: cover of all these magazines. But then it went from

1062
01:00:05,120 --> 01:00:08,640
Speaker 1: like j T T to like jaw Rule. I was like,

1063
01:00:10,680 --> 01:00:13,360
Speaker 1: let's not bring that up. That's not definitely not you

1064
01:00:13,600 --> 01:00:16,960
Speaker 1: had a crush on Yeah, I don't know. He was

1065
01:00:17,080 --> 01:00:18,600
Speaker 1: just like and at the time when I was young,

1066
01:00:18,640 --> 01:00:20,240
Speaker 1: I was like, damn, he's so gangster, you know what

1067
01:00:20,240 --> 01:00:28,920
Speaker 1: I mean, or Tupac to actually Tupac for sure. Yeah,

1068
01:00:29,040 --> 01:00:35,800
Speaker 1: he was a sexy man. Yeah, everybody crush everybody. Oh gosh,

1069
01:00:36,200 --> 01:00:41,520
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think I would have to say ello

1070
01:00:41,520 --> 01:00:45,919
Speaker 1: cool j even when I was younger. I just thought

1071
01:00:45,960 --> 01:00:49,160
Speaker 1: he was just said even when I was younger, which

1072
01:00:49,200 --> 01:01:00,640
Speaker 1: means he's still he's still l L was then, except

1073
01:01:00,920 --> 01:01:02,200
Speaker 1: I don't if you remember this, Youmber. I think it

1074
01:01:02,240 --> 01:01:03,720
Speaker 1: was the MTV it was or something when he had

1075
01:01:04,080 --> 01:01:14,600
Speaker 1: the deodorant balls. Oh yeah, oh my god. Yeah yeah,

1076
01:01:13,920 --> 01:01:18,560
Speaker 1: just google, just google l L and deodorant ball. Ever

1077
01:01:18,960 --> 01:01:23,280
Speaker 1: a problem. I have a problem with textures. I will

1078
01:01:23,320 --> 01:01:26,520
Speaker 1: never ever do that. No, God, No, even my mom

1079
01:01:26,560 --> 01:01:28,720
Speaker 1: when she mom met him, which we were at I forget.

1080
01:01:28,760 --> 01:01:30,400
Speaker 1: It was like the Grammys or some ship like that.

1081
01:01:30,680 --> 01:01:34,320
Speaker 1: I didn't even know, Like, my mom's never mentioned nothing. Whatever.

1082
01:01:34,480 --> 01:01:36,160
Speaker 1: My mom walks up to me after we bet, She's like,

1083
01:01:36,440 --> 01:01:38,680
Speaker 1: oh my god, hello, cool he's so handsome. I was like, what,

1084
01:01:38,920 --> 01:01:41,840
Speaker 1: You've literally never said anything like this in your entire life.

1085
01:01:41,920 --> 01:01:44,680
Speaker 1: Like I was like, what, Yeah, she lost it on

1086
01:01:44,720 --> 01:01:48,560
Speaker 1: that one. So that's funny. Oh man, who was the

1087
01:01:48,600 --> 01:01:51,320
Speaker 1: tattle tale sibling? It could be one of your brothers too,

1088
01:01:53,280 --> 01:01:57,560
Speaker 1: I would say, Josh. Yeah, Josh was definitely tattletale. Yeah, yeah,

1089
01:01:57,560 --> 01:02:00,800
Speaker 1: he was definitely the one was into the healing or

1090
01:02:00,840 --> 01:02:08,560
Speaker 1: the of course what the right the alter Yeah, alternate

1091
01:02:08,640 --> 01:02:18,440
Speaker 1: alternative energy mechanisms, flex capacity. Who's the most dramatic? I mean,

1092
01:02:21,640 --> 01:02:27,960
Speaker 1: I'm witt I think Cassandra really you think you don't

1093
01:02:27,960 --> 01:02:33,240
Speaker 1: think Jackson? Jackson? Jack actually de Yeah, Jackson I think

1094
01:02:33,240 --> 01:02:36,080
Speaker 1: definitely the wittiest. I think I am, But we know Jackson's.

1095
01:02:36,160 --> 01:02:42,120
Speaker 1: But the combination of Jack's and Soanjy together, that's hilarious. Guys.

1096
01:02:43,000 --> 01:02:45,840
Speaker 1: Do you guys have anything from your childhood that you've kept,

1097
01:02:45,960 --> 01:02:50,360
Speaker 1: you know, something that's important to you? What did I keep?

1098
01:02:50,920 --> 01:02:54,000
Speaker 1: What's I keep from my childhood? Just pictures? I guess,

1099
01:02:54,040 --> 01:02:57,120
Speaker 1: like you know, I think it's just mainly pictures. I wasn't,

1100
01:02:57,120 --> 01:02:58,720
Speaker 1: you know, be crazy if I still have that damn

1101
01:02:58,720 --> 01:03:02,439
Speaker 1: sleeping bag. I saw my fingers and like, I think

1102
01:03:02,440 --> 01:03:04,480
Speaker 1: I'm also on the spectrum. I sucked my fingers and

1103
01:03:04,640 --> 01:03:07,680
Speaker 1: was like, had this sleeping bag my parents try to

1104
01:03:07,680 --> 01:03:09,440
Speaker 1: throw away till I was like, I mean that was

1105
01:03:09,520 --> 01:03:11,840
Speaker 1: damn near thirty. I'm not gonna lie. It is what

1106
01:03:11,480 --> 01:03:20,040
Speaker 1: it is? What are you talking about to upping people off? Serious? Well,

1107
01:03:20,120 --> 01:03:23,360
Speaker 1: my my daughters almost eight and she still like sucks

1108
01:03:23,360 --> 01:03:25,120
Speaker 1: her thumb with a little blankye and I'm kind of

1109
01:03:25,160 --> 01:03:27,360
Speaker 1: like rio, right, and it's Rio. I'm like, when are

1110
01:03:27,400 --> 01:03:28,760
Speaker 1: we going to end this? You know, you got to

1111
01:03:28,800 --> 01:03:30,400
Speaker 1: get in there. You gotta get in there because she

1112
01:03:30,480 --> 01:03:32,880
Speaker 1: might be twenty six, twenty seven pulling her blanket out

1113
01:03:32,920 --> 01:03:37,720
Speaker 1: of the trash can at theirs. Put in there? What

1114
01:03:37,760 --> 01:03:39,520
Speaker 1: do we? Yeah, I just feel like just pictures, right,

1115
01:03:39,560 --> 01:03:44,120
Speaker 1: probably pictures, I think for I have my old like journals,

1116
01:03:44,520 --> 01:03:49,240
Speaker 1: oh journalists right, oh yeah, that oh my god. I

1117
01:03:49,360 --> 01:03:52,400
Speaker 1: just I used to write journals like a crazy person.

1118
01:03:52,480 --> 01:03:53,880
Speaker 1: I'm kind of just getting back into it. But I

1119
01:03:53,920 --> 01:03:56,120
Speaker 1: was reading through some of the journals and you know

1120
01:03:56,160 --> 01:03:58,520
Speaker 1: what the fucked up part is, I'm forty four years

1121
01:03:58,560 --> 01:04:02,200
Speaker 1: old and it seems like nothing's changed. I'm like, I've

1122
01:04:02,200 --> 01:04:04,840
Speaker 1: got the same I've got the same. I've got the

1123
01:04:04,920 --> 01:04:09,120
Speaker 1: same issues. I'm like Jesus Christ and I went and

1124
01:04:09,160 --> 01:04:12,040
Speaker 1: I went through New Year's Eve resolutions throughout the year.

1125
01:04:12,560 --> 01:04:17,240
Speaker 1: They're the same, fucking same, same. Saving mine was like

1126
01:04:17,360 --> 01:04:20,360
Speaker 1: I feel like I was looking at old journals and

1127
01:04:20,400 --> 01:04:23,840
Speaker 1: I was like, I think it was a reversion for me.

1128
01:04:24,040 --> 01:04:25,720
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, wow, I'm doing pretty good. I'm

1129
01:04:25,720 --> 01:04:27,000
Speaker 1: doing Then all of a sudden, I was like, how

1130
01:04:27,040 --> 01:04:29,280
Speaker 1: the fuck did I go backwards? Like it's okay if

1131
01:04:29,320 --> 01:04:31,000
Speaker 1: I stayed in the same place, but like, how I

1132
01:04:31,000 --> 01:04:33,400
Speaker 1: go this and then I take ten steps backwards? I

1133
01:04:33,440 --> 01:04:36,480
Speaker 1: was like, oh, when did that transition happen? You know

1134
01:04:36,520 --> 01:04:39,240
Speaker 1: what I mean. There's something funny in this, there's something

1135
01:04:39,360 --> 01:04:45,520
Speaker 1: funny in the journey getting like movie ideas. Yeah, the

1136
01:04:45,640 --> 01:04:49,880
Speaker 1: best advice you've received from either parent you want to

1137
01:04:49,880 --> 01:04:52,680
Speaker 1: go deep, you know. Or I think dad always told

1138
01:04:52,720 --> 01:04:57,520
Speaker 1: me to, uh make sure that I always have a

1139
01:04:57,600 --> 01:05:13,360
Speaker 1: savings you know, all save always pay your taxes. Yeah.

1140
01:05:13,400 --> 01:05:15,880
Speaker 1: I think for mom was a praying mother and that

1141
01:05:15,960 --> 01:05:18,400
Speaker 1: has really served me for sure, you know what I mean.

1142
01:05:18,520 --> 01:05:21,479
Speaker 1: So just like just to remember, like you know why

1143
01:05:21,520 --> 01:05:23,600
Speaker 1: you're here, to remember that you have a purpose, you

1144
01:05:23,600 --> 01:05:26,520
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Yeah, and it's intentional. And then

1145
01:05:26,560 --> 01:05:28,600
Speaker 1: my father would always say to me, if you don't

1146
01:05:28,640 --> 01:05:30,720
Speaker 1: have anything going, you don't have anything coming, you know

1147
01:05:30,760 --> 01:05:33,480
Speaker 1: what I mean, So that kind of always definitely stuck

1148
01:05:33,560 --> 01:05:39,160
Speaker 1: out to me. Definitely, those are so good. I'm curious

1149
01:05:39,160 --> 01:05:42,080
Speaker 1: about your guys, is actually I'm curious about that one, Like,

1150
01:05:42,160 --> 01:05:44,120
Speaker 1: what's the best advice? I think you guys have sived

1151
01:05:45,840 --> 01:05:49,160
Speaker 1: well for Kurt my twenty fourth birthday. And I still

1152
01:05:49,160 --> 01:05:51,840
Speaker 1: try to figure this one out. And it's very simple.

1153
01:05:51,880 --> 01:05:54,120
Speaker 1: It's trying to be an actor and you know, trying

1154
01:05:54,120 --> 01:05:56,120
Speaker 1: to make it happen, but not working that hard. And

1155
01:05:56,480 --> 01:05:58,760
Speaker 1: you know, I was just in a moment and he goes,

1156
01:05:58,760 --> 01:06:01,240
Speaker 1: you have to stop giving a fuck what people think

1157
01:06:01,280 --> 01:06:03,800
Speaker 1: about you. You can't. You give too much of a

1158
01:06:03,880 --> 01:06:07,280
Speaker 1: shit about how people perceive you. And the minute that

1159
01:06:07,320 --> 01:06:10,880
Speaker 1: you can truly let that go, you will be free,

1160
01:06:11,480 --> 01:06:14,600
Speaker 1: you know. And I believe that, and I still to

1161
01:06:14,680 --> 01:06:17,120
Speaker 1: this day. You know, I try to. I try to

1162
01:06:17,160 --> 01:06:19,800
Speaker 1: live by that. It's not easy for me personally, but

1163
01:06:20,440 --> 01:06:23,040
Speaker 1: you know, it's it's really a good piece of advice

1164
01:06:23,080 --> 01:06:25,800
Speaker 1: advice because it just it just frees you up because

1165
01:06:25,800 --> 01:06:29,160
Speaker 1: you're not concerned. Yeah, that's good. That's really good. Yeah,

1166
01:06:29,280 --> 01:06:32,960
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think about It's good. Mom. You know

1167
01:06:33,320 --> 01:06:37,400
Speaker 1: mine was actually for having kids. Mom. Mom said something

1168
01:06:37,480 --> 01:06:42,120
Speaker 1: to me. I was getting really sad right before I

1169
01:06:42,160 --> 01:06:44,640
Speaker 1: was about to give birth with Ryder, my first one.

1170
01:06:44,640 --> 01:06:47,080
Speaker 1: I was really young. I was like twenty three, twenty four,

1171
01:06:47,800 --> 01:06:52,760
Speaker 1: and I was getting really like. I was sitting in

1172
01:06:52,760 --> 01:06:54,520
Speaker 1: front of the mirror and I was looking I was

1173
01:06:54,640 --> 01:06:58,160
Speaker 1: so huge, I gained seventy pounds. And I was like,

1174
01:06:59,640 --> 01:07:03,800
Speaker 1: I was sad. And and Mom said, you know, she goes,

1175
01:07:05,080 --> 01:07:08,640
Speaker 1: you have every right to be sad. She goes you

1176
01:07:08,640 --> 01:07:11,479
Speaker 1: you're you know, this is the only time your son

1177
01:07:12,080 --> 01:07:16,000
Speaker 1: or your child will ever really belong to you. And

1178
01:07:16,840 --> 01:07:19,760
Speaker 1: then and I was like it like kind of clicked.

1179
01:07:19,800 --> 01:07:21,320
Speaker 1: And then I was like, oh my god, she goes.

1180
01:07:21,320 --> 01:07:22,960
Speaker 1: You know, the second your kids come out, they just

1181
01:07:22,960 --> 01:07:28,640
Speaker 1: don't belong to you anymore. They're wow spirit entities, and

1182
01:07:28,680 --> 01:07:32,200
Speaker 1: it's your job as a parent to just help guys.

1183
01:07:33,200 --> 01:07:42,720
Speaker 1: He why did you say that? She's like, oh, honey,

1184
01:07:42,880 --> 01:07:49,280
Speaker 1: stay sad, stay sad. All right. The last question is

1185
01:07:49,360 --> 01:07:52,920
Speaker 1: it's a two part question. The first part is what

1186
01:07:53,000 --> 01:07:58,120
Speaker 1: is it about your sister that you would love to emulate?

1187
01:07:58,240 --> 01:08:01,360
Speaker 1: A quality or a characteristic that you wish you had

1188
01:08:01,400 --> 01:08:05,440
Speaker 1: more of in your own you know, personality, uh, that

1189
01:08:05,520 --> 01:08:09,360
Speaker 1: you'd love to emulate. The other part is if there

1190
01:08:09,440 --> 01:08:12,760
Speaker 1: was one thing you could take from your take away

1191
01:08:12,920 --> 01:08:16,479
Speaker 1: to relieve your sister of that you think would sort

1192
01:08:16,479 --> 01:08:19,640
Speaker 1: of better their lives or give them more ease, what

1193
01:08:19,680 --> 01:08:25,640
Speaker 1: would that be? Who you want to go first, dear, No,

1194
01:08:25,720 --> 01:08:29,160
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you on this one. I think if

1195
01:08:29,200 --> 01:08:32,640
Speaker 1: there's if there was something I can emulate, you know,

1196
01:08:33,040 --> 01:08:35,320
Speaker 1: obviously as I said with the service, but just a

1197
01:08:35,560 --> 01:08:39,360
Speaker 1: quality that that that streams through all of that, I

1198
01:08:39,400 --> 01:08:41,400
Speaker 1: think is follow through, you know what I'm saying, Like

1199
01:08:41,439 --> 01:08:44,120
Speaker 1: that's a really huge I feel like Nadia and I

1200
01:08:44,200 --> 01:08:46,200
Speaker 1: are similar in the sense that of like coming up

1201
01:08:46,240 --> 01:08:48,280
Speaker 1: with ideas and being able to like kind of be

1202
01:08:48,320 --> 01:08:50,920
Speaker 1: innovative and do all these things. But as far as

1203
01:08:50,960 --> 01:08:53,280
Speaker 1: follow through and execution goes, it's just more of a

1204
01:08:53,280 --> 01:08:55,080
Speaker 1: struggle for me, you know what I mean. She will

1205
01:08:55,160 --> 01:08:57,840
Speaker 1: like come up with an amazing idea and do all

1206
01:08:58,120 --> 01:09:00,760
Speaker 1: and she's actually kind of because I feel like there

1207
01:09:00,800 --> 01:09:03,160
Speaker 1: are two different brands of people that do execution and

1208
01:09:03,200 --> 01:09:05,240
Speaker 1: follow through and then other types of people that kind

1209
01:09:05,240 --> 01:09:07,120
Speaker 1: of come up with ideation and do all that stuff.

1210
01:09:07,479 --> 01:09:09,240
Speaker 1: I'm a fuck she was on when she was young,

1211
01:09:09,280 --> 01:09:15,760
Speaker 1: but she just like idea, you know, innovation, idea, implement right, execute,

1212
01:09:15,760 --> 01:09:17,679
Speaker 1: follow through, like all of that stuff. So I feel

1213
01:09:17,680 --> 01:09:19,360
Speaker 1: like that's a part of her because she's just such

1214
01:09:19,400 --> 01:09:21,559
Speaker 1: a hustler to me, like she's always crying. She's always

1215
01:09:21,560 --> 01:09:23,600
Speaker 1: coming up with ideas and she's doing them, you know

1216
01:09:23,640 --> 01:09:25,519
Speaker 1: what I mean, as opposed to just coming up with ideas.

1217
01:09:25,520 --> 01:09:28,720
Speaker 1: So I think that's something with her for sure, other

1218
01:09:28,760 --> 01:09:31,840
Speaker 1: than her heart, that I would like to emulate, and

1219
01:09:32,920 --> 01:09:42,559
Speaker 1: what I'd like to alleviate is just the pressure to

1220
01:09:42,640 --> 01:09:44,240
Speaker 1: feel like she has to do that, you know what

1221
01:09:44,240 --> 01:09:45,960
Speaker 1: I'm saying. If she has to do that to survive,

1222
01:09:46,000 --> 01:09:47,640
Speaker 1: her has to do this or whatever da data or

1223
01:09:47,760 --> 01:09:49,360
Speaker 1: I have to do this for everybody and do all

1224
01:09:49,360 --> 01:09:51,880
Speaker 1: these things. So it's the thing. It's interesting, the thing

1225
01:09:51,880 --> 01:09:53,519
Speaker 1: that I admire most about her is also the thing

1226
01:09:53,520 --> 01:09:55,639
Speaker 1: I don't want her to feel like she's required to do.

1227
01:09:56,120 --> 01:09:58,080
Speaker 1: I want her to do it because she you know,

1228
01:09:58,120 --> 01:09:59,720
Speaker 1: just whatever, she loves it and she you know what

1229
01:09:59,760 --> 01:10:01,640
Speaker 1: I mean, So I don't the pressure of that I

1230
01:10:01,640 --> 01:10:11,400
Speaker 1: would like to alleviate. I think let's see. I think

1231
01:10:11,800 --> 01:10:17,520
Speaker 1: the thing for you I would want to emulate is, uh,

1232
01:10:17,560 --> 01:10:21,960
Speaker 1: she's just like she's so driven, you know, and she's

1233
01:10:22,000 --> 01:10:27,160
Speaker 1: just like with all her projects, and I wish I mean,

1234
01:10:27,439 --> 01:10:30,400
Speaker 1: I feel like we are similar in that way, you know.

1235
01:10:32,479 --> 01:10:36,960
Speaker 1: But she just has this work ethic that's like crazy

1236
01:10:36,960 --> 01:10:40,400
Speaker 1: and amazing. You know. Anything she touches is like turns

1237
01:10:40,400 --> 01:10:44,920
Speaker 1: into gold, you know, just like what was acting but

1238
01:10:47,600 --> 01:10:51,000
Speaker 1: singing acting all the time. I know, She's just a natural.

1239
01:10:52,000 --> 01:10:53,760
Speaker 1: And I feel like for myself, I have to like

1240
01:10:54,439 --> 01:10:57,840
Speaker 1: I have to really really really work hard to get

1241
01:10:57,880 --> 01:11:01,599
Speaker 1: to that place, you know, so I us in that way,

1242
01:11:02,280 --> 01:11:05,800
Speaker 1: you know, I wish I had that, you know. And

1243
01:11:05,840 --> 01:11:13,760
Speaker 1: then alleviate definitely her sleeplessness. I knew you were going

1244
01:11:13,840 --> 01:11:17,120
Speaker 1: to say that, oh my gosh, she doesn't sleep enough,

1245
01:11:17,439 --> 01:11:21,320
Speaker 1: and you know, I just I would definitely take that

1246
01:11:21,800 --> 01:11:25,800
Speaker 1: insomny away from her so she could. We were just

1247
01:11:25,880 --> 01:11:30,599
Speaker 1: talking about getting a sleep expert on. Yeah. I want

1248
01:11:30,640 --> 01:11:33,559
Speaker 1: to get someone on to talk about that because you know,

1249
01:11:33,640 --> 01:11:38,760
Speaker 1: it's such an important part of being of like repairing everything,

1250
01:11:39,000 --> 01:11:42,400
Speaker 1: like our body that needs sleep. You know. How do

1251
01:11:42,479 --> 01:11:46,439
Speaker 1: you think that is? I mean, first of all, probably

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Speaker 1: I think society at LARS is anxious, right. I think

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Speaker 1: we all actually deal with anxiety. I think we talk

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Speaker 1: about it with specific people, but I just think sort

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Speaker 1: of the culture and the busyness and the noise and

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Speaker 1: the you know what I mean. There's obviously internal mechanisms

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Speaker 1: as well too, but I think that it lends itself

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Speaker 1: to anxiety, you know what I mean, And to stress

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Speaker 1: and too, you know. So I think it's I don't know,

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Speaker 1: especially because we work in a society that really really

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Speaker 1: you re operate within a society that really values like

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Speaker 1: if you're always busy, you're always like this idea that

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Speaker 1: we have to always be busy, we have to always

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Speaker 1: be working, you know, which is crazy because we just

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Speaker 1: talked about how much we admire that in each other.

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Speaker 1: But I think that, you know, sometimes there's this feeling

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Speaker 1: of like things left undone, or things that are not finished,

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Speaker 1: or things left unsaid, or things that are you know,

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Speaker 1: like it's you know, I think it's a little bit.

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Speaker 1: I think it's I think it's it's internal, But I

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Speaker 1: think there's external influences, right, the kind of cause that

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Speaker 1: as well too. I mean, there's obviously chemical stuff in

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Speaker 1: the brand too that cause other people to lose sleep,

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Speaker 1: and some people just function more off of leslie. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think there's just a lot of just so much

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Speaker 1: all the time, you know what I mean, There's no

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Speaker 1: other way I can really put it. I think that

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Speaker 1: it's hard to shut off your brain, totally hard, Oh

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Speaker 1: my god. And then actually and then sometimes it just

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Speaker 1: doesn't you know, Like I feel like sometimes I have

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Speaker 1: this sound machine. Do you guys have like one of

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Speaker 1: those like sound machines, like a little because I don't

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Speaker 1: know if you ever experienced this, but it's like trying

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Speaker 1: to because I had to sleep therapist one time. I

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Speaker 1: was like, Okay, you need to be in the room asleep,

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Speaker 1: you know, be in your room with all the lights

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Speaker 1: off and no sound at all. And the next day

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Speaker 1: I was like, bruh, I'll never do that again because

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Speaker 1: the ship inside my head is so loud, Like the

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Speaker 1: shit in here is just like so so so fucking loud.

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Speaker 1: So I just think, yeah, it's I think it's do

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Speaker 1: you meditate? I do? I do, Like I do prayer

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Speaker 1: and devotion in the morning, so I like, you know,

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Speaker 1: I wake up, I pray, you know, I read the word,

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Speaker 1: I meditate on what it is that I read and

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Speaker 1: what it is that I'm you know, to do that

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Speaker 1: day or you know, where I'm supposed to be whatever,

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Speaker 1: And so that does help me. And I do notice

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Speaker 1: a huge, huge, huge difference when I'm like, like, this

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Speaker 1: year has been so busy, so like I was looking

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Speaker 1: like my devotion journal and I'm like, damn, before you

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Speaker 1: used to be crazy if like a day would go

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Speaker 1: by because I loved I need, you know, in order

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Speaker 1: to function, and we goes by, two weeks go by

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Speaker 1: it and I'm like, why am I just cussing everybody

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Speaker 1: out for no reason and going crazy? Not always for

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Speaker 1: no reasons. Sometimes I have a very good reason why.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, So I think that does help me for sure,

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Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, And weed, I mean, you know, like edible,

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Speaker 1: you know what's so funny? I don't, And I will

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Speaker 1: tell you for the first time this year, and I've

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Speaker 1: done it a couple of times, and I've actually like

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Speaker 1: taken in edible a couple of times. And for the

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Speaker 1: first like a few times that I did it, it it

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Speaker 1: was the only thing that could actually like help me

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Speaker 1: knock out. But then it was like I would take

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Speaker 1: it and now I'm like, oh shit, I can't sleep

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Speaker 1: and now I'm up, and when you stay awake through

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Speaker 1: that ship For me, I was like, oh the way

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Speaker 1: the way I feel like, I was like, whoever lives

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Speaker 1: in the house with me was like, fuck, so I

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Speaker 1: gets The sleep therapist was saying, like anything like with melatonin,

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Speaker 1: you can build a resistance to it or cause your

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Speaker 1: brain to stop producing. So I was like, oh my god.

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Speaker 1: So there's there's some practices that I can do that

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Speaker 1: were working for me. But I stopped him because my

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Speaker 1: work schedule works at night, you know, when I'm working

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Speaker 1: on music. So I so I'll pick them up back

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Speaker 1: again once all this you know stuff is kind of done.

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Speaker 1: But it's also interesting, like I find that when I'm

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Speaker 1: not drinking like I'm doing, I'm working out hard and

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Speaker 1: I'm eating. I find that when I'm really training and

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Speaker 1: eating and not drinking that I sleep better like my

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Speaker 1: sleep that's true. Yeah, it's true. Of course she would

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Speaker 1: come through damn fathletics. You had to remind me to

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Speaker 1: get into God damn jam. She's like talking about so

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Speaker 1: healthy practices. Huh okay, all right, let me look into that.

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Speaker 1: You guys, this has been so sobby we finally got there.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. Yes, oh my god, I am this. We

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Speaker 1: should just do this again, just on like off camera

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Speaker 1: on you guys are full fuck yeah, seriously we will IM.

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Speaker 1: Sibling Revelry is executive produced by Kate Hudson and Oliver Hudson.

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Speaker 1: Producer is Alison President, editor is Josh Wendish. Music by

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Speaker 1: Mark Hudson aka Uncle Mark. If you want to show

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