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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and

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Speaker 1: I'm Mila, and it's our two hundred episode.

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Speaker 2: Two hundred episodes. Holy fucking shit, do you believe it?

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Speaker 2: What the fuck?

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Speaker 3: We talk two hundred times, bitch, that's like two hundred

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Speaker 3: plus hours of talking. Wait, wait, like, where's your credentials?

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Speaker 3: Do you have two hundred plus hours of talking?

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Speaker 2: More than two hundred? It's on Camra, like five hundred plus, okay,

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Speaker 2: because each episode is about an hour and a half.

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Speaker 1: It's crazy. Congratulation, congratulation. Oh my goodness, I have.

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Speaker 3: Shown up to do something two hundred motherfucking times in

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Speaker 3: your life. Every week, every week, you have done something

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Speaker 3: two hundred times.

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Speaker 2: You At this point, we're masters. We've mastered it because

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Speaker 2: that's what they say.

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Speaker 1: That's what the people are saying. So we're experts. Yeah. Wow, wow, wow, wow.

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Speaker 3: It feels really good to say that we're masters at

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Speaker 3: our craft.

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Speaker 2: We are.

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Speaker 1: You're watching masters at work.

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Speaker 2: Bing bong?

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, no, don't fucking bing bong again?

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Speaker 1: Why are you doing that? Where did you get that?

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Speaker 1: Are you watching the shade?

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Speaker 2: We're doing it a few months ago. I don't know just.

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Speaker 1: Why are you just catching on now?

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Speaker 2: I'm older. I don't like it.

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Speaker 3: I think just stay on your lane. Okay, I'm sorry,

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Speaker 3: no bing bong here.

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Speaker 2: That's not cool. Okay, got it, won't do it again.

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Speaker 1: Okay, this is the last time.

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Speaker 2: Guys.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, how do you feel? I feel like a seasoned vet,

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Speaker 3: very seasoned.

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Speaker 2: I feel amazing. I feel like wow, a, like we

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Speaker 2: really showed up two hundred times to do something. I

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Speaker 2: think it's like this podcast has giving me obviously so

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Speaker 2: much purpose and made me feel so empowered in who

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Speaker 2: I am, and I get to show up as myself

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Speaker 2: every week, and that has allowed me to show up

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Speaker 2: in my life as myself every day all the time

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Speaker 2: in the most annoying obnoxious way. But hey, it's me,

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Speaker 2: and I don't know. I'm just really grateful that we

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Speaker 2: met that one night at the bar. I think it

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Speaker 2: was like the Funky Monkey or something, the blue Monkey.

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Speaker 2: It was like the blue It was the blue monkey,

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Speaker 2: every monkey, and the rest is history.

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Speaker 3: For real, honest to fucking god, thank you for creeping

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Speaker 3: up on me in that bathroom line, like, hey, bitch,

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Speaker 3: oh my god, we got to find that picture. There's

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Speaker 3: like one pic member that picture. We just found like

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Speaker 3: last year of that night.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we.

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Speaker 3: Found there's like one mysterious picture somewhere that Erica has

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Speaker 3: somewhere on her phone of like the first.

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Speaker 1: Time we ever met.

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Speaker 3: And I know, like how crazy that you just asking

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Speaker 3: low Kia stranger to start something with you has spawned

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Speaker 3: into this huge fucking umbrella of things.

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Speaker 2: I never would have done that any other time. So

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Speaker 2: I don't know why I did that, because I, like,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, like I think, I think my ego

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Speaker 2: was really wrapped up and like I could do it.

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Speaker 2: I could do it. I could do everything myself. I

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Speaker 1: You' got it, and I got it. I got it,

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Speaker 1: I got it, don't got it, got it.

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Speaker 2: You know, Like and so I'm just really grateful that

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Speaker 2: God said, bitch, go talk to this bitch, go say something.

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Speaker 2: You need a friend, okay, and I have.

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Speaker 3: The best one I know, like for real. I mean

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Speaker 3: I wasn't expecting that. Obviously, I didn't know you were

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Speaker 3: coming to say make friends. And I don't know in

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Speaker 3: any other circumstance would I have ever felt comfortable to

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Speaker 3: be like, hi, do you have a baby?

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Speaker 3: Been like, oh, I did see her on Instagram and like,

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Speaker 3: But like I don't know if I would have taken

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Speaker 2: I mean, I think it's a testament to anyone listening

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Speaker 2: to do that and I don't know something. I like

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Speaker 2: I had to get to the club, find this bitch,

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Speaker 2: figure out what am I going to say and not

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Speaker 3: Follow through, Like but you know, and you follow through.

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Speaker 3: But we that Monday we hang out. I can't tell

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Speaker 3: you nearly what we talked about.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't. It was just like marg Margarita, Margerite. Yes,

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Speaker 3: I think it was a white wine. It was something

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Speaker 3: at your grandma's house, Margarita.

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Speaker 2: I think it was margarita.

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Speaker 3: And you know, even further than that, like being around

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Speaker 3: And then telling me the story about your threesome couple

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Speaker 3: and like if you guys didn't know me and Erica

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Speaker 3: people have not joined us anywhere in this two hundredth

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Speaker 3: episode fucking journey, But if you're just joining us, Erica

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Speaker 3: she's like, I met a couple on tender?

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Speaker 1: Are you on tender? And I was like a couple. Huh.

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Speaker 3: It's like I didn't know this bitch was this spicy

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Speaker 3: and I like her more than I thought. Of course,

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Speaker 3: that was a story that made me like her more.

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Speaker 1: I did like her, but no two people one time. Wow,

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Speaker 3: Made more in common than I thought that. I thought

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Speaker 1: And she's like, there's note about like single motherhood. Do

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Speaker 2: Originally, actually before I even asked you, I talked to

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Speaker 2: Felicia Latour And like look at her fucking glow up

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Speaker 2: to filling it. Somebody's mama shout out to Felicia. But

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Speaker 1: Can you record her?

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Speaker 2: She talked to me and with my computer out, like

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Speaker 1: I'm amen. Yes, you know, like things.

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Speaker 3: I've just just by talking through it, by having a

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Speaker 1: Like, bait, you sound dumb.

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Speaker 3: You just said that last year, Like you said that

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Speaker 2: And honestly, the theme of this month is so aligned.

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Speaker 3: In numerology, number twenty two symbolizes sole mission, duality, selflessness, relationship.

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Speaker 3: And it's been like this journey looking back has been

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Speaker 3: Like everything we've done has been like really shown us

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Speaker 3: We just really wanted to create a space that wasn't

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Speaker 1: Like it doesn't none of these things.

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Speaker 3: You know, they're all what we how we design, and

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Speaker 1: Love, Happy Black History Month. Queen. I hate saying that goddess.

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Speaker 2: Grand Rising?

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Speaker 1: I've like said that bad. Don't say it to me.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna search your fucking fun I'm gonna search Jamila's

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Speaker 2: text and type been grain Rising.

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Speaker 3: It's and I've never sent that to anyone, shut the

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Speaker 2: That's why I need to know for sure to confirm this.

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Speaker 1: Oh we said it. Happy Black History Months.

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Speaker 3: Happy, I'm dropping some very black drops merch.

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Speaker 1: We're really in our merch game right now.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, go check out our merch. We dropped a little

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Speaker 2: special thing for Black History Month, some teas that are

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Speaker 2: cute as fuck, black as fuck, mam a's fuck fine

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Speaker 2: We don't even like to celebrate. Okay, I'm black already,

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Speaker 3: The only thing Black History Month is good for is

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Speaker 2: Give us the shortest month of the whole of course, But.

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Speaker 3: You guys, black people are here every day three six

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Speaker 2: By black all the time, not just this month.

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Speaker 2: But if you're going to and you're not black and

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Speaker 1: Go to Good Mom's Bad Choices dot com click merch.

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Speaker 3: Brand partnerships are in the contact us. We're available to

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Speaker 2: We will ask for the highest price this month specifically,

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Speaker 1: No pressure, no pressure to call us.

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Speaker 2: Last month's theme was confidence Confidence. This month's theme.

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Speaker 3: And that means loving yourself, and people fuck that up

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Speaker 2: And attach themselves the things too, like even just not

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, I talked about this guy and anyway, he

442
00:20:09,920 --> 00:20:14,080
Speaker 2: was like a self proclaimed self avoid like he was like, yay, yeah,

443
00:20:14,119 --> 00:20:15,679
Speaker 2: I'm working on this and this and that and like

444
00:20:15,720 --> 00:20:17,359
Speaker 2: but I know, like I really got to work on

445
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Speaker 2: like my self love. But I'll get to that later.

446
00:20:19,480 --> 00:20:21,040
Speaker 2: Like he literally said that to me, like I'll get

447
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Speaker 2: to that later, and I was like wow, I mean,

448
00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:24,080
Speaker 2: I mean, it was kind of amazing that he like

449
00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:26,600
Speaker 2: said it out loud. I was like, Okay, well, at

450
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Speaker 2: least you know that you.

451
00:20:27,800 --> 00:20:31,159
Speaker 3: Need to get there, but not something to say on

452
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Speaker 3: a date per se. I mean, you should actually say

453
00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:35,080
Speaker 3: that to me. If that's the truth, let me go

454
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Speaker 3: get my shit and go to the car right back.

455
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Speaker 2: I shouldn't, I should haven't. But you know the woman

456
00:20:39,920 --> 00:20:42,320
Speaker 2: in me is like, oh, you need to be loved, Like, oh,

457
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Speaker 2: maybe you don't know you're misunderstood.

458
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Speaker 1: You don't show you how good you are. You don't

459
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Speaker 1: mean that.

460
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Speaker 2: A nigga meant that. But yeah, I mean he was

461
00:20:50,040 --> 00:20:52,800
Speaker 2: avoiding himself because he had all these projects and things

462
00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:54,760
Speaker 2: he was trying to, you know, focus on That's what's

463
00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:57,160
Speaker 2: his main goal is Like, and he was a father too,

464
00:20:57,240 --> 00:20:59,080
Speaker 2: like making sure his kid was set up and he

465
00:20:59,119 --> 00:21:00,679
Speaker 2: had to make sure that was how happening before he

466
00:21:01,359 --> 00:21:03,400
Speaker 2: had the time to focus on himself. And like even

467
00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:06,879
Speaker 2: parents like again, like we avoid ourselves so much and

468
00:21:06,960 --> 00:21:09,520
Speaker 2: use our kids as reasons why we can't, you know,

469
00:21:09,880 --> 00:21:12,879
Speaker 2: make self care and self love a priority, but it

470
00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:15,280
Speaker 2: has to be. You're gonna be a shitty parent if

471
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Speaker 2: you're not prioritizing that at all.

472
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Speaker 3: You can't, Like just like you can't be in a

473
00:21:19,720 --> 00:21:23,320
Speaker 3: romantic relationship without first like having love of self. It's

474
00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:26,560
Speaker 3: usually not successful. It's the same with your kids. It

475
00:21:26,600 --> 00:21:29,200
Speaker 3: will always come up. Your lack of love for yourself

476
00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:31,679
Speaker 3: will always come up in other relationships because it's a

477
00:21:31,680 --> 00:21:35,000
Speaker 3: projection of what's not the shit that's not being done inwardly.

478
00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:37,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true.

479
00:21:38,119 --> 00:21:42,199
Speaker 4: So February we're talking about the love of self, and

480
00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:47,160
Speaker 4: that so much comes with that, right, like treating yourself nice,

481
00:21:47,320 --> 00:21:50,800
Speaker 4: taking care of yourself, taking yourself out on dates, having

482
00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:52,240
Speaker 4: positive self talk.

483
00:21:52,040 --> 00:21:55,760
Speaker 3: When you hear negative things come up, or there's just

484
00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:58,640
Speaker 3: so many things. You know what I noticed last month

485
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Speaker 3: because I do like to be around people, well, i'd

486
00:22:01,040 --> 00:22:03,200
Speaker 3: like to be around people, and until I don't, then

487
00:22:03,240 --> 00:22:07,080
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, no, you're talking so fucking much.

488
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Speaker 1: Why did I allow this? That?

489
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Speaker 3: Like It's made me more conscious, Like when I'm alone,

490
00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:14,480
Speaker 3: I'm like this company, I like, I don't have to

491
00:22:14,520 --> 00:22:17,879
Speaker 3: worry about anyone's saying talking too much. No one's talking

492
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Speaker 3: at all, not even me. And if I want to

493
00:22:20,240 --> 00:22:21,720
Speaker 3: talk to someone, I can call them and then I

494
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Speaker 3: can I hang up, you know, and like I'm more

495
00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:27,000
Speaker 3: conscious of it, Like as I work more, as my

496
00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:30,840
Speaker 3: kid is getting older, I'm like, my time is really valuable,

497
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Speaker 3: and like I don't want to hear anyone talk about

498
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Speaker 3: a bunch of nothingness, Like you know, like if you're

499
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Speaker 3: on the same level and like the conversation feels really good,

500
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Speaker 3: but if you don't feel like moved by it, then

501
00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:43,000
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502
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Speaker 1: I know.

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505
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506
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507
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508
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509
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510
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561
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Speaker 2: themselves and have never shown themselves self love and self

562
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563
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564
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Speaker 2: them that? After that? I think about sometimes the things

565
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Speaker 2: that like I might miss as a parent, I'm like,

566
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Speaker 2: what am I going to miss? How do I undo it?

567
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Speaker 2: Can I undo it? Is there way to undo it?

568
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Speaker 2: Is there a course for that?

569
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Speaker 3: You're gonna inflict some trauma somewhere, it's just inevitable. You

570
00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:37,360
Speaker 3: just hope that it's on the lighter side. But like,

571
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Speaker 3: I don't know if kids can come out without trauma,

572
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Speaker 3: And I don't think it's possible, Like what are they

573
00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:47,440
Speaker 3: gonna work on when they get older? Like all childhood

574
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Speaker 3: comes with some form of trauma.

575
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Speaker 1: It's the human experience. I don't know.

576
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Speaker 2: I don't know.

577
00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:53,000
Speaker 1: I think it's true.

578
00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:54,600
Speaker 2: I think you might be right.

579
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Speaker 1: Fuck, parents got divorced.

580
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Speaker 3: Someone made fun of me at school, like there's always

581
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:01,720
Speaker 3: bound to be the shit of life.

582
00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:02,639
Speaker 2: It's true.

583
00:27:03,480 --> 00:27:04,400
Speaker 1: Okay, well.

584
00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:06,920
Speaker 2: Okay, well.

585
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:09,920
Speaker 1: You stunned over there.

586
00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:12,359
Speaker 2: But I was not thinking. I was just really thinking.

587
00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:14,320
Speaker 2: I was like, how have I shown Iri, like how

588
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:17,320
Speaker 2: to choose herself or like self care and self love?

589
00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:18,760
Speaker 2: I mean, I guess I show her through my own

590
00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:21,520
Speaker 2: actions and trying to think, like what are some ways

591
00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:22,639
Speaker 2: that we can teach her kids?

592
00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:24,480
Speaker 3: Like I mean, I think we've done a pretty good job,

593
00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:27,600
Speaker 3: Like we celebrate them. We get the massages for their

594
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Speaker 3: kindergarten graduation. We take them on trips, like we go

595
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Speaker 3: on trips alone, Like I think I do notice it.

596
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Speaker 1: Lina thinks.

597
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:38,520
Speaker 3: I Like, She'll make comments like I need you need

598
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Speaker 3: to work. I need to work, Like I know that

599
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Speaker 3: she knows that's priority, like she needs to She's like,

600
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Speaker 3: because you're working, you know, like she in her like

601
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:48,800
Speaker 3: in her talking to me, I can tell that I've

602
00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:52,959
Speaker 3: prioritized it so so like she understands that. But like

603
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:54,560
Speaker 3: that it comes up a lot, like you're working, or

604
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Speaker 3: you have to work, you had.

605
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Speaker 2: To work, but.

606
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Speaker 3: Today by the microwave, she told me, she's like, when

607
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Speaker 3: I get older and you can come over to my

608
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Speaker 3: house when I'm rich.

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Speaker 1: I was like, yep. She's like, if I'm going to

610
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Speaker 1: be rich, she can come to my house. I was like, yeah,

611
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Speaker 1: you're going to be rich. She's like, I'm going to

612
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Speaker 1: be She's like that. I'm like, I guess we care

613
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Speaker 1: about tangible things. We've talked about it rich, let's get rich.

614
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Speaker 1: I don't know. I think we've done it.

615
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Speaker 3: I think there's always ways to do more, obviously and all,

616
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Speaker 3: like you said, we're always finding balance, you know, but

617
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Speaker 3: I'd try to let Luna like have her her space

618
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Speaker 3: and what she needs, Like that's okay too, if you

619
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620
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Speaker 1: Take time, if you want to, okay.

621
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Speaker 3: I also think a part of like self love is

622
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623
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624
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625
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626
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635
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659
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Speaker 3: the podcast, Eric Abadu Icamadu on the podcast. But just

660
00:30:35,680 --> 00:30:40,960
Speaker 3: seeing like how hard work and dedication and love can

661
00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:43,600
Speaker 3: really like fuel the funk out of some shit. And

662
00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:47,800
Speaker 3: like literally like this podcast, this friendship, this partnership has

663
00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:51,720
Speaker 3: really been green light for me to be like, bitch,

664
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:53,760
Speaker 3: you can do whatever you want to do?

665
00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:58,560
Speaker 1: What do you want? What do you want? What do

666
00:30:58,600 --> 00:30:59,200
Speaker 1: you want? We could?

667
00:30:59,200 --> 00:30:59,760
Speaker 2: You could have it?

668
00:30:59,800 --> 00:31:02,000
Speaker 1: Do you want that? You can have it? Literally?

669
00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:07,760
Speaker 2: I feel I remember feeling so opposite of that, like God,

670
00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:11,080
Speaker 2: and being so hard on myself, the lack of self

671
00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:13,120
Speaker 2: love that I had for myself, even going back and

672
00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:15,680
Speaker 2: because we're writing this book, reading my journals, and how

673
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:18,360
Speaker 2: hard I was on myself and not knowing my purpose

674
00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:21,280
Speaker 2: and why haven't I Why haven't I mastered my craft?

675
00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:23,200
Speaker 2: Why am I not? Like, you know, why am I

676
00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:25,880
Speaker 2: not booking every fucking audition that I go on? Why

677
00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:26,160
Speaker 2: am I?

678
00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:26,320
Speaker 3: Like?

679
00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:26,800
Speaker 1: Why is she?

680
00:31:26,920 --> 00:31:29,640
Speaker 2: You know I'm saying? And like to be here now?

681
00:31:29,960 --> 00:31:32,280
Speaker 2: And I had that thought the other day where I

682
00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:35,760
Speaker 2: was like, I literally can do anything, Like it's just

683
00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:38,040
Speaker 2: a matter of like first of all time, and like

684
00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:40,680
Speaker 2: what do I want to do? That's exactly the thought

685
00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:42,280
Speaker 2: I had. I was like, what is it that I

686
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:45,760
Speaker 2: want to do? And I was like, honestly, like this

687
00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:49,120
Speaker 2: partnership and this relationship and this friendship gave me so

688
00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:50,960
Speaker 2: much confidence in that I needed you.

689
00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:54,560
Speaker 1: I needed you absolutely. I was not feeling hopeful I

690
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:55,160
Speaker 1: was feeling.

691
00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:56,960
Speaker 2: I wasn't I couldn't have I don't want say I

692
00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:57,720
Speaker 2: couldn't have done it by.

693
00:31:57,720 --> 00:31:59,960
Speaker 1: Myself, but I couldn't have done it by myself.

694
00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:02,280
Speaker 2: I don't know. I wouldn't be here by myself. But

695
00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:04,880
Speaker 2: like I really I did. I needed I still need

696
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:07,000
Speaker 2: your reassurance. Sometimes all the time, I'd be like, girl,

697
00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:09,520
Speaker 2: let's just do this. She'd be like, no. I'm like, okay, fine,

698
00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 2: we're not you're not and then and vice versa, like

699
00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:14,040
Speaker 2: we keep us, we keep chugging each other along.

700
00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:16,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, not today, bitch, not today. Come on, do

701
00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:17,160
Speaker 1: you have any times I'd be.

702
00:32:17,200 --> 00:32:18,920
Speaker 2: Like, I don't want to record. I don't, I don't

703
00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:20,480
Speaker 2: have any mean, She's like, we're recording, bitch.

704
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:22,840
Speaker 1: I'm like okay, Like.

705
00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:24,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's it's almost as like, as soon as one

706
00:32:24,960 --> 00:32:27,920
Speaker 3: person's somewhere else, it's at the right person at the

707
00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:29,840
Speaker 3: right time, the other person is not at.

708
00:32:29,680 --> 00:32:31,600
Speaker 1: The same place because somebody else.

709
00:32:31,480 --> 00:32:34,560
Speaker 3: Needs to keep going, you know, like it's not always easy,

710
00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:37,040
Speaker 3: but oh my god, it's fucking worth it. And and

711
00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 3: we're only in the beginning, you know, like this is

712
00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:42,480
Speaker 3: only the beginning, bitch, I know, And there's so much

713
00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:44,560
Speaker 3: more to to happen and.

714
00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 1: To be had.

715
00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 3: But like it's this like intentional, consistent journey in this

716
00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:55,800
Speaker 3: like passion for this thing that no one really understood

717
00:32:55,800 --> 00:33:01,080
Speaker 3: but us is like, yeah, it's beautiful and I'm proud.

718
00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:04,840
Speaker 3: And it's just like podcasting is a gamble. It's like

719
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:06,920
Speaker 3: one of the motherfucking NBA.

720
00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:08,160
Speaker 1: It ain't really guaranteed.

721
00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:11,160
Speaker 3: It's like being a rapper, Like it's not guaranteed, my nigger,

722
00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:14,760
Speaker 3: you're gonna be You're gonna be on Spotify now now. Yeah,

723
00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:18,360
Speaker 3: Like it's it's run of the mill and it's a male,

724
00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:22,720
Speaker 3: white dominated industry and and here we are, you know,

725
00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 3: top one percent ho Like we in here, we ain't

726
00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:28,080
Speaker 3: going nowhere, and you know.

727
00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:30,800
Speaker 1: Come fuck with us. That's how I feel.

728
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:32,960
Speaker 3: I feel like we, like I always say this, we

729
00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:36,280
Speaker 3: put out like a sound alarm for all of our people,

730
00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:38,880
Speaker 3: like all the cool moms, all the weld, all the

731
00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:40,240
Speaker 3: people come come to us.

732
00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:41,960
Speaker 1: We're here, and everyone came.

733
00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:45,400
Speaker 3: Everyone who needed to understand us and who understood us

734
00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 3: found you know, came to our support and like has

735
00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:53,280
Speaker 3: really leveraged this our existence in this space. And just

736
00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:55,520
Speaker 3: for the record, I'm gonna just go ahead and say it.

737
00:33:56,600 --> 00:34:00,120
Speaker 1: There's no one really in our lane because we made it.

738
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 1: It's ours. You can't fuck with us because we in here.

739
00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:06,680
Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's true.

740
00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:10,080
Speaker 3: Like someone says something to me about like, oh something,

741
00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:12,280
Speaker 3: your competition, I'm like, it's not my competition.

742
00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:14,080
Speaker 1: What's that my competition? Girl?

743
00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:16,040
Speaker 2: There is no competition. Why do they always want to

744
00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:16,359
Speaker 2: do that?

745
00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:16,719
Speaker 3: I know?

746
00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:19,480
Speaker 2: So I don't mean like there's no topic competition, like

747
00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:21,600
Speaker 2: there's no one better. I just mean like there's enough

748
00:34:21,719 --> 00:34:24,600
Speaker 2: room for everybody, and no one is good moms, No

749
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:26,160
Speaker 2: one is Eric, and no one is Jamila, no one

750
00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:28,920
Speaker 2: is that girl either. Like we are all on our

751
00:34:28,960 --> 00:34:32,920
Speaker 2: own laying laying our own path, and don't ever think like,

752
00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:35,160
Speaker 2: oh they already have this, this person has that, cause

753
00:34:35,160 --> 00:34:37,800
Speaker 2: like that could have shut us down so many times.

754
00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:39,600
Speaker 2: You know, I'm like there was a time where we

755
00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:41,960
Speaker 2: started with like episode three. I'm like, looking at other

756
00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:45,600
Speaker 2: podcasts episode hundred and fifty six, I was like, oh

757
00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:47,400
Speaker 2: my god, do we have this in't us?

758
00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:50,879
Speaker 1: Is this possible? How the fuck? And just like that.

759
00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:59,680
Speaker 3: Episode two hundred, Amen, a man, commit to yourself, love yourself,

760
00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:01,720
Speaker 3: and miracles will happen.

761
00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:02,919
Speaker 1: I really believe.

762
00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:06,319
Speaker 2: That yeah, I mean it's a it's a grind though.

763
00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:09,640
Speaker 2: You have to really it's not easy self love. The

764
00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:14,480
Speaker 2: journey in building anything worth it is not easy. You

765
00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:15,759
Speaker 2: have to sacrifice.

766
00:35:15,920 --> 00:35:16,680
Speaker 1: You have to.

767
00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:20,440
Speaker 2: Show up every day even when you're not like thankfully,

768
00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:23,319
Speaker 2: you know, maybe find if you need a partner, you

769
00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:25,880
Speaker 2: need a partner like thank God, my partner would be like, no,

770
00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:29,239
Speaker 2: we're doing it, and vice versa, like had it just

771
00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:31,279
Speaker 2: been me, I don't would there would be no good

772
00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:34,880
Speaker 2: moms honestly, And you just have to show up for

773
00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:38,480
Speaker 2: yourself in the journey of becoming the best and higher

774
00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:40,720
Speaker 2: version of you, whether that is a mother, the best

775
00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:44,320
Speaker 2: motherfucking mom of all time, whether that's the best podcaster

776
00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:47,760
Speaker 2: of all time, whether that's the best friend, the best daughter, whatever,

777
00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:50,960
Speaker 2: Like it takes effort and the proof is.

778
00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:53,080
Speaker 1: In the pin mm hmm. Yeah, it is.

779
00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:59,080
Speaker 4: So congratulations to us, Congratulations to you.

780
00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:04,319
Speaker 3: Hopefully next month we'll be having a four year anniversary.

781
00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:09,359
Speaker 3: I know, Oh my god, Jesus four year anniversary will

782
00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:11,759
Speaker 3: be coming up next month, so look out for that.

783
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 3: We're definitely gonna celebrate with our community for sure. Do

784
00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:18,319
Speaker 3: you need to do like East Coast, West Coast, like

785
00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:22,280
Speaker 3: we do both. I know who I think I am Parker,

786
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:24,520
Speaker 3: I have to do both coasts.

787
00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:26,080
Speaker 1: I don't know, I know, Damn.

788
00:36:26,400 --> 00:36:31,279
Speaker 2: I would say, let's just do Zoom like relax. I'm

789
00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:33,200
Speaker 2: just kidding. I want to be the I want to

790
00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:35,600
Speaker 2: be in the mix with the peoples. But that's just

791
00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:36,480
Speaker 2: the world we live in now.

792
00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:40,920
Speaker 3: It may also be available on Zoom.

793
00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:44,040
Speaker 2: Anything's available, anything's possible in the metaverse, you guys.

794
00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:47,320
Speaker 3: I'm just so happy whatever we've been doing, and the

795
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:49,759
Speaker 3: started in the dining room that our kids thought it

796
00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:53,600
Speaker 3: was so important that literally everywhere they go they tell.

797
00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:54,520
Speaker 1: People we're famous.

798
00:36:54,920 --> 00:36:58,160
Speaker 2: Honestly, shout out to our kids. They were really not

799
00:36:58,360 --> 00:37:01,680
Speaker 2: the real writers of the podcast, really writing for us

800
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:06,600
Speaker 2: and being patient with us, because it is not easy

801
00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:10,600
Speaker 2: doing anything with kids, let alone recording something where they

802
00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:11,839
Speaker 2: you need people to be.

803
00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:13,520
Speaker 1: Quiet, sound sensitive.

804
00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:17,759
Speaker 2: I mean, we recorded a whole episode with Wheezy in

805
00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:21,600
Speaker 2: the hotel room in New York with our kids in

806
00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:22,040
Speaker 2: the room.

807
00:37:22,239 --> 00:37:23,759
Speaker 3: They would put them in the closet and we put

808
00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:26,400
Speaker 3: headphones on them and we said chill out, and then

809
00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:29,240
Speaker 3: we proceeded to talk about me all types of stuff,

810
00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:32,319
Speaker 3: receiving money for sex, and she was like, is this

811
00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:33,920
Speaker 3: okay to talk about I'm like, they can't hear us,

812
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:34,880
Speaker 3: It's fine, keep talking.

813
00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 2: They couldn't, they really couldn't.

814
00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:38,440
Speaker 3: And thank you for our audience for writing like the

815
00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:40,359
Speaker 3: first two years because I'm pretty sure our kids were

816
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:41,640
Speaker 3: like three when we started.

817
00:37:41,760 --> 00:37:43,239
Speaker 1: There was lots of interruptions.

818
00:37:43,280 --> 00:37:45,759
Speaker 3: There was lots of there's children in the background, many

819
00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:49,879
Speaker 3: times ships being eaten. We did not begin as professionals,

820
00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:51,279
Speaker 3: you know, like you don't read.

821
00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:54,040
Speaker 2: Them elevator music. We haven't hit the elevator music in

822
00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:54,640
Speaker 2: a minute.

823
00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:56,799
Speaker 3: We hit the elevated music. Because there was times where

824
00:37:56,800 --> 00:37:59,480
Speaker 3: the kids needed tending to. We needed to eat a

825
00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:01,239
Speaker 3: lot of times we gotta make dinner a beer back.

826
00:38:01,320 --> 00:38:02,520
Speaker 1: We had them up late.

827
00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:06,520
Speaker 2: We would record until like one in the morning sometimes

828
00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:09,239
Speaker 2: because we had work and that was the only time

829
00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:09,800
Speaker 2: we could.

830
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:12,200
Speaker 1: Record kids sleep, kids up.

831
00:38:12,320 --> 00:38:14,239
Speaker 3: I mean that's when they didn't have school either. I

832
00:38:14,280 --> 00:38:18,279
Speaker 3: mean we were like in the trenches, really getting shit

833
00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:21,600
Speaker 3: done with small children a lot of times no help.

834
00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:25,439
Speaker 3: They were babysitting each other. And you made that shit rock.

835
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:29,000
Speaker 2: That's crazy. We must have really loved We must really

836
00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:31,879
Speaker 2: love this shit, bitch. We must really loved this shit,

837
00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:34,480
Speaker 2: Like clearly was really lovely. I was just we like

838
00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:37,040
Speaker 2: think I'm reflecting back on it, and it was like, yeah,

839
00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:38,920
Speaker 2: I just did it. I just did it, and know

840
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:41,040
Speaker 2: it's like I knew this is what I want. I

841
00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:43,360
Speaker 2: was just like, I don't even I wasn't even about

842
00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:45,160
Speaker 2: I couldn't see into the future at all. It was

843
00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:47,399
Speaker 2: just like, yeah, this is what I'm doing. We're gonna

844
00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:50,160
Speaker 2: do it. We have to get it done. That was it.

845
00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:51,719
Speaker 2: It feels good, I have to do this.

846
00:38:52,280 --> 00:38:54,799
Speaker 3: How long had you sat on that idea before you

847
00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:55,200
Speaker 3: asked me?

848
00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:58,040
Speaker 2: Maybe like a week. It wasn't very long.

849
00:38:58,120 --> 00:39:00,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I think she asked me after, like after

850
00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:06,200
Speaker 3: I think it was after Luna's third birthday and like

851
00:39:06,239 --> 00:39:07,879
Speaker 3: a couple like maybe you text me the next day

852
00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:09,520
Speaker 3: or something, and I was like, or maybe you asked

853
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:10,160
Speaker 3: me at the party.

854
00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:12,280
Speaker 2: I asked you at the party, and I was like, okay,

855
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:14,920
Speaker 2: I remember, because I was like it was kind of

856
00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:17,040
Speaker 2: like all in one conversation. I was telling you about

857
00:39:17,040 --> 00:39:19,320
Speaker 2: my couple. You were like doing Hostess with the mostes

858
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:22,239
Speaker 2: in your bathing suit with their like filowy thing. I

859
00:39:22,239 --> 00:39:24,200
Speaker 2: don't know what was it, Princess, it was it was

860
00:39:24,200 --> 00:39:26,239
Speaker 2: a princess theme. So I was you were like a

861
00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:27,320
Speaker 2: princess stripper.

862
00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:28,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, beautiful.

863
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:29,880
Speaker 2: I was like, wow, this is amazing. This is my

864
00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:36,400
Speaker 2: new friend, this bitch with my new friend. Yeah, And

865
00:39:36,400 --> 00:39:38,080
Speaker 2: I was telling you about them, and then I asked you,

866
00:39:38,600 --> 00:39:40,080
Speaker 2: but I didn't even know.

867
00:39:40,040 --> 00:39:42,320
Speaker 1: What it meant. I almost forgot that you asked me.

868
00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:44,160
Speaker 3: I think the next day I was like thinking, I'm like, huh,

869
00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:45,480
Speaker 3: she did ask me to do this thing with it,

870
00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:48,040
Speaker 3: and you were like podcasts and I was like like radio.

871
00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:51,040
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, sure, if you're going to tell

872
00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:55,000
Speaker 1: that story, we can do it. See only that's the circumstance.

873
00:39:56,640 --> 00:39:59,759
Speaker 2: Wow, I think we recorded when I think we did

874
00:39:59,800 --> 00:40:01,600
Speaker 2: like a a mini episode in my car.

875
00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:05,320
Speaker 1: We did because we never really thought this through at all.

876
00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:07,959
Speaker 3: So this is what we should put it on Patrion Okay,

877
00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:09,480
Speaker 3: well she hasn't in her phone.

878
00:40:09,520 --> 00:40:11,919
Speaker 1: I think you asked me.

879
00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:14,920
Speaker 3: I said yeah, and then I think you text me

880
00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:16,399
Speaker 3: or you called me like I think now we need

881
00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:19,040
Speaker 3: a photo shoot and I was like okay, so we

882
00:40:19,120 --> 00:40:20,480
Speaker 3: like we should go to the and then I think

883
00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:22,680
Speaker 3: we talked like we talked about what the theme could be,

884
00:40:22,719 --> 00:40:24,000
Speaker 3: and I was really on some old I was like

885
00:40:24,040 --> 00:40:26,560
Speaker 3: we should be old timey, and I think we sat

886
00:40:26,600 --> 00:40:28,680
Speaker 3: on the idea for like a week because we needed

887
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:29,840
Speaker 3: to come up with the name. It was like the

888
00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:31,239
Speaker 3: name that was holding us back.

889
00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:33,360
Speaker 1: It was like a week of names.

890
00:40:33,719 --> 00:40:35,480
Speaker 3: We had one photo shoot. I think by that time

891
00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:37,480
Speaker 3: we had bad Good Mom's Bad Choices. We knew there's

892
00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:39,600
Speaker 3: any polarity in it, and that was very important.

893
00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:42,200
Speaker 2: Well actually was parental advisory, Good Mom's Bad Choices.

894
00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:44,839
Speaker 3: It was parental advisory, good Mom's Bad Choices. And we

895
00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:47,759
Speaker 3: went to one. We did one photo shoot and then oh,

896
00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:49,880
Speaker 3: in the car coming back from the vintage store, I

897
00:40:49,920 --> 00:40:52,600
Speaker 3: was like, should we just like, do you a test run?

898
00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:55,080
Speaker 2: And you're like okay, And that's when.

899
00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:58,160
Speaker 3: It was yeah, and You're like I'm Erica and I

900
00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:01,000
Speaker 3: was like I'm Mela, Like should be calling you Mila Jamila?

901
00:41:01,680 --> 00:41:04,040
Speaker 1: I was like whatever, Okay.

902
00:41:04,120 --> 00:41:06,879
Speaker 3: It wasn't very good, but that was the only time

903
00:41:06,880 --> 00:41:08,960
Speaker 3: we ever tested the idea out.

904
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:10,000
Speaker 1: It was pretty dry.

905
00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:12,400
Speaker 2: Actually, I'm going to go back and listen to that.

906
00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:15,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, after this, even.

907
00:41:15,120 --> 00:41:18,319
Speaker 2: Our first episode real, our first real episode.

908
00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:20,040
Speaker 3: Our first real episode wasn't initially going to be in

909
00:41:20,040 --> 00:41:22,000
Speaker 3: a real episode. I think we just decided to put

910
00:41:22,040 --> 00:41:24,000
Speaker 3: it out because it was seemed good enough and we

911
00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:26,160
Speaker 3: didn't think anyone was going to listen. I need to

912
00:41:26,239 --> 00:41:28,160
Speaker 3: listen to that too. You guys should actually go back

913
00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:32,280
Speaker 3: and listen to it. It's called sex Kids, Sex Kids

914
00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:37,319
Speaker 3: and apps, Sex kids and Apps, and yeah, it's very Uh.

915
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:40,360
Speaker 2: I was just talking about complaining about Tinder or no.

916
00:41:40,400 --> 00:41:42,400
Speaker 2: I was saying how much I loved Tender because I

917
00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:45,000
Speaker 2: loved Tender for so long. Tender was like, I mean,

918
00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:48,120
Speaker 2: I still fuck with Tender. Actually I'm not on it anymore,

919
00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:50,920
Speaker 2: but it was it was a catalyst of so many

920
00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:58,680
Speaker 2: experiences that really uh affirmed me and like showed me

921
00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:01,400
Speaker 2: like so much shit too. I was like, damn, like

922
00:42:01,560 --> 00:42:03,960
Speaker 2: I never would have I never would have met that couple,

923
00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:06,680
Speaker 2: you know, I never would have had that experience, and

924
00:42:06,920 --> 00:42:13,080
Speaker 2: that that particular experience shaped and validated so much of

925
00:42:13,120 --> 00:42:17,799
Speaker 2: how I already felt, you know. So yeah, oh that's

926
00:42:17,840 --> 00:42:18,400
Speaker 2: so cool.

927
00:42:18,680 --> 00:42:19,000
Speaker 1: I know.

928
00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:22,439
Speaker 3: I can't believe four years What the fuck that shit

929
00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:23,080
Speaker 3: goes by quickly?

930
00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:31,279
Speaker 1: Too? Kids are big as hell? Yeah, do you have

931
00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:32,120
Speaker 1: anything to add?

932
00:42:32,239 --> 00:42:32,880
Speaker 2: I don't think so.

933
00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:38,120
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, thank you for all of you who have

934
00:42:38,160 --> 00:42:40,799
Speaker 3: been listening, who are new to this journey, who have

935
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:43,920
Speaker 3: started from the beginning, who have come late and started

936
00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:47,160
Speaker 3: from the beginning anyway, who get us, who don't judge us,

937
00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:50,160
Speaker 3: who continue to keep this a safe space and support us,

938
00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:56,880
Speaker 3: like we are genuinely, deeply, deeply grateful and we feel

939
00:42:56,880 --> 00:42:59,799
Speaker 3: you you know wherever you're at, like what you know?

940
00:42:59,840 --> 00:43:03,360
Speaker 3: We know our people and we're like always excited to

941
00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:08,440
Speaker 3: connect with you guys and see our tribe grow. I'm

942
00:43:08,480 --> 00:43:12,000
Speaker 3: and level up and level up together, grow and level

943
00:43:12,080 --> 00:43:15,719
Speaker 3: up together. That's the purpose. That's the point. To use

944
00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:20,000
Speaker 3: our magic wherever we're at, to be our truest self

945
00:43:20,239 --> 00:43:24,000
Speaker 3: and be our best selves. Amen, because our cheuest selves

946
00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:24,800
Speaker 3: are our best selves.

947
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:25,320
Speaker 1: Amen.

948
00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:29,840
Speaker 2: All Right, I love well, you guys know where to

949
00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:31,160
Speaker 2: find us good Mom's bad choices.

950
00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:33,680
Speaker 1: Wait, did we do the taro? Oh? No?

951
00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:36,879
Speaker 2: Should we do it here? The tarot is Okay, we're

952
00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:39,720
Speaker 2: doing the end of the episode taro. It's tarot time.

953
00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:41,799
Speaker 1: It's tarot time. I thought you're gonna do taro today,

954
00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:44,560
Speaker 1: I am doing. Okay. Today's card is.

955
00:43:44,480 --> 00:43:48,880
Speaker 2: The King of One's the King of ones. So the

956
00:43:48,960 --> 00:43:52,560
Speaker 2: King of Ones is it's a great card. Actually, the

957
00:43:52,640 --> 00:43:58,399
Speaker 2: King of Wands represents pure fire energy in its masculine form.

958
00:43:58,600 --> 00:44:01,400
Speaker 2: Unlike the other Ones cards, the King is not so

959
00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:04,640
Speaker 2: interested in creation and creativity, or in dreaming up ideas

960
00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:09,239
Speaker 2: and implementing themselves instead and implementing them himself. Instead, he

961
00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:11,280
Speaker 2: is more inclined to take the idea and then enlist

962
00:44:11,320 --> 00:44:17,640
Speaker 2: others to help him actualize it. M let's see. Oh wait,

963
00:44:17,719 --> 00:44:20,080
Speaker 2: hold on, maybe I'm not good at this or did

964
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Speaker 2: I skip something?

965
00:44:20,960 --> 00:44:21,760
Speaker 1: Oh?

966
00:44:21,880 --> 00:44:29,080
Speaker 2: Upright? Natural born leader, vision, entrepreneur, honor Others naturally gravitate

967
00:44:29,120 --> 00:44:31,920
Speaker 2: towards the King of Ones because you are charismatic, focused

968
00:44:31,920 --> 00:44:34,600
Speaker 2: and determined, and they believe in you and your vision.

969
00:44:34,719 --> 00:44:36,719
Speaker 2: They want to be part of what you are manifesting

970
00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:39,600
Speaker 2: and are here to support you one hundred percent of

971
00:44:39,640 --> 00:44:42,800
Speaker 2: the way. You are so masterful at getting other people

972
00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:45,319
Speaker 2: to do your work for you while keeping them on

973
00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 2: side throughout the process. The King of One reminds you

974
00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:51,160
Speaker 2: to lead your life with intent, vision and a long

975
00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:53,719
Speaker 2: term view. You have a grand idea of what is

976
00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:56,120
Speaker 2: truly possible, and you will stop at nothing to see

977
00:44:56,120 --> 00:44:59,640
Speaker 2: it through. You achieve a lot because you are clear

978
00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:02,400
Speaker 2: about future direction and how you will get there, and

979
00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:05,000
Speaker 2: do not waste your time on activities or relationships you

980
00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:09,920
Speaker 2: believe will lead nowhere. You never just go with the flow. Instead,

981
00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:12,640
Speaker 2: you prefer to embark on a direct, robust course of action,

982
00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:16,720
Speaker 2: and you are inspired by long term, sustainable success wanting

983
00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:19,439
Speaker 2: to have a lasting impact. You are here to leave

984
00:45:19,520 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 2: a legacy.

985
00:45:20,640 --> 00:45:23,240
Speaker 1: Well, dear, that says a lot boom.

986
00:45:23,600 --> 00:45:27,880
Speaker 3: We're here to leave a legacy for two hundreds episode legacy.

987
00:45:28,640 --> 00:45:30,960
Speaker 1: It's always going to live on the internet no matter

988
00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:31,560
Speaker 1: what I say.

989
00:45:31,640 --> 00:45:34,360
Speaker 2: This is our most structured and organized year ever. So

990
00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:36,840
Speaker 2: also we're leading with intent. I think we do go

991
00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:37,839
Speaker 2: with the flow. I do.

992
00:45:37,920 --> 00:45:41,000
Speaker 3: We are flowy bitches, but we're direct on what the

993
00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:43,000
Speaker 3: flow and we want need to happen.

994
00:45:43,160 --> 00:45:51,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're Yeah, we've chosen which direction we're going for sure. Well, anyway,

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