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Speaker 2: Evan is on the phone today for our first dight
Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Ruby. So in
Speaker 2: a few minutes we'll call her and see if she'll
Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him
Speaker 2: a second day. But first, Evan, how long has it,
Speaker 2: Vinceince you heard from Ruby?
Speaker 3: It's been about four days?
Speaker 1: Okay, that's too bad. Yeah, have you hit her up
Speaker 1: a bunch in that time?
Speaker 3: I did try a couple of times. Yeah, I don't
Speaker 3: want to over do it, but reached out and definitely
Speaker 3: got nothing back.
Speaker 1: Okay, And you feel like that's weird, Like you feel
Speaker 1: like four days is a long time? Did not hear
Speaker 1: from her?
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're kind of hitting it off, so it is
Speaker 3: out of the ordinary.
Speaker 1: Well, tell us about your date.
Speaker 3: Well, Ruby and I went to rooftop Bar, and you know,
Speaker 3: I had the best view of the city. It was
Speaker 3: it was her idea. Actually it was super cool. You know,
Speaker 3: I can't really beat it. For our first days, this
Speaker 3: great great place, grabed drinks, shared a charcoterie board, and
Speaker 3: you know our conversation was just really easy, natural. The
Speaker 3: vibe was laid back and plenty of kind of flirty moments.
Speaker 3: She's hilarious, you know, We're making each other laugh the
Speaker 3: whole night, and they were just sparked, you know, the
Speaker 3: kind you can't bake. We ended up taking a walk
Speaker 3: after and because they were both a little buzzed, and
Speaker 3: before we said good night, there are a few kisses
Speaker 3: and yeah, you know, it's just a kind of date
Speaker 3: you never want to stop.
Speaker 2: Okay, well, why do you think you're hitting? Ghosted?
Speaker 1: Then?
Speaker 3: Honestly really confused. You know, we were texting NonStop for
Speaker 3: two days after so things are you know, they felt
Speaker 3: promising and then nothing, it just stopped.
Speaker 1: So wait, you went on the date and you ended
Speaker 1: up hearing from her after the date.
Speaker 3: Yeah, after the date for about two days and then
Speaker 3: it stopped.
Speaker 2: Right, could be something you texted?
Speaker 3: I don't think so. I mean I don't think it was.
Speaker 3: I did text her a pick of me, like in
Speaker 3: the bathroom with a towel on and the tease, like
Speaker 3: I thought it would be harmless.
Speaker 2: Okay, is that the last time you were from her?
Speaker 3: I believe so.
Speaker 1: Id sripp And if I got ghosted after that.
Speaker 3: She was teasing me about having abs, so I just
Speaker 3: decided to show her. You know, I don't know, maybe
Speaker 3: it was too much. It wasn't like a pick or anything.
Speaker 2: You know, do you have abs? Or was joking around
Speaker 2: me and like check out mine, but you don't have them?
Speaker 3: You know I have abs? Yeah, I mean I just
Speaker 3: wanted to prove myself.
Speaker 1: Okay, that could be it. So was a selfie?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean if.
Speaker 2: You stop talking to you right after that, then that
Speaker 2: probably it probably has something to do with that.
Speaker 3: I don't know. I mean, I don't think it was
Speaker 3: that bad or racy or anything.
Speaker 1: But what did you say when you send the picture
Speaker 1: of yourself in a towel?
Speaker 3: Nothing much, just that I think I've put like a
Speaker 3: little blurb like you know here proved for something like
Speaker 3: along those lines.
Speaker 2: Okay, well, we'll see if we can help you out
Speaker 2: with then then. I mean, it is kind of strange
Speaker 2: that she was stop talking to you right after that,
Speaker 2: so that might be the reason. But we'll play a
Speaker 2: song come back and see if we can get you
Speaker 2: a second date in your first Day follow up next
Speaker 2: in the middle of today's First DA follow up, if
Speaker 2: you're just joining us. Evan is on the phone and
Speaker 2: he's getting ghosted by Ruby. So we're about to call
Speaker 2: her and see if she tell us why she's ghosting
Speaker 2: him and hopefully get him a second date. But first, Evan,
Speaker 2: why don't you break down your date for us one
Speaker 2: more time.
Speaker 3: Yeah. So we had a lot of great moments on
Speaker 3: our date, bark flew. Everything was perfect. So we had
Speaker 3: a connection. And you know, two days after the date,
Speaker 3: I've not heard from her.
Speaker 1: And the last thing that you sent her was, let's
Speaker 1: not forget this part, a picture of yourself in the
Speaker 1: bathroom and a towel.
Speaker 3: I did send her my ab.
Speaker 2: All right, well, are you ready to see if that's
Speaker 2: the reason you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 3: Yeah, let's do it.
Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. I'm gonna call her right now,
Speaker 2: him aspeaking to Ruby. Please, Hey Ruby, how are you?
Speaker 2: This is a radio show, it's called the Jubil Show.
Speaker 1: Hi Ruby. My name is Nina.
Speaker 2: Hi, I'm Victoria and I'm Jebel.
Speaker 3: How are you.
Speaker 4: Okay? I'm I'm good.
Speaker 2: Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 3: I have?
Speaker 2: Nope? Thank you? Well, what if I told you that
Speaker 2: you were the star of a first eight follow up
Speaker 2: right now? Oh god, yeah, we got an email about
Speaker 2: you from somebody that you're ghosting, and they don't know why.
Speaker 2: You know who emails.
Speaker 4: I'm pretty sure it's probably Evan.
Speaker 2: You're a very smart Evan told us about your date,
Speaker 2: said that he really liked you, thought you guys had
Speaker 2: an awesome time, but you texted her a little while after,
Speaker 2: and then you just ghosted him, and he wants to
Speaker 2: know what's up? Would you mind telling us?
Speaker 4: I mean, like, look, I really I thought Evan was
Speaker 4: great and we had an amazing time. But then after
Speaker 4: my date, my friend showed me something and it just
Speaker 4: it kind of killed the vibe for me.
Speaker 2: Okay, what was it?
Speaker 5: Okay, So I tested my friend the picture of Evan
Speaker 5: when we were on the base because she wanted me
Speaker 5: what to look like. And then the next night she
Speaker 5: sends me a picture of him with some other girl,
Speaker 5: like literally the night after we went on the date,
Speaker 5: and then she was at another bar and they were
Speaker 5: making out.
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, you've got it wrong, Evan. He's
Speaker 2: actually on the phone and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, I mean like, yeah, okay, I knew,
Speaker 4: I guess I knew this was com.
Speaker 3: Oh man, hi, hi, h Look, you've got it all wrong.
Speaker 5: It's not no, no, even you were literally in the picture.
Speaker 5: I mean, it's not hard to recognize someone when you
Speaker 5: were just right there.
Speaker 3: You know. Oh okay, Yeah it happened, but it's not
Speaker 3: what you think. Like she's she's someone I've been cooking
Speaker 3: up with for a while, and I was I was
Speaker 3: going to tell her it was over because I wanted
Speaker 3: to focus on you that night, and I just I
Speaker 3: didn't get to it yet.
Speaker 2: So you were, oh with someone else right after your
Speaker 2: day making out with her?
Speaker 5: Technically, yeah, Agan, you were just with me and then
Speaker 5: you just go and make out with someone else.
Speaker 4: I mean, I understand people date multiple people, but it
Speaker 4: just it felt wrong to me.
Speaker 3: I swear, I swear, I'm done with her. I'm not
Speaker 3: seeing anyone else.
Speaker 1: I like you.
Speaker 3: I was going to tell her that the next day,
Speaker 3: but it was like, it wasn't like that anymore. Like
Speaker 3: you're the one that I want to date.
Speaker 1: Did you tell her that?
Speaker 3: I told her?
Speaker 1: I mean, I wouldn't want to see a picture of
Speaker 1: the dude that I just want to date with, mix
Speaker 1: like messing around with somebody else. Again, Like she said,
Speaker 1: I get people are dating other people, but if I
Speaker 1: don't know, I wouldn't feel good about that either. I
Speaker 1: just would have too many questions.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like are you just saying that like you want
Speaker 4: to date me? Or like did you hook up with
Speaker 4: her that night? You know that's just powerful to me?
Speaker 3: Will you hook up at her? Yeah? But it was
Speaker 3: it was just like a last like last brown type
Speaker 3: of thing. I swear I told her about you at
Speaker 3: that point, and that was the last time you.
Speaker 2: Told her after you hooked up.
Speaker 3: You're hooked up when.
Speaker 4: You're after you told her about me?
Speaker 3: Like seriously, No, I told her about you after I
Speaker 3: hooked up.
Speaker 1: With herful, Yeah that's true.
Speaker 5: Okay, so you hooked up with her after you told
Speaker 5: her about me? Like seriously, no, I hooked up with
Speaker 5: her and then I told her about you. It's but
Speaker 5: that's because things it's so different with you, Like we've
Speaker 5: been on one date. It's not like I cheated on
Speaker 5: you or anything. I was just I was trying to
Speaker 5: do the right thing. I mean, it would have been
Speaker 5: better if you told her before and didn't hook up.
Speaker 3: Okay, I get that, but it was, you know, it
Speaker 3: was just kind of desperate and dead. I didn't get
Speaker 3: to see you, and you know, I was just trying
Speaker 3: to break things off and it didn't go as smoothly
Speaker 3: as I hoped they would.
Speaker 4: I mean, if we were to date and you didn't
Speaker 4: see me, you can't hook up with other people.
Speaker 3: I'm not trying to do that. I swear.
Speaker 1: It's kind of tricky because he kind of does have
Speaker 1: a point. He is trying to do the right thing,
Speaker 1: like he didn't cheat on anybody, and she's out of
Speaker 1: the picture.
Speaker 2: Now, Ruby, would you like to go on a second
Speaker 2: date with Evan? We'll pay for it.
Speaker 4: I mean, Evan, are there any other people I need
Speaker 4: to know about?
Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, well yes, but we're going to text
Speaker 3: them and let them know I'm not available via text.
Speaker 3: I'm not going to meet up with them. I will
Speaker 3: show you the text.
Speaker 2: What do you think, Ruby, it sounds like serious?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, like honestly, we did just go in
Speaker 5: one date and it was like a really really good date.
Speaker 5: But I swear to God, Evan, if any of my
Speaker 5: friends send me more pictures of you out with other women,
Speaker 5: you're gonna wish that I was just ghosting you.
Speaker 3: It will be very large promise you'll never see that again.
Speaker 3: I don't want to to ever meet that side of
Speaker 3: you again.
Speaker 4: Okay, sure, all right, we'll go out again.
Speaker 1: Are you happy?
Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you, you're welcome.
Speaker 1: First date,