Speaker 1: Sing take it away so awkward.
Speaker 2: Hey, hey, yes we're back. We're black brown and this
Speaker 2: should and this should should should many and are.
Speaker 1: Back in the black. Kelly is so happy to have
Speaker 1: her Beyonce back because singing lead vocal on our opening
Speaker 1: track and the QA, I'm like some honky who I
Speaker 1: like that word hoky. I'm gonna use that little ox.
Speaker 1: But so good to have you back. You've been going
Speaker 1: for a minute, girl, I'm still technically gone.
Speaker 2: This is that like brown ambition, but like I still
Speaker 2: have one more week off of my sabbatical where I'm not.
Speaker 1: Doing nothing and you stay true to it, like you're
Speaker 1: taking March off. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, The next one is August. I was gonna take
Speaker 2: December off, but I have like a project I don't
Speaker 2: even know. Well, maybe i'll let you guys in on
Speaker 2: a news So I have the workbook version of Kicker
Speaker 2: Money coming out later on this year. But so because
Speaker 2: it's later on this year, I will not be able
Speaker 2: to take December off, which I'm like, yeah, so, but
Speaker 2: I'll take August off, but I'll be here in December.
Speaker 1: Well who needs January?
Speaker 2: I know, because you know, when you drop something, you
Speaker 2: need to at least plan them in the two months
Speaker 2: after that you're gonna be going hard on like book promotion. Okay,
Speaker 2: so probably won't be like February, so I'm like, but whatever. Anyway,
Speaker 2: how was Costa Rica Rica?
Speaker 1: Yeah? It was amazing. It felt like a dream. We
Speaker 1: left Homeboy at home with my mom shout out love
Speaker 1: it at homeboy. Homeboy was at home, and there was
Speaker 1: a twinge of guilt, but honestly, like we needed that.
Speaker 1: I didn't realize how badly we needed to just be
Speaker 1: the two of us. We have not done anything like
Speaker 1: that since before Rio was born. Twenty nineteen, we went
Speaker 1: to Portugal for our baby moon. That was the last
Speaker 1: time we were like alone on a trip because you know,
Speaker 1: the pandemonium and all that, and it was divine. And
Speaker 1: the beauty of like knowing your partner for a decade
Speaker 1: plus is that you stop expecting them to travel the
Speaker 1: way that you want to travel. So we we had
Speaker 1: like the perfect Mandy like Manrique version of resort that
Speaker 1: we chose. It was like natury and boutiqued. It wasn't
Speaker 1: too big, it wasn't you know, which is not Enrique style,
Speaker 1: but it still had like pools and the little beach
Speaker 1: for me because I want to be in the sun
Speaker 1: for hours. And I was with a hat on. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna say, because.
Speaker 2: You don't look because you get brown, browner like you
Speaker 2: not as brown as you look normally.
Speaker 1: I know my nose got a little red the first
Speaker 1: day and I got scurred.
Speaker 2: Anyway, the black part was not gonna come through. You're like,
Speaker 2: hold on, I don't know my daddy's part's gonna do.
Speaker 1: Irish. Mandy was a Mandabella. She she came to It's
Speaker 1: the first ten of the year. Is rough, okay, The
Speaker 1: Costa Rican sun's a little intense, yes, So I wasn't
Speaker 1: trying to to bake myself to crisp. But it was
Speaker 1: just lovely. We just did nothing, but you know, really
Speaker 1: stay at the resort and eat really well and have conversations.
Speaker 1: It was so weird. And I remember and my husband
Speaker 1: like he opened up in a way he's a cancer
Speaker 1: and he's just who he is. But the way that
Speaker 1: he opened up at a certain point in our vacation,
Speaker 1: I was like, I've been waiting for.
Speaker 2: This, Oh yeah, because you know it was such a
Speaker 2: super sensitive but quiet yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And like you know when you're with someone like that.
Speaker 1: You have to like fill in the blanks of like
Speaker 1: what they're thinking and all that, and don't be too
Speaker 1: put Remember we talked about the credit score thing and
Speaker 1: I was like, you better give me your credit score.
Speaker 1: You don't love me. He's like, back off, this is
Speaker 1: not how I operate. Anyway. It was just it was lovely.
Speaker 1: It was bittersweet to come home. Obviously we both missed
Speaker 1: Rio so much. But I'm already thinking about where we're
Speaker 1: going to go next on a little like solo Husbane
Speaker 1: wifey Vak. But okay, much, I wasn't as good as you.
Speaker 1: I did not stay off of the internet. I still
Speaker 1: check my email.
Speaker 2: Well, I'll say, I check my personal email. Like I
Speaker 2: checked like, you know, the Budgeanista dot com or let
Speaker 2: me the budget.
Speaker 1: Well let me, I was about to tell y'all girl.
Speaker 2: By anyway, I did check my guest I know, but
Speaker 2: so yeah, so I checked that and I did do like,
Speaker 2: you know, some personal stuff. I was like, oh, I
Speaker 2: finally fitished my trust. It almost took like a year
Speaker 2: and a half, which is honestly pretty normal. Yeah, because
Speaker 2: there's all this back and forth, back and forth, back
Speaker 2: and four key you ad this and then so I finally, well,
Speaker 2: let me not say it's finished. The written component is
Speaker 2: finished because with the trust, it's actually not done until
Speaker 2: you fund it and you sign it. And so for me,
Speaker 2: I you know, so I'm waiting for Tony Tony Moore,
Speaker 2: my attorney, super dope black woman attorney.
Speaker 1: We love her.
Speaker 2: And so she just sent me the final I sent Itologeally,
Speaker 2: my financial advisor, to review, and there was just one
Speaker 2: last component when it came to the kids. So the
Speaker 2: kids are like anybody who I'm going to be leaving
Speaker 2: something to under the age of twenty one, So that's
Speaker 2: Alyssa Roman and my nephew, Amelia my niece, Lily my niece.
Speaker 2: And initially I left my siblings as the beneficiaries to
Speaker 2: those accounts that I've been setting aside for the kids.
Speaker 2: But then I thought about it, and just after Jarelle
Speaker 2: passed away and some things happened, and I was like, oh,
Speaker 2: I said, I want to make sure that the person
Speaker 2: that I leave the money to it goes to them
Speaker 2: and so and Tony knew that. So she was like,
Speaker 2: Tiffany asked, Angelie, this is why it's important to have
Speaker 2: You're gonna have financial advisor. And it turned that they're
Speaker 2: all talking together because Tony knew that, and she said,
Speaker 2: ask ANGELI, who's the beneficiaries on those accounts? And I
Speaker 2: had not thought about it because it's been a while
Speaker 2: when I open them, and she was like, I was like, oh,
Speaker 2: the kids, And Tony's like, remember what you said, not
Speaker 2: the kids, your siblings, you know, remember what you said.
Speaker 2: She was like, we can have the kids be the
Speaker 2: beneficiaries and we can have it in the trust that
Speaker 2: they did not get access to their money to their
Speaker 2: twenty five And I was like, okay, because that was
Speaker 2: something important to me too that I don't believe that
Speaker 2: you know, well, typically the state whoever will hold the
Speaker 2: money for them until they're eighteen, but I think that's
Speaker 2: too young, and so I wanted, like, okay, twenty five.
Speaker 2: And so that was the last component of the trust.
Speaker 2: So now I just have to update beneficiaries to everything
Speaker 2: to go into the trust. I have to actually put
Speaker 2: I have this home that I live in now, and
Speaker 2: I have the condo that I just bought. I have
Speaker 2: to change the title to the trust.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: So like so basically I have to fund the trust
Speaker 2: with the things I want in there that if something
Speaker 2: were to happen to me, it would go to the
Speaker 2: people who were part of the trust without having to
Speaker 2: go through probate or anything like that.
Speaker 1: Interesting, So you're gonna fund it already, yes, So it's
Speaker 1: not like if I have so much when I'm gone,
Speaker 1: it's this percentage of that or whatever. You have to
Speaker 1: literally fund it now, yes, because and then can you
Speaker 1: add to it or you to add to it?
Speaker 2: Okay, So like if I buy another property, or like
Speaker 2: if I, you know, like have a bank account that's
Speaker 2: part of the trust, I can put that money there
Speaker 2: or I can have Basically, you make the trust the beneficiary.
Speaker 2: Like normally, when I was like twenty one, my mom
Speaker 2: was my beneficiary and everything, cause I'm like I don't
Speaker 2: know my mom, you know. And so now it's like, no,
Speaker 2: Tiffany's Trust is the beneficiary of everything. So on my
Speaker 2: bank accounts to Tiffany's Trust, my home Tiffany's Trust, everything.
Speaker 2: So if something happens to me, you know, the trust
Speaker 2: continues to hold what it already was holding, and the
Speaker 2: people of the trust will get access to those assets
Speaker 2: based upon my instructions. You know, like for example, God
Speaker 2: forbid something happens to me. Before my parents passed away,
Speaker 2: it didn't make sense to me for them for me
Speaker 2: to leave them a percentage of my assets, so I
Speaker 2: just left them a lump sum that was a good
Speaker 2: lump sum. Like my mom gets the same lump sum,
Speaker 2: my dad gets the same lump sum. Because then then
Speaker 2: the rest is really divided by my sisters, you know,
Speaker 2: because I no longer so I left also two like
Speaker 2: the kids alyssa Moment, Me, Amelia, Lily, they all get
Speaker 2: these lump sums. But really what's leftover gets divided evenly
Speaker 2: by my sisters. And then if I get married or
Speaker 2: whatever later I don't know, then I would just you know,
Speaker 2: relook at But as it is right now, that's what happens.
Speaker 2: What's great about that is that with a trust, all
Speaker 2: these things happen behind closed doors. Like let's just say
Speaker 2: I leave you know, fifty million dollars in assets. No
Speaker 2: one will know because a trust allows you to navigate
Speaker 2: behind closed doors, and it allows people not to say
Speaker 2: that you will inherit without having to pay taxes, but
Speaker 2: it helps you with the potential to greatly reduce your
Speaker 2: tax burden, you know. So you know that's so but
Speaker 2: it's a long process depending on how many assets, because
Speaker 2: I have to decide what do I want to have
Speaker 2: with the business. So the budgetista, I mean, I am
Speaker 2: the budgetista, so I put it in there. You would
Speaker 2: have to sell it, you know, because you know I
Speaker 2: think that like I have like you know, like it.
Speaker 2: So basically like I have to really decide what do
Speaker 2: I want to happen with all assets. Because I thought
Speaker 2: to myself, you know, thanks Jerrell and I had talked
Speaker 2: about so much of his finances, so I would say
Speaker 2: eighty percent. I was pretty clear about what he wanted.
Speaker 2: But I didn't want my family to have to guess
Speaker 2: because you know, Durrell had what I call normal people finances.
Speaker 2: You know, I have all these random businesses, and it's
Speaker 2: just like, so, what do you want to happen? And
Speaker 2: I don't want them to have to guess and tussle,
Speaker 2: and you know, and you always say like, oh, my
Speaker 2: family wouldn't, but you don't know, you know, grief brings
Speaker 2: out weird things in people, and I just didn't want to,
Speaker 2: you know. So it's just a little relief that like,
Speaker 2: you know, if something happens also too, It's like I
Speaker 2: wanted to tell my family if I'm not capable of
Speaker 2: making decisions for myself because I'm heart in some way,
Speaker 2: this is who I want to make those Here's who
Speaker 2: I want separate to make like I have my my
Speaker 2: sister Karen. Her husband is is a medical doctor, and
Speaker 2: I said, he's actually a disease and infectious disease like specialists.
Speaker 2: And so I was like, I want her to make
Speaker 2: my health choices, you know.
Speaker 1: And then Tracy, I want her than just a financial
Speaker 1: person because you can separate whole kit in kaboodle, yes,
Speaker 1: grown up what I was.
Speaker 2: I was like, for Tracy, I want her to make
Speaker 2: these chores. And then for this I want because I
Speaker 2: wanted to know. Oh my gosh, when I tell you,
Speaker 2: because the truth death, I've been ninety percent financially wholed
Speaker 2: for a long time. This was the last ten percent
Speaker 2: where I'm like, Tiffany, you're a state plan is not
Speaker 2: planned out, you know, like if something happens, you will
Speaker 2: literally leave your family in just such disarray because you
Speaker 2: just have a lot going on and it's a lot
Speaker 2: for someone to figure out. And I'm sure I've not
Speaker 2: thought of every single thing. But if I can get
Speaker 2: ninety five percent, you know, and so they can be like, well,
Speaker 2: at least we know this and we have candid conversations,
Speaker 2: you know. I remember when I was telling my sister Tracy, like, well,
Speaker 2: you know, I leave you in charge of making these
Speaker 2: and she's like, oh, I don't want to hear. I
Speaker 2: was like, you have to hear it, because I want
Speaker 2: you to know. And I told the other sisters too,
Speaker 2: so it's not like, well, what did Tiffany say, Well,
Speaker 2: remember she told us this, you know, and so yeah,
Speaker 2: so I bet I feel and then I made it,
Speaker 2: like you know, y'all know are already. I got my
Speaker 2: parents to update their will from when we were like ten.
Speaker 2: I was like, Daddy, this will says that I will
Speaker 2: go to uncle such and such if something happens to you,
Speaker 2: like I'm forty.
Speaker 1: Three, Uncle's coming exactly.
Speaker 2: So they finally updated their will, which is great. So yeah,
Speaker 2: but I'm glad to be back. Like y'all know, I
Speaker 2: went to I don't know if you know, but I
Speaker 2: went to Egypt for the first two weeks of my mom.
Speaker 1: That slip, and I wasn't sure but it was yes, yeah.
Speaker 2: But no, no, that's fine. But it was mean because
Speaker 2: like the likelihood. Although I did meet some I was
Speaker 2: lily walking. This woman was like, I know you are
Speaker 2: I'm trying to freak out. Yes at the pyramids.
Speaker 1: You word Africa though, so you know it was so cute.
Speaker 2: I was like what she was like, Oh my god,
Speaker 2: I love you so much.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, that was so.
Speaker 2: Cute, wonderful, but it was Egypt was top three vacations
Speaker 2: I've ever taken. I know, I told you I loved
Speaker 2: Kenya and I did. Kenya was amazing, amazing, amazing, but
Speaker 2: Kenya was like amazing in the space of like the now.
Speaker 2: Egypt was like literally opening up your history book and
Speaker 2: jumping into remember the Magic school Bus with.
Speaker 1: Me's frizzle.
Speaker 2: Yes, it literally felt like I'm inside the Magic school Bus,
Speaker 2: like experiencing like is this a pyramid? It is a pyramid,
Speaker 2: like I can touch it, I can sit on it.
Speaker 2: This is the sphinx. I can look at it. I
Speaker 2: can I mean just to I cannot describe what it
Speaker 2: is to like know that like literally, this is not
Speaker 2: hundreds of years ago. These things were built thousands and
Speaker 2: thousands of thousands of years ago, and there were people
Speaker 2: who built this with such mathematical precision that it's lined
Speaker 2: up with the sun and the stars and the moon.
Speaker 2: And not only just that, not just mathematical precision, but
Speaker 2: artistic precision. I mean to see, like I just it
Speaker 2: is literally mind blowing how much is left behind that
Speaker 2: you think to yourself, like, yo, you think your house
Speaker 2: is gonna be here in fifty years? Probably not. This
Speaker 2: is five thousand years old? What type of material.
Speaker 1: By you guys? Use it?
Speaker 2: Can you imagine that they're still here for us to see?
Speaker 2: And so much, you know, so much has been lost,
Speaker 2: but so much has been you know, preserved. And what
Speaker 2: I love too about Egypt is that you can reach
Speaker 2: out and touch history. I feel like if you go
Speaker 2: to like Mount Rushmore, you can't touch the statues, you know,
Speaker 2: but here you can like touch the pyramid. It's allowed,
Speaker 2: you know, Like you can go inside the pyramids, it's allowed.
Speaker 2: So I love how hands on the history is in Egypt.
Speaker 2: So we spent like we went to like it was
Speaker 2: two weeks, So we spent about three or four days
Speaker 2: and like four different locations, and so one of my
Speaker 2: favorites was this place called Aschuon, which is like the
Speaker 2: Hamptons of Egypt.
Speaker 1: It was gorgeous, the hand one of Egypt, the Hamptons.
Speaker 2: It was like the super fell posh, you know, but
Speaker 2: it was gorgeous and beautiful. We did like a three
Speaker 2: or four day cruise on the River Nile and like this,
Speaker 2: like I call the river boat. Oh yeah, so it was.
Speaker 2: It wasn't like it wasn't like the size of like
Speaker 2: you know, a carnival cruise, but it wasn't like the
Speaker 2: super small boat. So I just called the river boat.
Speaker 2: But to cruise the Nile, to see the sunset and
Speaker 2: sunrise on the Nile, oh my god. And then we went.
Speaker 2: I sent you those pictures made of hot air balloon
Speaker 2: riding and luxor which is really beautiful.
Speaker 1: Yes, it looked like.
Speaker 2: A story book.
Speaker 1: Did you have to get up at the crack of dawn? Yes,
Speaker 1: it was. We were so tired. We had to get
Speaker 1: three ah Turkey and husband. That was our first trip
Speaker 1: together and he was like, bitch, I'm not kidding us.
Speaker 1: We joined the balloons.
Speaker 2: But it was so worth it. So because I did
Speaker 2: I did hot air blue writing in like Albuquerque, New Mexico,
Speaker 2: which is actually the hotter ballute capital of the world.
Speaker 2: But this was so worth it because you do a
Speaker 2: hot air balloon over the ancient ruins, you know, and
Speaker 2: it just honestly, it was just such an amazing trip.
Speaker 2: And I encourage everyone to Egypt. If it's not on
Speaker 2: your bucket list, it ought to be, whether your history
Speaker 2: buff or not. It's just this amazing, miraculous like it
Speaker 2: is the it is the seat of civilization, you know,
Speaker 2: like literally like this is where it all started and
Speaker 2: you could feel and see it. But I will say,
Speaker 2: if you do go to Egypt, it is not a
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go by myself or I'm gonna go without
Speaker 2: guided assistance. Certainly not that's super bustling, like Cairo is
Speaker 2: like New York on steroids. I mean, Cairo is like
Speaker 2: New York Times twenty honestly, super busy, super hustle, energy,
Speaker 2: super go go go so and you just want to
Speaker 2: be like safe. So I encourage people to go, Like
Speaker 2: I went with the tour, which was really great, and so.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask that must have taken a lot of
Speaker 1: the pressure off. Yeah, Plus you get the it's like
Speaker 1: I don't want to go to Egypt and not have
Speaker 1: someone telling me what I'm looking at. Yes, you know,
Speaker 1: because like I feel like I will waste because everything
Speaker 1: is historical. Yes, yeah, that's amazing.
Speaker 2: It was yeah, and it's like so honestly, but this
Speaker 2: whole Sabbatico has been awesome.
Speaker 3: I love.
Speaker 2: I know everyone is not able, but if you are
Speaker 2: able to take a weekend a week I'm taking this
Speaker 2: month and you know, August, I won't be able to
Speaker 2: take December, like I said, but that's okay, but like
Speaker 2: to take time away and it's not like to take
Speaker 2: time away for everything, and you know, like I still
Speaker 2: have to go food chopping, pay bill, you know, but
Speaker 2: meaning like one of the best things was being on
Speaker 2: social media. I can't tell you how free it is
Speaker 2: not to know where everybody's up to every second of
Speaker 2: the day. I mean, because you don't think about your like, oh,
Speaker 2: I'm wondering if such just has had the baby, how
Speaker 2: such is us?
Speaker 3: Dog?
Speaker 2: I don't even know these people. How am I keeping
Speaker 2: up with Yola? Everyone is a Kardashian, I didn't. You
Speaker 2: don't realize how much people's lives I was keeping up
Speaker 2: with until I wasn't. And I'm just keeping up with
Speaker 2: the lives of the people who are central to my life,
Speaker 2: my sisters, my friends. But you know, like a few
Speaker 2: people hit me up, like my friends were like, girl,
Speaker 2: I'm waiting for the Egypt pictures on Instagram. I said,
Speaker 2: you will continue to wait. I'm not posting them, you know,
Speaker 2: maybe months from now maybe if I feel like it.
Speaker 1: But I get the advanced copy like somebody I didn't many.
Speaker 2: He was I don't care about at last sent me
Speaker 2: my picks and so but I did because but that's
Speaker 2: there was a connectedness with sharing it with my sister
Speaker 2: group chat. Like literally, I have a group chat with
Speaker 2: my four sisters with my friend who asked because I
Speaker 2: didn't want to take pictures with the end of posting
Speaker 2: it for social media in mind, I just wanted to
Speaker 2: enjoy Egypt and take pictures because it was fine. Although
Speaker 2: I was slaying like maybe a special dress.
Speaker 1: Just you'll see them because the world deserves the world
Speaker 1: needs it deserves. Are you gonna get one? Get one?
Speaker 1: Because they're not expensive. I looked into it. No, that's
Speaker 1: I think that. I honestly I was. I told you
Speaker 1: they should stop selling that dress. It's the Tiffany now
Speaker 1: and no one else can have it. I have plenty
Speaker 1: of yellow dresses though, that's my killer. No, you look stunning,
Speaker 1: and I mean, yeah, it's just yeah, I'm and honestly
Speaker 1: you taking time off too. It gives me an opportunity.
Speaker 1: I mean obviously I was holding it down and BA land,
Speaker 1: but it makes it feel like, Okay, it's going to
Speaker 1: be part of the BA you know, like cadence now
Speaker 1: and you really set that presidence. I'm like, hell, yeah,
Speaker 1: let's take August to off. We can do this. Yeah, amazing,
Speaker 1: So on on my behalf in my family's behalf.
Speaker 2: No, we deserve because you can't keep go go go,
Speaker 2: go go go. You know, even if you can't take
Speaker 2: off from work or whatever, take off from social media.
Speaker 2: Anybody could take off from social media for like a
Speaker 2: week a.
Speaker 1: Month banding in Utah. Do you hear that.
Speaker 3: Now, Well, they passed a law that because there's actually,
Speaker 3: like CDC, there's research that obviously shows how damaging social
Speaker 3: media is to teenagers, and they just passed a law
Speaker 3: in Utah where now you have to be eighteen and up.
Speaker 1: It's like cigarettes to access it, except it's not like
Speaker 1: cigarettes because your parents can give you permission, but you
Speaker 1: have to like get your identity verified and all of
Speaker 1: that before you can even get on, like Instagram, YouTube,
Speaker 1: TikTok any of that stuff. It's the most restrictive ban
Speaker 1: I think out of all the states, and I think
Speaker 1: like California has some kind of rule. But I don't know.
Speaker 1: I feel like we're definitely and when the TikTok, I
Speaker 1: don't know, you probably missed all of it, but TikTok
Speaker 1: I did CEO was on, you know, getting grilled by
Speaker 1: Congress and stuff is on his way talk Talk talk out.
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's uh. I mean, it's funny because
Speaker 1: I understand that the national security issue and all that,
Speaker 1: but I'm like, what are we giving them exactly? Like
Speaker 1: I really like recipes that I'm never gonna cook, and
Speaker 1: I save a lot of them. That's like the information
Speaker 1: China will get about me. But anyway, it makes me think,
Speaker 1: like I don't know how you and Superman did it
Speaker 1: with Alyssa, but I and I'm gonna have two boys.
Speaker 1: But still like I'm I'm leaning more on the side
Speaker 1: of like really conservative with social media for my kids.
Speaker 1: So I don't really know how to feel as a parent.
Speaker 1: I'm like, we need something, but like total restriction, you know,
Speaker 1: until you're eighteen. I don't I don't know what the
Speaker 1: right answer is.
Speaker 2: I know the rule with Alyssa is that Jarelle and
Speaker 2: Chante said up for her was that she can't be
Speaker 2: on a social platform that they're not on and they
Speaker 2: have to have.
Speaker 1: Full access, like I'll your password and tell what like.
Speaker 2: And then also too, I need we need to be friends.
Speaker 1: Oh that's the other thing in Utah. Your parents get
Speaker 1: access to everything. Yeah, so if you get on it,
Speaker 1: they can access all your content, your messages, you know,
Speaker 1: everything that you're looking at.
Speaker 2: Because sometimes you try to post a little something cute,
Speaker 2: her little belly shirt out what she got snatched up
Speaker 2: so quick.
Speaker 1: We were all like all the aunties.
Speaker 2: I was like, screenshots, screenshot screen, I got somebody screenshots,
Speaker 2: I said.
Speaker 1: We said, I write to shant like I'm blocking everybody else.
Speaker 1: Say you won't or.
Speaker 2: You'll be blocked off ticktoxis, you know, and so yeah,
Speaker 2: because I mean that's really what you have to do,
Speaker 2: Like I mean, because you know, I mean it would
Speaker 2: be nice to say you can't use it, but then
Speaker 2: the kids will sneak.
Speaker 1: So you're not a thousand percent yes, but.
Speaker 2: Her mom is honestly like they have such a great
Speaker 2: relationship and so her mom is really good at keeping
Speaker 2: up with like the teen t if you will, because
Speaker 2: she works for the Water of Education and so like
Speaker 2: she's one of you know, you ever have somebody that
Speaker 2: works in your building and everybody loves them. They're like,
Speaker 2: we all love Missachisaj and they just tell all they
Speaker 2: business like and then I'm dating and then so that's
Speaker 2: her mom anyway. So that's the way she relay on.
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, that's the way she relates.
Speaker 2: So she'd be like, girl, I heard that Denise and
Speaker 2: Dennis are not talking, yes, and then you know, so
Speaker 2: that's how she connects to be like and that's why
Speaker 2: you can't go to that party. Yeah, So she's honestly,
Speaker 2: her mom was awesome. Like I tell her all the time,
Speaker 2: You're such an awesome mom, because it's not easy. Alissa
Speaker 2: is sixteen, and you know, like to be able to
Speaker 2: stay like I have this mam authority. Like for example,
Speaker 2: she was like, oh, my my friend who's seventeen is
Speaker 2: having a birthday, like weekend, she went to an Airbnb
Speaker 2: and she wants to all to come. I was like, sis,
Speaker 2: I what now at airbnb? So you can come back
Speaker 2: with a baby.
Speaker 1: No, no.
Speaker 2: I was like, girl, Draking is taken. I was like, uh,
Speaker 2: did you tell your mom? She's like I did. She
Speaker 2: was staying with me like for like the last week
Speaker 2: and a half, so of course I was having her
Speaker 2: that weekend that she was trying to go to this airbnb.
Speaker 2: I was like, you told your mom? She said, it's fine.
Speaker 2: I'm like, sis, I said, let's call her together. Like
Speaker 2: I said, I said, Listen could go to this airbnb.
Speaker 2: She said I did not. She's like mine, you said,
Speaker 2: I said no, no, you told me about it, And
Speaker 2: I said what she said, yeah, but you didn't say no.
Speaker 1: So well, I was like, not looking for a loophole,
Speaker 1: and so in the contract it was so obviously she
Speaker 1: did not go.
Speaker 2: First of all, when I looked at the Airbn meet girl,
Speaker 2: it looked like a trap house.
Speaker 1: I was like, first of all, who rented this? It's
Speaker 1: in newark On like D Block.
Speaker 2: I'm like, was it friends kids or yeah? Like seven
Speaker 2: like some her friend is turning seventeen or eighteen. Maybe
Speaker 2: Souselsta's sixteen turning seventeen, but she's young for her grade,
Speaker 2: you know, so.
Speaker 1: So either way, ready for those kinds of chats Hell
Speaker 1: to the now No.
Speaker 2: I mean, like, you know, your little girlfriends can come
Speaker 2: here whatever, but I'm like an airbnbsist for the weekend. No, yeah, no, And.
Speaker 1: That comes from I think the kids watching like MTV
Speaker 1: and did they watch TV? I sound so fuck at
Speaker 1: all seeing on TikTok like the group Vak's and like
Speaker 1: all that, which is all fun wait for college, you know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but also too, it didn't even look I said,
Speaker 2: you're not gonna have fun there.
Speaker 1: That place looks ghetto. I was like, this is this, this.
Speaker 2: Is run down. I could see it like, you know,
Speaker 2: like the girl's mom had rented some beautiful place and
Speaker 2: blah blah blah. You know, but that's not the case here.
Speaker 2: So anyway, the answer was no, you know so, but
Speaker 2: that's why it's important you have those conversations, all the stakeholders,
Speaker 2: all the you know, like I have, like a really,
Speaker 2: I've always had a great relationship with Alyssa's mom. You know,
Speaker 2: it's even better now. Honestly, we're even closer now. And
Speaker 2: so I'm always like, girl, I don't even know why
Speaker 2: you're trying to cause it's a phone call away. We
Speaker 2: could text your mom at today exactly. But yeah, but this,
Speaker 2: I have to say this sabbatical. When I tell you
Speaker 2: so recharging, so resetting, I'm so glad I still have
Speaker 2: another full week. I'm just USA time. And it took
Speaker 2: me a while. So I was telling doctor Green, my
Speaker 2: my amazing therapist, like I feel bad because I'm not
Speaker 2: doing anything. She was like, doing nothing is doing something,
Speaker 2: you know, because I just feel like, you know, like
Speaker 2: I should be doing all this stuff. She's like, no,
Speaker 2: that that's literally the point, Tiffany, Like you next month,
Speaker 2: you can go right back to doing whatever. But like
Speaker 2: it's you know, you went to Egypt for the first
Speaker 2: two weeks, and then the last three weeks you've just
Speaker 2: been walking, reading, therapy, hanging out with family and friends.
Speaker 1: That's it.
Speaker 2: And so it's like it's a lot, that's the point
Speaker 2: of it. So it's hard not to feel guilty about
Speaker 2: not being quote unquote productive, but I'm really trying.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we all need to like break that cycle. My
Speaker 1: therapist has the same things. And that's why, Like before
Speaker 1: I went on vacation, I was trying to pep talk myself,
Speaker 1: like sometimes all stress about not doing vacation, right, Like,
Speaker 1: am I going to enjoy it enough? I'm i gonna
Speaker 1: enjoy it the right way? Am I going to be
Speaker 1: on my phone too much? Like and even that, I
Speaker 1: was like, girl, just go and do whatever you feel
Speaker 1: like doing. But my favorite thing is silence. And this
Speaker 1: place was like had all these little nooks and crannies
Speaker 1: and hidden little pools and hidden you know, natury areas
Speaker 1: to go sit. And I read a whole book. By
Speaker 1: the way, if y'all need a good beach, read black Cake.
Speaker 1: You were talking about Inheritance, and I was thinking about
Speaker 1: the book I read. It's called black Cake. By dang it,
Speaker 1: I should have looked at the author, but it's really good.
Speaker 1: It's about a I don't know if she's actually they
Speaker 1: don't even mention what island she's from, but a woman
Speaker 1: from the island who leaves her son and daughter a
Speaker 1: cake in the freezer. Like they call it black cake,
Speaker 1: but I think we know it as rum cake and
Speaker 1: like all of her dirty secrets from her childhood. It's
Speaker 1: so good. So get y'all a good book, whether it's
Speaker 1: a bench at the park or somewhere. But yeah, I agree,
Speaker 1: And you come back to like springtime. I love that
Speaker 1: came back and it felt like things were blooming and
Speaker 1: my baby bump is blooming, that's for sure. How you
Speaker 1: feeling huge? We keeps saying I'm cute. I'm like, I
Speaker 1: hate the cute stage of pregnancy. You don't call me cute, no,
Speaker 1: but you do look really cute.
Speaker 2: I mean some people have a hard look when it
Speaker 2: comes for You're like Chad, But I'm like, really, your
Speaker 2: mother having glowy?
Speaker 1: Your hair is all cute, your face is all glowy.
Speaker 1: I mean, okay, I'll take it, but I will say
Speaker 1: as someone who I finally approached that age. Maybe it's
Speaker 1: a pregnancy, but I've never felt more confident in a
Speaker 1: bikini than I did on vacation this past week, never
Speaker 1: been heavier in my whole life, got this huge baby bump.
Speaker 1: But I don't know. I'm just feeling myself, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna rock this because what choice do I have.
Speaker 1: I'm not about to be out here in pants in
Speaker 1: long sleeves like I want to be at the pool
Speaker 1: all days. So it was lovely good. Now you're here
Speaker 1: for your bad confidence. Please refly. Oh well, it's so
Speaker 1: good to have you back. Should we take a quick
Speaker 1: little break? Yes, we're just easing on into this and
Speaker 1: come back with brown boost brown.
Speaker 2: Break if we ought to yes, and we're back in black.
Speaker 2: I actually have a funny well, actually it's now it's
Speaker 2: time I forgot.
Speaker 1: I was about to say still.
Speaker 2: Break up boostop break up boostop stops.
Speaker 1: You go on booth, Are you going.
Speaker 2: What you're gonna do? What you're going to.
Speaker 1: Pix?
Speaker 2: I have a super light boosty breaking, so I'll go first,
Speaker 2: and then I don't know what you have for a
Speaker 2: booty breaking. But so I got two things one and
Speaker 2: they're like both cosmetic. I think, you know, I'm not
Speaker 2: being paid, but I really liked it. So I my
Speaker 2: sister Lisa came over the other day and she was like,
Speaker 2: I've been influenced.
Speaker 1: I was like wow.
Speaker 2: She was like, I'm wearing this new almost lipstick my clinique.
Speaker 2: I had this little box. Just went to Alt today
Speaker 2: and buy it.
Speaker 1: Bought it.
Speaker 2: It's called black Honey, and the claims of fame is
Speaker 2: that whether no matter your skin color, you can wear it.
Speaker 2: It looks different and so basically it just basically enhances
Speaker 2: like your natural lip color. And I was like, so
Speaker 2: Lisa put it on and her lip color is like
Speaker 2: like slightly pinky whatever, and so like I was like, oh,
Speaker 2: and we went out to brunch and she was putting
Speaker 2: it on and this woman was like, oh my god.
Speaker 2: We were in brunch in Brooklyn.
Speaker 1: It was a sister.
Speaker 2: She was like black honey. So the woman took out
Speaker 2: her black honey put it on and hers was like
Speaker 2: more of like a reddish lip club, so like her natural.
Speaker 1: So it enhanced it.
Speaker 2: That's like, oh, that's nice. So then I just bought
Speaker 2: it today and I have to say, I like it.
Speaker 2: This is I have more of a brown like, I'm
Speaker 2: like a brownish like with the undertones of red loop colors.
Speaker 2: So it just basically enhances like this is your lip,
Speaker 2: but your lip more lipping. You know, I don't know
Speaker 2: how to explain it. So it's like it's not a
Speaker 2: lipstick and it's not a chapstick, but it feels like
Speaker 2: it feels really nice like a chapstick. So I just
Speaker 2: was like, I like it. So, I mean, it's not true.
Speaker 2: It was like twenty three dollars but whatever.
Speaker 1: So at the going rate for a good tube of yes,
Speaker 1: but I just liked it.
Speaker 2: I was just like, okay, so you know, I'm super chock.
Speaker 2: Lisa is like like maybe like a medium brown, and
Speaker 2: the other lady was like someplace in between. And then
Speaker 2: I've seen it like on all different colored girls. But
Speaker 2: I love when a product it rarely. It's like the
Speaker 2: Traveling pants, the Sisterhoods, the traveling pants.
Speaker 1: That you took my jokey joke, So this is like traveling.
Speaker 2: So yeah, so clinique almost lipstick. It's called black Honey,
Speaker 2: and so I don't know, try it. If you guys
Speaker 2: are using it, let me know. I would love to
Speaker 2: see it on you because I love that it really
Speaker 2: just like you know, like it's your color, just like
Speaker 2: I don't know, like a more enhanced version of your color,
Speaker 2: which I love because sometimes like I don't always no,
Speaker 2: not all, but I don't. Also I like wearing like
Speaker 2: a like a like the like the lip like a
Speaker 2: not necessarily lipstick, but I like wearing like these lips
Speaker 2: stains sometimes and then sometimes I like chapstick. But sometimes
Speaker 2: you just want something where you're like I want something
Speaker 2: that's me like supernatural, but not just exactly my lip color,
Speaker 2: something like more enhanced. And the second boost is child
Speaker 2: So this is gonna sound like crazy, but let's talk
Speaker 2: about ziinas so it took me.
Speaker 1: We are there's nothing off limits. In fact, part of
Speaker 1: the reason I was late was because I realized I
Speaker 1: had my underwear inside out, so I had to put
Speaker 1: them right. And I'm pregnant and it took a while
Speaker 1: to get the leggings off and let it go.
Speaker 2: So when I was in college, I'm gonna say nothing.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be careful not to like incriminate her. There
Speaker 2: was a young woman who just had like a very
Speaker 2: strong resigna older and I didn't know at the time.
Speaker 2: I know, and I realize now that it was uh
Speaker 2: that was it bacterial vagamosis or whatever that word? Yeah, BB,
Speaker 2: basically that's the right. So I didn't know at the time.
Speaker 2: It was just like and I didn't know her well
Speaker 2: enough to say because she was just on the floor,
Speaker 2: lived on the floor.
Speaker 1: And no, this is not me.
Speaker 2: But I remember thinking, I I grew up in to
Speaker 2: have My mom's a nurse, and I have four sisters,
Speaker 2: and so she was very adamant about teaching us this
Speaker 2: is how you clean yourself, This is how you clean yourself,
Speaker 2: you know, and especially like after we got our cycles
Speaker 2: for the first time, you know, Like, but I remember
Speaker 2: when that happened because she was this pretty girl and
Speaker 2: she didn't want to have like any boyfriends. She didn't
Speaker 2: she just had a really hard time. And you know,
Speaker 2: you're so young. I didn't know like what. I honestly
Speaker 2: just thought, well, don't you just clean yourself? And you don't,
Speaker 2: you know, But I remember it was then that I
Speaker 2: became super vigilant about finding the right thing to clean
Speaker 2: like myself, because I just remember being terrified that that's
Speaker 2: what happens when you maybe are not using the right
Speaker 2: so right, you know, and you tried all this stuff
Speaker 2: that just totally just like and you're not supposed to
Speaker 2: put down there. So I remember my friend who's West
Speaker 2: India put me onto this thing called debt tall, which
Speaker 2: is like literally like putting bleach. I was like, girl, Yes,
Speaker 2: it was such a strong Now what staying need a
Speaker 2: dead talp? They like detalp for everything. They use de
Speaker 2: tal to lie.
Speaker 1: You're supposed to like not use anything because you're you're
Speaker 1: unless I mean, that's a condition. You need to see
Speaker 1: a doctor, yes, so they say, but but I will say,
Speaker 1: so I've always.
Speaker 2: Tried, like I liked, I was using doctor Bronner's with
Speaker 2: set Pepperman be tangling in ways that feel like y'all.
Speaker 1: But I love the natural bacterium, I will say lately,
Speaker 1: I love this one.
Speaker 2: This is a black owned woman brand like back owned
Speaker 2: is that? And I think we've we actually had them, like,
Speaker 2: I think we need to get them back. This is
Speaker 2: our money, to our our producer. We need to get
Speaker 2: them back as people that you know, pay us for
Speaker 2: like ads. But I will say, honey.
Speaker 1: Pot, girl, honeypot, when I tell you, I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 2: When they first brought us honeypot, it was the was
Speaker 2: it the pads they gave us, And I was not
Speaker 2: a fan, you know, like as a girl who wars pads,
Speaker 2: I've never used tampon like I was like, yeah, so
Speaker 2: then I never I honestly never explored anything else honeypot,
Speaker 2: until I think, I want to say, I think they
Speaker 2: sponsored us again or something like that. But they have
Speaker 2: a wash like a foaming wash, huh knee or squirrel
Speaker 2: because I'm super sensitive my skin everything, so I use
Speaker 2: the sensitive foaming wash everything, and then the wipes, oh
Speaker 2: my gosh, like and I use the sensitive wipes too everything,
Speaker 2: and then they have like a like a sensitive spray
Speaker 2: but when I tell you, even during your cycle, even
Speaker 2: after your cycle, when your least feeling your least fresh,
Speaker 2: You're like, girl, is this like it is honestly when
Speaker 2: I say life changing, because like I said, I'm someone
Speaker 2: who's just clean, clean, cleaning, but always felt like I
Speaker 2: could do better. It could be I mean it, I
Speaker 2: mean even after working out. Like what I love most
Speaker 2: about honeypot is the last thing effects because you do
Speaker 2: your thing, you know, use your foaming wash, you know,
Speaker 2: you wipe with the wipes, you spray, and then you
Speaker 2: can work out and then be done with the workout
Speaker 2: and you don't smell like don't.
Speaker 1: With the workout, if you know what I mean. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, and that's kind of like shower properly, yes.
Speaker 2: You know, but it just doesn't or just like before
Speaker 2: you even get home or whatever. But it just because
Speaker 2: usually that's when you're like, well this is natural, girl,
Speaker 2: I just worked out. It's just you know, but no,
Speaker 2: I don't know what they put in that thing that
Speaker 2: what sorcery. Her name is Beatrice, but it is amazing, amazing, amazing. Yeah,
Speaker 2: So like I use, like I said, my favorite is
Speaker 2: the foaming watch, which I use every morning when I
Speaker 2: take a shower, and even if I take a shower,
Speaker 2: I use the wipes, especially during cycle time because that's
Speaker 2: when you're most you know, not as fresh.
Speaker 1: And then that's one of my favorite pregnancy symptoms.
Speaker 2: And no way, and then I use this breastfeeding.
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh two years no periods, sun me up
Speaker 1: for it. Oh really when you breastfeed, when you breastfeed, yeah,
Speaker 1: which does not mean that you can't get pregnant. Do
Speaker 1: not make that mistake because because we have a kids,
Speaker 1: met you together exactly, I'm not no Irish twins here,
Speaker 1: but yeah you do. I just will say that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just have to say, honestly, honey pot, it's
Speaker 2: for the wind. I have never felt fresher like I've
Speaker 2: met there.
Speaker 1: We ain't getting paid for this, I know. I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying they need to, but it was.
Speaker 2: Just so good.
Speaker 1: I just had to. Like, I just was like, like this.
Speaker 2: Is when I was using that, I said, I got
Speaker 2: to talk about honeypot, because.
Speaker 1: That's right here. It's just too giffing out that shower.
Speaker 2: So and you don't understand, like I'm someone who breaks
Speaker 2: out for everything, like literally if I use a new
Speaker 2: lip gloss. My lips will break down if I use
Speaker 2: a new face, walk my face, Like I'm I have
Speaker 2: super I'm sensitive to I'm alert to black hair dye.
Speaker 2: I dyed my hair once and my whole heart story, yes,
Speaker 2: and so like I'm somebody who is hyper sensitive to everything.
Speaker 2: I guess that's why I'm so excited, because I'm like,
Speaker 2: everything makes me break out, everything makes me and so
Speaker 2: to be able to use this, and also that it's
Speaker 2: a black woman on brand, I just and I'm not
Speaker 2: gonna lie. They did her dirty when some random TikToker
Speaker 2: posted a video about like, hey, they changed the formula
Speaker 2: and didn't tell us, which is not true. They did,
Speaker 2: and they dragged her and almost destroyed her business, and
Speaker 2: I'm just like that, Yeah, it was really really really ugly,
Speaker 2: and I just was like, you know, you know that
Speaker 2: was wrong and two and it was also untrue, and
Speaker 2: so three, I know they're not paying us, but I
Speaker 2: just want to say, like, you know, I've met Beachess
Speaker 2: a couple of times. She's super dope and also too,
Speaker 2: like you know, it's it's the stuff actually works. So
Speaker 2: that's that's your little kudos. But Bencher's girl, let us sponsor,
Speaker 2: give us some sponsorship money, chet because I could talk
Speaker 2: about vagina's every week if you need us to.
Speaker 1: I think it's a good moment to call back our
Speaker 1: recent episode where we had a vagina doctor what was
Speaker 1: her name, that's not her actual title, but she got
Speaker 1: me following, yes, Jennifer something. What was it, oh, discover her,
Speaker 1: discover her or something like that. Yeah. Well yeah, anyway,
Speaker 1: it's an awesome episode. It was Valentine's Day, That's what
Speaker 1: it was, yes, V Day, the vagina episode. Please go
Speaker 1: back and educate yourselves, Okay, no matter how you identify.
Speaker 2: So that's my boost. Look, my boos deals with both
Speaker 2: lips and up to our our producer. Please do not
Speaker 2: use it as a clip because I was like, first
Speaker 2: of all during the V Day episod, so Imani had
Speaker 2: the nerve to use the clip where I was like,
Speaker 2: I pee on myself.
Speaker 1: I's just struggling body, so funny. Yeah, I had nothing
Speaker 1: to do with that.
Speaker 2: I said, not the peepe confession as the clip for
Speaker 2: social media, but.
Speaker 1: Whatever, it is what it is. But I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 1: you to pick somebody else, so are you boosting or breaking? Well,
Speaker 1: let me go ahead and boost for the book that
Speaker 1: I found out the author. So the author is a
Speaker 1: black woman. Her name is Charmaine wuckle Sent Wilkerson. The
Speaker 1: book is Black Cake. I got it at Target in
Speaker 1: paperback and that thing looks like I use and abuse it.
Speaker 1: I read it so fast in the pool. But an
Speaker 1: awesome book featuring some really like strong black female characters.
Speaker 1: So if you're into that, definitely pick that book up
Speaker 1: this summer. And then my other, my other boost because
Speaker 1: I have mom brain. I need to go to my
Speaker 1: notes and you know, oh, I wanted to give a
Speaker 1: boost to myself because so I one of the things
Speaker 1: I did before I went on vacation was I did
Speaker 1: my first ever in person Mandy Money like I thought,
Speaker 1: which was a couple of weeks ago, but I want
Speaker 1: to mention it because I have just started. It's been
Speaker 1: a couple of weeks and I've started to get the
Speaker 1: emails like I met you there and here's this opportunity,
Speaker 1: and here's this you know, like the fun, the fun
Speaker 1: part and the reason why you sometimes do things for
Speaker 1: free or things that you're kind of scared of. But yeah,
Speaker 1: just shout out to that. And also I've found out
Speaker 1: about this conference I don't feel like through an ad
Speaker 1: on IG or something like that, or I saw it
Speaker 1: in an email, like a random email and I wasn't
Speaker 1: on a list of speakers and I checked them out
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, April Ryan's gonna be the keynote,
Speaker 1: and she was awesome and it was local to me.
Speaker 1: And I just use my journalism skills. I've tracked down
Speaker 1: every organizer I could find, found them on LinkedIn, found
Speaker 1: their IG, found their email, hit them up everywhere, Like
Speaker 1: so I have this great workshop. I do it virtually,
Speaker 1: but I'd love to do it at your conference. And
Speaker 1: they just added me to the roster. Yes, just because
Speaker 1: I asked, and you know, put myself there, put myself
Speaker 1: out there. So yeah, for anyone. And I say it
Speaker 1: all the time, like if you're wanting exposure or experience
Speaker 1: public speaking, you can't. I mean, it's great when they
Speaker 1: come to you, but also like do what you can
Speaker 1: to make connections so that you know you can get
Speaker 1: a chance like get on a panel or you know,
Speaker 1: be seen. And I just told myself, this is a
Speaker 1: conference with hundreds of badass entrepreneur women, there's going to
Speaker 1: be someone there who maybe I could work with you
Speaker 1: know down the line. So it was such a great
Speaker 1: little event and I was just proud of myself.
Speaker 2: And you spoke to my dream Catchers when I was away.
Speaker 1: I did did they have any did they come to
Speaker 1: you and give you my grade? I was like, I
Speaker 1: have an out. Okay, you're right, You're right, You're right. No,
Speaker 1: it was so No, it was so good. I mean,
Speaker 1: I know they loved you.
Speaker 2: But I told my team, I said, unless it's Settle
Speaker 2: Boum myer Opraha, zon't.
Speaker 1: Hit me up.
Speaker 2: When I say I have no idea what's going on
Speaker 2: the business, I said, I don't want to know.
Speaker 1: Well, Logan Rose, the whole team, especially Logan. I had
Speaker 1: a call with her. I talked to your SEO people
Speaker 1: while you were gone. They got it going on, you
Speaker 1: know they do. Please I trust them.
Speaker 2: They're good. I was like, no, that's the point. If
Speaker 2: I can't trust my team, what am I doing? So
Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't need a blow by blow whatever.
Speaker 2: It's cute when people hit me up and they're like, oh,
Speaker 2: like I think NPR reached out. They want to do
Speaker 2: like an interview or something like on a Saturday. And
Speaker 2: I was like, okay, you talking about was on sabbatical.
Speaker 2: I could do it and April, I mean it's dog
Speaker 2: don't get me wrong, but I was like no, because
Speaker 2: that's the point of sabbatical. You say no to everything
Speaker 2: unless it's Oprah, oh, Michelle Obama, you know. But other
Speaker 2: than that, I'm like now because then you start making
Speaker 2: allowances for all these other random things and it's like no, no, no,
Speaker 2: that's not breaking where breaking is about?
Speaker 1: So well, let me know you still got some time.
Speaker 1: We should we do another like Brown Ambition Summit at
Speaker 1: the at the Spa, because like, I got time this week.
Speaker 1: Just let me know. My back is. I got a
Speaker 1: I got a delightful massage in Costa Rica, but you know,
Speaker 1: the plane and a toddler. Three days later I needed again.
Speaker 1: I needed a can Oh. But yeah, I guess that's
Speaker 1: the show. Good to get back, Good to have y'all back.
Speaker 2: We'll see you next week, y'all.
Speaker 1: Hey ba fam, we could not do this show without
Speaker 1: your support or the support of our team behind the scenes.
Speaker 1: The Brown Ambition podcast is produced by Imani Crosby and
Speaker 1: Dennis Stanplinsky is our in house tech guru. I am
Speaker 1: your co host Mandy woodrif Santos and we will see
Speaker 1: y'all next week. BA FAM