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Speaker 1: It is the Strawberry Letter. Subject. I am emotionally drained.

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Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a forty two year old single

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Speaker 1: mother of a son that is twenty years old. My

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Speaker 1: son's girlfriend just had a baby that is fair skinned,

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Speaker 1: and they both are chocolate. The girl is twenty one

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Speaker 1: and a dancer at a bar across town. She says

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Speaker 1: she's not a stripper, but that's all she says. My

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Speaker 1: son is afraid to ask the girl for a paternity test,

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Speaker 1: so I did. When my son went to visit the baby,

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Speaker 1: she jumped on him and then called me and said,

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Speaker 1: if I keep putting my son up to this foolishness,

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Speaker 1: I would be next. I called her mother, who happens

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Speaker 1: to go to church with me, and I told her

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Speaker 1: that her daughter is disrespectful. She was not happy about

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Speaker 1: the phone call and asked if we could talk in person,

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Speaker 1: so I invited her over. She pulled up and ran

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Speaker 1: up to my door and yelled for me to come outside.

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Speaker 1: She jumped on me when I got in the front yard.

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Speaker 1: I'm not a fighter, so we rolled around in the

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Speaker 1: yard while I kept begging her to stop pulling my hair.

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Speaker 1: My neighbor broke us up and I ran inside. I

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Speaker 1: called my son and he called his girlfriend on a

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Speaker 1: beat up. I reported the incident to the police, and

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Speaker 1: they wouldn't come out to do a report because it

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Speaker 1: was between my son and his girlfriend. I just don't

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Speaker 1: want my son to be caught up with a baby

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Speaker 1: that isn't his. I told my son that we'll just

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Speaker 1: get the baby one day and do a paternity test ourselves.

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Speaker 1: Now it's like my son is turning against me and

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Speaker 1: telling me to stay out of his business. I got

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Speaker 1: beat up for him, and this is how he repays me.

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Speaker 1: It's emotionally draining and I only want what's best for him.

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Speaker 1: Now he's planning to move in with this abusive woman

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Speaker 1: and ruin his life. Am I supposed to step aside

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Speaker 1: and let this girl and her mother make a fool

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Speaker 1: out of my son? What can I do to shake

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Speaker 1: some sense into him? Well? I don't know if there's

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Speaker 1: anything you can do. You know, much more than what

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Speaker 1: you've been doing right now, you know, unless you bring

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Speaker 1: his dad into it or something. But you already said

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Speaker 1: you're a single mother of this son. I know as

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Speaker 1: a mom this is hard, and it's going to continue

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Speaker 1: to be hard to what your son get sucked in

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Speaker 1: like this, But that's exactly what you're gonna have to do.

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Speaker 1: Step aside. You've tried everything, You've tried everything else. Nothing

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Speaker 1: has worked for you. So unless you want to get

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Speaker 1: another beat down from his crazy girlfriend and like you say,

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Speaker 1: her and her mother make a fool out of you

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Speaker 1: and all of that, you're gonna have to do just

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Speaker 1: what they say. Mind your own business. At this point,

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Speaker 1: we know you love your son and you only want

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Speaker 1: the best for him, that's quite obvious. But right now,

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Speaker 1: this stripper is his world. He's sprung, he's whipped all

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Speaker 1: of the above, and he's trying not to hear anything

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Speaker 1: you His mom have to say. And as much as

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Speaker 1: this hurts, sometimes you just have to let go and

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Speaker 1: let people learn their lessons themselves, because he's not listening

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Speaker 1: right now to you. He's not listening to what you

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Speaker 1: have to say. Experience is always the best teacher. Later on,

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Speaker 1: if he finds out that the baby's not his and

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Speaker 1: he's being played by this girl. I mean, so we

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Speaker 1: don't even know that. I mean, you know, he might

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Speaker 1: still want to be with her, you know, that's the

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Speaker 1: other thing. He might still want to be with her

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Speaker 1: and help her raise the child. And yes, you could

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Speaker 1: get the baby and get the paternity to test on

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Speaker 1: your own. You could do all of that, but you

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Speaker 1: might lose your son in the process. But you've lost

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Speaker 1: him already to this girl for right now anyway. So yeah, mom,

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Speaker 1: I think you've done all you can. And your son

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Speaker 1: and that's really messed up. Well, I read a different letter,

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Speaker 1: seems like so, I guess I always see some higness.

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Speaker 1: So I have a couple of questions. Now, she's emostally drained.

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Speaker 1: It's a forty two year old single mother's son is twenty.

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Speaker 1: Your son's girlfriend just had a baby that's fast skin

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Speaker 1: and they both are chocolate. Now, listen, we all know that,

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Speaker 1: you know, through the chromosomes and all that stuff, that

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Speaker 1: you can skip a generation and look like a grandmother

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Speaker 1: on or something different colors. But we got to look

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Speaker 1: into this though. Two chocolate people having a light skinned baby.

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Speaker 1: We need to look into this. I understand the girl

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Speaker 1: is twenty one and a huh, you don't add up

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Speaker 1: on it. I know, we got to look into it now.

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Speaker 1: It's girl is twenty one and a dancer at a

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Speaker 1: bar across town. She says she's not a stripper. Let's

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Speaker 1: discuss this for a minnie. Yeah, if you're a dancer

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Speaker 1: got to take your clothes off because I ain't go

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Speaker 1: go boots. I ain't seen him in stores no more

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Speaker 1: with the mini skirts, So I'm pretty show you're stripper.

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Speaker 1: My son is afraid to ask this girl for a

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Speaker 1: paternity test. So I did. Then when your son went

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Speaker 1: to visit the baby, she jumped on him and then

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Speaker 1: called me and said, I keep putting my son up

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Speaker 1: to this foolishness. I would be next. Okay, so she

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Speaker 1: and the hit a good part. I call it mother

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Speaker 1: who happens to go to church with me, and I

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Speaker 1: told her that her daughter is disrespectful. Now see, listen

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Speaker 1: it could go two ways. After he called the lady,

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Speaker 1: she called the lady to go to church with her

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Speaker 1: and told her that her daughter is disrespectful. She was

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking right here, she's talking about the girl's mother.

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Speaker 1: That's what I was thinking. That she was talking about

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Speaker 1: the girl's mother. She called on the phone and talked

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Speaker 1: to in person. And when I come back, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: tell you what I think happened. All right, We'll have

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Speaker 1: part two of Steve's response coming up. Twenty three minutes

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Speaker 1: after Strawberry letter, subject I am emotionally drained. We'll get

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Speaker 1: back into it. Right after this you're listening show. All right,

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Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter, the subject

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Speaker 1: I am emotionally drained. All right. We got a forty

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Speaker 1: two year old ladies, got a twenty year old son

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Speaker 1: that's dating a stripple who says she's not a stripple.

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Speaker 1: She's a dancer at a ball. I don't know who

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Speaker 1: keep that clothes on anymore these days while they dancing

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Speaker 1: in balls. But how most of the women that go

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Speaker 1: so I already know if you're a dancer, you got

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Speaker 1: Son is afraid to ask. They had a light skinned

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Speaker 1: ask her the paternity tests. So you asked the girl

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Speaker 1: for a paternity test. When your son went over that

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Speaker 1: pick up the baby, the girl jumped on him and said,

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Speaker 1: couldn't letting your mama put stuff like this in your head,

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Speaker 1: And then told her, mama, if you keep interfitting my business,

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Speaker 1: you're gonna be next. So the lady who's forty two

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Speaker 1: called her mother, the stripper's mama, who happens to go

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Speaker 1: invited her over. Now right here, I'm thinking, this is

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Speaker 1: all she's talking to the stripper's mother. She pulled up,

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Speaker 1: ran to my door and yelled for me to come outside. Now,

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Speaker 1: if this is not the mother, if this is the stripper,

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Speaker 1: then we're dealing with the people. That person that don't

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Speaker 1: that's confusing. No, I don't, I think. See, I'm thinking

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Speaker 1: she's talking about the girl's mother according to this letter

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Speaker 1: so far, but then later on she changes it. It

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Speaker 1: makes it sound like it was a little girl that

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Speaker 1: letter anyway, That's all I'm saying. So when she came,

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Speaker 1: she told you to yell it for you to come outside.

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Speaker 1: She jumped on me when I got in the front yard. Now,

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Speaker 1: I'm not a fighter, So we rolled around in the

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Speaker 1: let me teach yourself, man, begging is not a good

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Speaker 1: fight technique. It usually does not work out for the

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Speaker 1: big up because it empowers the person that's issue in

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Speaker 1: him with Please please stop you kicking me. You're whipping

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Speaker 1: my ass too good. This is this is not what

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Speaker 1: I do. I'm not a fighter. So it makes them

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Speaker 1: go harder because oh yeah, I'm knocking the ass out.

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Speaker 1: So I would just suggest that next time you get

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Speaker 1: They don't need a big and ant take the ass.

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Speaker 1: Who one or the other? Pie, get your ass, get

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Speaker 1: your ass whipping. Stop this bagging quietly, nothing to do

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Speaker 1: this to be shame me and bass me. Why you

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Speaker 1: She got hard too. She grabbing your heir, you grab her.

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Speaker 1: Hell anyway, my neighbor broke us up and I ran inside.

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Speaker 1: Because we ran into the house and got the girl

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Speaker 1: the yard still fighting the mama. See. So I reported

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Speaker 1: to do a report because of between my son and

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Speaker 1: his girlfriend. This is another piece of important information. Anytime

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Speaker 1: handle a domestic dispute that was a fight, you must

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Speaker 1: And then she says, and they wouldn't come out because

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Speaker 1: isn't his. I understand that. I told my son would

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Speaker 1: just get the baby one day and do the paternity

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Speaker 1: test ourselves. Now it's like my son is turning against

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Speaker 1: Well you should. I got beat up for him, and

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Speaker 1: this is how he repays me. No, you got beat

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Speaker 1: come out here, No, no, me me in the front them.

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Speaker 1: It's fighting words. Why did you take your non fighting

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Speaker 1: her churchhoop her. Shirley, stop saying the girl. That's what

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Speaker 1: shake them? Said? All right, First of all, it means

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Speaker 1: playing some too. This is not going to ruin your

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Speaker 1: son's life. This is a lesson that both of you.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna have to let him learn. Like Shirley said,

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Speaker 1: the best lesson is a bout lesson. You're gonna let

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Speaker 1: him have to buy this one. Let him go move

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Speaker 1: in with the girl. You be a loving grandmother. When

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Speaker 1: the baby come over, swab the baby mouth, put the

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Speaker 1: swab in a plastic bag and get a damn DNA test.

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Speaker 1: Then when the result come back, don't say nothing gils

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Speaker 1: just leave. Getting copies of it and posted on Facebook.

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Speaker 1: Let the church say many man, thank you for calling,

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