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Speaker 1: We're just four three. What's up, y'all? It's your girl

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Speaker 1: tuned in to another episode of poor Mind. We're a

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Speaker 1: drunk mind speaks sober thought. I'm a little tims already too.

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Speaker 1: I'm dead. How was your week? How was your weak?

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Speaker 1: My week was good. I just got back. Where'd you know?

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Speaker 1: Sneaky link? Come on, Joe Basness, do you want to

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Speaker 1: talk about it? Tell the girls what you did? I

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Speaker 1: just said it was a sneaky link, So they mean

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Speaker 1: it was sneaky? Well you know where I was at. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I just don't know if you wanted to share. Oh damn,

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Speaker 1: well I don't. So for me, my my roster is

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Speaker 1: still clear. I'm really not fucking with nobody right now.

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Speaker 1: Like I haven't been sucking out dig I ain't been

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Speaker 1: fucking and even none of that going on. Like I

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Speaker 1: really don't got no nigga right now. So you know what,

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Speaker 1: And this is what I wanted to say. It's crazy

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Speaker 1: because I mean it's not depressing. I just feel like

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Speaker 1: I'm focused on myself. Are you because you just told

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Speaker 1: me that she was focused on somebody else? Well, well,

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Speaker 1: that's not true, is it?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 1: I was just joking, joking. I mean, if he wouldn't

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Speaker 1: let me, I will Anyway. What I'm saying is, you

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Speaker 1: know the girls are always asking us where to find

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Speaker 1: BDB and they're like, oh, where can I find a man?

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Speaker 1: You know what? I really realized, y'all need to be

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Speaker 1: asking y'all guys friends, Like every time I feel like,

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Speaker 1: how would they know? I mean because a lot of

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Speaker 3: That is true, cause niggas like niggas more than niggas

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Speaker 3: with money more than the be She's.

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Speaker 1: Exactly, that's my bro. We working like.

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Speaker 3: They be excited they.

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Speaker 1: Know what niggas be at. And I was like, because

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Speaker 1: Jazz bo well Jazz has a boot And I was like, man,

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Speaker 1: you got any friends? What's up? Put me down? I

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Speaker 1: see that's the thing about me. I'm asking nigga to

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Speaker 3: You gotta That's that's why it's like, are you really

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Speaker 1: This is some bull sheet that you feed into the people.

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Speaker 1: I just want a little friend a little friend. No,

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Speaker 1: you don't have drinks with and no I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: suck him. You want to fuck You're right, but I'm

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Speaker 1: being like celibate right now, like I'm not doing anything.

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Speaker 1: Gardfield is dusty hun. She ain't getting no love. I

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Speaker 1: don't even to blow it off. Look every time like

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Speaker 1: I get out my vibrator, Gardfield is like again, a

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Speaker 1: But like I said, I feel like that's gonna work out,

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Speaker 1: Like you know what asked? He was like, man, I

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Speaker 1: got somebody for you. He got money. He cool, So

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Speaker 1: I might have a date this week. We're gonna see.

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Speaker 3: I got a few niggas on my roster right now, everybody,

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Speaker 3: I'm dead.

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Speaker 1: So let's get into these topics today. I wanted to

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Speaker 1: talk about this because I feel like this is an

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Speaker 1: issue I always have with Daty now. We talked about

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Speaker 1: this on a past episode. Because it's a good thing

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Speaker 1: being the fun girl, but I feel like it's a

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Speaker 1: what like, okay, so you beat the fun girl, right,

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Speaker 1: You always turned up always in a good mood, your

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well we talked about this, Like I feel like

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Speaker 1: And then but it's like, what's the point if you're

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Speaker 3: But it's because you can still fuck with the fun

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Speaker 1: Who you can always depend on? But the fun girl

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Speaker 1: That has nothing to do with it. I just like

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Speaker 3: But I depend on me. I mean, like you can't

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Speaker 1: Bullshit and stuff.

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Speaker 3: I'm just saying that's why I said a nigga can't

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Speaker 1: On a fun girl.

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Speaker 3: A fun girl is going to do what have fun

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Speaker 3: and when it's no longer fun. So I heard she

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Speaker 3: They gonna hold their nigga down no matter what.

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Speaker 1: But but why does the fund have to stop? Though, I'm

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Speaker 3: But it be because of the man. Right most of

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Speaker 3: the time, I feel like I feel like sometimes it

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Speaker 3: be on both ends. It could be for numerous different reasons.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I just feel like I'm the type

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Speaker 3: Like if we're not having fun and you start doing bullshet,

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Speaker 3: I'm leaving.

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Speaker 1: You're not gonna hold a nigga down.

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Speaker 3: It depends on what he doing. It's certain shit, I'm leaving,

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Speaker 3: you know what I mean? Like typical little stuff like

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Speaker 3: you you're gonna go through stuff with your nigga, Like,

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Speaker 3: the relationship not gonna be perfect all the time.

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Speaker 1: We know that, you know what I mean, in order to.

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Speaker 3: Have a good, long lasting relationship, you gotta be willing

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Speaker 3: So I would do Yeah, I know, they just wouldn't

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Speaker 1: But I just I hate how societ if.

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Speaker 3: You cheating on me constantly, just all type of like

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Speaker 3: you know, you don't have no respects that type of ship.

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Speaker 3: I'm cheating constantly, like if I'm finding out constantly, absolutely.

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Speaker 1: I mean I'm doing it too.

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Speaker 3: So well see that's probably why you would say, but

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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna be cheating on my nigga. So it's

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Speaker 1: Not the Motel six, don't fuck her at the W

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Speaker 1: because I'm not condoning cheating.

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Speaker 3: Like I'm not making it seem like I'm okay with

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Speaker 1: But at the same time.

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Speaker 3: You know what I mean, nigga's gonna be niggas, So

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Speaker 3: finding But you're just out with be cheese. And why

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Speaker 1: Girl you stay, dude, everybody get cheated on.

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Speaker 3: The wet got being fun, being a fun girl does

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Speaker 3: not automatically, you know, make a nigga. I want to

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Speaker 3: cheat on you cause niggas just love new pussy. We

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Speaker 3: you know, these niggas love nu pussy. You don't matter

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Speaker 1: It's still gonna cheat.

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Speaker 3: Damn, You're just gonna come across the beach that he

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Speaker 1: I hate it here too, but it's the truth. And

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Speaker 1: I feel like we get a dumble wommy though, because

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Speaker 1: it's like, not only do niggas just always she because

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Speaker 1: and we like to enjoy it doesn't mean that we're

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Speaker 1: saying the cheating so because I have cheated before, I'm honest,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. I just suck a little

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Speaker 1: I mean, I've cheated before too. It passed.

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Speaker 3: It was very long time ago, though, but I can't

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Speaker 1: Why did you cheat? Because my nigga, Dick was tresh

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Speaker 3: I was young, but I knew that Dick was trash.

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Speaker 3: It was my high school boyfriend, and so we were

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Speaker 3: Your niggas was trying to talk to me, and shit, bitch,

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Speaker 1: So you feel guilty.

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Speaker 3: I did it, So I went ahead and broke up

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Speaker 3: But I guess he found. He gonna find out today

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Speaker 3: because everybody know I went when.

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Speaker 1: You you was just sucking dick.

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Speaker 3: I was doing a lot more than sucking dig I

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Speaker 3: think that's the worst. I think that hurts, Like imagine

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Speaker 3: like when you when a man cheating on me.

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Speaker 1: If a man, like if you cheat on a nigga,

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Speaker 1: that'd be hurt when you suck a nigga dick. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I wasn't really sucking dick like that make mean?

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Speaker 3: Or if I was, I was still doing it under

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Speaker 3: the covers, whyn't remember. Yeah, I used to be like,

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Speaker 3: if you pulled a cover back, I'm gonna stop.

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Speaker 1: Why you never was like that, You don't yes on that.

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Speaker 3: I used to be so embarrassed, Like I used to

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Speaker 1: I bet you wasn't sucking good dick that want me

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Speaker 1: to stop? Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: The very first time I suck, I did it in

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Speaker 3: a closet. No, I wasn't there for he because I told.

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Speaker 1: Him he had to leave the light sauce.

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Speaker 3: He used to wear glasses. He was with glasses on.

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Speaker 3: I used to take them off.

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Speaker 1: Them holes used to be getting foggy, and I used

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Speaker 1: But don't get it twisted. They don't realize what goes

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Speaker 1: I told you, I said it. I said one email.

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Speaker 1: She just cool to fuk on or you know, fuck whatever.

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Speaker 1: But it's crazy how people like judge people just off

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Speaker 1: People used to say that all this time. But I'll

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Speaker 1: Feeling like you ain't got nothing going on. It's fucked

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Speaker 3: Real I mean, I get it because we all don't

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Speaker 3: Then you got niggas who don't give a fuck because

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Speaker 1: That's the ones I need. Nah, you don't want it.

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Speaker 1: I had that and it was very trash, very very

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Speaker 1: if you're a fun girl. Do you feel like it's

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Speaker 1: I ain't about to stop sucking dick fuck y'all. I

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Speaker 3: Niggas whoever is meant to take me serious, it's gonna

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Speaker 1: But I think I feel like, once you get to

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Speaker 3: Once a nigga really take the time to get to

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Speaker 1: I am beautiful and never single way what can bring

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Speaker 1: me now? So I'm just saying I'm beautiful. Man got

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Speaker 1: me fucked up? They gott I'm very very deep. I

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Speaker 1: read what's that lady name? How you used to be about?

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Speaker 1: You don't even know who? Ask the poor name? My Angelou?

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Speaker 1: I read a little my Angelou? Still a rise? Still okay?

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Speaker 1: What's up? What's up with you? In a good mood?

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Speaker 3: Lightly, I have been in a great mood lately. So

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Speaker 3: why do you think I'm like, what do you think today?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 1: You do? The fuck?

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Speaker 3: Why that you do have to be playing to be

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Speaker 3: I feel like some bitches be cool with being side

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Speaker 3: I feel like I'm either gonna be your beach or

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Speaker 3: I'm not. I'm not being your side beach. I just

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Speaker 1: It's no way.

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Speaker 3: I'm knowingly knowing that a nigga has a beach and

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Speaker 1: You could never under any circumstance. How long have you

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Speaker 1: How long have you known me? Three days? Girls? Shoot

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Speaker 1: the fuck up? Anyways?

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Speaker 3: Have you ever known me to, like, meet a nigga

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Speaker 1: No, I haven't. I haven't because I'm not gonna lie

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Speaker 1: Do you feel like it was worth it? Hell? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I was like I didn't have to deal with him.

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Speaker 1: I ain't have to cook, I ain't have to clean.

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Speaker 1: I just gotta go out and have fun.

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Speaker 3: And I got ation. And so if you got a beach,

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Speaker 1: But I feel like at the time. It just worked

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Speaker 1: I like to fuck with somebody. When I wanted to

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Speaker 1: It was just like a cool little situation. Of course,

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Speaker 1: So that's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: play your role. I'm not about.

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Speaker 1: To play my mother's like I will break you in

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Speaker 1: the hell.

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Speaker 3: Up.

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Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck.

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Speaker 3: I can't call after one, I can't call the two bitch,

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Speaker 3: I'm blow on your phone.

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Speaker 1: Up. I don't give a fuck. I might even do

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Speaker 1: a papa. Not a papa. I just can't do it.

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Speaker 1: It's not for me. But I will say that a

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Speaker 1: a side beach like you gotta know how to give

436
00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:38,160
Speaker 1: your side cheek enough attention to where she doesn't even

437
00:20:38,200 --> 00:20:40,880
Speaker 1: want to do that kind of stuff. Like the way

438
00:20:41,200 --> 00:20:43,640
Speaker 1: our situation was, this is really bad and I'm opening

439
00:20:43,720 --> 00:20:44,560
Speaker 1: we talking about this.

440
00:20:44,600 --> 00:20:48,360
Speaker 3: But the way the situation was it's my testimony.

441
00:20:48,359 --> 00:20:50,960
Speaker 1: I'm not saying do this. I'm not suggesting anybody be

442
00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:54,160
Speaker 1: a side chick. It's not fun, it doesn't ever end well.

443
00:20:54,359 --> 00:20:56,879
Speaker 1: But I'm being real. I was in a situation before

444
00:20:56,920 --> 00:21:00,560
Speaker 1: like this, So so what did he say? What was

445
00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:04,919
Speaker 1: the conversation when you found out? So we went on

446
00:21:04,960 --> 00:21:07,040
Speaker 1: a date, had an amazing fucking date.

447
00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:09,240
Speaker 3: I didn't know though, so I'm like, oh, this is

448
00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:11,240
Speaker 3: about to be my nigga, Like I'm about to be

449
00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:12,800
Speaker 3: like this, I'm about to get in a relationship.

450
00:21:12,880 --> 00:21:16,320
Speaker 1: That's how like fire. The date was. So we kept

451
00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:17,920
Speaker 1: talking and then all of a sudden, he just kind

452
00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:20,040
Speaker 1: of ghosted me, and I was like, damn, what the

453
00:21:20,040 --> 00:21:23,439
Speaker 1: fuck is going on? What I do? So literally some

454
00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:25,240
Speaker 1: months later he had just like hit me up out

455
00:21:25,240 --> 00:21:27,560
Speaker 1: the blue. It was when we was in Jamaica for

456
00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:30,879
Speaker 1: my thirtieth and he hit me up out the blue

457
00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:33,679
Speaker 1: like sent me money and was like happy birthday, I

458
00:21:33,720 --> 00:21:36,159
Speaker 1: miss you, blah blah blah, like you know, doing all

459
00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:38,520
Speaker 1: this stuff. I was like, what happened with us? Like

460
00:21:38,600 --> 00:21:41,040
Speaker 1: why do we fall? He was like, I'm not gonna lie.

461
00:21:41,400 --> 00:21:44,040
Speaker 1: I'm in a situation. So I was like, oh, I'm

462
00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:46,199
Speaker 1: not fucking with this cause I actually had feelings for him.

463
00:21:46,240 --> 00:21:47,800
Speaker 1: I liked him, and I was like, I'm not doing this.

464
00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:50,199
Speaker 1: But then he just kept sending me money. And at

465
00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:52,439
Speaker 1: the time I had three dollars, I would have kept

466
00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:54,040
Speaker 1: taking the money, but I wouldn't have been fucking with

467
00:21:54,080 --> 00:21:56,120
Speaker 1: that nigga. But the thing is, though we're not even

468
00:21:56,160 --> 00:21:57,760
Speaker 1: in the same city, so it's not like I was

469
00:21:57,800 --> 00:22:01,240
Speaker 1: constantly fucking fucking him. Probably have sex maybe once or

470
00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:03,679
Speaker 1: twice a year. Honestly, it was more so he just

471
00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:05,960
Speaker 1: fucked with me as a person and we had like

472
00:22:06,240 --> 00:22:10,000
Speaker 1: it wasn't well, I mean, the attraction was more so

473
00:22:10,200 --> 00:22:13,120
Speaker 1: our conversations, Like he was more like emotionally cheating because

474
00:22:13,119 --> 00:22:14,920
Speaker 1: he would talk to me about certain things that was

475
00:22:14,960 --> 00:22:16,879
Speaker 1: going on in his life and this and that. But

476
00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:20,199
Speaker 1: either way it goes cheating, That's what I'm saying. But

477
00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:27,520
Speaker 1: either way it goes his girl ass. Oh, it doesn't matter.

478
00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:32,480
Speaker 1: All I'm saying is all I'm saying is for the man, though,

479
00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:35,679
Speaker 1: you have to make sure you're giving your If you

480
00:22:35,720 --> 00:22:37,359
Speaker 1: want to have a side chick and you want to

481
00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:39,399
Speaker 1: make sure you keep her in line, you really got

482
00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:41,359
Speaker 1: to do everything she asked you to do like a

483
00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:45,199
Speaker 1: lot of time. Side chicks have the major pull, like

484
00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:47,120
Speaker 1: they can really fuck your shit up if you don't

485
00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:47,600
Speaker 1: get the right.

486
00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:49,640
Speaker 3: And what I'm saying, that's why I can't be one,

487
00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:52,560
Speaker 3: because I would be the one that fuck it up you.

488
00:22:53,359 --> 00:22:56,680
Speaker 1: But but if he's doing everything you want him to do,

489
00:22:57,119 --> 00:23:00,000
Speaker 1: you're gonna remain happy and quiet. I ain't gonna never

490
00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:02,359
Speaker 1: be happy if I ain't number one, I'm dead. I

491
00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:06,639
Speaker 1: feel I feel you no, because honestly, that's how I

492
00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:09,240
Speaker 1: got the situation. I'm like, Okay, I'm making money now,

493
00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:11,639
Speaker 1: like it's cool, like I fuck with you, but I'm like,

494
00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:12,440
Speaker 1: this is stupid.

495
00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:14,160
Speaker 3: I feel like I would be trying, Like I feel

496
00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:15,600
Speaker 3: like if I was to ever be in a situation

497
00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:18,159
Speaker 3: like that, I would be trying to like make it

498
00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:20,920
Speaker 3: work and try to make myself believe that I'm happy

499
00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:23,600
Speaker 3: because he's doing so much for me. But then deep

500
00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:25,679
Speaker 3: down inside, I would never be happy because I'm not

501
00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:28,520
Speaker 3: number one, so it just would never work. I would

502
00:23:28,520 --> 00:23:30,840
Speaker 3: probably always still find something to like me peek and

503
00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:34,560
Speaker 3: triple Bike, and probably still tell his beach just because

504
00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:37,040
Speaker 3: I'm salty. I'm like one, I thought you said you

505
00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:40,280
Speaker 3: don't call people I don't, but I've never been a

506
00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:45,320
Speaker 3: side beach. I'm speaking hypothetically, of course, I've never call

507
00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:48,320
Speaker 3: I would never in a situation like that, I feel

508
00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:52,160
Speaker 3: like I am I don't know, I don't know. I'm

509
00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:56,640
Speaker 3: a tour it's number one, if number one, so it's

510
00:23:56,680 --> 00:23:57,399
Speaker 3: something in me.

511
00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:02,880
Speaker 1: Got your background it What does it take to number one?

512
00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:09,480
Speaker 1: I am number one? I can't even finish my me.

513
00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:18,240
Speaker 1: You mean nobody remember I am number one? What does

514
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:26,280
Speaker 1: it take anyway? Okay? Sorry? I what does it take

515
00:24:26,359 --> 00:24:29,800
Speaker 1: to be number one? No matter? You feel like I

516
00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:34,320
Speaker 1: take it to down right anyway.

517
00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:37,000
Speaker 3: I just feel like it's something in me that would

518
00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:40,520
Speaker 3: never allow me to be okay with just being good

519
00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:43,240
Speaker 3: niggas lie. So I feel like in a situation like that,

520
00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:46,960
Speaker 3: I would definitely be salty booger.

521
00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:56,320
Speaker 1: I don't think it was sugar. She laughing hard to that, y'all,

522
00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:58,840
Speaker 1: because I'm like, I shouldn't have said that. I can't

523
00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:02,119
Speaker 1: go in the They're gonna be like. I knew it.

524
00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:07,280
Speaker 1: I knew, I knew it. I could tell, I could tell.

525
00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:11,639
Speaker 1: I couldn't tell. I don't even know what we're talking about.

526
00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:14,000
Speaker 3: I don't either, but it is what I was saying,

527
00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:15,680
Speaker 3: so like I was saying, I think it's just something

528
00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:17,480
Speaker 3: in me that would not allow me to be okay

529
00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:19,960
Speaker 3: with it, Like I would just be upset, and so

530
00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:21,760
Speaker 3: I think I would try to fuck his sh up.

531
00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:23,920
Speaker 1: Well, I'm not gonna lie. Like I said at the time,

532
00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:26,600
Speaker 1: I knew what I didn't know at first when I

533
00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:29,200
Speaker 1: first got feelings for him, Like you never wanted to

534
00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:31,479
Speaker 1: fuck it up? No, I never did because he was

535
00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:33,359
Speaker 1: at the time I, like I said, I didn't have

536
00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:37,800
Speaker 1: no money, I was down bad. Literally it was beneficial

537
00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:39,840
Speaker 1: for me, like he really helped me, and honestly to

538
00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:42,119
Speaker 1: this day, like that's my doll, that's my nigga. I

539
00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:44,239
Speaker 1: wouldn't say it's like that no more because it's really not.

540
00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:48,040
Speaker 1: But dog, Yeah, that's my dog. But at the same time,

541
00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:51,199
Speaker 1: once I got settled and my money got good and

542
00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:53,280
Speaker 1: I was like okay, I'm cool now, I was like okay,

543
00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:55,040
Speaker 1: this is yeah, I was like this is not I

544
00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:56,840
Speaker 1: can't do this, this is not enough for me, Like

545
00:25:57,640 --> 00:26:01,359
Speaker 1: what does it take to be noble? I felt myself

546
00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:04,120
Speaker 1: like you can't ask a nigga what does it take

547
00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:05,600
Speaker 1: to be his number one? If you're not a number

548
00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:07,840
Speaker 1: one right, and that's where I was. I feel like

549
00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:08,640
Speaker 1: you will never be though.

550
00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:10,919
Speaker 3: I feel like if you allow, if you have allowed

551
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:13,200
Speaker 3: a nigga to make you number two.

552
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:14,600
Speaker 1: Why would he make you number one?

553
00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:18,399
Speaker 3: Even when I feel like niggas do, like, you know,

554
00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:20,800
Speaker 3: leave they wife or they girl, and then they get

555
00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:22,639
Speaker 3: with a sidebeach and be with the side beach, they

556
00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:25,480
Speaker 3: still end up cheating on the side beach like once

557
00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:31,160
Speaker 3: you Keys, No, absolutely not are you because I wasn't

558
00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:38,400
Speaker 3: even thinking about her, you are. I'm just saying, anyways, Sorry, Alicia,

559
00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:39,480
Speaker 3: I'm so sorry.

560
00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:45,520
Speaker 1: I like Alicia Keys, this girl is anyways.

561
00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:48,840
Speaker 3: I feel like a nigga even he's not gonna never

562
00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:52,800
Speaker 3: take you serious, even if he promotes you from the

563
00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:55,960
Speaker 3: side beach promoted, because I mean, it is a promotion.

564
00:26:58,440 --> 00:26:59,800
Speaker 1: You the main beach. Everybody know that.

565
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:02,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, you do you definitely, It's just like I feel like,

566
00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:04,479
Speaker 3: but I feel like, even if a nigga promotes you

567
00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:06,600
Speaker 3: to the main beach, he's still never gonna take you serious.

568
00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 1: If you was once number okay with being number two, hmm,

569
00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:12,639
Speaker 1: that's interesting, but why why would he promote you or

570
00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:14,840
Speaker 1: not take you seriously? Why make you the main bitch?

571
00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:16,680
Speaker 1: If I'm not taking you seriously, I don't. I don't

572
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:20,880
Speaker 1: agree with that. Now why because if you're if I'm

573
00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:24,919
Speaker 1: your main bitch, obviously you take me serious in some capacity. Mm.

574
00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:27,359
Speaker 3: I mean, you just never know the reason why he

575
00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:30,000
Speaker 3: promoted you to number one. I feel like sometimes side

576
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,200
Speaker 3: bitches only get promoted to number one because the main

577
00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:34,920
Speaker 3: bitch would be deciding to leave because they be fed up.

578
00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:39,240
Speaker 3: So then niggad be like, well you here, well I

579
00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:41,200
Speaker 3: make you number one. You've been holding it down.

580
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:51,280
Speaker 1: Let's move on. Let's move on. I'm glad, thank you

581
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 1: for that sermon. No more talking about me and my

582
00:27:55,640 --> 00:28:01,200
Speaker 1: side check activities. Let's talk about this on the next

583
00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:03,840
Speaker 1: episode because we got to why you want to talk

584
00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:05,400
Speaker 1: about it? Now? You got some ship to get off

585
00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:09,560
Speaker 1: your I do, okay, go ahead, introduce the topic. Come on,

586
00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:13,199
Speaker 1: go ahead. You got a cheese. These niggas praying for

587
00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 1: your down phone, but it's not the right song. I

588
00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:18,320
Speaker 1: just wanted to say that because they that was zero.

589
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:24,760
Speaker 1: How you start thinking grisly yah niggas?

590
00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:30,480
Speaker 3: Anyway, stop now stop stop stop stop? So I wanted

591
00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:34,040
Speaker 3: to talk about letting that hurt go. Okay, When is

592
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:37,680
Speaker 3: it an appropriate time to let that hurt.

593
00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:39,000
Speaker 1: Go when you're over something.

594
00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:43,120
Speaker 3: But I feel like, like, for example, if you were

595
00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:47,040
Speaker 3: talking with somebody like two years ago and they are

596
00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:49,920
Speaker 3: in a new relationship, why would they still be talking

597
00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:50,760
Speaker 3: about you.

598
00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:54,200
Speaker 1: Because over the situation and how it ended.

599
00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:57,800
Speaker 3: I mean, right, But it's like, so in two years,

600
00:28:58,000 --> 00:29:01,280
Speaker 3: if you're in a happy relationship and you have moved on,

601
00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:03,800
Speaker 3: why are you still bringing somebody up.

602
00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:05,480
Speaker 1: I just don't understand.

603
00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:07,200
Speaker 3: I could see if it was so if it was

604
00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:09,320
Speaker 3: a fresh situation, you know what I mean, Like say

605
00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:11,480
Speaker 3: you stopped talking with the person like five months ago,

606
00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:12,560
Speaker 3: six months ago.

607
00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:15,560
Speaker 1: It takes time to heal, you know what I mean.

608
00:29:15,600 --> 00:29:18,920
Speaker 3: But if you in a whole new situation and you

609
00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:22,640
Speaker 3: want you claim you don't like people, why the fuck

610
00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:23,760
Speaker 3: would you be bringing them up?

611
00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:28,800
Speaker 1: I think sometimes when people talk bad or talk down

612
00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:32,880
Speaker 1: on someone and it's like a past situation, it's because

613
00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:35,880
Speaker 1: you're doing what they didn't expect you to be doing.

614
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:41,600
Speaker 1: So what I mean by that elaborate. If somebody is

615
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:44,880
Speaker 1: dealing with me and we have a bad breakup and

616
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:47,760
Speaker 1: we hate each other and we go our separate ways.

617
00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:50,320
Speaker 1: If I'm doing bad, they're not talking about me because

618
00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:52,000
Speaker 1: they're not worried about me because I'm not doing shit,

619
00:29:52,040 --> 00:29:54,240
Speaker 1: and they're like, you know what, that's why I left her.

620
00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:57,160
Speaker 1: Leave her where she at. But if we break up

621
00:29:57,160 --> 00:30:01,880
Speaker 1: on bad terms and I'm doing well, I'm succeeding, I'm prospering,

622
00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:05,400
Speaker 1: I'm looking good, I'm feeling good, I'm making money. Yeah,

623
00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:08,000
Speaker 1: that person you gonn you you're salty?

624
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:11,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, but why would you let it be known if

625
00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:13,360
Speaker 3: you salty? That's what I don't ever understand about people

626
00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:16,200
Speaker 3: keep ship plays because no.

627
00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:17,800
Speaker 1: I will say this though, a lot of times people

628
00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:19,640
Speaker 1: be talking but they don't realize who they're talking to.

629
00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:23,880
Speaker 1: That's why, what do you mean? Because people are messy.

630
00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:26,360
Speaker 1: So a lot of times people are confiding something, but

631
00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:28,480
Speaker 1: then they don't think they're gonna say anything. A lot

632
00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:32,200
Speaker 1: of times, especially in Atlanta, you're confiding with someone and thinking, yeah,

633
00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:34,800
Speaker 1: oh you know Dre and the call with three easier,

634
00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:37,680
Speaker 1: I fucked a whole and she ain't shit, she trashed

635
00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:40,200
Speaker 1: not the whole time, you not knowing that that person

636
00:30:40,280 --> 00:30:43,880
Speaker 1: is cool with Drea cousin or something. Yeah. So it's

637
00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:46,800
Speaker 1: like y'all be in y'all feelings, just talking and not

638
00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:48,880
Speaker 1: even knowing it's gonna get back to people, and then

639
00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:50,160
Speaker 1: it makes you look lame.

640
00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:53,680
Speaker 3: It makes you look so lame to still have somebody

641
00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:55,920
Speaker 3: name me your mouse who is not worried about you.

642
00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:58,240
Speaker 1: I think that's wild, it's fuss. I think the main

643
00:30:58,320 --> 00:31:00,760
Speaker 1: thing is, like this is gonna be The episode is

644
00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:04,480
Speaker 1: called focused on Yourself because you have to, Like when

645
00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:07,360
Speaker 1: you're really doing well and you're doing what you're supposed

646
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:10,760
Speaker 1: to do, you're gonna be focused on yourself. Like, honestly,

647
00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:13,360
Speaker 1: I be like making jokes about me not dating, but honestly,

648
00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:15,200
Speaker 1: I don't care if I'm dating right now, to be

649
00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:17,240
Speaker 1: honest with you, like I'm being real because I'm so

650
00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:19,239
Speaker 1: focused on myself. I got so much, We got so

651
00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:21,760
Speaker 1: much shit going on, yeah, so much stuff that we're

652
00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:25,480
Speaker 1: working on. It's like, the fuck, I don't give a

653
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 1: fuck about these niggas. I got my own shit to lie.

654
00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:31,360
Speaker 1: I'm not worried about talking about my ex and this

655
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:31,760
Speaker 1: and that.

656
00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:34,920
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying, Like we literally never talk about

657
00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:36,920
Speaker 3: people that we used to fuck with, like in a

658
00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:40,000
Speaker 3: negative like. I feel like on the show, we always

659
00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:42,440
Speaker 3: try to like, you know, keep it positive. We say,

660
00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:46,120
Speaker 3: we talk about our experience you know, we never just

661
00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:49,160
Speaker 3: talk down on the niggas. I feel like, so, I

662
00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:51,840
Speaker 3: just think it's weird when you don't talk to people

663
00:31:51,840 --> 00:31:54,200
Speaker 3: anymore and then they just have so much nig niggas,

664
00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:56,320
Speaker 3: so many negative things to say about you to other

665
00:31:56,400 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 3: people when you never say anything about them at all, because.

666
00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:02,240
Speaker 1: People see what the fuck going on? Don't you think

667
00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:03,080
Speaker 1: it's crazy too?

668
00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:05,680
Speaker 3: How like you can stop fucking with people within their

669
00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:07,800
Speaker 3: narrative will be to other people that they don't fuck

670
00:32:07,840 --> 00:32:08,160
Speaker 3: with you.

671
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:12,160
Speaker 1: That's wild because you have to realize a lot of

672
00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:16,240
Speaker 1: times people create situations in their head. So that's why

673
00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:21,040
Speaker 1: people always say there's three sides to a societies, and

674
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 1: it's true because if a situation go down like just

675
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:26,400
Speaker 1: like when me and you didn't get along and your

676
00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:28,640
Speaker 1: head it went down like this, and my head it

677
00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:32,880
Speaker 1: went down like that, because people interpret things differently, you

678
00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:35,680
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So it's just like, but me,

679
00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:38,960
Speaker 1: I feel like when you focus on yourself, you become happier.

680
00:32:39,280 --> 00:32:40,840
Speaker 1: Like I'm not gonna lie. I talked about this on

681
00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:42,880
Speaker 1: the patreon that I'm about to drop today, So if

682
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:45,720
Speaker 1: you're not subscribed to our patreon, make sure your subscribe

683
00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:48,880
Speaker 1: I did like a life update, what's in my makeup bag?

684
00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:51,200
Speaker 1: And like my life update because I just been in

685
00:32:51,200 --> 00:32:53,720
Speaker 1: this past two weeks. Who girl, I've been going through it.

686
00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:57,720
Speaker 3: Why would you like to talk about it over drinks later?

687
00:32:57,960 --> 00:33:02,680
Speaker 1: No, I would find. But no, I do feel like

688
00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:05,000
Speaker 1: a lot of times people just need to know you

689
00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:07,880
Speaker 1: got to focus on yourself because you never know what

690
00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:10,920
Speaker 1: information is gonna get back to. Who stop talking about people? Yes,

691
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:12,720
Speaker 1: just keep people.

692
00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:15,880
Speaker 3: We do a good job of like staying out of

693
00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:17,680
Speaker 3: drama and missed because we just keep people.

694
00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:21,000
Speaker 1: Every time we talk, we're talking about each other, us

695
00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:23,880
Speaker 1: and what we got going on. Centered. But why do

696
00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:27,960
Speaker 1: I want to talk about what fucking I just I'm

697
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:28,440
Speaker 1: gonna lie.

698
00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:30,400
Speaker 3: I just literally when people are not in my life

699
00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:34,040
Speaker 3: no more. I really don't give a fuck what you

700
00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:35,880
Speaker 3: got going on, Especially if I cut you off.

701
00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:39,480
Speaker 1: I really don't care. I don't care if I cut

702
00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:41,400
Speaker 1: you off. I don't care if we're not talking.

703
00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:44,040
Speaker 3: But I said especially when I cut you off, because

704
00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:45,800
Speaker 3: I feel like I'm not gonna lie. Sometimes if a

705
00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:49,560
Speaker 3: person get cut off by another person, they gonna be salty,

706
00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:51,480
Speaker 3: you know what I mean? A lot of the time,

707
00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:53,920
Speaker 3: if the ball wasn't in your courting. You wasn't the

708
00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:55,520
Speaker 3: one to end sheet. A lot of the time people

709
00:33:55,560 --> 00:33:57,200
Speaker 3: be salty, you know what I mean. So that's why

710
00:33:57,200 --> 00:34:00,440
Speaker 3: I say it specifically. More so, especially if I cut

711
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:02,440
Speaker 3: it off now, I don't give a fuck what you're doing,

712
00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:04,160
Speaker 3: because if I wanted you to still be in my life,

713
00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:07,680
Speaker 3: you hold, people are just weird as hell.

714
00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:14,319
Speaker 1: Child, I just gotta take. Don't worry about it. So

715
00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:19,560
Speaker 1: now we're gonna get into the Hey, Hey, we get

716
00:34:19,600 --> 00:34:22,719
Speaker 1: into the big because I'm a bad beach. I ain't meg,

717
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:35,960
Speaker 1: but you can call me savage, oh young, savvy? Whoy Okay, y'all,

718
00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:37,480
Speaker 1: I'm really struggling.

719
00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:43,400
Speaker 3: I do not like this, bitch, I am struggling. Are

720
00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:45,879
Speaker 3: you struggling?

721
00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:46,400
Speaker 1: Are going to play?

722
00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:50,640
Speaker 3: You'll be setting up the play and you get mad,

723
00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:53,160
Speaker 3: you know, let me.

724
00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:57,399
Speaker 1: The listeners. I love when y'all post the clips from

725
00:34:57,400 --> 00:34:59,320
Speaker 1: the show that y'all be laughing at because it shouldn't

726
00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:01,840
Speaker 1: be funny. A lot of I'd be forgetting because we recording,

727
00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:03,759
Speaker 1: and then y'all have to realize a lot of times,

728
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:05,480
Speaker 1: me and me and Drea literally we'd be on the

729
00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:07,640
Speaker 1: phone for like four hours on a Sunday just talking.

730
00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:10,040
Speaker 1: So a lot of times our conversations, I don't know

731
00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:12,400
Speaker 1: what we've talked about on air and what we haven't

732
00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:14,960
Speaker 1: so bitch. Yesterday somebody had posted when we went on

733
00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:17,319
Speaker 1: the eighty five South Show and I was talking about

734
00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:19,520
Speaker 1: the dude and I was like, oh, he's Jamaican And

735
00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:22,360
Speaker 1: I was like, but buck buss it and you was

736
00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:29,360
Speaker 1: like buy. I was like, row what? And it's so

737
00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:31,600
Speaker 1: crazy to because y'all don't be catching when she be

738
00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:34,760
Speaker 1: saying funny shit, I'm like, how the fuck did everybody

739
00:35:34,800 --> 00:35:40,000
Speaker 1: miss that? But buy that shit? Funny? Y'all's so fucking

740
00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:45,840
Speaker 1: dead a bar. Y'all been in my comments for weeks

741
00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:49,640
Speaker 1: talking about baked beans. Yeah, the boot the bake baked

742
00:35:49,680 --> 00:35:53,239
Speaker 1: beans was okay, the bab beans was funny, but that booty,

743
00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:55,960
Speaker 1: that ship happened. I was literally in tears last night.

744
00:35:56,160 --> 00:35:59,720
Speaker 3: I know you tagged me.

745
00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:05,360
Speaker 1: Okay, So I want to talk about all right, I

746
00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:09,399
Speaker 1: want to talk about crying during sex? Have you ever

747
00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:23,279
Speaker 1: love facing regular? Hell? Is it a ghost? Is it

748
00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:28,480
Speaker 1: a ghost? Write song? We're not gonna do that again, Okay, okay, okay,

749
00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:31,560
Speaker 1: So for all the people that are new listeners, we

750
00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:33,080
Speaker 1: had an episode where you talking about if it was

751
00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:36,040
Speaker 1: a ghost of trace Ye, so that's the inside joke.

752
00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:37,880
Speaker 1: You gotta go back and find it. You gotta go

753
00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:41,440
Speaker 1: back and find it. So anyways, do you cry during sex?

754
00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:45,719
Speaker 1: I cried one time one time? How old were you?

755
00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 1: I was like twenty three? Why did you cry? Because

756
00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:55,520
Speaker 1: I loved y'all was making sweet love under the blue Cormon,

757
00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:59,439
Speaker 1: Oh my god, and that's why you cried.

758
00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:03,040
Speaker 3: And you was like we had broke up, and then

759
00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:06,040
Speaker 3: I thought that it was like over and then he

760
00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:07,319
Speaker 3: ended up hitting me up.

761
00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:09,000
Speaker 1: And then I went to see.

762
00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:11,160
Speaker 3: Him and he had like bought me some flowers and

763
00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:15,640
Speaker 3: like a bear and some more she and I was

764
00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:17,319
Speaker 3: just so happy that he called me because I was

765
00:37:17,360 --> 00:37:18,879
Speaker 3: depressed for like a week.

766
00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:21,560
Speaker 1: Honestly, Like when a nigga like you think he done

767
00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:23,600
Speaker 1: with you, Yes, I really thought he was done with me,

768
00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:24,359
Speaker 1: you know what I mean?

769
00:37:24,600 --> 00:37:27,920
Speaker 3: Like crazy time he had threw my phone over the

770
00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:29,120
Speaker 3: fence and shit, that's how I feel.

771
00:37:29,120 --> 00:37:29,160
Speaker 1: Like.

772
00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:31,040
Speaker 3: You know, if a nigga ain't never tried to break

773
00:37:31,080 --> 00:37:34,040
Speaker 3: your phone or take your phone, you ain't got a

774
00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:36,239
Speaker 3: good pissy man.

775
00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:43,160
Speaker 1: Niggas feeds being very destructive when bro you'd be like like, nigga,

776
00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:44,840
Speaker 1: damn you and then you ain't even pay for this.

777
00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:47,880
Speaker 3: Spin't gonna break my fucking phone. But anyways, we had

778
00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:50,560
Speaker 3: got into a real bad We got been cool. So

779
00:37:50,600 --> 00:37:52,480
Speaker 3: I was just excited and happy to see him as

780
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:55,719
Speaker 3: she So you know, I had a few shots, and I.

781
00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:58,839
Speaker 1: Won't say that Nick was good to you. Only cried

782
00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:02,719
Speaker 1: during sex. When there's emotions, the dick is good. You

783
00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:05,520
Speaker 1: gotta be a combination. It's a combination, and you gotta

784
00:38:05,560 --> 00:38:09,160
Speaker 1: be like drinking. You gotta be like in the man

785
00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:11,120
Speaker 1: and then you gotta have you know, the music playing

786
00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:17,919
Speaker 1: in the background and time. You know, I don't feel

787
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:21,560
Speaker 1: like I know a fine.

788
00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:21,759
Speaker 2: No.

789
00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:23,759
Speaker 3: I feel like in a setting like that, In a

790
00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:26,400
Speaker 3: setting like that, you gotta listen to some ship like

791
00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:27,520
Speaker 3: how you're gonna act like that?

792
00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:30,759
Speaker 1: No, you gotta be liked love and botty rock and

793
00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:32,160
Speaker 1: I can boost not.

794
00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:34,319
Speaker 3: No, I feel like you gotta listen to a rick

795
00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:38,359
Speaker 3: like like y'all was mad at each other. But then well,

796
00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:39,920
Speaker 3: I guess how you're gonna act like that is in

797
00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:40,800
Speaker 3: a reconciliation.

798
00:38:40,880 --> 00:38:51,040
Speaker 1: So that lift, Oh that's a song. But no, I

799
00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:53,880
Speaker 1: feel like crying during sex, like if you cried during sex,

800
00:38:53,920 --> 00:38:56,839
Speaker 1: that really makes a bond. So have you cried? Oh?

801
00:38:57,040 --> 00:39:00,600
Speaker 1: Hell yeah, nigga, Like I'm a leo, I'm d I

802
00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:04,680
Speaker 1: love to drop that Beyonce tier and then I turned

803
00:39:04,719 --> 00:39:07,640
Speaker 1: my head so he can see the tear because sometimes

804
00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:13,360
Speaker 1: they don't be seeing the tier. You see the tear, nigga.

805
00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:17,600
Speaker 1: You see me cryme, you see me crying. I love you, boy. So,

806
00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:21,560
Speaker 1: how many times have you cried during sex? I don't

807
00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:24,759
Speaker 1: know the number. It's not a light It's been like

808
00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:29,120
Speaker 1: four or five. Maybe fix I'll be in love with

809
00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:32,960
Speaker 1: different niggas. No, I'm not gonna lie with rappermand. I've

810
00:39:32,960 --> 00:39:37,480
Speaker 1: probably been cried a lot, a lot, a lot. So

811
00:39:37,600 --> 00:39:43,839
Speaker 1: you just bust out in tears. Let me talking about

812
00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:47,920
Speaker 1: the pleasure. No, okay, okay. So I've been times I've

813
00:39:47,960 --> 00:39:52,399
Speaker 1: cried during sex because it was like I forgave him.

814
00:39:52,640 --> 00:39:56,279
Speaker 1: We that good. I missed you. It's passionate. Sometimes I

815
00:39:56,400 --> 00:39:58,080
Speaker 1: just be crying because I be drunk and the dick

816
00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:00,239
Speaker 1: be good. I'm like back in line, I.

817
00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:05,040
Speaker 3: Cry because the dick was good. It's been sometimes like

818
00:40:05,120 --> 00:40:06,759
Speaker 3: it's been a mixture of the two.

819
00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:11,319
Speaker 1: You know. I never just solely because if I haven't

820
00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:13,279
Speaker 1: gotten dick in a long time and the dick is

821
00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:16,960
Speaker 1: good and the vibes are right, it's like, just like

822
00:40:17,280 --> 00:40:21,759
Speaker 1: I get overwhelmed. Hello this from head? So what so?

823
00:40:22,280 --> 00:40:22,320
Speaker 3: So?

824
00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:27,959
Speaker 1: What was his reaction? He was like this, I love

825
00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:31,920
Speaker 1: you girl, and I said love you too. Nig god, Damn,

826
00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:35,400
Speaker 1: that's my nigga, bitch. I'm not about to play with you.

827
00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:38,239
Speaker 1: Oh my god. When I started crying, he was like, damn,

828
00:40:38,280 --> 00:40:41,759
Speaker 1: what the fuck you all right? Because nigga, he pulled

829
00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:44,040
Speaker 1: off the gloss. He was scared. He was like, are

830
00:40:44,120 --> 00:40:47,000
Speaker 1: you okay? You're good? Am I hurting you? I'm not

831
00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:49,759
Speaker 1: hurting you. I was like, no, you're not hurting me.

832
00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:51,480
Speaker 1: He was like, I love you? Did you say I

833
00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:58,439
Speaker 1: love you? You're a weak gass beach. Fucking weak ass beach.

834
00:40:59,040 --> 00:41:01,279
Speaker 1: You ain't calling me, he can't. You just said you

835
00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:04,360
Speaker 1: cried seek time. I do. But I'll be lying. Also.

836
00:41:06,120 --> 00:41:12,400
Speaker 1: I'll be crying sometimes because I'm tired, nig hurry up,

837
00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:16,319
Speaker 1: I'll be sleepy sometimes. I did cry one time though,

838
00:41:16,440 --> 00:41:20,360
Speaker 1: because I just didn't want to FuG You might need

839
00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:25,120
Speaker 1: to go to the police. I don't think that went down.

840
00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:36,240
Speaker 2: You idn't want to fuck that nigga. No, get me wrong, nobody,

841
00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:39,719
Speaker 2: this is a case for the first love.

842
00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:42,720
Speaker 3: He was my nigga, Like we was already fucking around

843
00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:45,440
Speaker 3: this ship. But I think that particular day I just

844
00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:47,120
Speaker 3: did not want to fuck him. But then you know

845
00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:49,239
Speaker 3: how sometimes you just be feeling like I, damn, I

846
00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:51,759
Speaker 3: gotta get his niggassy, Like you just roll over and

847
00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:52,279
Speaker 3: be like a.

848
00:41:54,480 --> 00:41:55,840
Speaker 1: But I did not want to fuck. I was like

849
00:41:55,960 --> 00:42:04,800
Speaker 1: laying on the let me with my detective frame. So

850
00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:11,800
Speaker 1: you ain't never just not wanted to cry. Was like,

851
00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:18,759
Speaker 1: you're okay, so let us know.

852
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:21,200
Speaker 3: If you've cried during sex, I've had enough of you.

853
00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:23,760
Speaker 3: I feel like it's numerous reasons. I'm glad we covered

854
00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:25,919
Speaker 3: all the reasons why you cried during sex.

855
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:28,960
Speaker 1: We did. We covered every reason why you should cry

856
00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:31,799
Speaker 1: while you are crying during sex. But honestly, the best

857
00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:34,239
Speaker 1: way to cry is because it's a bonding moment of

858
00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:37,640
Speaker 1: forgiving moments. You know how people say like soul ties

859
00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:39,000
Speaker 1: and you have to be careful who you lay in

860
00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:41,520
Speaker 1: your body. I feel like necessary when you fuck somebody,

861
00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:44,560
Speaker 1: that doesn't happen, but when you're like opening your the

862
00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:48,359
Speaker 1: portal to your soul and you let them tears flow.

863
00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:52,719
Speaker 1: Every time you fuck somebody, technically you open well, no,

864
00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:55,719
Speaker 1: not Garfield. We just be horny sometimes. But I feel

865
00:42:55,760 --> 00:42:58,759
Speaker 1: like whenever you're in that moment of bonding, like when

866
00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:04,040
Speaker 1: you bond during like exchanges, you make.

867
00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:09,520
Speaker 3: Just like's like sometimes people start liking people that they

868
00:43:09,560 --> 00:43:10,600
Speaker 3: needn't intend don't like.

869
00:43:10,680 --> 00:43:13,239
Speaker 1: It, but that's because, like you know, you can block

870
00:43:13,280 --> 00:43:15,400
Speaker 1: out energies in your life. Like if I'm just fucking

871
00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:17,360
Speaker 1: because I want to nothing, I'm just doing that.

872
00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:20,600
Speaker 3: But if I'm like, now, if a nigga got some

873
00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:24,600
Speaker 3: negative energy and she that shit is very very much transferable.

874
00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:29,040
Speaker 1: I mean, but I'm just saying I can get that bread,

875
00:43:29,160 --> 00:43:30,160
Speaker 1: get that head, and leave.

876
00:43:30,760 --> 00:43:36,560
Speaker 3: You're gonna leave with that negative ass energy too, anyway.

877
00:43:37,560 --> 00:43:40,600
Speaker 3: So now we're gonna get into question No the bop.

878
00:43:41,080 --> 00:43:44,720
Speaker 1: Oh sheesh, you're rushing through. We got a lot of questions.

879
00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:52,000
Speaker 1: So y'all know that I don't want to get emotional.

880
00:43:53,560 --> 00:43:54,640
Speaker 1: I was about the first of all.

881
00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:55,920
Speaker 3: I was about to say this, but you can go

882
00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:57,560
Speaker 3: ahead and say it because I already know what you're

883
00:43:57,560 --> 00:43:58,040
Speaker 3: about to say.

884
00:43:58,280 --> 00:44:02,840
Speaker 1: I just want to say that I'm a savage, classy

885
00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:09,480
Speaker 1: bougie ratchet, the hotness. We have taken over again. We

886
00:44:09,560 --> 00:44:11,880
Speaker 1: have done what we needed to do to get our

887
00:44:11,960 --> 00:44:16,600
Speaker 1: queen where she needs to be. Meghan good news. And

888
00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:19,719
Speaker 1: I told you this. I said, Meghan has to drop

889
00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:23,120
Speaker 1: a great project because it is very vital to her

890
00:44:23,200 --> 00:44:29,319
Speaker 1: career that this project is good. Body. YadA YadA, YadA, YadA,

891
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:34,120
Speaker 1: YadA YadA about a word bob because that's an anthem

892
00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:41,400
Speaker 1: movie with little Dirk fire Bro. When I tell you,

893
00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:44,640
Speaker 1: Meg came for her fucking things, just as your shut

894
00:44:46,960 --> 00:44:48,640
Speaker 1: the city. You know what, Let me tell you something.

895
00:44:48,719 --> 00:44:50,560
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something about the city girls. Do

896
00:44:50,719 --> 00:44:54,080
Speaker 1: it now. I'm not gonna lie before people was listening

897
00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:55,440
Speaker 1: to city girls. If you go back and look at

898
00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:58,200
Speaker 1: the wine down Wednesday episodes, we been vouching for city girls,

899
00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:00,600
Speaker 1: but we have been a city girl. But let me

900
00:45:00,719 --> 00:45:03,360
Speaker 1: but let me tell you what surprised me, how fucking

901
00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:05,760
Speaker 1: much Young Miami has grown.

902
00:45:05,920 --> 00:45:08,440
Speaker 3: And I look forward to her verses. I love Young

903
00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:12,040
Speaker 3: Miami versus her voice is just like hear Miami here

904
00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:15,120
Speaker 3: came around my pathump kying out.

905
00:45:15,360 --> 00:45:18,120
Speaker 1: I'll be like, yes, get it, bitch, talk about it.

906
00:45:18,440 --> 00:45:23,120
Speaker 1: And I believe her. No, I've always believed her. No, Yeah,

907
00:45:23,160 --> 00:45:25,279
Speaker 1: I'll fuck with j T. You know I love JT.

908
00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:31,080
Speaker 1: But Young Miami has really she has so yeah, shots fired,

909
00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:35,839
Speaker 1: she killed shots Fire. Megan is just she's here to stay.

910
00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:39,320
Speaker 1: I liked all of the samples. Sugar Baby was a

911
00:45:39,360 --> 00:45:41,440
Speaker 1: good one. Sugar Baby was a good one. I'm not

912
00:45:41,520 --> 00:45:43,960
Speaker 1: gonna lie. I didn't like the song with the baby

913
00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:46,520
Speaker 1: cry baby. I don't like I think I'm over.

914
00:45:47,920 --> 00:45:52,080
Speaker 3: Her, and yeah, I don't collect I'm over We have enough,

915
00:45:52,160 --> 00:45:53,400
Speaker 3: We're good, we got it.

916
00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:55,319
Speaker 1: But the album is good. I give it an eight

917
00:45:55,360 --> 00:45:55,799
Speaker 1: out of ten.

918
00:45:56,800 --> 00:46:01,040
Speaker 3: I agree set So yeah, that was actually my BOT

919
00:46:01,080 --> 00:46:05,280
Speaker 3: two was gonna be mixed album. But Your Other Faith

920
00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:12,399
Speaker 3: came out with her anniversary album for Pink Friday this week.

921
00:46:13,200 --> 00:46:18,959
Speaker 3: You know calm, you know you a barb or whatever.

922
00:46:19,080 --> 00:46:21,920
Speaker 3: So yeah, she came out with her anniversary album. Dang,

923
00:46:21,960 --> 00:46:24,640
Speaker 3: can you believe Pink Friday came out ten years ago?

924
00:46:26,360 --> 00:46:29,239
Speaker 3: That was my song, that was my favorite song.

925
00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:32,000
Speaker 1: Do you all realize Pink Friday was a movement though,

926
00:46:32,080 --> 00:46:35,480
Speaker 1: it was like it really changed how female rap artists

927
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:39,680
Speaker 1: are introduced to the game. Like before Nikki, it was

928
00:46:39,760 --> 00:46:43,280
Speaker 1: really only like Kim and Foxy Brown, like being sexy

929
00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:45,520
Speaker 1: and rapping about you know what I'm saying. But it wasn't.

930
00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:49,759
Speaker 1: It never went to that like pop level of like

931
00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:52,520
Speaker 1: crossing over. Like Nikki was the first black woman that

932
00:46:52,680 --> 00:46:56,160
Speaker 1: was rapping about doing shit and fucking and doing this

933
00:46:56,280 --> 00:46:58,080
Speaker 1: and doing that and people accepted it, you know what

934
00:46:58,080 --> 00:47:00,400
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So yeah, shout out to peinak Friday. That

935
00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:03,960
Speaker 1: was a whole era, right And y'all know I'm a bar.

936
00:47:04,080 --> 00:47:04,920
Speaker 1: Don't get me started.

937
00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:12,680
Speaker 3: I know you was excited about that, you would, Okay,

938
00:47:13,000 --> 00:47:15,040
Speaker 3: what's that song wasn't even on their album.

939
00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:19,839
Speaker 1: I'm just singing Nikki in general anyway. So now we're

940
00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:22,160
Speaker 1: gonna get into the questions.

941
00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:24,839
Speaker 3: If you have any questions, make sure you send your

942
00:47:24,920 --> 00:47:29,360
Speaker 3: questions to ask poor Minds at gmail dot com, not

943
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:31,360
Speaker 3: Drea and Leak Show at gmail.

944
00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:34,879
Speaker 1: Please. And also remember if you are a Patreon member,

945
00:47:34,920 --> 00:47:36,719
Speaker 1: you only get to skip the line if you are

946
00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:41,160
Speaker 1: on the top tier, the fifteen dollars tier. So we

947
00:47:41,239 --> 00:47:44,239
Speaker 1: got some Patreon questions and we got some regular questions. Yes,

948
00:47:44,560 --> 00:47:48,040
Speaker 1: so I'm gonna start with the Patreon question. Okay, okay,

949
00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:50,960
Speaker 1: let me see she's I think she said keep her anonymous.

950
00:47:52,080 --> 00:47:56,480
Speaker 1: I don't know. Okay, so it says, Hey, lex Andrea,

951
00:47:56,640 --> 00:47:59,919
Speaker 1: sorry to make this so long. It's your top Houston bitch,

952
00:48:00,200 --> 00:48:02,920
Speaker 1: please keep me anonymous. I've been watching you guys for

953
00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:05,520
Speaker 1: about three months now, and I fucking love y'all. We

954
00:48:05,800 --> 00:48:08,600
Speaker 1: really best friends, but y'all just don't know it. But anyways,

955
00:48:08,680 --> 00:48:10,880
Speaker 1: I have a couple of questions for y'all today. But

956
00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:13,439
Speaker 1: before I get into that, I'm nineteen years old twenty

957
00:48:13,520 --> 00:48:16,239
Speaker 1: in December. I carry myself like I'm that bitch, but

958
00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:18,759
Speaker 1: very cool at the same time, so I'm having a

959
00:48:18,840 --> 00:48:21,520
Speaker 1: hard time finding friends. I have a lot of girls

960
00:48:21,600 --> 00:48:23,440
Speaker 1: in my city that I'm very cool with, but I

961
00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:26,360
Speaker 1: want my own friends, something like you and Lex. I

962
00:48:26,440 --> 00:48:28,640
Speaker 1: have a best friend, but we are sort of growing apart.

963
00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:32,839
Speaker 1: We have the same attitude but just different outlooks on life.

964
00:48:33,160 --> 00:48:35,759
Speaker 1: I'm extremely funny, love being in the mix, but I

965
00:48:35,800 --> 00:48:39,879
Speaker 1: can chill too, and I'm just very outgoing. Not to mention,

966
00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:42,799
Speaker 1: I own a beauty bar in Periland. I just want

967
00:48:42,840 --> 00:48:44,839
Speaker 1: more friends that are like me. So I just want

968
00:48:44,880 --> 00:48:47,520
Speaker 1: to know can I make more friends without being or

969
00:48:47,640 --> 00:48:51,160
Speaker 1: sound like I'm gonna pick me with girls? My second question,

970
00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:55,000
Speaker 1: Oh wait, so let's answer that one first. First of

971
00:48:55,040 --> 00:48:59,960
Speaker 1: all these, No, but sometimes people want to have friends.

972
00:49:00,000 --> 00:49:00,880
Speaker 1: People want a friend.

973
00:49:01,000 --> 00:49:03,520
Speaker 3: Yes, you do need friends, but I'm a firm believer

974
00:49:03,680 --> 00:49:06,160
Speaker 3: in not becoming friends with people like if you have

975
00:49:06,320 --> 00:49:09,960
Speaker 3: to like kiss ay ass or forcing to be their friends.

976
00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:14,000
Speaker 3: I feel like friendships should happen organically. Yeah, those are

977
00:49:14,040 --> 00:49:15,359
Speaker 3: the best type of friendships, you know what I mean.

978
00:49:15,360 --> 00:49:17,840
Speaker 3: I feel like you shouldn't be going looking for friendship, right.

979
00:49:17,880 --> 00:49:19,400
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. There's not a how to on

980
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:20,399
Speaker 1: how to make friends, right.

981
00:49:20,520 --> 00:49:23,040
Speaker 3: You shouldn't go looking for friendships because nine times out

982
00:49:23,080 --> 00:49:25,200
Speaker 3: of ten, if you're going to look for friendship and

983
00:49:25,239 --> 00:49:27,880
Speaker 3: you're trying to just make friends, those aren't gonna be

984
00:49:28,000 --> 00:49:31,960
Speaker 3: authentic connections and authentic bond So I just feel like.

985
00:49:32,160 --> 00:49:34,040
Speaker 1: It's just like fine. I feel like finding friends just

986
00:49:34,120 --> 00:49:35,920
Speaker 1: like finding a man. You just gotta, you know, wait

987
00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:38,920
Speaker 1: till the right person roles in your life. Right, And

988
00:49:39,040 --> 00:49:42,759
Speaker 1: it says my second question is about niggas now, But yes,

989
00:49:42,840 --> 00:49:44,759
Speaker 1: of course I love a hood ass nigga with money.

990
00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:47,600
Speaker 1: But even though I'm one of the girls who talk

991
00:49:47,719 --> 00:49:52,080
Speaker 1: my shit, I get nerves around guys that I really like. No,

992
00:49:52,280 --> 00:49:54,759
Speaker 1: I don't make it obvious, and a guy has never

993
00:49:54,840 --> 00:49:57,959
Speaker 1: bought me anything I want gifts and all this shit.

994
00:49:58,040 --> 00:50:00,560
Speaker 1: I'm cool as fucking every nigga I have fun, have

995
00:50:00,760 --> 00:50:03,880
Speaker 1: nutted and quit, and I and said I just have

996
00:50:04,000 --> 00:50:07,880
Speaker 1: the best pussy. Okay, but I've spent my life settling

997
00:50:08,080 --> 00:50:10,920
Speaker 1: for cute, low budget ass niggas where I pay for everything.

998
00:50:11,320 --> 00:50:13,920
Speaker 1: But I have always liked niggas with money, so I

999
00:50:14,080 --> 00:50:16,760
Speaker 1: was never happy. How do I stop being nervous around

1000
00:50:16,800 --> 00:50:19,200
Speaker 1: fine ass niggas with money and actually shoot my shot

1001
00:50:19,320 --> 00:50:22,200
Speaker 1: or make it? Obviously I'm fucking with them. Ps. I

1002
00:50:22,360 --> 00:50:24,520
Speaker 1: recently had a fine ass dope boy as a client

1003
00:50:24,600 --> 00:50:26,640
Speaker 1: for a facial and we LinkedIn had a great time,

1004
00:50:26,960 --> 00:50:28,640
Speaker 1: but after I found out he had a goal and

1005
00:50:28,760 --> 00:50:31,319
Speaker 1: we just haven't talked since. No, I ain't say shit

1006
00:50:31,480 --> 00:50:34,000
Speaker 1: just mine in my business, but he just stopped texting me,

1007
00:50:34,480 --> 00:50:36,200
Speaker 1: and I show I ain't been begging for a bitch

1008
00:50:36,239 --> 00:50:38,200
Speaker 1: ass thing. No, we didn't fuck, but help me.

1009
00:50:43,520 --> 00:50:47,239
Speaker 3: Well, okay, I was trying to figure out where do

1010
00:50:47,320 --> 00:50:51,120
Speaker 3: I start. So first of all, how do you how

1011
00:50:51,200 --> 00:50:53,120
Speaker 3: can you say you spent your whole life dating?

1012
00:50:53,160 --> 00:50:56,600
Speaker 1: Ain't shit niggas. See you're only twenty. She probably been

1013
00:50:56,640 --> 00:51:01,279
Speaker 1: like me since we were six. I don't do that.

1014
00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:04,520
Speaker 3: But no, so, yeah you only twenty number one. I

1015
00:51:04,640 --> 00:51:07,080
Speaker 3: definitely feel like, you know, if you want something out

1016
00:51:07,160 --> 00:51:10,800
Speaker 3: of your situations, it's nobody's fault but yourself that you

1017
00:51:10,920 --> 00:51:12,840
Speaker 3: are not getting anything. I feel like, you know what

1018
00:51:12,920 --> 00:51:14,959
Speaker 3: I mean. If you want things, you have to ask

1019
00:51:15,040 --> 00:51:17,720
Speaker 3: for them. You have to say what you want. People

1020
00:51:17,800 --> 00:51:19,600
Speaker 3: can't read minds, you know what I mean. If you

1021
00:51:19,719 --> 00:51:21,920
Speaker 3: seem like you content, we'll only get in dick. A

1022
00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:24,839
Speaker 3: nigga is only gonna give you dick, right, so, because

1023
00:51:24,880 --> 00:51:26,719
Speaker 3: that's all they be really wanted to give us anyways.

1024
00:51:27,400 --> 00:51:30,759
Speaker 3: So so if you seem like you're content with only

1025
00:51:30,800 --> 00:51:32,520
Speaker 3: getting that, that's all you're gonna get, you know what

1026
00:51:32,600 --> 00:51:35,040
Speaker 3: I mean. If you want more, ask for more?

1027
00:51:37,080 --> 00:51:42,000
Speaker 1: What else? She said? Yeah, shooting your shot. Niggas with

1028
00:51:42,160 --> 00:51:45,120
Speaker 1: money do not do that. Yeah. I don't know how

1029
00:51:45,200 --> 00:51:47,560
Speaker 1: many times that we have to tell y'all stop shooting

1030
00:51:47,600 --> 00:51:50,400
Speaker 1: y'all shot at these men men. I don't care what.

1031
00:51:51,080 --> 00:51:52,640
Speaker 1: I don't care what a man gonna tell you.

1032
00:51:52,719 --> 00:51:52,799
Speaker 2: Oh.

1033
00:51:52,880 --> 00:51:54,920
Speaker 1: I like aggressive women, know the fuck they don't? They

1034
00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:57,200
Speaker 1: like to chase. They are dogs. What do dogs do?

1035
00:51:57,520 --> 00:52:01,200
Speaker 1: Go fetch? Do you ask, they gonna after it. That's

1036
00:52:01,239 --> 00:52:03,800
Speaker 1: what I'm just saying, like, do not shoot your shine.

1037
00:52:03,880 --> 00:52:05,960
Speaker 1: All you got, all you have to do is look

1038
00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:07,759
Speaker 1: how you look, be how you are, and if he

1039
00:52:07,840 --> 00:52:09,960
Speaker 1: want you, he's gonna definitely make it. On a lot

1040
00:52:10,000 --> 00:52:11,880
Speaker 1: of the time, I feel like the more uninterested you

1041
00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:15,720
Speaker 1: you've seen, the more niggas be one you exactly. Hmmm

1042
00:52:16,040 --> 00:52:16,759
Speaker 1: ain't that a word?

1043
00:52:16,920 --> 00:52:19,080
Speaker 3: Yeah? Facts, once you really started niga if you ever

1044
00:52:19,160 --> 00:52:21,200
Speaker 3: know this, once you really start getting into a nigga,

1045
00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:24,680
Speaker 3: he start acting a fool, he'd be like, Okay, where's

1046
00:52:24,719 --> 00:52:27,880
Speaker 3: the next because yeah, he be bored because now you

1047
00:52:28,080 --> 00:52:28,839
Speaker 3: all about him.

1048
00:52:29,520 --> 00:52:33,080
Speaker 1: M m. So you keep it playing, keep it playing,

1049
00:52:33,440 --> 00:52:37,520
Speaker 1: keep your heart, three stacks, keep your hard but yeah, okay,

1050
00:52:37,600 --> 00:52:39,920
Speaker 1: So the next question, wait, do we have any more

1051
00:52:39,960 --> 00:52:42,400
Speaker 1: patroon questions? Yeah, I'm gonna go ahead and do that. Okay.

1052
00:52:42,840 --> 00:52:45,120
Speaker 3: So the next question is, Hey, just wanted to say

1053
00:52:45,239 --> 00:52:47,239
Speaker 3: I'm so glad I ran across you guys on the

1054
00:52:47,280 --> 00:52:49,880
Speaker 3: eighty five South Show. I've been binging and catching up

1055
00:52:49,920 --> 00:52:52,120
Speaker 3: on the YouTube, Patreon, and podcast.

1056
00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:52,680
Speaker 1: Lol.

1057
00:52:53,120 --> 00:52:55,960
Speaker 3: My roommate in our twenty two just graduated from college

1058
00:52:56,000 --> 00:52:58,719
Speaker 3: and moved to Charlotte, so we definitely resonate with you

1059
00:52:58,840 --> 00:53:03,160
Speaker 3: guys a lot. Also consider ourselves a BDB enthusiasts.

1060
00:53:02,600 --> 00:53:05,719
Speaker 1: Who I like it, we might have to put through sure.

1061
00:53:06,640 --> 00:53:09,759
Speaker 3: We also consider ourselves BDB enthusiasts as well. Now my

1062
00:53:09,920 --> 00:53:12,000
Speaker 3: question is when you guys were our age, did you

1063
00:53:12,080 --> 00:53:14,759
Speaker 3: go after men the same age or older? Because some

1064
00:53:14,880 --> 00:53:16,680
Speaker 3: me and our ages be cool with what we are

1065
00:53:16,760 --> 00:53:20,160
Speaker 3: asking for and will comply with the whining and dining

1066
00:53:20,280 --> 00:53:22,600
Speaker 3: and spending, but others will act like you asking for

1067
00:53:22,719 --> 00:53:25,719
Speaker 3: the world like by motherfucker. And of course we don't

1068
00:53:25,719 --> 00:53:28,200
Speaker 3: expect the regular digular dude to be able to do this.

1069
00:53:28,640 --> 00:53:34,880
Speaker 3: We talking mini bdb's loel Okay, so would you.

1070
00:53:34,920 --> 00:53:36,239
Speaker 1: Like to go first? So would you like me to

1071
00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:40,360
Speaker 1: answer this first? I always say this, A BDB is

1072
00:53:40,520 --> 00:53:44,440
Speaker 1: what you want from the situation. As long as as

1073
00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:46,160
Speaker 1: long as he can do what you want him to do,

1074
00:53:46,560 --> 00:53:49,520
Speaker 1: that's a BDB. And he doesn't have to be a millionaire,

1075
00:53:49,640 --> 00:53:52,239
Speaker 1: he doesn't have to be it's whatever that make sure

1076
00:53:52,280 --> 00:53:54,279
Speaker 1: he's making you happy and doing what you need to do.

1077
00:53:55,000 --> 00:53:56,920
Speaker 1: So with that being said, when I was twenty two,

1078
00:53:57,200 --> 00:53:59,040
Speaker 1: I was dating all type of niggas. I was day

1079
00:53:59,120 --> 00:54:00,920
Speaker 1: niggas that were older than me. I was dating niggas

1080
00:54:00,920 --> 00:54:04,399
Speaker 1: that was my age, whoever was doing what I needed

1081
00:54:04,440 --> 00:54:04,759
Speaker 1: them to do.

1082
00:54:06,080 --> 00:54:08,839
Speaker 3: Yeah, when I was twenty two, I really wasn't dating

1083
00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:12,319
Speaker 3: bdbs for real. I was just dating like regular well yeah,

1084
00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:14,080
Speaker 3: I was just dating regular dudes. I didn't really start

1085
00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:16,440
Speaker 3: dating bdbs until like after I got my TDS thing.

1086
00:54:16,960 --> 00:54:21,040
Speaker 3: But yeah, I just feel like also with when dealing

1087
00:54:21,120 --> 00:54:24,000
Speaker 3: with guys that are young, you have to realize it's

1088
00:54:24,080 --> 00:54:26,719
Speaker 3: not so much. You can't expect like a twenty two

1089
00:54:26,760 --> 00:54:28,439
Speaker 3: year old nigas to be tricking on you because first

1090
00:54:28,440 --> 00:54:29,319
Speaker 3: of all, where you gonna get.

1091
00:54:29,200 --> 00:54:29,640
Speaker 1: The money from?

1092
00:54:29,880 --> 00:54:34,279
Speaker 3: Right, Like y'all youngest fuck like you, just like y'all

1093
00:54:34,360 --> 00:54:37,200
Speaker 3: probably not well established in life. Yet neither are they

1094
00:54:37,440 --> 00:54:40,359
Speaker 3: because y'all all just graduated from college. Them niggas trying

1095
00:54:40,400 --> 00:54:41,960
Speaker 3: to get into their career. They trying to find their

1096
00:54:42,040 --> 00:54:44,200
Speaker 3: jobs and shit, unless they got some type of inheritance

1097
00:54:44,239 --> 00:54:45,480
Speaker 3: from their family or something.

1098
00:54:45,320 --> 00:54:48,160
Speaker 1: Niggas their age don't be really having money like right,

1099
00:54:48,560 --> 00:54:49,239
Speaker 1: you know what I mean?

1100
00:54:49,360 --> 00:54:51,120
Speaker 3: So I feel like, if that's what y'all looking for,

1101
00:54:51,200 --> 00:54:54,800
Speaker 3: if y'all a BEDB enthusiasts, got your best entriest for

1102
00:54:54,920 --> 00:54:57,680
Speaker 3: sure today to men that are older than y'all. If

1103
00:54:57,800 --> 00:55:00,759
Speaker 3: I still day older than mean and I'm eighty seven. Yeah, now,

1104
00:55:00,880 --> 00:55:02,880
Speaker 3: I definitely date men that are older than me. But

1105
00:55:02,960 --> 00:55:05,080
Speaker 3: when I was twenty two, I was dating guys my age,

1106
00:55:05,160 --> 00:55:06,800
Speaker 3: but like I said, I didn't. I also didn't have

1107
00:55:06,920 --> 00:55:10,120
Speaker 3: the mindset at twenty two that I have now, So

1108
00:55:10,680 --> 00:55:13,320
Speaker 3: I wasn't really dating bdb's backed then. But if I was,

1109
00:55:13,360 --> 00:55:15,040
Speaker 3: I wouldn't be dat No Nigga. That was my age

1110
00:55:16,320 --> 00:55:19,560
Speaker 3: facts because even at this age, nigga still be broke

1111
00:55:19,680 --> 00:55:23,160
Speaker 3: then be our age. Yeah, that's why you still got age.

1112
00:55:23,239 --> 00:55:25,640
Speaker 1: You still got that because like I said, I'm thirty one,

1113
00:55:25,800 --> 00:55:27,520
Speaker 1: So it's like nigga's at thirty one, like they be

1114
00:55:27,719 --> 00:55:29,520
Speaker 1: knowing what they want to do, but it's not like

1115
00:55:30,120 --> 00:55:34,480
Speaker 1: it's not like what y'all think it is. Yeah, so right, okay,

1116
00:55:34,560 --> 00:55:36,799
Speaker 1: So it says, hey, ladies, I had on the hot

1117
00:55:36,880 --> 00:55:38,919
Speaker 1: pink shirt at the Houston meet up, and of course

1118
00:55:38,960 --> 00:55:41,360
Speaker 1: I love your show. Please don't say my name. My

1119
00:55:41,600 --> 00:55:44,480
Speaker 1: question is what would be your advice to me? I'm

1120
00:55:44,560 --> 00:55:47,480
Speaker 1: twenty four, own my own house, have a nice car

1121
00:55:47,680 --> 00:55:50,719
Speaker 1: and material things. But I feel like I intimidate men

1122
00:55:50,880 --> 00:55:53,400
Speaker 1: I date and it becomes a power struggle that I

1123
00:55:53,520 --> 00:55:56,600
Speaker 1: really don't want. I want my feminine energy to have

1124
00:55:56,800 --> 00:55:59,399
Speaker 1: space in my relationships. But I feel like when I'm

1125
00:55:59,440 --> 00:56:02,080
Speaker 1: carrying more wait financially or can just do more than

1126
00:56:02,120 --> 00:56:05,880
Speaker 1: they can, more masculine energy comes out and I become

1127
00:56:06,000 --> 00:56:09,160
Speaker 1: more dominant than I want. Also, what advice would you

1128
00:56:09,200 --> 00:56:14,160
Speaker 1: give your twenty four year old self? I feel like

1129
00:56:15,480 --> 00:56:18,640
Speaker 1: with as far as being dominant and submissive in a relationship,

1130
00:56:19,280 --> 00:56:21,439
Speaker 1: you have to understand that it can't be about money,

1131
00:56:22,760 --> 00:56:26,120
Speaker 1: like if that's if that's what you want, because she's

1132
00:56:26,160 --> 00:56:29,000
Speaker 1: saying she's dating man and she's always more financially stable.

1133
00:56:29,400 --> 00:56:31,920
Speaker 1: So if you want to be more you know, kind

1134
00:56:31,960 --> 00:56:33,880
Speaker 1: of taking the vaccine, then you can't look at the

1135
00:56:33,960 --> 00:56:37,160
Speaker 1: dominant submissive shit as being financial. It's hard for me too,

1136
00:56:37,440 --> 00:56:40,040
Speaker 1: cause I if I'm making more money than you and

1137
00:56:40,120 --> 00:56:42,120
Speaker 1: I'm doing this and I'm doing that, I'm kind of

1138
00:56:42,160 --> 00:56:42,719
Speaker 1: the same way.

1139
00:56:44,160 --> 00:56:46,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, And that's what I was gonna say. I feel

1140
00:56:46,200 --> 00:56:48,439
Speaker 3: like you have to date me and that aren't gonna

1141
00:56:48,440 --> 00:56:51,520
Speaker 3: be threatened by how much money you making and stuff.

1142
00:56:51,680 --> 00:56:52,319
Speaker 1: True, you know what I mean.

1143
00:56:52,360 --> 00:56:54,600
Speaker 3: I hate to always bring it back today because I

1144
00:56:54,640 --> 00:56:56,600
Speaker 3: feel like it always just sound like i'd be like, oh,

1145
00:56:56,719 --> 00:56:58,880
Speaker 3: date up, like they make sure you date people that

1146
00:56:59,000 --> 00:57:00,720
Speaker 3: make more money than you and all that type of stuff.

1147
00:57:00,719 --> 00:57:02,160
Speaker 3: But I do feel like you only gonna have them

1148
00:57:02,200 --> 00:57:04,399
Speaker 3: type of issues with a man that's making less money

1149
00:57:04,400 --> 00:57:06,279
Speaker 3: than you. Nigga's making more money than you, He's not

1150
00:57:06,320 --> 00:57:08,080
Speaker 3: gonna be intimidated by the fact that you're.

1151
00:57:09,800 --> 00:57:13,480
Speaker 1: But also feel it's about its being secure within yourself

1152
00:57:13,480 --> 00:57:15,520
Speaker 1: because there's probably some men out there who make less

1153
00:57:15,560 --> 00:57:17,240
Speaker 1: money than their a woman, and they're okay with that,

1154
00:57:17,360 --> 00:57:20,400
Speaker 1: but they still are they have dominant personalities, and they

1155
00:57:20,480 --> 00:57:22,520
Speaker 1: still have the final say so on things. I mean,

1156
00:57:22,640 --> 00:57:25,520
Speaker 1: sometimes I don't feel like it's I don't think it's.

1157
00:57:27,000 --> 00:57:29,840
Speaker 3: I don't think that it's reasonable to be in a

1158
00:57:29,960 --> 00:57:32,760
Speaker 3: relationship and be the man and you're making less money

1159
00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:35,760
Speaker 3: and you feel like you're the dominant person in the relationship.

1160
00:57:35,880 --> 00:57:38,880
Speaker 1: Is no way because you're not holding your aid. I'm dead.

1161
00:57:42,280 --> 00:57:48,080
Speaker 3: I feel like it's a man's jobs.

1162
00:57:49,360 --> 00:57:51,320
Speaker 1: It's a man's job to provide.

1163
00:57:51,520 --> 00:57:54,720
Speaker 3: We was always taught that right as a woman, a

1164
00:57:54,800 --> 00:57:58,160
Speaker 3: new millennial woman especially, you should want to have your

1165
00:57:58,240 --> 00:58:01,200
Speaker 3: own bag. Make sure you get your own bag, but

1166
00:58:01,280 --> 00:58:03,560
Speaker 3: don't never get it fucked up just because you're giving

1167
00:58:03,560 --> 00:58:06,840
Speaker 3: your own bag, your nigga still supposed to provide. So

1168
00:58:07,360 --> 00:58:09,560
Speaker 3: if I'm in a relationship which I would never be

1169
00:58:10,160 --> 00:58:13,560
Speaker 3: with the man that's making less money than me, you

1170
00:58:13,960 --> 00:58:18,760
Speaker 3: not controlling she right, because you can't even control your finances.

1171
00:58:19,520 --> 00:58:21,080
Speaker 1: I feel like and a lot of times what I

1172
00:58:21,280 --> 00:58:25,080
Speaker 1: noticed what women that make money do is they put

1173
00:58:25,160 --> 00:58:28,520
Speaker 1: their bar in hell. Their standards are so low for

1174
00:58:28,600 --> 00:58:30,240
Speaker 1: a man because it's hard to find what they want,

1175
00:58:30,280 --> 00:58:32,160
Speaker 1: so they just they get to a point where they

1176
00:58:32,240 --> 00:58:33,760
Speaker 1: just want a man. I mean, how many times do

1177
00:58:33,840 --> 00:58:37,080
Speaker 1: we see that though women making money like just settling

1178
00:58:37,320 --> 00:58:39,919
Speaker 1: just to say they have a man. I mean, yeah, true.

1179
00:58:39,960 --> 00:58:41,360
Speaker 3: And I feel like a lot of the time too,

1180
00:58:41,400 --> 00:58:43,240
Speaker 3: when women are making a lot of money, they be

1181
00:58:43,360 --> 00:58:45,479
Speaker 3: wanting a nigga who like make a lot of women

1182
00:58:45,560 --> 00:58:47,200
Speaker 3: who make a lot of money be wanting a nigga

1183
00:58:47,240 --> 00:58:49,120
Speaker 3: that make less money than them because it's something about

1184
00:58:49,160 --> 00:58:53,800
Speaker 3: they love, like to control. I've never been like that,

1185
00:58:53,920 --> 00:58:56,400
Speaker 3: Like I want a nigga who I want my men

1186
00:58:56,520 --> 00:58:58,160
Speaker 3: to be a man like, and I want him to

1187
00:58:58,200 --> 00:59:00,840
Speaker 3: be the head of the relationship, you know what I mean.

1188
00:59:01,440 --> 00:59:03,360
Speaker 3: I don't want him to be controlling me and stuff

1189
00:59:03,400 --> 00:59:05,680
Speaker 3: like that. But I definitely wanted to be clear that

1190
00:59:05,800 --> 00:59:08,560
Speaker 3: he's the head of the relationship, head of the household.

1191
00:59:09,720 --> 00:59:11,400
Speaker 1: I like that, so you know what I mean. I

1192
00:59:11,440 --> 00:59:14,400
Speaker 1: don't I don't want no nigga who I'm dominating him.

1193
00:59:14,720 --> 00:59:16,760
Speaker 3: But I just feel like, yeah, maybe you should just

1194
00:59:17,800 --> 00:59:21,200
Speaker 3: try to date a different group of men, is what

1195
00:59:21,280 --> 00:59:23,160
Speaker 3: it sounds like to me, because obviously the me and

1196
00:59:23,200 --> 00:59:26,800
Speaker 3: your dating are intimidated by your success, and you shouldn't

1197
00:59:27,040 --> 00:59:29,240
Speaker 3: have to feel like you need to make yourself less

1198
00:59:29,280 --> 00:59:31,720
Speaker 3: of who you are to date the people.

1199
00:59:31,720 --> 00:59:35,240
Speaker 1: You're my life to make somebody else feel like they're

1200
00:59:35,320 --> 00:59:35,840
Speaker 1: doing something.

1201
00:59:35,880 --> 00:59:37,680
Speaker 3: Because young girl, you're doing good. You're twenty four with

1202
00:59:37,760 --> 00:59:39,000
Speaker 3: your own house's successful.

1203
00:59:41,240 --> 00:59:43,680
Speaker 1: I ain't got no house. I'm almost thirty and I

1204
00:59:43,680 --> 00:59:46,840
Speaker 1: ain't got a healthy anything. Come on, almost thirty. I

1205
00:59:47,040 --> 00:59:49,720
Speaker 1: liked it you and you say that boo. Okay, so

1206
00:59:50,000 --> 00:59:54,360
Speaker 1: let's go to the next week. Go ahead, Okay, oh wait,

1207
00:59:54,440 --> 00:59:54,720
Speaker 1: this is it?

1208
00:59:54,800 --> 00:59:57,400
Speaker 3: Okay, Hey, girls, I just want to start off by

1209
00:59:57,480 --> 00:59:59,840
Speaker 3: saying to the listeners that if you're not a patron

1210
01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:02,680
Speaker 3: member of Poor Minds, you better go subscribe, like right now.

1211
01:00:02,760 --> 01:00:06,720
Speaker 1: Gren better advertise for us. Oh that's our girl. Oh,

1212
01:00:06,800 --> 01:00:07,520
Speaker 1: that is our girl.

1213
01:00:07,560 --> 01:00:10,480
Speaker 3: Okay, So my question is my man and I have

1214
01:00:10,600 --> 01:00:12,800
Speaker 3: been going strong since the beginning of the year. He

1215
01:00:12,920 --> 01:00:15,320
Speaker 3: lost the child a few years ago around the holiday,

1216
01:00:15,640 --> 01:00:17,800
Speaker 3: so he told me early in the relationship that he

1217
01:00:17,880 --> 01:00:20,760
Speaker 3: doesn't like to celebrate his birthday in October or anything

1218
01:00:20,880 --> 01:00:23,280
Speaker 3: holiday related because of the loss of his child, and

1219
01:00:23,360 --> 01:00:26,600
Speaker 3: I respected that. However, I have been his friend for

1220
01:00:26,760 --> 01:00:28,880
Speaker 3: years prior to us becoming a couple, and he did

1221
01:00:29,000 --> 01:00:33,440
Speaker 3: celebrate Halloween with his ex with matching costumes. They had

1222
01:00:33,480 --> 01:00:36,400
Speaker 3: their matching Christmas pajamas and sweaters. In the back of

1223
01:00:36,480 --> 01:00:39,560
Speaker 3: my mind, it keeps bothering me. My friend invited us

1224
01:00:39,560 --> 01:00:41,960
Speaker 3: to Halloween party at the end of this month, and

1225
01:00:42,520 --> 01:00:45,440
Speaker 3: this was in October, y'all, and he said he didn't

1226
01:00:45,480 --> 01:00:47,600
Speaker 3: want to go because he doesn't dress up, and he

1227
01:00:47,720 --> 01:00:50,680
Speaker 3: reminded me how he felt about the holidays. I respect

1228
01:00:50,760 --> 01:00:52,640
Speaker 3: and love my men, and I don't want to be

1229
01:00:52,720 --> 01:00:55,200
Speaker 3: insensitive to his request. But how do I mention that

1230
01:00:55,280 --> 01:00:57,560
Speaker 3: it bothers me that he was able to celebrate with

1231
01:00:57,640 --> 01:00:59,560
Speaker 3: his ex, but he keeps telling me that he doesn't

1232
01:00:59,600 --> 01:01:01,920
Speaker 3: celebrate when he clearly did just last year.

1233
01:01:02,440 --> 01:01:04,080
Speaker 1: I really don't want to be mad about.

1234
01:01:03,880 --> 01:01:06,400
Speaker 3: It or argue with him, but I know if I

1235
01:01:06,440 --> 01:01:08,400
Speaker 3: can't come, But I know if I confront him, he

1236
01:01:08,440 --> 01:01:11,440
Speaker 3: will be upset. Now, I'm not a huge holiday freak

1237
01:01:11,560 --> 01:01:14,880
Speaker 3: like John on girlfriends, but I would like us to

1238
01:01:14,960 --> 01:01:18,160
Speaker 3: celebrate and do something nice. It being our first holiday together.

1239
01:01:18,440 --> 01:01:20,640
Speaker 3: Twenty twenty has been trashed for the most part, and

1240
01:01:20,760 --> 01:01:23,160
Speaker 3: he and I have accomplished a lot together and if

1241
01:01:23,200 --> 01:01:24,880
Speaker 3: we don't get to do anything.

1242
01:01:24,600 --> 01:01:26,760
Speaker 1: It will really hurt me. What should I do help?

1243
01:01:29,320 --> 01:01:33,040
Speaker 1: If you wearing your fucking onesie with the butt flap

1244
01:01:33,240 --> 01:01:36,480
Speaker 1: in the back with your ex bitch, best believe you're

1245
01:01:36,480 --> 01:01:38,600
Speaker 1: about to put on that shit with me too, right,

1246
01:01:38,880 --> 01:01:41,440
Speaker 1: you gotta be fuck iory anything you could do, what

1247
01:01:41,600 --> 01:01:44,360
Speaker 1: hell you could do with me? But also, it's not

1248
01:01:44,440 --> 01:01:47,280
Speaker 1: about what you say, it's how you say it, so

1249
01:01:48,280 --> 01:01:50,160
Speaker 1: you can't approach it like, oh, you dressed up with

1250
01:01:50,200 --> 01:01:51,880
Speaker 1: her last year, Why you can't dress up with me?

1251
01:01:52,920 --> 01:01:55,560
Speaker 1: It's like you gotta be more. So like, I know

1252
01:01:55,680 --> 01:01:57,960
Speaker 1: you don't like the holidays because of everything that went on,

1253
01:01:58,560 --> 01:02:01,120
Speaker 1: but I do want to celebrate them all just because

1254
01:02:01,240 --> 01:02:02,800
Speaker 1: it's been a trash here. I feel like it will

1255
01:02:02,880 --> 01:02:08,400
Speaker 1: be fun. We can start traditions. You know, I wouldn't

1256
01:02:09,320 --> 01:02:12,320
Speaker 1: bring you still say no, Then I would be like, well,

1257
01:02:12,360 --> 01:02:16,280
Speaker 1: how the fuck you? Okay, No, it's not about what

1258
01:02:16,520 --> 01:02:19,040
Speaker 1: you say, it's how you say. You are already saying

1259
01:02:19,080 --> 01:02:22,360
Speaker 1: it nice, so now I'm gonna say it not nice.

1260
01:02:22,400 --> 01:02:24,919
Speaker 1: The fuck? So you could dress up with this toe,

1261
01:02:26,240 --> 01:02:28,960
Speaker 1: but you can't dress up with me? You got me

1262
01:02:29,080 --> 01:02:32,320
Speaker 1: fucked up? Hell no, No, that's gonna cause an argument.

1263
01:02:32,760 --> 01:02:33,240
Speaker 1: That's fine.

1264
01:02:33,560 --> 01:02:36,880
Speaker 3: Commun argument about it. If you could dress up with

1265
01:02:36,960 --> 01:02:38,720
Speaker 3: this towe, but you're still telling me you can't dress

1266
01:02:38,800 --> 01:02:41,680
Speaker 3: up with me, you got to communicate better. I know

1267
01:02:41,800 --> 01:02:44,080
Speaker 3: how to communicate. I would try to communicate the way

1268
01:02:44,120 --> 01:02:47,200
Speaker 3: that you said to communicate. Then if that nigga still say.

1269
01:02:47,120 --> 01:02:58,600
Speaker 1: No, why why why ebony? Why it's okay? I would

1270
01:02:58,640 --> 01:03:00,280
Speaker 1: tell you so this is how you have to say

1271
01:03:00,320 --> 01:03:02,960
Speaker 1: that beat down the door with my So that's when

1272
01:03:03,000 --> 01:03:05,760
Speaker 1: you say, okay, So can you help me understand because

1273
01:03:05,760 --> 01:03:08,520
Speaker 1: I saw you know in the past, you dressed up before,

1274
01:03:08,960 --> 01:03:11,080
Speaker 1: So why is it a problem dressing up now? I'm

1275
01:03:11,120 --> 01:03:13,440
Speaker 1: just trying to understand what you're going through and how

1276
01:03:13,480 --> 01:03:15,560
Speaker 1: we can get over this hump. And then what if

1277
01:03:15,600 --> 01:03:18,280
Speaker 1: he be like like I'm just not feeling this sheet.

1278
01:03:18,320 --> 01:03:20,280
Speaker 1: I just don't want to do it. So then you

1279
01:03:20,440 --> 01:03:22,840
Speaker 1: ask and you pull up the Instagram and you still

1280
01:03:22,880 --> 01:03:26,880
Speaker 1: ask nicely, why can you do this? But you can't

1281
01:03:26,920 --> 01:03:27,520
Speaker 1: do this with me?

1282
01:03:27,880 --> 01:03:30,160
Speaker 3: And then he say, well that was that was last year.

1283
01:03:30,600 --> 01:03:32,160
Speaker 3: I don't feel like doing this shitty shoes.

1284
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Speaker 1: Well, you're gonna put on this ship, you're gonna put

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01:03:36,560 --> 01:03:42,840
Speaker 1: on this onesie and you're gonna drink and you're gonna sing.

1286
01:03:43,520 --> 01:03:47,280
Speaker 1: Deck the halls, whole ass nigga, youa take this motherfucking

1287
01:03:47,360 --> 01:03:51,240
Speaker 1: pig and you're gonna swamp and then you leave it

1288
01:03:51,320 --> 01:03:53,920
Speaker 1: at that, but you gonna, okay, you gotta squeeze his

1289
01:03:54,080 --> 01:04:01,680
Speaker 1: arms Deck the dolls, blah blah blah, la la la.

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01:04:07,240 --> 01:04:11,280
Speaker 1: I feel like maybe you've been in this predicable squeeze

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01:04:11,320 --> 01:04:12,000
Speaker 1: in my arm.

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01:04:14,960 --> 01:04:17,760
Speaker 3: Flash. Yeah, I mean, I definitely do agree with Les.

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01:04:17,800 --> 01:04:20,040
Speaker 3: I definitely think you should ask him nicely, you know

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01:04:20,120 --> 01:04:22,800
Speaker 3: what I mean, and then you know, depending on what

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01:04:22,920 --> 01:04:23,680
Speaker 3: he say, girl.

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01:04:23,560 --> 01:04:25,760
Speaker 1: Go from there, then do what you will see feed.

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01:04:26,080 --> 01:04:27,920
Speaker 1: That's why I say I think that. But obviously this

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01:04:28,040 --> 01:04:30,920
Speaker 1: is a this is something traumatizing to him, so you

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01:04:31,000 --> 01:04:33,360
Speaker 1: can't just take it like I get mad. Yeah, you

1300
01:04:33,440 --> 01:04:35,520
Speaker 1: can't take it lightly and get and get too mad

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01:04:35,560 --> 01:04:38,000
Speaker 1: at him because obviously, like I said, it's something traumatizing,

1302
01:04:39,080 --> 01:04:40,840
Speaker 1: So you gotta get to the bottom of it of

1303
01:04:41,000 --> 01:04:43,959
Speaker 1: why he really, you know, doesn't want to right. Okay,

1304
01:04:44,000 --> 01:04:45,760
Speaker 1: So we're gonna do one more. We're gonna close it out,

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01:04:46,080 --> 01:04:50,040
Speaker 1: all right, Okay, Okay, So last one it says, hey,

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01:04:50,160 --> 01:04:52,480
Speaker 1: Dre and Lex, I just recently got hit to you guys,

1307
01:04:52,520 --> 01:04:55,680
Speaker 1: and I love y'all so much. Listening always makes my day.

1308
01:04:55,800 --> 01:04:58,680
Speaker 1: But my question is I still feel like all men

1309
01:04:58,960 --> 01:05:04,360
Speaker 1: aren't bad men, and she must be twelve. I still

1310
01:05:04,440 --> 01:05:07,320
Speaker 1: have I still have some fucking hope. But how do

1311
01:05:07,400 --> 01:05:09,840
Speaker 1: you know when to talk a nigga for making a

1312
01:05:09,920 --> 01:05:12,800
Speaker 1: mistake and doing dumb ass ship or growing and building

1313
01:05:12,840 --> 01:05:14,919
Speaker 1: with a man? How do you know when it's worth

1314
01:05:15,000 --> 01:05:19,959
Speaker 1: it or not? You know, you know, is he making

1315
01:05:20,040 --> 01:05:22,760
Speaker 1: that effort as well? It's a conversation that needs to

1316
01:05:22,800 --> 01:05:24,680
Speaker 1: be had. If you sit down with a nigga and

1317
01:05:24,720 --> 01:05:26,360
Speaker 1: be like, look, I want to make this work. I

1318
01:05:26,440 --> 01:05:28,640
Speaker 1: want us to get along. If he's like, yeah, I

1319
01:05:28,720 --> 01:05:31,320
Speaker 1: want to do that too. When his actions change, then

1320
01:05:31,360 --> 01:05:34,960
Speaker 1: maybe it is worth it. But the best way a

1321
01:05:35,120 --> 01:05:37,400
Speaker 1: man can show you that he's into you is his behavior.

1322
01:05:38,360 --> 01:05:41,520
Speaker 1: So if he's showing you, then you already know. Yeah,

1323
01:05:41,600 --> 01:05:41,959
Speaker 1: you can't.

1324
01:05:42,000 --> 01:05:44,920
Speaker 3: It's very easy, right, You can't just be believing a

1325
01:05:45,000 --> 01:05:49,280
Speaker 3: niggas feeling you. I'm a change. I mean, he don't change.

1326
01:05:49,760 --> 01:05:51,680
Speaker 1: It's not worth it. Then you know what I mean?

1327
01:05:52,160 --> 01:05:55,920
Speaker 3: The best what's the what's the saying? The best part

1328
01:05:56,000 --> 01:06:04,440
Speaker 3: of waking up is folks talking about change behavior. I

1329
01:06:04,480 --> 01:06:07,520
Speaker 3: can't think of the saying. But anyways, the best way

1330
01:06:07,600 --> 01:06:09,520
Speaker 3: for a nigga to show you that he's serious about

1331
01:06:09,560 --> 01:06:11,600
Speaker 3: you is for him to change his behavior. Him telling

1332
01:06:11,640 --> 01:06:13,800
Speaker 3: you that he's sorry and she but not making no effort.

1333
01:06:13,800 --> 01:06:16,040
Speaker 3: That's some bullshit and he's just trying to stream you along.

1334
01:06:16,560 --> 01:06:17,840
Speaker 3: And I feel like a lot of women.

1335
01:06:17,720 --> 01:06:18,200
Speaker 1: Fall for that.

1336
01:06:18,320 --> 01:06:20,520
Speaker 3: That's why niggas do eat because they know they can

1337
01:06:20,600 --> 01:06:23,400
Speaker 3: keep eating bullshit and you're gonna stay. So I feel

1338
01:06:23,440 --> 01:06:25,480
Speaker 3: like you know in your mind as a woman, when

1339
01:06:25,520 --> 01:06:29,640
Speaker 3: it's worth it. We have a good instinct and sometimes instinct.

1340
01:06:31,720 --> 01:06:35,080
Speaker 3: So we have a good I'm sorry, a good instinct

1341
01:06:36,240 --> 01:06:38,720
Speaker 3: and sometimes you just have to instinct.

1342
01:06:40,520 --> 01:06:43,439
Speaker 1: You just have to follow it, Okay, So your girl,

1343
01:06:43,800 --> 01:06:47,560
Speaker 1: that's our advice. So yeah, make sure, Oh we have

1344
01:06:48,080 --> 01:06:51,000
Speaker 1: an announcement. Oh damn, what is make at the beginning

1345
01:06:51,000 --> 01:06:51,560
Speaker 1: of the episode.

1346
01:06:52,320 --> 01:06:54,360
Speaker 3: It's all right, that's how we gonna ensure they leasten

1347
01:06:54,480 --> 01:06:57,440
Speaker 3: to the end, the announcements the end.

1348
01:06:57,520 --> 01:07:02,120
Speaker 1: So we got some marks dropping for y'all, some merch,

1349
01:07:02,320 --> 01:07:06,720
Speaker 1: and y'all this the merch. The merch ay Mark, Hey,

1350
01:07:07,560 --> 01:07:11,439
Speaker 1: put her on that merch show your work, poor mind.

1351
01:07:12,000 --> 01:07:16,040
Speaker 1: We super fun getting it in the mark, I don't know.

1352
01:07:17,600 --> 01:07:20,960
Speaker 3: So anyways, we got some merch dropping for y'all on Friday.

1353
01:07:21,080 --> 01:07:24,400
Speaker 3: What's what's the day on Friday? Friday is the twenty seventh?

1354
01:07:24,520 --> 01:07:24,800
Speaker 3: I think?

1355
01:07:24,920 --> 01:07:27,080
Speaker 1: Okay, so it's the twenty seven. So for y'all that

1356
01:07:27,480 --> 01:07:29,560
Speaker 1: wait and listen to the show late, sorry for you,

1357
01:07:30,120 --> 01:07:33,440
Speaker 1: but it's Friday. If y'all watching the YouTube, it's Friday,

1358
01:07:33,880 --> 01:07:36,640
Speaker 1: and the merch is dropping right now. Make sure y'all

1359
01:07:36,760 --> 01:07:38,520
Speaker 1: get the merch. If you're a Patrenon episode and you're

1360
01:07:38,560 --> 01:07:40,200
Speaker 1: on the top tier, you already got the link because

1361
01:07:40,200 --> 01:07:44,280
Speaker 1: it dropped on Monday, and dropped on Monday. So honestly,

1362
01:07:44,720 --> 01:07:47,560
Speaker 1: these merch drops that we're doing, it's like exclusive stuff.

1363
01:07:47,600 --> 01:07:49,280
Speaker 1: So it's only gonna be up for like a week,

1364
01:07:49,800 --> 01:07:52,280
Speaker 1: so you gotta get the march astap and we're doing

1365
01:07:52,400 --> 01:07:53,560
Speaker 1: drops like what every money?

1366
01:07:53,600 --> 01:07:56,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, so every drop is gonna be like limited ed

1367
01:07:56,320 --> 01:07:58,160
Speaker 3: sh like she said. So it's like, you know, wa,

1368
01:07:58,240 --> 01:08:00,800
Speaker 3: the link is up, you gotta click because it's gonna

1369
01:08:00,800 --> 01:08:01,080
Speaker 3: be gone.

1370
01:08:06,240 --> 01:08:06,439
Speaker 1: Girl.

1371
01:08:06,880 --> 01:08:11,440
Speaker 3: But having drops coming for y'all monthly drops, monthly, y'all

1372
01:08:11,480 --> 01:08:13,080
Speaker 3: gotta collect them, you know what I'm saying.

1373
01:08:14,640 --> 01:08:17,519
Speaker 1: No, that's right. I am excited. I think that the

1374
01:08:17,600 --> 01:08:19,920
Speaker 1: shirt is cute. It is, it's very cute. I think

1375
01:08:19,960 --> 01:08:23,040
Speaker 1: y'all gonna like you. So so I'm gonna sing today.

1376
01:08:23,040 --> 01:08:26,880
Speaker 1: I can't wait to sing because yeah, actually we should

1377
01:08:27,040 --> 01:08:34,479
Speaker 1: because this goes out to a past situation. I've never

1378
01:08:34,520 --> 01:08:37,800
Speaker 1: talked about this man on the show and who is it.

1379
01:08:38,200 --> 01:08:40,639
Speaker 1: It's just i'll tell you after the shot. I probably will.

1380
01:08:41,760 --> 01:08:45,760
Speaker 1: You're not and something that's going on between us right

1381
01:08:45,800 --> 01:08:48,320
Speaker 1: now and we're just having a tough time. So I

1382
01:08:48,439 --> 01:08:54,599
Speaker 1: just need him to know. I'm telling you, m hmm,

1383
01:08:56,439 --> 01:09:03,360
Speaker 1: not good. You're the best mind. No love, No, there's

1384
01:09:03,479 --> 01:09:10,200
Speaker 1: no way I can oh surprised myself. Ever, go don't

1385
01:09:10,280 --> 01:09:15,640
Speaker 1: let that's no way I'm living without you. I'm not

1386
01:09:16,000 --> 01:09:23,479
Speaker 1: living with that. I don't. Oh won't I be freezing? Hey,

1387
01:09:24,840 --> 01:09:30,360
Speaker 1: I'm staying. I'm stay here. Here you he you here,

1388
01:09:30,520 --> 01:09:36,439
Speaker 1: you here. You're gonna love me? Oh, you gonna love me? Niggas,

1389
01:09:36,560 --> 01:09:43,719
Speaker 1: Oh God, damn, I don't let him know you're gonna

1390
01:09:43,880 --> 01:09:50,880
Speaker 1: love me? To the show. Do any of your niggas

1391
01:09:50,960 --> 01:09:55,360
Speaker 1: listen to the show now you know damn will whom

1392
01:09:55,479 --> 01:10:00,439
Speaker 1: my old niggas died. Thank you opportuning in. We'll see

1393
01:10:00,479 --> 01:10:08,439
Speaker 1: y'all next week. I don'et got drunk, y'all, Thank you,

1394
01:10:09,000 --> 01:10:10,160
Speaker 1: and we're gonna have about left.