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Speaker 1: Hey, wake up week.

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Speaker 2: You can get with the old man money, with the

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Speaker 2: old man money.

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Speaker 3: Fred Show is on just how that song goes Beautiful, Beautiful, Monday,

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Speaker 3: February twenty third. The French show is not Hi, Kaylin No.

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Speaker 3: Jason hopefully back on Friday from vacation slash knee surgery

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Speaker 3: slash recovery slash I don't even know high Peak. Hey, Hi, Kiki,

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Speaker 3: good morning, Shoby Shelley is here? Beema Mean's here on

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Speaker 3: the phone of the text eight five five five three

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Speaker 3: five Kiky's cord just a second bought out.

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Speaker 2: Bup girl, Finders Keepers Losers week.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's it the biggest stories of the day. We'll

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Speaker 3: do the fun fact and the entertainment reports coming up

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Speaker 3: to what are you working?

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Speaker 4: Okay man, we have.

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Speaker 5: To talk about this America's Next Hop Model documentary.

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Speaker 4: Because whoa.

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Speaker 3: I started it and I stopped same, I did the same.

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Speaker 3: I was like ten minutes and I'm like this, I

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Speaker 3: don't know. Yeah, is he really that good?

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Speaker 4: Did you watch it?

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Speaker 6: When?

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Speaker 5: Okay, I don't think it'll be good for you then,

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Speaker 5: but if you watch the season, I think it will

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Speaker 5: be like unlock a lot of memories for you.

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Speaker 3: Okay, have you were a fan of this show than why?

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Speaker 3: Because I'm like watching this, I'm like, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I started to stop a bunch of stuff this week,

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Speaker 3: and I'm just like, I don't what else did I start?

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Speaker 3: I started Love is Blind? I stopped.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't think I can do it.

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Speaker 4: I'm I'm like over that I can't do that anymore.

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Speaker 3: I think it's funny though, and there are tiktoks making

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Speaker 3: fun of this, but like, I think it's funny how

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Speaker 3: they they're trying to get clever to find out what

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Speaker 3: the people look like if they're fat, you know, like

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Speaker 3: like I don't like I'm a medium in a sweatshirt.

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Speaker 1: What are you? You know?

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Speaker 3: Like the ways in which they try and get information

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Speaker 3: out of because you can't ask what they look like.

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Speaker 5: I guess you can send you that d bag on

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Speaker 5: TikTok who's like talking to the girl about Like I'm

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Speaker 5: into girls who do cross fit every day, but I

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Speaker 5: can get turned on because right.

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Speaker 1: But that's the thing, Like, you know, I go to

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Speaker 1: the gym, you know every day? What about you? You know?

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Speaker 3: It's like these questions are clearly talked to try and

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Speaker 3: figure out what they look like. Yeah, you know, which

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Speaker 3: is kind of funny. But all right, so I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna hook you up with the keyword one more time.

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Speaker 3: So every morning at seven thirty Central eight thirty Eastern,

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Speaker 3: we're giving out the keyword for sure each day. Okay,

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Speaker 3: you need to have all ten. If you know all

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Speaker 3: ten at the end, then you'll have a chance to

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Speaker 3: call and tell us what they are. Make the sentence,

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Speaker 3: because of course it had. There has to be something

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Speaker 3: some clever twist to this, you know, because the powers

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Speaker 3: down as he's called. But here is the first of

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Speaker 3: ten keywords. I'll give it to you again, bonus edition. Down. Okay,

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Speaker 3: you need to have all ten. Number one keyword is down.

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Speaker 3: If you know all ten at the end, then you

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Speaker 3: could be going to Sydney, Australia to Cerre's Dot, all

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Speaker 3: expenses paid. We'll give you a keyword each morning for

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Speaker 3: the next two weeks. Down is the first keyword. Kinky's

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Speaker 3: courty is next after Libyadini. In three minutes French show,

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Speaker 3: order a fresh show. It's Kiky's court. Right, the Honorable

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Speaker 3: Judge Kiki is presiding five. I'll present the case.

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Speaker 2: You're on it all right, let's get in the court room.

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Speaker 2: The gabble has been hit. It says, hey, Ki, ky

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Speaker 2: am I wrong for wanting my money back. My twenty

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Speaker 2: four year old niece is a struggling single mom of two,

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Speaker 2: so I give her bens of my family's hand me

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Speaker 2: my last drop off, my niece popped up on Facebook

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Speaker 2: hosting photos from a water park hotel. That's when I

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Speaker 2: remember that sometimes I stashed emergency cash in my old

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Speaker 2: coat pockets, and sure enough, one of the coats I

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Speaker 1: What girl, damn lot?

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Speaker 2: I called her. I called her. She admitted that she

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Speaker 2: you're more financially stable anyway, so it shouldn't be a

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Speaker 2: big deal. I ignored the real comment and requested that she

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to take money from her and her kids,

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Speaker 2: and I know I should have checked the pockets. But

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Speaker 2: without making a call? Am I wrong?

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Speaker 3: Well, and you're you're accepting donations because you're not able

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Speaker 1: So h what does she spend it on?

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Speaker 2: She went to the water park hotel.

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Speaker 3: Well, that's what I mean, right, But didn't pay any

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Speaker 3: but I'm already donating things to you. So you need

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Speaker 3: use it on that as what I mean. But okay,

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Speaker 3: if you guys are the Jerry eight five five five

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Speaker 2: Judge Kiki, Well, my mom taught me at a very

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Speaker 2: young age you don't find money. Like I remember being

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Speaker 2: I found. She's like, you don't find money that's that

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Speaker 2: belongs to somebody. So if you get a coat, you

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Speaker 2: know a donation being and there's a load of cash

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Speaker 2: two thousand dollars worth. I would have called my aunt

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Speaker 2: and say, hey, I don't know if you know, but

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Speaker 2: I just found two thousand dollars in this old coat pocket.

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Speaker 2: Is this for me? May I have?

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Speaker 5: It?

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Speaker 2: Was this intended as a gift, I would not just book.

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Speaker 1: The water your hotel dons, right charitably? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Like girl, come on. And then when you're the aunt

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Speaker 2: because some people would have said, what money. I never

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Speaker 2: found any money in that coat. You know, she could

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Speaker 3: If I'm donating close to you because you're going through

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Speaker 3: then I find out're going on a water park vacation,

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm sorry. But and you could say, well,

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Speaker 3: you don't get to judge other people whatever, But if

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Speaker 3: I'm getting you money, I get to judge.

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Speaker 1: I get to judge your lifestyle.

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Speaker 3: Or if I'm giving you things to supplement your life,

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Speaker 2: Well, if you're giving me hand me downs, you know,

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Speaker 3: Right, But if I'm having to give you clothing because

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Speaker 3: you don't have the money to buy it, to buy clothing,

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Speaker 3: and then I find that you're on a vacation. I

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Speaker 3: get that I'm giving you hand me downs, but like,

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Speaker 3: I guess, when if I'm supporting your life in some

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and I get to My thing is that, yes,

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Speaker 2: you get to ask for it. You get to request

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Speaker 2: the money back, you know, like she said, you can

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Speaker 2: pay me over time. But the niece is like, you

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Speaker 2: don't need the money and I've already spent it.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, but get right, that's not the niece's decision though.

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Speaker 3: Right you found the money, you got to call and

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Speaker 2: Right too?

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Speaker 3: And then the person could say, you know what, ah,

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Speaker 3: I forgot about that, but hey, surprise enjoy Yes. But

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Speaker 3: the fact that there was no call means that the

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Speaker 2: Right Because you would at least call and say thank you.

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Speaker 2: I would assume like, hey, this was really nice of you,

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Speaker 2: you know, but to just go book the water park,

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Speaker 3: How about thanks for the two g's. I'm going to

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Speaker 3: use it to pay bills. You know, this is really

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Speaker 3: could be like, well, I didn't even I didn't realize

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Speaker 3: I lost it, So that's excellent.

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Speaker 1: Good.

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Speaker 3: You can use it to dig out a little bit. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: it's sad, it's let me. Let me take my blessings

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Speaker 3: and go to the water park on your dough.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: First of all, if you have two g's in cash,

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Speaker 5: it's also on you to keep track of that, like

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Speaker 5: leaving it in pockets like that's a little bit on you. Also,

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Speaker 5: I think if you are going to give something, like

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Speaker 5: think you have to give something full and well, knowing

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Speaker 5: they might be living their life a way that you

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 1: No, I do.

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Speaker 4: Understand that you feel that way.

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Speaker 3: If I if I'm helping, well no, no, that doesn't

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Speaker 3: solve anything either. But like if I'm giving you money

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Speaker 3: or giving your resources, or I'm helping you with something,

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Speaker 3: I'm providing a service for you that you're not paying for,

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Speaker 3: Then I think I have a right to say, like,

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Speaker 3: wait a minute, why am I helping you if you

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Speaker 3: have the money for that, Because then you don't really

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Speaker 3: need my help, I guess.

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Speaker 1: And then it's well, I do need your help.

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Speaker 3: And by the way, I found too grand in the

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Speaker 3: pocket of your clothes that I then spend on a

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Speaker 3: luxury item that I didn't need, but everyone else is

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Speaker 3: helping me survive.

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Speaker 4: True, you're asking for agony.

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Speaker 5: If you give someone something and then like watch their

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Speaker 5: social to see what they're doing with it, you have

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Speaker 5: to just kiss it.

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Speaker 3: I don't loan friends money, because there you go. I

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Speaker 3: might give you money. In this humanus case, I didn't

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Speaker 3: give you or loan you anything. You found it and

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Speaker 3: you took it.

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Speaker 4: But I was wrong.

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Speaker 1: The least you could do is call me.

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Speaker 3: I can't say, hey, I found this money, do you

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Speaker 3: want it back or do you want or can I

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Speaker 3: spend it?

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Speaker 5: Correct I would be good and just say thank you.

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Speaker 7: Literally But if I'm wearing your Levi jeans that you

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Speaker 7: donated to me, Fred and I'm walking around with your

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Speaker 7: with your what is it the van shoes, you can't

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Speaker 7: look at me and say, oh, why does she got,

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Speaker 7: you know, a turkey sandwich for lunch?

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Speaker 2: You can't watch people's like that.

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Speaker 3: There's a difference between survival item and a luxury vacation.

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Speaker 3: When you're behind and you know when things aren't going

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Speaker 6: You give back that money that brings you some bad karmam.

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Speaker 3: Think if you if you're carrying around a bunch of money,

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Speaker 3: But but but to then just just say, oh, good shoppings,

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Speaker 3: You do have some responsibility to keep track of your

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Speaker 5: Sold that sucker or returned it to the front. I

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Speaker 3: Never besma, how you doing good?

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Speaker 3: Basically, there's an aunt who has been given hand me

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Speaker 3: What do you think.

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Speaker 4: I don't blame her.

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Speaker 1: This is my chance to take.

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Speaker 3: So you don't have any issue with the fact that

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Speaker 6: You know, of course the moral and you would be like, you.

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Speaker 1: Maybe, so thank you, good day, thank you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Oh not the person on the text backtracking, look

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Speaker 5: Yeah, there's no way to have from my hands, Like,

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Speaker 4: Said poor people don't deserve.

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Speaker 2: Anything, It's crazy, man, you said poor kids don't deserve

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Speaker 3: Wow, you know what I said was Paulina needs to

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Speaker 9: Right?

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Speaker 3: I do think that family friends, if you're loaning money

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Speaker 1: I think you've got it.

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Speaker 3: You've got to grab your brain around that, because there's

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Speaker 1: Absolutely, Bud.

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Speaker 3: If I and if I loan you money and you

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 3: And it's like, well, no, I can't pay you. Remember,

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Speaker 2: No, but she didn't loan her money. Let's just be clear.

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Speaker 2: She didn't loan her money. She didn't even intend to

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Speaker 8: So I agree with you because growing up, my dad

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Speaker 8: back over time. But I've never seen any of that back.

443
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Speaker 8: And now she has like three French bulldogs, which, if

444
00:18:26,080 --> 00:18:28,680
Speaker 8: you know, those are like really expensive dogs, paid for those. Yeah.

445
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Speaker 1: Yeah, So I'm just I.

446
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Speaker 8: Mean, we're not like really close friends, but I would

447
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Speaker 8: still say, like, we're okay. But if you do the math,

448
00:18:38,920 --> 00:18:41,080
Speaker 8: that's kind of over the two thousand dollars I loaned you.

449
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Speaker 1: Yeah. Well that's the thing. Maybe you're right.

450
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Speaker 3: Maybe I don't get the opportunity Kate is to maybe

451
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Speaker 3: I don't judge the purchase, or maybe I don't say

452
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Speaker 3: that I'm judging the purchase, but I at least have

453
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Speaker 3: an opportunity to say, great, I guess you're caught up.

454
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Speaker 1: Where's my money?

455
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Speaker 6: Okay?

456
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Speaker 3: Yes? And then if they say, oh, I don't have it, well,

457
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Speaker 3: what do you mean you don't have it? I mean

458
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Speaker 3: you just you just you know, went on this water

459
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Speaker 3: park vacation, Like how did you pay for that? It's well,

460
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Speaker 3: I used your money. Oh well that's not what I

461
00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:07,480
Speaker 3: loaned it to you for I loaded to you to

462
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Speaker 3: like survive and help you.

463
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Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

464
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Speaker 4: Yeah, that would be a right.

465
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Speaker 3: Yeah, so at which point I think I do have

466
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Speaker 3: a right to say something. But but I guess again,

467
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Speaker 3: that's why to your point too, Josie, don't give anybody

468
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Speaker 3: money who you're not willing to just sort of accept

469
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Speaker 3: what happens with it next, which is why I think

470
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Speaker 3: the only way I'm giving someone money is if I

471
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Speaker 3: can afford to gift it to you, and if you

472
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Speaker 3: pay me back, great, and if you don't, I'm okay

473
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Speaker 3: with it, because those are the terms.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Josie, have a good day.

475
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Speaker 8: Thank you too.

476
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I saw you. I saw you pulling up in

477
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Speaker 3: that lambo you saw pull up. I gave you my

478
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Speaker 3: old Vans and my old Levies, yes you know, and

479
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Speaker 3: then here you come in with your fancy turkey sandwich in.

480
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Speaker 1: My lamb getting out of your range rover. Last it's

481
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Speaker 1: the last time. What were you going to say?

482
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Speaker 5: I don't remember, but I'm just trying to figure out

483
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Speaker 5: how she can drive and hit the pedals with those

484
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Speaker 5: big size what are you fifteen?

485
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Speaker 2: Size fifteen?

486
00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:58,840
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, never again, I needed it.

487
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Speaker 2: You gave it to me.

488
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Speaker 3: The sandwich over here, sans Yes Turkey said Caitlin's Entertainment Report.

489
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Speaker 1: He's on the Bread Show.

490
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Speaker 5: All right, we need to talk about this America's Next

491
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Speaker 5: Stop Model, Next Top Model documentary, which I started over

492
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Speaker 5: the weekend. I did not finish, but I do have

493
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Speaker 5: some thoughts, and Kiki, you said something that I totally

494
00:20:19,920 --> 00:20:21,439
Speaker 5: agree with last week is that it.

495
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Speaker 4: Was very smart for miss Tyer Banks to be a

496
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Speaker 4: part of this.

497
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Speaker 5: Oh yes, I think that anytime something controversial is coming

498
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Speaker 5: out about you or things that you did, it's better

499
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Speaker 5: if you're there to speak on it or else they

500
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Speaker 5: will fill in the blanks for you. Yes, And so

501
00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:43,200
Speaker 5: she actually wasn't initially supposed to even be involved with this.

502
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Speaker 5: In the beginning, Nigel Barker was talking about how he

503
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Speaker 5: and he got involved with the new documentary and he

504
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Speaker 5: basically said, what people don't realize is that this documentary series,

505
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Speaker 5: the whole thing started out of Miss Jay Alexander talking

506
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Speaker 5: about wanting to do a documentary on himself and his

507
00:21:00,840 --> 00:21:05,360
Speaker 5: life and Top Model, and he invited Ja Manuel.

508
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Speaker 4: To be a part of it. That's actually how it started.

509
00:21:07,840 --> 00:21:11,000
Speaker 5: Tyra and everything else everyone else had nothing to do

510
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Speaker 5: with it.

511
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Speaker 4: So this started as.

512
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Speaker 5: Something completely different now what it has morphed into, and yes,

513
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Speaker 5: there's a lot of controversial stuff, but it morphed into

514
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Speaker 5: a docu series where she's kind of like the narrator

515
00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:24,920
Speaker 5: of the whole process. Now, Fred, you asked me, would

516
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Speaker 5: this be interesting to me? I don't think so if

517
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Speaker 5: you didn't watch America's Next Top Model?

518
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Speaker 1: Okay, could I started it? And I'm like, I don't

519
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Speaker 1: really know.

520
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Speaker 5: Yeah, it was such a cultural time and I remember

521
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Speaker 5: watching it and what it is doing is unlocking a

522
00:21:38,359 --> 00:21:40,640
Speaker 5: ton of people and memories for me that I completely

523
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Speaker 5: forgot about.

524
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Speaker 4: Yes, but it's very interesting.

525
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Speaker 8: Now.

526
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Speaker 4: She starts out basically talking about.

527
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Speaker 5: Her modeling career and you know, the racism that she

528
00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:52,679
Speaker 5: experienced in the modeling world, and then how she went

529
00:21:52,760 --> 00:21:55,600
Speaker 5: to every single TV network. They all turned this show

530
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Speaker 5: down except for one. And it was like the bottom

531
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Speaker 5: of the barrel. I think it was up and yet UPN. Yeah,

532
00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:05,040
Speaker 5: which is crazy, and this female was running UPN and

533
00:22:05,160 --> 00:22:07,320
Speaker 5: basically she took a huge chance because when you're at

534
00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:09,040
Speaker 5: the bottom of the totem bowl, like what do you

535
00:22:09,160 --> 00:22:11,440
Speaker 5: have to lose? And so that in itself was crazy

536
00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:15,800
Speaker 5: because that whole show changed TV forever. And then she

537
00:22:15,920 --> 00:22:18,200
Speaker 5: also spoke about how she really wanted it to be

538
00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:21,520
Speaker 5: super realistic to what the modeling world was at the time,

539
00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:25,080
Speaker 5: so I could see where she was getting started and

540
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Speaker 5: why things were going the way that they were. Now,

541
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Speaker 5: I have not gotten to the crazy controversial parts of

542
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Speaker 5: when you know, girls were passing out from challenges, there

543
00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:36,080
Speaker 5: was health risks, she wasn't letting them eat, so I

544
00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:38,480
Speaker 5: have not gotten to that part, but I will say

545
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Speaker 5: I was ready to go in and be like really

546
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Speaker 5: upset with her, and I kind of see where it

547
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Speaker 5: all came together, and I have respect for her and

548
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Speaker 5: her drive as for what she created.

549
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Speaker 4: So I do recommend it if you watch the show now.

550
00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:53,760
Speaker 5: Again, I haven't gotten to the controversial part, but that's

551
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Speaker 5: what I've gotten so far.

552
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Speaker 4: I thought it was very interesting.

553
00:22:56,800 --> 00:23:00,320
Speaker 5: Speaking of things to watch, the movie Goat actually is

554
00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:02,639
Speaker 5: in the number one spot at the box office over

555
00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:06,159
Speaker 5: the weekend, taking the place from Wuthering Heights, which I

556
00:23:06,200 --> 00:23:07,000
Speaker 5: saw on Friday.

557
00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:09,159
Speaker 4: Now, what I want to say about Wuthering Heights is

558
00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:11,920
Speaker 4: I loved it. I went with my friend who I

559
00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:14,719
Speaker 4: was hysterically crying. I look over and she's cracking up,

560
00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:18,919
Speaker 4: so you maybe have to like those like long drawn out.

561
00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:23,040
Speaker 5: Like unrec quoited love stories, because I'm literally sobbing and

562
00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:24,879
Speaker 5: she's laughing, and she's like, it's.

563
00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:27,040
Speaker 4: A little slow, isn't I'm like, no, it's amazing.

564
00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:28,600
Speaker 5: So I thought it was amazing, but you kind of

565
00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:30,800
Speaker 5: have to want to swim in the deep bend. And also,

566
00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:35,720
Speaker 5: Bunny Xo's memoir Jelly Roll's Wife is insanely amazing. I've

567
00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:38,080
Speaker 5: not been reading, I've been listening to it. She has

568
00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:40,240
Speaker 5: been through a lot. There's never a dull moment in

569
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Speaker 5: that book. So those are my recommendations if you want

570
00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:44,720
Speaker 5: to catch up on our show. I also recommend that

571
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Speaker 5: please fret show on demand on the free iHeartRadio.

572
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Speaker 3: I recommend that, yes, sir, I started watching that Elizabeth

573
00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:52,959
Speaker 3: Smart tuck. I've been starting and then stopping a lot

574
00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:55,720
Speaker 3: of stuff, lady, but not only is the Elizabeth Smart documentary,

575
00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:58,320
Speaker 3: for obvious reasons, very disturbing.

576
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Speaker 4: I loved it.

577
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Speaker 1: I thought it was slow.

578
00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:05,960
Speaker 3: It's moving so slowly, and it's like in the recent

579
00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:08,879
Speaker 3: movie slowly is because of like these artistic angles and

580
00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:13,600
Speaker 3: lighting and transitions, and I'm like, okay, enough like get

581
00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:16,440
Speaker 3: to the story, like I want to hear what everyone

582
00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:18,560
Speaker 3: has to say. But it's like, you know, it'll be

583
00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:20,840
Speaker 3: like ten seconds of her sister like sitting there with

584
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Speaker 3: their eyes closed in the dark, and.

585
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Speaker 9: I'm like, okay, yeah, it's dramatic for Sure's like all right,

586
00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:30,240
Speaker 9: like we don't need that, yeah, but it's it's it's

587
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Speaker 9: the fact that she's even like somewhat of a normal adult.

588
00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:34,680
Speaker 3: I don't even know if normal is the word, but

589
00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:37,159
Speaker 3: like somewhat well adjusted, and the way that she can

590
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Speaker 3: tell the story with composure considering what she went through

591
00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:42,560
Speaker 3: is just unbelievable. To me.

592
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Speaker 1: That part is crazy.

593
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Speaker 5: Did you get to the part where like they were

594
00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:49,639
Speaker 5: almost caught like multiple times? Like that was what was

595
00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:52,040
Speaker 5: so crazy to me, is like they had so many

596
00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:55,159
Speaker 5: opportunities to rescue her and she was obviously too scared,

597
00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:57,520
Speaker 5: but the fact that the story turned turned out well

598
00:24:57,600 --> 00:24:59,920
Speaker 5: for her that she eventually was but yeah, that was

599
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Speaker 5: frustrating for me.

600
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Speaker 3: But yeah, it's traumatic, but it's a crazy story. But yeah,

601
00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:05,200
Speaker 3: I just I'm just like okay, like I really want

602
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:06,320
Speaker 3: to hear these people have to say it.

603
00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:10,119
Speaker 4: Like it's our intention span these days, Okay, like come on.

604
00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:12,359
Speaker 3: You know, I feel like I feel like it's two

605
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:15,000
Speaker 3: hours long, and it could be it could be forty

606
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Speaker 3: five minutes or an hour.

607
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Speaker 1: And that's what drives me nuts. Eat it right, like, okay,

608
00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:24,879
Speaker 1: the Fread Show is on. Yeah, Fread's fun. Fact Fred fun.

609
00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:32,680
Speaker 1: You can learn so much. Someone said, the lesson is

610
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:36,679
Speaker 1: don't ask Fread for anything. No, that's not the lesson.

611
00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:39,040
Speaker 1: The lesson is just let me choose, like, let me just.

612
00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:44,880
Speaker 2: Let me choose what whoa, Let me choose, let me choose.

613
00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:48,520
Speaker 3: From my money goes. Yeah, don't steal from family is

614
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:53,680
Speaker 3: the lesson. Martial Artists who smile before the start of

615
00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:58,240
Speaker 3: a match are more likely to lose. That could be

616
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Speaker 3: as a smile can convey fear or submissiveness. So the

617
00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:05,200
Speaker 3: moral of the story is, you gotta be coming into

618
00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:08,440
Speaker 3: something competitive. You gotta be gangster. You know, don't get

619
00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:08,959
Speaker 3: him anything.

620
00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:09,760
Speaker 1: Now.

621
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:13,080
Speaker 3: I thought maybe like a smile would say, hey, it's

622
00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:15,399
Speaker 3: all fun, like he's not taking it that seriously, and

623
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:19,000
Speaker 3: then I come in bull boom boo, whoop you ask

624
00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:20,200
Speaker 3: but apparently not.

625
00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:20,639
Speaker 1: Apparently.

626
00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:23,000
Speaker 3: You gotta like, you gotta be in the mentality and

627
00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:26,360
Speaker 3: you gotta transmit that mentality period. So take that into

628
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:28,959
Speaker 3: your next like, I don't know, review meeting, whatever.

629
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Speaker 1: This is not a game. This is this is this

630
00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:32,080
Speaker 1: is a battle.

631
00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:34,200
Speaker 2: You gotta punch your hand, throw up some gang sign.

632
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Speaker 1: Wow, don't take it that far more pread show next