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Speaker 1: a J without Girl. Hey, y'all, it's official. Tam Bam y'all.
Speaker 1: I love y'all. I love y'all once again. Hey a J.
Speaker 1: How was your weekend? My weekend? What the hell I did? Oh?
Speaker 1: I took some pictures for my birthday and then I
Speaker 1: got drunk per usual on my Sunday. I didn't do
Speaker 1: not enough to the rest of the weekend. I just
Speaker 1: chilled in the house after work. It was raining. It
Speaker 1: seems like it's raining every day. Is this see Attle?
Speaker 1: Is this Seattle or something? I don't know. We need
Speaker 1: some rain, grow up and hottest hell outside, cool it
Speaker 1: down every day. I like when it rains, especially if
Speaker 1: I ain't got shipped to do. Yeah, that's because you
Speaker 1: got on a week It's like me got real hair
Speaker 1: out right now? Is stupid that I'll be in the rain,
Speaker 1: Like I'm Brazilian? Like who cares about getting wet? It's
Speaker 1: a black girl problem. What about your weekend? What you
Speaker 1: do now? I do much. I just hung out in
Speaker 1: the city, some dinner and kicking it, some Netflix and
Speaker 1: chilling a little bit. That's about it. You got fucked,
Speaker 1: so you got fun. Pardon me, that means you got fun.
Speaker 1: That's neck Netflix and drill. Okay, I said Netflix and chill. Okay. Yeah,
Speaker 1: wink wink, everybody, just chill, No do much, Just hang
Speaker 1: out around the city one day. Oh yeah, my birthday
Speaker 1: is on Saturday, y'all. So when you hear this in
Speaker 1: a cup of days, it's my birthday, y'all come to
Speaker 1: my page and tell me happy birthday. And y'all can
Speaker 1: send me some money too, if y'all want to to
Speaker 1: my cash at should? I I'm scared because you know,
Speaker 1: I put my cash up out there. Somebody might hack
Speaker 1: my ship and still all my money, ain't it? People
Speaker 1: already got your cash app? Damn there it's okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: well it's money signed TAM's vanity T A M S
Speaker 1: v A N I T Y Send a bitch a
Speaker 1: couple of dollars for a birthday. Don't play with her.
Speaker 1: It's cancer season, y'all, cry baby aass season. Do nobody
Speaker 1: got on time for that ship. Whatever. I'll cry and
Speaker 1: drink at the same time this weekend. Fuck it shame,
Speaker 1: I ain't got no. I'm going to Atlanta hang out
Speaker 1: with my best friend for I think it's birthday. Best
Speaker 1: this weekend. I might see yall out there. This bitch
Speaker 1: ain't coming y'all. All right, we'll see. We'll see if
Speaker 1: you pull up. So what you guys for stupid internet news?
Speaker 1: You see any uh, any special, any interesting topics out there?
Speaker 1: I did, I did see um. A woman posted uh
Speaker 1: that her husband had threatened to divorce her and she
Speaker 1: didn't get her physical body in shape, and she shows
Speaker 1: a video of her losing weight to save her marriage.
Speaker 1: And there were a lot of people who were like, ah,
Speaker 1: you should divorce him, get in shape, and then leave
Speaker 1: that nigger. What's your thoughts? No, we already know a
Speaker 1: man of visual Okay, so if you just look like
Speaker 1: a totally different person from who he married, it's understandable. Now.
Speaker 1: It depends on how he came at her with the ship.
Speaker 1: At least he talked to her about it. At least
Speaker 1: he didn't just immediately got the damn relationship as soon
Speaker 1: as his bitch starting a little chunky, and she had
Speaker 1: a baby, right, Yeah, she had kids after she let
Speaker 1: herself go. Yeah, a lot of things take place, you know,
Speaker 1: less time for yourself, having to take care of everybody
Speaker 1: else in the household, and yeah, and then you know,
Speaker 1: having to try and find time to work out a
Speaker 1: little bit. But we already know, like the diet is made,
Speaker 1: Like mainly it's the eating. If you don't have time
Speaker 1: to go to the gym, you got time to not
Speaker 1: eat fun up right? I agree? Um, yeah, I feel
Speaker 1: the same way. People were like really mad at him,
Speaker 1: but I agree with him. Like if I'm with someone,
Speaker 1: if you don't care about your body, I don't think
Speaker 1: we're compatible. Yeah, I gotta love yourself. Yeah, you gotta
Speaker 1: love yourself more than you love me. I want you
Speaker 1: to love yourself, and that means keeping yourself because I
Speaker 1: want you to be here a long time, you know,
Speaker 1: So if you don't care about being here a long time,
Speaker 1: then we can't be together. And a lot of things
Speaker 1: comes with that extra weight. You know, you might get
Speaker 1: a little lazy. You probably ain't trying to fuck. You
Speaker 1: probably can't stretch, get stretched out as much as you
Speaker 1: used to. Like all types of things come with weight
Speaker 1: gain um, and I mean I don't know men of
Speaker 1: visual that's what I do know. So if you love
Speaker 1: your husband, you'll get it together. It's not it shouldn't
Speaker 1: always be like, oh men got to accept this about women.
Speaker 1: That's not fair. And that's how we mean. Yeah, if
Speaker 1: he married you fat, then I'd be like, nigga, I
Speaker 1: was fat when we met, exactly, just like I give
Speaker 1: my disclosure to men all the time that I wear.
Speaker 1: We've all the time. So one year in the relationship,
Speaker 1: don't be coming at me about this. Goddamn here. I
Speaker 1: gave you the disclosure and even wait, should I gotta
Speaker 1: I gotta fat max. Okay, once I hit it, I'll
Speaker 1: start coming down from it. But don't you say a
Speaker 1: motherfucker word to me, because I can give you the
Speaker 1: same body when I met your ass. So apparently Jocelyn
Speaker 1: Savage wants to marry R Kelly or she's engaged R Kelly.
Speaker 1: He just got since he ain't even got no wealth anymore,
Speaker 1: right like he got a debt of like a million
Speaker 1: dollar day. You gotta have some money somewhere. You gotta
Speaker 1: have some money somewhere. I don't know, do you Why
Speaker 1: would you be engaged to nigga who's fifty and got
Speaker 1: thirty years in prison. Yeah, it doesn't make sense. I
Speaker 1: don't get it. Is it cloud chasing? Make it makes sense? Possibly, girl,
Speaker 1: if you don't get your stupid ass out of him.
Speaker 1: So before that much love in the world, right, so
Speaker 1: they're saying before centisen Uh, Savage tried to convince the
Speaker 1: judge that Kelly didn't deserve such a heart heart sentencing. Um.
Speaker 1: She pleaded that she was not a victim and that
Speaker 1: Kelly was an amazing person. Um. She also referred to
Speaker 1: herself as his wife. She goes on to say, my
Speaker 1: relationship with Robert is amazing, she wrote, He's the best
Speaker 1: thing that's ever happened to me. We have a very
Speaker 1: special connection and are deeply in love. I still support
Speaker 1: Robert to this day because I love him and will
Speaker 1: always be there to support him. Um. She says, Robert
Speaker 1: is not the monster that the government has described him as. Now.
Speaker 1: One thing, I don't know if everybody looked at the
Speaker 1: charges that um Rob Robert Kelly, the r Kelly got
Speaker 1: one of the charges is this It is called the
Speaker 1: Man Act. This the Man Act. Let me see, I
Speaker 1: just want to be sure, Um, but it to me, Yes,
Speaker 1: it's the Man Act m A N N Act, And
Speaker 1: y'all listen. This is the White Slave Traffic Act, also
Speaker 1: called the Man Act, is the United States federal law
Speaker 1: passed June and is named after Congressman James Robert Man
Speaker 1: of Illinois. So this is for white men who were
Speaker 1: trafficking slaves. That's just a little how in the hell
Speaker 1: did uh gets Laye Maxwell not get that type of charge?
Speaker 1: But you give a black man Robert Kelly, like a
Speaker 1: slave trafficking charge, that is really weird that we would
Speaker 1: be seeing that charge put on anybody in two right,
Speaker 1: but not girl. Yeah, Like, I don't know that that's
Speaker 1: that's a real treacherous. Uh, I don't know. I don't
Speaker 1: know if I don't know, I don't know, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I gotta go back, I gotta go look at what
Speaker 1: all he was convicted of. I know that was one
Speaker 1: of the charges and then like regular like sex trafficking
Speaker 1: and stuff like that. But that's real racial to me
Speaker 1: for some reason. And yeah, yeah, um, what else are
Speaker 1: you got going on? This? Did you see this damn
Speaker 1: dude repossessing his baby mama bumper? Because she put his
Speaker 1: ass out. M M, I don't understand. That made me
Speaker 1: think of Kevin Hart when he was talking about how
Speaker 1: his daddy would be mad and take all the lights
Speaker 1: off to Christie's tree. He was like, give me the state,
Speaker 1: put it in my hand, beach taking the food with me.
Speaker 1: Like your kids still has to ride in that car, sir.
Speaker 1: This goes to show you that if a man can't
Speaker 1: get pussy from a woman, he doesn't see the value
Speaker 1: in doing anything for her after that point. Like if
Speaker 1: we ain't sucking no more, don't see the value and
Speaker 1: paying child support. I don't see the value in coming
Speaker 1: to get my damn kid, bitch. I don't see the
Speaker 1: value in having this bumper on your car. What the hell?
Speaker 1: I had a nigga canceled. He's supposed to take me
Speaker 1: to dinner for my birthday and I didn't give him none.
Speaker 1: The night before I didn't even see him, I didn't
Speaker 1: hang out with him by and he said he wasn't
Speaker 1: taking me to dinner. He patties out, boy, fuck you
Speaker 1: in that movie seafood Dinner, use a little steak steak dinner.
Speaker 1: This is the more steak out there nigga, right, then
Speaker 1: you're gonna try to funk on me next week. But
Speaker 1: you didn't come through for my birthday, Like everybody knows
Speaker 1: you don't play with women about their damn birthday. Nigger right,
Speaker 1: Yeah that's a daddy, Doug, and I'm celibate, So no,
Speaker 1: there's no pussy for you, sir. Sending a little bit
Speaker 1: of this what you think about Academics and how he
Speaker 1: was coming at Meek Mills. I know you saw that
Speaker 1: ship me Mills and the baby and um. He also
Speaker 1: put up this old video from with Kanye Um holding
Speaker 1: a bowl of food for some designer feeding him. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I didn't get to see that. What was that about?
Speaker 1: So Academics took to his YouTube channel and was saying
Speaker 1: how he finds it funny that UM certain rappers tend
Speaker 1: to uh make clowns of themselves basically to entertain white billionaires.
Speaker 1: So he was talking about a video with UM Meek
Speaker 1: Mills bunny hopping after losing a tennis match with Mark Rubin.
Speaker 1: He was hopping and Mark Mark Rubin was like behind
Speaker 1: the UM camera saying ship like yeah hot hot, telling
Speaker 1: why you hopping Meek? Like because you lost tennis? Like
Speaker 1: hopping in and and just like some ship you see
Speaker 1: a real nigga doing. That's all, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like niggas are not allowed to have fun and be
Speaker 1: lightheart it for some reason. If you lighthearder than having
Speaker 1: a good time, you you selling now that you playing yourself.
Speaker 1: That's not fair, Like it's like it was just having fun.
Speaker 1: But what about Kanye holding this man's ribs and French
Speaker 1: fries in the back of a sprinter van and Kim
Speaker 1: k is recording it and he's holding this man's plate
Speaker 1: while a man eats out of it. It's some designer
Speaker 1: we think about that. I mean, it's not that deep.
Speaker 1: People be reading too much into it. I think, like,
Speaker 1: why was he holding it? He asked him to hold,
Speaker 1: Like Kanye n look happy in the face on the video.
Speaker 1: I'll send it to you so you can see what
Speaker 1: I'm talking about. But he didn't look happy in the face.
Speaker 1: But metaphorically, maybe it's like, yeah, I'm a had these
Speaker 1: motherfucker's eating out my hands type ship. I don't know
Speaker 1: because this was sto. We know that man Kanye d
Speaker 1: and blew up since then even more the man was
Speaker 1: he eating with his mouth just mouth to plate? Or
Speaker 1: was he putting picking it up with his hand. Nigger,
Speaker 1: This is me in front of you, dam I'm holding
Speaker 1: no nigga, you got the full work, like you're using
Speaker 1: my hands as a table basically. So maybe he lost
Speaker 1: a bed or something like that. I don't know. But
Speaker 1: why your wife recording that. I know from that point
Speaker 1: she don't love him. That's probably that's probably was just
Speaker 1: fun and games like they were just playing. It was
Speaker 1: probably just a good time. It wasn't nothing. I don't
Speaker 1: know about that. And then um, I think we read
Speaker 1: too much in the ship a lot of times. I
Speaker 1: don't know. Academic is probably trying to get the heat
Speaker 1: off of him, because you know, they stay saying he's
Speaker 1: a goddamn people. Yeah, I don't know. Even the videos
Speaker 1: they brought up of him were from a long time ago.
Speaker 1: He would have been twenty years old talking to young
Speaker 1: seventeen year old girls and stuff like that. So I
Speaker 1: don't know. People people bring shut up, but they don't
Speaker 1: look at the time difference like Okay, now I'm thirty,
Speaker 1: but I was twenty then. Not defending academics because he
Speaker 1: really gets on my nerve and I do want somebody
Speaker 1: to smack the sh out of him. But yeah, uh
Speaker 1: so look and Raleigh, North Carolina, some protesters have pulled
Speaker 1: up on two different um old folks home looking for Cain.
Speaker 1: Caroline Bryant Donham, this is the woman who accused Emmett
Speaker 1: Till of looking at her basically and what they was
Speaker 1: gonna go do, beat her up or something like, I
Speaker 1: don't know what they was gonna run up in there
Speaker 1: and do. Yeah, so this woman is eighty something years old. Now,
Speaker 1: you know, I would prefer for them to run up
Speaker 1: on the men that were acquitted of actually murdering him,
Speaker 1: you know, because they can't be recharged. Somebody got to
Speaker 1: so be alive. Right, But oh, here's the thing. This,
Speaker 1: this is the kicker. What happened was recently, um this
Speaker 1: happened after unserved warrant for her arrest, dated back to
Speaker 1: August was was discovered in the stashed uh box in
Speaker 1: the basement of the Mississippi court House last month. Yeah
Speaker 1: so somebody here her warranty and it never got served exactly. Well,
Speaker 1: if I just feel like, if Bill Cosby can go
Speaker 1: to jail, so can this bitch. Absolutely absolutely absolutely, But
Speaker 1: I don't know. Running up in the old folks home.
Speaker 1: What ch'all was gonna do when y'all got there, like
Speaker 1: catch a charge? Catch a charge. That's all I'm stupid
Speaker 1: niggas was gonna do is catch a charge. Y'all didn't
Speaker 1: play that out, because what was the point? What you're
Speaker 1: gonna jump on that old last lady like, y'all not
Speaker 1: going in there to do that, like relax, stupid, come
Speaker 1: up with come up with the plan. I mean, I
Speaker 1: understand why y'all upset, but playing that ship out a
Speaker 1: little better than that, that was worthless. So that's our
Speaker 1: stupid internet news for the day. Child. Yeah, y'all, we're
Speaker 1: gonna take a break. We'll be right back. Okay, guys,
Speaker 1: we're back. And I had this situation and I wanted
Speaker 1: to get your your guy's opinion and you a j
Speaker 1: on it. So I was going out with this guy
Speaker 1: and any time I didn't do anything that he wanted
Speaker 1: to do, he said that I was selfish, and I
Speaker 1: felt like I was practicing self care by doing the
Speaker 1: things that I wanted to do for myself. So it
Speaker 1: made me consider, like, what's the difference between selfish and
Speaker 1: self care? And is there a difference? Well, what do
Speaker 1: you think, what do you think? Yeah, there's you know,
Speaker 1: there's definitely a difference between being selfish, um and practicing
Speaker 1: self care. I think that one of the major differences
Speaker 1: is you practicing self care doesn't affect anyone else. Okay,
Speaker 1: When you're being selfish towards somebody, it usually causes, like
Speaker 1: people some type of duress somehow. Right, So you telling
Speaker 1: him no because it's better for your mental health, because no,
Speaker 1: a complete statement the fuck Like, that's not you being selfish,
Speaker 1: not to me anyway. But let's let's look it up
Speaker 1: right quick. Hold on. So if I don't want to
Speaker 1: drive to your house in the middle of night in
Speaker 1: a thunderstorm because I'm scared of driving the rain, that's
Speaker 1: not selfish, right of course. Not the I hate when
Speaker 1: people always ask me or I called you why you
Speaker 1: an answer? You don't know what I was in the
Speaker 1: middle of doing. That's self care. Okay, I'm driving, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'll respond when I get stationary. I might even saw
Speaker 1: your message. That's not me being selfish though, right, Okay,
Speaker 1: So being like I said, it says, being selfish means
Speaker 1: that there's a desire to take from others, often to
Speaker 1: their detriment. However, self care is about replenishing your resources
Speaker 1: without depleting someone else's. Self care is a means of
Speaker 1: restoring your own energy, which promotes healthy physical and emotional
Speaker 1: well being. Okay. In essence, self care is about fulfilling yourself.
Speaker 1: Um excuse me. An essence, self care is about filling
Speaker 1: yourself up so you could be the best spouse, parent, friend, employee,
Speaker 1: Boston person that you could beat. Selfishness, on the other hand,
Speaker 1: reflects the me first attitude determining, um, just how much
Speaker 1: you can get for yourself, often at the expense of others.
Speaker 1: So okay, so all right. Sometimes based on that definition,
Speaker 1: sometimes I can't be selfish, and then other times it's
Speaker 1: self care. But I don't think me not wanting to
Speaker 1: drive to your house in a thunderstorm it's selfish. But
Speaker 1: then I was like, you drive over here, you're not scared?
Speaker 1: Did he come? M hmm? Look, somebody got a sacrifice.
Speaker 1: But if I'm always the one sacrifice and you're selfish,
Speaker 1: like if I'm the one that's always making a sacrifice
Speaker 1: to make a relationship or whatever situation ship work, you're
Speaker 1: the selfish one, not me. And then one time I
Speaker 1: tell you know, it's a problem like that. Yeah, that
Speaker 1: telling you telling somebody they're selfish is almost a form
Speaker 1: of manipulation. Mm hmm, big big time. Like, um, people
Speaker 1: might consider me selfish. But the thing, here's the thing
Speaker 1: about me is that I don't fucking disturb people's peace.
Speaker 1: But a motherfucker do not mind disturbing mind, Like, so
Speaker 1: I don't go out of my way, like let me say,
Speaker 1: let me, let me rephrase this, so I don't sound
Speaker 1: I don't require stuff out of people because I don't
Speaker 1: want anybody requiring ship for me. I swear to God,
Speaker 1: like it could be a little simple things like I
Speaker 1: have friends who I know like their love languages is
Speaker 1: like acts of service all the time, and they don't
Speaker 1: mind asking you to do ship. I never asked these
Speaker 1: people to do ship for me, So why are you
Speaker 1: always calling me to ask you to ask me to
Speaker 1: do something for you? That's because that's their that's their
Speaker 1: love language. But what do they do They speak to yours?
Speaker 1: Like what is yours? Um? I like, I like acts
Speaker 1: of services too, but I like people to offer. I'm
Speaker 1: not going to be calling you asking you to do anything.
Speaker 1: Do you see the difference. I like people to offer
Speaker 1: their services. Um, I like gifts like stuff like that.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not expecting that out of a homegirl
Speaker 1: or a family member. But yeah, yeah, so yeah like
Speaker 1: gifts too. But I'm I tend to uh speak to
Speaker 1: people's I don't speak to other people's love love languages properly.
Speaker 1: I speak to them in my love language, like I
Speaker 1: try to write, I like gifts. So then I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: I saw this thing. I'll give you this thing. But
Speaker 1: they don't work for everybody, you know, Like, girl, I
Speaker 1: don't give a funk about that book. Have you ever
Speaker 1: written in that Gratitude book ever? Right here? To this
Speaker 1: the productivity planner right here? Look look at there empty
Speaker 1: I even wrote my name in there yet. Bit I'm
Speaker 1: gonna use this book because you know, what I do
Speaker 1: realize is that I need to write more. I need
Speaker 1: to write down my plans, write down my goals like
Speaker 1: I'd be literally even just putting them in the phone.
Speaker 1: And to me, it's not good enough. I feel like
Speaker 1: you got to write it down to really manifest this stuff.
Speaker 1: That's not actually the one I was talking about. What
Speaker 1: the other one I brought your Gratitude book? Did? I
Speaker 1: did write in that book I have. That's why it's
Speaker 1: not in here. See this is the junk low area.
Speaker 1: This is the junk area. Okay, I sorry, my friend
Speaker 1: I ship. I realized it. But yeah, I don't like
Speaker 1: being inconvenience. You know, when I wake up in the morning,
Speaker 1: like i'd be having like a plan for my day,
Speaker 1: like I already know what I want to do today,
Speaker 1: and if I get like a call or a message
Speaker 1: and somebody like through, even if it's something I already
Speaker 1: have plan to do for somebody, like I already got
Speaker 1: my ship I'm doing for today. So I feel like
Speaker 1: like people could just throw a monkey wrenching your whole ship,
Speaker 1: and I automatically get frustrated. You know, I might even
Speaker 1: tell them, Yeah, but deep out aside, I don't want
Speaker 1: to do ship for them, because why don't you tell
Speaker 1: me about this? You know, I don't know in advanced
Speaker 1: I hate feeling like I hate feeling like rushed or
Speaker 1: all of a sudden this is something that has to
Speaker 1: be done today. I don't like that feeling, so I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't do that to people because I don't like
Speaker 1: the feeling, you know, Yeah, so I will. I will
Speaker 1: do that to people but that's because in the if
Speaker 1: the shoe was on the other foot, I'm probably gonna
Speaker 1: come running, even if I don't want to. I am
Speaker 1: you know, so when I need I will ask only
Speaker 1: of people that I know. I would do the same
Speaker 1: four though not just random motherfucker's. Like I got a
Speaker 1: message in my Facebook messenger from somebody I've known for
Speaker 1: my almost my whole life. I've known them a long time,
Speaker 1: but I wouldn't consider them for in her family. I
Speaker 1: just known them. In the mess I didn't open the message,
Speaker 1: but the beginning said, hey, boo, I'm stuck at look
Speaker 1: like I said, I'm stuck at working so ship like that.
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm not opening that. I'm not fucking
Speaker 1: opening that message because it looked like you're about to
Speaker 1: ask me for some ship I ain't got. I got it.
Speaker 1: That's funny and saf see now, look you ain't even
Speaker 1: giving them the opportunity to funk with your damn date.
Speaker 1: That's different. But no, my mom be calling me selfish sometimes.
Speaker 1: Now my mom would do anything for anybody, but she'll
Speaker 1: talk ship while doing it. Well that you too, no, no,
Speaker 1: no hold on, but why not do why? But guess
Speaker 1: what that's probably because I told you yes and I
Speaker 1: didn't want to write she she won't talk to the person.
Speaker 1: She would like, you know, call me to talk to
Speaker 1: about it while she doing it. But I'm like, why
Speaker 1: not just say no and then there's nothing to talk about?
Speaker 1: It's bothering the same thing you do that if I
Speaker 1: tell somebody yes, I'm gonna do it. Like, what, give
Speaker 1: me an example? Um, so you used to have that
Speaker 1: so a J is like a really selfless person, y'all.
Speaker 1: But she had a homeless woman living with her. That
Speaker 1: is different, and you would complain about all the ship
Speaker 1: she hit. Okay, imagine somebody living with you for fourteen
Speaker 1: months and like, of course, I'm I didn't complain about
Speaker 1: it initially. It's just like once you start that, you
Speaker 1: can't use that as an example. It's a great example.
Speaker 1: That is not you didn't have to You didn't have
Speaker 1: to have that woman living in your house. You know
Speaker 1: that was so I love that about you though, that's
Speaker 1: one of the girls Like I admire that about you.
Speaker 1: But you complain about every A lot of stuff she's
Speaker 1: doing in there that's sucking, driving me nuhing. Okay, I
Speaker 1: don't think that's a good example, because somebody being in
Speaker 1: your fucking space, whether you invited them there or not,
Speaker 1: I feel like, bitch, bye bye, my damn rules, so
Speaker 1: you can stay here. The things I was I was comin,
Speaker 1: ain't it about? Because I was trying to I needed
Speaker 1: her to help me help her? Do you see what
Speaker 1: I'm saying? So that's not the same thing. I don't
Speaker 1: think I don't think it is. I mean like somebody saying, hey,
Speaker 1: could you give me a ride to such and such
Speaker 1: and you don't feel like doing it, and then the
Speaker 1: whole time you talking shit about having to do it
Speaker 1: because you said yes? Why not say no if it's
Speaker 1: gonna bother your damn spirit that bad? You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Initially, when I moved around my house, it
Speaker 1: was not a problem. It wasn't a problem until now
Speaker 1: I get to know this person and I see, like,
Speaker 1: this is an elderly person who possibly has like mental
Speaker 1: health issues on top of that. But as a human,
Speaker 1: which which why I don't think I'm fucking human, but
Speaker 1: as a good person or I feel like that's what
Speaker 1: you're supposed to do in this life. You're supposed to
Speaker 1: help people, especially old people. It's just not fair, like
Speaker 1: you'r a baby twice essentially, I agree, But that was
Speaker 1: wild though. You took like she literally took this woman
Speaker 1: in off the corner of the street. She was actually
Speaker 1: at Ghols Gym. She had a silver Sneaker membership. She
Speaker 1: was still homeless. Yeah, and if I got an empty room,
Speaker 1: why would I not let her live there? She was thirty.
Speaker 1: That's so I've been trying to tell your motherfucker's I'm God,
Speaker 1: But y'all don't be believing me. I don't think you
Speaker 1: call They just call you a hope a hotel, the
Speaker 1: Hope Step. How about that? That was dope. I don't
Speaker 1: even think, like, as much as I'd love to help people,
Speaker 1: I don't know if I would have been able to
Speaker 1: do that. So kudos to you for that. But you
Speaker 1: used to complain every morning. We thank God for the morning,
Speaker 1: and then we complained about that beach. Yeah. I think
Speaker 1: she passed away too, So I don't know. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: think she passed away last year, maybe around this time
Speaker 1: last year, I really and I've been trying to look
Speaker 1: for her. But you know, she was homeless. Maybe they don't.
Speaker 1: They didn't have the proper paperwork to document her. I
Speaker 1: don't know, but I haven't been able to find here.
Speaker 1: I don't call every damn hospital in Miami um and
Speaker 1: Margate area for a lot of del area too. Well,
Speaker 1: you did your due diligence for her, and you did
Speaker 1: the best she could to help someone when you would
Speaker 1: gain nothing. Right so that now this, now here's the example.
Speaker 1: I was selfish, I mean selfless for allowing her to
Speaker 1: live with me, And then she was selfish when she
Speaker 1: got up in there. You know what I'm saying. She
Speaker 1: was like and me being able to talk shit to
Speaker 1: you about what was going on was fucking self care?
Speaker 1: Bit Like, what are we talking about? I talked ship
Speaker 1: for self care? Okay with anybody who ever gonna listen,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna talk shit every morning. Let me tell you
Speaker 1: this bitch put her mop head in my washing mashame.
Speaker 1: I remember that crazy look. She used to be trying
Speaker 1: to help me, But I swear to god, she got
Speaker 1: sucked up so many of my clothes sucked up soon,
Speaker 1: like she would bleach everything she get her hands on,
Speaker 1: like this is color? Why would you want? Who told
Speaker 1: you to wash my ship? And see that's where I
Speaker 1: would be selfish, because as soon as you bleach one
Speaker 1: item of my motherfucking clothes. I love my clue, she'd
Speaker 1: be back in front of goals right there. But you
Speaker 1: gotta go. Is that self care? It would have been
Speaker 1: self care if I had put her out right yep, yeah,
Speaker 1: because took her in for a long time. She was
Speaker 1: driving me nuts. I'm just trying to figure out what
Speaker 1: was you taking silver sneakers classes? Like, how did y'all
Speaker 1: even she went? That's when she took her showers at
Speaker 1: and stuff. She lived, um, you know, at different organizations
Speaker 1: around the city. But she would you know, spend all
Speaker 1: day at the gym essentially yep. So look, I gotta list. Um.
Speaker 1: This is a list examples of selfless versus self care. Right, So,
Speaker 1: self care getting adequate nightly rest. Selfish is sleeping excessively
Speaker 1: to avoid responsibility responsibilities. Self care is enjoying a break
Speaker 1: from work to fuel up with healthy foods. Selfish is
Speaker 1: taken an unauthorized extended lunch on company time. How many
Speaker 1: y'all bitches is out there? Self self care creating and
Speaker 1: enforcing healthy boundaries, which is what you were doing with
Speaker 1: the guys ham so fuck him. Um. Selfish is saying
Speaker 1: no to every request for help without a reason. Um
Speaker 1: self care, making time for relaxation and meditation. Selfish is
Speaker 1: isolating and ignoring your loved ones. Self care buying ingredients
Speaker 1: to cook your favorite recipe. Selfish is spending your family's
Speaker 1: savings on unnecessary items. Look, that last one brings me
Speaker 1: to some ship I just saw on on social media.
Speaker 1: So it's a story where this lady wrote into this
Speaker 1: um this radio station and she said that you know,
Speaker 1: she makes substantially, substantially more money than her husband, right,
Speaker 1: and he but he wants to buy himself arrange rover
Speaker 1: off of their collective salaries, and she was asking if
Speaker 1: he should allow her. I feel it's selfish for him
Speaker 1: to even ask her or even think he can go
Speaker 1: buy a rain drover. Why she makes more money than him,
Speaker 1: that's But if it was the other if it was
Speaker 1: the other way around and she wanted to rage, wherever,
Speaker 1: would you feel the same way? No, Look, no, hell no,
Speaker 1: he needs to get his fucking money up. Well, I agree,
Speaker 1: but when you get into that marriage, what's good for
Speaker 1: the goose is good for the gain or whatever the
Speaker 1: funk this? They lie there, damn lie, because if I want,
Speaker 1: if I'm with a man and he makes tip, all right,
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna make my own money, right, and I
Speaker 1: drive a range Rover now off of my own time.
Speaker 1: But if I was in a situation where I was
Speaker 1: with a man and he made more than me than
Speaker 1: I want to fucking wagon. But I already got a
Speaker 1: range Rover, right? But do you think that more often
Speaker 1: the women is probably taking his pockets into consideration, especially
Speaker 1: this your husband. This ain't your sugar dady. It's your husband.
Speaker 1: He makes more money than you women, oftentimes due to finances,
Speaker 1: unless it's like somebody like who owns a big ass
Speaker 1: company and he has people doing that type of ship.
Speaker 1: But if this is you guys have been making money together, right,
Speaker 1: I feel like a wife. It's not going to get
Speaker 1: some ship that the family can't afford to do, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So you want to go out
Speaker 1: and get a range Rover to look like? What for?
Speaker 1: Who you need to get the type of car you
Speaker 1: can afford. When my last boyfriend, this is in my twenties,
Speaker 1: and I mean we didn't have a lot, neither one
Speaker 1: of us. He was military and he wasn't high ranking,
Speaker 1: and I didn't we just moved to Florida, and I
Speaker 1: was pretty much unemployed, so the money was scarce, and
Speaker 1: then we would have his two kids for the summer,
Speaker 1: so we had to make just his military salary stretch. Right,
Speaker 1: So he wants to go out and get this got down.
Speaker 1: It was the not the year that year. I think
Speaker 1: it was like two thousand ten or something like that.
Speaker 1: Up twelve. He wanted to get a two thousand thirteen
Speaker 1: uh Jeep Sahara, which I love that truck, right, but
Speaker 1: I just felt like it was outside of what our money,
Speaker 1: which was his money at the time, could afford, could afford,
Speaker 1: and I was so against it. But his and I
Speaker 1: had a conversation with his mom and she just told
Speaker 1: me to let him be a man and let him
Speaker 1: do what he's gonna do. And then we struggled because
Speaker 1: of that. Are like we struggled because that car payment
Speaker 1: was outside of our uh our finances, which is its
Speaker 1: finances at the time, because I wasn't working. And then
Speaker 1: he was like, go get a job at Walmart. Nick
Speaker 1: I got a degree, Like, I was like, you're not
Speaker 1: gonna reduce me to the Walmart, which I don't go
Speaker 1: get it because not no shade to listen. No shade
Speaker 1: to people who work at Walmart, because I don't want
Speaker 1: to make it seem like that's beneath me or anything,
Speaker 1: because I have worked at Walmart before, but at that
Speaker 1: current stage of my life, I just didn't feel like
Speaker 1: that that's what I needed to be doing. I can
Speaker 1: contribute in other ways when I find a job, but
Speaker 1: I'm not just I'm gonna go work at Walmart. And
Speaker 1: he was, yeah, because now we're we're fucking broke because
Speaker 1: you got this expensive as truck that I asked you
Speaker 1: not to get. Was I wrong? Was I selfish to
Speaker 1: not go work at Walmart? You didn't He didn't need
Speaker 1: that vehicle? Did he need that? No? Yeah, he didn't
Speaker 1: need it. So he went and did what he wanted
Speaker 1: to do because really he wasn't taking you into consideration
Speaker 1: with the relationship. Honestly, he was like, I'm making the money.
Speaker 1: That's my money, bitch. You need like in some ways somehow,
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure it started to take care of this
Speaker 1: fucking truck. You wasn't being taken care of, right, So
Speaker 1: it's like, now, bit g job so you can figure
Speaker 1: it out for yourself. And the and the crazy part
Speaker 1: was all right. So I had just moved from Europe
Speaker 1: with him, and I made like when I was there,
Speaker 1: I was making a lot of money doing hair in
Speaker 1: the salon there, and obviously you have to build your
Speaker 1: like when you go to a new city, you gotta
Speaker 1: start over. You know you're not gonna be like So
Speaker 1: when I was making all that money, everything was good
Speaker 1: because I could contribute so much more. But as soon
Speaker 1: as I moved with you, the only reason I'm leaving
Speaker 1: is because of you. I'm moving because you got stationed
Speaker 1: to a new place and I'm going with you. And
Speaker 1: now you're treating me like a poopa to ass bitch
Speaker 1: where gosh it? And I'm like, and that's why you
Speaker 1: see that a lot of times in relationships. It's almost
Speaker 1: like like are you my man or is it comp
Speaker 1: a titian? You know what I'm saying, because you I
Speaker 1: left because of the relationship, right, my comfort zone, and
Speaker 1: now you have me in this vulnerable state of really
Speaker 1: not being able to take care of myself initially, and
Speaker 1: now you're trying to shoot on me and want me
Speaker 1: to go work at Walmart. Right. And that's why I
Speaker 1: don't suggest women to struggle with men, because that motherucker
Speaker 1: ain't looking back once he get a ship together, dog
Speaker 1: ain't looking back. He ain't looking back. Look, man, try
Speaker 1: to get a nigger as whole as possible, because they
Speaker 1: don't like the women that saw them funked up. They
Speaker 1: don't like it. That's why they don't like their first
Speaker 1: baby mamas. Sometimes girl a lot of times sometimes looking
Speaker 1: at Kanye told y'all, Lebrian is avantasy. I don't think
Speaker 1: they ever struggled though. Sorry, they don't count. They went
Speaker 1: straight from high school to rich exactly, like exactly, and
Speaker 1: they probably struggle with like other ship, you know, because
Speaker 1: I don't heard about little bron Ron and ship the
Speaker 1: sun right now acting out how daddy what what daddy
Speaker 1: really like? You know, because they say like a little
Speaker 1: white girl fetish. Oh yeah, they do say that. I
Speaker 1: love me some of Lebron and Savannah. I would love
Speaker 1: to be like their girlfriend, but them, both of them.
Speaker 1: I love Savannah. I might love Savanna more like Lebron honestly,
Speaker 1: but yeah, look, look how I got off at a
Speaker 1: changing anyway, me and that nigga broke up in the story.
Speaker 1: Let's go to break bet you'll be right back, all right, y'all.
Speaker 1: So look, just to wrap up our a little brief
Speaker 1: conversation today, it is not uh selfish of you to
Speaker 1: practice self care. I want everybody, every woman especially to
Speaker 1: know that no. It's a complete statement. And if somebody
Speaker 1: tries to make you feel bad about saying no when
Speaker 1: it's gonna car cause you like fucking stress, fuck them anguish. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like it's not it's not selfish. Now if you um,
Speaker 1: hold on, I sent you another post bitch with um
Speaker 1: this girl basically being a goddamn chatty patty essentially being
Speaker 1: a pick Misha saying, men, here are some top signs
Speaker 1: to let you know what you're being what you're being
Speaker 1: used by. Oh excuse me, here are some top signs
Speaker 1: to let you know you're being used by her. So
Speaker 1: she goes on to talk about like, you know, she
Speaker 1: makes you pay for everything. What it's some men that
Speaker 1: won't let you go on your purse. You know, maybe
Speaker 1: she's never experienced that type of man, So I'll give
Speaker 1: her some paths. You know, maybe she's had to pay
Speaker 1: for some meal. Yeah, I have a lot of men
Speaker 1: who would be like offended when I try to pay
Speaker 1: for ship. Yes, I had a dude told me like,
Speaker 1: you're trying to cut my balls off. I'm like, what, Like,
Speaker 1: I just don't want you because we see the guys
Speaker 1: out here get mad because they took a woman out
Speaker 1: and they're not getting pussy and I want to have
Speaker 1: an episode about that. But I need a man on,
Speaker 1: like we need a guy on, so we could talk
Speaker 1: about that. Um. But yeah, I've definitely paid for a
Speaker 1: meal just so on nigga wouldn't feel like or offered
Speaker 1: at least, so you don't feel like I owe you ship? Right,
Speaker 1: But and I don't mind paying for some food, like
Speaker 1: what I'll pay for that? Yeah? So she she says,
Speaker 1: that's a red flag that a lot of dudes ignore
Speaker 1: when a woman makes them pay for everything. But something
Speaker 1: like let's say you you're dating someone who ain't got
Speaker 1: ship then, and men like women who aren't got ship.
Speaker 1: Women be like opposite a tractor, like they need someone
Speaker 1: to fix. I have a friend who only dates fix
Speaker 1: her upper ass. Niggas. Nah, she got a problem. What
Speaker 1: is it called when you're like, uh, savior a savior complex?
Speaker 1: She just needs to be the savior all the time.
Speaker 1: The girl, why do you keep picking up these niggas off?
Speaker 1: The side of the road. I guess this type of
Speaker 1: people are necessary, you know what. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: like to help those men get their shipped together. But
Speaker 1: um nah, no, no no, And you know we never
Speaker 1: talked about that. It was I think it was a
Speaker 1: podcast where the girl was saying, how men go get
Speaker 1: fat women when they ain't know the ship? M hmm,
Speaker 1: what do you think about that? I don't know, because fat,
Speaker 1: but I know a lot of swaggy as fat girls
Speaker 1: just be smelling good, smell good, swaggy, beautiful and bag
Speaker 1: and still your nigga today right out of your part.
Speaker 1: And look, I could be honest and say, listen, I
Speaker 1: was with a nigga who only cheated with super fat
Speaker 1: pretty bitches. And it got to the point to where
Speaker 1: what I would see like a cute, light skin, fat bitch,
Speaker 1: I would be side eying her because I know I knew,
Speaker 1: like deep down inside, like if my nigga saw this bitch,
Speaker 1: she's going to be trying to suck. And it bothered
Speaker 1: me that I knew this nigga's type was big gass,
Speaker 1: light skinned pretty bitches. And I mean like two fifty
Speaker 1: to seventy, like oh, beautiful suh. Yes, he called them
Speaker 1: bitches love seats. They're gonna love seats type bitch. Yeah,
Speaker 1: just be looking nice there talking about obviously a big
Speaker 1: bitch stole her man, that's all it is, right, And
Speaker 1: she was intimidated. Anytime you're intimidated by some ship, you
Speaker 1: want to try to downplay it. They can seem like
Speaker 1: it ain't all that girl, you know the time, and
Speaker 1: she just stole your nigga, cooked him a good meal
Speaker 1: and funding ship out of right now, that pussy be
Speaker 1: extra with all of the sweat juice, Like, what that's
Speaker 1: your id? You see? All right? So I have a
Speaker 1: dumb bitch story for y'all dumb bitch stories because we've
Speaker 1: all been a dumb bitch at least it was or twice.
Speaker 1: This actually was sent to me on Instagram. Can I
Speaker 1: say who sent it to me? I guess uh. One
Speaker 1: of our grand followers who cheap Poppy's sent us this. Okay,
Speaker 1: so I'm gonna read it to y'all. Uh, And it's
Speaker 1: actually on spiritual word. Twelve years ago, this nigga took
Speaker 1: my car while I was at work to go pick
Speaker 1: up another bitch after dropping her off my tire blue,
Speaker 1: and he crashed my car into a light post on
Speaker 1: Central As and died in my car. I didn't find
Speaker 1: out the whole story. Tell a friend of a friend
Speaker 1: told me it was one of her clients who he
Speaker 1: went to go see. And it was confirmed when I
Speaker 1: went to get my car out of impound and found
Speaker 1: her bank card card in my total car with one
Speaker 1: of his shoes that came off during impact. Damn, that's wow.
Speaker 1: Also found out he used my social Security number to
Speaker 1: foul taxes on the state of Georgia uh and got
Speaker 1: ten K back. And now every time my foul taxes,
Speaker 1: I have to have a pen number mailed to me
Speaker 1: for the rest of my life. But r I p
Speaker 1: to him more of the story. Don't be a dumb bitch,
Speaker 1: no matter how good the sex is, you might save
Speaker 1: a life. Also, karma is a bit. He didn't die
Speaker 1: along though. Where he crashed was right next to a
Speaker 1: house that just so happened to be my co worker's house,
Speaker 1: and they saw my work vest in the car, and
Speaker 1: thinking he was an employee, he held his hand until
Speaker 1: he passed, waiting for e MT. This was twelve years ago.
Speaker 1: I healed as much as I could from this situation,
Speaker 1: but ever so often I get reminders of this situation,
Speaker 1: especially during tight tax season. Plus side is a grief.
Speaker 1: I grief so bad during this time. I lost like
Speaker 1: thirty pounds that I was struggling to get rid of
Speaker 1: last part, and I'm done. He crashed on Citu Avenue
Speaker 1: in Crown Street. I was living on Addison Road in Crown.
Speaker 1: I was blowing his phone up because he didn't come
Speaker 1: get me. I remember getting home and hearing the ambulance
Speaker 1: and fire truck, but didn't find out that was him,
Speaker 1: because I didn't find out that was because of him
Speaker 1: until the next morning. The end shame hold on it says, Okay,
Speaker 1: to be very clear, he was not my boyfriend. We
Speaker 1: were f WB friends with benefits. He thought my name
Speaker 1: was Shaunte up until a month before he passed. I
Speaker 1: eventually did tell him. I eventually did tell him my
Speaker 1: real name. So y'all can stop saying he died cheating,
Speaker 1: he died being disrespectful. But hold all, both of y'all
Speaker 1: was yes, And how was he following taxes in your name?
Speaker 1: And he don't even know your name? Bitch like he
Speaker 1: had her social right, But you have to put a
Speaker 1: name on the tax forms or if he be missing,
Speaker 1: you knew that bitch was lying about her name. That's
Speaker 1: what he's like. I got something for this line, this
Speaker 1: big I'm about to get some money off of you
Speaker 1: in I'm be picking up my other holes with your car.
Speaker 1: That's a sad story. It is because the man did
Speaker 1: pass away. I mean, we cracking jokes and ship, but
Speaker 1: it is kind of sad, like he died young, you know,
Speaker 1: and cheating in her. Maybe he wasn't cheating whatever you
Speaker 1: call it. He was in the car, Yeah, to pick
Speaker 1: up other women. See other women. That's cheating to me. M. Yeah,
Speaker 1: don't use my car, right, But stuff with men who
Speaker 1: don't got no car? What the hell? At least at
Speaker 1: least like the bare minimum. That is a dumb bit story. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but it books poor thing. She probably was having to
Speaker 1: walk to work. That's why her has lost some damn
Speaker 1: thirty pounds. M. She didn't have no car, no dick,
Speaker 1: dick in the dirt. Oh a J. Look, let me
Speaker 1: tell you you know what, We're gonna get another fucking review.
Speaker 1: Talk about a J like a J is always saying ship.
Speaker 1: That's just they just make fun of every fucking thing.
Speaker 1: Everything is not a fucking joke. Like, first of all,
Speaker 1: I'm not like death isn't sad to me. I'm not
Speaker 1: afraid of dying. Like people need to get over that ship.
Speaker 1: And maybe it's just a different life cycle I'm in.
Speaker 1: But the funk like, you're gonna die. Everybody gonna get
Speaker 1: the funk u out of here at some point. You
Speaker 1: just don't know how or win, but you're gonna get
Speaker 1: the funk out of here. And we don't know what
Speaker 1: it's like on the other side. The ship might be
Speaker 1: fucking lit. You know this, Just get your ship together
Speaker 1: while you're here. It's okay. It ain't no sending a
Speaker 1: bible about tripping off people dying, Like the hell why
Speaker 1: I got that dick? My one of my exits used
Speaker 1: to always tell me, now, you're always putting my dick
Speaker 1: in the dirt, Like when I would argue with him
Speaker 1: about whole ship he was doing. You're always putting my
Speaker 1: dick in the dirt. Yeah, because your dick stayed in
Speaker 1: the dirt. Literally because yes, nasty ass, But I never
Speaker 1: heard nobody say dick in the dirt as it applies
Speaker 1: to being buried. That's that's one other persons. So this
Speaker 1: is so fucking stupid. This is wild. So one of
Speaker 1: my friends, she had this guy she used to funk with,
Speaker 1: and they used to work with each other for years
Speaker 1: and years, like off and on, you know, from teenage
Speaker 1: to adulthood. And this is when we were living in Colombia.
Speaker 1: This is one of my best friends. But she was
Speaker 1: just telling me about this nigga dick something look some
Speaker 1: other uber uber meets type ship. So like I go
Speaker 1: over to her house while he's there. It's like, I
Speaker 1: don't know, was I was I supposed to fun, I
Speaker 1: don't know, but it's like the nigga was fine as hey,
Speaker 1: she don't has shown me pictures of this beautiful, beautiful,
Speaker 1: beautiful penis and he had like a nice little mole
Speaker 1: on it, like just just beautiful dick dog. But it's
Speaker 1: like I don't really want to look after my friend
Speaker 1: like that, like not. I don't know why. I don't
Speaker 1: know why I didn't do anything. But anyway, we were
Speaker 1: trying to set it up to the dude, but it
Speaker 1: just didn't happen. But anyway, some years later, like he
Speaker 1: ended up dying of some type of cancer and I
Speaker 1: was like, yo, that fucking beautiful dick is in the dirt. Beautiful,
Speaker 1: big juicy hamburger is in the dirt. It's a lot
Speaker 1: of beautiful dicks in the dirt. Girl, I know, y'all. Listen.
Speaker 1: We got a motherfucking live show coming up, y'all, first ever.
Speaker 1: So listen, Black Effect is having a live show. This
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Speaker 1: We have never done a live show before, so we're
Speaker 1: putting together something super fly's super fun. Yeah, so you'all
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Speaker 1: fest p O D fest f E st Alright. Look,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm like, I'm on a diet so I can
Speaker 1: look real fine when y'all see me. But I did
Speaker 1: just eat a piece of cake and one of my
Speaker 1: home girls left over here. I'm like, wait, is that cake?
Speaker 1: I know, but I wouldn't have ate it if it
Speaker 1: wasn't in my house. You know the fuck it's her fault. Yes,
Speaker 1: it's absolutely her fault. I don't have the self control
Speaker 1: is not bringing ship like that in here? Okay? Right?
Speaker 1: Did I'll be struggling, man, I like I'm much Cali.
Speaker 1: I'd be struggling with the sweets girl, but I haven't
Speaker 1: had any. I did have some sweet ass onion ranged yesterday,
Speaker 1: That's about it. But I haven't had like some fucking
Speaker 1: cake or fresh baked good like I like fresh baked
Speaker 1: cookies and ship like that. No package ship, nothing from
Speaker 1: the middle of a grocery store. I'm gonna get all
Speaker 1: fresh baked bullshit. But I've been doing good my dad, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you'll be eating that football thing every time. I saw
Speaker 1: it on TV one day and I was like, my
Speaker 1: co host like them things. I haven't had that because
Speaker 1: I've been back to Charlotte, I haven't had any and
Speaker 1: I can't find like a good Asian uh bakery down here,
Speaker 1: so all right, know m h. Anyway, y'all listen. You
Speaker 1: enjoyed this episode, please tune in every Thursday on the
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Speaker 1: remember to speak now and never hold your piece my nigga.
Speaker 1: Bye by