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Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with her radio. I'm Ben, I'm at and I'm in

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Speaker 1: studio and there's a reason why I can't wait any longer.

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Speaker 1: Ashley has teased me for a long time saying she's

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Speaker 1: got some news. I think I know what it is.

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Speaker 1: Act like you haven't known. I know. Actually there's a

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Speaker 1: lot I don't know, so I want to learn along

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Speaker 1: with the listeners. I'm just gonna pull my seat back,

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Speaker 1: grab my water, relax, and let Ashley tell us what

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Speaker 1: it is we've all waited for. Okay, that's so awkward

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Speaker 1: it yes you Okay, at you? Okay? You want me

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Speaker 1: to say my big news is that Jared as in

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Speaker 1: Jared Haven, my my love from Bachelor in Paradise season

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Speaker 1: two and three, and one of my best friends for

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Speaker 1: the past three years is now my boy friend. Oh

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Speaker 1: you make me almost I'm gonna cry. Take a second,

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Speaker 1: cry a little bit. Be a better podcast that way,

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Speaker 1: when you know what's funny is like you can think

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Speaker 1: about that stuff, but as soon as the words start

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Speaker 1: coming out of your mouth, that's when you get terry.

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Speaker 1: Does that happen with you too? Definitely? Yeah, I mean

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Speaker 1: I think most of the time, when when I have

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Speaker 1: a big announcement or something really heavy on my heart,

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Speaker 1: when I finally start speaking about is when it becomes true.

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Speaker 1: And you, I mean, I want you to share with

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Speaker 1: our listeners your story from the really from whatever perspective

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Speaker 1: you want. But you've waited to tell people for a

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Speaker 1: long time. Yeah, the slab a timeline on it. But

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Speaker 1: we've been dating for a few months, and I just,

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Speaker 1: you know, I think that we've always had so much

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Speaker 1: think we just kind of wanted to hide for a

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Speaker 1: little bit, especially at the beginning, you know, during that

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Speaker 1: weird transition. It wasn't it wasn't a weird transition, but

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Speaker 1: to go from really good friends to boyfriend and girlfriend,

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Speaker 1: I guess things could go weary, but it definitely didn't.

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Speaker 1: It was the most natural transition ever. And now Jared's

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Speaker 1: always like, can you believe a couple of months ago

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Speaker 1: we never kissed. We didn't kiss, I didn't touch you,

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, I know that was kiss that was

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Speaker 1: all on you, that was all you. And He's like,

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Speaker 1: I don't know why I didn't do this for so

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Speaker 1: long and now you guys kiss, Yes, like with tongue

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Speaker 1: sometimes that's nice. Um, Actually, let's start at the beginning.

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm not a huge tongue person. I mean

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Speaker 1: I watched you on Souls this season. I saw, all right,

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Speaker 1: this is about Jared. Actually, all right, here's the thing.

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Speaker 1: You came off Winner Games in a relationship with somebody,

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Speaker 1: and I think everybody out there is going to be

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Speaker 1: asking the timeline, and that's not necessarily important. There is

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Speaker 1: no crossover. There is no weirdness here, no crossover. I

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Speaker 1: never cheated on Kevin or anything like that. Um, But

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Speaker 1: witnessed it on the Winter Games? Yes? So all of

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Speaker 1: this because it's such a long story, like there's three years.

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Speaker 1: There's two televised chapters in our story, and then there's

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Speaker 1: another televised chapter of me individually. So we put together

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Speaker 1: an episode of my YouTube series, The Story of Us.

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Speaker 1: It's you know, the past season that aired in March

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Speaker 1: big significant points in their relationship. So I thought, what

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Speaker 1: that will make it all make way more sense to

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Speaker 1: Bachelor Nation why we weren't together and why we are

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Speaker 1: now once they watch this. So for everybody out there

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Speaker 1: listening right now, outside of all the television, outside of

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Speaker 1: the shows, you have a boyfriend. His name is Jared.

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Speaker 1: This is very personal to you, and I've I actually

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Speaker 1: uh have talked to a few people who have been

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Speaker 1: I didn't know how serious it was, and it was weird.

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Speaker 1: you're gonna make me cry point He's my soulmate? And

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Speaker 1: when did you find this out? I think the first

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Speaker 1: day I've met him. But this is why you have

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Speaker 1: has Jared's feelings transformed for you? Then she's crying right now,

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Speaker 1: that everybody sees us at some point later. I think

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Speaker 1: this marks the first time I cried on the Um. Actually,

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Speaker 1: I love you. It's really complicated. Um. In a way,

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Speaker 1: and he's like so full of love. Um. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: story of us when you guys can watch, because we

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Speaker 1: really felt like we needed to sit down together as

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Speaker 1: there's the love cry. Do you love him? Yes? I

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Speaker 1: He goes. Every day he goes, do you know how

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Speaker 1: much I love you? I don't think you know? All right,

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Speaker 1: Jared haven I. I'm gonna take a second here. We

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Speaker 1: in love everybody, if you don't believe that real love exists,

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Speaker 1: then comes in this part the studio with me right now.

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Speaker 1: I mean, we're gonna make mistakes and break up. That's

427
00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:05,320
Speaker 1: the case. And that's the thing. It's like when I

428
00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:08,000
Speaker 1: would end things with the guys, I always wanted to

429
00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:10,879
Speaker 1: try and give a reason at least so they had something,

430
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:13,520
Speaker 1: you know, that they would know it's not them specifically,

431
00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:15,639
Speaker 1: it's just like how I'm feeling. And that's where I

432
00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:17,600
Speaker 1: think I struggled the most. But sometimes I just couldn't

433
00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:20,040
Speaker 1: give a reason other than I just don't feel it

434
00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:21,800
Speaker 1: all the way and I just don't see it. And

435
00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:23,719
Speaker 1: I think that was tough for some of the guys.

436
00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:28,280
Speaker 1: But I didn't want to waste anyone's time. Like actually

437
00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:31,119
Speaker 1: said last week, there's a chemistry aspect when you just

438
00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:33,119
Speaker 1: don't feel it, you just don't feel it exactly. You

439
00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:34,880
Speaker 1: have to say it or it's just gonna get worse

440
00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:37,560
Speaker 1: and worse. For them. What kind of season should we

441
00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:39,199
Speaker 1: expect with you? Is it going to be like a

442
00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:42,800
Speaker 1: Caitlin Joejoe season where it's pretty obvious the entire time

443
00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:46,399
Speaker 1: not maybe not so much to the audience, but you

444
00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:49,240
Speaker 1: yourself knew the entire time who you're going to pick,

445
00:25:49,280 --> 00:25:53,919
Speaker 1: who you're still wanted, or maybe he's been holding up

446
00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:55,679
Speaker 1: the pictures. Or is it going to be more like

447
00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:59,240
Speaker 1: a Rachel season where it's gonna be you're a little

448
00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:02,040
Speaker 1: bit torn, but between two or a couple of guys

449
00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:04,760
Speaker 1: like she was with Peter and Brian. Um. I think

450
00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:07,040
Speaker 1: it's going to be a nice mix of a Caitlin,

451
00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:12,240
Speaker 1: Jojo and Rachel and you'll see it all unfold. Um.

452
00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:16,960
Speaker 1: I surprised myself throughout it too, like I'd like Caitlin,

453
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:18,840
Speaker 1: Jojoe and Rachel. If I get a mix of all three,

454
00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:23,960
Speaker 1: I feel like that's pretty good, pretty good. Hopefully then

455
00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:27,400
Speaker 1: kill it. They're so great. Okay, we have a little

456
00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:30,720
Speaker 1: bit of a surprise for you. We have a special

457
00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:35,639
Speaker 1: guest on the phone. Hello, special guests. Hello, everyone, Do

458
00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:40,000
Speaker 1: you know who that is? Keep talking? Keep talking? Is

459
00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:47,560
Speaker 1: this Carolin? Yeah? Sorry, that back up a little bit. Hi,

460
00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:53,560
Speaker 1: how are you how's it going? I miss you? You

461
00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:56,560
Speaker 1: look so exciting, like you literally looked so happy and

462
00:26:56,640 --> 00:27:00,320
Speaker 1: everything that I'm seeing what they like to be that happy?

463
00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:08,800
Speaker 1: Tell me, Caroline, you're you're sitting, Uh, where do you live?

464
00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 1: Right now? Where you at? I'm I'm actually like about

465
00:27:12,000 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 1: to your show a house right now. I totally forgot

466
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:16,960
Speaker 1: we were doing this today and I was like, everybody

467
00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:20,320
Speaker 1: feels about us. I just don't know what say the

468
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:23,239
Speaker 1: week it is? I don't know. Did you could you

469
00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:26,040
Speaker 1: tell from a distance that Becca was happy? Could you

470
00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:28,119
Speaker 1: tell just by looking at the pictures and seeing her

471
00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:30,439
Speaker 1: in interviews that something different was happening with her? She

472
00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:35,920
Speaker 1: is shooting sunshine out of her ass, like shooting sunshine

473
00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:39,120
Speaker 1: out of her that's a picture for the Bachelor. Yeah,

474
00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:41,760
Speaker 1: there we go. No, she always has been like a

475
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:47,200
Speaker 1: really happy person, but she's blowing so told you again,

476
00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:52,440
Speaker 1: I know, I know we missed Caroline before we head

477
00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:54,879
Speaker 1: out here, because we're a couple. More surprises for Becca?

478
00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:59,200
Speaker 1: Can you give Becca? We have a time. You're the best,

479
00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:03,399
Speaker 1: but we have a little bit. What advice or encouragement

480
00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:08,280
Speaker 1: do you have to say to send backa off here? Um? Well,

481
00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:11,359
Speaker 1: when I saw him recently, I gave her some advice

482
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:14,320
Speaker 1: and I hope that it worked. Um seems like it

483
00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:18,159
Speaker 1: might have. Um, but I mean, I don't know. I

484
00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:20,040
Speaker 1: think I don't know what just I don't honestly, what

485
00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:22,399
Speaker 1: do you think I know? Ben? What am I supposed

486
00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:24,640
Speaker 1: dater are here? Like? Just good luck? I mean, if

487
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:28,760
Speaker 1: she seems like she doesn't need it, stupid happy. So

488
00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:31,119
Speaker 1: I will say that bit of advice. I'm not going

489
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:32,720
Speaker 1: to give it away because I want people to watch

490
00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:34,760
Speaker 1: it and hear it from your mouth. But it was

491
00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 1: probably the strangest, most solid bit of advice I've ever received.

492
00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:42,720
Speaker 1: And good right, it's a good one. We could not

493
00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:45,840
Speaker 1: expect anything less from Caroline. Caroline, thank you so much

494
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:49,240
Speaker 1: for coming the podcast. I wish it could be longer.

495
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:51,640
Speaker 1: But I love you guys and taking care of my

496
00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 1: girl from me over there, all right later Luther. Next

497
00:28:57,560 --> 00:29:04,400
Speaker 1: surprise guest Hello, Hello, Hello, Hi, Guessing Game Part two?

498
00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:08,920
Speaker 1: Oh my god? Wait hello hello, this is Kendall. Wait

499
00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:14,160
Speaker 1: ye bad friend. You're not a bad friend at all.

500
00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:20,680
Speaker 1: One more guest, Hi, Hi, how are you? I couldn't

501
00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:23,160
Speaker 1: hear what you're I'm good? Are you okay? Now I

502
00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:25,760
Speaker 1: can totally tell it to you. Okay, miss you. I

503
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:28,760
Speaker 1: miss you too. How are you good? Are you in

504
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:31,440
Speaker 1: l A right now? Yeah? I just picked up lunch.

505
00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:35,840
Speaker 1: I'm walking back to the office right now. Seeing we're

506
00:29:35,880 --> 00:29:38,800
Speaker 1: super happy that you're on the podcast. We've been talking

507
00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:42,480
Speaker 1: to a few of of Becca's closest friends from the show. Um,

508
00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:46,760
Speaker 1: looking if you have any advice or encouragement to send

509
00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:50,320
Speaker 1: Becca off with all of our listeners listening to send

510
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:52,960
Speaker 1: her off? Wait, can I ask Becca a question? You

511
00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:55,840
Speaker 1: can ask her anything you want? Becca? Are you engaged?

512
00:29:56,120 --> 00:30:02,640
Speaker 1: I am morning? Never. The last time I saw you,

513
00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:06,600
Speaker 1: I was like you, guys, I might be engaged. Did

514
00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:09,360
Speaker 1: he pick out a better ring than Ari? Oh? Yeah?

515
00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:12,280
Speaker 1: Hell yeah? Okay good? Where is it? Does this mean

516
00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:18,680
Speaker 1: you get to wear it now? No? We Becca? When

517
00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:23,440
Speaker 1: do you leave l A? I don't know exactly. I

518
00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:28,040
Speaker 1: don't know. Okay, well, okay, advice I don't know. Becca

519
00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:30,640
Speaker 1: is killing it. I don't even know what advice she

520
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:34,280
Speaker 1: needs to give me some advice? Well see, and uh

521
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:39,320
Speaker 1: Becca is sitting here just glowing, um super excited. When

522
00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:41,720
Speaker 1: when she guessed your name, you should have seen her face.

523
00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:44,280
Speaker 1: Her smile even went bigger than it already is. Right now.

524
00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:50,560
Speaker 1: I love you. I'm so thanks girl. I'm so proud

525
00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:54,160
Speaker 1: you for surviving that experience. We will have to double

526
00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:57,760
Speaker 1: date very soon. Yes, I would love that double date,

527
00:30:57,800 --> 00:31:01,280
Speaker 1: triple day, double date, triple day. I'm down for the

528
00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:08,000
Speaker 1: triple day. But did you just say that Sanna's a boyfriend? Do? Wow?

529
00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:11,440
Speaker 1: This is an episode of love and thanks for coming

530
00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:14,200
Speaker 1: the podcast. Of course. It's good talking to you, guys.

531
00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:19,880
Speaker 1: Love you, I love you. Hey bye. In our round

532
00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:24,400
Speaker 1: of surprise guests, we have another one. Hello there, this

533
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:31,680
Speaker 1: is kindall. Yes you Hi? Oh man, Hi, how are good?

534
00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:34,560
Speaker 1: How are you? I'm good? Oh my gosh? How is

535
00:31:34,560 --> 00:31:38,120
Speaker 1: this roland of everything for you? It's crazy but so good,

536
00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:46,000
Speaker 1: so good. Oh so your friends don't read your news.

537
00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:53,120
Speaker 1: I know I'm a bad friend finding I mean, I'm happy.

538
00:31:53,160 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 1: I think you seem really happy. So I'm so happy

539
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:57,560
Speaker 1: for your love. I am thank you. I can't wait

540
00:31:57,600 --> 00:32:00,240
Speaker 1: for you to meet the lucky guy I know. And

541
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:05,240
Speaker 1: when I say lucky, it's because he gets to meet you.

542
00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:08,640
Speaker 1: She's still in the bachelorette mode. She's quick, she's smooth,

543
00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:10,840
Speaker 1: she has a little good treat. Yeah, that's a good one.

544
00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:15,040
Speaker 1: Becca Nice. I was impressive. Kendall, We're asking all of

545
00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:16,760
Speaker 1: Becca's friends to come on and if you have any

546
00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:19,719
Speaker 1: encouragement or just any words for Becca now that all

547
00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:22,920
Speaker 1: of our listeners are listening, what would that be? Oh gosh,

548
00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:25,280
Speaker 1: I mean Beca is like a poer of them. I

549
00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:28,280
Speaker 1: think she has everything handled it. I think, honestly back

550
00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:30,680
Speaker 1: that you've been through so much that I know that

551
00:32:30,960 --> 00:32:33,000
Speaker 1: this is just gonna be so wonderful and happy for you.

552
00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:35,680
Speaker 1: So I us like, I don't know what me about

553
00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:38,160
Speaker 1: love because I don't know if that seems to be

554
00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:41,120
Speaker 1: the trend. I was gonna say, everybody's saying that. No,

555
00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:42,920
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't even want to give Beck advice.

556
00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:44,880
Speaker 1: I just want her to give advice to me. No

557
00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:47,959
Speaker 1: one needs my advice. She's engaged fun now I know,

558
00:32:49,600 --> 00:32:58,720
Speaker 1: found love for life. So I mean keeping Thanks, Thanks Candall, Hey, Kendall,

559
00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:04,479
Speaker 1: thanks so much, Love you Ken Becca. You it is clear, um,

560
00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:06,080
Speaker 1: this has not been a secret to any of us.

561
00:33:06,120 --> 00:33:10,240
Speaker 1: You are loved, you are supported. That we had after

562
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:12,960
Speaker 1: after finding Roads, we had these all of your friends

563
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:15,479
Speaker 1: in studio at like eleven thirty at night, and all

564
00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:17,280
Speaker 1: they could talk about was how great you are, which

565
00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:19,840
Speaker 1: which is not common in this world. I feel like

566
00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:21,680
Speaker 1: to get that much support from people that have been

567
00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:24,280
Speaker 1: on your season. There was no ounces of jealousy, there

568
00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:26,600
Speaker 1: was no ounces of m venus. It was just strictly

569
00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:28,640
Speaker 1: we can't wait for Becca to be happy. And you're

570
00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:31,600
Speaker 1: smiling ear to ear right now. Um, and you have

571
00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:35,840
Speaker 1: the best teeth. Yeah. I always wanted braces and had them,

572
00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:39,000
Speaker 1: had them, and I was so jealous. You haven't had

573
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:43,400
Speaker 1: braces enough. Do they look like God has blessed Becca?

574
00:33:44,320 --> 00:33:45,720
Speaker 1: I don't want them for a month, just so I

575
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:50,200
Speaker 1: can switch colors out. Believe a. Becca, Thank you so much.

576
00:33:50,360 --> 00:33:53,920
Speaker 1: You are cherished. You are America's bachelorette. Thanks for coming

577
00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:59,760
Speaker 1: almost for this podcast. I have zero to how Becca

578
00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:02,880
Speaker 1: is going to be one of the best bachelorettes of

579
00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:06,440
Speaker 1: all time. And that's why after this uh little segment,

580
00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:07,960
Speaker 1: I want to take a little time to rank our

581
00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 1: favorite bachelorettes. But before we do, we got to talk

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585
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586
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:25,719
Speaker 1: I mean, I ate a lot of pizza. I sat

587
00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:27,880
Speaker 1: on my couch all the time, and it was like

588
00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:30,080
Speaker 1: that four o'clock pizza order come through in the morning

589
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Speaker 1: and I'd eat it up with the little cheese sticks.

590
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Speaker 1: Oh yeah easy, oh every day. Actually so, but I

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631
00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:25,400
Speaker 1: um from number five to one? Is it season or girl?

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Speaker 1: Let's go um? Let's go season? Okay, good, because obviously

633
00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:32,279
Speaker 1: I'm not going to rank some of my friends. Let's

634
00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:37,759
Speaker 1: go season. Okay, Ashley, You're number five favorite bachelorette season ever?

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Speaker 1: Is Oh my god? Can I have a minute. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna go with Ashley. Ashley a bear Number five, Ashley,

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Speaker 1: I can eddie with your number four favorite bachelorette of

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Speaker 1: all time Andy Andy Dorfman Season ten. Yes, Ashley, I

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Speaker 1: can edtie with your number three favorite bachelorette of all time,

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Speaker 1: Joe Joey Joe Joe. Ashley. I can edtie with your

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Speaker 1: number two favorite bachelorette of all time, Emily Maynard. Emily,

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Speaker 1: what a successful season for the Bachelor. I mean that

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Speaker 1: could have been a huge ress. They tugged and it

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Speaker 1: just worked out really well. Alright, Hey, the moment we've

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Speaker 1: all been. This has just been a podcast of moments

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Speaker 1: we've all been waiting for. For the moment we've all

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Speaker 1: been waiting for, Ashley, I can Eddie year number one

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Speaker 1: favorite bachelorette of all time? N I would have to

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Speaker 1: agree Caitlin's season. I've said it before. Her season was

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Speaker 1: so good and so great and there were so many

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Speaker 1: good moments, so great, you had the best budget. You

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Speaker 1: my co host came from Caitlyn season and my love,

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Speaker 1: my love of my life. Wow, that's a big season.

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Speaker 1: That is a big season for you, and you have

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Speaker 1: a lot of good friends from that season, Nicky Christian Amberg. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean that's you've you've lined him up JJ, I

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Speaker 1: mean do you have? You've really infiltrated Caitlin season. You

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Speaker 1: should have been a bachelrette. I mean Caitlin was great.

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Speaker 1: She should have been a bachelor, But like that seems

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Speaker 1: to be your season that would have ended in happily

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Speaker 1: ever after two. Who knows if jaredin would have been

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Speaker 1: at that point? I think so, Ashley, here's the question,

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Speaker 1: if you're the bachelor at during Caitlin season, would Jared

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Speaker 1: have been your number one pick? Yes? Good for you?

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Speaker 1: Actually look at that. Yeah, I love at first sight. Um, Ashley,

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Speaker 1: I don't know what we're up through these days, but

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Speaker 1: it sounds like you and uh, you and Jared are

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Speaker 1: having a great time. Um. Have you checked out Bowling

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Speaker 1: on them. There's We're just really teaching people how to

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Speaker 1: sleep on this podcast. I'm realizing that now. Hey, in

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Speaker 1: our final segment, I want to take one second here

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Speaker 1: before we get started, and I guarantee you that our

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Speaker 1: emails will be filling up, filling up with questions about

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Speaker 1: Jared Nashley, So make sure you ask us at ben

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Speaker 1: an Ashley at I Heeart meeting. But before you ask,

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Speaker 1: watch the story of us because that will actually explain

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00:42:11,719 --> 00:42:13,920
Speaker 1: many of your questions. Yes, so make sure you watch

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Speaker 1: the story of us. It's important to do that. Ashley

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Speaker 1: and Jared put a ton of time into It's just

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Speaker 1: a good love story. It's a good love story existing

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Speaker 1: right now. You need to be a part of it.

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Speaker 1: Make sure you email us at but In Ashley at

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Speaker 1: i heeart media dot com. We don't get to do

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Speaker 1: this segment enough because we usually run out of time. Um,

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Speaker 1: and today we just feel like this is such a

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Speaker 1: good podcast, one that will be uh one of our

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Speaker 1: favorites and also most listen to. I guarantee it. We

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Speaker 1: want to take some time to read through some of

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Speaker 1: our reader or listener emails. UM. I want to start

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Speaker 1: with one from Sarah. Sarah says and the title of

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Speaker 1: it is I know one of the final four from

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Speaker 1: Becca season. Interesting. I always like these. Let's read it.

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Speaker 1: I haven't read it yet, so let's see where it goes.

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Speaker 1: I'm a Bachelor Bachelorette fan from day one. I've watched

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Speaker 1: every single episode of every single season, including every single

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Speaker 1: episode of every single spin off. Wow, meaning I was

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Speaker 1: fourteen when the show started. And yes, of course I

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00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:13,359
Speaker 1: take great pride in that I was very excited when

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Speaker 1: Becca was announced to the Bachelor because, as most of

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Speaker 1: America saw, she deserved it over any other girl. I

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Speaker 1: know how Becca feels, like a lot of girls out there,

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Speaker 1: getting blindsided by a guy is never easy, and she

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Speaker 1: handled the situation like a boss. All of America became

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Speaker 1: Becca's fans that Monday night. I agree. So the really

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Speaker 1: reason I'm writing in is because that I'm even more

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Speaker 1: excited about this season because I know one of the

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Speaker 1: final contestants. We grew up in the same town and

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Speaker 1: with this school together, as well as hung out in

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Speaker 1: the same friend group. He dated one of my good

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Speaker 1: friends all throughout high school and most of college. My

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Speaker 1: good friend is actually getting married this fall to an

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Speaker 1: amazing guy, so it all worked out in the end.

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Speaker 1: I'd love to help Way. I'd love to help Way

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Speaker 1: and on your thoughts about this guy. He's revealed as

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Speaker 1: Top four and the only reason I know he made

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Speaker 1: it to hometowns is because I heard through the grape

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Speaker 1: vine and it was all over the local media that

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Speaker 1: Becca and the suitor we're in the school in the

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Speaker 1: town shooting their date. Hopefully talk to you soon, Sarah.

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Speaker 1: That's really sweet. I bet that's exciting for her. This

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Speaker 1: is really nice to hear because this girl obviously admires him.

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Speaker 1: I think. I mean it says I don't know Becka's

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Speaker 1: Final four yet, but what it says is we've got

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Speaker 1: I mean, I remember last season. What wasn't it that

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Speaker 1: we've got an email for the final four that was like,

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Speaker 1: I don't like this guy. Girl, she's not trustworthy, she's

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Speaker 1: in it for the wrong reasons. It was a pretty

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Speaker 1: like scaling, scathing email about one of the people that

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Speaker 1: was about Mark. I think from it. But I like

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Speaker 1: these emails more. Yeah, I like these emails more actually

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Speaker 1: got for Yes. So now that you you know you're

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Speaker 1: the single one on this panel of two, we need

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Speaker 1: to get you married. Yeah. Well, Tess wants to be

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Speaker 1: your wife. No, no, no, she doesn't. She doesn't, She says, Ben,

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Speaker 1: will you marry us? So well, let's let's read on. Ben.

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Speaker 1: Like you, I've always been a strong believer in love,

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Speaker 1: and even when I felt I was losing it, I

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Speaker 1: still believed. I truly feel like amidst all the negativity

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Speaker 1: and difficulty we've faced in this world, love conquers all.

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Speaker 1: But I have doubted that I would ever find someone

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Speaker 1: to fall in love with as much as I felt

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Speaker 1: like I would never find someone who loved me as

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Speaker 1: much I love as like as much as I've always

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Speaker 1: felt like I would never find someone who loved me

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Speaker 1: as I'm as much as I loved them. I've been

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Speaker 1: told my expectations are too high, I'll never be satisfied,

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Speaker 1: and that there is no such thing as perfect, But

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Speaker 1: that is what I'm searching for. That is true, there

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Speaker 1: is no such thing as perfect, But I do believe

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Speaker 1: that there is someone perfect for me, and I am

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00:45:54,800 --> 00:45:57,719
Speaker 1: so incredibly happy to say that I have found him. Hey,

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Speaker 1: haven't we all in this room except a few marry us?

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00:46:01,560 --> 00:46:05,640
Speaker 1: She wants you to official My fiance. Robert was born

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Speaker 1: and raised in geist Indiana. As a graduate of Indiana University,

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Speaker 1: he moved to Milwaukee to work for Coles Corporation headquarters,

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Speaker 1: where we ultimately met through mutual friends. Two years later,

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Speaker 1: we moved back to India to be closer to our family,

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Speaker 1: and just days before this past Christmas, he got down

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Speaker 1: one knee and asked me to be his wife. Of course,

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Speaker 1: I said yes. We are in the midst of planning.

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Speaker 1: On December wedding here in Indianapolis, and as you have

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Speaker 1: mentioned on the podcast, you're ordained in the states of Indiana.

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Speaker 1: I can't tell you how much it would mean to

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Speaker 1: us if you married us. How I mean, honestly, I

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Speaker 1: don't this is I don't take this lightly. Test Um.

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Speaker 1: I am ordained now in the state of Indiana. Um,

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Speaker 1: why did you get ordained in Indiana? I knew you

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00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:55,960
Speaker 1: were in Vegas because my cousin, my amazing cousin, Rebecca,

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Speaker 1: is getting married and she asked me if I would

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Speaker 1: marry her and her husband. This is honestly, it's like,

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Speaker 1: actually that even like you to say that to me

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00:47:11,560 --> 00:47:13,680
Speaker 1: makes me feel very special because this is a very

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00:47:13,719 --> 00:47:16,400
Speaker 1: serious thing. Love and in the commitment of a marriage

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Speaker 1: is something that I don't take lightly, and so to

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Speaker 1: have anybody wanting me to officiate that for example, I

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Speaker 1: want to pause for one second. One of the most

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Speaker 1: impactful moments I think of this year will be the

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Speaker 1: sermon um that the pat preacher did at Um Harry

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00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:35,000
Speaker 1: and Megan's wedding this last week. Yeah, he stood up

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00:47:35,040 --> 00:47:38,719
Speaker 1: and he spoke clearly and confidently about what he believed.

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Speaker 1: But he also spoke clearly and confidently about love and

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Speaker 1: how love conquers all and that love exists and love

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00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:48,040
Speaker 1: is real. And that is when he was saying that,

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Speaker 1: I said, this is a moment in history that I'm

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Speaker 1: watching that Harry and Megan will remember forever. And so

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Speaker 1: the back to this email, uh test, Please, I would

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00:47:58,200 --> 00:47:59,640
Speaker 1: love to talk to more about this. Obviously there's a

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00:47:59,640 --> 00:48:02,319
Speaker 1: lot of that we would have to work out, um logistically,

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Speaker 1: so please email me at contact dot Ben dot Higgins

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Speaker 1: at gmail dot com. Um, but just know this, no

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00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:10,759
Speaker 1: matter how this plays out, I am super honored that

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00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:13,160
Speaker 1: you even thought of me to do this. It is

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00:48:13,280 --> 00:48:17,439
Speaker 1: a huge deal. Um, and God bless and geez, let's

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Speaker 1: celebrate love today. I mean this is that the podcast name.

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Speaker 1: Let's name of that celebrate love? Jez all Right, Final

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Speaker 1: email saving myself for marriage? Should I go on the Bachelor?

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Speaker 1: From Becca different Beca. I'm an eighteen almost nineteen year

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Speaker 1: old college student and I have never been in a relationship,

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Speaker 1: so I'm pretty set on wanting to do the Bachelor

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Speaker 1: after I graduate college. Come on, Bigger Dreams. All of

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Speaker 1: my friends tell me that this is a bad decision

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Speaker 1: and to just wait for it to happen. I have

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Speaker 1: a fear that I literally won't ever find someone, don't

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00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:57,320
Speaker 1: we all. I grew up watching The Bachelor and Bachelor,

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Speaker 1: and I have always wanted to do it to find

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Speaker 1: my future person. What is your advice on this? Okay,

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Speaker 1: we'll pause here, and here's my first advice. If your

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Speaker 1: friends are telling you it's a bad decision. When you

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00:49:08,800 --> 00:49:11,840
Speaker 1: say all of my friends are telling me it's about decision,

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Speaker 1: it's probably a bad decision. It's not about decision. Look

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Speaker 1: how it turned out for me. Agreed. You're you're in

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00:49:18,520 --> 00:49:20,080
Speaker 1: a place in life that I bet your friends would

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00:49:20,120 --> 00:49:21,719
Speaker 1: have told you about decision. So whatever is going on

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Speaker 1: in her life, her friends like, don do it. She's

844
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Speaker 1: also eighteen going on nineteen. Again don't don't do it?

845
00:49:27,239 --> 00:49:29,360
Speaker 1: And I think mid twenties is a great time to

846
00:49:29,400 --> 00:49:31,560
Speaker 1: sign up. Yeah, so I'm not saying it's always a

847
00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:33,880
Speaker 1: bad decision. The Bachelor has been great to me, like

848
00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:36,520
Speaker 1: I've said, But if you're all of your friends are

849
00:49:36,520 --> 00:49:39,719
Speaker 1: advising you not to, I would hesitate to do it.

850
00:49:40,280 --> 00:49:43,879
Speaker 1: They love you, I'm assuming. Also, eighteen nineteen years old

851
00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:47,080
Speaker 1: without having had a relationship is so perfectly normal. I

852
00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:49,800
Speaker 1: think you may even be in the majority of these days.

853
00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:52,239
Speaker 1: I know that, you know, back in the day, high

854
00:49:52,239 --> 00:49:56,000
Speaker 1: school sweethearts was such a thing, but as as generations

855
00:49:56,040 --> 00:49:58,640
Speaker 1: go on, I feel like people aren't getting into serious

856
00:49:58,640 --> 00:50:02,319
Speaker 1: relationships until there were late teens. Actually, when when did

857
00:50:02,320 --> 00:50:04,960
Speaker 1: you first have your first boyfriend? Okay, but like this year?

858
00:50:05,400 --> 00:50:06,680
Speaker 1: How old? How old were you when you have your

859
00:50:06,719 --> 00:50:12,600
Speaker 1: first boyfriend? Like this year? Okay, you're doing fine. Back up,

860
00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:16,920
Speaker 1: I'm saying, okay, second part of the email. I'm saving

861
00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:19,000
Speaker 1: myself till marriage, and I feel like nowadays it is

862
00:50:19,040 --> 00:50:21,000
Speaker 1: hard to find someone with the same views on that.

863
00:50:21,320 --> 00:50:23,320
Speaker 1: I would love to marry someone that has saved himself

864
00:50:23,360 --> 00:50:25,720
Speaker 1: for me too. When I am dating someone, I always

865
00:50:25,760 --> 00:50:28,640
Speaker 1: feel insecure knowing that I cannot give them that. Even

866
00:50:28,640 --> 00:50:32,080
Speaker 1: if they say that they're okay with me not wanting sex,

867
00:50:33,040 --> 00:50:35,319
Speaker 1: I am used to the guy dropping me. Eventually. If

868
00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:37,839
Speaker 1: you guys have told me they did not feel good

869
00:50:37,920 --> 00:50:40,759
Speaker 1: enough for me because I don't drink, do drugs, or

870
00:50:40,840 --> 00:50:43,359
Speaker 1: have sex, I tell them they're good enough for me,

871
00:50:43,520 --> 00:50:45,840
Speaker 1: even though in my mind I want someone with similar

872
00:50:46,120 --> 00:50:48,160
Speaker 1: views as me. I would love if you guys could

873
00:50:48,200 --> 00:50:51,440
Speaker 1: give me some advice, because you all give amazing advice.

874
00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:55,440
Speaker 1: That's nice just winging him, and I absolutely love and

875
00:50:55,480 --> 00:50:59,920
Speaker 1: look up to you. Okay. Uh, I'm a little confused

876
00:51:00,960 --> 00:51:03,439
Speaker 1: because the email starts with saying that she's never been

877
00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:06,279
Speaker 1: in a relationship, and then she says when I am

878
00:51:06,360 --> 00:51:09,319
Speaker 1: dating someone, So maybe she's okay, dating and relationship is

879
00:51:09,320 --> 00:51:11,400
Speaker 1: different right in today's world, because that's something I'm not

880
00:51:11,400 --> 00:51:13,640
Speaker 1: catching on because I was going to respond by saying

881
00:51:13,680 --> 00:51:16,480
Speaker 1: that a lot of the guys that I didd before

882
00:51:16,520 --> 00:51:19,960
Speaker 1: having a boyfriend would tell me that not so much

883
00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:21,879
Speaker 1: that they weren't good enough for me, but that they

884
00:51:21,920 --> 00:51:27,280
Speaker 1: didn't really want the responsibility of being my first, because

885
00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:31,560
Speaker 1: then they're like, what if we do this? And then

886
00:51:31,719 --> 00:51:34,120
Speaker 1: I decided that it's we're not in it for the

887
00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:35,720
Speaker 1: long haul. I think it puts a lot of pressure

888
00:51:35,719 --> 00:51:37,600
Speaker 1: on guys to think that like they're going to be

889
00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:41,759
Speaker 1: with you for almost ever. They'd have to write. I mean,

890
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:45,680
Speaker 1: the separation from somebody being your first as as a

891
00:51:45,680 --> 00:51:48,440
Speaker 1: physical partner carries a lot of weight, and it should.

892
00:51:49,480 --> 00:51:52,520
Speaker 1: And so here's here's the advice. You're asking for someone

893
00:51:52,520 --> 00:51:57,920
Speaker 1: with similar views, morals, life experiences you And that's okay,

894
00:51:57,960 --> 00:52:01,000
Speaker 1: that's great, Becca, You're in this to find your person,

895
00:52:01,120 --> 00:52:03,560
Speaker 1: not what the world tells you should be your person,

896
00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:05,640
Speaker 1: and not what the world tells you should do to

897
00:52:05,680 --> 00:52:07,640
Speaker 1: find your person. If that's something you desire, If you

898
00:52:07,680 --> 00:52:09,279
Speaker 1: want to find a man who will look you in

899
00:52:09,320 --> 00:52:12,120
Speaker 1: the eyes and say have waited for you. Now, I'm

900
00:52:12,120 --> 00:52:15,480
Speaker 1: gonna tell you right now, not everybody's perfect. There. There's

901
00:52:15,480 --> 00:52:17,480
Speaker 1: always gonna be baggage, there's always gonna be things that

902
00:52:17,520 --> 00:52:19,440
Speaker 1: they bring into the relationship. But if you're looking for

903
00:52:19,480 --> 00:52:21,120
Speaker 1: somebody to simply look you in the eyes and say

904
00:52:21,120 --> 00:52:23,080
Speaker 1: I have waited for you, no matter what that means,

905
00:52:23,680 --> 00:52:27,360
Speaker 1: then find him. Somebody would do it. They're totally out there. Also,

906
00:52:27,520 --> 00:52:29,600
Speaker 1: I know this is a little bit of a spoiler alert,

907
00:52:29,680 --> 00:52:35,120
Speaker 1: but in the teaser, the season long teaser, Colton admits

908
00:52:35,160 --> 00:52:38,120
Speaker 1: that he's a virgin and he's not necessarily waiting for marriage,

909
00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:41,239
Speaker 1: but he's waiting for like the you know, love and

910
00:52:41,280 --> 00:52:43,400
Speaker 1: like to feel secure in it. And so if a

911
00:52:43,480 --> 00:52:46,480
Speaker 1: really hot guy who seems to have it all going on,

912
00:52:46,600 --> 00:52:50,279
Speaker 1: like Colton is a virgin, there are others out there

913
00:52:50,600 --> 00:52:53,040
Speaker 1: and you should hold out for him, yeah, or or

914
00:52:53,040 --> 00:52:55,080
Speaker 1: offer I mean, and I also want to preface it

915
00:52:55,120 --> 00:52:56,319
Speaker 1: by saying there's a lot of good guys that they

916
00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:59,200
Speaker 1: offer grace to the guys that have maybe made a

917
00:52:59,200 --> 00:53:02,279
Speaker 1: decision or who that they're not happy about or thrilled about,

918
00:53:02,360 --> 00:53:04,920
Speaker 1: or maybe made, you know, a ba jillion decision that

919
00:53:04,920 --> 00:53:06,960
Speaker 1: they're not happy about with, but they're coming to the

920
00:53:06,960 --> 00:53:09,000
Speaker 1: relationships saying I'm sorry, I'm laying this out here and

921
00:53:09,000 --> 00:53:10,400
Speaker 1: I'm asking you to love me for who I am

922
00:53:10,440 --> 00:53:13,200
Speaker 1: today and that I want to be with you forever. Becca.

923
00:53:13,280 --> 00:53:15,319
Speaker 1: But I also want to say it is admirable for

924
00:53:15,360 --> 00:53:17,680
Speaker 1: you to stand on what you believe, and it's admirable

925
00:53:17,719 --> 00:53:20,400
Speaker 1: for you to stand on what boundaries you've set for

926
00:53:20,440 --> 00:53:24,960
Speaker 1: yourself in life. Don't sacrifice those boundaries for the attention

927
00:53:25,400 --> 00:53:28,520
Speaker 1: or admiration of somebody else out there. Stand firm on

928
00:53:28,560 --> 00:53:33,160
Speaker 1: what you believe is true and right and admirable. Um I,

929
00:53:33,320 --> 00:53:37,520
Speaker 1: Becca am a huge fan of this email. Uh wait,

930
00:53:37,640 --> 00:53:40,839
Speaker 1: save yourself. Sex is a very very very powerful thing

931
00:53:41,120 --> 00:53:44,400
Speaker 1: that should not be taken lightly. But also remember that

932
00:53:44,440 --> 00:53:46,920
Speaker 1: when you do meet that guy and he does you

933
00:53:46,920 --> 00:53:50,439
Speaker 1: can look you in the eyes. Grace is also something

934
00:53:50,480 --> 00:53:57,080
Speaker 1: you can offer. Actually, I just think you're a little

935
00:53:57,120 --> 00:54:01,240
Speaker 1: sappy today. Are you able to all the perfect things?

936
00:54:01,800 --> 00:54:05,480
Speaker 1: He said, that's so well, I'm not gonna elaborate every week.

937
00:54:05,480 --> 00:54:07,399
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm not gonna elaborate on that because why

938
00:54:07,520 --> 00:54:11,319
Speaker 1: mess with perfection. Oh that's where we just let you

939
00:54:11,320 --> 00:54:13,200
Speaker 1: have your soapbox with Jared. It's kind of like a

940
00:54:13,280 --> 00:54:16,120
Speaker 1: perfect relationship. You're just gonna keep watching that from a distance.

941
00:54:16,120 --> 00:54:17,920
Speaker 1: I can't wait till, like every single year, one of

942
00:54:17,920 --> 00:54:22,680
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943
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948
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976
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Speaker 1: right now. Do it. It's this is one of my

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Speaker 1: favorite times of the year. I do enjoy the heat.

1002
00:57:40,000 --> 00:57:43,200
Speaker 1: I love the heat. I do enjoy the heat. It

1003
00:57:43,960 --> 00:57:46,080
Speaker 1: makes me feel good inside. I like to get outside.

1004
00:57:46,120 --> 00:57:49,720
Speaker 1: I feel alive. There's one thing that ruins it's it's

1005
00:57:49,760 --> 00:57:56,000
Speaker 1: almost funny to me. This has been bitches with Ben Higgins.

1006
00:57:57,720 --> 00:58:00,600
Speaker 1: I'm well. The one thing that can tinue to happen

1007
00:58:00,600 --> 00:58:02,080
Speaker 1: to me. It's like life plays a little joke on me.

1008
00:58:02,120 --> 00:58:04,160
Speaker 1: It's like God's up there going okay, but we're gonna

1009
00:58:04,200 --> 00:58:06,360
Speaker 1: make your life awesome, Like we're gonna make your life

1010
00:58:06,560 --> 00:58:10,480
Speaker 1: so good. But but every season of it, we're just

1011
00:58:10,480 --> 00:58:12,600
Speaker 1: gonna add a little thing to humble you a little bit,

1012
00:58:12,840 --> 00:58:14,920
Speaker 1: to kind of kick you, kick you down a little bit,

1013
00:58:14,960 --> 00:58:17,680
Speaker 1: to make sure that you don't get too hyped. Because

1014
00:58:17,760 --> 00:58:19,920
Speaker 1: you gotta live life with your heart low and your

1015
00:58:19,920 --> 00:58:21,720
Speaker 1: head high. And this is one way that my heart

1016
00:58:21,720 --> 00:58:26,560
Speaker 1: stays low. Allergies I have allergies to every single thing

1017
00:58:26,600 --> 00:58:29,480
Speaker 1: that exists in this world. You don't look like you. Oh,

1018
00:58:29,520 --> 00:58:32,240
Speaker 1: I mean, I am so plugged up right now. I

1019
00:58:32,280 --> 00:58:35,440
Speaker 1: can't sleep in the night. I'm coughing, I'm sneezing, I'm wheezing.

1020
00:58:35,760 --> 00:58:38,720
Speaker 1: My eyes get shut. As a child, here's what I do.

1021
00:58:38,840 --> 00:58:41,440
Speaker 1: This is disgusting, and I'm gonna share it. That's what

1022
00:58:41,480 --> 00:58:44,240
Speaker 1: I do as a child. I my allergies is so bad.

1023
00:58:44,280 --> 00:58:47,680
Speaker 1: I had ragweed and grass allergies. I have shellfish allergies too,

1024
00:58:47,720 --> 00:58:49,800
Speaker 1: But that's just beside the point that happens all year round.

1025
00:58:50,520 --> 00:58:52,800
Speaker 1: I would blow my nose and then I don't know

1026
00:58:52,800 --> 00:58:55,080
Speaker 1: if you know anybody that that does this as well.

1027
00:58:55,880 --> 00:58:57,760
Speaker 1: You blow, know, you blow your nose in a cleanex

1028
00:58:57,800 --> 00:58:59,960
Speaker 1: and then you'd wipe, wipe my eyes because they would

1029
00:58:59,960 --> 00:59:02,600
Speaker 1: be like, you know, crusty, and I couldn't figure out

1030
00:59:02,600 --> 00:59:04,960
Speaker 1: what My eyes were always so big and enlarge. It

1031
00:59:05,000 --> 00:59:09,600
Speaker 1: was because I was rubbing my allergetic snot in my

1032
00:59:09,680 --> 00:59:12,560
Speaker 1: eyes as a child. Learn my lesson from the very beginning.

1033
00:59:12,840 --> 00:59:14,840
Speaker 1: But here's what I do today. Kind of allergic to

1034
00:59:14,840 --> 00:59:16,920
Speaker 1: your on snot or was there like I think it's

1035
00:59:16,920 --> 00:59:19,520
Speaker 1: infection there I don't know what. It's just disgusting. Whatever

1036
00:59:19,640 --> 00:59:22,400
Speaker 1: is happening, it's not supposed to happen that way. So

1037
00:59:22,480 --> 00:59:25,840
Speaker 1: here's my segment that I want to take up with

1038
00:59:25,920 --> 00:59:30,960
Speaker 1: my good Lord himself. Why in the world would you

1039
00:59:31,200 --> 00:59:35,600
Speaker 1: allow somebody who really enjoys the warm weather to also

1040
00:59:35,720 --> 00:59:40,560
Speaker 1: be so allergic to everything that exists outside during the

1041
00:59:40,720 --> 00:59:43,880
Speaker 1: best season of the year. I don't want to count

1042
00:59:43,880 --> 00:59:48,160
Speaker 1: on Clarton. I don't want to sneeze and wee through

1043
00:59:48,200 --> 00:59:52,200
Speaker 1: my night sleep. What I really want to do is

1044
00:59:52,200 --> 00:59:55,800
Speaker 1: be able to walk outside, take a deep breath, and say,

1045
00:59:55,800 --> 00:59:59,960
Speaker 1: whoa God, Welcome to another day. But instead I'm sneeze

1046
01:00:00,680 --> 01:00:03,320
Speaker 1: my way up and down the aisle of everything I

1047
01:00:03,360 --> 01:00:05,640
Speaker 1: go to. I'm sick and tout of allergies. If you

1048
01:00:05,680 --> 01:00:07,360
Speaker 1: have allergies out there and you can relate with me,

1049
01:00:07,640 --> 01:00:09,600
Speaker 1: help me not feel so much like a nerd. Email

1050
01:00:09,680 --> 01:00:12,000
Speaker 1: us at Ben and Ashley at i heeart meat dot com. Hey,

1051
01:00:12,360 --> 01:00:15,200
Speaker 1: I really do love this season of life. The weather

1052
01:00:15,240 --> 01:00:18,000
Speaker 1: is getting nicer out, the lake is happening. Why not?

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Speaker 1: A lake Indiana is calling my name very soon? You

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Speaker 1: know what else is called my name? Very soon? Actually,

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Speaker 1: you're gonna take me whitewater raft I'm taking you white

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Speaker 1: water rafting in Colorado, but Indianapolis five hundred, I am.

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Speaker 1: I'm on my way here in two hours to Indianapolis, Indiana,

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Speaker 1: to ride in the parade, host a few events at

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Speaker 1: my good old States. Biggest event, you're one of the

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Speaker 1: biggest events in the country, the Indianapolis five hundred. Make

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Speaker 1: sure if you're at the Indianapolis five hundred, come out

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Speaker 1: and say hi to me. I would love to meet you,

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Speaker 1: love to see Uh. It's kind of fun. One of

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Speaker 1: my old buddies in college, Victor Olodipo, who now plays

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Speaker 1: for the Inniapolis Pacers, he is driving the pace car

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Speaker 1: and the Rays and I'm just going to hang out

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Speaker 1: and wave in the parade. That's so fun. So I'm

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Speaker 1: going back home to Winda like Indiana and Indianapolis five hundred.

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Speaker 1: I'll be there. Uh later at night, Ashley, you're a

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Speaker 1: little hype right now. I am a little high. Allergies

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Speaker 1: get me gone. I think it's clear. I think it

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Speaker 1: makes you sleepy. I don't know what it is anymore. Hey,

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Speaker 1: in honor of National Military Appreciation Month, that's what this

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Speaker 1: month is, National Military Appreciation Month. Thank you to everybody

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Speaker 1: out there who has served our country. We really appreciate

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Speaker 1: you on this podcast. We are able to speak openly

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Speaker 1: and honestly and freely because of what you have done,

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Speaker 1: so thank you. Luna Grill debuted the Warrior Rap made

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Speaker 1: with euros simply season fries, spicy yogurt, sauce, feta, tomato

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Speaker 1: and lettuce on a choice of multi grain, lavish or peta.

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Speaker 1: One dollar from each Warrior Rap Soul during the month

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Speaker 1: of May will benefit two amazing veterans organizations, Hope for

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Speaker 1: the Warriors and the Warrior Foundation. Freedom Station. With forty

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Speaker 1: five locations in southern California and Dallas Fort Worth, Texas,

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Speaker 1: a contemporary setting. Visit Luna Grill dot com and follow

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Speaker 1: Luna Grill on Instagram at Luna Grill for updates. Hey,

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Speaker 1: Luna Grill, thank you. Also, thank you to everybody out

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Speaker 1: there who has served our country. Country. Once again, the

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Speaker 1: almost famous podcast really really does look up to everything

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Speaker 1: that you're doing. Hey, thank you to all the amazing

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Speaker 1: guests today. Ashley, thank you for to you for just

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Speaker 1: opening up your heart and sharing with us. I got

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Speaker 1: some videos for everybody out there listening. I'll post them um.

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Speaker 1: Thanks to our our current bachelor at Becca and you know.

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Speaker 1: The Bachelorette premieres Monday night at eight o'clock seventh Central

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Speaker 1: on ABC. Make sure emails at Ben and Ashley at

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Speaker 1: i heeart media dot com. Congratulations actually and with that,

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Speaker 1: I've been been, I've been Ashley, see you later. Follow

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Speaker 1: the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast on iHeart

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