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Speaker 1: I'm having a baby girl, but my family demands a

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Speaker 1: baby boy.

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Speaker 2: So I want them out of my life.

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Speaker 1: Get him out of there, evict them, put them on

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Speaker 1: the streets. I mean, it's perfectly reasonable. It's just like, hey,

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Speaker 1: just just boom, now it's a boy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it'll change it.

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Speaker 3: It's like a sea turtles, you know, like if it's warm,

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Speaker 3: there's more boys. If it's cold, there's more girls there.

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Speaker 3: We go just warm up to go to Florida.

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Speaker 2: I use my.

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Speaker 1: Pregnancy power to just you know, shake it out up

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Speaker 1: one two, diddley doo.

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Speaker 2: You now have a diddley. That's exactly how it works.

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Speaker 1: I female, twenty seven, am expecting my first baby with

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Speaker 1: my husband. This is the first grandchild in the family

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Speaker 1: for my in laws, and they said that if the

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Speaker 1: baby's a boy, that they'll give him my father in

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Speaker 1: law's name. He passed away due to cancer. And I

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Speaker 1: had no problem with that thought it was great. So

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Speaker 1: you know what, it's sweet, like, hey, we'll give him

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Speaker 1: the dad's name if it's a boy.

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Speaker 2: Great.

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Speaker 1: This happened before we found out the gender.

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Speaker 2: Of the baby.

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Speaker 1: Don husband and his family had me do things like

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Speaker 1: attend prayers and do other rituals before the reveal at

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Speaker 1: the doctor's to get a boy, to ensure it was

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Speaker 1: a boy.

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Speaker 2: Nice.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I didn't like it, but I went along with

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Speaker 1: it just to keep the peace. The doctor appointment came

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Speaker 1: and it turned out to be a girl.

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Speaker 2: No, how dare you? Fetus?

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Speaker 3: Girl?

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Speaker 2: Penis?

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Speaker 1: Now? My husband cried in the car.

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Speaker 2: Oh, why be such a baby? Right, It's like, let

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Speaker 2: the fetus be the baby.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, we already got responsibility away from the You.

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Speaker 1: Think it'd be crying, like crying of sadness, like cry

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Speaker 1: of joy?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, having a baby girl? Come on?

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Speaker 1: And then he turned off his phone to hide from

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Speaker 1: his family. But then he finally told them. His mom

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Speaker 1: and the others made their frustrations and disappointment very clear,

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Speaker 1: which bothered me because my daughter deserves to be celebrated. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but my family ghosted me for days until they finally

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Speaker 1: started coming over and visiting, constantly referring to my daughter

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Speaker 1: as my son, claiming the results were false, and basically

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Speaker 1: pretending it's a boy. It's the Trump they're like trumping

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Speaker 1: the we we won this base sender, you lose.

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Speaker 3: It's false evidence, Yeah, yeah, fake news.

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Speaker 1: You believe doctors they flushed the real results down the toilet. Now.

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Speaker 1: I had several fights with them after they refused to stop,

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Speaker 1: and my husband sided with them despite seeing how wrong

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Speaker 1: and unreasonable what they were doing was.

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Speaker 2: We didn't speak for a while. Fair Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Sister in law call to apologize, but then informed me

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Speaker 1: that she arranged a baby shower for me. I was

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Speaker 1: so excited and happy, but when I arrived, I saw

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Speaker 1: blue balloons, blue cake, and the father in law name

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Speaker 1: in decorations around the place.

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Speaker 2: It was a trick, dude, that's so true. Give it up. Oh,

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Speaker 2: I was so confused. I had to sit down.

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Speaker 1: Sister in law explained that they were still hoping the

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Speaker 1: gender results are false and that it's a boy.

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Speaker 2: Dude, it's not false. Stop god, but what if it is?

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Speaker 3: Though?

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Speaker 1: Dude, imagine the baby's born and they're just like they

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Speaker 1: just get like a prosthetic, like squidward nose.

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Speaker 2: Put on this strap on baby.

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Speaker 1: Like now, man, they're like, all right, we'll forego our

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Speaker 1: conservative values to put a strap on baby. Right. I

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Speaker 1: looked at my husband and he agreed with her. The

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Speaker 1: husband also is denying the results, and.

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Speaker 2: He was there. My god.

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Speaker 1: I lost my temper and yelled at all of them,

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Speaker 1: calling them delusional and telling them to stop treating my

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Speaker 1: daughter like she's unwanted and act like she doesn't exist

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Speaker 1: by throwing a party for their imaginary grandson. The mother

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Speaker 1: in law broke down crying. I took my bag and

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Speaker 1: I left.

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Speaker 2: Good. I mean, you don't need to freaking go through

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Speaker 2: this abuse too. No, not at all.

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Speaker 1: They started yelling, and my husband followed me outside and

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Speaker 1: started arguing about how I insulted his family and his

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Speaker 1: dad's memory by acting like that.

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Speaker 2: Why I really want to know what the dad's name is.

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Speaker 1: Seriously, I told him to wake up and see the

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Speaker 1: insanity in his family's behavior. He said they needed time

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Speaker 1: to process the fact that it's a girl, not a boy,

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Speaker 1: as they inspected, and insisted I play along and that

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Speaker 1: they'll soon get over it. I said absolutely not, and

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Speaker 1: demanded that he take me home, to which he said no,

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Speaker 1: so I called an uber and left. He wouldn't even

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Speaker 1: drive her home. Good God, this is your white I've

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Speaker 1: carried your child. He was fuming, and he called fifteen times,

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Speaker 1: and then he just texted me saying that he won't

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Speaker 1: be coming home till I get my ass over here.

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Speaker 1: And apologize for ruining everything they've done for me and

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Speaker 1: accusing them of being mentally unstable.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I don't get how you have these

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Speaker 3: relationships and you don't see the red flags before this moment.

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Speaker 1: Like the whole family, like they're hat they're had to

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Speaker 1: be signed, to be signed.

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Speaker 2: This is crazy. I haven't responded yet.

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Speaker 1: He's constantly pressuring me to get right with his family

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Speaker 1: before we even talk about anything else.

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Speaker 3: Divorce, divorce, what way it's always divorced? Yes, all right, well,

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Speaker 3: I think it is a couple of things. It's just

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Speaker 3: it's so fucked up that certain families are like we

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Speaker 3: have to have a male heir or like a son.

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Speaker 3: It's I feel like it's it makes women feel unwanted

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Speaker 3: or like the babies feel and wanted, but two can't

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Speaker 3: they just have like another baby? Like why does this

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Speaker 3: have to be the end all be all?

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Speaker 1: And it's like and no one even proposed, like, oh,

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Speaker 1: maybe we could just either give the name or maybe

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Speaker 1: if it's like I don't know, a female version of

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Speaker 1: the name, if that's what they really want to do,

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Speaker 1: Like there's there's there's options, there's so many options, and

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Speaker 1: like delusion doesn't have to be one of them. It's

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Speaker 1: these kinds of family dynamics where it's like, okay, like

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Speaker 1: even if your husband is great, you marry, you marry

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Speaker 1: into the family, and if your husband is not on

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Speaker 1: your side, you are dealing with all the baggage that

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Speaker 1: it's coming with.

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Speaker 2: You're screwed.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, who else do you have left the whole family,

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Speaker 1: including your husband?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, you're you get wrecked. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I had I dated a girl that had a crazy

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Speaker 3: family and was not fun at all.

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Speaker 2: It was terrible, terrible.

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Speaker 1: Did like would you like go over and like get

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Speaker 1: in fights or.

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Speaker 3: Like, dude, this is the dumbest thing ever. So and

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Speaker 3: this is like things had happened before, but I went

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Speaker 3: to I went camping with my girlfriend, right, and we

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Speaker 3: post a picture of like a tent on a mountain

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Speaker 3: top and just like us in front of it. We're like,

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Speaker 3: you know, we're wearing hiking our gear. We're like, we're camping, right.

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Speaker 3: I get comments from her family saying take this down,

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Speaker 3: take this down right. I'm like, wait, what the heck,

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Speaker 3: what what's going on? And then her dad and her

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Speaker 3: mom are like, how dare you flaunt you're having sex?

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Speaker 3: With our daughter. We know what your dirty things you're

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Speaker 3: doing in that tent. Delete this now. And I'm like, bro,

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Speaker 3: what We're fucking going camping and you're being like crazy

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Speaker 3: to be absolutely crazy, And that was not the first time,

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Speaker 3: but like and then the dad was like, I'm going

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Speaker 3: to punch that punk's head and like and I'm like, bro,

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Speaker 3: we just went freaking camping. The question is, though, did

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Speaker 3: you hit it? Oh, of course, dude. We hit it

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Speaker 3: inside and outside the tent. But we're not making like

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Speaker 3: OnlyFans content out here. Yeah, this's this a picture.

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Speaker 2: Look at this hot pie in the tent.

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Speaker 3: You think this tent is pitched, wait until you see

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Speaker 3: the other tentive bitch,