WEBVTT - Caelynn Pops the Question 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:04.680 Hell I Suck At Dating with Dengler and Jared Haven 0:00:04.920 --> 0:00:10.680 and I heard radio podcast What is going On? Everyone? 0:00:10.760 --> 0:00:13.880 Welcome to an all new episode of Help I Suck 0:00:14.080 --> 0:00:19.720 At Dating. We are in luck today because we finally 0:00:19.720 --> 0:00:22.079 get Jared back with us this week. Jared, Hey, welcome 0:00:22.120 --> 0:00:25.119 back to the podcast. Man Hey, no anytime, Dean, thanks 0:00:25.120 --> 0:00:27.479 for having me. Really appreciate it's a great podcast to 0:00:27.480 --> 0:00:29.600 be a part of. Uh. Sorry, I've been a little 0:00:29.720 --> 0:00:33.040 m I A. This coffee shop has been extremely overwhelming 0:00:33.320 --> 0:00:36.519 and time consuming and stressful. And then I had two 0:00:36.560 --> 0:00:38.879 weddings go to last week, one of which was supposed 0:00:38.880 --> 0:00:40.479 to be with you, but you had the flu. But 0:00:40.560 --> 0:00:42.599 you're a good man and you stayed away from everybody, 0:00:43.159 --> 0:00:46.479 and uh, but it's it's been time consuming. I was 0:00:46.520 --> 0:00:48.199 told that Kalen thought that you were making you thought 0:00:48.240 --> 0:00:50.440 I was making a political statement with the mask. No, 0:00:50.760 --> 0:00:54.720 I thought you forgot your um your vaccine card because 0:00:54.760 --> 0:00:57.400 they were checking everybody's vaccine card. And I was like, oh, 0:00:57.480 --> 0:00:59.160 maybe if you're not vactually you have you don't have 0:00:59.200 --> 0:01:01.560 to wear a mask. I didn't know because then I 0:01:01.600 --> 0:01:03.760 just walked in and I saw you with a mask on. 0:01:04.480 --> 0:01:06.840 The only person in the entire ceremony, the only person. 0:01:06.880 --> 0:01:10.440 And I was like, well, he's definitely vaccinated. I know this, 0:01:11.080 --> 0:01:12.800 And then I thought to myself, maybe he just forgot 0:01:12.800 --> 0:01:14.840 his vaccine card and they're they're saying he has to 0:01:14.840 --> 0:01:16.880 wear a mask. But then I later found out that 0:01:16.920 --> 0:01:19.560 you had the flu. You tested positive for the flu, 0:01:19.640 --> 0:01:21.160 so everybody knew it was but you still felt like 0:01:21.200 --> 0:01:22.559 you wanted to wear a mask, and then you didn't 0:01:22.600 --> 0:01:25.760 even go to the reception. You just went to the ceremony. Yeah, 0:01:25.800 --> 0:01:27.720 I had. I would have feel a certain amount of 0:01:27.720 --> 0:01:30.959 guilty if I got anyone sick in any capacity, especially 0:01:31.000 --> 0:01:32.480 like in the state of height and awareness we're in 0:01:32.560 --> 0:01:34.960 right now, and uh, you know, there's some older people 0:01:34.959 --> 0:01:36.720 at the wedding, so like even the flu, I feel 0:01:36.720 --> 0:01:38.880 it could be a pretty serious thing for someone like 0:01:38.920 --> 0:01:41.600 that to get. So I just figured I didn't want 0:01:41.600 --> 0:01:43.840 to miss the ceremony, and I'm glad I didn't. It 0:01:43.880 --> 0:01:47.320 was beautiful, Benn and Jess looked great together. But then 0:01:47.360 --> 0:01:50.160 I was like, well, I just don't feel comfortable going 0:01:50.240 --> 0:01:52.680 to the You don't want to be the guy coughing 0:01:52.760 --> 0:01:56.480 throughout the entire night. Yeah, you see that TikTok, where 0:01:56.520 --> 0:01:59.080 like some guy said he used to cover up his 0:01:59.440 --> 0:02:04.200 farts with a cough and now he covers up his right. Well, 0:02:04.240 --> 0:02:06.000 it was interesting too because I got tested the day 0:02:06.040 --> 0:02:08.800 before the wedding for COVID. I like went in just 0:02:08.840 --> 0:02:11.240 to make sure it wasn't COVID and uh, I was 0:02:11.240 --> 0:02:12.919 like going over my symptoms and they're like, well, hey, 0:02:12.919 --> 0:02:14.679 what does that time you got the flu vaccine? And 0:02:14.680 --> 0:02:16.040 I was like, I don't think I've gotten that in 0:02:16.040 --> 0:02:18.600 over a decade. So they're like, oh, we're gonna test 0:02:18.639 --> 0:02:21.480 for that too, And it's just funny how we get 0:02:21.520 --> 0:02:23.480 all like, you know, getting this COVID vaccine and I 0:02:23.520 --> 0:02:25.839 haven't gotten a flu vaccine and lord knows how long. 0:02:25.919 --> 0:02:27.959 So I guess at the end of the day, like 0:02:27.960 --> 0:02:29.959 I'm happy it was only the fluid and not COVID, 0:02:30.080 --> 0:02:33.160 but um, yeah, it's kind of bummer to Mr Reception. 0:02:33.200 --> 0:02:35.480 But so before Ben's wedding, you were at your best 0:02:35.520 --> 0:02:38.160 friend's wedding. You said, yeah, so the girl that signed 0:02:38.160 --> 0:02:39.560 me up to be on the show, our name is Crystal. 0:02:39.680 --> 0:02:42.160 She's my best friend and one of my and her 0:02:42.200 --> 0:02:44.720 fiance is one of my closest friends as well. And 0:02:44.760 --> 0:02:46.720 they got married down and Cancoon. Dude, I've had two 0:02:46.720 --> 0:02:49.640 weddings all years, November twelfth and thirteen. And it's funny 0:02:49.680 --> 0:02:53.600 actually because the my friends who got married Kancoon was 0:02:53.639 --> 0:02:58.000 supposed to get married on Saturday November, but the bride 0:02:58.080 --> 0:03:01.160 of excuse me, the mother of the groom uh is 0:03:01.240 --> 0:03:03.079 very religious and she's like, I don't want my son 0:03:03.160 --> 0:03:05.680 married on the thirteen. I don't know. There's some bad 0:03:05.760 --> 0:03:08.560 luck obviously involved in that, or hopefully not for Ben 0:03:08.600 --> 0:03:12.359 and Jess, But so they moved it to Friday the twelfth, 0:03:12.360 --> 0:03:13.920 which worked out well for me because even though it 0:03:13.960 --> 0:03:15.200 was back to back, at least I got to a 0:03:15.280 --> 0:03:16.720 ten boat. So it was really nice. And Ben and 0:03:16.800 --> 0:03:20.040 Jess's wedding was awesome. Um dude, a lot of people 0:03:20.080 --> 0:03:22.040 for her to people, but it was so nice seeing everybody, 0:03:22.160 --> 0:03:25.280 like I forgot moving back home and being like closer 0:03:25.320 --> 0:03:30.400 to my you know family. It's like, you know, made 0:03:30.400 --> 0:03:33.280 me forget that I have you know you guys in 0:03:33.320 --> 0:03:35.080 other parts of the country that is so much like 0:03:35.160 --> 0:03:37.520 family to me. You know, it's really great. I wish 0:03:37.520 --> 0:03:39.240 we could hang out more. I haven't seen you in forever. 0:03:39.320 --> 0:03:42.480 I haven't seen you since Ben's bachelor party, but like 0:03:42.880 --> 0:03:47.520 seeing Nick and Chris Souls who I haven't seen in years, Um, 0:03:47.640 --> 0:03:50.880 Sean Booth and obviously Ben, who I got spiked to 0:03:51.080 --> 0:03:56.080 for like three seconds. Um who else? Did I mean? Nas? Obviously? 0:03:56.640 --> 0:04:00.280 Uh time was there Michael g Becca like people I 0:04:00.280 --> 0:04:03.800 just haven't seen, Like, dude, I haven't seen Tanya. I 0:04:03.800 --> 0:04:06.720 don't know. I might have been pre pandemic. Yeah, well, 0:04:06.760 --> 0:04:08.400 and we're supposed to go to nap together, right, and 0:04:08.400 --> 0:04:10.240 then that got canceled. So there were like it's weak 0:04:10.240 --> 0:04:12.320 because there were a lot of things for us all 0:04:12.320 --> 0:04:14.280 to meet up at, but just like one by one 0:04:14.320 --> 0:04:16.080 they're like, you know what, actually we're gonna cancel this. 0:04:16.080 --> 0:04:18.560 We're gonna cancel this. So yeah, it was nice seeing 0:04:18.640 --> 0:04:22.480 everybody I didn't dude, Klin was a champ by the way, 0:04:22.520 --> 0:04:25.200 because Klin obviously had to attend the reception by yourself 0:04:25.200 --> 0:04:28.080 because you were sick, and like, I put myself in 0:04:28.080 --> 0:04:30.680 those shoes. If I if my like, if if Ashley 0:04:30.920 --> 0:04:32.640 couldn't be there because she was sick and I was 0:04:32.680 --> 0:04:34.720 at the reception by myself, I don't know, I would 0:04:34.839 --> 0:04:37.799 feel like kind of weird and I might have left early. 0:04:37.920 --> 0:04:40.279 But dude, she was there the entire night. She was mingling, 0:04:40.640 --> 0:04:43.479 she was social. I was like, Klein, you are a champion, 0:04:43.480 --> 0:04:47.320 because if it was me, I probably would have left early. Yeah. 0:04:47.400 --> 0:04:50.119 It was funny, I because I left probably like five thirties, 0:04:50.120 --> 0:04:52.600 So I was at home by six like basically went 0:04:52.640 --> 0:04:55.159 straight to bed. And Calyn when I left, she was like, yeah, 0:04:55.160 --> 0:04:57.039 like I'll be like, you know, an hour behind you whatever. 0:04:57.400 --> 0:05:00.280 So I like, go home, go to bed, wake up 0:05:00.279 --> 0:05:02.320 at like seven thirty, still no Kalin, wake up at 0:05:02.320 --> 0:05:04.000 eight thirty, still Macalin, wake up at nine thirty. And 0:05:04.040 --> 0:05:06.080 I'm like starting to worry because she was pretty adamant 0:05:06.080 --> 0:05:09.160 about like getting out of there pretty early. Um, and 0:05:09.200 --> 0:05:10.840 I like didn't text or didn't receive any text or 0:05:10.880 --> 0:05:13.120 anything like that from her. But then eventually she walks 0:05:13.120 --> 0:05:14.760 in at like twelve thirty in the morning, and I'm like, 0:05:14.760 --> 0:05:16.360 I can't believe, because she made it all the way 0:05:16.360 --> 0:05:17.800 to the end. I don't even know if you you 0:05:17.800 --> 0:05:19.840 guys made it to the end. But they eventually sent 0:05:19.880 --> 0:05:22.040 shuttles to send everyone back to their hotels and stuff. 0:05:22.080 --> 0:05:25.080 So she stayed until the very very last moment, which 0:05:25.120 --> 0:05:27.360 I'm proud of her for Yeah, you're right, because it's 0:05:27.400 --> 0:05:30.000 a lot to uh to. It's a it's a heavy, 0:05:30.200 --> 0:05:33.800 not a heavy atmosphere, but like it's atmosphere like you're 0:05:33.800 --> 0:05:36.479 at someone's wedding. They have all their friends and family 0:05:36.480 --> 0:05:39.680 members there, and then like especially Klin, I'm sure knows 0:05:39.800 --> 0:05:42.280 a lot of people from Bachelor, but not everybody that 0:05:42.400 --> 0:05:44.200 was there, So I'm sure she had to introduce herself 0:05:44.240 --> 0:05:46.640 and start conversation and be social with people that she's 0:05:46.640 --> 0:05:49.400 not used to meeting, and then also trying to spend 0:05:49.440 --> 0:05:51.600 times with the people that she actually is friends with, 0:05:51.640 --> 0:05:55.080 like Natalie Um and so yeah, dude, good for her. 0:05:55.480 --> 0:05:58.200 You know what's funny is that you I love how 0:05:58.520 --> 0:06:00.240 you were, like, you know, around eight thirty, I was 0:06:00.240 --> 0:06:02.520 starting to get really worried. I mean I didn't text 0:06:02.600 --> 0:06:04.080 or call or anything, and then she walked into the 0:06:04.080 --> 0:06:08.039 door like twelve thirty, So four hours later after you 0:06:08.040 --> 0:06:10.719 said you were concerned, you still hadn't reached out. You know, 0:06:10.800 --> 0:06:12.240 I was like it was like in a in a 0:06:12.240 --> 0:06:14.000 haze because I was like in and out of sleep, 0:06:14.240 --> 0:06:16.600 and I like, obviously she's fine taking care of herself. 0:06:16.600 --> 0:06:18.200 She was with Nick because we got her place with 0:06:18.279 --> 0:06:20.440 Nick in Ittaly as well. So if they got if 0:06:20.520 --> 0:06:22.680 Nick and Natali had gotten back and Caitlin still wasn't back, 0:06:22.720 --> 0:06:24.520 then I would have like done something, but I was 0:06:24.600 --> 0:06:26.520 I was fine with uh kind of everything I was 0:06:26.560 --> 0:06:28.440 going on, I guess, but I want to know more 0:06:28.440 --> 0:06:30.120 about your situation. So you went to this wedding on 0:06:30.160 --> 0:06:34.200 Friday in Mexico and then Saturday, what like Saturday, like 0:06:34.240 --> 0:06:37.520 six am or something, you caught a flight out to Nashville. Yeah, 0:06:37.560 --> 0:06:41.559 so I flew into Cancoon on Wednesday. Uh, flew out. 0:06:41.720 --> 0:06:44.680 The rehearsal German was Thursday. Wedding was Friday. Flew out 0:06:44.680 --> 0:06:47.280 Saturday morning. The car picked me up at six am 0:06:47.320 --> 0:06:49.880 and then I flew out at nine into Houston. Had 0:06:49.880 --> 0:06:51.520 to lay over for an hour, and then from Houston 0:06:51.520 --> 0:06:54.520 to Nashville, and then I got in around two, drove 0:06:54.560 --> 0:06:56.280 back to the hotel, and then went to the ceremony 0:06:56.320 --> 0:07:01.080 for four So it was a very busy, busy few days, 0:07:01.120 --> 0:07:05.080 but it was also really nice. Both weddings were were 0:07:05.120 --> 0:07:07.520 awesome in their different ways. Because the one down in Cancoon, 0:07:07.560 --> 0:07:09.200 I was obviously in the party, so I was hanging 0:07:09.200 --> 0:07:11.480 out with the groom all day and we had they 0:07:11.480 --> 0:07:13.360 had like a golf SIMI later down there. So we 0:07:13.400 --> 0:07:15.800 did that and then we're just hanging to my room 0:07:15.800 --> 0:07:17.640 and took pictures and got ready. He had a small party. 0:07:17.640 --> 0:07:21.360 It was only me and his future brother in law 0:07:21.680 --> 0:07:24.800 and then obviously the groom, and then they had it 0:07:24.840 --> 0:07:26.240 on the beach and it was really beautiful and the 0:07:26.280 --> 0:07:28.840 reception was on the water as well, and it was 0:07:28.920 --> 0:07:31.200 just great to be there and to see them get married, 0:07:31.240 --> 0:07:34.840 and they're just he's like such a mushball. He so 0:07:34.920 --> 0:07:37.840 he cried when he saw his wife Crystal walk down 0:07:37.920 --> 0:07:40.760 the aisle, and he's just like such a such a sap. 0:07:40.960 --> 0:07:42.720 So that was really cool to be there. And then 0:07:42.720 --> 0:07:44.520 of course going to Ben and Jess's were like this, 0:07:44.800 --> 0:07:48.800 it's this over the top romantic, you know, uh, busy 0:07:48.920 --> 0:07:51.840 wedding with four hundred people there and you know, Ben 0:07:51.920 --> 0:07:55.560 had what like fifteen groomsmen. It was really funny seeing 0:07:55.600 --> 0:07:57.679 them all walk down the aisle because we were sitting 0:07:57.680 --> 0:08:00.840 next to former producers of the batchloor one producer still 0:08:00.840 --> 0:08:03.640 in one former producer, and they were like, well, there's 0:08:03.680 --> 0:08:07.760 the next season's cast of The Bachelorette right there. Uh yeah. 0:08:07.920 --> 0:08:09.520 It made me like a little insecure to be honest 0:08:09.520 --> 0:08:13.000 with you, like Ben has so many friends, like close 0:08:13.080 --> 0:08:16.080 friends where he wants fifteen groomsmen, and I'm like I 0:08:16.080 --> 0:08:18.520 would struggle picking out like five people to be in 0:08:18.560 --> 0:08:20.720 my wedding party. You know. Oh it started making me think, 0:08:20.760 --> 0:08:22.720 like where do I line up in the friendship of Ben? 0:08:22.760 --> 0:08:24.560 Because I think you were like good friends, you know, 0:08:24.600 --> 0:08:26.640 and not not like the room has been level. But 0:08:26.760 --> 0:08:29.320 I was like, oh damn, maybe like I'm like thirty 0:08:29.400 --> 0:08:31.920 second closest to Ben right now, where I thought I 0:08:31.960 --> 0:08:34.880 was like in the high teens. Yeah, that's exactly how 0:08:34.880 --> 0:08:36.800 I felt too, which I mean, look, I guess Ben 0:08:36.840 --> 0:08:38.600 is like one of the most popular and sociable guys. 0:08:38.640 --> 0:08:41.320 I know I said more props to him, but yeah, 0:08:41.400 --> 0:08:44.360 it definitely lent to a little bit of insecurity feeling 0:08:44.480 --> 0:08:46.600 just because I was like, dude, if if and when 0:08:46.640 --> 0:08:48.280 I get married, like what am I gonna do? I'm 0:08:48.280 --> 0:08:50.640 not gonna have twelve grooms been up there and I 0:08:50.679 --> 0:08:52.360 know not like it's not a competition when it comes 0:08:52.360 --> 0:08:53.760 to that kind of stuff, But you can't help put 0:08:53.800 --> 0:08:55.680 like size yourself up a little bit, you know. But 0:08:55.679 --> 0:08:57.160 you said you had a lot, you had like eight 0:08:57.160 --> 0:09:00.040 grooms been what I have like eight to Yeah, I 0:09:00.080 --> 0:09:02.880 had something like eight, but Ashley had the same number. 0:09:02.920 --> 0:09:05.400 We wanted to kind of keep it close. But I also, 0:09:05.559 --> 0:09:07.640 like everybody obviously in the party, I wanted to be 0:09:07.679 --> 0:09:09.480 a part of the of the day and be a 0:09:09.480 --> 0:09:13.080 grinsman in the wedding. And oh, well, I was gonna say, 0:09:13.360 --> 0:09:16.080 you brought up something. Oh you said if and when 0:09:16.160 --> 0:09:20.720 you get married, that feels like, uh, the needle has moved, 0:09:20.800 --> 0:09:25.120 Like that's a different tone when I just, uh, it's 0:09:25.160 --> 0:09:26.880 more just I'm choosing my words a little more carefully 0:09:26.960 --> 0:09:28.480 these days. You know. I think part of the reason 0:09:28.480 --> 0:09:30.000 I always get in trouble with that kind of stuff 0:09:30.040 --> 0:09:32.520 is because I speak so matter of factly. So if 0:09:32.520 --> 0:09:35.240 I say, oh, yeah, I'm never getting married, then people 0:09:36.120 --> 0:09:38.280 take me for my word, which I guess I appreciate 0:09:38.320 --> 0:09:40.600 them taking me for my word, but uh, it just 0:09:40.640 --> 0:09:43.760 gives me more avenues to get away with things. And then, 0:09:43.800 --> 0:09:45.640 because if you say you'll never get married, there's gonna 0:09:45.679 --> 0:09:50.160 be us weekly headline saying trouble in Paradise, Dean Unglert 0:09:50.200 --> 0:09:54.040 says he'll never marry Kaylin Miller keys. Yeah. So now 0:09:54.200 --> 0:09:55.719 so I'm just I'm just starting to choose my words 0:09:55.720 --> 0:09:58.000 a little more carefully that if and when statement. It's like, 0:09:58.080 --> 0:09:59.679 you know, it kind of gives me an out, it 0:09:59.760 --> 0:10:02.400 makes it makes it less headline grabby. All right, so 0:10:02.400 --> 0:10:06.120 the question becomes Dean, Now you have been to multiple 0:10:06.120 --> 0:10:09.560 weddings with Klin. I'm sure she's getting more fever as 0:10:09.600 --> 0:10:14.320 the years go on. So how's your is I I 0:10:14.400 --> 0:10:16.640 just said the needle felt like it moved? Has it moved? 0:10:16.720 --> 0:10:21.160 Are you more towards like, hey, let's get married? Oh? Yeah? Well, 0:10:21.160 --> 0:10:23.760 so we sat next to Derek Paith and Saffron his 0:10:23.800 --> 0:10:26.600 fiance at the wedding, and Saffron I had never met. 0:10:26.640 --> 0:10:28.600 So Saffron asked me if we're married, because I've got 0:10:28.600 --> 0:10:30.840 the ring on my finger obviously, and I gave her 0:10:30.920 --> 0:10:34.200 my usual, you know, nonsensical dean answer. Be it as 0:10:34.200 --> 0:10:36.400 it may, maybe maybe not. I don't know, you know, 0:10:36.480 --> 0:10:39.560 what is marriage? What is life? Yeah? I said, as 0:10:39.600 --> 0:10:41.800 far as the government's concerned, No, as far as our 0:10:41.840 --> 0:10:45.600 hearts are concerned. Yes, um, and then calin like leans 0:10:45.640 --> 0:10:48.959 over and she goes will be engaged by two trust 0:10:49.000 --> 0:10:53.079 me or something like that. So well, I was gonna say, 0:10:54.160 --> 0:10:56.640 two you got about forty five days left if that 0:10:56.720 --> 0:10:58.920 was happen, Yeah, but I don't know, Like I don't 0:10:58.920 --> 0:11:00.880 know if she's speaking for me or if she's saying 0:11:00.920 --> 0:11:03.640 that she's gonna propose to me, which I made it 0:11:03.640 --> 0:11:05.360 pretty clear to her, and I was like, you know, 0:11:05.400 --> 0:11:07.520 if you really want to get married, you should be 0:11:07.559 --> 0:11:11.200 the one proposing to me. Uh. So, I think she's 0:11:11.200 --> 0:11:13.959 got something and it works for that, which I think 0:11:13.960 --> 0:11:15.719 it's pretty cool. You know, maybe we could do like 0:11:15.760 --> 0:11:19.040 a dual thing. But uh, I mean, yeah, I guess 0:11:19.040 --> 0:11:21.480 it's kind of the fallback or not the fallback. The 0:11:22.240 --> 0:11:24.240 one of the negatives about going all these weddings is 0:11:24.280 --> 0:11:30.760 it gets your girlfriend in a mood to get married. Yeah. 0:11:30.920 --> 0:11:33.360 So yeah, I mean I guess, you know, give it, 0:11:33.400 --> 0:11:36.320 give us twelve months, twelve thirteen months, and we'll have something, 0:11:37.240 --> 0:11:40.079 something a little more formal on the books. But two, 0:11:40.120 --> 0:11:42.360 we're gonna find out big year for Dean and Kalin. 0:11:42.480 --> 0:11:46.440 We're thinking make your break here Calin proposes. That would 0:11:46.480 --> 0:11:48.600 be freaking awesome. I mean, that would be the most 0:11:48.640 --> 0:11:50.520 Dean and Kalen thing of all time. Where she was like, 0:11:50.559 --> 0:11:52.480 well he was taken too damn long. So I had 0:11:52.480 --> 0:11:55.240 to get on one day. Yeah, yeah, it would probably 0:11:55.240 --> 0:11:57.200 be like, uh, she would probably do it and I 0:11:57.200 --> 0:11:58.760 would and then I would probably do it, or like 0:11:59.720 --> 0:12:02.160 it'll probably happened for both of it. I don't know, 0:12:02.200 --> 0:12:06.360 you know, So what would you say? Uh? Well, I 0:12:06.360 --> 0:12:09.000 would laugh at first, obviously, I probably I'd probably get 0:12:09.040 --> 0:12:11.000 around to say and yes at some point. Yeah, just 0:12:11.080 --> 0:12:14.720 you obviously make her sweat it out a little bit, like, well, 0:12:14.720 --> 0:12:17.599 you know, I do love my van life. And uh 0:12:17.720 --> 0:12:22.880 I did say I never wanted to get married. Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, 0:12:22.920 --> 0:12:25.160 I make yourself out a little bit, I will say. Though, 0:12:25.160 --> 0:12:29.319 I'm impressed by her. She not well she's always been 0:12:29.320 --> 0:12:31.040 like this, but more so lately in the past like 0:12:31.080 --> 0:12:33.200 six months or so, she like, you know, she gets 0:12:33.200 --> 0:12:34.920 an idea, she says she's gonna do something, and she 0:12:35.640 --> 0:12:38.520 uh it takes a lot less convincing to do it 0:12:38.559 --> 0:12:41.800 than in times past, whereas now she's just like ghoest 0:12:41.880 --> 0:12:43.440 for it, you know what I mean. So, so kudos 0:12:43.480 --> 0:12:46.000 to her. We'll see if what happens. Um it sounds 0:12:46.040 --> 0:12:48.040 to me like she is actually gonna make it happen. 0:12:48.080 --> 0:12:51.600 So that's so I'm saying. Good for Kalin. She's a badass. Yeah, 0:12:51.640 --> 0:12:53.600 putting up with your ass for all these years. Now 0:12:53.640 --> 0:12:58.280 she's going to propose to you. Yeah, we'll see. I mean, 0:12:58.280 --> 0:12:59.600 I've got some stuff in the works. I don't want 0:12:59.600 --> 0:13:03.840 to spoil anything, but you know, maybe when when it happens, 0:13:03.840 --> 0:13:06.520 we'll we'll all be able to weigh in on the situation. Yeah. Well, 0:13:06.559 --> 0:13:08.160 you obviously just have to tell the story on the 0:13:08.160 --> 0:13:12.920 podcast after it happens. That's all. That's the deal, right there. Yeah, yeah, true. Um, 0:13:12.960 --> 0:13:14.640 I actually had something else I wanted to talk about 0:13:14.640 --> 0:13:17.160 as well. I can't remember. Um, all right, well, why 0:13:17.160 --> 0:13:19.079 do you think of it? I want to tease our guests. 0:13:19.120 --> 0:13:20.959 We have two very special guests that are coming up 0:13:21.000 --> 0:13:23.120 after the break, which will take in a few minutes 0:13:23.160 --> 0:13:27.920 from the new HBO Max Uh show Twelve Dates of Christmas, 0:13:28.000 --> 0:13:31.040 which of course returns for its second season starts Thursday, November, 0:13:31.800 --> 0:13:34.199 and from the show, we have Amanda Grace, Jenkings and 0:13:34.320 --> 0:13:36.960 Marquelle Smith. So we're very excited to talk to them, 0:13:37.040 --> 0:13:40.000 especially we're getting in the holiday season. Twelve Days of Christmas, 0:13:40.040 --> 0:13:42.960 Twelve Dates of Christmas, excuse me, come back for a 0:13:42.960 --> 0:13:45.520 second season. So excited to talk to them. I do 0:13:45.559 --> 0:13:48.600 have something to talk about if you can't think of anything, Dan, 0:13:49.040 --> 0:13:51.800 what I can't think about what you were going to say? Um, 0:13:52.000 --> 0:13:54.240 I think I remembered what I wanted to say, but 0:13:54.320 --> 0:13:55.920 it just does not maybe the time or place for it, 0:13:55.960 --> 0:13:57.760 So feel free to what do you want to talk about? 0:13:57.960 --> 0:14:00.360 I was gonna talk about the Pete Davidson thing. What's 0:14:00.400 --> 0:14:03.719 the update with Pete Davidson. Well, obviously he's dating Kim Kardashian, 0:14:03.720 --> 0:14:06.200 which is still the craziest I've ever heard of. I 0:14:06.240 --> 0:14:10.000 can't believe Pete Davidson is dating Kim Kardashian. That's insane 0:14:10.040 --> 0:14:12.440 to me. Good for him, and I hope they're happy. 0:14:12.559 --> 0:14:14.760 But the one thing I did want to talk about 0:14:14.880 --> 0:14:19.920 was he actually revealed his major dating deal breaker, which 0:14:19.960 --> 0:14:22.040 gives me two thoughts which I'll go into in a second. 0:14:22.200 --> 0:14:24.800 And it's something that Cosmopolitan, which is what the article 0:14:24.920 --> 0:14:29.520 is on, agrees with and I wholeheartedly agree with, because 0:14:29.760 --> 0:14:32.720 he says that his deal breaker is when he goes 0:14:32.760 --> 0:14:35.280 on a date and the person he's on the date 0:14:35.280 --> 0:14:38.800 with is treating the wait staff for bartenders poorly. That's 0:14:38.840 --> 0:14:42.400 a big no note in his book quote immediately would 0:14:42.400 --> 0:14:45.120 be over in my head. I would be like, Okay, 0:14:45.800 --> 0:14:48.760 never again. That is it. He said that was his 0:14:48.800 --> 0:14:51.760 one deal breaker, and I could not agree more. As 0:14:51.960 --> 0:14:54.640 someone who's worked in the restaurant industry all of my life, dude, 0:14:54.680 --> 0:14:58.680 I've always said it should be a college requirement for 0:14:58.720 --> 0:15:01.040 people to work in the service industry because it teaches 0:15:01.080 --> 0:15:06.160 you a lot about how to deal with society, how 0:15:06.280 --> 0:15:09.200 to be kind to one another, how to be patient 0:15:09.280 --> 0:15:11.520 with someone when you have to wait on someone and 0:15:11.560 --> 0:15:13.920 clean up after them and serve them food. It like 0:15:14.040 --> 0:15:17.640 teaches you, I truly think, how to just be a 0:15:17.680 --> 0:15:21.440 better person. Yeah. I agree, you treat your white staff poorly. 0:15:21.480 --> 0:15:23.920 That's ah, that's a big red flag. I do want 0:15:23.960 --> 0:15:26.440 to point out this article real quick. Um, I hate 0:15:26.440 --> 0:15:30.520 these articles from places like The News, US Weekly, People Magazine, 0:15:30.560 --> 0:15:34.200 all that stuff. Uh. For the record, the people listening 0:15:34.200 --> 0:15:36.800 obviously can't see the article we're referring to. It's basically 0:15:36.800 --> 0:15:42.120 just uh, encapsulating Kim Kardashian and Pete Davidson's officially dating relationship. Now. 0:15:42.640 --> 0:15:44.720 But you scroll down eventually and you get you get 0:15:44.720 --> 0:15:46.880 to these sentences where it's saying like Kim isn't looking 0:15:46.880 --> 0:15:49.400 today strictly, She's just really enjoying her life right now, 0:15:49.680 --> 0:15:52.480 per a source that told E News. And it's that 0:15:52.560 --> 0:15:55.320 stuff that really just makes me so frustrated, like probably 0:15:55.440 --> 0:16:00.960 rationally so. A source told this news junket that they're 0:16:01.120 --> 0:16:03.000 that Kim is just having the time of her life. 0:16:03.600 --> 0:16:06.200 No one told, no one close to Kim is telling 0:16:06.200 --> 0:16:07.720 you news that Kim's just having the time of her 0:16:07.720 --> 0:16:09.560 life with Pete Davidson right now. And I know for 0:16:09.600 --> 0:16:12.600 a fact because there have been many articles written about me, 0:16:12.800 --> 0:16:17.120 probably something about you, Kaylin where they're like, according to 0:16:17.160 --> 0:16:19.520 a source very close to E News, Dean and Kaylin 0:16:19.560 --> 0:16:22.080 are on rocky waters right now. And it's just like, 0:16:22.840 --> 0:16:25.160 no one told you guys that we're not on rocky waters. 0:16:25.200 --> 0:16:27.440 Like you're just making crap up just so you have 0:16:27.600 --> 0:16:30.240 like something to write about. So I'm sure Kim and 0:16:30.240 --> 0:16:32.640 Pete are doing great. But when I read things like 0:16:32.680 --> 0:16:35.640 at the time a source told this you know news outlet, 0:16:36.160 --> 0:16:37.760 in my head, I just go everything that I just 0:16:37.800 --> 0:16:43.640 read is completely move because none of it holds anyway whatsoever. Yeah, 0:16:43.680 --> 0:16:47.960 the source could be like my cousin, you know, talking 0:16:48.000 --> 0:16:50.000 about kid guard Ashton and being like, yeah, I think 0:16:50.040 --> 0:16:52.720 she's just ready to kinda be easy going. They're like 0:16:52.760 --> 0:16:56.360 perfect god a source. Uh, and they're especially like if 0:16:56.360 --> 0:16:58.920 you talk to like, I always think that these sources 0:16:59.520 --> 0:17:02.480 are are like if it's a source close to the 0:17:02.560 --> 0:17:08.639 Kardashian family, it's like their hairdresser's second cousin who saw 0:17:08.680 --> 0:17:13.280 them one time walk into the salon and they said hello, 0:17:13.520 --> 0:17:16.840 and it's like that's a close enough source for me. Yeah, 0:17:16.960 --> 0:17:19.639 It's like anytime there's a Bachelor article, it's always like 0:17:19.880 --> 0:17:22.800 an inside source close to production or like a produce 0:17:22.880 --> 0:17:27.040 an inside source close to production said that Ashley and 0:17:27.160 --> 0:17:31.879 Jared are you know, I hate it and and I 0:17:31.880 --> 0:17:34.360 guess for them specifically for the Kardashians, right, Like they've 0:17:34.400 --> 0:17:36.439 kind of built a franchise off of these types of 0:17:36.520 --> 0:17:38.320 articles being written about them. So kudas to them for 0:17:38.520 --> 0:17:40.719 keeping on keeping on and to a degree it kind 0:17:40.720 --> 0:17:42.719 of helps our business as well. Right, So it's not 0:17:42.800 --> 0:17:46.199 all bad, but it's just it just it bothers me 0:17:46.240 --> 0:17:48.840 a little bit. I think now, is that like when 0:17:48.920 --> 0:17:51.680 they talk about the sources, that's what comes to mind 0:17:51.680 --> 0:17:53.680 for me, where it's like somebody who doesn't really know. 0:17:53.880 --> 0:17:57.119 But I do think years ago when they first was 0:17:57.200 --> 0:18:02.520 starting to get there their aim. I think that they 0:18:02.560 --> 0:18:05.880 were the sources like a hundred percent because they want 0:18:05.880 --> 0:18:07.320 to get their names out there. They want to get 0:18:07.359 --> 0:18:10.000 their names in the news, which makes total sense. Like 0:18:10.119 --> 0:18:14.680 I know people who have hired paparazzi to come take 0:18:14.720 --> 0:18:17.880 photos of them when they're leaving a restaurant because it's 0:18:17.880 --> 0:18:22.280 it's exposure. Like they'll I know for a fact, an 0:18:22.400 --> 0:18:26.800 agent of a buddy of mine who calls, uh, the 0:18:26.840 --> 0:18:29.760 paparazzi and no, you guys don't know who this person is. 0:18:29.760 --> 0:18:32.280 You don't know who I'm talking about, so don't make theories. No, 0:18:32.680 --> 0:18:35.840 but like their agent will call the paparazzi and say, hey, 0:18:35.880 --> 0:18:39.200 so and so is gonna be here, please like or 0:18:39.240 --> 0:18:40.959 not even please, but like if you, you know, go 0:18:41.080 --> 0:18:43.520