1 00:00:08,039 --> 00:00:14,040 Speaker 1: Mother Knows Dad starring Nicole and Jemmy and Maria qk. 2 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:23,560 Speaker 2: Hi. Everyone welcome The Mother Knows Death. On today's episode, 3 00:00:23,600 --> 00:00:28,240 Speaker 2: we're going to talk about Northwest, controversial piercing, a mother 4 00:00:28,320 --> 00:00:31,360 Speaker 2: who was charged after her son was killed by an alligator, 5 00:00:31,760 --> 00:00:34,519 Speaker 2: a woman forced to give birth in an unusual location 6 00:00:34,720 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 2: in the hospital due to overcrowding, the risk of scrolling 7 00:00:38,520 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 2: on social media while on the toilet, and human remains 8 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:45,600 Speaker 2: found in a pirate. All that and more on today's episode, 9 00:00:46,159 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 2: Let's get started with Northwest. She's been in the news 10 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:51,360 Speaker 2: a lot the past couple of weeks. 11 00:00:51,800 --> 00:00:54,920 Speaker 1: Well, Kim Kardashian's getting slammed for allowing her twelve year 12 00:00:54,960 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 1: old daughter to get a dermal piercing in her middle finger. 13 00:00:58,840 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 1: I guess I'm just like, you know, I'm thinking of Lilian, 14 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:04,959 Speaker 1: also twelve years old, and I'm just like, why is 15 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 1: this necessary that she got this done? 16 00:01:07,760 --> 00:01:12,240 Speaker 2: Well, I mean she's also wearing a corset with her 17 00:01:12,319 --> 00:01:15,160 Speaker 2: boobs pushed up. Well, that's what I was gonna say, Like, 18 00:01:15,440 --> 00:01:17,240 Speaker 2: obviously it is more problem. 19 00:01:17,319 --> 00:01:19,520 Speaker 1: Honestly, that's exactly what I was just gonna say. I 20 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:21,959 Speaker 1: was gonna say, you know, obviously, there's a problem with 21 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 1: letting a child so young get a piercing in their finger. 22 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 1: That is honestly, in the picture, it looks infected already. 23 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:31,120 Speaker 2: It does. And my biggest problem. 24 00:01:30,800 --> 00:01:33,880 Speaker 1: With this is she's wearing this over sexualized outfit with 25 00:01:33,920 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 1: a short skirt with a corset and her chest is 26 00:01:37,240 --> 00:01:40,039 Speaker 1: exposed too much for a child, And that bothers me 27 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:42,800 Speaker 1: more than her mom letting her get the piercing. I mean, 28 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 1: why are we letting her dress like this because. 29 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:52,680 Speaker 2: Like her mother literally got her famous by distributing her 30 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 2: sex tape. Like, I don't think that we need to 31 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 2: talk about anything else. Even if she was sixteen, you're 32 00:01:58,840 --> 00:02:01,640 Speaker 2: getting old like is and you would say that, oh, 33 00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 2: that's ridiculous, Like they're they're old bye by like sexy 34 00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:09,839 Speaker 2: young woman standards, right, they're just becoming old women. They're 35 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 2: like my age. So they're like, all right, now we 36 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 2: got to push it onto the next Then they had 37 00:02:14,280 --> 00:02:16,839 Speaker 2: the gender girls that are like twenties and getting into 38 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:19,280 Speaker 2: the thirties, and now it's like, okay, next generation. 39 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 1: Even if she was sixteen or seventeen years old, this 40 00:02:22,480 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 1: outfit would be so wildly inappropriate. And the fact that 41 00:02:26,200 --> 00:02:28,000 Speaker 1: she is twelve years old. I mean, she like might 42 00:02:28,040 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 1: not even have her period yet, and she's dressing like this. 43 00:02:30,320 --> 00:02:32,760 Speaker 1: It's in public like there, It's not like this was 44 00:02:33,040 --> 00:02:35,240 Speaker 1: playing dress up in the privacy of her home. This 45 00:02:35,360 --> 00:02:38,080 Speaker 1: is she's paparazzi walking the streets in the outfit. 46 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:43,360 Speaker 2: Well anyway, so it's it's not it's not a dermal piercing. 47 00:02:43,600 --> 00:02:46,240 Speaker 2: A dermal piercing is like you know the one that 48 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:49,680 Speaker 2: was popular a couple of years ago, when like a 49 00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 2: girl would have a diamond in her face. Okay, just 50 00:02:53,240 --> 00:02:56,040 Speaker 2: like not like ours that got pierced through the lip, 51 00:02:56,120 --> 00:02:58,240 Speaker 2: like the one that was just like on the cheek 52 00:02:58,320 --> 00:03:02,119 Speaker 2: or something like that. That's a dermal piercing. And essentially 53 00:03:02,160 --> 00:03:05,000 Speaker 2: they just do like a punch biopsy, which is like 54 00:03:06,200 --> 00:03:08,320 Speaker 2: a whole puncher for skin and put a hole and 55 00:03:08,360 --> 00:03:10,720 Speaker 2: then they put this anchor inside there and they put 56 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 2: a diamond in for it to stay there. This is 57 00:03:13,639 --> 00:03:16,240 Speaker 2: a surface piercing. It's just a little bit different because 58 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:19,840 Speaker 2: it goes in and out of the skin and it 59 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:23,040 Speaker 2: has like a barbell underneath of the skin. And you 60 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 2: could see when you look at the picture, like you said, 61 00:03:25,440 --> 00:03:29,840 Speaker 2: it looks like it's not happy because those piercings, I 62 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:34,080 Speaker 2: just hate them. The most common surface piercing that you 63 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:37,440 Speaker 2: would think of is like a belly button or your eyebrow, 64 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:39,680 Speaker 2: because it's not like your ear that it goes in 65 00:03:39,880 --> 00:03:43,120 Speaker 2: and out, you know what I mean, It goes in 66 00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 2: and out, but it's under your skin. So with any 67 00:03:46,120 --> 00:03:48,280 Speaker 2: foreign body that we talk about all the time, your 68 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 2: body's like I want you out. I recognize you as 69 00:03:50,920 --> 00:03:52,640 Speaker 2: far and are gonna work my hard is to get 70 00:03:52,680 --> 00:03:55,560 Speaker 2: you out of my body. So that's what it does. 71 00:03:55,640 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 2: And for some people it heals and it looks nice, 72 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 2: and for other people, your body just literally pushes it out. 73 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 2: So and I'm sure thousands of you listening right now 74 00:04:07,040 --> 00:04:09,160 Speaker 2: had your belly button pierced at some point and could 75 00:04:09,200 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 2: be like it looked. It looked so bad. I have 76 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:15,800 Speaker 2: a scar forever. When I got pregnant, my belly buttoned 77 00:04:15,840 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 2: scar was like the size of a head. All of 78 00:04:19,240 --> 00:04:21,680 Speaker 2: these different things. And then of course there's ones that 79 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:23,520 Speaker 2: are listening that are like, I got it and I 80 00:04:23,560 --> 00:04:28,520 Speaker 2: never had a problem with it. So especially I feel 81 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 2: like with darker skinned people, it's the scar is just 82 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:33,360 Speaker 2: like she's gonna have a scar on her finger from it, 83 00:04:33,400 --> 00:04:36,279 Speaker 2: and it's kind of like is that necessary, like and 84 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:38,400 Speaker 2: the middle finger thing and all that. It's just like 85 00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:40,719 Speaker 2: kind of corny. It's just like, okay, can you scream 86 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:44,440 Speaker 2: for attention anymore? All of you kid? I know, And 87 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 2: it's just like whatever, like they do it because everybody's 88 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:51,160 Speaker 2: talking about it, but it's just like she's a kid, 89 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 2: she's a child, and like, well. 90 00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:55,240 Speaker 1: A comment I saw a lot was who is even 91 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:57,920 Speaker 1: doing the piercing? And I think this just plays into 92 00:04:58,040 --> 00:05:01,800 Speaker 1: your whole VIP treatment theory. Yeah, oh absolutely, because no 93 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:04,839 Speaker 1: normal shop would have done this, Like like I would 94 00:05:04,880 --> 00:05:07,360 Speaker 1: always if we ever did a piercing or anything, I 95 00:05:07,360 --> 00:05:09,360 Speaker 1: would always go to Infinite and Philly. 96 00:05:09,400 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 2: They're like a trusted place, and I feel like if 97 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 2: I walked in there right now with Lillian, it was 98 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:17,560 Speaker 2: like can you give my child a dermal piercing? They 99 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:20,680 Speaker 2: would like laugh in my face. Well yeah, it's just 100 00:05:20,760 --> 00:05:25,120 Speaker 2: like it it's just I don't know, but like yeah, 101 00:05:25,240 --> 00:05:27,760 Speaker 2: like if Kim Kardashian calls anybody, they're going to do 102 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:29,599 Speaker 2: it just because whatever. 103 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:33,359 Speaker 1: It's just I feel like I was sixteen, almost seventeen 104 00:05:33,400 --> 00:05:35,599 Speaker 1: when I got my piercing in my face and didn't 105 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:37,320 Speaker 1: you have to sign all this paperwork? 106 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:39,800 Speaker 2: Yeah? I don't think that there's a big there's a 107 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 2: big Yeah, there's a big difference between sixteen and twelve 108 00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 2: like whatever. 109 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:46,000 Speaker 1: Well yeah, And that's my problem with the outfit too, 110 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:49,279 Speaker 1: because she is a child. Stop trying to force her 111 00:05:49,360 --> 00:05:51,880 Speaker 1: to grow up. I mean, her life is already bad 112 00:05:51,920 --> 00:05:54,640 Speaker 1: between it just constantly being in the press, having her 113 00:05:54,680 --> 00:05:58,600 Speaker 1: whole entire childhood on a reality show, and then everything. 114 00:05:58,200 --> 00:06:01,479 Speaker 2: Going on with her whack job dad. Did she need 115 00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:05,240 Speaker 2: any more? In my opinion, her her whacked up job 116 00:06:05,360 --> 00:06:08,680 Speaker 2: dad isn't is equally as bad as her mother. It's 117 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:11,839 Speaker 2: just like her mom. Like it's it's funny that everybody's like, 118 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 2: oh Kanye is so crazy and this and that, and 119 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:16,640 Speaker 2: you're like, yeah, he totally sucks, but like so does she. 120 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:20,400 Speaker 2: Like it's it's equal, like equal bad parents, just in 121 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:22,839 Speaker 2: different kind of ways. It's like, oh, you could have 122 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:26,359 Speaker 2: the total racist guy, or you could have the the 123 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:29,160 Speaker 2: one that's sexually exploit you, like, choose your poison. 124 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:32,640 Speaker 1: I feel bad for those kids. It's not like they 125 00:06:32,720 --> 00:06:34,360 Speaker 1: chose to be part of that life. 126 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 2: Well, I mean, they just it just is, it is 127 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:40,200 Speaker 2: what it is. But you kind of you kind of 128 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:42,480 Speaker 2: could see what's going like even when they go out 129 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:44,800 Speaker 2: in public like that, you're like, Okay, I see what's 130 00:06:44,839 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 2: going on here and just thinking about like you know, 131 00:06:49,880 --> 00:06:53,560 Speaker 2: times are like my daughters will be going to a 132 00:06:54,760 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 2: dance of some sort, like a formal dance and a 133 00:06:57,400 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 2: dress and just and I see this on we were 134 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:04,040 Speaker 2: talking about Sheen on yesterday's episode. Shean's a good one 135 00:07:04,360 --> 00:07:08,240 Speaker 2: to have these over sexualized outfits for little kids. That 136 00:07:09,000 --> 00:07:12,560 Speaker 2: even some of the the bathing suits and stuff that 137 00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:16,360 Speaker 2: I ordered for the girls this summer had like like 138 00:07:16,440 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 2: that rouching like on the butt crack to accentuate their butt, 139 00:07:19,800 --> 00:07:22,120 Speaker 2: and I'm like, my daughter's ten, does she need to 140 00:07:22,160 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 2: have her butt accentuated right now? I know, it's so weird. 141 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:27,720 Speaker 2: Another one of the bathing suit tops that I order, 142 00:07:27,760 --> 00:07:30,040 Speaker 2: I sent everything back because I was like, this stuff 143 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:34,960 Speaker 2: is total shit. One of them was like like trying 144 00:07:35,200 --> 00:07:37,000 Speaker 2: like a bikini, like I guess you would call like 145 00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:41,000 Speaker 2: a string bikini. It was two little fabrics of triangles, 146 00:07:41,320 --> 00:07:45,200 Speaker 2: and I'm just like why, like why are you why? 147 00:07:45,240 --> 00:07:48,000 Speaker 2: Like it's funny to even put have them put it 148 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:51,080 Speaker 2: on because you're just like, no, this is something like 149 00:07:51,080 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 2: like a sexy woman would wear and you're ten, so 150 00:07:55,600 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 2: there is like a certain portion of that that you're 151 00:07:57,840 --> 00:08:02,320 Speaker 2: just like, Okay, this is like inappropriate it for children. 152 00:08:02,760 --> 00:08:05,600 Speaker 2: And I don't want to sound like a prude or anything, 153 00:08:05,680 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 2: but I just think, like when I saw that corset, 154 00:08:08,240 --> 00:08:10,880 Speaker 2: because when you look, it looks like she has like 155 00:08:10,960 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 2: breasts pushed up, and like, I just think, at twelve 156 00:08:13,960 --> 00:08:16,760 Speaker 2: years old, you really shouldn't be accentuating boobs unless you 157 00:08:16,800 --> 00:08:17,960 Speaker 2: want people to look at them. 158 00:08:18,400 --> 00:08:20,960 Speaker 1: This is this is my problem with it. Like around 159 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:24,200 Speaker 1: her age, I was super into Green Day, my Chemical 160 00:08:24,280 --> 00:08:26,480 Speaker 1: Romance and Phantom of the Opera, right like in my 161 00:08:26,640 --> 00:08:31,920 Speaker 1: peak emo phase, and I would wear corsets from Hot Topic, 162 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:34,679 Speaker 1: but they never pushed my boobs up like that, like 163 00:08:34,720 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 1: they covered my chest. 164 00:08:37,160 --> 00:08:39,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, like because it wasn't really a corset, Like I 165 00:08:39,520 --> 00:08:41,680 Speaker 2: do you actually that's like she's wearing like a leaf 166 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:44,880 Speaker 2: T shirt underneath of them. I did. I was gonna say, like, 167 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:47,640 Speaker 2: I think you had one and you wore it over 168 00:08:47,720 --> 00:08:49,520 Speaker 2: a long sleeve black shirt. 169 00:08:49,800 --> 00:08:52,199 Speaker 1: No, you were straight up like you're not wearing this 170 00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 1: unless you wear a T shirt or something you could wear. 171 00:08:55,200 --> 00:08:57,880 Speaker 2: Like you could wear the corset with lots of stuff. 172 00:08:57,920 --> 00:09:01,480 Speaker 2: I just think like, like, listen, she's twelve, and I guess, yeah, 173 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:03,720 Speaker 2: I guess it's like you're you're even more judgmental because 174 00:09:03,760 --> 00:09:06,360 Speaker 2: you're like, we know how your parents are, we know 175 00:09:06,400 --> 00:09:11,199 Speaker 2: how you became to be like, and they're just you 176 00:09:11,679 --> 00:09:13,720 Speaker 2: see that they're trying to like pass it on to 177 00:09:13,800 --> 00:09:17,040 Speaker 2: the next you know, because they did and we know 178 00:09:17,120 --> 00:09:19,280 Speaker 2: that they did it with the other with the other two, 179 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:23,360 Speaker 2: especially like Kylie, like it was like she was a 180 00:09:23,400 --> 00:09:25,240 Speaker 2: little girl in the show, and then all of a 181 00:09:25,280 --> 00:09:26,400 Speaker 2: sudden it was like. 182 00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:29,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's one thing if you're like an older 183 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:32,079 Speaker 1: teenager starting to be an adult and you make those 184 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:34,280 Speaker 1: choices yourself. It's one thing if you're a kid and 185 00:09:34,320 --> 00:09:37,040 Speaker 1: your parent is encouraging that and trying to blanket it 186 00:09:37,080 --> 00:09:40,560 Speaker 1: as like oh, she's fashionable. She's expressing herself Like no, 187 00:09:40,720 --> 00:09:43,200 Speaker 1: you're the parent and you're responsible for being like this 188 00:09:43,320 --> 00:09:44,439 Speaker 1: is inappropriate for you. 189 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:48,959 Speaker 2: To wear outside of this household anyway. Yeah, So we 190 00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:52,800 Speaker 2: were just talking about the piercing, like I like, there's 191 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:54,920 Speaker 2: going to be people that absolutely have never had a 192 00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:57,680 Speaker 2: problem with them. I just particularly have not been a 193 00:09:57,720 --> 00:10:01,280 Speaker 2: fan of the dermal piercings and or the surface piercings. 194 00:10:01,559 --> 00:10:03,640 Speaker 2: I had one when I was sixteen years old on 195 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:06,560 Speaker 2: my eyebrow, and I still have a scar from it 196 00:10:06,600 --> 00:10:11,319 Speaker 2: till this day. And mine never even got super nasty 197 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:15,440 Speaker 2: like I've seen them get. So when I was growing up, 198 00:10:15,480 --> 00:10:17,760 Speaker 2: it was really popular to get them, like in the 199 00:10:17,800 --> 00:10:22,599 Speaker 2: back of your neck, like underneath your hair. So especially 200 00:10:22,760 --> 00:10:24,520 Speaker 2: like if you can get one on an area of 201 00:10:24,559 --> 00:10:28,160 Speaker 2: your body that's like doesn't have that much access and 202 00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:32,440 Speaker 2: your skin's not bending that much, you can probably have 203 00:10:32,480 --> 00:10:34,800 Speaker 2: an easier time with it. But like if you have 204 00:10:34,840 --> 00:10:37,160 Speaker 2: your belly button and you're wearing pants that are constantly 205 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:40,959 Speaker 2: rubbing against it, or your finger that's bumping everything all 206 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:43,280 Speaker 2: the time, I just think that, like you're just increasing 207 00:10:43,320 --> 00:10:45,199 Speaker 2: the risk for it to be angry all the time. 208 00:10:46,440 --> 00:10:48,680 Speaker 1: All Right, This text story is kind of hard to follow, 209 00:10:48,760 --> 00:10:51,520 Speaker 1: so bear with me while I try to explain it. 210 00:10:52,160 --> 00:10:55,240 Speaker 1: So this mother had four children, a newborn, a six 211 00:10:55,360 --> 00:10:58,160 Speaker 1: year old son, a daughter which they didn't disclose the age, 212 00:10:58,200 --> 00:11:00,760 Speaker 1: and a twelve year old son. So she said she 213 00:11:00,840 --> 00:11:03,120 Speaker 1: gave her twelve year old son a sleeping aid before 214 00:11:03,120 --> 00:11:06,320 Speaker 1: he went to bed. On August thirteenth, at three am, 215 00:11:06,440 --> 00:11:08,240 Speaker 1: she woke up to care for the newborn and saw 216 00:11:08,320 --> 00:11:10,320 Speaker 1: him in the kitchen looking for a snack and guided 217 00:11:10,400 --> 00:11:13,000 Speaker 1: him back to bed. So then the next morning, she 218 00:11:13,080 --> 00:11:15,480 Speaker 1: takes the six year old to school with the newborn 219 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:18,120 Speaker 1: and leaves the twelve year old and the daughter home alone. 220 00:11:18,160 --> 00:11:20,959 Speaker 1: She assumed they had been sleeping and didn't check on them. 221 00:11:21,360 --> 00:11:23,320 Speaker 1: So she gets back from the school drop off, and 222 00:11:23,320 --> 00:11:25,720 Speaker 1: that's when the daughter says the twelve year old isn't home, 223 00:11:25,760 --> 00:11:27,520 Speaker 1: and the mom goes into the room and sees the 224 00:11:27,559 --> 00:11:29,679 Speaker 1: windows open and he's just completely missing. 225 00:11:31,000 --> 00:11:34,840 Speaker 2: So so he's missing, and he's like, where do you 226 00:11:34,880 --> 00:11:37,960 Speaker 2: even start of how wrong this is? Whatever? She I 227 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:40,280 Speaker 2: don't know what a sleep aid is either for a child. 228 00:11:40,360 --> 00:11:42,720 Speaker 2: Is it like a malatonin gummy? Or are you giving 229 00:11:42,800 --> 00:11:43,960 Speaker 2: this kid something. 230 00:11:43,679 --> 00:11:45,960 Speaker 1: That like Benkritchel or something else? 231 00:11:46,040 --> 00:11:49,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, I don't know, but that it would almost 232 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:51,560 Speaker 2: make me. I don't want to say that because I 233 00:11:51,559 --> 00:11:54,560 Speaker 2: think that malatonin, like Lucia told me she had this 234 00:11:54,640 --> 00:11:57,560 Speaker 2: like crazy she took a maltonin gummy before school because 235 00:11:57,600 --> 00:11:59,640 Speaker 2: she just started school and told me about this crazy 236 00:11:59,720 --> 00:12:02,520 Speaker 2: like dream she had with maggots on her body or 237 00:12:02,520 --> 00:12:05,640 Speaker 2: something outrageous and I'm like, yeah, there's like this funny 238 00:12:05,640 --> 00:12:09,480 Speaker 2: meme going around with like this this giant like cricket 239 00:12:09,600 --> 00:12:12,440 Speaker 2: with that's like attacking people. And it's like, oh, my 240 00:12:12,600 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 2: dreams when I'm on melatonin because they just they they 241 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:18,959 Speaker 2: it happens to me too if I ever take one. 242 00:12:19,520 --> 00:12:22,760 Speaker 2: The mom gave him this medication, knowing he has a 243 00:12:22,960 --> 00:12:26,959 Speaker 2: history of sleepwalking, got up in the morning and didn't 244 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:29,320 Speaker 2: even check on him to see if he was okay, 245 00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:31,640 Speaker 2: and didn't even realize it until ten in the morning. 246 00:12:31,720 --> 00:12:34,920 Speaker 2: And then when she got home, the daughter had said 247 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:38,160 Speaker 2: that the kid was missing and went out the bedroom windows. 248 00:12:38,240 --> 00:12:41,120 Speaker 2: So I don't know how old the daughter was. Was 249 00:12:41,120 --> 00:12:46,480 Speaker 2: she significantly younger and couldn't really communicate with that the 250 00:12:46,559 --> 00:12:48,920 Speaker 2: mother as well to be like, mom. 251 00:12:49,040 --> 00:12:50,960 Speaker 1: Well, she might have just they shared a bedroom, so 252 00:12:51,000 --> 00:12:53,080 Speaker 1: she might have just woken up and been like, he's 253 00:12:53,080 --> 00:12:54,480 Speaker 1: not there in the windows open. 254 00:12:55,240 --> 00:12:57,880 Speaker 2: Yeah. So, so the kid's missing, and he was missing 255 00:12:57,920 --> 00:13:01,600 Speaker 2: for a few days correct, no, like weeks. 256 00:13:01,679 --> 00:13:04,280 Speaker 1: They didn't fight, so he went missing on August fourteenth, 257 00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:07,200 Speaker 1: and they didn't find his body until August twenty sixth. 258 00:13:07,400 --> 00:13:11,839 Speaker 1: Oh god, So it was a long time. And then 259 00:13:11,880 --> 00:13:15,160 Speaker 1: it seems like he got attacked. They declared that his 260 00:13:15,280 --> 00:13:16,880 Speaker 1: death was due to an alligator. 261 00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:20,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, but they so they said it was because of 262 00:13:20,920 --> 00:13:24,360 Speaker 2: blunt trauma. So what does that mean. I guess because 263 00:13:24,400 --> 00:13:31,080 Speaker 2: the the the alligator can grab on and can like 264 00:13:31,440 --> 00:13:33,760 Speaker 2: you know when they do the alligator roll thing, they 265 00:13:33,840 --> 00:13:37,720 Speaker 2: like roll around and swing the kid around and stuff. 266 00:13:37,760 --> 00:13:40,880 Speaker 2: So he could have grabbed on to him somehow and 267 00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:46,079 Speaker 2: just like banged them against something or because you wouldn't 268 00:13:46,120 --> 00:13:50,120 Speaker 2: use the term blunt trauma if if an alligator bites 269 00:13:50,200 --> 00:13:55,600 Speaker 2: were what caused the injuries. So it has to do 270 00:13:55,720 --> 00:13:58,800 Speaker 2: it has something to do with the alligator, like banging 271 00:13:58,920 --> 00:14:02,520 Speaker 2: him against some kind of a lunt surface and causing issues. 272 00:14:03,840 --> 00:14:06,160 Speaker 2: But now the mom, So the mom is getting in 273 00:14:06,200 --> 00:14:06,880 Speaker 2: trouble for this. 274 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:10,600 Speaker 1: Well what was interesting is I guess they just moved 275 00:14:10,640 --> 00:14:13,920 Speaker 1: into this house that they were living in and at 276 00:14:13,960 --> 00:14:16,800 Speaker 1: their old house only two weeks before he went missing, 277 00:14:17,280 --> 00:14:20,040 Speaker 1: police had found the boy naked and drinking water from 278 00:14:20,120 --> 00:14:22,880 Speaker 1: a drainage ditch. And then three days after that, a 279 00:14:22,920 --> 00:14:25,360 Speaker 1: neighbor knocked on the door because he had gotten out again, 280 00:14:25,400 --> 00:14:27,600 Speaker 1: and that incident wasn't reported to police. 281 00:14:28,080 --> 00:14:32,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, so there's a history here of and what's up 282 00:14:32,680 --> 00:14:36,200 Speaker 2: with the naked and drinking out of the drain and everything, 283 00:14:36,320 --> 00:14:38,520 Speaker 2: just because they thought he slept walk again. 284 00:14:38,680 --> 00:14:41,000 Speaker 1: Well, is it sleepwalking or does he have a mental 285 00:14:41,040 --> 00:14:44,760 Speaker 1: issue going on? I don't know, because I mean, like 286 00:14:44,880 --> 00:14:47,440 Speaker 1: when you're when you're sleepwalking, like you hear of people 287 00:14:47,480 --> 00:14:51,720 Speaker 1: doing weird shit. Yeah, totally, but I don't I don't know. 288 00:14:52,000 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 2: Like remember, I feel like on this show at some 289 00:14:54,160 --> 00:14:57,320 Speaker 2: point we were talking about someone that was sleepwalking and 290 00:14:58,000 --> 00:15:00,360 Speaker 2: the wasn't it like a wife was sleep talking in 291 00:15:00,400 --> 00:15:03,400 Speaker 2: the husband videotaped or doing it. She was like putting 292 00:15:03,440 --> 00:15:06,480 Speaker 2: the hairbrush in the microwave and stuff like doing weird shit. Yeah, 293 00:15:06,520 --> 00:15:07,359 Speaker 2: but we also. 294 00:15:07,200 --> 00:15:10,160 Speaker 1: Kind of called bullshit on that because anybody could reenact 295 00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:12,000 Speaker 1: that stuff, how would you be able to tell? 296 00:15:12,720 --> 00:15:13,000 Speaker 2: Why? 297 00:15:13,120 --> 00:15:16,240 Speaker 1: So she was charged with negligent homicide and second degree 298 00:15:16,400 --> 00:15:19,120 Speaker 1: cruelty of juveniles. Like where do you think this charge 299 00:15:19,160 --> 00:15:19,720 Speaker 1: comes from? 300 00:15:20,920 --> 00:15:27,760 Speaker 2: Well? Maybe from leaving a child that has a known 301 00:15:27,960 --> 00:15:34,040 Speaker 2: documentation of a medical issue alone for hours without protection. 302 00:15:34,160 --> 00:15:36,320 Speaker 1: Thought he was sleeping in his bedroom. 303 00:15:38,000 --> 00:15:40,560 Speaker 2: He was, Yeah, but he's twelve, and I don't know 304 00:15:40,600 --> 00:15:42,840 Speaker 2: how old the other kid is. I mean, is there 305 00:15:43,320 --> 00:15:46,240 Speaker 2: a law like how old you're allowed to leave your kids. 306 00:15:46,280 --> 00:15:49,800 Speaker 1: And I don't think that part matters as much because 307 00:15:49,840 --> 00:15:52,200 Speaker 1: even let's say she did go in the bedroom, he 308 00:15:52,320 --> 00:15:54,040 Speaker 1: might have gotten out in the middle of the night, 309 00:15:54,080 --> 00:15:55,760 Speaker 1: and if she woke up at a normal hour, he 310 00:15:55,800 --> 00:15:58,720 Speaker 1: could have still been gone at that time. Yeah. 311 00:15:58,720 --> 00:16:01,800 Speaker 2: But if you if you know that your child has 312 00:16:01,840 --> 00:16:04,160 Speaker 2: a problem and you're not doing everything in your power 313 00:16:04,200 --> 00:16:08,600 Speaker 2: to protect them, and there's stock like there's clearly documentation 314 00:16:08,760 --> 00:16:11,840 Speaker 2: of this kid sleepwalking, and there's been two incidents where 315 00:16:11,840 --> 00:16:14,560 Speaker 2: the kid has went outside, So like, if she's not 316 00:16:16,160 --> 00:16:18,560 Speaker 2: really locking down the house and making sure that that 317 00:16:18,680 --> 00:16:20,800 Speaker 2: kid doesn't get outside, then it's kind of her fault 318 00:16:20,800 --> 00:16:23,160 Speaker 2: if he gets hurt. It's not like if it was 319 00:16:23,200 --> 00:16:26,440 Speaker 2: the first time, it wouldn't she probably wouldn't get in trouble. 320 00:16:26,720 --> 00:16:28,720 Speaker 2: I'm sure they did investigation and found a bunch of 321 00:16:28,760 --> 00:16:30,880 Speaker 2: other stuff too. Yeah. 322 00:16:30,920 --> 00:16:34,120 Speaker 1: I mean this case is just so weird, just every 323 00:16:34,200 --> 00:16:34,960 Speaker 1: detail of it. 324 00:16:35,200 --> 00:16:37,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's terrible. I mean, it's terrible to think 325 00:16:37,720 --> 00:16:40,600 Speaker 2: that that happened that the kid. I mean, listen, like, 326 00:16:40,720 --> 00:16:43,600 Speaker 2: even if you're a negligent parent, like, no one ever 327 00:16:43,640 --> 00:16:46,640 Speaker 2: deserves their child to be missing for weeks and not 328 00:16:46,760 --> 00:16:49,960 Speaker 2: knowing what happened to them and stuff. It's just I 329 00:16:49,960 --> 00:16:53,760 Speaker 2: imagine it's the worst thing a person could go through. No, totally. 330 00:17:01,640 --> 00:17:04,560 Speaker 1: This episode is brought to you by the Gross Room guys. 331 00:17:04,640 --> 00:17:09,320 Speaker 2: Last week for Forensic Friday, we talked about dismembered body 332 00:17:09,320 --> 00:17:12,040 Speaker 2: parts and how we can identify if it was done 333 00:17:12,080 --> 00:17:14,639 Speaker 2: before after our person dies, and what happens when we 334 00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:18,040 Speaker 2: find a body part. And this week's Forensic Friday, I 335 00:17:18,040 --> 00:17:21,840 Speaker 2: don't know, I'll surprise you that we do it every Friday, 336 00:17:21,880 --> 00:17:24,720 Speaker 2: so stay tuned for that. 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Yeah. 342 00:17:46,040 --> 00:17:48,400 Speaker 1: Head over to the grossroom dot com now to sign up. 343 00:17:51,240 --> 00:17:54,440 Speaker 2: All right, this is an interesting story about an unusual 344 00:17:54,520 --> 00:17:56,159 Speaker 2: location for childbirth. 345 00:17:56,720 --> 00:17:59,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, so this pregnant lady was forced to give birth 346 00:17:59,119 --> 00:18:02,560 Speaker 1: on a hospital room counts due to overcrowding issues at 347 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:04,760 Speaker 1: the hospital because they weren't able to get her a 348 00:18:04,880 --> 00:18:08,280 Speaker 1: bed in between her water breaking, her getting admitted and 349 00:18:08,320 --> 00:18:09,240 Speaker 1: then you know. 350 00:18:09,240 --> 00:18:13,960 Speaker 2: The final push. I guess, yeah, I that's that's unusual. 351 00:18:14,040 --> 00:18:15,960 Speaker 2: I feel like when I had Lillian, that kind of 352 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:19,120 Speaker 2: happened that I went into the hospital and they had 353 00:18:19,359 --> 00:18:22,040 Speaker 2: I didn't even have a doctor from my practice deliver 354 00:18:22,119 --> 00:18:24,520 Speaker 2: because they had way too much stuff going on at 355 00:18:24,560 --> 00:18:27,280 Speaker 2: the time. But it wasn't enough that they weren't able 356 00:18:27,320 --> 00:18:31,879 Speaker 2: to give me a room and attend to me. I like, 357 00:18:33,200 --> 00:18:37,320 Speaker 2: just thinking about giving birth is just like an anxiety situation. 358 00:18:37,440 --> 00:18:39,119 Speaker 2: And then thank them telling you you don't have a 359 00:18:39,200 --> 00:18:40,879 Speaker 2: room and you're just like having to do it on 360 00:18:41,000 --> 00:18:44,399 Speaker 2: a couch, like in a side room. It's just a 361 00:18:44,440 --> 00:18:45,160 Speaker 2: little crazy. 362 00:18:45,480 --> 00:18:47,639 Speaker 1: Well, she said they were told to stand in the 363 00:18:47,680 --> 00:18:50,720 Speaker 1: hallway after they were admitted, and like, I've obviously never 364 00:18:50,800 --> 00:18:53,240 Speaker 1: been in labor, but could you imagine being in labor 365 00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:55,359 Speaker 1: pain and them just been like, go stand over there 366 00:18:55,520 --> 00:18:56,159 Speaker 1: for a while. 367 00:18:56,960 --> 00:19:00,399 Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean, it's definitely happens to people more often 368 00:19:00,440 --> 00:19:02,400 Speaker 2: in the emergency room when you go there and they're 369 00:19:02,440 --> 00:19:04,600 Speaker 2: so busy that they're like, oh, sometimes you have to 370 00:19:04,640 --> 00:19:07,600 Speaker 2: wait in the hallway or something like that. But no, 371 00:19:07,680 --> 00:19:11,879 Speaker 2: I can't imagine it. And it's it's actually crazy because 372 00:19:11,920 --> 00:19:14,639 Speaker 2: when when you hear the details of the case, it's 373 00:19:14,680 --> 00:19:20,080 Speaker 2: it's just they said that they had twenty four births 374 00:19:20,119 --> 00:19:24,280 Speaker 2: all together on that day, on July thirty first, and 375 00:19:24,359 --> 00:19:26,400 Speaker 2: at the time that she gave birth, there was like 376 00:19:26,640 --> 00:19:29,360 Speaker 2: seventeen other patients at the same time, and they said 377 00:19:29,359 --> 00:19:31,240 Speaker 2: they only had three employees and. 378 00:19:31,320 --> 00:19:34,800 Speaker 1: After giving birth they still didn't have a bed for yeah, 379 00:19:35,320 --> 00:19:37,120 Speaker 1: which this is so ridiculous. 380 00:19:37,200 --> 00:19:39,480 Speaker 2: So I did, like, I did the math and figure 381 00:19:39,480 --> 00:19:42,439 Speaker 2: it out that if the birth date was July thirty first, 382 00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:45,800 Speaker 2: then the conception date would be around the first week 383 00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:50,520 Speaker 2: of November. So it's just interesting because you would think 384 00:19:50,640 --> 00:19:56,439 Speaker 2: like it would be Christmas or Thanksgiving like holidays that 385 00:19:56,480 --> 00:19:58,679 Speaker 2: statistically like more people have sex. 386 00:19:59,320 --> 00:20:01,200 Speaker 1: Well maybe they're getting busy on Halloween. 387 00:20:01,240 --> 00:20:07,399 Speaker 2: Halloween, yeah exactly, or Day of the Dead. So yeah, 388 00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:11,000 Speaker 2: that's a lot. But what's interesting about this article, which 389 00:20:11,040 --> 00:20:13,159 Speaker 2: is definitely why I wanted to talk about this story 390 00:20:13,760 --> 00:20:17,520 Speaker 2: for you guys, because the nurses were interviewed and were 391 00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:19,840 Speaker 2: just like, we're so short staffed, but like who would 392 00:20:19,880 --> 00:20:22,240 Speaker 2: want to work here under these conditions? And this took 393 00:20:22,280 --> 00:20:25,680 Speaker 2: place in Australia, So you're like, okay, because a lot 394 00:20:25,720 --> 00:20:29,720 Speaker 2: of times people who especially who work in American healthcare 395 00:20:29,800 --> 00:20:33,320 Speaker 2: and everything, will say that it's terrible. Mostly every nurse 396 00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:36,399 Speaker 2: is just like, there's some nurses that are like, oh, 397 00:20:36,440 --> 00:20:38,440 Speaker 2: I get treated so well at my job, but most 398 00:20:38,480 --> 00:20:40,359 Speaker 2: that I've talked to are just like, you wouldn't believe 399 00:20:40,359 --> 00:20:42,320 Speaker 2: how short staff we are, and this and that, and 400 00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:44,520 Speaker 2: it's happening in Australia too. 401 00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:47,560 Speaker 1: Well. Obviously this is not the same level, but I 402 00:20:47,560 --> 00:20:49,960 Speaker 1: think we could say this about a lot of jobs 403 00:20:50,440 --> 00:20:53,080 Speaker 1: because not to sound like a boomer, but it's like, 404 00:20:53,119 --> 00:20:55,360 Speaker 1: why would you work at a store or something when 405 00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:57,879 Speaker 1: you could just go online and like play video games 406 00:20:57,920 --> 00:21:00,600 Speaker 1: on YouTube and make a bunch of money, right, even 407 00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:03,440 Speaker 1: as dumb as yesterday, I went to Staples to do 408 00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:07,879 Speaker 1: a ups return and there was literally two people working 409 00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:10,679 Speaker 1: in the entire store, and there was a bunch actually 410 00:21:10,680 --> 00:21:13,000 Speaker 1: the most people I've ever seen Staples of my life 411 00:21:13,359 --> 00:21:16,240 Speaker 1: now that I think about it, And everybody was waiting 412 00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:19,360 Speaker 1: so long because they just can't get anybody to work there. 413 00:21:20,680 --> 00:21:24,360 Speaker 2: The standards too at stores have changed so much. I mean, 414 00:21:24,400 --> 00:21:27,080 Speaker 2: I understand I'm getting older, so things are going to 415 00:21:27,119 --> 00:21:30,960 Speaker 2: be different than the nineties when I started working, but 416 00:21:31,160 --> 00:21:35,119 Speaker 2: like when I started working at ACME when I was 417 00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:39,720 Speaker 2: sixteen years old. I had to take a test to 418 00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:42,680 Speaker 2: learn every single piece of produce that might have came 419 00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:46,200 Speaker 2: across my belt. You know what I mean. I'm serious, 420 00:21:46,240 --> 00:21:49,159 Speaker 2: Like they like I didn't know the difference between like 421 00:21:49,240 --> 00:21:52,240 Speaker 2: a boss pair and a Bartlet pair, all this stuff, 422 00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:54,680 Speaker 2: Like they would just give you like an end dive 423 00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:57,800 Speaker 2: and be like what is this without the sticker? Like 424 00:21:57,840 --> 00:22:00,360 Speaker 2: you had to know all this stuff. And now it's 425 00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:04,680 Speaker 2: like fast forward to twenty twenty five, where we're supposed 426 00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:07,320 Speaker 2: to be getting better, right, every year we're supposed to 427 00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:10,840 Speaker 2: be getting better. It's like I'm at the mall yesterday 428 00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:13,760 Speaker 2: and got like the girls like a little sweatsuit thing, 429 00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:16,800 Speaker 2: and she says, we don't have any bags, and I 430 00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:18,760 Speaker 2: was like, you don't have any bags, like a different size. 431 00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:20,640 Speaker 2: It wasn't like I didn't have a size. No, there's 432 00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:24,000 Speaker 2: no bags in the entire store. So I have to 433 00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:28,480 Speaker 2: walk through the mall holding a sweatsuit. Like there's just 434 00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:31,000 Speaker 2: no standards anymore. It's just outrageous. 435 00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:34,520 Speaker 1: Can we bring it back to your produces? Why can't 436 00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:37,800 Speaker 1: Why can't you tell the difference between Parsley and Silandro 437 00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:42,440 Speaker 1: at forty six years old. 438 00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:44,720 Speaker 2: Because I don't like look at the actual leaf. I 439 00:22:44,800 --> 00:22:48,600 Speaker 2: always This is Maria saying this because one day I 440 00:22:48,680 --> 00:22:51,159 Speaker 2: cooked like some Italian meal that called for like a 441 00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:53,520 Speaker 2: lot of parsley, like a half of a cup of 442 00:22:54,119 --> 00:22:57,720 Speaker 2: fresh parsley, and I put cilantro because I had both 443 00:22:57,760 --> 00:22:59,280 Speaker 2: of them in the fridge and they were just like 444 00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:03,320 Speaker 2: not paying attention. I didn't. I was just like, why 445 00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:06,960 Speaker 2: tastes the same, Like something is not right about it. 446 00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:09,040 Speaker 1: The best is I was eating it and I was like, 447 00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:12,439 Speaker 1: weird choice. 448 00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:15,000 Speaker 2: When the next day I just couldn't pin I don't 449 00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:18,320 Speaker 2: have that thing that cilantro tastes like I think it 450 00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:22,359 Speaker 2: tastes good, but like Gabe was just like, yeah, I 451 00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:24,280 Speaker 2: mean it tastes like. He didn't say anything, and I'm 452 00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:27,199 Speaker 2: just like, okay, but pop Pop apparently hates it. And 453 00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:30,400 Speaker 2: he didn't say nothing. He hate it. Like I was like, okay, yeah. 454 00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:32,199 Speaker 1: But he's the king of I hate it, but I 455 00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:32,959 Speaker 1: need it anyway. 456 00:23:33,119 --> 00:23:36,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, So clearly I didn't. I didn't. I didn't look 457 00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:39,640 Speaker 2: at come on, like flat leaf parsley and cilantro look 458 00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:42,800 Speaker 2: similar if you just like have them in a bag 459 00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:44,680 Speaker 2: in your fridge and you're just like not paying, but. 460 00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:48,320 Speaker 1: You can sell the dice between a bosque pair. 461 00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:53,919 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yes, they're they're definitely different. Okay, all right. 462 00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:56,280 Speaker 1: A new study has come out revealing that people who 463 00:23:56,440 --> 00:23:58,840 Speaker 1: use their phones on the toilet are almost twice as 464 00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:00,560 Speaker 1: likely to develops. 465 00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:06,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, so this story is this story again is a change. 466 00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:08,720 Speaker 2: There's all these cool things that are going to be 467 00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:11,119 Speaker 2: happy I want to say cool, but cool things that 468 00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:13,639 Speaker 2: are going to be changing with anatomy and physiology of 469 00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:17,720 Speaker 2: humans because of technology. And like you know, back in 470 00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:19,479 Speaker 2: the day, when you used to sit on the toilet 471 00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:22,159 Speaker 2: and have to poop, you would have to like grab 472 00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:24,280 Speaker 2: your mom's shampoo bottle and look at it. That was 473 00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:27,879 Speaker 2: like your entertainment, right, And now it's like people have 474 00:24:27,960 --> 00:24:30,800 Speaker 2: their phone in their hand all the time and they 475 00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:33,000 Speaker 2: end up zoning out and sitting on the toilet way 476 00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:35,800 Speaker 2: longer than they ever did, to the point where in 477 00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:39,600 Speaker 2: this study they said, on average, a human sits on 478 00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:42,320 Speaker 2: the toilet for two whole days of their life every year. 479 00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:46,679 Speaker 2: That's like forty eight hours in a year on the 480 00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:51,159 Speaker 2: toilet and it's just not good. The increased pressure just 481 00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:55,880 Speaker 2: increases your chances of getting hemorrhoids forty six percent, which 482 00:24:55,960 --> 00:25:00,359 Speaker 2: is a significant number. That's a huge number. So they're 483 00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:03,520 Speaker 2: just advising, like, hey, don't bring your phone in because 484 00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:06,280 Speaker 2: it's true. Though, like you're like, let me just check 485 00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:08,119 Speaker 2: my Instagram and then all of a sudden, it's been 486 00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:10,439 Speaker 2: ten minutes because you saw a couple of your friends 487 00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:13,640 Speaker 2: posted things, and you get sucked in and it's happening 488 00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:15,800 Speaker 2: that people are sitting on the toilet way longer, and 489 00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:17,000 Speaker 2: it's just not good. 490 00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:19,600 Speaker 1: It's so funny you brought that up that we're gonna 491 00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:23,720 Speaker 1: be seeing like changes over time with technologies, because I 492 00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:25,639 Speaker 1: was listening to this podcast the other day and they 493 00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:28,200 Speaker 1: were talking about that documentary on Netflix that just came 494 00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:31,160 Speaker 1: out about the mom who was cyberbullying her daughter, you know, 495 00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:33,679 Speaker 1: and the one girl on it made the joke like 496 00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:35,439 Speaker 1: they should have known it was her to begin with 497 00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:36,600 Speaker 1: because she had technic. 498 00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:40,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's great. Yeah. 499 00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:43,240 Speaker 1: I mean, as a victim of hemorrhoids this year, I 500 00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:45,560 Speaker 1: would say, it's not something you're gonna want. 501 00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:48,000 Speaker 2: It's horrible. It does not feel very good at all. 502 00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:54,359 Speaker 2: And it is horrible because because it's not only paint, 503 00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:58,240 Speaker 2: it's like that weird, painful and itching and like in 504 00:25:58,280 --> 00:26:02,720 Speaker 2: a place where you really should itching. It's so uncomfortable. 505 00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:04,920 Speaker 1: I hope it never happens to be ever again. 506 00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:09,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it will for sure. So but you 507 00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:11,840 Speaker 2: have to make sure that you're not are you sitting 508 00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:13,520 Speaker 2: on the toilet too long with your phone? 509 00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:17,159 Speaker 1: I really consider myself to be a quick pooper. Like 510 00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:19,159 Speaker 1: when my husband goes in there, he's in there for 511 00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:21,560 Speaker 1: like thirty minutes, Like I could be in and out 512 00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:22,280 Speaker 1: in two minutes. 513 00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:26,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I am looking at my phone. So I 514 00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:28,360 Speaker 2: don't know. I really don't think I'm as bad as 515 00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:32,720 Speaker 2: other people. Yeah, I mean, I guess in this article 516 00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:36,320 Speaker 2: they just advise that, you know what's crazy. Actually this 517 00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:39,640 Speaker 2: study seem to have been done on people that were 518 00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:43,200 Speaker 2: over forty five years old. Yeah, what about us young people? 519 00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:45,640 Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying, Like, I feel like if and 520 00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:48,800 Speaker 2: it's it's just different because obviously, like the older you get, 521 00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:52,520 Speaker 2: the increased chance of hemorrhids you have. But like when 522 00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:55,600 Speaker 2: this generation that's had a phone their entire life gets 523 00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:59,879 Speaker 2: to be this age, it's like, I don't even know 524 00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:02,720 Speaker 2: it's gonna it's just gonna be so much worse. And 525 00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:04,000 Speaker 2: just to think about. 526 00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:07,080 Speaker 1: That well, even when I told you I had it, 527 00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:08,840 Speaker 1: you didn't believe me. And then I had to send 528 00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:09,760 Speaker 1: you a picture. 529 00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:14,640 Speaker 2: Because you're you're not a risk factor like you don't. 530 00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:16,440 Speaker 2: You don't, you don't have. 531 00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:19,080 Speaker 1: Maybe this is the conversation we need to have because 532 00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:21,480 Speaker 1: maybe people in their mid forties and up or the 533 00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:24,560 Speaker 1: primary or at primary age to be at risk for this. 534 00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:28,680 Speaker 1: But now, since my generation is totally addicted to their phones, 535 00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:30,639 Speaker 1: we're going to be seeing it in a lot of 536 00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:33,840 Speaker 1: younger people. Because what did I have happening that made 537 00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:34,800 Speaker 1: me at risk for it? 538 00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:37,280 Speaker 2: Well, I just wanted to make because it's because you 539 00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:42,960 Speaker 2: constipation sitting all day, there's there's certain things that could 540 00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:45,400 Speaker 2: cause it for sure. I just wanted to make sure 541 00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:48,280 Speaker 2: it wasn't like a tumor on your ass that you 542 00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:51,480 Speaker 2: thought you had, you know, like, since you weren't going 543 00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:53,960 Speaker 2: to get it checked out, I don't want you ignoring 544 00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:57,000 Speaker 2: you could get you could get cancer like there. So 545 00:27:57,040 --> 00:27:59,720 Speaker 2: I just wanted to make sure that it wasn't. 546 00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:02,600 Speaker 1: That it definitely was it. It looked like the textbook 547 00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:03,879 Speaker 1: picture of hemrod. 548 00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:06,919 Speaker 2: It's interesting. 549 00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:10,720 Speaker 1: Okay, last story in this beach town in Florida, there's 550 00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:13,159 Speaker 1: this giant pirate statue, and I guess there have been 551 00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:16,320 Speaker 1: arguments about relocating it. But a couple of weeks ago, 552 00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:18,600 Speaker 1: this meeting was set to take place to discuss if 553 00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:20,359 Speaker 1: they were going to move it to this history museum 554 00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:22,720 Speaker 1: or not. And just a couple of hours before, this 555 00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:25,879 Speaker 1: council member is saying they were alerted by a quote 556 00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:29,720 Speaker 1: credible source that human remains were in the statue, in 557 00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:33,200 Speaker 1: the peg leg and what is it called peg leg 558 00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:36,560 Speaker 1: pete the statue just so. 559 00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:41,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, And apparently they got there without the person's, without 560 00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:43,800 Speaker 2: whoever owns the statue's permission. 561 00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:47,920 Speaker 1: So they were saying that, right, But I found another 562 00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:50,880 Speaker 1: article that came out more recently, I think, only like 563 00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:53,760 Speaker 1: five or six days ago, that said they have to 564 00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:57,240 Speaker 1: come across emails that city officials have known about the 565 00:28:57,320 --> 00:29:00,240 Speaker 1: remains being in the statue for at least a year, 566 00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:03,880 Speaker 1: and that they belong to a former pirate club member. 567 00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:08,280 Speaker 2: So I'm like, what makes you say, like, Okay, when 568 00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:10,160 Speaker 2: I die, I want to be put in the peg 569 00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:15,560 Speaker 2: leg of what's the name of this thing, peg leg Pete. 570 00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:20,360 Speaker 1: If you're in a pirate club, I'd say you're probably 571 00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:24,000 Speaker 1: interested in pirates, and that's maybe where the interest comes from. 572 00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:28,080 Speaker 2: They have to have permission because like, if this thing's 573 00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:30,200 Speaker 2: a statue, there had to be a way to access 574 00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:32,239 Speaker 2: the inside of it to put the ashes in it. 575 00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:34,440 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, Like how did it get in there? 576 00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:37,280 Speaker 2: But at the same time, they want to move it 577 00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:40,920 Speaker 2: because it's it hasn't been the whole very well. What 578 00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:43,160 Speaker 2: this is the thing? Like why do people got to 579 00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:46,200 Speaker 2: be so dramatic? Just frickin move the statue, take the 580 00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:48,720 Speaker 2: bag ashes, stick them back in and call it a day. 581 00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:50,720 Speaker 2: Like why why is there have to be meetings about 582 00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:51,760 Speaker 2: this quote? 583 00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:54,760 Speaker 1: Because it would diminish the significance of having the cremated 584 00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:56,760 Speaker 1: remains of a former Pirate Club member. 585 00:29:58,120 --> 00:30:00,880 Speaker 2: But it's going to be in with the pirate This 586 00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:04,360 Speaker 2: this is the problem. It's it's been there. 587 00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:07,240 Speaker 1: For at least forty years so and it's not holding 588 00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:10,280 Speaker 1: up very well. So it's becoming a risk to public safety. 589 00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:12,719 Speaker 1: Like the thing is crumbling, which makes me think there 590 00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:14,720 Speaker 1: might have been a hole in it somewhere for them 591 00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:17,040 Speaker 1: to dump the remains in, and that's maybe why. 592 00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:19,800 Speaker 2: Noverybody needs it. So you're saying that the Pirate Club 593 00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:23,360 Speaker 2: is still maintaining that location, but they're moving the statue. 594 00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:26,920 Speaker 1: They want to move the statue into a history museum. 595 00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:28,600 Speaker 2: I think that the guy would want to be in 596 00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:31,920 Speaker 2: the history museum in the statue. Still, he said pirate. 597 00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:35,040 Speaker 2: That's he wanted to be in the pirate. Let him 598 00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:38,200 Speaker 2: be in the pirate. There's no there's no listen, there's 599 00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:41,120 Speaker 2: still going to be a whole entire memorial of that. 600 00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:43,880 Speaker 2: And he cared about the statue not being at the 601 00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:47,360 Speaker 2: actual location of the club. Or you could get real 602 00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:49,480 Speaker 2: creative and get the bag and split it in half 603 00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:51,760 Speaker 2: and put half of it in the Pirate and the 604 00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:54,960 Speaker 2: other half at the club with a little plaque. 605 00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:57,959 Speaker 1: I just don't understand what all the drama is behind it. 606 00:30:57,960 --> 00:31:00,160 Speaker 1: It's like, just move it. It's not I don't don't 607 00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:02,080 Speaker 1: think it's that big a deal. If it's gonna crumble 608 00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:05,720 Speaker 1: like so, you'd rather have it completely fall apart, then 609 00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:06,280 Speaker 1: just move. 610 00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:10,080 Speaker 2: It next to cand that they could just ask to 611 00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:12,400 Speaker 2: make it. It's the one to make a stage difficult. 612 00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:17,560 Speaker 1: This just seems like a non problem really, I mean, 613 00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:21,240 Speaker 1: I just don't understand it. Okay, guys, we are going 614 00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:24,160 Speaker 1: to be at the Wildlife CSI at Lake Tobias, Wildlife 615 00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:28,080 Speaker 1: Park on October third, just as special guests. We're not presenters, 616 00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:30,560 Speaker 1: but it's going to be an awesome experience, of course 617 00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:33,320 Speaker 1: because it's hosted by the Mayor of Crime con herself, 618 00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:37,000 Speaker 1: Cheryl mc McCollum. And then on October eighteenth, we are 619 00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:39,120 Speaker 1: going to be at the Dark Side New Jersey Convention 620 00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:42,480 Speaker 1: in Edison. Also today's nine to eleven. So thank you 621 00:31:42,520 --> 00:31:45,960 Speaker 1: to all of our first responder and anybody that served 622 00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:48,560 Speaker 1: on that day, because I can't even imagine how horrible 623 00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:48,880 Speaker 1: that was. 624 00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:52,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's such a it's just such a crazy day. 625 00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:56,120 Speaker 2: Every single year, there's a certain vibe in the air 626 00:31:56,800 --> 00:32:00,080 Speaker 2: because it's just that time of year where it's not 627 00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:02,600 Speaker 2: really summer, but it's not really fall, but you could 628 00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:05,240 Speaker 2: tell the time like it's changing. And I just remember 629 00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:07,880 Speaker 2: that day was just it was just one of these 630 00:32:07,920 --> 00:32:12,000 Speaker 2: perfect early fall days and it's just there's just a 631 00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:14,520 Speaker 2: certain vibe in the air that always just makes me 632 00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:19,080 Speaker 2: think about that terrible, terrible day and just you know, 633 00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:22,680 Speaker 2: all of the firefighters that are still dealing with and 634 00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:25,400 Speaker 2: other first responders too that are all that are dealing 635 00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:29,120 Speaker 2: with the cancers that they got helping on that day. 636 00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:32,600 Speaker 2: Still to this day. It's just like a reminder every 637 00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:38,080 Speaker 2: single year of of it. You just can't ever move 638 00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:41,760 Speaker 2: on from it, you know, it's just terrible. 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