WEBVTT - The Game of Life and How to Play It

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning, good afternoon, good evening. You are tuned into

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<v Speaker 1>the Vitamin D with Dawn Day podcast and I am

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<v Speaker 1>your host, Dawn Day, here to get you excited about

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<v Speaker 1>your life so that you can live life on purpose

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<v Speaker 1>and for a purpose. And this is your first time

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<v Speaker 1>tuning in and welcome Vitamin D. It's upon of my name.

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<v Speaker 1>My name is Dawn and you get Vitamin D from

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<v Speaker 1>the sun. So I'm here to shed light into your life.

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<v Speaker 1>And I do this with inspirational insights and conversations with

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<v Speaker 1>celebrities and everyday people like you and me, because if

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<v Speaker 1>you want to be better and you want to do better,

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<v Speaker 1>then you're going to have to be able to see better.

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<v Speaker 1>So join me on this journey of living our best

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<v Speaker 1>lives and understanding and realizing how you are your greatest

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<v Speaker 1>ass at call it all joy. That's what I'm screaming out,

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<v Speaker 1>calling it all joy. I'm calling the joy because guess

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<v Speaker 1>what I am the host of the front page on

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<v Speaker 1>Radio Free one or two point three k J L H. Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>I took some time to get there for joy, and

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<v Speaker 1>I want to remind you that as I'm in this journey,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't say that it has been the easiest, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's me identifying what it is that I want and

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<v Speaker 1>also staying in gratitude. You know, they say, the more

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<v Speaker 1>grateful you are, the more things you have to be

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<v Speaker 1>grateful for. But one thing I've realized, even on my path,

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<v Speaker 1>and as I've talked to different friends, family members, people

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<v Speaker 1>that I know, that oftentimes, on this journey called life,

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<v Speaker 1>we have a tendency to look at other people and

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<v Speaker 1>what they're doing, checking their tempo, checking their speed, and

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<v Speaker 1>while all in all we lose our rhythm. Why is that?

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<v Speaker 1>Why do we lose focus on our most important asset,

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<v Speaker 1>which is ourselves? Now? Because we are spiritual beings having

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<v Speaker 1>a human experience, I'll say this is quite normal, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm reminded to tell you that you have to check

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<v Speaker 1>yourself before you wreck yourself. I'm looking back and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about the episode. It was actually posted on October

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<v Speaker 1>three and titled stop Comparing Yourself, and in it I

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<v Speaker 1>talked about my friend's mother who said, hey, Dawn, why

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<v Speaker 1>aren't you further than when you are right now? Dahn,

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<v Speaker 1>look at your friend. They've gotten way further than you, Dawn.

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<v Speaker 1>The people that you're with aren't gonna be with you forever. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>I could have gotten distracted and focused on that, but

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<v Speaker 1>you have to realize that timing is everything. Sometimes you

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<v Speaker 1>go through things so that you can get through the

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<v Speaker 1>other side, so that there's a better understanding of where

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<v Speaker 1>you're going. But if you're so concentrating on looking at

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<v Speaker 1>the next person, you'll miss the goal right in front

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<v Speaker 1>of you. And I remember telling her, I said, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna write space. Timing is everything because there are

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<v Speaker 1>some things that I had to get ready for. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's why I say such a time as this and

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<v Speaker 1>I can count it all joy. So I want you

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<v Speaker 1>to count it all joy, whatever it is that you're experiencing,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever it is that you're working towards, because you best

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<v Speaker 1>believe every lesson is a blessing. You just gotta hold

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<v Speaker 1>on and just remind yourself. The more grateful you are,

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<v Speaker 1>I guarantee you, the more things you have to be

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<v Speaker 1>grateful for. Gratitude is everything. Dahn day is getting paid

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<v Speaker 1>to be on the radio. Get your rightem right with me.

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<v Speaker 1>I get excited about. So I'm sitting here wonder what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna talk about, and I was taking a look

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<v Speaker 1>at this box. Jeremiah rough in the studio. It's called

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<v Speaker 1>an icebreaker starter pack and as an over or has

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<v Speaker 1>a hundred and fifty prompts in here in various categories

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<v Speaker 1>such as life, things that are random, deep experiences. If

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<v Speaker 1>you could, and of course would you'd rather, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>so let me just delving in here and see what

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<v Speaker 1>I see. And I pulled out from the Life question

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<v Speaker 1>a card it says what book has made the biggest

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<v Speaker 1>impact on your life? Immediately? The book that came to

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<v Speaker 1>mind it was a Game of Life and How to

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<v Speaker 1>Play It by Florence Scobell shin for many years, I said, Skowell,

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<v Speaker 1>but um shout out to Patty Jackson, Auntie, Patty Jackson

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<v Speaker 1>up in Philly, she said at Skobel, So the Game

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<v Speaker 1>of Life and how to Play It. I came about

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<v Speaker 1>this book when I was a senior at Howard University

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<v Speaker 1>and we had to do a practical course. And the

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<v Speaker 1>practical was basically having an internship that was an alignment

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<v Speaker 1>of whatever your major was at school. I majored in

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<v Speaker 1>TV production. I might have in business, but I was

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<v Speaker 1>all in the theater classes and all up in radio.

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<v Speaker 1>But as you know, TV is an extension of radio.

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<v Speaker 1>I say all that to say because I was currently

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<v Speaker 1>having my internship at Excellent Satellite Radio now in order

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<v Speaker 1>to graduate, uh, so that the internship counted towards my

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<v Speaker 1>practical course. They said, well, hey, you doing, why don't

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<v Speaker 1>you go ahead and film and record the interviews and

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<v Speaker 1>things that go on at the station and we can

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<v Speaker 1>include that as part of the TV practical So that

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<v Speaker 1>gave me the credit for the class. So I will

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<v Speaker 1>go to my internship, come at to class. And then

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<v Speaker 1>one day my teacher was like, oh, shout out to

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<v Speaker 1>Professor Saunders, Vicky Saunders. She said, we got to read

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<v Speaker 1>this book and it has nothing to do with television.

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<v Speaker 1>Immediately I'm tight because I'm like, why are we wasting

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<v Speaker 1>out time reading this? Little did I know that that

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<v Speaker 1>was going to be one of the best books I've

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<v Speaker 1>ever read to date. Probably it may be one of

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<v Speaker 1>the best books I've read in my life, but my

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<v Speaker 1>life and over, so I'm not gonna buckle that up yet.

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<v Speaker 1>But the book is phenomenal. And I'm sitting here and

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<v Speaker 1>I had to just do a little quick Google search

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<v Speaker 1>because I was like, I remember there were so many

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<v Speaker 1>revisions with a book, and I think it initially was

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<v Speaker 1>published and what I think, according to uh Wikipedia says

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<v Speaker 1>and in the book it was my first introduction. So

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<v Speaker 1>I guess the world of metaphysics, the whole idea of

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<v Speaker 1>speaking things into existence, the law of attraction, um understanding

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<v Speaker 1>how karma comes to play, not forcing things in our life,

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<v Speaker 1>and the power of manifestation. It's so interesting how we

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<v Speaker 1>can be so quick to block our blessings. Sometimes God

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<v Speaker 1>be like, yo, let me rain down blessings on you,

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<v Speaker 1>and the first thing we're grabbing as an umbrella. In

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<v Speaker 1>some retrospects, one can say, when we asked God to grow,

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes it rains, and this time it was raining for

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<v Speaker 1>so much information, and yet I was trying to pull

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<v Speaker 1>out my umbrella. It was this book that got me

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<v Speaker 1>on the rhythm of reading books and really understanding books.

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<v Speaker 1>So much so I actually gifted this book to a friend,

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<v Speaker 1>Chris Massey, and what this was probably don't be calculating

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<v Speaker 1>my age at least what fifteen sixteen years And he

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<v Speaker 1>still thanks me to this day for this book. And

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<v Speaker 1>I guess two things. One, check out the book. I

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<v Speaker 1>promise you're gonna thank me. I want to give you

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<v Speaker 1>a heads up. She does refer to a few things

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<v Speaker 1>in regards to religion, as as Christianity. But if you're

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<v Speaker 1>anything like me, and if you can deal with me,

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<v Speaker 1>I say you eat the meeting, you spit out the bones,

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<v Speaker 1>You take what you need to get, and you put

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<v Speaker 1>the rest out, such as the way with life. But

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<v Speaker 1>I promise you this is going to open up your

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<v Speaker 1>mind to a world of possibility that you probably had

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<v Speaker 1>no idea ever existed. And you realize this world is

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<v Speaker 1>right inside of you. It's like you have the magic

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<v Speaker 1>Wand in factually also has another book entitles Your Word

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<v Speaker 1>is Your Wand I also want to use this as

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<v Speaker 1>a moment of not only saying get the book, but

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<v Speaker 1>then also what are you blocking in your life? What

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<v Speaker 1>is there a message that somebody's trying to tell you

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<v Speaker 1>that you're trying to push away. If you just take

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<v Speaker 1>a minute to listen, to look over and to review,

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<v Speaker 1>I promise you, I bet you that you will receive something.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I can't imagine if I was so adamant and

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<v Speaker 1>so frustrated about oh not reading this book because it

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<v Speaker 1>has nothing to do with my TV practical, I probably

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't be the dawn sitting in front of you that

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<v Speaker 1>you here coming out of your speaker right now. It

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<v Speaker 1>was almost like I accepted in my power. When I

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<v Speaker 1>read that book, it was almost as though the lights

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<v Speaker 1>were cut on. You know, sometimes I feel when we're

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<v Speaker 1>in moments of despair, when we're really not feeling like

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<v Speaker 1>we're living our best lives, it's almost like living your

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<v Speaker 1>being in a room with the lights off. There's book

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<v Speaker 1>cut on the lights in my room, and rather than

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<v Speaker 1>just being in a dark room trying to get out,

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<v Speaker 1>being in the dark room, not knowing how much space

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<v Speaker 1>I have, being in the dark room and not realizing

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<v Speaker 1>the tools that I have in front of me. Now

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<v Speaker 1>I can see And what do I always say? If

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<v Speaker 1>you want to be better and you want to do better,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to be able to see better. And this

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<v Speaker 1>book allowed me to see me. It allowed me to

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<v Speaker 1>just to say, Okay, Dawn, what is it that you

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<v Speaker 1>really want and what is it that you're calling forward?

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<v Speaker 1>And understanding how important it is to choose to speak life,

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<v Speaker 1>to choose your best life, to choose your mood, to

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<v Speaker 1>choose your day, to understand that you have a cho ways.

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<v Speaker 1>I think sometimes many of us are living a life

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<v Speaker 1>of inactivity while we're allowing life to happen to us

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<v Speaker 1>versus we're happening to life. We gotta change that. You

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<v Speaker 1>know that we are artists, were created by creator. Therefore

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<v Speaker 1>we were meant to create eight guys that dating Michael,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody get your dose about him, indeed with dawn day

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<v Speaker 1>and get excited about your life. If art is life

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<v Speaker 1>and life is art, what are you painting? What is

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<v Speaker 1>your song? What colors are you using? Were palette? Where

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<v Speaker 1>is the light? But over all of that, what is

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<v Speaker 1>the vision? What's the vision you have for your life?

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<v Speaker 1>If life is a game, how would you choosing to

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<v Speaker 1>play it? See, sometimes we're dealthy's hands, and sometimes we

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<v Speaker 1>have a tendency look at someone else and thinking they

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<v Speaker 1>have a better hand versus and realizing how important it

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<v Speaker 1>is to play the hand that we're doubt. See, we

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<v Speaker 1>were equipped with various tools or whether that is to

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<v Speaker 1>have the game face on, whether that is to know

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<v Speaker 1>to play the card at a certain moment, whether that

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<v Speaker 1>is is too If I were playing space, I would

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<v Speaker 1>say to cut that book. You listen to your advantage,

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<v Speaker 1>stop feeling like you've got things missing, that you ain't

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<v Speaker 1>got it all white and understand it is a game,

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<v Speaker 1>and a game is meant to have fun. A game

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<v Speaker 1>is where you use your strategy. A game is when

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<v Speaker 1>you say, I want to make my next move my

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<v Speaker 1>best move. What is your next move? How are you

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<v Speaker 1>choosing to walk into your life? Sometimes life can be overwhelming,

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<v Speaker 1>But as my old Barbara Lewis t Palus always say,

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<v Speaker 1>the journey is the experience, and the experience is the journey.

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<v Speaker 1>We get so caught up in this journey of what

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<v Speaker 1>we think life is supposed to be like, versus just

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<v Speaker 1>sitting back and having the experience. If I got so

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<v Speaker 1>caught up in the journey of me thinking that, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>in this class, I shouldn't have this book, we don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to read it, I wouldn't be right here. But

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<v Speaker 1>instead I had to sit back and I had no

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<v Speaker 1>choice but to experience. So I want to charge you

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<v Speaker 1>to sit back and experience your life. To move forward

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<v Speaker 1>and experience your life. To listen intently and sperience your life,

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<v Speaker 1>to speak life and experience your life, realizing that you

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<v Speaker 1>can create the life that you choose to experience. What

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<v Speaker 1>is the vision you have for your life? What are

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<v Speaker 1>you accepted in your life? What's the last book you read.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, when this prompt came up, it made me think,

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta get back to reading my books. I will

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<v Speaker 1>read books all the time. It made me sayd my

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<v Speaker 1>tolls keep me well versed. It also helps with my speech.

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<v Speaker 1>So I want to employ you to read your books

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<v Speaker 1>because it was this book that led me to Russell

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<v Speaker 1>Simmons book Do You. And out of that book I

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<v Speaker 1>learned that how your ear is like an embryo. We

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<v Speaker 1>know this because we understand how important affirmations are. You

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<v Speaker 1>know me, I have life pattern in my mouth, so

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<v Speaker 1>you know how important it is to speak life. We

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<v Speaker 1>know how important is to speak life of our children

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<v Speaker 1>because what you put in your ears allows things to grow. Again,

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<v Speaker 1>I was Russell Simmons Do You. Another book that I

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<v Speaker 1>read wasn't titled A Limited Power. It was by Tony

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<v Speaker 1>Robbins and I don't know what's last thing Johnson James.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I wanna, I feel so off I can't recall

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<v Speaker 1>right now, but it was the the Black Edition, and

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<v Speaker 1>in it they talked about the tennis player, the legendary

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<v Speaker 1>Arthur Ash and it talked about the consistency and how

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<v Speaker 1>he would constantly be there and just work his moments

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<v Speaker 1>and getting his rhythm of life, and it just reminded

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<v Speaker 1>me we can't stop. You have to keep moving in

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<v Speaker 1>the rhythm of life. And once we start moving, we

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<v Speaker 1>understand how important is that we need to duck, if

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<v Speaker 1>we need to dige, if we need to ben. We

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<v Speaker 1>notice how flexible we are, and more importantly, we notice

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<v Speaker 1>how solid our core is. Because when you get to

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<v Speaker 1>the core, you get to the heart of the matter.

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<v Speaker 1>And in that book, well I got to the heart

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<v Speaker 1>of that. It was something talking about love languages. That's

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<v Speaker 1>something that stuck with me too, because it talked about

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<v Speaker 1>relationships not only just intimate but also platonic and understanding

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<v Speaker 1>people's love languages. And it gave me a sense of

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<v Speaker 1>how important it is is to make room for somebody,

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<v Speaker 1>and making room looks like even though the way I

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<v Speaker 1>may express my love may not be the way that

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<v Speaker 1>you express your love, but being able to see that

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<v Speaker 1>and seeing what we meet in the middle, I can

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<v Speaker 1>say all day and saying my affirmation is how much

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<v Speaker 1>I love you. But if you're a person that likes touch,

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<v Speaker 1>you may be saying, hey, you're not giving me that

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<v Speaker 1>warming brass. But if we make room and we take

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<v Speaker 1>no from Big Sean and understand and and co communication

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<v Speaker 1>is not always about how we talk, but how we listen.

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<v Speaker 1>We are making room to see people where they are

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<v Speaker 1>that's why relationships fall apart, not because the individual doesn't care,

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<v Speaker 1>but perhaps we aren't able to receive and to give

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<v Speaker 1>the person's appropriate love language. And not because we don't

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<v Speaker 1>time to see them almost the same as I did

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