WEBVTT - | Ep 180 | What's Your Nickname?

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect

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<v Speaker 1>Podcast Network and iHeartRadio.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shaked. Y. I am

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<v Speaker 2>Jaseelle Bryant with that.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up? I'm Robin Dixon. Thank you for being here

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<v Speaker 1>with us once again. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, reasonably shady,

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<v Speaker 1>reasonably shady, shady shady, reasonable, reasonable shady shady. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>we have things to discuss. By the way, happy sinkle

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<v Speaker 1>to my old Yes. Yes, is that the Hispanic Liberation Day?

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<v Speaker 1>I believe so?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yes, yes, it's just a day that everybody decides

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<v Speaker 2>theyre going to drink margarita, yes, quila, okay, and tacos.

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<v Speaker 2>I want y'all to give me some feedback. Love Hotel.

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<v Speaker 2>It's been tearing up Sunday nights on Bravolle. It's all

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<v Speaker 2>up in the Love Hotels. Y'all let me know whether

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<v Speaker 2>or not y'all love it hate it. I want to

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<v Speaker 2>see it again, but it's it's I'm enjoying.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm enjoying watching it good. Yeah all right, Well I

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<v Speaker 1>haven't caught it yet, yeah, but I will get up.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been I've been doing a little traveling.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, all over the place. By the way, the

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<v Speaker 2>boys basketball, Yeah, yeah, are they winning losing?

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on? Travel basketball? They're they're doing well, they're

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<v Speaker 1>doing well well.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So Kyne Anthony Anthony Carmelo son, Carmelo's son, is

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<v Speaker 2>he going Is this time for him to go to college?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>And he's going to Syracuse Yes, So he's done playing

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<v Speaker 2>this aa yeah travel stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly, yep. So he's no longer on the travel circuits.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I saw this like he got an award, he

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<v Speaker 2>got a crown or something Kayne did or yeah, mellow

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<v Speaker 2>no Kyne the Sun and he gave it to La La.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, okay, yeah, I don't know. I saw

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<v Speaker 2>that on this social media.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, you don't have played in like a game

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<v Speaker 1>and they gave them a one something. Okay, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Do y'all do make believe awards for this travel team? No? No, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>make believe. I don't know. I don't know what happens

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<v Speaker 1>on the road. No, no, no, no. So like and once

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<v Speaker 1>the kids get to high school, travel basketball is all about,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, first of all, like development and getting better,

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<v Speaker 1>but really trying to get like a college scholarship to

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<v Speaker 1>like all the college coaches come nice to the games

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff, or not all of them. But so it's

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<v Speaker 1>all about just getting exposure to college coaches so you

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<v Speaker 1>can get a college scholarship.

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<v Speaker 2>So it really doesn't matter what high school you go

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<v Speaker 2>to if you play on one of these teams.

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<v Speaker 1>Not true, hell, because high school it's still yees. So

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<v Speaker 1>the coaches they look at the players during the summer,

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<v Speaker 1>but they also want to see what you're doing during

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<v Speaker 1>your high school season. You know, they kind of go

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<v Speaker 1>hand in hand. So and I like, you bring up

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<v Speaker 1>high school. I'm like, I just have we have frustration

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<v Speaker 1>with high school basketball. I'm like, ah, so, yes, high

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<v Speaker 1>school basketball is still important, like the high school season.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so you can't blow that off. No, okay, no,

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<v Speaker 2>all right, very good. I have a shady moment. I

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<v Speaker 2>was traveling and walking the streets.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So you've seen on Instagram people that roll up on

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<v Speaker 2>you in the streets and ask you questions.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, okay, has that happened to that happened to me?

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<v Speaker 1>Did it happen? No? Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>So in New York okay, mine in my business going

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<v Speaker 2>walking in the Chelsea Market area and a guy rolls

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<v Speaker 2>up on me. So when they roll up on your

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<v Speaker 2>When this guy rolled up on me, he was walking

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<v Speaker 2>up on me fast, which is a no, no, you

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<v Speaker 2>can't do that right. That's like scary. It's like it's scary.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh what's happening.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like it's inappropriate. But that's I think part of it.

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<v Speaker 2>They gotta get you, so they got to roll upon you.

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<v Speaker 1>And he was like, hey, got to talk to you

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<v Speaker 1>for a minute. I got to talk to you for

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<v Speaker 1>a minute. I just have to ask you a question.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to ask you a question.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like no, no, no, kept walking okay. Then

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<v Speaker 2>when I had to come back, he called me again.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. He was like, can I ask you a question?

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta ask you a question.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like okay, fine, and he said, okay, fine,

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<v Speaker 2>how many pounds.

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<v Speaker 1>Is a polar bear? What?

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<v Speaker 2>Literally that's the question? How many pounds was a polar bear?

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<v Speaker 2>Is a polar bear?

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like a thousand pounds? And I kept walking. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>That was day one. Okay, day two he's out there again.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, because I think he's stopping. I think

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<v Speaker 2>it's the thing, like you stop people, you ask him

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<v Speaker 2>stupid ask question. I cannot remember what the second question was,

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<v Speaker 2>but it was something along those lines.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, there's a rattlesnak rattlesnake rattle, like.

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<v Speaker 2>It was just stupid and I was like this, can't

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<v Speaker 2>you gotta get a better day job?

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<v Speaker 1>Right? What are we doing with this information? They're trying

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<v Speaker 1>to go viral? Oh? So? I mean so you've seen

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<v Speaker 1>it on Instagram where people like you're trying to build So,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I wonder if the guy has a following. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but he's trying to either build a following or try

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<v Speaker 1>to go viral or try to you know, he's trying

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<v Speaker 1>to do something.

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<v Speaker 3>What's the last thing that made you cry?

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<v Speaker 1>Pepper Spray?

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<v Speaker 3>What's your favorite book?

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<v Speaker 1>Rocky three?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you like? Taylor Swift?

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<v Speaker 1>Taylor Swift? I love that, dude.

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<v Speaker 3>Best advice you've ever given someone?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, my boy Mike, he's a janitor, but his house

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<v Speaker 1>is dirty, so I told him we should work from home.

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<v Speaker 3>You are, that's that sound advice. What's your favorite Pokemon

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<v Speaker 3>character Lebron James?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well the Polar Bear and how much Polar Bear

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<v Speaker 2>weighs That ain't going viral?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Or maybe people's reaction to it goes viral. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>I wish I could find this. So this one guy, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a black guy. Now this is funny because it's

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, I watched one and then I end

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<v Speaker 1>up going this page and watch him more. Yeah, black guy.

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<v Speaker 1>And he's like somewhere in the South, maybe Kentucky, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, and he's stopping white people, young, young white people. Instead,

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<v Speaker 1>name your three favorite black people? And what did they say? That?

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<v Speaker 1>Like they don't know any My god, the answers are insane,

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<v Speaker 1>these two white girls, and they were like, oh god,

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<v Speaker 1>what is his name? Michael? Oh? God, like Michael Michael,

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<v Speaker 1>Michael Something King, Michael Something King, Yeah, Michael Something King,

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<v Speaker 1>Martin Luther King.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, come on, white people do better.

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<v Speaker 1>Martin lot King Jr.

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<v Speaker 3>Martha Martha.

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<v Speaker 1>Martha, Michael Martin, Michael, Michael Luther King. Yes, Michael, that

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like they got a ring too.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's go with Michael Luther King Jordan, Okay with why hand?

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<v Speaker 3>What did he do?

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<v Speaker 1>He had a dream yep about what his life? They

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<v Speaker 1>are like trying to pull something out of their ass,

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<v Speaker 1>like they are clueless. They can't even think of, you know, Beyonce.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of them said Barack Obama. Nice, that would

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<v Speaker 1>be like like choice, they like be like, oh, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's hilarious like watching them just like be stuck.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait a minute, have you seen have you seen Michelle

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<v Speaker 2>talk about not going to the Trump inauguration and how

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<v Speaker 2>she just wanted to do something for herself and blah

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<v Speaker 2>blah blah, she's choosing her. I want her to be like,

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<v Speaker 2>because we love Michelle.

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<v Speaker 1>I want her to be like because I don't like him. Exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I was like, Please say that, right, because

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<v Speaker 2>that's in my mind what it really is exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>But she harped on more so like the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>people were assuming that something was wrong with their.

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<v Speaker 2>Marriage, right, which, like, no, I didn't get that at all.

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<v Speaker 2>I felt like, you didn't go because you didn't want

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<v Speaker 2>to be sitting next to that right exactly. No, it

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't his inauguration, yeah, right at the funeral, Yeah, an

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<v Speaker 2>inauguration Jimmy Carter. Jimmy Carter is Jimmy Yeah, Jimmy HER's

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<v Speaker 2>funeral Jimmy Carter. Yeah, because you knew the seating arrangement.

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<v Speaker 1>And what's the next. I don't blame you exactly. I

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<v Speaker 1>promise you. I want to Michell to say that. Please

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<v Speaker 1>just say it, because that's better. It is it is

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<v Speaker 1>it's just them being like, oh, I want to do

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<v Speaker 1>something for myself or no, she harped on, like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>when you say no, no, no means not not no

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<v Speaker 1>means no. But like like people should be able to

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<v Speaker 1>say no, people should be able to respect your no

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<v Speaker 1>for whatever it is.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, Yeah, but I wanted it to be because he

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<v Speaker 2>because they say he smells like bad burgers.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I wanted her to say. I mean, but

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<v Speaker 1>I would have a hard time in that position going

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<v Speaker 1>to an inauguration of someone who has totally disrespected me

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<v Speaker 1>and my husband right because he ridiculed. It's like the

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<v Speaker 1>disrespect is not even based on like policies. It's it's

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<v Speaker 1>like he's like ridical ridicules or like insults or like yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, no, I don't. I don't want to be

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<v Speaker 1>in that environment. I'm not participating in that nonsense, that foolishness.

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<v Speaker 2>She should have the freedom to say that, you know, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>first of all, she'd have to say nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>But I just want her to be like because I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to right anyway, we got off track. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so shady moment for me, Okay, y'all. I really it's

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<v Speaker 1>so crazy. My brain is soaked up, Like I had

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<v Speaker 1>a shady moment, yeah, and you forgot it and I

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<v Speaker 1>totally forgot it. I cannot think of it, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>so and so. Now the guy, I don't remember your name,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't remember if you emailed or if you messaged

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<v Speaker 1>me on Instagram, but you were like, Robin, how dare

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<v Speaker 1>you not have a shady moment, because like a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of weeks ago, I didn't have a shady moment? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he was like, I mean, at least like fake one

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<v Speaker 1>or pretend one. Yes, real shady moments people do them.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, you know, our life doesn't have to be

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<v Speaker 1>shady every single week, Like something crazy doesn't have to happen.

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<v Speaker 1>Mine does. For whatever reason, you get out of the

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<v Speaker 1>house more than I do. I'm like, that's true. But

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<v Speaker 1>I do want to say there are tons. I actually

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<v Speaker 1>have tons of shady moments that I wish I could

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<v Speaker 1>share with you guys. But as a business owner, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the customer is always right, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>say tons or like I just I just have to

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<v Speaker 1>keep them to myself. Yeah, no, I get that because,

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<v Speaker 1>let me tell you, just being a business owner, you

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<v Speaker 1>meet all types of just people and encounter all types

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<v Speaker 1>of scenarios and it's quite entertaining and just interesting. But

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<v Speaker 1>I can't really can't divulge. But that's okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So I saw this Instagram post and it said deleting

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<v Speaker 2>your long paragraph and texting back okay, just okay is

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<v Speaker 2>a different kind of self control.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yes, that's me all day long. Yes, but I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so good at it at the self control. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't because I used to get the law paragraphs and

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<v Speaker 2>then I'd be like delete. I just to be like, okay, right,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have the long paragraphs no more. Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>just like okay, And I don't know, right, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>give a damn right, or I'm just I'm just self

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<v Speaker 2>control to the one hundredth power.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, I mean I yeah, I'm I think we've

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<v Speaker 1>all done that. We've all I don't know, if it's

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<v Speaker 1>a long paragraph, it just like you start trying to explain,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know what, like I don't even want to

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<v Speaker 1>do this back and forth. I don't even want to

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<v Speaker 1>lead to any more. Like discussion or confusion or whatever

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<v Speaker 1>like no, okay whatever, Yeah, it's just okay, yes, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So that has self control for sure, some people will you,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you you know of course people put on

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<v Speaker 1>Instagram like their little oh look at this scenario who's

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<v Speaker 1>right and who's wrong, and people just going back and

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<v Speaker 1>forth and back and forth and back and forth, and.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like okay, yeah, so so remember how you were

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<v Speaker 2>about to block your brother. Yes, but you wrote a text.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah that was like wild. Yeah, you could have just

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<v Speaker 2>said okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I had tried that. I think I had

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<v Speaker 1>tried that, and he kept coming at me, and then

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<v Speaker 1>that's when I'm like, wow, that's so, that's when it's funny.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's like, so when you hit okay and then

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<v Speaker 1>the persons still coming at you, then that's when it's on.

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<v Speaker 1>You might lose your self control, ess self control in

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<v Speaker 1>the trash can. I said, okay, okay, so did you

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<v Speaker 1>successfully finish a couple more episodes of White Lotus. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>trying really yes, it is like, okay, have you watched

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<v Speaker 1>one and two? Yes? But so yes I watched one

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<v Speaker 1>and two. Okay, I don't remember anything that happened on one.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even remember who was on one, that's fine. Two.

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<v Speaker 1>The only thing I remember is the last the you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the the boats that Jennifer Coolidge, Yes, is that her name? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So so you know the Jennifer's husband who killed her. Yes, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>So in number three, White Lotus three, you know his house? Yes, Robi,

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<v Speaker 2>you can stay in that house. I didn't realize it

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<v Speaker 2>was this big. Oh my, thirteen thousand dollars a night,

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<v Speaker 2>thirteen points?

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<v Speaker 1>Are they like rent? So you can rent that? You

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<v Speaker 1>can rent it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's beautiful, freaking beautiful, and it's probably.

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<v Speaker 1>Ten bedrooms or something something crazy. It's beautiful. It's definitely beautiful,

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<v Speaker 1>eight bedrooms, a bath, Okay, it has a staff and

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<v Speaker 1>all that, like all.

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<v Speaker 2>That golf beach, it's like a man made beach. You

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<v Speaker 2>got a sports court, a sports court, spa room, you

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<v Speaker 2>got three pools, you got all things. So I'm just

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<v Speaker 2>noting y'all know that it is available for rents. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>just that when I get a dime out of this.

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<v Speaker 2>But the the that place where he stayed on White Lotus, Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>so that's a really nice all right. I want to

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<v Speaker 2>give a shout out to Pat McGrath, who is now

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<v Speaker 2>the first beauty icon to lead Louis Vuitton's cosmetic and

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<v Speaker 2>she's now gonna be a cosmetic creative director. Okay, Pat

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<v Speaker 2>McGrath is you know, I love her stuff for something.

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<v Speaker 2>It's absolutely amazing. She's been in the business forever and

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<v Speaker 2>so yeah, she's gonna be their creative director.

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<v Speaker 1>So wait, is this a new venture for Louis Baittan?

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<v Speaker 1>Do that? Have they always had cosmetics? Yeah? Haven't they?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. So it's like why and so okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so what do you mean she's the first she's going, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>she's the first black Oh okay, okay, yes, okay, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, okay, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Forgot that that word. Ok Yes, she's black, y'all and

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<v Speaker 2>she's amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So I just want to give her a shout out.

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<v Speaker 2>And then last, but not least, Okay, So you have

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<v Speaker 2>to Okay, I'm gonna read some things and then you

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<v Speaker 2>have to think about who we left out.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you ready? How I dress black men over fifty

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<v Speaker 1>depends on a tire. Okay. So if he has on sweatpants,

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<v Speaker 1>we call him coach. Okay, I saw this.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, if he has on linen player, right, if he

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<v Speaker 2>has on linen with a gold chain, he played player? Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>he has on jeans, big dog. Okay, he has on

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<v Speaker 2>a suit rev Okay, but also like suited and booted,

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<v Speaker 2>could be unk?

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<v Speaker 1>No, unc is socks and sandals? Okay, that's un Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I can go is chief chief? Like chief? Hey?

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<v Speaker 3>Chief?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, okay, So who do we miss over fifty?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean at this point, some of these men over

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<v Speaker 1>fifty still look young. So what about like where's the

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<v Speaker 1>bro or young blood? Yeah? Like okay, so Bra would

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<v Speaker 1>be I think that like Bruh is like the sweatpants, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, sweatpants, not coach. No he's not.

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<v Speaker 1>He's not. He's not coach. Mm hmm okay, so he's Bra. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Who else is there? So church shoes? I think that's pops?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yes, pops. Okay, I feel like suitan in booted.

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<v Speaker 2>If you suited and booted, I might call you king,

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<v Speaker 2>like there's a king. I wouldn't give that to I

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<v Speaker 2>can't just get that to all revs.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, no, no, it's well, it depends on the suit.

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<v Speaker 1>If it's a big baggy suit, then I'd be like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's REV. But if it's like a sharp tailored suit, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>then what is that sharp tailing suit? Is King?

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<v Speaker 3>King?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Okay? Or is that REV? That's not REV? That's

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<v Speaker 1>not right?

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<v Speaker 2>No, if you have no, if you have on a

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<v Speaker 2>pimp suit, yes, that's REV. Right, yes, exactly. And for

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<v Speaker 2>y'all know what pimpsuit suits are. They're like a suit

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<v Speaker 2>that's probably orange, and your shoes are orange too, and

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<v Speaker 2>they're gators. Okay, and you come from Detroit. So that's yeah, right,

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<v Speaker 2>we cover them all. I'm trying to think like other ones. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>uh yeah, I think we covered them all.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, yeah, I love that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's like absolutely hilarious. Okay, so we got some

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<v Speaker 2>stuff to read.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, so so we have some people who

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<v Speaker 1>wrote in all right, A lot of people responded to

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<v Speaker 1>this A couple episodes ago. I said, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>often have the question of like why do people have

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<v Speaker 1>a baby on board sticker? Like what is the point? Yes? Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of people responded, So just gonna read one.

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<v Speaker 1>This is from Logan HM. She says, Hi, Giselle and Robin,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm new to writing into podcasts, but not new to listening.

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<v Speaker 1>I binge watched The Real Housewis of Potomac and was

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<v Speaker 1>so sad to finish it as well as see Robin go.

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<v Speaker 1>So I had to find your pod. Okay, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>Logan for joining us. Not sure if you'll get this,

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<v Speaker 1>but I listened to your Bras and Toes pod today

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<v Speaker 1>and was bus laughing hearing your comments about baby on

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<v Speaker 1>board stickers. I'd like to say I've used those stickers

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit out of excitement, like Giselle said, and

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<v Speaker 1>wanting everyone to know, but also to inform first responders

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<v Speaker 1>in case of an accident, and I placed the sticker

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<v Speaker 1>on the side of the car where my child's car

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<v Speaker 1>seat is placed. Although my husband ridicules the stickers because

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<v Speaker 1>he is convinced hundreds of bad drivers put them on

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<v Speaker 1>their cars so people don't get mad when they've up. Anyway, right, anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all are so entertaining. Thanks for your hard work, ladies,

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<v Speaker 1>Sending lots of love. So a lot of people wrote

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<v Speaker 1>in and said it's for verse responders that when people

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<v Speaker 1>get in an accident, you know, sometimes the baby, the

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<v Speaker 1>baby can be ejected, or you know, you just just

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<v Speaker 1>for them to know that there's a baby on board

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<v Speaker 1>that's smart. So I believe, yes, that is probably the

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<v Speaker 1>purpose of them, But I still don't think that's the

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<v Speaker 1>reason why most people put them on their car. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like most people don't get them for that purpose,

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<v Speaker 1>do you know what I mean? Like, yeah, I know.

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<v Speaker 2>I think they're excited, Yeah, because they have they have

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<v Speaker 2>they just got a baby. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 2>it's right. They just went But and so they don't

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<v Speaker 2>even know the purpose of the stick, right, matchmaking, we

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<v Speaker 2>didn't talk about that.

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<v Speaker 1>So all of our matches have been matched. So we

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<v Speaker 1>so we went through all the submissions for matchmaking. We

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<v Speaker 1>matched people who we thought were good matches and then

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<v Speaker 1>and they've been notified, and they've been notified send emails

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<v Speaker 1>to everyone. We also email people that we weren't able

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<v Speaker 1>to match, yes, just telling them, you know, thank you,

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<v Speaker 1>and hopefully, you know, maybe if we're doing in the future,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll find someone for them. So yeah, okay, So if

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<v Speaker 1>you submitted something to matchmaking, you haven't checked your emails,

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<v Speaker 1>please check your emails because it's date right, because the

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<v Speaker 1>love of your life might be waiting for you in

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<v Speaker 1>your email. But it's funny because we've already had some

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<v Speaker 1>people be like, yeah, no, I don't I'll pass y'all

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<v Speaker 1>ain't right, right, Why did you even go through the process? Right? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we want to we want to marry somebody, right, but

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<v Speaker 1>we have people like, yes, they're excited. So yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>we'll see how that like.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so we'll keep y'all posted on that, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>I have Hi, Robin and Gazelle. This is from sam A.

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<v Speaker 2>Now listen, this is my second time right now, so

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<v Speaker 2>let's hope this one.

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<v Speaker 1>Is a winner. How shady, but it's okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I had to pop back in because Robin, it would

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<v Speaker 2>your birthday and that deserves a shout out.

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<v Speaker 1>Happy birthday, queen, Thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope you live in your best life, reasonably or no,

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<v Speaker 2>reasonably and shady as ever. Now, y'all had the most

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<v Speaker 2>iconic chat with chat GPT the other day.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I had, he had it?

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<v Speaker 3>He had?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I don't even how do you do that? You

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<v Speaker 1>have a chat with chat GPT? Yes you can have

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<v Speaker 1>you have you ventured on the chat gibt?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so you're gonna talk to it? It talks back.

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<v Speaker 1>Will you type in a question? And then and it

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<v Speaker 1>tells you the answer. Oh yeah, okay, so and you

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<v Speaker 1>can like keep going back and forth.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh really, so I can just have a conversation with

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<v Speaker 2>the computer.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So what do I need a man for?

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<v Speaker 3>Did y?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes? Yes, yes? Why do I need a man in

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<v Speaker 1>my life? If I want to have chat ChiPT? Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so it says, yes, I talked to AI now

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<v Speaker 2>and I know you do too.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, apparently I'm going to start. I'm gonna start today.

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<v Speaker 1>T ain't twenty five as wild. Now.

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<v Speaker 2>We somehow got into a whole thing about tariffs, and

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<v Speaker 2>I said, explain it to me in real Housewives of

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<v Speaker 2>Potomac terms. I know that's right, baby, When I tell

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<v Speaker 2>you it said, a tariff is like when Karen Huger

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<v Speaker 2>throws a party and she starts slapping local taxes on

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<v Speaker 2>Wendy's candles.

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<v Speaker 1>Shade and taxes. I screamed, Okay, that is all that is, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>Chat GPT is everything everything Like that's insane. Okay, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just don't care random stuff you can ask chat chat

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<v Speaker 1>chat cheep. Okay, So our next episode we're gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>talking to chat cheept okay, GPT, yeah, GEPT Okay, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>just We'll just ask you a question and see what

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<v Speaker 1>random question. Yeah, we have to set that up though, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>but so okay, So thank you Sam A.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm I'm very intrigued and I'm gonna get I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>get to chatting. I don't know what I'm what we're

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<v Speaker 2>talking about, but I'm gonna get to chatting.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that.

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<v Speaker 2>Not just said Karen is is throwing shade at Wendy's

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<v Speaker 2>candles of the Texas.

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<v Speaker 1>How Larry is like how did it get there? That

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<v Speaker 1>is so yes, crazy, funny. Okay, this is a question

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<v Speaker 1>from Danny. Danny says, hello, just all Robin, greetings from Taiwan, Taiwan. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>like Vietnam. Is that women? And where's Taiwan? It's in Asia,

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<v Speaker 1>not women? Women? Okay, let's ask chat GPT Wait, so okay,

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<v Speaker 1>where is Taiwan? I'm not asking ch Oh, you're not okay.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a country. It's an island in East Asia, specifically

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<v Speaker 1>located in the Western Pacific Ocean off the coast of

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<v Speaker 1>southeast southeastern China. Is situated between East China see and

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<v Speaker 1>South China's okay, okay, so Vietnam has nothing to do

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<v Speaker 1>with this. It's officially the Republic of China. What Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's part of China. Okay. So, so Taiwan listens to

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<v Speaker 1>recently shady Yeah, hey, hey, I'm here for this right Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I love it. I love okay, and now we know

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<v Speaker 1>where it is. I don't even know if it's which

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<v Speaker 1>country runs Taiwan. Yes, the People's Republic of China. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a property of China. Yes, and now and now

0:23:15.760 --> 0:23:17.359
<v Speaker 1>we know where it is. Yeah, yeah, I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll have to go. Sorry Danny that we're so ignorant,

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<v Speaker 1>but we appreciate you for listening from Taiwan.

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<v Speaker 2>Side note on Love Hotel, there was a guy from

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<v Speaker 2>Rhode Island and I didn't know where that was.

0:23:27.920 --> 0:23:30.760
<v Speaker 1>So like, no clue. Well, I know it's up.

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<v Speaker 2>There, yeah right, So I didn't. I don't know anything.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know the exact the layout. Yeah, like outside

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<v Speaker 2>of Connecticut. So I know how to get all the

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<v Speaker 2>way up to Connecticut. Uh huh, I'm done. Okay, So

0:23:43.480 --> 0:23:46.480
<v Speaker 2>I don't know Maine is up there, Maine, Rhode Island,

0:23:46.560 --> 0:23:47.920
<v Speaker 2>Vermont is in that order.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I just know they're up there. I

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<v Speaker 1>think may might be at the top. Maybe Maye is

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<v Speaker 1>not at the top because we drove it's not. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think so. Actually listening, I don't know anything above.

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<v Speaker 2>I think Vermont is that mass Sorry guys, Yeah, tot

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<v Speaker 2>know the order? Yeah, yeah, that's funny.

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<v Speaker 1>But then how is Toronto? How is Ontario? Maybe it's

0:24:12.680 --> 0:24:14.760
<v Speaker 1>just the way New York is shaped. You drive through

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<v Speaker 1>New York to get to Ontario. To Canada, list Quebec

0:24:19.680 --> 0:24:23.160
<v Speaker 1>and then there's Ontario. Quebec is on the west coast?

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<v Speaker 1>Or father, can you read the next thing?

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<v Speaker 2>Because we're making ourselves look real dumb, we are, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>all right, Danny, He says.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a huge fan of the podcast, always listening while driving.

0:24:33.040 --> 0:24:35.920
<v Speaker 1>My husband actually introduced me to the Real Housewives franchise,

0:24:36.359 --> 0:24:39.919
<v Speaker 1>and rhop quickly became my absolute favorite. You two are

0:24:39.960 --> 0:24:43.399
<v Speaker 1>also my number one housewives. Yay. Hey, I love the

0:24:43.440 --> 0:24:46.440
<v Speaker 1>fund shade, the real life stories and the laughs you bring.

0:24:46.880 --> 0:24:48.600
<v Speaker 1>Thank you for sharing your joy with us every week. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So I have a little question about my husband that

0:24:51.000 --> 0:24:54.159
<v Speaker 1>I love your opinion on. Okay, We've been married for

0:24:54.200 --> 0:24:57.080
<v Speaker 1>almost six years now, and he's been living in Taiwan

0:24:57.200 --> 0:25:01.560
<v Speaker 1>for over seven years. However, he's still not fluent in Mandarin.

0:25:02.240 --> 0:25:05.600
<v Speaker 1>I totally understand Mandarin can be a tough language to learn,

0:25:05.760 --> 0:25:09.280
<v Speaker 1>especially with all of the tones. I'll admit I always

0:25:09.280 --> 0:25:12.720
<v Speaker 1>speak English to him, help him do the translation. And

0:25:12.760 --> 0:25:15.960
<v Speaker 1>Taiwan is a pretty English friendly place, which makes things

0:25:16.000 --> 0:25:19.720
<v Speaker 1>even is easier for him. What's the beef? So we will?

0:25:19.760 --> 0:25:22.080
<v Speaker 1>And then he says, will Jaselle consider stopping by Taiwan

0:25:22.160 --> 0:25:26.359
<v Speaker 1>when traveling to Japan? Is it close? I wonder if

0:25:26.359 --> 0:25:29.359
<v Speaker 1>it's close? I think it is. It must be. Well, no, what,

0:25:29.480 --> 0:25:30.520
<v Speaker 1>you're over there? You're over there?

0:25:30.960 --> 0:25:31.240
<v Speaker 3>Okay?

0:25:31.440 --> 0:25:34.879
<v Speaker 1>Right, okay, all right, yes, tell him I'm stopping by okay, yeah, yes.

0:25:35.240 --> 0:25:37.800
<v Speaker 1>So he always says he's too afraid of messing up

0:25:37.840 --> 0:25:41.199
<v Speaker 1>the tones to practice more. But honestly, sometimes feels like

0:25:41.480 --> 0:25:44.480
<v Speaker 1>I sometimes feel like he's just a little too spoiled

0:25:44.600 --> 0:25:46.840
<v Speaker 1>by me and the environment, and maybe that's why he

0:25:46.880 --> 0:25:50.400
<v Speaker 1>hasn't pushed himself harder to learn. So what do you think?

0:25:50.520 --> 0:25:52.920
<v Speaker 1>Is he being reasonable or is he being a little

0:25:52.920 --> 0:25:55.200
<v Speaker 1>bit shady? Can't wait to hear your thought. I think

0:25:55.200 --> 0:25:58.080
<v Speaker 1>what's well? Who wrote that? Danny? I think Danny's being shady.

0:25:58.600 --> 0:26:02.040
<v Speaker 1>I think Danny's being unrealistic.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yes, Well, because it's one thing, if I'm in

0:26:05.680 --> 0:26:09.400
<v Speaker 2>a country and they don't speak English, right, then I'm

0:26:09.480 --> 0:26:12.560
<v Speaker 2>forced to learn the language.

0:26:12.640 --> 0:26:12.840
<v Speaker 1>Right.

0:26:12.840 --> 0:26:16.160
<v Speaker 2>But if Danny is speaking English and everybody else around

0:26:16.240 --> 0:26:19.240
<v Speaker 2>is speaking English, why am I learning man the hardest

0:26:19.320 --> 0:26:23.240
<v Speaker 2>language to learn right outside of like Latin, right, Like, No, yeah,

0:26:23.240 --> 0:26:23.720
<v Speaker 2>that's the part.

0:26:23.760 --> 0:26:25.639
<v Speaker 1>It's like, I know, this is a really hard language

0:26:25.640 --> 0:26:28.320
<v Speaker 1>to learn, and then you have the issue with the

0:26:28.400 --> 0:26:32.400
<v Speaker 1>different tones and all that. So I think danny're being

0:26:32.440 --> 0:26:35.720
<v Speaker 1>a little unrealistic to think, especially an adults, and it's

0:26:35.720 --> 0:26:38.320
<v Speaker 1>harder for an adult to learn a new language than

0:26:38.400 --> 0:26:40.919
<v Speaker 1>like a child. They say children can learn quick. New

0:26:41.000 --> 0:26:43.360
<v Speaker 1>language is a lot quicker. So I think once you're

0:26:43.359 --> 0:26:47.040
<v Speaker 1>an adult and you're like used to speaking English and

0:26:47.080 --> 0:26:49.439
<v Speaker 1>you have English all around you, I think it's probably

0:26:49.480 --> 0:26:52.400
<v Speaker 1>super hard for him to learn Mandarin. Now, if that's

0:26:52.400 --> 0:26:56.240
<v Speaker 1>something that's important to you, Danny, then maybe it's a

0:26:56.280 --> 0:27:00.439
<v Speaker 1>conversation and maybe you just do a little bit of

0:27:00.520 --> 0:27:06.040
<v Speaker 1>like what's those like language programs Rosetta Stone, Yeah, like

0:27:06.040 --> 0:27:08.960
<v Speaker 1>a little Rosetta Stone here and there, and maybe you

0:27:09.000 --> 0:27:11.440
<v Speaker 1>do a little practicing. But I don't think you can

0:27:11.480 --> 0:27:15.119
<v Speaker 1>expect him to just like, No, I don't think you

0:27:15.119 --> 0:27:18.760
<v Speaker 1>should expect him to take the initiative to learn the language. No, well,

0:27:18.920 --> 0:27:21.600
<v Speaker 1>if you're making it comfortable for him, like why do

0:27:21.640 --> 0:27:22.520
<v Speaker 1>I need to learn? Right?

0:27:22.800 --> 0:27:26.040
<v Speaker 2>And but and I don't think it even speaks to

0:27:27.160 --> 0:27:29.320
<v Speaker 2>because I'm sure Danny's like, well, you don't care, you

0:27:29.359 --> 0:27:31.800
<v Speaker 2>won't learn it, don't. I don't think it's that right,

0:27:31.960 --> 0:27:34.600
<v Speaker 2>I think he the guy does care. Seven years is

0:27:34.640 --> 0:27:36.639
<v Speaker 2>a long time. You haven't picked up nothing, I know.

0:27:36.880 --> 0:27:38.560
<v Speaker 1>And that's the thing. So I'm like, maybe make this

0:27:38.640 --> 0:27:40.679
<v Speaker 1>like a fun thing, yeah, games, like make it a

0:27:40.720 --> 0:27:41.160
<v Speaker 1>sex game.

0:27:41.240 --> 0:27:44.320
<v Speaker 2>Yes, there, you tell me all the body parts you

0:27:44.359 --> 0:27:45.080
<v Speaker 2>want me to suck?

0:27:45.240 --> 0:27:47.680
<v Speaker 1>Right? Yeah? Yes? Yeah, So no, I don't think he's

0:27:47.680 --> 0:27:50.680
<v Speaker 1>being shady, not being shady. Danny might be a little unrealistic.

0:27:50.760 --> 0:27:53.000
<v Speaker 1>But I also think y'all can find a happy medium

0:27:53.000 --> 0:27:55.440
<v Speaker 1>where yeah, he tries to learn a little bit here

0:27:55.440 --> 0:27:58.600
<v Speaker 1>and there, but don't expect him to like be fluent. No.

0:27:59.080 --> 0:28:03.159
<v Speaker 1>And I can just imagine writing it, right, yeah, is

0:28:03.200 --> 0:28:04.919
<v Speaker 1>it the symbols? I believe?

0:28:04.960 --> 0:28:11.280
<v Speaker 2>So yeah, yeah, yeah, that's impressive right yeah. Okay, And

0:28:11.520 --> 0:28:14.000
<v Speaker 2>from what I understand, Mandarin is a language that if

0:28:14.000 --> 0:28:15.840
<v Speaker 2>you're really not using it all the time, you're going

0:28:15.880 --> 0:28:18.600
<v Speaker 2>to lose it. There's a guy that I know, actually

0:28:18.600 --> 0:28:23.880
<v Speaker 2>it's a friend's son who speaks Mandarin, and but he

0:28:23.960 --> 0:28:27.200
<v Speaker 2>constantly has to take Mandarin class, okay to make sure

0:28:27.240 --> 0:28:29.359
<v Speaker 2>he stays up on it. Yeah, yeah, because he's not

0:28:29.720 --> 0:28:31.760
<v Speaker 2>He works in New York. He's not speaking Mandarin.

0:28:32.119 --> 0:28:33.720
<v Speaker 1>Like where are you speaking him? Yes, he's going to

0:28:33.760 --> 0:28:36.919
<v Speaker 1>like Chinatown or something. Do they speak it there? I

0:28:36.920 --> 0:28:39.240
<v Speaker 1>would think so, Like, I mean if he's intentional, so

0:28:39.280 --> 0:28:42.640
<v Speaker 1>say you go to a Chinese restaurant work there, yeah,

0:28:42.760 --> 0:28:46.400
<v Speaker 1>or speaking Mandarin and he's that's his the opportunity to

0:28:46.560 --> 0:28:48.840
<v Speaker 1>just speak it, knock it out. Speaking of restaurants in

0:28:48.840 --> 0:28:53.200
<v Speaker 1>New York, have you been a Carbone? No? Geez sah?

0:28:53.680 --> 0:28:56.800
<v Speaker 2>So I was in New York. Yeah with Portia. We

0:28:56.840 --> 0:29:00.480
<v Speaker 2>did watch What Happens Live, and I think.

0:29:00.320 --> 0:29:03.360
<v Speaker 1>I had been a carbone. I had not been in years.

0:29:04.160 --> 0:29:05.840
<v Speaker 2>I can't to the point where it's like I really

0:29:05.840 --> 0:29:14.040
<v Speaker 2>couldn't remember the experience. So we of course went out afterwards.

0:29:14.120 --> 0:29:17.760
<v Speaker 2>And it's so funny because we and port were talking

0:29:17.760 --> 0:29:20.360
<v Speaker 2>to Angie. They probably didn't show this, and he was like,

0:29:20.360 --> 0:29:22.440
<v Speaker 2>are y'all going out afterwards? Because me and Porscha Boss

0:29:22.440 --> 0:29:24.840
<v Speaker 2>had on our little booty dresses and everything, and we

0:29:24.840 --> 0:29:27.320
<v Speaker 2>were like, yeah, we're going out, and so he was

0:29:27.600 --> 0:29:30.120
<v Speaker 2>so we told him where and he was like, yeah,

0:29:30.200 --> 0:29:32.600
<v Speaker 2>the two of y'all gonna walk into Carbone and we

0:29:32.600 --> 0:29:34.120
<v Speaker 2>were like yeah, Angie, and.

0:29:34.080 --> 0:29:36.040
<v Speaker 1>Then I said, Annie, you want to come, and he

0:29:36.160 --> 0:29:37.240
<v Speaker 1>was like okay.

0:29:37.280 --> 0:29:38.880
<v Speaker 2>And then I was like, oh, no, never mind, because

0:29:38.880 --> 0:29:41.440
<v Speaker 2>then you're going to attract gay attention.

0:29:41.960 --> 0:29:43.920
<v Speaker 1>We want straight men coming to the table. We do

0:29:44.000 --> 0:29:47.240
<v Speaker 1>not write any men that don't want us.

0:29:47.880 --> 0:29:50.880
<v Speaker 2>So he was like I get invited and rejected in

0:29:50.920 --> 0:29:51.680
<v Speaker 2>the same sentence.

0:29:51.760 --> 0:29:54.360
<v Speaker 1>I was like, yes, anyway, we had a beautiful time.

0:29:54.560 --> 0:29:58.320
<v Speaker 1>But like the food there is sick but you kid,

0:29:58.440 --> 0:30:01.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't feel like I don't remember, so the Rigatoni

0:30:01.720 --> 0:30:02.560
<v Speaker 1>is on another level.

0:30:03.320 --> 0:30:07.040
<v Speaker 2>The meatballs, which I don't really eat meatballs, but I'm

0:30:07.040 --> 0:30:10.640
<v Speaker 2>like craving them a lot more. I got lobster froy diabolo,

0:30:11.000 --> 0:30:16.360
<v Speaker 2>which was fantastic. Course you got some some sort of steaks.

0:30:16.360 --> 0:30:19.840
<v Speaker 2>Situation great. My food, I mean my fork was all

0:30:19.880 --> 0:30:22.880
<v Speaker 2>on her plate. Erica came with us, she got some

0:30:23.000 --> 0:30:27.560
<v Speaker 2>chicken something. Everything was fanlt like I want to go back.

0:30:28.440 --> 0:30:35.040
<v Speaker 2>So Carbone and everybody that raps about Carbone that drake yes, yes, yes, lived.

0:30:34.920 --> 0:30:35.280
<v Speaker 1>Up to it.

0:30:35.320 --> 0:30:39.440
<v Speaker 2>And then there was like rappers ish coming in there

0:30:39.520 --> 0:30:41.120
<v Speaker 2>were there was a woman that.

0:30:41.200 --> 0:30:44.480
<v Speaker 1>Was like an actress.

0:30:45.440 --> 0:30:47.040
<v Speaker 2>I don't can't remember, I don't know who she is,

0:30:47.040 --> 0:30:48.280
<v Speaker 2>but I know she's an actress.

0:30:48.600 --> 0:30:52.240
<v Speaker 1>She was like waving to me. Okay, I felt it

0:30:52.360 --> 0:30:56.400
<v Speaker 1>very important, okay, spot all right, yeah, carbon So hey, guys,

0:30:56.400 --> 0:30:59.360
<v Speaker 1>when y'all know that Shelle's in New York, hang out

0:30:59.360 --> 0:31:03.000
<v Speaker 1>at Carbone. Okay, Well, but it's hard to get a reservation. Yeah,

0:31:03.040 --> 0:31:05.920
<v Speaker 1>so yeah, I think we had to pull some tricks.

0:31:05.960 --> 0:31:08.640
<v Speaker 2>Okay, by the way, like a lot of those restaurants

0:31:08.720 --> 0:31:11.600
<v Speaker 2>that have that reputation. Yeah, the food isn't good, right,

0:31:12.320 --> 0:31:15.840
<v Speaker 2>it's all right, Carbonus good yes, okay. So Billy Barry says,

0:31:16.680 --> 0:31:19.960
<v Speaker 2>good morning, ladies. So, for whatever reason, I just realized

0:31:20.000 --> 0:31:21.520
<v Speaker 2>I never finished episode one.

0:31:21.440 --> 0:31:24.920
<v Speaker 1>Sixty eight, Robin, what episode is this?

0:31:28.240 --> 0:31:30.560
<v Speaker 2>We have no idea what a number of episodes match

0:31:30.680 --> 0:31:31.240
<v Speaker 2>up to whatever?

0:31:31.520 --> 0:31:32.880
<v Speaker 1>Okay, he says.

0:31:32.920 --> 0:31:35.400
<v Speaker 2>I was driving to work this morning while you were

0:31:35.480 --> 0:31:38.280
<v Speaker 2>talking about B, and it reminded me, what's what's B?

0:31:38.560 --> 0:31:38.960
<v Speaker 1>Beyonce?

0:31:39.240 --> 0:31:42.120
<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, and it reminded me when she came through

0:31:42.200 --> 0:31:44.960
<v Speaker 2>for the Renaissance Okay, yeah, we were talking about Beyonce

0:31:45.080 --> 0:31:47.400
<v Speaker 2>and he reminded me when she came through for the

0:31:47.440 --> 0:31:48.520
<v Speaker 2>Renaissance World tour.

0:31:48.600 --> 0:31:51.600
<v Speaker 1>My husband and I had to go. She asked us

0:31:51.640 --> 0:31:53.440
<v Speaker 1>to wear silver, so I showed up in my silver

0:31:53.480 --> 0:31:57.640
<v Speaker 1>sequence tank top, blank jeans. Just to interrupt. I believe

0:31:57.680 --> 0:32:01.920
<v Speaker 1>this is one eighty no way, okay, one okay? So

0:32:01.920 --> 0:32:04.560
<v Speaker 1>so twelve episodes ago, we have no idea what we

0:32:04.560 --> 0:32:07.040
<v Speaker 1>were talking about. No club, yes, but let's let's go.

0:32:07.160 --> 0:32:08.040
<v Speaker 1>Let's keep it going, okay.

0:32:08.120 --> 0:32:11.120
<v Speaker 2>So she asked us to wear silver, so I showed

0:32:11.160 --> 0:32:14.440
<v Speaker 2>up with my silver sequince tank top, black jeans, high heeled,

0:32:14.480 --> 0:32:16.600
<v Speaker 2>black combat boots, and black for door.

0:32:17.240 --> 0:32:19.440
<v Speaker 1>Yes, yes, we need a picture. Why don't you put

0:32:19.440 --> 0:32:21.000
<v Speaker 1>a picture? You better work that.

0:32:21.400 --> 0:32:26.000
<v Speaker 2>Yes, I went all out with a smoky eye, silver

0:32:26.080 --> 0:32:27.920
<v Speaker 2>glitter lashes, and liner.

0:32:28.040 --> 0:32:28.320
<v Speaker 3>Girl.

0:32:28.440 --> 0:32:32.040
<v Speaker 1>I thought I was it. Billy, I'm gonna tell you

0:32:32.040 --> 0:32:35.320
<v Speaker 1>you were it. Okay, So, yes, you were it. And

0:32:35.360 --> 0:32:39.160
<v Speaker 1>by the way, her tour started by now oh okay,

0:32:39.240 --> 0:32:44.280
<v Speaker 1>her tour started on April twenty eighth. Okay, so so beyond.

0:32:44.320 --> 0:32:46.720
<v Speaker 1>But Beyonce hasn't told us what to wear yet? Right exactly?

0:32:46.880 --> 0:32:48.560
<v Speaker 1>So when is she gonna let us know? Because I

0:32:48.560 --> 0:32:49.640
<v Speaker 1>got to yeah.

0:32:50.080 --> 0:32:52.280
<v Speaker 2>Amazon together, right, because they can be come from Amazon,

0:32:52.240 --> 0:32:53.440
<v Speaker 2>because I'll wear it that one day.

0:32:53.920 --> 0:32:55.120
<v Speaker 1>Okay, mind you.

0:32:55.680 --> 0:32:58.520
<v Speaker 2>I was a forty three year old gay, white man

0:32:58.760 --> 0:33:01.240
<v Speaker 2>at the time and my husband we at the time.

0:33:01.360 --> 0:33:06.080
<v Speaker 2>At the time, my husband and now he's not at

0:33:06.080 --> 0:33:10.880
<v Speaker 2>the time, he's still gay and white. Who's black? He said,

0:33:11.120 --> 0:33:14.200
<v Speaker 2>he's with his husband who's black. FYI took one look

0:33:14.240 --> 0:33:16.400
<v Speaker 2>at me and said, you sure want to wear you?

0:33:16.560 --> 0:33:18.120
<v Speaker 2>Are you sure you want to wear those shoes? And

0:33:18.200 --> 0:33:23.440
<v Speaker 2>I was like, baby, I got this, mind you. The shoes, remember,

0:33:23.920 --> 0:33:28.280
<v Speaker 2>were high heel, black collar. I don't even know they

0:33:28.320 --> 0:33:30.640
<v Speaker 2>make that, right, high heel black collar.

0:33:31.360 --> 0:33:36.040
<v Speaker 1>Hell, listen, Billy, you were doing it. Okay, Well we

0:33:36.080 --> 0:33:38.920
<v Speaker 1>get there in the venue. It's miles from the parking lot.

0:33:39.400 --> 0:33:41.760
<v Speaker 2>I barely made it. By the end of the night.

0:33:41.840 --> 0:33:45.560
<v Speaker 2>My lashes were hanging on for deal life. My makeup

0:33:45.600 --> 0:33:47.120
<v Speaker 2>had melted, and I looked.

0:33:46.880 --> 0:33:49.880
<v Speaker 1>Like a total hot mess. I believe it. But it

0:33:49.960 --> 0:33:50.920
<v Speaker 1>was worth every second.

0:33:51.800 --> 0:33:56.880
<v Speaker 2>That's it, right, yes, Billy, Because I can envision this

0:33:57.040 --> 0:33:57.920
<v Speaker 2>was so descriptive.

0:33:57.960 --> 0:34:01.040
<v Speaker 1>I can envision all of that yes, it's traumatic for him.

0:34:01.320 --> 0:34:03.880
<v Speaker 1>That was like he knew he was doing the damn thing.

0:34:04.280 --> 0:34:06.240
<v Speaker 1>And then by the end of the night he was like,

0:34:06.440 --> 0:34:07.520
<v Speaker 1>he was like, get me out of here.

0:34:08.200 --> 0:34:11.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so we have to pace ourselves with the cowboy

0:34:11.640 --> 0:34:15.239
<v Speaker 2>Carter tol Yes, like like we learned our lessons with

0:34:15.280 --> 0:34:19.080
<v Speaker 2>the Renaissance. So no heels, no heels, you can rock

0:34:19.120 --> 0:34:20.960
<v Speaker 2>your lash. It's just make sure you have extra glue

0:34:21.920 --> 0:34:24.640
<v Speaker 2>and if you gonna beat your face, make sure you

0:34:24.680 --> 0:34:26.480
<v Speaker 2>spray it down with like to fix it.

0:34:26.600 --> 0:34:28.680
<v Speaker 1>Yes, okay, and then you're good and then you're good

0:34:28.719 --> 0:34:31.200
<v Speaker 1>to go. But I think we're all wearing hats, right,

0:34:31.560 --> 0:34:34.920
<v Speaker 1>cowboy hats. I hope. Well, first of all, I'm not going.

0:34:35.040 --> 0:34:36.600
<v Speaker 2>It's so funny because Ashley just said to me the

0:34:36.640 --> 0:34:38.239
<v Speaker 2>other she was like, I'm not going, and I was

0:34:38.280 --> 0:34:38.600
<v Speaker 2>like why.

0:34:38.680 --> 0:34:40.080
<v Speaker 1>She said, because I've got to be I say, too

0:34:40.120 --> 0:34:41.440
<v Speaker 1>much of my money, the same.

0:34:41.280 --> 0:34:41.839
<v Speaker 3>Thing you said.

0:34:41.800 --> 0:34:44.520
<v Speaker 1>It's not even but for you know, it's not even

0:34:44.520 --> 0:34:46.680
<v Speaker 1>about well, first of all, her tickets are too high.

0:34:46.840 --> 0:34:48.360
<v Speaker 1>It's not even about the money. It's just like, I

0:34:48.400 --> 0:34:52.600
<v Speaker 1>don't I've seen it. How many times seen it? You

0:34:52.680 --> 0:34:57.520
<v Speaker 1>have seen this? I see it. I won't it so

0:34:59.480 --> 0:35:01.880
<v Speaker 1>I made change my mind. Once I see all of

0:35:01.920 --> 0:35:05.600
<v Speaker 1>the stuff on Instagram, once I see the videos, the pictures,

0:35:05.719 --> 0:35:09.040
<v Speaker 1>I may change my mind. Shockingly, my hairstyle is Shirley,

0:35:09.080 --> 0:35:10.960
<v Speaker 1>who is like the number one Beyonce fan.

0:35:11.080 --> 0:35:12.879
<v Speaker 2>She's like, oh, it doesn't want to go no way,

0:35:13.239 --> 0:35:16.880
<v Speaker 2>Tina said. Tina's looked at the rehearsal. She said, it's fantasy.

0:35:16.960 --> 0:35:19.239
<v Speaker 1>Of course Tina's going to say that. Why because that's

0:35:19.280 --> 0:35:23.399
<v Speaker 1>her daughter, her daughter, of course, you know blue showing up.

0:35:23.840 --> 0:35:26.720
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, that's her granddaughter of course. Yes, of course.

0:35:26.840 --> 0:35:28.879
<v Speaker 1>You think she's gonna give jay Z a spot just

0:35:28.920 --> 0:35:31.040
<v Speaker 1>to do something. Jay Z don't want that. YEA don't

0:35:31.040 --> 0:35:32.160
<v Speaker 1>want to do that. Yeah, he ain't got to tip

0:35:32.200 --> 0:35:34.359
<v Speaker 1>of that. I oh no, I mean, hey, you can

0:35:34.360 --> 0:35:36.120
<v Speaker 1>always pop out. That'd be fun. That'd be a cute

0:35:36.120 --> 0:35:43.399
<v Speaker 1>little pop out. Oh wait a minute. Did we talk

0:35:43.400 --> 0:35:47.479
<v Speaker 1>about the carry Hilson. Yeah, we talked about carry about

0:35:47.520 --> 0:35:48.920
<v Speaker 1>her like apologizing or something.

0:35:49.040 --> 0:35:52.200
<v Speaker 2>Well, she gave the full story of what happened with

0:35:52.400 --> 0:35:55.320
<v Speaker 2>see I don't even okay, so supposed to carry Hilson

0:35:55.400 --> 0:35:59.359
<v Speaker 2>did a disc song to Beyonce right years ago, twenty

0:35:59.440 --> 0:36:03.440
<v Speaker 2>years ago, thirty years ago, and it single handedly destroyed

0:36:03.440 --> 0:36:04.839
<v Speaker 2>her career, right, And.

0:36:04.800 --> 0:36:06.560
<v Speaker 1>I didn't know. I didn't know there was a this song,

0:36:06.560 --> 0:36:08.200
<v Speaker 1>but I knew that there was some sort of dis

0:36:08.280 --> 0:36:13.160
<v Speaker 1>lyric between her and being this is the thing. What's

0:36:13.200 --> 0:36:13.680
<v Speaker 1>the song?

0:36:14.160 --> 0:36:14.319
<v Speaker 3>Right?

0:36:14.840 --> 0:36:16.719
<v Speaker 1>Like, I don't I've never have we heard this song?

0:36:16.800 --> 0:36:16.920
<v Speaker 2>Right?

0:36:17.280 --> 0:36:20.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I don't know. Is it subliminal?

0:36:20.040 --> 0:36:24.000
<v Speaker 2>Because the song that is huge, I think for Carrie

0:36:24.040 --> 0:36:24.880
<v Speaker 2>Hilson is.

0:36:25.320 --> 0:36:28.560
<v Speaker 1>My name is Carrie and I'm so fairy. The other

0:36:28.600 --> 0:36:32.520
<v Speaker 1>one is turning you on? Something about turning you on?

0:36:33.040 --> 0:36:33.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

0:36:33.640 --> 0:36:36.560
<v Speaker 2>I heard the first one recently and I was like listening, like,

0:36:36.600 --> 0:36:37.799
<v Speaker 2>this has got to be it. She's got to just

0:36:37.880 --> 0:36:40.680
<v Speaker 2>Beyonce somewhere and here and there was nothing, so all right,

0:36:40.680 --> 0:36:41.440
<v Speaker 2>well let's look it up.

0:36:41.480 --> 0:36:44.160
<v Speaker 1>Okay. So but I don't know as you looked that up,

0:36:44.600 --> 0:36:48.560
<v Speaker 1>she I think she was doing an interview with was

0:36:48.600 --> 0:36:49.280
<v Speaker 1>he Charlemagne?

0:36:49.280 --> 0:36:51.560
<v Speaker 2>It was Charlemage or Cam By the way, Cam's about

0:36:51.560 --> 0:36:54.640
<v Speaker 2>to make a whole lot of money, won Cam Newton

0:36:55.000 --> 0:36:57.359
<v Speaker 2>on what because the Shay Club is about to be

0:36:57.400 --> 0:36:58.000
<v Speaker 2>shut down?

0:36:59.600 --> 0:37:03.320
<v Speaker 1>So okay, So it was her turning me on? Remix Okay,

0:37:03.480 --> 0:37:05.799
<v Speaker 1>released in two thousand and nine, included lyrics that were

0:37:05.840 --> 0:37:11.880
<v Speaker 1>widely interpreted as a disc towards Beyonce, particularly referencing referencing

0:37:11.960 --> 0:37:15.960
<v Speaker 1>her song Irreplaceable. H Hilson has since dated she was

0:37:16.120 --> 0:37:18.960
<v Speaker 1>forced to sing those lyrics and that they were not

0:37:19.120 --> 0:37:22.360
<v Speaker 1>her own words. Yes, so she goes. So, she describes

0:37:22.400 --> 0:37:24.879
<v Speaker 1>that day like she she was very young.

0:37:24.960 --> 0:37:27.040
<v Speaker 2>She this beginning of her career. She got to the

0:37:27.080 --> 0:37:29.280
<v Speaker 2>studio and they and she, oh.

0:37:29.480 --> 0:37:32.080
<v Speaker 1>She wrote the lyrics. Okay, here's the lyric writing. Okay, go.

0:37:33.200 --> 0:37:37.000
<v Speaker 1>The remix featured lyrics like your vision cloudy, if you

0:37:37.160 --> 0:37:40.920
<v Speaker 1>think you're you're the best, you can dance, she could sing,

0:37:41.120 --> 0:37:45.520
<v Speaker 1>but need to move it to the left now Irreplaceable

0:37:45.600 --> 0:37:50.320
<v Speaker 1>is to the left, to the left. Yeah, okay.

0:37:50.440 --> 0:37:54.480
<v Speaker 2>So Carrie goes on to say like, I've never felt

0:37:54.520 --> 0:37:56.959
<v Speaker 2>like I could say this. But when she got there,

0:37:57.160 --> 0:38:00.200
<v Speaker 2>they had written the lyrics for her and this the

0:38:00.239 --> 0:38:02.080
<v Speaker 2>girl that wrote the lyrics was like, yeah, I did it,

0:38:02.880 --> 0:38:05.640
<v Speaker 2>and Polo, who's the who was the producer, was like,

0:38:07.239 --> 0:38:08.640
<v Speaker 2>this is what you're gonna do and she was like no.

0:38:08.680 --> 0:38:09.800
<v Speaker 1>She just started crying.

0:38:10.160 --> 0:38:10.279
<v Speaker 3>Oh.

0:38:10.600 --> 0:38:13.319
<v Speaker 2>She was like she didn't want to do it, but

0:38:13.440 --> 0:38:15.799
<v Speaker 2>they were forcing her, not forcing her, but they were

0:38:15.800 --> 0:38:18.279
<v Speaker 2>like pushing it on her, pushing it on her, and

0:38:18.320 --> 0:38:22.520
<v Speaker 2>she was too young and too new to say no, right,

0:38:22.920 --> 0:38:25.000
<v Speaker 2>and I and she she was kind of crying talking

0:38:25.000 --> 0:38:27.000
<v Speaker 2>about it to this day, and I felt like.

0:38:27.840 --> 0:38:30.680
<v Speaker 1>And didn't she used to write songs for Beyonce. She

0:38:30.840 --> 0:38:33.400
<v Speaker 1>was a writer, and I think some she has written

0:38:33.560 --> 0:38:37.640
<v Speaker 1>songs for Beyonce or for Destiny Show or whomever. But

0:38:38.000 --> 0:38:39.560
<v Speaker 1>why would that destroy her career?

0:38:39.840 --> 0:38:43.200
<v Speaker 2>Because like every because it was this whole her against

0:38:43.280 --> 0:38:46.239
<v Speaker 2>Beyonce thing, and I think mentally and emotionally it took

0:38:46.280 --> 0:38:50.600
<v Speaker 2>her out. Yeah, yeah, yeah, gosh, imagine if that was today,

0:38:50.719 --> 0:38:54.800
<v Speaker 2>in the day of social media, Like, yeah, oh my gosh.

0:38:55.000 --> 0:38:56.799
<v Speaker 2>I kind of I felt when when she was telling

0:38:56.840 --> 0:38:57.880
<v Speaker 2>the story, I was like, you know what, it'd be

0:38:57.920 --> 0:39:00.120
<v Speaker 2>great if they work together like today.

0:39:00.080 --> 0:39:04.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah, yeah, So hopefully that'll happen. Oh that's unfortunate

0:39:04.200 --> 0:39:07.920
<v Speaker 1>because Cherry Hilson is actually like a very smart girl,

0:39:08.160 --> 0:39:10.759
<v Speaker 1>like yeah, and when you hear her talk, she it's

0:39:10.800 --> 0:39:14.160
<v Speaker 1>not just about just her being a singer or whatever, Like,

0:39:14.200 --> 0:39:16.680
<v Speaker 1>she has a lot to offer. So that's that's unfortunate. Yeah,

0:39:16.920 --> 0:39:19.719
<v Speaker 1>she did talk about dating athletes. Did you see that?

0:39:20.719 --> 0:39:20.919
<v Speaker 3>Oh?

0:39:21.000 --> 0:39:23.839
<v Speaker 1>What did she say, because she dated Serge Ibaka at

0:39:23.840 --> 0:39:26.399
<v Speaker 1>one point. He's a basketball player who was fine, yes,

0:39:27.440 --> 0:39:29.800
<v Speaker 1>very fine. That thing looks good yes.

0:39:31.520 --> 0:39:37.080
<v Speaker 2>Yes, big chocolate yes, and he has an accent and everything.

0:39:38.000 --> 0:39:41.920
<v Speaker 1>Geezy accents make everyone sound smart.

0:39:42.280 --> 0:39:45.280
<v Speaker 2>No, they make him sound sexy, right, yes, not necessarily

0:39:45.320 --> 0:39:46.800
<v Speaker 2>smart all accents.

0:39:46.800 --> 0:39:49.440
<v Speaker 1>I mean men men with accents. Yeah. Yeah, it sounds

0:39:49.440 --> 0:39:51.560
<v Speaker 1>like please take your clothes off, right, Yeah, but it

0:39:51.560 --> 0:39:53.839
<v Speaker 1>makes it sound smart too, and sophisticated. And they can

0:39:53.920 --> 0:39:57.120
<v Speaker 1>be saying like, definitely sophisticated, the most like ratchet thing,

0:39:57.200 --> 0:40:00.480
<v Speaker 1>but they sounds sophisticated. Yeah. She did say that. They

0:40:01.000 --> 0:40:03.520
<v Speaker 1>say about dating athletes that they are I might be

0:40:03.520 --> 0:40:05.319
<v Speaker 1>able to relate. Yeah, I'm thinking you can't.

0:40:05.520 --> 0:40:06.360
<v Speaker 3>That they are.

0:40:08.080 --> 0:40:13.640
<v Speaker 2>They're not emotionally mature to love because or to know

0:40:13.760 --> 0:40:19.440
<v Speaker 2>how to love. Because when you know those those growing

0:40:19.520 --> 0:40:22.680
<v Speaker 2>up years, everything is given to them, everything is provided

0:40:22.719 --> 0:40:22.920
<v Speaker 2>for them.

0:40:24.160 --> 0:40:26.040
<v Speaker 1>They don't have to give.

0:40:26.440 --> 0:40:29.719
<v Speaker 2>They're just receiving and receiving and receiving. So in order

0:40:29.760 --> 0:40:34.719
<v Speaker 2>for them later in life to switch and learn the

0:40:35.280 --> 0:40:38.520
<v Speaker 2>skill set to love, it's extremely difficult and it really

0:40:38.560 --> 0:40:39.440
<v Speaker 2>doesn't happen.

0:40:39.880 --> 0:40:42.600
<v Speaker 1>And it's and it's hard. Like once the sport is over.

0:40:42.719 --> 0:40:46.160
<v Speaker 1>It's then they're dealing with like the mental just challenge

0:40:46.200 --> 0:40:49.000
<v Speaker 1>of of like okay, I'm no longer playing, like who

0:40:49.040 --> 0:40:51.239
<v Speaker 1>the hell am I really? So it's so funny. The

0:40:51.280 --> 0:40:57.759
<v Speaker 1>other day I was helping Corey. So Corey has back pain,

0:40:58.880 --> 0:41:01.040
<v Speaker 1>so he's been doing like e T and all types

0:41:01.040 --> 0:41:05.000
<v Speaker 1>of stuff. And I'm so we were at night, we

0:41:05.000 --> 0:41:07.800
<v Speaker 1>were here at night, and I'm wrapping him in ice,

0:41:08.080 --> 0:41:10.239
<v Speaker 1>putting ice on his back and wrapping it around, and

0:41:10.280 --> 0:41:12.319
<v Speaker 1>I'm thinking to myself and I'm like, this said it

0:41:12.320 --> 0:41:15.080
<v Speaker 1>all out, like this is I'm like, you're being catered to.

0:41:15.239 --> 0:41:18.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm catering to you. And this is how I'm since

0:41:18.239 --> 0:41:20.760
<v Speaker 1>the beginning of it. This is how it starts. Totally,

0:41:20.760 --> 0:41:22.520
<v Speaker 1>but it is. It's crazy. And it's not even like

0:41:22.560 --> 0:41:27.040
<v Speaker 1>it's like it's not for a bad reason. It's like, Okay,

0:41:27.200 --> 0:41:29.200
<v Speaker 1>he's injured. We got to nurse him back to house

0:41:29.280 --> 0:41:32.040
<v Speaker 1>because in a couple of days he's traveling and going

0:41:32.080 --> 0:41:34.000
<v Speaker 1>to play basketball and blah blah blah. Right, and so

0:41:34.040 --> 0:41:37.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, Okay, you gotta you gotta ice, we gotta

0:41:37.760 --> 0:41:39.799
<v Speaker 1>put your heat on after you. You gotta make sure

0:41:39.840 --> 0:41:42.000
<v Speaker 1>you're eating. You need your protein you need to like.

0:41:42.040 --> 0:41:45.440
<v Speaker 2>It's like and it's just like and it's constant and

0:41:45.480 --> 0:41:48.520
<v Speaker 2>he's aware of it, right and so and he's.

0:41:48.320 --> 0:41:50.960
<v Speaker 1>And he's leaning into it instead of.

0:41:50.840 --> 0:41:53.480
<v Speaker 2>Like and I'm no shade to Corey, but that's just

0:41:53.520 --> 0:41:56.759
<v Speaker 2>the nature of the beast because he has to right

0:41:56.840 --> 0:42:00.719
<v Speaker 2>and everything is focused towards him being the best player

0:42:00.760 --> 0:42:04.480
<v Speaker 2>he can be right, which is fine, But then what

0:42:04.520 --> 0:42:06.759
<v Speaker 2>does that mean years later for as a relation to

0:42:06.800 --> 0:42:08.200
<v Speaker 2>a relationship.

0:42:08.280 --> 0:42:11.920
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, And it's definitely a thing. It's definitely a thing.

0:42:12.000 --> 0:42:12.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:42:12.200 --> 0:42:16.000
<v Speaker 1>And I think as parents, it's it's our kind of

0:42:16.160 --> 0:42:18.560
<v Speaker 1>duty to try to like prevent that from happening as

0:42:18.640 --> 0:42:20.799
<v Speaker 1>much as possible, you know. So when they're like, oh,

0:42:20.840 --> 0:42:23.399
<v Speaker 1>I'm hungry, I want a sandwich, I'm like, okay, go

0:42:23.719 --> 0:42:26.760
<v Speaker 1>make yourself a sandwich. Yeah, get it yourself. Yeah. Yeah.

0:42:27.480 --> 0:42:31.000
<v Speaker 2>When she broke it down, because I that had never

0:42:31.040 --> 0:42:34.320
<v Speaker 2>crossed my mind because I've dealt with plenty of athletes

0:42:34.400 --> 0:42:36.799
<v Speaker 2>to you, But once she broke it down, I was like,

0:42:37.480 --> 0:42:39.600
<v Speaker 2>that's the missing piece that I didn't know when I

0:42:39.640 --> 0:42:41.399
<v Speaker 2>was in that relationship, you know what I mean.

0:42:41.480 --> 0:42:44.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I was like, oh that's it. Yeah, yeah, Oh,

0:42:44.000 --> 0:42:47.200
<v Speaker 1>they're not really case it's a huge thing. It could.

0:42:47.239 --> 0:42:50.319
<v Speaker 1>Like I said, it starts when they're young, it's and

0:42:50.360 --> 0:42:53.840
<v Speaker 1>it just keeps going, and it keeps getting bigger and bigger,

0:42:53.880 --> 0:42:56.200
<v Speaker 1>especially if they play on a professional level, because you've

0:42:56.239 --> 0:42:58.719
<v Speaker 1>got you know, every person in the world works for

0:42:58.800 --> 0:43:01.279
<v Speaker 1>that organization to make sure you have what you need.

0:43:01.640 --> 0:43:06.120
<v Speaker 1>And then you hire a management company or you know,

0:43:06.160 --> 0:43:08.600
<v Speaker 1>your agent, and they have people who are making sure

0:43:08.640 --> 0:43:11.280
<v Speaker 1>you have what you need. You have, they're paying your bills,

0:43:11.360 --> 0:43:15.320
<v Speaker 1>they're you know, they're making sure you're eating all of it.

0:43:15.320 --> 0:43:19.799
<v Speaker 1>It's I didn't know Carrie Hilson was dating that guy. Yeah,

0:43:20.040 --> 0:43:21.960
<v Speaker 1>they dated for a little bit. They were like it was,

0:43:22.239 --> 0:43:24.360
<v Speaker 1>it was known. It was okay, they were together together.

0:43:24.360 --> 0:43:25.920
<v Speaker 1>They were together. I just want to date them for

0:43:26.080 --> 0:43:29.040
<v Speaker 1>the night, I know. Yeah, Yeah, moving.

0:43:28.800 --> 0:43:31.239
<v Speaker 2>On, Okay, we got we have one more. This is

0:43:31.280 --> 0:43:38.920
<v Speaker 2>from Mancha Mansa mesa Masa's spelled different. It's spelled differently

0:43:40.080 --> 0:43:42.680
<v Speaker 2>Mesa mesa, masa masa.

0:43:44.160 --> 0:43:47.640
<v Speaker 1>Yes, I'm gonna say masa. Hijazell and Robin.

0:43:47.680 --> 0:43:50.120
<v Speaker 2>I love this show, and honestly, I look forward to

0:43:50.520 --> 0:43:53.839
<v Speaker 2>boring car rides or washing dishes because I know I'll

0:43:53.840 --> 0:43:58.040
<v Speaker 2>be listening to y'all, and you make every mundane moment

0:43:58.400 --> 0:43:59.560
<v Speaker 2>so fun and entertaining.

0:43:59.719 --> 0:44:00.640
<v Speaker 1>So thank you.

0:44:01.239 --> 0:44:03.640
<v Speaker 2>I want to ask you both if you could share

0:44:03.800 --> 0:44:06.480
<v Speaker 2>a bit about your experience during the early years of

0:44:06.560 --> 0:44:10.560
<v Speaker 2>motherhood kids zero to five. I'm currently postpartum with a

0:44:10.640 --> 0:44:12.799
<v Speaker 2>nine month old and have five and have a five

0:44:12.880 --> 0:44:16.600
<v Speaker 2>year old son, and life can be challenging and draining.

0:44:17.000 --> 0:44:19.120
<v Speaker 2>I have heard it takes a village to raise a child.

0:44:19.480 --> 0:44:23.719
<v Speaker 2>I've not always experienced this, unfortunately in your experience, how

0:44:23.840 --> 0:44:27.560
<v Speaker 2>was it for y'all? Giselle, how did you handle three toddlers?

0:44:27.880 --> 0:44:28.640
<v Speaker 2>Did you have a nanny?

0:44:28.680 --> 0:44:30.919
<v Speaker 1>Did you have help? On a Robin you shared Wan

0:44:31.160 --> 0:44:34.399
<v Speaker 1>was not always present those days? How did she do it?

0:44:34.680 --> 0:44:35.520
<v Speaker 1>How'd you do it? Robin?

0:44:35.760 --> 0:44:41.600
<v Speaker 2>By the way, my husband's name is Wan. Thanks so

0:44:41.680 --> 0:44:44.120
<v Speaker 2>much for reading, for reading my question and sharing. Love

0:44:44.160 --> 0:44:46.880
<v Speaker 2>you both. You need to spin off just for the

0:44:47.000 --> 0:44:49.640
<v Speaker 2>two of you on Bravo. Okay, let's we're gonna work

0:44:49.640 --> 0:44:53.960
<v Speaker 2>on that MESA. Food's from Toronto, Toronto, and we won't

0:44:53.960 --> 0:44:55.520
<v Speaker 2>to apologize right now for not knowing.

0:44:55.320 --> 0:44:58.120
<v Speaker 1>Exactly where Toronto is. I know where it is? Where

0:44:58.200 --> 0:44:59.680
<v Speaker 1>is it? I know I'm not been there a million times?

0:44:59.719 --> 0:45:01.560
<v Speaker 1>Where is I mean it's like the most it's like

0:45:02.080 --> 0:45:10.440
<v Speaker 1>southeast Toronto. It's like an hour from New York. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

0:45:10.560 --> 0:45:16.520
<v Speaker 1>it's in Ontario, which is where like southeastern portion of Canada,

0:45:17.960 --> 0:45:22.520
<v Speaker 1>which is locate did to where southeast Canada? What do

0:45:22.560 --> 0:45:22.759
<v Speaker 1>you mean?

0:45:22.800 --> 0:45:25.759
<v Speaker 2>It's Canada above the United States or society United States?

0:45:25.840 --> 0:45:26.600
<v Speaker 1>Are you serious?

0:45:26.680 --> 0:45:27.040
<v Speaker 3>Right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Wait a minute? Okay, so wait, Canada's north I know

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<v Speaker 1>that of the United States. I knew that. Yes, so,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's closer to east coast Toronto. Yes, yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>why I say it's southeast. Okay, so like Toronto is

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<v Speaker 1>actually close to the United States because it's the southern

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<v Speaker 1>portion of Canada. I was just seen. If you knew

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<v Speaker 1>and the exactly the eastern portion of Canada, you can

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<v Speaker 1>actually we actually because we were in Toronto. One played

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<v Speaker 1>for the Raptors and was traded to Detroit Pistons and

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<v Speaker 1>we drove like it was I can't remember how long

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<v Speaker 1>the drive was. It wasn't that long. We drove from

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<v Speaker 1>Toronto to Detroit and it wasn't like super long. Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>just packed up the car and said we're out of here.

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<v Speaker 1>Well not kind of, not really okay, but okay, raising kids.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you're raising kids, that's the question. Yes, it's hard

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<v Speaker 1>as shit, yes, yes, so masa mesa. If you are struggling,

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<v Speaker 1>this is normal. Yeah, okay, we all are all did yes,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's temporary. You're going to get through it. I

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<v Speaker 1>had a nanny come when they were like up until

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<v Speaker 1>they were about eight fifteen months or so. I had

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<v Speaker 1>a nanny come like three days a week. Eventually, when

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<v Speaker 1>they got to be about like fifteen months, I put

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<v Speaker 1>them in a school like a daycare. Yeah, and that

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<v Speaker 1>was the best thing ever because it gave you time. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just when the nanny and the people are in

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<v Speaker 1>your house and the kids in your house, they still

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<v Speaker 1>want you, like the kids. If you're in the house,

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't matter who's there to help, the kids still

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<v Speaker 1>want you. Yeah. So I think once you kids get

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<v Speaker 1>of an age where you're comfortable sending them to like

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<v Speaker 1>a school or a daycare, like do it, get to

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<v Speaker 1>it out of the house.

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<v Speaker 2>And plus they need a little interaction social ye. Social

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<v Speaker 2>they socially they need interaction, yeah for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>And then the phrase like it takes a village. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not just about you know, Okay, I have like my my,

0:47:17.800 --> 0:47:22.520
<v Speaker 1>my mother, or you know, ones like brother We had,

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, a bunch of like brothers and uncles

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<v Speaker 1>and cousins and stuff that would help my my son's stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's also like putting them in activities, like that's

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<v Speaker 1>part of the village too. So if you don't have

0:47:33.480 --> 0:47:36.440
<v Speaker 1>family that's there that can help you, like put them

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<v Speaker 1>in activities where whether I don't know, if you have

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<v Speaker 1>a girl or boy, whether it's dance, or it's baseball

0:47:41.680 --> 0:47:45.400
<v Speaker 1>or soccer like those some of those people become your village,

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<v Speaker 1>are a part of the village that it takes to

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<v Speaker 1>raise a child totally.

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<v Speaker 2>And even with the schools I remember, you know, my

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<v Speaker 2>kids went to a very small elementary school and those

0:47:56.200 --> 0:47:58.319
<v Speaker 2>moms there, they were part of my village. They ain't

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<v Speaker 2>know it, but it's part of my They was like

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<v Speaker 2>all was looking out for my kids once once we

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<v Speaker 2>started filming the show, they would always someone would just

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<v Speaker 2>take my kids home, pick them up. Like I knew

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<v Speaker 2>I was running late. They would check in with me

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<v Speaker 2>like they there was there's like three women, three moms.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to shout them out, but they completely

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<v Speaker 2>saved my life with regards to my kids they were,

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<v Speaker 2>I would like call them in a clutch and they

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<v Speaker 2>would be there for me. But when mine were babies,

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<v Speaker 2>because I had three, I had a full time nanny.

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<v Speaker 2>She would come at six am and she would leave

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<v Speaker 2>at six pm.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's a long day. That's a long day.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she was getting paid well, so, but I needed

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<v Speaker 2>an extra set of hands. There was three of them,

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<v Speaker 2>three and then, like Robins said, once Grace was able

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<v Speaker 2>to like go to like a little daycare or whatever

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<v Speaker 2>I sent her, she ain't like it, but she's all right, right,

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<v Speaker 2>she made it.

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<v Speaker 1>She made it through.

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<v Speaker 2>And then once all three of them could go, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that's that was like the ticket because I needed a break. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>like a break is you got to you gotta take

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<v Speaker 2>a break to rejuvenate yourself, right, Because once my kids

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<v Speaker 2>would see me, it was like NonStop every minute, like

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<v Speaker 2>there was no minute that I had free hold on

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<v Speaker 2>until they went to bed. No, yes, so but I

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<v Speaker 2>enjoyed it though, I mean it was it was exhausting

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<v Speaker 2>to no end.

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<v Speaker 1>But like you know, once it's over, it's over. Yeah, exactly,

0:49:24.880 --> 0:49:27.040
<v Speaker 1>it's over. And so for you, I know you're struggling

0:49:27.120 --> 0:49:30.120
<v Speaker 1>or anyone out out here, that's like really in the woods,

0:49:30.160 --> 0:49:32.799
<v Speaker 1>in the thick of it, it's gonna it feels like

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<v Speaker 1>it's not going to go fast, but it's going to

0:49:34.760 --> 0:49:36.360
<v Speaker 1>go by so fast. And you're gonna look back at

0:49:36.360 --> 0:49:39.279
<v Speaker 1>those times and be like, Whooo, how did I do it?

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<v Speaker 1>Don't know, but I did it. But you did it.

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna do it, so don't. But don't be afraid

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<v Speaker 1>to lean on people, even whether it's your neighbors or

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, activities, put them in activities, put them

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<v Speaker 1>in school. Yeah. Just and don't be afraid to be

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<v Speaker 1>like this shit is hard, like oh, yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's fine. It's totally hard.

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<v Speaker 2>And it would annoy when like moms with like five

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<v Speaker 2>kids that act like they were doing that shit with

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<v Speaker 2>their ass closed. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, you're just trying to make everybody else look bad.

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<v Speaker 1>Like no. So yeah, and do it your way. I

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<v Speaker 1>always say, like, you know, do what's comfortable for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Do it your way.

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<v Speaker 2>Nobody can tell you that your way is not the

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<v Speaker 2>right way, but I might judge you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, all right, we're out of here. Guys. We love

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<v Speaker 1>y'all so much.

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<v Speaker 2>To ever forget to live your life either reasonable or

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