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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect

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Speaker 1: Podcast Network and iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shaked. Y. I am

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Speaker 2: Jaseelle Bryant with that.

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Speaker 1: What's up? I'm Robin Dixon. Thank you for being here

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Speaker 1: with us once again. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, reasonably shady,

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Speaker 1: reasonably shady, shady shady, reasonable, reasonable shady shady. Okay, so

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Speaker 1: we have things to discuss. By the way, happy sinkle

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Speaker 1: to my old Yes. Yes, is that the Hispanic Liberation Day?

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Speaker 1: I believe so?

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Speaker 2: Okay, yes, yes, it's just a day that everybody decides

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Speaker 2: theyre going to drink margarita, yes, quila, okay, and tacos.

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Speaker 2: I want y'all to give me some feedback. Love Hotel.

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Speaker 2: It's been tearing up Sunday nights on Bravolle. It's all

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Speaker 2: up in the Love Hotels. Y'all let me know whether

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Speaker 2: or not y'all love it hate it. I want to

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Speaker 2: see it again, but it's it's I'm enjoying.

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Speaker 1: I'm enjoying watching it good. Yeah all right, Well I

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Speaker 1: haven't caught it yet, yeah, but I will get up.

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Speaker 1: I've been I've been doing a little traveling.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, all over the place. By the way, the

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Speaker 2: boys basketball, Yeah, yeah, are they winning losing?

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Speaker 1: What's going on? Travel basketball? They're they're doing well, they're

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Speaker 1: doing well well.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So Kyne Anthony Anthony Carmelo son, Carmelo's son, is

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Speaker 2: he going Is this time for him to go to college?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 2: And he's going to Syracuse Yes, So he's done playing

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Speaker 2: this aa yeah travel stuff.

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Speaker 1: Exactly, yep. So he's no longer on the travel circuits.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I saw this like he got an award, he

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Speaker 2: got a crown or something Kayne did or yeah, mellow

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Speaker 2: no Kyne the Sun and he gave it to La La.

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Speaker 1: Oh.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, okay, yeah, I don't know. I saw

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Speaker 2: that on this social media.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, you don't have played in like a game

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Speaker 1: and they gave them a one something. Okay, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Do y'all do make believe awards for this travel team? No? No, okay,

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Speaker 1: make believe. I don't know. I don't know what happens

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Speaker 1: on the road. No, no, no, no. So like and once

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Speaker 1: the kids get to high school, travel basketball is all about,

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Speaker 1: you know, first of all, like development and getting better,

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Speaker 1: but really trying to get like a college scholarship to

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Speaker 1: like all the college coaches come nice to the games

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Speaker 1: and stuff, or not all of them. But so it's

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Speaker 1: all about just getting exposure to college coaches so you

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Speaker 1: can get a college scholarship.

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Speaker 2: So it really doesn't matter what high school you go

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Speaker 2: to if you play on one of these teams.

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Speaker 1: Not true, hell, because high school it's still yees. So

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Speaker 1: the coaches they look at the players during the summer,

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Speaker 1: but they also want to see what you're doing during

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Speaker 1: your high school season. You know, they kind of go

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Speaker 1: hand in hand. So and I like, you bring up

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Speaker 1: high school. I'm like, I just have we have frustration

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Speaker 1: with high school basketball. I'm like, ah, so, yes, high

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Speaker 1: school basketball is still important, like the high school season.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you can't blow that off. No, okay, no,

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Speaker 2: all right, very good. I have a shady moment. I

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Speaker 2: was traveling and walking the streets.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 2: So you've seen on Instagram people that roll up on

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Speaker 2: you in the streets and ask you questions.

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Speaker 1: Yes, okay, has that happened to that happened to me?

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Speaker 1: Did it happen? No? Okay?

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Speaker 2: So in New York okay, mine in my business going

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Speaker 2: walking in the Chelsea Market area and a guy rolls

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Speaker 2: up on me. So when they roll up on your

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Speaker 2: When this guy rolled up on me, he was walking

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Speaker 2: up on me fast, which is a no, no, you

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Speaker 2: can't do that right. That's like scary. It's like it's scary.

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Speaker 1: Oh what's happening.

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Speaker 2: It's like it's inappropriate. But that's I think part of it.

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Speaker 2: They gotta get you, so they got to roll upon you.

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Speaker 1: And he was like, hey, got to talk to you

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Speaker 1: for a minute. I got to talk to you for

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Speaker 1: a minute. I just have to ask you a question.

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Speaker 1: I have to ask you a question.

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Speaker 2: I was like no, no, no, kept walking okay. Then

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Speaker 2: when I had to come back, he called me again.

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Speaker 1: Okay. He was like, can I ask you a question?

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Speaker 1: I gotta ask you a question.

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Speaker 2: And I was like okay, fine, and he said, okay, fine,

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Speaker 2: how many pounds.

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Speaker 1: Is a polar bear? What?

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Speaker 2: Literally that's the question? How many pounds was a polar bear?

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Speaker 2: Is a polar bear?

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Speaker 1: And I was like a thousand pounds? And I kept walking. Okay.

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Speaker 1: That was day one. Okay, day two he's out there again.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, because I think he's stopping. I think

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Speaker 2: it's the thing, like you stop people, you ask him

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Speaker 2: stupid ask question. I cannot remember what the second question was,

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Speaker 2: but it was something along those lines.

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Speaker 1: You know, there's a rattlesnak rattlesnake rattle, like.

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Speaker 2: It was just stupid and I was like this, can't

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Speaker 2: you gotta get a better day job?

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Speaker 1: Right? What are we doing with this information? They're trying

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Speaker 1: to go viral? Oh? So? I mean so you've seen

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Speaker 1: it on Instagram where people like you're trying to build So,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I wonder if the guy has a following. Okay,

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Speaker 1: but he's trying to either build a following or try

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Speaker 1: to go viral or try to you know, he's trying

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Speaker 1: to do something.

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Speaker 3: What's the last thing that made you cry?

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Speaker 1: Pepper Spray?

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Speaker 3: What's your favorite book?

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Speaker 1: Rocky three?

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Speaker 3: Do you like? Taylor Swift?

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Speaker 1: Taylor Swift? I love that, dude.

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Speaker 3: Best advice you've ever given someone?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, my boy Mike, he's a janitor, but his house

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Speaker 1: is dirty, so I told him we should work from home.

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Speaker 3: You are, that's that sound advice. What's your favorite Pokemon

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Speaker 3: character Lebron James?

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Speaker 2: Okay, well the Polar Bear and how much Polar Bear

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Speaker 2: weighs That ain't going viral?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Or maybe people's reaction to it goes viral. Oh

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Speaker 1: I wish I could find this. So this one guy, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's a black guy. Now this is funny because it's

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Speaker 1: because you know, I watched one and then I end

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Speaker 1: up going this page and watch him more. Yeah, black guy.

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Speaker 1: And he's like somewhere in the South, maybe Kentucky, I

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Speaker 1: don't know, and he's stopping white people, young, young white people. Instead,

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Speaker 1: name your three favorite black people? And what did they say? That?

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Speaker 1: Like they don't know any My god, the answers are insane,

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Speaker 1: these two white girls, and they were like, oh god,

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Speaker 1: what is his name? Michael? Oh? God, like Michael Michael,

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Speaker 1: Michael Something King, Michael Something King, Yeah, Michael Something King,

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Speaker 1: Martin Luther King.

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Speaker 2: Oh, come on, white people do better.

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Speaker 1: Martin lot King Jr.

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Speaker 3: Martha Martha.

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Speaker 1: Martha, Michael Martin, Michael, Michael Luther King. Yes, Michael, that

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Speaker 1: sounds like they got a ring too.

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Speaker 3: Let's go with Michael Luther King Jordan, Okay with why hand?

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Speaker 3: What did he do?

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Speaker 1: He had a dream yep about what his life? They

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Speaker 1: are like trying to pull something out of their ass,

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Speaker 1: like they are clueless. They can't even think of, you know, Beyonce.

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Speaker 1: A lot of them said Barack Obama. Nice, that would

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Speaker 1: be like like choice, they like be like, oh, but

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Speaker 1: it's hilarious like watching them just like be stuck.

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Speaker 2: Wait a minute, have you seen have you seen Michelle

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Speaker 2: talk about not going to the Trump inauguration and how

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Speaker 2: she just wanted to do something for herself and blah

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Speaker 2: blah blah, she's choosing her. I want her to be like,

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Speaker 2: because we love Michelle.

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Speaker 1: I want her to be like because I don't like him. Exactly.

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Speaker 2: That's what I was like, Please say that, right, because

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Speaker 2: that's in my mind what it really is exactly.

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Speaker 1: But she harped on more so like the fact that

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Speaker 1: people were assuming that something was wrong with their.

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Speaker 2: Marriage, right, which, like, no, I didn't get that at all.

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Speaker 2: I felt like, you didn't go because you didn't want

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Speaker 2: to be sitting next to that right exactly. No, it

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Speaker 2: wasn't his inauguration, yeah, right at the funeral, Yeah, an

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Speaker 2: inauguration Jimmy Carter. Jimmy Carter is Jimmy Yeah, Jimmy HER's

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Speaker 2: funeral Jimmy Carter. Yeah, because you knew the seating arrangement.

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Speaker 1: And what's the next. I don't blame you exactly. I

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Speaker 1: promise you. I want to Michell to say that. Please

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Speaker 1: just say it, because that's better. It is it is

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Speaker 1: it's just them being like, oh, I want to do

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Speaker 1: something for myself or no, she harped on, like you know,

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Speaker 1: when you say no, no, no means not not no

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Speaker 1: means no. But like like people should be able to

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Speaker 1: say no, people should be able to respect your no

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Speaker 1: for whatever it is.

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Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, but I wanted it to be because he

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Speaker 2: because they say he smells like bad burgers.

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Speaker 1: That's what I wanted her to say. I mean, but

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Speaker 1: I would have a hard time in that position going

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Speaker 1: to an inauguration of someone who has totally disrespected me

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Speaker 1: and my husband right because he ridiculed. It's like the

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Speaker 1: disrespect is not even based on like policies. It's it's

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Speaker 1: like he's like ridical ridicules or like insults or like yes,

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Speaker 1: you know, no, I don't. I don't want to be

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Speaker 1: in that environment. I'm not participating in that nonsense, that foolishness.

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Speaker 2: She should have the freedom to say that, you know, yeah,

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Speaker 2: first of all, she'd have to say nothing.

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Speaker 1: But I just want her to be like because I

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Speaker 1: didn't want to right anyway, we got off track. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so shady moment for me, Okay, y'all. I really it's

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Speaker 1: so crazy. My brain is soaked up, Like I had

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Speaker 1: a shady moment, yeah, and you forgot it and I

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Speaker 1: totally forgot it. I cannot think of it, and it's

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Speaker 1: so and so. Now the guy, I don't remember your name,

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Speaker 1: I can't remember if you emailed or if you messaged

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Speaker 1: me on Instagram, but you were like, Robin, how dare

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Speaker 1: you not have a shady moment, because like a couple

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Speaker 1: of weeks ago, I didn't have a shady moment? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he was like, I mean, at least like fake one

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Speaker 1: or pretend one. Yes, real shady moments people do them.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, our life doesn't have to be

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Speaker 1: shady every single week, Like something crazy doesn't have to happen.

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Speaker 1: Mine does. For whatever reason, you get out of the

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Speaker 1: house more than I do. I'm like, that's true. But

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Speaker 1: I do want to say there are tons. I actually

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Speaker 1: have tons of shady moments that I wish I could

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Speaker 1: share with you guys. But as a business owner, and

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Speaker 1: you know, the customer is always right, I want to

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Speaker 1: say tons or like I just I just have to

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Speaker 1: keep them to myself. Yeah, no, I get that because,

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Speaker 1: let me tell you, just being a business owner, you

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Speaker 1: meet all types of just people and encounter all types

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Speaker 1: of scenarios and it's quite entertaining and just interesting. But

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Speaker 1: I can't really can't divulge. But that's okay.

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Speaker 2: So I saw this Instagram post and it said deleting

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Speaker 2: your long paragraph and texting back okay, just okay is

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Speaker 2: a different kind of self control.

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Speaker 1: Oh yes, that's me all day long. Yes, but I don't.

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Speaker 2: I'm so good at it at the self control. I

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Speaker 2: don't because I used to get the law paragraphs and

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Speaker 2: then I'd be like delete. I just to be like, okay, right,

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Speaker 1: Is a winner. How shady, but it's okay.

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Speaker 2: I had to pop back in because Robin, it would

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Speaker 1: Happy birthday, queen, Thank you.

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Speaker 2: I hope you live in your best life, reasonably or no,

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Speaker 1: Oh I had, he had it?

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Speaker 1: Yes, I don't even how do you do that? You

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So what do I need a man for?

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Speaker 2: and I know you do too.

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Speaker 2: get to chatting. I don't know what I'm what we're

430
00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:54,200
Speaker 2: talking about, but I'm gonna get to chatting.

431
00:21:55,040 --> 00:21:55,960
Speaker 1: I love that.

432
00:21:56,560 --> 00:21:59,040
Speaker 2: Not just said Karen is is throwing shade at Wendy's

433
00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:03,080
Speaker 2: candles of the Texas.

434
00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:05,760
Speaker 1: How Larry is like how did it get there? That

435
00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:10,639
Speaker 1: is so yes, crazy, funny. Okay, this is a question

436
00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:18,000
Speaker 1: from Danny. Danny says, hello, just all Robin, greetings from Taiwan, Taiwan. Yes,

437
00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:23,440
Speaker 1: like Vietnam. Is that women? And where's Taiwan? It's in Asia,

438
00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:33,639
Speaker 1: not women? Women? Okay, let's ask chat GPT Wait, so okay,

439
00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:38,200
Speaker 1: where is Taiwan? I'm not asking ch Oh, you're not okay.

440
00:22:38,240 --> 00:22:41,720
Speaker 1: It's a country. It's an island in East Asia, specifically

441
00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:45,800
Speaker 1: located in the Western Pacific Ocean off the coast of

442
00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:50,760
Speaker 1: southeast southeastern China. Is situated between East China see and

443
00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:53,359
Speaker 1: South China's okay, okay, so Vietnam has nothing to do

444
00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:56,920
Speaker 1: with this. It's officially the Republic of China. What Okay,

445
00:22:56,920 --> 00:23:01,639
Speaker 1: it's part of China. Okay. So, so Taiwan listens to

446
00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:06,439
Speaker 1: recently shady Yeah, hey, hey, I'm here for this right Okay,

447
00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:08,680
Speaker 1: I love it. I love okay, and now we know

448
00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:10,560
Speaker 1: where it is. I don't even know if it's which

449
00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:13,640
Speaker 1: country runs Taiwan. Yes, the People's Republic of China. Okay, okay,

450
00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:15,760
Speaker 1: it's a property of China. Yes, and now and now

451
00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:17,359
Speaker 1: we know where it is. Yeah, yeah, I love that.

452
00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:20,040
Speaker 1: We'll have to go. Sorry Danny that we're so ignorant,

453
00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:22,320
Speaker 1: but we appreciate you for listening from Taiwan.

454
00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:25,159
Speaker 2: Side note on Love Hotel, there was a guy from

455
00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:27,200
Speaker 2: Rhode Island and I didn't know where that was.

456
00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:30,760
Speaker 1: So like, no clue. Well, I know it's up.

457
00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:34,320
Speaker 2: There, yeah right, So I didn't. I don't know anything.

458
00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:38,280
Speaker 2: I don't know the exact the layout. Yeah, like outside

459
00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:40,040
Speaker 2: of Connecticut. So I know how to get all the

460
00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:43,439
Speaker 2: way up to Connecticut. Uh huh, I'm done. Okay, So

461
00:23:43,480 --> 00:23:46,480
Speaker 2: I don't know Maine is up there, Maine, Rhode Island,

462
00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:47,920
Speaker 2: Vermont is in that order.

463
00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:52,240
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just know they're up there. I

464
00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:55,520
Speaker 1: think may might be at the top. Maybe Maye is

465
00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:57,760
Speaker 1: not at the top because we drove it's not. Yeah,

466
00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:01,320
Speaker 1: I don't think so. Actually listening, I don't know anything above.

467
00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:06,160
Speaker 2: I think Vermont is that mass Sorry guys, Yeah, tot

468
00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:08,959
Speaker 2: know the order? Yeah, yeah, that's funny.

469
00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:12,640
Speaker 1: But then how is Toronto? How is Ontario? Maybe it's

470
00:24:12,680 --> 00:24:14,760
Speaker 1: just the way New York is shaped. You drive through

471
00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:19,400
Speaker 1: New York to get to Ontario. To Canada, list Quebec

472
00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:23,160
Speaker 1: and then there's Ontario. Quebec is on the west coast?

473
00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:25,600
Speaker 1: Or father, can you read the next thing?

474
00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:28,560
Speaker 2: Because we're making ourselves look real dumb, we are, okay,

475
00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:30,400
Speaker 2: all right, Danny, He says.

476
00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:33,000
Speaker 1: I'm a huge fan of the podcast, always listening while driving.

477
00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:35,920
Speaker 1: My husband actually introduced me to the Real Housewives franchise,

478
00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:39,919
Speaker 1: and rhop quickly became my absolute favorite. You two are

479
00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:43,399
Speaker 1: also my number one housewives. Yay. Hey, I love the

480
00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:46,440
Speaker 1: fund shade, the real life stories and the laughs you bring.

481
00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:48,600
Speaker 1: Thank you for sharing your joy with us every week. Okay,

482
00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:50,960
Speaker 1: So I have a little question about my husband that

483
00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:54,159
Speaker 1: I love your opinion on. Okay, We've been married for

484
00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:57,080
Speaker 1: almost six years now, and he's been living in Taiwan

485
00:24:57,200 --> 00:25:01,560
Speaker 1: for over seven years. However, he's still not fluent in Mandarin.

486
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:05,600
Speaker 1: I totally understand Mandarin can be a tough language to learn,

487
00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:09,280
Speaker 1: especially with all of the tones. I'll admit I always

488
00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:12,720
Speaker 1: speak English to him, help him do the translation. And

489
00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:15,960
Speaker 1: Taiwan is a pretty English friendly place, which makes things

490
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:19,720
Speaker 1: even is easier for him. What's the beef? So we will?

491
00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:22,080
Speaker 1: And then he says, will Jaselle consider stopping by Taiwan

492
00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:26,359
Speaker 1: when traveling to Japan? Is it close? I wonder if

493
00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:29,359
Speaker 1: it's close? I think it is. It must be. Well, no, what,

494
00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:30,520
Speaker 1: you're over there? You're over there?

495
00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:31,240
Speaker 3: Okay?

496
00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:34,879
Speaker 1: Right, okay, all right, yes, tell him I'm stopping by okay, yeah, yes.

497
00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:37,800
Speaker 1: So he always says he's too afraid of messing up

498
00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:41,199
Speaker 1: the tones to practice more. But honestly, sometimes feels like

499
00:25:41,480 --> 00:25:44,480
Speaker 1: I sometimes feel like he's just a little too spoiled

500
00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:46,840
Speaker 1: by me and the environment, and maybe that's why he

501
00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:50,400
Speaker 1: hasn't pushed himself harder to learn. So what do you think?

502
00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:52,920
Speaker 1: Is he being reasonable or is he being a little

503
00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:55,200
Speaker 1: bit shady? Can't wait to hear your thought. I think

504
00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:58,080
Speaker 1: what's well? Who wrote that? Danny? I think Danny's being shady.

505
00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:02,040
Speaker 1: I think Danny's being unrealistic.

506
00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:05,639
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, Well, because it's one thing, if I'm in

507
00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:09,400
Speaker 2: a country and they don't speak English, right, then I'm

508
00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:12,560
Speaker 2: forced to learn the language.

509
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:12,840
Speaker 1: Right.

510
00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:16,160
Speaker 2: But if Danny is speaking English and everybody else around

511
00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:19,240
Speaker 2: is speaking English, why am I learning man the hardest

512
00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:23,240
Speaker 2: language to learn right outside of like Latin, right, Like, No, yeah,

513
00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:23,720
Speaker 2: that's the part.

514
00:26:23,760 --> 00:26:25,639
Speaker 1: It's like, I know, this is a really hard language

515
00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:28,320
Speaker 1: to learn, and then you have the issue with the

516
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:32,400
Speaker 1: different tones and all that. So I think danny're being

517
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:35,720
Speaker 1: a little unrealistic to think, especially an adults, and it's

518
00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:38,320
Speaker 1: harder for an adult to learn a new language than

519
00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:40,919
Speaker 1: like a child. They say children can learn quick. New

520
00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:43,360
Speaker 1: language is a lot quicker. So I think once you're

521
00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:47,040
Speaker 1: an adult and you're like used to speaking English and

522
00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:49,439
Speaker 1: you have English all around you, I think it's probably

523
00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:52,400
Speaker 1: super hard for him to learn Mandarin. Now, if that's

524
00:26:52,400 --> 00:26:56,240
Speaker 1: something that's important to you, Danny, then maybe it's a

525
00:26:56,280 --> 00:27:00,439
Speaker 1: conversation and maybe you just do a little bit of

526
00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 1: like what's those like language programs Rosetta Stone, Yeah, like

527
00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:08,960
Speaker 1: a little Rosetta Stone here and there, and maybe you

528
00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:11,440
Speaker 1: do a little practicing. But I don't think you can

529
00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:15,119
Speaker 1: expect him to just like, No, I don't think you

530
00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:18,760
Speaker 1: should expect him to take the initiative to learn the language. No, well,

531
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:21,600
Speaker 1: if you're making it comfortable for him, like why do

532
00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:22,520
Speaker 1: I need to learn? Right?

533
00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:26,040
Speaker 2: And but and I don't think it even speaks to

534
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:29,320
Speaker 2: because I'm sure Danny's like, well, you don't care, you

535
00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:31,800
Speaker 2: won't learn it, don't. I don't think it's that right,

536
00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:34,600
Speaker 2: I think he the guy does care. Seven years is

537
00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:36,639
Speaker 2: a long time. You haven't picked up nothing, I know.

538
00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:38,560
Speaker 1: And that's the thing. So I'm like, maybe make this

539
00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:40,679
Speaker 1: like a fun thing, yeah, games, like make it a

540
00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:41,160
Speaker 1: sex game.

541
00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:44,320
Speaker 2: Yes, there, you tell me all the body parts you

542
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:45,080
Speaker 2: want me to suck?

543
00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:47,680
Speaker 1: Right? Yeah? Yes? Yeah, So no, I don't think he's

544
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:50,680
Speaker 1: being shady, not being shady. Danny might be a little unrealistic.

545
00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:53,000
Speaker 1: But I also think y'all can find a happy medium

546
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:55,440
Speaker 1: where yeah, he tries to learn a little bit here

547
00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:58,600
Speaker 1: and there, but don't expect him to like be fluent. No.

548
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:03,159
Speaker 1: And I can just imagine writing it, right, yeah, is

549
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:04,919
Speaker 1: it the symbols? I believe?

550
00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:11,280
Speaker 2: So yeah, yeah, yeah, that's impressive right yeah. Okay, And

551
00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:14,000
Speaker 2: from what I understand, Mandarin is a language that if

552
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:15,840
Speaker 2: you're really not using it all the time, you're going

553
00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:18,600
Speaker 2: to lose it. There's a guy that I know, actually

554
00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:23,880
Speaker 2: it's a friend's son who speaks Mandarin, and but he

555
00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:27,200
Speaker 2: constantly has to take Mandarin class, okay to make sure

556
00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:29,359
Speaker 2: he stays up on it. Yeah, yeah, because he's not

557
00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 2: He works in New York. He's not speaking Mandarin.

558
00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:33,720
Speaker 1: Like where are you speaking him? Yes, he's going to

559
00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:36,919
Speaker 1: like Chinatown or something. Do they speak it there? I

560
00:28:36,920 --> 00:28:39,240
Speaker 1: would think so, Like, I mean if he's intentional, so

561
00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:42,640
Speaker 1: say you go to a Chinese restaurant work there, yeah,

562
00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:46,400
Speaker 1: or speaking Mandarin and he's that's his the opportunity to

563
00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:48,840
Speaker 1: just speak it, knock it out. Speaking of restaurants in

564
00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:53,200
Speaker 1: New York, have you been a Carbone? No? Geez sah?

565
00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:56,800
Speaker 2: So I was in New York. Yeah with Portia. We

566
00:28:56,840 --> 00:29:00,480
Speaker 2: did watch What Happens Live, and I think.

567
00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:03,360
Speaker 1: I had been a carbone. I had not been in years.

568
00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:05,840
Speaker 2: I can't to the point where it's like I really

569
00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:14,040
Speaker 2: couldn't remember the experience. So we of course went out afterwards.

570
00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:17,760
Speaker 2: And it's so funny because we and port were talking

571
00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:20,360
Speaker 2: to Angie. They probably didn't show this, and he was like,

572
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:22,440
Speaker 2: are y'all going out afterwards? Because me and Porscha Boss

573
00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:24,840
Speaker 2: had on our little booty dresses and everything, and we

574
00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:27,320
Speaker 2: were like, yeah, we're going out, and so he was

575
00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:30,120
Speaker 2: so we told him where and he was like, yeah,

576
00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:32,600
Speaker 2: the two of y'all gonna walk into Carbone and we

577
00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:34,120
Speaker 2: were like yeah, Angie, and.

578
00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:36,040
Speaker 1: Then I said, Annie, you want to come, and he

579
00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:37,240
Speaker 1: was like okay.

580
00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:38,880
Speaker 2: And then I was like, oh, no, never mind, because

581
00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:41,440
Speaker 2: then you're going to attract gay attention.

582
00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:43,920
Speaker 1: We want straight men coming to the table. We do

583
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:47,240
Speaker 1: not write any men that don't want us.

584
00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 2: So he was like I get invited and rejected in

585
00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:51,680
Speaker 2: the same sentence.

586
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:54,360
Speaker 1: I was like, yes, anyway, we had a beautiful time.

587
00:29:54,560 --> 00:29:58,320
Speaker 1: But like the food there is sick but you kid,

588
00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:01,560
Speaker 1: I don't feel like I don't remember, so the Rigatoni

589
00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:02,560
Speaker 1: is on another level.

590
00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:07,040
Speaker 2: The meatballs, which I don't really eat meatballs, but I'm

591
00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:10,640
Speaker 2: like craving them a lot more. I got lobster froy diabolo,

592
00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:16,360
Speaker 2: which was fantastic. Course you got some some sort of steaks.

593
00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:19,840
Speaker 2: Situation great. My food, I mean my fork was all

594
00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:22,880
Speaker 2: on her plate. Erica came with us, she got some

595
00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:27,560
Speaker 2: chicken something. Everything was fanlt like I want to go back.

596
00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:35,040
Speaker 2: So Carbone and everybody that raps about Carbone that drake yes, yes, yes, lived.

597
00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:35,280
Speaker 1: Up to it.

598
00:30:35,320 --> 00:30:39,440
Speaker 2: And then there was like rappers ish coming in there

599
00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:41,120
Speaker 2: were there was a woman that.

600
00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:44,480
Speaker 1: Was like an actress.

601
00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:47,040
Speaker 2: I don't can't remember, I don't know who she is,

602
00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:48,280
Speaker 2: but I know she's an actress.

603
00:30:48,600 --> 00:30:52,240
Speaker 1: She was like waving to me. Okay, I felt it

604
00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:56,400
Speaker 1: very important, okay, spot all right, yeah, carbon So hey, guys,

605
00:30:56,400 --> 00:30:59,360
Speaker 1: when y'all know that Shelle's in New York, hang out

606
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:03,000
Speaker 1: at Carbone. Okay, Well, but it's hard to get a reservation. Yeah,

607
00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:05,920
Speaker 1: so yeah, I think we had to pull some tricks.

608
00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:08,640
Speaker 2: Okay, by the way, like a lot of those restaurants

609
00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:11,600
Speaker 2: that have that reputation. Yeah, the food isn't good, right,

610
00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:15,840
Speaker 2: it's all right, Carbonus good yes, okay. So Billy Barry says,

611
00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:19,960
Speaker 2: good morning, ladies. So, for whatever reason, I just realized

612
00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:21,520
Speaker 2: I never finished episode one.

613
00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:24,920
Speaker 1: Sixty eight, Robin, what episode is this?

614
00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:30,560
Speaker 2: We have no idea what a number of episodes match

615
00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:31,240
Speaker 2: up to whatever?

616
00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:32,880
Speaker 1: Okay, he says.

617
00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:35,400
Speaker 2: I was driving to work this morning while you were

618
00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 2: talking about B, and it reminded me, what's what's B?

619
00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:38,960
Speaker 1: Beyonce?

620
00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:42,120
Speaker 2: Oh okay, and it reminded me when she came through

621
00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:44,960
Speaker 2: for the Renaissance Okay, yeah, we were talking about Beyonce

622
00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:47,400
Speaker 2: and he reminded me when she came through for the

623
00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:48,520
Speaker 2: Renaissance World tour.

624
00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:51,600
Speaker 1: My husband and I had to go. She asked us

625
00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:53,440
Speaker 1: to wear silver, so I showed up in my silver

626
00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:57,640
Speaker 1: sequence tank top, blank jeans. Just to interrupt. I believe

627
00:31:57,680 --> 00:32:01,920
Speaker 1: this is one eighty no way, okay, one okay? So

628
00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:04,560
Speaker 1: so twelve episodes ago, we have no idea what we

629
00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:07,040
Speaker 1: were talking about. No club, yes, but let's let's go.

630
00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:08,040
Speaker 1: Let's keep it going, okay.

631
00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:11,120
Speaker 2: So she asked us to wear silver, so I showed

632
00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:14,440
Speaker 2: up with my silver sequince tank top, black jeans, high heeled,

633
00:32:14,480 --> 00:32:16,600
Speaker 2: black combat boots, and black for door.

634
00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:19,440
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, we need a picture. Why don't you put

635
00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:21,000
Speaker 1: a picture? You better work that.

636
00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:26,000
Speaker 2: Yes, I went all out with a smoky eye, silver

637
00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:27,920
Speaker 2: glitter lashes, and liner.

638
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:28,320
Speaker 3: Girl.

639
00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:32,040
Speaker 1: I thought I was it. Billy, I'm gonna tell you

640
00:32:32,040 --> 00:32:35,320
Speaker 1: you were it. Okay, So, yes, you were it. And

641
00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:39,160
Speaker 1: by the way, her tour started by now oh okay,

642
00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 1: her tour started on April twenty eighth. Okay, so so beyond.

643
00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:46,720
Speaker 1: But Beyonce hasn't told us what to wear yet? Right exactly?

644
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 1: So when is she gonna let us know? Because I

645
00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:49,640
Speaker 1: got to yeah.

646
00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:52,280
Speaker 2: Amazon together, right, because they can be come from Amazon,

647
00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:53,440
Speaker 2: because I'll wear it that one day.

648
00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:55,120
Speaker 1: Okay, mind you.

649
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:58,520
Speaker 2: I was a forty three year old gay, white man

650
00:32:58,760 --> 00:33:01,240
Speaker 2: at the time and my husband we at the time.

651
00:33:01,360 --> 00:33:06,080
Speaker 2: At the time, my husband and now he's not at

652
00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:10,880
Speaker 2: the time, he's still gay and white. Who's black? He said,

653
00:33:11,120 --> 00:33:14,200
Speaker 2: he's with his husband who's black. FYI took one look

654
00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:16,400
Speaker 2: at me and said, you sure want to wear you?

655
00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:18,120
Speaker 2: Are you sure you want to wear those shoes? And

656
00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:23,440
Speaker 2: I was like, baby, I got this, mind you. The shoes, remember,

657
00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:28,280
Speaker 2: were high heel, black collar. I don't even know they

658
00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:30,640
Speaker 2: make that, right, high heel black collar.

659
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:36,040
Speaker 1: Hell, listen, Billy, you were doing it. Okay, Well we

660
00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:38,920
Speaker 1: get there in the venue. It's miles from the parking lot.

661
00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:41,760
Speaker 2: I barely made it. By the end of the night.

662
00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:45,560
Speaker 2: My lashes were hanging on for deal life. My makeup

663
00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:47,120
Speaker 2: had melted, and I looked.

664
00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:49,880
Speaker 1: Like a total hot mess. I believe it. But it

665
00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:50,920
Speaker 1: was worth every second.

666
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:56,880
Speaker 2: That's it, right, yes, Billy, Because I can envision this

667
00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:57,920
Speaker 2: was so descriptive.

668
00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:01,040
Speaker 1: I can envision all of that yes, it's traumatic for him.

669
00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:03,880
Speaker 1: That was like he knew he was doing the damn thing.

670
00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:06,240
Speaker 1: And then by the end of the night he was like,

671
00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:07,520
Speaker 1: he was like, get me out of here.

672
00:34:08,200 --> 00:34:11,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, so we have to pace ourselves with the cowboy

673
00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:15,239
Speaker 2: Carter tol Yes, like like we learned our lessons with

674
00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:19,080
Speaker 2: the Renaissance. So no heels, no heels, you can rock

675
00:34:19,120 --> 00:34:20,960
Speaker 2: your lash. It's just make sure you have extra glue

676
00:34:21,920 --> 00:34:24,640
Speaker 2: and if you gonna beat your face, make sure you

677
00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:26,480
Speaker 2: spray it down with like to fix it.

678
00:34:26,600 --> 00:34:28,680
Speaker 1: Yes, okay, and then you're good and then you're good

679
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:31,200
Speaker 1: to go. But I think we're all wearing hats, right,

680
00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:34,920
Speaker 1: cowboy hats. I hope. Well, first of all, I'm not going.

681
00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:36,600
Speaker 2: It's so funny because Ashley just said to me the

682
00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:38,239
Speaker 2: other she was like, I'm not going, and I was

683
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:38,600
Speaker 2: like why.

684
00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:40,080
Speaker 1: She said, because I've got to be I say, too

685
00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:41,440
Speaker 1: much of my money, the same.

686
00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:41,839
Speaker 3: Thing you said.

687
00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:44,520
Speaker 1: It's not even but for you know, it's not even

688
00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:46,680
Speaker 1: about well, first of all, her tickets are too high.

689
00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:48,360
Speaker 1: It's not even about the money. It's just like, I

690
00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:52,600
Speaker 1: don't I've seen it. How many times seen it? You

691
00:34:52,680 --> 00:34:57,520
Speaker 1: have seen this? I see it. I won't it so

692
00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:01,880
Speaker 1: I made change my mind. Once I see all of

693
00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:05,600
Speaker 1: the stuff on Instagram, once I see the videos, the pictures,

694
00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:09,040
Speaker 1: I may change my mind. Shockingly, my hairstyle is Shirley,

695
00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:10,960
Speaker 1: who is like the number one Beyonce fan.

696
00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:12,879
Speaker 2: She's like, oh, it doesn't want to go no way,

697
00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:16,880
Speaker 2: Tina said. Tina's looked at the rehearsal. She said, it's fantasy.

698
00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:19,239
Speaker 1: Of course Tina's going to say that. Why because that's

699
00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:23,399
Speaker 1: her daughter, her daughter, of course, you know blue showing up.

700
00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:26,720
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's her granddaughter of course. Yes, of course.

701
00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:28,879
Speaker 1: You think she's gonna give jay Z a spot just

702
00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:31,040
Speaker 1: to do something. Jay Z don't want that. YEA don't

703
00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:32,160
Speaker 1: want to do that. Yeah, he ain't got to tip

704
00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:34,359
Speaker 1: of that. I oh no, I mean, hey, you can

705
00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:36,120
Speaker 1: always pop out. That'd be fun. That'd be a cute

706
00:35:36,120 --> 00:35:43,399
Speaker 1: little pop out. Oh wait a minute. Did we talk

707
00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:47,479
Speaker 1: about the carry Hilson. Yeah, we talked about carry about

708
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:48,920
Speaker 1: her like apologizing or something.

709
00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:52,200
Speaker 2: Well, she gave the full story of what happened with

710
00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:55,320
Speaker 2: see I don't even okay, so supposed to carry Hilson

711
00:35:55,400 --> 00:35:59,359
Speaker 2: did a disc song to Beyonce right years ago, twenty

712
00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:03,440
Speaker 2: years ago, thirty years ago, and it single handedly destroyed

713
00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:04,839
Speaker 2: her career, right, And.

714
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:06,560
Speaker 1: I didn't know. I didn't know there was a this song,

715
00:36:06,560 --> 00:36:08,200
Speaker 1: but I knew that there was some sort of dis

716
00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:13,160
Speaker 1: lyric between her and being this is the thing. What's

717
00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:13,680
Speaker 1: the song?

718
00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:14,319
Speaker 3: Right?

719
00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:16,719
Speaker 1: Like, I don't I've never have we heard this song?

720
00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:16,920
Speaker 2: Right?

721
00:36:17,280 --> 00:36:20,000
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. Is it subliminal?

722
00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:24,000
Speaker 2: Because the song that is huge, I think for Carrie

723
00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:24,880
Speaker 2: Hilson is.

724
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:28,560
Speaker 1: My name is Carrie and I'm so fairy. The other

725
00:36:28,600 --> 00:36:32,520
Speaker 1: one is turning you on? Something about turning you on?

726
00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:33,480
Speaker 1: I don't know.

727
00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:36,560
Speaker 2: I heard the first one recently and I was like listening, like,

728
00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:37,799
Speaker 2: this has got to be it. She's got to just

729
00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:40,680
Speaker 2: Beyonce somewhere and here and there was nothing, so all right,

730
00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:41,440
Speaker 2: well let's look it up.

731
00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:44,160
Speaker 1: Okay. So but I don't know as you looked that up,

732
00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:48,560
Speaker 1: she I think she was doing an interview with was

733
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:49,280
Speaker 1: he Charlemagne?

734
00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 2: It was Charlemage or Cam By the way, Cam's about

735
00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:54,640
Speaker 2: to make a whole lot of money, won Cam Newton

736
00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:57,359
Speaker 2: on what because the Shay Club is about to be

737
00:36:57,400 --> 00:36:58,000
Speaker 2: shut down?

738
00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:03,320
Speaker 1: So okay, So it was her turning me on? Remix Okay,

739
00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:05,799
Speaker 1: released in two thousand and nine, included lyrics that were

740
00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:11,880
Speaker 1: widely interpreted as a disc towards Beyonce, particularly referencing referencing

741
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:15,960
Speaker 1: her song Irreplaceable. H Hilson has since dated she was

742
00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:18,960
Speaker 1: forced to sing those lyrics and that they were not

743
00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:22,360
Speaker 1: her own words. Yes, so she goes. So, she describes

744
00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:24,879
Speaker 1: that day like she she was very young.

745
00:37:24,960 --> 00:37:27,040
Speaker 2: She this beginning of her career. She got to the

746
00:37:27,080 --> 00:37:29,280
Speaker 2: studio and they and she, oh.

747
00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:32,080
Speaker 1: She wrote the lyrics. Okay, here's the lyric writing. Okay, go.

748
00:37:33,200 --> 00:37:37,000
Speaker 1: The remix featured lyrics like your vision cloudy, if you

749
00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:40,920
Speaker 1: think you're you're the best, you can dance, she could sing,

750
00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:45,520
Speaker 1: but need to move it to the left now Irreplaceable

751
00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:50,320
Speaker 1: is to the left, to the left. Yeah, okay.

752
00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:54,480
Speaker 2: So Carrie goes on to say like, I've never felt

753
00:37:54,520 --> 00:37:56,959
Speaker 2: like I could say this. But when she got there,

754
00:37:57,160 --> 00:38:00,200
Speaker 2: they had written the lyrics for her and this the

755
00:38:00,239 --> 00:38:02,080
Speaker 2: girl that wrote the lyrics was like, yeah, I did it,

756
00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:05,640
Speaker 2: and Polo, who's the who was the producer, was like,

757
00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:08,640
Speaker 2: this is what you're gonna do and she was like no.

758
00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:09,800
Speaker 1: She just started crying.

759
00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:10,279
Speaker 3: Oh.

760
00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:13,319
Speaker 2: She was like she didn't want to do it, but

761
00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:15,799
Speaker 2: they were forcing her, not forcing her, but they were

762
00:38:15,800 --> 00:38:18,279
Speaker 2: like pushing it on her, pushing it on her, and

763
00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:22,520
Speaker 2: she was too young and too new to say no, right,

764
00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:25,000
Speaker 2: and I and she she was kind of crying talking

765
00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:27,000
Speaker 2: about it to this day, and I felt like.

766
00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:30,680
Speaker 1: And didn't she used to write songs for Beyonce. She

767
00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:33,400
Speaker 1: was a writer, and I think some she has written

768
00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:37,640
Speaker 1: songs for Beyonce or for Destiny Show or whomever. But

769
00:38:38,000 --> 00:38:39,560
Speaker 1: why would that destroy her career?

770
00:38:39,840 --> 00:38:43,200
Speaker 2: Because like every because it was this whole her against

771
00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:46,239
Speaker 2: Beyonce thing, and I think mentally and emotionally it took

772
00:38:46,280 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 2: her out. Yeah, yeah, yeah, gosh, imagine if that was today,

773
00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:54,800
Speaker 2: in the day of social media, Like, yeah, oh my gosh.

774
00:38:55,000 --> 00:38:56,799
Speaker 2: I kind of I felt when when she was telling

775
00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:57,880
Speaker 2: the story, I was like, you know what, it'd be

776
00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:00,120
Speaker 2: great if they work together like today.

777
00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:04,080
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, yeah, So hopefully that'll happen. Oh that's unfortunate

778
00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:07,920
Speaker 1: because Cherry Hilson is actually like a very smart girl,

779
00:39:08,160 --> 00:39:10,759
Speaker 1: like yeah, and when you hear her talk, she it's

780
00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:14,160
Speaker 1: not just about just her being a singer or whatever, Like,

781
00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:16,680
Speaker 1: she has a lot to offer. So that's that's unfortunate. Yeah,

782
00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:19,719
Speaker 1: she did talk about dating athletes. Did you see that?

783
00:39:20,719 --> 00:39:20,919
Speaker 3: Oh?

784
00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:23,839
Speaker 1: What did she say, because she dated Serge Ibaka at

785
00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:26,399
Speaker 1: one point. He's a basketball player who was fine, yes,

786
00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:29,800
Speaker 1: very fine. That thing looks good yes.

787
00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:37,080
Speaker 2: Yes, big chocolate yes, and he has an accent and everything.

788
00:39:38,000 --> 00:39:41,920
Speaker 1: Geezy accents make everyone sound smart.

789
00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:45,280
Speaker 2: No, they make him sound sexy, right, yes, not necessarily

790
00:39:45,320 --> 00:39:46,800
Speaker 2: smart all accents.

791
00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:49,440
Speaker 1: I mean men men with accents. Yeah. Yeah, it sounds

792
00:39:49,440 --> 00:39:51,560
Speaker 1: like please take your clothes off, right, Yeah, but it

793
00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:53,839
Speaker 1: makes it sound smart too, and sophisticated. And they can

794
00:39:53,920 --> 00:39:57,120
Speaker 1: be saying like, definitely sophisticated, the most like ratchet thing,

795
00:39:57,200 --> 00:40:00,480
Speaker 1: but they sounds sophisticated. Yeah. She did say that. They

796
00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:03,520
Speaker 1: say about dating athletes that they are I might be

797
00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:05,319
Speaker 1: able to relate. Yeah, I'm thinking you can't.

798
00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:06,360
Speaker 3: That they are.

799
00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:13,640
Speaker 2: They're not emotionally mature to love because or to know

800
00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:19,440
Speaker 2: how to love. Because when you know those those growing

801
00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:22,680
Speaker 2: up years, everything is given to them, everything is provided

802
00:40:22,719 --> 00:40:22,920
Speaker 2: for them.

803
00:40:24,160 --> 00:40:26,040
Speaker 1: They don't have to give.

804
00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:29,719
Speaker 2: They're just receiving and receiving and receiving. So in order

805
00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:34,719
Speaker 2: for them later in life to switch and learn the

806
00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:38,520
Speaker 2: skill set to love, it's extremely difficult and it really

807
00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:39,440
Speaker 2: doesn't happen.

808
00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:42,600
Speaker 1: And it's and it's hard. Like once the sport is over.

809
00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:46,160
Speaker 1: It's then they're dealing with like the mental just challenge

810
00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:49,000
Speaker 1: of of like okay, I'm no longer playing, like who

811
00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:51,239
Speaker 1: the hell am I really? So it's so funny. The

812
00:40:51,280 --> 00:40:57,759
Speaker 1: other day I was helping Corey. So Corey has back pain,

813
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:01,040
Speaker 1: so he's been doing like e T and all types

814
00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:05,000
Speaker 1: of stuff. And I'm so we were at night, we

815
00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:07,800
Speaker 1: were here at night, and I'm wrapping him in ice,

816
00:41:08,080 --> 00:41:10,239
Speaker 1: putting ice on his back and wrapping it around, and

817
00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:12,319
Speaker 1: I'm thinking to myself and I'm like, this said it

818
00:41:12,320 --> 00:41:15,080
Speaker 1: all out, like this is I'm like, you're being catered to.

819
00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:18,160
Speaker 1: I'm catering to you. And this is how I'm since

820
00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:20,760
Speaker 1: the beginning of it. This is how it starts. Totally,

821
00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 1: but it is. It's crazy. And it's not even like

822
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:27,040
Speaker 1: it's like it's not for a bad reason. It's like, Okay,

823
00:41:27,200 --> 00:41:29,200
Speaker 1: he's injured. We got to nurse him back to house

824
00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:32,040
Speaker 1: because in a couple of days he's traveling and going

825
00:41:32,080 --> 00:41:34,000
Speaker 1: to play basketball and blah blah blah. Right, and so

826
00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:37,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, you gotta you gotta ice, we gotta

827
00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:39,799
Speaker 1: put your heat on after you. You gotta make sure

828
00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:42,000
Speaker 1: you're eating. You need your protein you need to like.

829
00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:45,440
Speaker 2: It's like and it's just like and it's constant and

830
00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:48,520
Speaker 2: he's aware of it, right and so and he's.

831
00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:50,960
Speaker 1: And he's leaning into it instead of.

832
00:41:50,840 --> 00:41:53,480
Speaker 2: Like and I'm no shade to Corey, but that's just

833
00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:56,759
Speaker 2: the nature of the beast because he has to right

834
00:41:56,840 --> 00:42:00,719
Speaker 2: and everything is focused towards him being the best player

835
00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:04,480
Speaker 2: he can be right, which is fine, But then what

836
00:42:04,520 --> 00:42:06,759
Speaker 2: does that mean years later for as a relation to

837
00:42:06,800 --> 00:42:08,200
Speaker 2: a relationship.

838
00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:11,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, And it's definitely a thing. It's definitely a thing.

839
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:12,200
Speaker 2: Yeah.

840
00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:16,000
Speaker 1: And I think as parents, it's it's our kind of

841
00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:18,560
Speaker 1: duty to try to like prevent that from happening as

842
00:42:18,640 --> 00:42:20,799
Speaker 1: much as possible, you know. So when they're like, oh,

843
00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:23,399
Speaker 1: I'm hungry, I want a sandwich, I'm like, okay, go

844
00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:26,760
Speaker 1: make yourself a sandwich. Yeah, get it yourself. Yeah. Yeah.

845
00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:31,000
Speaker 2: When she broke it down, because I that had never

846
00:42:31,040 --> 00:42:34,320
Speaker 2: crossed my mind because I've dealt with plenty of athletes

847
00:42:34,400 --> 00:42:36,799
Speaker 2: to you, But once she broke it down, I was like,

848
00:42:37,480 --> 00:42:39,600
Speaker 2: that's the missing piece that I didn't know when I

849
00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:41,399
Speaker 2: was in that relationship, you know what I mean.

850
00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:44,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was like, oh that's it. Yeah, yeah, Oh,

851
00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:47,200
Speaker 1: they're not really case it's a huge thing. It could.

852
00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:50,319
Speaker 1: Like I said, it starts when they're young, it's and

853
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:53,840
Speaker 1: it just keeps going, and it keeps getting bigger and bigger,

854
00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:56,200
Speaker 1: especially if they play on a professional level, because you've

855
00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:58,719
Speaker 1: got you know, every person in the world works for

856
00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:01,279
Speaker 1: that organization to make sure you have what you need.

857
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Speaker 1: And then you hire a management company or you know,

858
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Speaker 1: your agent, and they have people who are making sure

859
00:43:08,640 --> 00:43:11,280
Speaker 1: you have what you need. You have, they're paying your bills,

860
00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:15,320
Speaker 1: they're you know, they're making sure you're eating all of it.

861
00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:19,799
Speaker 1: It's I didn't know Carrie Hilson was dating that guy. Yeah,

862
00:43:20,040 --> 00:43:21,960
Speaker 1: they dated for a little bit. They were like it was,

863
00:43:22,239 --> 00:43:24,360
Speaker 1: it was known. It was okay, they were together together.

864
00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:25,920
Speaker 1: They were together. I just want to date them for

865
00:43:26,080 --> 00:43:29,040
Speaker 1: the night, I know. Yeah, Yeah, moving.

866
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Speaker 2: On, Okay, we got we have one more. This is

867
00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:38,920
Speaker 2: from Mancha Mansa mesa Masa's spelled different. It's spelled differently

868
00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:42,680
Speaker 2: Mesa mesa, masa masa.

869
00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:47,640
Speaker 1: Yes, I'm gonna say masa. Hijazell and Robin.

870
00:43:47,680 --> 00:43:50,120
Speaker 2: I love this show, and honestly, I look forward to

871
00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:53,839
Speaker 2: boring car rides or washing dishes because I know I'll

872
00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:58,040
Speaker 2: be listening to y'all, and you make every mundane moment

873
00:43:58,400 --> 00:43:59,560
Speaker 2: so fun and entertaining.

874
00:43:59,719 --> 00:44:00,640
Speaker 1: So thank you.

875
00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:03,640
Speaker 2: I want to ask you both if you could share

876
00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:06,480
Speaker 2: a bit about your experience during the early years of

877
00:44:06,560 --> 00:44:10,560
Speaker 2: motherhood kids zero to five. I'm currently postpartum with a

878
00:44:10,640 --> 00:44:12,799
Speaker 2: nine month old and have five and have a five

879
00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:16,600
Speaker 2: year old son, and life can be challenging and draining.

880
00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:19,120
Speaker 2: I have heard it takes a village to raise a child.

881
00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:23,719
Speaker 2: I've not always experienced this, unfortunately in your experience, how

882
00:44:23,840 --> 00:44:27,560
Speaker 2: was it for y'all? Giselle, how did you handle three toddlers?

883
00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:28,640
Speaker 2: Did you have a nanny?

884
00:44:28,680 --> 00:44:30,919
Speaker 1: Did you have help? On a Robin you shared Wan

885
00:44:31,160 --> 00:44:34,399
Speaker 1: was not always present those days? How did she do it?

886
00:44:34,680 --> 00:44:35,520
Speaker 1: How'd you do it? Robin?

887
00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:41,600
Speaker 2: By the way, my husband's name is Wan. Thanks so

888
00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:44,120
Speaker 2: much for reading, for reading my question and sharing. Love

889
00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:46,880
Speaker 2: you both. You need to spin off just for the

890
00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:49,640
Speaker 2: two of you on Bravo. Okay, let's we're gonna work

891
00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:53,960
Speaker 2: on that MESA. Food's from Toronto, Toronto, and we won't

892
00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:55,520
Speaker 2: to apologize right now for not knowing.

893
00:44:55,320 --> 00:44:58,120
Speaker 1: Exactly where Toronto is. I know where it is? Where

894
00:44:58,200 --> 00:44:59,680
Speaker 1: is it? I know I'm not been there a million times?

895
00:44:59,719 --> 00:45:01,560
Speaker 1: Where is I mean it's like the most it's like

896
00:45:02,080 --> 00:45:10,440
Speaker 1: southeast Toronto. It's like an hour from New York. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

897
00:45:10,560 --> 00:45:16,520
Speaker 1: it's in Ontario, which is where like southeastern portion of Canada,

898
00:45:17,960 --> 00:45:22,520
Speaker 1: which is locate did to where southeast Canada? What do

899
00:45:22,560 --> 00:45:22,759
Speaker 1: you mean?

900
00:45:22,800 --> 00:45:25,759
Speaker 2: It's Canada above the United States or society United States?

901
00:45:25,840 --> 00:45:26,600
Speaker 1: Are you serious?

902
00:45:26,680 --> 00:45:27,040
Speaker 3: Right now?

903
00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:29,600
Speaker 1: Wait a minute? Okay, so wait, Canada's north I know

904
00:45:29,680 --> 00:45:32,279
Speaker 1: that of the United States. I knew that. Yes, so,

905
00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:38,719
Speaker 1: but it's closer to east coast Toronto. Yes, yeah, that's

906
00:45:38,719 --> 00:45:41,920
Speaker 1: why I say it's southeast. Okay, so like Toronto is

907
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:46,320
Speaker 1: actually close to the United States because it's the southern

908
00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:48,399
Speaker 1: portion of Canada. I was just seen. If you knew

909
00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:52,399
Speaker 1: and the exactly the eastern portion of Canada, you can

910
00:45:52,440 --> 00:45:55,520
Speaker 1: actually we actually because we were in Toronto. One played

911
00:45:55,520 --> 00:45:59,680
Speaker 1: for the Raptors and was traded to Detroit Pistons and

912
00:45:59,719 --> 00:46:01,960
Speaker 1: we drove like it was I can't remember how long

913
00:46:01,960 --> 00:46:03,480
Speaker 1: the drive was. It wasn't that long. We drove from

914
00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:07,279
Speaker 1: Toronto to Detroit and it wasn't like super long. Okay, Yeah,

915
00:46:07,360 --> 00:46:08,920
Speaker 1: just packed up the car and said we're out of here.

916
00:46:09,040 --> 00:46:14,680
Speaker 1: Well not kind of, not really okay, but okay, raising kids.

917
00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:17,160
Speaker 1: Oh you're raising kids, that's the question. Yes, it's hard

918
00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:21,239
Speaker 1: as shit, yes, yes, so masa mesa. If you are struggling,

919
00:46:21,719 --> 00:46:24,799
Speaker 1: this is normal. Yeah, okay, we all are all did yes,

920
00:46:24,880 --> 00:46:27,960
Speaker 1: but it's temporary. You're going to get through it. I

921
00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:32,320
Speaker 1: had a nanny come when they were like up until

922
00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:35,000
Speaker 1: they were about eight fifteen months or so. I had

923
00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:40,919
Speaker 1: a nanny come like three days a week. Eventually, when

924
00:46:40,920 --> 00:46:42,879
Speaker 1: they got to be about like fifteen months, I put

925
00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:45,440
Speaker 1: them in a school like a daycare. Yeah, and that

926
00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:48,399
Speaker 1: was the best thing ever because it gave you time. Yeah.

927
00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:50,520
Speaker 1: It's just when the nanny and the people are in

928
00:46:50,520 --> 00:46:52,040
Speaker 1: your house and the kids in your house, they still

929
00:46:52,040 --> 00:46:54,480
Speaker 1: want you, like the kids. If you're in the house,

930
00:46:54,760 --> 00:46:56,959
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter who's there to help, the kids still

931
00:46:57,000 --> 00:47:00,560
Speaker 1: want you. Yeah. So I think once you kids get

932
00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:02,840
Speaker 1: of an age where you're comfortable sending them to like

933
00:47:02,880 --> 00:47:05,279
Speaker 1: a school or a daycare, like do it, get to

934
00:47:05,400 --> 00:47:06,120
Speaker 1: it out of the house.

935
00:47:06,360 --> 00:47:10,480
Speaker 2: And plus they need a little interaction social ye. Social

936
00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:12,720
Speaker 2: they socially they need interaction, yeah for sure.

937
00:47:13,040 --> 00:47:15,160
Speaker 1: And then the phrase like it takes a village. It's

938
00:47:15,160 --> 00:47:17,800
Speaker 1: not just about you know, Okay, I have like my my,

939
00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:22,520
Speaker 1: my mother, or you know, ones like brother We had,

940
00:47:22,520 --> 00:47:24,920
Speaker 1: like you know, a bunch of like brothers and uncles

941
00:47:24,920 --> 00:47:27,520
Speaker 1: and cousins and stuff that would help my my son's stuff.

942
00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:31,239
Speaker 1: But it's also like putting them in activities, like that's

943
00:47:31,280 --> 00:47:33,000
Speaker 1: part of the village too. So if you don't have

944
00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:36,440
Speaker 1: family that's there that can help you, like put them

945
00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:38,200
Speaker 1: in activities where whether I don't know, if you have

946
00:47:38,200 --> 00:47:41,480
Speaker 1: a girl or boy, whether it's dance, or it's baseball

947
00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:45,400
Speaker 1: or soccer like those some of those people become your village,

948
00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:47,480
Speaker 1: are a part of the village that it takes to

949
00:47:47,560 --> 00:47:48,600
Speaker 1: raise a child totally.

950
00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:52,520
Speaker 2: And even with the schools I remember, you know, my

951
00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:56,120
Speaker 2: kids went to a very small elementary school and those

952
00:47:56,200 --> 00:47:58,319
Speaker 2: moms there, they were part of my village. They ain't

953
00:47:58,320 --> 00:47:59,799
Speaker 2: know it, but it's part of my They was like

954
00:47:59,800 --> 00:48:02,200
Speaker 2: all was looking out for my kids once once we

955
00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:06,080
Speaker 2: started filming the show, they would always someone would just

956
00:48:06,120 --> 00:48:08,200
Speaker 2: take my kids home, pick them up. Like I knew

957
00:48:08,239 --> 00:48:11,000
Speaker 2: I was running late. They would check in with me

958
00:48:11,160 --> 00:48:14,520
Speaker 2: like they there was there's like three women, three moms.

959
00:48:14,560 --> 00:48:17,160
Speaker 2: I'm not going to shout them out, but they completely

960
00:48:17,200 --> 00:48:19,279
Speaker 2: saved my life with regards to my kids they were,

961
00:48:19,320 --> 00:48:20,960
Speaker 2: I would like call them in a clutch and they

962
00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:23,520
Speaker 2: would be there for me. But when mine were babies,

963
00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:26,000
Speaker 2: because I had three, I had a full time nanny.

964
00:48:26,800 --> 00:48:29,680
Speaker 2: She would come at six am and she would leave

965
00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:30,680
Speaker 2: at six pm.

966
00:48:31,239 --> 00:48:35,239
Speaker 1: And that's a long day. That's a long day.

967
00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:38,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, she was getting paid well, so, but I needed

968
00:48:38,719 --> 00:48:40,759
Speaker 2: an extra set of hands. There was three of them,

969
00:48:40,840 --> 00:48:44,680
Speaker 2: three and then, like Robins said, once Grace was able

970
00:48:44,760 --> 00:48:47,400
Speaker 2: to like go to like a little daycare or whatever

971
00:48:47,480 --> 00:48:51,480
Speaker 2: I sent her, she ain't like it, but she's all right, right,

972
00:48:51,520 --> 00:48:52,040
Speaker 2: she made it.

973
00:48:52,120 --> 00:48:52,799
Speaker 1: She made it through.

974
00:48:53,680 --> 00:48:55,239
Speaker 2: And then once all three of them could go, Yeah,

975
00:48:55,320 --> 00:48:59,640
Speaker 2: that's that was like the ticket because I needed a break. Yes,

976
00:49:00,440 --> 00:49:03,080
Speaker 2: like a break is you got to you gotta take

977
00:49:03,120 --> 00:49:06,479
Speaker 2: a break to rejuvenate yourself, right, Because once my kids

978
00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:11,239
Speaker 2: would see me, it was like NonStop every minute, like

979
00:49:11,280 --> 00:49:14,480
Speaker 2: there was no minute that I had free hold on

980
00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:18,040
Speaker 2: until they went to bed. No, yes, so but I

981
00:49:18,120 --> 00:49:20,560
Speaker 2: enjoyed it though, I mean it was it was exhausting

982
00:49:20,640 --> 00:49:21,239
Speaker 2: to no end.

983
00:49:21,320 --> 00:49:24,800
Speaker 1: But like you know, once it's over, it's over. Yeah, exactly,

984
00:49:24,880 --> 00:49:27,040
Speaker 1: it's over. And so for you, I know you're struggling

985
00:49:27,120 --> 00:49:30,120
Speaker 1: or anyone out out here, that's like really in the woods,

986
00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:32,799
Speaker 1: in the thick of it, it's gonna it feels like

987
00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:34,719
Speaker 1: it's not going to go fast, but it's going to

988
00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:36,360
Speaker 1: go by so fast. And you're gonna look back at

989
00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:39,279
Speaker 1: those times and be like, Whooo, how did I do it?

990
00:49:39,520 --> 00:49:41,200
Speaker 1: Don't know, but I did it. But you did it.

991
00:49:41,520 --> 00:49:43,800
Speaker 1: You're gonna do it, so don't. But don't be afraid

992
00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:46,400
Speaker 1: to lean on people, even whether it's your neighbors or

993
00:49:46,480 --> 00:49:49,040
Speaker 1: like I said, activities, put them in activities, put them

994
00:49:49,080 --> 00:49:53,239
Speaker 1: in school. Yeah. Just and don't be afraid to be

995
00:49:53,320 --> 00:49:56,400
Speaker 1: like this shit is hard, like oh, yeah, you know,

996
00:49:56,840 --> 00:49:58,719
Speaker 1: it's fine. It's totally hard.

997
00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:01,480
Speaker 2: And it would annoy when like moms with like five

998
00:50:01,560 --> 00:50:03,520
Speaker 2: kids that act like they were doing that shit with

999
00:50:03,560 --> 00:50:04,600
Speaker 2: their ass closed. Right.

1000
00:50:04,680 --> 00:50:08,120
Speaker 1: No, no, you're just trying to make everybody else look bad.

1001
00:50:08,600 --> 00:50:11,600
Speaker 1: Like no. So yeah, and do it your way. I

1002
00:50:11,600 --> 00:50:13,840
Speaker 1: always say, like, you know, do what's comfortable for you.

1003
00:50:13,960 --> 00:50:14,560
Speaker 1: Do it your way.

1004
00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:18,400
Speaker 2: Nobody can tell you that your way is not the

1005
00:50:18,480 --> 00:50:20,400
Speaker 2: right way, but I might judge you.

1006
00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:24,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, we're out of here. Guys. We love

1007
00:50:24,200 --> 00:50:24,719
Speaker 1: y'all so much.

1008
00:50:24,719 --> 00:50:26,640
Speaker 2: To ever forget to live your life either reasonable or

1009
00:50:26,880 --> 00:50:37,440
Speaker 2: chuggy We're both by Reasonably Shady is a production of

1010
00:50:37,560 --> 00:50:39,840
Speaker 2: the Black Effect podcast Network.

1011
00:50:40,080 --> 00:50:45,040
Speaker 1: For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,

1012
00:50:45,120 --> 00:50:46,720
Speaker 1: or wherever you listen to your favorite

1013
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Speaker 2: Shows, and you can connect with us on social media

1014
00:50:50,200 --> 00:50:56,279
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