WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Hot Burrito Boy

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<v Speaker 1>Second date up to date? What counts as dating right now?

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's a fair question. Like if you only

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<v Speaker 1>see each other between the hours of three am and

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<v Speaker 1>seven am and you're never sober for that, is that

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<v Speaker 1>That's how I used to date. I thought that was dating.

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<v Speaker 1>If you've only bought you socks from them online? Is

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<v Speaker 1>that dating things online or some circles? I think that

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<v Speaker 1>might qualify. And one of our listeners emailed us because

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<v Speaker 1>she isn't sure if her hangout should be considered worthy

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<v Speaker 1>of a second date. Update Okay, she said she was

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<v Speaker 1>hoping that we would do it. Well, we have low standards,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm sure we will. And she's actually lucky that

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<v Speaker 1>the first four people that we tried calling this morning

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<v Speaker 1>didn't answer yes. Because of that, Nicole, you are worthy

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<v Speaker 1>of a second date. Welcome to the show. Thanks every

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<v Speaker 1>lesson Hoya Resort, and Nicole, we look forward to helping you,

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<v Speaker 1>even if you've only bought someone's socks recently. Okay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well I'm gonna stop guessing. Why don't you just start

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<v Speaker 1>telling us what's going on? Nicole? Who are we trying

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<v Speaker 1>to call today? We're trying to call Evan, I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>sure if you'd answer it because it was actually, um,

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<v Speaker 1>we had a virtual date, not an in person date. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that counts more than like a three am

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<v Speaker 1>hook up as a date. I mean, it's thoughtful, it's

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<v Speaker 1>planned out right. Yeah, I don't mind a virtual date.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually I actually prefer it. You know, when you

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<v Speaker 1>meet people online, there's a lot of build up, and

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<v Speaker 1>then you meet up in person and sometimes it's really awkward,

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<v Speaker 1>like we don't look like their picture and they have

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<v Speaker 1>no personality, and then you're you're stuck. Yeah, with a

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<v Speaker 1>virtual date easier, right? Is that why you chose to

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<v Speaker 1>do a virtual date? Because you've had such a bad

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<v Speaker 1>run with online dating, or because you can start a

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<v Speaker 1>virtual date with no pants and no one would know.

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<v Speaker 1>It usually makes a date go better even in person.

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly a little bit of both, a little bit of both. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just so exhausted of doing any sort of video

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<v Speaker 1>like chatting at all, But it sounds like you can

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<v Speaker 1>talk a lot, so it sounds like it'd be good

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<v Speaker 1>for you. Meant that. I think she meant that as

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<v Speaker 1>a compliment. Is there any nerves going into a virtual date? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>do you have any butterflies or anything like that, or

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<v Speaker 1>do you just not expect much? You know, No, I

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<v Speaker 1>do have nerves. I was a little nervous because he

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<v Speaker 1>had a really fun date plan. So Evan said that

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<v Speaker 1>we should meet up on online and do a virtual

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<v Speaker 1>burrito date, which I thought was really, what does that mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Sounds messy? No? No, And it wasn't messy because his

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<v Speaker 1>idea is that we would buy three different frozen burritos,

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<v Speaker 1>the same ones, and then we would try them together

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<v Speaker 1>on you. But I thought was really cute. But I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like to like find the best frozen burrito.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not it's not about angle the brand, well, we

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<v Speaker 1>don't know the name of it, but it's that orange

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<v Speaker 1>one that one. Let's try and focus on the date

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<v Speaker 1>and not the food. Hung up on broke. How did

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<v Speaker 1>your frozen burrito date go? It was really fun. We

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<v Speaker 1>had a bean and cheese burrito, a meat and cheese burrito,

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<v Speaker 1>and then just cheese. Okay, okay, yeah, okay, And did

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<v Speaker 1>you guys like the same one we did? We both

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<v Speaker 1>thought the bean and cheese was the best. We had

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<v Speaker 1>a greeting system. It was a one to ten like

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<v Speaker 1>in the Olympics, like we wrote it down and held

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<v Speaker 1>up a little sign so we could both see it.

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<v Speaker 1>Scalet one to ten. How sexy did Evan look eating burrito?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna I'm saying ten. Okay, the highest right yet?

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<v Speaker 1>Burrito boy? All right, so how do you end a

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<v Speaker 1>burrito date? But you got to go to the bathroom? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>a sprint to the toilet? No, luckily, what how does

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<v Speaker 1>it end? You know? We just we finished burritos. We're

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<v Speaker 1>just hanging out and talking. You know what. We broke

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<v Speaker 1>the ice and I just was told on the I

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<v Speaker 1>was taking bass guitar lessons, which is something really fun.

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<v Speaker 1>But he asked me to play a little bit. So

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<v Speaker 1>I played a little bit of my songs, just the

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<v Speaker 1>bass guitar of it. Yeah, the bassis are always the hottest.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, thank you. I find a bass player

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<v Speaker 1>extremely attractive. Okay, did he like your bass playing? I

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<v Speaker 1>think he thought it was cute. I mean I thought

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<v Speaker 1>it was silly and fun, Like I don't know, that

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't be the turn off, right, it was awkward, like

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<v Speaker 1>what did you do? Just sit there? But he asked

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<v Speaker 1>for it. Guys gets a slider out and like the

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<v Speaker 1>thing you only played one song, right, you didn't give

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<v Speaker 1>them a full concert, a full set. I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>played like a bit of different songs, I see, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're talking like real songs, not like old McDonald or

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<v Speaker 1>something that's fine too. She's no like another one bites

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<v Speaker 1>his dust or like burnees love and touch and squeeze

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<v Speaker 1>in good. And that's impressive even if you're not good

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<v Speaker 1>that at least. But you're worried that it like turned

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<v Speaker 1>him off. Did his mood change or something after you're

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<v Speaker 1>done with your bass plan? I didn't think so. I

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was fun. We just kind of like chatted

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit more, and then it kind of came

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<v Speaker 1>to its own and we said goodbye, and I mentioned

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<v Speaker 1>him about going on a real date, yeah, and he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't seem as interested anymore as before we met, virtually,

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<v Speaker 1>like you stopped messaging me back that much. And I

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<v Speaker 1>started to think about, you know, like all the things

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<v Speaker 1>I worry about with a with an online date or

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<v Speaker 1>virtual date. I was like, do I not look like

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<v Speaker 1>my picture? And I started I asked my roommates. So

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why he's kind of dated out. It

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like you've covered a lot of basses there. I

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<v Speaker 1>think why, I don't want to ruin our segment, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's because of her burrito choice obviously different. It's possible.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Nicole. Do you have your bass guitar with you

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<v Speaker 1>right now? It's in the other room, but it's it's here.

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<v Speaker 1>Would do you think maybe we could get a sample

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<v Speaker 1>of your bass guitar playing, just so that we know

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<v Speaker 1>this is research, so that we know what we were

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<v Speaker 1>working with. Uncomfortable people playing music, that's me. I'd have

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<v Speaker 1>to get my amp and get it set up. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>that's good because we actually have to play a song.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're gonna leave, we'll come back, yeah, and then

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<v Speaker 1>you can play us a song when we do your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update right after this. Okay, all right, hold

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<v Speaker 1>on second Date. I'm purposely bumping into this segment without

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<v Speaker 1>any music because we got our own in house band today.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never been so excited about the second part. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just one person, our listener, Nicole, who we've been talking

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<v Speaker 1>to about her dating life. We're going to get to

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<v Speaker 1>that in just a second, but she's an up and

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<v Speaker 1>coming bass player. Nicole. We asked for a little demonstration

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<v Speaker 1>because you played a little bit of bass on your date.

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<v Speaker 1>So what are we going to be hearing today? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>telling you I just started this month with another one

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<v Speaker 1>bites the dust. Okay, okay, before you get I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to introduce you. Ladies and gentlemen, please welcome to the

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<v Speaker 1>stage for your listening pleasure. Nicole and the finger flips

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<v Speaker 1>that would give her a second day I think, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, Okay, flooding. Yeah, all right, now we've heard

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<v Speaker 1>the YouTube version. Now play it yourself. Way better than

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<v Speaker 1>I was expecting you to do. After this one month

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<v Speaker 1>of lessons that was legit as long as we could

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<v Speaker 1>tell yeah, we're doing and we all did, that's all

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<v Speaker 1>that matters. You did a great job. So if you're

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<v Speaker 1>just joining us, then you don't know why Nicole played.

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<v Speaker 1>It's because during her virtual date with a guy named Evan,

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<v Speaker 1>she played the bass guitar to show him what she's

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<v Speaker 1>been doing, along with tasting some frozen burritos with him.

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<v Speaker 1>But after that, she's been having a hard time organizing

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<v Speaker 1>an in person meet up. So we're gonna call Evan

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<v Speaker 1>and ask what's going on. That is, if you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>die from embarrassment just now, Nicole, embarrass you. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>just hear you in the background kind of like laugh,

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<v Speaker 1>moaning or something. I'm still breathing. You're still breathing. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Take a deep breath. Yeah, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>dial Evan's phone and we're gonna trying to get you

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<v Speaker 1>a second date. I just hope that another one doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>bite the dust. But yeah, let's do it. Hello. Hey

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<v Speaker 1>is a seven? Yeah cool? Yeah, Okay, Hi Evan. My

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<v Speaker 1>name's jeff from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. We're hoping to talk with you a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit about your dating life. Uh okay, well I'm not interested,

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<v Speaker 1>So could you take me off your list? You know? No, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not us. It's actually somebody that you went on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with who's asked us to call you. Her

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<v Speaker 1>name is Nicole. Oh so this is a real call

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<v Speaker 1>that yes, dial one to sign up. Yeah, so what's

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<v Speaker 1>going on? This is called a second date update? And

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<v Speaker 1>Nicole reached out to us because she told us that

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<v Speaker 1>you guys went on a virtual date together and she's

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<v Speaker 1>been trying to hang out in person, but she's confused

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<v Speaker 1>why that isn't happening yet. Yeah. Well, uh, to be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think an in person date is going to happen,

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<v Speaker 1>So thank you. Okay, Oh that's too bad. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>she seems so fun loving and your date sounded awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>She told us that you like put together what would

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<v Speaker 1>we call it? A burrito battle? Yeah, we had burritos.

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<v Speaker 1>It was fun. It was a fun date. Don't get

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<v Speaker 1>me wrong. But if I must get into it, Nicole

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<v Speaker 1>is a liar. Whoa, that's heavy. Well what I found

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<v Speaker 1>out that she lied to me about her age? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh damn, bro, Like, I mean, is that how much

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<v Speaker 1>a big deal to you? Like? Yeah, how much? She

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<v Speaker 1>told me she was twenty nine, but I found out

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<v Speaker 1>that she was actually thirty? Wait year? Are you? Was

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<v Speaker 1>that a joke? No? That's the red fla to me, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>what a stupid thing to lie about, especially by one year?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, what that is so dumb? Angle, Yeah, why

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<v Speaker 1>would you lie about something tiny like that? Maybe she

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<v Speaker 1>honestly forgot what did you ask her age? No, it's

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<v Speaker 1>listed on her dating profile, that's true. Who cares it's

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<v Speaker 1>one year? Well what does that mean to you? Evan?

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<v Speaker 1>Why is that such a big deal that she's one

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<v Speaker 1>year off? Well, she's lying about that? What else could

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<v Speaker 1>she be lying about it? Just maybe she made her

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<v Speaker 1>profile when she was twenty nine and she just never

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<v Speaker 1>updated it has your birthday it update? Yeah, okay, if

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<v Speaker 1>you're that concerned about it, Evan, then you should have

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<v Speaker 1>asked her. Yeah, but this was after our date and

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't gonna just text her about that. You're just

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<v Speaker 1>gonna move on? Well, are you okay if I ask

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<v Speaker 1>her that question? Because Nicole's actually on the line and

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<v Speaker 1>she's been listening this entire time, and I'm happy to

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<v Speaker 1>do that for you. Oh great, So yeah, here she is, Nicole.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it true? Did you lie about your age to Evan? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't like lying directly to Evan. It's not that

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<v Speaker 1>big of a deal on my dating profile. I said, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm twenty nine. It's one year. It really bothers you confirm.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just really weird, like why why one year? Like

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<v Speaker 1>I see, if you lied by like five years, I

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<v Speaker 1>almost wouldn't respect that morel really honestly, like, okay, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>I would be actually more uset if like I met

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<v Speaker 1>someone and they were like forty instead of thirty. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a big difference. This is one year and I really

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<v Speaker 1>feel weird that I have to explain this, but I

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<v Speaker 1>was on other dating websites and I have found that

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<v Speaker 1>if you say you're in your twenties, you get way

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<v Speaker 1>more matches. So it was just a way to just

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<v Speaker 1>maybe brought in the field and they get to meet

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<v Speaker 1>more people. So you were just trying to optimize your

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<v Speaker 1>matches by going down one year, Evan in your twenties, Evan,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you think is that a reasonable excuse for you?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I buy it, but I don't feel weird

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<v Speaker 1>about it. How old are you, Evan? One? Oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was going to be something like I don't

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<v Speaker 1>date women in their thirties because I'm twenty three or

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<v Speaker 1>something like it. More if she would have told you

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<v Speaker 1>she was thirty, you would have been cool. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I think like she's gaming the system a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit. Isn't that what dating maps are? Four? Though? Geeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you obviously on your range set that you like twenty

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<v Speaker 1>year old like people in their twenties. Yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>Evan ought to say on your profile you said that

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<v Speaker 1>you were athletic and fix for your building that question,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't know, you look a little more average

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<v Speaker 1>to me. Wow, first of all, I was sitting down

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<v Speaker 1>for the entirety of the thing. I think I look

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<v Speaker 1>way better standing up. Yet when I stand up to

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<v Speaker 1>sitting down and eating three burritos, looking like at ten

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<v Speaker 1>while doing it. Okay, Obviously Nicole's feelings are a little

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<v Speaker 1>hurt Evan because it just it seems like a pretty

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<v Speaker 1>superficial reason not to call her back. It sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>if you would have just asked her her age, she

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<v Speaker 1>would have told you yeah, I guess so, and I

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<v Speaker 1>kept her reasoning to be honest. Okay, you know it's okay. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>this is probably good because that's going to bother you

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<v Speaker 1>and you're gonna not call me back or even talk

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<v Speaker 1>to me about it. It probably is better that we

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<v Speaker 1>don't see each other again. Old sounds like he was

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<v Speaker 1>just wait, wait, wait, but now that I've heard your reasoning, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm into it, let's not give up on It's just

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<v Speaker 1>like that all right now. You called me a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>The first thing you said about me on the SOLL

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<v Speaker 1>was I'm a liar. No thanks, but you did lie.

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<v Speaker 1>It's wrong. Oh man, this is like such a little thing. Guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I know what it's like they're already in their first

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<v Speaker 1>fight and they haven't even met in real life. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she is kind of going towards her midlife though, Brooks. So,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm still willing to offer to send you guys

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<v Speaker 1>out on another date. And Evan, it sounds like up

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<v Speaker 1>to this point you were into it. Yeah. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe I I jumped to conclusions too quickly and I

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<v Speaker 1>probably should have just asked. But I'm into it. But

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<v Speaker 1>if she's get it okay, Well, Nicole, he admits that

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<v Speaker 1>he made a mistake, and which is a huge thing

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<v Speaker 1>right now. Like to find a person who could admit

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<v Speaker 1>they were wrong and learn from it like that is

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<v Speaker 1>a good quality to have. I mean, Nicole, maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>jumped to conclusions when you said that you wouldn't go

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<v Speaker 1>out with him based on one thing that he said.

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<v Speaker 1>So can we meet in the middle here and go

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<v Speaker 1>out to one more time and we'll pay for think

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<v Speaker 1>of the burritos? Ten I can prove that build there

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<v Speaker 1>he got now, And maybe what would do it is

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<v Speaker 1>if he's honest with you right now and he tells

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<v Speaker 1>you what he really thinks about your bass playing. It

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<v Speaker 1>was pretty solid for someone who's live been doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>A month. But it was honest. It wasn't over the

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<v Speaker 1>top glowing review. It wasn't horrible. It was like, it's

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<v Speaker 1>pretty good. I would like to hear more. Come on,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, fine, stop yelling me. Fine a second day,

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<v Speaker 1>Nicole to celebrate. You want to play a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of bass guitar on the way out? Yeah, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't trying to think it would No, maybe not

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the morning. It's rare that we try and

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<v Speaker 1>get a date for somebody and then they change their

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<v Speaker 1>mind after hearing what the reason was, and then change

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<v Speaker 1>their mind back again to Yet that was a good

0:16:11.840 --> 0:16:13.960
<v Speaker 1>roller coaster we were on. Yeah, yeah, I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of understand though. Somebody comes at you real hard

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<v Speaker 1>and it's like she's a liar. Yeah, yeah, you're not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna like him a lot. But even more rare is

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<v Speaker 1>that the caller says no at the start, and then

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<v Speaker 1>he says yes too. Yeah, and now you're doing a

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<v Speaker 1>chart that's really hard to follow at this point, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we get we get where you're coming. Yeah. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like there's some sort of mercury and retrograde thing happening,

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<v Speaker 1>or is this a sign that those two are definitely

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<v Speaker 1>going to get married. Oh wow, that doesn't happen that often.

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<v Speaker 1>Sowhere in the middle pretty much. Yeah, it could just

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<v Speaker 1>be like what Brooke was saying during the call that

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<v Speaker 1>nowadays a lot of people are jerks in the moment

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<v Speaker 1>and then they won't admit that they're wrong. Yeah. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's what's wrong with humanity right now, is that

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<v Speaker 1>we're all so scared of being wrong for some reason. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I disagree with that, So you're right, you're canceled now, right.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I'm wrong. I apologize, but I really do hope

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<v Speaker 1>that Nicole and Evan are both in this for the

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<v Speaker 1>long haul. And if they are, then I told you so.

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<v Speaker 1>And if they're not, then we'll do an update update

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<v Speaker 1>and blame it on book. Anyway, I'll go for one

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<v Speaker 1>of those two. But if you ever want to get

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update, you can always email the show.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll call it the person who wasn't calling you back.