Speaker 1: Second date up to date? What counts as dating right now?
Speaker 1: I think that's a fair question. Like if you only
Speaker 1: see each other between the hours of three am and
Speaker 1: seven am and you're never sober for that, is that
Speaker 1: That's how I used to date. I thought that was dating.
Speaker 1: If you've only bought you socks from them online? Is
Speaker 1: that dating things online or some circles? I think that
Speaker 1: might qualify. And one of our listeners emailed us because
Speaker 1: she isn't sure if her hangout should be considered worthy
Speaker 1: of a second date. Update Okay, she said she was
Speaker 1: hoping that we would do it. Well, we have low standards,
Speaker 1: so I'm sure we will. And she's actually lucky that
Speaker 1: the first four people that we tried calling this morning
Speaker 1: didn't answer yes. Because of that, Nicole, you are worthy
Speaker 1: of a second date. Welcome to the show. Thanks every
Speaker 1: lesson Hoya Resort, and Nicole, we look forward to helping you,
Speaker 1: even if you've only bought someone's socks recently. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: well I'm gonna stop guessing. Why don't you just start
Speaker 1: telling us what's going on? Nicole? Who are we trying
Speaker 1: to call today? We're trying to call Evan, I wasn't
Speaker 1: sure if you'd answer it because it was actually, um,
Speaker 1: we had a virtual date, not an in person date. Oh,
Speaker 1: I think that counts more than like a three am
Speaker 1: hook up as a date. I mean, it's thoughtful, it's
Speaker 1: planned out right. Yeah, I don't mind a virtual date.
Speaker 1: I actually I actually prefer it. You know, when you
Speaker 1: meet people online, there's a lot of build up, and
Speaker 1: then you meet up in person and sometimes it's really awkward,
Speaker 1: like we don't look like their picture and they have
Speaker 1: no personality, and then you're you're stuck. Yeah, with a
Speaker 1: virtual date easier, right? Is that why you chose to
Speaker 1: do a virtual date? Because you've had such a bad
Speaker 1: run with online dating, or because you can start a
Speaker 1: virtual date with no pants and no one would know.
Speaker 1: It usually makes a date go better even in person.
Speaker 1: Exactly a little bit of both, a little bit of both. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm just so exhausted of doing any sort of video
Speaker 1: like chatting at all, But it sounds like you can
Speaker 1: talk a lot, so it sounds like it'd be good
Speaker 1: for you. Meant that. I think she meant that as
Speaker 1: a compliment. Is there any nerves going into a virtual date? Like,
Speaker 1: do you have any butterflies or anything like that, or
Speaker 1: do you just not expect much? You know, No, I
Speaker 1: do have nerves. I was a little nervous because he
Speaker 1: had a really fun date plan. So Evan said that
Speaker 1: we should meet up on online and do a virtual
Speaker 1: burrito date, which I thought was really, what does that mean?
Speaker 1: Sounds messy? No? No, And it wasn't messy because his
Speaker 1: idea is that we would buy three different frozen burritos,
Speaker 1: the same ones, and then we would try them together
Speaker 1: on you. But I thought was really cute. But I
Speaker 1: kind of like to like find the best frozen burrito.
Speaker 1: It's not it's not about angle the brand, well, we
Speaker 1: don't know the name of it, but it's that orange
Speaker 1: one that one. Let's try and focus on the date
Speaker 1: and not the food. Hung up on broke. How did
Speaker 1: your frozen burrito date go? It was really fun. We
Speaker 1: had a bean and cheese burrito, a meat and cheese burrito,
Speaker 1: and then just cheese. Okay, okay, yeah, okay, And did
Speaker 1: you guys like the same one we did? We both
Speaker 1: thought the bean and cheese was the best. We had
Speaker 1: a greeting system. It was a one to ten like
Speaker 1: in the Olympics, like we wrote it down and held
Speaker 1: up a little sign so we could both see it.
Speaker 1: Scalet one to ten. How sexy did Evan look eating burrito?
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm saying ten. Okay, the highest right yet?
Speaker 1: Burrito boy? All right, so how do you end a
Speaker 1: burrito date? But you got to go to the bathroom? Yeah,
Speaker 1: a sprint to the toilet? No, luckily, what how does
Speaker 1: it end? You know? We just we finished burritos. We're
Speaker 1: just hanging out and talking. You know what. We broke
Speaker 1: the ice and I just was told on the I
Speaker 1: was taking bass guitar lessons, which is something really fun.
Speaker 1: But he asked me to play a little bit. So
Speaker 1: I played a little bit of my songs, just the
Speaker 1: bass guitar of it. Yeah, the bassis are always the hottest.
Speaker 1: I don't know, thank you. I find a bass player
Speaker 1: extremely attractive. Okay, did he like your bass playing? I
Speaker 1: think he thought it was cute. I mean I thought
Speaker 1: it was silly and fun, Like I don't know, that
Speaker 1: wouldn't be the turn off, right, it was awkward, like
Speaker 1: what did you do? Just sit there? But he asked
Speaker 1: for it. Guys gets a slider out and like the
Speaker 1: thing you only played one song, right, you didn't give
Speaker 1: them a full concert, a full set. I mean I
Speaker 1: played like a bit of different songs, I see, and
Speaker 1: we're talking like real songs, not like old McDonald or
Speaker 1: something that's fine too. She's no like another one bites
Speaker 1: his dust or like burnees love and touch and squeeze
Speaker 1: in good. And that's impressive even if you're not good
Speaker 1: that at least. But you're worried that it like turned
Speaker 1: him off. Did his mood change or something after you're
Speaker 1: done with your bass plan? I didn't think so. I
Speaker 1: thought it was fun. We just kind of like chatted
Speaker 1: a little bit more, and then it kind of came
Speaker 1: to its own and we said goodbye, and I mentioned
Speaker 1: him about going on a real date, yeah, and he
Speaker 1: didn't seem as interested anymore as before we met, virtually,
Speaker 1: like you stopped messaging me back that much. And I
Speaker 1: started to think about, you know, like all the things
Speaker 1: I worry about with a with an online date or
Speaker 1: virtual date. I was like, do I not look like
Speaker 1: my picture? And I started I asked my roommates. So
Speaker 1: I don't know why he's kind of dated out. It
Speaker 1: sounds like you've covered a lot of basses there. I
Speaker 1: think why, I don't want to ruin our segment, but
Speaker 1: it's because of her burrito choice obviously different. It's possible.
Speaker 1: I'm Nicole. Do you have your bass guitar with you
Speaker 1: right now? It's in the other room, but it's it's here.
Speaker 1: Would do you think maybe we could get a sample
Speaker 1: of your bass guitar playing, just so that we know
Speaker 1: this is research, so that we know what we were
Speaker 1: working with. Uncomfortable people playing music, that's me. I'd have
Speaker 1: to get my amp and get it set up. Well,
Speaker 1: that's good because we actually have to play a song.
Speaker 1: So we're gonna leave, we'll come back, yeah, and then
Speaker 1: you can play us a song when we do your
Speaker 1: second date update right after this. Okay, all right, hold
Speaker 1: on second Date. I'm purposely bumping into this segment without
Speaker 1: any music because we got our own in house band today.
Speaker 1: I've never been so excited about the second part. It's
Speaker 1: just one person, our listener, Nicole, who we've been talking
Speaker 1: to about her dating life. We're going to get to
Speaker 1: that in just a second, but she's an up and
Speaker 1: coming bass player. Nicole. We asked for a little demonstration
Speaker 1: because you played a little bit of bass on your date.
Speaker 1: So what are we going to be hearing today? I'm
Speaker 1: telling you I just started this month with another one
Speaker 1: bites the dust. Okay, okay, before you get I'm going
Speaker 1: to introduce you. Ladies and gentlemen, please welcome to the
Speaker 1: stage for your listening pleasure. Nicole and the finger flips
Speaker 1: that would give her a second day I think, oh
Speaker 1: my god, Okay, flooding. Yeah, all right, now we've heard
Speaker 1: the YouTube version. Now play it yourself. Way better than
Speaker 1: I was expecting you to do. After this one month
Speaker 1: of lessons that was legit as long as we could
Speaker 1: tell yeah, we're doing and we all did, that's all
Speaker 1: that matters. You did a great job. So if you're
Speaker 1: just joining us, then you don't know why Nicole played.
Speaker 1: It's because during her virtual date with a guy named Evan,
Speaker 1: she played the bass guitar to show him what she's
Speaker 1: been doing, along with tasting some frozen burritos with him.
Speaker 1: But after that, she's been having a hard time organizing
Speaker 1: an in person meet up. So we're gonna call Evan
Speaker 1: and ask what's going on. That is, if you didn't
Speaker 1: die from embarrassment just now, Nicole, embarrass you. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: just hear you in the background kind of like laugh,
Speaker 1: moaning or something. I'm still breathing. You're still breathing. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: here we go. Take a deep breath. Yeah, we're gonna
Speaker 1: dial Evan's phone and we're gonna trying to get you
Speaker 1: a second date. I just hope that another one doesn't
Speaker 1: bite the dust. But yeah, let's do it. Hello. Hey
Speaker 1: is a seven? Yeah cool? Yeah, Okay, Hi Evan. My
Speaker 1: name's jeff from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the Morning. We're hoping to talk with you a little
Speaker 1: bit about your dating life. Uh okay, well I'm not interested,
Speaker 1: So could you take me off your list? You know? No, Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's not us. It's actually somebody that you went on
Speaker 1: a date with who's asked us to call you. Her
Speaker 1: name is Nicole. Oh so this is a real call
Speaker 1: that yes, dial one to sign up. Yeah, so what's
Speaker 1: going on? This is called a second date update? And
Speaker 1: Nicole reached out to us because she told us that
Speaker 1: you guys went on a virtual date together and she's
Speaker 1: been trying to hang out in person, but she's confused
Speaker 1: why that isn't happening yet. Yeah. Well, uh, to be honest,
Speaker 1: I don't think an in person date is going to happen,
Speaker 1: So thank you. Okay, Oh that's too bad. I mean
Speaker 1: she seems so fun loving and your date sounded awesome.
Speaker 1: She told us that you like put together what would
Speaker 1: we call it? A burrito battle? Yeah, we had burritos.
Speaker 1: It was fun. It was a fun date. Don't get
Speaker 1: me wrong. But if I must get into it, Nicole
Speaker 1: is a liar. Whoa, that's heavy. Well what I found
Speaker 1: out that she lied to me about her age? Oh?
Speaker 1: Oh damn, bro, Like, I mean, is that how much
Speaker 1: a big deal to you? Like? Yeah, how much? She
Speaker 1: told me she was twenty nine, but I found out
Speaker 1: that she was actually thirty? Wait year? Are you? Was
Speaker 1: that a joke? No? That's the red fla to me, Like,
Speaker 1: what a stupid thing to lie about, especially by one year?
Speaker 1: Oh no, what that is so dumb? Angle, Yeah, why
Speaker 1: would you lie about something tiny like that? Maybe she
Speaker 1: honestly forgot what did you ask her age? No, it's
Speaker 1: listed on her dating profile, that's true. Who cares it's
Speaker 1: one year? Well what does that mean to you? Evan?
Speaker 1: Why is that such a big deal that she's one
Speaker 1: year off? Well, she's lying about that? What else could
Speaker 1: she be lying about it? Just maybe she made her
Speaker 1: profile when she was twenty nine and she just never
Speaker 1: updated it has your birthday it update? Yeah, okay, if
Speaker 1: you're that concerned about it, Evan, then you should have
Speaker 1: asked her. Yeah, but this was after our date and
Speaker 1: I wasn't gonna just text her about that. You're just
Speaker 1: gonna move on? Well, are you okay if I ask
Speaker 1: her that question? Because Nicole's actually on the line and
Speaker 1: she's been listening this entire time, and I'm happy to
Speaker 1: do that for you. Oh great, So yeah, here she is, Nicole.
Speaker 1: Is it true? Did you lie about your age to Evan? Um?
Speaker 1: I wasn't like lying directly to Evan. It's not that
Speaker 1: big of a deal on my dating profile. I said, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm twenty nine. It's one year. It really bothers you confirm.
Speaker 1: It's just really weird, like why why one year? Like
Speaker 1: I see, if you lied by like five years, I
Speaker 1: almost wouldn't respect that morel really honestly, like, okay, wow,
Speaker 1: I would be actually more uset if like I met
Speaker 1: someone and they were like forty instead of thirty. That's
Speaker 1: a big difference. This is one year and I really
Speaker 1: feel weird that I have to explain this, but I
Speaker 1: was on other dating websites and I have found that
Speaker 1: if you say you're in your twenties, you get way
Speaker 1: more matches. So it was just a way to just
Speaker 1: maybe brought in the field and they get to meet
Speaker 1: more people. So you were just trying to optimize your
Speaker 1: matches by going down one year, Evan in your twenties, Evan,
Speaker 1: what do you think is that a reasonable excuse for you?
Speaker 1: I mean, I buy it, but I don't feel weird
Speaker 1: about it. How old are you, Evan? One? Oh, I
Speaker 1: thought it was going to be something like I don't
Speaker 1: date women in their thirties because I'm twenty three or
Speaker 1: something like it. More if she would have told you
Speaker 1: she was thirty, you would have been cool. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't know. I think like she's gaming the system a
Speaker 1: little bit. Isn't that what dating maps are? Four? Though? Geeah,
Speaker 1: you obviously on your range set that you like twenty
Speaker 1: year old like people in their twenties. Yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: Evan ought to say on your profile you said that
Speaker 1: you were athletic and fix for your building that question,
Speaker 1: and I don't know, you look a little more average
Speaker 1: to me. Wow, first of all, I was sitting down
Speaker 1: for the entirety of the thing. I think I look
Speaker 1: way better standing up. Yet when I stand up to
Speaker 1: sitting down and eating three burritos, looking like at ten
Speaker 1: while doing it. Okay, Obviously Nicole's feelings are a little
Speaker 1: hurt Evan because it just it seems like a pretty
Speaker 1: superficial reason not to call her back. It sounds like
Speaker 1: if you would have just asked her her age, she
Speaker 1: would have told you yeah, I guess so, and I
Speaker 1: kept her reasoning to be honest. Okay, you know it's okay. Honestly,
Speaker 1: this is probably good because that's going to bother you
Speaker 1: and you're gonna not call me back or even talk
Speaker 1: to me about it. It probably is better that we
Speaker 1: don't see each other again. Old sounds like he was
Speaker 1: just wait, wait, wait, but now that I've heard your reasoning, like,
Speaker 1: I'm into it, let's not give up on It's just
Speaker 1: like that all right now. You called me a lot.
Speaker 1: The first thing you said about me on the SOLL
Speaker 1: was I'm a liar. No thanks, but you did lie.
Speaker 1: It's wrong. Oh man, this is like such a little thing. Guys,
Speaker 1: I know what it's like they're already in their first
Speaker 1: fight and they haven't even met in real life. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she is kind of going towards her midlife though, Brooks. So,
Speaker 1: but I'm still willing to offer to send you guys
Speaker 1: out on another date. And Evan, it sounds like up
Speaker 1: to this point you were into it. Yeah. I mean,
Speaker 1: maybe I I jumped to conclusions too quickly and I
Speaker 1: probably should have just asked. But I'm into it. But
Speaker 1: if she's get it okay, Well, Nicole, he admits that
Speaker 1: he made a mistake, and which is a huge thing
Speaker 1: right now. Like to find a person who could admit
Speaker 1: they were wrong and learn from it like that is
Speaker 1: a good quality to have. I mean, Nicole, maybe you
Speaker 1: jumped to conclusions when you said that you wouldn't go
Speaker 1: out with him based on one thing that he said.
Speaker 1: So can we meet in the middle here and go
Speaker 1: out to one more time and we'll pay for think
Speaker 1: of the burritos? Ten I can prove that build there
Speaker 1: he got now, And maybe what would do it is
Speaker 1: if he's honest with you right now and he tells
Speaker 1: you what he really thinks about your bass playing. It
Speaker 1: was pretty solid for someone who's live been doing it.
Speaker 1: A month. But it was honest. It wasn't over the
Speaker 1: top glowing review. It wasn't horrible. It was like, it's
Speaker 1: pretty good. I would like to hear more. Come on,
Speaker 1: all right, fine, stop yelling me. Fine a second day,
Speaker 1: Nicole to celebrate. You want to play a little bit
Speaker 1: of bass guitar on the way out? Yeah, I'm like,
Speaker 1: I don't trying to think it would No, maybe not
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning. It's rare that we try and
Speaker 1: get a date for somebody and then they change their
Speaker 1: mind after hearing what the reason was, and then change
Speaker 1: their mind back again to Yet that was a good
Speaker 1: roller coaster we were on. Yeah, yeah, I mean I
Speaker 1: kind of understand though. Somebody comes at you real hard
Speaker 1: and it's like she's a liar. Yeah, yeah, you're not
Speaker 1: gonna like him a lot. But even more rare is
Speaker 1: that the caller says no at the start, and then
Speaker 1: he says yes too. Yeah, and now you're doing a
Speaker 1: chart that's really hard to follow at this point, but yeah,
Speaker 1: we get we get where you're coming. Yeah. I don't know.
Speaker 1: It's like there's some sort of mercury and retrograde thing happening,
Speaker 1: or is this a sign that those two are definitely
Speaker 1: going to get married. Oh wow, that doesn't happen that often.
Speaker 1: Sowhere in the middle pretty much. Yeah, it could just
Speaker 1: be like what Brooke was saying during the call that
Speaker 1: nowadays a lot of people are jerks in the moment
Speaker 1: and then they won't admit that they're wrong. Yeah. I
Speaker 1: think it's what's wrong with humanity right now, is that
Speaker 1: we're all so scared of being wrong for some reason. Well,
Speaker 1: I disagree with that, So you're right, you're canceled now, right.
Speaker 1: Maybe I'm wrong. I apologize, but I really do hope
Speaker 1: that Nicole and Evan are both in this for the
Speaker 1: long haul. And if they are, then I told you so.
Speaker 1: And if they're not, then we'll do an update update
Speaker 1: and blame it on book. Anyway, I'll go for one
Speaker 1: of those two. But if you ever want to get
Speaker 1: a second date update, you can always email the show.
Speaker 1: We'll call it the person who wasn't calling you back.