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Speaker 1: Second date up to date? What counts as dating right now?

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Speaker 1: I think that's a fair question. Like if you only

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Speaker 1: That's how I used to date. I thought that was dating.

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Speaker 1: If you've only bought you socks from them online? Is

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Speaker 1: that dating things online or some circles? I think that

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Speaker 1: she isn't sure if her hangout should be considered worthy

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Speaker 1: of a second date. Update Okay, she said she was

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Speaker 1: hoping that we would do it. Well, we have low standards,

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Speaker 1: the first four people that we tried calling this morning

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Speaker 1: didn't answer yes. Because of that, Nicole, you are worthy

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Speaker 1: of a second date. Welcome to the show. Thanks every

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Speaker 1: even if you've only bought someone's socks recently. Okay, Okay,

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Speaker 1: well I'm gonna stop guessing. Why don't you just start

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Speaker 1: telling us what's going on? Nicole? Who are we trying

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Speaker 1: sure if you'd answer it because it was actually, um,

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Speaker 1: we had a virtual date, not an in person date. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I think that counts more than like a three am

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Speaker 1: virtual date easier, right? Is that why you chose to

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Speaker 1: It usually makes a date go better even in person.

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Speaker 1: I'm just so exhausted of doing any sort of video

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Speaker 1: a compliment. Is there any nerves going into a virtual date? Like,

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Speaker 1: burrito date, which I thought was really, what does that mean?

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Speaker 1: Sounds messy? No? No, And it wasn't messy because his

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Speaker 1: and not the food. Hung up on broke. How did

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Speaker 1: your frozen burrito date go? It was really fun. We

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Speaker 1: Burrito boy? All right, so how do you end a

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Speaker 1: It's because during her virtual date with a guy named Evan,

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Speaker 1: But after that, she's been having a hard time organizing

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Speaker 1: die from embarrassment just now, Nicole, embarrass you. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: dial Evan's phone and we're gonna trying to get you

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Speaker 1: the Morning. We're hoping to talk with you a little

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Speaker 1: So could you take me off your list? You know? No, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that yes, dial one to sign up. Yeah, so what's

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Speaker 1: It was fun. It was a fun date. Don't get

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Speaker 1: me wrong. But if I must get into it, Nicole

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Speaker 1: that a joke? No? That's the red fla to me, Like,

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Speaker 1: one year? Well what does that mean to you? Evan?

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Speaker 1: Is it true? Did you lie about your age to Evan? Um?

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Speaker 1: and blame it on book. Anyway, I'll go for one

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