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Speaker 1: Once upon a time there was a good old traditional housewife.

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Speaker 1: She couldn't She cleaned and cared for her children and

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Speaker 1: the man of the house, and of course she didn't

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Speaker 1: talk back. She was both obedient and soft by nature.

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Speaker 1: She was a good woman who always made good choices.

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Speaker 2: We're good Mom's bad choices.

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Speaker 3: Who's single mom who said fuck the patriarchy? Shared all

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Speaker 3: their bad choices.

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Speaker 2: And sound out they were so bad.

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Speaker 3: After all, we're experts, overshares and your new besties.

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Speaker 2: Sit back and enjoy the ride. I can welcome back

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Speaker 2: to good Mom's bad Choices.

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Speaker 3: I'm Erica, and I'm Nila, and it's Wednesday, bitches, Happy

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Speaker 3: motherfucking hump Day. Now, if you're watching this on YouTube

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Speaker 3: right now, then you can see what I have in

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Speaker 3: my hand. And if you could see what I have

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Speaker 3: in my hand, and you are real good mom's bad choices, fam,

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Speaker 3: then you might be able to guess who are special

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Speaker 3: guest is today? Because this thing that I.

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Speaker 2: Have in my hand long stand long things.

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Speaker 3: It's very long, long, skinny thing, a little bit thick

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Speaker 3: at the end.

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Speaker 2: Is a staple.

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Speaker 3: Whenever this guest comes through the good Mom's cave.

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Speaker 2: Can you guess the people listening don't know what you're

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Speaker 2: talking about? Can you guess that? Laugh?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, we're just gonna get straight into it because

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Speaker 3: I'm always always so excited when this queen comes on

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Speaker 3: our show, because she always drops the knowledge.

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Speaker 2: She always brings that organic wine.

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Speaker 3: She blesses us with rosy.

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Speaker 5: She just brings essensual energy, the goddess energy. She's always

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Speaker 5: bringing offerings and love, even at eleven am.

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Speaker 2: And we love it.

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Speaker 5: The flower Goddess herself, the wrapping chantress, the rap priestess,

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Speaker 5: the one, the sensual, the wild, the free, the.

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Speaker 2: One and only Lizzie, motherfucking Jack Cheer. What an intro?

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Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, and the last time we were here.

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Speaker 6: Part two.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna have we have a lot of y'all are

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Speaker 2: too funny. Thank you.

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Speaker 7: That was a beautiful intro. I appreciate that. The wine

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Speaker 7: is the vibe. It's always a vibe. One I pull

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Speaker 7: up and I appreciate y'all inviting me back.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Yes, thank you for joining us. That wine

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Speaker 2: is good. Let me try it. That's really nice.

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Speaker 5: A petite Sarah is a very daytime red wine.

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Speaker 2: Is it good?

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Speaker 3: Usually organic wine? Either it's either very organic. I literally

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Speaker 3: never heard of organic.

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Speaker 2: Again, I've never heard of organic wine.

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Speaker 3: I don't even know the thing's granitic.

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Speaker 2: And there's also natural wines. There's a different Ye, what's

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Speaker 2: the difference. I forgot, she explained, got ahead of our

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Speaker 2: So what are the other wines organic? GMO? Ye? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: they're not all of them, they're not filtered. Some have

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Speaker 2: fishing fish.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well here's the.

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Speaker 3: Thing about fish. Why do they put fishing whites.

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Speaker 7: It's like, so the process because then they say, if

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Speaker 7: you get organic, it's got to be vegan. Because from

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Speaker 7: what I'm learning, the like the filtrations, the system is

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Speaker 7: like made of bone marrow.

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Speaker 6: So the wine being filtered.

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Speaker 7: Oh, I'm sending love to all my Somalier homegirls out

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Speaker 7: there that I know what they're talking about and home

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Speaker 7: boys because I have no clue. But it's like that

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Speaker 7: filtration process. Where as the grapes are being pressed, they

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Speaker 7: go through certain like non vegan filters and so the

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it's interesting the process.

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Speaker 2: So you gotta ask. I try to find those organic.

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Speaker 3: Or biodynamic, biodynamic, vegan natural organic one.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you got the Goverment's trying to kill us.

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Speaker 2: So They're like, yeah, we can get them in the alcohol.

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Speaker 2: We can get them in the panties. We can get

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Speaker 6: Gotta check it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, stretchy ass skims panties you're buying, bitch.

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Speaker 2: Uh uh, I don't think skims organic.

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Speaker 3: Also, for the men to the balls, we need the

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Speaker 3: we need the jewel filled alix lix or filled jewels cotton. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: apparently the balls are lost cause at this point, well,

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Speaker 5: Well, think about think about how thin that skin is

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Speaker 5: It's probably easy to detox.

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Speaker 2: Man.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, the the Internet that is reading our minds and

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Speaker 5: also our conversations has been targeting me heavily about how

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Speaker 3: And I'm like, did I think it? Did I say?

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Speaker 3: And now it's like you said, get in the car

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Speaker 5: Other reels like send this to your man because he

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Speaker 5: I like the fact that I really do believe the

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Speaker 7: Earlier about herbs you can eat to prepare for herbs

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Speaker 2: Just thinking it you weren't even needing.

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Speaker 3: Well, I think there just like I think just like

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Speaker 3: any energy force, including man made technology, can attune to

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Speaker 3: people like how do you do raky online? It's like

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Speaker 2: It couldn't be true.

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Speaker 3: But the more I think about it, I'm like, Oh,

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Speaker 3: the technology, whether it's man made or not, it's still energy.

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Speaker 3: It's still frequency and can definitely be attuned to whoever

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Speaker 2: Well, there's electric amongnetic brain waves.

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Speaker 5: Like where do you think the technology comes from?

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Speaker 5: It comes from the example, which is us talk about it.

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Speaker 5: You know, the energy is like where are you thinking

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Speaker 5: they're replicating. Everything they replicate, even in medicine, is of

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Speaker 6: I love when you talk.

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Speaker 7: You'll talk like you like that because the last time

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Speaker 7: I was here, you were talking about the science and

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Speaker 5: You know me, you know, medically, docturally, philosophically, what I

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Speaker 2: Brother, No, but it's true I feel.

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Speaker 5: And there's been times where I've literally just sought something

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Speaker 2: Now now you're trying to fuck with me.

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Speaker 7: So yeah, But didn't y'all see that one movie or

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Speaker 7: was it a documentary about like people holding their phone

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Speaker 7: and how they're constantly being surveiled and how there's these

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Speaker 7: information data centers that are collecting your movements, how you

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Speaker 7: bring your eyes when you feel sad, when you feel depressed,

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Speaker 7: so they know what to sin you. It was like

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Speaker 5: That right it is, no, Lizzie, I have not seen

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Speaker 5: that documentary because I will already know and I'm already paranoid. Okay,

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Speaker 5: got you, I'm already a conspiracy theorist. That's not conspiracy

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Speaker 5: because it's the truth. And I can't watch that because

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Speaker 5: then I'm gonna make my whole family. But you know

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Speaker 5: they have those bags from Amazon. You drop all your

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Speaker 5: ten gallons of water and tide it into the friger

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Speaker 5: Like I'm that bitch, And every six months I'm like,

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Speaker 2: Spoil the water. Boil the water if you have, if

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Speaker 2: you have access right, boil the water. Flames. Speaking of flames,

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Speaker 2: can I like this candle? Candle that bring it?

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Speaker 7: Because my homegirl made this candle. Her name is Melanin

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Speaker 7: d and she'd be pulling up to Zenn and cush.

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Speaker 7: This is one of her original ones that I had

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Speaker 7: just bless up the space. It smells so delightful. And

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Speaker 7: you said flame and then oh yeah that you asked

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Speaker 2: So this one is for you. Thank you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, more love, more love, you know, I love when

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Speaker 5: you come and bless us with things and gifts and

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Speaker 5: you know you. My friend was saying something and I

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Speaker 5: was like, always bring the goddess and offering, like.

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Speaker 6: I brought one for both of you.

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Speaker 3: Yes, you also brought us the cutest ashtray last time.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: Remember it's like hold my ship or something, and it matches.

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Speaker 7: You see, it matches the Madam Jeff pre roll. So

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Speaker 7: I brought one of these for us to smoke together.

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Speaker 7: Even it's the glass tip. You can check it out

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Speaker 7: hair uh huh, that's cute. You see the black you

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Speaker 7: see the fan, I see the panther. She's an activist

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Speaker 7: and a vixens.

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Speaker 2: I like, you know, this is really sexy.

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Speaker 7: Madam Jeff, this is this one is the Madam Grape

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Speaker 7: that we smoke in. That's beautiful, gorgeous Granddaddy purple.

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Speaker 3: Before we get into this episode, let's just put some

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Speaker 3: intention into the medicine here. Thank you most hi, Thank

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Speaker 3: you Goddess for this beautiful feminine medicine that we get

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Speaker 3: to ingest. May our brains be clear and our vibes

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Speaker 3: be high. May you continue to just walk with us

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Speaker 3: through the day and inspiration and creativity and connectedness and

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Speaker 3: more love and more empathy and more compassion.

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Speaker 2: We love you, we love you. Amen Shay Shay Milis bacherette.

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Speaker 2: That was my job. I was like, everyone, pick up

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Speaker 2: the money I was pouring on. We're gonna make some

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Speaker 2: much money. There's so much pleasure, it's gonna be great.

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Speaker 2: The Shiver was like, what is happening? And then just

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Speaker 2: go to chet is beautiful thing.

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Speaker 7: I just it just caught my eye and I'm like, wow,

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Speaker 7: that's gorgeous. Husband God, okay.

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Speaker 2: Orlando big oh not the little one.

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Speaker 7: Gorgeous on your beautiful, petite, feminine hand.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 6: I love that for you.

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Speaker 2: I appreciate that. I feel like a grown up. Oh wait,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, why is this not hitting?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? You know, Lizzie, for those who are just you know,

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Speaker 3: we have new listeners, we have people that may have

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Speaker 3: missed all the amazing episodes you've done with us.

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Speaker 2: Lizzie's done two episodes with us.

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Speaker 3: We she did four twenty episode and then she did

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Speaker 3: one last I think it was last year Uary.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah, last January. Oh you need the lighter?

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Speaker 3: Can you just I would love to. I would love

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Speaker 3: for the people that are new here to get a

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Speaker 3: little taste of who is Lizzie Jeff, Right, what's the.

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Speaker 2: Who is you before us?

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Speaker 7: That's a good question, especially because I feel like, at

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Speaker 2: I love cooking. I told y'all that last time. I wait,

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Speaker 5: We need to do a vegan cooking series and we

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Speaker 3: I would love for you to expand more on what

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Speaker 7: We're around in March, around in March. Yes, let's do

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Speaker 3: Right, Well, that's you know, it's International Women's Month then,

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Speaker 2: Eight years. That is major we have over four hundred

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Speaker 2: I'm so proud of you. Thank you, thank you. Is

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Speaker 7: It's also a beautiful, safe, sensual place for the brothers

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Speaker 7: Are, brother It's like from our security and the DJs

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Speaker 3: like the wild woman, the central woman is intimidating. Even

439
00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:51,240
Speaker 3: at the bachelorette party, I feel like one of the

440
00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:53,919
Speaker 3: guy who didn't know us was like a little taken

441
00:23:53,920 --> 00:23:57,159
Speaker 3: aback and like you're the performer, like you can't be scared.

442
00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:00,920
Speaker 3: He's usually the well he yeah, but he's usually probably

443
00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:03,280
Speaker 3: used to being the most fully expressed person in the room.

444
00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:05,399
Speaker 3: So being in a room with a bunch of women

445
00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:08,040
Speaker 3: that are like ready and open and free and like

446
00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:12,240
Speaker 3: we've made agreements already. You heard the agreements, niggas he

447
00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:14,520
Speaker 3: was there not a lot of times that's a lot

448
00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:15,640
Speaker 3: for someone to take.

449
00:24:15,520 --> 00:24:18,720
Speaker 5: On, especially the especially the man who has been set

450
00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:22,400
Speaker 5: up in patriarchy, Like you haven't really been you men

451
00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:26,080
Speaker 5: haven't really been conditioned to like to see that and

452
00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:28,920
Speaker 5: to and to accept it and to like also see

453
00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:33,159
Speaker 5: women who accept it about themselves and are Yeah.

454
00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:35,720
Speaker 7: And it's not even for you, literally enjoying herself just

455
00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:39,120
Speaker 7: because that's just who she is, naturally has nothing to do, and.

456
00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:41,439
Speaker 2: She wore this outfit for herself because she was.

457
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:43,600
Speaker 7: Going to see you tonight, And that doesn't mean she's

458
00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:44,760
Speaker 7: ready to fuck instantly.

459
00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:47,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, But there was a man once.

460
00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:51,920
Speaker 7: He told me he left because within seconds of being there,

461
00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:55,600
Speaker 7: one of the ladies came up to him with a

462
00:24:55,640 --> 00:25:03,359
Speaker 7: crystal glass of organic strawberries drizzled and CBD and offered

463
00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:06,240
Speaker 7: him one, and he just was like too overwhelmed.

464
00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:07,120
Speaker 2: He had to leave.

465
00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:10,440
Speaker 7: It never came back, And it was just like, that's

466
00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:15,040
Speaker 7: so funny because people sometimes think, oh, Zen and Cush

467
00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:18,360
Speaker 7: is a orgy or like just because it's lingerie friendly

468
00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:24,280
Speaker 7: or toptional people have these interesting viewpoints of it until

469
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:25,760
Speaker 7: they get there and they're like, oh.

470
00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:28,159
Speaker 6: This is actually just a fucking vibe.

471
00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:32,120
Speaker 7: Yeah, you know what I mean, especially in certain cities

472
00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:34,600
Speaker 7: like now that I've you know, we started off in that.

473
00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:37,440
Speaker 2: I take us on a journey.

474
00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:41,280
Speaker 7: Girl. Thank you for asking, because I actually just got

475
00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:46,320
Speaker 7: back to la not even a week ago from New York.

476
00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:49,760
Speaker 7: But that was the tail end of what was a

477
00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:55,320
Speaker 7: six month journey. Yeah, since we're really a nine month

478
00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:58,760
Speaker 7: journey since Zen and Cush for twenty last year. But anyways,

479
00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:03,000
Speaker 7: I went to Atlanta, New Orleans. I was actually based

480
00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:05,560
Speaker 7: in New Orleans for six months. That's where I grew up,

481
00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:08,800
Speaker 7: so I go back often. But this is the longest

482
00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:11,920
Speaker 7: I had stayed since I lived there as a kid,

483
00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:14,919
Speaker 7: and so that was really nice to be based in

484
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:18,960
Speaker 7: New Orleans. But I had shows in Houston, Atlanta, North Carolina.

485
00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:21,920
Speaker 2: I went up to d C, New York.

486
00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:24,960
Speaker 7: You know, it was a vibe just living that life,

487
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:28,280
Speaker 7: like that that Auntie, that rich Auntie life. But also

488
00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:32,800
Speaker 7: I'm a real independent artist out here just doing it.

489
00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:36,240
Speaker 7: And so I'm back, you know, I'm back on the

490
00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:38,680
Speaker 7: West coast, the West Coast Wave. God is I just

491
00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:42,000
Speaker 7: dropped my albums in and cushed volume one and so

492
00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:44,480
Speaker 7: you know what was your question?

493
00:26:44,920 --> 00:26:46,640
Speaker 3: Oh, I was just asking where. I was saying, where

494
00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:48,000
Speaker 3: where has that in cushions?

495
00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:50,320
Speaker 2: Okay, what cities have you gone to? Okay?

496
00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:52,600
Speaker 7: We did spend some time in Costa Rica too, not

497
00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:55,240
Speaker 7: last year, but in the past we have. I did

498
00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:58,720
Speaker 7: three months out there, but I'm happy to circle back

499
00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:01,960
Speaker 7: to la will be hosting you know, the Zenn and

500
00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:08,200
Speaker 7: cush Fest does zenn and cush Fest m H for

501
00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:10,480
Speaker 7: weekend in la O.

502
00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:14,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I'm like, you know, miss that, that's okay.

503
00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:17,719
Speaker 7: But I'm having a cute little one two pre party

504
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:21,240
Speaker 7: on March fifteenth. You know, I'm collaborating shout out my

505
00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:24,960
Speaker 7: girl Destiny, who y'all met earlier. She runs our house

506
00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:29,640
Speaker 7: and so actually my next big project in la is

507
00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:35,679
Speaker 7: an artist residency with our house, where I'll be the

508
00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:41,119
Speaker 7: artist and resident for sixty days, and throughout that time

509
00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:47,760
Speaker 7: I'll be hosting you know, these late night coworks on Thursdays.

510
00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:48,400
Speaker 2: I'll.

511
00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:53,399
Speaker 7: Do like my sensual Pilates class. Last year, I became

512
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:58,360
Speaker 7: certified to teach plate my homegirl Miami Jungle Johannah.

513
00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:03,600
Speaker 2: I was hoping she were say her name. Wait, did

514
00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:06,000
Speaker 2: you get certified through her? Yeah?

515
00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:11,879
Speaker 3: I just have to shout out Jungle Johanna because because

516
00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:13,640
Speaker 3: she's like, we've been following each other for a really

517
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:15,280
Speaker 3: long time, my girl and Nice could put me onto

518
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:17,159
Speaker 3: her because she was she would take her classes in

519
00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:23,199
Speaker 3: Miami and she recently got this amazing partnership. She's one

520
00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:26,520
Speaker 3: of the instructors for Peloton. Now she's a pilates instructor

521
00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:28,360
Speaker 3: and that's like a it's that's a big ass deal.

522
00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:29,560
Speaker 2: Shout out to her.

523
00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:33,560
Speaker 6: A major play for the culture.

524
00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:34,920
Speaker 2: And her classes are.

525
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:38,920
Speaker 3: She's just always been such a real bitch all through,

526
00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:42,440
Speaker 3: no matter what she is, and that's what I love

527
00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:45,040
Speaker 3: about her classes too, and just just how she shows up.

528
00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:46,920
Speaker 3: You would have thought I knew her. I've never met

529
00:28:46,960 --> 00:28:50,240
Speaker 3: this woman, but I know we do. We fuck with

530
00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:51,840
Speaker 3: each other in our d ms all the time.

531
00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:55,000
Speaker 2: Let's do something in Miami. But that's amazing.

532
00:28:56,160 --> 00:29:01,560
Speaker 7: Sorry, just because you know, like, shout out to Jungle Joe.

533
00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:03,760
Speaker 7: I did a two week class with her. She has

534
00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 7: her next certification coming up. I'm pretty sure it's sold out,

535
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:09,320
Speaker 7: but it's at the end of March. And then she's

536
00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 7: doing a teacher like like a reup, like a continuation

537
00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:18,320
Speaker 7: learning continue learning in April, so I'm planning to pull

538
00:29:18,440 --> 00:29:21,760
Speaker 7: up on her again very soon. But just being in

539
00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:26,960
Speaker 7: that program with her, learning from her, it.

540
00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:27,600
Speaker 2: Was top tier.

541
00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:32,280
Speaker 7: I'm gonna tell you, like you know, she's her and

542
00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:35,200
Speaker 7: I fuck with it, and she embraces it. She say

543
00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:37,760
Speaker 7: what she wants, she don't. She really don't give no

544
00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:42,200
Speaker 7: fucks ever, and she know what she talking about. She

545
00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:44,800
Speaker 7: know what she doing, like you could tell she really

546
00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:45,440
Speaker 7: been in a game.

547
00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:46,400
Speaker 6: She really a og.

548
00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:49,680
Speaker 7: So I'm very thankful that if I was gonna do it,

549
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:52,280
Speaker 7: that I did it with her. And I do plan

550
00:29:52,360 --> 00:29:55,440
Speaker 7: on doing another training with her too, just because she's

551
00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:55,880
Speaker 7: that good.

552
00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:56,800
Speaker 2: I fuck with her.

553
00:29:57,200 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 7: So yeah, anyways, So yeah, Miami. I spent some time

554
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:05,440
Speaker 7: out there a few months. Actually, I love Miami, That's

555
00:30:05,440 --> 00:30:09,080
Speaker 7: my climate. But I'm back, I'm on the West coast,

556
00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:13,720
Speaker 7: and then I know y'all are high, so I'm not

557
00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:15,760
Speaker 7: even gonna really make a big deal of this.

558
00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:20,680
Speaker 2: Save that way, whatever I got it, I'm a O

559
00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:32,480
Speaker 2: g N goddamn.

560
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:35,760
Speaker 6: This is the mystical cush right here.

561
00:30:36,120 --> 00:30:38,520
Speaker 2: So show I spoke that that way so I went

562
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:40,080
Speaker 2: to our girl, Robin.

563
00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:41,320
Speaker 3: Yeah.

564
00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:45,600
Speaker 7: Shout out to Robin in Asia from Dope Sugar l

565
00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:52,200
Speaker 7: A to official black woman own dispensaries, making history every

566
00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:57,840
Speaker 7: single day just by existing, making plays, being intentional, leading

567
00:30:57,880 --> 00:31:01,240
Speaker 7: with integrity, and really putting on for the city, for

568
00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:04,080
Speaker 7: the community, for the whole cannabis industry. I really fun

569
00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:07,520
Speaker 7: with them, They really respect y'all introduced me to them,

570
00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:09,920
Speaker 7: and ever since it's been up Robin.

571
00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:12,720
Speaker 3: I met Robin so randomly through one of my best friends, Jared,

572
00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:13,560
Speaker 3: who lives in Germany.

573
00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:16,600
Speaker 2: She she I think they served tables together.

574
00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:19,720
Speaker 3: But anyway, Robin, yes, like you said, has taken over

575
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:21,400
Speaker 3: the cannas industry. Then she came on one of our

576
00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:22,920
Speaker 3: retreats with her mom, who I don't know if you've

577
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:23,400
Speaker 3: met her mom.

578
00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:27,680
Speaker 2: Her mom is equally lit, actually more lit. Wait, she

579
00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:30,880
Speaker 2: actually invited me to Robin's birthday. Was actually like like

580
00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:33,320
Speaker 2: a week ago. She invited me to.

581
00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:36,760
Speaker 3: A karaoke a karaoke party, and I couldn't help but

582
00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:38,960
Speaker 3: think of her mom, because her mom was always like baby,

583
00:31:39,040 --> 00:31:42,680
Speaker 3: say say to you no, just.

584
00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:44,080
Speaker 2: Like anytime it was someone's birthday.

585
00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:47,120
Speaker 5: It was as a retreat, she was like she's about

586
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:49,600
Speaker 5: she didn't get too drunk. She should ever sing now.

587
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:50,880
Speaker 2: Like she's her manager.

588
00:31:51,320 --> 00:31:53,400
Speaker 3: She was like, oh, it's her birthday, No problem, Robin's

589
00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:54,440
Speaker 3: gonna sing Happy birthday to you.

590
00:31:57,760 --> 00:31:58,920
Speaker 2: But anyway, I smoked her.

591
00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:01,600
Speaker 7: Okay, so you're it's a dope sugar, La to pick

592
00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:04,160
Speaker 7: up the Lizen shirt mystical cush pre roll.

593
00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:04,920
Speaker 2: I sure did.

594
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:08,480
Speaker 3: They also carried them on choices, sweatshirts. Okay, I've seen it.

595
00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:10,360
Speaker 3: I was gonna say, like, they really do put on

596
00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:13,080
Speaker 3: for I think she really does put on for her

597
00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:14,280
Speaker 3: friends and people in.

598
00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:16,200
Speaker 2: La shout out to her other black women.

599
00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:18,800
Speaker 7: Yeah, I got a showering rose petals next time I

600
00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:21,160
Speaker 7: see her. And I'm gonna be here for four twenty,

601
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:24,480
Speaker 7: so let's do something really special, dope, sugar, I love y'all.

602
00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:27,360
Speaker 2: That's all right, I mean to drub you. No, we'll

603
00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:29,400
Speaker 2: oh yeah, this will pull out the mystical curve.

604
00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:31,920
Speaker 7: So this is a gift for y'all, like for later,

605
00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:34,840
Speaker 7: because unless you was, we might as well just think

606
00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:35,200
Speaker 7: your love.

607
00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:36,080
Speaker 2: Okay.

608
00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:38,320
Speaker 6: So there's one for us now and one for later.

609
00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:39,520
Speaker 6: You see what I do there?

610
00:32:39,520 --> 00:32:42,560
Speaker 2: Maybe half for now. A couple of times like.

611
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 6: This A Puff.

612
00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:45,720
Speaker 7: But this is the Mystical Cush that you just told

613
00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:48,720
Speaker 7: the story about, and you know what, I do think

614
00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:51,600
Speaker 7: it's important to share because I've been in the industry

615
00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:55,960
Speaker 7: for almost ten years and I'm gonna tell you, like

616
00:32:56,600 --> 00:32:59,960
Speaker 7: just wanting to be a part of the legal mark,

617
00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:01,959
Speaker 7: it's a process, it's a journey.

618
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:02,920
Speaker 2: You gotta put work in.

619
00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:06,720
Speaker 7: It's about it's about diligence, it's about making shit happen

620
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:10,520
Speaker 7: because it's not easy. And so this whole experience is

621
00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:16,120
Speaker 7: really ten years into making because I originally dropped the

622
00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:18,560
Speaker 7: Lizzie's Love but a few years ago and four twenty

623
00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:21,440
Speaker 7: at a woman owned dispensary in LA And then when

624
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:24,560
Speaker 7: I came back, we did the Mystical Cush pre rolls

625
00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:27,400
Speaker 7: at a black woman owned dispensary in LA at two

626
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:31,120
Speaker 7: matter of fact, and twelve shops in a excuse me

627
00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:34,080
Speaker 7: in the Bay Area. So this was the first time

628
00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:38,040
Speaker 7: shout out to my homegirl, Camille Sophia. She's the lead

629
00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 7: singer of a twelve piece I'm pretty sure it's a

630
00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:44,959
Speaker 7: twelve piece like funk funk band, Okay, and she's the

631
00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:47,320
Speaker 7: only woman wow, And anyway.

632
00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:48,080
Speaker 6: She's a dope artist.

633
00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:51,160
Speaker 7: We go way back in the cannabis industry, and we

634
00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:54,840
Speaker 7: both used to work for a pre roll company, and

635
00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:58,400
Speaker 7: she took the northern California region. I took the southern

636
00:33:58,400 --> 00:34:01,640
Speaker 7: California region, and we just took that pre roll company

637
00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:07,200
Speaker 7: to a whole new level on both coats. And we realize,

638
00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 7: you know what, we're undervalued and underappreciated, So let's do

639
00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:13,480
Speaker 7: our own shit. And one day we're gonna really do

640
00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:17,320
Speaker 7: our own shit together. So she went and built a family.

641
00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:19,680
Speaker 7: I was still building those in a cush and then

642
00:34:19,719 --> 00:34:23,360
Speaker 7: we came together for the Mystical Cush. She brought me

643
00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:29,080
Speaker 7: and SF Roots together. That's a black owned equity company

644
00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:31,080
Speaker 7: in the Bay Area. They make sure black people are

645
00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:34,760
Speaker 7: getting equity in the industry. She actually created this design,

646
00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:38,400
Speaker 7: so she told me to tell her all my keywords.

647
00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:45,680
Speaker 7: So I told her, you know, luxury, Pearls, you know Africa, Motherland,

648
00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:50,759
Speaker 7: indigenous gold, you feel me, medicine, plant earth, and she

649
00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:55,120
Speaker 7: put it together. And so she actually designed the label.

650
00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:58,400
Speaker 7: And then right here that QR code lead you to

651
00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:01,560
Speaker 7: the album that I had dropped when these first dropped.

652
00:35:01,680 --> 00:35:05,040
Speaker 7: You know, my new album is on the way, Cush

653
00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:09,719
Speaker 7: Love and Domiana it's an EP that's coming soon.

654
00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:12,359
Speaker 2: But that's what this was about. And it was the

655
00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:13,600
Speaker 2: first time that they.

656
00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:15,799
Speaker 7: Had done something like this and the dispensary with the

657
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:19,879
Speaker 7: music and the herb, you know, being together, and it's

658
00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:21,319
Speaker 7: two pre rolls in one pack.

659
00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:24,880
Speaker 2: Right, it's an experience.

660
00:35:24,360 --> 00:35:29,480
Speaker 7: And it's black women, black on cultivation, the printing, the design, everything.

661
00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:32,840
Speaker 7: So I was really proud, just and blessed to be

662
00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:36,279
Speaker 7: a part of that Dope opportunity and to collaborate with

663
00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:39,399
Speaker 7: both Dope Sugar locations. So that's this one.

664
00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:43,200
Speaker 2: This is beautiful. Thank you, thank thank you for blessings.

665
00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:45,640
Speaker 2: I appreciate y'all for let me speak on that.

666
00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:49,399
Speaker 3: Speaking of blessings, I was curious listening if you don't

667
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:51,799
Speaker 3: have an affirmation for the.

668
00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:54,000
Speaker 2: Try, I love that. Thank you. It feels like a

669
00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:56,120
Speaker 2: beautiful time, you know what.

670
00:35:56,120 --> 00:36:17,919
Speaker 7: Especially before I sparked this one. HM, I am activated,

671
00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:26,840
Speaker 7: I am recharged and fully restored. I am at peace.

672
00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:33,080
Speaker 7: My nervous system is balanced. I'm eating good, I'm feeling good,

673
00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:36,200
Speaker 7: I'm breathing good, I'm relaxing.

674
00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:37,440
Speaker 6: I'm taking breaks.

675
00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:41,240
Speaker 7: I rest when I want to and when I feel

676
00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:43,880
Speaker 7: like it, because I know that when I rest that

677
00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:49,000
Speaker 7: in itself is a radical revolutionary act. My existence in

678
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:52,400
Speaker 7: itself is revolutionary, So why not take a fucking break.

679
00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:53,160
Speaker 6: Sometimes.

680
00:36:53,880 --> 00:36:57,640
Speaker 7: I am peaceful, I am sensual, I am soft, I

681
00:36:57,680 --> 00:37:00,680
Speaker 7: am feminine. I am a bad bitch, I am a warrior.

682
00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:05,840
Speaker 7: But I understand the balance of living my soft life

683
00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:10,880
Speaker 7: and allowing the universe to bless me with all of

684
00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:16,759
Speaker 7: my deepest desires. Mm hm, I am activated, shad.

685
00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:23,920
Speaker 3: Shame activated activated.

686
00:37:27,040 --> 00:37:29,759
Speaker 2: I need all that. I need to call all that

687
00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:38,160
Speaker 2: in what activates you? Lizzie? In this era of Lizzie, Jeff, you'll.

688
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:46,680
Speaker 7: Be asking the questions now, You'll be asking them.

689
00:37:44,760 --> 00:37:51,120
Speaker 2: What activates me? Sisterhood?

690
00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:53,920
Speaker 6: And I need to text my sister Amina.

691
00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:57,919
Speaker 3: I love you. You know, I'll be seeing our kids

692
00:37:57,920 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 3: go to school together. That is so I've seeing a

693
00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:03,680
Speaker 3: little like another version of Lizzie. I'm like that is

694
00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:08,040
Speaker 3: she's like the conservative Lizzie, the Banana Republic Lizzy.

695
00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:11,319
Speaker 4: I like.

696
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:15,960
Speaker 2: Her. Let me let me not have been in a

697
00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:17,360
Speaker 2: republic her. It's Sarah.

698
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:23,719
Speaker 3: Okay, let's get my private school education processed.

699
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:29,040
Speaker 2: I'm just becuse I went to me the house and

700
00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:30,440
Speaker 2: I said, oh, you're doing just.

701
00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:33,640
Speaker 7: Mine And I'm really proud of her. What shout out

702
00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:36,719
Speaker 7: to my sister. I love her so much. That's my

703
00:38:36,880 --> 00:38:41,680
Speaker 7: big sister. That girl didn't really like ooh she she

704
00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:43,920
Speaker 7: didn't kick some doors in, she didn't been through it.

705
00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:50,480
Speaker 7: She's so powerful, like so resilient, just bold, brave, brilliant, brilliant,

706
00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:53,640
Speaker 7: remarkable woman who just like got the biggest heart, the

707
00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:58,440
Speaker 7: kindest heart, beautiful mother and wife and just her husband,

708
00:38:58,600 --> 00:39:01,479
Speaker 7: like the fact that she holds him. They chose each other.

709
00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:07,280
Speaker 7: It's just it's really it's powerful. It's powerful, revolutionary black woman,

710
00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:09,719
Speaker 7: just an iconic woman who I love so much and

711
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:13,160
Speaker 7: I'm so thankful for. So I'm so happy. And I

712
00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:15,839
Speaker 7: did text you Amena about a spot date, So hit

713
00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:18,920
Speaker 7: me backgirl, Let's go to the spot you real be

714
00:39:19,360 --> 00:39:21,200
Speaker 7: in any way. So I'm glad you know her too.

715
00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:23,160
Speaker 7: That's super cute. Yeah, I love that.

716
00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:26,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, she runs the black group, the Black parent group.

717
00:39:27,520 --> 00:39:33,279
Speaker 3: She was getting gathering us together all the blacks need

718
00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:33,880
Speaker 3: to raise.

719
00:39:33,760 --> 00:39:36,759
Speaker 2: Money for black children. Yeah, she's good. We're having our

720
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:43,400
Speaker 2: own black nutcracker to white parents, put something together, you know,

721
00:39:43,440 --> 00:39:45,200
Speaker 2: and it's always and it's always wonderful.

722
00:39:45,680 --> 00:39:47,680
Speaker 7: So yeah, I love that you said that, and I'm glad.

723
00:39:47,719 --> 00:39:50,239
Speaker 7: That's the first thing I said. That's what activates me,

724
00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:57,200
Speaker 7: you know, that sisterhood, being inspired by the women around me, cannabis,

725
00:39:57,239 --> 00:40:01,279
Speaker 7: you know, like taking luxurious bad as, you know, just

726
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:09,720
Speaker 7: taking deep breaths, like if I just take a second.

727
00:40:07,719 --> 00:40:16,560
Speaker 2: Mm no, that's I'm ready. But life just being here

728
00:40:16,719 --> 00:40:19,520
Speaker 2: being a black woman at this time? Are you kidding me?

729
00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:23,480
Speaker 2: Are y' all kidding me? Not going on at this time?

730
00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:27,239
Speaker 7: I feel like, Okay, we I think we did choose this,

731
00:40:27,400 --> 00:40:30,479
Speaker 7: and like we're showing up like we write on time

732
00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:34,640
Speaker 7: in our ministries. And so I'm I'm just inspired af

733
00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:36,799
Speaker 7: you know, the new album this is E and k

734
00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:40,440
Speaker 7: ten that girl gonna be the big forty.

735
00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:46,680
Speaker 2: That's big. I can't even know what does forty mean

736
00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:48,600
Speaker 2: to me? Let me take a ship, take a sip.

737
00:40:49,680 --> 00:40:52,759
Speaker 3: I'm just curious because I'm nearing I'll be nearing there

738
00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:59,280
Speaker 3: soon enough. And and like if I for me personally,

739
00:40:59,320 --> 00:41:02,880
Speaker 3: like my age, I've let it haunt me at times,

740
00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:04,840
Speaker 3: but for the most part, I kind of let it roll,

741
00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:08,560
Speaker 3: just roll off my back. You know. I just like

742
00:41:08,600 --> 00:41:10,920
Speaker 3: I am the age that I feel that I am,

743
00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:14,320
Speaker 3: you know, instead of like I am that age right, which.

744
00:41:14,160 --> 00:41:15,520
Speaker 2: Sometimes I am sometimes bitch.

745
00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:18,640
Speaker 3: Sometimes I'm one hundred and four years old, okay, and

746
00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:21,160
Speaker 3: sometimes I'm twenty one yeah.

747
00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:24,120
Speaker 2: Then sometimes I'm seven yeah in that, and then sometimes

748
00:41:24,160 --> 00:41:28,200
Speaker 2: I'm in my thirties exactly. It just depends. It's all okay,

749
00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:28,839
Speaker 2: you know.

750
00:41:29,120 --> 00:41:33,160
Speaker 3: And so I'm just always curious people's relationship with age

751
00:41:33,200 --> 00:41:36,360
Speaker 3: because I feel like, you know, when we're in our twenties,

752
00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:39,120
Speaker 3: our thirties feels like the year like those are the

753
00:41:39,200 --> 00:41:41,320
Speaker 3: years like we we finally get our shit together, like

754
00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:42,000
Speaker 3: we're supposed to have.

755
00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:42,479
Speaker 2: It all together.

756
00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:45,359
Speaker 3: And then the gag is that you get to your

757
00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:47,879
Speaker 3: thirties and you be like, damn, nobody got their shit together.

758
00:41:47,920 --> 00:41:49,200
Speaker 2: They're all figuring it out.

759
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:51,520
Speaker 3: And you get to your forties and there's like it

760
00:41:51,600 --> 00:41:54,239
Speaker 3: seems like there's a sort of surrender, but there is

761
00:41:54,280 --> 00:41:56,279
Speaker 3: sort of still like this underlining of.

762
00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 2: Like then you really get your shit together.

763
00:41:58,640 --> 00:42:00,520
Speaker 3: There's still like that. I feel like there's still that

764
00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:03,239
Speaker 3: energy there, but then probably I'm going to get there

765
00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:05,000
Speaker 3: and be like, oh no. And then the gag is

766
00:42:05,040 --> 00:42:08,840
Speaker 3: that in life, like we're just constantly in process.

767
00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:09,520
Speaker 2: In process.

768
00:42:10,200 --> 00:42:13,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, there is no like destiny, no final destination.

769
00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:16,080
Speaker 2: You have to find.

770
00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:19,160
Speaker 5: Peace and happiness exactly where you're at. Yeah, yeah, I

771
00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:25,719
Speaker 5: was thinking that too, first time high, let's at this

772
00:42:25,760 --> 00:42:29,600
Speaker 5: moment we needed there. But I was just thinking about,

773
00:42:30,000 --> 00:42:33,360
Speaker 5: uh wait, we were talking about age eight, and you

774
00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:36,759
Speaker 5: were talking about earlier how you grew up in New

775
00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:38,759
Speaker 5: Orleans and this is the longest time you've been back

776
00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:39,360
Speaker 5: as an adult.

777
00:42:39,680 --> 00:42:40,600
Speaker 2: And one time I was high.

778
00:42:40,600 --> 00:42:42,560
Speaker 5: I think I was talking to Orlando and I was high,

779
00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:44,759
Speaker 5: and I was like, you know what talking about how

780
00:42:44,800 --> 00:42:48,799
Speaker 5: people always think about like growth and a linear like

781
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:50,839
Speaker 5: a linear space, and I was like, we really need

782
00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:53,799
Speaker 5: to think about it like a map. So like sometimes

783
00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:57,000
Speaker 5: you'll go back to Pennsylvania twice. Sometimes you need that

784
00:42:57,080 --> 00:42:59,800
Speaker 5: lesson twice Connecticut. You may not ever go back to

785
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:03,640
Speaker 5: fucking but like it's this like and then sometimes you

786
00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:05,480
Speaker 5: need to journey back to New Orleans to see, like

787
00:43:05,480 --> 00:43:07,799
Speaker 5: what was I doing as a kid, because there's something there,

788
00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:09,680
Speaker 5: Like there's something open there that I still need to

789
00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:13,759
Speaker 5: dig into. But like this relationship is like age and

790
00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:18,239
Speaker 5: where we're supposed to be an expectation. It's like like

791
00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:22,920
Speaker 5: we're there's still like the mind of the I mean

792
00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:27,480
Speaker 5: the developed baby, but like there's this expectation. And that's

793
00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:29,480
Speaker 5: what like breads a lot of anxiety, you know for me,

794
00:43:29,560 --> 00:43:32,040
Speaker 5: like this expectation or like you've had some success and

795
00:43:32,120 --> 00:43:33,640
Speaker 5: I had more success, and then you have to have

796
00:43:33,760 --> 00:43:36,520
Speaker 5: this and like and like and like we talked about

797
00:43:36,560 --> 00:43:39,560
Speaker 5: last week, like your identity to certain things, a certain

798
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:42,440
Speaker 5: like even as I'm like getting married and I just

799
00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:44,760
Speaker 5: keep saying it out loud because I'm like, damn, I'm married.

800
00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:47,239
Speaker 5: Like I'm married. We were like in bed, like you're

801
00:43:47,320 --> 00:43:51,399
Speaker 5: my husband. But it's like, you know, like maybe because

802
00:43:51,400 --> 00:43:52,480
Speaker 5: I didn't really expect.

803
00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:54,520
Speaker 2: It to happen. Now I'm now I'm relating age. Now

804
00:43:54,520 --> 00:43:55,600
Speaker 2: I'm like, well, bitch, what did you think it was

805
00:43:55,600 --> 00:43:57,399
Speaker 2: gonna happen? Like or like you know what I mean.

806
00:43:57,520 --> 00:44:01,360
Speaker 2: Remember when we had to practicing boyfriends, Like I have

807
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:05,759
Speaker 2: a boys maybe keep practicing the hut.

808
00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:08,200
Speaker 3: That was hard for you to do, Yeah, because we

809
00:44:08,239 --> 00:44:10,479
Speaker 3: were so we were just not we were not looking

810
00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:11,640
Speaker 3: for relationship girl.

811
00:44:11,719 --> 00:44:11,879
Speaker 2: Yeah.

812
00:44:12,000 --> 00:44:14,799
Speaker 3: I had a fiance from before that, so having a

813
00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:17,440
Speaker 3: boyfriend was like I had to go back to that world.

814
00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:19,879
Speaker 3: And also I was just I was just I had

815
00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:22,040
Speaker 3: shed so much skin. I was in a new space,

816
00:44:22,680 --> 00:44:25,359
Speaker 3: but I was gonna say something you.

817
00:44:25,320 --> 00:44:31,279
Speaker 7: Were going to say something you were talking about, Hi,

818
00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:32,879
Speaker 7: It's gonna come back for you.

819
00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:35,280
Speaker 2: Like that the journey is not linear.

820
00:44:35,960 --> 00:44:38,239
Speaker 3: What I was saying when you were talking about that,

821
00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:42,200
Speaker 3: I was also thinking about how so much of it, too,

822
00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:46,719
Speaker 3: for for women especially, is about our bodies, because like

823
00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:51,840
Speaker 3: when we're young, we're like, oh, our bodies are always monitored.

824
00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:54,799
Speaker 2: Our bodies are always monitored throughout history. Right when we're young,

825
00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:58,680
Speaker 2: it's like, oh, my god, start a period, she's a

826
00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:01,400
Speaker 2: spring chicken. Okay, now oh she's entering her whole face.

827
00:45:01,600 --> 00:45:01,759
Speaker 4: Oh.

828
00:45:04,040 --> 00:45:06,239
Speaker 2: Then it's like thirties like, oh, now she's gonna start

829
00:45:06,239 --> 00:45:08,960
Speaker 2: making babies. The womb is for the baby. Where the baby?

830
00:45:09,920 --> 00:45:12,040
Speaker 2: And then the forties like, oh sh she ain't gonna

831
00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:16,440
Speaker 2: make no babies. Oh my god, way is that a

832
00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:16,759
Speaker 2: great hair?

833
00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:21,279
Speaker 3: It's I just feel like we are such in like

834
00:45:21,400 --> 00:45:24,560
Speaker 3: not just aware of just the aging process of like

835
00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:28,160
Speaker 3: oh time is moving and like a success, but also

836
00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:32,479
Speaker 3: there's a physical experience that we as women deal with

837
00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:35,839
Speaker 3: that adds to that stress that I think a lot

838
00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:38,600
Speaker 3: of I think most people don't consider, not even women

839
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:40,800
Speaker 3: that like why am I so stressed about my age?

840
00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:41,120
Speaker 4: Why?

841
00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:44,839
Speaker 3: And so there's like a there's a loving that has

842
00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:48,040
Speaker 3: to happen in your body too for you to feel

843
00:45:48,080 --> 00:45:50,920
Speaker 3: safe in aging. I think as a woman, maybe not

844
00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:53,959
Speaker 3: all women, but I would say like, because we're there's

845
00:45:53,960 --> 00:45:55,840
Speaker 3: so many layers to heart to what it means to

846
00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:58,960
Speaker 3: age as a woman that I think men don't have

847
00:45:59,000 --> 00:45:59,600
Speaker 3: to experience.

848
00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:01,120
Speaker 2: That's true, that's real.

849
00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:03,160
Speaker 3: So that was my That's why I was curious, Like,

850
00:46:03,160 --> 00:46:07,120
Speaker 3: what is your relationship with just aging, Not that you're aging,

851
00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:08,279
Speaker 3: your beautiful queen, but just like.

852
00:46:08,200 --> 00:46:11,040
Speaker 2: Moving forward in your in your age and your number

853
00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:15,960
Speaker 2: and your journey. Right, y'all are just so beautiful and brilliant.

854
00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:19,719
Speaker 7: I love your mindsets and I really love the conversation

855
00:46:19,800 --> 00:46:23,319
Speaker 7: we always have and just you say some real shit.

856
00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:25,960
Speaker 7: I like how you put it in perspective with the map,

857
00:46:26,040 --> 00:46:26,600
Speaker 7: and I like.

858
00:46:27,719 --> 00:46:33,200
Speaker 6: Everything you see that it's beautiful. Yeah, and these conversations

859
00:46:33,239 --> 00:46:33,920
Speaker 6: are important.

860
00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:36,239
Speaker 2: And I mean, shit.

861
00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:40,279
Speaker 7: Forty, I mean it's like, wold, girl, you really made

862
00:46:40,320 --> 00:46:44,880
Speaker 7: it this far. And there's been a lot of self reflection.

863
00:46:45,280 --> 00:46:46,440
Speaker 2: It's been a lot of.

864
00:46:48,719 --> 00:46:53,440
Speaker 7: You know, just celebrating, like certain accomplishments that maybe I

865
00:46:53,640 --> 00:46:58,000
Speaker 7: just might have overlooked or didn't spend enough time, you know,

866
00:46:59,040 --> 00:47:02,640
Speaker 7: just taking more time in between not giving a fuck

867
00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:07,799
Speaker 7: saying no, this is my rate and this is what

868
00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:19,160
Speaker 7: I'm standing on, you know, just doing me and just

869
00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:24,960
Speaker 7: being intentional about me. Because you mentioned the physical evolution

870
00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:28,239
Speaker 7: of it all, I mean, yeah, that's why it just

871
00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:32,240
Speaker 7: really be driving me when I see how little reverence

872
00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:36,719
Speaker 7: society has for women, especially Black women, with all of

873
00:47:36,760 --> 00:47:41,759
Speaker 7: the just multi dimensional like spiritual things that were constantly

874
00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:43,000
Speaker 7: like moving through.

875
00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:45,400
Speaker 6: You know what I mean, like constantly.

876
00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:49,000
Speaker 7: And just coming out still looking good, still fucking it up,

877
00:47:49,040 --> 00:47:53,480
Speaker 7: still getting to the bag, still building families and empires.

878
00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:57,560
Speaker 7: You feel me, still showing up beautifully as the number

879
00:47:57,560 --> 00:48:00,200
Speaker 7: one inspiration for the entire plan it.

880
00:48:02,360 --> 00:48:03,960
Speaker 2: Speak on Speak on It.

881
00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:08,640
Speaker 7: I say all of that to say, I'm just at

882
00:48:08,680 --> 00:48:13,759
Speaker 7: a place now where you know, all these things are

883
00:48:14,440 --> 00:48:18,960
Speaker 7: coming like becoming more clear in regards to do I

884
00:48:19,040 --> 00:48:21,480
Speaker 7: really want to work this hard? Do I really want

885
00:48:21,520 --> 00:48:25,160
Speaker 7: to be this much of my masculine energy? Do you know?

886
00:48:25,440 --> 00:48:29,480
Speaker 7: Like how many motherfucking cities and airplanes and luggages?

887
00:48:29,560 --> 00:48:32,879
Speaker 2: Do I got a path? Like you know, like.

888
00:48:34,360 --> 00:48:37,040
Speaker 7: You just come to that and then you're like, you know,

889
00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:42,120
Speaker 7: I am contemplating motherhood. That's something I've said your song, yeah,

890
00:48:42,200 --> 00:48:46,919
Speaker 7: and so I'm a woman, I'm I'm like, I'm like, dang, girl,

891
00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:50,719
Speaker 7: you really was locked in on your career. Wow, look

892
00:48:50,760 --> 00:48:52,960
Speaker 7: at what you've built. It's a movement. You could go

893
00:48:53,040 --> 00:49:00,720
Speaker 7: to any city and it's a vibe is up, like wow, community, femininity, balance, feeling, health,

894
00:49:00,760 --> 00:49:07,040
Speaker 7: holistic like whoa. But at the same time, like you know,

895
00:49:08,160 --> 00:49:11,279
Speaker 7: Zen and Cush is ten, So what does it look

896
00:49:11,400 --> 00:49:14,319
Speaker 7: like at twenty? You feel me? And so it's just

897
00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:18,640
Speaker 7: all these questions. More journaling, more meditation. I've been in

898
00:49:18,640 --> 00:49:21,319
Speaker 7: the studio, you know, working on the next album, and

899
00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:26,280
Speaker 7: it's definitely much deeper, much more introspective, much less fucks given,

900
00:49:26,480 --> 00:49:31,520
Speaker 7: you know, more pilates classes, my Homegirl, shout out Aquadeva,

901
00:49:32,040 --> 00:49:36,880
Speaker 7: shout out Pretty Girl's Pole two black Woman Dancer, Goddess

902
00:49:36,880 --> 00:49:38,680
Speaker 7: Pole Goddesses in La.

903
00:49:39,200 --> 00:49:41,000
Speaker 2: Running it up, running up the bag.

904
00:49:41,440 --> 00:49:44,399
Speaker 7: I'm gonna just be taking my classes, you know, just

905
00:49:45,000 --> 00:49:48,920
Speaker 7: leaning more into embodiment, just being becoming more comfortable in

906
00:49:48,920 --> 00:49:53,160
Speaker 7: my body and my feminine energy, just like exploring that

907
00:49:53,200 --> 00:49:55,359
Speaker 7: because for me, that's where the magic is, that's where

908
00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:57,200
Speaker 7: the bag is, that's where the money is, that's.

909
00:49:57,040 --> 00:49:57,839
Speaker 6: Where the health is.

910
00:49:58,360 --> 00:50:01,520
Speaker 7: That's where the opportunities are. That's where everything like peace

911
00:50:01,560 --> 00:50:05,520
Speaker 7: and healing in my family is. Like that's just where

912
00:50:05,520 --> 00:50:10,880
Speaker 7: it is. And like, so health is a priority. Maybe

913
00:50:10,880 --> 00:50:13,759
Speaker 7: this is answering your question. Maybe it's not.

914
00:50:15,080 --> 00:50:18,279
Speaker 2: It is, but that's just where I'm at. You feel me.

915
00:50:18,520 --> 00:50:21,920
Speaker 7: I'm just on some Lizzie four point zero. Like I've

916
00:50:21,920 --> 00:50:24,680
Speaker 7: been feeling that way great, Yeah, like a lot.

917
00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:29,479
Speaker 5: Yeah, I've been feeling Yeah, Like the somatic healing needs

918
00:50:29,520 --> 00:50:32,680
Speaker 5: to happen. Like you can do so much logical analyzing

919
00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:36,200
Speaker 5: and thinking, but on the cellular level, if the trauma

920
00:50:36,320 --> 00:50:39,160
Speaker 5: or whatever it is is living in your body, it

921
00:50:39,200 --> 00:50:40,040
Speaker 5: doesn't matter.

922
00:50:40,080 --> 00:50:41,200
Speaker 2: You have to like move it out.

923
00:50:42,160 --> 00:50:42,720
Speaker 6: That's deep.

924
00:50:43,320 --> 00:50:45,160
Speaker 7: Move it out, Okay, And then let me say this,

925
00:50:45,160 --> 00:50:46,360
Speaker 7: because you made me think it is. I want to

926
00:50:46,360 --> 00:50:50,840
Speaker 7: shout out my homegirl with my girl, Sharan Sharon Nicole.

927
00:50:51,760 --> 00:50:56,160
Speaker 7: She in the Bay, not far from Napa Valley. But

928
00:50:56,760 --> 00:51:01,360
Speaker 7: when I tell you, she gives the most unbelievably mind

929
00:51:01,440 --> 00:51:04,560
Speaker 7: blowing scalp massages, herbal rinses.

930
00:51:05,120 --> 00:51:11,200
Speaker 6: She's a natural hairstylist, and she just it's like a

931
00:51:11,280 --> 00:51:12,719
Speaker 6: birthday gift to yourself.

932
00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:19,760
Speaker 7: The herbs is natural and my homegirl in Atlanta, Gabrielle Gabby.

933
00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:23,880
Speaker 7: She has a hair company called in Love. But you

934
00:51:24,000 --> 00:51:25,759
Speaker 7: know how we look at a lot of these hair

935
00:51:25,800 --> 00:51:29,759
Speaker 7: products on the shelves. Her packaging is just as beautiful

936
00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:33,440
Speaker 7: and as black woman owned. And so I say that

937
00:51:33,640 --> 00:51:37,640
Speaker 7: I think about those women because the power of loving

938
00:51:37,719 --> 00:51:41,600
Speaker 7: on our hair, the power of massage and body work

939
00:51:41,640 --> 00:51:46,640
Speaker 7: and releasing tension. We overthink shit. We're constantly like coloring

940
00:51:46,680 --> 00:51:49,680
Speaker 7: our hair or doing different things, cutting it, sleeping on it,

941
00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:52,600
Speaker 7: falling asleep without the scarf, like you feel me like,

942
00:51:53,480 --> 00:51:55,880
Speaker 7: And so that's an important ritual and that's something that

943
00:51:55,920 --> 00:51:59,400
Speaker 7: I'm getting back more into just loving my natural hair

944
00:51:59,600 --> 00:52:04,400
Speaker 7: more and allowing my sisters that are like gifted in

945
00:52:04,440 --> 00:52:09,000
Speaker 7: that department to bless me, to activate me, to like

946
00:52:09,120 --> 00:52:12,480
Speaker 7: make that time. So I've just been leaning more into

947
00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:17,520
Speaker 7: my homegirls that do massage, that do reiki, the pole dancing,

948
00:52:17,680 --> 00:52:20,880
Speaker 7: Like we have a community of women and brothers that

949
00:52:21,520 --> 00:52:25,200
Speaker 7: are doing this work. And so yeah, that's that's what

950
00:52:25,320 --> 00:52:28,120
Speaker 7: forty is for me, just like allowing myself to like

951
00:52:28,280 --> 00:52:31,879
Speaker 7: kind of fall back and surrender into the love, into

952
00:52:31,960 --> 00:52:34,759
Speaker 7: the healing, into everything that I've been cultivating for the

953
00:52:34,840 --> 00:52:38,840
Speaker 7: last ten years, for the last twenty years and everything

954
00:52:38,880 --> 00:52:43,160
Speaker 7: that I've been pouring into the people, just allowing it

955
00:52:43,200 --> 00:52:44,160
Speaker 7: to kind.

956
00:52:43,920 --> 00:52:49,600
Speaker 2: Of follow on you bless you. Yeah, I know. Yeah.

957
00:52:49,640 --> 00:52:54,280
Speaker 3: Anyway, well, happy almost birthday.

958
00:52:54,360 --> 00:52:56,880
Speaker 2: It's not until July, very end of July.

959
00:52:57,200 --> 00:52:57,759
Speaker 6: I'm a Leah.

960
00:52:58,200 --> 00:53:02,200
Speaker 2: I love Aleah. Y'all celebrate already is January.

961
00:53:02,239 --> 00:53:04,920
Speaker 3: My birthday is coming, guys, just the case I need

962
00:53:04,920 --> 00:53:07,000
Speaker 3: to let you know the way.

963
00:53:07,920 --> 00:53:11,160
Speaker 2: But it shut out to at least turning forty. It's like, no,

964
00:53:11,280 --> 00:53:12,360
Speaker 2: I was on three as.

965
00:53:12,200 --> 00:53:15,200
Speaker 3: It's a whole like movement because like, yeah, you have

966
00:53:15,320 --> 00:53:17,880
Speaker 3: all year to reflect on it too, Like it's just

967
00:53:17,920 --> 00:53:21,359
Speaker 3: like after how you want to feel. Yeah, it's a

968
00:53:21,680 --> 00:53:24,080
Speaker 3: it's a pivotal Maybe that's what I need to do

969
00:53:24,120 --> 00:53:25,959
Speaker 3: more of because you know, I get so anxious around

970
00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:29,120
Speaker 3: my birthday. I turn into like a fucking psychopath. Maybe

971
00:53:29,160 --> 00:53:32,239
Speaker 3: I need to start thinking about my birthday earlier so

972
00:53:32,280 --> 00:53:36,160
Speaker 3: that when it comes it's not so overwhelming because you

973
00:53:36,239 --> 00:53:37,000
Speaker 3: start processing.

974
00:53:38,440 --> 00:53:40,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe the process this.

975
00:53:40,680 --> 00:53:45,160
Speaker 7: Year now it's more vital than you right, you know,

976
00:53:45,280 --> 00:53:48,600
Speaker 7: your celebration of life, because like look around, there's a

977
00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:51,160
Speaker 7: lot going on out here, and so it's like, yeah,

978
00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:55,000
Speaker 7: we let's take advantage of these opportunities to celebrate our lives,

979
00:53:55,320 --> 00:53:58,719
Speaker 7: celebrate the small winds, but also like your birthday, like

980
00:53:58,880 --> 00:54:01,759
Speaker 7: that's deserving of a little bit more time, a little

981
00:54:01,800 --> 00:54:05,080
Speaker 7: bit more plan and execution and running it out.

982
00:54:05,160 --> 00:54:08,400
Speaker 2: This is a great high thought. This is the weed

983
00:54:08,680 --> 00:54:14,680
Speaker 2: spoke to me. Thank you looking for early. Yeah, it's

984
00:54:14,680 --> 00:54:16,840
Speaker 2: gonna be better. You're gonna like it more. You're not

985
00:54:16,840 --> 00:54:20,919
Speaker 2: gonna to go in a dark hole. Okay, I love that. Well.

986
00:54:21,160 --> 00:54:24,839
Speaker 5: As Lizzie Jeff was discussing and possible like the motherhood

987
00:54:24,960 --> 00:54:25,760
Speaker 5: and what's next?

988
00:54:27,000 --> 00:54:30,439
Speaker 2: Like are you dating? What is your what are you doing?

989
00:54:30,680 --> 00:54:31,440
Speaker 2: What are you doing over there?

990
00:54:31,640 --> 00:54:35,880
Speaker 3: What you're doing theious issue you're dating?

991
00:54:35,880 --> 00:54:39,920
Speaker 5: Are you gonna at? What is your ideal relationship with?

992
00:54:40,040 --> 00:54:43,520
Speaker 5: Like what does your ideal lover look? Like, I'm just curious.

993
00:54:43,960 --> 00:54:46,120
Speaker 5: What is it that you know that you got over there?

994
00:54:46,280 --> 00:54:47,640
Speaker 5: Are you manifesting?

995
00:54:47,800 --> 00:54:51,520
Speaker 3: I wanted to love that.

996
00:54:52,400 --> 00:54:53,560
Speaker 2: Thank you. That's really sweet.

997
00:54:53,640 --> 00:54:57,719
Speaker 7: That's a good question, especially now like I feel like

998
00:54:57,800 --> 00:54:58,520
Speaker 7: getting back to.

999
00:54:58,680 --> 00:55:00,640
Speaker 2: L A and being on my journey.

1000
00:55:00,680 --> 00:55:05,320
Speaker 7: I've been I've been processing everything you know, and like, okay,

1001
00:55:05,360 --> 00:55:10,880
Speaker 7: so what's next? And yeah, love, like I'm open to it.

1002
00:55:11,680 --> 00:55:17,239
Speaker 7: I'm I'm not currently in a serious situation. I may

1003
00:55:17,360 --> 00:55:19,719
Speaker 7: have been in the past, but right now I'm just

1004
00:55:20,120 --> 00:55:21,240
Speaker 7: I've been on a journey.

1005
00:55:22,360 --> 00:55:25,360
Speaker 6: I've just been like exploring.

1006
00:55:24,760 --> 00:55:27,440
Speaker 7: Me more, just seeing what I like, you feel me,

1007
00:55:27,560 --> 00:55:30,719
Speaker 7: seeing what kind of things I love, how I.

1008
00:55:30,680 --> 00:55:31,520
Speaker 2: Want to be treated.

1009
00:55:31,560 --> 00:55:32,879
Speaker 6: So I can get very clear in.

1010
00:55:32,880 --> 00:55:34,640
Speaker 2: That you have a physical type.

1011
00:55:34,760 --> 00:55:38,040
Speaker 7: But it's okay, a physical type. You know what I

1012
00:55:38,160 --> 00:55:40,360
Speaker 7: like my strong I like my strong brothers.

1013
00:55:40,400 --> 00:55:44,520
Speaker 2: What white man not the drink.

1014
00:55:46,760 --> 00:55:54,160
Speaker 3: European, not of America white.

1015
00:55:56,680 --> 00:56:00,520
Speaker 2: You're recking, Lizzie Blush. I want to know you know

1016
00:56:00,600 --> 00:56:01,040
Speaker 2: what my.

1017
00:56:01,120 --> 00:56:04,200
Speaker 6: Type is, the strong brother.

1018
00:56:06,040 --> 00:56:08,200
Speaker 2: Black? Revolutionary.

1019
00:56:08,680 --> 00:56:12,520
Speaker 3: Wait, speaking of revolutionary, have y'all seen Battle after Battle?

1020
00:56:12,800 --> 00:56:15,600
Speaker 2: Bad? One battle after another? No, finally watched the other night.

1021
00:56:15,719 --> 00:56:20,200
Speaker 3: Sorry, evolutionists, that's why.

1022
00:56:19,880 --> 00:56:22,960
Speaker 2: We watched Battle after Battle. Yeah, with Tianna Taylor. She's

1023
00:56:23,000 --> 00:56:27,120
Speaker 2: not mad for an Oscar to any Leonardo DiCaprio. Yeah,

1024
00:56:27,680 --> 00:56:32,040
Speaker 2: amazing channels it on I think I watched it on.

1025
00:56:33,680 --> 00:56:38,799
Speaker 3: That Amazon. I bought it on Amazon. But anyway, sorry,

1026
00:56:38,800 --> 00:56:40,680
Speaker 3: I didn't mean to know. I was just thinking. I

1027
00:56:40,719 --> 00:56:43,759
Speaker 3: was just thinking about revolutionary and because she was a

1028
00:56:43,800 --> 00:56:47,320
Speaker 3: black woman dating Leonardo DiCaprio, who was this like abolitionist

1029
00:56:47,400 --> 00:56:50,440
Speaker 3: and just like down for the cause. Like he was

1030
00:56:50,480 --> 00:56:52,640
Speaker 3: a white man down for the cause. So are we

1031
00:56:52,680 --> 00:56:54,000
Speaker 3: dating white men down for the cause?

1032
00:56:54,080 --> 00:56:55,319
Speaker 2: Is that is he considered a brother?

1033
00:56:55,719 --> 00:56:57,360
Speaker 6: You are such a good question.

1034
00:56:57,480 --> 00:57:02,399
Speaker 2: As weltrator, we always need one Leonardo.

1035
00:57:02,520 --> 00:57:05,239
Speaker 3: I mean not because Leonardo is very disappointing at this

1036
00:57:05,239 --> 00:57:06,960
Speaker 3: point in the world. I thought he was for the

1037
00:57:07,080 --> 00:57:09,360
Speaker 3: environment and the people, but actually he's for Jeff Bezos.

1038
00:57:09,760 --> 00:57:11,960
Speaker 2: Really, what are you talking about?

1039
00:57:12,520 --> 00:57:14,800
Speaker 3: Leonardo is like hanging out with Jeff Bezos all the

1040
00:57:14,800 --> 00:57:17,840
Speaker 3: time on his boats and ship, and he was like

1041
00:57:18,000 --> 00:57:22,520
Speaker 3: he was like an environmentalist. He was like his whole

1042
00:57:22,560 --> 00:57:24,040
Speaker 3: young life isn't just all fake.

1043
00:57:24,160 --> 00:57:27,919
Speaker 5: He's infiltrating consciousness.

1044
00:57:27,960 --> 00:57:31,240
Speaker 2: I'm hoping no, he's drunk and hanging out with models.

1045
00:57:31,480 --> 00:57:34,760
Speaker 3: That's deep, that's deep his faces. Leonard, I love him,

1046
00:57:35,360 --> 00:57:37,800
Speaker 3: was environmentalist. He was even in that movie recently that

1047
00:57:37,920 --> 00:57:39,560
Speaker 3: was about the government being stupid.

1048
00:57:39,840 --> 00:57:42,680
Speaker 2: This movie right now is about that the government being stupid.

1049
00:57:42,880 --> 00:57:45,400
Speaker 2: So he's inflictating guys. He's just trying to get into

1050
00:57:46,000 --> 00:57:49,000
Speaker 2: Bezos mind. I like the Yin Yang. There was some

1051
00:57:49,040 --> 00:57:50,760
Speaker 2: weird ship going on. I mean not weird ship.

1052
00:57:50,760 --> 00:57:52,880
Speaker 3: There was like this like the under like the good

1053
00:57:52,920 --> 00:57:55,640
Speaker 3: old boy Club, like they explore, like the weird white

1054
00:57:56,400 --> 00:57:59,640
Speaker 3: fucking members only club. It was called like the Christmas

1055
00:57:59,680 --> 00:58:03,400
Speaker 3: Clan or some ship like that, you know, Christmas Adventure Club.

1056
00:58:03,720 --> 00:58:04,040
Speaker 2: It was the.

1057
00:58:04,120 --> 00:58:06,680
Speaker 3: Christmas Adventure Club, that's what they called it. And they

1058
00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:10,160
Speaker 3: each had had like Christmas names like Patrick Kringle.

1059
00:58:10,360 --> 00:58:13,760
Speaker 2: That's crazy. And at the end in the movie it's

1060
00:58:13,840 --> 00:58:15,320
Speaker 2: white anyway, it's dark.

1061
00:58:16,160 --> 00:58:17,840
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't want to know the secret they have.

1062
00:58:18,480 --> 00:58:20,760
Speaker 3: I'm like, wow, you know, I knew they had those,

1063
00:58:20,840 --> 00:58:23,200
Speaker 3: but seeing it play out with these old white men

1064
00:58:23,280 --> 00:58:25,720
Speaker 3: on screen that they were doing really good acting, I

1065
00:58:25,760 --> 00:58:28,560
Speaker 3: was like, this is too close to real. No, it is,

1066
00:58:28,720 --> 00:58:32,480
Speaker 3: it's happening. They actually might be in it. They're playing themselves.

1067
00:58:32,560 --> 00:58:40,479
Speaker 3: I don't know anyway, Oh my goodness, it's so deep revolutionary.

1068
00:58:37,360 --> 00:58:43,160
Speaker 7: Revolution handsome strong, you know, in his masculine energy, loves

1069
00:58:43,160 --> 00:58:46,120
Speaker 7: taking care of shit, loves making things happen, love seeing

1070
00:58:46,160 --> 00:58:49,720
Speaker 7: me win. Oh, his favorite pastime is putting me in

1071
00:58:49,800 --> 00:58:54,400
Speaker 7: position to thrive. Get to a bag strong, beautiful healing

1072
00:58:54,480 --> 00:58:58,680
Speaker 7: medicinal hands who doesn't mind getting being up at three

1073
00:58:58,720 --> 00:59:03,120
Speaker 7: a m brewing some Herbaldmiana maka t with a little

1074
00:59:03,120 --> 00:59:06,160
Speaker 7: bit of blue lotus you feel me and a dash

1075
00:59:06,200 --> 00:59:10,480
Speaker 7: of manooka, honey, somebody that just understands my work and

1076
00:59:10,640 --> 00:59:14,200
Speaker 7: who I am and can hold space for me, just

1077
00:59:14,240 --> 00:59:16,640
Speaker 7: like I'm able to hold space for whatever I hold

1078
00:59:16,640 --> 00:59:20,040
Speaker 7: space for. But somebody that's just going to match that energy.

1079
00:59:20,240 --> 00:59:26,160
Speaker 7: And you know, just you know, all of that ship,

1080
00:59:26,240 --> 00:59:28,480
Speaker 7: all that fly ship, that's what I'm calling in. I mean,

1081
00:59:30,240 --> 00:59:32,600
Speaker 7: you know, I just like it a certain way. My

1082
00:59:32,720 --> 00:59:35,040
Speaker 7: venus is in virgo. So I think that's like a

1083
00:59:35,880 --> 00:59:36,320
Speaker 7: So does.

1084
00:59:36,160 --> 00:59:42,560
Speaker 2: That mean like you are you know what well you general?

1085
00:59:43,000 --> 00:59:44,640
Speaker 2: I sounded like that sounded.

1086
00:59:45,040 --> 00:59:48,600
Speaker 5: I feel like it's exactly exactly exactly.

1087
00:59:49,280 --> 00:59:49,760
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1088
00:59:50,880 --> 00:59:53,960
Speaker 3: See, I'm open, I'm believing I'm putting all that energy

1089
00:59:54,000 --> 00:59:54,440
Speaker 3: towards you.

1090
00:59:54,640 --> 00:59:57,120
Speaker 7: Thank you the way I feel good about it, I'm like,

1091
00:59:57,320 --> 00:59:59,240
Speaker 7: I'm doing me and I'm loving.

1092
00:59:58,920 --> 01:00:01,600
Speaker 2: It, and there's no way I'm not going to attract it.

1093
01:00:01,880 --> 01:00:05,760
Speaker 7: Like yeah, that's how I feel exactly, And thank y'all

1094
01:00:05,760 --> 01:00:06,320
Speaker 7: for asking.

1095
01:00:06,480 --> 01:00:08,880
Speaker 3: Of course, sometimes you have to say it out loud

1096
01:00:08,880 --> 01:00:13,480
Speaker 3: on them airways to your homegirls. Since you remind the universe, heytant,

1097
01:00:13,560 --> 01:00:14,480
Speaker 3: this is what I was asked.

1098
01:00:14,520 --> 01:00:18,000
Speaker 2: Remember me, Hey, hey, remember that moment it's here. Yeah,

1099
01:00:18,040 --> 01:00:18,280
Speaker 2: thank you.

1100
01:00:18,520 --> 01:00:20,640
Speaker 3: When you meet that king, you don't be acting stupid, because,

1101
01:00:20,680 --> 01:00:23,600
Speaker 3: let me tell you, even a queen be tripping when

1102
01:00:23,600 --> 01:00:26,160
Speaker 3: she meets her king, trying to run away, and like

1103
01:00:26,320 --> 01:00:29,600
Speaker 3: we do let our traumas ruin relationships after all the

1104
01:00:29,600 --> 01:00:32,600
Speaker 3: work we've done and all these things, and you know,

1105
01:00:32,680 --> 01:00:35,280
Speaker 3: like there's sometimes like even That's why I said, like

1106
01:00:35,280 --> 01:00:37,120
Speaker 3: even the divine feminine needs to go sit in a

1107
01:00:37,160 --> 01:00:40,280
Speaker 3: masculine space and observe themselves and see how they show

1108
01:00:40,360 --> 01:00:41,960
Speaker 3: up there and see the things that they can learn,

1109
01:00:41,960 --> 01:00:44,480
Speaker 3: because we need to learn. Also, we don't just automatically

1110
01:00:44,480 --> 01:00:46,240
Speaker 3: know what niggasn't want.

1111
01:00:46,520 --> 01:00:48,360
Speaker 2: So where's a masculine space we can go?

1112
01:00:48,480 --> 01:00:50,240
Speaker 6: Like what comes to mind when you say that?

1113
01:00:50,760 --> 01:00:53,280
Speaker 2: You know what? Okay, let me tell you guys, Okay something.

1114
01:00:54,280 --> 01:00:56,840
Speaker 5: So yesterday I was were looking at reels and you know,

1115
01:00:56,840 --> 01:00:58,680
Speaker 5: they're always feeding a shit that doesn't belong to you.

1116
01:00:59,320 --> 01:01:02,040
Speaker 5: And there's this black eye and he's like on camera

1117
01:01:02,080 --> 01:01:04,720
Speaker 5: and he's like, yo, I want to show you what

1118
01:01:04,800 --> 01:01:06,560
Speaker 5: happens when I cut my nails in front of my

1119
01:01:06,640 --> 01:01:09,920
Speaker 5: TI girlfriend. And like the caption is like I have

1120
01:01:09,960 --> 01:01:11,200
Speaker 5: a TI girlfriend or something.

1121
01:01:11,280 --> 01:01:11,960
Speaker 2: It's a black guy.

1122
01:01:12,120 --> 01:01:16,440
Speaker 5: Okay, So like generally, you know, like I just like

1123
01:01:16,560 --> 01:01:21,560
Speaker 5: I really dislike self hating black man who like just

1124
01:01:21,640 --> 01:01:25,840
Speaker 5: have to like be just you know. So he starts

1125
01:01:25,840 --> 01:01:26,880
Speaker 5: cutting his nails and.

1126
01:01:26,760 --> 01:01:29,800
Speaker 2: She's like, babe, what are you doing.

1127
01:01:29,840 --> 01:01:35,360
Speaker 3: And he's like nothing, and she's like, babe, stop. So

1128
01:01:35,400 --> 01:01:37,000
Speaker 3: then she comes up, this little TI girl and she

1129
01:01:37,040 --> 01:01:40,160
Speaker 3: looks brown. She almost like I don't know if she's blackfishing,

1130
01:01:40,320 --> 01:01:42,840
Speaker 3: if she's a brown tie and she's looking like or

1131
01:01:42,840 --> 01:01:44,480
Speaker 3: maybe she gets black in her I don't.

1132
01:01:44,360 --> 01:01:47,360
Speaker 2: Know, but she's tie. And she's like, stop, that is

1133
01:01:47,440 --> 01:01:51,040
Speaker 2: my job. I stop. That is my job. I cut

1134
01:01:51,080 --> 01:01:52,840
Speaker 2: your nails or whatever.

1135
01:01:52,920 --> 01:01:56,880
Speaker 5: And then he's like shows her the camera and she's like, oh, will.

1136
01:01:56,800 --> 01:02:07,480
Speaker 2: You do that? And he's like, I'm gonna start video.

1137
01:02:08,960 --> 01:02:11,760
Speaker 5: So then he comes to the camera like guys come

1138
01:02:11,800 --> 01:02:13,680
Speaker 5: to Thailand like they take care of you.

1139
01:02:13,760 --> 01:02:16,600
Speaker 3: So then I'm like he's in Thailand, Like he's not.

1140
01:02:16,720 --> 01:02:18,840
Speaker 3: He's not in America with the TI girl. He's actually

1141
01:02:19,360 --> 01:02:20,040
Speaker 3: broadcast and.

1142
01:02:20,040 --> 01:02:22,920
Speaker 5: You want to Soway started looking through his content and

1143
01:02:22,960 --> 01:02:27,280
Speaker 5: saw like girls, it's Carter Nows and that's traveling. And

1144
01:02:27,280 --> 01:02:29,440
Speaker 5: then it's like I found that you probably this like

1145
01:02:29,520 --> 01:02:31,600
Speaker 5: I saw the tie halle Berry and she has like

1146
01:02:31,640 --> 01:02:32,520
Speaker 5: a short haircut.

1147
01:02:32,600 --> 01:02:34,920
Speaker 2: She's like sick. So you know, he got like the

1148
01:02:34,960 --> 01:02:39,080
Speaker 2: blackest TI whatever. So I was reading they Berry, Yeah,

1149
01:02:39,080 --> 01:02:39,480
Speaker 2: that's it.

1150
01:02:39,880 --> 01:02:42,560
Speaker 3: He's like his whole page. She's got a viral over there.

1151
01:02:42,600 --> 01:02:45,240
Speaker 3: It looks like he's trying to get on. He's like

1152
01:02:45,320 --> 01:02:47,160
Speaker 3: kind of corny in America. So he went over there.

1153
01:02:47,240 --> 01:02:50,720
Speaker 3: She is followers. She's like, I'm gonna like so you know.

1154
01:02:50,880 --> 01:02:53,640
Speaker 5: But after like getting past the fact that that was

1155
01:02:53,760 --> 01:02:55,880
Speaker 5: super annoying, and I was reading the comments and they're like,

1156
01:02:56,240 --> 01:02:58,520
Speaker 5: you don't have you could just play your partner without

1157
01:02:58,560 --> 01:03:01,280
Speaker 5: having a fetish size and the hiring right, and he

1158
01:03:01,400 --> 01:03:02,560
Speaker 5: was like I can see him in the going back

1159
01:03:02,600 --> 01:03:04,520
Speaker 5: and forth, like a lot of nice guys wouldn't say that,

1160
01:03:04,640 --> 01:03:06,640
Speaker 5: Like she's like, I'm black and I do this. But then,

1161
01:03:06,880 --> 01:03:09,040
Speaker 5: like when I got past my annoyance of the whole thing,

1162
01:03:09,600 --> 01:03:14,240
Speaker 5: I was like, I don't be cutting nobody's fucking nails.

1163
01:03:15,560 --> 01:03:21,640
Speaker 2: I don't know does Orlando cut you?

1164
01:03:22,000 --> 01:03:24,400
Speaker 3: And then I went to this whole internal battle about

1165
01:03:24,440 --> 01:03:30,040
Speaker 3: like my femininity and like, no, baby is another bits

1166
01:03:30,040 --> 01:03:32,600
Speaker 3: gonna go suit my man? Because not for I haven't

1167
01:03:32,640 --> 01:03:35,440
Speaker 3: been trained to be like as subservient as because I

1168
01:03:35,760 --> 01:03:38,880
Speaker 3: know that there's other cultures that if Orlando leaves you

1169
01:03:38,920 --> 01:03:41,480
Speaker 3: for a bitch clipping toenails, then he was never your man.

1170
01:03:41,600 --> 01:03:44,520
Speaker 2: Okay, let me tell you right now. I literally had

1171
01:03:44,680 --> 01:03:47,640
Speaker 2: like I was just like, no, am I trigger?

1172
01:03:48,120 --> 01:03:50,440
Speaker 3: But I think it's I think observing your relationship with

1173
01:03:51,600 --> 01:03:54,680
Speaker 3: uh submission, what you view a submission or what you

1174
01:03:54,760 --> 01:03:58,240
Speaker 3: view as like servitude to your partner has been something

1175
01:03:58,280 --> 01:04:00,200
Speaker 3: that has come up for you, right because it's not

1176
01:04:00,200 --> 01:04:01,880
Speaker 3: something that necessarily you witnessed.

1177
01:04:02,320 --> 01:04:03,520
Speaker 2: So it's it's good.

1178
01:04:03,760 --> 01:04:06,440
Speaker 3: You're gonna be triggered by ship that is not something

1179
01:04:06,440 --> 01:04:07,760
Speaker 3: that you should be triggered by as your friend.

1180
01:04:07,800 --> 01:04:10,240
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna allow that. I was like, I gotta

1181
01:04:10,320 --> 01:04:13,600
Speaker 2: try to be softer. I gotta be like that was good.

1182
01:04:13,640 --> 01:04:14,840
Speaker 6: You're such a good friend.

1183
01:04:17,120 --> 01:04:20,880
Speaker 2: Don't do that. I love it.

1184
01:04:21,000 --> 01:04:24,520
Speaker 3: I mean what I clipped MS have, I I think

1185
01:04:24,640 --> 01:04:26,720
Speaker 3: I have I have cliped Chem's tone. I was only

1186
01:04:26,760 --> 01:04:30,880
Speaker 3: because they were growing over his toes with toe so

1187
01:04:30,960 --> 01:04:31,720
Speaker 3: it was more of.

1188
01:04:31,720 --> 01:04:35,960
Speaker 2: Like what the fuck? Then, like I love my man's toenails.

1189
01:04:35,960 --> 01:04:38,680
Speaker 3: It was like, you know, you come in sometimes Nigga's

1190
01:04:38,680 --> 01:04:41,439
Speaker 3: been on the market for too long and the woman

1191
01:04:41,480 --> 01:04:43,280
Speaker 3: has to come in and just you know, get them

1192
01:04:43,280 --> 01:04:54,480
Speaker 3: together up a little bit, just details, but the levels.

1193
01:04:54,640 --> 01:04:57,320
Speaker 3: But there's like this, there's this role right, Like there's

1194
01:04:57,360 --> 01:04:59,480
Speaker 3: this just like in motherhood, when we came into motherhood,

1195
01:04:59,480 --> 01:05:03,080
Speaker 3: there's this is that like this this under this like

1196
01:05:03,360 --> 01:05:05,680
Speaker 3: quiet understanding, like suddenly you have to turn into this

1197
01:05:05,720 --> 01:05:08,200
Speaker 3: type of person because now the baby, right, and then

1198
01:05:08,240 --> 01:05:10,000
Speaker 3: like now I'm a wife, and then like I'm triggered

1199
01:05:10,000 --> 01:05:13,240
Speaker 3: because it's bitches cutting tone, He's like kind of tent.

1200
01:05:13,960 --> 01:05:15,840
Speaker 2: What could you do? What could you do? That's your

1201
01:05:15,960 --> 01:05:16,919
Speaker 2: version of cutting tone?

1202
01:05:17,240 --> 01:05:17,360
Speaker 4: Right?

1203
01:05:17,600 --> 01:05:18,120
Speaker 2: Exactly?

1204
01:05:18,320 --> 01:05:21,120
Speaker 3: What is like exactly like I, you know, I'm loving

1205
01:05:21,200 --> 01:05:23,160
Speaker 3: like you know, but maybe I can try harder, but

1206
01:05:23,440 --> 01:05:25,320
Speaker 3: like it, what's something that you could do consistently? Do

1207
01:05:25,320 --> 01:05:27,000
Speaker 3: you think that you would like you would actually like

1208
01:05:27,080 --> 01:05:33,440
Speaker 3: to do because you need to like to okay, perfect mango,

1209
01:05:35,200 --> 01:05:41,800
Speaker 3: you know. But I was just like contemplating my servitude

1210
01:05:41,840 --> 01:05:45,480
Speaker 3: and my my femininity. And then like now I'm married,

1211
01:05:45,520 --> 01:05:46,760
Speaker 3: I'm like, and I do have a really good man.

1212
01:05:46,840 --> 01:05:48,360
Speaker 3: He does should be really good and he does like

1213
01:05:48,520 --> 01:05:50,680
Speaker 3: baby me sometimes that I need that, And I'm like.

1214
01:05:51,600 --> 01:05:54,080
Speaker 2: Do I do that? Like do I have to how

1215
01:05:54,080 --> 01:05:54,760
Speaker 2: do I do that?

1216
01:05:55,840 --> 01:05:58,240
Speaker 7: Did he come to you and say like, oh, you're

1217
01:05:58,280 --> 01:06:02,160
Speaker 7: not being subservient enough they look on the internet. Okay,

1218
01:06:02,160 --> 01:06:04,400
Speaker 7: so it doesn't have nothing to do with him or

1219
01:06:04,440 --> 01:06:07,080
Speaker 7: what he thought. It was just how it was impacting

1220
01:06:07,120 --> 01:06:08,040
Speaker 7: you from seeing it.

1221
01:06:08,680 --> 01:06:11,600
Speaker 5: And then I was like so interesting, Like I think

1222
01:06:11,720 --> 01:06:14,440
Speaker 5: as black women too, I am so used to seeing

1223
01:06:15,240 --> 01:06:18,720
Speaker 5: like anti black rhetoric on the internet from black men,

1224
01:06:19,000 --> 01:06:21,800
Speaker 5: and I would like to say that I'm bothered by it,

1225
01:06:21,960 --> 01:06:25,200
Speaker 5: but like, obviously I'm bothered by it, and it does

1226
01:06:25,360 --> 01:06:29,400
Speaker 5: like it's always really really like deeply hurt my heart

1227
01:06:29,440 --> 01:06:33,040
Speaker 5: to see so many and obviously there's black men that

1228
01:06:33,160 --> 01:06:35,480
Speaker 5: love black women, but like so many black men who

1229
01:06:35,520 --> 01:06:38,000
Speaker 5: are so willing to toss us in the trash like

1230
01:06:38,400 --> 01:06:39,920
Speaker 5: they can't do this or like or just like I

1231
01:06:40,000 --> 01:06:42,560
Speaker 5: just even reading the comments or just I guess growing

1232
01:06:42,640 --> 01:06:46,400
Speaker 5: up in a predominantly white space too, just seeing black

1233
01:06:46,440 --> 01:06:49,800
Speaker 5: men experience such deep self hate and not even recognize

1234
01:06:49,800 --> 01:06:53,280
Speaker 5: that that's what it is. It like it does it

1235
01:06:53,320 --> 01:06:56,320
Speaker 5: annoys the shit out of me, like like upping every.

1236
01:06:56,200 --> 01:06:59,920
Speaker 2: You know, it's just I see it the hashtag mixed.

1237
01:06:59,760 --> 01:07:03,560
Speaker 3: Kids and like this fucking weird thing that it's like,

1238
01:07:03,600 --> 01:07:07,200
Speaker 3: why are like my black husband does is my white

1239
01:07:07,240 --> 01:07:10,640
Speaker 3: wife and like it just loved the bitch silently.

1240
01:07:10,240 --> 01:07:11,920
Speaker 2: Like you don't have to why you should get a

1241
01:07:11,920 --> 01:07:18,280
Speaker 2: white husband. There's a lot of those she knows husband.

1242
01:07:20,320 --> 01:07:23,760
Speaker 2: We're saying this out our mouth. It's one thing to think.

1243
01:07:23,640 --> 01:07:26,240
Speaker 3: It's the whole other thing to write it in a

1244
01:07:26,320 --> 01:07:30,920
Speaker 3: caption because because there's a that's the product of black

1245
01:07:31,040 --> 01:07:33,520
Speaker 3: women that haven't felt appreciated and.

1246
01:07:34,080 --> 01:07:36,680
Speaker 2: Listen that that's what it is. I get it. There's

1247
01:07:36,680 --> 01:07:41,040
Speaker 2: a deficit, literally, girls, you see the.

1248
01:07:41,000 --> 01:07:43,680
Speaker 5: Poison that well, my white husband loves my force hair.

1249
01:07:43,960 --> 01:07:46,600
Speaker 5: That's a real realize she doesn't or she just like

1250
01:07:46,600 --> 01:07:47,200
Speaker 5: I don't know what.

1251
01:07:47,080 --> 01:07:49,040
Speaker 2: Forcing hair is because I'm a blonde.

1252
01:07:49,400 --> 01:07:51,000
Speaker 6: Oh that's that's too deep.

1253
01:07:51,080 --> 01:07:52,160
Speaker 2: But I've seen it.

1254
01:07:52,160 --> 01:07:55,760
Speaker 5: You know, and it's I think it's just self hate

1255
01:07:55,800 --> 01:08:00,160
Speaker 5: in general, you know, poses like love who you want, know,

1256
01:08:00,360 --> 01:08:01,360
Speaker 5: like mantin Luther.

1257
01:08:01,160 --> 01:08:03,480
Speaker 2: King said, like, you know, I get it, you know,

1258
01:08:03,560 --> 01:08:05,320
Speaker 2: but I'm just like, there's a level of.

1259
01:08:06,920 --> 01:08:08,040
Speaker 6: Self accountability.

1260
01:08:08,160 --> 01:08:09,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't need to say this to say to

1261
01:08:10,080 --> 01:08:10,880
Speaker 2: love your person.

1262
01:08:11,800 --> 01:08:14,760
Speaker 7: I see what you mean, But it sounds like you're

1263
01:08:14,800 --> 01:08:20,280
Speaker 7: calling You're just calling people back to like loving themselves.

1264
01:08:20,479 --> 01:08:23,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, pretty much, and also just questioning my my,

1265
01:08:25,080 --> 01:08:27,400
Speaker 5: my softness and my femininity.

1266
01:08:27,040 --> 01:08:29,960
Speaker 7: And girl, you are so soft and beautiful and feminine

1267
01:08:29,960 --> 01:08:34,240
Speaker 7: and sexy in confident and you be dancing and swirling

1268
01:08:34,280 --> 01:08:37,040
Speaker 7: and you've been jumping on young man and you kissing,

1269
01:08:37,640 --> 01:08:40,280
Speaker 7: and you be going to Vegas and doing like surprise

1270
01:08:40,400 --> 01:08:45,759
Speaker 7: weddings and wearing sexy ass cancers can be hardcore in Vegas.

1271
01:08:45,920 --> 01:08:48,439
Speaker 2: Two people were like, you're assertive, and I was like.

1272
01:08:51,240 --> 01:08:53,600
Speaker 7: I would call that just being a woman, being a

1273
01:08:53,720 --> 01:08:57,800
Speaker 7: multi dimensional woman, because there's times where you can be

1274
01:08:57,880 --> 01:09:00,680
Speaker 7: in your soft feminine sex sees.

1275
01:09:01,040 --> 01:09:03,280
Speaker 2: You're why are we not allowed to do percentages? Yes,

1276
01:09:03,400 --> 01:09:05,800
Speaker 2: I have to be it though you're not one of

1277
01:09:05,840 --> 01:09:10,880
Speaker 2: the times. I'm a bit. I'm a bitma love. It

1278
01:09:10,960 --> 01:09:22,240
Speaker 2: was all just about it between okay, any other way.

1279
01:09:22,680 --> 01:09:27,680
Speaker 3: See, I wouldn't so take me as I am. Yeah,

1280
01:09:28,000 --> 01:09:30,000
Speaker 3: we're allowed to do y'all are hilarious.

1281
01:09:30,479 --> 01:09:32,720
Speaker 2: Sorry, I was thinking that too.

1282
01:09:32,840 --> 01:09:33,760
Speaker 6: Multi dimensional.

1283
01:09:33,920 --> 01:09:37,200
Speaker 5: What would be the percentage of the masculine versus the.

1284
01:09:37,080 --> 01:09:38,400
Speaker 2: Fifty fifty group?

1285
01:09:38,760 --> 01:09:42,120
Speaker 5: And I think everybody's twenty five percent strong, twenty five

1286
01:09:42,280 --> 01:09:44,000
Speaker 5: to masculine.

1287
01:09:44,280 --> 01:09:47,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, in different ways that's not bad though. I think

1288
01:09:47,680 --> 01:09:51,120
Speaker 2: everybody has a strong twenty five to it's not.

1289
01:09:51,280 --> 01:09:53,880
Speaker 3: I think we're all just very driven to either do

1290
01:09:53,960 --> 01:09:58,400
Speaker 3: something or share something.

1291
01:09:58,600 --> 01:10:01,599
Speaker 2: Sharing it's true or acting.

1292
01:10:01,680 --> 01:10:03,559
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean that's doing, not acting, but like acting

1293
01:10:03,600 --> 01:10:06,000
Speaker 3: upon it. But yeah, no, I would agree.

1294
01:10:06,880 --> 01:10:07,200
Speaker 2: Okay.

1295
01:10:07,240 --> 01:10:09,760
Speaker 3: So I was just telling you. I was like, I

1296
01:10:09,800 --> 01:10:13,799
Speaker 3: am an alpha female. Okay, in the feminine space.

1297
01:10:14,080 --> 01:10:14,879
Speaker 2: I am alpha.

1298
01:10:15,120 --> 01:10:18,640
Speaker 3: Not necessarily in the world as a holistic person, but

1299
01:10:18,720 --> 01:10:21,960
Speaker 3: like in alpha space spaces, I I mean, in spaces

1300
01:10:22,120 --> 01:10:25,880
Speaker 3: amongst women, I can feel very much like an O. Yes,

1301
01:10:26,560 --> 01:10:28,439
Speaker 3: and it's just like natural, it just comes to me.

1302
01:10:28,520 --> 01:10:30,760
Speaker 3: It's not about whether it's better or not. It's just

1303
01:10:30,800 --> 01:10:32,840
Speaker 3: like I want to make sure what are we doing.

1304
01:10:33,479 --> 01:10:38,639
Speaker 3: It's more about like, okay, because everyone has their position period,

1305
01:10:38,880 --> 01:10:40,719
Speaker 3: you know what I mean and like, and there needs

1306
01:10:40,720 --> 01:10:41,519
Speaker 3: to be more than one leader.

1307
01:10:41,520 --> 01:10:43,000
Speaker 2: I don't want it to all be on me, right

1308
01:10:43,080 --> 01:10:47,599
Speaker 2: of course for that absolutely, So.

1309
01:10:47,680 --> 01:10:51,360
Speaker 6: Your solution base, I am, You're a leader.

1310
01:10:51,160 --> 01:10:53,439
Speaker 5: Solution based like, Okay, how are we going to solve

1311
01:10:53,479 --> 01:10:54,080
Speaker 5: this problem?

1312
01:10:54,200 --> 01:10:56,840
Speaker 3: I'm yes, there's a solution, but there's I can I

1313
01:10:56,880 --> 01:10:59,920
Speaker 3: feel like I have this I can just delegate.

1314
01:10:59,720 --> 01:11:04,680
Speaker 2: Right, That's good. To know you knows a delegator. Hit

1315
01:11:04,720 --> 01:11:08,640
Speaker 2: me up. I'm the projector accordingly to the human Design.

1316
01:11:09,160 --> 01:11:11,680
Speaker 7: The person who does my human design readings, who I

1317
01:11:11,760 --> 01:11:15,080
Speaker 7: think is like literal like purpose on Earth was to

1318
01:11:15,120 --> 01:11:18,280
Speaker 7: come here and specifically read human design.

1319
01:11:18,640 --> 01:11:20,040
Speaker 2: For black women's.

1320
01:11:22,320 --> 01:11:24,280
Speaker 6: He goes by the name of Infinite Vibes.

1321
01:11:24,320 --> 01:11:27,120
Speaker 2: But he's like yo.

1322
01:11:27,479 --> 01:11:28,960
Speaker 6: I'm like yo, this is your purpose.

1323
01:11:29,000 --> 01:11:33,120
Speaker 7: But anyways, he always tells me like based on my sign,

1324
01:11:33,160 --> 01:11:36,280
Speaker 7: he breaks it down and he's like, you need a projector,

1325
01:11:36,360 --> 01:11:38,280
Speaker 7: Like the projector is going to come in and they're

1326
01:11:38,280 --> 01:11:39,920
Speaker 7: going to take your ideas and they're going to be

1327
01:11:39,920 --> 01:11:41,479
Speaker 7: able to execute.

1328
01:11:41,240 --> 01:11:44,160
Speaker 2: And like da da da da. And I'm like okay, yeah, projector.

1329
01:11:44,200 --> 01:11:48,240
Speaker 7: So I always have I'm always intrigued by projectors because

1330
01:11:48,360 --> 01:11:52,160
Speaker 7: it's like, like you said, everybody has a position and

1331
01:11:53,439 --> 01:11:58,479
Speaker 7: there's a very it's important that we understand our role

1332
01:11:59,280 --> 01:12:03,320
Speaker 7: so that we can all played a position properly, especially

1333
01:12:03,920 --> 01:12:06,080
Speaker 7: in revolutionary times like this.

1334
01:12:06,520 --> 01:12:10,479
Speaker 3: Everybody has a role. Everyone everyone has a role. Everyone

1335
01:12:10,520 --> 01:12:13,200
Speaker 3: has leadership. Like when I say leader, I don't mean

1336
01:12:13,240 --> 01:12:15,320
Speaker 3: like I'm the leader, like I know.

1337
01:12:15,200 --> 01:12:15,639
Speaker 2: How to lead.

1338
01:12:15,680 --> 01:12:18,960
Speaker 3: In the leadership, everyone has different ways that they can

1339
01:12:19,040 --> 01:12:21,160
Speaker 3: lead and Yeah, it's just.

1340
01:12:21,880 --> 01:12:28,080
Speaker 2: I love that. Yeah, do you hear? I don't know. Sorry,

1341
01:12:28,479 --> 01:12:30,519
Speaker 2: you know what I tell you. How we got here.

1342
01:12:31,080 --> 01:12:36,840
Speaker 7: It started with a bundle of organic grapes and another bundle.

1343
01:12:36,560 --> 01:12:43,120
Speaker 2: Of bone marymer for six.

1344
01:12:43,400 --> 01:12:48,200
Speaker 5: Okay, my gosh, so Erica, I think it's time.

1345
01:12:57,520 --> 01:12:59,840
Speaker 2: First day two of one you spell out of the

1346
01:12:59,880 --> 01:13:04,200
Speaker 2: day fell out? Reversed? Oh wait, no, this one fell out? Okay, whatever,

1347
01:13:04,200 --> 01:13:04,720
Speaker 2: it doesn't matter.

1348
01:13:05,240 --> 01:13:08,000
Speaker 3: Future planning. Okay, upright, two one's I thought this was

1349
01:13:08,040 --> 01:13:08,559
Speaker 3: reversed the.

1350
01:13:08,560 --> 01:13:10,599
Speaker 2: Other one this one dropped first, doesn't matter.

1351
01:13:11,360 --> 01:13:17,639
Speaker 5: Future planning, progress, decisions, discovery, we were just talking about this.

1352
01:13:18,439 --> 01:13:20,840
Speaker 5: The two ones takes the spark of inspiration from the

1353
01:13:20,880 --> 01:13:23,439
Speaker 5: Ace of Wands and turns into a clear action plan.

1354
01:13:23,840 --> 01:13:26,080
Speaker 5: You went through the discovery phase and know what you

1355
01:13:26,120 --> 01:13:28,360
Speaker 5: want to manifest. Now you need to figure out how

1356
01:13:28,840 --> 01:13:32,719
Speaker 5: you're exploring your options and carefully plotting out the path ahead,

1357
01:13:32,760 --> 01:13:36,599
Speaker 5: accounting accounting for all possibilities and potential challenges. You're open

1358
01:13:36,640 --> 01:13:39,280
Speaker 5: to growth and exploring new territories, so long as you

1359
01:13:39,360 --> 01:13:42,320
Speaker 5: maintain a level of certainty that your efforts.

1360
01:13:42,240 --> 01:13:43,439
Speaker 2: Will work out in the end.

1361
01:13:43,560 --> 01:13:45,639
Speaker 5: When the Two of WANs appears in a child reading

1362
01:13:45,960 --> 01:13:48,120
Speaker 5: you're not ready to make your move. It is more

1363
01:13:48,160 --> 01:13:51,720
Speaker 5: important that you establish a clear plan before preceding.

1364
01:13:51,760 --> 01:13:52,200
Speaker 2: The two of.

1365
01:13:52,240 --> 01:13:56,080
Speaker 5: Wands is also about discovery, particularly as you step outside

1366
01:13:56,120 --> 01:14:00,160
Speaker 5: your comfort zone and explore new worlds and experiences. May

1367
01:14:00,200 --> 01:14:02,439
Speaker 5: take courage to set out, but this card gives you

1368
01:14:02,479 --> 01:14:05,080
Speaker 5: the confidence of self knowledge. You know what your goal

1369
01:14:05,160 --> 01:14:08,080
Speaker 5: is and you're sure if it's an eventful fulfillment. Let

1370
01:14:08,120 --> 01:14:10,479
Speaker 5: your intuition and passion guide you as you confirm your

1371
01:14:10,520 --> 01:14:11,480
Speaker 5: next steps.

1372
01:14:11,720 --> 01:14:22,759
Speaker 7: M that's powerful that there's.

1373
01:14:20,600 --> 01:14:23,160
Speaker 2: Been alignment after alignment after alignment.

1374
01:14:24,080 --> 01:14:27,599
Speaker 3: I just see, I know, I see how the spark

1375
01:14:27,640 --> 01:14:31,760
Speaker 3: of alignment really fucking works because I just see like

1376
01:14:31,840 --> 01:14:35,240
Speaker 3: when it's when you've been in alignment with an energy

1377
01:14:35,360 --> 01:14:37,200
Speaker 3: or someone for a really long time and then there's

1378
01:14:37,200 --> 01:14:39,559
Speaker 3: like a break in the alignment. I can I can

1379
01:14:39,720 --> 01:14:44,720
Speaker 3: literally see how shit sways and changes, and then when

1380
01:14:44,760 --> 01:14:48,280
Speaker 3: you respark that alignment, how things like it literally it

1381
01:14:48,400 --> 01:14:49,480
Speaker 3: just keeps moving.

1382
01:14:49,200 --> 01:14:54,120
Speaker 2: Forward and forward or or recedes. So we have more

1383
01:14:54,160 --> 01:14:56,200
Speaker 2: power than we think we do. We do.

1384
01:14:56,760 --> 01:14:59,200
Speaker 3: And they would say, like where you know energy goes

1385
01:14:59,360 --> 01:15:02,599
Speaker 3: or energy flows those where energy goes, And of course,

1386
01:15:02,640 --> 01:15:04,360
Speaker 3: I mean, like that's such a basic saying, but this,

1387
01:15:04,800 --> 01:15:05,400
Speaker 3: that's the truth?

1388
01:15:05,439 --> 01:15:07,800
Speaker 2: Period? Is it really so?

1389
01:15:08,360 --> 01:15:08,599
Speaker 6: Okay?

1390
01:15:08,640 --> 01:15:11,639
Speaker 7: You be listening to Abraham Higgs and Louisa I listened

1391
01:15:11,640 --> 01:15:12,559
Speaker 7: to on my walks.

1392
01:15:12,840 --> 01:15:16,960
Speaker 6: That's cute. I rock with her to Oh that's so funny.

1393
01:15:17,560 --> 01:15:22,600
Speaker 7: Okay, Yeah, anyways, I fuck with them white girls.

1394
01:15:23,200 --> 01:15:27,200
Speaker 2: Sometimes I got to tap into the whites. There's some

1395
01:15:28,040 --> 01:15:30,800
Speaker 2: sh yeah, for sure. Intelligent.

1396
01:15:33,280 --> 01:15:35,960
Speaker 5: The nine of wands reverse suggests that you're struggling to

1397
01:15:36,040 --> 01:15:38,360
Speaker 5: keep working towards your goal. The challenges on your path

1398
01:15:38,400 --> 01:15:42,680
Speaker 5: are relentless, pummeling you, and with setback after setback, you

1399
01:15:42,720 --> 01:15:44,839
Speaker 5: don't know if you can cope with it anymore. Maybe

1400
01:15:44,960 --> 01:15:47,120
Speaker 5: ready to give up. Just know that you are so

1401
01:15:47,160 --> 01:15:51,000
Speaker 5: close to completing this challenge. Draw upon your internal resources,

1402
01:15:51,040 --> 01:15:54,559
Speaker 5: your resilience, inner courage, positive self talk, and mindset to

1403
01:15:54,640 --> 01:15:57,439
Speaker 5: keep you going. You have it in turn this challenging

1404
01:15:57,479 --> 01:16:01,200
Speaker 5: situation into a fantastic success, and to help others facing

1405
01:16:01,280 --> 01:16:02,120
Speaker 5: similar hurdles.

1406
01:16:02,240 --> 01:16:06,880
Speaker 2: Keep fighting. You got this, mm, so keep going. Yeah.

1407
01:16:06,920 --> 01:16:08,599
Speaker 5: It could also come up when you feel overcome by

1408
01:16:08,600 --> 01:16:12,360
Speaker 5: your responsibilities or lack of support of those around you.

1409
01:16:13,040 --> 01:16:15,760
Speaker 5: It seems if life is work and no play, all

1410
01:16:15,760 --> 01:16:16,519
Speaker 5: work and no play.

1411
01:16:16,600 --> 01:16:16,840
Speaker 2: Hmm.

1412
01:16:17,439 --> 01:16:19,439
Speaker 5: If you know this is a temporary setback. Then you

1413
01:16:19,479 --> 01:16:22,080
Speaker 5: may just need to push through for now so you

1414
01:16:22,120 --> 01:16:23,240
Speaker 5: can get to the finish line.

1415
01:16:23,960 --> 01:16:25,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, I appreciate you saying that.

1416
01:16:25,560 --> 01:16:29,240
Speaker 7: I was really going hard, like for many years, non

1417
01:16:29,320 --> 01:16:32,920
Speaker 7: stop touring, doing shows, traveling. I mean, I was making

1418
01:16:33,080 --> 01:16:35,879
Speaker 7: everything I saw in my mind. It was coming to fruition.

1419
01:16:36,680 --> 01:16:38,479
Speaker 7: And that's when I was like, I took aim in

1420
01:16:38,560 --> 01:16:41,640
Speaker 7: and I was like, Okay, Like, dang, girl, You've accomplished

1421
01:16:41,640 --> 01:16:45,519
Speaker 7: so many historical things. Yay, go girl, go, But like,

1422
01:16:46,680 --> 01:16:48,880
Speaker 7: is that where we're gonna do another ten years? Like

1423
01:16:48,960 --> 01:16:51,519
Speaker 7: what does the next ten years look like? How can

1424
01:16:51,560 --> 01:16:54,519
Speaker 7: we refine it? You know, like refinement is a theme

1425
01:16:54,520 --> 01:16:57,200
Speaker 7: word of mine. This year just doesn't always have to

1426
01:16:57,200 --> 01:17:01,360
Speaker 7: be so much about expansion and just be about Yeah,

1427
01:17:01,400 --> 01:17:04,320
Speaker 7: it could just be about like, you know, making it

1428
01:17:04,400 --> 01:17:08,640
Speaker 7: even more delectable and just like impactful and intentional.

1429
01:17:08,720 --> 01:17:10,280
Speaker 2: And so I love that.

1430
01:17:11,000 --> 01:17:15,000
Speaker 7: And I've been more mindful of like the team and

1431
01:17:15,160 --> 01:17:19,360
Speaker 7: certain people, you know, putting in a position you mentioned delegating,

1432
01:17:19,520 --> 01:17:22,120
Speaker 7: Like that's very important, like just to be able to

1433
01:17:22,200 --> 01:17:27,920
Speaker 7: delegate and release, like lighten the burden and be more

1434
01:17:28,120 --> 01:17:32,280
Speaker 7: organized and strategic. So even with you know, some of

1435
01:17:32,320 --> 01:17:35,720
Speaker 7: my events and stuff like that, just giving myself like

1436
01:17:35,920 --> 01:17:40,240
Speaker 7: nine months a year to really prepare, you know, and plan,

1437
01:17:40,439 --> 01:17:43,840
Speaker 7: and some things will happen spontaneously. And I'm always open

1438
01:17:43,840 --> 01:17:49,120
Speaker 7: to the blessings, the unexpected blessings. But I appreciate that

1439
01:17:49,280 --> 01:17:54,920
Speaker 7: card because I've been giving myself more space to just relax,

1440
01:17:55,040 --> 01:17:57,559
Speaker 7: to chill, to make some tea, to just listen to

1441
01:17:57,600 --> 01:17:59,760
Speaker 7: some music, to like shake my ass, to do some

1442
01:18:00,080 --> 01:18:03,400
Speaker 7: her work, to you know, just smoke a little something, listen,

1443
01:18:03,600 --> 01:18:06,920
Speaker 7: you know, and it's been working out for me. So

1444
01:18:07,040 --> 01:18:10,559
Speaker 7: I'm just calling in more of that, and I'm gonna

1445
01:18:10,600 --> 01:18:16,519
Speaker 7: still have get my work done. But you know, Tricia Hersey,

1446
01:18:16,560 --> 01:18:18,599
Speaker 7: I'm sure you guys know about the girl, the lady

1447
01:18:18,640 --> 01:18:22,679
Speaker 7: who does in that ministry. Like she's always talking about

1448
01:18:22,720 --> 01:18:26,320
Speaker 7: how black women taking a nap is such a revolutionary act,

1449
01:18:26,479 --> 01:18:28,559
Speaker 7: and I really agree with that. So every time I

1450
01:18:28,640 --> 01:18:30,920
Speaker 7: lay down, I'm like, yeah, like fucking I'm gonna take

1451
01:18:30,960 --> 01:18:33,479
Speaker 7: this twenty minute nap or I'm gonna just turn my

1452
01:18:33,520 --> 01:18:38,040
Speaker 7: phone off for a day. So anyway, yeah, if you

1453
01:18:38,080 --> 01:18:38,680
Speaker 7: feel me, you.

1454
01:18:38,640 --> 01:18:42,200
Speaker 2: Feel me, I feel you to.

1455
01:18:44,280 --> 01:18:48,280
Speaker 7: Y'all are moms on top of that, But what were

1456
01:18:48,280 --> 01:18:51,120
Speaker 7: you gonna say, just releasing the need to do all

1457
01:18:51,160 --> 01:18:54,960
Speaker 7: the time right to produce, just just like valuing also

1458
01:18:55,040 --> 01:18:58,400
Speaker 7: when you're resting and just observing that time too, and

1459
01:18:58,600 --> 01:19:00,840
Speaker 7: like without or guilt.

1460
01:19:01,760 --> 01:19:04,120
Speaker 3: I want to trust the output and not put so

1461
01:19:04,200 --> 01:19:07,480
Speaker 3: much like emphasis on the intensity.

1462
01:19:07,920 --> 01:19:08,559
Speaker 2: You know what I mean?

1463
01:19:08,800 --> 01:19:11,000
Speaker 3: Like, is the output? Enough is what I'm creating and

1464
01:19:11,000 --> 01:19:14,440
Speaker 3: putting out in the world. Enough is using my platform

1465
01:19:14,640 --> 01:19:19,200
Speaker 3: to share for good and for love and for education. Enough,

1466
01:19:19,439 --> 01:19:21,559
Speaker 3: Like or do I have to do a thousand things

1467
01:19:21,600 --> 01:19:25,400
Speaker 3: in order to to create value in my life? And

1468
01:19:25,439 --> 01:19:28,240
Speaker 3: what I'm finding is that no, it is enough. Like actually,

1469
01:19:28,280 --> 01:19:31,799
Speaker 3: the frequency of love is very powerful in all ways,

1470
01:19:32,360 --> 01:19:36,160
Speaker 3: especially in your finances, especially when you're genuine. You see

1471
01:19:36,200 --> 01:19:39,640
Speaker 3: people winning because they're leading with that. Like whenever I

1472
01:19:39,640 --> 01:19:42,640
Speaker 3: see people coming up that are like damn, how does

1473
01:19:42,680 --> 01:19:46,000
Speaker 3: she come up like that? Like that's so crazy. It's like, no,

1474
01:19:46,120 --> 01:19:48,879
Speaker 3: it's not. Actually, like you see the shifts and what happened.

1475
01:19:49,560 --> 01:19:54,440
Speaker 3: So yeah, I think, like you said, rest is revolutionary

1476
01:19:54,560 --> 01:19:58,240
Speaker 3: for black women, and I'm.

1477
01:19:58,120 --> 01:20:02,080
Speaker 2: All about it. Let's go back.

1478
01:20:04,479 --> 01:20:06,720
Speaker 7: We can do both, okay, but I need to come

1479
01:20:06,720 --> 01:20:09,160
Speaker 7: over and just make something really nice.

1480
01:20:09,200 --> 01:20:10,280
Speaker 2: What do y'all like to eat?

1481
01:20:10,560 --> 01:20:13,160
Speaker 7: Like, what's your if you're like, dang, this is my

1482
01:20:13,520 --> 01:20:15,679
Speaker 7: just a meal that I could just have on any

1483
01:20:15,720 --> 01:20:16,439
Speaker 7: given day.

1484
01:20:16,920 --> 01:20:20,120
Speaker 3: Just I mean, I like myself happy, okay, but I

1485
01:20:20,160 --> 01:20:20,439
Speaker 3: love it.

1486
01:20:20,520 --> 01:20:22,360
Speaker 2: I do like Italian food, although it doesn't love me.

1487
01:20:22,720 --> 01:20:23,439
Speaker 6: Okay, it doesn't.

1488
01:20:24,880 --> 01:20:32,680
Speaker 7: Okay, like chicken, okay, I do okay, okay, okay.

1489
01:20:35,160 --> 01:20:38,360
Speaker 2: Okay, but I might have to hit a bomb ass steak.

1490
01:20:38,400 --> 01:20:40,519
Speaker 2: The other day. I was like, wow, okay steak.

1491
01:20:41,120 --> 01:20:44,599
Speaker 7: Okay, But y'all are open to a fully prepared plant based.

1492
01:20:46,280 --> 01:20:46,960
Speaker 6: That ain't nothing.

1493
01:20:47,040 --> 01:20:48,599
Speaker 2: I was a vegan win.

1494
01:20:48,680 --> 01:20:50,920
Speaker 7: Okay, but that's good to just get a feel for,

1495
01:20:51,240 --> 01:20:52,400
Speaker 7: like what you like your.

1496
01:20:52,280 --> 01:20:55,320
Speaker 3: Palate, I can, I am very much. I love a grain,

1497
01:20:55,479 --> 01:20:57,040
Speaker 3: I love some beans, I.

1498
01:20:57,000 --> 01:21:00,800
Speaker 2: Love a vegetables. I love it. I don't really love

1499
01:21:01,040 --> 01:21:04,679
Speaker 2: fake meat. I'm not with the satans and the tofu.

1500
01:21:06,040 --> 01:21:07,640
Speaker 6: But you go with like chickpeas.

1501
01:21:08,600 --> 01:21:11,520
Speaker 3: We can patty them up, we can't combine them forces

1502
01:21:12,520 --> 01:21:15,920
Speaker 3: a little. Well, as long as my niggas not around,

1503
01:21:15,920 --> 01:21:17,840
Speaker 3: because he's definitely allergic to thats okay.

1504
01:21:17,840 --> 01:21:19,679
Speaker 6: I'm not even gonna bring nuts into the pictures.

1505
01:21:19,720 --> 01:21:23,040
Speaker 3: I mean, if he's not there, then like we don't

1506
01:21:23,040 --> 01:21:28,439
Speaker 3: have to buy almost was there one time when I

1507
01:21:28,560 --> 01:21:31,280
Speaker 3: when when he almost died. Oh no, yeah, the nuts

1508
01:21:31,320 --> 01:21:34,360
Speaker 3: is I didn't realize. I don't I don't have a

1509
01:21:34,400 --> 01:21:36,200
Speaker 3: net allergy. I guess I don't know that many people

1510
01:21:36,200 --> 01:21:36,919
Speaker 3: with net allergies.

1511
01:21:37,120 --> 01:21:37,719
Speaker 2: So when you're.

1512
01:21:37,600 --> 01:21:41,160
Speaker 3: Around like it's a constant thing, I'm like, oh yeah, fuck.

1513
01:21:40,960 --> 01:21:41,439
Speaker 2: I forgot.

1514
01:21:42,120 --> 01:21:43,720
Speaker 6: Okay, you got to think about it.

1515
01:21:43,720 --> 01:21:44,280
Speaker 2: Oh I got.

1516
01:21:44,320 --> 01:21:49,200
Speaker 3: I was like I got speaking ice cream babe, Like fuck, yeah,

1517
01:21:49,240 --> 01:21:50,080
Speaker 3: that's a big one.

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01:21:50,200 --> 01:21:52,799
Speaker 7: That's a big one in the vegan world because everything

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01:21:53,760 --> 01:21:56,800
Speaker 7: all the flower but there's there's you know.

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01:21:56,920 --> 01:22:01,240
Speaker 2: There's a lot, there's yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Anyway,

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01:22:01,560 --> 01:22:02,240
Speaker 2: thank you.

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01:22:03,200 --> 01:22:08,880
Speaker 7: This has been oh you know what you know Christopher

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01:22:08,920 --> 01:22:13,400
Speaker 7: Jones Jones effects, Okay, yeah, we went to erawon last night.

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01:22:14,120 --> 01:22:16,479
Speaker 7: We went to erawon last night because the one in

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01:22:16,520 --> 01:22:18,639
Speaker 7: Beverly Hills is open till eleven pm.

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01:22:19,000 --> 01:22:23,000
Speaker 2: Anyways, night too, you were.

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01:22:29,040 --> 01:22:30,639
Speaker 3: I was in two as yesterday and I just wanted

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01:22:30,640 --> 01:22:32,560
Speaker 3: to say the one in Citio City doesn't have the

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01:22:32,680 --> 01:22:33,000
Speaker 3: Erica Abo.

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01:22:34,240 --> 01:22:38,880
Speaker 2: What they don't have Did they have the one? I

1531
01:22:38,880 --> 01:22:39,719
Speaker 2: don't know, but they.

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01:22:41,680 --> 01:22:41,880
Speaker 3: West.

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01:22:42,840 --> 01:22:43,639
Speaker 6: Oh it's a vibe.

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01:22:43,920 --> 01:22:46,679
Speaker 2: I didn't know it's a vibe. I didn't even offer

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01:22:46,760 --> 01:22:49,320
Speaker 2: that one. Of course, that's City.

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01:22:49,160 --> 01:22:50,800
Speaker 7: And that's the name of her new album, so I

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01:22:50,800 --> 01:22:54,400
Speaker 7: thought that was the genius play the West Side Whimsy. Yeah,

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01:22:54,439 --> 01:22:56,439
Speaker 7: and you know what, I was very excited when I

1539
01:22:56,479 --> 01:22:59,640
Speaker 7: saw Erica do it, like that's mother and I was

1540
01:22:59,640 --> 01:23:02,599
Speaker 7: like why, And then when Janey did it, it was

1541
01:23:02,640 --> 01:23:06,920
Speaker 7: like yeah, and Janey like she really she from l A. Like,

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01:23:07,560 --> 01:23:09,800
Speaker 7: so I just see like and Arolinea is a place

1543
01:23:09,840 --> 01:23:12,080
Speaker 7: that I do put up to more than I probably should.

1544
01:23:12,120 --> 01:23:18,639
Speaker 7: But but I hear people walking by hearing like talking

1545
01:23:18,680 --> 01:23:22,160
Speaker 7: about the Jane Smoothie and trying it, like I'm like

1546
01:23:22,400 --> 01:23:24,400
Speaker 7: in it, and I be hearing people talk about it

1547
01:23:24,400 --> 01:23:27,559
Speaker 7: and like the general consensus has been really popular. So

1548
01:23:27,600 --> 01:23:30,160
Speaker 7: I love that for her. But I brought up Aline

1549
01:23:30,200 --> 01:23:33,120
Speaker 7: because I was there with Jones and he gave me

1550
01:23:33,520 --> 01:23:36,840
Speaker 7: a gift for you. He signed it. He just dropped

1551
01:23:36,840 --> 01:23:39,800
Speaker 7: his new book and so it's like a book about

1552
01:23:39,840 --> 01:23:44,479
Speaker 7: networking and stuff like that. And I met him Jones, yeah,

1553
01:23:44,520 --> 01:23:45,320
Speaker 7: the Jones Effect.

1554
01:23:45,439 --> 01:23:48,960
Speaker 2: And I met him randomly. You probably.

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01:23:50,400 --> 01:23:55,000
Speaker 7: You met him once at Yes, that's a place you

1556
01:23:55,000 --> 01:23:55,679
Speaker 7: would meet him.

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01:23:56,200 --> 01:23:57,120
Speaker 6: But he was.

1558
01:23:57,120 --> 01:24:00,000
Speaker 7: So happy when I told him I was coming here,

1559
01:24:00,240 --> 01:24:02,479
Speaker 7: and he was like, we go way back, like and

1560
01:24:02,520 --> 01:24:04,200
Speaker 7: he signed the book, so I thought that was cute.

1561
01:24:04,200 --> 01:24:07,679
Speaker 2: I brought one for you, but he's he's like, Lizzie

1562
01:24:07,720 --> 01:24:08,439
Speaker 2: has a book for you.

1563
01:24:08,960 --> 01:24:09,880
Speaker 6: Okay, you already know.

1564
01:24:10,280 --> 01:24:13,920
Speaker 2: Okay, I thought I was surprising small world.

1565
01:24:14,000 --> 01:24:18,719
Speaker 5: AnyWho, Well, thank you for coming through the Good Mom's Cave.

1566
01:24:18,960 --> 01:24:21,120
Speaker 2: We always love having you. Thank you.

1567
01:24:21,120 --> 01:24:23,360
Speaker 3: You got to do our we have to do our

1568
01:24:23,600 --> 01:24:25,760
Speaker 3: vegan dinner night, and we just got to hang and

1569
01:24:25,840 --> 01:24:27,520
Speaker 3: do dinner cush collaboration.

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01:24:27,720 --> 01:24:28,360
Speaker 2: I would love that.

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01:24:29,200 --> 01:24:33,599
Speaker 7: I would love to, yes, and we can revisit some

1572
01:24:33,680 --> 01:24:37,919
Speaker 7: of the stuff we spoke about. But you know, as always,

1573
01:24:38,120 --> 01:24:41,360
Speaker 7: I just love y'all and appreciate y'all. And every time

1574
01:24:41,360 --> 01:24:46,280
Speaker 7: I look up, you're always becoming more iconic, you know,

1575
01:24:46,680 --> 01:24:50,840
Speaker 7: and I love seeing all the different women and men

1576
01:24:51,200 --> 01:24:55,719
Speaker 7: that are inspired by you and just your consistency, your growth,

1577
01:24:57,120 --> 01:24:58,040
Speaker 7: how free you are.

1578
01:24:58,120 --> 01:24:59,000
Speaker 6: It's just beautiful.

1579
01:24:59,280 --> 01:25:03,080
Speaker 7: It is like powerful and revolutionary, you know, especially now,

1580
01:25:03,160 --> 01:25:07,720
Speaker 7: like just having a platform two beautiful black women that

1581
01:25:07,920 --> 01:25:11,960
Speaker 7: love each other, that are family essentially, and you say

1582
01:25:12,000 --> 01:25:13,920
Speaker 7: what you want and you bring on the guests that

1583
01:25:13,960 --> 01:25:14,800
Speaker 7: you want to bring on.

1584
01:25:15,600 --> 01:25:17,679
Speaker 6: It's just I'm just so blessed.

1585
01:25:17,720 --> 01:25:20,439
Speaker 7: To be here at this time to witness it because

1586
01:25:20,520 --> 01:25:24,120
Speaker 7: y'all are iconic as fuck and I love you, and

1587
01:25:24,240 --> 01:25:26,360
Speaker 7: every time I mentioned you, people are just like.

1588
01:25:26,280 --> 01:25:26,840
Speaker 2: I love them.

1589
01:25:26,840 --> 01:25:29,719
Speaker 7: I love them, I know about them. So it's like, damn,

1590
01:25:29,760 --> 01:25:32,080
Speaker 7: you're doing a damn good job. So like, keep up

1591
01:25:32,120 --> 01:25:34,080
Speaker 7: the good work. And you know it's only right that

1592
01:25:34,160 --> 01:25:41,920
Speaker 7: I just drizzle you in some roads and congratulations on

1593
01:25:41,960 --> 01:25:46,679
Speaker 7: your wedding than the pictures iconic. Your man iconic, he's

1594
01:25:46,720 --> 01:25:47,639
Speaker 7: I told him earlier.

1595
01:25:47,720 --> 01:25:49,920
Speaker 2: He's an example because he is.

1596
01:25:50,520 --> 01:25:53,120
Speaker 7: And shout out to you and your relationship and all

1597
01:25:53,160 --> 01:25:55,880
Speaker 7: your new content as fire as fuck. I love the

1598
01:25:55,920 --> 01:25:59,000
Speaker 7: intention everything you've been doing with that, and I love

1599
01:25:59,080 --> 01:26:02,719
Speaker 7: seeing you and your boot online as well. It's very strong,

1600
01:26:02,760 --> 01:26:06,479
Speaker 7: as giving black love is giving creativity is. It's just

1601
01:26:06,600 --> 01:26:10,280
Speaker 7: giving it all and I love it and I'm so

1602
01:26:10,320 --> 01:26:12,120
Speaker 7: happy y'all hit me up and brought me back.

1603
01:26:12,160 --> 01:26:18,040
Speaker 2: This is a vibe. Think think any push, well, thank you.

1604
01:26:19,200 --> 01:26:22,479
Speaker 2: Where can the people find you? Right? They can find me?

1605
01:26:23,479 --> 01:26:28,679
Speaker 2: Where do they find you? In Los Angeles? Right now?

1606
01:26:28,760 --> 01:26:31,360
Speaker 7: But I'm at Lizzie Jeff l I z z y

1607
01:26:31,560 --> 01:26:35,879
Speaker 7: j E f F on all the platforms and the

1608
01:26:36,000 --> 01:26:39,160
Speaker 7: albums in and Cush Volume one is now streaming on

1609
01:26:39,280 --> 01:26:46,120
Speaker 7: most platforms. Most platforms A whole nother conversation for another day,

1610
01:26:46,640 --> 01:26:49,920
Speaker 7: but it's on most platforms, including band camp, where you

1611
01:26:49,960 --> 01:26:53,280
Speaker 7: can support the artistry directly, or you can just hit

1612
01:26:53,360 --> 01:26:56,439
Speaker 7: me up email or d M and get a signed

1613
01:26:56,479 --> 01:26:59,160
Speaker 7: c D. I know it's so old school, but there

1614
01:26:59,160 --> 01:27:03,719
Speaker 7: are people out there that just genuinely love supporting the music,

1615
01:27:03,880 --> 01:27:07,120
Speaker 7: and so I do have the CDs available as well.

1616
01:27:07,560 --> 01:27:12,320
Speaker 7: New merch coming soon as well. The feminine snapback caps

1617
01:27:12,479 --> 01:27:15,920
Speaker 7: are available as well in the Red but Zen and

1618
01:27:16,000 --> 01:27:21,240
Speaker 7: Cush for twenty weekend in LA. That's really what we're

1619
01:27:21,240 --> 01:27:24,720
Speaker 7: building up to, and so I just appreciate y'all being here.

1620
01:27:24,800 --> 01:27:26,880
Speaker 7: We're gonna figure it out. I love y'all.

1621
01:27:27,000 --> 01:27:31,400
Speaker 3: Lessons lessons and you know where to find us, but

1622
01:27:31,439 --> 01:27:33,880
Speaker 3: if you don't, you can find us on YouTube at

1623
01:27:33,880 --> 01:27:36,360
Speaker 3: Good Mom's Bad Choices, follow us on Instagram at Good

1624
01:27:36,400 --> 01:27:40,840
Speaker 3: Mom's Underscore Bad Choices, and leave a review on YouTube

1625
01:27:41,040 --> 01:27:41,599
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1626
01:27:41,800 --> 01:27:42,920
Speaker 2: Just leave us reviews.

1627
01:27:43,040 --> 01:27:46,240
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1628
01:27:46,280 --> 01:27:48,559
Speaker 5: leave a review. It means a lot to us. We

1629
01:27:48,640 --> 01:27:50,919
Speaker 5: have been doing this eight years. You listen for free,

1630
01:27:51,200 --> 01:27:53,759
Speaker 5: do us a favor and pay us and listen.

1631
01:27:54,320 --> 01:27:56,280
Speaker 3: If you want these energies in person, you got to

1632
01:27:56,280 --> 01:27:57,960
Speaker 3: come to one of our retreats.

1633
01:27:58,120 --> 01:27:59,800
Speaker 2: You've heard us talk about our retreats. We do them.

1634
01:28:00,120 --> 01:28:02,760
Speaker 2: Motherfucking summer. This is the summer you finally come.

1635
01:28:03,240 --> 01:28:06,720
Speaker 3: Stop fucking around, get the payment plans together, tell your

1636
01:28:06,720 --> 01:28:08,200
Speaker 3: bood to put the money on the books.

1637
01:28:08,280 --> 01:28:10,880
Speaker 2: Whatever needs to happen. We're going to Costa Rica in July.

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01:28:11,000 --> 01:28:13,040
Speaker 3: We have a Mommy and Me retreat in July, our

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01:28:13,080 --> 01:28:17,680
Speaker 3: first ever and Jamaica sold out. Sorry for twenty it

1640
01:28:17,680 --> 01:28:22,439
Speaker 3: took too long, but you should come. So just just

1641
01:28:22,479 --> 01:28:24,280
Speaker 3: do me a favor and click the links in the bio.

1642
01:28:24,600 --> 01:28:26,599
Speaker 3: Subscribe to all the things so that you can stay

1643
01:28:27,040 --> 01:28:30,400
Speaker 3: up to date with what we're doing. Because it's it's curated,

1644
01:28:30,640 --> 01:28:35,799
Speaker 3: and it's intentional and it's for you anyway.

1645
01:28:35,920 --> 01:28:41,720
Speaker 2: I love you same. Yeah, I'm been so good. Can't

1646
01:28:41,760 --> 01:28:42,160
Speaker 2: you tell?

1647
01:28:42,400 --> 01:28:44,760
Speaker 4: I went through a drought. That's until I find a well.

1648
01:28:44,840 --> 01:28:47,040
Speaker 4: Madem have been known. Art that used to be broken

1649
01:28:47,160 --> 01:28:49,960
Speaker 4: tail now got the blues dance and might Beyonce Jisell,

1650
01:28:50,280 --> 01:28:53,480
Speaker 4: throat shot Pop and it's coy wearing our voices. Patriarch

1651
01:28:53,560 --> 01:28:54,840
Speaker 4: and caut it in the box.

1652
01:28:54,600 --> 01:28:57,280
Speaker 2: To what's foils? Women put the pi and powers, So

1653
01:28:57,320 --> 01:28:58,000
Speaker 2: what's pointless?

1654
01:28:58,000 --> 01:29:00,479
Speaker 4: They want me to be good? So I made bad noise.

1655
01:29:00,760 --> 01:29:03,240
Speaker 4: Bad mom, not a bad mom, but a bad mom.

1656
01:29:03,360 --> 01:29:06,360
Speaker 4: Ititter's in on for cannabus in her bath, bon walked

1657
01:29:06,360 --> 01:29:09,160
Speaker 4: in boscels cap and I blew his cat boss hot dog.

1658
01:29:09,280 --> 01:29:11,760
Speaker 4: Now I'm immune to the cat called Herbie and the

1659
01:29:11,840 --> 01:29:13,760
Speaker 4: waisted straight to it like a dollar sign.

1660
01:29:13,840 --> 01:29:15,160
Speaker 2: Mother, rent the louver when to it.

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01:29:15,280 --> 01:29:17,839
Speaker 4: It's like a water sign where you're rent the winter essential,

1662
01:29:17,880 --> 01:29:20,240
Speaker 4: but when the summertime, I do what doll ain't know

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01:29:20,280 --> 01:29:21,479
Speaker 4: one that needs to run it by