WEBVTT - Andrew Huberman ON: Learning Effectively & How to Train Your Brain For Optimal Performance

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<v Speaker 1>When we positively associate with a song, a person, a face,

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<v Speaker 1>an object. We don't just benefit from those activities based

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<v Speaker 1>on the effects of those activities. It's also what we

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<v Speaker 1>believe about those activities. Combine and the release of dopamine

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<v Speaker 1>makes you more capable of then leaning into life and

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<v Speaker 1>going and doing other things. The effect of a small,

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<v Speaker 1>even you know, half a percent increase in dopamine transmission

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<v Speaker 1>in the brain is the difference between feeling like your

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<v Speaker 1>life is bleak and you can completely attack the day

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<v Speaker 1>in the positive sense. Hey, everyone, welcome back to on Purpose.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so grateful let you come back every single week

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<v Speaker 1>to listen, learn and grow. And I am so excited

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<v Speaker 1>to be talking to you today. I can't believe it.

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<v Speaker 1>My new book, Eight Rules of Love is out and

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<v Speaker 1>And you know that the podcast for me is just

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<v Speaker 1>an opportunity to reach out to people that I'm inspired by,

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<v Speaker 1>people that I feel are changing the world, people that

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<v Speaker 1>I feel have amazing insights that I can learn from

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<v Speaker 1>and want to share with you. And today's guest is

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<v Speaker 1>someone that I've been connected with for a while, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so excited to finally have him in the studio

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<v Speaker 1>because not only is his insights having a huge impact

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<v Speaker 1>on how we live, how we think, just the energy

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<v Speaker 1>that I felt from him in the first couple of

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<v Speaker 1>moments that I've met him, I can already tell that

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<v Speaker 1>it's all in his heart too. And so to meet

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<v Speaker 1>someone who's super strategic, super scientific, has an incredible mind,

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<v Speaker 1>but has a beautiful heart in person, that's my kind

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<v Speaker 1>of person. And today's guest is none other than Andrew Huberman.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a neuroscientist and tenant professor in the Department of

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<v Speaker 1>Neurobiology at the Stanford University School of Medicine. He has

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<v Speaker 1>made numerous significant contributions to the fields of brain development,

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<v Speaker 1>brain function, and neuroplasticity, which is the ability of our

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<v Speaker 1>nervous system to rewire and learn new behaviors, skills, and

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<v Speaker 1>cognitive functioning. He also is a McKnight Foundation and Pew

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<v Speaker 1>Foundation Fellow and was awarded the Kogan Award in twenty seventeen.

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<v Speaker 1>Work from the Huberman Laboratory at Stanford School of Medicine

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<v Speaker 1>has been published in top journals including Nature, Science, and Sell,

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<v Speaker 1>and has been featured in Time, BBC, Scientific, American Discover,

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<v Speaker 1>and other top media outlets. In twenty twenty one, doctor

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<v Speaker 1>Huberman launched The Huberman Lab Parts, which I'm a huge

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<v Speaker 1>fan of and I know you are too. The podcast

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<v Speaker 1>is frequently ranked in the top twenty five of all

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<v Speaker 1>podcasts globally and is often ranked as the number one

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<v Speaker 1>in the categories of science, Education, Health and fitness. Please

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<v Speaker 1>welcome my new friend and someone that I'm a huge

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<v Speaker 1>fan of an admire Andrew hu Woman. Andrew, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for doing this, thank you for being here, and honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for what you do in the world. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's been brilliant to see someone bring so much

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<v Speaker 1>heart into science and science into heart. And I know

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<v Speaker 1>that people who listen to you and hear from you

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<v Speaker 1>and communicate with you, and even I've really meant it

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<v Speaker 1>a few moments we just spent right now. I love

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<v Speaker 1>that combination, and I wonder how you whether you even

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<v Speaker 1>see it that way, whether you don't. But I'm fascinated

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<v Speaker 1>by Is that how you've always lived? Have you been

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<v Speaker 1>fascinated by the heart and science for a while. First

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<v Speaker 1>of all, I just want to say thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>having me here. We've known each other through some mutual

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<v Speaker 1>contacts for a while and it's a delight to be

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<v Speaker 1>here an admirer and a fan of all you do

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<v Speaker 1>and the way you approach it. So heartfelt. Thanks for

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<v Speaker 1>having me here in terms of you know, how things

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<v Speaker 1>have evolved to where they are now. You know, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't have much of a mission statement, but I suppose

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<v Speaker 1>if I had to pick one, it's to share the

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<v Speaker 1>beauty and the utility of biology. Since I was very young,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been obsessed with learning, and I've also had a

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<v Speaker 1>compulsion to share what I've learned, especially when I think

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<v Speaker 1>that the information can be of use to people. So

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<v Speaker 1>the little six and eight year old and ten year

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<v Speaker 1>old version of me wouldn't shut up. I was just

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<v Speaker 1>constantly talking about all the stuff I had been reading

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<v Speaker 1>about on the weekends, and over time I just made

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<v Speaker 1>sense to become an academic for that reason. And then nowadays,

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<v Speaker 1>with the advent of podcasting, I have this wonderful opportunity

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<v Speaker 1>to share things that I think are useful in terms

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<v Speaker 1>of the heart and the mind. You know, I can

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<v Speaker 1>only frame it by saying that, you know, our nervous

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<v Speaker 1>system is our brain, our spinal cord, but of course

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<v Speaker 1>all their connections with the organs of the body and

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<v Speaker 1>back again, and so we really can't divorce any of

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<v Speaker 1>the organs of the body from our thinking and feeling

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<v Speaker 1>and action and vice versa, as you very well know.

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<v Speaker 1>And then from a more personal standpoint, you know, I've

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<v Speaker 1>had the great benefit of training with mentors in science

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<v Speaker 1>who really lived and breathed their science, but also had

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<v Speaker 1>a deep sense of humanity. Each one of them had

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<v Speaker 1>an ear, an ear towards things that were relevant to them.

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<v Speaker 1>In one case, one with a particular interest in mental

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<v Speaker 1>health and the struggles around mental health and mental illness.

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<v Speaker 1>The other just a person who just loved animals and

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<v Speaker 1>the natural kingdom. And then my other advisor was a

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<v Speaker 1>very strong advocate for scientists of all kinds and backgrounds.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I was so blessed to be weaned by

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<v Speaker 1>people who really instilled in me a love and a

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<v Speaker 1>desire for learning and sharing and doing research, but also

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<v Speaker 1>understood that how one shows up to the conversation means everything.

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<v Speaker 1>And so you know, I just feel very blessed to

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<v Speaker 1>have had that, and I'm just trying to do right

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<v Speaker 1>by them. I love hearing that, like I had no

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<v Speaker 1>idea that that was a part of how you were

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<v Speaker 1>mentored and guided. And I mean, I'm sure they feel

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<v Speaker 1>very proud in seeing that you continue on and pass

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<v Speaker 1>that legacy and so beautifully. But I think what I

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<v Speaker 1>find even more intriguing about that is so many of

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<v Speaker 1>our early learning experiences are not necessarily that way. And

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<v Speaker 1>you said that you loved learning and you love sharing.

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<v Speaker 1>I think most people that I know, are at least

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<v Speaker 1>that I talk to or I hear from in comments

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<v Speaker 1>or podcasts, would say school was not an exciting place

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<v Speaker 1>for them. Maybe they went to college or didn't go

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<v Speaker 1>to college, but they necessarily didn't have a positive experience.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe it was filled with fear or doubt or judgment

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<v Speaker 1>or criticism, or maybe there was a lack of confidence.

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<v Speaker 1>That could have been not only from teachers in the

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<v Speaker 1>school system, it could have been from friends or bullies

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<v Speaker 1>or people in that environment. So what I'm fascinated by

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<v Speaker 1>is our relationship with learning, because when I look at

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<v Speaker 1>my relationship with learning too, I remember starting off having

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<v Speaker 1>that buzz and spark, then almost feeling like I was

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<v Speaker 1>forced to believe there are only certain ways you could learn.

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<v Speaker 1>I grew up believing I didn't like reading because we

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<v Speaker 1>were only encouraged to read fiction books, and even till

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<v Speaker 1>this day, I don't like reading fiction books. I have

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<v Speaker 1>no interest in reading fiction books. I love reading nonfiction.

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<v Speaker 1>And today I can read nonfiction books every day, every week,

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<v Speaker 1>every month, every year, and I'm fully engrossed and immersed.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I'm excited for your book one day. And

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<v Speaker 1>I think that is something that I learned that I

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<v Speaker 1>do love reading. I do love learning, but I was

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<v Speaker 1>never introduced to that form until my father gave me

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<v Speaker 1>a biography when I was fourteen years old. And so

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<v Speaker 1>how do you think our relationship with learning has been

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<v Speaker 1>formed over time? Hearing from your own as well. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it was the great physicist Max del Brooke who

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<v Speaker 1>said that, you know, when teaching, assume zero knowledge and

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<v Speaker 1>infinite intelligence. I try and keep that in mind. I

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<v Speaker 1>think that we are all innate learners by virtue of

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<v Speaker 1>the fact that this thing, this nervous system as it's called,

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<v Speaker 1>is really a map of our experience, and it's there

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<v Speaker 1>to form itself. It's unusual among the organs in that

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<v Speaker 1>it shapes itself right, Unlike the kidney or the liver

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<v Speaker 1>there doesn't constantly update its own form and function in

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<v Speaker 1>the same way. The nervous system is there essentially to

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<v Speaker 1>educate itself so that it can operate better in a

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<v Speaker 1>given environment. And once one understands that, you start to

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<v Speaker 1>realize that the forms of learning are many. So, for instance,

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<v Speaker 1>you know math, or I suppose in the UK's maths, maths,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, could be learned by way of different using

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<v Speaker 1>different types of examples, movement of trains or bartering systems,

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<v Speaker 1>or on paper just simple long division and multiplication. But

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<v Speaker 1>in the end, what you're really trying to find anytime

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<v Speaker 1>you're teaching or learning is you're trying to find a

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<v Speaker 1>universal algorithm of how the brain works. And what I

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<v Speaker 1>mean by that is that you know, all these nerve cells,

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<v Speaker 1>they only can communicate through chemicals and electricity. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's really just meat in there, I believe it or not,

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<v Speaker 1>but there are algorithms that are universal. So whether or

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<v Speaker 1>not one learns better verbally or visually, or whether one

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<v Speaker 1>has a propensity for math or for verbal subjects, what

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<v Speaker 1>is true for all of us is that the brain

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<v Speaker 1>is they're always asking questions and trying to make predictions

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<v Speaker 1>about its environment. And I think what happens is when

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<v Speaker 1>we're children, we are learning passively all the time. As

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<v Speaker 1>we get older, and especially as we get to our

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<v Speaker 1>mid in late twenties, it takes an immense amount of

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<v Speaker 1>focus and energy in order to learn. But of course

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<v Speaker 1>the nervous system can still shape itself well into adulthood,

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<v Speaker 1>almost certainly for the entire lifespan. But that focus and

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<v Speaker 1>energy feels almost like an agitation. And I think that

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<v Speaker 1>as children, we don't necessarily experience that agitation, because we

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<v Speaker 1>can for better, for worse. We can experience and change passively.

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<v Speaker 1>Neuralplasticity just happens by way of pure experience. As we

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<v Speaker 1>get older mid twenties, early thirties and so on, that

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<v Speaker 1>threshold of agitation for people feels like it's something to

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<v Speaker 1>back away from. But if we can learn to approach

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<v Speaker 1>that and understand that that agitation is actually the circulation

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<v Speaker 1>of chemicals, which is the brain and nervous system telling itself. Aha,

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<v Speaker 1>now I need to pay attention and change. We can

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<v Speaker 1>start to actually modify the way that system works. So

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<v Speaker 1>it's a bit of a convoluted answer to your question,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think that at the heart of our nervous

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<v Speaker 1>system is this ability, these algorithms by which it can

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<v Speaker 1>change themselves. And it's on all of us to understand

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<v Speaker 1>that that bit of agitation and discomfort need not be

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<v Speaker 1>interpreted as discomfort. That's the edge where learning is beginning.

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<v Speaker 1>So confusion and being perplexed, feeling somewhat overwhelmed by the

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<v Speaker 1>amount of information, that's actually the stir of chemicals that

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<v Speaker 1>are queuing the nervous system to change. Because if it

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<v Speaker 1>can do something easily, there's no reason for the nervous

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<v Speaker 1>system to change. Now, in terms of different styles of

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<v Speaker 1>teaching and learning, I think that many of us experience

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<v Speaker 1>that agitation early on, and we, for reasons that are understandable,

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<v Speaker 1>we backed away from learning anymore. So, for instance, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>musically I can't. I'm musically deficient. I love music, but

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<v Speaker 1>I can't play music to save my life. And I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's entirely because as a kid, every time I

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<v Speaker 1>would try and play music, it just sounded terrible. Everyone cringed,

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<v Speaker 1>the dogs, dogs literally howled, So I stopped right But

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<v Speaker 1>knowing what I know now, that would be the queue

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<v Speaker 1>to that. The agitation, the stress, the embarrassment is actually

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<v Speaker 1>the cue to the nervous system that it's about to

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<v Speaker 1>rewire itself. So I think if people just understood that

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<v Speaker 1>children and adults would lean into learning more regularly and

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully with more ease overall. Yeah, definitely, I mean even

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<v Speaker 1>now when what sparks from that answer, which I actually

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<v Speaker 1>really appreciated, is the idea that as we get older,

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<v Speaker 1>as you said, it has to become more conscious, it

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<v Speaker 1>has that tension. It's almost like you have to start

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<v Speaker 1>figuring out how you learn based best and how you

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<v Speaker 1>process ideas. So for me, I know that I love

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<v Speaker 1>to first dive deep and immerse myself in something, and

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<v Speaker 1>then I like to create a structured approach to get

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<v Speaker 1>there if I enjoy it. So if I want to

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<v Speaker 1>learn a new skill, I'll get obsessed with it for

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<v Speaker 1>a weekend. I'll go on the course, I'll read the book,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll watch every video. I just want to dive in

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<v Speaker 1>to really see if I genuinely care or whether it's

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<v Speaker 1>me thinking I care, and to try and separate that

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<v Speaker 1>ego and that true desire for me at least. And

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<v Speaker 1>if I do a weekend of something and I realized, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>my ego like that, but I didn't really like that,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to step away or actually, wow, this is fascinating,

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<v Speaker 1>then I'll go and build a step by step plan

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<v Speaker 1>with small steps and incremental steps that I've learned over

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<v Speaker 1>a long time of learning different things. How can people

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<v Speaker 1>think about the best way they can learn? What are

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<v Speaker 1>different styles? What are different methods that you think people

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<v Speaker 1>can think? If someone's listening right now and they're like Andrew, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to learn a new instrument, or I want

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<v Speaker 1>to learn a new language, or maybe it's I want

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<v Speaker 1>to learn how to start a podcast, or I want

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<v Speaker 1>to learn how to players sport or whatever it may be.

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<v Speaker 1>How can someone start thinking about how they should approach learning?

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<v Speaker 1>Terrific question, and fortunately nowadays we can look to studies

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<v Speaker 1>done in humans that define some very key principles. The

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<v Speaker 1>first principle is that the whole process of neuroplasticity and

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<v Speaker 1>learning is really a two stage process. First, there must

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<v Speaker 1>be focus and alertness. That focus and alertness is associated

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<v Speaker 1>with the release of neurochemicals so called neuromodulators, things like

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<v Speaker 1>a setocline in particular, which sort of acts as highlighter

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<v Speaker 1>pen if you will, for certain connections in the brain

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<v Speaker 1>to later be reinforced. And the neurochemical adrenaline, which is

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<v Speaker 1>also called epinephrin also depending on if you're in the

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<v Speaker 1>UK or elsewhere. A long interesting story not for this

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<v Speaker 1>time about why it has multiple names, also called adrenaline,

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<v Speaker 1>is associated with an increasing kind of agitation and alertness

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<v Speaker 1>a pseudocoline. Think of it as kind of a spotlight

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<v Speaker 1>or a highlighter pen for certain connections in the brain,

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<v Speaker 1>so you need alertness and focus. And then the second

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<v Speaker 1>stage is that it is only during periods of deep rest,

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<v Speaker 1>in particular sleep and something that I call non sleep

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<v Speaker 1>deep rest, which I've given an ACRONYMCA. Scientists like acronyms,

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<v Speaker 1>n SDR, non sleep, deep rest, things like yoga, nidra,

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<v Speaker 1>things like shallow naps, things like forms of meditation that

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<v Speaker 1>don't involve a lot of focused concentration. You're a far

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<v Speaker 1>more the experience a meditator than I. So I'm outside

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<v Speaker 1>my wheelhouse when talking about meditation. But it is only

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<v Speaker 1>periods of intense focus and alertness followed by periods of

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<v Speaker 1>deep rest that allow the nervous system to change, and

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<v Speaker 1>there is an abundance of evidence for that. So that's

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<v Speaker 1>the first thing to understand. The brain actually rewires during

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<v Speaker 1>deep sleep and rest, because during deep sleep and rest, naps, yoga, nidra,

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<v Speaker 1>deep sleep, there's a replay of the very same cells

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<v Speaker 1>in the brain that we're active during learning, oftentimes in

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<v Speaker 1>reverse for reasons that are still not understood, but at

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<v Speaker 1>a much higher repetition rate. So you're actually getting repetitions

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<v Speaker 1>while you sleep. This is why one will strain to

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<v Speaker 1>learn a language or a motor skill, or maths or

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<v Speaker 1>something like that over and over and over. Doesn't happen.

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<v Speaker 1>You take a couple of nights sleep, take a break

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<v Speaker 1>from and all of a sudden it's there, it's because

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<v Speaker 1>it happens in rest. Now, there's some other things that

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<v Speaker 1>one can do to enhance this process further that are

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<v Speaker 1>arrived to us from good data. First of all, there's

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<v Speaker 1>a so called alltradean rhythm, which is the ninety minute

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<v Speaker 1>cycles during which we can focus pretty well for a

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<v Speaker 1>duration of about ninety minutes. Of course, flickering in and

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<v Speaker 1>out of focus. Nobody really focuses for ninety minutes straight

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<v Speaker 1>unless they've built up that capacity or they are very

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<v Speaker 1>interested in what they're learning, right, they're just wrapped with attention.

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<v Speaker 1>Usually people flicker in and out, And of course, nowadays

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<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of literature and ideas about ways to

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<v Speaker 1>maintain focus, put the phone away, limit noise. Some people

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<v Speaker 1>like background noise, some people like music, some don't. It's

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<v Speaker 1>very contextual, highly individualized. But ninety minutes is sort of

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<v Speaker 1>the batch of time that the brain can focus really

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<v Speaker 1>hard on one thing before it needs a true rest

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<v Speaker 1>of an hour or two before you can go back

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<v Speaker 1>to learning or working very hard. The other thing is

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<v Speaker 1>that there's some very interesting data showing that shallow naps

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<v Speaker 1>or NSDR non sleep deep rest done within four hours

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<v Speaker 1>of one of these ninety minute learning belts can be

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<v Speaker 1>very beneficial for accelerating learning. And then there are these

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<v Speaker 1>incredible data on so called gap effects. So there have

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<v Speaker 1>been studies of skills that are physical skills, mental skills

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<v Speaker 1>where people will, for instance, try to learn scales on

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<v Speaker 1>the piano or a math problem or a spatial problem

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<v Speaker 1>or a physical skill, and then at random, every so

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<v Speaker 1>offen a buzzer will go off and the person will

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<v Speaker 1>just be told to do nothing, sit their eyes closed

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<v Speaker 1>or eyes open, and do nothing, just stop the learning

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<v Speaker 1>process for about ten seconds and then return to doing

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<v Speaker 1>what they're doing. These are these little microrests. It turns

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<v Speaker 1>out that during those microrests, the hippocampus of brain areas

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<v Speaker 1>you know that's associated with learning and memory, and the

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<v Speaker 1>neo cortex, also associated with learning and memory, undergoes replay

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<v Speaker 1>of the thing that the individuals trying to learn at

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<v Speaker 1>twenty times the speed, also in reverse, just as in sleep,

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<v Speaker 1>and that can lead and has been shown to lead

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<v Speaker 1>to accelerations in learning. So they're these ways. I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>even think of them as hacks because the word hack

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<v Speaker 1>is a little tricky because when I think of the

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<v Speaker 1>word hack, it seems doing something with an object or

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<v Speaker 1>a tool that wasn't designed for that purpose. Right, the

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<v Speaker 1>nervous system already harbors these mechanisms and one can access

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<v Speaker 1>them through these little microrests. So, whether or not you're

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<v Speaker 1>a child or an adult, every so often when trying

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<v Speaker 1>to learn something, just pause for ten seconds or so

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<v Speaker 1>do your best to just clear your mind. Of course,

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<v Speaker 1>it's very hard to clear them up mind, but do

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<v Speaker 1>your best to clear the mind and then go back

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<v Speaker 1>to the learning task as it were, And that has

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<v Speaker 1>been shown to vary to significantly accelerate the learning process

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<v Speaker 1>and the retention of newly learned information. And then the

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<v Speaker 1>last thing you touched on earlier, which is this notion

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<v Speaker 1>of incremental learning. You said you like to throw yourself

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<v Speaker 1>into something as kind of a litmus test of whether

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<v Speaker 1>or not you enjoy it or not. Turns out that

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<v Speaker 1>from beautiful work done by my colleague at Stanford School

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<v Speaker 1>of Medicine, Eric Knutson, has shown that yes, it's true

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<v Speaker 1>that early in development in humans this would be up

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<v Speaker 1>until the mid twenties, we can learn things in larger

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<v Speaker 1>batches and much more easily than we can later in life. However,

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<v Speaker 1>if one batches that work into smaller increments, and so

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<v Speaker 1>for instance, deciding maybe set a timer, turning the phone

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<v Speaker 1>off otherwise, and saying, I'm going to spend three minutes,

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<v Speaker 1>just three minutes in trying to intensely learn this thing,

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<v Speaker 1>even if I feel like I'm failing. If one does

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<v Speaker 1>that repeatedly, those little increments of learning can lead to

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<v Speaker 1>an outsized amount of learning overall. And so the nervous

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<v Speaker 1>system loves incremental learning. It loves to batch things into

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<v Speaker 1>focused little bouts. And you know, if that's already the

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<v Speaker 1>tools that you've built up, which it sounds like you have, wonderful,

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<v Speaker 1>But if somebody is out there trying, you know, struggling

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<v Speaker 1>to learn, really trying to break things down into very

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<v Speaker 1>brief periods of intense focus, that is the queue by

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<v Speaker 1>which during sleep the nervous system will change itself. And

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<v Speaker 1>this has been shown over and over and over again,

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<v Speaker 1>even in very late life individuals and people in there.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we like to think life could go on

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<v Speaker 1>further than this, but people in their eighties and nineties

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<v Speaker 1>still have neuroplasticity. There's even evidence that new neurons can

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<v Speaker 1>be produced in the hipocampus of people in their late

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<v Speaker 1>eighties and nineties. So the capacity is there. This is

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<v Speaker 1>why I love what you do, because you would never

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<v Speaker 1>consider that the answer to learning is depressed right lessly,

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<v Speaker 1>provided the focus comes first. But of course, sleep deprivation

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<v Speaker 1>makes it very hard to learn. And there's something else

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<v Speaker 1>and that happens in sleep. Nowadays, we I think most people,

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<v Speaker 1>thanks to the beautiful work of Matthew Walker at Berkeley

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<v Speaker 1>and others, really understand the value of sleep for health,

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<v Speaker 1>immune system function, etc. There is a stage of sleep,

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<v Speaker 1>rapid eye movement sleep that we're all familiar with, of course,

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<v Speaker 1>and where literally the eyes are moving, that tends to

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<v Speaker 1>come later in the night, during the second half of sleep,

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<v Speaker 1>where there's a there's a tendency to have very emotional dreams,

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<v Speaker 1>or at least dreams that are laden with a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of emotional content of some kind. During rapid eye movement sleep,

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<v Speaker 1>there's an inability to move the body. We call this atonia.

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<v Speaker 1>It's literally a sleep induced paralysis that's healthy and a

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<v Speaker 1>complete failure of the nervous system to release adrenaline, epinephrin.

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<v Speaker 1>This is sort of like a trauma therapy in some sense.

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<v Speaker 1>If you think about it, it's a replay of an

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<v Speaker 1>emotional events the neurochemical that makes us feel tense and agitated,

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<v Speaker 1>so in our mind, those dreams can often feel very distressing.

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<v Speaker 1>It's been shown that if you deprive people of rapid

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<v Speaker 1>eye movement sleep, they fail to dump the negative emotions

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<v Speaker 1>of things that happened the day before and the day before.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think all of us have experienced the shifting

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<v Speaker 1>emotionality that happens when we are sleep deprived. What ends

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<v Speaker 1>up happening is that the little things seem like big things,

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<v Speaker 1>but after a few nights sleep, we're okay, and there's

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<v Speaker 1>no mystery to why that is anymore. I think almost

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<v Speaker 1>every sleep scientist believes that has something to do with

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<v Speaker 1>this built in kind of trauma release therapy where you

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<v Speaker 1>get to experience the thing in your sleep minus the

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<v Speaker 1>neurochemicals that make your body feel terrible, and somehow that

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<v Speaker 1>dissociation allows people to then step back into life with

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<v Speaker 1>a clean slate. Wow. Yeah, no, I've heard those ideas before,

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<v Speaker 1>but the way you just wove ail together is really special.

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<v Speaker 1>What I'm intrigued by, then, is what's the latest science

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<v Speaker 1>on dreams? Because there are so many spiritual wisdom based

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<v Speaker 1>approaches to dreams. I've never really dive deep enough, I think,

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<v Speaker 1>from a scientific perspective into dreams apart from some particular aspects.

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<v Speaker 1>But let's go there. Yeah, where is so? I love

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<v Speaker 1>the idea that sleep, of course, is acting as somewhat

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<v Speaker 1>of a dishwasher cleansing, healing agent, so that while we're sleeping,

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<v Speaker 1>we're actually being able to release these ideas. Hence we

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<v Speaker 1>have where did dreams fit into that? Picks? Ye? Yeah, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad you said dishwasher because from a pure physiological standpoint,

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<v Speaker 1>this is separate from dreams. But from a pure physiological standpoint,

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<v Speaker 1>it's now well appreciated that during sleep there's a rinsing

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<v Speaker 1>out of the debris that accumulate in the brain. The

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<v Speaker 1>brain is the most metamolically demanding organ that we have.

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<v Speaker 1>It consumes tons of energy. Most of the energy that

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<v Speaker 1>we burn in terms of calories, is from our brain,

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<v Speaker 1>not our muscles. Even if people aren't don't feel like

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<v Speaker 1>they're thinking very hard, and thinking very hard as we know,

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<v Speaker 1>can feel very taxing. We can feel exhausted after a

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<v Speaker 1>hard conversation. Right. This washout, as it's called, is a

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<v Speaker 1>so called glimphatic rinse out. The brain wasn't thought to

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<v Speaker 1>have a lymphatic system, but it does. Cerebral spinal fluid

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<v Speaker 1>starts to reverse basically it's pattern of flow during sleep.

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<v Speaker 1>All these incredible ways of washing out the brain during sleep. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>during the first half of one's night, the ninety minute

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<v Speaker 1>cycles still persists. That we were talking about earlier, these

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<v Speaker 1>old trading cycles, and those ninety minute cycles are mostly

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<v Speaker 1>made up of a so called slow wave sleep, so

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<v Speaker 1>we see big amplitude brain waves this kind of thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Dreams tend to be pretty boring early in the night.

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<v Speaker 1>They tend to be more associated with motor function and movement,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's actually the case that growth hormone is released

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<v Speaker 1>in the early part of the night and that most

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<v Speaker 1>of the repair of the body and tissues is occurring

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<v Speaker 1>during that first half of sleep. As the night goes on,

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<v Speaker 1>dreams become more intense and more emotionally laden, regardless of

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<v Speaker 1>what's been going on in someone's waking life, And in fact,

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<v Speaker 1>toward morning, almost all of those ninety minute cycles that

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<v Speaker 1>occur back to back is going to be comprised of

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<v Speaker 1>this rapid eye movement sleep. So the sleep toward morning

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<v Speaker 1>is going to be much more emotional. Now. The interesting

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<v Speaker 1>thing is that if you look at the data on

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<v Speaker 1>dreaming in humans and you look at it purely through

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<v Speaker 1>the lens of neuroscience, you get a bunch of language

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<v Speaker 1>back about okay, not much up and effor in happening.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're associating the emotion from the neurochemical state. If

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<v Speaker 1>you look to the psychology literature, which I do, or

0:24:17.440 --> 0:24:20.160
<v Speaker 1>you read a book like Memories, Dreams and Reflections by Yung,

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<v Speaker 1>or you start to look at some of the kind

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<v Speaker 1>of hybrid work which is psychiatry, which of course are

0:24:24.840 --> 0:24:28.280
<v Speaker 1>mds that are grounded in physiology but also think psychoanalytically.

0:24:29.119 --> 0:24:31.879
<v Speaker 1>They I think they're really onto something with this idea

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<v Speaker 1>that dreams are basically a time in which the ordinary

0:24:35.600 --> 0:24:39.800
<v Speaker 1>sequence of life events is converted into heuristics, shorthand symbols,

0:24:39.960 --> 0:24:42.760
<v Speaker 1>and the brain loves symbols in the daytime too, right,

0:24:42.840 --> 0:24:47.080
<v Speaker 1>we don't walk around parsing every angle of every object.

0:24:47.240 --> 0:24:49.800
<v Speaker 1>The way the visual system works is that the recognition

0:24:49.800 --> 0:24:52.159
<v Speaker 1>of your face, for instance, there's a brain area that

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<v Speaker 1>I've seen you many many millions of time, billions of

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<v Speaker 1>times probably, and I recognize you immediately as Jay Shetty

0:24:58.359 --> 0:25:00.960
<v Speaker 1>because there literally is a neuron my brain that's a

0:25:01.040 --> 0:25:04.239
<v Speaker 1>Jay Shetty neuron. We know this right from recording from

0:25:04.320 --> 0:25:06.760
<v Speaker 1>brains of people that recognize people. Right. If I met

0:25:06.760 --> 0:25:10.800
<v Speaker 1>some of your staff today, lovely people, for the first time, now,

0:25:10.840 --> 0:25:14.280
<v Speaker 1>those neurons exist for them, But that representation of you

0:25:14.400 --> 0:25:17.560
<v Speaker 1>was built up through basic representation of just the orientations

0:25:17.600 --> 0:25:20.200
<v Speaker 1>of lines, all right, just like a one would sketch

0:25:20.280 --> 0:25:24.919
<v Speaker 1>your face and then build in more elaborate representation. The

0:25:25.000 --> 0:25:28.679
<v Speaker 1>brain represents things in symbols in a very abstract way,

0:25:28.920 --> 0:25:31.240
<v Speaker 1>so without going down too far of a rabbit hole,

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<v Speaker 1>if I were to, for instance, say you know what, Jay,

0:25:33.160 --> 0:25:35.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to play artists today, of which I'm not,

0:25:35.960 --> 0:25:37.520
<v Speaker 1>and I'm going to draw your face, and I did

0:25:37.520 --> 0:25:38.879
<v Speaker 1>my best to draw your face and showed it to

0:25:38.920 --> 0:25:41.400
<v Speaker 1>you'd probably say, oh, well, that's not great, but you'd

0:25:41.400 --> 0:25:44.040
<v Speaker 1>probably recognize some of the features. But for instance, if

0:25:44.080 --> 0:25:46.360
<v Speaker 1>I had decided that I was going to put your

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<v Speaker 1>eyes in a different location, eliminate your teeth, put a

0:25:49.800 --> 0:25:52.960
<v Speaker 1>bunch of tattoos on your face for fun, and show

0:25:52.960 --> 0:25:55.480
<v Speaker 1>you this, and I'd say, you'd say that doesn't look

0:25:55.520 --> 0:25:57.119
<v Speaker 1>anything like me, And I'd say, ah, but that's my

0:25:57.240 --> 0:25:59.879
<v Speaker 1>abstract representation of you. It turns out that the brain

0:26:00.160 --> 0:26:04.720
<v Speaker 1>represents everything in the external world as a shorthand abstract representation,

0:26:04.840 --> 0:26:09.160
<v Speaker 1>and in dreams, the reason that we tend to, for instance,

0:26:09.240 --> 0:26:15.560
<v Speaker 1>replace people with animals or objects with different objects is

0:26:15.600 --> 0:26:18.199
<v Speaker 1>because the brain is thinking more in terms of the

0:26:18.280 --> 0:26:22.040
<v Speaker 1>relationships between objects than it is the objects themselves. And

0:26:22.080 --> 0:26:24.359
<v Speaker 1>so this is where dream analysis gets a little bit tricky.

0:26:24.600 --> 0:26:28.280
<v Speaker 1>So the analysts would say, you know, the for instance,

0:26:28.320 --> 0:26:29.919
<v Speaker 1>I had a dream not that long ago where I

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<v Speaker 1>was being chased by two animals. It was a bear

0:26:32.280 --> 0:26:35.440
<v Speaker 1>and a wolf, a very salient dream for me. And

0:26:35.800 --> 0:26:38.160
<v Speaker 1>turns out that that bear and that wolf I realized

0:26:38.160 --> 0:26:39.960
<v Speaker 1>only later that day. I was walking around. I'd gone

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<v Speaker 1>for a swim in the ocean, got out of the ocean,

0:26:42.080 --> 0:26:44.000
<v Speaker 1>and I turned to someone. I said, oh, my goodness,

0:26:44.040 --> 0:26:46.360
<v Speaker 1>I know what that was about. That was about these

0:26:46.400 --> 0:26:49.520
<v Speaker 1>two children that are now in my life. That and

0:26:49.560 --> 0:26:51.679
<v Speaker 1>I thought, they're chased me, like they need something for me,

0:26:51.720 --> 0:26:54.159
<v Speaker 1>And it opened up an entire conscious discussion about that.

0:26:54.200 --> 0:26:57.400
<v Speaker 1>So in my mind, these children were represented as animals,

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<v Speaker 1>not because children are always represented as animals, but probably

0:27:01.200 --> 0:27:03.600
<v Speaker 1>because it was the feeling that they were impinging on me,

0:27:03.920 --> 0:27:06.760
<v Speaker 1>and they're they're lovely children, but nonetheless that they're impinging

0:27:06.800 --> 0:27:08.879
<v Speaker 1>on me. So the point is not my dream. The

0:27:08.920 --> 0:27:11.800
<v Speaker 1>point is that dream analysis always has to take into

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<v Speaker 1>account that the brain operates in symbols where objects are

0:27:16.000 --> 0:27:22.320
<v Speaker 1>replaceable and there is there are only relationships between objects,

0:27:22.640 --> 0:27:24.879
<v Speaker 1>and so if one has a very scary dream about

0:27:24.880 --> 0:27:28.800
<v Speaker 1>a person or sees a monster, it's really in the

0:27:28.880 --> 0:27:31.000
<v Speaker 1>early waking state of the day that we are in

0:27:31.000 --> 0:27:33.800
<v Speaker 1>a position to best understand those relationships. So here's a

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<v Speaker 1>tool I recommend that's actually supported by sleep science, which

0:27:37.320 --> 0:27:41.960
<v Speaker 1>is when waking and in the first thirty minutes or

0:27:41.960 --> 0:27:44.919
<v Speaker 1>so around waking, you're in this liminal state. Even if

0:27:44.960 --> 0:27:47.040
<v Speaker 1>you're somebody who wakes up and feels very alert, you're

0:27:47.040 --> 0:27:50.320
<v Speaker 1>in this liminal state where that symbolism is still quite fluid.

0:27:51.040 --> 0:27:53.919
<v Speaker 1>I highly recommend that people try and not bring in

0:27:54.000 --> 0:27:57.240
<v Speaker 1>too much new sensory experience if they want to understand

0:27:57.280 --> 0:28:01.359
<v Speaker 1>their dream, stay lying down with your eyes closed. Maybe

0:28:01.760 --> 0:28:03.920
<v Speaker 1>tell your partner, if someone else you live with, if

0:28:03.920 --> 0:28:05.880
<v Speaker 1>you live with somebody that you just need a few

0:28:05.880 --> 0:28:07.760
<v Speaker 1>moments and just try and move about your day in

0:28:07.760 --> 0:28:09.879
<v Speaker 1>a way where you're not trying to solve the dream,

0:28:10.040 --> 0:28:12.320
<v Speaker 1>but you're also not bringing in a lot of new

0:28:12.359 --> 0:28:15.200
<v Speaker 1>sensory experience because in that moment, you actually stand a

0:28:15.320 --> 0:28:19.199
<v Speaker 1>chance of parsing what that relationship is. And this is

0:28:19.240 --> 0:28:22.240
<v Speaker 1>something that psychoanalysts understand. This is something that, believe it

0:28:22.320 --> 0:28:25.040
<v Speaker 1>or not, clinical hypnotists understand bring people into a state

0:28:25.040 --> 0:28:29.000
<v Speaker 1>of deep relaxation and be able to capture that transition

0:28:29.040 --> 0:28:31.199
<v Speaker 1>between the sleep and waking state. Forgive me for the

0:28:31.440 --> 0:28:36.959
<v Speaker 1>you know, excessively long answer, but not exacting, not excessively long,

0:28:37.000 --> 0:28:39.840
<v Speaker 1>please carry on. Yeah, Well, so there's physiology that we know,

0:28:40.280 --> 0:28:42.440
<v Speaker 1>and then there's the psychology of this. And just to

0:28:42.480 --> 0:28:45.480
<v Speaker 1>make it very clear, the brain thinks in symbols in

0:28:45.520 --> 0:28:48.320
<v Speaker 1>the daytime and in dreams, in waking states, and in dreams.

0:28:48.320 --> 0:28:51.800
<v Speaker 1>It's all symbols. Every This is symbolic representation because we

0:28:51.880 --> 0:28:54.440
<v Speaker 1>can't parse all the information coming into our nervous system,

0:28:54.760 --> 0:28:57.720
<v Speaker 1>but because the nervous system's main job is to make

0:28:57.840 --> 0:29:02.640
<v Speaker 1>really good predictions, to basically do statistics like when, for instance,

0:29:02.640 --> 0:29:04.000
<v Speaker 1>as a child, one of the first things you learn

0:29:04.040 --> 0:29:06.200
<v Speaker 1>is that objects fall down, not up. So the first

0:29:06.200 --> 0:29:09.080
<v Speaker 1>time they see a helium balloon, it's like awe and excitement.

0:29:09.200 --> 0:29:11.800
<v Speaker 1>That on excitement is the release of neurochemicals that teach

0:29:11.840 --> 0:29:15.920
<v Speaker 1>the brain sometimes objects fall up, so to speak. So

0:29:16.480 --> 0:29:19.160
<v Speaker 1>once one starts to recognize that the brain is always

0:29:19.160 --> 0:29:21.720
<v Speaker 1>trying to make these predictions, you can start to look

0:29:21.760 --> 0:29:27.280
<v Speaker 1>at your dreams as symbolic representations and how those relate

0:29:27.360 --> 0:29:31.040
<v Speaker 1>to one another. The action functions are far more interesting

0:29:31.040 --> 0:29:34.080
<v Speaker 1>and important than it was a vase. And you know,

0:29:34.120 --> 0:29:35.440
<v Speaker 1>when I was a kid, there was a vase in

0:29:35.520 --> 0:29:38.440
<v Speaker 1>my grandmother's home, and that vase represented something maybe, but

0:29:38.600 --> 0:29:41.400
<v Speaker 1>more likely you would want to think about the shape

0:29:41.400 --> 0:29:44.760
<v Speaker 1>of it or where that vase was in relationship to

0:29:44.840 --> 0:29:48.200
<v Speaker 1>other things, because that's how the brain works. It makes

0:29:48.200 --> 0:29:51.840
<v Speaker 1>predictions based on context. Yeah. I hope that's helpful to people.

0:29:52.480 --> 0:29:54.920
<v Speaker 1>If there's If there are other theories of dreams, and

0:29:54.960 --> 0:29:57.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm certain that there are that extend past this, I

0:29:57.400 --> 0:30:00.000
<v Speaker 1>apologize for not addressing them, but I think for most people,

0:30:00.280 --> 0:30:03.560
<v Speaker 1>just thinking about the relationship between objects in their dreams

0:30:03.640 --> 0:30:06.360
<v Speaker 1>is going to be more useful than thinking about what

0:30:06.640 --> 0:30:10.200
<v Speaker 1>exactly that the dream was about, quote unquote, Yes, and

0:30:10.520 --> 0:30:12.400
<v Speaker 1>I want to just say, please, do not apologize. That

0:30:12.440 --> 0:30:14.840
<v Speaker 1>was a brilliant answer, and it was so useful even

0:30:14.880 --> 0:30:18.200
<v Speaker 1>for me, because I think you're so right that so

0:30:18.240 --> 0:30:19.880
<v Speaker 1>often even people will ask me. They'll be like, hey,

0:30:19.880 --> 0:30:21.400
<v Speaker 1>I had this dream, what does it mean? One thing

0:30:21.400 --> 0:30:24.040
<v Speaker 1>we have not solved as a neuroscientists. Two things. One

0:30:24.400 --> 0:30:26.160
<v Speaker 1>why it is that people need to tell other people

0:30:26.200 --> 0:30:29.400
<v Speaker 1>their dreams because other people, unless it's a trained therapist,

0:30:29.720 --> 0:30:33.920
<v Speaker 1>are useless, of course help unless they have intense knowledge

0:30:34.320 --> 0:30:36.719
<v Speaker 1>of the symbolic representations of your life. We should all

0:30:36.760 --> 0:30:38.320
<v Speaker 1>be doing this ourselves. And the other one is a

0:30:38.400 --> 0:30:40.120
<v Speaker 1>kind of peculiar one which there seems to be a

0:30:40.160 --> 0:30:42.040
<v Speaker 1>need among many people that if they wake up in

0:30:42.040 --> 0:30:43.440
<v Speaker 1>the middle of the night and they can't sleep, to

0:30:43.480 --> 0:30:45.760
<v Speaker 1>wake up other people who are sleeping. But I haven't

0:30:45.760 --> 0:30:48.480
<v Speaker 1>solved that one. No, I love that, and I completely

0:30:48.480 --> 0:30:51.440
<v Speaker 1>agree with you. I think when I think about that though,

0:30:51.480 --> 0:30:54.240
<v Speaker 1>what really struck me was this idea of the brain

0:30:54.280 --> 0:30:58.280
<v Speaker 1>loving symbols, and I think of what are healthy symbols

0:30:58.320 --> 0:31:01.280
<v Speaker 1>throughout the day, because I think we forget. I mean,

0:31:01.320 --> 0:31:04.080
<v Speaker 1>you came into this room earlier, we came into the

0:31:04.080 --> 0:31:06.400
<v Speaker 1>studio and you were looking around it all my symbols

0:31:06.400 --> 0:31:09.280
<v Speaker 1>that I surround myself with. Do they count as symbols?

0:31:09.280 --> 0:31:12.480
<v Speaker 1>Do they not count as absolutely? One thing I've noticed

0:31:12.520 --> 0:31:15.760
<v Speaker 1>immediately on walking in here is these many things that

0:31:15.760 --> 0:31:17.480
<v Speaker 1>are beautiful and they have a lot of depth to them.

0:31:17.600 --> 0:31:21.240
<v Speaker 1>And I have this obsession with anytime I'm in a

0:31:21.240 --> 0:31:24.040
<v Speaker 1>new environment, provided that it's appropriate, I just have to

0:31:24.080 --> 0:31:26.800
<v Speaker 1>sniff around and look at everything to kind of know

0:31:26.880 --> 0:31:29.880
<v Speaker 1>where I am in relationship to things. Absolutely, And I

0:31:29.880 --> 0:31:31.440
<v Speaker 1>saw you do that, and I didn't want to bore

0:31:31.480 --> 0:31:33.080
<v Speaker 1>you with the history of everything I can said it

0:31:33.080 --> 0:31:35.960
<v Speaker 1>to you. But the idea that I find as well,

0:31:36.280 --> 0:31:40.200
<v Speaker 1>this environment has been sculpted with symbols that allow me

0:31:40.240 --> 0:31:43.560
<v Speaker 1>to be present with someone and what I hope will

0:31:43.600 --> 0:31:47.040
<v Speaker 1>help others be present as well, or at least spark

0:31:47.120 --> 0:31:50.360
<v Speaker 1>their curiosity and intrigue so that we can have that

0:31:50.400 --> 0:31:54.200
<v Speaker 1>in our conversation. I wonder what are healthy symbols are

0:31:54.240 --> 0:31:56.960
<v Speaker 1>there set and healthy symbols for the brain to connect

0:31:57.040 --> 0:32:01.080
<v Speaker 1>with on a daily basis before sleep to sleep that

0:32:01.200 --> 0:32:05.800
<v Speaker 1>allow us to program ourselves more effectively, because I feel

0:32:05.840 --> 0:32:08.680
<v Speaker 1>like most of the symbols that we're seeing are unconscious

0:32:09.280 --> 0:32:14.760
<v Speaker 1>or unintentional or mainly marketing or advertising or propaganda. But

0:32:14.800 --> 0:32:18.160
<v Speaker 1>we're not really selective around our symbols. Yeah, I love

0:32:18.200 --> 0:32:21.400
<v Speaker 1>that you asked this question because for years, you know,

0:32:21.400 --> 0:32:23.640
<v Speaker 1>we hear these things, like you know, you're the some

0:32:23.880 --> 0:32:25.680
<v Speaker 1>of the five people you spend the most time with.

0:32:25.760 --> 0:32:29.040
<v Speaker 1>But nowadays we spend more time with symbols and people

0:32:29.040 --> 0:32:32.120
<v Speaker 1>on social media than we do oftentimes with other individuals,

0:32:32.360 --> 0:32:34.520
<v Speaker 1>or at least equal amounts of time in the room. Right,

0:32:34.640 --> 0:32:36.520
<v Speaker 1>Rarely is it just the physical bodies in the room.

0:32:36.520 --> 0:32:39.080
<v Speaker 1>It's all the people in our phone, which I don't

0:32:39.080 --> 0:32:42.080
<v Speaker 1>see is a bad thing. Right. Actually, for years, when

0:32:42.120 --> 0:32:44.440
<v Speaker 1>I was working more or less in isolation in my lab,

0:32:45.960 --> 0:32:48.600
<v Speaker 1>I had this little list. I don't think I've ever

0:32:48.600 --> 0:32:50.360
<v Speaker 1>shared this before. I had this little list of people

0:32:50.360 --> 0:32:53.640
<v Speaker 1>who I love and admire, many of whom I've never met,

0:32:54.160 --> 0:32:56.600
<v Speaker 1>and I just would read that list over and over again.

0:32:56.920 --> 0:32:58.760
<v Speaker 1>I didn't realize that at the time, but I was

0:32:59.040 --> 0:33:03.680
<v Speaker 1>developing what I believe the analysts call this an interject

0:33:04.120 --> 0:33:07.080
<v Speaker 1>or an introject. Perhaps someone should look that up forget

0:33:07.120 --> 0:33:11.360
<v Speaker 1>which one it is, which is actually a subconscious representation

0:33:11.440 --> 0:33:14.840
<v Speaker 1>of somebody else's ideas and approach to things that if we,

0:33:15.560 --> 0:33:18.240
<v Speaker 1>for instance, listen to you over and over again, the

0:33:18.600 --> 0:33:23.040
<v Speaker 1>nervous system starts to ask questions like what would Jay

0:33:23.040 --> 0:33:25.760
<v Speaker 1>do in this circumstance. That's a very real thing, and

0:33:25.800 --> 0:33:28.840
<v Speaker 1>we're not always consciously aware of it. Now. Physical symbols

0:33:28.840 --> 0:33:33.480
<v Speaker 1>are also very important because the brain likes to make predictions.

0:33:34.120 --> 0:33:36.760
<v Speaker 1>It loves symbols because symbols are a shorthand way of

0:33:37.400 --> 0:33:41.040
<v Speaker 1>eliminating a lot of useless information. But much of the

0:33:41.080 --> 0:33:44.239
<v Speaker 1>way that we operate and feel really does impact us

0:33:44.280 --> 0:33:47.080
<v Speaker 1>at a subconscious level. And this has been shown over

0:33:47.120 --> 0:33:49.440
<v Speaker 1>and over again. I mean, it's and it's always cast

0:33:49.480 --> 0:33:52.000
<v Speaker 1>in the context of subconscious bias, which has kind of

0:33:52.000 --> 0:33:54.360
<v Speaker 1>a negative slant anytime we hear bias, of course, but

0:33:54.440 --> 0:33:57.440
<v Speaker 1>there are positive biases as well. So I think that

0:33:57.680 --> 0:34:00.640
<v Speaker 1>for some people, having order among symbols is very important,

0:34:00.680 --> 0:34:04.160
<v Speaker 1>equal spacing, everything very aligned. I'm sort of one of those,

0:34:04.240 --> 0:34:06.760
<v Speaker 1>but you know, I'm kind of in the middle. Other

0:34:06.800 --> 0:34:12.200
<v Speaker 1>people they aren't so consumed with the relationships between how

0:34:12.280 --> 0:34:15.600
<v Speaker 1>they arrange things physically, but they enjoy great depth and

0:34:15.680 --> 0:34:18.440
<v Speaker 1>emotional relationship to things, And it could be appendant. It

0:34:18.440 --> 0:34:20.799
<v Speaker 1>could be nowadays, you know, people like tattoos are kind

0:34:20.840 --> 0:34:22.960
<v Speaker 1>of interesting. Yeah, they're much more prominent than when I

0:34:23.040 --> 0:34:26.080
<v Speaker 1>was growing up. They are an externalization of how people

0:34:26.080 --> 0:34:28.160
<v Speaker 1>feel on the inside. Yes, right, So those are very

0:34:28.200 --> 0:34:31.160
<v Speaker 1>powerful symbols. And there's something about the process of stamping

0:34:31.160 --> 0:34:35.520
<v Speaker 1>in into one skin, etc. The slighter intense pain involved

0:34:35.520 --> 0:34:37.680
<v Speaker 1>depending on where and who does it and the person's

0:34:37.680 --> 0:34:40.640
<v Speaker 1>pain threshold. So symbols are a way in which we

0:34:40.800 --> 0:34:44.279
<v Speaker 1>create an external reflection of who we are to ourselves.

0:34:44.640 --> 0:34:48.200
<v Speaker 1>But also they are operating in a subconscious level to

0:34:48.360 --> 0:34:51.080
<v Speaker 1>keep us, for instance, in a place of order, like

0:34:51.680 --> 0:34:54.040
<v Speaker 1>to be able to organize one's thoughts. In a world

0:34:54.160 --> 0:34:58.280
<v Speaker 1>filled with statistical information, every ray of sunshine is statistical information.

0:34:58.320 --> 0:35:00.360
<v Speaker 1>We can't pay attention to all of it. So I

0:35:00.400 --> 0:35:03.120
<v Speaker 1>think that to directly answer your question, there are a

0:35:03.120 --> 0:35:05.160
<v Speaker 1>couple of things that I think from morning till night,

0:35:05.280 --> 0:35:08.600
<v Speaker 1>make it outsize positive effect on our nervous system, both

0:35:08.640 --> 0:35:11.160
<v Speaker 1>in terms of its ability to feel, think and act

0:35:11.600 --> 0:35:15.719
<v Speaker 1>and its ability to learn. The first one isn't so

0:35:15.840 --> 0:35:17.880
<v Speaker 1>much a symbol unless you adopted as one, and I

0:35:17.920 --> 0:35:21.560
<v Speaker 1>certainly have, which is there are now thousands of quality

0:35:21.600 --> 0:35:25.120
<v Speaker 1>studies showing that we should all try and get some

0:35:25.280 --> 0:35:28.479
<v Speaker 1>bright light, ideally sunlight in our eyes within the early

0:35:28.520 --> 0:35:31.640
<v Speaker 1>hours of waking. This doesn't necessarily meaning waking with the sunrise,

0:35:31.640 --> 0:35:33.560
<v Speaker 1>although if you can do that that's great. Some people

0:35:33.680 --> 0:35:35.839
<v Speaker 1>wake up before the sun comes out. Getting a lot

0:35:35.840 --> 0:35:38.040
<v Speaker 1>of bright sunlight in one's eyes early in the day

0:35:38.440 --> 0:35:41.400
<v Speaker 1>puts a number of neurochemicals and hormones into a state

0:35:41.520 --> 0:35:44.319
<v Speaker 1>of let's just call it what it is, positivity. Mood

0:35:44.360 --> 0:35:47.799
<v Speaker 1>is enhanced immune system function. Sleep is enhanced sixteen to

0:35:48.320 --> 0:35:52.440
<v Speaker 1>twenty hours later, and so on, also in the evening.

0:35:52.480 --> 0:35:55.279
<v Speaker 1>So the sun as a symbol is very important, but

0:35:55.320 --> 0:35:58.520
<v Speaker 1>it's also anchoring our subconscious physiology. Because every cell in

0:35:58.520 --> 0:36:00.239
<v Speaker 1>our body has a twenty four hour clock, we need

0:36:00.280 --> 0:36:01.680
<v Speaker 1>to time it to the rise and fall of the

0:36:01.719 --> 0:36:06.400
<v Speaker 1>sun each day. When human beings become misaligned with that

0:36:06.640 --> 0:36:09.160
<v Speaker 1>rising and falling of the sun, bad things happens to

0:36:09.200 --> 0:36:11.520
<v Speaker 1>the nervus system. Now, fortunately it's very easy to fix.

0:36:11.640 --> 0:36:13.960
<v Speaker 1>There's a study done at University of Colorado taking college

0:36:13.960 --> 0:36:15.920
<v Speaker 1>students camping. I wish I had been a subject in

0:36:16.000 --> 0:36:18.800
<v Speaker 1>the sense moment. But they found is that melotonin rhythms

0:36:18.800 --> 0:36:21.279
<v Speaker 1>cortisol rhythms, which can be a healthy thing. We all

0:36:21.320 --> 0:36:26.040
<v Speaker 1>have cortisol, protects, us, energizes us, dopamine, epinephren All these

0:36:26.120 --> 0:36:29.600
<v Speaker 1>rhythms of the body could be reinstated to their proper

0:36:29.680 --> 0:36:33.160
<v Speaker 1>timing by waking up and seeing the sun and going

0:36:33.160 --> 0:36:36.560
<v Speaker 1>to sleep not too long after sunset, depending on time

0:36:36.560 --> 0:36:39.560
<v Speaker 1>of year, for two nights and two mornings, and this

0:36:39.640 --> 0:36:42.120
<v Speaker 1>lasted at least two weeks, even though people were getting

0:36:42.160 --> 0:36:44.719
<v Speaker 1>artificial light. So I would say the symbol of the

0:36:44.760 --> 0:36:48.200
<v Speaker 1>sun is not just uh, you know, it's not a

0:36:48.200 --> 0:36:50.279
<v Speaker 1>trivial thing at all. It's the anchor by which our

0:36:50.680 --> 0:36:55.920
<v Speaker 1>biology is designed, in our psychology follows. Of course, I

0:36:55.920 --> 0:36:58.279
<v Speaker 1>think you know, many people who have wile sleeping, many

0:36:58.280 --> 0:37:01.000
<v Speaker 1>people who have mood issues. Is a metabolism. I mean,

0:37:01.000 --> 0:37:03.080
<v Speaker 1>I could list it on and on and on people

0:37:03.080 --> 0:37:06.359
<v Speaker 1>will ask, So I'll just put it out there. Try

0:37:06.400 --> 0:37:08.840
<v Speaker 1>and do this without sunglasses if you safely can't. You

0:37:08.920 --> 0:37:10.919
<v Speaker 1>don't stare directly at the sun. Never look at any

0:37:11.000 --> 0:37:13.120
<v Speaker 1>light so bright that it's painful to look at. You can,

0:37:13.160 --> 0:37:15.360
<v Speaker 1>of course, blink only takes a few minutes on a

0:37:15.400 --> 0:37:17.440
<v Speaker 1>cloudless day. If you're in the UK and the depths

0:37:17.480 --> 0:37:19.799
<v Speaker 1>of winter, you're still going to get more light coming

0:37:19.800 --> 0:37:22.760
<v Speaker 1>through cloud cover by going outside than you would indoors

0:37:22.760 --> 0:37:26.120
<v Speaker 1>with bright lights on, And it can take anywhere from

0:37:26.160 --> 0:37:28.880
<v Speaker 1>two minutes to thirty minutes, depending on how dark or

0:37:28.960 --> 0:37:32.960
<v Speaker 1>bright it is outside. Sunglasses and excuse me, eyeglasses and

0:37:33.000 --> 0:37:35.080
<v Speaker 1>contacts perfectly fine. If you think about if anything that

0:37:35.120 --> 0:37:37.880
<v Speaker 1>just focuses light onto the retina, don't try and do

0:37:37.920 --> 0:37:41.000
<v Speaker 1>this through a window or a windshield because it filters

0:37:41.040 --> 0:37:42.640
<v Speaker 1>out a lot of the light that you want. So

0:37:42.680 --> 0:37:45.239
<v Speaker 1>the sun is a key symbol. I think if people

0:37:45.239 --> 0:37:48.400
<v Speaker 1>could adopt that there, I'm certain their physiology and psychology

0:37:48.440 --> 0:37:52.400
<v Speaker 1>will benefit. Then in terms of physical symbols, I find

0:37:52.440 --> 0:37:56.040
<v Speaker 1>it very useful and that they're good data. If you know,

0:37:56.040 --> 0:37:58.160
<v Speaker 1>if a picture is worth a thousand words, a movie

0:37:58.239 --> 0:38:02.560
<v Speaker 1>is worth a bazillion pick. So having an image of

0:38:02.600 --> 0:38:05.400
<v Speaker 1>something that makes you feel good and seeing that early

0:38:05.440 --> 0:38:09.319
<v Speaker 1>in the day tremendously powerful. Having a mental image of

0:38:09.400 --> 0:38:12.279
<v Speaker 1>something in your mind is equally powerful because you also

0:38:12.360 --> 0:38:14.239
<v Speaker 1>carry that with you. And then if you do have

0:38:14.280 --> 0:38:17.080
<v Speaker 1>a meditative practice, or even if you don't, being able

0:38:17.080 --> 0:38:19.520
<v Speaker 1>to try and bring the mind and the body into

0:38:19.560 --> 0:38:21.840
<v Speaker 1>that experience. So taking a moment to look at a

0:38:21.840 --> 0:38:25.319
<v Speaker 1>photo of someone that you love or appreciate and or

0:38:25.400 --> 0:38:28.880
<v Speaker 1>the actual person right, and being able to actually sense

0:38:28.920 --> 0:38:31.600
<v Speaker 1>that and feel it at a complete nervous system level.

0:38:31.840 --> 0:38:34.400
<v Speaker 1>It might sound like kind of woo science, but it's not.

0:38:34.560 --> 0:38:37.000
<v Speaker 1>The nervous system extends through the whole body. So the

0:38:37.040 --> 0:38:39.439
<v Speaker 1>extent that you can make that a truly whole body

0:38:39.480 --> 0:38:43.840
<v Speaker 1>somatic experience, yeah, that it leads to an outsize effect

0:38:44.320 --> 0:38:47.800
<v Speaker 1>on the just the ability of the nervous system to function.

0:38:48.239 --> 0:38:50.359
<v Speaker 1>And then of course we are bombarded all day with

0:38:50.440 --> 0:38:53.360
<v Speaker 1>negative symbols. There's just no way around that. But we

0:38:53.400 --> 0:38:57.200
<v Speaker 1>can buffer ourselves against those negative symbols by very strongly

0:38:57.200 --> 0:39:00.560
<v Speaker 1>associating with certain things. And here I'll just that great

0:39:00.640 --> 0:39:04.759
<v Speaker 1>neurologists and writer Oliver Sacks had this obsession with minerals

0:39:04.800 --> 0:39:07.920
<v Speaker 1>and stones. He felt they had personalities, and he used

0:39:07.960 --> 0:39:10.719
<v Speaker 1>to say that he had developed such a strong relationship

0:39:10.760 --> 0:39:13.640
<v Speaker 1>to them, their touch, especially as he started to lose

0:39:13.680 --> 0:39:16.440
<v Speaker 1>his vision later in life, the way they felt, and

0:39:16.719 --> 0:39:18.919
<v Speaker 1>they made him feel safe, They made him feel good.

0:39:18.960 --> 0:39:22.120
<v Speaker 1>So these could be inanimate objects. So find things that

0:39:22.200 --> 0:39:27.200
<v Speaker 1>you love and associate with them on a regular basis,

0:39:27.480 --> 0:39:30.080
<v Speaker 1>and you are literally shifting your nervous system towards this

0:39:30.160 --> 0:39:35.280
<v Speaker 1>place of buffering yourself against negativity, and you are reinforcing

0:39:35.320 --> 0:39:38.080
<v Speaker 1>the very circuits that trigger the release of neurochemicals that

0:39:38.120 --> 0:39:40.600
<v Speaker 1>make you feel better. And some people might say, well,

0:39:40.719 --> 0:39:42.440
<v Speaker 1>then you're just kind of doping yourself up with your

0:39:42.440 --> 0:39:46.560
<v Speaker 1>own chemicals. But as a last point here, the neurochemical

0:39:46.600 --> 0:39:50.839
<v Speaker 1>dopamine is a very important and very misunderstood molecule. First

0:39:50.880 --> 0:39:53.680
<v Speaker 1>of all, it is the substrate by which epinephrin neural

0:39:53.800 --> 0:39:56.960
<v Speaker 1>energy is created. And people think of it as dopamine

0:39:57.040 --> 0:39:59.640
<v Speaker 1>is just feeling good, But dopamine is not about feeling good.

0:39:59.640 --> 0:40:03.040
<v Speaker 1>Dopamin is the molecule of motivation and the desire to

0:40:03.200 --> 0:40:07.200
<v Speaker 1>pursue additional things in a particular line of life. So

0:40:07.280 --> 0:40:10.520
<v Speaker 1>when we positively associate with a song, a person, a face,

0:40:10.560 --> 0:40:15.040
<v Speaker 1>an object, the sunrise, we don't just benefit from those

0:40:15.560 --> 0:40:18.719
<v Speaker 1>activities based on the effects of those activities. It's also

0:40:18.800 --> 0:40:22.360
<v Speaker 1>what we believe about those activities combine and the release

0:40:22.400 --> 0:40:25.399
<v Speaker 1>of dopamine makes you more capable of then leaning into

0:40:25.440 --> 0:40:28.279
<v Speaker 1>life and going and doing other things and so. And

0:40:28.400 --> 0:40:31.000
<v Speaker 1>this are not small effects, right, The effect of a

0:40:31.080 --> 0:40:33.840
<v Speaker 1>small even you know, half a percent increase in dopamine

0:40:33.880 --> 0:40:37.080
<v Speaker 1>transmission in the brain is the difference between feeling like

0:40:37.120 --> 0:40:41.640
<v Speaker 1>your life is bleak and you can completely attack the

0:40:41.719 --> 0:40:45.400
<v Speaker 1>day in the positive sense. So fill your life with symbols,

0:40:45.600 --> 0:40:47.960
<v Speaker 1>you get. What's wonderful is that you get to curate

0:40:48.000 --> 0:40:50.399
<v Speaker 1>what those are. If you don't have access to them

0:40:50.400 --> 0:40:53.520
<v Speaker 1>in your physical environment, they can be entirely internal. And

0:40:53.560 --> 0:40:55.600
<v Speaker 1>when I think about the great stories of the Victor

0:40:55.640 --> 0:40:59.759
<v Speaker 1>Frankels and they, you know, and people who have just

0:41:00.040 --> 0:41:05.600
<v Speaker 1>overcome tremendous challenge, they've internalized symbols such that the tiniest

0:41:05.600 --> 0:41:09.719
<v Speaker 1>of things can actually evoke this dopamine release system. And

0:41:10.080 --> 0:41:13.280
<v Speaker 1>dopamine is just a generic neuromodulator. It doesn't know anything

0:41:13.280 --> 0:41:16.360
<v Speaker 1>about your experience. It only knows what you believe about

0:41:16.400 --> 0:41:19.440
<v Speaker 1>your experience, and it's deployed according to what you believe

0:41:19.440 --> 0:41:22.400
<v Speaker 1>about your experience. So in theory, I could train my

0:41:22.480 --> 0:41:25.239
<v Speaker 1>dopamine system to release dopamine every time I raised my

0:41:25.320 --> 0:41:29.440
<v Speaker 1>right hand if I genuinely thought that that had if

0:41:29.440 --> 0:41:31.520
<v Speaker 1>that has meaning for me. And this is the art

0:41:31.560 --> 0:41:35.760
<v Speaker 1>also of superstitions, right, This is why you know people

0:41:35.800 --> 0:41:39.000
<v Speaker 1>will engage in superstitions because they've built positive associations with

0:41:39.040 --> 0:41:42.600
<v Speaker 1>outcomes according to a certain behavior. So what you start

0:41:42.640 --> 0:41:45.279
<v Speaker 1>to realize is that the brain is making predictions about

0:41:45.280 --> 0:41:49.440
<v Speaker 1>the external world. Who's Jay, when's he coming back? You know,

0:41:49.480 --> 0:41:51.000
<v Speaker 1>what objects are going to be in the room this

0:41:51.040 --> 0:41:52.960
<v Speaker 1>time versus next time. If I suddenly walk out in

0:41:53.000 --> 0:41:55.120
<v Speaker 1>that painting over there, which I've happened to love, is

0:41:55.160 --> 0:41:57.959
<v Speaker 1>now on a different wall, my nervous system would notice

0:41:58.000 --> 0:42:01.520
<v Speaker 1>that because it's but it's also making as about internal state,

0:42:01.960 --> 0:42:05.160
<v Speaker 1>and a lot of depression and anxiety is about people

0:42:05.239 --> 0:42:08.280
<v Speaker 1>feeling like, oh, when they feel lousy, that that lousy

0:42:08.320 --> 0:42:10.960
<v Speaker 1>feeling is going to go on forever. The way to

0:42:11.040 --> 0:42:15.320
<v Speaker 1>rewire this is to understand that making and controlling predictions

0:42:15.360 --> 0:42:18.400
<v Speaker 1>about how you feel internally gives you a sense of agency,

0:42:18.719 --> 0:42:20.360
<v Speaker 1>and that sense of agency, at the end of the

0:42:20.440 --> 0:42:23.600
<v Speaker 1>day is just purely neurochemical. So these are pretty straightforward

0:42:23.640 --> 0:42:26.080
<v Speaker 1>things to master. I mean, that's mind blowing to me

0:42:26.239 --> 0:42:29.600
<v Speaker 1>because I've never heard dopamine be explained that way. Well,

0:42:29.680 --> 0:42:32.640
<v Speaker 1>domine everything about dopamine release is learned. Yeah, there are

0:42:32.640 --> 0:42:36.279
<v Speaker 1>a few things, like all at all the ones that

0:42:36.360 --> 0:42:39.799
<v Speaker 1>evolved for us to be here. Okay, so associated with

0:42:39.880 --> 0:42:43.799
<v Speaker 1>reproduction food sugar, there's a very powerful dopamine pathway in

0:42:43.800 --> 0:42:46.120
<v Speaker 1>the brain and in the gut too, because sugar has

0:42:46.120 --> 0:42:49.560
<v Speaker 1>a nutritive value, right, we should all probably be ingesting

0:42:49.840 --> 0:42:53.400
<v Speaker 1>us of it. But you know, it's a hard wired system.

0:42:53.560 --> 0:42:57.160
<v Speaker 1>Food when we're hungry, warmth when we're cold. Those are hardwired.

0:42:57.400 --> 0:43:00.239
<v Speaker 1>But the dopamine system is designed to be trained up

0:43:00.280 --> 0:43:03.719
<v Speaker 1>to associate with anything. Yeah, and this is how a

0:43:03.840 --> 0:43:07.000
<v Speaker 1>guy like uh, you can meditate for long periods of

0:43:07.000 --> 0:43:10.160
<v Speaker 1>time and feel I'm guessing there were times in which

0:43:10.160 --> 0:43:11.680
<v Speaker 1>it felt brutal and there were times in which it

0:43:11.680 --> 0:43:15.200
<v Speaker 1>felt incredible. This is how a guy like David Goggins

0:43:15.480 --> 0:43:19.160
<v Speaker 1>can um, you know, punish himself with running it, you know,

0:43:19.400 --> 0:43:22.719
<v Speaker 1>over and over and over. And yet somehow he's inverted

0:43:22.760 --> 0:43:25.839
<v Speaker 1>that dopamine circuit so that it feels like something he

0:43:26.080 --> 0:43:29.560
<v Speaker 1>either wants to do or that by overcoming that the

0:43:29.600 --> 0:43:34.000
<v Speaker 1>resistance to doing it, he gets a dopamine release. So

0:43:34.640 --> 0:43:38.840
<v Speaker 1>dopamine is entirely a learned release system. There are a

0:43:38.880 --> 0:43:41.439
<v Speaker 1>few things that trigger it's release no matter what. But

0:43:41.640 --> 0:43:43.880
<v Speaker 1>and I should highlight drugs of abuse. I was just

0:43:43.880 --> 0:43:49.839
<v Speaker 1>about to say, a cocaine amphetamine um excess, you know, pornography,

0:43:49.920 --> 0:43:53.320
<v Speaker 1>excessive dopamine release, and that the diabolical thing about dopamine

0:43:53.400 --> 0:43:56.880
<v Speaker 1>under those conditions is that the higher the dopamine release,

0:43:57.200 --> 0:44:00.160
<v Speaker 1>the big amplitude dopamine, the bigger the crash. Always it's

0:44:00.200 --> 0:44:02.399
<v Speaker 1>the way the circuits are designed. Now Here, we're talking

0:44:02.400 --> 0:44:06.120
<v Speaker 1>about self training in healthy amounts of dopamine, yes, non

0:44:06.160 --> 0:44:09.400
<v Speaker 1>addictive amounts of dopamine release, or you could say mildly

0:44:09.440 --> 0:44:12.560
<v Speaker 1>addictive patterns of behavior that serve us and the people

0:44:12.560 --> 0:44:14.719
<v Speaker 1>around us well. And in that case, I think of

0:44:14.719 --> 0:44:18.400
<v Speaker 1>that as kind of an adaptive addiction compulsion yea, and

0:44:18.560 --> 0:44:21.759
<v Speaker 1>not one that we should necessarily avoid. Absolutely. I think

0:44:21.840 --> 0:44:24.319
<v Speaker 1>that for me, the way I differentiate that, and I

0:44:24.320 --> 0:44:28.359
<v Speaker 1>think that's such a good distinction that you're raising there,

0:44:28.440 --> 0:44:31.560
<v Speaker 1>because what you're basically saying is we could commence ourselves

0:44:31.600 --> 0:44:34.000
<v Speaker 1>through the release of dopamine that anything's good for us,

0:44:34.520 --> 0:44:36.759
<v Speaker 1>and hence it can lead to addiction or it can

0:44:36.760 --> 0:44:40.040
<v Speaker 1>be these aspirational positive habits for us. And I think

0:44:40.040 --> 0:44:42.920
<v Speaker 1>the way I've been able to at least differentiate is

0:44:43.040 --> 0:44:46.799
<v Speaker 1>that which is good for me, that which makes me

0:44:46.840 --> 0:44:51.120
<v Speaker 1>feel good after I do it, because that's that release

0:44:51.120 --> 0:44:53.960
<v Speaker 1>of dopamine that I'm experiencing after I do it is

0:44:54.000 --> 0:44:56.320
<v Speaker 1>more important than that which makes me feel good before

0:44:56.360 --> 0:44:58.560
<v Speaker 1>I do it. I love that. So I don't feel

0:44:58.640 --> 0:45:01.440
<v Speaker 1>good before I go to the jim or maybe before

0:45:01.520 --> 0:45:04.680
<v Speaker 1>I meditate, or before I eat a healthy bowl of

0:45:05.200 --> 0:45:08.320
<v Speaker 1>protein and food that's good for me, but I always

0:45:08.360 --> 0:45:10.600
<v Speaker 1>feel good after it. I love that. And when I

0:45:10.920 --> 0:45:14.080
<v Speaker 1>feel good before I stay up late at night and

0:45:14.120 --> 0:45:15.680
<v Speaker 1>hope that we're going to have a great time. I

0:45:15.680 --> 0:45:18.200
<v Speaker 1>feel good before I eat a pizza. I feel good

0:45:18.200 --> 0:45:20.000
<v Speaker 1>before I have loads of sugar because I have a

0:45:20.040 --> 0:45:23.040
<v Speaker 1>massive sweet tooth, but then afterwards I feel the pangs

0:45:23.080 --> 0:45:26.160
<v Speaker 1>of it. I love that. And it proves that in

0:45:26.200 --> 0:45:29.480
<v Speaker 1>your heart you're a neuroscientist. Because there's something called dopamine

0:45:29.560 --> 0:45:32.879
<v Speaker 1>reward prediction error. This was defined by getting rule from

0:45:32.920 --> 0:45:35.520
<v Speaker 1>Schultz and others, and it's an incredible thing and it

0:45:35.520 --> 0:45:38.239
<v Speaker 1>can be made very simple, which is when we positively

0:45:38.280 --> 0:45:42.319
<v Speaker 1>anticipate something, there is dopamine release. I mean, just tell

0:45:42.400 --> 0:45:44.480
<v Speaker 1>kids that you're going for ice cream and you're seeing

0:45:44.600 --> 0:45:47.239
<v Speaker 1>what is I'll now explain as reward prediction error. Now

0:45:47.239 --> 0:45:49.440
<v Speaker 1>you get to the ice cream shop and it's closed.

0:45:49.800 --> 0:45:53.000
<v Speaker 1>What happens is there dopamine drops below baseline before they

0:45:53.000 --> 0:45:55.359
<v Speaker 1>were told they were going for ice cream. If they're

0:45:55.360 --> 0:45:57.000
<v Speaker 1>going to the ice cream shop and they have ice cream,

0:45:57.000 --> 0:45:59.040
<v Speaker 1>you might think then they get even more dopamine. But

0:45:59.080 --> 0:46:02.000
<v Speaker 1>guess what, the ice cream isn't as good, or if

0:46:02.040 --> 0:46:05.160
<v Speaker 1>one kid that the ice cream cone falls and they

0:46:05.200 --> 0:46:07.480
<v Speaker 1>don't get another one. What ends up happening is that

0:46:08.239 --> 0:46:11.799
<v Speaker 1>dopamine is relative to where you were just feeling, it

0:46:11.840 --> 0:46:15.719
<v Speaker 1>doesn't feel that great. And so this is the diabolical

0:46:15.760 --> 0:46:18.520
<v Speaker 1>nature of addictive drugs. People get a dopamine surge in

0:46:18.600 --> 0:46:21.200
<v Speaker 1>anticipation of using, and over time they get less and

0:46:21.280 --> 0:46:24.359
<v Speaker 1>less of a dopamine surge. But the punishment signal, as

0:46:24.360 --> 0:46:27.440
<v Speaker 1>we say, that comes afterwards. The trough afterwards goes lower

0:46:27.480 --> 0:46:29.920
<v Speaker 1>and lower and lower. So it's like a asymmetric seesaw.

0:46:29.960 --> 0:46:32.680
<v Speaker 1>It's not just back and forth. It goes dopamine, but

0:46:32.680 --> 0:46:35.719
<v Speaker 1>then it goes punishment signal. Now you've figured it out

0:46:35.840 --> 0:46:39.759
<v Speaker 1>because dopamine reward prediction error says that if you have

0:46:39.960 --> 0:46:44.160
<v Speaker 1>less dopamine heading into something, then you do afterward. That

0:46:44.239 --> 0:46:47.640
<v Speaker 1>tells the synapses, the brain connections that were involved to

0:46:47.719 --> 0:46:50.719
<v Speaker 1>reinforce themselves and to engage in that behavior. Again, and

0:46:50.760 --> 0:46:53.400
<v Speaker 1>this is also what happens with surprise. If you go

0:46:53.520 --> 0:46:56.040
<v Speaker 1>someplace you're not expecting, you know what likes. Let's go

0:46:56.080 --> 0:46:57.680
<v Speaker 1>to this place for dinner out and all looks good

0:46:57.680 --> 0:47:01.320
<v Speaker 1>and it's amazing. You create a much bigger dopamine signal

0:47:01.320 --> 0:47:02.560
<v Speaker 1>than if I tell you Jay, I got to take

0:47:02.560 --> 0:47:04.880
<v Speaker 1>you this place. This is the best sushi in Los Angeles.

0:47:04.880 --> 0:47:07.479
<v Speaker 1>It's incredible. That actually sets you up to not enjoy

0:47:07.560 --> 0:47:10.839
<v Speaker 1>the meal as much. So we all should learn to

0:47:11.160 --> 0:47:14.120
<v Speaker 1>kind of control this dopamine. NB. You've done it beautifully

0:47:14.160 --> 0:47:18.719
<v Speaker 1>by simplifying it into making sure that you get enough happiness, thrill,

0:47:18.840 --> 0:47:23.160
<v Speaker 1>excitement in retrospect. That's the way to wire in healthy behaviors.

0:47:23.160 --> 0:47:25.759
<v Speaker 1>And I've never actually heard it put as succinctly as

0:47:25.800 --> 0:47:28.000
<v Speaker 1>you because academics are not trained to be succinct, as

0:47:28.040 --> 0:47:30.000
<v Speaker 1>you can tell. But I think if everyone kept that

0:47:30.040 --> 0:47:32.759
<v Speaker 1>in mind, they would do themselves a great service, which is,

0:47:33.480 --> 0:47:36.919
<v Speaker 1>try and ask whether or not there you had as

0:47:37.000 --> 0:47:40.319
<v Speaker 1>much or more pleasure in the aftermath of something as

0:47:40.360 --> 0:47:44.640
<v Speaker 1>you did during and you will. You get two benefits,

0:47:44.640 --> 0:47:47.480
<v Speaker 1>one as you can avoid addictive type behaviors and the

0:47:47.560 --> 0:47:50.320
<v Speaker 1>other because you avoid that crash if there's a dopamine

0:47:50.320 --> 0:47:52.960
<v Speaker 1>release after there's no crash, and the other is that

0:47:53.000 --> 0:47:55.640
<v Speaker 1>you'll have a tendency to return to that behavior over

0:47:55.760 --> 0:47:57.880
<v Speaker 1>and over again. There's also I think a lot of

0:47:57.880 --> 0:48:02.760
<v Speaker 1>people enter new relationships there is a well established dopamine surge.

0:48:02.760 --> 0:48:05.560
<v Speaker 1>With the early phase. Everything feels possible. People feel like,

0:48:05.600 --> 0:48:08.319
<v Speaker 1>people go out and make purchases. They're kind of manic, right,

0:48:08.680 --> 0:48:11.160
<v Speaker 1>and it's a very exciting kind of mental illness that

0:48:11.200 --> 0:48:14.920
<v Speaker 1>we all enjoy from time to time. But then people

0:48:14.960 --> 0:48:18.600
<v Speaker 1>start to enter the phase of real challenge or oftentimes

0:48:18.640 --> 0:48:22.080
<v Speaker 1>real challenge, and if they can't make that transition seamlessly,

0:48:22.080 --> 0:48:24.560
<v Speaker 1>and they constantly focus back on how great things were

0:48:24.760 --> 0:48:27.200
<v Speaker 1>and they look at the differential, it can be a

0:48:27.440 --> 0:48:29.719
<v Speaker 1>kind of a dark picture, and then people have to

0:48:29.760 --> 0:48:32.400
<v Speaker 1>start working on trying to reignite, so to speak. But

0:48:32.760 --> 0:48:35.160
<v Speaker 1>the bigger the dopamine surge at the beginning, the bigger

0:48:35.239 --> 0:48:37.920
<v Speaker 1>the crash. So I think that a wonderful model for

0:48:38.000 --> 0:48:42.719
<v Speaker 1>relationship is also to temper that dopamine release, spread it

0:48:42.760 --> 0:48:44.680
<v Speaker 1>out over time. Try and spread it out over fifty

0:48:44.760 --> 0:48:47.640
<v Speaker 1>years any your home free. Now, I'm not an expert

0:48:47.680 --> 0:48:50.560
<v Speaker 1>in relationship, but it is absolutely clear that dopamine is

0:48:50.920 --> 0:48:55.840
<v Speaker 1>the hallmark of human bonding, then you know early on anyway,

0:48:55.880 --> 0:48:59.400
<v Speaker 1>then come the oxytocin and all the feel good, warmth molecules,

0:48:59.400 --> 0:49:03.680
<v Speaker 1>because dopean fundamentally is about accessing things that are outside

0:49:03.719 --> 0:49:07.160
<v Speaker 1>your immediate experience. It's reaching for things beyond the confines

0:49:07.200 --> 0:49:11.279
<v Speaker 1>of your skin, a degree, money, a relationship that you're

0:49:11.320 --> 0:49:13.600
<v Speaker 1>worried that's developing and that you're working on. Whereas the

0:49:13.640 --> 0:49:16.880
<v Speaker 1>serotonin and oxytocin system, which I think most people have

0:49:16.960 --> 0:49:20.080
<v Speaker 1>heard of, are feel good molecules. They're associated with things

0:49:20.080 --> 0:49:23.600
<v Speaker 1>We already have, knowledge of how wonderful our partner is,

0:49:23.960 --> 0:49:27.319
<v Speaker 1>knowledge of how much we love something, or how much

0:49:27.320 --> 0:49:30.439
<v Speaker 1>we appreciate the meal that we had. So neither it's

0:49:30.440 --> 0:49:34.520
<v Speaker 1>not that dopamine is bad and serotonin is good. These

0:49:34.600 --> 0:49:37.200
<v Speaker 1>are molecules that have built up in our system over

0:49:37.239 --> 0:49:39.920
<v Speaker 1>time to allow us to establish new relationships of all

0:49:40.000 --> 0:49:42.399
<v Speaker 1>kinds two things end people and to ourselves, and then

0:49:42.440 --> 0:49:45.680
<v Speaker 1>to sustain them. But that those big dopamine peaks early

0:49:45.719 --> 0:49:50.200
<v Speaker 1>on are very very dangerous, and we need to learn

0:49:50.239 --> 0:49:52.960
<v Speaker 1>to temper them and just spread that out over time.

0:49:53.000 --> 0:49:55.480
<v Speaker 1>It's a resource, and we need to learn to calibrate

0:49:55.520 --> 0:49:58.680
<v Speaker 1>that resource. Andrew you, honestly, you just blurn my mind

0:49:58.719 --> 0:50:01.719
<v Speaker 1>again and again and again, because is there are so

0:50:01.760 --> 0:50:05.319
<v Speaker 1>many long held beliefs that I have, or techniques or

0:50:05.400 --> 0:50:08.839
<v Speaker 1>tools that I've built, or mindsets that I've created and

0:50:08.840 --> 0:50:12.560
<v Speaker 1>that I share and coach and pass on from the

0:50:12.640 --> 0:50:16.240
<v Speaker 1>studies that I've done. But I get so much joy

0:50:16.360 --> 0:50:22.120
<v Speaker 1>out of seeing deep study support those ideas. I think

0:50:22.120 --> 0:50:24.120
<v Speaker 1>I want to unpack a lot of the things you said.

0:50:24.160 --> 0:50:25.399
<v Speaker 1>The first thing I want to say is my new

0:50:25.400 --> 0:50:28.040
<v Speaker 1>claim to fame is that you said I'm an honorary neuroscientist. Now,

0:50:28.080 --> 0:50:31.520
<v Speaker 1>so I'm gonna you think like a neuroscientist because to

0:50:31.520 --> 0:50:34.200
<v Speaker 1>be able to batch things in time that way is

0:50:34.200 --> 0:50:36.279
<v Speaker 1>a unique skill. I'm not saying this for flattery, but

0:50:36.480 --> 0:50:39.120
<v Speaker 1>it makes you feel good even better. But the fact

0:50:39.120 --> 0:50:41.600
<v Speaker 1>of the matter is funny, but I'm grateful. But most

0:50:41.600 --> 0:50:45.319
<v Speaker 1>people think about experiences as one thing. You know, we

0:50:45.360 --> 0:50:49.040
<v Speaker 1>went to Costa Rica. It was amazing, ah and I'm

0:50:49.080 --> 0:50:51.480
<v Speaker 1>sure it was. And when dopamines flooding through your system,

0:50:51.560 --> 0:50:54.240
<v Speaker 1>there's also something really cool. Is it distorts your perception

0:50:54.280 --> 0:50:57.080
<v Speaker 1>of time. It feels like time goes by very very fast,

0:50:57.320 --> 0:50:59.360
<v Speaker 1>but in looking back, it seems like a lot happened.

0:50:59.520 --> 0:51:01.600
<v Speaker 1>I think about when you're bored in the doctor's office

0:51:01.680 --> 0:51:03.960
<v Speaker 1>waiting room. It feels like it goes on forever and

0:51:04.000 --> 0:51:07.839
<v Speaker 1>you look back, Guess what happened? Nothing, it's low dopamine state.

0:51:07.880 --> 0:51:10.719
<v Speaker 1>So dopamine actually acts as a It's like shooting a

0:51:10.840 --> 0:51:15.080
<v Speaker 1>film at high frame rate. Yeah, okay, so it feels

0:51:15.080 --> 0:51:17.799
<v Speaker 1>like a lot's happening. You look back and it goes

0:51:17.800 --> 0:51:20.120
<v Speaker 1>by very fast. But you look back, a lot happen.

0:51:20.520 --> 0:51:24.799
<v Speaker 1>So you batch things in time. And this is fundamentally

0:51:24.840 --> 0:51:28.440
<v Speaker 1>important to how we work. If we look at experiences

0:51:28.920 --> 0:51:31.759
<v Speaker 1>only in terms of how we experience them and not

0:51:31.880 --> 0:51:36.920
<v Speaker 1>the aftermath, we miss a huge portion of life, and

0:51:37.040 --> 0:51:41.120
<v Speaker 1>more importantly, we miss the opportunity to access the right

0:51:41.160 --> 0:51:44.480
<v Speaker 1>behaviors and thoughts. Yeah, we can be very misled by

0:51:44.640 --> 0:51:49.800
<v Speaker 1>things like dopamine. It's it's a it's really a tricky

0:51:49.840 --> 0:51:52.080
<v Speaker 1>molecule to work with, and we're all working with it.

0:51:52.160 --> 0:51:54.719
<v Speaker 1>No one is immune from this, right, But yes, you

0:51:54.760 --> 0:51:59.160
<v Speaker 1>are absolutely a neuroscientist. That's my new that's my new tagline. No,

0:51:59.320 --> 0:52:01.840
<v Speaker 1>I such a fascination with neuroscience, and I hope that

0:52:01.880 --> 0:52:05.080
<v Speaker 1>at one point in my life, I create the time

0:52:05.080 --> 0:52:08.800
<v Speaker 1>and space to deeply study and study, should do an experiment.

0:52:08.840 --> 0:52:10.520
<v Speaker 1>It's genuine a desire in my life. So I'm not

0:52:10.680 --> 0:52:13.680
<v Speaker 1>Jefford has a mind body Lab, Ali Crum's Lab, which

0:52:13.760 --> 0:52:17.520
<v Speaker 1>is all about beliefs and how beliefs shape our physiology.

0:52:17.960 --> 0:52:21.200
<v Speaker 1>My colleague David Spiegel and psychiatry studies hypnosis and brain

0:52:21.239 --> 0:52:24.239
<v Speaker 1>states and beliefs in mind body. So Stanford of course

0:52:24.280 --> 0:52:28.040
<v Speaker 1>does all the hardcore, rigorous stuff around moleculobiology, genetics, it's

0:52:28.360 --> 0:52:30.680
<v Speaker 1>deep sequencing. But we also have a collection of people

0:52:30.719 --> 0:52:32.840
<v Speaker 1>there that are very interested in mind body, so we

0:52:32.880 --> 0:52:35.600
<v Speaker 1>should design an experiment. Yeah, definitely, I'd love to. That

0:52:35.800 --> 0:52:38.960
<v Speaker 1>would be that's music to my ears. I'm backing more

0:52:38.960 --> 0:52:43.120
<v Speaker 1>of what you said. What I find so interesting is

0:52:43.200 --> 0:52:45.400
<v Speaker 1>that you said, obviously this this painting that you like

0:52:45.520 --> 0:52:47.400
<v Speaker 1>behind me, and then you said if it was in

0:52:47.440 --> 0:52:49.440
<v Speaker 1>another place, then you know it takes a bit of

0:52:49.440 --> 0:52:53.000
<v Speaker 1>time to reconfigure and recalibrate, you know what's going on here,

0:52:53.680 --> 0:52:56.120
<v Speaker 1>and when you look at our lives today, so much

0:52:56.120 --> 0:52:59.239
<v Speaker 1>of the anxiety that we experience is based on change

0:52:59.800 --> 0:53:02.399
<v Speaker 1>or or the lack of being able to predict as

0:53:02.440 --> 0:53:06.440
<v Speaker 1>we talked about or unpredictability, and we've long known kind

0:53:06.480 --> 0:53:10.240
<v Speaker 1>of like what you were saying before, We've long known that,

0:53:11.040 --> 0:53:13.360
<v Speaker 1>you know, things will not always stay the same. We

0:53:13.480 --> 0:53:16.400
<v Speaker 1>realize that change is the only constant, that uncertainty is

0:53:16.440 --> 0:53:20.120
<v Speaker 1>the only certainty. Like we know these truths, yet we

0:53:20.280 --> 0:53:24.319
<v Speaker 1>love holding on to predict, even for me, Like when

0:53:24.320 --> 0:53:27.239
<v Speaker 1>I walk into this room, I do predict that these

0:53:27.239 --> 0:53:29.120
<v Speaker 1>things will remain on the wall, and the mics will

0:53:29.160 --> 0:53:31.200
<v Speaker 1>be here, and Homer will have set up the lights,

0:53:31.239 --> 0:53:35.319
<v Speaker 1>and there's some predictability there, which creates security. But as

0:53:35.360 --> 0:53:38.920
<v Speaker 1>we all know, shifting and being good with change is

0:53:39.000 --> 0:53:42.839
<v Speaker 1>so integral. What do we do with that? Like, how

0:53:42.880 --> 0:53:47.239
<v Speaker 1>do we start opening up and being more comfortable in

0:53:47.280 --> 0:53:51.280
<v Speaker 1>the discomfort of change, not just growth, but just change

0:53:51.320 --> 0:53:54.319
<v Speaker 1>and shifts that we don't expect and predict. Yeah, I

0:53:54.360 --> 0:53:57.200
<v Speaker 1>think two ways. One, I'll just go back to this

0:53:57.360 --> 0:53:59.799
<v Speaker 1>fundamental feature of the nervous system, which is it's trying

0:53:59.800 --> 0:54:02.880
<v Speaker 1>to make predictions. So the reason why change is stressful,

0:54:02.960 --> 0:54:05.560
<v Speaker 1>even positive change, believe it or not, is quote unquote

0:54:05.560 --> 0:54:09.799
<v Speaker 1>stressful is because of this and the release of adrenaline

0:54:09.840 --> 0:54:13.440
<v Speaker 1>and associated molecules with anytime things change, I mean, if

0:54:13.440 --> 0:54:16.120
<v Speaker 1>you look at the psychologists have worked this out, there's

0:54:16.120 --> 0:54:20.000
<v Speaker 1>a hierarchy of stressors, and of course at at the

0:54:20.080 --> 0:54:22.520
<v Speaker 1>top of that hierarchy are awful things that we don't

0:54:22.640 --> 0:54:24.439
<v Speaker 1>you know, I think at the top, to be honest,

0:54:24.480 --> 0:54:27.360
<v Speaker 1>I think death of a child is perhaps the greatest

0:54:27.360 --> 0:54:31.319
<v Speaker 1>stressor divorce, death of a loved one, these kinds of

0:54:31.360 --> 0:54:35.080
<v Speaker 1>horrible things that we wouldn't wish on anyone. Then as

0:54:35.160 --> 0:54:38.399
<v Speaker 1>one goes down not too far below, you see things

0:54:38.480 --> 0:54:41.920
<v Speaker 1>like moving to a new homer apartment. You think, well,

0:54:41.960 --> 0:54:44.160
<v Speaker 1>that could be a great event, right, birth of a

0:54:44.200 --> 0:54:46.200
<v Speaker 1>new child, and you think, wait a second, I thought,

0:54:46.239 --> 0:54:48.000
<v Speaker 1>that's supposed to be one of the greatest choice in life,

0:54:48.000 --> 0:54:50.680
<v Speaker 1>and indeed it is. But it's stressful to the nervous

0:54:50.680 --> 0:54:54.040
<v Speaker 1>system because so many things have to be reconfigured, not

0:54:54.120 --> 0:54:56.160
<v Speaker 1>to say anything about the lack of sleep with a

0:54:56.200 --> 0:54:59.560
<v Speaker 1>new born and this kind of thing. So change is

0:54:59.600 --> 0:55:03.879
<v Speaker 1>always going to force our brain to make more assessments

0:55:04.120 --> 0:55:05.880
<v Speaker 1>of our environment. One of the things that we can

0:55:05.920 --> 0:55:08.319
<v Speaker 1>say about the brain for sure is that once it

0:55:08.400 --> 0:55:10.600
<v Speaker 1>learns something, it likes to not have to think about it.

0:55:10.760 --> 0:55:12.680
<v Speaker 1>When you walk, because you already know how to walk,

0:55:12.719 --> 0:55:14.759
<v Speaker 1>you don't think right left, right, left, right left. But

0:55:14.800 --> 0:55:16.680
<v Speaker 1>when you learn how to dance a new step or

0:55:16.719 --> 0:55:20.400
<v Speaker 1>something of that sort, or a new skill sports skill,

0:55:20.600 --> 0:55:22.960
<v Speaker 1>you have to think about it, and it's work. And

0:55:23.080 --> 0:55:26.040
<v Speaker 1>anytime we have to think about behaviors and they aren't

0:55:26.080 --> 0:55:29.360
<v Speaker 1>simply reflexive. That work, as we call it, is in

0:55:29.680 --> 0:55:32.360
<v Speaker 1>it's a combination of the release of things like adrenaline

0:55:32.360 --> 0:55:35.080
<v Speaker 1>ephron in the brain and body, I should say, from

0:55:35.080 --> 0:55:36.919
<v Speaker 1>the adrenals in the body, but also in the brain,

0:55:36.960 --> 0:55:40.239
<v Speaker 1>from a little brain area called locus ceruleus. That is,

0:55:40.680 --> 0:55:42.200
<v Speaker 1>X is kind of a sprinkler system for the brain

0:55:42.239 --> 0:55:44.160
<v Speaker 1>and kind of wake up all brain areas saying okay,

0:55:44.239 --> 0:55:46.640
<v Speaker 1>let's pay attention to a lot of stuff here. Very

0:55:46.640 --> 0:55:50.960
<v Speaker 1>basic system, but very fundamental system. It's literally a wake

0:55:51.040 --> 0:55:53.000
<v Speaker 1>up system for the brain works in parallel with the

0:55:53.040 --> 0:55:57.680
<v Speaker 1>release of adrenaline into our body. Now, one way to

0:55:57.800 --> 0:56:02.280
<v Speaker 1>deal with change is to know this right, to understand

0:56:02.320 --> 0:56:05.160
<v Speaker 1>that if one feels stress or agitated around a new move,

0:56:05.280 --> 0:56:06.960
<v Speaker 1>or you have a partner who's really stressed about a

0:56:06.960 --> 0:56:09.480
<v Speaker 1>new move, even though it's exciting it should be exciting,

0:56:09.800 --> 0:56:12.239
<v Speaker 1>that that's perfectly normal because what they're experiencing is this

0:56:12.320 --> 0:56:15.520
<v Speaker 1>increase in agitation and alertness, and it also makes it

0:56:15.560 --> 0:56:19.360
<v Speaker 1>harder to enter deeply relax states because the brain is

0:56:19.360 --> 0:56:24.720
<v Speaker 1>in a mode of predictions, making predictions, what's happening next, thinking, thinking, thinking,

0:56:24.920 --> 0:56:27.160
<v Speaker 1>And one of the things that's key to falling asleep

0:56:27.200 --> 0:56:29.759
<v Speaker 1>each night and replenishing our ability to think and make

0:56:29.800 --> 0:56:32.759
<v Speaker 1>predictions is the ability to turn off thinking. This is

0:56:32.760 --> 0:56:34.719
<v Speaker 1>why I'm such a fan of what traditionally was called

0:56:34.800 --> 0:56:37.719
<v Speaker 1>yoga needro, which literally means yoga sleep lying down. It's

0:56:37.760 --> 0:56:40.480
<v Speaker 1>a form of meditation, as you know, and with breathing, etc.

0:56:41.880 --> 0:56:44.200
<v Speaker 1>I certainly I want to point out that I have

0:56:44.280 --> 0:56:47.799
<v Speaker 1>no desire to rename any of these ancient practices. These

0:56:47.800 --> 0:56:50.520
<v Speaker 1>are beautiful practices. They've been built up over thousands of years.

0:56:50.520 --> 0:56:54.239
<v Speaker 1>The reason I call sometimes batch yoga nidra with so

0:56:54.320 --> 0:56:58.440
<v Speaker 1>called NSDR non sleep deep rest is that, unfortunately, both

0:56:58.560 --> 0:57:02.799
<v Speaker 1>in science and intradition cultures around some of these behaviors,

0:57:03.000 --> 0:57:05.359
<v Speaker 1>the language has become a barrier for people to try them.

0:57:05.760 --> 0:57:09.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm not trying to wash away any of the wonderful

0:57:09.880 --> 0:57:11.879
<v Speaker 1>culture and tradition around these I want to be very

0:57:11.920 --> 0:57:15.399
<v Speaker 1>clear about that, but ultimately it's about accessing a state

0:57:15.440 --> 0:57:17.439
<v Speaker 1>of mind. As for anyone that's listened to a yoga

0:57:17.520 --> 0:57:19.680
<v Speaker 1>Niedra script, and I should say I do niitra every day.

0:57:19.720 --> 0:57:22.840
<v Speaker 1>I have for almost a decade now. It's without question,

0:57:23.480 --> 0:57:27.440
<v Speaker 1>along with viewing morning light, sunlight, the most powerful practice

0:57:27.480 --> 0:57:32.000
<v Speaker 1>I think I can recommend anyone. It is about, as

0:57:32.040 --> 0:57:34.400
<v Speaker 1>you always hear in a classic Kneedure script, you move

0:57:34.400 --> 0:57:37.919
<v Speaker 1>away from thinking and doing to being and feeling. Now

0:57:37.920 --> 0:57:39.880
<v Speaker 1>what is that If we take a neuroscience lens of me,

0:57:40.000 --> 0:57:41.720
<v Speaker 1>what is this thinking and doing, being and feeling. It's

0:57:41.720 --> 0:57:44.880
<v Speaker 1>about shutting down of the prefrontal cortex, which is making

0:57:44.960 --> 0:57:49.720
<v Speaker 1>predictions what's happening next. Right as we move into sleep,

0:57:49.720 --> 0:57:53.440
<v Speaker 1>you enter that kind of liminal state where things become disjointed. Right,

0:57:53.480 --> 0:57:54.920
<v Speaker 1>a cat flies through the room and then you might

0:57:54.960 --> 0:57:57.040
<v Speaker 1>jerk yourself awake, and it's kind of odd, but that's

0:57:57.240 --> 0:57:59.640
<v Speaker 1>the state of not thinking and doing and just being

0:57:59.760 --> 0:58:03.240
<v Speaker 1>and feeling being in one's pure somatic experience. So I

0:58:03.240 --> 0:58:08.720
<v Speaker 1>would say, in order to move through change, designate twenty

0:58:08.840 --> 0:58:12.000
<v Speaker 1>to thirty minutes each day to put the brain into

0:58:12.040 --> 0:58:15.840
<v Speaker 1>a state of non thinking, non doing, and into a

0:58:15.880 --> 0:58:19.800
<v Speaker 1>state of quote unquote being and feeling, so not making predictions. Now,

0:58:20.240 --> 0:58:23.280
<v Speaker 1>the tricky thing is when one is stressed. That's especially

0:58:23.280 --> 0:58:25.400
<v Speaker 1>hard to do. And this is why I think, what

0:58:25.560 --> 0:58:28.080
<v Speaker 1>is it? Technihan said, you know, what is that? Who said?

0:58:28.160 --> 0:58:32.080
<v Speaker 1>You know? Um? When stress? You know, I meditate every day,

0:58:32.120 --> 0:58:34.960
<v Speaker 1>but when stress, meditate twice as long as something like that,

0:58:36.000 --> 0:58:40.040
<v Speaker 1>when I don't think I have time. It's a skill.

0:58:40.200 --> 0:58:43.360
<v Speaker 1>And so this ability to turn off thinking enhances one's

0:58:43.360 --> 0:58:45.480
<v Speaker 1>ability to enter sleep, which is vital for mental and

0:58:45.480 --> 0:58:49.600
<v Speaker 1>physical health. Obviously, learning, et cetera. For reasons we discussed,

0:58:50.000 --> 0:58:54.640
<v Speaker 1>So develop the ability to deliberately disengage from thinking and

0:58:54.640 --> 0:58:58.400
<v Speaker 1>doing and do that during periods of low stress, right

0:58:58.480 --> 0:59:00.760
<v Speaker 1>twenty to thirty minutes a day, even ten minutes a

0:59:00.840 --> 0:59:04.560
<v Speaker 1>day of just learning, teaching oneself and practicing the art

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<v Speaker 1>of turning off prediction is an incredibly valuable skill. And

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<v Speaker 1>then the other one is to just understand that we're

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<v Speaker 1>being bombarded with contextual change all the time. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I love Instagram. I teach science on Instagram. I see

0:59:16.560 --> 0:59:20.080
<v Speaker 1>you there daily, and so scrolling on Instagram is an

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<v Speaker 1>interesting experience because in five minutes you can look at

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<v Speaker 1>a thousand different contexts. The human brain has never dealt

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<v Speaker 1>with that kind of change before. Even when television when

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<v Speaker 1>I was growing up, there were three or four good channels,

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<v Speaker 1>then it went to cable, and then now you get

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<v Speaker 1>onto an airplane or something, you got two hundred and

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<v Speaker 1>forty channels. That's a drop in the bucket compared to

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<v Speaker 1>what we can get in a social media feed. So

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<v Speaker 1>I think we just need to be aware that the

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<v Speaker 1>brain can work with that. But then what you're turning

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<v Speaker 1>on is an ability to walk into a new context

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<v Speaker 1>and figure it out the statistics. Imagine if an Instagram feed.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm not demonizing Instagram, I think they're wonderful. I

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<v Speaker 1>think they provide a wonderful resource. Truly. Imagine if we

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<v Speaker 1>walked out of this room and it was a completely

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<v Speaker 1>different landscape. It was a jungle. Then we turned the

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<v Speaker 1>corner and go into what I would think was the kitchen,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was the kitchen of the you know, of

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<v Speaker 1>some Thomas Keller restaurant in New York. Turn the corner

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<v Speaker 1>and all of a sudden, we're underwater. That's social media

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<v Speaker 1>and we can cope with that. So if I think

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<v Speaker 1>about it that way, then I think if we can

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<v Speaker 1>cope with that then we can cope with transitions in

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<v Speaker 1>so called real life with ease. Now, some people have

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<v Speaker 1>more situational awareness than others. They walk into an environment

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<v Speaker 1>and they're sensing all the things other people walk into

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<v Speaker 1>an environment, and they're very good at narrowing their attentional spotlight.

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<v Speaker 1>The latter group actually has a bit of an advantage.

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<v Speaker 1>They probably wouldn't be so good as a special operator

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<v Speaker 1>in the military that has to develop a situational advantage,

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<v Speaker 1>or a police officer or a teacher, but they're going

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<v Speaker 1>to be immensely good at one on one interactions because

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<v Speaker 1>they can make the room disappear. And so, but we

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<v Speaker 1>need both kinds of people, and we all need to

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<v Speaker 1>learn how to sort of brighten and broaden these attentional

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<v Speaker 1>spotlights and narrow them as well. And I'll just briefly

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<v Speaker 1>say we are old world primates, as it turns out,

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<v Speaker 1>and we have the capacity to do what's called covert attention. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I can pay attention to you, but I can also

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<v Speaker 1>notice that in my periphery there's something else going on.

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<v Speaker 1>So I've got two spotlights now, but I am dividing

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<v Speaker 1>my attention. We can't do three simultaneously. But what I

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<v Speaker 1>can also do is decide to merge those two spotlights

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<v Speaker 1>and intensify them and narrow the aperture of my visual

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<v Speaker 1>window and my auditory window. So we should always think

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<v Speaker 1>of our our attention is two spotlights that can be

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<v Speaker 1>very broad or it can be very narrowly focused, and

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<v Speaker 1>that we can overlap them. Yeah, and I think I

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<v Speaker 1>think we should all know how to do both. We

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<v Speaker 1>should learn how to narrow the aperture of our focus,

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<v Speaker 1>deeply engage, but also deliberately disengage. And the process of

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<v Speaker 1>falling asleep that we were talking about before is the

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<v Speaker 1>practice of learning how to take that attentional spotlight, move

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<v Speaker 1>those two apart, and then not dim them, but extend

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<v Speaker 1>that same luminosity out more broadly, more broadly, and then

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<v Speaker 1>we're off to sleep. So it's about deliberate control of

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<v Speaker 1>the nervous system. And unfortunately, we all know how to

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<v Speaker 1>focus on something if we're very stressed or excited by it.

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<v Speaker 1>Most people don't learn how to turn off this focus

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<v Speaker 1>and learn how to deliberately disengage. And one of my

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<v Speaker 1>great hopes for humanity is that children and adults will

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<v Speaker 1>learn how to deliberately disengage because it benefits sleep, which

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<v Speaker 1>benefits mental and physical health. And also, if you think

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<v Speaker 1>about it, most of the bad things that we do

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<v Speaker 1>to ourselves and others, and that people do to one

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<v Speaker 1>another most, not all, but most are from a heightened

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<v Speaker 1>state of reactivity where we're just not conscious. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>because our aperture, our window of attention is too narrow.

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<v Speaker 1>We're not taking in to account the full space end

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<v Speaker 1>time of what we're thinking about. And as a last point,

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<v Speaker 1>space and time are linked in the brain. If you

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<v Speaker 1>have a narrow visual focus, you tend to have a

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<v Speaker 1>narrow time slicing right, which makes sense if you think

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<v Speaker 1>about like a little kid watching ants on the ground

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<v Speaker 1>and then gets called into dinner and all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 1>the way you batch time is different. When you're sleepy,

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<v Speaker 1>you tend to batch things in big blocks okay, or

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<v Speaker 1>when you're bored, big blocks of time. When you're very excited,

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<v Speaker 1>stressed or happily excited, you're in that fast frame rate.

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<v Speaker 1>You've gone from sixty frames per second, which I think

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<v Speaker 1>is a typical smartphone to a thousand frames per second. Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're catching all the micro nuances, but you're missing

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<v Speaker 1>everything else. And what I find most interesting about that though,

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<v Speaker 1>And I want to study a few years ago and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if it I don't know, I can't

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<v Speaker 1>remember where it's from, but it said something along the

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<v Speaker 1>lines of that Today, in twenty four hours, we're exposed

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<v Speaker 1>to more tragedy through the news or pain or stress,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever word we want to label that as. Then we

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<v Speaker 1>were in my entire lifetime twenty five years ago. I think, sadly, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I have to agree. Yeah. And what I

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<v Speaker 1>found also was that what you're saying, and I love

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<v Speaker 1>this idea of we have these two points of focus

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<v Speaker 1>and putting it together or bringing out, which I think

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<v Speaker 1>is fantastic as a visual too. There's an element though

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<v Speaker 1>that really draws us in of judgment and criticism, like

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<v Speaker 1>I find judgment. I'm using judgment as the overall word.

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<v Speaker 1>Criticism is a very specific word. But what really makes

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<v Speaker 1>something harder, like when we're processing thousand posts on Instagram,

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<v Speaker 1>the most difficult part is when judgment comes in, whether

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<v Speaker 1>it's positive or negative, because that's what draws you in.

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<v Speaker 1>And I find that we have more things to judge,

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<v Speaker 1>and to make that many judgments in a day is

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<v Speaker 1>quite exhausting, and then to be exhausted by the number

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<v Speaker 1>of tragic or stressful moments that we experience. And like

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<v Speaker 1>you said that, you know, it's okay if we're on

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<v Speaker 1>Instagram we're seeing multiple things or where it's seeing this kitchen,

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<v Speaker 1>into this animation, into this world. But when a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of it is painful to deliberately disengage, but the main

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<v Speaker 1>connected to reality, I feel like that's somewhere where people

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<v Speaker 1>feel like they're in Nomad's then yeah, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's a particular challenge now with the number of

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<v Speaker 1>images and movies that can come at us. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that here, I I'm not one to usually

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<v Speaker 1>talk like this, but I think much of building a

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<v Speaker 1>good life is about both honoring and challenging the asymmetries

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<v Speaker 1>of our nervous system. What I mean by that is,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, everything we've talked about up until now are

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<v Speaker 1>wired into us from birth. We have dopamine, F and

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<v Speaker 1>FER in these circuitries. We can attentional spotlight that all

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<v Speaker 1>we show up in the world with that, and we

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<v Speaker 1>have to work with them. We also need to acknowledge

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<v Speaker 1>that there is an asymmetry to learning. You know before

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<v Speaker 1>we talked about the gap effects and the two stage

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<v Speaker 1>process of neuroplasticity. There are exceptions. The exception is learning

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<v Speaker 1>of negative things. You only have to touch the hot

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<v Speaker 1>stove once, or the metaphorically speaking, the hot stove only

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<v Speaker 1>has to touch you once before it changes you. So

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<v Speaker 1>there's one trial learning of negative experiences. Now, once we

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<v Speaker 1>understand that asymmetry, and once we understand that negativity actually

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<v Speaker 1>has a bit of a stronghold on our nervous system,

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<v Speaker 1>then we accept I would hope we would accept the

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<v Speaker 1>idea that then we have to work a little harder

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<v Speaker 1>to counter that, or maybe a lot harder. In the

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<v Speaker 1>same way that so called highly palatable foods, which is

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<v Speaker 1>now because it kind of signs geek speak for unhealthy,

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<v Speaker 1>highly processed foods, because there's some you know, I do

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<v Speaker 1>love fruits and vegetables, and there's some wonderful baked goods.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's I love croissants. So I don't want to highly

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<v Speaker 1>palatable foods. But but I think we could all do

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<v Speaker 1>well to eat healthier foods, and they are not as

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<v Speaker 1>rewarding in the short term as some of these highly

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<v Speaker 1>palatable foods, right and especially to the young nervous system.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, there's you know, a milkshaker or candy just

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<v Speaker 1>taste better to these kids than vegetables for reasons that

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<v Speaker 1>are hardwired into the nervous system. But we know that

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<v Speaker 1>kids need their fruits and vegetables probably more than they

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<v Speaker 1>need candy. Okay, So we have to all learn to

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<v Speaker 1>counter these built in asymmetries in our nervous system. And

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<v Speaker 1>as adults, we probably thought we had it made, but

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<v Speaker 1>then now we're bombarded with all this negative imagery. And

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<v Speaker 1>so the key is really the symbols that we were

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<v Speaker 1>talking about earlier, to really build in positive symbols and

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<v Speaker 1>internal symbolic representations. What I mean by that not just

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<v Speaker 1>physical things in our environment and people, but also how

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<v Speaker 1>we hold those things inside is so important. I think

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<v Speaker 1>this is what comes to this notion of intentions. It's

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<v Speaker 1>work right right life and right action and all these

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<v Speaker 1>things that we hear about. It's work. It's working against

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<v Speaker 1>the tide that is pulling us toward negativity. That's in fact,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a study that was done in the sixties. It

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<v Speaker 1>was published in the journal Science. There's an excellent journal,

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<v Speaker 1>and the Apex journals had people with stimulating electrodes in

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<v Speaker 1>their brain for reasons related to neurosurgery. These people could

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<v Speaker 1>stimulate multiple areas of their brain one at a time,

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<v Speaker 1>and they reported how they felt. So that the human

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<v Speaker 1>would stimulate and they'd feel drunk, where they'd stimulate another

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<v Speaker 1>area and they'd feel happy. They'd stimulate another area they'd

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<v Speaker 1>feel sad. The fascinating We learned a lot about the

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<v Speaker 1>human brain from these studies. The brain area that people

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<v Speaker 1>preferred to stimulate the most. This is really gonna upset

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<v Speaker 1>a few people was the one that led to anger

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<v Speaker 1>and frustration. And you think to yourself, well, that's just terrible.

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<v Speaker 1>Are we just doomed? Right? No, It turns out the

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<v Speaker 1>anger and frustration is a signal to the brain and

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<v Speaker 1>body that you need to do something in response to that.

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<v Speaker 1>Usually move away or move forward and sort of enter

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<v Speaker 1>an aggressive state. Knowing that trained, right, that's like habit

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<v Speaker 1>that probably comes through and habit. I think this is

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<v Speaker 1>why people I'd spend more time on Instagram than I

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<v Speaker 1>do on other social media platforms. But listen, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>embarrassed to say you go on Twitter and it's a

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<v Speaker 1>more combative zone. It's just the nature of the beast

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<v Speaker 1>there it's a more combative zone, in part because there

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<v Speaker 1>are a lot of academics on there. It's more combative.

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<v Speaker 1>So I notice if I log on to Twitter, I

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<v Speaker 1>already get a little bit of an adrenaline surge, just like,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, you're ready to fight, and just knowing that

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<v Speaker 1>we have this innate bias towards frustration and anger and

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<v Speaker 1>that kind of friction. Hopefully, my wish is that it

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<v Speaker 1>will allow people to relax around that and to realize, ah,

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<v Speaker 1>this is sort of like the food that I immediately

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<v Speaker 1>want to reach for. That's the kind of dopamine signal

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<v Speaker 1>that you were talking about early on. But how am

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<v Speaker 1>I going to feel afterwards? Yes? How am I going

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<v Speaker 1>to feel afterwards? And I would say that ninety nine

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<v Speaker 1>percent of online interactions where people end up in these

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<v Speaker 1>ridiculous battles, later both parties probably think, well, how did

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<v Speaker 1>I get wrapped up in that? It's absolutely crazy. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>you think you're scoring slam dunks on each other at

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<v Speaker 1>the time, but it's ridiculous. So I think the thing

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<v Speaker 1>to understand is that we have these asymmetries, but that

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<v Speaker 1>we can learn to work with them the way that

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<v Speaker 1>a really I think a really incredible psychiatrist. He's done

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of work on trauma. Paul Conti describes it

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<v Speaker 1>in a different context. Is that um and he's like,

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<v Speaker 1>into my mind, the expert on trauma and just just

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<v Speaker 1>done beautiful work. Is that it's like those little kids

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<v Speaker 1>toys where there's a little ball bearing moving around in

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<v Speaker 1>a maze, he describes to me. So this is all

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<v Speaker 1>Paul Kanti's an MD, and this is his work, not

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<v Speaker 1>mine his words. You know, there are times in which

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<v Speaker 1>we are like that game where just a slight shift

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<v Speaker 1>and all of a sudden the ball bearing goes down

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<v Speaker 1>the shoote. And what we should all be striving for

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<v Speaker 1>is for you know, slightly concave and for it to

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<v Speaker 1>kind of maybe move around a bit with the with

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<v Speaker 1>the events of life and what we hear and see.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what we should be striving toward. And that takes work.

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<v Speaker 1>Some people are naturally there, but very few people are

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<v Speaker 1>naturally there. But this is the power of meditation. This

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<v Speaker 1>is the power of non sleep deep rest. This is

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<v Speaker 1>the power of good sleep or most nights. This is

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<v Speaker 1>the power of excellent social relationships. This is the power

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<v Speaker 1>of mindsets and intentions, that stuff, gratitude practices, none of

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<v Speaker 1>that stuff is weak. All of that stuff acts as

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<v Speaker 1>a kind of a foundation from which we can approach

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<v Speaker 1>things and go, Yeah, the pulses to get pretty upset

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<v Speaker 1>about that, but I'm going to lean away from that.

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<v Speaker 1>Very hard to do when we're not tending to that.

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<v Speaker 1>Those foundational elements actually quite easy to do over time,

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<v Speaker 1>because it gives us the perspective. And I think that

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<v Speaker 1>if we understand that we're being bombarded with this, it's

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<v Speaker 1>like being at a buffet of junk food. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>understanding that somewhere in that buffet is really nutritious food,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's what we should be aiming for and learning

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<v Speaker 1>to kind of override the natural signals of oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>really want that, and I really want that by thinking

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<v Speaker 1>about exactly what you said earlier, which is how am

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<v Speaker 1>I going to feel afterward being and what's that that's

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<v Speaker 1>dilating our perception of time. We're getting out of that

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<v Speaker 1>slave to dopamine mode and we're starting to think about, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to let dopamine control me. I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to control dopamine. And that's powerful. Yeah, Well that sparks

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<v Speaker 1>for me, is Also, this idea that I've been in

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<v Speaker 1>love with for a while is fragility and strength and

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<v Speaker 1>how not being exposed to something doesn't protect you, but

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<v Speaker 1>it makes you. Weaka, it absolutely does. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>nowadays there's a big interest in so called dopamine fasts.

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<v Speaker 1>I think they have their place. You know, if people

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<v Speaker 1>have been engaging in things that are high dopamine evoking behaviors,

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<v Speaker 1>there is a place for this. This is one of

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<v Speaker 1>the routes to sobriety. Beautiful work by my colleague at Stanford,

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<v Speaker 1>doctor Anna Lemky. She wrote Dopamine Nation, incredible book about

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<v Speaker 1>dopamine in the context of addiction, but all kinds of addiction.

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<v Speaker 1>She talks about this, there is a role for dopamine fast.

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<v Speaker 1>Really moving away from intensely pleasurable activities for about thirty

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<v Speaker 1>days is necessary for some people to reset. But it's

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<v Speaker 1>naive for any of us to think that then you

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<v Speaker 1>go back into the world and you're not being bombarded

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<v Speaker 1>with temptation of different kinds. I mean, the whole idea

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<v Speaker 1>is to bring the system back into balance so that

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<v Speaker 1>you can notice the subtle inflections, right, I guess the

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<v Speaker 1>meditators and Yogi's I always loved the language they use,

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<v Speaker 1>would be the kind of subtle after meditation, you can

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<v Speaker 1>notice the kind of subtle ripples in life, right, Whereas

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<v Speaker 1>if you're just hard charging all the time, you miss

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<v Speaker 1>so much. Again I'm using in the yeah, yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>I think that so dopamine fast have their place, but

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<v Speaker 1>better to have your hands on the steering wheel, accelerator

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<v Speaker 1>and break of all these mechanisms and to go through.

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<v Speaker 1>It's only when you know the car has been wrecked

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<v Speaker 1>that it needs to go into the repair shop. Most

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<v Speaker 1>of us don't need a dopamine fast. We need to

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<v Speaker 1>understand how dopamine works. We need to do exactly what

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<v Speaker 1>you described earlier, which is to extend the time domain

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<v Speaker 1>so that we think about am I getting dopamine later also?

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<v Speaker 1>Or is this just a quick up and down kind

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<v Speaker 1>of event. Then I think we can move through life

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<v Speaker 1>in a much more adaptive way. And then you mentioned

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<v Speaker 1>obviously when you're talking about relationships. You know, we talked

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<v Speaker 1>about how dopamine is there at the beginning, but then

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<v Speaker 1>we talk about serotonin and oxytocin these inner feelings, which

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<v Speaker 1>I love that description also of like how dopamine is

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<v Speaker 1>the pursuit of external things and oxytocin and serotonin about

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<v Speaker 1>how we feel what we have. I think that was

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<v Speaker 1>another great visual And I love how you speak in

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<v Speaker 1>symbols more than you know, like there you know it's

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<v Speaker 1>I really everything you've been sharing today, I can visualize it,

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<v Speaker 1>and I really enjoy visual learning. And so when you

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<v Speaker 1>were speaking earlier about how you can visualize a symbol

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<v Speaker 1>even if you don't have it physically, and even when

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<v Speaker 1>you said that to them, I'm like, Oh, that's really

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<v Speaker 1>fascinating that dopamine is that oxytocin and serotonin. Is this

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<v Speaker 1>with oxytocin and serotonin, we know that a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>the habits you just mentioned they are what create this balance. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>So the reason why people doing about decreasing dopamine, I guess,

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<v Speaker 1>is because we've noticed that dopamine is shooting through the

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<v Speaker 1>roof and often what we do for oxytonin, oxytocin and

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<v Speaker 1>serotonin and not really that balanced across the board. What

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<v Speaker 1>are Let's look at relationships and go is there a

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<v Speaker 1>need to have dopamine in long term relationships or are

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<v Speaker 1>serotonin and oxytocin enough and not just relationships That applies

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<v Speaker 1>to Korea. It applies applies to everything I feel. Yeah. Absolutely.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a wonderful book about this written by a psychoanalyst

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<v Speaker 1>in a slightly different context. The book the title of

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<v Speaker 1>the book is Can Love Last? And it's an interesting books.

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<v Speaker 1>It operates on the premise that when we first meet

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<v Speaker 1>somebody and we want this in the context of romantic relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>and we desire romantic relationship with them, it's very much

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<v Speaker 1>about objectification of the other person. And I don't mean

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<v Speaker 1>objectification in the traditional sense. But we don't rely on

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<v Speaker 1>them yet, right, We only rely on the ability to

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<v Speaker 1>pursue and get them right or for them for us

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<v Speaker 1>to pursue them exactly, But we don't rely on them

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<v Speaker 1>for safety at all. If that evolves to become a

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<v Speaker 1>romantic relationship right with trust, then what happens is there's

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<v Speaker 1>a true dependency there. If one person were to leave

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<v Speaker 1>for any reason, die or leave or cheat or break up,

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<v Speaker 1>it is truly devastating to the safety mechanisms of the

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<v Speaker 1>brain and body. Right. It's a reactivation actually of a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of the machinery that was designed for attachment between

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<v Speaker 1>infant and parent. Right is it just as an important

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<v Speaker 1>aside all the work on an attachment that was done

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<v Speaker 1>by Bowlby and Maine and others in psychology of taking

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<v Speaker 1>deliberately taking babies away from their mothers and then reuniting

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<v Speaker 1>them and evaluating the responses batching them into different All

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<v Speaker 1>that circuitry isn't lost as we grow up. It's repurposed

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<v Speaker 1>for a romantic attachment. There's no question about that, no

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<v Speaker 1>question about that. We just operated into different domains of

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<v Speaker 1>anxiety becomes about waiting for a text message as opposed

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<v Speaker 1>to mother to come back in the room or nursing, etc.

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<v Speaker 1>So same circuitry reapplied. As we advance into relationships, we

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<v Speaker 1>become more dependent on people. But the idea, and that

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<v Speaker 1>it's touched on quite a lot in this book Can

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<v Speaker 1>Love Last, is that there is a need from time

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<v Speaker 1>to time in some relationships to bring the dopamine element

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<v Speaker 1>back in. Now certain cultures have actually built this in

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<v Speaker 1>in a very strategic way of actually having men and

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<v Speaker 1>women not physically contact one another for several weeks out

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<v Speaker 1>of each month in order to maintain the kind of

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<v Speaker 1>quote unquote excitement of a relationship. Nowadays, we tend to

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<v Speaker 1>have this model of lover and best friend and sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>even business partner right, which for some people can work

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<v Speaker 1>and for other people can quash all the excitement. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>It really depends, and especially nowadays where people are working

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<v Speaker 1>a lot more from home, there isn't a tendency for

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<v Speaker 1>people to spend much time apart and to miss one another.

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<v Speaker 1>Missing one another the yearning for the other person is

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<v Speaker 1>a beautiful thing. It's a painful, but beautiful thing. What

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<v Speaker 1>is that yearning? That yearning is the pain of the

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<v Speaker 1>lack of dopamine and serotonin. Actually just came back from

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<v Speaker 1>a trip and we were visiting a couple friends of

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<v Speaker 1>ours and they said it was right beautiful. They said

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<v Speaker 1>they've been together a long time. They said they've had

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<v Speaker 1>three nights apart in their entire relationship, and one of

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<v Speaker 1>them got sick during that time apart. And I thought,

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<v Speaker 1>that's beautiful. Now, for some people, that's a beautiful model.

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<v Speaker 1>For other people that would be excessive, and it actually

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<v Speaker 1>could eliminate a number of the positive neurochemical features of

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<v Speaker 1>the relationship. And there's a lot of variation around this.

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<v Speaker 1>So dopamine is required to quote unquote re up the

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<v Speaker 1>excitement in a relationship. How is that achieved well? Dopamine

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<v Speaker 1>is the molecule, as you recall, of reward, predictionary of novelty.

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<v Speaker 1>So doing things that are not expected is great. Routine

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<v Speaker 1>is great for serotonin and oxytocin predictability, Routine predictability, same thing, safety, routine, predictability,

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<v Speaker 1>serotonin oxytocin system, no question about it. Dopamine is the

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<v Speaker 1>neurochemical of novelty and pursuing new things. So for couples

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<v Speaker 1>that are very set in their ways and feel very

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<v Speaker 1>safe and homey together wonderful, but creating ways in which

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<v Speaker 1>they miss one another, or creating new experiences for them

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<v Speaker 1>to kind of re up, the dopamine in the relationship

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<v Speaker 1>can have a tremendously positive effect. And I look forward

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<v Speaker 1>to a day where neuroscience is actually incorporated into relationship

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<v Speaker 1>design and an intelligent and respectful way that they're respectful,

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<v Speaker 1>meaning that their differences. But we see a lot that

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<v Speaker 1>people will just go out and get a new relationship, right.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm of the mind that us you know, it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>dangerous situation, better to probably avoid divorce, right, certainly for

1:19:05.920 --> 1:19:08.839
<v Speaker 1>sake of children. Sometime I've heard, of course, that divorces

1:19:08.840 --> 1:19:11.799
<v Speaker 1>can rescue relationships too. I understand there's a lot of nuance,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think everyone would prefer emotionally, financially, etc. To

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<v Speaker 1>be able to be in a great relationship for a

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<v Speaker 1>long period of time. And so I think that understanding

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<v Speaker 1>that the push pull between dopamine and serotonin is key.

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<v Speaker 1>And just to remember that missing someone 'earning for someone

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<v Speaker 1>is the anticipation of how great it's going to feel

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<v Speaker 1>when together. I think that that could that could go

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<v Speaker 1>a long way. And also for people that get very,

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<v Speaker 1>very very excited about the new person the new thing,

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<v Speaker 1>just be wary that not everyone's dopamine system works the

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<v Speaker 1>same way. And with dopamine, it's great to have increases

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<v Speaker 1>in dopamine, but where it passes a threshold and it's

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<v Speaker 1>very big peaks. Where there's a peak, there's a crash,

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<v Speaker 1>and the crash is always asymmetrically deeper than the peak.

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<v Speaker 1>There is no way around this. And learn to temper

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<v Speaker 1>the excitement if you're an excitable person, yeah, and I

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<v Speaker 1>would say learn to ramp up the excitement a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit if you're somebody who's not so easily overwhelmed. Yeah, definitely.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean me and my wife, we've been married for

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<v Speaker 1>six years, and nearly together for ten which you seem

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<v Speaker 1>to have an amazing from the X from the album Yea,

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<v Speaker 1>I would say I always like to clarify that I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think you know. I grew up wanting a Hollywood

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<v Speaker 1>romance and my views of love were defined by movies

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<v Speaker 1>and music, and I realize that is not what love

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<v Speaker 1>looks like at all. And my wife has been a

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<v Speaker 1>great teacher to me in that space of showing me

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<v Speaker 1>what a beautiful relationship can look like. But it doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>look like how we think it is. And I think

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<v Speaker 1>often when people see me and my wife, they may

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<v Speaker 1>think we have that version two and I would just

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very careful about the idea that we have a

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<v Speaker 1>fantastic relationship, but it isn't fantastic for the reasons that

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<v Speaker 1>TV or movies has convinced us that relationships are good.

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<v Speaker 1>But we spend around three months apart every single year,

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<v Speaker 1>not by design or it's just by work and life.

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<v Speaker 1>And I haven't seen my wife for the last three months.

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<v Speaker 1>It will be one more month before I see it.

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<v Speaker 1>So the yearning is real. I cannot wait to see it.

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<v Speaker 1>But at the same time I get to focus on myself.

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<v Speaker 1>I get to have a loan time. I get to

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<v Speaker 1>refill and refuel myself. I get to discover new parts

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<v Speaker 1>of my identity. I get to learn a new skill

1:21:18.280 --> 1:21:20.040
<v Speaker 1>like so many healthy And of course we don't have

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<v Speaker 1>children yet, so we don't have that responsibility. But going

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<v Speaker 1>to what you said, I see so much value in

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<v Speaker 1>in how we can be open to these ideas. I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's the point that it's not about there's one

1:21:33.360 --> 1:21:36.240
<v Speaker 1>size fit soul or one right way. But I want

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<v Speaker 1>to shift Andrew with our conversation to something you brought

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<v Speaker 1>up earlier, because and if you don't feel comfortable to talking,

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<v Speaker 1>why we don't. But I heard and I've become aware

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<v Speaker 1>that you are. You have tattoos, have symbols. Yeah. Tim

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<v Speaker 1>Ferris outed me on his podcast. Yeah, thanks to Tim,

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah I do. I UM. You know, I grew up

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<v Speaker 1>a child of an academic and um. But then when

1:21:59.240 --> 1:22:01.880
<v Speaker 1>I was a teenager, I got involved in skateboarding, punk

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<v Speaker 1>rock music. I saw a lot of friends in that world.

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<v Speaker 1>So the photographer for our podcast is from DC and

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<v Speaker 1>Nike Skateboarding, Mike Blayback. Of good friends in that world,

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<v Speaker 1>become friendly with guys like Danny Way and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's amazing, one of the greatest skateboarders of all time,

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<v Speaker 1>by the way, I mean, he and I aren't close friends,

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<v Speaker 1>but we become friendly, and for me that's you know,

1:22:21.560 --> 1:22:24.479
<v Speaker 1>I grew up in that, and yeah, those were cultures

1:22:24.479 --> 1:22:25.960
<v Speaker 1>that made a lot of sense to me given where

1:22:25.960 --> 1:22:27.880
<v Speaker 1>I was at the time, and they have always felt

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<v Speaker 1>to me like my first non biological family. So I

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<v Speaker 1>started getting tattooed pretty young, too young. And I will

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<v Speaker 1>say to all of those out there they're thinking about it,

1:22:36.720 --> 1:22:41.000
<v Speaker 1>think carefully, Yeah it is they are permanent. Things have

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<v Speaker 1>changed around this. I always cover up my tattoos for

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<v Speaker 1>the following reason when when doing public facing work, which

1:22:47.439 --> 1:22:51.400
<v Speaker 1>is that generally when I'm trying to teach in roal science,

1:22:51.760 --> 1:22:55.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to download ideas and transmit them. So I

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<v Speaker 1>just want to avoid any distractions about the symbols that

1:22:58.320 --> 1:23:00.640
<v Speaker 1>are meaningful to me because they just aren't relevant in

1:23:00.680 --> 1:23:04.040
<v Speaker 1>that context. I have a good friend who explained it

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<v Speaker 1>this way. He said, well, you know, maybe tattoos should

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<v Speaker 1>be an important part of the hiring process because rather

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<v Speaker 1>than covering them up, if you have a lot of tattoos,

1:23:11.160 --> 1:23:12.640
<v Speaker 1>it is evidence that you can sit still for a

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<v Speaker 1>long period of time while in intense pains. I'll also

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<v Speaker 1>say this, I was fortunate to know good tattoo or

1:23:19.080 --> 1:23:21.200
<v Speaker 1>its a good tattoo. There are there's a range out

1:23:21.240 --> 1:23:25.200
<v Speaker 1>there and and along the lines of them being permanent.

1:23:25.200 --> 1:23:27.519
<v Speaker 1>I will also say that black and gray lasts longer,

1:23:27.560 --> 1:23:31.760
<v Speaker 1>doesn't fade than color. So so what's your most h

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<v Speaker 1>what's the symbol on your body? And I'm sure you

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<v Speaker 1>have many, but if you were to pick one, not

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<v Speaker 1>your favorite, but one that feels really meaningful right now

1:23:40.800 --> 1:23:42.840
<v Speaker 1>in your life. Yeah. Well, first of all, it's funny

1:23:42.840 --> 1:23:44.640
<v Speaker 1>because people often will say, what are you going to

1:23:44.680 --> 1:23:46.439
<v Speaker 1>do when you're like sixty or sixty five? You got

1:23:46.479 --> 1:23:48.280
<v Speaker 1>all these tattoos, and I just think, okay, Well, first

1:23:48.280 --> 1:23:50.280
<v Speaker 1>of all, and I'm incentive to stay in shape. And

1:23:50.280 --> 1:23:53.040
<v Speaker 1>the second of all, um, you know, I actually worry

1:23:53.040 --> 1:23:55.200
<v Speaker 1>about them disappearing because then I have to have them

1:23:55.200 --> 1:23:58.160
<v Speaker 1>all redone and they're pretty painful. A long time, I

1:23:58.160 --> 1:24:01.320
<v Speaker 1>got a lot of them, so a long time. It's

1:24:01.360 --> 1:24:06.200
<v Speaker 1>been twenty five years or more of getting tattooed. So, um,

1:24:06.680 --> 1:24:08.439
<v Speaker 1>I can't pick just one. But I do have a

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<v Speaker 1>picture of my bulldog Mastiff Costello and a pop print

1:24:12.520 --> 1:24:15.400
<v Speaker 1>of his life size or actual size. And I loved

1:24:15.439 --> 1:24:18.280
<v Speaker 1>that dog. I had to put him down. Um while, yeah,

1:24:18.320 --> 1:24:19.960
<v Speaker 1>and it was just you know, the last line in

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<v Speaker 1>the contract of good dog ownership is that you're going

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<v Speaker 1>to put him down before there and suffering. And it

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<v Speaker 1>was a It actually turned out to be a beautiful transition.

1:24:27.680 --> 1:24:30.519
<v Speaker 1>I did it, you know, in a beautiful location. He

1:24:30.600 --> 1:24:32.360
<v Speaker 1>went easy. And I don't want to talk about too

1:24:32.400 --> 1:24:34.360
<v Speaker 1>long because I'll cry out of love. I noticed I

1:24:34.960 --> 1:24:38.000
<v Speaker 1>still cry when I think about him, but it's not sadness.

1:24:38.040 --> 1:24:40.599
<v Speaker 1>It took me like three months to realize. I was like,

1:24:40.720 --> 1:24:42.720
<v Speaker 1>I always cry when I talk about Costello. Where I

1:24:42.760 --> 1:24:44.479
<v Speaker 1>want to cry, and I realize it's because I love him.

1:24:44.680 --> 1:24:47.240
<v Speaker 1>The feeling isn't sad. He just he had such an

1:24:47.240 --> 1:24:52.360
<v Speaker 1>incredible that's that symbol, that physical and anyone that knows me,

1:24:52.439 --> 1:24:56.160
<v Speaker 1>I loved that dog like crazy. So there's that one

1:24:56.240 --> 1:24:58.200
<v Speaker 1>and then um and I don't want to focus on

1:24:58.240 --> 1:25:00.960
<v Speaker 1>negative things, but again, it's a feeling love. I talked

1:25:00.960 --> 1:25:03.920
<v Speaker 1>about these three advisors that I had earlier. I was

1:25:04.000 --> 1:25:09.360
<v Speaker 1>blessed with amazing advisors, and sadly first one died a suicide,

1:25:09.360 --> 1:25:11.400
<v Speaker 1>second one cancer, who I was very close to my

1:25:11.439 --> 1:25:14.519
<v Speaker 1>third one cancer, so that the morbid joke among people

1:25:14.520 --> 1:25:15.880
<v Speaker 1>that know me is you don't want me to work

1:25:15.920 --> 1:25:18.559
<v Speaker 1>for you. Now I can make that joke because all

1:25:18.600 --> 1:25:21.160
<v Speaker 1>three of them had an incredible spirit about life. So

1:25:21.240 --> 1:25:23.599
<v Speaker 1>I actually have all of their initials or symbols of

1:25:23.640 --> 1:25:26.639
<v Speaker 1>them tattooed on my body and I miss them every day.

1:25:26.800 --> 1:25:28.840
<v Speaker 1>But I also, you know, I think there is something

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<v Speaker 1>powerful to embedding something in your body. Some people wear pendants, obviously,

1:25:33.720 --> 1:25:38.639
<v Speaker 1>some people decide to get tattoos, and you know, I've

1:25:38.640 --> 1:25:40.559
<v Speaker 1>been encouraged at times people like, you know, just show

1:25:40.600 --> 1:25:42.360
<v Speaker 1>your tattoos, be out there with them. I want to

1:25:42.360 --> 1:25:44.120
<v Speaker 1>be very clear, I'm not ashamed of them at all.

1:25:44.160 --> 1:25:47.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm proud of them. But yeah, but for me, if

1:25:47.920 --> 1:25:50.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm teaching or I'm trying to be an educator, I

1:25:50.280 --> 1:25:53.960
<v Speaker 1>really want to emphasize the information. I also think, listen

1:25:53.960 --> 1:25:56.000
<v Speaker 1>to the world's a complicated place and we can't always

1:25:56.040 --> 1:25:59.160
<v Speaker 1>control people's interpretations of why we do things. So for

1:25:59.240 --> 1:26:02.080
<v Speaker 1>the young people they're thinking about getting tattoos, um just

1:26:02.240 --> 1:26:04.599
<v Speaker 1>understand that's the world we live in. Although I think

1:26:04.680 --> 1:26:07.960
<v Speaker 1>nowadays people are more accepting. So, yeah, thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>sharing both. Yea, thank you. I wanted that more. I

1:26:10.680 --> 1:26:14.559
<v Speaker 1>I just appreciate hearing about because we spoke about symbols

1:26:14.600 --> 1:26:17.200
<v Speaker 1>and yeah, and that for that reason, I really wanted

1:26:17.200 --> 1:26:19.720
<v Speaker 1>to understand the symbols that you know, Yeah, for me,

1:26:19.800 --> 1:26:23.920
<v Speaker 1>something about having you know, um, having experiences that I've

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<v Speaker 1>externalized to the surface of my body. It feels right,

1:26:26.320 --> 1:26:28.280
<v Speaker 1>it's weird. They feel like my skin now. Yeah, I

1:26:28.280 --> 1:26:30.680
<v Speaker 1>feel like birth marks. I never look at and I

1:26:30.720 --> 1:26:32.080
<v Speaker 1>know we won't get up in the morning look at

1:26:32.080 --> 1:26:33.800
<v Speaker 1>the mirror and go like there's a tattoo, and there's

1:26:33.800 --> 1:26:36.720
<v Speaker 1>a tattoo. Normally I just think like, oh, yeah, Like

1:26:36.920 --> 1:26:38.960
<v Speaker 1>it's just it just kind of becomes part of you,

1:26:39.360 --> 1:26:42.920
<v Speaker 1>as you know, because obviously you Yeah, I already have three.

1:26:42.960 --> 1:26:44.680
<v Speaker 1>I had a plan. It's not the number, it's the

1:26:44.960 --> 1:26:47.799
<v Speaker 1>I hadn't plan to have my whole upper buddy tattooed

1:26:47.840 --> 1:26:50.040
<v Speaker 1>when I was younger, and then I became a monk.

1:26:50.120 --> 1:26:52.599
<v Speaker 1>So I haven't had any since. Yeah, but up un

1:26:52.600 --> 1:26:55.200
<v Speaker 1>cycle my first when I was sixteen, second when I

1:26:55.240 --> 1:26:56.840
<v Speaker 1>was eighteen, and then lost one when I was like

1:26:56.880 --> 1:26:58.800
<v Speaker 1>twenty one, Okay, and I did them all and then

1:26:58.800 --> 1:27:00.160
<v Speaker 1>I would gave them monk and then I haven't had

1:27:00.200 --> 1:27:02.280
<v Speaker 1>any since. And my wife's been the other way around,

1:27:02.280 --> 1:27:04.360
<v Speaker 1>Like since we've been married, she's had like she had

1:27:04.400 --> 1:27:06.439
<v Speaker 1>one before we married. I had like seven more. So

1:27:06.560 --> 1:27:09.200
<v Speaker 1>she's Yeah, it's like I don't wear any jewelry except

1:27:09.200 --> 1:27:11.519
<v Speaker 1>to watch. But yeah, tattoos for me have been. UM,

1:27:11.600 --> 1:27:14.080
<v Speaker 1>it's been a fun journey. And I'm forty six years

1:27:14.120 --> 1:27:16.600
<v Speaker 1>old now, so I plan to keep going. You know.

1:27:16.680 --> 1:27:19.920
<v Speaker 1>I love that. Yeah, there's there's at this point, it's um,

1:27:19.960 --> 1:27:23.599
<v Speaker 1>it's I suppose it's neuroplasticity. It's built into me. Andrew,

1:27:23.640 --> 1:27:28.000
<v Speaker 1>you have been so kind gracious with your time. I

1:27:28.040 --> 1:27:32.640
<v Speaker 1>am you know, I've always known how phenomenally intelligent and

1:27:33.160 --> 1:27:36.800
<v Speaker 1>smart and sharp and deeply studied you are. But I'm

1:27:36.800 --> 1:27:38.680
<v Speaker 1>really grateful I got to experience your heart today in

1:27:38.680 --> 1:27:42.960
<v Speaker 1>so many ways, and to me that that beautiful synergy

1:27:43.040 --> 1:27:47.519
<v Speaker 1>you have is really meaningful to me to experience. I'm

1:27:47.560 --> 1:27:52.160
<v Speaker 1>so grateful to you for being here, for taking the time,

1:27:52.280 --> 1:27:54.000
<v Speaker 1>for for being We've been in touch for a couple

1:27:54.000 --> 1:27:56.759
<v Speaker 1>of years, maybe even it's been or you know, through messaging,

1:27:56.800 --> 1:27:59.200
<v Speaker 1>but to really experience you in full today has been

1:27:59.320 --> 1:28:02.439
<v Speaker 1>been a treat for me. We end every own Purpose

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<v Speaker 1>episode with a final five. These have to be answered

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<v Speaker 1>in one word to one sentence maximum, which for this

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<v Speaker 1>academic might be a bit but we will try so

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<v Speaker 1>Andrew hum and these are your final five. The first

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<v Speaker 1>question is what is the best advice you've ever received

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<v Speaker 1>in any area of life? Know thyself? The oracle said that,

1:28:22.880 --> 1:28:26.160
<v Speaker 1>and it's absolutely true. We have to be good scientists

1:28:26.160 --> 1:28:32.960
<v Speaker 1>of ourselves and understand where we have talents, competency, end

1:28:33.040 --> 1:28:36.200
<v Speaker 1>or challenges and then work with those beautiful all right.

1:28:36.280 --> 1:28:39.400
<v Speaker 1>Second question, what is the worst advice you've ever received?

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<v Speaker 1>Ahead that everything is just experience, you know, the idea

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<v Speaker 1>that all experiences are equivalent. I would love to think

1:28:48.479 --> 1:28:53.200
<v Speaker 1>that all our steps leads us to enlightenment kind of thing,

1:28:53.680 --> 1:28:56.200
<v Speaker 1>but we have I do believe that we, or at

1:28:56.240 --> 1:28:58.479
<v Speaker 1>least I need to be far more intentional than that,

1:28:58.520 --> 1:29:02.000
<v Speaker 1>and that we can be beautiful. Question number three, what

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<v Speaker 1>is something that you didn't value before but you've learned

1:29:05.479 --> 1:29:09.439
<v Speaker 1>to value now? Almost embarrassed to say it, but um, family,

1:29:09.800 --> 1:29:13.360
<v Speaker 1>you know I've relied very heavily on friendship as a

1:29:13.400 --> 1:29:17.960
<v Speaker 1>deep source of reinforcement in my life. I've leaned hard

1:29:18.040 --> 1:29:22.800
<v Speaker 1>into that for many, many decades. I think recently I've

1:29:22.840 --> 1:29:27.000
<v Speaker 1>become quite moved by the supports within my family that

1:29:27.040 --> 1:29:30.439
<v Speaker 1>I hadn't realized that really set me up so well

1:29:30.479 --> 1:29:33.799
<v Speaker 1>to to do what I want to do in life. Beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>I love hearing that question number four, what's the first

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<v Speaker 1>thing you do in the morning and the last thing

1:29:38.400 --> 1:29:40.519
<v Speaker 1>you do at night? First thing I do in the

1:29:40.560 --> 1:29:43.680
<v Speaker 1>morning is get outside and get sunlight, and if the

1:29:43.680 --> 1:29:45.240
<v Speaker 1>sun isn't up, I flip on all the lights and

1:29:45.280 --> 1:29:47.720
<v Speaker 1>then I go get sunlight. Also drinking a glass of

1:29:47.720 --> 1:29:51.600
<v Speaker 1>water before I go to sleep at night, Yogendra, you

1:29:51.680 --> 1:29:55.000
<v Speaker 1>know doing that night you do? I actually I think

1:29:55.040 --> 1:29:58.080
<v Speaker 1>about those three people I was talking about before. I

1:29:58.200 --> 1:30:01.200
<v Speaker 1>do every night think about them. I don't know, it's

1:30:01.240 --> 1:30:03.799
<v Speaker 1>been a long time now, that accumulated over several decades,

1:30:03.840 --> 1:30:06.479
<v Speaker 1>and um, yeah, I think about them every night. Love

1:30:06.520 --> 1:30:08.720
<v Speaker 1>that I don't even think to do it. I just

1:30:08.800 --> 1:30:13.000
<v Speaker 1>do it. Yeah, I've I lost one of mine mentors

1:30:13.000 --> 1:30:14.720
<v Speaker 1>of the others is still alive right now. Wanted them

1:30:14.720 --> 1:30:16.880
<v Speaker 1>to Stage four brain against and just a couple of

1:30:16.960 --> 1:30:20.960
<v Speaker 1>years ago and I when you said that, I was like, yeah,

1:30:21.040 --> 1:30:23.719
<v Speaker 1>I know, yeah, I know that feels like so yeah,

1:30:23.760 --> 1:30:27.000
<v Speaker 1>all right. Fifteen final question. If you could create one

1:30:27.160 --> 1:30:30.080
<v Speaker 1>law or set one had it that everyone had to

1:30:30.080 --> 1:30:32.400
<v Speaker 1>do every day for the rest of their life, what

1:30:32.479 --> 1:30:33.920
<v Speaker 1>would it be. I think, I know it's going to be,

1:30:33.960 --> 1:30:36.479
<v Speaker 1>but I have to ask you, well, since most people

1:30:36.479 --> 1:30:38.479
<v Speaker 1>will assume it's sunlight viewing and I'll just I'll just

1:30:38.520 --> 1:30:44.479
<v Speaker 1>assume they're doing that anyway. I would die a happy

1:30:44.560 --> 1:30:50.600
<v Speaker 1>person if people would adopt a practice of learning to

1:30:50.800 --> 1:30:55.720
<v Speaker 1>deliberately calm down, whether or not through non sleep depressed

1:30:55.880 --> 1:31:01.720
<v Speaker 1>or a couple deep breaths, find a tool, because I

1:31:01.800 --> 1:31:05.400
<v Speaker 1>really believe that much of the misfortune and pain of

1:31:05.439 --> 1:31:08.439
<v Speaker 1>life could be avoided if people learned to calm down.

1:31:08.520 --> 1:31:10.240
<v Speaker 1>I also know that there's a lot more joy to

1:31:10.320 --> 1:31:14.840
<v Speaker 1>access when we do. Andrew, You're phenomenal. You blew my

1:31:14.880 --> 1:31:17.320
<v Speaker 1>mind multiple times today. I hope this is not going

1:31:17.360 --> 1:31:19.880
<v Speaker 1>to be the only time that we hang out. We

1:31:19.920 --> 1:31:21.680
<v Speaker 1>agreed the first and we spoke that the podcast was

1:31:21.680 --> 1:31:26.240
<v Speaker 1>an excuse to build our Friendship's right, I feel like

1:31:26.280 --> 1:31:29.000
<v Speaker 1>there is This is a podcast episode that I would

1:31:29.040 --> 1:31:34.759
<v Speaker 1>highly recommend that everyone listens to. Again. Takes notes. When

1:31:34.840 --> 1:31:37.920
<v Speaker 1>you make those notes, try and find those elements that

1:31:37.920 --> 1:31:41.320
<v Speaker 1>you want to put into practice. I would highly recommend

1:31:41.360 --> 1:31:43.879
<v Speaker 1>that everyone who's listening to this episode go and subscribe

1:31:43.880 --> 1:31:48.479
<v Speaker 1>to and listen to Andrew's podcast, which is a wealth

1:31:48.479 --> 1:31:51.400
<v Speaker 1>of wisdom and everything we've discussed today today tip of

1:31:51.400 --> 1:31:53.639
<v Speaker 1>the Iceberg. We've dived into so many different areas. You'll

1:31:53.680 --> 1:31:56.479
<v Speaker 1>find episodes on every single aspect of what we've discussed

1:31:56.479 --> 1:31:59.040
<v Speaker 1>on his podcast. Highly recommend that you go and check

1:31:59.040 --> 1:32:02.120
<v Speaker 1>it out for the episodes that really connect. We didn't

1:32:02.120 --> 1:32:04.920
<v Speaker 1>even dive into you incredible work deeply on vision or

1:32:05.000 --> 1:32:07.200
<v Speaker 1>on sugar and diet, and you know, we haven't even

1:32:07.479 --> 1:32:09.080
<v Speaker 1>we didn't even get to go. Then we'll do that

1:32:09.160 --> 1:32:12.920
<v Speaker 1>hopefully another time. But please make sure that you tag

1:32:13.040 --> 1:32:17.519
<v Speaker 1>Andrew and I on Twitter, maybe on Instagram to let

1:32:17.560 --> 1:32:19.680
<v Speaker 1>us know what connected with you, what resonated with you,

1:32:19.720 --> 1:32:21.960
<v Speaker 1>What is something that you're going to try this week

1:32:22.000 --> 1:32:24.760
<v Speaker 1>because of this episode, how those habits are going. I

1:32:24.800 --> 1:32:29.480
<v Speaker 1>love seeing you put these ideas and insights into practice.

1:32:29.520 --> 1:32:31.920
<v Speaker 1>That is the whole goal of living a life that's

1:32:31.960 --> 1:32:34.600
<v Speaker 1>on purpose. Andrew, I thank you from the bottom of

1:32:34.640 --> 1:32:39.559
<v Speaker 1>my heart express my deepest gratitude for doing this. And yeah,

1:32:39.600 --> 1:32:41.519
<v Speaker 1>any final words anything you want to share that's on

1:32:41.600 --> 1:32:42.960
<v Speaker 1>your mind or heart that you want to put out

1:32:42.960 --> 1:32:45.080
<v Speaker 1>there in the world. Over to you. Thank you. I

1:32:45.640 --> 1:32:48.559
<v Speaker 1>want to genuinely say thank you again. We've known each

1:32:48.600 --> 1:32:51.920
<v Speaker 1>other somewhat a distance for a long time now. It's

1:32:52.400 --> 1:32:56.479
<v Speaker 1>been a tremendous pleasure. You know. I look to social

1:32:56.520 --> 1:32:58.519
<v Speaker 1>media and a lot in science and a lot of

1:32:58.520 --> 1:33:02.439
<v Speaker 1>different landscapes for inspiration. It's been a remarkable thing to

1:33:02.520 --> 1:33:06.040
<v Speaker 1>see what you've done. And it's so great to meet

1:33:06.040 --> 1:33:08.280
<v Speaker 1>in person because I knew you were the real deal

1:33:08.680 --> 1:33:11.560
<v Speaker 1>but there but you know, I'll just say this. I

1:33:11.880 --> 1:33:14.160
<v Speaker 1>know many people already feel this, but I just want

1:33:14.160 --> 1:33:17.479
<v Speaker 1>to say that to meet you in person is a

1:33:17.520 --> 1:33:20.720
<v Speaker 1>real honor for me, and I just so admire what

1:33:20.760 --> 1:33:23.360
<v Speaker 1>you're doing and I know the intent behind it is

1:33:23.400 --> 1:33:25.960
<v Speaker 1>real and the way you show up to it is incredible,

1:33:26.080 --> 1:33:30.200
<v Speaker 1>and so I'm just I'm floating on the gratitude of

1:33:30.479 --> 1:33:32.439
<v Speaker 1>being able to be here today face to face. Thank

1:33:32.479 --> 1:33:34.960
<v Speaker 1>you so much, Andrew, Thank you so much. Everyone. Make

1:33:35.000 --> 1:33:37.479
<v Speaker 1>sure you share this episode, pass it a long term

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<v Speaker 1>frand who needs to hear it. As I said, you

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<v Speaker 1>can obviously go and subscribe and listen to Andrew's podcast

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<v Speaker 1>which is called Huberman Lab, which you will find on

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<v Speaker 1>all podcasts platforms. It makes you do that, and of

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<v Speaker 1>course follow him on Instagram. As you can tell, he

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<v Speaker 1>loves to be there too, highly active, very present. Make

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<v Speaker 1>sure you follow him for more insights and more intelligence.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much for watching this episode. Please do

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<v Speaker 1>share it. I'll see you next time. M