1 00:00:01,880 --> 00:00:04,640 Speaker 1: Welcome back, Patch or Happy Hour listeners. Thank you for 2 00:00:04,760 --> 00:00:08,240 Speaker 1: joining us once more on this lovely week, and I 3 00:00:08,280 --> 00:00:11,560 Speaker 1: have my girl Tasha back ready for some action this week. 4 00:00:11,760 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 1: I am here and I am ready to dive into 5 00:00:15,600 --> 00:00:21,120 Speaker 1: this last episode because a lot freaking happened. What was 6 00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:25,200 Speaker 1: this last episode and it was the episode before the 7 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:30,080 Speaker 1: episode of all episodes, Hometowns. Maybe that's why it was 8 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 1: like so intense. We started this week talking about how 9 00:00:34,440 --> 00:00:37,360 Speaker 1: they basically cut the group in half. Yeah, the week prior, 10 00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:41,040 Speaker 1: so like, Katie's getting rid of men quick and it's 11 00:00:41,080 --> 00:00:44,640 Speaker 1: crazy to think that we're already at this point. I 12 00:00:44,680 --> 00:00:47,600 Speaker 1: feel like, quite honestly, we were just watching the premiere, 13 00:00:47,680 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 1: but we only now have a handful of men left, 14 00:00:51,479 --> 00:00:53,559 Speaker 1: and every single rose she's going to be giving out 15 00:00:53,640 --> 00:00:56,320 Speaker 1: is a hometown rose. I have to say, I'm very, very, 16 00:00:56,400 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 1: very excited for our guest today. It is the one 17 00:00:59,320 --> 00:01:03,959 Speaker 1: and only Trey, and I think he's going to break 18 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 1: it down and give us still some tea. I can't 19 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 1: wait to have him on. He has been one of 20 00:01:08,480 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 1: my favorites since week one. He just he seems like 21 00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:15,640 Speaker 1: such a sweetheart and from everything that I've heard from 22 00:01:15,680 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 1: the other men, and from Katie about Trey is he 23 00:01:18,360 --> 00:01:20,640 Speaker 1: just is one of the kindest men. I can't wait 24 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:24,039 Speaker 1: to have him on and see that for myself. But 25 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:27,399 Speaker 1: until that, let's quickly recap what we saw go down 26 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:30,319 Speaker 1: last night, because, as we just mentioned, it is crunch 27 00:01:30,440 --> 00:01:34,720 Speaker 1: chime and this week I remember being both on the 28 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:37,920 Speaker 1: bach shirt and my season of the Bad Shirrette feeling 29 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:41,280 Speaker 1: finally the pressure hit me in this week of like, 30 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:45,240 Speaker 1: holy shit, we're here and I'm going to be meeting 31 00:01:45,360 --> 00:01:48,280 Speaker 1: families and they're going to be meeting my family, and 32 00:01:48,440 --> 00:01:52,120 Speaker 1: like this is when you start to feel that switch 33 00:01:52,200 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 1: where for a while it's fun, you're you're having a 34 00:01:55,200 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 1: great time, and then it hits and you feel this 35 00:01:58,320 --> 00:02:03,559 Speaker 1: anxious pressure of like I have to make some really 36 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:07,040 Speaker 1: tough but like really smart decisions here, And I mean 37 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 1: you can attest it. What were you feeling like when 38 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:12,640 Speaker 1: you were Bachelorrette in this moment giving out those hometown roses. Well, 39 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:14,040 Speaker 1: kind of like what you said in the beginning, it's 40 00:02:14,040 --> 00:02:15,880 Speaker 1: all like I don't want to say all fun and games, 41 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:18,120 Speaker 1: but it kind of is like you're dating all these guys, 42 00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:22,120 Speaker 1: you're enjoying being a bachelorette, and like really just having fun. 43 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:25,799 Speaker 1: But I always said, like, it's when the families get involved. 44 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:30,640 Speaker 1: It's like it really puts things into perspective because I 45 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:32,240 Speaker 1: don't introduce a lot of people to my family, so 46 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:35,440 Speaker 1: I could only imagine what these guys were feeling, you 47 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:39,240 Speaker 1: know what I mean. And so I just remember feeling like, Okay, 48 00:02:39,680 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 1: I remember what I'm here for. It's getting down to 49 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 1: the wire, like this really needs to be meaningful connections, 50 00:02:46,919 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 1: and like I need to be actually able to see 51 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:51,000 Speaker 1: these guys at the end of the like at the 52 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 1: end of this at the altar with me. And so 53 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:55,800 Speaker 1: that's kind of like what made me really nervous, to 54 00:02:55,800 --> 00:02:59,800 Speaker 1: be honest, it's just like I can't be playing around 55 00:02:59,800 --> 00:03:02,799 Speaker 1: a more. It's time to get down and dirty and 56 00:03:02,840 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 1: also involve people's families, which really really really scares me 57 00:03:06,919 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 1: because it's not just their hearts in their hands anymore. 58 00:03:08,760 --> 00:03:12,520 Speaker 1: It's like the entire family they get invested. And what's 59 00:03:12,720 --> 00:03:15,200 Speaker 1: I mean, Like my aunt has always said this, when 60 00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:18,880 Speaker 1: you pick a partner and you ultimately get married in life, 61 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:22,040 Speaker 1: you're not just marrying that now, you are marrying into 62 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:24,480 Speaker 1: each other's families. You take all of that on and 63 00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:28,480 Speaker 1: so it's so much more. And one thing that I 64 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:30,959 Speaker 1: found very interesting, at least when I went through it 65 00:03:31,040 --> 00:03:34,920 Speaker 1: is oftentimes, and I'm sure you get asked this all 66 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 1: the time, is people think it's fake in a way 67 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 1: because it's a show, and they think that not everything 68 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:43,240 Speaker 1: is always as real as it appears. So I think this, 69 00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:46,880 Speaker 1: and I will say families go into that probably thinking that, 70 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 1: or they did in the back of their mind of 71 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 1: being like, oh, my son or my daughter has only 72 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:54,560 Speaker 1: been away for a couple months. At this point, there's 73 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:56,240 Speaker 1: no way that this is real. There's no way that 74 00:03:56,240 --> 00:03:58,120 Speaker 1: they're falling in love, that they're ready to get engaged 75 00:03:58,160 --> 00:04:01,000 Speaker 1: and you know, do all the things this show is about. 76 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:03,840 Speaker 1: And so for me at least, it was so interesting 77 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:06,880 Speaker 1: to see that switch in people's minds and their hearts 78 00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 1: to be like, oh, the couple sitting in front of 79 00:04:09,320 --> 00:04:12,600 Speaker 1: me actually does really genuinely care about each other and 80 00:04:12,680 --> 00:04:15,560 Speaker 1: this could be something. It's when they witness it for 81 00:04:15,560 --> 00:04:18,080 Speaker 1: the first time in real life. It's such a game 82 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:22,159 Speaker 1: changer and it makes it so much more real and present. 83 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:25,720 Speaker 1: And that's when I say, like, things hit harder coming up, 84 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:28,160 Speaker 1: and I think Katie, obviously she hasn't met families yet, 85 00:04:28,200 --> 00:04:31,839 Speaker 1: but she recognizes that. Yeah, and it's probably so much 86 00:04:31,839 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 1: more intense for her because she didn't make it to 87 00:04:34,480 --> 00:04:37,560 Speaker 1: hometowns that Matt season. This is the first time experiencing it. 88 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 1: She's doing this alongside the men, which I will say, 89 00:04:40,520 --> 00:04:42,520 Speaker 1: I think it's a really beautiful thing that they're all 90 00:04:43,760 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 1: soaking this in and having to go through this as 91 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:48,440 Speaker 1: one together. They're leaning on each other a little bit more. 92 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:50,800 Speaker 1: I think that's definitely true. I didn't think about that. 93 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:54,720 Speaker 1: It just makes a little bit more vulnerable. I feel like, 94 00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:58,400 Speaker 1: I mean, obviously we were really vulnerable in that situation, 95 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:00,200 Speaker 1: but we kind of like knew how it went, like 96 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:02,080 Speaker 1: we can put them at ease. But at the same time, 97 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:04,320 Speaker 1: Katie's never even been in Nize shoes before, and so 98 00:05:04,360 --> 00:05:07,240 Speaker 1: she's just like, Okay, what do I do? And I 99 00:05:07,279 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 1: was there, you know, firsthand, experiencing that with her. So 100 00:05:11,040 --> 00:05:14,279 Speaker 1: it's just it's this is when the feelings like really 101 00:05:14,720 --> 00:05:18,919 Speaker 1: kick in and it's like, can I actually get engaged 102 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:20,520 Speaker 1: at the end of this with one of these people? 103 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:23,719 Speaker 1: Let me ask you this. So when I started watching 104 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:28,799 Speaker 1: this episode, it started off I'm just gonna say interesting. 105 00:05:29,360 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 1: It started off I felt like something was off with Katie, 106 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:36,720 Speaker 1: and I'm going to just assume it's because of the 107 00:05:36,720 --> 00:05:40,880 Speaker 1: pressure and because she's feeling this weight gwinn to this week. 108 00:05:40,920 --> 00:05:43,440 Speaker 1: But she just seemed and it got better, I will 109 00:05:43,480 --> 00:05:45,640 Speaker 1: say because she had her first one on one with Greg. 110 00:05:46,920 --> 00:05:51,000 Speaker 1: The day portion was fun. Something just seemed strange to me. 111 00:05:51,200 --> 00:05:53,440 Speaker 1: So it starts off she has her first one on 112 00:05:53,440 --> 00:05:56,080 Speaker 1: one with Greg, they do the Seattle date where they're 113 00:05:56,080 --> 00:06:00,360 Speaker 1: throwing fish and yeah, whatever. It just I felt like 114 00:06:00,600 --> 00:06:04,279 Speaker 1: Katie's energy seemed off to me, and I was actually 115 00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:06,240 Speaker 1: texting some of my girlfriends about it. I was like, 116 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:10,280 Speaker 1: does this feel weird? Like something doesn't seem like like 117 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:14,039 Speaker 1: she's present but not fully I think enjoying what this 118 00:06:14,160 --> 00:06:17,039 Speaker 1: state could be. I will say it got better during 119 00:06:17,080 --> 00:06:19,640 Speaker 1: the night portion when they actually sat down and could 120 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:22,920 Speaker 1: have a heart to heart in depth conversation about meeting 121 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:25,680 Speaker 1: the families. And then they had this oh my god, 122 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:29,720 Speaker 1: the rain story tell you that. I know. I was like, 123 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:33,920 Speaker 1: damn that, Taia. It was like watching it was really good. 124 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:38,200 Speaker 1: It was like watching The Notebook or some Hollywood movie. 125 00:06:38,240 --> 00:06:40,120 Speaker 1: I was like, God, this is so hot. But so 126 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:42,840 Speaker 1: it did get better, But it just started off like 127 00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:46,960 Speaker 1: I could tell Katie was in her head a bit, 128 00:06:47,200 --> 00:06:49,719 Speaker 1: and maybe if anyone else felt that pleased, DM me 129 00:06:49,880 --> 00:06:51,240 Speaker 1: or let us know, because I don't want to be 130 00:06:51,320 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 1: the only one. You are right, You are right. And 131 00:06:54,640 --> 00:06:58,279 Speaker 1: I remember like transporting myself back there and just remembering 132 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:02,360 Speaker 1: how high the tension was and like her feelings, like 133 00:07:02,440 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 1: it was all over the place at that point in time, 134 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 1: and she was just getting really nervous, Like again, you 135 00:07:09,840 --> 00:07:13,560 Speaker 1: have to understand the week prior, five guys went home, 136 00:07:14,160 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 1: and so now she's looking around, there's seven people. Hometowns 137 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 1: are literally around the corner. I think she was just 138 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:23,160 Speaker 1: starting to get a little stressed out and being like, Okay, 139 00:07:23,200 --> 00:07:25,679 Speaker 1: this is again just like we talked about, the games 140 00:07:25,800 --> 00:07:29,640 Speaker 1: are like done, this is real. And I just remember 141 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:34,520 Speaker 1: her really struggling with letting go and just trusting what 142 00:07:34,600 --> 00:07:36,800 Speaker 1: she had and just like really trying to just be 143 00:07:36,880 --> 00:07:40,400 Speaker 1: vulnerable with the guys because I feel like she is also, 144 00:07:40,480 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 1: like we've talked about it, like she's likes to be 145 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:45,000 Speaker 1: in control. She likes everything to go her way, and 146 00:07:45,080 --> 00:07:48,680 Speaker 1: I don't we all And I'm just like I understand that, 147 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:50,840 Speaker 1: but right here, right now, like you're not going to 148 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:54,680 Speaker 1: know all the answers and you're doing the best that 149 00:07:54,760 --> 00:07:56,760 Speaker 1: you can. So make the most of the time with 150 00:07:56,800 --> 00:08:01,000 Speaker 1: these guys right now, and just know that you're making 151 00:08:01,040 --> 00:08:03,280 Speaker 1: the right decisions. Like you'll know, like you'll feel it 152 00:08:03,320 --> 00:08:05,840 Speaker 1: if you need to let someone go right For example, 153 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:08,640 Speaker 1: why she let Brendan go. I mean, she just didn't 154 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 1: feel it right then and there, And that's I told her. 155 00:08:11,240 --> 00:08:13,760 Speaker 1: You're going to feel it when someone comes up to 156 00:08:13,800 --> 00:08:15,800 Speaker 1: you and you need to present your feelings and it's 157 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 1: just like it's not something you want to explore because 158 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 1: it's just not there yet. But Yeah, that conversation that 159 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:24,400 Speaker 1: she was having with Greg when she was sitting at 160 00:08:24,400 --> 00:08:27,200 Speaker 1: like the little gondola thing, she was definitely off and 161 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:30,240 Speaker 1: I think she was definitely in her head. I don't know. 162 00:08:30,720 --> 00:08:33,320 Speaker 1: It's so easy about it get ahead of yourself in 163 00:08:33,360 --> 00:08:37,079 Speaker 1: this process because for the longest time, you have so 164 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:40,760 Speaker 1: many men. But when you have enough people, it's easy 165 00:08:40,840 --> 00:08:44,680 Speaker 1: to kind of go from relationship to relationship. But when 166 00:08:44,720 --> 00:08:47,319 Speaker 1: you actually have to sit back and when things get 167 00:08:47,400 --> 00:08:50,160 Speaker 1: so strong and you realize you are on, you do 168 00:08:50,280 --> 00:08:52,320 Speaker 1: have a crunch shime and you have to make tough 169 00:08:52,320 --> 00:08:55,880 Speaker 1: decisions really quick in that moment. You just have to 170 00:08:55,880 --> 00:08:58,000 Speaker 1: really go off of your gut and your heart. Yes, 171 00:08:58,080 --> 00:09:00,800 Speaker 1: and I think that's what she's starting to do. But 172 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:05,199 Speaker 1: it's not easy. It's scary, because so scary, and as 173 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:07,320 Speaker 1: she said, she has so many good guys. All she's 174 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:09,600 Speaker 1: wanted is a good partner in her life, and now 175 00:09:09,640 --> 00:09:11,440 Speaker 1: she has a handful of them that it makes it 176 00:09:11,480 --> 00:09:13,800 Speaker 1: that much harder to say goodbye and to cut somebody 177 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:17,320 Speaker 1: when they could potentially be an incredible partner in life. 178 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:19,760 Speaker 1: So it just I feel for her. I know that 179 00:09:19,840 --> 00:09:22,320 Speaker 1: I say it felt off, which I'm not bashing her 180 00:09:22,320 --> 00:09:24,800 Speaker 1: in any way. I totally understand. I remember being in 181 00:09:24,800 --> 00:09:31,160 Speaker 1: her position. So we see her send Brendan home. And 182 00:09:31,200 --> 00:09:33,720 Speaker 1: then at the end of the episode, andrew S did 183 00:09:33,720 --> 00:09:36,199 Speaker 1: go home, which I did not see coming. I didn't 184 00:09:36,200 --> 00:09:39,120 Speaker 1: say that. I was shocked by that decision. And then, 185 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:42,240 Speaker 1: oh god, the moment when he showed up at her 186 00:09:42,320 --> 00:09:45,520 Speaker 1: room and then left her. Taitia again, this is like 187 00:09:45,520 --> 00:09:48,800 Speaker 1: a Hollywood movie. It's just for the note. And then 188 00:09:48,800 --> 00:09:51,200 Speaker 1: she runs after him and then they embraced. I know 189 00:09:51,520 --> 00:09:55,960 Speaker 1: that John Andrew and just like they don't make men 190 00:09:56,080 --> 00:09:57,959 Speaker 1: like him. I'm telling you right now, they do not 191 00:09:58,080 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 1: make men like Andrew s if I. When I watched it, 192 00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:03,240 Speaker 1: I texted one of the producers last night and I said, 193 00:10:03,320 --> 00:10:08,199 Speaker 1: make him the Bachelor. I really love Andrew us. So, 194 00:10:08,280 --> 00:10:10,000 Speaker 1: I mean, obviously, I know we still have a full 195 00:10:10,040 --> 00:10:12,960 Speaker 1: other season to go through with Michelle, and we will 196 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:16,680 Speaker 1: have hopefully many great men from her season, but Andrew 197 00:10:16,760 --> 00:10:19,280 Speaker 1: right now is a top contender in my book. Same 198 00:10:19,400 --> 00:10:22,280 Speaker 1: and I'm glad that he had that extra time with 199 00:10:22,280 --> 00:10:25,439 Speaker 1: her to say goodbye, but to leave on their own terms, 200 00:10:25,440 --> 00:10:27,600 Speaker 1: and to leave how they've always sort of had their 201 00:10:27,640 --> 00:10:30,880 Speaker 1: relationship which is laughing and with smiles, and I thought 202 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 1: that was a really beautiful thing that we were able 203 00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:37,319 Speaker 1: to witness. So next week, as hometowns, obviously she has 204 00:10:37,320 --> 00:10:41,320 Speaker 1: four men left, we'll meet four families that I think 205 00:10:41,320 --> 00:10:43,440 Speaker 1: it'll be, you know, a little make or break moment 206 00:10:43,480 --> 00:10:48,000 Speaker 1: coming up. But also we have something else coming up, 207 00:10:48,040 --> 00:10:50,520 Speaker 1: which is mental all and obviously I don't even think 208 00:10:50,559 --> 00:10:52,600 Speaker 1: it has not filmed yet, so we have no idea 209 00:10:52,679 --> 00:10:55,720 Speaker 1: what to expect, but we can always expect some drama, 210 00:10:55,840 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 1: some laughs, some tears, and of course bloopers. So I 211 00:10:59,200 --> 00:11:02,240 Speaker 1: can't wait to watch that unfolded. It's one of my 212 00:11:02,320 --> 00:11:05,000 Speaker 1: favorite episodes. Each week is the Mental All and the 213 00:11:05,000 --> 00:11:06,960 Speaker 1: Women to All Special, because there's so much more. It's 214 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:10,560 Speaker 1: just real and it's like people go from living in 215 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:14,080 Speaker 1: the season to then coming back and forming friendships, but 216 00:11:14,120 --> 00:11:17,040 Speaker 1: then having to put themselves back in that scenario, back 217 00:11:17,040 --> 00:11:21,120 Speaker 1: in that mindset of like what was It's really hard 218 00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:24,760 Speaker 1: to do that, by the way, And I've never I've 219 00:11:24,760 --> 00:11:27,440 Speaker 1: never I've I've attended a Mental All, but I've never 220 00:11:27,480 --> 00:11:31,040 Speaker 1: been present at the Women to At Me neither. Oh yeah, 221 00:11:31,080 --> 00:11:34,240 Speaker 1: you weren't either, tatient. I know only done the Mental Lot. 222 00:11:34,280 --> 00:11:37,520 Speaker 1: I know we have such a good recap that week. 223 00:11:37,720 --> 00:11:42,800 Speaker 1: So because it's going to be crazy, I we attended obviously, 224 00:11:43,160 --> 00:11:46,240 Speaker 1: and really when we did show up to Mental All, 225 00:11:46,360 --> 00:11:49,880 Speaker 1: it was more of like we had some intimate interactions 226 00:11:49,880 --> 00:11:53,440 Speaker 1: with a few guys, but we didn't really experience the 227 00:11:53,520 --> 00:11:57,480 Speaker 1: craziness that the guys like get into. All I cared 228 00:11:57,480 --> 00:11:58,880 Speaker 1: about it is like I just wanted to make their 229 00:11:58,960 --> 00:12:01,400 Speaker 1: jaws drop us like I just the fear stress. But yeah, 230 00:12:01,440 --> 00:12:05,200 Speaker 1: you truly kind of walk in blind Yeah, which we 231 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:08,080 Speaker 1: will get into when we see the Mental All Special. 232 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:10,040 Speaker 1: I cannot wait. But until then, I think it's time 233 00:12:10,040 --> 00:12:11,880 Speaker 1: to bring the man of the hour onto me that 234 00:12:11,960 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 1: I am so thrilled to finally meet. Ladies and gentlemen. 235 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:18,800 Speaker 1: Please welcome to Batch our Happy Hour. Trey. Hi, Trey. 236 00:12:18,960 --> 00:12:21,200 Speaker 1: I knew I was gonna like you night one when 237 00:12:21,280 --> 00:12:22,679 Speaker 1: you didn't even come out of the limo. You came 238 00:12:22,679 --> 00:12:24,800 Speaker 1: out with the balls in the truck and I was like, 239 00:12:24,920 --> 00:12:27,440 Speaker 1: I like this man, and you are bringing that same 240 00:12:27,480 --> 00:12:36,839 Speaker 1: ball energy to the big energy. One of the questions 241 00:12:36,880 --> 00:12:38,679 Speaker 1: I was actually going to ask you was like, so, 242 00:12:38,760 --> 00:12:40,240 Speaker 1: how do you do those balls go? And I was like, 243 00:12:40,280 --> 00:12:43,280 Speaker 1: put my listen to the podcast and I can't. I hope, 244 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:45,439 Speaker 1: I hope they leave this into I hope they leave 245 00:12:45,520 --> 00:12:48,800 Speaker 1: it in um. Okay, to all of our Bachelor Happy 246 00:12:48,840 --> 00:12:52,240 Speaker 1: Hour listeners, we have Trey on and Trey, is this 247 00:12:52,280 --> 00:12:54,280 Speaker 1: one of the first podcast that you have ever done. 248 00:12:54,360 --> 00:12:56,800 Speaker 1: This is the first part of my life, the first 249 00:12:56,800 --> 00:13:00,320 Speaker 1: part of your life. We're taking the podcast. Virgin I 250 00:13:00,320 --> 00:13:04,320 Speaker 1: love Becca, I love this. Oh my gosh, balls, Virginity. 251 00:13:04,440 --> 00:13:06,120 Speaker 1: You know we're just gonna start off with a bang 252 00:13:06,200 --> 00:13:09,679 Speaker 1: here everybody, but no, in all honesty, trade, we are 253 00:13:09,679 --> 00:13:11,840 Speaker 1: so incredibly excited to have you with us. You've just 254 00:13:11,920 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 1: had this vibe, this great energy the entire season, and 255 00:13:16,559 --> 00:13:20,600 Speaker 1: obviously and unfortunately we did see you go home last week. 256 00:13:20,840 --> 00:13:23,880 Speaker 1: But how has it been for you? You know, it's 257 00:13:23,920 --> 00:13:27,120 Speaker 1: one thing to be living in the experience of the show, 258 00:13:27,160 --> 00:13:28,840 Speaker 1: it's another to be watching it back. So how have 259 00:13:28,920 --> 00:13:32,439 Speaker 1: you been watching yourself back? And how are your family 260 00:13:32,480 --> 00:13:35,280 Speaker 1: and friends taking it? Man, it's first of all, I'm 261 00:13:35,320 --> 00:13:38,120 Speaker 1: so happy to be here, so excited to finally meet you, Becca. 262 00:13:38,240 --> 00:13:41,360 Speaker 1: Nice to see you againation, this is a dream come 263 00:13:41,400 --> 00:13:44,440 Speaker 1: true for me. I'll say that it's been a roller coaster. 264 00:13:44,640 --> 00:13:46,880 Speaker 1: You know. I'm somebody that you know, if they're like 265 00:13:47,040 --> 00:13:48,520 Speaker 1: you want the good news of the bad news first, 266 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:50,280 Speaker 1: I'm taking the bad news first to get out of 267 00:13:50,320 --> 00:13:52,400 Speaker 1: the way. And so for me, it's been hard to 268 00:13:52,480 --> 00:13:54,160 Speaker 1: not you know, I know, you guys know it's better 269 00:13:54,200 --> 00:13:56,679 Speaker 1: than anybody to like search your name while the episodes 270 00:13:56,720 --> 00:13:59,040 Speaker 1: on to see what people are saying, and for me, 271 00:13:59,080 --> 00:14:01,040 Speaker 1: I kind of look for the bad first. And so 272 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:03,160 Speaker 1: I gotta stop doing that because I get a lot 273 00:14:03,200 --> 00:14:05,720 Speaker 1: of love. And so I'm watching myself back and I'm like, yes, 274 00:14:05,880 --> 00:14:08,640 Speaker 1: like I look happy, this is me. And then there's 275 00:14:08,640 --> 00:14:12,520 Speaker 1: those moments where I get a little testy for looking 276 00:14:12,679 --> 00:14:14,839 Speaker 1: a better word. I'm like, try, like, what was going 277 00:14:14,880 --> 00:14:17,040 Speaker 1: on with you right here? So it's been up and down, 278 00:14:17,040 --> 00:14:19,880 Speaker 1: but mostly up. I'll say I'm proud, and then my mom, 279 00:14:19,960 --> 00:14:22,320 Speaker 1: you know, I showed my parents some love obviously in 280 00:14:22,360 --> 00:14:25,760 Speaker 1: my intro very close family, so they were happy that 281 00:14:25,800 --> 00:14:27,520 Speaker 1: I was just me and that was the biggest thing 282 00:14:27,520 --> 00:14:29,120 Speaker 1: for me out there, you know, when I'm talking to 283 00:14:29,120 --> 00:14:31,400 Speaker 1: the guys and I'm talking to producers, just like, I 284 00:14:31,440 --> 00:14:33,720 Speaker 1: don't want to come back from this and have people 285 00:14:33,800 --> 00:14:35,800 Speaker 1: not be like the people who know me be like, yo, 286 00:14:35,840 --> 00:14:37,960 Speaker 1: what were you doing out there? Or who were like 287 00:14:38,280 --> 00:14:40,400 Speaker 1: the people who know me every week they're like, oh 288 00:14:40,480 --> 00:14:42,840 Speaker 1: my baby. My mom was like when you made this space, 289 00:14:42,880 --> 00:14:44,960 Speaker 1: I knew you were feeling this and when you say this, 290 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:46,520 Speaker 1: I can tell you where and it's just like that 291 00:14:46,520 --> 00:14:48,840 Speaker 1: makes you feel so good to know that, Like, I 292 00:14:48,880 --> 00:14:51,240 Speaker 1: didn't turn into someone for this show. You know, I 293 00:14:51,280 --> 00:14:54,160 Speaker 1: was me the whole time. Yes, it didn't completely work 294 00:14:54,160 --> 00:14:56,720 Speaker 1: out for me, obviously, but you know I grew so 295 00:14:56,800 --> 00:14:58,960 Speaker 1: much during this and I'm so happy to have gone through. 296 00:14:59,560 --> 00:15:02,120 Speaker 1: I love that. I feel like when I say, you 297 00:15:02,160 --> 00:15:04,640 Speaker 1: have such a great vibe and energy, Like obviously we've 298 00:15:04,680 --> 00:15:07,640 Speaker 1: seen that on the big screen. Now sometimes when people 299 00:15:07,680 --> 00:15:10,120 Speaker 1: come on the podcast, you know, because you did say 300 00:15:10,120 --> 00:15:12,440 Speaker 1: to us you were a little bit nervous, and you 301 00:15:12,480 --> 00:15:15,480 Speaker 1: still just carry that good energy. And so I love 302 00:15:15,600 --> 00:15:17,800 Speaker 1: that the tray that we saw on the big screen 303 00:15:17,920 --> 00:15:19,720 Speaker 1: is the tray we're getting now, which will seem very 304 00:15:19,720 --> 00:15:21,480 Speaker 1: happy because since I won't. Like I said, you were 305 00:15:21,480 --> 00:15:23,960 Speaker 1: one of our favorites, and I think you've been definitely 306 00:15:23,960 --> 00:15:26,800 Speaker 1: a fan favorite for the past couple of weeks. So 307 00:15:26,800 --> 00:15:29,400 Speaker 1: starting out, it seems like you and Katie had a 308 00:15:29,400 --> 00:15:32,000 Speaker 1: connection right away, and you were somebody that she seemed 309 00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:36,600 Speaker 1: to just really trust throughout the entire process. Did you again, 310 00:15:36,640 --> 00:15:38,000 Speaker 1: I was gonna say coming out of the lima, but 311 00:15:38,040 --> 00:15:41,080 Speaker 1: coming out of the ball truck, did you feel that 312 00:15:41,080 --> 00:15:44,960 Speaker 1: that instant chemistry, that connection with her? It was amazing 313 00:15:45,040 --> 00:15:46,800 Speaker 1: coming out of the ball truck. You know, I was 314 00:15:46,880 --> 00:15:49,200 Speaker 1: laying back there, I think longer than people might have thought. 315 00:15:49,240 --> 00:15:51,560 Speaker 1: You know, it wasn't like, oh, I know how long 316 00:15:51,600 --> 00:15:53,640 Speaker 1: it was. We were just like staring at the truck 317 00:15:53,760 --> 00:15:59,200 Speaker 1: literally what seems like forever, and I was under those balls. 318 00:15:59,440 --> 00:16:01,880 Speaker 1: It was I came into this thinking, you know, maybe 319 00:16:01,920 --> 00:16:03,240 Speaker 1: I was going to pop out of the limit. So 320 00:16:03,320 --> 00:16:05,440 Speaker 1: when it switched over, I was like, man, like, I 321 00:16:05,480 --> 00:16:07,960 Speaker 1: just want to not fall Like I wasn't even thinking 322 00:16:08,080 --> 00:16:09,560 Speaker 1: I want her to like me Like that stuff came 323 00:16:09,640 --> 00:16:11,560 Speaker 1: later so they would not get up and I don't trip. 324 00:16:11,600 --> 00:16:13,800 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, you got this, You've got this. And 325 00:16:13,880 --> 00:16:16,520 Speaker 1: since she's smiling back at me, Katie is such an 326 00:16:16,520 --> 00:16:19,480 Speaker 1: easy person to communicate with and to connect with that 327 00:16:19,640 --> 00:16:21,560 Speaker 1: as soon as I like popped out, you know, just 328 00:16:21,800 --> 00:16:24,280 Speaker 1: the suit, she's already giving me good vibes and good energy. 329 00:16:24,480 --> 00:16:26,080 Speaker 1: And then when we were able to kind of circle 330 00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:28,280 Speaker 1: back and have a chat, you know, I said, backward 331 00:16:28,280 --> 00:16:30,240 Speaker 1: it all again, the ball fit of love. You know, 332 00:16:30,400 --> 00:16:33,800 Speaker 1: she was so easy to talk, too easy to connect with. 333 00:16:34,120 --> 00:16:36,600 Speaker 1: You know, obviously the show has a lot of content, 334 00:16:36,640 --> 00:16:38,200 Speaker 1: defends a two hours you don't get to see the 335 00:16:38,240 --> 00:16:41,520 Speaker 1: whole conversation. But from the first conversation I was like, Yeah, 336 00:16:41,560 --> 00:16:43,640 Speaker 1: this is a girl that I could see myself, you know, 337 00:16:43,680 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 1: connect with she's she was in the first day she 338 00:16:46,920 --> 00:16:49,800 Speaker 1: was in. Was that like a fear for you before 339 00:16:50,840 --> 00:16:54,880 Speaker 1: you know, doing your little entrance that like what if 340 00:16:54,880 --> 00:16:56,680 Speaker 1: like we didn't have a good instant connection. Was that 341 00:16:56,800 --> 00:16:59,720 Speaker 1: something that you were nervous about. I think one of 342 00:16:59,720 --> 00:17:01,520 Speaker 1: the things that even led me to do this in 343 00:17:01,560 --> 00:17:04,080 Speaker 1: the first place, because the fact that I've lived, I mean, 344 00:17:04,119 --> 00:17:06,479 Speaker 1: I'm twenty six and single. You know, I've lived up 345 00:17:06,480 --> 00:17:09,080 Speaker 1: to this point kind of for lack of a better phrase, 346 00:17:09,280 --> 00:17:11,240 Speaker 1: scared of rejection. You know, I'm not a guy that 347 00:17:11,280 --> 00:17:14,000 Speaker 1: puts myself out there a lot in the dating world. 348 00:17:14,200 --> 00:17:17,679 Speaker 1: I'm very calculating. You know, they say shooters shoot. I 349 00:17:17,880 --> 00:17:22,680 Speaker 1: like to see that there's the defense, and so yeah, 350 00:17:22,720 --> 00:17:24,560 Speaker 1: I was I was like, man, what if she doesn't 351 00:17:24,600 --> 00:17:26,760 Speaker 1: like me? That was my biggest thing. Um, you know, 352 00:17:26,840 --> 00:17:28,080 Speaker 1: a lot of the I've seen a lot of the 353 00:17:28,119 --> 00:17:30,480 Speaker 1: comments and people being like not to skip you far ahead, 354 00:17:30,480 --> 00:17:32,520 Speaker 1: But like every guy goes out there thinking about being 355 00:17:32,520 --> 00:17:36,119 Speaker 1: a bachelor, and it's like, dude, I just wanted one row. 356 00:17:36,280 --> 00:17:39,040 Speaker 1: So I come out there and not you know, be 357 00:17:39,119 --> 00:17:41,080 Speaker 1: embarrassed coming back to my family being like, Yo, this 358 00:17:41,119 --> 00:17:43,480 Speaker 1: girl didn't even want to see possibly where it would go, 359 00:17:43,800 --> 00:17:46,639 Speaker 1: and say, I was super nervous just to I wanted 360 00:17:46,680 --> 00:17:48,919 Speaker 1: to show her all of me. But there's like a 361 00:17:49,040 --> 00:17:50,720 Speaker 1: very small amount of time in the beginning where you 362 00:17:50,720 --> 00:17:52,720 Speaker 1: can even show where parts of you and so Yeah, 363 00:17:52,760 --> 00:17:54,920 Speaker 1: I'm scared to be rejected for sure. It's funny that 364 00:17:55,000 --> 00:17:58,639 Speaker 1: you mentioned that, Um, he's obviously your intentions were genuine 365 00:17:58,640 --> 00:18:02,360 Speaker 1: and whatnot, But we saw you involved in a lot 366 00:18:02,400 --> 00:18:06,919 Speaker 1: of the drama in the house, um specifically you know 367 00:18:06,920 --> 00:18:11,160 Speaker 1: where I'm going with this um with Thomas and want 368 00:18:11,160 --> 00:18:13,320 Speaker 1: to be the bachelor and all of that those comments 369 00:18:13,320 --> 00:18:15,520 Speaker 1: that were made. So what made you decide that you 370 00:18:15,560 --> 00:18:18,159 Speaker 1: want to reveal that Thomas said that he wanted to 371 00:18:18,160 --> 00:18:20,640 Speaker 1: be the bachelor to all the other guys in the Katie, 372 00:18:21,440 --> 00:18:23,240 Speaker 1: I think it's not There was not like one thing 373 00:18:23,240 --> 00:18:25,040 Speaker 1: that was like, oh, now you gotta say it. It's 374 00:18:25,080 --> 00:18:27,240 Speaker 1: most of just how I've been brought up. Like my 375 00:18:27,320 --> 00:18:29,560 Speaker 1: mom is a very She was a stay at home 376 00:18:29,600 --> 00:18:32,119 Speaker 1: mom as soon as I was too, and so she 377 00:18:32,280 --> 00:18:34,800 Speaker 1: was very big on like drilling in core values that 378 00:18:34,800 --> 00:18:36,440 Speaker 1: she felt were important to us. And one of those 379 00:18:36,520 --> 00:18:39,040 Speaker 1: is when you're wrong and meet you're wrong, and you know, 380 00:18:39,160 --> 00:18:42,439 Speaker 1: when you see something, say something, and that doesn't always 381 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:45,600 Speaker 1: work out obviously as we see then I couldn't just 382 00:18:45,800 --> 00:18:47,879 Speaker 1: you know, I've been raised to be this man. I 383 00:18:48,040 --> 00:18:50,199 Speaker 1: raised by this strong woman and this strong man to 384 00:18:50,320 --> 00:18:53,359 Speaker 1: be someone of value, and I have two older sisters, 385 00:18:53,400 --> 00:18:55,639 Speaker 1: I think, which which plays a big part as well. 386 00:18:56,240 --> 00:18:57,600 Speaker 1: And so one of the things that was going through 387 00:18:57,600 --> 00:18:59,520 Speaker 1: my head was, man, if this was my sister, that 388 00:18:59,560 --> 00:19:01,840 Speaker 1: was the bache right, and there's a group of thirty 389 00:19:01,840 --> 00:19:04,600 Speaker 1: guys there and they were all spending time with each 390 00:19:04,600 --> 00:19:06,879 Speaker 1: other and she didn't get to see, you know, everything 391 00:19:06,920 --> 00:19:08,520 Speaker 1: that was going on with them. What I want one 392 00:19:08,560 --> 00:19:10,399 Speaker 1: of those guys to tell my sister, you know what 393 00:19:10,480 --> 00:19:12,600 Speaker 1: they saw, and the answer is gonna be yes every time. 394 00:19:13,080 --> 00:19:15,000 Speaker 1: And so for me, I think that's what it if. 395 00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:16,720 Speaker 1: There was like a final thing that made me go, 396 00:19:16,760 --> 00:19:19,160 Speaker 1: you know what, I gotta say something. It's the fact 397 00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:20,920 Speaker 1: that I thought about my sisters and what I would 398 00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:23,320 Speaker 1: want for them, and you know, Katie, like obviously I 399 00:19:23,320 --> 00:19:25,640 Speaker 1: hadn't known her super long, but you start to feel 400 00:19:25,760 --> 00:19:27,960 Speaker 1: catch feelings, you know, you guys know in this situation 401 00:19:28,119 --> 00:19:29,959 Speaker 1: is different when you don't have the distractions of friends 402 00:19:30,240 --> 00:19:33,000 Speaker 1: or family or a job or your phone. It's like 403 00:19:33,200 --> 00:19:35,800 Speaker 1: you're you're you're locked in on your relationship. And so 404 00:19:35,840 --> 00:19:37,840 Speaker 1: I'm like, man, I want to protect this girl's heart, 405 00:19:37,880 --> 00:19:39,800 Speaker 1: even if I'm not the guy that ends up having it. 406 00:19:40,119 --> 00:19:42,800 Speaker 1: And so you know, I got a lot of a 407 00:19:42,800 --> 00:19:44,720 Speaker 1: lot of a lot of flak for that, but I 408 00:19:44,720 --> 00:19:47,959 Speaker 1: don't regret it because I felt like after giving her 409 00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:49,920 Speaker 1: the information, whatever decision she would have made, I would 410 00:19:49,920 --> 00:19:51,520 Speaker 1: have been happy with. You know, if she would have 411 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:53,359 Speaker 1: given to Thomas a rose and continue with Thomas and 412 00:19:53,359 --> 00:19:55,280 Speaker 1: sent me home immediately, I would have been like, you know, 413 00:19:55,320 --> 00:19:57,640 Speaker 1: what I did what I thought was right at the time, 414 00:19:58,080 --> 00:20:01,600 Speaker 1: and that's all I can do. Were you and you 415 00:20:01,640 --> 00:20:03,560 Speaker 1: say you didn't have any regrets, but was any part 416 00:20:03,600 --> 00:20:06,760 Speaker 1: of you worried that in doing that what the other 417 00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:10,880 Speaker 1: men would say or think? So, yeah, when I said 418 00:20:10,920 --> 00:20:17,040 Speaker 1: I didn't have any regrets, that might have been me 419 00:20:17,160 --> 00:20:19,920 Speaker 1: speaking in the mode. I mean, it's tough, it's tough, 420 00:20:20,240 --> 00:20:24,119 Speaker 1: Like I do have regrets. But at the same time, 421 00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:25,919 Speaker 1: there was definitely a part of me the thought that, 422 00:20:25,960 --> 00:20:28,000 Speaker 1: you know, I was going to get fall back from 423 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:31,240 Speaker 1: the men. I was surprised but also reassured that you know, 424 00:20:32,160 --> 00:20:34,480 Speaker 1: those guys we're on my side. Let me ask you 425 00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:37,360 Speaker 1: this because watching it back as a viewer, we all 426 00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:41,800 Speaker 1: know like each week, certain things, certain storylines get heightened, right, 427 00:20:42,240 --> 00:20:44,680 Speaker 1: And and I've said this on the podcast a few 428 00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:46,639 Speaker 1: weeks ago. I was Askantatius, because I was like, obviously 429 00:20:46,720 --> 00:20:49,160 Speaker 1: we're there. Was it just a super super slow newsweek 430 00:20:49,200 --> 00:20:52,280 Speaker 1: where this the comment about potentially wanting to be the 431 00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:55,720 Speaker 1: Bachelor was the storyline that we're running with right now, 432 00:20:55,760 --> 00:20:58,600 Speaker 1: and it seemed so heightened to the point where people, 433 00:20:59,240 --> 00:21:02,480 Speaker 1: you know, we've heard, we heard the term manipulative turnout constantly, 434 00:21:02,520 --> 00:21:05,760 Speaker 1: we heard Psycho were answering. I've had my own thoughts 435 00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:10,000 Speaker 1: about those those terms and that phrasing for this situation. 436 00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:12,960 Speaker 1: So it's one thing to be living in it and 437 00:21:13,080 --> 00:21:16,000 Speaker 1: you know, having these conversations with the men and with Katie, 438 00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:18,879 Speaker 1: but watching it back did it seem like it was 439 00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:21,840 Speaker 1: so extreme and blown out of proportion. So that's one 440 00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:23,880 Speaker 1: of the blessings of like being able to come back 441 00:21:23,960 --> 00:21:25,600 Speaker 1: from this and kind of look back at it, is 442 00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:27,800 Speaker 1: that you're obviously not in the same heightened sense of 443 00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:31,040 Speaker 1: like always on. I'll start off by saying, you know, 444 00:21:31,240 --> 00:21:34,639 Speaker 1: the word cancer, I definitely apologize. You know, I watched 445 00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:36,240 Speaker 1: the podcast and I saw what you said about it, 446 00:21:36,320 --> 00:21:38,479 Speaker 1: and I don't remember saying that personal, but if that 447 00:21:38,520 --> 00:21:40,639 Speaker 1: was me, man, no, I definitely was in a moment 448 00:21:40,680 --> 00:21:44,359 Speaker 1: and that was insensitive. I met in like a cancer, 449 00:21:44,480 --> 00:21:47,000 Speaker 1: something that attacks the body from the inside and it's 450 00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:50,679 Speaker 1: hard to detect. And in the house he was kind of, 451 00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:55,239 Speaker 1: in our opinion, was attacking in ways the process from 452 00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:56,960 Speaker 1: the inside and was hard to detect. And so I 453 00:21:56,960 --> 00:21:58,680 Speaker 1: was trying to make that similarity in it, and I 454 00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:00,600 Speaker 1: should have picked a different choice of where, but I 455 00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:04,359 Speaker 1: will say it was definitely more heightened. But it, like 456 00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:05,920 Speaker 1: I said, it's a two hour show. You're not getting 457 00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:08,639 Speaker 1: to see everything. Yeah, just know that, like without you know, 458 00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:11,800 Speaker 1: destroying anyone's character, because I do. I consider them all brothers, 459 00:22:11,960 --> 00:22:15,080 Speaker 1: and you know, brothers disagree sometimes and brothers have, you know, arguments, 460 00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:18,560 Speaker 1: and brothers have fights. So going back to obviously, you 461 00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:20,760 Speaker 1: know you, we did see you and Andrew us kind 462 00:22:20,760 --> 00:22:23,280 Speaker 1: of get after it a little bit, you know, in 463 00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:25,960 Speaker 1: how you wanted to confront or not confront Katie on 464 00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:29,280 Speaker 1: the situation. We see you then end up getting the 465 00:22:29,359 --> 00:22:31,600 Speaker 1: Rows the group date rose that night, So what did 466 00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:34,280 Speaker 1: that feel like? Was that just the validation you needed 467 00:22:34,320 --> 00:22:36,159 Speaker 1: at that point or how are you feeling in that moment? 468 00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:37,960 Speaker 1: It was tough. I'm not gonna lie get in the 469 00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:41,560 Speaker 1: group date rose and seeing you know, obviously watching it back, 470 00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:43,600 Speaker 1: you know, like I said, they're showing the highlights of 471 00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:45,919 Speaker 1: the conversation. You know, there's a lot more to that 472 00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:49,159 Speaker 1: conversation obviously, but at the same time, getting it after 473 00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:52,480 Speaker 1: that specific conversation, I'm not gonna lie and say I 474 00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:55,600 Speaker 1: felt amazing. I felt good getting the group date rose, 475 00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:57,760 Speaker 1: But at the same time I wanted it to be 476 00:22:57,840 --> 00:23:01,240 Speaker 1: under a little different circumstances because obviously after that you 477 00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:04,480 Speaker 1: kind of see, you know, Andrew and other people are like, oh, 478 00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:06,680 Speaker 1: he got that because he said this, or he got 479 00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:09,720 Speaker 1: that because and for me it was like the first 480 00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:12,000 Speaker 1: part of that date was about being daring, and you know, 481 00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:13,760 Speaker 1: I got my butt waxed. I did a bunch of 482 00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:16,040 Speaker 1: things that were like for me, just dary, out of 483 00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:18,840 Speaker 1: my comfort zone, very daring. And then the second part 484 00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:21,320 Speaker 1: she was like, it was about truth and that's been 485 00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:23,240 Speaker 1: something that you know, we were stewing over a lot. 486 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:25,879 Speaker 1: There's been a lot of conversations, and so I was like, 487 00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:28,840 Speaker 1: I gotta be truthful with this woman no matter what 488 00:23:28,920 --> 00:23:31,160 Speaker 1: happens after that. So part of me felt great about 489 00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:33,240 Speaker 1: getting the rows, but part of me felt like this 490 00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:36,120 Speaker 1: is gonna be the most questioned rows of all of them, 491 00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:40,760 Speaker 1: and it kind of wash um overall, because you know, 492 00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:44,240 Speaker 1: going back to the whole butt waxing and crazy date, 493 00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:47,720 Speaker 1: what was the ultimate favorite date of the entire season? 494 00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:51,080 Speaker 1: My favorite date was the was the Dar's date. Really, 495 00:23:51,600 --> 00:23:54,919 Speaker 1: it's such a fun one. It makes me happy that 496 00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:57,480 Speaker 1: you said that, because obviously that was my favorite date 497 00:23:57,520 --> 00:24:01,560 Speaker 1: on my season, and so I Becca hosted it for me. Actually, 498 00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:03,760 Speaker 1: so I had to bring it to Katie's because it 499 00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:06,439 Speaker 1: is just so freaking fun and you guys don't know 500 00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:09,240 Speaker 1: what to exspect and it makes you do the wildest 501 00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:12,840 Speaker 1: things like wax o parts I don't want to know about. 502 00:24:15,520 --> 00:24:18,240 Speaker 1: So I'm glad that you really liked it. I think 503 00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:20,280 Speaker 1: that for me, like one of the things that was 504 00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:22,200 Speaker 1: you know, obviously we didn't know what we were getting into. 505 00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:24,760 Speaker 1: Les they said, oh, you guys are paired up. I 506 00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:27,240 Speaker 1: was like, please let me be with Christian, Like I 507 00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:29,199 Speaker 1: love all the guys that me and Christian were like 508 00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:32,720 Speaker 1: very very close. Yeah, we're matched so well. And so 509 00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:35,159 Speaker 1: it was probably the most fun I've had, like in 510 00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:36,960 Speaker 1: my entire life. I'll say it's the top three most 511 00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:39,919 Speaker 1: fun days I ever had. We ever in your entire life. 512 00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:43,000 Speaker 1: We laughed from the start of being here together to 513 00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:45,560 Speaker 1: the end of it. And you know, obviously the most 514 00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:47,239 Speaker 1: I got to interact with you and Caitlin, you know, 515 00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:50,360 Speaker 1: for the proposal and the panis yeah, almost kind of. 516 00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:55,560 Speaker 1: You really did moments of panic. I think I was 517 00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:58,120 Speaker 1: out of my comfort zone that entire experience, But being 518 00:24:58,160 --> 00:25:00,440 Speaker 1: with Christian, that was the few one of the times 519 00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:02,480 Speaker 1: were like, it's not just me doing this, Like I 520 00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:05,199 Speaker 1: felt like, oh, it's me and Tim. We were both panicking, like, 521 00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:07,720 Speaker 1: and we chugged. We chugged a white claw before we 522 00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:10,760 Speaker 1: did the pepper thing, which made it like way worse, 523 00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:13,040 Speaker 1: Like we didn't know They're like, oh, hey, we're about 524 00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:15,000 Speaker 1: to go do these peppers. And so it got to 525 00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:16,560 Speaker 1: the point where like I was leaning on him. I 526 00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:19,360 Speaker 1: was like, yo, I'm panic harrying yea. And so one 527 00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:21,040 Speaker 1: of the things that was cool was the food thing. 528 00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:23,159 Speaker 1: You know, you saw the guys picking off their own tins. 529 00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:26,760 Speaker 1: I was like, Christian, I'm gonna pick yours. You picked mine? Yes, 530 00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:29,760 Speaker 1: And he picked mine and it was mashed potatoes. I 531 00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:34,160 Speaker 1: was like, bro, I would have loved that. I would 532 00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:38,600 Speaker 1: have loved the mashed potatoes. Sure, the mashed potatoes tray. 533 00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:43,120 Speaker 1: I made it look like, what would you what would 534 00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:45,800 Speaker 1: you rather had? Did you want? Times? I had to 535 00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:47,720 Speaker 1: give too much out, but I pulled Christians and he 536 00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:52,320 Speaker 1: got churros. Yeah he really did. And honestly I ate 537 00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:58,159 Speaker 1: a couple easier. And for the waxing, you know, Harry 538 00:25:58,240 --> 00:25:59,760 Speaker 1: is part of your body. I'm not a Harry guy 539 00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:02,159 Speaker 1: and it's not a secret. I'm not a guy that 540 00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:05,040 Speaker 1: like pride to his manliness on an amount of body area. 541 00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:11,080 Speaker 1: So you don't think anyone should. And so it's like 542 00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:12,960 Speaker 1: for me, I'm like, na, dude, I don't want to 543 00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:15,320 Speaker 1: be sweaty. So when it came time for Harry's part 544 00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:21,119 Speaker 1: of your body, I was like, um Christian when he 545 00:26:21,240 --> 00:26:24,200 Speaker 1: was a big fan, and I think it came across well, 546 00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:25,840 Speaker 1: I was panicking. But I would say that was my 547 00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:30,760 Speaker 1: favorite date. Long story short, Oh yeah, that one was crazy. 548 00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:34,000 Speaker 1: Speaking of waxing the men on Tatious season because like 549 00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:37,120 Speaker 1: she said, I hosted that date, they waxed other areas 550 00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:39,960 Speaker 1: and then some of them ended up showing all of 551 00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:43,000 Speaker 1: us where they actually waxed, and so I think I 552 00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:46,960 Speaker 1: think a little ass is okay. I like Zach literally 553 00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:50,359 Speaker 1: waxed a t in the side of his leg um, 554 00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:53,080 Speaker 1: and it probably was there for about like four months. 555 00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:56,040 Speaker 1: It was actually he was like to keep it up 556 00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:59,240 Speaker 1: at it's still there. In fact, he's not to get 557 00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:06,200 Speaker 1: rid of it. What was your what was your least 558 00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:12,600 Speaker 1: favorite date? Ah, that's a good question. I mean, so 559 00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:14,520 Speaker 1: I said second favorite was the Public Show. But then 560 00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:17,280 Speaker 1: also I would say, well, least favorite was the roast. 561 00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:19,840 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna even I forgot about the road favorite. 562 00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:24,120 Speaker 1: And I am a very roasty guy, like and that's 563 00:27:24,119 --> 00:27:25,480 Speaker 1: why you see, I'm like, oh, this is gonna play 564 00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:27,560 Speaker 1: to my strengths, not meaning that like I love to 565 00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:30,120 Speaker 1: tear people down, meaning like if this is a situation 566 00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:32,040 Speaker 1: where like we're gonna have some fun and take some 567 00:27:32,119 --> 00:27:33,920 Speaker 1: jabs in each other. I grew up with two older 568 00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:37,480 Speaker 1: sisters who are very good at like finding stuff that 569 00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:40,240 Speaker 1: would make me cry and then just like pressing me 570 00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:42,600 Speaker 1: on it, and so I'm used to like the back 571 00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:44,760 Speaker 1: and forth, and so I was expecting to be a 572 00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:47,040 Speaker 1: lot more of like a oh, this person says one 573 00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:48,879 Speaker 1: thing and then you can clap back. And so when 574 00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:51,000 Speaker 1: it was kind of more like a we get asked 575 00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:53,960 Speaker 1: questions and answer type of thing, and then obviously kind 576 00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:56,000 Speaker 1: of got to like piling on Hunter. I was like, ah, 577 00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:58,320 Speaker 1: and you can kind of you be uncomfortable this. It 578 00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:00,320 Speaker 1: was more of a debate at that point. It wasn't 579 00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:03,760 Speaker 1: a roast. It was a debate. Yeah, yeah, it wasn't 580 00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:07,520 Speaker 1: a roast at all. Okay, yeah, yeah, it wasn't really 581 00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:10,520 Speaker 1: even a debate because we weren't even allowed to respond 582 00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:12,560 Speaker 1: in the way that you would normally maybe respond in 583 00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:15,640 Speaker 1: a debate. But I will say that, like looking at it, 584 00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:18,480 Speaker 1: it definitely felt more bully esque watching it than it 585 00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:21,560 Speaker 1: felt on stage, right. But at the same time, man 586 00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:23,840 Speaker 1: like Hunters a grown man, and I do like that. 587 00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:26,280 Speaker 1: Like when I watched his uh confessionals, like he was 588 00:28:26,320 --> 00:28:28,639 Speaker 1: definitely you know, confident in not backing down, and you 589 00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:30,800 Speaker 1: love to see that because, like I said, we're all brothers, 590 00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:33,360 Speaker 1: and I would never want him to be like feeling like, oh, 591 00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:36,000 Speaker 1: I can't speak up for myself for you know, anything 592 00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:37,880 Speaker 1: like that. I would say that was my least favorite 593 00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:39,680 Speaker 1: of the dates that I went on. I was the 594 00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:42,000 Speaker 1: group day king. Unfortunately I never got a one on one. 595 00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:47,400 Speaker 1: It's okay, it's okay, don't worry. The group dates are 596 00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:52,840 Speaker 1: more fun. Actually true. The basketball date I was one 597 00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:54,560 Speaker 1: of the guys like hund Of, like I loved that, 598 00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:57,440 Speaker 1: like I loved I grew up playing football and so 599 00:28:57,720 --> 00:29:00,520 Speaker 1: for me, you know, it's been unfortunately eight years since 600 00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:04,880 Speaker 1: high school, and so I haven't tackled anyone untiever And 601 00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:08,800 Speaker 1: he needs to get that a question masculinity, but like 602 00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:10,960 Speaker 1: a little bit of like I wanted to hit somebody, 603 00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:13,680 Speaker 1: and like, yeah, I wanted to like in an environment 604 00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:16,560 Speaker 1: where it's like sports and companies, right, And so when 605 00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:19,320 Speaker 1: Hunter made that first tackle, it was like, oh, like shit, 606 00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:22,440 Speaker 1: like this is real. Like I thought like we were 607 00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:24,640 Speaker 1: gonna kind of, you know, play around a little bit. 608 00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:26,440 Speaker 1: And so once he made that tackle, was like, okay, guys, 609 00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:28,479 Speaker 1: like we gotta get real, we gotta get serious. And 610 00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:30,560 Speaker 1: from then on, like I had, I had a blast. 611 00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:33,880 Speaker 1: I also realized, like New Mexico people don't really realize 612 00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:36,560 Speaker 1: it's like almost the same amount of elevation above sea 613 00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:40,040 Speaker 1: level as Denver. We were gasping for air like thirty 614 00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:44,280 Speaker 1: secret the elevation is wild in New Mexico. Never thought 615 00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:46,600 Speaker 1: that that was a thing. I could barely breathe the 616 00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:49,440 Speaker 1: first two weeks I was there. It was the craziest thing. 617 00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:53,800 Speaker 1: I experienced. So yeah, playing sports, good job, guys. Can 618 00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:56,400 Speaker 1: you spill some tea on some on something that might 619 00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:59,040 Speaker 1: have happened that the viewers I didn't see that you 620 00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:06,040 Speaker 1: wish people saw. Ah, that's a good question, Matt, so 621 00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:11,000 Speaker 1: team meaning like bad stuff that happened or anything really 622 00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:15,120 Speaker 1: funny or something. So I will say that, Like, oh, 623 00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:17,479 Speaker 1: there's so many things, So I'll start out with this. 624 00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:19,640 Speaker 1: This group of guys was the funniest group of guys 625 00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:21,800 Speaker 1: that I've ever been around in my life. And I 626 00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:24,320 Speaker 1: think that some of those conversations don't lend themselves to 627 00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:27,040 Speaker 1: maybe like the romance, and so they didn't make it. 628 00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:29,840 Speaker 1: But like greg is a poet, and like he did 629 00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:32,640 Speaker 1: a poem um for the for the for the roast, 630 00:30:32,920 --> 00:30:34,600 Speaker 1: and that kind of was like his funny thing. But 631 00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:37,920 Speaker 1: like periodically every week he would like write a poem 632 00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:40,320 Speaker 1: about what was going on and then come up to 633 00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:42,520 Speaker 1: us and like have a glass of wine. And like 634 00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:45,320 Speaker 1: he had this alter ego called Gregory James, and he 635 00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:47,720 Speaker 1: would come and like perform these poems and they were 636 00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:50,360 Speaker 1: so funny, and like they never showed to you that 637 00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:53,360 Speaker 1: I love that um me and Katie um just for 638 00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:56,640 Speaker 1: like the romance side of it. Her favorite food is sushi, 639 00:30:56,680 --> 00:30:58,320 Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure. And you know, I was born in 640 00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:02,520 Speaker 1: Japan and so we got like a little sushi. I 641 00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:06,600 Speaker 1: love this. Yeah, so I was born in Tokyo. My 642 00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:08,600 Speaker 1: mom is in the Air Force, and so I was born. 643 00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:15,880 Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's amazing connection to Japan that I 644 00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:19,480 Speaker 1: just feel like the motherland. So when I was like, oh, 645 00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:21,160 Speaker 1: she loves sushi, I was like, guys, we gotta do 646 00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:23,719 Speaker 1: like a sushi eating day. And so we ate some 647 00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:26,680 Speaker 1: sushi at a cocktail party. You know, we discussed my 648 00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:29,560 Speaker 1: weird sushi dipping techniques and how like she's dips it 649 00:31:29,600 --> 00:31:34,560 Speaker 1: in and do it, Like what's your weird sushi dipping technique? 650 00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:39,280 Speaker 1: So like, well, normally people take this hard to like visualize, like, okay, 651 00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:43,560 Speaker 1: if it's a circular role, dip it damn words horribly, right, 652 00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:46,520 Speaker 1: that's what normal people do. But like for me, turn 653 00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:49,000 Speaker 1: on the head, yeah and like roll and like roll 654 00:31:49,080 --> 00:31:54,560 Speaker 1: it outside right, Oh doesn't it follow parts in? No? 655 00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:56,400 Speaker 1: And that's that's why she made a lot of it, 656 00:31:56,400 --> 00:32:02,240 Speaker 1: because you think, I don't need you to do a 657 00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:06,120 Speaker 1: little ig live story of how you eat your sushi. 658 00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:09,080 Speaker 1: So all of us can see this unraveling with Tray. 659 00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:13,800 Speaker 1: Oh gosh, that be good. That's funny. That's my everyday. 660 00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:17,440 Speaker 1: So yeah, that was one of the things that I 661 00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:21,080 Speaker 1: loved about that some other tea that was not shown. 662 00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:25,400 Speaker 1: Um huh. I feel like they did a really good 663 00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:27,000 Speaker 1: like they did a really good job of showing the 664 00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:29,840 Speaker 1: super highlights. I would say. Besides, I was just like 665 00:32:29,840 --> 00:32:32,280 Speaker 1: cracking up and laughing and my I mean I made 666 00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:35,200 Speaker 1: out with Katie. That didn't make it. I'm hoping I 667 00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:39,560 Speaker 1: was just once, just one time, sir. The bad kisser. Uh, 668 00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:42,960 Speaker 1: not the commentary, but the bad kisser maybe vibes that 669 00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:45,719 Speaker 1: Connor felt. I'm glad that, like, if anything, no one 670 00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:47,680 Speaker 1: can say that I'm a bad kisser yet because they 671 00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:50,959 Speaker 1: don't know. But I do wish a little party were 672 00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:53,880 Speaker 1: Wait did you just say yet as it like you 673 00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:56,960 Speaker 1: know you are and like it might come out soon? 674 00:32:57,640 --> 00:33:02,680 Speaker 1: Well ah no, oh you guys got life you know 675 00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:06,680 Speaker 1: who know? That is so funny. Well, so here's the thing. 676 00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:08,760 Speaker 1: This is actually why there's so much we don't see. 677 00:33:08,800 --> 00:33:11,720 Speaker 1: But this is why we love men and women tell 678 00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:14,320 Speaker 1: all each season is because we get the blue person. 679 00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:18,080 Speaker 1: So maybe moments like this will be seen. Are there 680 00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:22,880 Speaker 1: any moments that that are blooper worthy with you? I 681 00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:30,200 Speaker 1: feel like my whole I'll say there's a moment where, um, 682 00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:32,320 Speaker 1: you know Michael A, you know, we consider him like 683 00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:34,840 Speaker 1: the dad of the house. He's grilling out, you know, 684 00:33:34,920 --> 00:33:37,480 Speaker 1: where I'm having my Mimosa's. I'm probably three and a 685 00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:39,840 Speaker 1: half deep at this point, and we start to break 686 00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:43,320 Speaker 1: out the dancing and singing, and you know, Michael A's freestyling, 687 00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:46,240 Speaker 1: and you know, I'm getting loose, and so I wonder 688 00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:49,760 Speaker 1: if that makes the blooper real. Um, the waxing definitely 689 00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:55,440 Speaker 1: gotten way more interesting, way more Oh gosh, And I 690 00:33:56,280 --> 00:33:58,800 Speaker 1: don't know about my puppet show, but also me around 691 00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:01,960 Speaker 1: the house, I'm a laugh I'd rather laugh through everything 692 00:34:02,000 --> 00:34:04,480 Speaker 1: than like just be super serious and and straight. So 693 00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:06,800 Speaker 1: I'm kind of excited to see the bloopers too. I 694 00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:09,279 Speaker 1: really don't know what is blooper worthy, but I'll say 695 00:34:09,320 --> 00:34:14,080 Speaker 1: I was coming up. I was out there. They're the best, Okay. 696 00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:16,879 Speaker 1: I know that you guys always have each season, there's 697 00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:19,880 Speaker 1: always a group chat with most of the contestant. So 698 00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:24,839 Speaker 1: is there one we know that there is one, Trey. Oh, 699 00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:29,040 Speaker 1: she's good, she's there. There is one. The men have 700 00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:32,200 Speaker 1: to have one. It happens every season, every season, and 701 00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:34,719 Speaker 1: don't even try. I would love to be a fly 702 00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:39,000 Speaker 1: on the wall to rooting what you guys all talk about. Um, so, 703 00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:41,799 Speaker 1: as we know, mental is coming up, and you do 704 00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:44,279 Speaker 1: say that they're sort of this brotherhood that you guys 705 00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:47,360 Speaker 1: have formed, and obviously, you know, sometimes we like to 706 00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:50,640 Speaker 1: leave the past in the past. But knowing that you 707 00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:53,160 Speaker 1: guys now are for the most part friends and have 708 00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:55,600 Speaker 1: this group chat and you know, are back in the 709 00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:58,879 Speaker 1: real world, living lives and just you know, building upon 710 00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:02,279 Speaker 1: the friendship that you guys formed at the resort. What 711 00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:05,040 Speaker 1: do you think we can expect from mental All? Because 712 00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:07,480 Speaker 1: when we watched Women till a last season, we thought 713 00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:09,040 Speaker 1: it was going to be a lot more heated. It 714 00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:12,960 Speaker 1: was actually very tames, very cordial, very mellow civil, if 715 00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:15,600 Speaker 1: you will. So, what do you think we can expect 716 00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:20,279 Speaker 1: with this mental All? That's a great question. I'm kind 717 00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:23,239 Speaker 1: of also like I part of the answers. I don't 718 00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:25,520 Speaker 1: know what to expect because you have a such a 719 00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:28,920 Speaker 1: diverse group of guys that are passionate and very like 720 00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:31,839 Speaker 1: not afraid to say what they feel. And so on 721 00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:33,279 Speaker 1: one hand, I think you're gonna have a little bit 722 00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:34,880 Speaker 1: of a romance. You're gonna have a little bit of 723 00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:37,080 Speaker 1: that good to see you guys again, happy to see 724 00:35:37,120 --> 00:35:39,960 Speaker 1: you guys again, jokey type of vibe. And then you're 725 00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:42,480 Speaker 1: gonna have you know, it's been a while since some 726 00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:45,759 Speaker 1: of us have had that maybe resolution to tension. You know, 727 00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:48,279 Speaker 1: the last time some of us saw each other wasn't 728 00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:51,080 Speaker 1: necessarily on great terms. And so you're also going to 729 00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:57,440 Speaker 1: have hopefully an amicable resolution to some issues. You know, 730 00:35:57,480 --> 00:36:00,040 Speaker 1: for me, I would definitely say, like I said, I 731 00:35:59,880 --> 00:36:01,880 Speaker 1: have no regrets, but I do want those guys to 732 00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:04,600 Speaker 1: know like nothing is coming from a place of hate 733 00:36:04,680 --> 00:36:06,759 Speaker 1: or a place of evilness. You know, in me that 734 00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:08,480 Speaker 1: was I might have done it the wrong way, but 735 00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:10,319 Speaker 1: at the time it was what I thought was right. Um. 736 00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:12,520 Speaker 1: I think you're gonna get some important conversations that need 737 00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:15,480 Speaker 1: to be had. Um, you're gonna hopefully see some guys 738 00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:18,279 Speaker 1: open up a little bit more about how they felt 739 00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:21,200 Speaker 1: about their exits. I know Connor b Man his exit 740 00:36:21,640 --> 00:36:25,400 Speaker 1: hit us hard, like hard, and so seeing him be 741 00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:27,480 Speaker 1: able to kind of share, you know a little bit more, 742 00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:28,960 Speaker 1: because like I said, we weren't able to be like, 743 00:36:29,160 --> 00:36:30,799 Speaker 1: how did it go? How are you feeling? It was 744 00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:33,560 Speaker 1: like a hey, guys, I'm leaving by, and I was like, 745 00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:35,880 Speaker 1: oh no, Like so I think that you're gonna get 746 00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:38,480 Speaker 1: it to see a little bit of of that. You're 747 00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:42,440 Speaker 1: gonna probably see some arguments and you'll you'll see some laughs, 748 00:36:42,480 --> 00:36:46,160 Speaker 1: I think more often overall, I hope that there will 749 00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:49,040 Speaker 1: be more laughs than anything. You know. I think that 750 00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:51,400 Speaker 1: you know, we love each other and that's not a secret, 751 00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:54,480 Speaker 1: and so I hope that you know, with these resolutions 752 00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:56,120 Speaker 1: of these arguments, that that we can come to a 753 00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:59,520 Speaker 1: place of friendship at the end. But also, you know, 754 00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:01,640 Speaker 1: there's guys they're not going back down, and if people 755 00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:04,440 Speaker 1: come at me crazy, you know, then I might have 756 00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:09,400 Speaker 1: to get into my TESTI bang by like I'm not 757 00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:12,600 Speaker 1: gonna lie. I'm really interested to see what goes down, 758 00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:16,600 Speaker 1: just because there are so many conversations that I feel 759 00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:19,640 Speaker 1: like we still need a little bit more information on, 760 00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:22,480 Speaker 1: and there were some tifts between you guys that I 761 00:37:22,480 --> 00:37:24,279 Speaker 1: think need to be worked out a little bit more. 762 00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:27,520 Speaker 1: So it's always interested. I cannot wait for men all 763 00:37:27,880 --> 00:37:33,200 Speaker 1: but tray. We also some saw some other exciting news 764 00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:37,880 Speaker 1: this past week that you will be on the beaches 765 00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:45,239 Speaker 1: of Paradies this summer. I wish our listeners could see 766 00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:51,560 Speaker 1: trays not only singing. He has bang? Should we shake here? 767 00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:56,640 Speaker 1: Come on? Tell us what we can't expect? How was it? 768 00:37:56,640 --> 00:37:59,000 Speaker 1: If you could sum it up in one word, what 769 00:37:59,040 --> 00:38:04,960 Speaker 1: would you describe your time in Paradise? Like, give give 770 00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:08,440 Speaker 1: us two to three words. I said, it was nuts, 771 00:38:08,440 --> 00:38:11,359 Speaker 1: it was a whirlwind. You saw the boy come out 772 00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:14,120 Speaker 1: of his show. I'm not go like so for me 773 00:38:14,280 --> 00:38:17,880 Speaker 1: bachelorette like I was. I started nervous, and I lunged 774 00:38:17,960 --> 00:38:20,359 Speaker 1: up into like, oh, like you can do this. Oh, 775 00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:22,200 Speaker 1: she has a connection with you. She gave you a rose. 776 00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:24,120 Speaker 1: And then so then by the time I get to Paradise, 777 00:38:24,160 --> 00:38:26,759 Speaker 1: I'm like, go for it, man, Like what is the 778 00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:29,000 Speaker 1: worst that can happen? And so I hit the beach, 779 00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:32,720 Speaker 1: you know, running like and and I'm I'm I'm excited 780 00:38:32,800 --> 00:38:34,319 Speaker 1: for people to see, you know what happens. I don't 781 00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:36,520 Speaker 1: want to give away too much, but it was a whirlwind. 782 00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:40,239 Speaker 1: You see me more confident, You see me more you know, assertive. 783 00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:44,879 Speaker 1: You see it's it's it's an interesting dynamic between people 784 00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:47,160 Speaker 1: who kind of know each other and the Katie's guys 785 00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:50,680 Speaker 1: come in and we have our own little sauce and 786 00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:53,480 Speaker 1: that we provide to the mix. That's that's dope. I think. 787 00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:55,560 Speaker 1: So people are gonna be excited to see what we 788 00:38:55,600 --> 00:38:58,840 Speaker 1: will we will we shake up. Well, I'm excited to 789 00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:01,799 Speaker 1: see what you shade up because I feel like it's 790 00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:03,960 Speaker 1: so interesting because I feel like you say you cep 791 00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:07,439 Speaker 1: out of your shell. I feel like you were seen, Yeah, 792 00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:10,160 Speaker 1: because if you were, it felt like you say that 793 00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:12,240 Speaker 1: it took you a wild warm up. We never noticed 794 00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:16,239 Speaker 1: that whatsoever. So that's funny you say that. I feel 795 00:39:16,280 --> 00:39:19,000 Speaker 1: like I'm a nervous talker, and it's something I told 796 00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:21,760 Speaker 1: the guys a bunch of times, like when I'm nervous, 797 00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:23,759 Speaker 1: I smile and talk and it comes across the well 798 00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:28,480 Speaker 1: and I'm inside. I'm like, yeah, I feel this on 799 00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:31,640 Speaker 1: such a deep level because I am the same exact way, 800 00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:34,520 Speaker 1: and so many people are like just say less sometimes. 801 00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:39,160 Speaker 1: But I hate, like, I hate awkward silencing. I totally 802 00:39:39,239 --> 00:39:42,120 Speaker 1: feel you. I ramble when I get nervous, and it's 803 00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:44,719 Speaker 1: just like I could have emitted like maybe fifty two 804 00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:48,000 Speaker 1: of those words that I just said, but whatever, buzz 805 00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:50,520 Speaker 1: and they're just like shocking me. Yeah, they're just like okay, 806 00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:54,279 Speaker 1: I'll stop. I mean, we could make this a thing 807 00:39:54,480 --> 00:40:00,520 Speaker 1: one day if you really want it. Um Trey, this 808 00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:02,640 Speaker 1: has been such an absolute pleasure. I feel like there's 809 00:40:02,640 --> 00:40:04,359 Speaker 1: still so much that I want to ask you and 810 00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:06,920 Speaker 1: talk to you about. But we we asked all of 811 00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:10,839 Speaker 1: our guests each week what was overall I mean here 812 00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:13,040 Speaker 1: time of the season, now that we've seen you go home, 813 00:40:13,680 --> 00:40:16,480 Speaker 1: what was your rose and what was your thorn of 814 00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:22,920 Speaker 1: kV season? Oh that was a good question, Dobby with 815 00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:27,680 Speaker 1: that one hold on, let me Oh, he's getting back 816 00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:31,840 Speaker 1: in the first. So I'll start with the thorn. My 817 00:40:31,960 --> 00:40:34,640 Speaker 1: thorn was just that I'm a passionate guy. That's not 818 00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:38,000 Speaker 1: a secret. I'll come from a passionate family, and I 819 00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:41,160 Speaker 1: think that there's times where, you know, the long nights 820 00:40:41,160 --> 00:40:43,480 Speaker 1: and the stress of the situation led me to be 821 00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:46,480 Speaker 1: a little bit more dramatic than I normally would be. 822 00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:50,000 Speaker 1: I would say my thorn was that I let small 823 00:40:50,040 --> 00:40:53,040 Speaker 1: things become big things. Sometimes I want to keep the 824 00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:55,000 Speaker 1: big things big and keep the small things small. That's 825 00:40:55,040 --> 00:40:56,759 Speaker 1: just kind of something I like to do, and in 826 00:40:56,800 --> 00:40:59,680 Speaker 1: this situation, I think sometimes I didn't let that happen, 827 00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:02,919 Speaker 1: I'll say that's my probably my thorn. And then also 828 00:41:03,000 --> 00:41:04,759 Speaker 1: just not getting a one on one. I want a 829 00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:06,920 Speaker 1: two part thorn. Not getting a one on one for me, 830 00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:08,960 Speaker 1: I felt like me and Katie would have had so 831 00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:11,359 Speaker 1: much fun on a one on one because I made 832 00:41:11,360 --> 00:41:13,040 Speaker 1: her a laugh every time I talked to her, and 833 00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:16,120 Speaker 1: laughter is like my biggest tool for me in romance, 834 00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:18,040 Speaker 1: Like I want the center at the center of my love. 835 00:41:18,080 --> 00:41:20,200 Speaker 1: I want there to be joy and laughter. And so 836 00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:22,000 Speaker 1: we had that, and so I wish I would have 837 00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:25,520 Speaker 1: had maybe some more time to tap into that my rose. 838 00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:28,560 Speaker 1: And this is kind of probably I don't know if 839 00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:30,360 Speaker 1: people are gonna love this or hate this, but the 840 00:41:31,160 --> 00:41:33,040 Speaker 1: way that I grew as a person, I would say 841 00:41:33,080 --> 00:41:35,399 Speaker 1: that I came in there similar. And when I said 842 00:41:35,400 --> 00:41:37,600 Speaker 1: I was similar to Connor, it's that we both shared 843 00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:40,480 Speaker 1: our insecurities openly. You know, we came out there and 844 00:41:40,480 --> 00:41:42,920 Speaker 1: it was a group of Adonises. Man, there's a bunch 845 00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:46,040 Speaker 1: of gorgeous men out there that are like six feet eight, 846 00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:48,600 Speaker 1: like Thomas is a beautiful man, Like let's be real, 847 00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:51,239 Speaker 1: the guy is, you know, cut out of marble. And 848 00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:53,680 Speaker 1: so for me, it was like, you know, I popped 849 00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:55,760 Speaker 1: out of that truck and felt good. But I walked 850 00:41:55,760 --> 00:41:57,480 Speaker 1: into that room and kind of felt like I didn't belong. 851 00:41:57,760 --> 00:42:00,760 Speaker 1: And so for me who was staring at that feeling 852 00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:03,520 Speaker 1: like I didn't belong, to like meshing with the guys 853 00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:05,600 Speaker 1: to connect it with Katie to being like, oh man, 854 00:42:05,680 --> 00:42:07,759 Speaker 1: maybe maybe I am a great guy. Maybe I do 855 00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:10,319 Speaker 1: have like a lot to offer in a relationship. And 856 00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:11,719 Speaker 1: by the end of it, you know, that's why I 857 00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:13,440 Speaker 1: walked out with a smile. One of the things that 858 00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:15,320 Speaker 1: was important to me was I want to leave this 859 00:42:15,400 --> 00:42:17,520 Speaker 1: how I started, you know, laughing and smile with Katie, 860 00:42:17,640 --> 00:42:21,200 Speaker 1: and I was happy, obviously heartbroken, but happy that I 861 00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:22,759 Speaker 1: was a way better guy at the end of that 862 00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:24,399 Speaker 1: than I was at the start of it. And so 863 00:42:24,680 --> 00:42:26,360 Speaker 1: my rose would just be the personal growth and the 864 00:42:26,400 --> 00:42:29,719 Speaker 1: friendships that I got to to make with everybody. I 865 00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:34,319 Speaker 1: love that You're so interesting to me, because he went 866 00:42:34,400 --> 00:42:39,160 Speaker 1: back to your energy. You have just such a fun, loving, playful, 867 00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:43,839 Speaker 1: just positive energy. Obviously I don't think anybody can can 868 00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:48,080 Speaker 1: fight that, but you also still seem like you are 869 00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:51,279 Speaker 1: so grounded and mature. It's just like this very You're 870 00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:55,600 Speaker 1: just a very well rounded man. You warning that not like, 871 00:42:55,600 --> 00:42:58,920 Speaker 1: oh you're a weird guy. No, not at all. I 872 00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:01,399 Speaker 1: would never say well, I'm look, I'm really weird too. 873 00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:04,400 Speaker 1: So if I say you're weird, I like weird. But no, 874 00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:09,640 Speaker 1: you just like you like you're very surprising because you 875 00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:12,239 Speaker 1: have just so many different levels to your personality that 876 00:43:12,360 --> 00:43:15,000 Speaker 1: this is why we love having you men on the podcast, 877 00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:17,520 Speaker 1: because like you said, there's only so much we can 878 00:43:17,560 --> 00:43:19,480 Speaker 1: see in a two hour block each week, and when 879 00:43:19,520 --> 00:43:21,520 Speaker 1: you guys are filming twenty four seven, they have to 880 00:43:21,520 --> 00:43:24,120 Speaker 1: cut out so much. And so this is why we 881 00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:26,439 Speaker 1: love having you on to actually get to know you, 882 00:43:26,480 --> 00:43:29,040 Speaker 1: get to know the inside scoop, what makes you take 883 00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:31,840 Speaker 1: who you are to your core, and so I'm thrilled 884 00:43:31,840 --> 00:43:33,279 Speaker 1: that we could have you on today. This has been 885 00:43:33,320 --> 00:43:36,440 Speaker 1: an absolute pleasure so much, and you're just as worthy 886 00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:39,919 Speaker 1: as all as other guys you marvel as well, like, 887 00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:43,360 Speaker 1: don't even ever try downplay yourself, like you're there for 888 00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:45,400 Speaker 1: a reason. Life always happens why it's supposed to. So 889 00:43:45,600 --> 00:43:48,719 Speaker 1: always believe that I always remember that. Yeah, yeah, and 890 00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:51,400 Speaker 1: that's why my Instagram bios. You are enough. And that 891 00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:53,080 Speaker 1: was one of the things that was written on the 892 00:43:53,120 --> 00:43:55,320 Speaker 1: little letters I read from my parents and it's funny 893 00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:58,239 Speaker 1: because they snuck those into my backpack. Not didn't see 894 00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:00,120 Speaker 1: that they were going to do that, and they they 895 00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:02,080 Speaker 1: address things that I didn't even tell them about. Just 896 00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:04,480 Speaker 1: you are enough, man, Someone's gonna love you for you 897 00:44:04,520 --> 00:44:06,400 Speaker 1: no matter what. Absolutely, and that made me feel a 898 00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:09,640 Speaker 1: lot better. So it's great every time every conversation I 899 00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:11,560 Speaker 1: have with you guys and with people from the show, 900 00:44:11,560 --> 00:44:13,239 Speaker 1: it makes me feel, you know, a lot better. Like 901 00:44:13,680 --> 00:44:15,560 Speaker 1: you know, It's one thing when your parents tell you 902 00:44:15,560 --> 00:44:17,560 Speaker 1: you're great. It's another thing when people who don't know 903 00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:19,880 Speaker 1: you would have nothing to gain, you know, tell you that, no, 904 00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:22,719 Speaker 1: they like you. So it feels good. Absolutely, it was. 905 00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:28,120 Speaker 1: Really this is so fun. Thank you an absolute pleasure, Trey. 906 00:44:28,160 --> 00:44:31,000 Speaker 1: I'm sure this is not the last time our paths 907 00:44:31,000 --> 00:44:33,719 Speaker 1: will all across. We have many more fun things in 908 00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:36,240 Speaker 1: store when you become part of the Spatch Nation world, 909 00:44:36,360 --> 00:44:38,839 Speaker 1: and so I'm sure we will see you again, have 910 00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:40,799 Speaker 1: you on again very soon. But thank you for joining 911 00:44:40,800 --> 00:44:43,160 Speaker 1: about your happy hour today. Thank you so much. I 912 00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:44,919 Speaker 1: hope you guys have an awesome rest of your week. 913 00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:48,880 Speaker 1: Have a good one, okay, stay in touch. What to 914 00:44:48,920 --> 00:44:51,520 Speaker 1: say about Trey. He called himself testing Trey at one point, 915 00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:55,239 Speaker 1: and I'm like, he's terrific Tray. To me, that was 916 00:44:55,719 --> 00:45:03,879 Speaker 1: way terrific Tray. I'm gonna call him, Um, what else 917 00:45:04,040 --> 00:45:06,080 Speaker 1: rides a tea? And it's actually a really hard letter. 918 00:45:06,120 --> 00:45:09,439 Speaker 1: Okay I would know because I'm Tasha, but like it's 919 00:45:09,440 --> 00:45:14,400 Speaker 1: really hard. Yeah, what do you I mean, like anything good? Terrific, tremendous, 920 00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:20,719 Speaker 1: tremendous Tray, Try Tray. He just has God, I'm gonna 921 00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:24,000 Speaker 1: say this once again, his energy is amazing. It's infectious. 922 00:45:24,040 --> 00:45:28,920 Speaker 1: It's tremendous. It's tremendous. It's amazing. I love this. Yeah, No, 923 00:45:29,120 --> 00:45:32,560 Speaker 1: he really does. He's infectious in the sense of like 924 00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:35,320 Speaker 1: he's always happy, he's always smiling. He has this bubbly 925 00:45:35,440 --> 00:45:37,239 Speaker 1: energy to himself that you just want to kind of 926 00:45:37,239 --> 00:45:39,560 Speaker 1: like keep talking to him and just it just feels good. 927 00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:41,840 Speaker 1: So I'm so happy we had him on the podcast today. 928 00:45:42,040 --> 00:45:45,080 Speaker 1: I'm too. I I it's so funny because he told 929 00:45:45,120 --> 00:45:47,799 Speaker 1: us a couple times that he was nervous to do it, 930 00:45:47,880 --> 00:45:51,560 Speaker 1: and I'm like, don't be, first of all, because no, 931 00:45:52,239 --> 00:45:54,399 Speaker 1: you were. He was a fan favorite. But yeah, it's 932 00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:58,520 Speaker 1: just he he just cares himself so well, and he has, 933 00:45:58,560 --> 00:46:01,520 Speaker 1: like I said, he has like the old, young, infectious 934 00:46:02,040 --> 00:46:04,080 Speaker 1: aura if you will, but then mix with kind of 935 00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:06,400 Speaker 1: an old soul in a way. It's just like this weird, 936 00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:10,359 Speaker 1: like this cool chameleon type personality that I enjoy so 937 00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:12,920 Speaker 1: I hope everybody else enjoyed that. We will see him 938 00:46:13,000 --> 00:46:16,320 Speaker 1: very soon once again on Mentell and he also is 939 00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:19,239 Speaker 1: gracing the beaches of Paradise. So if you're bummed that 940 00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:21,000 Speaker 1: Tray went home last week, don't be. We will see 941 00:46:21,080 --> 00:46:23,680 Speaker 1: him again. So huge shout out to Trey for joining 942 00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:25,720 Speaker 1: us and for all of our Badchelor Happy Hour listeners. 943 00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:28,600 Speaker 1: Thank you all for joining us once again. Please make 944 00:46:28,600 --> 00:46:30,239 Speaker 1: sure to hit us up on social. We are at 945 00:46:30,239 --> 00:46:33,320 Speaker 1: Bachelor Happy Hour on Instagram and at Badge Nation pods 946 00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:35,640 Speaker 1: on both Facebook and Twitter. And as always, please don't 947 00:46:35,680 --> 00:46:37,719 Speaker 1: forget to subscribe to our podcast. You can do that 948 00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:40,960 Speaker 1: on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, the Wondering App, or wherever you 949 00:46:40,960 --> 00:46:43,640 Speaker 1: are listening to us right now. Have a good one everyone, 950 00:46:43,719 --> 00:46:43,919 Speaker 1: By