WEBVTT - Second Date Update UPDATE: Funny Farm

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<v Speaker 1>A few months ago, we heard about a first date

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<v Speaker 1>that turned out like a real life sitcom, all because

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<v Speaker 1>of a simple misunderstanding where the girl thought she was

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<v Speaker 1>going to be going to her favorite brunch spot that day. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>it turns out they were headed someplace way different.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she was definitely not dressed for No, not.

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<v Speaker 1>Nearly as romantic, but still it led to one of

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<v Speaker 1>the sweetest, most memorable calls that we've had all year.

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<v Speaker 1>And today we're gonna have both of them back on

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<v Speaker 1>the show to find out what's happened since their chaotic

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<v Speaker 1>first meet up. That's right, we're doing a brand new

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<v Speaker 1>second date update update right after their original phone call.

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<v Speaker 1>That's happening next second dat up date. You know, recently,

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<v Speaker 1>I was on a dating app trying to find matches

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<v Speaker 1>for Jose. Oh yeah, Honestly it was really difficult. Not

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<v Speaker 1>because of what Jose wants, you know, because he'll go

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<v Speaker 1>out with pretty much anything. I'm just saying that as

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<v Speaker 1>a single it's got to be hard because the apps

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<v Speaker 1>field was so many odd people.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, mostly on like.

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<v Speaker 1>With photos wearing tons of makeup and filters, or someone

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<v Speaker 1>that's standing alone in a swamp holding a sign up

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<v Speaker 1>that says still single. I don't know is that supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to be funny or is it meant to make me

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<v Speaker 1>sad and it make me feel bad enough to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with it? All I know is after that experience,

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<v Speaker 1>I really feel for listeners like Steve, who emailed into

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<v Speaker 1>the show today and said he was just happy that

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<v Speaker 1>her profile seemed somewhat normal.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you're not looking for a swamp girl to go

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<v Speaker 2>to you with your swamp.

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<v Speaker 3>Boy, No, not at all.

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<v Speaker 1>OK, tell us about the woman that you matched with.

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<v Speaker 1>What's her name, Jamie? All right?

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<v Speaker 2>Is there anything exceptional to say about her? Or was

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<v Speaker 2>she just normal?

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<v Speaker 3>She seemed very normal, super cute, and you know, I

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<v Speaker 3>was raised on a farm, so she didn't necessarily look

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<v Speaker 3>like a country girl. But she looked very sweet and

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<v Speaker 3>innocently so I kind of went with it.

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<v Speaker 2>She could still pick up a bail of hay. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm assuming that that's on your list.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you do with a normal girl for a

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<v Speaker 1>first date?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, the date that I kind of pitched to her

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<v Speaker 3>that she kind of agreed to was, you know, let's

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<v Speaker 3>just have a date on my family farm, and you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I can show you what farm life is day to

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<v Speaker 3>day you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Minute, does that mean that she's like meeting your family

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<v Speaker 2>on the first date.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean it is the family farm, so we pretty

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<v Speaker 3>much it's just family that works there. But you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I just wanted to experience how I grew up and

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<v Speaker 3>you know, my just kind of day to day living.

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<v Speaker 2>So are you still working on the farm too?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Part time okay, And I can imagine all the cute

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<v Speaker 2>animals are also your family.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we had the whole nine yards. We got a

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<v Speaker 3>cow's chickens goat. I will get to mister Harvey in

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<v Speaker 3>a little bit, but yeah, yes, that is our goat.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, this is an interesting choice for a first date. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>what was her reaction when you pitched this idea to him?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, she seemed kind of excited about it. I mean

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<v Speaker 3>she didn't voice any concerns. I thought her. I was,

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<v Speaker 3>let you know, I'll get you some overalls and some boots.

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<v Speaker 3>Picked her up early in the morning. We drove out

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<v Speaker 3>to the countryside, you know, and went to the farm,

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<v Speaker 3>and she got dressed and got to work.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, Okay, I like work.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I got to stop here for a second. I

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<v Speaker 2>grew up, you know, surrounded by farm life in a

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<v Speaker 2>tiny little town. It's not glamorous. I mean, like to me,

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<v Speaker 2>it sounds like you're shovely manure.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I did spare her the manure when you know,

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<v Speaker 3>we picked the eggs for breakfast and then we went

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<v Speaker 3>out and we melt the cows. We did not use

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<v Speaker 3>the milk for breakfast. But I told her, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, do you want to feed the pigs?

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<v Speaker 3>It's super simple, it's not really all that mess. And

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<v Speaker 3>she was down with it. But mister Harvey. That's where

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<v Speaker 3>mister Harvey comes in because he kind of just roams

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<v Speaker 3>the farm. Yes, he's our pet goat. He's kind of

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<v Speaker 3>like our guard dog. Instead of a blue chick hound.

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<v Speaker 3>We have a we have a big goat. Yeah, he's

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<v Speaker 3>sometimes a little temperamental when it comes to meeting new people.

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<v Speaker 3>He'll just nibble on them.

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<v Speaker 1>Brook did the same thing to me on my first

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<v Speaker 1>day on the show. She just came up and start

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<v Speaker 1>and tear my clothes right off.

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<v Speaker 2>I got to say, I'm part goat.

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<v Speaker 1>I did.

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<v Speaker 2>I could get behind that. Did that scare her?

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<v Speaker 3>Well? Not at first? I mean at first I think

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<v Speaker 3>it did, but it wasn't until he kind of started

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<v Speaker 3>getting a little aggressive with it because I had turned

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<v Speaker 3>my back for a minute and I turned back around

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<v Speaker 3>and she was pretty much almost on all fours, just

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<v Speaker 3>getting chewed up.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you're describing Brooks to a tea. Here's getting flashbacks

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<v Speaker 1>of my own life.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, she did laugh about it, so I just

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<v Speaker 3>I took it as just one of those things.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, if you've ever tried to milk a goat,

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<v Speaker 2>you know how scary they can be. Put in that small,

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<v Speaker 2>enclosed area that.

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<v Speaker 1>Sounds like a mostly Brooke experience room at least, So

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, how did how did the date end for

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<v Speaker 1>you there?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, we had we had lunch with my parents and

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<v Speaker 3>everybody who and I introduced her as my new friend.

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<v Speaker 1>But everyone knows that I want her.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't want it. I wanted to do the kind

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<v Speaker 3>of thing normal, like not too serious, like you're meeting

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<v Speaker 3>our parents, my parents on the first date. Because okay,

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<v Speaker 3>we agreed to the farm date.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you bring a lot of women out to the

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<v Speaker 1>farm to meet everybody or is this.

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<v Speaker 3>A new thing with now that's honestly, this is the

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<v Speaker 3>first time thing. I thought it would be kind of

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<v Speaker 3>cool to get out of the city, and so the

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<v Speaker 3>lunch went fine, and I told her, I said, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>next date, you pick city, whatever you want to do,

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<v Speaker 3>we'll do it. And she hasn't returned to any of

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<v Speaker 3>my text.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you regretting the farm date idea since she isn't

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<v Speaker 2>writing me back, or do you think it's something else.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm beginning to think it might have been a bad idea.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I disagree. I think if she's a city girl,

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<v Speaker 1>you bring it to the frights, like bringing someone to

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<v Speaker 1>a zoo, you do something to see. You don't have

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<v Speaker 1>the whole world work at the zoo, but you don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to work. Though you said, you made it light

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<v Speaker 1>and she just got to kind of hang around. I

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<v Speaker 1>think maybe mister Harvey swooped in on your girl. He

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<v Speaker 1>stole it from you. But we're going to find out.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna call Jamie here in just a second and

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<v Speaker 1>get your second date update right after this.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, thank you?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, hold on man, update.

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<v Speaker 2>You're in the middle of a second date update update,

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<v Speaker 2>and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing

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<v Speaker 2>right after you here. Part two.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, old McDonald may have had a farm, but

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<v Speaker 1>old mcsteve o had a date. Oh yeah, yeah, yoh.

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<v Speaker 1>And on his date, there was a Jamie yeah yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>yoh with a farm chore. Here in a farm chore. There,

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<v Speaker 1>here's my mom, here's my dad. Here's a goat. That's bad.

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<v Speaker 1>But Steve did take Jamie to his family farm. And

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<v Speaker 1>I think the overwhelming thought in studio right now is

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<v Speaker 1>that Jamie probably didn't want to spend the whole time

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<v Speaker 1>doing farm work.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it almost sounds like your family was using

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<v Speaker 2>it as a ploy to get free labor.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I wouldn't say that. I thought she was having fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, she was having fun. This is like a

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<v Speaker 1>one cent you know, life not lifetime. But it's like

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<v Speaker 1>random thing. I mean, hose would you like to do

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<v Speaker 1>that for a first date? To a lifetime opportunity? The animals.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like you want to go to yeah, yeah, farm.

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<v Speaker 1>Farm almost something like a heavy petting zoo.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna tell you, do not want to drink fresh

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<v Speaker 2>milk makes me vomit every time.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I want to go to a heavy pet Yeah

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<v Speaker 1>that sounds kind of fun. But maybe we should start

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<v Speaker 1>a business after this is over. But we have a

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<v Speaker 1>job to do on the show, and that's to call

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<v Speaker 1>Jamie and figure out why she's not calling Steve back. So, Steve,

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<v Speaker 1>you're ready to do this?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm ready to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go.

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<v Speaker 2>Farmhand, Jamie, farm hand, that's what people who work on

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<v Speaker 2>a farm.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, regular hands. Here we go.

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<v Speaker 4>Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey is this Jamie? Yeah, Hey Jamie. My name is

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<v Speaker 1>jeff from the radio Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we need some extra help around the radio station. And

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<v Speaker 1>we heard you are excellent.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry, what is this about?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that was strange.

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<v Speaker 1>This is about a segment that we're doing called a

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<v Speaker 1>second Date Update, and say we're trying to help one

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners named Steve get back in touch with

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<v Speaker 1>you after you went on a date.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah, that was all big old side there, Jamie.

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<v Speaker 1>We've already spoken to Steve about your first day with him,

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<v Speaker 1>and we've heard his side of the story. We're interested

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<v Speaker 1>in getting your side of the story to know what

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<v Speaker 1>you thought about him and his family farm.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, first of all, he didn't say his family farm.

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<v Speaker 2>He didn't.

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<v Speaker 4>No, he said, hey, do you want to go to

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<v Speaker 4>the farm for frunch? And I'm like, oh, I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't know his family was going to be there.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, you love that place, like the farm is in

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<v Speaker 2>like some hit brunch spot.

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<v Speaker 5>Yet it's really hit. So I thought we were going

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<v Speaker 5>to have brunch. We weren't going to an actual Oh

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<v Speaker 5>my god.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh that's a lot different.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, he thought that you understood. He didn't

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<v Speaker 2>think that you thought bottomless mimosas I was not.

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<v Speaker 4>I was not against it, but I had a night

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<v Speaker 4>the night before. I was a little hungover.

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<v Speaker 5>I was not expecting to be feeling hay and smoking cows.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, so wait a minute, though, Like his parents opened

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<v Speaker 2>the door and they hand you a set of coveralls, Like,

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<v Speaker 2>why didn't you say something like that? You had no idea.

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<v Speaker 5>Honestly, I was a little out of it, and I

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<v Speaker 5>was like, you know what, just get through this.

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<v Speaker 4>It's gonna be a story to tell.

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<v Speaker 1>Plus that would be really rude to just get out

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<v Speaker 1>of the car and his parents are like, hey, nice

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<v Speaker 1>to meet you, and she'd be like, oh, she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to do I didn't want to be here.

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<v Speaker 2>I shouldn't have to say that. She could say, oh

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<v Speaker 2>my god, I had no idea. You meant a literal

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<v Speaker 2>afarm like.

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<v Speaker 1>That doesn't look good in front of the parents, know,

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<v Speaker 1>but like have fun with the goat, right. We heard

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<v Speaker 1>mister Harvey really liked you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, he really liked me.

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<v Speaker 5>And honestly, it started out like, oh, this is cute,

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<v Speaker 5>and then it was like, oh my god, I'm going

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<v Speaker 5>to be eaten by ago.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I know, like, not only did mister Harvey like you,

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<v Speaker 1>but Steve really liked you. And don't just take my

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<v Speaker 1>word for it. Hear from Steve himself. He's on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line right now and wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my gosh, you're joking.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, No, I'm serious.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi, Jamie. I'm so sorry for the misunderstanding. I assumed

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<v Speaker 3>because the family farm and everything's on my profile that

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<v Speaker 3>you just automatically knew that I'm at my farm. I've

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<v Speaker 3>never even heard of this brunch spot.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I see, yeah, you you know, and just start talking.

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<v Speaker 5>You were like the farm, the farm. You never said

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<v Speaker 5>my family's farm. So I think we had just a

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<v Speaker 5>little bit of miscommunication.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, just the sad Yeah, I apologize for that. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>so just so used to calling it the farm. You know, Honestly,

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<v Speaker 3>hearing you talk about it, it doesn't seem like you had

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<v Speaker 3>that good of a time as I thought you did well.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, you know, I was having as good at

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<v Speaker 5>a time as I could, being hungover and not expecting

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<v Speaker 5>I was going to be in coveralls and like failing.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, so your family is lovely, and I think you're lovely.

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<v Speaker 5>We didn't have enough time to actually get to know

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<v Speaker 5>each other, but it was just unexpected.

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<v Speaker 1>So Steve, like, how is this sitting with you? Hearing

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<v Speaker 1>her reaction to what her expectations were going to the

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<v Speaker 1>farm and then what it was actually like for her.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Jamie, it sounds like you really had a lot

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<v Speaker 3>to complain about, you know, And I'm just I'm typically

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<v Speaker 3>not into complainers because you know, I grew up on

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<v Speaker 3>a farm, so we just kind of sucked it up

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<v Speaker 3>and pushed through it and dealt with it and got

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<v Speaker 3>what needed to be done done.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I was getting that same vibe when I was

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<v Speaker 1>hearing her talk about it. So Jamie, why say the

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<v Speaker 1>top three things that you enjoyed while you were there?

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<v Speaker 1>Top five?

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<v Speaker 5>Then I'm not trying to fit into your family. This

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<v Speaker 5>was like our first date, So like, I'm complaining because

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<v Speaker 5>there wasn't clear communication.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, do you understand that, Steve, Because it's like

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<v Speaker 2>she's complaining. You're acting as if she works on the

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<v Speaker 2>farm and she's a bad employee, is what it sounds like.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's not what I'm trying to sound like. To

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<v Speaker 3>quote you, there was some miscommunication that I do apologize

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<v Speaker 3>about that, but that doesn't mean that we couldn't try

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<v Speaker 3>something else. Because you did agree to possibly having a

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<v Speaker 3>date in the city later on.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, you know, I did agree to that, but after

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<v Speaker 5>hearing you say that I was complaining about a situation that.

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<v Speaker 1>I could Oh no, now you're going to complain about

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<v Speaker 1>the way they're.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, that was if I could interrupt. I mean, that

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<v Speaker 3>was clear communication. I just communicated my feelings about the

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<v Speaker 3>situation to you, and.

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<v Speaker 5>I think, honestly, you're not understanding in my shoes of.

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<v Speaker 4>What it would feel like to not be like aware

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<v Speaker 4>and prepared for this situation that I was in.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like he's understanding, and it's just he's being

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<v Speaker 2>a little defensive of his own family. You know. It

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<v Speaker 2>feels like you're getting he's getting attack.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like a classic example of a guy giving

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<v Speaker 1>a woman exactly what she asked for and then getting

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<v Speaker 1>blamed for giving him. He was apologizing he's trying to communicate.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, he did kind of attack her for complaining, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Now he's getting it from the host of the show

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<v Speaker 1>and called for help.

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<v Speaker 2>To I just think everybody needs to take a deep breath.

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<v Speaker 2>I think this could work.

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<v Speaker 1>Starting with you would be great because I would like

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<v Speaker 1>to send you to out on a nice second date

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<v Speaker 1>where you have great communication. There's no farm work needed

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<v Speaker 1>to be done, just like Brooks still breathing over there.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, you know what the positive thing is that he

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<v Speaker 5>did really go over and above. And there's very few

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<v Speaker 5>dates that I have been on where someone actually cared enough.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean it was caring a little bit mess to me.

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<v Speaker 4>His family so fast. I guess i'd be open to it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, Jenny, you're open to it. Steve, what do

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<v Speaker 1>you say?

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<v Speaker 3>Sounds great to me? And I apologize about my family.

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<v Speaker 4>They're lovely. It was just so fast.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, see, this is kid against all odds. We

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<v Speaker 1>got a successful second date. All right. Now, let's agree

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<v Speaker 1>on a safe word up front. What do you want

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<v Speaker 1>yours to be? I don't know how your guys are

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<v Speaker 1>second dates work, but that's how it goes in my neighborhood.

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<v Speaker 2>Frooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it's been months since we had them on for

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<v Speaker 1>that second date, and today at least one of them

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<v Speaker 1>is back on the phone to give us an update

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<v Speaker 1>on what happened. I think we just have Jamie, Jamie,

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<v Speaker 1>how's it going.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, guys, it's going well.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's shocking. I really didn't think it was going

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<v Speaker 2>to be you on the phone. Oh really, yes, I

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<v Speaker 2>thought it's going to be him for some reason.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, he couldn't make it. He had a meeting. He

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<v Speaker 4>wishes he could be here, but on wait.

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<v Speaker 2>Year still talking?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, or you him and you know his schedule.

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<v Speaker 1>So wait after your call, you guys did go out

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<v Speaker 1>on another date.

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<v Speaker 5>We actually did go out on a second date. I

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<v Speaker 5>took him to the actual brunch spot.

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<v Speaker 1>How was that? Was he impressed?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean there was a little touch in going the

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<v Speaker 5>beginning because it was a little awkward. It sort of

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<v Speaker 5>soppened pretty quick, and then about thirty minutes after he ate,

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<v Speaker 5>unfortunately he got sick.

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<v Speaker 1>No, whatten got like food poisoning sick.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, he after poisoning sick. It was really awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course that would happen the one time you bring

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<v Speaker 1>him to the brunch spot. He comes down with something.

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<v Speaker 4>But it was.

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<v Speaker 5>Actually pretty bonding because he went home.

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<v Speaker 4>I took Cara him.

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<v Speaker 5>And then like you know, for the next few days

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<v Speaker 5>just checked in on him and it actually brought us together.

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<v Speaker 2>So wait, so you guys are still dating.

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<v Speaker 4>No, we're like exclusive.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you been out on the actual farm working again? Then,

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<v Speaker 2>now that you're the girlfriend part of the family, Well.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I mean we we've met with this family, We've

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<v Speaker 5>gone out to dinner, but we didn't work to the farm.

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<v Speaker 5>We're basically we're staying away.

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<v Speaker 4>From all things with the farms.

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<v Speaker 5>Anything that farm related, we're staying away from.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, learned your lesson. I see, great for you guys.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we're really happy.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm really grateful to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Guys.

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<v Speaker 5>Were like offering a second date because after the first

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<v Speaker 5>one we did work, just not on the same page.

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<v Speaker 5>And so now it's it's great.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes you see a second chance. Yeah, you make out

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<v Speaker 1>your check five hundred dollars to Jeff. Okay, serious, we're

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<v Speaker 1>all happy for you, Jamie and U And tell Steve

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<v Speaker 1>what's up.

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<v Speaker 4>I will, I will. He's back to normal.

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<v Speaker 1>Just so you know, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning