Speaker 1: A few months ago, we heard about a first date
Speaker 1: that turned out like a real life sitcom, all because
Speaker 1: of a simple misunderstanding where the girl thought she was
Speaker 1: going to be going to her favorite brunch spot that day. Oh,
Speaker 1: it turns out they were headed someplace way different.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she was definitely not dressed for No, not.
Speaker 1: Nearly as romantic, but still it led to one of
Speaker 1: the sweetest, most memorable calls that we've had all year.
Speaker 1: And today we're gonna have both of them back on
Speaker 1: the show to find out what's happened since their chaotic
Speaker 1: first meet up. That's right, we're doing a brand new
Speaker 1: second date update update right after their original phone call.
Speaker 1: That's happening next second dat up date. You know, recently,
Speaker 1: I was on a dating app trying to find matches
Speaker 1: for Jose. Oh yeah, Honestly it was really difficult. Not
Speaker 1: because of what Jose wants, you know, because he'll go
Speaker 1: out with pretty much anything. I'm just saying that as
Speaker 1: a single it's got to be hard because the apps
Speaker 1: field was so many odd people.
Speaker 2: Yeah, mostly on like.
Speaker 1: With photos wearing tons of makeup and filters, or someone
Speaker 1: that's standing alone in a swamp holding a sign up
Speaker 1: that says still single. I don't know is that supposed
Speaker 1: to be funny or is it meant to make me
Speaker 1: sad and it make me feel bad enough to go
Speaker 1: out with it? All I know is after that experience,
Speaker 1: I really feel for listeners like Steve, who emailed into
Speaker 1: the show today and said he was just happy that
Speaker 1: her profile seemed somewhat normal.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're not looking for a swamp girl to go
Speaker 2: to you with your swamp.
Speaker 3: Boy, No, not at all.
Speaker 1: OK, tell us about the woman that you matched with.
Speaker 1: What's her name, Jamie? All right?
Speaker 2: Is there anything exceptional to say about her? Or was
Speaker 2: she just normal?
Speaker 3: She seemed very normal, super cute, and you know, I
Speaker 3: was raised on a farm, so she didn't necessarily look
Speaker 3: like a country girl. But she looked very sweet and
Speaker 3: innocently so I kind of went with it.
Speaker 2: She could still pick up a bail of hay. I mean,
Speaker 2: I'm assuming that that's on your list.
Speaker 1: What do you do with a normal girl for a
Speaker 1: first date?
Speaker 2: Uh?
Speaker 3: Well, the date that I kind of pitched to her
Speaker 3: that she kind of agreed to was, you know, let's
Speaker 3: just have a date on my family farm, and you know,
Speaker 3: I can show you what farm life is day to
Speaker 3: day you know.
Speaker 2: Minute, does that mean that she's like meeting your family
Speaker 2: on the first date.
Speaker 3: I mean it is the family farm, so we pretty
Speaker 3: much it's just family that works there. But you know,
Speaker 3: I just wanted to experience how I grew up and
Speaker 3: you know, my just kind of day to day living.
Speaker 2: So are you still working on the farm too?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Part time okay, And I can imagine all the cute
Speaker 2: animals are also your family.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we had the whole nine yards. We got a
Speaker 3: cow's chickens goat. I will get to mister Harvey in
Speaker 3: a little bit, but yeah, yes, that is our goat.
Speaker 1: Okay, this is an interesting choice for a first date. Like,
Speaker 1: what was her reaction when you pitched this idea to him?
Speaker 3: Well, she seemed kind of excited about it. I mean
Speaker 3: she didn't voice any concerns. I thought her. I was,
Speaker 3: let you know, I'll get you some overalls and some boots.
Speaker 3: Picked her up early in the morning. We drove out
Speaker 3: to the countryside, you know, and went to the farm,
Speaker 3: and she got dressed and got to work.
Speaker 1: You know, Okay, I like work.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I got to stop here for a second. I
Speaker 2: grew up, you know, surrounded by farm life in a
Speaker 2: tiny little town. It's not glamorous. I mean, like to me,
Speaker 2: it sounds like you're shovely manure.
Speaker 3: No, I did spare her the manure when you know,
Speaker 3: we picked the eggs for breakfast and then we went
Speaker 3: out and we melt the cows. We did not use
Speaker 3: the milk for breakfast. But I told her, you know,
Speaker 3: I was like, do you want to feed the pigs?
Speaker 3: It's super simple, it's not really all that mess. And
Speaker 3: she was down with it. But mister Harvey. That's where
Speaker 3: mister Harvey comes in because he kind of just roams
Speaker 3: the farm. Yes, he's our pet goat. He's kind of
Speaker 3: like our guard dog. Instead of a blue chick hound.
Speaker 3: We have a we have a big goat. Yeah, he's
Speaker 3: sometimes a little temperamental when it comes to meeting new people.
Speaker 3: He'll just nibble on them.
Speaker 1: Brook did the same thing to me on my first
Speaker 1: day on the show. She just came up and start
Speaker 1: and tear my clothes right off.
Speaker 2: I got to say, I'm part goat.
Speaker 1: I did.
Speaker 2: I could get behind that. Did that scare her?
Speaker 3: Well? Not at first? I mean at first I think
Speaker 3: it did, but it wasn't until he kind of started
Speaker 3: getting a little aggressive with it because I had turned
Speaker 3: my back for a minute and I turned back around
Speaker 3: and she was pretty much almost on all fours, just
Speaker 3: getting chewed up.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're describing Brooks to a tea. Here's getting flashbacks
Speaker 1: of my own life.
Speaker 3: I mean, she did laugh about it, so I just
Speaker 3: I took it as just one of those things.
Speaker 2: I mean, if you've ever tried to milk a goat,
Speaker 2: you know how scary they can be. Put in that small,
Speaker 2: enclosed area that.
Speaker 1: Sounds like a mostly Brooke experience room at least, So
Speaker 1: I mean, how did how did the date end for
Speaker 1: you there?
Speaker 3: Well, we had we had lunch with my parents and
Speaker 3: everybody who and I introduced her as my new friend.
Speaker 1: But everyone knows that I want her.
Speaker 3: I didn't want it. I wanted to do the kind
Speaker 3: of thing normal, like not too serious, like you're meeting
Speaker 3: our parents, my parents on the first date. Because okay,
Speaker 3: we agreed to the farm date.
Speaker 1: Do you bring a lot of women out to the
Speaker 1: farm to meet everybody or is this.
Speaker 3: A new thing with now that's honestly, this is the
Speaker 3: first time thing. I thought it would be kind of
Speaker 3: cool to get out of the city, and so the
Speaker 3: lunch went fine, and I told her, I said, you know,
Speaker 3: next date, you pick city, whatever you want to do,
Speaker 3: we'll do it. And she hasn't returned to any of
Speaker 3: my text.
Speaker 2: Are you regretting the farm date idea since she isn't
Speaker 2: writing me back, or do you think it's something else.
Speaker 3: I'm beginning to think it might have been a bad idea.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I disagree. I think if she's a city girl,
Speaker 1: you bring it to the frights, like bringing someone to
Speaker 1: a zoo, you do something to see. You don't have
Speaker 1: the whole world work at the zoo, but you don't
Speaker 1: have to work. Though you said, you made it light
Speaker 1: and she just got to kind of hang around. I
Speaker 1: think maybe mister Harvey swooped in on your girl. He
Speaker 1: stole it from you. But we're going to find out.
Speaker 1: We're gonna call Jamie here in just a second and
Speaker 1: get your second date update right after this.
Speaker 3: All right, thank you?
Speaker 1: All right, hold on man, update.
Speaker 2: You're in the middle of a second date update update,
Speaker 2: and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing
Speaker 2: right after you here. Part two.
Speaker 1: You know, old McDonald may have had a farm, but
Speaker 1: old mcsteve o had a date. Oh yeah, yeah, yoh.
Speaker 1: And on his date, there was a Jamie yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: yoh with a farm chore. Here in a farm chore. There,
Speaker 1: here's my mom, here's my dad. Here's a goat. That's bad.
Speaker 1: But Steve did take Jamie to his family farm. And
Speaker 1: I think the overwhelming thought in studio right now is
Speaker 1: that Jamie probably didn't want to spend the whole time
Speaker 1: doing farm work.
Speaker 2: I mean, it almost sounds like your family was using
Speaker 2: it as a ploy to get free labor.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I wouldn't say that. I thought she was having fun.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, she was having fun. This is like a
Speaker 1: one cent you know, life not lifetime. But it's like
Speaker 1: random thing. I mean, hose would you like to do
Speaker 1: that for a first date? To a lifetime opportunity? The animals.
Speaker 2: It sounds like you want to go to yeah, yeah, farm.
Speaker 1: Farm almost something like a heavy petting zoo.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you, do not want to drink fresh
Speaker 2: milk makes me vomit every time.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I want to go to a heavy pet Yeah
Speaker 1: that sounds kind of fun. But maybe we should start
Speaker 1: a business after this is over. But we have a
Speaker 1: job to do on the show, and that's to call
Speaker 1: Jamie and figure out why she's not calling Steve back. So, Steve,
Speaker 1: you're ready to do this?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm ready to do it.
Speaker 1: Here we go.
Speaker 2: Farmhand, Jamie, farm hand, that's what people who work on
Speaker 2: a farm.
Speaker 1: Okay, regular hands. Here we go.
Speaker 4: Hello.
Speaker 1: Hey is this Jamie? Yeah, Hey Jamie. My name is
Speaker 1: jeff from the radio Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Okay,
Speaker 1: we need some extra help around the radio station. And
Speaker 1: we heard you are excellent.
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, what is this about?
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was strange.
Speaker 1: This is about a segment that we're doing called a
Speaker 1: second Date Update, and say we're trying to help one
Speaker 1: of our listeners named Steve get back in touch with
Speaker 1: you after you went on a date.
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, that was all big old side there, Jamie.
Speaker 1: We've already spoken to Steve about your first day with him,
Speaker 1: and we've heard his side of the story. We're interested
Speaker 1: in getting your side of the story to know what
Speaker 1: you thought about him and his family farm.
Speaker 4: Well, first of all, he didn't say his family farm.
Speaker 2: He didn't.
Speaker 4: No, he said, hey, do you want to go to
Speaker 4: the farm for frunch? And I'm like, oh, I love that.
Speaker 1: You didn't know his family was going to be there.
Speaker 2: Wait, you love that place, like the farm is in
Speaker 2: like some hit brunch spot.
Speaker 5: Yet it's really hit. So I thought we were going
Speaker 5: to have brunch. We weren't going to an actual Oh
Speaker 5: my god.
Speaker 4: Oh that's a lot different.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, he thought that you understood. He didn't
Speaker 2: think that you thought bottomless mimosas I was not.
Speaker 4: I was not against it, but I had a night
Speaker 4: the night before. I was a little hungover.
Speaker 5: I was not expecting to be feeling hay and smoking cows.
Speaker 2: Wait, so wait a minute, though, Like his parents opened
Speaker 2: the door and they hand you a set of coveralls, Like,
Speaker 2: why didn't you say something like that? You had no idea.
Speaker 5: Honestly, I was a little out of it, and I
Speaker 5: was like, you know what, just get through this.
Speaker 4: It's gonna be a story to tell.
Speaker 1: Plus that would be really rude to just get out
Speaker 1: of the car and his parents are like, hey, nice
Speaker 1: to meet you, and she'd be like, oh, she didn't
Speaker 1: want to do I didn't want to be here.
Speaker 2: I shouldn't have to say that. She could say, oh
Speaker 2: my god, I had no idea. You meant a literal
Speaker 2: afarm like.
Speaker 1: That doesn't look good in front of the parents, know,
Speaker 1: but like have fun with the goat, right. We heard
Speaker 1: mister Harvey really liked you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, he really liked me.
Speaker 5: And honestly, it started out like, oh, this is cute,
Speaker 5: and then it was like, oh my god, I'm going
Speaker 5: to be eaten by ago.
Speaker 1: Well I know, like, not only did mister Harvey like you,
Speaker 1: but Steve really liked you. And don't just take my
Speaker 1: word for it. Hear from Steve himself. He's on the
Speaker 1: other line right now and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, you're joking.
Speaker 1: Right, No, I'm serious.
Speaker 3: Hi, Jamie. I'm so sorry for the misunderstanding. I assumed
Speaker 3: because the family farm and everything's on my profile that
Speaker 3: you just automatically knew that I'm at my farm. I've
Speaker 3: never even heard of this brunch spot.
Speaker 4: No, I see, yeah, you you know, and just start talking.
Speaker 5: You were like the farm, the farm. You never said
Speaker 5: my family's farm. So I think we had just a
Speaker 5: little bit of miscommunication.
Speaker 3: Yeah, just the sad Yeah, I apologize for that. I'm
Speaker 3: so just so used to calling it the farm. You know, Honestly,
Speaker 3: hearing you talk about it, it doesn't seem like you had
Speaker 3: that good of a time as I thought you did well.
Speaker 5: I mean, you know, I was having as good at
Speaker 5: a time as I could, being hungover and not expecting
Speaker 5: I was going to be in coveralls and like failing.
Speaker 4: Hey, so your family is lovely, and I think you're lovely.
Speaker 5: We didn't have enough time to actually get to know
Speaker 5: each other, but it was just unexpected.
Speaker 1: So Steve, like, how is this sitting with you? Hearing
Speaker 1: her reaction to what her expectations were going to the
Speaker 1: farm and then what it was actually like for her.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Jamie, it sounds like you really had a lot
Speaker 3: to complain about, you know, And I'm just I'm typically
Speaker 3: not into complainers because you know, I grew up on
Speaker 3: a farm, so we just kind of sucked it up
Speaker 3: and pushed through it and dealt with it and got
Speaker 3: what needed to be done done.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I was getting that same vibe when I was
Speaker 1: hearing her talk about it. So Jamie, why say the
Speaker 1: top three things that you enjoyed while you were there?
Speaker 1: Top five?
Speaker 5: Then I'm not trying to fit into your family. This
Speaker 5: was like our first date, So like, I'm complaining because
Speaker 5: there wasn't clear communication.
Speaker 2: So yeah, do you understand that, Steve, Because it's like
Speaker 2: she's complaining. You're acting as if she works on the
Speaker 2: farm and she's a bad employee, is what it sounds like.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's not what I'm trying to sound like. To
Speaker 3: quote you, there was some miscommunication that I do apologize
Speaker 3: about that, but that doesn't mean that we couldn't try
Speaker 3: something else. Because you did agree to possibly having a
Speaker 3: date in the city later on.
Speaker 5: Well, you know, I did agree to that, but after
Speaker 5: hearing you say that I was complaining about a situation that.
Speaker 1: I could Oh no, now you're going to complain about
Speaker 1: the way they're.
Speaker 3: Well, that was if I could interrupt. I mean, that
Speaker 3: was clear communication. I just communicated my feelings about the
Speaker 3: situation to you, and.
Speaker 5: I think, honestly, you're not understanding in my shoes of.
Speaker 4: What it would feel like to not be like aware
Speaker 4: and prepared for this situation that I was in.
Speaker 2: It sounds like he's understanding, and it's just he's being
Speaker 2: a little defensive of his own family. You know. It
Speaker 2: feels like you're getting he's getting attack.
Speaker 1: It sounds like a classic example of a guy giving
Speaker 1: a woman exactly what she asked for and then getting
Speaker 1: blamed for giving him. He was apologizing he's trying to communicate.
Speaker 2: Well, he did kind of attack her for complaining, and.
Speaker 1: Now he's getting it from the host of the show
Speaker 1: and called for help.
Speaker 2: To I just think everybody needs to take a deep breath.
Speaker 2: I think this could work.
Speaker 1: Starting with you would be great because I would like
Speaker 1: to send you to out on a nice second date
Speaker 1: where you have great communication. There's no farm work needed
Speaker 1: to be done, just like Brooks still breathing over there.
Speaker 5: Well, you know what the positive thing is that he
Speaker 5: did really go over and above. And there's very few
Speaker 5: dates that I have been on where someone actually cared enough.
Speaker 4: I mean it was caring a little bit mess to me.
Speaker 4: His family so fast. I guess i'd be open to it.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, Jenny, you're open to it. Steve, what do
Speaker 1: you say?
Speaker 3: Sounds great to me? And I apologize about my family.
Speaker 4: They're lovely. It was just so fast.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, see, this is kid against all odds. We
Speaker 1: got a successful second date. All right. Now, let's agree
Speaker 1: on a safe word up front. What do you want
Speaker 1: yours to be? I don't know how your guys are
Speaker 1: second dates work, but that's how it goes in my neighborhood.
Speaker 2: Frooking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: Well, it's been months since we had them on for
Speaker 1: that second date, and today at least one of them
Speaker 1: is back on the phone to give us an update
Speaker 1: on what happened. I think we just have Jamie, Jamie,
Speaker 1: how's it going.
Speaker 4: Hey, guys, it's going well.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's shocking. I really didn't think it was going
Speaker 2: to be you on the phone. Oh really, yes, I
Speaker 2: thought it's going to be him for some reason.
Speaker 4: Oh, he couldn't make it. He had a meeting. He
Speaker 4: wishes he could be here, but on wait.
Speaker 2: Year still talking?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, or you him and you know his schedule.
Speaker 1: So wait after your call, you guys did go out
Speaker 1: on another date.
Speaker 5: We actually did go out on a second date. I
Speaker 5: took him to the actual brunch spot.
Speaker 1: How was that? Was he impressed?
Speaker 5: I mean there was a little touch in going the
Speaker 5: beginning because it was a little awkward. It sort of
Speaker 5: soppened pretty quick, and then about thirty minutes after he ate,
Speaker 5: unfortunately he got sick.
Speaker 1: No, whatten got like food poisoning sick.
Speaker 5: Yes, he after poisoning sick. It was really awkward.
Speaker 1: Of course that would happen the one time you bring
Speaker 1: him to the brunch spot. He comes down with something.
Speaker 4: But it was.
Speaker 5: Actually pretty bonding because he went home.
Speaker 4: I took Cara him.
Speaker 5: And then like you know, for the next few days
Speaker 5: just checked in on him and it actually brought us together.
Speaker 2: So wait, so you guys are still dating.
Speaker 4: No, we're like exclusive.
Speaker 2: Have you been out on the actual farm working again? Then,
Speaker 2: now that you're the girlfriend part of the family, Well.
Speaker 5: No, I mean we we've met with this family, We've
Speaker 5: gone out to dinner, but we didn't work to the farm.
Speaker 5: We're basically we're staying away.
Speaker 4: From all things with the farms.
Speaker 5: Anything that farm related, we're staying away from.
Speaker 1: Yeah, learned your lesson. I see, great for you guys.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we're really happy.
Speaker 5: I'm really grateful to you.
Speaker 2: Guys.
Speaker 5: Were like offering a second date because after the first
Speaker 5: one we did work, just not on the same page.
Speaker 5: And so now it's it's great.
Speaker 1: Sometimes you see a second chance. Yeah, you make out
Speaker 1: your check five hundred dollars to Jeff. Okay, serious, we're
Speaker 1: all happy for you, Jamie and U And tell Steve
Speaker 1: what's up.
Speaker 4: I will, I will. He's back to normal.
Speaker 1: Just so you know, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning