WEBVTT - Miss Manor: Sold but Not Forgotten

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<v Speaker 1>Misspelling with Tori Spelling and iHeartRadio podcast. Okay, we're back.

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<v Speaker 1>So my friend Amy and I did.

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<v Speaker 2>Secrets of the Manner and they did very well those

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<v Speaker 2>those podcast episodes.

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<v Speaker 3>I know we need to bring that back. This is

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<v Speaker 3>this is what. It's a little different, but we need

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<v Speaker 3>to do another Secret of the Manner. Emotions of the Manner.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to find mine.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yes, So recently my parents' house, which it's the

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<v Speaker 2>second time it's sold.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't know. This one just hit me different.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna ask you, is this just the second time?

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<v Speaker 3>So your mom sold it to that woman and then

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<v Speaker 3>that woman sold it to the Google guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Correct?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so I thought there might have been one more

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<v Speaker 3>in between.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, no, So I think when it first sold,

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<v Speaker 2>I was really I hadn't processed all my emotions, and

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<v Speaker 2>I was just like, okay, this is good for my

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<v Speaker 2>mom because she wanted to downsize and she moved to

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<v Speaker 2>the man Did.

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<v Speaker 3>She stay there? Sorry to interrupt you, how long did

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<v Speaker 3>she stay there after my dad passed away?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to think, I know, you know what. I

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<v Speaker 2>believe she moved in like two thousand and.

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<v Speaker 1>Ten.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe when did your dad pass away two thousand and six,

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<v Speaker 3>So she did she live there for years without him?

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<v Speaker 2>She did, the timeline might be a little different. I

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<v Speaker 2>just remember when she had sold it, she was moving,

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<v Speaker 2>or maybe before she sold it, she was moving.

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<v Speaker 1>I brought Liam and Stella.

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<v Speaker 2>We were filming Tori and Dean, so it's in one

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<v Speaker 2>of the episodes, and they were little, and I still

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<v Speaker 2>have pictures of like, you know, they were like two

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<v Speaker 2>and three, which I tell them now they were there

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<v Speaker 2>and they don't remember, sadly.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah, yeah, they were like two and three when

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<v Speaker 1>she moved. So do you.

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<v Speaker 3>Remember like going over there, like were there? Okay, this

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<v Speaker 3>is a weird question, but like do you think there

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<v Speaker 3>was ever a time when your mom was the only

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<v Speaker 3>person in that house sleeping? Or was there always staff there?

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<v Speaker 1>Security and security? And that'd be really scary to be

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<v Speaker 1>in that house alone.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh oh, I mean it would be like being in

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<v Speaker 3>a like Hyatt hotel by yourself, ish kind of Do

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<v Speaker 3>you remember still having holidays and stuff there? Like did

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<v Speaker 3>you still have holidays and with disgivings and Christmases there

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<v Speaker 3>without your dad?

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<v Speaker 1>Correct? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>And was that hard?

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<v Speaker 2>I remember specifically? I don't know if we did holidays

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<v Speaker 2>because by that.

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<v Speaker 1>Time we had our own family right.

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<v Speaker 2>Good a town a lot for Thanksgiving, but Christmas my

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<v Speaker 2>mom still had. I can vividly remember my mom's Christmas

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<v Speaker 2>Eve party that was super famous. She always had it

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<v Speaker 2>with my dad and she. I remember going Stella was

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<v Speaker 2>I was holding Stell in my arm, so she was

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<v Speaker 2>under a year and Liam and going to I think

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<v Speaker 2>that was her and I. In one of my books,

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<v Speaker 2>I wrote about it. It was amazing, and my brother

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<v Speaker 2>was there and Dean and I and Liam and Stella

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<v Speaker 2>and it was like this, it was such an amazing

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<v Speaker 2>Christmas Eve party. I think that might have been her

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<v Speaker 2>last one.

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<v Speaker 1>Though.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, did your dad ever meet any of your kids? No?

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<v Speaker 2>I know he passed away in June and I got

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<v Speaker 2>pregnant with Liam in July.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, of two thousand and six.

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<v Speaker 3>So when your mom decided to sell the house, how

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<v Speaker 3>did that feel? Did you try to say? No, don't like,

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<v Speaker 3>because what you and I had been texting about the

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<v Speaker 3>sort of the impetus for this episode is I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>why didn't you guys keep it in the family and

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<v Speaker 3>make it like a great nound? Like I know that

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<v Speaker 3>sounds a little crazy, but it's not that crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>When you texted that to me, I got chills, And

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<v Speaker 2>when you just said it, I got chills.

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<v Speaker 1>Again. I don't know, and I don't remember.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to keep in mind also, and you know

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<v Speaker 2>my history that a lot of times in my family

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<v Speaker 2>we love each There was a lot of love, but

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<v Speaker 2>we didn't always talk about emotions or what was happening.

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<v Speaker 1>And that kind of was the same thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think when my mom told us that she

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<v Speaker 2>was selling it or moving that either my brother or

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<v Speaker 2>I asked. I mean, I think it was just in

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<v Speaker 2>our minds. You know, it was too big for her alone.

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<v Speaker 3>Correct, it's totally bananas. If she kept it and lived

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<v Speaker 3>there by herself.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and you know, and I'm sure it had a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of pain connected to it because she had lost

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<v Speaker 2>my dad, so.

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<v Speaker 1>She totally a fresh start.

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<v Speaker 3>I totally get that.

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<v Speaker 1>Meanwhile, the manner.

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<v Speaker 2>In the sky is what she calls the condos, and

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<v Speaker 2>it's the top floor, okay, and it is decorated as

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<v Speaker 2>a replica of the manor.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just a condo.

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<v Speaker 3>So she took everything and sort of put it in

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<v Speaker 3>the exact same places so that she feels like she's

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<v Speaker 3>there if yeah, wow, but it's a lot smaller. I mean, honestly,

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<v Speaker 3>even if it's a lot of ten square feet, what

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<v Speaker 3>was the manner fifty six?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think it was fifty six thousand, And I

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<v Speaker 2>just remember when my kids went.

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<v Speaker 1>Over to her condo the Manner in the sky, They're like,

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<v Speaker 1>why does grandma live in a hotel? Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Like no, I'm like, what would you have thought if

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<v Speaker 1>you had a condo the manor? Oh my god?

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<v Speaker 3>Totally right when they were this age. So, I mean, look,

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<v Speaker 3>it would have been cool to keep it, inde, way

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<v Speaker 3>to keep it, and she still didn't have to live there.

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<v Speaker 3>That being said, the upkeep would be the cost of

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<v Speaker 3>having that house would be in the millions a year.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean millions and millions and millions. Like it's insane.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't even want to think about what the DWP

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<v Speaker 3>bill was.

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<v Speaker 2>I this is stuff we didn't think about. But now

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<v Speaker 2>being an adult and dealing with my own bills, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god, it had to have been wild.

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<v Speaker 3>Can you imagine? I sometimes get a DWP bill and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, it's four hundred dollars. I mean that bill

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<v Speaker 3>must have been hundreds of thousands.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it had to have been.

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<v Speaker 2>My mom's going to be eighty this year, And I

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<v Speaker 2>think for her she did was superhands on, like literally

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<v Speaker 2>with everything. It was a lot, you know, she had

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<v Speaker 2>people helping her, but of course she knew everything happening

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<v Speaker 2>and every bill and everything in that.

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<v Speaker 3>Really Oh yes, yes, yes, So do you think like

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<v Speaker 3>back in the day, like I'm and I'm sure there

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<v Speaker 3>was somebody, but like it was your mom, not your dad,

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<v Speaker 3>being like okay, let me open the gas bill, let's

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<v Speaker 3>see what the cable bill is, or did somebody do that?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean there was always a business manager.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that would be insane, probably.

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<v Speaker 2>Till they got that when they first got together. For

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<v Speaker 2>sure it was my mom.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, my mom.

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<v Speaker 2>She dealt with like the stock market, she dealt with

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<v Speaker 2>when his company went public, like she dealt with everyone.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, all the business stuff. Whoa.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, this is the first time because I thought about.

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<v Speaker 1>The man at home and at his work.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought about the man and probably more than a

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<v Speaker 3>person should. But I never until this very moment thought

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<v Speaker 3>about the bills at the manor like you haven't either

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<v Speaker 3>till you know it's that it would be insane, like

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<v Speaker 3>think about our own bills we have right now, and

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<v Speaker 3>we're like, oh God, don't play the insurance like it

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<v Speaker 3>was a running a hotel.

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<v Speaker 1>It was running a hotel. Yeah, WHOA.

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<v Speaker 2>So I don't know if there would have been a

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<v Speaker 2>way to keep it in the family without the constant bleeding.

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<v Speaker 3>It would have to be a museum. You'd have to

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<v Speaker 3>turn it into some sort of a museum in some way,

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<v Speaker 3>because otherwise, like you would just be flushing money down

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<v Speaker 3>the toilet. Would not make sense. So when the house

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<v Speaker 3>sold to that lady, I can't think of her name.

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<v Speaker 3>I wanted to say. Her name was Petra, Petra Egglestein, Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>When the house sold to her, what did you feel?

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<v Speaker 3>Can you remember, like did you feel sad? Did you

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<v Speaker 3>feel relief? Did you feel like whatever, it's a house.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't care.

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<v Speaker 2>I felt nothing at the time. I think I was

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<v Speaker 2>just like that house didn't mean anything to me. It

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<v Speaker 2>turned into almost a place of sadness because it's where

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<v Speaker 2>my dad got sick and yeah, you know, slowly dying,

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<v Speaker 2>and and you know, I just have the memory of

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<v Speaker 2>the last time I saw him in that house and

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<v Speaker 2>he wasn't well. And then you know, after his funeral,

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<v Speaker 2>everyone came back to the manor.

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<v Speaker 3>By the way, I've never asked you about the funeral.

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<v Speaker 3>Was it like a pagan of the stars?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 3>Or did you make it private?

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't a part of doing it. I just attended.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, but like, was Heather locklay there.

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<v Speaker 1>Or like it was very very small?

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<v Speaker 3>Was there ever, like the Aaron Spelling tribute special on ABC?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you know what I'm saying? Like they would do now?

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<v Speaker 2>There wasn't, so there was ABC wanted to do one. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and at the time.

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<v Speaker 1>They after he passed, they had reached.

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<v Speaker 2>Out to me and wanted to know if I wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to host it, and I thought that would be a

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<v Speaker 2>great tribute to my dad. I mean, at one point

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<v Speaker 2>everyone who called it the Aaron Broadcasting Company, like it

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<v Speaker 2>would be appropriate for ABC to honor him.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and then you still can incorporate all the like

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<v Speaker 3>right you know, oh Melrose, Like you know shows that

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<v Speaker 3>weren't necess early on ABC.

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<v Speaker 2>It was I had met my dad his memoir that

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<v Speaker 2>he had done. I had met with them with the

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<v Speaker 2>person that wrote it, and and they had producers and

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<v Speaker 2>writers brought on to do it. Because it was really

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<v Speaker 2>important to me that the tribute be really great and

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<v Speaker 2>reach out to the right people, and my family all

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<v Speaker 2>involved and all of the people he loved, his stars

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<v Speaker 2>and stuff. Anyway, it was in the works, and then

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what happened, but I was just told

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<v Speaker 2>that for some reason, they can't move forward with it,

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<v Speaker 2>and it didn't happen.

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<v Speaker 1>It made me really sad because I was like, I

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<v Speaker 1>need some tribute to my dad.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I had heard talks there was going to

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<v Speaker 2>be a big memorial so all his you know, stars

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<v Speaker 2>could come or something done in la and that never

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<v Speaker 2>happened either.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh. I don't know why.

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<v Speaker 2>I tend to go towards Everyone handles grief in a

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<v Speaker 2>different way.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm your mom is still to this day just

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<v Speaker 3>so sad she is.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that was the love of her life.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I think she likes that she can travel now because

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<v Speaker 2>my mom sure loves her adventure and doing not adventure,

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<v Speaker 2>but like she loved travel and she wasn't able.

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<v Speaker 3>To How old was your dad when he passed away? Two? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Eighty two eighty two?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, oh no, And I truly believe he when he

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<v Speaker 2>was going into you know how they say you live

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<v Speaker 2>longer when you keep doing what you love. Yeah, when

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<v Speaker 2>he was going into the studio and going into work

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<v Speaker 2>in his office.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, he was doing a lot better.

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<v Speaker 2>And then he was working from home and it just

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<v Speaker 2>you know, he had cancer and he went into remission.

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<v Speaker 2>Doctor Piro was his cancer doctor, who was also SHO

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<v Speaker 2>so he was He's always been a blessing to everyone

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<v Speaker 2>I love. Yeah, but you know, he recovered from that

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<v Speaker 2>from throp cancer. He came back and he was back

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<v Speaker 2>at work.

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<v Speaker 3>And this is in his seventies.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and then he started to have signs.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not sure if it was completely diagnosed of dementia,

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<v Speaker 2>but I got to say when I would talk to him,

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<v Speaker 2>he was still sharp as attack. He knew everything. Maybe

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<v Speaker 2>look and then he had a stroke.

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<v Speaker 3>We all done our age? Does this? What's normal memory loss? Versus?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean we're all googling that, like and if you

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<v Speaker 3>say you are, you are, like we I do. I've

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<v Speaker 3>googled that many many times. Same and like there is

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<v Speaker 3>normal the thing I don't know, there's you know, even menopause.

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<v Speaker 3>We have these things. So it's so hard to know.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's still just as what's the word, It's like

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<v Speaker 3>it's painful, it's scary. You're like it's scary when it's

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<v Speaker 3>happening to you, or a parent or a grandparent or

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<v Speaker 3>any you're just like, ah, it's just the anxiety.

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<v Speaker 2>So I think we knew, Like my brother and I

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<v Speaker 2>knew when he was bedridden every single day and there

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<v Speaker 2>was a nurse the home, right and he was just

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<v Speaker 2>not connected anymore really with yeah, work and what drove

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<v Speaker 2>him in life, we knew it was.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, yeah, So okay, I mean we're going two

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<v Speaker 3>things because I think when we talk about the manner,

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<v Speaker 3>so much of it is really about your dad, right

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<v Speaker 3>of course, your whole family, your mom.

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<v Speaker 1>So do you think of your dad like every day?

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<v Speaker 1>I do? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So now we get into what that means in

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<v Speaker 3>conjunction with the house. So when it's sold, obviously the

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<v Speaker 3>first time to Petra, it's like, oh, the Spelling sold

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<v Speaker 3>their house. When it sold this time, every single thing

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<v Speaker 3>is the Spelling manner has now been sold to the Google.

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<v Speaker 1>Right.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not like this Petra woman. It's I didn't see

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<v Speaker 3>one thing where it said this Petra Mahosi Solder house

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<v Speaker 3>to the Google guy. It's always Spelling man or Tory Spelling,

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<v Speaker 3>Aaron Spelling's house. So the second round, what would the emotions.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not and that's what I thought you could probably

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<v Speaker 2>help me get through this. I'm not sure why it's

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<v Speaker 2>coming out, and it could be just repression from never

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<v Speaker 2>completely dealing with my dad's death. I suppressed emotions with

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<v Speaker 2>that the last two years, going through divorce and the

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<v Speaker 2>kids and moving and I just I don't emote and

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<v Speaker 2>I hold it in. And I don't know. When this came,

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<v Speaker 2>it was like weird. It was like displaced. It was

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<v Speaker 2>like I was grieving for my dad, but through the

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<v Speaker 2>selling of this house for the second time, this.

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<v Speaker 3>Time felt like it almost landed on you more.

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<v Speaker 2>I described it as when I was talking about it

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<v Speaker 2>on the podcast recently, as an elephant sitting on my chest.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's yeah. And I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't and I and they're turning it into so

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<v Speaker 2>it's going to be for nonprofit and for events.

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<v Speaker 3>What is doing with it? So it's like going to

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<v Speaker 3>be a museum kind of.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. What I read online was he's not

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<v Speaker 1>going to live there. No one's going to live there.

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<v Speaker 1>They're using it.

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<v Speaker 2>So it kind of works with what you said of

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<v Speaker 2>perhaps when my mom sold it, what if she had

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<v Speaker 2>turned it into an event space, amusing.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, he bought it for a hundred and ten million,

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<v Speaker 3>allegedly according to fifty thousand articles.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, whoa, it's bigger.

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<v Speaker 3>Than the taj Mahal. So I mean, now, would you

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<v Speaker 3>ever pop him a note? Why not?

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<v Speaker 1>He's not going to see that, like slide into his DN.

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<v Speaker 3>No, but I'm sure there's some way like you could

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<v Speaker 3>find him. And if you, first of all, I think

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<v Speaker 3>you should like and what would you say? Say it?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean say it here? What would you want to

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<v Speaker 3>say to him?

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<v Speaker 2>First of all, I think it's it was never fit

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<v Speaker 2>for a family unless you're having multiple families live there,

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<v Speaker 2>multi you know, and it could multi generations. Of course,

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<v Speaker 2>it's so huge, you could have your own space, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>I used to joke my brother could have his own

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<v Speaker 2>wing for his family. I could have my own wing

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<v Speaker 2>for my.

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<v Speaker 3>Kids and thirty five other families. Exactly bananas, Like, it's

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<v Speaker 3>just bananas.

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<v Speaker 2>I always wanted to like make it into an Airbnb

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<v Speaker 2>or something.

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<v Speaker 1>Or a hotel or a hotel.

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<v Speaker 3>Probably not like you probably could. It's probably not zoned

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<v Speaker 3>for a hotel, okay, So anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>So I would I know, I'm not. I'm not. I

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<v Speaker 1>would say to him that now.

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<v Speaker 2>That my kids are grown, they never got to meet

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<v Speaker 2>their grandfather, They never really got to be in that home.

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<v Speaker 2>I am happy that he's doing it to use for

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<v Speaker 2>nonprofits and for events and doing things like that, and

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<v Speaker 2>I would I would just say from a heartfelt place,

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<v Speaker 2>if there's any way I could ever come with my kids,

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<v Speaker 2>I would love to have one moment in time there

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<v Speaker 2>again that they'll never like a tight experience.

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<v Speaker 3>Write this exactly. I'm certain we can find a way.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't say that he's gonna do it, but like

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<v Speaker 3>if I were him, I would do it. I forget

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<v Speaker 3>what documentary there was where the person Why can't I

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<v Speaker 3>remember what documentary it was where they go to their

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<v Speaker 3>home and the person musk she did there's another one too,

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<v Speaker 3>because I haven't seen that there's another one in the

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<v Speaker 3>person's like, yeah, come, I can't remember who it was,

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<v Speaker 3>but you definitely should do that.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 3>Interesting little tidbit. I didn't realize until this that Petra ecclestone.

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<v Speaker 3>Ecclestone is part of Formula one, which I wouldn't like.

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<v Speaker 3>I probably have read that before, but until the Brad

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<v Speaker 3>Pitt movie, I would have been like, I don't really

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<v Speaker 3>know what that is, but I'm assuming it's F one

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<v Speaker 3>Formula one racing.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you watch this video?

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<v Speaker 3>There's some Architectural Digest video.

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<v Speaker 1>What is that?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't I'm gonna watch it after we talk. There's

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<v Speaker 3>like a video on TV. Oh yeah, it says ad

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<v Speaker 3>when did they go there?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't remember that.

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<v Speaker 3>Want to watch this. So, Torri, why would you not

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<v Speaker 3>send him that note?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, honestly, and you and I have talked about

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<v Speaker 1>this before it's sold. We had talked.

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<v Speaker 2>About, you know, getting a tour made from the real

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<v Speaker 2>turn Yeah, and I never followed.

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<v Speaker 1>Through on that.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what was keeping me, and I think

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<v Speaker 2>it just was never the like when Petro bought it,

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<v Speaker 2>Like I could have reached out to her and tried

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<v Speaker 2>to That would have been an easier thing. Remember when

0:19:29.840 --> 0:19:32.520
<v Speaker 2>Ben and Jen were together and supposedly we're going to.

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<v Speaker 3>Buy it, h I sure do not.

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<v Speaker 1>They were.

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<v Speaker 2>That was a big thing in the press.

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<v Speaker 3>I really want you to watch this video. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 3>text it to you right now.

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<v Speaker 2>I just feel like it's harder now, but it's definitely

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<v Speaker 2>the right time in my life now as I'm making

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<v Speaker 2>so many changes in my personal life in the last

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<v Speaker 2>two years. It is the right time for me and

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<v Speaker 2>my kids to now go. And of course the head

0:19:57.000 --> 0:19:59.800
<v Speaker 2>of your Google owns it, so it's like impossible to

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<v Speaker 2>reach him.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait is it Mapleton Drive? They just gave the address

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<v Speaker 3>on this thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I saw five nine four and they said he's monetizing it.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's no longer gonna be known as the Manner.

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<v Speaker 2>It's gonna be known as five niney four.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh that's hurt a little bit, is it hurt? You

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<v Speaker 3>need to watch this video. I just texted you to

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<v Speaker 3>see if it seems like the same are so different?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh? I did look at this. I've seen this. It

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't look the same.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you have all this black and white?

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<v Speaker 1>No? So everything they.

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<v Speaker 2>Didn't change anything except esthetic stuff when Petra moved in.

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<v Speaker 3>And what about that ceiling is the same with this

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<v Speaker 3>sort of.

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<v Speaker 1>Feeling, it's the same. My mom created that chandelier. It

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you push a button and it moved down so

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<v Speaker 1>that people have clean it.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, wow, wow, serious, Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>Everything is the same. They just did paint and new furniture.

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<v Speaker 3>So beautiful that she has in here.

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<v Speaker 1>It looks good.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't remember it looking like that exactly when I

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<v Speaker 2>saw it when she owned it.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know did you get to you did

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<v Speaker 1>you go there when she owned it? No?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so you have not been there no since.

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<v Speaker 1>But like my mom made that sweeping staircase, it's all connected.

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<v Speaker 1>You go on one side.

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<v Speaker 3>The living room is weirdly not as big as I

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<v Speaker 3>would think it would be. It's not like super ostentatious

0:21:22.920 --> 0:21:23.360
<v Speaker 3>living room.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like kind of well, you don't have to have

0:21:26.080 --> 0:21:28.040
<v Speaker 2>you don't have to have it big when you have.

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<v Speaker 1>Three of them. So yeah, there were three living rooms,

0:21:32.119 --> 0:21:33.520
<v Speaker 1>beautiful like windows.

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<v Speaker 3>So that's all the same every library. So now I'm

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<v Speaker 3>seeing the library.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh what do you look at?

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<v Speaker 3>Decor is I don't know who did the decor on this?

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<v Speaker 3>Was there a fish tank? There's a fish tank?

0:21:45.680 --> 0:21:50.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, on the bottom level where the bowling alley the

0:21:50.520 --> 0:21:54.640
<v Speaker 2>bar fish tank before and then Arcade and.

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<v Speaker 1>Then the doll museum.

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<v Speaker 3>So okay, will I guess My question for you is,

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<v Speaker 3>and you should use exactly what you said? Will you

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<v Speaker 3>send him a note if.

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<v Speaker 1>You if you hold me accountable.

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<v Speaker 3>I think you should. Why wouldn't you? And look, he

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<v Speaker 3>can say no, but like, why wouldn't he say yes?

0:22:21.080 --> 0:22:25.840
<v Speaker 1>Or I can wait nonprofit events, Let's.

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<v Speaker 3>Not wait, let's not wait. That's a very tory spelling

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<v Speaker 3>thing to say, let's wait, and it's like, why, well,

0:22:32.040 --> 0:22:34.360
<v Speaker 3>let's not be tory spelling ish about it. Let's actually

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<v Speaker 3>like do it. Do you think it would be cathartic

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<v Speaker 3>to go there? Or do you think it would be

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<v Speaker 3>what do you think you would feel?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but you just had cathartic and I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to cry.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh really, yeah, I don't know about God. What are

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<v Speaker 3>you feeling? Tell me what you're feeling.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I feel like it would give me closure on

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<v Speaker 1>something I haven't addressed ever, and it's something I need.

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<v Speaker 1>And I just would like my kids. I want my kids.

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<v Speaker 1>That house never represented. I feel like our family correctly

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<v Speaker 1>and my dad worked really hard well.

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<v Speaker 2>My mom was a stay at home mom. She worked

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<v Speaker 2>really hard on everything for his business to help us

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<v Speaker 2>achieve success.

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<v Speaker 1>And my brother and I work really hard.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think I've spent a lifetime of apologizing for

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<v Speaker 2>that house. And so I want my kids to see

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<v Speaker 2>it because they see it and their friends show them

0:23:37.840 --> 0:23:41.880
<v Speaker 2>pictures and they don't understand. And I want them to see,

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<v Speaker 2>because I want them to know how hard Grandpa Aaron

0:23:44.560 --> 0:23:47.119
<v Speaker 2>worked because he worked really hard. He came from nothing,

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<v Speaker 2>like he worked hard to be able to give our

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<v Speaker 2>family that, whether I liked it or not. So I'd

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<v Speaker 2>like them to know because I feel like I work

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<v Speaker 2>really hard and they.

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<v Speaker 1>Just it's a different it's a disconnect. They don't understand,

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<v Speaker 1>you know.

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<v Speaker 2>They talk all the time like, oh, our friends like

0:24:07.000 --> 0:24:11.399
<v Speaker 2>they're rich and everything, and our family's not rich. And

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<v Speaker 2>it's so odd for me to hear that because I

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<v Speaker 2>grow wow, you know, being just all I knew is

0:24:16.480 --> 0:24:18.080
<v Speaker 2>people calling me the rich girl, and it was so

0:24:18.160 --> 0:24:21.040
<v Speaker 2>shaming to me. And it's only now as an adult

0:24:21.040 --> 0:24:24.879
<v Speaker 2>and I'm like proud of that because that's how hard

0:24:25.160 --> 0:24:32.000
<v Speaker 2>my dad works to give all that. And I don't know,

0:24:32.080 --> 0:24:36.160
<v Speaker 2>it's just it's wild, you know, it's wild to suddenly

0:24:36.320 --> 0:24:40.679
<v Speaker 2>my kids have the perception while they don't think we're poor,

0:24:41.560 --> 0:24:44.680
<v Speaker 2>they're just you know, we're a normal family and we're functioning.

0:24:44.720 --> 0:24:47.560
<v Speaker 2>We're worried about paying bills month to month, and it's

0:24:47.600 --> 0:24:50.920
<v Speaker 2>you know, they can't make the connection when they see

0:24:50.920 --> 0:24:52.960
<v Speaker 2>that photos. So for them to be there in person,

0:24:54.000 --> 0:24:56.159
<v Speaker 2>I think it would be cathartic for our whole family,

0:24:56.720 --> 0:24:57.439
<v Speaker 2>for our history.

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<v Speaker 3>There's a lot of healing that needs to sort of happen,

0:25:00.960 --> 0:25:04.919
<v Speaker 3>and I think it's interesting. Oh bless you, Tori, Like

0:25:05.000 --> 0:25:08.679
<v Speaker 3>I'm so sorry, I know how much like emotion and

0:25:08.800 --> 0:25:13.359
<v Speaker 3>just like there's a lot of sort of goop with

0:25:13.440 --> 0:25:20.840
<v Speaker 3>it all in your body. I always wonder if so,

0:25:21.080 --> 0:25:24.840
<v Speaker 3>like you've said, shame, the shame you felt being the

0:25:25.080 --> 0:25:29.040
<v Speaker 3>rich girl, if is one of the reasons where you're

0:25:29.119 --> 0:25:39.040
<v Speaker 3>like no, because toy, you could be. I just wonder, well,

0:25:39.400 --> 0:25:45.320
<v Speaker 3>I mean, I wonder if you don't subconsciously you don't

0:25:45.400 --> 0:25:49.560
<v Speaker 3>want that shame on you anymore or your kids, that

0:25:49.680 --> 0:25:56.520
<v Speaker 3>there is something that in a way you like about

0:25:57.480 --> 0:25:58.760
<v Speaker 3>not being rich.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I believe that that was my story since I

0:26:06.840 --> 0:26:12.359
<v Speaker 1>was young, Like I'm embarrassed, Like I'm embarrassed of our life.

0:26:12.560 --> 0:26:17.119
<v Speaker 1>I'm embarrassed about being the rich girl. So while I

0:26:17.160 --> 0:26:20.080
<v Speaker 1>have the capabilities and the intelligence and the creativity and

0:26:20.119 --> 0:26:24.800
<v Speaker 1>the brain too do anything I want to do, I

0:26:24.880 --> 0:26:28.440
<v Speaker 1>subconsciously keep myself smaller so.

0:26:30.000 --> 0:26:31.879
<v Speaker 2>That I'm not that rich girl because that was my

0:26:31.920 --> 0:26:34.600
<v Speaker 2>shame my whole life. Like it's still the same story

0:26:34.640 --> 0:26:37.719
<v Speaker 2>in my head even though, yeah, financially, just to use

0:26:37.760 --> 0:26:40.440
<v Speaker 2>the word shame anymore, just to use the word shame.

0:26:40.240 --> 0:26:43.200
<v Speaker 3>About it to me again, I'm not a therapist. I'm

0:26:43.200 --> 0:26:45.200
<v Speaker 3>just doing my best to like be your friend.

0:26:46.640 --> 0:26:47.160
<v Speaker 1>Like I don't.

0:26:47.480 --> 0:26:50.080
<v Speaker 3>I grew up privileged, rite nothing like you, But I

0:26:50.080 --> 0:26:51.680
<v Speaker 3>don't have any shame about that.

0:26:51.920 --> 0:26:54.120
<v Speaker 1>Like it's like why do I then?

0:26:54.520 --> 0:26:57.240
<v Speaker 3>I don't know. I mean, and look, I guess it's

0:26:57.240 --> 0:27:00.320
<v Speaker 3>apples and oranges because it's like you, you add so much.

0:27:00.760 --> 0:27:05.960
<v Speaker 3>But like, why do you feel bad about it? Do

0:27:06.119 --> 0:27:09.160
<v Speaker 3>you feel bad that your dad came from nothing now

0:27:10.880 --> 0:27:14.520
<v Speaker 3>made all these incredible shows, yeah, and made a lot

0:27:14.560 --> 0:27:17.760
<v Speaker 3>of money, Like why do you feel shame about that?

0:27:17.880 --> 0:27:19.400
<v Speaker 3>I'm just curious.

0:27:23.400 --> 0:27:27.000
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I I was bullied so bad in school

0:27:27.200 --> 0:27:29.840
<v Speaker 1>for it that I think it just started. I was

0:27:29.880 --> 0:27:31.920
<v Speaker 1>bullied from the time I was in kindergarten about it,

0:27:33.760 --> 0:27:36.800
<v Speaker 1>and it just became ingrained in me that this is like,

0:27:37.560 --> 0:27:39.919
<v Speaker 1>this is bad, this is a bad thing, and I

0:27:40.040 --> 0:27:40.800
<v Speaker 1>just want to fit in.

0:27:40.960 --> 0:27:43.119
<v Speaker 2>That's it, I would say, I want to be normal.

0:27:43.200 --> 0:27:47.320
<v Speaker 2>I want to fit in. So everything we had represented

0:27:47.440 --> 0:27:53.000
<v Speaker 2>an obstacle of me having an emotionally normal life.

0:27:53.359 --> 0:27:54.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm feel embarrassed.

0:27:54.280 --> 0:27:56.480
<v Speaker 2>Even saying this now, like I'm saying this out loud,

0:27:56.560 --> 0:27:59.639
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, and I got to say, like, you know

0:27:59.760 --> 0:28:00.720
<v Speaker 2>you always tell me.

0:28:00.720 --> 0:28:03.040
<v Speaker 1>Like you don't have to say this before you say that.

0:28:03.800 --> 0:28:08.040
<v Speaker 2>I'm so in my brain conditioned to be like, I'm

0:28:08.080 --> 0:28:09.800
<v Speaker 2>not trying to be a victim. I know I have

0:28:09.920 --> 0:28:12.639
<v Speaker 2>more than everyone else, but I still feel this way,

0:28:12.680 --> 0:28:16.800
<v Speaker 2>like it's just so ingrained in me to apologize for

0:28:16.880 --> 0:28:17.320
<v Speaker 2>being me.

0:28:18.720 --> 0:28:22.080
<v Speaker 1>And I don't know why.

0:28:22.160 --> 0:28:28.080
<v Speaker 3>Again, I am convinced the hint of hoarding you do

0:28:28.480 --> 0:28:29.399
<v Speaker 3>is connected to this.

0:28:30.000 --> 0:28:32.080
<v Speaker 1>It must vinced. Okay, what you're doing.

0:28:32.359 --> 0:28:37.280
<v Speaker 3>Why I get convinced why it's all connected, like that

0:28:37.359 --> 0:28:42.240
<v Speaker 3>you can't let go of things. And also like, because

0:28:43.160 --> 0:28:47.120
<v Speaker 3>I think there's something in the opposite of it, right,

0:28:47.400 --> 0:28:52.400
<v Speaker 3>Like we're talking about like bills that would be more

0:28:52.480 --> 0:28:56.800
<v Speaker 3>than someone's million dollar home, right, like millions of dollars.

0:28:57.960 --> 0:29:00.920
<v Speaker 3>I think there was something that just you didn't like

0:29:01.280 --> 0:29:05.920
<v Speaker 3>about being so wealthy that you'll do anything to not

0:29:06.120 --> 0:29:09.480
<v Speaker 3>feel that. Right, So, like say you might be like

0:29:10.840 --> 0:29:12.360
<v Speaker 3>I need a new car, but I can't afford it.

0:29:12.400 --> 0:29:14.400
<v Speaker 3>I'm just making it up, right, say that You're like, Hey,

0:29:14.440 --> 0:29:15.840
<v Speaker 3>I really need a new car, but I can't afford.

0:29:16.680 --> 0:29:20.240
<v Speaker 3>There's something I think that you probably find comfortable in

0:29:20.320 --> 0:29:23.680
<v Speaker 3>that because you don't have to be ashamed. It's almost

0:29:23.680 --> 0:29:27.480
<v Speaker 3>like you're more ashamed of being wealthy than not being

0:29:27.480 --> 0:29:28.280
<v Speaker 3>able to pay a bill.

0:29:29.000 --> 0:29:34.480
<v Speaker 1>Yes, oh yeah, I don't know how to get past that.

0:29:34.800 --> 0:29:37.880
<v Speaker 3>Like I'm not good at curing it. I'm only I'm

0:29:37.920 --> 0:29:40.560
<v Speaker 3>only like I can only see it. And then I go,

0:29:40.920 --> 0:29:43.520
<v Speaker 3>I don't know how you I mean, I obviously there's

0:29:43.600 --> 0:29:45.880
<v Speaker 3>ways to work through it, because I don't. And again,

0:29:45.920 --> 0:29:48.280
<v Speaker 3>I don't want to speak about Randy, but Randy seems

0:29:48.320 --> 0:29:54.320
<v Speaker 3>to have he doesn't have some of the hang ups

0:29:54.320 --> 0:29:58.240
<v Speaker 3>you have, and he can speak for himself. I apologize

0:29:58.240 --> 0:30:00.600
<v Speaker 3>that I'm even saying that, but like, no, you're.

0:30:00.520 --> 0:30:04.200
<v Speaker 1>Right, he's He also worked. He worked really hard. I

0:30:04.200 --> 0:30:04.800
<v Speaker 1>mean you have to.

0:30:05.600 --> 0:30:08.240
<v Speaker 2>You know, there were times where I went years without

0:30:08.280 --> 0:30:10.920
<v Speaker 2>therapy and with you know, I was just going five

0:30:11.080 --> 0:30:18.000
<v Speaker 2>kids and yeah, it just you know, he was able

0:30:18.160 --> 0:30:21.720
<v Speaker 2>to work through a lot of this stuff. I mean,

0:30:21.800 --> 0:30:26.840
<v Speaker 2>oddly enough, when you know, we we both have hang

0:30:26.920 --> 0:30:30.440
<v Speaker 2>ups that are similar, we just handled them in a

0:30:30.480 --> 0:30:31.040
<v Speaker 2>different way.

0:30:31.080 --> 0:30:35.880
<v Speaker 1>I think, I don't know.

0:30:35.920 --> 0:30:40.400
<v Speaker 2>I remember a time where we were going to get

0:30:40.480 --> 0:30:43.720
<v Speaker 2>rid of everything and I had like a full, like

0:30:43.840 --> 0:30:46.400
<v Speaker 2>crying breakdown, even all.

0:30:46.280 --> 0:30:48.719
<v Speaker 3>The storage stuff, all this sort of memory and all

0:30:48.720 --> 0:30:49.120
<v Speaker 3>the stores.

0:30:49.240 --> 0:30:52.480
<v Speaker 2>Okay, I remember this was we were filming True Tory

0:30:54.080 --> 0:30:56.800
<v Speaker 2>and we were going to get rid of everything. Deane

0:30:56.800 --> 0:31:00.360
<v Speaker 2>and I were talking about it. We were fighting, and

0:31:00.400 --> 0:31:05.280
<v Speaker 2>I started a crying breakdown. And I remember like he asked,

0:31:05.280 --> 0:31:08.520
<v Speaker 2>and the producer asked me afterwards, like why are you

0:31:08.560 --> 0:31:14.160
<v Speaker 2>so upset? And I said, because it almost erases my existence.

0:31:14.280 --> 0:31:18.000
<v Speaker 1>I worked so hard for all this, Like I worked

0:31:18.120 --> 0:31:21.400
<v Speaker 1>so hard. I worked since I was sixteen years old,

0:31:21.600 --> 0:31:22.840
<v Speaker 1>and I haven't stopped.

0:31:23.880 --> 0:31:26.760
<v Speaker 2>And it's like if I get rid of everything that

0:31:27.120 --> 0:31:30.080
<v Speaker 2>when I worked hard and I had the money I

0:31:30.160 --> 0:31:34.200
<v Speaker 2>was able to afford and bring into the home, then

0:31:34.280 --> 0:31:37.480
<v Speaker 2>it's as if I never did anything.

0:31:39.160 --> 0:31:42.040
<v Speaker 1>I have nothing to show for it except my beautiful children.

0:31:43.080 --> 0:31:46.480
<v Speaker 2>I know this is irrational, but that's what really came

0:31:46.520 --> 0:31:48.640
<v Speaker 2>out of me at the time. And again, this is,

0:31:48.720 --> 0:31:52.640
<v Speaker 2>you know, fourteen years ago, thirteen years ago.

0:31:52.800 --> 0:31:55.320
<v Speaker 3>It's a lot of sense. I actually, I mean, like

0:31:55.760 --> 0:31:58.480
<v Speaker 3>it makes sense, and it makes sense that you have

0:31:58.800 --> 0:32:03.160
<v Speaker 3>so much sort of aim over the house, right, like,

0:32:03.240 --> 0:32:08.640
<v Speaker 3>because again it's all that that your dad works so

0:32:08.720 --> 0:32:11.160
<v Speaker 3>hard for and now it's someone else's.

0:32:11.360 --> 0:32:16.760
<v Speaker 2>When I dream about my home or dream about my dad,

0:32:17.640 --> 0:32:20.840
<v Speaker 2>it's always in the house I grew up in, which

0:32:22.160 --> 0:32:22.920
<v Speaker 2>it always is.

0:32:23.240 --> 0:32:25.680
<v Speaker 1>I've never once had a dream, and I'm in the

0:32:25.720 --> 0:32:28.200
<v Speaker 1>manner and you know, we have dreams of family homes

0:32:28.200 --> 0:32:29.880
<v Speaker 1>and we're like the age we are now.

0:32:29.920 --> 0:32:33.240
<v Speaker 2>But we're in our We're in our family home. It's

0:32:33.280 --> 0:32:35.720
<v Speaker 2>always one eleven North Mapleton, which.

0:32:35.680 --> 0:32:37.800
<v Speaker 3>You wish you could have that house. I really do.

0:32:38.040 --> 0:32:41.840
<v Speaker 2>House when that was selling over and over again, and

0:32:42.800 --> 0:32:45.160
<v Speaker 2>I mean not, that's still a huge house that I

0:32:45.200 --> 0:32:45.600
<v Speaker 2>don't need.

0:32:45.680 --> 0:32:48.400
<v Speaker 3>Look reasonable though, No, no, no, But it was.

0:32:48.360 --> 0:32:51.200
<v Speaker 2>Like ten thousand square feet or yeah, yeah, and it

0:32:51.280 --> 0:32:55.200
<v Speaker 2>really was a family home and I have so many

0:32:55.240 --> 0:32:59.880
<v Speaker 2>beautiful memories there and I always thought, gosh, I will

0:32:59.880 --> 0:33:02.920
<v Speaker 2>be like I would be the hero in my own

0:33:02.960 --> 0:33:06.360
<v Speaker 2>story for myself if I could afford, at one point,

0:33:06.400 --> 0:33:08.239
<v Speaker 2>if it were back on the market, to go and

0:33:08.240 --> 0:33:11.400
<v Speaker 2>buy that childhood home and have it as something my

0:33:11.480 --> 0:33:15.080
<v Speaker 2>brother and I could use with our family something, because

0:33:15.080 --> 0:33:17.120
<v Speaker 2>that would be really special to us.

0:33:18.280 --> 0:33:19.240
<v Speaker 3>That's more the house.

0:33:19.920 --> 0:33:20.600
<v Speaker 1>That's the house.

0:33:20.600 --> 0:33:22.880
<v Speaker 3>But it's interesting, you felt so many emotions.

0:33:23.120 --> 0:33:25.360
<v Speaker 1>Actually, that's the house I want to take my kids too.

0:33:25.920 --> 0:33:26.200
<v Speaker 3>More.

0:33:27.160 --> 0:33:32.120
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, who has that house? I don't know, but I

0:33:32.160 --> 0:33:33.880
<v Speaker 2>know you can still see. It's right on the corner

0:33:33.880 --> 0:33:36.320
<v Speaker 2>of Sunset, so you could like see the backyard. And

0:33:36.360 --> 0:33:39.080
<v Speaker 2>that's where my dad had his vegetable garden. And every

0:33:39.120 --> 0:33:41.320
<v Speaker 2>Saturday we would do there. We would go into the

0:33:41.400 --> 0:33:44.680
<v Speaker 2>vegetable garden and then I had my little playhouse down below,

0:33:44.960 --> 0:33:47.000
<v Speaker 2>and you could see it from the street. It's still

0:33:47.040 --> 0:33:49.680
<v Speaker 2>there last time I looked. I don't know, I was

0:33:49.720 --> 0:33:53.040
<v Speaker 2>a couple of years ago. But and then we would

0:33:53.040 --> 0:33:55.080
<v Speaker 2>spend time at the pool and I would bring my

0:33:55.120 --> 0:33:57.840
<v Speaker 2>scripts out. I would bring all his scripts out to

0:33:57.920 --> 0:33:59.000
<v Speaker 2>him and would go through them.

0:33:59.040 --> 0:34:05.080
<v Speaker 1>And so that's the place to wholesome memory of my dad. Oh,

0:34:05.200 --> 0:34:06.400
<v Speaker 1>that's the place I need to go back to.

0:34:06.440 --> 0:34:09.480
<v Speaker 3>I just realized it's a lot. I mean, I think

0:34:09.480 --> 0:34:12.400
<v Speaker 3>you've got like a lot. There's a lot of connection

0:34:12.640 --> 0:34:18.640
<v Speaker 3>with the you know, the material part, but the memories

0:34:18.680 --> 0:34:21.600
<v Speaker 3>are the same, like and you can have that anywhere.

0:34:25.239 --> 0:34:27.600
<v Speaker 3>I don't know, I don't know, I don't know. There's

0:34:27.600 --> 0:34:30.880
<v Speaker 3>a lot obviously more to talk about. I see, you know,

0:34:32.960 --> 0:34:34.960
<v Speaker 3>it's all jumbled up for you.

0:34:38.560 --> 0:34:39.640
<v Speaker 1>It's all in there somewhere.

0:34:40.160 --> 0:34:41.879
<v Speaker 3>What do you feel when you just go drive by?

0:34:42.200 --> 0:34:45.239
<v Speaker 1>What if you just go drive by the manor or

0:34:45.280 --> 0:34:47.560
<v Speaker 1>the other both both places.

0:34:48.680 --> 0:34:54.840
<v Speaker 2>I've driven by it. I've showed the kids and you

0:34:54.880 --> 0:34:57.200
<v Speaker 2>can't see from the outside the house I grew up,

0:34:57.239 --> 0:35:01.080
<v Speaker 2>and it's up a long, long driveway see anything from there.

0:35:01.200 --> 0:35:05.640
<v Speaker 2>But I tell them stories and I'm like, oh my gosh,

0:35:05.719 --> 0:35:08.120
<v Speaker 2>this is where the og like we used to call her.

0:35:08.040 --> 0:35:10.240
<v Speaker 1>The map lady before they were all the star tours.

0:35:10.239 --> 0:35:13.400
<v Speaker 1>She was literally sit in her little flight of car

0:35:13.640 --> 0:35:17.720
<v Speaker 1>tave corner across from my parents' house, and she would

0:35:17.920 --> 0:35:22.360
<v Speaker 1>sell the maps right there with a sign. To me.

0:35:22.480 --> 0:35:25.880
<v Speaker 1>She was family like she that's that's my fan.

0:35:26.080 --> 0:35:28.440
<v Speaker 2>That's maybe you know, I don't know, that's an ants

0:35:28.480 --> 0:35:31.520
<v Speaker 2>across the street. And my dad was always so kind

0:35:31.560 --> 0:35:33.719
<v Speaker 2>to her, and so we knew her by name.

0:35:34.080 --> 0:35:37.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so anyway, I don't know.

0:35:37.480 --> 0:35:39.480
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and the kids, I mean, look, I do I

0:35:39.520 --> 0:35:40.920
<v Speaker 3>think you should send the note.

0:35:41.120 --> 0:35:41.880
<v Speaker 1>I'll send it.

0:35:43.760 --> 0:35:47.080
<v Speaker 3>To the er. Yeah, and to see why not?

0:35:48.360 --> 0:35:51.200
<v Speaker 1>Why not send a few women.

0:35:52.160 --> 0:35:54.000
<v Speaker 3>I mean, I'm sure I've got an assistant. Let's just

0:35:54.000 --> 0:35:58.080
<v Speaker 3>send it to the assistant. Okay, what assistants? Assistant?

0:35:58.320 --> 0:35:58.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

0:35:58.680 --> 0:36:03.000
<v Speaker 3>I we'll just start googling it, googling it, see chatchpt.

0:36:04.080 --> 0:36:06.200
<v Speaker 3>I think he was he used to. I think he

0:36:06.280 --> 0:36:09.680
<v Speaker 3>was the former CEO of Google. I think that's I don't.

0:36:09.840 --> 0:36:12.880
<v Speaker 3>I think he's not Google anymore. But I mean, do it,

0:36:13.200 --> 0:36:15.839
<v Speaker 3>so look and then we'll see what it does, like

0:36:15.880 --> 0:36:18.040
<v Speaker 3>maybe it'll make you feel better. I don't know. I

0:36:18.080 --> 0:36:24.520
<v Speaker 3>also had one more idea, would you ever make a

0:36:24.680 --> 0:36:27.120
<v Speaker 3>movie about your dad?

0:36:28.400 --> 0:36:28.520
<v Speaker 1>Like?

0:36:28.560 --> 0:36:33.279
<v Speaker 3>Has anyone done a movie about your dad's life story?

0:36:33.400 --> 0:36:35.200
<v Speaker 1>And you don't mean a documentary, you mean.

0:36:35.440 --> 0:36:38.320
<v Speaker 3>No, I mean like a right like Leonardo DiCaprio is

0:36:38.360 --> 0:36:39.319
<v Speaker 3>playing your dad?

0:36:39.400 --> 0:36:44.359
<v Speaker 2>I mean maybe right like Lifetime did, like the nine

0:36:44.400 --> 0:36:46.160
<v Speaker 2>O two one oh one, and they.

0:36:46.080 --> 0:36:47.160
<v Speaker 3>Did, but that's not the air.

0:36:47.520 --> 0:36:50.160
<v Speaker 1>And someone played my dad? Did you know?

0:36:50.200 --> 0:36:55.880
<v Speaker 2>That was the guy from from the Simpsons, that Dan Cassa.

0:36:55.960 --> 0:37:02.239
<v Speaker 3>What's no way he believed my dadh My god, I

0:37:03.400 --> 0:37:06.560
<v Speaker 3>don't know who would play your dad today? That'd be interesting.

0:37:08.400 --> 0:37:11.760
<v Speaker 2>Isn't that wild that he he has such a history?

0:37:11.880 --> 0:37:14.160
<v Speaker 1>How come no one ever thought to do that?

0:37:14.440 --> 0:37:15.279
<v Speaker 3>I think you should try.

0:37:15.360 --> 0:37:15.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

0:37:15.719 --> 0:37:18.960
<v Speaker 3>I wonder if it would be healing to you? You're right?

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<v Speaker 3>Why would they not take you.

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<v Speaker 2>He was always like Steven Spielberg was one of my

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<v Speaker 2>dad's closest friends.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're right, why didn't hear? Why not? I know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it would be good. Why don't you start?

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<v Speaker 1>I always wanted to do a play based on my dad.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, then the play can turn into a movie. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. Like, God, your dad's book again? Is

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<v Speaker 3>your dad's book on audiobook? That's a great question, so

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<v Speaker 3>hard you should first of all, if it isn't, this

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<v Speaker 3>is Is this the one Aaron Spelling a Prime Time life?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, we need to turn this into a movie. Wow,

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<v Speaker 3>I'll read it. I'll start working on it. Really I

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<v Speaker 3>feel now, I mean I don't know. I changed this,

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<v Speaker 3>changed it to you know, but how do you feel?

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<v Speaker 1>No? This is a good, positive thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, this is what my dad loved and passion,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's so crazy, like he's such a part of

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<v Speaker 2>Hollywood history and especially television, and it's just crazy to

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<v Speaker 2>me that future generations won't know that, unless, of.

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<v Speaker 3>Course, rediscovering all these shows. It's true, does your mom

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<v Speaker 3>still have all the leather bound scripts and all that?

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<v Speaker 1>Obviously she donated them?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh where are they? At the Museum of TV and Radio.

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<v Speaker 3>Where are they?

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<v Speaker 2>I want someone to say, this sounds weird, but my

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<v Speaker 2>memories typically right. We can fact check this to Boston,

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<v Speaker 2>to a Boston college that can't be cool?

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<v Speaker 1>Or did SMU was my dad's school?

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<v Speaker 3>Aaron Spelling scripts are primarily held by Boston Universities, Howard

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<v Speaker 3>Godly Archival Research Center, and Yale University's archives.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, let's reach.

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<v Speaker 3>Out to them, you nail that.

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<v Speaker 1>I wish I had one of them.

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<v Speaker 3>They are bound leather scripts from popular shows like Charlie's Angels,

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<v Speaker 3>Meloy's Place I Know to No Dynasty. Yelle's collection contains

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<v Speaker 3>scripts from the fifties and sixties, including works by Spelling,

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<v Speaker 3>Rod Serling, and others. Wow. Good, good knowledge. Yeah, you

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<v Speaker 3>gotta Maybe you know because you have his legacy and

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<v Speaker 3>your own, so I don't know. I always think, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>start doing these things. Maybe you'll enjoy it.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. I'm scared to reach out to people I.

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<v Speaker 3>Know, but I'm going to help you. Okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 3>we'll write that lest So whoever's listening, let's write up

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<v Speaker 3>what Tori said, and then we'll help her find find him.

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<v Speaker 3>Let me just see Eric Schmidt's email.

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<v Speaker 1>What imagine it's that simple?

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<v Speaker 3>Nobody will find that for U, This says Gmail.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't imagine it was that simple. We just

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<v Speaker 1>said it and they're like, oh, why he Tori smelling? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>come on bye five nine four.

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<v Speaker 3>To be continued. Everyone listening can help us. To be

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<v Speaker 3>continued