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Speaker 1: Misspelling with Tori Spelling and iHeartRadio podcast. Okay, we're back.

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Speaker 1: So my friend Amy and I did.

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Speaker 2: Secrets of the Manner and they did very well those

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Speaker 2: those podcast episodes.

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Speaker 3: I know we need to bring that back. This is

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Speaker 3: this is what. It's a little different, but we need

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Speaker 3: to do another Secret of the Manner. Emotions of the Manner.

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Speaker 1: I have to find mine.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yes, So recently my parents' house, which it's the

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Speaker 2: second time it's sold.

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Speaker 1: But I don't know. This one just hit me different.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna ask you, is this just the second time?

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Speaker 3: So your mom sold it to that woman and then

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Speaker 3: that woman sold it to the Google guy.

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Speaker 1: Correct?

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Speaker 3: Okay, so I thought there might have been one more

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Speaker 3: in between.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, no, So I think when it first sold,

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Speaker 2: I was really I hadn't processed all my emotions, and

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Speaker 2: I was just like, okay, this is good for my

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Speaker 2: mom because she wanted to downsize and she moved to

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Speaker 2: the man Did.

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Speaker 3: She stay there? Sorry to interrupt you, how long did

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Speaker 3: she stay there after my dad passed away?

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to think, I know, you know what. I

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Speaker 2: believe she moved in like two thousand and.

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Speaker 1: Ten.

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Speaker 3: Maybe when did your dad pass away two thousand and six,

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Speaker 3: So she did she live there for years without him?

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Speaker 2: She did, the timeline might be a little different. I

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Speaker 2: just remember when she had sold it, she was moving,

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Speaker 2: or maybe before she sold it, she was moving.

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Speaker 1: I brought Liam and Stella.

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Speaker 2: We were filming Tori and Dean, so it's in one

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Speaker 2: of the episodes, and they were little, and I still

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Speaker 2: have pictures of like, you know, they were like two

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Speaker 2: and three, which I tell them now they were there

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Speaker 2: and they don't remember, sadly.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, yeah, they were like two and three when

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Speaker 1: she moved. So do you.

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Speaker 3: Remember like going over there, like were there? Okay, this

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Speaker 3: is a weird question, but like do you think there

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Speaker 3: was ever a time when your mom was the only

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Speaker 3: person in that house sleeping? Or was there always staff there?

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Speaker 1: Security and security? And that'd be really scary to be

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Speaker 1: in that house alone.

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Speaker 3: Oh oh, I mean it would be like being in

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Speaker 3: a like Hyatt hotel by yourself, ish kind of Do

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Speaker 3: you remember still having holidays and stuff there? Like did

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Speaker 3: you still have holidays and with disgivings and Christmases there

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Speaker 3: without your dad?

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Speaker 1: Correct? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: And was that hard?

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Speaker 2: I remember specifically? I don't know if we did holidays

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Speaker 1: Time we had our own family right.

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Speaker 2: Good a town a lot for Thanksgiving, but Christmas my

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Speaker 2: mom still had. I can vividly remember my mom's Christmas

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Speaker 2: Eve party that was super famous. She always had it

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Speaker 2: with my dad and she. I remember going Stella was

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Speaker 2: I wrote about it. It was amazing, and my brother

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Speaker 2: was there and Dean and I and Liam and Stella

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Speaker 2: and it was like this, it was such an amazing

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Speaker 2: Christmas Eve party. I think that might have been her

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Speaker 2: last one.

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Speaker 1: Though.

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Speaker 3: Wow, did your dad ever meet any of your kids? No?

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Speaker 2: I know he passed away in June and I got

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Speaker 2: pregnant with Liam in July.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, of two thousand and six.

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Speaker 3: So when your mom decided to sell the house, how

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Speaker 3: did that feel? Did you try to say? No, don't like,

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Speaker 3: because what you and I had been texting about the

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Speaker 3: sort of the impetus for this episode is I was like,

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Speaker 3: why didn't you guys keep it in the family and

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Speaker 3: make it like a great nound? Like I know that

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Speaker 3: sounds a little crazy, but it's not that crazy.

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Speaker 2: When you texted that to me, I got chills, And

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Speaker 2: when you just said it, I got chills.

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Speaker 1: Again. I don't know, and I don't remember.

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Speaker 2: You have to keep in mind also, and you know

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Speaker 2: we didn't always talk about emotions or what was happening.

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Speaker 1: And that kind of was the same thing.

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Speaker 2: I don't think when my mom told us that she

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Speaker 2: I asked. I mean, I think it was just in

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Speaker 2: our minds. You know, it was too big for her alone.

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Speaker 3: Correct, it's totally bananas. If she kept it and lived

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know, and I'm sure it had a

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Speaker 2: lot of pain connected to it because she had lost

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Speaker 2: my dad, so.

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Speaker 1: She totally a fresh start.

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Speaker 3: I totally get that.

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Speaker 1: Meanwhile, the manner.

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Speaker 2: In the sky is what she calls the condos, and

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Speaker 2: it's the top floor, okay, and it is decorated as

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Speaker 2: a replica of the manor.

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Speaker 1: It's just a condo.

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Speaker 3: So she took everything and sort of put it in

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Speaker 3: the exact same places so that she feels like she's

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Speaker 3: there if yeah, wow, but it's a lot smaller. I mean, honestly,

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Speaker 3: even if it's a lot of ten square feet, what

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Speaker 3: was the manner fifty six?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it was fifty six thousand, And I

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Speaker 2: just remember when my kids went.

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Speaker 1: Over to her condo the Manner in the sky, They're like,

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Speaker 1: why does grandma live in a hotel? Oh?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Like no, I'm like, what would you have thought if

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Speaker 1: you had a condo the manor? Oh my god?

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Speaker 3: Totally right when they were this age. So, I mean, look,

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Speaker 3: it would have been cool to keep it, inde, way

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Speaker 3: to keep it, and she still didn't have to live there.

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Speaker 3: That being said, the upkeep would be the cost of

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Speaker 3: having that house would be in the millions a year.

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Speaker 3: I mean millions and millions and millions. Like it's insane.

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Speaker 3: I don't even want to think about what the DWP

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Speaker 2: I this is stuff we didn't think about. But now

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Speaker 2: being an adult and dealing with my own bills, I'm like,

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Speaker 2: oh my god, it had to have been wild.

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Speaker 3: Can you imagine? I sometimes get a DWP bill and

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Speaker 3: I'm like, it's four hundred dollars. I mean that bill

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Speaker 3: must have been hundreds of thousands.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it had to have been.

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Speaker 2: My mom's going to be eighty this year, And I

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Speaker 2: think for her she did was superhands on, like literally

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Speaker 3: Really Oh yes, yes, yes, So do you think like

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Speaker 3: back in the day, like I'm and I'm sure there

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Speaker 3: was somebody, but like it was your mom, not your dad,

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Speaker 3: being like okay, let me open the gas bill, let's

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Speaker 3: see what the cable bill is, or did somebody do that?

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Speaker 1: I mean there was always a business manager.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that would be insane, probably.

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Speaker 2: Till they got that when they first got together. For

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Speaker 2: sure it was my mom.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, my mom.

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Speaker 2: She dealt with like the stock market, she dealt with

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Speaker 2: when his company went public, like she dealt with everyone.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all the business stuff. Whoa.

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Speaker 3: I mean, this is the first time because I thought about.

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Speaker 1: The man at home and at his work.

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Speaker 3: I thought about the man and probably more than a

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Speaker 3: person should. But I never until this very moment thought

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Speaker 3: about the bills at the manor like you haven't either

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Speaker 3: till you know it's that it would be insane, like

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Speaker 3: think about our own bills we have right now, and

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Speaker 3: we're like, oh God, don't play the insurance like it

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Speaker 3: was a running a hotel.

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Speaker 1: It was running a hotel. Yeah, WHOA.

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Speaker 2: So I don't know if there would have been a

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Speaker 2: way to keep it in the family without the constant bleeding.

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Speaker 3: It would have to be a museum. You'd have to

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Speaker 3: because otherwise, like you would just be flushing money down

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Speaker 3: the toilet. Would not make sense. So when the house

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Speaker 3: sold to that lady, I can't think of her name.

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Speaker 3: I wanted to say. Her name was Petra, Petra Egglestein, Okay,

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Speaker 3: When the house sold to her, what did you feel?

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Speaker 3: Can you remember, like did you feel sad? Did you

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Speaker 3: feel relief? Did you feel like whatever, it's a house.

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Speaker 3: I don't care.

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Speaker 2: I felt nothing at the time. I think I was

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Speaker 2: just like that house didn't mean anything to me. It

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Speaker 2: my dad got sick and yeah, you know, slowly dying,

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Speaker 3: By the way, I've never asked you about the funeral.

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Speaker 3: Was it like a pagan of the stars?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: Or did you make it private?

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Speaker 1: I wasn't a part of doing it. I just attended.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, but like, was Heather locklay there.

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Speaker 1: Or like it was very very small?

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Speaker 3: Was there ever, like the Aaron Spelling tribute special on ABC?

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Speaker 3: Do you know what I'm saying? Like they would do now?

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Speaker 2: There wasn't, so there was ABC wanted to do one. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: They after he passed, they had reached.

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Speaker 2: Out to me and wanted to know if I wanted

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Speaker 2: to host it, and I thought that would be a

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Speaker 2: great tribute to my dad. I mean, at one point

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Speaker 2: everyone who called it the Aaron Broadcasting Company, like it

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Speaker 2: would be appropriate for ABC to honor him.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and then you still can incorporate all the like

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Speaker 3: right you know, oh Melrose, Like you know shows that

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Speaker 2: It was I had met my dad his memoir that

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Speaker 2: important to me that the tribute be really great and

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Speaker 2: involved and all of the people he loved, his stars

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Speaker 2: and stuff. Anyway, it was in the works, and then

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Speaker 2: I don't know what happened, but I was just told

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Speaker 2: that for some reason, they can't move forward with it,

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Speaker 2: and it didn't happen.

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Speaker 1: It made me really sad because I was like, I

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Speaker 1: need some tribute to my dad.

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Speaker 2: And then I had heard talks there was going to

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Speaker 1: Oh. I don't know why.

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Speaker 2: I tend to go towards Everyone handles grief in a

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Speaker 3: And I'm your mom is still to this day just

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Speaker 3: so sad she is.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that was the love of her life.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I think she likes that she can travel now because

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Speaker 3: It's not like this Petra woman. It's I didn't see

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Speaker 2: So it kind of works with what you said of

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Speaker 3: I mean, he bought it for a hundred and ten million,

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Speaker 1: Right, whoa, it's bigger.

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Speaker 1: He's not going to see that, like slide into his DN.

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Speaker 3: No, but I'm sure there's some way like you could

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Speaker 2: First of all, I think it's it was never fit

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Speaker 2: I always wanted to like make it into an Airbnb

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Speaker 1: So I would I know, I'm not. I'm not. I

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Speaker 3: Write this exactly. I'm certain we can find a way.

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Speaker 3: I can't say that he's gonna do it, but like

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Speaker 3: Interesting little tidbit. I didn't realize until this that Petra ecclestone.

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Speaker 3: Want to watch this. So, Torri, why would you not

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Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, and you and I have talked about

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Speaker 2: I don't know what was keeping me, and I think

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Speaker 3: I really want you to watch this video. I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: I just feel like it's harder now, but it's definitely

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Speaker 3: Wait is it Mapleton Drive? They just gave the address

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Speaker 2: I saw five nine four and they said he's monetizing it.

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Speaker 2: So it's no longer gonna be known as the Manner.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's hurt a little bit, is it hurt? You

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Speaker 3: Did you have all this black and white?

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Speaker 1: No? So everything they.

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Speaker 2: Didn't change anything except esthetic stuff when Petra moved in.

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Speaker 1: Feeling, it's the same. My mom created that chandelier. It

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Speaker 3: Okay, wow, wow, serious, Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Everything is the same. They just did paint and new furniture.

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Speaker 3: So beautiful that she has in here.

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Speaker 1: It looks good.

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Speaker 2: I don't remember it looking like that exactly when I

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Speaker 1: So I don't know did you get to you did

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Speaker 3: Okay, so you have not been there no since.

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Speaker 1: But like my mom made that sweeping staircase, it's all connected.

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Speaker 3: The living room is weirdly not as big as I

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Speaker 2: It's like kind of well, you don't have to have

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Speaker 3: So that's all the same every library. So now I'm

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Speaker 1: Oh what do you look at?

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Speaker 3: Decor is I don't know who did the decor on this?

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Speaker 3: Was there a fish tank? There's a fish tank?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, on the bottom level where the bowling alley the

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Speaker 1: Then the doll museum.

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Speaker 3: So okay, will I guess My question for you is,

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Speaker 1: You if you hold me accountable.

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Speaker 3: I think you should. Why wouldn't you? And look, he

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Speaker 1: Or I can wait nonprofit events, Let's.

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Speaker 3: like do it. Do you think it would be cathartic

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Speaker 3: what do you think you would feel?

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Speaker 1: I don't know, but you just had cathartic and I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like it would give me closure on

448
00:22:55,440 --> 00:22:59,639
Speaker 1: something I haven't addressed ever, and it's something I need.

449
00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:04,439
Speaker 1: And I just would like my kids. I want my kids.

450
00:23:05,560 --> 00:23:11,200
Speaker 1: That house never represented. I feel like our family correctly

451
00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:14,600
Speaker 1: and my dad worked really hard well.

452
00:23:14,640 --> 00:23:16,720
Speaker 2: My mom was a stay at home mom. She worked

453
00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:21,280
Speaker 2: really hard on everything for his business to help us

454
00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:23,639
Speaker 2: achieve success.

455
00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:26,160
Speaker 1: And my brother and I work really hard.

456
00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:29,760
Speaker 2: And I think I've spent a lifetime of apologizing for

457
00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:35,120
Speaker 2: that house. And so I want my kids to see

458
00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:37,800
Speaker 2: it because they see it and their friends show them

459
00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:41,880
Speaker 2: pictures and they don't understand. And I want them to see,

460
00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:44,440
Speaker 2: because I want them to know how hard Grandpa Aaron

461
00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:47,119
Speaker 2: worked because he worked really hard. He came from nothing,

462
00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:50,560
Speaker 2: like he worked hard to be able to give our

463
00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:54,720
Speaker 2: family that, whether I liked it or not. So I'd

464
00:23:54,760 --> 00:23:56,960
Speaker 2: like them to know because I feel like I work

465
00:23:57,000 --> 00:23:59,680
Speaker 2: really hard and they.

466
00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:03,399
Speaker 1: Just it's a different it's a disconnect. They don't understand,

467
00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:03,639
Speaker 1: you know.

468
00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:06,960
Speaker 2: They talk all the time like, oh, our friends like

469
00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:11,399
Speaker 2: they're rich and everything, and our family's not rich. And

470
00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:13,239
Speaker 2: it's so odd for me to hear that because I

471
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:16,440
Speaker 2: grow wow, you know, being just all I knew is

472
00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:18,080
Speaker 2: people calling me the rich girl, and it was so

473
00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:21,040
Speaker 2: shaming to me. And it's only now as an adult

474
00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:24,879
Speaker 2: and I'm like proud of that because that's how hard

475
00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:32,000
Speaker 2: my dad works to give all that. And I don't know,

476
00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:36,160
Speaker 2: it's just it's wild, you know, it's wild to suddenly

477
00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:40,679
Speaker 2: my kids have the perception while they don't think we're poor,

478
00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:44,680
Speaker 2: they're just you know, we're a normal family and we're functioning.

479
00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:47,560
Speaker 2: We're worried about paying bills month to month, and it's

480
00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:50,920
Speaker 2: you know, they can't make the connection when they see

481
00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:52,960
Speaker 2: that photos. So for them to be there in person,

482
00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:56,159
Speaker 2: I think it would be cathartic for our whole family,

483
00:24:56,720 --> 00:24:57,439
Speaker 2: for our history.

484
00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:00,000
Speaker 3: There's a lot of healing that needs to sort of happen,

485
00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:04,919
Speaker 3: and I think it's interesting. Oh bless you, Tori, Like

486
00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:08,679
Speaker 3: I'm so sorry, I know how much like emotion and

487
00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:13,359
Speaker 3: just like there's a lot of sort of goop with

488
00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:20,840
Speaker 3: it all in your body. I always wonder if so,

489
00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:24,840
Speaker 3: like you've said, shame, the shame you felt being the

490
00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:29,040
Speaker 3: rich girl, if is one of the reasons where you're

491
00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:39,040
Speaker 3: like no, because toy, you could be. I just wonder, well,

492
00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:45,320
Speaker 3: I mean, I wonder if you don't subconsciously you don't

493
00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:49,560
Speaker 3: want that shame on you anymore or your kids, that

494
00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:56,520
Speaker 3: there is something that in a way you like about

495
00:25:57,480 --> 00:25:58,760
Speaker 3: not being rich.

496
00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:06,760
Speaker 1: Yes, I believe that that was my story since I

497
00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:12,359
Speaker 1: was young, Like I'm embarrassed, Like I'm embarrassed of our life.

498
00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:17,119
Speaker 1: I'm embarrassed about being the rich girl. So while I

499
00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:20,080
Speaker 1: have the capabilities and the intelligence and the creativity and

500
00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:24,800
Speaker 1: the brain too do anything I want to do, I

501
00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:28,440
Speaker 1: subconsciously keep myself smaller so.

502
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:31,879
Speaker 2: That I'm not that rich girl because that was my

503
00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:34,600
Speaker 2: shame my whole life. Like it's still the same story

504
00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:37,719
Speaker 2: in my head even though, yeah, financially, just to use

505
00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:40,440
Speaker 2: the word shame anymore, just to use the word shame.

506
00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:43,200
Speaker 3: About it to me again, I'm not a therapist. I'm

507
00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:45,200
Speaker 3: just doing my best to like be your friend.

508
00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:47,160
Speaker 1: Like I don't.

509
00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:50,080
Speaker 3: I grew up privileged, rite nothing like you, But I

510
00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:51,680
Speaker 3: don't have any shame about that.

511
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:54,120
Speaker 1: Like it's like why do I then?

512
00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:57,240
Speaker 3: I don't know. I mean, and look, I guess it's

513
00:26:57,240 --> 00:27:00,320
Speaker 3: apples and oranges because it's like you, you add so much.

514
00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:05,960
Speaker 3: But like, why do you feel bad about it? Do

515
00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:09,160
Speaker 3: you feel bad that your dad came from nothing now

516
00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:14,520
Speaker 3: made all these incredible shows, yeah, and made a lot

517
00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:17,760
Speaker 3: of money, Like why do you feel shame about that?

518
00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:19,400
Speaker 3: I'm just curious.

519
00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:27,000
Speaker 1: I mean, I I was bullied so bad in school

520
00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:29,840
Speaker 1: for it that I think it just started. I was

521
00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:31,920
Speaker 1: bullied from the time I was in kindergarten about it,

522
00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:36,800
Speaker 1: and it just became ingrained in me that this is like,

523
00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:39,919
Speaker 1: this is bad, this is a bad thing, and I

524
00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:40,800
Speaker 1: just want to fit in.

525
00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:43,119
Speaker 2: That's it, I would say, I want to be normal.

526
00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:47,320
Speaker 2: I want to fit in. So everything we had represented

527
00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:53,000
Speaker 2: an obstacle of me having an emotionally normal life.

528
00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:54,680
Speaker 1: I'm feel embarrassed.

529
00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:56,480
Speaker 2: Even saying this now, like I'm saying this out loud,

530
00:27:56,560 --> 00:27:59,639
Speaker 2: I'm like, and I got to say, like, you know

531
00:27:59,760 --> 00:28:00,720
Speaker 2: you always tell me.

532
00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:03,040
Speaker 1: Like you don't have to say this before you say that.

533
00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:08,040
Speaker 2: I'm so in my brain conditioned to be like, I'm

534
00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:09,800
Speaker 2: not trying to be a victim. I know I have

535
00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:12,639
Speaker 2: more than everyone else, but I still feel this way,

536
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:16,800
Speaker 2: like it's just so ingrained in me to apologize for

537
00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:17,320
Speaker 2: being me.

538
00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:22,080
Speaker 1: And I don't know why.

539
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:28,080
Speaker 3: Again, I am convinced the hint of hoarding you do

540
00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:29,399
Speaker 3: is connected to this.

541
00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:32,080
Speaker 1: It must vinced. Okay, what you're doing.

542
00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:37,280
Speaker 3: Why I get convinced why it's all connected, like that

543
00:28:37,359 --> 00:28:42,240
Speaker 3: you can't let go of things. And also like, because

544
00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 3: I think there's something in the opposite of it, right,

545
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:52,400
Speaker 3: Like we're talking about like bills that would be more

546
00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:56,800
Speaker 3: than someone's million dollar home, right, like millions of dollars.

547
00:28:57,960 --> 00:29:00,920
Speaker 3: I think there was something that just you didn't like

548
00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:05,920
Speaker 3: about being so wealthy that you'll do anything to not

549
00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:09,480
Speaker 3: feel that. Right, So, like say you might be like

550
00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:12,360
Speaker 3: I need a new car, but I can't afford it.

551
00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:14,400
Speaker 3: I'm just making it up, right, say that You're like, Hey,

552
00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:15,840
Speaker 3: I really need a new car, but I can't afford.

553
00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:20,240
Speaker 3: There's something I think that you probably find comfortable in

554
00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:23,680
Speaker 3: that because you don't have to be ashamed. It's almost

555
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:27,480
Speaker 3: like you're more ashamed of being wealthy than not being

556
00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:28,280
Speaker 3: able to pay a bill.

557
00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:34,480
Speaker 1: Yes, oh yeah, I don't know how to get past that.

558
00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:37,880
Speaker 3: Like I'm not good at curing it. I'm only I'm

559
00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:40,560
Speaker 3: only like I can only see it. And then I go,

560
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:43,520
Speaker 3: I don't know how you I mean, I obviously there's

561
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:45,880
Speaker 3: ways to work through it, because I don't. And again,

562
00:29:45,920 --> 00:29:48,280
Speaker 3: I don't want to speak about Randy, but Randy seems

563
00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:54,320
Speaker 3: to have he doesn't have some of the hang ups

564
00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:58,240
Speaker 3: you have, and he can speak for himself. I apologize

565
00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:00,600
Speaker 3: that I'm even saying that, but like, no, you're.

566
00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:04,200
Speaker 1: Right, he's He also worked. He worked really hard. I

567
00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:04,800
Speaker 1: mean you have to.

568
00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:08,240
Speaker 2: You know, there were times where I went years without

569
00:30:08,280 --> 00:30:10,920
Speaker 2: therapy and with you know, I was just going five

570
00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:18,000
Speaker 2: kids and yeah, it just you know, he was able

571
00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:21,720
Speaker 2: to work through a lot of this stuff. I mean,

572
00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:26,840
Speaker 2: oddly enough, when you know, we we both have hang

573
00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:30,440
Speaker 2: ups that are similar, we just handled them in a

574
00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:31,040
Speaker 2: different way.

575
00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:35,880
Speaker 1: I think, I don't know.

576
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:40,400
Speaker 2: I remember a time where we were going to get

577
00:30:40,480 --> 00:30:43,720
Speaker 2: rid of everything and I had like a full, like

578
00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:46,400
Speaker 2: crying breakdown, even all.

579
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:48,719
Speaker 3: The storage stuff, all this sort of memory and all

580
00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:49,120
Speaker 3: the stores.

581
00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:52,480
Speaker 2: Okay, I remember this was we were filming True Tory

582
00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:56,800
Speaker 2: and we were going to get rid of everything. Deane

583
00:30:56,800 --> 00:31:00,360
Speaker 2: and I were talking about it. We were fighting, and

584
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:05,280
Speaker 2: I started a crying breakdown. And I remember like he asked,

585
00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:08,520
Speaker 2: and the producer asked me afterwards, like why are you

586
00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:14,160
Speaker 2: so upset? And I said, because it almost erases my existence.

587
00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:18,000
Speaker 1: I worked so hard for all this, Like I worked

588
00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:21,400
Speaker 1: so hard. I worked since I was sixteen years old,

589
00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:22,840
Speaker 1: and I haven't stopped.

590
00:31:23,880 --> 00:31:26,760
Speaker 2: And it's like if I get rid of everything that

591
00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:30,080
Speaker 2: when I worked hard and I had the money I

592
00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:34,200
Speaker 2: was able to afford and bring into the home, then

593
00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:37,480
Speaker 2: it's as if I never did anything.

594
00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:42,040
Speaker 1: I have nothing to show for it except my beautiful children.

595
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:46,480
Speaker 2: I know this is irrational, but that's what really came

596
00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:48,640
Speaker 2: out of me at the time. And again, this is,

597
00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:52,640
Speaker 2: you know, fourteen years ago, thirteen years ago.

598
00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:55,320
Speaker 3: It's a lot of sense. I actually, I mean, like

599
00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:58,480
Speaker 3: it makes sense, and it makes sense that you have

600
00:31:58,800 --> 00:32:03,160
Speaker 3: so much sort of aim over the house, right, like,

601
00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:08,640
Speaker 3: because again it's all that that your dad works so

602
00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:11,160
Speaker 3: hard for and now it's someone else's.

603
00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:16,760
Speaker 2: When I dream about my home or dream about my dad,

604
00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:20,840
Speaker 2: it's always in the house I grew up in, which

605
00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:22,920
Speaker 2: it always is.

606
00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 1: I've never once had a dream, and I'm in the

607
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:28,200
Speaker 1: manner and you know, we have dreams of family homes

608
00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:29,880
Speaker 1: and we're like the age we are now.

609
00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:33,240
Speaker 2: But we're in our We're in our family home. It's

610
00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:35,720
Speaker 2: always one eleven North Mapleton, which.

611
00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:37,800
Speaker 3: You wish you could have that house. I really do.

612
00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:41,840
Speaker 2: House when that was selling over and over again, and

613
00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:45,160
Speaker 2: I mean not, that's still a huge house that I

614
00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:45,600
Speaker 2: don't need.

615
00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:48,400
Speaker 3: Look reasonable though, No, no, no, But it was.

616
00:32:48,360 --> 00:32:51,200
Speaker 2: Like ten thousand square feet or yeah, yeah, and it

617
00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 2: really was a family home and I have so many

618
00:32:55,240 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 2: beautiful memories there and I always thought, gosh, I will

619
00:32:59,880 --> 00:33:02,920
Speaker 2: be like I would be the hero in my own

620
00:33:02,960 --> 00:33:06,360
Speaker 2: story for myself if I could afford, at one point,

621
00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:08,239
Speaker 2: if it were back on the market, to go and

622
00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:11,400
Speaker 2: buy that childhood home and have it as something my

623
00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:15,080
Speaker 2: brother and I could use with our family something, because

624
00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:17,120
Speaker 2: that would be really special to us.

625
00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:19,240
Speaker 3: That's more the house.

626
00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:20,600
Speaker 1: That's the house.

627
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:22,880
Speaker 3: But it's interesting, you felt so many emotions.

628
00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:25,360
Speaker 1: Actually, that's the house I want to take my kids too.

629
00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 3: More.

630
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:32,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, who has that house? I don't know, but I

631
00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:33,880
Speaker 2: know you can still see. It's right on the corner

632
00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:36,320
Speaker 2: of Sunset, so you could like see the backyard. And

633
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:39,080
Speaker 2: that's where my dad had his vegetable garden. And every

634
00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:41,320
Speaker 2: Saturday we would do there. We would go into the

635
00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:44,680
Speaker 2: vegetable garden and then I had my little playhouse down below,

636
00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:47,000
Speaker 2: and you could see it from the street. It's still

637
00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:49,680
Speaker 2: there last time I looked. I don't know, I was

638
00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:53,040
Speaker 2: a couple of years ago. But and then we would

639
00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:55,080
Speaker 2: spend time at the pool and I would bring my

640
00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:57,840
Speaker 2: scripts out. I would bring all his scripts out to

641
00:33:57,920 --> 00:33:59,000
Speaker 2: him and would go through them.

642
00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:05,080
Speaker 1: And so that's the place to wholesome memory of my dad. Oh,

643
00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:06,400
Speaker 1: that's the place I need to go back to.

644
00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:09,480
Speaker 3: I just realized it's a lot. I mean, I think

645
00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:12,400
Speaker 3: you've got like a lot. There's a lot of connection

646
00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:18,640
Speaker 3: with the you know, the material part, but the memories

647
00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:21,600
Speaker 3: are the same, like and you can have that anywhere.

648
00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:27,600
Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't know, I don't know. There's

649
00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:30,880
Speaker 3: a lot obviously more to talk about. I see, you know,

650
00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:34,960
Speaker 3: it's all jumbled up for you.

651
00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:39,640
Speaker 1: It's all in there somewhere.

652
00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:41,879
Speaker 3: What do you feel when you just go drive by?

653
00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:45,239
Speaker 1: What if you just go drive by the manor or

654
00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:47,560
Speaker 1: the other both both places.

655
00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:54,840
Speaker 2: I've driven by it. I've showed the kids and you

656
00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:57,200
Speaker 2: can't see from the outside the house I grew up,

657
00:34:57,239 --> 00:35:01,080
Speaker 2: and it's up a long, long driveway see anything from there.

658
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 2: But I tell them stories and I'm like, oh my gosh,

659
00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:08,120
Speaker 2: this is where the og like we used to call her.

660
00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:10,240
Speaker 1: The map lady before they were all the star tours.

661
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:13,400
Speaker 1: She was literally sit in her little flight of car

662
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:17,720
Speaker 1: tave corner across from my parents' house, and she would

663
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:22,360
Speaker 1: sell the maps right there with a sign. To me.

664
00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:25,880
Speaker 1: She was family like she that's that's my fan.

665
00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:28,440
Speaker 2: That's maybe you know, I don't know, that's an ants

666
00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:31,520
Speaker 2: across the street. And my dad was always so kind

667
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Speaker 2: to her, and so we knew her by name.

668
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Speaker 1: Yeah, so anyway, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and the kids, I mean, look, I do I

670
00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:40,920
Speaker 3: think you should send the note.

671
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Speaker 1: I'll send it.

672
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Speaker 3: To the er. Yeah, and to see why not?

673
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:51,200
Speaker 1: Why not send a few women.

674
00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:54,000
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm sure I've got an assistant. Let's just

675
00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:58,080
Speaker 3: send it to the assistant. Okay, what assistants? Assistant?

676
00:35:58,320 --> 00:35:58,640
Speaker 1: I don't know.

677
00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:03,000
Speaker 3: I we'll just start googling it, googling it, see chatchpt.

678
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:06,200
Speaker 3: I think he was he used to. I think he

679
00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:09,680
Speaker 3: was the former CEO of Google. I think that's I don't.

680
00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:12,880
Speaker 3: I think he's not Google anymore. But I mean, do it,

681
00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:15,839
Speaker 3: so look and then we'll see what it does, like

682
00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:18,040
Speaker 3: maybe it'll make you feel better. I don't know. I

683
00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:24,520
Speaker 3: also had one more idea, would you ever make a

684
00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:27,120
Speaker 3: movie about your dad?

685
00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:28,520
Speaker 1: Like?

686
00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:33,279
Speaker 3: Has anyone done a movie about your dad's life story?

687
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:35,200
Speaker 1: And you don't mean a documentary, you mean.

688
00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:38,320
Speaker 3: No, I mean like a right like Leonardo DiCaprio is

689
00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:39,319
Speaker 3: playing your dad?

690
00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:44,359
Speaker 2: I mean maybe right like Lifetime did, like the nine

691
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Speaker 2: O two one oh one, and they.

692
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Speaker 3: Did, but that's not the air.

693
00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:50,160
Speaker 1: And someone played my dad? Did you know?

694
00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:55,880
Speaker 2: That was the guy from from the Simpsons, that Dan Cassa.

695
00:36:55,960 --> 00:37:02,239
Speaker 3: What's no way he believed my dadh My god, I

696
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:06,560
Speaker 3: don't know who would play your dad today? That'd be interesting.

697
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Speaker 2: Isn't that wild that he he has such a history?

698
00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:14,160
Speaker 1: How come no one ever thought to do that?

699
00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:15,279
Speaker 3: I think you should try.

700
00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:15,680
Speaker 1: I don't know.

701
00:37:15,719 --> 00:37:18,960
Speaker 3: I wonder if it would be healing to you? You're right?

702
00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:19,960
Speaker 3: Why would they not take you.

703
00:37:21,600 --> 00:37:24,440
Speaker 2: He was always like Steven Spielberg was one of my

704
00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:25,560
Speaker 2: dad's closest friends.

705
00:37:25,600 --> 00:37:29,239
Speaker 1: So you're right, why didn't hear? Why not? I know,

706
00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:30,680
Speaker 1: I don't know.

707
00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:33,600
Speaker 3: I think it would be good. Why don't you start?

708
00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:36,000
Speaker 1: I always wanted to do a play based on my dad.

709
00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:39,120
Speaker 3: Well, then the play can turn into a movie. I mean,

710
00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:41,160
Speaker 3: I don't know. Like, God, your dad's book again? Is

711
00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:45,920
Speaker 3: your dad's book on audiobook? That's a great question, so

712
00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:48,960
Speaker 3: hard you should first of all, if it isn't, this

713
00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:52,200
Speaker 3: is Is this the one Aaron Spelling a Prime Time life?

714
00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:55,440
Speaker 3: Oh my god, we need to turn this into a movie. Wow,

715
00:37:56,360 --> 00:38:00,040
Speaker 3: I'll read it. I'll start working on it. Really I

716
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Speaker 3: feel now, I mean I don't know. I changed this,

717
00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:04,880
Speaker 3: changed it to you know, but how do you feel?

718
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Speaker 1: No? This is a good, positive thing.

719
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Speaker 2: I mean, this is what my dad loved and passion,

720
00:38:08,920 --> 00:38:13,080
Speaker 2: and it's so crazy, like he's such a part of

721
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:18,640
Speaker 2: Hollywood history and especially television, and it's just crazy to

722
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Speaker 2: me that future generations won't know that, unless, of.

723
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Speaker 3: Course, rediscovering all these shows. It's true, does your mom

724
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Speaker 3: still have all the leather bound scripts and all that?

725
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Speaker 1: Obviously she donated them?

726
00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:34,680
Speaker 3: Oh where are they? At the Museum of TV and Radio.

727
00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:35,320
Speaker 3: Where are they?

728
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Speaker 2: I want someone to say, this sounds weird, but my

729
00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:44,360
Speaker 2: memories typically right. We can fact check this to Boston,

730
00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:49,719
Speaker 2: to a Boston college that can't be cool?

731
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:52,800
Speaker 1: Or did SMU was my dad's school?

732
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Speaker 3: Aaron Spelling scripts are primarily held by Boston Universities, Howard

733
00:38:58,120 --> 00:39:03,319
Speaker 3: Godly Archival Research Center, and Yale University's archives.

734
00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:04,560
Speaker 1: Wow, let's reach.

735
00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:05,480
Speaker 3: Out to them, you nail that.

736
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Speaker 1: I wish I had one of them.

737
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Speaker 3: They are bound leather scripts from popular shows like Charlie's Angels,

738
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Speaker 3: Meloy's Place I Know to No Dynasty. Yelle's collection contains

739
00:39:14,360 --> 00:39:18,320
Speaker 3: scripts from the fifties and sixties, including works by Spelling,

740
00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:22,719
Speaker 3: Rod Serling, and others. Wow. Good, good knowledge. Yeah, you

741
00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:27,960
Speaker 3: gotta Maybe you know because you have his legacy and

742
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Speaker 3: your own, so I don't know. I always think, you know,

743
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Speaker 3: start doing these things. Maybe you'll enjoy it.

744
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Speaker 1: You know. I'm scared to reach out to people I.

745
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Speaker 3: Know, but I'm going to help you. Okay, all right,

746
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Speaker 3: we'll write that lest So whoever's listening, let's write up

747
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Speaker 3: what Tori said, and then we'll help her find find him.

748
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Speaker 3: Let me just see Eric Schmidt's email.

749
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Speaker 1: What imagine it's that simple?

750
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Speaker 3: Nobody will find that for U, This says Gmail.

751
00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:08,400
Speaker 1: But I don't imagine it was that simple. We just

752
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Speaker 1: said it and they're like, oh, why he Tori smelling? Yeah,

753
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Speaker 1: come on bye five nine four.

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Speaker 3: To be continued. Everyone listening can help us. To be

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Speaker 3: continued