Speaker 1: Guess what decision We're about to make a horrible decisions.
Speaker 1: All right, guys, welcome to another episode of Horrid Blad.
Speaker 1: This is yours. I'm your girl. Maybe all of it, y'all.
Speaker 1: I'm wheezy. If you're watching us on the YouTube YouTube,
Speaker 1: we are taking what is that? Old people? Things like
Speaker 1: you're watching us on the YouTube, don't know a bitch,
Speaker 1: I feel old. It's a Friday night. I was reading
Speaker 1: a book before I came in here a bit. Oh,
Speaker 1: I definitely had to fix my lipstick before coming in heregulation. Wait,
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, this table ship is like really
Speaker 1: giving me seven year ago vibes? Yeah, it's four years.
Speaker 1: Then we had to upgrade it. Yeah we started. We
Speaker 1: were like, I remember I was there. Yeah, but we guys,
Speaker 1: if you are listening, we are currently in Vegas because,
Speaker 1: as you guys know, we are nominated hopefully winners by
Speaker 1: the time this drops, but we are nominated for an
Speaker 1: Avian Awards. So we came out here and we got
Speaker 1: me working. So she was like, well, let's recording podcasts
Speaker 1: out there because I don't want anyways. So we're out
Speaker 1: recording podcast in Vegas and we are joined by some
Speaker 1: great people which I'm super excited to finally have on
Speaker 1: the pod. Well, Glamazon Toyomi. We have a friend who
Speaker 1: has been on the pod a year ago and I
Speaker 1: just been I appreciate you. You did great in Our
Speaker 1: Lives show too, did we crushed it? And y'all help
Speaker 1: me stop out? And I still don't ride Dick. And
Speaker 1: then we are joined as well by someone who I
Speaker 1: just met recently, and I'm super glad that you're out here.
Speaker 1: At the same time, we have Daddy have Hello, Hello, Hello.
Speaker 1: Now I have to ask you because I know even
Speaker 1: we when we met each other, you said daddy does
Speaker 1: have to be mentioned, Like, yes, I have to call
Speaker 1: you daddy the whole the whole episode. All right, you
Speaker 1: don't want me to call you, do you? If your
Speaker 1: name is I call you, I can call you we
Speaker 1: maybe if you got your mama named weasels someone No,
Speaker 1: but like let me ask. If someone doesn't, do you
Speaker 1: not respond? That's correct? So, because here's here's the thing,
Speaker 1: right is that? Say, for example, if you give someone
Speaker 1: your name, like say say you say your name is
Speaker 1: Kuana just for the night, if they call you Kuanta,
Speaker 1: you'd be like, I don't know who Quanta is you
Speaker 1: feel disrespected? Now, what about women that have a daddy?
Speaker 1: Why doesn't? Because here's the thing, You're calling me daddy
Speaker 1: doesn't mean that you're calling me daddy how right? Right?
Speaker 1: I feel like daddy though, is much like a sir.
Speaker 1: Like it's something that's it's like it's giving me giving
Speaker 1: up power. Right. So if I already have someone that's
Speaker 1: my domb now I don't. I'm just trying to if
Speaker 1: I have a domb, right, and then you say call
Speaker 1: me that, and I'm like, I can't. Is it like
Speaker 1: you're just but no, here's the thing you said, what's
Speaker 1: your name? I said, my name is Daddy health. Right.
Speaker 1: So so if you are say you are a film dom, right,
Speaker 1: and your film dom name is Mama Weasy right now,
Speaker 1: if I'm like, I don't want to call nobody else mama,
Speaker 1: But it's not. It's not about what you feel. It's
Speaker 1: about it's about respects. Respect is If your name is
Speaker 1: Mama Weasy, I'm gonna call you Mama Weise because that's
Speaker 1: how you introduce yourself to me, right, hedd that's a
Speaker 1: hold of you got father half. It's a whole different dude. Wait,
Speaker 1: there is a guy named father. Here's the thing, right, See,
Speaker 1: when when I have people who who mess with my
Speaker 1: shadow side, right, and they'd like to come in and
Speaker 1: tease a little bit. So they got this from I
Speaker 1: have this pastor outfit, right, it's how all right? No
Speaker 1: excuse me, it's okay, it's a it's a it's a
Speaker 1: priest and I passed obviously. No, No, I ain't gonna
Speaker 1: hold you. You You might want to stay past because priests
Speaker 1: be out here dealing with the little boys. You want
Speaker 1: to appreciated beyond. Cole thought you was a past because
Speaker 1: we had that white suit when you lined up all
Speaker 1: them booties that let's see, like I was telling someone
Speaker 1: that's just so scheezy too. Definitely, yeah, it would be
Speaker 1: the children from Well then, real quick, what has you
Speaker 1: out here? Uh? In Vegas for a vin Well? This
Speaker 1: is something I've been wanting to manifest for for a
Speaker 1: long time. So I was just like, I got the
Speaker 1: time and I met I'm at the place in mine
Speaker 1: in my life and my career as far as my
Speaker 1: business where if I want but there's a trip I
Speaker 1: need to go to, I'm going to go to it.
Speaker 1: I've always wanted to come to to amen. So since
Speaker 1: was like you come to a vin bro okay, and
Speaker 1: you do havev yes with you for the people listening,
Speaker 1: then watch you. So this this is the fantabulous, delicious, selectable, gorgeous,
Speaker 1: sexy as a motherfucker' the neckd unicorns. I wish you
Speaker 1: would have brought your unicorn in here though, Like, what
Speaker 1: do you mean? No, that's how. But she has a
Speaker 1: unicorn like a little buddy that she carries, so like
Speaker 1: I'm a unicorn collector. That's how we actually connected because
Speaker 1: she's a little of animation. This is pouring weekend. You
Speaker 1: better all in the sex round? Yeah, okay, ok? Actually then,
Speaker 1: well real quick, this is something new then we used
Speaker 1: to back in the day have something called the kink
Speaker 1: of the week. What is now we've been talking about
Speaker 1: unicorns in the essence of a woman joining in on
Speaker 1: a couple and not just plain to them. I called
Speaker 1: myself and get unicorn because I'm a nudist. I like
Speaker 1: being naked, and also I was told that my pussy
Speaker 1: is magical, So I'm unicorn. This is me and stuffy form.
Speaker 1: This is my personality. I'm walking around with my personality
Speaker 1: and the stuffy form. So you both collect unicorns. I
Speaker 1: collect unicorns because I'm a little, so I do age play.
Speaker 1: My little is like three four years old. So I've
Speaker 1: been collecting stuffy since I was a kid. And so
Speaker 1: when I found out that being a little was a
Speaker 1: thing and like kink, I was like, oh ship, wow,
Speaker 1: I didn't know you were a little. I did not
Speaker 1: know you was a little. You don't know that I
Speaker 1: know you know what it is. It's interesting to me
Speaker 1: women that can be alpha in other spaces. We're gonna
Speaker 1: get into that because because you're such a dumb I'm
Speaker 1: surprised that you can tell you only made my mother
Speaker 1: get on her knees. I would would be a little
Speaker 1: And so I didn't really know that I was that sound.
Speaker 1: She just helped my mom a ride dick a yoga ball,
Speaker 1: that's exactly yeah. And I didn't know if she could
Speaker 1: get down, but she got down. I was happy about that. Okay,
Speaker 1: in real quick, before we give the mic back to daddy,
Speaker 1: have how long have you been unicorning like in this way? Um?
Speaker 1: And is there a confusion as well when you explain
Speaker 1: that your unicorny, Yeah, people always assume that it's the
Speaker 1: lifestyle term. When I say that I'm a unicorn, I
Speaker 1: was like, no, it's Lee NICKI unicorn. That's my porn
Speaker 1: start name. And it's just because your pussy is magical. Yes, okay,
Speaker 1: I mean I'm a magical lean itself, but she has
Speaker 1: her own What are her powers? I gotta ask the
Speaker 1: people who daddy happens? Hold on, take the mic back.
Speaker 1: I need to know what what is the powers like?
Speaker 1: Down there, said down on in the firm, in the
Speaker 1: famous words of Dave Chappelle Field, Well here now, But
Speaker 1: here's the thing. Legend has it? Legend? I've heard the
Speaker 1: legend of that magical pussy. I heard it is like
Speaker 1: a land of paradise and make believe which I ain't
Speaker 1: gonna hold you. I'm about to come in with it
Speaker 1: with a unicorn horn on my mother head for the
Speaker 1: rest of the year because I don't want to be
Speaker 1: powerful too. So I'm a un I do have a question.
Speaker 1: What's everybody's dynamic in the room. Why are the three
Speaker 1: of y'all all together here today? Okay? So me and
Speaker 1: this guy we have a long history. His name in
Speaker 1: my phone? Can I say his name in my phone?
Speaker 1: It's the original name that I met him under So
Speaker 1: when I first started my blog back in two thousand eleven,
Speaker 1: he found me and he used to have a radio
Speaker 1: show on blog talk Radio was every Wednesday, every Wednesday night,
Speaker 1: and so I would come on right I would come
Speaker 1: on and do this ex position of the week because
Speaker 1: on my when I started at glamaratica one on one
Speaker 1: dot com, every Monday, I would do a sex position
Speaker 1: of the week. And so this guy has had so
Speaker 1: many legendary people who are popping right now on his
Speaker 1: show in the early days, and that's how we met.
Speaker 1: We just became super cool. Like T. S. Madison is
Speaker 1: one of the people that we want the big big bit. Yes,
Speaker 1: YO met her on his show back in two thousand twelves.
Speaker 1: So we had an amazing conversation and like like on
Speaker 1: the air I experienced. I talked about the time when
Speaker 1: I experienced having a prostate orgasm and getting my prostate milk.
Speaker 1: I talked about my process on my radio show, and
Speaker 1: I would have like certain things about about men's mental
Speaker 1: health and stuff like that, but most of it was
Speaker 1: about nasty, nasty, freaky. Oh yeah, go to the was
Speaker 1: like we'll go back to unicorns. How you got he
Speaker 1: got so alright. So here's the thing. A lot of
Speaker 1: men have issues with that process as they get older
Speaker 1: because it gets it gets swollen, right, and when it
Speaker 1: gets swollen, you get you get estrogen and testos around
Speaker 1: in there and the toxins, and then that's how they
Speaker 1: get prostate cancer at polos in their prostate. So what
Speaker 1: happens is when someone actually goes in and stimulates the prostate,
Speaker 1: the prostate, it massages it and deflects it. This is
Speaker 1: when Vinny said he made somebody squirt from the But
Speaker 1: also this is what I'd be telling y'all sea. So basically,
Speaker 1: if we just out here fingering niggas budatholes, we could
Speaker 1: keep them from getting prostate not just h okay, but wait,
Speaker 1: fucking somebody in the ass can't cure cancer, no no, no,
Speaker 1: no no no no, I won't cure cass. However, what
Speaker 1: I don't cure forgetting actual prostate massage, it's given cure alight.
Speaker 1: What in so he searched me recently found on horrible
Speaker 1: decisions from daddy half as you know. I want to
Speaker 1: ask you though, because with with blackness specifically, they don't
Speaker 1: want their buoda hole being touched whatsoever? So was it
Speaker 1: a was Was it a woman that said it's not
Speaker 1: gonna hurt. Was it a doctor? Was that you going
Speaker 1: to the doctor and enjoying it for the first time?
Speaker 1: So how did you do it? So here's the thing. Yes,
Speaker 1: when I was a freshman in college early, I was
Speaker 1: already at an advanced stage, right far as like eat
Speaker 1: pussy the first time when I was fifteen, Right, so
Speaker 1: I've been eating pussy Florida. However, you know we would
Speaker 1: in it. We went in a sexual situation and she said,
Speaker 1: don't get mad, but I'm gonna lick your boot. I
Speaker 1: was like, now no, I'm like, I'm like eighteen. I
Speaker 1: was like, okay, let's see what happens. Oh my god.
Speaker 1: And I didn't really understood. I didn't understand what that
Speaker 1: feeling was. But when she had me hold my legs
Speaker 1: willingly and she was looking at that, I was like,
Speaker 1: let me tell you, fellas, listen, let go of that
Speaker 1: ego and listen. You may need some roots, shock or work.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. Let me tell you something.
Speaker 1: She would She'll lick you like she'll lick you like
Speaker 1: a toddler. Let me lick you. Let me lick you
Speaker 1: come on now, turn around around that girl like your
Speaker 1: lover should. I want to know this the age that
Speaker 1: you got no see, I'm giving you the genesis how
Speaker 1: you got into yeah right, because I don't because that
Speaker 1: was just tongued. When did you? When did you graduate
Speaker 1: to the things? You know? Maybe a few years later? Right?
Speaker 1: I had, I had, I had a partner and she
Speaker 1: stuck the tip of her finger in my ass. I'm
Speaker 1: just like, okay, don't stop now. Can I ask you
Speaker 1: a question as a don't that? To me is a
Speaker 1: very submissive thing to do normally, Like even I talked
Speaker 1: about pegging all the time. I always feel like the
Speaker 1: dom and a lot of times the men become my bitch.
Speaker 1: So because your ass is your manhood a lot of times,
Speaker 1: especially with black men, how is it dome? Do you
Speaker 1: even do you switch? Do you consider that being submissive
Speaker 1: or do you find a way psychologically to still feel
Speaker 1: like you're a dominant in that position? Well, at that
Speaker 1: point in time when I'm when I'm opening myself up.
Speaker 1: So here's the thing, here's the disclaimer. By me saying this,
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that I a number one, have been
Speaker 1: paid for number two like to be paid. Remember that disclaimer. Okay,
Speaker 1: disclaimer all right. So however, I do know at that
Speaker 1: moment when I do decide to be I have to
Speaker 1: trust some one, right, and I could be vulnerable with them,
Speaker 1: and I know that they're there for my pleasure, right,
Speaker 1: But I could trust someone enough right that I could
Speaker 1: just spread my booty cheeks what I'm saying, and and
Speaker 1: get get licked like a bang like a velvet. Okay,
Speaker 1: wait go background blog talk radio. Y'all men, you were
Speaker 1: doing sex positions and then we just became friends and
Speaker 1: we just send like this everything going. We went out
Speaker 1: the rab behold then yeah, we did. I just want
Speaker 1: to know if you guys don't have sex. We've never know.
Speaker 1: So this is like my brother. It's funny because that's
Speaker 1: my girls saying. But a girls say that. But like
Speaker 1: people get confused because they see us like kiss on
Speaker 1: the lips when we greet each other. But that's just
Speaker 1: how we greet each other. But like we are like
Speaker 1: a brother and sister, just a lot kinkier and open
Speaker 1: with our ship. Like we'd be negative around each other
Speaker 1: and everything. It's just what it is. But we're not
Speaker 1: blood but blood wouldn't make us any closer, you know,
Speaker 1: like we've literally grown up in this industry together. So
Speaker 1: anything that I had an opportunity to be a part of,
Speaker 1: I always brought him in. So the industry wise, you're
Speaker 1: both here for Avien, but you do Exotica a lot
Speaker 1: now I work for We got nominated and found out
Speaker 1: because it's a fan DM to me and said she's like,
Speaker 1: you know, nominated, said, girls, I just got a d
Speaker 1: M and a fan said, we're nominated. I think I
Speaker 1: told Adam two. They were not like literally literally we're
Speaker 1: not aware, and so we were like, well we have
Speaker 1: to Nobody at Avien don't even reached out to us
Speaker 1: and let us know that we were comminated. I'm not
Speaker 1: surprised they just put you along the flag. We pretty
Speaker 1: much were just on the promoters. How many horror podcasts
Speaker 1: they just put them all in and crazy and we
Speaker 1: did go down the list we are were whenever this
Speaker 1: drops one of only two black pots even recognized. So shocking,
Speaker 1: which I'm not gonna lie to the convention today. I
Speaker 1: went to the convention today and was able to really
Speaker 1: like walk around a random people that I knew, like
Speaker 1: I actually read well, no, I read, I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: I didn't run into many black people, but I didn't
Speaker 1: running run into King Nazir, who has been on the
Speaker 1: pod before. I also run into Adam and and Uh
Speaker 1: and Uh Lena and then my friends. Then I knew
Speaker 1: that we're already working there. But there were not many
Speaker 1: black people, not many black porn stars either, And I
Speaker 1: was like, okay, I see, okay, interesting, But I do
Speaker 1: want to ask you then, because you also have been
Speaker 1: in attendance the difference between the conventions and what someone
Speaker 1: may be able to expect at a porn or sex convention.
Speaker 1: So I work for Exotica as the residents sex expert
Speaker 1: in some of our coordinator for the show, and I
Speaker 1: have since seventeen, but even prior to that, Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: I've been yeah, my people's um. But prior to that,
Speaker 1: like actually working for them, I did every Chicago Exotica
Speaker 1: since twelve have. Yes, I'm like like two years basically basically,
Speaker 1: I mean twelve years in general in the game like
Speaker 1: just take the keys, right, you can give me the keys.
Speaker 1: So there's a strict difference between Exotica and Avien. Avien.
Speaker 1: It's like the industry show like the big industry show.
Speaker 1: So a lot of the big production companies are out
Speaker 1: the big stars who do at the contract work with
Speaker 1: like Browsers and bank Bros. And not like exactly all
Speaker 1: in their signing right, And so it's like the professional show.
Speaker 1: And then there's the ward show where you know it
Speaker 1: means something to be nominated for an apien a War
Speaker 1: because you're recognized by the adult industry. Right. But over
Speaker 1: the last few years a b N as an organization
Speaker 1: has pretty much plummeted. And I'm saying it's publicly because
Speaker 1: everybody knows that it's the truth. So I'm I'm okay
Speaker 1: with saying that, but I'm not that information. So it's
Speaker 1: not it doesn't have anything to do with the only
Speaker 1: fans and a lot of what there used to be
Speaker 1: way more people that worked for the organization and be
Speaker 1: due to internal stuff. Now there's not as much staff.
Speaker 1: And so you could see, like and everyone was saying
Speaker 1: it when they came onto the floor and the organization
Speaker 1: was not the same that it just seemed like it
Speaker 1: was a a shell of what it used to be.
Speaker 1: I don't wonder if it has anything to do with
Speaker 1: and and we've talked about this on the pot too,
Speaker 1: especially with um only fans now, porn Hub, all of
Speaker 1: just the umbrellas of porn has something as well to
Speaker 1: do with tech now, and there have been a lot
Speaker 1: of tech layoffs over the last couple of years. And
Speaker 1: the vanilla ship that I even wanted to bring up
Speaker 1: is that now in the state of Louisiana, you have
Speaker 1: to show I D or how to verify your age
Speaker 1: now to even go on to porn hub dot com
Speaker 1: or any adult site. Oh yeah, hold on, the sound
Speaker 1: the Bible belt. So but don't tell you what I
Speaker 1: like this? Oh you do like? Hold on, let me
Speaker 1: read it first. I'm gonna read it because so y'all
Speaker 1: can understand. So um It is now saying that many
Speaker 1: may be familiar with the common pop up message that
Speaker 1: implores people to verify that they're eighteen years or ordered
Speaker 1: before accessing a porn site. However, in Louisiana, people have
Speaker 1: to have to begin providing legitimate proof that they're a
Speaker 1: legal adult before visiting adult website. The law, dubbed Act
Speaker 1: four or forty, officially wanted to effect on January one
Speaker 1: of this year, and it's centered on protecting people under
Speaker 1: the age of eighteen from quote unquote commercial entities who
Speaker 1: distribute material harmful to minors. OK, A pornography, Uh, pretty much,
Speaker 1: you're gonna have to start uploading your passport, your I
Speaker 1: D or something to even verify yourself before going on
Speaker 1: to these sites. Which because I've been really into porn,
Speaker 1: Lady Only Fans does do that as well in order
Speaker 1: to even but Only Fans is also like a register
Speaker 1: for me to pay to watch. So here's my two
Speaker 1: reasons why I like this, even though I do think
Speaker 1: it's insane that I have to log in to watch porn.
Speaker 1: But I know that in most cases when people are
Speaker 1: uploading porn or watching like child or anything, we always
Speaker 1: find out after the fact, right, And they've said a
Speaker 1: lot of times that when you have um people that
Speaker 1: get arrested for aggressive sex or violence against women, there's
Speaker 1: a trend in their porn, And so I do there's
Speaker 1: always a trend in their porn, like they're watching certain
Speaker 1: type of porn. Now. I do love blutak, however I
Speaker 1: mix it up with lesbian you know what, just that
Speaker 1: give X murderer no. But if so, if you're like
Speaker 1: starting to watch really violent ship, maybe you need to
Speaker 1: be the kids. But I'm curious how this like so
Speaker 1: for in the in the state of Louisiana, specifically Twitter,
Speaker 1: I watched so much I was gonna say, what about
Speaker 1: there's no way that they're gonna be able to like
Speaker 1: write but the number one and it's the number one
Speaker 1: site for what's the word when not revenge porn but
Speaker 1: like someone didn't give consent. Oh it's consensual, thank you? No, no, no,
Speaker 1: not that like it talk to me and took a
Speaker 1: cell phone video of it and uploaded and uploaded. Oh yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm actually talking about actual scenes of life consensual. What
Speaker 1: are what are y'all's thoughts on? Because by the way,
Speaker 1: when I lived over in in Singapore, when I studied abroad,
Speaker 1: you had to get a VPN just even access. So
Speaker 1: a lot of other country, a lot of Asian countries
Speaker 1: have stulate ben just to watch. So see this thing
Speaker 1: that we just went through, the reversal of even pro
Speaker 1: versus Wade and now this is happening, yes down there
Speaker 1: in the bodle go, what are y'all thoughts on Louisiana
Speaker 1: even doing like that? And do you think more more
Speaker 1: saints followed? And how does that affect this the space.
Speaker 1: So on one hand, I do appreciate that there has
Speaker 1: to be another level of verification because you can just
Speaker 1: say yes, I'm eighteen, and then you're in the sight right,
Speaker 1: which doesn't have any true weight to it. So somebody
Speaker 1: could be fourteen all going on to porn hub just
Speaker 1: because they clicked I show you the But also, is
Speaker 1: that the kid's fault? Where's your daddy? But making that's bad? No,
Speaker 1: But like that's the whole point, and that's why it
Speaker 1: makes it good because parents can't watch their children seven
Speaker 1: and then with technology you have a broader access. So
Speaker 1: I think it is good that it puts restrictions on
Speaker 1: there because people get the misconception from watching porn um.
Speaker 1: They think that that's how it's supposed to be, when
Speaker 1: it's not real. My point is real, by the way.
Speaker 1: My issue though, is like y'are doing with that extra information?
Speaker 1: Though that's somebody's whole like government information. Girl, we clear
Speaker 1: they got a look at this. Yes, and but I'm
Speaker 1: gonna say this though people don't know this, but a
Speaker 1: lot of the big names are owned by like only
Speaker 1: a few companies, which I did notice there was an
Speaker 1: agency room even at the convention. So even like when
Speaker 1: when I was doing the emails to get us the
Speaker 1: tickets and stuff, a lot of the response was, oh,
Speaker 1: well that's normally done through agents. That's normally the agency
Speaker 1: handle all of that. And but sure it was well
Speaker 1: it's me and her and wet, which is weird because
Speaker 1: if you're nominated, it's just an easy thing. It didn't
Speaker 1: help to say, well, we're nominated. We were like tickets
Speaker 1: to the Awards show. But yeah, like a lot of
Speaker 1: the girls are. And it's weird because that's I would
Speaker 1: love to have an agent on here to describe the
Speaker 1: difference between agency and pimping, because it's a lot of that.
Speaker 1: It's a lot. I ain't gonna hold you. I saw
Speaker 1: a lot of people. Okay, so it was him. I'm like, damn,
Speaker 1: I wish I could have just asked one of them
Speaker 1: to come on a pot too. It is pilp sitting
Speaker 1: baby and there and there. You could tell like they
Speaker 1: just remember we almost had a pimp on the show
Speaker 1: and then we found out he's beating somebody. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: well that's what they do. We have a good timp.
Speaker 1: It's just crazy. Not I was gonna say that for agencies.
Speaker 1: I learned a little bit about the business of sex agency.
Speaker 1: So right now, in today's culture, the volume of money
Speaker 1: that people are making is from crowdfunding, right, which is
Speaker 1: a honi fans are or whatever. So what happens is
Speaker 1: us just say you're the baddest bitch that can square
Speaker 1: a million miles an hour. Well, how are we finding
Speaker 1: You're just a normal person in the world. So much
Speaker 1: like a talent agency like Mandy and I have w
Speaker 1: me right, these agencies take a fee to then broaden
Speaker 1: the spectrum with you. And what happens is because they
Speaker 1: have relationships with let's say a porn hover you porn
Speaker 1: or whatever it might be, you then get to be
Speaker 1: on the front part of a page for exchange and
Speaker 1: whatever payola that they do in porn. So that's how
Speaker 1: the agencies work, and they track from when you started
Speaker 1: from a quarterly basis, like this is a full time thing.
Speaker 1: Some of them are taking upwards of depending on if
Speaker 1: the girl has like no professional corporate But think about it,
Speaker 1: if I'm just like, let's just say I'm a badass
Speaker 1: perceptionist that's got a hundred followers, or maybe I have
Speaker 1: no faith and I wanted to show my toes. How
Speaker 1: am I gonna get my fucking sexy ass feed up there?
Speaker 1: They got agents, but they are agents for everything everything.
Speaker 1: People have no limits to what they like? Do you
Speaker 1: have limits? Daddy? Up? Now? How did she say? What
Speaker 1: what I said? Because you got softer when you do well?
Speaker 1: You said, it's not like they call me daddy. But okay,
Speaker 1: so you know it's a It's about voice inflection, right
Speaker 1: you can be yeah, yeah, yeah, you'd be like, hello ladies.
Speaker 1: So it's the vibration of the lower tone. You canna
Speaker 1: make all these bitches puts this we at work period
Speaker 1: to adore gonna be like go back to the unicorn, Joe. Now,
Speaker 1: I did want to ask both of you guys for
Speaker 1: a hor derve. So our hord derve section is sex tips, um,
Speaker 1: and I want to start with you, um, Daddy have
Speaker 1: I would love for you to give a tip for
Speaker 1: a man who is maybe just being introduced to being
Speaker 1: a dom in his relationship. What tips would you have
Speaker 1: for for beginner doms? Um? Make sure that whoever your
Speaker 1: partner is, that y'all have a trusting relationship, because if
Speaker 1: they don't trust you, then they don't think that you
Speaker 1: can keep them safe or protect them? Right, So it's
Speaker 1: about trust. So like your your partner can't submit to you.
Speaker 1: If you want someone to submit, you can't be like
Speaker 1: you're gonna submit. What does what is keeping someone safe
Speaker 1: and protected look like? Just because I'm not going to
Speaker 1: the to the to the corner, uh club that begins
Speaker 1: shot up all the time and stuff like that, Like
Speaker 1: I don't walk around with a bulletproof vest? What does
Speaker 1: protection and safety look like from a partner? And I
Speaker 1: think because that's an issue I'm having even in my relationship, Well,
Speaker 1: I need somebody. I'm gonna let neck Unicorn answer that. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: there we go. How does that he have keep you safe? Well? Um,
Speaker 1: we met in through my Madam Cartney um, and we
Speaker 1: went to what Madame Karmen like with a cave New
Speaker 1: York Madam No, not New York, Madame car Um with
Speaker 1: a see. Um we went to what was that space
Speaker 1: we went to in Atlanta? I'm familiar with the law, Okay,
Speaker 1: so we went. They did a lot of gay parties there. Now,
Speaker 1: I had a horrible experience at the loss. I'm not
Speaker 1: used to I'm not used to how things happened because
Speaker 1: we have um Madame Karmen, she has kink nick and
Speaker 1: our events are always always safe and protected. But anyway,
Speaker 1: this guy um decided it was okay to grab my
Speaker 1: ass and right away Dad he helped correcting him because
Speaker 1: he did not have my com We we actually we
Speaker 1: met because through my through my dom, we were Oh,
Speaker 1: I thought you guys met that night. Sorry, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: we went to the play party the night that we met.
Speaker 1: Keeping keeping your partners safe and protected at a play
Speaker 1: party that absolutely makes sense. That is and if you
Speaker 1: listened to a Patreon episode, I just had a mirror
Speaker 1: from both sides of the bed, and we talked about
Speaker 1: the etiquette of men in sex clubs because I don't
Speaker 1: think it's talked about enough like that. Rest of all,
Speaker 1: we can have a whole episode. Yeah, oh no, well
Speaker 1: tune into our Patreon Patreon dot com bat slash Horror decisions. Uh,
Speaker 1: it's just we we had to have the conversation because
Speaker 1: even in terms of approaching men, or like when men
Speaker 1: approached me knowing that I come with my partner, like
Speaker 1: they'll just talk to me and not even acknowledge him,
Speaker 1: and then I get then it's just a whole bunch Anyways,
Speaker 1: we talked about it on Patreon. I wanted to come
Speaker 1: to you for a horder, Taomi, you have been going
Speaker 1: off on Twitter, we're calling on phone. This has been period,
Speaker 1: just like period, and people are just loving it him.
Speaker 1: But I wanted you to give a tip to the
Speaker 1: thick girls who have sex and also please also share
Speaker 1: the myth busting fact, uh that thick girls can't take dick.
Speaker 1: So I put out a tweet and I was like,
Speaker 1: rumor has it that big girls can't take dick? Is
Speaker 1: it's true? Now there were more people that came back
Speaker 1: and said, it's actually a myth. It depends on the person,
Speaker 1: and it depends on the amount of for play. And
Speaker 1: that's actually ding ding ding the truth. What do you
Speaker 1: think it stems from? Because like, there's always got anywhere
Speaker 1: it stands from. So, because as I already have the answer,
Speaker 1: what I'm doing is just generating public discourse that people
Speaker 1: talk about it. Right, So, after I let the twee
Speaker 1: go off for like twenty four to forty eight hours,
Speaker 1: I said, all right, I've had enough of this. Let
Speaker 1: me tell you what. Sure, Okay, I'm curious, Yeah, I
Speaker 1: can't understand why somebody would say that either, I'm like that,
Speaker 1: people say, oh, skinny girls take dick all time, I'm like,
Speaker 1: what is it stamina? No, it's the perception that if
Speaker 1: you are in a larger body, you need farmer or
Speaker 1: harder handling, and it's not true. And so you have
Speaker 1: more cushions, you have couions. Yes, they're being rougher with
Speaker 1: us because they assume that our bodies have to be
Speaker 1: treated that way because of what the outside looks like.
Speaker 1: But it's like, it's still vagina. Still, I still has
Speaker 1: a bottom, a k A the serving, So what are
Speaker 1: you doing? And if we're not warmed up, just like
Speaker 1: skinny girls, we're not going to be able to receive
Speaker 1: the full dick we need for a play. We need
Speaker 1: to be treated with safety. Safety looks like whatever a
Speaker 1: person says they need to feel comfortable in a situation,
Speaker 1: and everybody has a different level of what that looks like.
Speaker 1: And literally men were saying that women were saying that
Speaker 1: thick girls was like, I don't know about job. What
Speaker 1: over here I'm taking dick? I said, yeah, me too,
Speaker 1: And I personally go into my my situation is with lovers, like, hey,
Speaker 1: let me guide you into how to open me up
Speaker 1: before you try to go to Poundtown. You can't go
Speaker 1: to Poundtown out of the gate. Even if I get
Speaker 1: on top out of the gate. I've warmed been warmed
Speaker 1: up to a certain a point where I can sit
Speaker 1: on the dick and it's comfortable. So the myth is
Speaker 1: just And one guy said it in the threat. He
Speaker 1: was like, I think the myth just comes from like
Speaker 1: one time there was a guy who just wants to
Speaker 1: rush into it. And he assumed because he was rushing
Speaker 1: in that all thick chicks can't take dick because he
Speaker 1: didn't take the proper time to actually right, No, it
Speaker 1: wasn't one. It was Emile. It was. But you know,
Speaker 1: they literally do feel like and I mean I've been
Speaker 1: thinking who exactly so I know, but yeah, they definitely
Speaker 1: come in I guess wanting to come in so hot
Speaker 1: and relax. It's like I ain't even warmed up yet exactly,
Speaker 1: like nig is getting so excited because yeah, yeah, but
Speaker 1: I mean yes, I can attach to that too. It's
Speaker 1: like but but dog like, right, you like all of that,
Speaker 1: but relaxed like And sometimes I think that they they
Speaker 1: think their erections are going to disappear, so as soon
Speaker 1: as an erection is. There's like times sometimes I disappear
Speaker 1: in my thighs, maybe sucking my flishy. Maybe if if
Speaker 1: between my dogs, I'd be like, so you're not yet
Speaker 1: sad for one maybe the one for me is the
Speaker 1: little cushion between my thigh and knee, Like wait, what
Speaker 1: you don't get there and been your leg and have
Speaker 1: guys like for fun, Like they don't think it's start fun,
Speaker 1: but it feels do they spit there first? How does
Speaker 1: it get what? I mean? My moneys be sweating money
Speaker 1: if you but the guys, yes that you got take
Speaker 1: guys and they stay together. It's just like they'd be
Speaker 1: rubbing and they're not in but yeah, moistneezy. And now wait,
Speaker 1: you kept talking about being warmed up. Would love to
Speaker 1: know because I mean, yes, you did give us for
Speaker 1: a different fence. What is your favorite way to get
Speaker 1: warmed up? I'm an intellectual, so I'll stimulating conversations. I'm saying, well,
Speaker 1: not even read a book, but like I like to
Speaker 1: debate about ship like hip hop. You know, if you
Speaker 1: talk to me about like backs to hip hop and ship,
Speaker 1: but also like I like to be touched, so outside
Speaker 1: of like the mental simulation of body. They in the
Speaker 1: body of knowing how to grip, knowing how to grip
Speaker 1: me up, knowing how to touch me. I don't like
Speaker 1: I I enjoy touch, but from the right person. So
Speaker 1: if I give you consent, please explore my body. I
Speaker 1: got body like I need you to like cuff my
Speaker 1: booty in a certain ways. I need you to get
Speaker 1: all around, like the thickness of my thighs. And they
Speaker 1: like to be choked, you know, like play with my neck.
Speaker 1: And I got choked, yo, Yo, the best thing to
Speaker 1: happen to me so far yesterday, Yes it was your
Speaker 1: brain went right back, yo. Yeah, I got choked out
Speaker 1: on the couch. I was like, I remember this as
Speaker 1: I went fading to black, um, not as you were
Speaker 1: fading stought before I got that. How much do you
Speaker 1: like to be choked until you're like I like to
Speaker 1: be challenged to the point to see like how far
Speaker 1: can I go before I pass out? But I only
Speaker 1: do that with partners that I trust. And this is
Speaker 1: my partner's absolutely not I. I have to monitor it
Speaker 1: because a lot of guys like they think they know,
Speaker 1: but they really don't have to train them in the
Speaker 1: moment and then give safe wirsts and stuff. This partner
Speaker 1: is somebody I've known since like so he knows me,
Speaker 1: he knows my body, and we hadne each other in years.
Speaker 1: But he it was like clockwork, like just jumping right
Speaker 1: back in. He knew how to do it the right
Speaker 1: amount of pressure. He has big hands. Oh my god. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so that in itself choked. I like big hand being choked.
Speaker 1: Big big men big. You know, if you give me
Speaker 1: a skinnynigger with a big dick, I'll take that too.
Speaker 1: I had a threat about that ship too, I used
Speaker 1: to I gotta say the skinniest I told I said
Speaker 1: this maybe on Patreon. Bro. I had to work with
Speaker 1: Whisky for recently, and Mandy has been talking about her
Speaker 1: for years. You see that. I'll tell you that nigga
Speaker 1: looks so good me. There was a day this game
Speaker 1: this woman couldn't even concentrate. Bro, that's how fine he was.
Speaker 1: I took a picture with Wiz I know what says,
Speaker 1: Night Say, and she was like, why y'all I go
Speaker 1: out of Yeah. I hit her because I don't even
Speaker 1: want to see nobody take pictures with him. I kept
Speaker 1: I was acting like a p a Okay, I was
Speaker 1: the producer on time. Would you like that? I ain't
Speaker 1: seen it, I just knows, but I would love to
Speaker 1: be walking funny after that. Well, I wanted to make
Speaker 1: sure we got to our horrible decision. Daddy help, I'm
Speaker 1: going to ask you some questions. Of course, so we've
Speaker 1: gotten into I mean clearly you being milked and everything else,
Speaker 1: but I wanted to really get into I met you
Speaker 1: and your um, but especially with you being here, tell
Speaker 1: on me. I thought that it was right because you
Speaker 1: identify as a switch. I want to confirm you are
Speaker 1: only a dom. You are not a switch? Correct? Well,
Speaker 1: I mostly a dom, but sometimes I will switch and
Speaker 1: then so with that, can you explain not only switching,
Speaker 1: but I want to talk about if there is a
Speaker 1: difference in rolls and genders within being a dom or
Speaker 1: a sub like what that looks like from a man's perspective,
Speaker 1: and if it changes across genders or not. I know
Speaker 1: how we show up as submissive because we're women. I
Speaker 1: know me as a dom. Everyone only assumes I'm a
Speaker 1: dom when I'm peggan a nigger. But there's other ways,
Speaker 1: even vocally right, But I want to know, like if
Speaker 1: there is clear distinctions with the roles and genders between
Speaker 1: dom's subs um In my opinion, just I think it's
Speaker 1: sort of gender fluid, okay with with you know, dominant
Speaker 1: submissive is very like it's a very beautiful, fragile space.
Speaker 1: So it's not like men are more dominant. Some some men,
Speaker 1: even though they appear dominant, are really very submissive, very right,
Speaker 1: but they don't they don't feel they don't feel safe
Speaker 1: enough for trust anyone else who they could be submissive to.
Speaker 1: Right and well, and I've said that I do feel like, well,
Speaker 1: a lot of women don't create that safe space. Um.
Speaker 1: I say that to my homegirls a lot, because when
Speaker 1: I do experience the things I experienced sexually, maybe like,
Speaker 1: damn girl, how you be finding all the same type
Speaker 1: of niggas that's in the same type of ship and
Speaker 1: you don't like I don't find them it's that or
Speaker 1: or it's I've allowed them the space for us to
Speaker 1: do these things. And I'm like, you probably have either
Speaker 1: said in conversations something to let men know that you
Speaker 1: would judge them in certain it's like this right for example,
Speaker 1: talking about Peggy. Right. I think there's probably two ways
Speaker 1: women are doing it like if you're talking about horrible decisions.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. So I was listening a horrible decision
Speaker 1: today and Mandy was saying how she pegg did you
Speaker 1: ever been bad? Or you're like okay? So I thought
Speaker 1: it was really kinky because Mandy did would you be
Speaker 1: done to try that? Like when you're already putting something down. Yep.
Speaker 1: You gotta remember even if men are curious, they don't
Speaker 1: want to show up for you and they're not the
Speaker 1: dominant man. And mind you, we've said so many times.
Speaker 1: I think someone said on the show the key to
Speaker 1: masculinity isn't in your asshole. But at the same time,
Speaker 1: when hearing a tone like that, I would I've had
Speaker 1: a nick as one you had an abortion. No, does
Speaker 1: not have listened you Almost the things you could be
Speaker 1: proud of us we never even know because when you
Speaker 1: hear that, you're like because because think about it this way, right,
Speaker 1: it's the same same way where if a woman squirts
Speaker 1: for the first time, that's the guy's first time experience
Speaker 1: and he will shame her and and and she won't
Speaker 1: do it again because she associates squirting with shame with
Speaker 1: a partner, Right, So it's the same thing women. Right, Well,
Speaker 1: I'm assuming, but I'm really thinks I'm just speaking about myself.
Speaker 1: Is that once again, you have to trust the person.
Speaker 1: You have to trust that you're not gonna attract somebody
Speaker 1: who's gonna be who who makes you feel that they're
Speaker 1: gonna tell your business. So here's here's the thing that
Speaker 1: I gave this advice to someone I was associated with
Speaker 1: a while ago, and I said, listen, it's I hear
Speaker 1: around town too much that you like to get paid, like,
Speaker 1: don't let everybody pick dog. I told him that. I said, man, listen,
Speaker 1: you gotta be you have to be very discerning about
Speaker 1: your actions, all right, Like you can't just be like, oh,
Speaker 1: that's the that's the pagan guy. I just get in
Speaker 1: good with him, and unless he wants, I feel like
Speaker 1: he is the pagan guy. And I feel like, I
Speaker 1: know you're talking about the pagan guy he had on
Speaker 1: the show. Maybe it is maybe it isn't having someone
Speaker 1: else some people want to be at some people. But
Speaker 1: but that's what that's what I'm saying. So like you
Speaker 1: just have to establish those different roles and as far
Speaker 1: as dominant. So like me personally, like I have to
Speaker 1: really trust you to the fact that I would just
Speaker 1: like bend over and allow you to just go to
Speaker 1: work on me spanking me. Now, I want to know,
Speaker 1: do you have to trust someone to dominate them? Like
Speaker 1: you have to trust yourself, but that there's a level
Speaker 1: of trust. First of all, I trust myself, right, and
Speaker 1: when say, when neck Unicorn trust me, then I know
Speaker 1: at that point in time if she trust me, that's
Speaker 1: all that matters. Because but I'm also trusting that she's
Speaker 1: not gonna do anything crazy, especially if I'm doing have
Speaker 1: like knife player something, I have a knife afternoon. We
Speaker 1: got to try to safety go Wait a second, So, Nifela,
Speaker 1: how do you introduce that you're into that is their
Speaker 1: blood happening to explain NiFe fla and so this and
Speaker 1: y'all are if y'all are y'all listening? These are black people.
Speaker 1: Uh here, let's get into it because that's interesting. A right,
Speaker 1: so ARCOI like, so here's the thing. Wow, I don't
Speaker 1: think they make nives But all right, I was all right,
Speaker 1: that's a I just thought a murder. Sorry wait, Swiss
Speaker 1: army like or like or not like a big like
Speaker 1: a big chef what like like like Michael Myers, like
Speaker 1: the kind of big eyes like that, or you can
Speaker 1: use the sex nice right, No, I don't. I don't
Speaker 1: think there's a sex thing sex sex sex candles. That
Speaker 1: wasn't a dumb questions like it's not done every like
Speaker 1: like a sex knife can be like play though almost
Speaker 1: it could look it could look like a really no,
Speaker 1: I'm just really okay. I want to know how you
Speaker 1: introduce all right. So so here's the thing. So you
Speaker 1: have to ask okay with saying the clothes mouth don't
Speaker 1: get fed, right, here's the thing. Yeah, how do you
Speaker 1: know you want that? Well, let me let me explain
Speaker 1: this to you. All right, So when you go through
Speaker 1: the things of what's your hard limits and your soft limits,
Speaker 1: what are you open to? This is when negotiation, right,
Speaker 1: So like give it for example, like this riding crop here,
Speaker 1: like it's nice and leathery here, but on this end
Speaker 1: it has little spikes. Okay. So the thing is, even
Speaker 1: though I want to use it on you, I have
Speaker 1: to say, Mandy, don't have your cent to use this.
Speaker 1: That's the negotiation. And if you touch you said can
Speaker 1: I touch it? That help? I say, sure, touch it?
Speaker 1: If you say no, then I take it away. But
Speaker 1: if you say it's not me personally, I told you
Speaker 1: I really want to use it on you. But if
Speaker 1: you tell me no, but I gotta respect that, So
Speaker 1: I put it away, right, pull things away. So it's
Speaker 1: about it's you always have to ask for us with
Speaker 1: the knife. The knife has to be something where like
Speaker 1: you're like, oh, I would try that. You gotta be
Speaker 1: you gotta be adventurous, right what you were just cutting
Speaker 1: some tomatoes and was like, can I stab you? Usually
Speaker 1: where he does his like his sessions, right, all of
Speaker 1: his tools are laid out a nice right. Okay, now
Speaker 1: this is well what's that about? So? I remember my
Speaker 1: first time when knife play was with King New War.
Speaker 1: Okay it was at Exotica at that because King to
Speaker 1: War and just he's the mess of everything. Yes, doesn't
Speaker 1: do anything wrong. We not, I don't think something, but
Speaker 1: but we negotiated this scene prior to going on stage
Speaker 1: at Exotica, like a week before. He said I want
Speaker 1: to do knife play with you. Are you open to that?
Speaker 1: Because he already had a list of like my soft
Speaker 1: Heart and Maybes right knife that was like a maybe?
Speaker 1: So I was like, well, what kind of life you're using,
Speaker 1: he explained, I don't think it would so he so
Speaker 1: I said, okay, yes. Now the day of the performance,
Speaker 1: he said, hey, time my knife got taken from me
Speaker 1: at t s A. So I had to go by
Speaker 1: another one. It's not my normal knife, but it's what
Speaker 1: it looks like. Are you with it? It had like
Speaker 1: a little knob on it. I was like, okay, I
Speaker 1: trust you. Yes. Now he told me where a fish
Speaker 1: net like a body stocking. During the performance, the little
Speaker 1: knob kept getting stuck and he was dragging the knife
Speaker 1: across my body to cut off the stocking. I was shook,
Speaker 1: I'll froze, but I trusted him. So we're on stage,
Speaker 1: it's a performance. I gotta keep my face together and
Speaker 1: still be sexy. They're like on the low threat, like
Speaker 1: I ain't trying to tap out, but to do it.
Speaker 1: You know. It's so for me. I was like, whoa,
Speaker 1: it's everybody experience. I don't know if I will try
Speaker 1: again anytime soon, but I do. Like when knife player
Speaker 1: is used with wax play, so the nicest and you're
Speaker 1: not cutting because you talked about the fishnets, so nice
Speaker 1: player is cutting clothes. You can cut clothes off what
Speaker 1: is that place? So you're getting no blood. Blood If
Speaker 1: if you're in the blood play, in your bottom is
Speaker 1: in the blood play, there's then there's blood. Right, But
Speaker 1: if you're not basically the knife you just so it's
Speaker 1: just grazing across the skin. Now you would feel the
Speaker 1: sensation of the edge of the knife on your skin
Speaker 1: right and to the point where you could where you
Speaker 1: where you could where where you could use the point
Speaker 1: of the knife. Now, because we are black, were black one,
Speaker 1: you say we're not doing the blood because honestly, if
Speaker 1: someone told me knife play, I probably wouldn't guess that
Speaker 1: there was no blood in it. I thought that there
Speaker 1: was blood and bad I didn't hear that. I didn't
Speaker 1: hear dash they want that for knife plate instead, he'll
Speaker 1: use a credit card if they're blindfolded, like saying he
Speaker 1: would show them the knives, but to feel it, he
Speaker 1: would only use like that, he would do credit cards.
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess it depends on how hard you
Speaker 1: want to go, because for a person who likes to
Speaker 1: play hard, knife play is like on the hardest side
Speaker 1: of things. Yeah it is. Now, I'm personally not a
Speaker 1: blood play person. It's a lot with a lot of
Speaker 1: safety protocol that goes with that that I'm just not
Speaker 1: willing to do. But also I like my skin. I'm
Speaker 1: saying I only want I only want you, right, that's
Speaker 1: stuff to bleed outside. I've only heard of one black
Speaker 1: person doing blood plain and it was Orlando. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: and it was I. I met a dom, a black
Speaker 1: dom at fat Con in sixteen who was straight needling
Speaker 1: it on the con floor and I was just like, god, damn,
Speaker 1: I ain't never seen like the first time I see. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like needles, she have you done? That was pulling blood?
Speaker 1: That's not true? Yeah, that's a hard No. I have
Speaker 1: a phobia of needles, Like even when I'm gonna get tested,
Speaker 1: I'd be about to pass out when I get tested
Speaker 1: and maybe saying stuff like how do you have sex? Stuff? Right?
Speaker 1: Like needles for me? No, but not a knife for
Speaker 1: me because like I'm really, I'm really, I'm a very
Speaker 1: central dom. So for me, like I'm all about it's
Speaker 1: about sensation taking the mind. Some were blindfolding everywhere. So like, well,
Speaker 1: the way I flogged, the way I use all my
Speaker 1: impact in a way a hands bank is very sensual.
Speaker 1: So for me, like you know, I'm big. I'm a
Speaker 1: big feeling already, right, So so like I was always
Speaker 1: a big kung food like person. So come right. But
Speaker 1: but but like like different movements like this, like learning
Speaker 1: tai chi and stuff like this. So basically the knife,
Speaker 1: it's all it's all like a tai chi move like energy. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So so basically when I when I do B D
Speaker 1: S and play, everything is about energy. So that's why.
Speaker 1: Look they're worried about what's on TV. Now Karate Kid
Speaker 1: a karate kid like everything de turned like example, which example,
Speaker 1: here we go, here we go, Man, excuse me, may
Speaker 1: I person slept? This is my person slept? What I
Speaker 1: going to call me that? Alright? So here's the thing, right,
Speaker 1: so we're gonna talk about choking a little bit. All right,
Speaker 1: So holdng a, you're doing a demo. It's an audio
Speaker 1: experience now. Now Black Effect pays us for the audio,
Speaker 1: but I want to show you what happens, right, So
Speaker 1: I'm big into energy. Right. It's all about the touch
Speaker 1: right as time we was talking about about the touch. Okay,
Speaker 1: it's giving meditation all that, right, because we're working on
Speaker 1: this hard space too, right, and then we could tap
Speaker 1: up here right to release some things, okay, yes, and
Speaker 1: then we can go in here like this squeeze a
Speaker 1: little bit, bleep out the titty, the ariola showing you remember,
Speaker 1: m hmmm, they're gonna hey, does that work? You'll yellow
Speaker 1: Daddy Hills. That was yellow. That's what she said. Yellow.
Speaker 1: Yellow means okay, right, yes, yellow me slow down? Well
Speaker 1: that was hot. Wait, you got very exciting. I was,
Speaker 1: although you were the thing to what I looked at
Speaker 1: you a few times and you were getting super side.
Speaker 1: It's obvious. And you know, it's nice to see that
Speaker 1: because I've definitely been in the presence of doms that
Speaker 1: think they have to keep that face on just so hard.
Speaker 1: And it's like nice to see us the act. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it is, and sometimes that act kind of makes me
Speaker 1: not buy into it, right, it feels like just complete
Speaker 1: pat performative, and so I appreciate that. And so like
Speaker 1: I'm a I'm an exhibitionist, like I like like even
Speaker 1: going to like like we know y'all go to a resort, y'all,
Speaker 1: So you like to be watched? Okay, well great, because
Speaker 1: I'm going out tonight to watch and so and so
Speaker 1: you want to join us, girl, you ain't gonna you
Speaker 1: don't be wanting to go. You're not coming to the
Speaker 1: play party anyway? Are you h p that we're party happen?
Speaker 1: You know how we're by a happening? We we we
Speaker 1: were right, that's right. So I'm going people isn't like
Speaker 1: hotel room? Yeah? Just well, I I mean, yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't know either. I don't wait before we go, before
Speaker 1: we leave to uh, just because you're here, I did
Speaker 1: want to know. I've recently shared a list of sex clubs,
Speaker 1: um and because we're in Vegas, have either of y'all
Speaker 1: been to the Green Door? Is that what it is
Speaker 1: that you've never been to Green Door? I can't think
Speaker 1: about the one that I went to, but but the
Speaker 1: one that we went to, Madam was assaulted there. But yeah,
Speaker 1: I saw that on Twitter. Is that out here? But
Speaker 1: it was out here? Okay, So it was the way
Speaker 1: that they handle it. I can't even think of the
Speaker 1: name of it. I'm gonna find it. But the way
Speaker 1: that they handle her being assaulted did not put it
Speaker 1: on Twitter. I know, like more people are trying to
Speaker 1: venture into these spaces, and I've been absolutely lucky, I know,
Speaker 1: to experience the play parties how I have, especially in
Speaker 1: New York UM, but I know it's different everywhere, and
Speaker 1: so definitely want to make sure that we continue to
Speaker 1: share the safe spaces to go to and especially especially
Speaker 1: for us UM. And then maybe if you guys can share,
Speaker 1: if you guys have groups, I know that there's groups
Speaker 1: as well for people to be vetted and joined to
Speaker 1: come to the type of parties. Yeah, we like that.
Speaker 1: We like the vet Yeah, we just don't invite anybody.
Speaker 1: Everybody come in, Like we gotta see what you look
Speaker 1: like your social media and follow instructions. That's the moment.
Speaker 1: That's the main thing. It's like if there is a
Speaker 1: vetting form and we say feel out everything, and you'll
Speaker 1: feel out everything. But one thing, you're not coming because
Speaker 1: you're not following instructions. If you can't follow simple instructions,
Speaker 1: and how can we trust you to actually abide by consent? Right,
Speaker 1: So people don't understand that. And like with me being
Speaker 1: a switch, right, being both dominant and submissive. Right, I'm
Speaker 1: dominant when I have to control things when I'm like
Speaker 1: on to host, to care of people. And then in
Speaker 1: my personal life, like there's partners that I both dom
Speaker 1: and sub for. It depends on the dynamic of our relationship, right,
Speaker 1: and if I trust them with my safety because I
Speaker 1: don't just switch for anybody, right, I'm not gonna see
Speaker 1: that's the missive side of me unless I rushed you.
Speaker 1: And so people are like, I know you were a kitten.
Speaker 1: I didn't know you were a little what didn't know
Speaker 1: you were whatever? It's like, yeah, you wouldn't know that
Speaker 1: because you're not in that space. But you don't deserve
Speaker 1: to see me like that. Well, y'all, we are sitting
Speaker 1: here with a father, a unicorn, and a kidden. Yes,
Speaker 1: how man, bless you my child with the right y'all.
Speaker 1: This my ass, my ass was read for like you
Speaker 1: made me lick a shoe. Bit I was at the
Speaker 1: roots and I you made people chance. Oh you know
Speaker 1: I ain't pussy, so I'm gonna do it. But now
Speaker 1: I didn't go work ship to see you use a
Speaker 1: wrong word. Now I'm not work. Mandy is so hard
Speaker 1: with this paddle that she said sorry, it hurts so
Speaker 1: bad for y'all week. I'm just so glad we got
Speaker 1: to do this while in Vagas. Please please please let
Speaker 1: all of our listeners know where they can follow you,
Speaker 1: find you and if you have anything coming up, parties
Speaker 1: of lessons, of classes, all the things. Yes, you can
Speaker 1: find me on I'm at Real Glamazon Tyomi and on
Speaker 1: Twitter where we have public discourse about sex. At Glamazon
Speaker 1: Tommy type it in because they have me shuttle band
Speaker 1: or something. That's just how it is exactly. And if
Speaker 1: you're trying to learn how to ride, but also as
Speaker 1: a woman, feel better about your body and like just
Speaker 1: more embodied. Look how Girl Workout dot com. We are
Speaker 1: online you can work out from the comfort of your
Speaker 1: own home and it's I about a five version y'all.
Speaker 1: So I have people with like disabilities who are also
Speaker 1: in my tribe, and I make sure that as people
Speaker 1: come into my containers that I accommodate them as much
Speaker 1: as possible. To have been working on like new methods
Speaker 1: just to make sure everybody feels like they can keep
Speaker 1: up at their own pace. And I'm launching the Pleasure
Speaker 1: Academy dot com, which is my teaching platform and um
Speaker 1: I will be touring with the Exotica Expo all year
Speaker 1: again residents sex person and our coordinator. So if you
Speaker 1: are an educator and you're listening to the show and
Speaker 1: you want to be considered to teach. Go to Exotical
Speaker 1: Expo dot com. Fill out our form. I will have
Speaker 1: to approve you. Yeah, please fill it out, Come and
Speaker 1: join us at the expo. Four shows, y'all you can teach.
Speaker 1: That's a lot you can see. But we can do
Speaker 1: four shows every year. So go to our west. We
Speaker 1: do need a live showing and come through like, yeah,
Speaker 1: let's do that. We got we we're gonna we're gonna
Speaker 1: put that into the university year. Yes, we're gonna get
Speaker 1: it out. They can and you can find me um
Speaker 1: on Instagram and Naked Underscore, un Unicorn underscoreing. All of
Speaker 1: my links are there. I'm shadow Yeah, yeah, because I'm
Speaker 1: I'm shadow band on everything as well. All right, everybody
Speaker 1: where they can follow you, find you and get into
Speaker 1: you that literally but maybe my hand, yes, my child.
Speaker 1: You can find an Instagram at Real Daddy Health, Twitter,
Speaker 1: Daddy Underscore health um if you want to. Also, we
Speaker 1: got the health lifestyle community that's gonna be coming soon
Speaker 1: as a page of script. You know what's gonna have
Speaker 1: exclusive content. All things have lifestyle. Are y'all all in
Speaker 1: Chicago or I'm in Chicago. He's in Charlotte. I was.
Speaker 1: Now I'm here, so everybody from all over we are
Speaker 1: all in Vegas and guys, before we get out of here,
Speaker 1: y'all have heard us say it. We're gonna say it again.
Speaker 1: We want our London things. Y'all gotta come out and
Speaker 1: see us. All right, Valentine's Day, we are in London.
Speaker 1: Make sure you get your tickets. Left we are at
Speaker 1: the Clapham Graham. We're so excited. We got the game coming.
Speaker 1: Vine's coming, you'll get to meet him, and we are
Speaker 1: bringing our entire production to London. This is not going
Speaker 1: to be something that you maybe haven't seen on Instagram.
Speaker 1: This is just like our real show that we've been
Speaker 1: doing for years. So we're so excited to bring it
Speaker 1: to get ready to go across the water. We have
Speaker 1: been international, which we did Toronto, well in Mexico and
Speaker 1: Toomazao we did. We did when it was that was
Speaker 1: we didn't make Oh we did, but not a listen
Speaker 1: as someone who has the multiple shows in London, Flex
Speaker 1: decided they know has fun. Make sure you get your tickets.
Speaker 1: It's s W A C e n T dot shoots,
Speaker 1: that's s h O O b S dot com. Get
Speaker 1: your tickets now and bring your man your side, chick
Speaker 1: your side, nigger whoever. We don't have a single lady section.
Speaker 1: And if you have the nerve to bring a couple,
Speaker 1: as I am a single bit, I'm I'm basically Sweezy
Speaker 1: is gonna join you all for sex right after. Guys,
Speaker 1: thank y'all for tuning in to get another episode of
Speaker 1: Horrible Decisions.