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Speaker 1: Guess what decision We're about to make a horrible decisions.

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Speaker 1: All right, guys, welcome to another episode of Horrid Blad.

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Speaker 1: This is yours. I'm your girl. Maybe all of it, y'all.

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Speaker 1: I'm wheezy. If you're watching us on the YouTube YouTube,

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Speaker 1: we are taking what is that? Old people? Things like

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Speaker 1: you're watching us on the YouTube, don't know a bitch,

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Speaker 1: I feel old. It's a Friday night. I was reading

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Speaker 1: a book before I came in here a bit. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I definitely had to fix my lipstick before coming in heregulation. Wait,

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Speaker 1: I was gonna say, this table ship is like really

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Speaker 1: giving me seven year ago vibes? Yeah, it's four years.

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Speaker 1: Then we had to upgrade it. Yeah we started. We

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Speaker 1: were like, I remember I was there. Yeah, but we guys,

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Speaker 1: if you are listening, we are currently in Vegas because,

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Speaker 1: as you guys know, we are nominated hopefully winners by

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Speaker 1: Avian Awards. So we came out here and we got

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Speaker 1: me working. So she was like, well, let's recording podcasts

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Speaker 1: out there because I don't want anyways. So we're out

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Speaker 1: recording podcast in Vegas and we are joined by some

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Speaker 1: great people which I'm super excited to finally have on

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Speaker 1: the pod. Well, Glamazon Toyomi. We have a friend who

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Speaker 1: has been on the pod a year ago and I

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Speaker 1: just been I appreciate you. You did great in Our

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Speaker 1: Lives show too, did we crushed it? And y'all help

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Speaker 1: me stop out? And I still don't ride Dick. And

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Speaker 1: then we are joined as well by someone who I

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Speaker 1: just met recently, and I'm super glad that you're out here.

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Speaker 1: At the same time, we have Daddy have Hello, Hello, Hello.

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Speaker 1: Now I have to ask you because I know even

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Speaker 1: we when we met each other, you said daddy does

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Speaker 1: have to be mentioned, Like, yes, I have to call

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Speaker 1: you daddy the whole the whole episode. All right, you

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Speaker 1: don't want me to call you, do you? If your

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Speaker 1: name is I call you, I can call you we

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Speaker 1: maybe if you got your mama named weasels someone No,

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Speaker 1: but like let me ask. If someone doesn't, do you

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Speaker 1: Kuana just for the night, if they call you Kuanta,

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Speaker 1: you'd be like, I don't know who Quanta is you

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Speaker 1: feel disrespected? Now, what about women that have a daddy?

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Speaker 1: Why doesn't? Because here's the thing, You're calling me daddy

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Speaker 1: doesn't mean that you're calling me daddy how right? Right?

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Speaker 1: I feel like daddy though, is much like a sir.

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Speaker 1: Like it's something that's it's like it's giving me giving

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Speaker 1: my domb now I don't. I'm just trying to if

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Speaker 1: So so if you are say you are a film dom, right,

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Speaker 1: and your film dom name is Mama Weasy right now,

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Speaker 1: if I'm like, I don't want to call nobody else mama,

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Speaker 1: But it's not. It's not about what you feel. It's

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Speaker 1: about it's about respects. Respect is If your name is

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Speaker 1: Mama Weasy, I'm gonna call you Mama Weise because that's

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Speaker 1: how you introduce yourself to me, right, hedd that's a

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Speaker 1: hold of you got father half. It's a whole different dude. Wait,

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Speaker 1: there is a guy named father. Here's the thing, right, See,

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Speaker 1: when when I have people who who mess with my

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Speaker 1: tease a little bit. So they got this from I

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Speaker 1: have this pastor outfit, right, it's how all right? No

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Speaker 1: priest and I passed obviously. No, No, I ain't gonna

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Speaker 1: them booties that let's see, like I was telling someone

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Speaker 1: the children from Well then, real quick, what has you

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Speaker 1: I've always wanted to come to to amen. So since

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Speaker 1: have how long have you been unicorning like in this way? Um?

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Speaker 1: here's the thing. Legend has it? Legend? I've heard the

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Speaker 1: What's everybody's dynamic in the room. Why are the three

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426
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427
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428
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Speaker 1: Some of them are taking upwards of depending on if

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430
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Speaker 1: perceptionist that's got a hundred followers, or maybe I have

432
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Speaker 1: no faith and I wanted to show my toes. How

433
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Speaker 1: am I gonna get my fucking sexy ass feed up there?

434
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Speaker 1: They got agents, but they are agents for everything everything.

435
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437
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Speaker 1: You said, it's not like they call me daddy. But okay,

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Speaker 1: so you know it's a It's about voice inflection, right

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450
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451
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452
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453
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454
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Speaker 1: about trust. So like your your partner can't submit to you.

455
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Speaker 1: If you want someone to submit, you can't be like

456
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Speaker 1: you're gonna submit. What does what is keeping someone safe

457
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458
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459
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460
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Speaker 1: I don't walk around with a bulletproof vest? What does

461
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462
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Speaker 1: think because that's an issue I'm having even in my relationship, Well,

463
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Speaker 1: I need somebody. I'm gonna let neck Unicorn answer that. Okay, yeah,

464
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Speaker 1: there we go. How does that he have keep you safe? Well? Um,

465
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Speaker 1: we met in through my Madam Cartney um, and we

466
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470
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Speaker 1: so we went. They did a lot of gay parties there. Now,

471
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Speaker 1: I had a horrible experience at the loss. I'm not

472
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Speaker 1: used to I'm not used to how things happened because

473
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474
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Speaker 1: our events are always always safe and protected. But anyway,

475
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Speaker 1: this guy um decided it was okay to grab my

476
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Speaker 1: ass and right away Dad he helped correcting him because

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Speaker 1: he did not have my com We we actually we

478
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Speaker 1: met because through my through my dom, we were Oh,

479
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Speaker 1: I thought you guys met that night. Sorry, no, no, no,

480
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Speaker 1: we went to the play party the night that we met.

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Speaker 1: Keeping keeping your partners safe and protected at a play

482
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Speaker 1: party that absolutely makes sense. That is and if you

483
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Speaker 1: listened to a Patreon episode, I just had a mirror

484
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Speaker 1: from both sides of the bed, and we talked about

485
00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:07,440
Speaker 1: the etiquette of men in sex clubs because I don't

486
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Speaker 1: think it's talked about enough like that. Rest of all,

487
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Speaker 1: we can have a whole episode. Yeah, oh no, well

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Speaker 1: tune into our Patreon Patreon dot com bat slash Horror decisions. Uh,

489
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Speaker 1: it's just we we had to have the conversation because

490
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Speaker 1: even in terms of approaching men, or like when men

491
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Speaker 1: approached me knowing that I come with my partner, like

492
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Speaker 1: they'll just talk to me and not even acknowledge him,

493
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Speaker 1: and then I get then it's just a whole bunch Anyways,

494
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Speaker 1: we talked about it on Patreon. I wanted to come

495
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Speaker 1: to you for a horder, Taomi, you have been going

496
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498
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Speaker 1: But I wanted you to give a tip to the

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500
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Speaker 1: the myth busting fact, uh that thick girls can't take dick.

501
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Speaker 1: So I put out a tweet and I was like,

502
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Speaker 1: rumor has it that big girls can't take dick? Is

503
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Speaker 1: it's true? Now there were more people that came back

504
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Speaker 1: and said, it's actually a myth. It depends on the person,

505
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Speaker 1: and it depends on the amount of for play. And

506
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Speaker 1: that's actually ding ding ding the truth. What do you

507
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Speaker 1: think it stems from? Because like, there's always got anywhere

508
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Speaker 1: it stands from. So, because as I already have the answer,

509
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Speaker 1: what I'm doing is just generating public discourse that people

510
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Speaker 1: talk about it. Right, So, after I let the twee

511
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Speaker 1: go off for like twenty four to forty eight hours,

512
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Speaker 1: I said, all right, I've had enough of this. Let

513
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Speaker 1: me tell you what. Sure, Okay, I'm curious, Yeah, I

514
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Speaker 1: can't understand why somebody would say that either, I'm like that,

515
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Speaker 1: people say, oh, skinny girls take dick all time, I'm like,

516
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Speaker 1: what is it stamina? No, it's the perception that if

517
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Speaker 1: you are in a larger body, you need farmer or

518
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Speaker 1: harder handling, and it's not true. And so you have

519
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Speaker 1: more cushions, you have couions. Yes, they're being rougher with

520
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Speaker 1: us because they assume that our bodies have to be

521
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Speaker 1: treated that way because of what the outside looks like.

522
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Speaker 1: But it's like, it's still vagina. Still, I still has

523
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Speaker 1: a bottom, a k A the serving, So what are

524
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Speaker 1: you doing? And if we're not warmed up, just like

525
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Speaker 1: skinny girls, we're not going to be able to receive

526
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Speaker 1: the full dick we need for a play. We need

527
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Speaker 1: to be treated with safety. Safety looks like whatever a

528
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Speaker 1: person says they need to feel comfortable in a situation,

529
00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:35,920
Speaker 1: and everybody has a different level of what that looks like.

530
00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:39,560
Speaker 1: And literally men were saying that women were saying that

531
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Speaker 1: thick girls was like, I don't know about job. What

532
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Speaker 1: over here I'm taking dick? I said, yeah, me too,

533
00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:49,680
Speaker 1: And I personally go into my my situation is with lovers, like, hey,

534
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Speaker 1: let me guide you into how to open me up

535
00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:54,280
Speaker 1: before you try to go to Poundtown. You can't go

536
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Speaker 1: to Poundtown out of the gate. Even if I get

537
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Speaker 1: on top out of the gate. I've warmed been warmed

538
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Speaker 1: up to a certain a point where I can sit

539
00:32:01,360 --> 00:32:04,480
Speaker 1: on the dick and it's comfortable. So the myth is

540
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Speaker 1: just And one guy said it in the threat. He

541
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Speaker 1: was like, I think the myth just comes from like

542
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Speaker 1: one time there was a guy who just wants to

543
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Speaker 1: rush into it. And he assumed because he was rushing

544
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Speaker 1: in that all thick chicks can't take dick because he

545
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Speaker 1: didn't take the proper time to actually right, No, it

546
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Speaker 1: wasn't one. It was Emile. It was. But you know,

547
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Speaker 1: they literally do feel like and I mean I've been

548
00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:34,600
Speaker 1: thinking who exactly so I know, but yeah, they definitely

549
00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:37,080
Speaker 1: come in I guess wanting to come in so hot

550
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Speaker 1: and relax. It's like I ain't even warmed up yet exactly,

551
00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:45,680
Speaker 1: like nig is getting so excited because yeah, yeah, but

552
00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:47,760
Speaker 1: I mean yes, I can attach to that too. It's

553
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Speaker 1: like but but dog like, right, you like all of that,

554
00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:54,520
Speaker 1: but relaxed like And sometimes I think that they they

555
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Speaker 1: think their erections are going to disappear, so as soon

556
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Speaker 1: as an erection is. There's like times sometimes I disappear

557
00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:04,520
Speaker 1: in my thighs, maybe sucking my flishy. Maybe if if

558
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:06,520
Speaker 1: between my dogs, I'd be like, so you're not yet

559
00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:09,920
Speaker 1: sad for one maybe the one for me is the

560
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:14,160
Speaker 1: little cushion between my thigh and knee, Like wait, what

561
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Speaker 1: you don't get there and been your leg and have

562
00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:26,440
Speaker 1: guys like for fun, Like they don't think it's start fun,

563
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Speaker 1: but it feels do they spit there first? How does

564
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Speaker 1: it get what? I mean? My moneys be sweating money

565
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Speaker 1: if you but the guys, yes that you got take

566
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Speaker 1: guys and they stay together. It's just like they'd be

567
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Speaker 1: rubbing and they're not in but yeah, moistneezy. And now wait,

568
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Speaker 1: you kept talking about being warmed up. Would love to

569
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Speaker 1: know because I mean, yes, you did give us for

570
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Speaker 1: a different fence. What is your favorite way to get

571
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Speaker 1: warmed up? I'm an intellectual, so I'll stimulating conversations. I'm saying, well,

572
00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:05,200
Speaker 1: not even read a book, but like I like to

573
00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:07,120
Speaker 1: debate about ship like hip hop. You know, if you

574
00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:11,120
Speaker 1: talk to me about like backs to hip hop and ship,

575
00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:14,239
Speaker 1: but also like I like to be touched, so outside

576
00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:18,120
Speaker 1: of like the mental simulation of body. They in the

577
00:34:18,239 --> 00:34:22,439
Speaker 1: body of knowing how to grip, knowing how to grip

578
00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:24,640
Speaker 1: me up, knowing how to touch me. I don't like

579
00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:26,759
Speaker 1: I I enjoy touch, but from the right person. So

580
00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:29,320
Speaker 1: if I give you consent, please explore my body. I

581
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Speaker 1: got body like I need you to like cuff my

582
00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:33,719
Speaker 1: booty in a certain ways. I need you to get

583
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:36,840
Speaker 1: all around, like the thickness of my thighs. And they

584
00:34:37,040 --> 00:34:39,640
Speaker 1: like to be choked, you know, like play with my neck.

585
00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:42,520
Speaker 1: And I got choked, yo, Yo, the best thing to

586
00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:46,200
Speaker 1: happen to me so far yesterday, Yes it was your

587
00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:50,439
Speaker 1: brain went right back, yo. Yeah, I got choked out

588
00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:54,560
Speaker 1: on the couch. I was like, I remember this as

589
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Speaker 1: I went fading to black, um, not as you were

590
00:34:57,960 --> 00:35:01,400
Speaker 1: fading stought before I got that. How much do you

591
00:35:01,560 --> 00:35:03,640
Speaker 1: like to be choked until you're like I like to

592
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:05,480
Speaker 1: be challenged to the point to see like how far

593
00:35:05,560 --> 00:35:07,640
Speaker 1: can I go before I pass out? But I only

594
00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:09,320
Speaker 1: do that with partners that I trust. And this is

595
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:14,560
Speaker 1: my partner's absolutely not I. I have to monitor it

596
00:35:14,560 --> 00:35:16,200
Speaker 1: because a lot of guys like they think they know,

597
00:35:16,360 --> 00:35:18,279
Speaker 1: but they really don't have to train them in the

598
00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:20,840
Speaker 1: moment and then give safe wirsts and stuff. This partner

599
00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:25,279
Speaker 1: is somebody I've known since like so he knows me,

600
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Speaker 1: he knows my body, and we hadne each other in years.

601
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Speaker 1: But he it was like clockwork, like just jumping right

602
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Speaker 1: back in. He knew how to do it the right

603
00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:37,960
Speaker 1: amount of pressure. He has big hands. Oh my god. Yeah,

604
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Speaker 1: so that in itself choked. I like big hand being choked.

605
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Speaker 1: Big big men big. You know, if you give me

606
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Speaker 1: a skinnynigger with a big dick, I'll take that too.

607
00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:55,719
Speaker 1: I had a threat about that ship too, I used

608
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Speaker 1: to I gotta say the skinniest I told I said

609
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Speaker 1: this maybe on Patreon. Bro. I had to work with

610
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Speaker 1: Whisky for recently, and Mandy has been talking about her

611
00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:07,120
Speaker 1: for years. You see that. I'll tell you that nigga

612
00:36:07,160 --> 00:36:13,160
Speaker 1: looks so good me. There was a day this game

613
00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:17,040
Speaker 1: this woman couldn't even concentrate. Bro, that's how fine he was.

614
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Speaker 1: I took a picture with Wiz I know what says,

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Speaker 1: Night Say, and she was like, why y'all I go

616
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Speaker 1: out of Yeah. I hit her because I don't even

617
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Speaker 1: want to see nobody take pictures with him. I kept

618
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Speaker 1: I was acting like a p a Okay, I was

619
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Speaker 1: the producer on time. Would you like that? I ain't

620
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Speaker 1: seen it, I just knows, but I would love to

621
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Speaker 1: be walking funny after that. Well, I wanted to make

622
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Speaker 1: sure we got to our horrible decision. Daddy help, I'm

623
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Speaker 1: going to ask you some questions. Of course, so we've

624
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:56,680
Speaker 1: gotten into I mean clearly you being milked and everything else,

625
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Speaker 1: but I wanted to really get into I met you

626
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Speaker 1: and your um, but especially with you being here, tell

627
00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:09,680
Speaker 1: on me. I thought that it was right because you

628
00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:12,600
Speaker 1: identify as a switch. I want to confirm you are

629
00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:15,040
Speaker 1: only a dom. You are not a switch? Correct? Well,

630
00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:20,440
Speaker 1: I mostly a dom, but sometimes I will switch and

631
00:37:20,520 --> 00:37:23,960
Speaker 1: then so with that, can you explain not only switching,

632
00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:26,360
Speaker 1: but I want to talk about if there is a

633
00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:31,239
Speaker 1: difference in rolls and genders within being a dom or

634
00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:34,440
Speaker 1: a sub like what that looks like from a man's perspective,

635
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Speaker 1: and if it changes across genders or not. I know

636
00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:41,080
Speaker 1: how we show up as submissive because we're women. I

637
00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:43,400
Speaker 1: know me as a dom. Everyone only assumes I'm a

638
00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:46,600
Speaker 1: dom when I'm peggan a nigger. But there's other ways,

639
00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:49,239
Speaker 1: even vocally right, But I want to know, like if

640
00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:52,720
Speaker 1: there is clear distinctions with the roles and genders between

641
00:37:52,840 --> 00:37:58,000
Speaker 1: dom's subs um In my opinion, just I think it's

642
00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:02,000
Speaker 1: sort of gender fluid, okay with with you know, dominant

643
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:07,000
Speaker 1: submissive is very like it's a very beautiful, fragile space.

644
00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:11,839
Speaker 1: So it's not like men are more dominant. Some some men,

645
00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:16,759
Speaker 1: even though they appear dominant, are really very submissive, very right,

646
00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:19,839
Speaker 1: but they don't they don't feel they don't feel safe

647
00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:23,200
Speaker 1: enough for trust anyone else who they could be submissive to.

648
00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:27,680
Speaker 1: Right and well, and I've said that I do feel like, well,

649
00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:31,000
Speaker 1: a lot of women don't create that safe space. Um.

650
00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:33,520
Speaker 1: I say that to my homegirls a lot, because when

651
00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:36,680
Speaker 1: I do experience the things I experienced sexually, maybe like,

652
00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:38,680
Speaker 1: damn girl, how you be finding all the same type

653
00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:40,200
Speaker 1: of niggas that's in the same type of ship and

654
00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:44,279
Speaker 1: you don't like I don't find them it's that or

655
00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:47,480
Speaker 1: or it's I've allowed them the space for us to

656
00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:51,439
Speaker 1: do these things. And I'm like, you probably have either

657
00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:55,520
Speaker 1: said in conversations something to let men know that you

658
00:38:55,600 --> 00:38:59,760
Speaker 1: would judge them in certain it's like this right for example,

659
00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:04,839
Speaker 1: talking about Peggy. Right. I think there's probably two ways

660
00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:08,160
Speaker 1: women are doing it like if you're talking about horrible decisions.

661
00:39:08,440 --> 00:39:10,240
Speaker 1: Oh my god. So I was listening a horrible decision

662
00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:13,840
Speaker 1: today and Mandy was saying how she pegg did you

663
00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:17,200
Speaker 1: ever been bad? Or you're like okay? So I thought

664
00:39:17,239 --> 00:39:20,560
Speaker 1: it was really kinky because Mandy did would you be

665
00:39:20,640 --> 00:39:25,920
Speaker 1: done to try that? Like when you're already putting something down. Yep.

666
00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:29,080
Speaker 1: You gotta remember even if men are curious, they don't

667
00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:31,440
Speaker 1: want to show up for you and they're not the

668
00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:34,439
Speaker 1: dominant man. And mind you, we've said so many times.

669
00:39:34,480 --> 00:39:36,080
Speaker 1: I think someone said on the show the key to

670
00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:40,240
Speaker 1: masculinity isn't in your asshole. But at the same time,

671
00:39:40,719 --> 00:39:43,480
Speaker 1: when hearing a tone like that, I would I've had

672
00:39:43,480 --> 00:39:47,879
Speaker 1: a nick as one you had an abortion. No, does

673
00:39:47,960 --> 00:39:57,200
Speaker 1: not have listened you Almost the things you could be

674
00:39:57,239 --> 00:39:58,800
Speaker 1: proud of us we never even know because when you

675
00:39:58,920 --> 00:40:01,520
Speaker 1: hear that, you're like because because think about it this way, right,

676
00:40:01,680 --> 00:40:05,360
Speaker 1: it's the same same way where if a woman squirts

677
00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:07,640
Speaker 1: for the first time, that's the guy's first time experience

678
00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:10,520
Speaker 1: and he will shame her and and and she won't

679
00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:15,320
Speaker 1: do it again because she associates squirting with shame with

680
00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:18,920
Speaker 1: a partner, Right, So it's the same thing women. Right, Well,

681
00:40:18,920 --> 00:40:22,400
Speaker 1: I'm assuming, but I'm really thinks I'm just speaking about myself.

682
00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:25,839
Speaker 1: Is that once again, you have to trust the person.

683
00:40:25,960 --> 00:40:28,240
Speaker 1: You have to trust that you're not gonna attract somebody

684
00:40:28,600 --> 00:40:31,799
Speaker 1: who's gonna be who who makes you feel that they're

685
00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:36,080
Speaker 1: gonna tell your business. So here's here's the thing that

686
00:40:36,239 --> 00:40:39,120
Speaker 1: I gave this advice to someone I was associated with

687
00:40:39,200 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 1: a while ago, and I said, listen, it's I hear

688
00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:47,120
Speaker 1: around town too much that you like to get paid, like,

689
00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:54,080
Speaker 1: don't let everybody pick dog. I told him that. I said, man, listen,

690
00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:56,600
Speaker 1: you gotta be you have to be very discerning about

691
00:40:56,640 --> 00:41:00,279
Speaker 1: your actions, all right, Like you can't just be like, oh,

692
00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:02,440
Speaker 1: that's the that's the pagan guy. I just get in

693
00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:05,360
Speaker 1: good with him, and unless he wants, I feel like

694
00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:06,759
Speaker 1: he is the pagan guy. And I feel like, I

695
00:41:06,800 --> 00:41:13,960
Speaker 1: know you're talking about the pagan guy he had on

696
00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:17,359
Speaker 1: the show. Maybe it is maybe it isn't having someone

697
00:41:17,400 --> 00:41:21,719
Speaker 1: else some people want to be at some people. But

698
00:41:21,880 --> 00:41:24,200
Speaker 1: but that's what that's what I'm saying. So like you

699
00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:26,279
Speaker 1: just have to establish those different roles and as far

700
00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:29,759
Speaker 1: as dominant. So like me personally, like I have to

701
00:41:29,840 --> 00:41:33,239
Speaker 1: really trust you to the fact that I would just

702
00:41:33,480 --> 00:41:36,080
Speaker 1: like bend over and allow you to just go to

703
00:41:36,160 --> 00:41:42,840
Speaker 1: work on me spanking me. Now, I want to know,

704
00:41:43,000 --> 00:41:46,680
Speaker 1: do you have to trust someone to dominate them? Like

705
00:41:46,800 --> 00:41:49,680
Speaker 1: you have to trust yourself, but that there's a level

706
00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:52,759
Speaker 1: of trust. First of all, I trust myself, right, and

707
00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:56,719
Speaker 1: when say, when neck Unicorn trust me, then I know

708
00:41:56,880 --> 00:41:59,359
Speaker 1: at that point in time if she trust me, that's

709
00:41:59,360 --> 00:42:02,799
Speaker 1: all that matters. Because but I'm also trusting that she's

710
00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:05,719
Speaker 1: not gonna do anything crazy, especially if I'm doing have

711
00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:11,480
Speaker 1: like knife player something, I have a knife afternoon. We

712
00:42:11,560 --> 00:42:14,440
Speaker 1: got to try to safety go Wait a second, So, Nifela,

713
00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:16,759
Speaker 1: how do you introduce that you're into that is their

714
00:42:16,800 --> 00:42:19,960
Speaker 1: blood happening to explain NiFe fla and so this and

715
00:42:20,120 --> 00:42:23,360
Speaker 1: y'all are if y'all are y'all listening? These are black people.

716
00:42:23,680 --> 00:42:29,440
Speaker 1: Uh here, let's get into it because that's interesting. A right,

717
00:42:29,480 --> 00:42:39,560
Speaker 1: so ARCOI like, so here's the thing. Wow, I don't

718
00:42:39,560 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 1: think they make nives But all right, I was all right,

719
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:46,960
Speaker 1: that's a I just thought a murder. Sorry wait, Swiss

720
00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:49,840
Speaker 1: army like or like or not like a big like

721
00:42:49,880 --> 00:42:54,640
Speaker 1: a big chef what like like like Michael Myers, like

722
00:42:54,719 --> 00:42:56,840
Speaker 1: the kind of big eyes like that, or you can

723
00:42:57,000 --> 00:43:03,719
Speaker 1: use the sex nice right, No, I don't. I don't

724
00:43:03,719 --> 00:43:11,600
Speaker 1: think there's a sex thing sex sex sex candles. That

725
00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:23,120
Speaker 1: wasn't a dumb questions like it's not done every like

726
00:43:23,400 --> 00:43:25,680
Speaker 1: like a sex knife can be like play though almost

727
00:43:25,840 --> 00:43:28,320
Speaker 1: it could look it could look like a really no,

728
00:43:28,440 --> 00:43:37,040
Speaker 1: I'm just really okay. I want to know how you

729
00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:43,360
Speaker 1: introduce all right. So so here's the thing. So you

730
00:43:43,480 --> 00:43:46,439
Speaker 1: have to ask okay with saying the clothes mouth don't

731
00:43:46,480 --> 00:43:49,560
Speaker 1: get fed, right, here's the thing. Yeah, how do you

732
00:43:49,640 --> 00:43:52,200
Speaker 1: know you want that? Well, let me let me explain

733
00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:54,879
Speaker 1: this to you. All right, So when you go through

734
00:43:54,960 --> 00:43:57,400
Speaker 1: the things of what's your hard limits and your soft limits,

735
00:43:57,560 --> 00:43:59,880
Speaker 1: what are you open to? This is when negotiation, right,

736
00:44:00,200 --> 00:44:02,719
Speaker 1: So like give it for example, like this riding crop here,

737
00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:05,759
Speaker 1: like it's nice and leathery here, but on this end

738
00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:10,399
Speaker 1: it has little spikes. Okay. So the thing is, even

739
00:44:10,440 --> 00:44:12,239
Speaker 1: though I want to use it on you, I have

740
00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:16,480
Speaker 1: to say, Mandy, don't have your cent to use this.

741
00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:19,680
Speaker 1: That's the negotiation. And if you touch you said can

742
00:44:19,719 --> 00:44:21,880
Speaker 1: I touch it? That help? I say, sure, touch it?

743
00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:27,120
Speaker 1: If you say no, then I take it away. But

744
00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:29,000
Speaker 1: if you say it's not me personally, I told you

745
00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:31,480
Speaker 1: I really want to use it on you. But if

746
00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:35,960
Speaker 1: you tell me no, but I gotta respect that, So

747
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:38,799
Speaker 1: I put it away, right, pull things away. So it's

748
00:44:38,800 --> 00:44:41,520
Speaker 1: about it's you always have to ask for us with

749
00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:45,520
Speaker 1: the knife. The knife has to be something where like

750
00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:48,040
Speaker 1: you're like, oh, I would try that. You gotta be

751
00:44:48,160 --> 00:44:50,280
Speaker 1: you gotta be adventurous, right what you were just cutting

752
00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:58,360
Speaker 1: some tomatoes and was like, can I stab you? Usually

753
00:44:58,440 --> 00:45:01,480
Speaker 1: where he does his like his sessions, right, all of

754
00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:06,120
Speaker 1: his tools are laid out a nice right. Okay, now

755
00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:10,080
Speaker 1: this is well what's that about? So? I remember my

756
00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:12,359
Speaker 1: first time when knife play was with King New War.

757
00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:15,120
Speaker 1: Okay it was at Exotica at that because King to

758
00:45:15,200 --> 00:45:19,040
Speaker 1: War and just he's the mess of everything. Yes, doesn't

759
00:45:19,040 --> 00:45:21,840
Speaker 1: do anything wrong. We not, I don't think something, but

760
00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:26,920
Speaker 1: but we negotiated this scene prior to going on stage

761
00:45:26,960 --> 00:45:28,920
Speaker 1: at Exotica, like a week before. He said I want

762
00:45:28,960 --> 00:45:31,040
Speaker 1: to do knife play with you. Are you open to that?

763
00:45:31,239 --> 00:45:33,400
Speaker 1: Because he already had a list of like my soft

764
00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:36,800
Speaker 1: Heart and Maybes right knife that was like a maybe?

765
00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:39,799
Speaker 1: So I was like, well, what kind of life you're using,

766
00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:43,960
Speaker 1: he explained, I don't think it would so he so

767
00:45:44,160 --> 00:45:47,160
Speaker 1: I said, okay, yes. Now the day of the performance,

768
00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:49,880
Speaker 1: he said, hey, time my knife got taken from me

769
00:45:49,920 --> 00:45:51,319
Speaker 1: at t s A. So I had to go by

770
00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:53,480
Speaker 1: another one. It's not my normal knife, but it's what

771
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:56,120
Speaker 1: it looks like. Are you with it? It had like

772
00:45:56,160 --> 00:45:58,719
Speaker 1: a little knob on it. I was like, okay, I

773
00:45:58,800 --> 00:46:01,600
Speaker 1: trust you. Yes. Now he told me where a fish

774
00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:07,640
Speaker 1: net like a body stocking. During the performance, the little

775
00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:10,640
Speaker 1: knob kept getting stuck and he was dragging the knife

776
00:46:10,719 --> 00:46:13,520
Speaker 1: across my body to cut off the stocking. I was shook,

777
00:46:13,640 --> 00:46:17,680
Speaker 1: I'll froze, but I trusted him. So we're on stage,

778
00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:19,960
Speaker 1: it's a performance. I gotta keep my face together and

779
00:46:20,040 --> 00:46:23,400
Speaker 1: still be sexy. They're like on the low threat, like

780
00:46:23,400 --> 00:46:25,840
Speaker 1: I ain't trying to tap out, but to do it.

781
00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:28,359
Speaker 1: You know. It's so for me. I was like, whoa,

782
00:46:29,120 --> 00:46:31,040
Speaker 1: it's everybody experience. I don't know if I will try

783
00:46:31,200 --> 00:46:34,280
Speaker 1: again anytime soon, but I do. Like when knife player

784
00:46:34,320 --> 00:46:39,440
Speaker 1: is used with wax play, so the nicest and you're

785
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:42,239
Speaker 1: not cutting because you talked about the fishnets, so nice

786
00:46:42,239 --> 00:46:45,840
Speaker 1: player is cutting clothes. You can cut clothes off what

787
00:46:46,040 --> 00:46:53,000
Speaker 1: is that place? So you're getting no blood. Blood If

788
00:46:53,239 --> 00:46:56,160
Speaker 1: if you're in the blood play, in your bottom is

789
00:46:56,200 --> 00:46:58,800
Speaker 1: in the blood play, there's then there's blood. Right, But

790
00:46:58,880 --> 00:47:03,040
Speaker 1: if you're not basically the knife you just so it's

791
00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:05,400
Speaker 1: just grazing across the skin. Now you would feel the

792
00:47:05,480 --> 00:47:08,839
Speaker 1: sensation of the edge of the knife on your skin

793
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:13,400
Speaker 1: right and to the point where you could where you

794
00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:15,720
Speaker 1: where you could where where you could use the point

795
00:47:15,840 --> 00:47:24,359
Speaker 1: of the knife. Now, because we are black, were black one,

796
00:47:24,920 --> 00:47:29,239
Speaker 1: you say we're not doing the blood because honestly, if

797
00:47:29,320 --> 00:47:31,400
Speaker 1: someone told me knife play, I probably wouldn't guess that

798
00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:33,719
Speaker 1: there was no blood in it. I thought that there

799
00:47:33,800 --> 00:47:35,719
Speaker 1: was blood and bad I didn't hear that. I didn't

800
00:47:35,760 --> 00:47:39,520
Speaker 1: hear dash they want that for knife plate instead, he'll

801
00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:43,080
Speaker 1: use a credit card if they're blindfolded, like saying he

802
00:47:43,120 --> 00:47:45,200
Speaker 1: would show them the knives, but to feel it, he

803
00:47:45,239 --> 00:47:47,960
Speaker 1: would only use like that, he would do credit cards.

804
00:47:48,320 --> 00:47:51,120
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess it depends on how hard you

805
00:47:51,239 --> 00:47:53,360
Speaker 1: want to go, because for a person who likes to

806
00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:55,759
Speaker 1: play hard, knife play is like on the hardest side

807
00:47:55,760 --> 00:47:58,080
Speaker 1: of things. Yeah it is. Now, I'm personally not a

808
00:47:58,120 --> 00:48:00,880
Speaker 1: blood play person. It's a lot with a lot of

809
00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:03,160
Speaker 1: safety protocol that goes with that that I'm just not

810
00:48:03,280 --> 00:48:05,399
Speaker 1: willing to do. But also I like my skin. I'm

811
00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:07,920
Speaker 1: saying I only want I only want you, right, that's

812
00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:10,200
Speaker 1: stuff to bleed outside. I've only heard of one black

813
00:48:10,239 --> 00:48:13,520
Speaker 1: person doing blood plain and it was Orlando. Oh yeah,

814
00:48:14,000 --> 00:48:16,160
Speaker 1: and it was I. I met a dom, a black

815
00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:21,800
Speaker 1: dom at fat Con in sixteen who was straight needling

816
00:48:21,880 --> 00:48:26,200
Speaker 1: it on the con floor and I was just like, god, damn,

817
00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:29,359
Speaker 1: I ain't never seen like the first time I see. Yeah,

818
00:48:29,520 --> 00:48:34,520
Speaker 1: like needles, she have you done? That was pulling blood?

819
00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:38,320
Speaker 1: That's not true? Yeah, that's a hard No. I have

820
00:48:38,440 --> 00:48:41,400
Speaker 1: a phobia of needles, Like even when I'm gonna get tested,

821
00:48:41,840 --> 00:48:45,200
Speaker 1: I'd be about to pass out when I get tested

822
00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:48,399
Speaker 1: and maybe saying stuff like how do you have sex? Stuff? Right?

823
00:48:49,520 --> 00:48:53,719
Speaker 1: Like needles for me? No, but not a knife for

824
00:48:53,800 --> 00:48:56,880
Speaker 1: me because like I'm really, I'm really, I'm a very

825
00:48:56,960 --> 00:48:59,839
Speaker 1: central dom. So for me, like I'm all about it's

826
00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:05,319
Speaker 1: about sensation taking the mind. Some were blindfolding everywhere. So like, well,

827
00:49:05,480 --> 00:49:07,719
Speaker 1: the way I flogged, the way I use all my

828
00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:10,680
Speaker 1: impact in a way a hands bank is very sensual.

829
00:49:11,600 --> 00:49:14,680
Speaker 1: So for me, like you know, I'm big. I'm a

830
00:49:14,760 --> 00:49:19,080
Speaker 1: big feeling already, right, So so like I was always

831
00:49:19,080 --> 00:49:23,239
Speaker 1: a big kung food like person. So come right. But

832
00:49:23,440 --> 00:49:26,400
Speaker 1: but but like like different movements like this, like learning

833
00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:29,320
Speaker 1: tai chi and stuff like this. So basically the knife,

834
00:49:29,719 --> 00:49:34,319
Speaker 1: it's all it's all like a tai chi move like energy. Yeah.

835
00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:36,680
Speaker 1: So so basically when I when I do B D

836
00:49:36,840 --> 00:49:40,879
Speaker 1: S and play, everything is about energy. So that's why.

837
00:49:41,160 --> 00:49:43,920
Speaker 1: Look they're worried about what's on TV. Now Karate Kid

838
00:49:44,400 --> 00:49:59,640
Speaker 1: a karate kid like everything de turned like example, which example,

839
00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:06,040
Speaker 1: here we go, here we go, Man, excuse me, may

840
00:50:06,120 --> 00:50:11,000
Speaker 1: I person slept? This is my person slept? What I

841
00:50:11,360 --> 00:50:14,400
Speaker 1: going to call me that? Alright? So here's the thing, right,

842
00:50:14,440 --> 00:50:17,359
Speaker 1: so we're gonna talk about choking a little bit. All right,

843
00:50:17,800 --> 00:50:21,320
Speaker 1: So holdng a, you're doing a demo. It's an audio

844
00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:25,000
Speaker 1: experience now. Now Black Effect pays us for the audio,

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Speaker 1: but I want to show you what happens, right, So

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Speaker 1: I'm big into energy. Right. It's all about the touch

847
00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:36,720
Speaker 1: right as time we was talking about about the touch. Okay,

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Speaker 1: it's giving meditation all that, right, because we're working on

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00:50:44,600 --> 00:50:48,000
Speaker 1: this hard space too, right, and then we could tap

850
00:50:48,160 --> 00:50:55,600
Speaker 1: up here right to release some things, okay, yes, and

851
00:50:55,680 --> 00:50:59,239
Speaker 1: then we can go in here like this squeeze a

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Speaker 1: little bit, bleep out the titty, the ariola showing you remember,

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Speaker 1: m hmmm, they're gonna hey, does that work? You'll yellow

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Speaker 1: Daddy Hills. That was yellow. That's what she said. Yellow.

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Speaker 1: Yellow means okay, right, yes, yellow me slow down? Well

856
00:51:36,719 --> 00:51:43,640
Speaker 1: that was hot. Wait, you got very exciting. I was,

857
00:51:43,840 --> 00:51:47,799
Speaker 1: although you were the thing to what I looked at

858
00:51:47,840 --> 00:51:50,279
Speaker 1: you a few times and you were getting super side.

859
00:51:50,320 --> 00:51:55,440
Speaker 1: It's obvious. And you know, it's nice to see that

860
00:51:55,560 --> 00:51:58,279
Speaker 1: because I've definitely been in the presence of doms that

861
00:51:58,400 --> 00:52:01,359
Speaker 1: think they have to keep that face on just so hard.

862
00:52:01,440 --> 00:52:03,719
Speaker 1: And it's like nice to see us the act. Yeah,

863
00:52:04,280 --> 00:52:07,560
Speaker 1: it is, and sometimes that act kind of makes me

864
00:52:07,680 --> 00:52:10,480
Speaker 1: not buy into it, right, it feels like just complete

865
00:52:10,480 --> 00:52:14,160
Speaker 1: pat performative, and so I appreciate that. And so like

866
00:52:14,360 --> 00:52:17,839
Speaker 1: I'm a I'm an exhibitionist, like I like like even

867
00:52:17,920 --> 00:52:21,680
Speaker 1: going to like like we know y'all go to a resort, y'all,

868
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Speaker 1: So you like to be watched? Okay, well great, because

869
00:52:25,680 --> 00:52:29,440
Speaker 1: I'm going out tonight to watch and so and so

870
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Speaker 1: you want to join us, girl, you ain't gonna you

871
00:52:33,280 --> 00:52:36,160
Speaker 1: don't be wanting to go. You're not coming to the

872
00:52:36,200 --> 00:52:42,160
Speaker 1: play party anyway? Are you h p that we're party happen?

873
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Speaker 1: You know how we're by a happening? We we we

874
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Speaker 1: were right, that's right. So I'm going people isn't like

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00:52:51,880 --> 00:52:59,000
Speaker 1: hotel room? Yeah? Just well, I I mean, yeah, I

876
00:52:59,080 --> 00:53:03,560
Speaker 1: don't know either. I don't wait before we go, before

877
00:53:03,600 --> 00:53:06,799
Speaker 1: we leave to uh, just because you're here, I did

878
00:53:06,920 --> 00:53:11,720
Speaker 1: want to know. I've recently shared a list of sex clubs,

879
00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:15,799
Speaker 1: um and because we're in Vegas, have either of y'all

880
00:53:16,719 --> 00:53:19,800
Speaker 1: been to the Green Door? Is that what it is

881
00:53:19,880 --> 00:53:22,080
Speaker 1: that you've never been to Green Door? I can't think

882
00:53:22,120 --> 00:53:24,800
Speaker 1: about the one that I went to, but but the

883
00:53:24,880 --> 00:53:28,160
Speaker 1: one that we went to, Madam was assaulted there. But yeah,

884
00:53:28,200 --> 00:53:31,080
Speaker 1: I saw that on Twitter. Is that out here? But

885
00:53:31,400 --> 00:53:34,080
Speaker 1: it was out here? Okay, So it was the way

886
00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:36,120
Speaker 1: that they handle it. I can't even think of the

887
00:53:36,239 --> 00:53:38,160
Speaker 1: name of it. I'm gonna find it. But the way

888
00:53:38,239 --> 00:53:41,560
Speaker 1: that they handle her being assaulted did not put it

889
00:53:41,600 --> 00:53:46,759
Speaker 1: on Twitter. I know, like more people are trying to

890
00:53:47,200 --> 00:53:52,400
Speaker 1: venture into these spaces, and I've been absolutely lucky, I know,

891
00:53:52,920 --> 00:53:55,800
Speaker 1: to experience the play parties how I have, especially in

892
00:53:55,880 --> 00:54:00,080
Speaker 1: New York UM, but I know it's different everywhere, and

893
00:54:00,280 --> 00:54:03,080
Speaker 1: so definitely want to make sure that we continue to

894
00:54:03,160 --> 00:54:08,160
Speaker 1: share the safe spaces to go to and especially especially

895
00:54:08,280 --> 00:54:11,279
Speaker 1: for us UM. And then maybe if you guys can share,

896
00:54:11,360 --> 00:54:13,680
Speaker 1: if you guys have groups, I know that there's groups

897
00:54:13,800 --> 00:54:16,160
Speaker 1: as well for people to be vetted and joined to

898
00:54:16,280 --> 00:54:19,120
Speaker 1: come to the type of parties. Yeah, we like that.

899
00:54:19,880 --> 00:54:23,640
Speaker 1: We like the vet Yeah, we just don't invite anybody.

900
00:54:23,760 --> 00:54:26,239
Speaker 1: Everybody come in, Like we gotta see what you look

901
00:54:26,320 --> 00:54:29,680
Speaker 1: like your social media and follow instructions. That's the moment.

902
00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:31,840
Speaker 1: That's the main thing. It's like if there is a

903
00:54:31,920 --> 00:54:34,319
Speaker 1: vetting form and we say feel out everything, and you'll

904
00:54:34,360 --> 00:54:37,319
Speaker 1: feel out everything. But one thing, you're not coming because

905
00:54:37,360 --> 00:54:39,960
Speaker 1: you're not following instructions. If you can't follow simple instructions,

906
00:54:40,000 --> 00:54:44,200
Speaker 1: and how can we trust you to actually abide by consent? Right,

907
00:54:44,320 --> 00:54:47,319
Speaker 1: So people don't understand that. And like with me being

908
00:54:47,520 --> 00:54:53,719
Speaker 1: a switch, right, being both dominant and submissive. Right, I'm

909
00:54:53,840 --> 00:54:56,520
Speaker 1: dominant when I have to control things when I'm like

910
00:54:57,000 --> 00:55:01,440
Speaker 1: on to host, to care of people. And then in

911
00:55:01,520 --> 00:55:04,680
Speaker 1: my personal life, like there's partners that I both dom

912
00:55:04,920 --> 00:55:08,759
Speaker 1: and sub for. It depends on the dynamic of our relationship, right,

913
00:55:09,200 --> 00:55:12,560
Speaker 1: and if I trust them with my safety because I

914
00:55:12,640 --> 00:55:15,439
Speaker 1: don't just switch for anybody, right, I'm not gonna see

915
00:55:15,480 --> 00:55:18,120
Speaker 1: that's the missive side of me unless I rushed you.

916
00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:20,399
Speaker 1: And so people are like, I know you were a kitten.

917
00:55:20,440 --> 00:55:21,880
Speaker 1: I didn't know you were a little what didn't know

918
00:55:22,040 --> 00:55:24,160
Speaker 1: you were whatever? It's like, yeah, you wouldn't know that

919
00:55:24,200 --> 00:55:26,200
Speaker 1: because you're not in that space. But you don't deserve

920
00:55:26,280 --> 00:55:28,520
Speaker 1: to see me like that. Well, y'all, we are sitting

921
00:55:28,600 --> 00:55:31,560
Speaker 1: here with a father, a unicorn, and a kidden. Yes,

922
00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:42,479
Speaker 1: how man, bless you my child with the right y'all.

923
00:55:42,560 --> 00:55:54,080
Speaker 1: This my ass, my ass was read for like you

924
00:55:54,320 --> 00:55:58,560
Speaker 1: made me lick a shoe. Bit I was at the

925
00:55:58,680 --> 00:56:02,120
Speaker 1: roots and I you made people chance. Oh you know

926
00:56:02,280 --> 00:56:04,880
Speaker 1: I ain't pussy, so I'm gonna do it. But now

927
00:56:06,800 --> 00:56:09,040
Speaker 1: I didn't go work ship to see you use a

928
00:56:09,160 --> 00:56:15,000
Speaker 1: wrong word. Now I'm not work. Mandy is so hard

929
00:56:15,080 --> 00:56:21,040
Speaker 1: with this paddle that she said sorry, it hurts so

930
00:56:21,200 --> 00:56:23,880
Speaker 1: bad for y'all week. I'm just so glad we got

931
00:56:23,960 --> 00:56:26,840
Speaker 1: to do this while in Vagas. Please please please let

932
00:56:26,920 --> 00:56:29,040
Speaker 1: all of our listeners know where they can follow you,

933
00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:31,680
Speaker 1: find you and if you have anything coming up, parties

934
00:56:31,760 --> 00:56:40,640
Speaker 1: of lessons, of classes, all the things. Yes, you can

935
00:56:40,719 --> 00:56:43,560
Speaker 1: find me on I'm at Real Glamazon Tyomi and on

936
00:56:43,640 --> 00:56:47,200
Speaker 1: Twitter where we have public discourse about sex. At Glamazon

937
00:56:47,320 --> 00:56:50,399
Speaker 1: Tommy type it in because they have me shuttle band

938
00:56:50,480 --> 00:56:55,880
Speaker 1: or something. That's just how it is exactly. And if

939
00:56:55,880 --> 00:56:57,920
Speaker 1: you're trying to learn how to ride, but also as

940
00:56:57,960 --> 00:57:00,680
Speaker 1: a woman, feel better about your body and like just

941
00:57:00,880 --> 00:57:04,120
Speaker 1: more embodied. Look how Girl Workout dot com. We are

942
00:57:04,200 --> 00:57:06,120
Speaker 1: online you can work out from the comfort of your

943
00:57:06,160 --> 00:57:11,359
Speaker 1: own home and it's I about a five version y'all.

944
00:57:11,560 --> 00:57:14,600
Speaker 1: So I have people with like disabilities who are also

945
00:57:14,680 --> 00:57:17,320
Speaker 1: in my tribe, and I make sure that as people

946
00:57:17,360 --> 00:57:20,280
Speaker 1: come into my containers that I accommodate them as much

947
00:57:20,320 --> 00:57:22,560
Speaker 1: as possible. To have been working on like new methods

948
00:57:22,640 --> 00:57:24,640
Speaker 1: just to make sure everybody feels like they can keep

949
00:57:24,760 --> 00:57:27,960
Speaker 1: up at their own pace. And I'm launching the Pleasure

950
00:57:28,000 --> 00:57:33,000
Speaker 1: Academy dot com, which is my teaching platform and um

951
00:57:33,080 --> 00:57:35,800
Speaker 1: I will be touring with the Exotica Expo all year

952
00:57:35,880 --> 00:57:38,480
Speaker 1: again residents sex person and our coordinator. So if you

953
00:57:38,560 --> 00:57:40,360
Speaker 1: are an educator and you're listening to the show and

954
00:57:40,440 --> 00:57:44,040
Speaker 1: you want to be considered to teach. Go to Exotical

955
00:57:44,080 --> 00:57:46,480
Speaker 1: Expo dot com. Fill out our form. I will have

956
00:57:46,600 --> 00:57:49,280
Speaker 1: to approve you. Yeah, please fill it out, Come and

957
00:57:49,400 --> 00:57:55,040
Speaker 1: join us at the expo. Four shows, y'all you can teach.

958
00:57:55,080 --> 00:57:56,800
Speaker 1: That's a lot you can see. But we can do

959
00:57:56,920 --> 00:57:58,800
Speaker 1: four shows every year. So go to our west. We

960
00:57:58,920 --> 00:58:01,840
Speaker 1: do need a live showing and come through like, yeah,

961
00:58:01,920 --> 00:58:04,160
Speaker 1: let's do that. We got we we're gonna we're gonna

962
00:58:04,160 --> 00:58:07,720
Speaker 1: put that into the university year. Yes, we're gonna get

963
00:58:07,720 --> 00:58:11,840
Speaker 1: it out. They can and you can find me um

964
00:58:12,000 --> 00:58:16,480
Speaker 1: on Instagram and Naked Underscore, un Unicorn underscoreing. All of

965
00:58:16,600 --> 00:58:24,120
Speaker 1: my links are there. I'm shadow Yeah, yeah, because I'm

966
00:58:24,200 --> 00:58:29,760
Speaker 1: I'm shadow band on everything as well. All right, everybody

967
00:58:30,720 --> 00:58:33,680
Speaker 1: where they can follow you, find you and get into

968
00:58:33,840 --> 00:58:43,880
Speaker 1: you that literally but maybe my hand, yes, my child.

969
00:58:47,800 --> 00:58:51,160
Speaker 1: You can find an Instagram at Real Daddy Health, Twitter,

970
00:58:51,360 --> 00:58:55,240
Speaker 1: Daddy Underscore health um if you want to. Also, we

971
00:58:55,320 --> 00:58:58,800
Speaker 1: got the health lifestyle community that's gonna be coming soon

972
00:58:58,920 --> 00:59:00,680
Speaker 1: as a page of script. You know what's gonna have

973
00:59:01,360 --> 00:59:05,560
Speaker 1: exclusive content. All things have lifestyle. Are y'all all in

974
00:59:05,720 --> 00:59:09,800
Speaker 1: Chicago or I'm in Chicago. He's in Charlotte. I was.

975
00:59:10,560 --> 00:59:13,720
Speaker 1: Now I'm here, so everybody from all over we are

976
00:59:13,840 --> 00:59:16,920
Speaker 1: all in Vegas and guys, before we get out of here,

977
00:59:17,120 --> 00:59:19,760
Speaker 1: y'all have heard us say it. We're gonna say it again.

978
00:59:20,240 --> 00:59:23,320
Speaker 1: We want our London things. Y'all gotta come out and

979
00:59:23,360 --> 00:59:27,480
Speaker 1: see us. All right, Valentine's Day, we are in London.

980
00:59:27,560 --> 00:59:29,680
Speaker 1: Make sure you get your tickets. Left we are at

981
00:59:29,720 --> 00:59:32,520
Speaker 1: the Clapham Graham. We're so excited. We got the game coming.

982
00:59:32,640 --> 00:59:35,640
Speaker 1: Vine's coming, you'll get to meet him, and we are

983
00:59:35,720 --> 00:59:39,920
Speaker 1: bringing our entire production to London. This is not going

984
00:59:39,960 --> 00:59:42,400
Speaker 1: to be something that you maybe haven't seen on Instagram.

985
00:59:42,480 --> 00:59:44,600
Speaker 1: This is just like our real show that we've been

986
00:59:44,600 --> 00:59:46,480
Speaker 1: doing for years. So we're so excited to bring it

987
00:59:46,560 --> 00:59:50,040
Speaker 1: to get ready to go across the water. We have

988
00:59:50,200 --> 00:59:53,600
Speaker 1: been international, which we did Toronto, well in Mexico and

989
00:59:53,680 --> 00:59:56,000
Speaker 1: Toomazao we did. We did when it was that was

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Speaker 1: we didn't make Oh we did, but not a listen

991
01:00:00,600 --> 01:00:03,680
Speaker 1: as someone who has the multiple shows in London, Flex

992
01:00:06,440 --> 01:00:10,400
Speaker 1: decided they know has fun. Make sure you get your tickets.

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Speaker 1: It's s W A C e n T dot shoots,

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Speaker 1: that's s h O O b S dot com. Get

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Speaker 1: your tickets now and bring your man your side, chick

996
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Speaker 1: your side, nigger whoever. We don't have a single lady section.

997
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Speaker 1: And if you have the nerve to bring a couple,

998
01:00:29,600 --> 01:00:32,640
Speaker 1: as I am a single bit, I'm I'm basically Sweezy

999
01:00:32,720 --> 01:00:35,000
Speaker 1: is gonna join you all for sex right after. Guys,

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Speaker 1: thank y'all for tuning in to get another episode of

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Speaker 1: Horrible Decisions.