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Speaker 2: It's your girl Lis period any sugarls dry in a

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Speaker 1: Are tuned in to another episode of Poor Mind where

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Speaker 1: a drunk Mine speaks sober no I sould y'all, were

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Speaker 1: coming with the guests now playing with us. We got

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Speaker 1: light skinned Keisha end up building.

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Speaker 3: Today song.

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Speaker 2: I know the girls know who you are. Everybody know

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Speaker 2: who you are, but what people who don't know? Just

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Speaker 2: introduce us and tell us about yourself. I am a

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Speaker 2: light skined Keisha, a k A b bab Bysha and yeah, I.

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Speaker 1: Got to say that's all you got to say.

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Speaker 2: The listeners on the show know that. Like, I'm really

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Speaker 2: excited right now because we always have the Bapa the Week.

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Speaker 2: Were gonna talk about that later, but I have made

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Speaker 2: your song Boba the week that fucked.

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Speaker 1: A few weeks ago. Jam I was like, we got.

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Speaker 2: Our first live show come up, so I've already been

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Speaker 2: practicing my dance moves.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna walk out to that hole. You know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying. I've seen you with the barking and how

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Speaker 1: you was moving. I was like, I ain't got a

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Speaker 1: barking yet, but I'm a I don't forget some.

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Speaker 4: Of them dance.

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Speaker 1: I said, you know, I'm gonna be represented. So what's up?

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Speaker 1: What you went up to? What's going on?

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Speaker 2: I've just been working a lot. Actually, I'm working go

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Speaker 2: on my new project that I'm about to drop. Actually

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Speaker 2: I'm working on two different projects. So yeah, I'm about

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Speaker 2: to drop two different projects up towards the end of

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Speaker 2: the year, new singles coming out. A new season of

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Speaker 2: Ghosts is about to premiere in November. Oh congratulations, because

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Speaker 2: you did your things. Thank you. I'm ready to see

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Speaker 2: the next season. I'm excited to I mean, I have

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Speaker 1: It's about to blow your minds. So what's been up since?

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Speaker 1: What you've been up to?

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Speaker 2: Girl?

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Speaker 1: Nothing? No same working. You know.

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Speaker 2: We just got back from Jacksonville. Jessica was lately had

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Speaker 2: a house standing Jacksonville this past weekend, so I mean

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Speaker 2: that was cool. But yeah, we've been We've been moving

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Speaker 2: around a lot. We've been traveling alone. We have been

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Speaker 2: I feel like I'm We're gonna be here.

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Speaker 4: We do.

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Speaker 2: We got a little break for the next few weeks,

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Speaker 2: so I'm excited about th to just be backing running.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, I feel like I'm about to go see

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Speaker 2: mister Cobbo next week, so it's gonna be turned up.

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Speaker 1: You are you know I love mister Cobo Bee.

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Speaker 4: Are y'all going somewhere?

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Speaker 1: Are you just going? I don't know, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I just gotta see. We gotta figure out what time

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Speaker 2: he on. You know when the bd B jumps, you say,

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Speaker 2: how hot?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 2: You know? You know?

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Speaker 1: So we have a BDB, a big, big ball. We're

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Speaker 1: gonna get into that left because you lokey got you

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Speaker 1: want to girl off the game every day forgets, show

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Speaker 1: some jewelry everything.

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Speaker 2: So we're gonna know how to get into these topics.

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Speaker 2: So you are relationship we are very much not. So

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Speaker 2: the first time we want to talk about today it's

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Speaker 2: holding somebody down and fighting for your relationship is leaving

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Speaker 2: because I'm a leave I can't as soon as a

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Speaker 2: nigga Like I text a nigga, he don't text me

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Speaker 2: back in three minutes.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, you know what, I'm posting Instagram posts.

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Speaker 2: You know what.

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Speaker 1: I'm a real bitch.

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Speaker 4: I know.

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Speaker 2: See, that's why why we need you.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So what y'all want to know, So are you

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Speaker 1: a whole hold him down? I'm not leaving. We're gonna

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Speaker 2: Well. When you say hold him down, like, what do

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Speaker 2: you mean? Because like what like hold down?

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Speaker 1: What like hold down the relationship?

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Speaker 4: You like?

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Speaker 2: Sometimes sometimes you know, men aren't perfect. They might slide

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Speaker 2: like it's so many bitches, especially in Atlanta.

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Speaker 1: We live in Atlanta. We know how it is here.

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Speaker 2: So I just feel like, if a nigga's not doing,

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Speaker 2: it's like, okay, you're giving your time to somebody else. Essentially,

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Speaker 2: therefore you have to hold yourself accountable for what type

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Speaker 2: of guys you're going for, because if you're thinking already

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Speaker 1: Else that that's not the one for you, all right,

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Speaker 1: But what's your end goals?

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Speaker 2: Like? What do y'all want to be? Do you guys

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Speaker 2: want to be somebody's wife? What do you want to be? Yes?

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Speaker 1: See, we talk about that all the time on the show.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes I don't really know if I necessarily want to

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Speaker 1: get married. Do you want to have kids? I do

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Speaker 1: my question, why do you want to have kids? I

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Speaker 1: got too much shit to do. But okay, so you

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Speaker 1: don't want to have kids.

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Speaker 5: You a different story, But you you want.

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Speaker 1: To go kids, but you don't know if you want

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Speaker 2: So that means that you're already gonna be You're planning

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Speaker 2: to already bring this chatter to and have a dempity

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Speaker 1: I just sometimes I don't really have a lot of faith.

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Speaker 2: But you have the right person to have the baby.

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Speaker 2: I do think I have to find the right person

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Speaker 2: so I would completely be okay with having to take

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Speaker 1: I don't think that's okay. I don't think it's okay either,

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Speaker 2: I just feel like that's how most of these niggas are.

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Speaker 2: I know, those are the niggas that you going after.

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Speaker 2: You got to find somebody. Discord to me, I don't

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Speaker 1: Trying to not necessarily go after.

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Speaker 2: But I'm saying, like these obviously, if you're giving your

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Speaker 2: I'm saying, the type of man that we're giving our

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Speaker 1: But I don't think I think I want me personally.

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Speaker 2: I want marriage to be a thing again, you know,

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Speaker 2: I want women to feel like they should be able

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Speaker 1: Why not, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: And I want it to be a thing again too.

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Speaker 2: I talk about it all. Y'all want to show how

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Speaker 2: I grew up in a two parent household. My parents

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Speaker 2: don't marry my whole life. But I just feel like

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Speaker 1: No more.

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Speaker 2: They really don't, I feel you, But there are some

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Speaker 2: dudes out there that's built like that, and it just

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Speaker 2: it's gonna take time.

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Speaker 1: But you want what time is kind of ticking?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 1: It is? What's up?

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Speaker 4: Y'all?

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Speaker 2: and we ain't sitting with follies now more.

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Speaker 1: We don't upgrade it. It's a busy you know what

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Speaker 2: So what you're gonna do is you're gonna go to

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Speaker 2: I guess I just feel like it just be crazy

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Speaker 2: I have to look forward to? Like?

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Speaker 1: So, don't I ask you something? Do you think that

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Speaker 1: all men cheat?

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Speaker 3: I do?

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Speaker 1: We both do. I We're tainted. Yeah, this is counseling.

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Speaker 1: We are all men don't cheat. All men don't cheat. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I would say this, I've been in situation. Do you

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Speaker 2: Because that's what I mean so this is what I say, Like,

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Speaker 2: this is what I'm gonna say when you find like, Okay,

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Speaker 2: So do I feel like all men have cheated probably

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Speaker 2: I can't speak for all men and all rightships. I

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Speaker 2: But I will say this, like the relationship that I'm

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Speaker 2: in now, our problems.

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Speaker 1: Are not infidelity you are.

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Speaker 2: It's not about all who your who dms you in

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Speaker 2: and who's in your dms and da da da.

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Speaker 1: We don't have those problems.

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Speaker 2: Our problems is you were supposed to upload that content

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Speaker 2: or we were supposed to get work, like you know

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Speaker 2: what I'm saying, that's our problems. But that's because we

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Speaker 2: get to know these guys that they're trying to pursue either,

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Speaker 2: So it's both on both ends, Like nobody's trying to

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Speaker 2: really get to know each other. Everybody just kind of

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Speaker 2: dating people for what they see and what they got.

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Speaker 2: Like me and my boyfriend, we were best friends and

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Speaker 2: honestly we didn't even like each other, like never.

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Speaker 1: Even friends before y'all started dating.

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Speaker 2: We've probably been friends maybe like seven years or so

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Speaker 2: seven to eight hours.

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Speaker 2: Got through it was a deal though, it wouldn't have repay.

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Speaker 1: Like, that's what you bring to the relationship. You're a

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Speaker 2: There's more to being a woman than that, And I

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Speaker 1: Do you think that a man should pay all your bills?

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Speaker 1: If you are living together? Are we not together and

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Speaker 2: I think that he should be taking care of like

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Speaker 2: But you're gonna set yourself up to get kicked out?

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Speaker 2: Even the main the basic factors are cooking, clean and

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Speaker 2: But I'm saying, but no, no, no, I'm not saying

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Speaker 2: But no, I said, he's supposed to pay like because honestly,

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Speaker 2: If I'm buying groceries two hundred, threehundred dollars a week,

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Speaker 2: But that ship is gonna be taken care of because

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Speaker 1: I do agree with that. Don't care what stay on this.

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Speaker 2: Then you got girls and claiming, oh yeah I could

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Speaker 2: got clean. You don't clean ship. Your room is dirty

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Speaker 2: because I was like, if you don't keep your house clean,

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Speaker 2: It was a lot of people that responded to my

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Speaker 2: We do what we work for our household. But what

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Speaker 2: well if I give him the responsibility of doing this, Well,

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Speaker 2: Sometimes you gotta take some type of like ownership and

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Speaker 2: And that's why I always say, we always like everyone

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Speaker 1: Somebody they feel like they have to take care I

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Speaker 2: To be with.

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Speaker 2: I'm just I'm no, I'm not slugging you. You give me,

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Speaker 2: Take the efforts to actually put into the Ain't nobody

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Speaker 2: or expect things from the situation, But what are you

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Speaker 1: Why we deserve the thing? Are you? That's what you're evil? Like?

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Speaker 2: So I feel like if you're dating somebody that does

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Speaker 2: and we can talk and that can be peaceful. Like

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00:17:48,800 --> 00:17:50,720
Speaker 2: if I've been recording all day and I've been doing

443
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Speaker 2: this and that, I don't want to come home and

444
00:17:52,160 --> 00:17:54,280
Speaker 2: be like entertaining you, you know what I'm saying. So

445
00:17:54,359 --> 00:17:57,439
Speaker 2: having somebody there that can talk to you, that means

446
00:17:57,840 --> 00:17:59,600
Speaker 2: more to me than anything.

447
00:17:59,680 --> 00:18:04,920
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, So I feel like I'm a runner.

448
00:18:04,920 --> 00:18:08,439
Speaker 2: I'm a track stall because I do feel like I

449
00:18:08,520 --> 00:18:09,639
Speaker 2: bring a lot to the table.

450
00:18:09,720 --> 00:18:11,280
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm a damn good friend.

451
00:18:11,280 --> 00:18:12,920
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm a damn good girl because I've

452
00:18:12,920 --> 00:18:16,479
Speaker 2: been in relationships before, long term relationships. It's always like

453
00:18:16,800 --> 00:18:19,000
Speaker 2: they fuck up, they do something. So now I feel

454
00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:21,960
Speaker 2: like my guard is super up. So anytime a nigga

455
00:18:22,000 --> 00:18:26,880
Speaker 2: does anything, I'm about to do well. But I want

456
00:18:26,920 --> 00:18:31,240
Speaker 2: you to lower that the ball the wall because it's

457
00:18:31,280 --> 00:18:33,960
Speaker 2: like this. I've seen a video the other day that

458
00:18:34,119 --> 00:18:37,320
Speaker 2: was basically talking about like whatever you hurt and it

459
00:18:37,359 --> 00:18:39,639
Speaker 2: don't even matter, like even if it's just relationships like

460
00:18:39,760 --> 00:18:42,119
Speaker 2: shit that you went through, like you know, friendship stuff

461
00:18:42,160 --> 00:18:45,760
Speaker 2: like whatever whatever you hurt from, you got to be

462
00:18:45,760 --> 00:18:49,040
Speaker 2: able to let that go because until you let it go,

463
00:18:49,119 --> 00:18:50,000
Speaker 2: you're gonna be stuck in.

464
00:18:49,920 --> 00:18:50,720
Speaker 1: That moment that hurts you.

465
00:18:50,760 --> 00:18:53,480
Speaker 2: For him, yeah, and see but that you're gonna continue

466
00:18:53,520 --> 00:18:55,600
Speaker 2: to act like that with every single man because you

467
00:18:55,640 --> 00:18:57,840
Speaker 2: feel like, oh, I done went through this with one nigga.

468
00:18:57,920 --> 00:18:59,520
Speaker 2: I done went through this with the next nigga. He

469
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Speaker 2: so the nigga guess what he gonna get it for

470
00:19:01,400 --> 00:19:02,560
Speaker 2: all the niggas that they did.

471
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Speaker 1: Something because you can't get you get your because you

472
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Speaker 1: what if you missed on your blessing? I know Jesus.

473
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Speaker 1: And not only that, but we got to be more

474
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Speaker 1: feminine too, you know what.

475
00:19:19,920 --> 00:19:22,199
Speaker 2: And I actually talked about this on the episode last night.

476
00:19:22,200 --> 00:19:24,600
Speaker 2: It's crazy because I always say this on the show.

477
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Speaker 1: I'm very like, but.

478
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Speaker 2: When when my men, I'm like, very much, Okay, you don't.

479
00:19:34,000 --> 00:19:41,359
Speaker 1: Exactly is this? I love it. It's amazing, like to

480
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Speaker 1: let a man be a man.

481
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Speaker 2: And I do feel like I show my personality a lot,

482
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Speaker 2: but That's why I'm glad that you said that, because

483
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Speaker 2: I feel like we kind of have similar personalities.

484
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Speaker 1: Like people think, oh she loud, she she.

485
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Speaker 2: Did, she don't know how to cater to her men,

486
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487
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488
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490
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Speaker 2: so but see, and I think that's the same reason

516
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Speaker 2: why we be just so ready to go, because we'll

517
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Speaker 2: be feeling like, okay, well I got all of these

518
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Speaker 2: going on.

519
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Speaker 1: What do I need to stick around with you for?

520
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Speaker 1: I don't want to dial on. I don't neither.

521
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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, you know, and you know

522
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Speaker 2: what's gotta also think about our parents too, Like our

523
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Speaker 2: parents if they was married or you know what I'm saying,

524
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Speaker 2: Your parents was married or you know what I'm saying,

525
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Speaker 2: it was their relationships and something can imagine how like

526
00:21:42,800 --> 00:21:44,800
Speaker 2: back in the days, like the women was holding the

527
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Speaker 2: Kniggs down for sure, like they was submissive that they

528
00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:52,360
Speaker 2: get them for real. Them the holes had four jobs?

529
00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:55,159
Speaker 2: What you mean got the niggas had four families?

530
00:21:55,240 --> 00:22:00,720
Speaker 1: Why I don't want family? He had a backby with

531
00:22:00,800 --> 00:22:07,720
Speaker 1: Darlene down on the street. Niggas was living across the street.

532
00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:09,320
Speaker 1: We are ruined families.

533
00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:13,720
Speaker 2: We are ruined looking across the street like that nigga looked.

534
00:22:13,480 --> 00:22:14,880
Speaker 3: Like because.

535
00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:22,000
Speaker 1: Daddy bitch, No, it did hold men down.

536
00:22:22,280 --> 00:22:24,639
Speaker 2: Was different era, of course, because they didn't have media

537
00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:26,159
Speaker 2: and that they just had to do what they had

538
00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:28,440
Speaker 2: to do right. But you have to also think about

539
00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:31,359
Speaker 2: I'll be thinking about, like how did those relationships last though?

540
00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:33,040
Speaker 1: And they had to be like you know what I'm

541
00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:35,200
Speaker 1: saying with some subsidiariy, some power, some street there.

542
00:22:35,359 --> 00:22:37,720
Speaker 2: But I also feel like because I actually saw a

543
00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:39,679
Speaker 2: cult the other day and I can't remember where I

544
00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:41,600
Speaker 2: found it at, but it actually said like a lot

545
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Speaker 2: of people stay married because it wasn't about love, It

546
00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:46,040
Speaker 2: was because that person had their back.

547
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Speaker 4: Yeah.

548
00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:49,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like something like this.

549
00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:51,080
Speaker 2: It has to be more than love, because there's been

550
00:22:51,119 --> 00:22:53,719
Speaker 2: plenty of times we do that when I won't take

551
00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:55,800
Speaker 2: plenty because I feel like I've been in love one

552
00:22:55,880 --> 00:22:58,360
Speaker 2: time and it was just like I loved him so much.

553
00:22:58,400 --> 00:23:01,040
Speaker 2: But I believe you know what I'm saying, But I

554
00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:04,680
Speaker 2: never really felt like somebody had my back.

555
00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:06,960
Speaker 1: See, and that's a different story. Yeah, for sure.

556
00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:08,800
Speaker 2: Definitely you're gonna hold it down for a mother who

557
00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:11,000
Speaker 2: you feel like you can't like you if you know,

558
00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:13,199
Speaker 2: like I know, like as far as when they come

559
00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:15,400
Speaker 2: to my boyfriend, like I just know, like, ain't no

560
00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:17,760
Speaker 2: nigga out here ever gonna do the ship that he

561
00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:19,040
Speaker 2: does for me or ever hold me.

562
00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:21,040
Speaker 1: Down and have my door way that he do.

563
00:23:21,440 --> 00:23:24,080
Speaker 2: So that is gonna be a factor that I'm gonna

564
00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:25,639
Speaker 2: take it to, you know what I'm saying. Right for

565
00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:28,680
Speaker 2: my relationship to like fight for my related relationships ain't

566
00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:33,200
Speaker 2: easy there. You know, the marriage is on a whole

567
00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:35,440
Speaker 2: other level that shit is scared to think about sometimes.

568
00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:37,280
Speaker 2: But at the end of the day, though, like do

569
00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:40,040
Speaker 2: I deserve to be somebody's wife, abs fucolutely.

570
00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:41,800
Speaker 1: I want my kids because I didn't grow up in

571
00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:44,000
Speaker 1: that type of home where I had dad and mom.

572
00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:46,320
Speaker 1: I only had mamma, you know what I'm saying.

573
00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:49,679
Speaker 2: So I want my kids to have what I didn't have, right,

574
00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:51,800
Speaker 2: I want them to see their daddy living on their

575
00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:52,960
Speaker 2: mom and the MoMA living on their day.

576
00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:55,120
Speaker 1: Like damn, y'all just can't stay away from each other.

577
00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:58,560
Speaker 2: Like yeah, like you know what I'm saying, Like they know, like, well, yeah,

578
00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:00,320
Speaker 2: mom and dad, they didn't went out on their you

579
00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:02,399
Speaker 2: know how they do? You know what I'm saying. Weekly

580
00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:05,000
Speaker 2: they look weekly date night, they know they come back

581
00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:05,440
Speaker 2: they drunk.

582
00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:06,639
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, we gotta put them in

583
00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:09,440
Speaker 1: the bed. Like I'm on that type of you know, but.

584
00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:11,119
Speaker 2: You know, I'm not gonna lie, Like I feel like

585
00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:12,560
Speaker 2: a lot of stuff that I've been through to a

586
00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:15,199
Speaker 2: lot of people make me feel like the things that

587
00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:18,359
Speaker 2: I expect is like a fantasy. Like you can be

588
00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:20,600
Speaker 2: a title to your fantasy. You can have your fantasy.

589
00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:23,000
Speaker 2: Any girl out there that want that fairy tale, you

590
00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:24,919
Speaker 2: can have that. Don't let nobody tell you that you

591
00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:27,160
Speaker 2: can't have that ship just because the bar is set

592
00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:30,480
Speaker 2: low for them, you know, Like hell no, like just

593
00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:32,760
Speaker 2: because you think that every No, Like I believe in

594
00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:34,840
Speaker 2: that if you want your fantasy, you want your fairy tale,

595
00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:36,119
Speaker 2: it can happen, you know.

596
00:24:36,119 --> 00:24:36,600
Speaker 1: What I'm saying.

597
00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:39,120
Speaker 2: Actually, had commented under one of our videos the other day.

598
00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:41,240
Speaker 2: Instead I was delusional.

599
00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:47,520
Speaker 1: Delusional and because what I want isn't attainable for you exactly.

600
00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:48,840
Speaker 1: That's how I feel about it.

601
00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:53,240
Speaker 2: Because you don't once is makes them delusional just because

602
00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:55,679
Speaker 2: you feel like you can't get it exactly. And you

603
00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:59,280
Speaker 2: know what, people people insecurities jump out their own insecurities

604
00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:02,560
Speaker 2: off on because you might be holding yourself with confidence,

605
00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:04,280
Speaker 2: like you just know that, Okay, yeah, I get a

606
00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:06,399
Speaker 2: nigga with this, and I'll get my my dream nigga,

607
00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:08,280
Speaker 2: like you can have it or I'll give my dream

608
00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:10,560
Speaker 2: job or whatever the case may be, like with anything

609
00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:12,600
Speaker 2: in life, Like I can't stand people who want to

610
00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:15,919
Speaker 2: project their insecurities outside because they can't get it. You

611
00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:18,040
Speaker 2: can get it, but the way that we get it

612
00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:19,679
Speaker 2: is just differently, Like it's just different.

613
00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:21,320
Speaker 1: We spend our hours different.

614
00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:25,200
Speaker 2: So so you you gonna hold a nigga down, you're

615
00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:27,560
Speaker 2: not gonna leave. I mean, it just depends on what

616
00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:32,359
Speaker 2: he's doing. Yeah, because I always said I'm not gonna lie.

617
00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:32,960
Speaker 1: I have said this.

618
00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:36,160
Speaker 2: Cheating is not a deal breaker for me. Like it's

619
00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:38,640
Speaker 2: a difference between like fucking on the whole one time

620
00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:41,760
Speaker 2: versus you develop a relationship with her. So like if

621
00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:44,120
Speaker 2: you fucking whole one time. I'm not gonna lie. That's

622
00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:46,840
Speaker 2: not a deal breaker for me. I will admit that. So, like,

623
00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:48,720
Speaker 2: what are deal breakers for you? Like when are you

624
00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:54,640
Speaker 2: leaving cheating period? I'm not going okay or or abusiveness,

625
00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:55,240
Speaker 2: I'm not young.

626
00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:57,879
Speaker 1: I'm with that. I'm not going because.

627
00:25:57,600 --> 00:25:58,879
Speaker 2: At the end of the day, I can deal with

628
00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:00,879
Speaker 2: so much other ship. I'm probably dealt with so much

629
00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:03,239
Speaker 2: shit from your ass already. So right the fact I

630
00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 2: just I don't know. I'm a virgo, So therefore I

631
00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:10,000
Speaker 2: think very deep. If you on me, I'm just gonna

632
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 2: it's just gonna keep it going in my head.

633
00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:13,720
Speaker 1: Like so when you was kissing on.

634
00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 2: This like I'm I'm gonna be ready, I'm gonna be

635
00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:18,840
Speaker 2: like and so you pulled your pants down and you

636
00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:21,800
Speaker 2: had a no one but see, like what she did

637
00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:23,800
Speaker 2: not necessarily a deal break up for me. But I

638
00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:26,600
Speaker 2: feel like it's like I'll forgive you if I find

639
00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:28,199
Speaker 2: out you did it, but then if I found out

640
00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:31,480
Speaker 2: you did it again, the one you're building a relationship

641
00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:37,280
Speaker 2: like this, Yeah, right, you don't get It's like level,

642
00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:39,360
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie, Like if you like, we don't

643
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:41,439
Speaker 2: all have to night whatever, something might happen. But if

644
00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:44,400
Speaker 2: it's like continuous and you out here embarrassing me, you're

645
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:47,239
Speaker 2: paying bitches bills, you flying holes out like, that's a

646
00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:49,160
Speaker 2: whole other tng. You feel like it's about what they

647
00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:52,119
Speaker 2: do when they cheating, Yeah, because it's levels.

648
00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:53,480
Speaker 1: It's levels like something.

649
00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:55,359
Speaker 2: I just feel like niggas gonna be having no respect.

650
00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:57,080
Speaker 2: Like I like how we just talked about back in

651
00:26:57,119 --> 00:26:59,639
Speaker 2: the day with our grandparents and our parents them niggas

652
00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:01,840
Speaker 2: was cheating too, but I just feel like it was

653
00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:04,720
Speaker 2: a certain level of respect. Say with the cheating these days,

654
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:05,840
Speaker 2: niggas just be moving.

655
00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:08,320
Speaker 1: Sloppy, right, sloppy, And I will.

656
00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:10,919
Speaker 2: Say living he cheating on you with will be in

657
00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:17,240
Speaker 2: your ar. I'm not trying to go to jail trying

658
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:20,440
Speaker 2: to fight in out listen because I am fucking crazy.

659
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Speaker 1: So there, I just be like very like yay way.

660
00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:26,360
Speaker 2: But I would say that we see that a lot,

661
00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:27,480
Speaker 2: especially in Atlanta.

662
00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:29,080
Speaker 1: Women will deal.

663
00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:31,280
Speaker 2: With so much stuff that they feel like, oh I

664
00:27:31,280 --> 00:27:34,040
Speaker 2: got a bag, I got a shoes because they ain't

665
00:27:34,040 --> 00:27:38,520
Speaker 2: got no money. Let's that's why I say about the

666
00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:40,919
Speaker 2: bags and the shoes. It's also about like if I

667
00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:43,439
Speaker 2: leave this nigga, I can't pay my rig y M.

668
00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:44,920
Speaker 1: Sucks for you.

669
00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:51,200
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna try to open up my heart.

670
00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:56,960
Speaker 1: And bring my wall down and give niggas a chance,

671
00:27:57,720 --> 00:28:00,280
Speaker 1: the right niggas, the right niggas. I see that, and

672
00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:01,919
Speaker 1: that's where I funk up. And I don't know who right,

673
00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:04,400
Speaker 1: who wrong? I start smoking on the whole.

674
00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:08,360
Speaker 2: Right.

675
00:28:09,080 --> 00:28:11,360
Speaker 3: You know what, I don't know.

676
00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:14,160
Speaker 1: I don't be knowing, but I think that I do.

677
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:16,560
Speaker 2: I feel like as I'm older, as I get older,

678
00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:19,040
Speaker 2: I kind of like I know exactly what I want,

679
00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:20,680
Speaker 2: you know, I know what I want. I feel like

680
00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:22,639
Speaker 2: when I was younger, I was kind of like, I

681
00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:24,159
Speaker 2: think I want this, I think I want that. Oh

682
00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:25,600
Speaker 2: he has to have this. Oh no, I'll take care

683
00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:27,320
Speaker 2: of that. But now it's like I know exactly how

684
00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:30,280
Speaker 2: I want my relationship to look. Yeah, So I feel

685
00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:32,639
Speaker 2: like if I'm open and honest with that at the

686
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:35,360
Speaker 2: beginning of like situations when I deal with men, it's

687
00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:37,960
Speaker 2: just like, you know, I can wait about yeah, but

688
00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:41,080
Speaker 2: I gotta stop running. I gotta if you you got

689
00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:43,080
Speaker 2: to stop running if you know what you want, and

690
00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:47,400
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, giving people need to give

691
00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:48,520
Speaker 2: people a chance to girl.

692
00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:51,040
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie to you. I be agreed, I'll

693
00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:55,720
Speaker 1: be out. I have that don't work neither.

694
00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 2: Okay, I been stop doing that a long time ago

695
00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:02,760
Speaker 2: because I feel like women are who emotional, you know

696
00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:04,840
Speaker 2: what I mean? And then it's like it ain't no

697
00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:07,840
Speaker 2: thinking is domestic violence. So if y'all get into y'all

698
00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:10,600
Speaker 2: are really gonna be each other? Like Liz though it

699
00:29:10,720 --> 00:29:13,400
Speaker 2: still lives because we're cool with somebody who is a Lisabian.

700
00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:15,120
Speaker 2: Then she be talking about how like her and her

701
00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:18,160
Speaker 2: girlfriend be fighting. But I still feel like this domestic violey.

702
00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:20,160
Speaker 2: It's like if you want a relationship with somebody and

703
00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:21,800
Speaker 2: they putting their hands on you, bitch, why is she

704
00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:22,200
Speaker 2: trying to.

705
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:26,240
Speaker 1: Beat my ass? Y'all know we was in love. We

706
00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 1: supposed to be in love. We're supposed to be.

707
00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:34,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, so that's what that's what we're gonna say. We're

708
00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:41,600
Speaker 2: gonna try. Let's just try. Let's just try that, just try.

709
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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all?

710
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Speaker 2: Is your girl likex Peak and it's your girl dre

711
00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:47,200
Speaker 2: in the call and y'all know it's about to get

712
00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:48,680
Speaker 2: you know, it's full time.

713
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Speaker 1: It's fun, you know what I'm saying. So you know,

714
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Speaker 1: friends giving coming up there and friends give it time

715
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Speaker 1: to eat all the pumpkin punking calls it funking. Don't

716
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Speaker 1: know help road all that stuff, my tonking turkey.

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719
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721
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724
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726
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Speaker 1: You know, I love a good starts. I had a

727
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Speaker 1: little jazz been right, the little green beans. I said good.

728
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Speaker 1: I said, hold on, wait a minute, you thought you

729
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Speaker 1: was at Bennie hamas I did.

730
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Speaker 3: I thought I was.

731
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Speaker 1: At Bennie Hanhun.

732
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733
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735
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736
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Speaker 2: little friends giving, you wanna have a little day over.

738
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Speaker 2: The miss is about to change y'all supposed to be

739
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Speaker 2: making y'all little chilly and all that stuff. So go

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Speaker 2: to Hello friends dot com, backslash poor Mine's fourteen, and

741
00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:04,400
Speaker 2: get your cook on try.

742
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:07,640
Speaker 1: So let's get into this other topic real real quick.

743
00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:10,600
Speaker 2: Now, you talked about you and your man was friends

744
00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:13,560
Speaker 2: for a long time before y'all started dating. So the

745
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:16,560
Speaker 2: next topic is are men better friends than women?

746
00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:22,440
Speaker 1: Do you have more god friends than you do female friends? Absolutely,

747
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:25,040
Speaker 1: you think men are better friends than women. This is

748
00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 1: what you're not gonna say that. I'm not gonna listen.

749
00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:29,920
Speaker 1: This is what I'm say, not two against one, but listen,

750
00:31:29,960 --> 00:31:30,960
Speaker 1: this is what I'm gonna say.

751
00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:33,640
Speaker 2: Like, like again, like my boyfriend he my best friend,

752
00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:35,680
Speaker 2: and then all of my real like best friends they're

753
00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:36,400
Speaker 2: all gay males.

754
00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:39,200
Speaker 1: Literally, like my closest friends are gay males.

755
00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:41,720
Speaker 2: So it's like the thing about it is like I'm

756
00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:43,600
Speaker 2: not gonna say that they're just like better friends. But

757
00:31:44,320 --> 00:31:47,560
Speaker 2: it's just this shit with females, Like females are too

758
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:52,200
Speaker 2: fucking like Caddy jealous, envious, they're weird. Like then next

759
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:53,520
Speaker 2: thing you know, they might try to talk to your

760
00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:54,680
Speaker 2: nigga after y'all fall out.

761
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:56,520
Speaker 1: They want to tell out your business and shit, I

762
00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:58,239
Speaker 1: don't have time for that because I will hurt you.

763
00:31:58,360 --> 00:31:59,560
Speaker 2: But like you know what I mean, I don't want

764
00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:01,160
Speaker 2: to I don't want to do that, and not only

765
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:04,040
Speaker 2: that with me, like any girl that I considered as

766
00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:05,720
Speaker 2: my friend, like you was my fucking dog.

767
00:32:05,840 --> 00:32:07,000
Speaker 1: So I will fight for you.

768
00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:08,760
Speaker 2: I would go to fucking work, but if you done

769
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:10,960
Speaker 2: get some old flaw ass shit, I will never be

770
00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:13,360
Speaker 2: able to respect you again. It's like that's why I'm

771
00:32:13,440 --> 00:32:14,960
Speaker 2: like a lot of girls. Like you know, I have

772
00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:17,920
Speaker 2: girl friends, but as far as like close friends, all

773
00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:20,160
Speaker 2: your close friends got all of my close friends. I'm

774
00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:22,920
Speaker 2: around boys all damn day. They see what Lex, I

775
00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:26,800
Speaker 2: feel like you a girl's girl saying that I'm not.

776
00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:29,560
Speaker 2: But it's just like if somebody do some fuck, she

777
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:30,800
Speaker 2: I'm letting you go.

778
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:31,680
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck.

779
00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:34,840
Speaker 2: Like Lex really tries to hold onto her female friendships

780
00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:36,560
Speaker 2: and I never really understand it because I'd be like

781
00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:38,840
Speaker 2: a this beach's fraud, let her go because she's not

782
00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:40,080
Speaker 2: already showed you who she is.

783
00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:42,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's not let you go.

784
00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:44,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you know what, you know what's so crazy

785
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:46,840
Speaker 2: is like I've given I feel like in my past,

786
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:49,960
Speaker 2: like friendships and stuff, I've given people like more chances

787
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:53,480
Speaker 2: than they've actually deserved it too much realistically, when I

788
00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:56,000
Speaker 2: just I always walk out like gracefully. I walk away

789
00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:57,800
Speaker 2: here because I'm just like, you know what, at the

790
00:32:57,800 --> 00:33:00,120
Speaker 2: same time, I still considered you as my sister, so

791
00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:02,280
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna try to embarrass you. Oh yeah, like

792
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:04,160
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna pray that. I'm gonna pray for you

793
00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:06,880
Speaker 2: and I pray that you go to the You know

794
00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:09,600
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, Skott, is you reach all your goals.

795
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:11,560
Speaker 2: But at the end of the day, I don't want you.

796
00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:13,440
Speaker 2: I can't have you at my table with I guess

797
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 2: I'm the same way. I just walk away. I don't

798
00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:22,920
Speaker 2: think about the messiest people. I know it's niggas.

799
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:24,760
Speaker 1: Men are so messy.

800
00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:26,640
Speaker 2: And I feel like, I guess because I have an

801
00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:29,240
Speaker 2: older sister and that's literally like my best friend.

802
00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:30,600
Speaker 1: Like me and my sister talk every day.

803
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:32,640
Speaker 2: We grew up together, and then like in the house,

804
00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:34,680
Speaker 2: it was just me, my mom my, sister. So like

805
00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:38,000
Speaker 2: I guess that womanly bond I just move up with.

806
00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:40,880
Speaker 2: So it's like I'm not gonna lie. If a nigga

807
00:33:40,880 --> 00:33:43,680
Speaker 2: do something, you gone whether you're my friend, I'm fucking you,

808
00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:46,680
Speaker 2: you're my boyfriend, whatever, But like if a woman does something,

809
00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:47,200
Speaker 2: I do.

810
00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:48,520
Speaker 1: Have like a little softer side.

811
00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:48,960
Speaker 4: I know.

812
00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:50,320
Speaker 1: I've always been that way.

813
00:33:50,360 --> 00:33:52,280
Speaker 2: See, I was that way with my daddy, Like growing

814
00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:53,800
Speaker 2: up in the house, me and my daddy was like

815
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:55,200
Speaker 2: my daddy was actually of our goal.

816
00:33:55,600 --> 00:33:56,960
Speaker 1: We were stoping mother fucking tight.

817
00:33:57,080 --> 00:33:59,440
Speaker 2: And then you know, one of my closest friends is

818
00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:03,120
Speaker 2: a man, and we've been friends since we were like seventeen.

819
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:03,320
Speaker 1: And nine thirty.

820
00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:05,480
Speaker 2: Right, Well, I guess I had I've always had like

821
00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:08,319
Speaker 2: kind of situations where I'm not gonna lie. Like I

822
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:11,399
Speaker 2: have had a few situations, not with like my guy

823
00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:13,759
Speaker 2: friends that I'm friends with now, but like you think

824
00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:15,960
Speaker 2: you friends with a nigga and then as soon as

825
00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:19,520
Speaker 2: like something happened, he tried to fuck with you or

826
00:34:19,560 --> 00:34:20,200
Speaker 2: he trying.

827
00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:21,600
Speaker 1: To like talk to you on some shit, you know

828
00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 1: what I'm saying.

829
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:24,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's always been my experience, Like I said, now

830
00:34:24,480 --> 00:34:26,080
Speaker 2: as an adult, I feel like niggas no not to

831
00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:28,239
Speaker 2: play with me, Like, yeah, I don't go through that now,

832
00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:30,680
Speaker 2: But like younger, I was always dealing with like men

833
00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:33,360
Speaker 2: trying to be my friend and then they get in

834
00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:35,360
Speaker 2: close and then they be trying to like fuck with me.

835
00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:37,840
Speaker 2: So I just always kind of be like, Okay, we

836
00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:40,400
Speaker 2: can be cool, but we ain't never gonna be that cool, you.

837
00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:41,040
Speaker 1: Know what I'm saying.

838
00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:43,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I mean I don't know, because then I

839
00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:46,120
Speaker 2: feel like you just gotta find the right type of

840
00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:49,320
Speaker 2: male friends. Because I've even had like straight male friends

841
00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:51,600
Speaker 2: who haven't tried to talk to me and they've taught

842
00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 2: me like I think you attractive and shit, but it's

843
00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:55,800
Speaker 2: just like they know what it was. They were friends

844
00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:57,640
Speaker 2: and they was gonna try to cross their line because

845
00:34:57,640 --> 00:35:00,759
Speaker 2: sometimes fucking up the friendship ain't work trying to get

846
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:03,839
Speaker 2: in I mean, I feel like I experienced that more

847
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:07,359
Speaker 2: now because I'm around like older men and men that's

848
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:10,320
Speaker 2: just about their business and men that's just like.

849
00:35:10,400 --> 00:35:12,000
Speaker 1: They want to be cool with me. They're not looking

850
00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:12,279
Speaker 1: for that.

851
00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:14,880
Speaker 2: So now as like as I'm in my thirties, I

852
00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 2: experienced that more like me and being like nah, because

853
00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:19,640
Speaker 2: you know what, we can work together, or you a

854
00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:21,200
Speaker 2: cool ass shick and I don't want to fuck that

855
00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:23,600
Speaker 2: up versus In my twenties, it was like dealing with

856
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:25,839
Speaker 2: a lot of men that were just like, Okay, let

857
00:35:25,840 --> 00:35:27,839
Speaker 2: me see if I'm a catch lip slick slipping on

858
00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:28,880
Speaker 2: that shorty one.

859
00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:33,920
Speaker 3: Day, you know what I'm saying.

860
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:37,280
Speaker 1: So you all think men are better friends, I don't.

861
00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:39,879
Speaker 1: I do. I don't even think that it's just better friends.

862
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:42,640
Speaker 2: I'm gonna lie like I do miss sometimes like having

863
00:35:42,680 --> 00:35:44,880
Speaker 2: bonds with girls and just calling up my girl like oh,

864
00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:47,480
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, But you know, like it

865
00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:50,960
Speaker 2: just be like I'm just really dodging all like the drama.

866
00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:53,640
Speaker 1: I don't have time for. I don't have the patience

867
00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:53,960
Speaker 1: for that.

868
00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:57,120
Speaker 2: Like all of that emotional I'm not really like I'm

869
00:35:57,280 --> 00:35:59,719
Speaker 2: I'm emotional to a certain extent, Like you know what

870
00:35:59,719 --> 00:36:02,439
Speaker 2: I'm saying, certain people, Yeah, with certain people, you are,

871
00:36:02,719 --> 00:36:03,040
Speaker 2: I know.

872
00:36:03,080 --> 00:36:03,799
Speaker 1: That's how we are.

873
00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:08,360
Speaker 2: I'm just like we're emotional, but only with certain people,

874
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:10,359
Speaker 2: like you gotta get this she out of us, yeah,

875
00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:12,840
Speaker 2: and all of that cattiness, like all that ship and

876
00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:14,759
Speaker 2: I feel like that's kind of something that like y'all

877
00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:16,600
Speaker 2: have in common because I feel like Drea has gone

878
00:36:16,600 --> 00:36:19,520
Speaker 2: through that a lot with women, like being her friend

879
00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:21,600
Speaker 2: and then like it comes out that she did some

880
00:36:21,719 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 2: whole ass ship to her like and it just be

881
00:36:24,600 --> 00:36:26,440
Speaker 2: like what the fuck it?

882
00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:30,360
Speaker 1: Like what I do to you? Like literally like what

883
00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:30,799
Speaker 1: is that?

884
00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:31,759
Speaker 6: Like?

885
00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:34,439
Speaker 1: What the hell? Like the whole time like, oh no,

886
00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:37,359
Speaker 1: it was really telling people like that's my girl.

887
00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:40,759
Speaker 2: She would that's my sister, like literally like that's my

888
00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:45,040
Speaker 2: end up looking crazy, end up looking crazy as all right,

889
00:36:45,120 --> 00:36:53,799
Speaker 2: So now we're gonna get into about about So I

890
00:36:53,880 --> 00:36:58,919
Speaker 2: wanted to talk about this today because I, like I said,

891
00:36:58,960 --> 00:36:59,960
Speaker 2: I've lived with a man before.

892
00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:02,640
Speaker 1: You and your man lived together, right, So I lived

893
00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:03,319
Speaker 1: with a man before.

894
00:37:03,360 --> 00:37:05,759
Speaker 2: So I want to talk about masturbating in a relationship

895
00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:08,520
Speaker 2: because when I was in my relationship at the time,

896
00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:10,600
Speaker 2: like one time he called me masturbator.

897
00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:12,960
Speaker 1: He was so fucking mad. What did he saying?

898
00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:13,759
Speaker 3: It was mad?

899
00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:19,960
Speaker 2: He was like, I've been at work all day, I'm

900
00:37:19,960 --> 00:37:21,440
Speaker 2: trying to compole or something.

901
00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:23,920
Speaker 1: Ready, you know you already done, but you could have

902
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:24,600
Speaker 1: eat it again.

903
00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:27,880
Speaker 2: The thing about women we could go with, he's like

904
00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:29,759
Speaker 2: the ones that you.

905
00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:32,319
Speaker 1: Mad, Like, damn, I'm just trying to get it ready,

906
00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:34,040
Speaker 1: to get it ready, to get it ready ready.

907
00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:39,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, like what I honestly feel like now when I

908
00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:42,800
Speaker 2: be like dealing with men, I'd be like trying to hide,

909
00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:45,319
Speaker 2: like if I'm masturbating or if I did that, I

910
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:49,480
Speaker 2: do because I feel like maybe getting jealous. I guess

911
00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:51,600
Speaker 2: it's just from like I said, that passed George, Like

912
00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:53,880
Speaker 2: when I tell y'all he was so mad, that was

913
00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:54,440
Speaker 2: just weird.

914
00:37:54,480 --> 00:37:56,440
Speaker 1: Though I think most men think that that's a turn on.

915
00:37:56,800 --> 00:37:59,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like maybe if they're there with you,

916
00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:01,719
Speaker 2: you know I'm saying. But I'm like, if y'all have

917
00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:05,359
Speaker 2: a long distance situation, you know, that's different. But when

918
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:07,719
Speaker 2: I tell y'all, like I said, he was so fucking mad,

919
00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:08,600
Speaker 2: like he ain't liked it.

920
00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:11,799
Speaker 1: He wouldn't like that, so do you. I don't want

921
00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:14,920
Speaker 1: to get to you know, personally, but he still roll

922
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:17,360
Speaker 1: that thing. Look, my man would never get mad. He

923
00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:20,080
Speaker 1: wouldn't get mad. He would never. But the thing is

924
00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:21,680
Speaker 1: even in return, like if he did it, I wouldn't

925
00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:23,239
Speaker 1: get mad at Yeah. Right, it's like you know what

926
00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:23,640
Speaker 1: I'm saying.

927
00:38:23,640 --> 00:38:26,160
Speaker 2: So it's like whatever, seeing and see that's where that

928
00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:28,440
Speaker 2: you said something right there, I'm not gonna lie.

929
00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:30,560
Speaker 1: If I walk in the bathroom my nigga jacking off,

930
00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:35,440
Speaker 1: I'm like the pussy right here, nigga drain that boy out.

931
00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 1: I had to get mad.

932
00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:43,200
Speaker 2: If it was like craft that we had, that is

933
00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:47,040
Speaker 2: that is I remember that the game where Melanie had

934
00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:49,440
Speaker 2: walked in the bathroom and Darwin was jaking out, like

935
00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:50,840
Speaker 2: after that she had fainty.

936
00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:51,480
Speaker 4: I ain't.

937
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:53,520
Speaker 1: That's a problem.

938
00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:55,120
Speaker 2: I would feel some type of way about this because

939
00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:59,200
Speaker 2: that means you ain't got that like you ain't got

940
00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:02,040
Speaker 2: that womp. I'm not gonna lie. That's never happened to

941
00:39:02,080 --> 00:39:02,560
Speaker 2: me where.

942
00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:04,640
Speaker 1: I like nadd But I'm not gonna.

943
00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:06,520
Speaker 2: Lie like I said, Like if I walked in on

944
00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:09,799
Speaker 2: my man like jacking off and I'm at home, I'm

945
00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:10,919
Speaker 2: gonna feel some type of way.

946
00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:13,719
Speaker 1: It's like you don't want to just fuck like it's

947
00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:15,879
Speaker 1: you know you you, But what if you wasn't at

948
00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:18,520
Speaker 1: home like you say, you walk in and I.

949
00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:20,080
Speaker 2: Mean it's different, Like I said, if I wasn't at

950
00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:21,920
Speaker 2: home and he just wanted to get his day started

951
00:39:21,920 --> 00:39:23,240
Speaker 2: getting a little pep and his stuff.

952
00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:25,680
Speaker 1: You know, that's all right, you know what I'm saying.

953
00:39:25,719 --> 00:39:27,880
Speaker 1: But I feel like if you're like sneaking off to

954
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:28,319
Speaker 1: do it.

955
00:39:28,920 --> 00:39:31,439
Speaker 2: That's that's like, yeah, it's not even be sneaky, like yeah,

956
00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:33,839
Speaker 2: like sneaky, like if you're just like, oh, I didn't

957
00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:34,239
Speaker 2: want to fuck.

958
00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:35,319
Speaker 1: I just want to get it.

959
00:39:35,239 --> 00:39:36,880
Speaker 2: Off my nut real quick so I can have some

960
00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:38,680
Speaker 2: energy or whatever I'm trying to do or I'm trying

961
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:39,359
Speaker 2: to sleep real good.

962
00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:40,640
Speaker 1: And I didn't want to do all that.

963
00:39:40,640 --> 00:39:42,719
Speaker 2: That's a little understandable. But like if you're sneaking, cause

964
00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:45,080
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie, bitch, I was sneaking and he

965
00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:48,440
Speaker 2: called me, why would you He wasn't making you come.

966
00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:50,759
Speaker 1: I mean you have to realize, like in that time,

967
00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:51,960
Speaker 1: like I was young.

968
00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:54,040
Speaker 2: I was in my twenties, like my early twenties, so

969
00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:57,799
Speaker 2: I wasn't really having orgasms during sex like cause you.

970
00:39:57,719 --> 00:39:59,239
Speaker 1: Know, like I didn't know what I was doing, like

971
00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:02,680
Speaker 1: I'm young, like so I feel like sex. It was good.

972
00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:05,080
Speaker 2: It felt good, but it wasn't like how I'm having

973
00:40:05,080 --> 00:40:08,040
Speaker 2: sex now, you know what I'm saying. So yeah, I

974
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:10,080
Speaker 2: was kind of like being a little sneaky, you know

975
00:40:10,120 --> 00:40:11,480
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. It was just like I had to

976
00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:12,080
Speaker 2: tell him like.

977
00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:16,160
Speaker 6: That, that's not good, nigga, damn And then he say

978
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:21,160
Speaker 6: he was like.

979
00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:26,640
Speaker 1: You are you?

980
00:40:26,800 --> 00:40:27,320
Speaker 2: Are? You?

981
00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:32,759
Speaker 1: Are you really though? And I feel like that.

982
00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:35,560
Speaker 2: I'm like that now you know, like I tell me

983
00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:38,319
Speaker 2: and you know, like, hey, this is how you need

984
00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:39,879
Speaker 2: to do it, This is what you need to do.

985
00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:41,960
Speaker 2: It's very rare that you come across the man that

986
00:40:42,000 --> 00:40:44,080
Speaker 2: knows how to do everything. You know what I'm saying,

987
00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:45,960
Speaker 2: don't sneak off and what.

988
00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:48,200
Speaker 1: Would work for somebody for one woman doesn't work.

989
00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:52,840
Speaker 2: Tell you about the pills now, let's on, y'all.

990
00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:59,080
Speaker 1: We love a good pill. Now the pussy pill. We're

991
00:40:59,080 --> 00:40:59,920
Speaker 1: about to put your own.

992
00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:02,239
Speaker 3: Look, She's like, what the hell?

993
00:41:04,280 --> 00:41:05,520
Speaker 1: Yeah me?

994
00:41:05,640 --> 00:41:08,520
Speaker 2: Aleggs always talking about the taste fiells that we taste

995
00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:10,520
Speaker 2: like whenever we're about to have stick. So when it

996
00:41:10,800 --> 00:41:14,520
Speaker 2: changes the taste of your vaginal secretions, anything on natural,

997
00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:18,279
Speaker 2: it has nothing but like vanilla X strake, strawberry x

998
00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:23,600
Speaker 2: strag I mean what else banana on fire?

999
00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:27,200
Speaker 1: You better believe that change.

1000
00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:31,319
Speaker 2: So it changes like the way you taste it, and

1001
00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:33,160
Speaker 2: me you can take it as well. Yeah, man can

1002
00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:34,880
Speaker 2: take it as well. So I feel like it just

1003
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:36,120
Speaker 2: brings a little excitement.

1004
00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:40,840
Speaker 1: Yes, it up a little bit, Okay, So do you

1005
00:41:40,920 --> 00:41:43,080
Speaker 1: like to use like y'all use toys in the bedroom.

1006
00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:47,640
Speaker 2: That's like, I don't know, but I'm not gonna lie.

1007
00:41:47,680 --> 00:41:51,160
Speaker 1: You use toys in general. No, no, you don't. I tried,

1008
00:41:51,200 --> 00:41:54,600
Speaker 1: but then I'm like, I don't know. This is I

1009
00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:57,279
Speaker 1: need tell you.

1010
00:41:58,080 --> 00:42:01,680
Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, not much like this does not feel

1011
00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:03,640
Speaker 2: like the real thing, right, I'm not gonna lie. I

1012
00:42:03,680 --> 00:42:05,759
Speaker 2: love using toys in the bedroom. I've always said that,

1013
00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:07,919
Speaker 2: but I'm not gonna lie to you. I told you,

1014
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:10,440
Speaker 2: mister Cobbo put it on me. I ain't touched my

1015
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:13,000
Speaker 2: toys and something back. I've been back for six years.

1016
00:42:13,160 --> 00:42:14,960
Speaker 2: When you went to Conbo six years.

1017
00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:17,399
Speaker 1: Ago, you did say it was the most party. It

1018
00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:18,879
Speaker 1: was definitely top three.

1019
00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:22,120
Speaker 2: So if you need to watch, I'm sorry, but I'm

1020
00:42:22,120 --> 00:42:23,560
Speaker 2: not gonna lie to you. If you have a nigga

1021
00:42:23,560 --> 00:42:25,560
Speaker 2: that really know what he's doing in the bedroom, toys

1022
00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:26,359
Speaker 2: really aren't needed.

1023
00:42:26,600 --> 00:42:27,400
Speaker 1: It's not gonna lie.

1024
00:42:27,440 --> 00:42:29,920
Speaker 2: And I and I co soon for toys all the time.

1025
00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:32,040
Speaker 2: I love a good toy, but I'm not gonna lie.

1026
00:42:32,239 --> 00:42:34,080
Speaker 2: You really don't need them toy like that. If you're

1027
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:35,880
Speaker 2: doing what he's supposed to do, I can agree with that.

1028
00:42:37,239 --> 00:42:45,719
Speaker 1: So now we're gonna get into the Okay, what's your

1029
00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:47,640
Speaker 1: you wanna go first? One? First?

1030
00:42:47,680 --> 00:42:50,440
Speaker 2: My bapp of the week is Pressure by Ari Lennix. Oh,

1031
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:55,160
Speaker 2: I love this song. This song Marie Lennox is so beautiful.

1032
00:42:55,360 --> 00:42:58,560
Speaker 2: She is so fine because sing her ass off. The

1033
00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:03,120
Speaker 2: video amazing, like she really understood like what she was get.

1034
00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:05,840
Speaker 2: You know what, I will say this about artists these days.

1035
00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:08,719
Speaker 2: I feel like a lot of people don't understand their audience.

1036
00:43:09,160 --> 00:43:11,000
Speaker 2: And I feel like a lot of times like people

1037
00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:13,040
Speaker 2: will make a good song, then they'll switch up they

1038
00:43:13,120 --> 00:43:15,200
Speaker 2: sound and then they want to go, oh, I want

1039
00:43:15,200 --> 00:43:17,719
Speaker 2: to do this, and they're doing it too early. But

1040
00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:20,680
Speaker 2: Ari has understood like, Okay, this is what they like

1041
00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:22,480
Speaker 2: to hear from me, so let me keep giving it

1042
00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:22,839
Speaker 2: to them.

1043
00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:25,200
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. She's definitely very conceisent with her,

1044
00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:26,680
Speaker 1: Like I'm not.

1045
00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:29,360
Speaker 2: Gonna lie if I got on here talking about the

1046
00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:31,839
Speaker 2: square rood of three times two, niggas.

1047
00:43:31,520 --> 00:43:32,359
Speaker 1: Ain't gonna tune in.

1048
00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:36,440
Speaker 2: They want to hear me talking about sucking. So you

1049
00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:38,719
Speaker 2: gotta know your audience and give it to them.

1050
00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:48,120
Speaker 1: You feel me every day, So Ari shut up to Ari.

1051
00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:52,919
Speaker 2: I love the song Pressure, it's a fabulous and she's

1052
00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:53,600
Speaker 2: lost a lot of way.

1053
00:43:53,640 --> 00:43:55,360
Speaker 1: I feel like her confidence is just going through the

1054
00:43:55,440 --> 00:43:57,640
Speaker 1: roof and I love it. I love how she switching

1055
00:43:57,680 --> 00:44:00,680
Speaker 1: her style up, like the Little Weak too. What you

1056
00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:03,480
Speaker 1: were listening to this week? A lot of a lot

1057
00:44:03,480 --> 00:44:04,040
Speaker 1: of everything.

1058
00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:07,040
Speaker 2: But I would say my song of the week is

1059
00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:08,960
Speaker 2: Jennico Pussy Fairy.

1060
00:44:12,080 --> 00:44:16,680
Speaker 1: I mean, you are fucking me, I know you. That

1061
00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:21,960
Speaker 1: is such an extended version too that week.

1062
00:44:22,680 --> 00:44:31,080
Speaker 2: I know sometimes I told you about version she does. Yes, okay,

1063
00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:33,880
Speaker 2: And I love some type of way about Jay. Sometimes

1064
00:44:33,920 --> 00:44:37,160
Speaker 2: I'm back and forth with girl, please don't do it.

1065
00:44:37,239 --> 00:44:38,000
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do it.

1066
00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:41,719
Speaker 2: But she'd be doing an impersonation and sometimes I feel like,

1067
00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:43,239
Speaker 2: just just say what you mean?

1068
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:45,960
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Like sometimes she'd be like,

1069
00:44:46,280 --> 00:44:47,520
Speaker 1: it's feeling so what.

1070
00:44:49,239 --> 00:44:57,879
Speaker 2: It's dripping my one you susy.

1071
00:44:57,320 --> 00:44:58,160
Speaker 3: That's how she means.

1072
00:44:58,239 --> 00:45:01,360
Speaker 2: So I'll be back and forth with My bop of

1073
00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:04,120
Speaker 2: the week is wall a feature of Maxo Cream and

1074
00:45:04,200 --> 00:45:04,880
Speaker 2: Yellow Beezy.

1075
00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:06,920
Speaker 1: So let me just say this. First of all, Wale

1076
00:45:07,520 --> 00:45:10,000
Speaker 1: is a genius. I love him. Lyricists off the chain.

1077
00:45:10,360 --> 00:45:12,759
Speaker 2: He sampled us still tipping, so you know that's the

1078
00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:13,480
Speaker 2: Houston anthem.

1079
00:45:13,640 --> 00:45:14,319
Speaker 1: I love that.

1080
00:45:14,800 --> 00:45:17,120
Speaker 2: And let me say this first of all, I made

1081
00:45:17,120 --> 00:45:18,799
Speaker 2: max O Cream my bop of the Week with Taller

1082
00:45:18,840 --> 00:45:21,560
Speaker 2: the Creator the other week, and everybody knows max Tho

1083
00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:25,319
Speaker 2: Cream is like in Houston, He's that nigga. I feel

1084
00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:27,480
Speaker 2: like it's hard for a lot of Texas artists to

1085
00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:31,760
Speaker 2: like get popping and stay on. So for Yellow Beezy

1086
00:45:31,880 --> 00:45:34,479
Speaker 2: to still be like Yellow Beez has had a good

1087
00:45:34,600 --> 00:45:39,520
Speaker 2: like silent ring, like he's still making music, still making money.

1088
00:45:39,560 --> 00:45:41,040
Speaker 2: And I fuck with that cause you don't see that

1089
00:45:41,120 --> 00:45:44,000
Speaker 2: coming from Texas a lot of time unless you move

1090
00:45:44,080 --> 00:45:45,200
Speaker 2: out of Texas.

1091
00:45:44,800 --> 00:45:46,839
Speaker 1: Right, unless you move out of Texas, like but like.

1092
00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:50,279
Speaker 2: Staying there trying to get our own it don't really work. Yeah,

1093
00:45:50,400 --> 00:45:53,400
Speaker 2: I feel like Meg's story is like one in a million,

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Speaker 2: like especially because how Houston is Houston don't like nothing

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you don't feel like you know Atlanta is

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Speaker 2: Hey, poor girls, I love you guys so much and

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1163
00:48:57,360 --> 00:49:00,000
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1164
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Speaker 2: everything I ever wanted en a man. He has flew

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00:49:07,320 --> 00:49:11,440
Speaker 2: man and his religion is Muslim. He has deep beliefs

1168
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Speaker 2: and wants me to convert. I'm a Christian and I'm

1169
00:49:13,800 --> 00:49:16,200
Speaker 2: not down to change. But he's a good man. I

1170
00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:18,399
Speaker 2: do hear and this man talking about I gotta wear

1171
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Speaker 2: a heir reb. Now how it's gonna work When I

1172
00:49:21,120 --> 00:49:23,440
Speaker 2: go out there, we don't have sex. I try to

1173
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:26,719
Speaker 2: take the deck, but he still doesn't break. What is

1174
00:49:26,719 --> 00:49:28,759
Speaker 2: a girl to do? Please help a poor girl out.

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00:49:30,680 --> 00:49:34,960
Speaker 1: He may be waiting to your marriage. Yeah, he might be.

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Speaker 2: And I feel like sometimes maybe try trust something different,

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Speaker 2: Like if you say he's a good man, sometimes you

1178
00:49:43,360 --> 00:49:47,280
Speaker 2: have to try different things, you know what I'm saying, Like, I'm.

1179
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Speaker 1: Not gonna lie.

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Speaker 2: I told the story a long time ago, whenever it

1181
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Speaker 2: was wine down Wednesday, But I had a nigga like

1182
00:49:52,760 --> 00:49:55,640
Speaker 2: I was dating and dealing with, and like we didn't

1183
00:49:55,680 --> 00:49:57,839
Speaker 2: have sex to like six months in the relationship. Now

1184
00:49:57,920 --> 00:49:59,520
Speaker 2: when I got the big it was trashed and I

1185
00:49:59,520 --> 00:50:02,359
Speaker 2: stopped talking to him. But that's besides point. I thought

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Speaker 2: he was a good man and I waited for him

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Speaker 2: and didn't work out in my favor, but it might

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Speaker 2: work out in your favorite. But also, you have to

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Speaker 2: respect people's religious beliefs.

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Speaker 1: Now, that's something I really like. You know, you gotta

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Speaker 1: respect now you do when it comes to religion.

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Speaker 2: So I feel like if you feel like he's a

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Speaker 2: good man, it ain't really a lot of good men

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Speaker 2: out here.

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Speaker 1: Girl. Yeah, I would try to see if I could

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Speaker 1: stick it out. I would. I'm not gonna library you'll

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Speaker 1: be all right. Maybe if y'all get married, you know

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Speaker 1: you could see you teach them a little thing or two.

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Speaker 2: All right, So question two, the girls want to know?

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Speaker 2: And by the girls I mean me. Of course he

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Speaker 2: put this question.

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Speaker 1: It's Ryan single.

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Speaker 2: I need to know before I start mass liking his pictures.

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Speaker 1: Never shot my shot before my y'all.

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Speaker 2: And Ryan is the one who chooses the questions. That's

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Speaker 2: why he's pushing it, saying.

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Speaker 1: I'm single and ready.

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Speaker 2: Yes, Ryan is single, Ladies, if y'all want to shoot

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Speaker 2: your shop. But trust and believe, if y'all start dating Ryan,

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Speaker 2: you're not about to be up here with us. You're

1211
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Speaker 2: not about to be on tour. Y'all about to go

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Speaker 2: to the local donut shop and get coughing and honey buns.

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Speaker 2: Ron is not about the we got linked Ryan Instagram below.

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Speaker 3: Not.

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Speaker 1: But Ryan is a good man. Ryan's a good time.

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Speaker 1: But yes he is. That's a good man. That's a

1217
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Speaker 1: good man is a good man? Okay, you know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying, Go ahead with the question.

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Speaker 2: Girl. Hey ladies, I'm twenty eight. My fiance and I

1220
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Speaker 2: just had our first baby about a year ago. I'm

1221
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Speaker 2: at the heaviest weight of my life and really feeling

1222
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Speaker 2: down about myself.

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Speaker 1: What tips you have to lose weight and then keep

1224
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Speaker 1: it snatched? Y'all? Got gto diet?

1225
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Speaker 2: I always go on the damn diet every now, and

1226
00:51:49,880 --> 00:51:52,440
Speaker 2: you can do Keto diet. You can just and honestly

1227
00:51:52,480 --> 00:51:55,480
Speaker 2: stay in the gym, but just try to like maintain

1228
00:51:55,600 --> 00:51:58,240
Speaker 2: your eating more so because if you're if you're eating

1229
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Speaker 2: a bad out of the we like you know what

1230
00:52:00,440 --> 00:52:02,000
Speaker 2: I'm saying, bad like four times out of the week,

1231
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Speaker 2: then it don't matter if you're working out. It ain't gone,

1232
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Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. It's just gonna basically, like

1233
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Speaker 2: it's not come, it's not gonna go. Well, So, yeah, you.

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Speaker 1: Can do Keto guaya.

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Speaker 2: You can try a smoothie day where you just go

1236
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Speaker 2: for like five days smoothie juicing, you know what I'm saying.

1237
00:52:13,560 --> 00:52:16,759
Speaker 1: Just work out and get active though more six too.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, get back, And I do think that's a misconception

1239
00:52:20,760 --> 00:52:22,560
Speaker 2: a lot of people have. They feel like, oh, you know,

1240
00:52:23,160 --> 00:52:25,919
Speaker 2: I'm gonna just go work out like six times a week,

1241
00:52:26,000 --> 00:52:28,760
Speaker 2: seven times a week, but then you eating bullshit.

1242
00:52:28,719 --> 00:52:29,920
Speaker 1: Bullshit like it's not gonna work.

1243
00:52:29,960 --> 00:52:32,120
Speaker 2: So it doesn't you can make you can possibly you

1244
00:52:32,160 --> 00:52:34,600
Speaker 2: might be able to eat bullshit maybe like two times.

1245
00:52:34,640 --> 00:52:37,880
Speaker 1: But realistically seven days, for sure you go out and

1246
00:52:37,880 --> 00:52:38,680
Speaker 1: burn more calories.

1247
00:52:38,680 --> 00:52:40,879
Speaker 2: Because I feel like it's all about balance because I'm

1248
00:52:40,920 --> 00:52:43,680
Speaker 2: somebody who always I'm always struggling with my way.

1249
00:52:43,760 --> 00:52:46,040
Speaker 1: My way be up and down. So I feel like when.

1250
00:52:45,920 --> 00:52:48,120
Speaker 2: I go too hard on myself, then I lose too

1251
00:52:48,200 --> 00:52:49,759
Speaker 2: much weight and then as soon as I get off,

1252
00:52:49,760 --> 00:52:50,560
Speaker 2: I gain it bag.

1253
00:52:50,880 --> 00:52:53,879
Speaker 1: So what I've learned is like six days out of the.

1254
00:52:53,800 --> 00:52:55,600
Speaker 2: Week you need to work out and eat healthy, have

1255
00:52:55,640 --> 00:52:58,319
Speaker 2: one day out the week where you give yourself a break, yeah,

1256
00:52:58,360 --> 00:53:00,759
Speaker 2: and have goals to work towards because I feel like

1257
00:53:01,080 --> 00:53:03,640
Speaker 2: trying to eat salad, soups and smoothies.

1258
00:53:03,239 --> 00:53:05,360
Speaker 1: Every day that's unrealistic for a lot of people, you

1259
00:53:05,400 --> 00:53:06,000
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying.

1260
00:53:06,520 --> 00:53:08,440
Speaker 2: So it's like if you know, like, okay, you know what,

1261
00:53:08,560 --> 00:53:11,439
Speaker 2: on Saturdays, I'm gonna give myself like two cheap meals

1262
00:53:11,520 --> 00:53:13,759
Speaker 2: or one cheat meal, but Sunday I'm right back on.

1263
00:53:14,160 --> 00:53:18,080
Speaker 2: So give yourself little things to like motivate you. And

1264
00:53:18,160 --> 00:53:19,839
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. I'm gonna keep it all way

1265
00:53:19,840 --> 00:53:22,359
Speaker 2: at home with y'all. I just went and got some

1266
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Speaker 2: little dit pills. It's called an apex. They carved my

1267
00:53:25,000 --> 00:53:28,919
Speaker 2: appetite and they work, they do, so you know, I'm

1268
00:53:28,920 --> 00:53:31,680
Speaker 2: not saying it, but I feel like you gonna do that.

1269
00:53:31,640 --> 00:53:34,200
Speaker 1: Then you need to check the ingredients. That's anything. Because

1270
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Speaker 1: to my.

1271
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Speaker 2: Primary care position, I did a full everything and then

1272
00:53:41,040 --> 00:53:42,759
Speaker 2: he was like, okay, you know, because I am a

1273
00:53:42,760 --> 00:53:43,440
Speaker 2: little overweight.

1274
00:53:43,480 --> 00:53:44,479
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, I've been.

1275
00:53:44,719 --> 00:53:46,280
Speaker 3: Eating good, living good.

1276
00:53:46,360 --> 00:53:47,839
Speaker 1: So I was just like, okay, you know, I gotta

1277
00:53:47,880 --> 00:53:48,680
Speaker 1: slow things down.

1278
00:53:49,080 --> 00:53:51,000
Speaker 2: So maybe that's something that you could look into because

1279
00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:53,480
Speaker 2: it does like carve my appetite because I am an overeater.

1280
00:53:53,920 --> 00:53:57,399
Speaker 2: Like prescription, yeah, you have to get a prescription. It's

1281
00:53:57,440 --> 00:53:58,840
Speaker 2: not like you can just go and get it. Like

1282
00:53:58,920 --> 00:54:00,520
Speaker 2: you have to get a prescription, and you do have

1283
00:54:00,600 --> 00:54:04,160
Speaker 2: to be like overweight, like I'm overweight technically.

1284
00:54:03,719 --> 00:54:04,759
Speaker 1: Like you're here being mine.

1285
00:54:04,840 --> 00:54:06,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I'm overweight. So he was like, okay, you

1286
00:54:06,920 --> 00:54:08,359
Speaker 2: know we're gonna put you on this because you need

1287
00:54:08,360 --> 00:54:08,760
Speaker 2: to lose.

1288
00:54:08,600 --> 00:54:09,279
Speaker 1: About twenty five.

1289
00:54:09,280 --> 00:54:11,680
Speaker 2: I was like, God, damn twenty because I'm still trying

1290
00:54:11,719 --> 00:54:12,640
Speaker 2: to be a thick queen.

1291
00:54:12,680 --> 00:54:16,160
Speaker 1: Now hold on, doc, So I'm gonna do what I

1292
00:54:16,239 --> 00:54:18,080
Speaker 1: want to do, but I'm gonna lose a little bit.

1293
00:54:18,120 --> 00:54:20,080
Speaker 1: I'm a little ten fifteen on your ass.

1294
00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:22,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I for sure got a weight problem. Yeah, I'm

1295
00:54:22,600 --> 00:54:25,200
Speaker 2: definitely over to be in mine. I have a weight problem,

1296
00:54:25,200 --> 00:54:26,359
Speaker 2: Like I can't wait to eat.

1297
00:54:26,400 --> 00:54:41,440
Speaker 3: So just say body fire, make them juice.

1298
00:54:41,480 --> 00:54:44,279
Speaker 1: They got that asspect, and I said to when she

1299
00:54:44,320 --> 00:54:48,520
Speaker 1: walked in, said thank you for coming there.

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Speaker 2: Period. Right, Okay, so you got the last question to me.

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Speaker 2: I think I just read Hey, ladies. I love you both.

1302
00:54:55,960 --> 00:54:58,560
Speaker 2: I appreciate you, and you both inspire me so much.

1303
00:54:58,600 --> 00:55:00,399
Speaker 2: I'm about to be thirty two and TI two weeks

1304
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Speaker 2: and I have a dilemma. I have been with this

1305
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Speaker 2: man for about a year now, and I just found

1306
00:55:04,280 --> 00:55:06,799
Speaker 2: out that I was pregnant. Honestly, I'm not trying to

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00:55:06,840 --> 00:55:09,200
Speaker 2: keep this man's baby, and it was my fault for

1308
00:55:09,280 --> 00:55:12,000
Speaker 2: even getting that far with him. I already have a daughter,

1309
00:55:12,080 --> 00:55:14,279
Speaker 2: and I really am just focused on making sure she

1310
00:55:14,360 --> 00:55:17,000
Speaker 2: has the best life possible. I'm a boss and I

1311
00:55:17,040 --> 00:55:19,120
Speaker 2: make my own money. But this man has not really

1312
00:55:19,160 --> 00:55:22,120
Speaker 2: been supporting me financially and mentally like I need him to.

1313
00:55:22,600 --> 00:55:24,719
Speaker 2: On top of that, I have caught him a few

1314
00:55:24,719 --> 00:55:28,479
Speaker 2: times cheating. It always seems like he's trying to hide us.

1315
00:55:28,719 --> 00:55:31,120
Speaker 2: It's just a lot of fishy shit going on. My

1316
00:55:31,239 --> 00:55:33,640
Speaker 2: plan is to go to my appointment and follow through

1317
00:55:33,640 --> 00:55:36,560
Speaker 2: with terminating the pregnancy. My question is, how do I

1318
00:55:36,640 --> 00:55:38,640
Speaker 2: explain to him and cut him off completely.

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00:55:39,000 --> 00:55:40,240
Speaker 1: He lives with me right.

1320
00:55:40,160 --> 00:55:42,000
Speaker 2: Now, but I'm just ready to run and get my

1321
00:55:42,040 --> 00:55:43,440
Speaker 2: life back to when I was happy.

1322
00:55:44,400 --> 00:55:45,880
Speaker 1: Well, you said it right there, you're not happy.

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00:55:46,480 --> 00:55:50,120
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, because I feel like a lot of times

1324
00:55:50,160 --> 00:55:53,200
Speaker 2: women think and sometimes men too, Because I feel like

1325
00:55:53,640 --> 00:55:54,800
Speaker 2: men be trying to track women.

1326
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Speaker 1: Having a baby in a bad situation is not gonna.

1327
00:55:57,080 --> 00:55:57,440
Speaker 2: Make it better.

1328
00:55:57,480 --> 00:55:58,360
Speaker 1: And that's what I've been saying.

1329
00:55:58,400 --> 00:55:59,920
Speaker 2: That's why you just got to make sure this issue

1330
00:55:59,960 --> 00:56:03,520
Speaker 2: is already solid before you take the next step, because

1331
00:56:03,719 --> 00:56:06,600
Speaker 2: I don't I don't necessarily support I don't support abortion,

1332
00:56:06,719 --> 00:56:08,440
Speaker 2: but I also don't support bringing in the child who

1333
00:56:08,480 --> 00:56:11,160
Speaker 2: didn't ask to be here into some bullshit like that

1334
00:56:11,239 --> 00:56:13,160
Speaker 2: child don't deserve that the child deserves. You know what

1335
00:56:13,200 --> 00:56:16,440
Speaker 2: I'm saying, just all love, a loving home, right, So

1336
00:56:16,640 --> 00:56:18,560
Speaker 2: don't bring that baby up into this world and you

1337
00:56:18,600 --> 00:56:20,600
Speaker 2: already know the situation is just gonna be bad, Like

1338
00:56:20,840 --> 00:56:22,840
Speaker 2: and I don't even really think you owe him an explanation,

1339
00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:25,880
Speaker 2: to be honest, it's your body, and I do feel like,

1340
00:56:26,800 --> 00:56:28,480
Speaker 2: you know, honestly, I feel like if you want to

1341
00:56:28,480 --> 00:56:30,799
Speaker 2: say something, say something after the fact, you're not already

1342
00:56:30,800 --> 00:56:32,840
Speaker 2: pack your shit up and left, like literally, because you

1343
00:56:32,840 --> 00:56:35,719
Speaker 2: never know how these niggas crazy, like you know, trying to.

1344
00:56:35,640 --> 00:56:37,959
Speaker 1: React, So just go ahead and leave.

1345
00:56:38,000 --> 00:56:40,279
Speaker 2: And then you know, Cinema text like, yeah, I handled that,

1346
00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:42,799
Speaker 2: And you know, I wish you nothing but the best,

1347
00:56:43,040 --> 00:56:43,520
Speaker 2: because you.

1348
00:56:43,440 --> 00:56:46,200
Speaker 1: Said already that he's not there for you financially and mentally.

1349
00:56:46,680 --> 00:56:49,120
Speaker 2: Babies are expensive. It's not gonna get no easier. And

1350
00:56:49,120 --> 00:56:51,279
Speaker 2: then mentally that shit is hard too, So I feel

1351
00:56:51,320 --> 00:56:54,000
Speaker 2: like you already struggling with him and the baby's not

1352
00:56:54,040 --> 00:56:56,520
Speaker 2: even here, and then you have another child that you're

1353
00:56:56,560 --> 00:56:59,200
Speaker 2: already taking care of. Yeah, that's a lot that's at

1354
00:56:59,600 --> 00:57:03,239
Speaker 2: them with When you wrote the next day pushing that

1355
00:57:04,680 --> 00:57:09,520
Speaker 2: I don't agree necessarily with abortions neither, But I don't

1356
00:57:09,600 --> 00:57:10,520
Speaker 2: believe in bringing.

1357
00:57:11,880 --> 00:57:14,760
Speaker 1: They're gonna be up there with mine. They be just fun.

1358
00:57:15,520 --> 00:57:22,800
Speaker 2: She do always say that, crow, she said, I'm just

1359
00:57:22,840 --> 00:57:24,080
Speaker 2: saying you got some friends of that.

1360
00:57:24,240 --> 00:57:25,880
Speaker 3: Damn gez.

1361
00:57:26,640 --> 00:57:31,320
Speaker 1: He gotta be alright, gonna be alright. We'll say that,

1362
00:57:31,360 --> 00:57:33,960
Speaker 1: You'll be fine. I feel like, do whatever you feel like.

1363
00:57:34,000 --> 00:57:36,919
Speaker 2: It's best for you and your daughter that's already here,

1364
00:57:37,200 --> 00:57:39,400
Speaker 2: because you can't make decisions off of worrying about what

1365
00:57:39,440 --> 00:57:40,200
Speaker 2: other people are gonna do.

1366
00:57:40,280 --> 00:57:43,440
Speaker 1: Like you just said, you're not happy, So it's.

1367
00:57:43,320 --> 00:57:46,800
Speaker 2: Okay happiness at the end of the day because you're

1368
00:57:46,800 --> 00:57:49,160
Speaker 2: not happy. How you're gonna be a good mom? Tell

1369
00:57:49,200 --> 00:57:51,600
Speaker 2: your baby that you already have and a new baby,

1370
00:57:51,760 --> 00:57:59,600
Speaker 2: you know, So talkingady, I'm ready, you got gonna pull it.

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00:58:00,200 --> 00:58:02,920
Speaker 1: I'm gonna put the lyrics. Y'all know, we sing at

1372
00:58:02,920 --> 00:58:05,480
Speaker 1: the end of every episode. So it's given. It's given, Trio,

1373
00:58:06,440 --> 00:58:08,920
Speaker 1: it's given. We deserve Grammys, you know.

1374
00:58:09,040 --> 00:58:10,840
Speaker 2: And if you need somebody to sing on your hook,

1375
00:58:10,920 --> 00:58:11,720
Speaker 2: key shot got you.

1376
00:58:12,360 --> 00:58:15,520
Speaker 1: Okay, I got you know real.

1377
00:58:15,640 --> 00:58:18,480
Speaker 2: She used to love y'all song right good?

1378
00:58:17,840 --> 00:58:21,640
Speaker 1: I bet you ru su.

1379
00:58:23,320 --> 00:58:28,960
Speaker 2: Hey ro ship. I'm telling you look I told you

1380
00:58:29,280 --> 00:58:31,200
Speaker 2: I've been trying at the fan girl this whole time.

1381
00:58:31,440 --> 00:58:33,720
Speaker 1: I made Joe Box like my bather. The week been

1382
00:58:33,720 --> 00:58:41,440
Speaker 1: a light skin. Whatever you ready.

1383
00:58:41,560 --> 00:58:45,120
Speaker 6: We let them boys that be in them next cleaning, Okay,

1384
00:58:45,320 --> 00:58:54,960
Speaker 6: I'd be so little love keep my body screaming in

1385
00:58:55,120 --> 00:58:56,560
Speaker 6: the bag, being.

1386
00:58:57,760 --> 00:59:02,240
Speaker 2: So little from the bay dreaming.

1387
00:59:03,000 --> 00:59:04,640
Speaker 1: Oh it's good. Tell me what.

1388
00:59:04,720 --> 00:59:11,080
Speaker 2: Street crowd up the same hood checking on Beta B Street.

1389
00:59:10,840 --> 00:59:11,440
Speaker 1: Looking at me.

1390
00:59:11,760 --> 00:59:14,320
Speaker 2: I need a soldier that is got a sending bout

1391
00:59:14,400 --> 00:59:16,960
Speaker 2: me now that can't very big things if you know

1392
00:59:17,000 --> 00:59:17,600
Speaker 2: what I mean.

1393
00:59:17,920 --> 00:59:18,680
Speaker 1: If you're sat the.

1394
00:59:18,640 --> 00:59:24,160
Speaker 2: Saying okay street, if you're looking at me, I need

1395
00:59:24,200 --> 00:59:26,480
Speaker 2: a soldier that ain't good to stand up for me.

1396
00:59:26,920 --> 00:59:29,640
Speaker 1: I don't know that any better be street.

1397
00:59:29,760 --> 00:59:32,400
Speaker 2: We like them boys up top from the beat can

1398
00:59:32,560 --> 00:59:35,320
Speaker 2: be look the money three.

1399
00:59:35,160 --> 00:59:39,920
Speaker 5: Way way, where to be on the freeway. Waddy's con

1400
00:59:40,120 --> 00:59:43,600
Speaker 5: slaying this country. Girls like go cut see this with

1401
00:59:43,720 --> 00:59:46,720
Speaker 5: the deep word way, snatch up your.

1402
00:59:49,960 --> 00:59:51,040
Speaker 2: No it's and.

1403
00:59:56,600 --> 00:59:59,480
Speaker 1: Checking up on Meta B Street. If you're looking at me,

1404
00:59:59,800 --> 01:00:05,200
Speaker 1: I eat a soldier that I you didn't know what

1405
01:00:05,360 --> 01:00:05,720
Speaker 1: I mean?

1406
01:00:06,480 --> 01:00:11,600
Speaker 2: That is a letter. You're looking at me.

1407
01:00:11,920 --> 01:00:14,800
Speaker 1: I need a Zoda and it's good that I'm Michelle

1408
01:00:15,360 --> 01:00:15,960
Speaker 1: carry Gill.

1409
01:00:16,000 --> 01:00:19,040
Speaker 6: It ain't kill it knowing I like the boys over

1410
01:00:19,160 --> 01:00:20,560
Speaker 6: that ain't looking strong and the.

1411
01:00:22,320 --> 01:00:25,720
Speaker 1: Get on the phone and the and Manky's and my

1412
01:00:25,880 --> 01:00:28,560
Speaker 1: thone and the Zona night you don't know what might

1413
01:00:28,640 --> 01:00:32,160
Speaker 1: be on then I know he's looking good. Any talking

1414
01:00:32,560 --> 01:00:37,360
Speaker 1: tell you that might change my life? Everything looking at me?

1415
01:00:37,480 --> 01:00:38,680
Speaker 1: My girls be like girl.

1416
01:00:39,520 --> 01:00:45,440
Speaker 4: That one may be the ones tonight show is our

1417
01:00:45,560 --> 01:00:49,680
Speaker 4: grid when he is on my walk, I.

1418
01:00:51,680 --> 01:00:54,680
Speaker 1: Carried away. I'm away, okay.

1419
01:00:54,920 --> 01:00:56,960
Speaker 2: So I think you should tell us the projects that

1420
01:00:57,000 --> 01:00:58,760
Speaker 2: you're working on that we could look out for, and

1421
01:00:58,840 --> 01:01:01,320
Speaker 2: then tell them where they can find you at well,

1422
01:01:01,320 --> 01:01:04,000
Speaker 2: you can follow me everywhere at like and say, Jay,

1423
01:01:04,160 --> 01:01:06,800
Speaker 2: you know I'm saying sure you and I will be

1424
01:01:06,880 --> 01:01:09,480
Speaker 2: dropping my next project. It's called break the Bank period,

1425
01:01:09,560 --> 01:01:12,160
Speaker 2: so y'all can look forward to that in October, and

1426
01:01:12,240 --> 01:01:14,680
Speaker 2: it's coming soon. And we got another project coming out

1427
01:01:14,680 --> 01:01:16,680
Speaker 2: this year too as well. And my new single will

1428
01:01:16,720 --> 01:01:18,960
Speaker 2: be dropping a Margarita soon, so y'all make sure y'all

1429
01:01:18,960 --> 01:01:20,840
Speaker 2: go check that out on all streaming platforms.

1430
01:01:20,880 --> 01:01:26,960
Speaker 1: Go check out all my music all stream. I'm outside

1431
01:01:27,080 --> 01:01:27,960
Speaker 1: on the block.

1432
01:01:29,200 --> 01:01:31,760
Speaker 2: And you know.

1433
01:01:35,360 --> 01:01:39,440
Speaker 1: That's you don't all right? Thank y'all so much, and

1434
01:01:39,720 --> 01:01:42,000
Speaker 1: make sure y'all like and subscribe and we'll see y'all

1435
01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:54,160
Speaker 1: next week. Ya, that was good. That Thank you having me.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much.