Speaker 1: It's time say catch a cheater. Only on the Double Show,
Speaker 1: Laura is on the phone today for to catch a Cheater,
Speaker 1: and she thinks that her husband of five years named
Speaker 1: Chris might be messing around, so we'll see if we
Speaker 1: can catch him if he is. In a second, Laura, sorry,
Speaker 1: you have to come on the show this way, But
Speaker 1: what's going on? Why do you think Chris is cheating?
Speaker 2: Well, okay, so I mean, yeah, Chris and I've been
Speaker 2: married for five years, but we've actually been together for
Speaker 2: nine years total, so you know, it's a very long
Speaker 2: term relationship. There have been some rocky moments, but we've
Speaker 2: we've always been able to work through them in the past.
Speaker 2: So I'm in a little bit of a conundrum right now.
Speaker 2: I'm super in love with Chris. This is what I
Speaker 2: would call a pretty happy marriage. But last month I
Speaker 2: was on the couch, I was watching TV and Chris
Speaker 2: was sitting next to me. He had a phone by him,
Speaker 2: which is not unusual, and his phone lit up and
Speaker 2: I just kind of glanced at it because it distracted me.
Speaker 2: It wasn't like, you know, it wasn't anything weird. I
Speaker 2: just like caught it out of the corner. Of my eye,
Speaker 2: but it looked like a Tinder notification. Oh yeah, I mean,
Speaker 2: I you know, I've never used Tinder myself. Again, we've
Speaker 2: been together for nine years, but like I have single girlfriends,
Speaker 2: I know what to Tinder looks like. So later that
Speaker 2: same night, we were lying down in bed, we were like,
Speaker 2: you know, ready for bed, just kind of like on
Speaker 2: our phone, and I saw it again, like I saw
Speaker 2: this notification flash and he very quickly picked up his
Speaker 2: phone and turned it off. And I was like, okay,
Speaker 2: that's a little bit weird, right, And again I didn't
Speaker 2: I didn't want to jump to conclusions because I mean,
Speaker 2: it could be anything, could be work, it could be whatever.
Speaker 2: But it was still bothering me the next day, so
Speaker 2: I got a brain wave and I don't know if
Speaker 2: it was a good idea, but it was definitely an
Speaker 2: idea that I ran with and I went ahead and
Speaker 2: I downloaded Tinder onto my own phone and I made
Speaker 2: fake profile, bake picture. I said my name was Bailey,
Speaker 2: and I found Chris. He was on Tinder. Yeah, so
Speaker 2: I matched with him, as you know, Bailey. And at
Speaker 2: first I didn't do anything about it. It was just
Speaker 2: sort of like, you know, a gotcha moment, Like I
Speaker 2: was like, okay, he was on here and he matched
Speaker 2: with me. So finally though, I mustered up the strength
Speaker 2: to message him, and he was honestly just really nice.
Speaker 2: He wasn't weird, he wasn't aggressive, he was just super kind.
Speaker 2: He didn't ask me for nudes, he didn't like be like,
Speaker 2: you know, let's hook up or anything. He did. It
Speaker 2: seemed like he just wanted to talk. So as Bailey,
Speaker 2: we start talking together, and I knew that I should
Speaker 2: be like super pissed about this, as as Laura, as
Speaker 2: now my two personalities, like as myself, he should have
Speaker 2: been pissed, and I kind of was, but I really
Speaker 2: just wanted to see where this was going. So you know,
Speaker 2: I go into Bailey mode and started talking back to him.
Speaker 2: And the truth is I kind of got addicted to it,
Speaker 2: like that little adrenaline rush, you know. And after a
Speaker 2: while of chatting over like the period of a couple
Speaker 2: of weeks, I knew when he'd leave the room to
Speaker 2: message her as me Bailey, you know, and I you know,
Speaker 2: kind of wait for the look on his face after
Speaker 2: he read whatever eye slash Bailey had sent him, and
Speaker 2: it was you know, it was a little bit cute.
Speaker 2: It kind of felt like that new relationship, like you
Speaker 2: know when you're excited to talk to somebody, Like that's
Speaker 2: that's how he appeared a little bit. That's kind of
Speaker 2: how I felt. But you know, at the end of
Speaker 2: the day, it's still it's cheating.
Speaker 1: He doesn't know that it's me someone else though, I mean, it.
Speaker 2: Doesn't exactly exactly, and so that's my dilemma, Like I
Speaker 2: realized that I'll let it go too far, but like,
Speaker 2: it was just really nice to kind of see my
Speaker 2: husband in a new light that wasn't and it wasn't
Speaker 2: like I said, it wasn't super gross or predatory. It
Speaker 2: seems like he just really does like talking to Bailey,
Speaker 2: But I don't know what he's doing with other people
Speaker 2: on Twitter, and that me, Yeah, that.
Speaker 1: Sounds very, very accepting of it.
Speaker 3: I think there's really one big takeaway here, honestly, is
Speaker 3: that I think roleplay maybe something that is.
Speaker 1: Exciting for you.
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm serious, it sounds like that's something that
Speaker 3: may work for you guys, once you get to the
Speaker 3: bottom of what's actually happening.
Speaker 2: Well, I hope we get to the bottom of it.
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm it kind of depends on what else
Speaker 2: is going on on there. You know what I mean.
Speaker 1: You already told us what grocery store you guys are
Speaker 1: Rewards card members at. So we'll call him and pretend
Speaker 1: to be from the grocery store and say that he's
Speaker 1: this month's big winner of flowers from our Florida department
Speaker 1: to be sent to wherever he wants. We'll see if
Speaker 1: he sends us to you or to somebody else. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: all right, place, don't come back get your to Catch
Speaker 1: a Cheater next if you're just joining us for today's
Speaker 1: to Catch a Cheater. Laura is on the phone and
Speaker 1: she thinks that her husband of five years, Chris, might
Speaker 1: be messing around. So in a few minutes, we're gonna
Speaker 1: call him and see if we can catch him by
Speaker 1: pretending to be from the grocery store that they are
Speaker 1: reward card members at and say that every single month,
Speaker 1: we choose one Rewards Card member who gets free flowers
Speaker 1: delivered from our Florida department. See if he sends those
Speaker 1: to his wife, Laura or to somebody else. Before we
Speaker 1: do that, Laura, why don't you catch everybody up on
Speaker 1: your situation.
Speaker 2: I think that my husband may be cheating on me
Speaker 2: because I saw a Tinder notification on his phone, and
Speaker 2: in order to find out, I made a fake profile.
Speaker 2: I said my name was this girl Daily. She doesn't exist.
Speaker 2: I made her up and he started chatting with her.
Speaker 2: But it hasn't gone beyond just talking. So I don't
Speaker 2: know if he's doing anything else on Tinder. I don't
Speaker 2: know what's going on. I just know that he's been
Speaker 2: talking to me as this girl named Bailey, and I
Speaker 2: want to figure out what's going on.
Speaker 1: All right? You ready for us to call on?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: I guess, so here we go.
Speaker 4: Hello.
Speaker 1: Hi, my name is Gorvin calling from SIRS. I was
Speaker 1: looking for our rewards card member named Chris.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, speak Chris.
Speaker 1: Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.
Speaker 1: I'm actually calling to say congratulations. You're listen, most big winner,
Speaker 1: thank you very much for shopping with us.
Speaker 4: All right, well, what does that mean?
Speaker 1: Every single month, we choose one rewards card member who
Speaker 1: gets free flowers delivered from our floral department. It's our
Speaker 1: way of saying thank you for shopping. You've won thirty
Speaker 1: six long sim red roses a box of chocolate or
Speaker 1: candy and a car to be delivered to anybody that
Speaker 1: you want with in the fifty United States of America.
Speaker 1: It's absolutely free.
Speaker 4: Oh wow, okay, cool.
Speaker 1: Yeah. So here's how it works. If you know who
Speaker 1: you want to send the flowers to right now, I
Speaker 1: can take the information down over the phone in no
Speaker 1: matter of minutes.
Speaker 4: Well, we can knock it out right now. Oh, I
Speaker 4: got you?
Speaker 1: All right? Great. So what's the first and last name
Speaker 1: of the person who'd like to send him to.
Speaker 5: It's the same last name. It's just my wife, Laura. Okay,
Speaker 5: you have the address, but with the account.
Speaker 1: H yes, I too. Do you want to put anything
Speaker 1: on a card?
Speaker 4: Well, just tell her.
Speaker 5: I love you very much and you're you're you're my one?
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're my one? Does that make sense?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Got it? How on an you guys been married, by
Speaker 1: the way, five years? Oh boy, that's a long time.
Speaker 1: Do you ever have another one? Oh? No, Chris, this
Speaker 1: is actually the Jubil Show. It's a radio show. My
Speaker 1: name is Jubil. Yeah, Hi, Chris, I'm mean.
Speaker 3: Also on the show, Hi.
Speaker 1: And I'm Victoria. We do a segment call to catch
Speaker 1: a cheater and your wife Laura is actually on the
Speaker 1: other line, and she has some questions for you.
Speaker 2: Hey, baby, Hi missed, took the right turn.
Speaker 4: What's happening.
Speaker 2: I just want to know if you've been with other women,
Speaker 2: or if you've thought about it, or if you're kind
Speaker 2: of leaning in that direction.
Speaker 5: I'm like on the radio right now. Well, the answer,
Speaker 5: regardless of.
Speaker 4: Whether I'm on the radio or not, is no, I've
Speaker 4: never been with anybody but you in our marriage.
Speaker 2: Do you want to be with somebody else? Is there
Speaker 2: anybody else that you've been like thinking about getting together with?
Speaker 4: No, No, I haven't.
Speaker 2: If I ask someone named Bailey, what would she say?
Speaker 2: Do you know who I'm talking about? Do you know
Speaker 2: who Bailey is?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 2: Yeah, you do, because I'm Bailey. I'm Bailey. I made
Speaker 2: that account and I've been messaging you. I saw, I saw,
Speaker 2: I saw a tender on your phone. I saw a
Speaker 2: notification come up. So I made the Bailey profile. That's
Speaker 2: that's just a random photo of a random girl I
Speaker 2: found online.
Speaker 5: Okay, so we should probably like talk, Yeah, yeah, yeah, can.
Speaker 2: We please talk right now? Because like, as long as
Speaker 2: we've done this much on the radio, I just like
Speaker 2: to wrap this up. So I don't go through like humiliated.
Speaker 5: Yeah, well you shouldn't be humiliated. I did something very stupid. This,
Speaker 5: this character you created was the only person I've been in.
Speaker 4: Contact with, which is you, which is it's probably my mind.
Speaker 4: I'm blown right now.
Speaker 5: I mean, as you can see, since you were very
Speaker 5: much in on this, like I wasn't. I crossed the
Speaker 5: line by opening it, but I wasn't like being inappropriate.
Speaker 5: I've talked to no one else, no one's sent anything inappropriate.
Speaker 5: I've not gotten anything inappropriate from anybody. I was just
Speaker 5: chatting and I you know, i'd like to ironically this
Speaker 5: Bailey was and I just wanted to talk. It kind
Speaker 5: of like felt like we were just things are stale
Speaker 5: with us or something, and I wasn't looking to cheat. Look,
Speaker 5: I'm I'm really sorry. I that was extremely stupid. But
Speaker 5: I can promise you that I'm not cheating or doing
Speaker 5: anything like that. Not that this wasn't wrong, but like
Speaker 5: I didn't I didn't step out in a way that
Speaker 5: was physical or even or even like well hopefully you
Speaker 5: can attest to like wasn't even like inappropriately conversing with anybody,
Speaker 5: you know.
Speaker 2: All right, Well, I mean clearly there was something we
Speaker 2: both got from this, Like it was thrilling for me
Speaker 2: in a certain way. It seems like it was thrilling
Speaker 2: for you to be able to talk to somebody else.
Speaker 2: But I feel like that's something we can work on
Speaker 2: in our relationship. Like I'm still kind of mad, but
Speaker 2: I can see what has been lacking, and I hope
Speaker 2: we can work through it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm sorry.
Speaker 5: I'll show you all of it. You'll at least be
Speaker 5: somewhat self assured by that, but I'm really sorry.
Speaker 2: Thank you.
Speaker 1: N Yeah, I mean it sounds like he wasn't cheating,
Speaker 1: but at least if he was going to, it would
Speaker 1: be with you. Yes, you guys obviously got some stuff
Speaker 1: to work out, so good luck. Good luck is right.
Speaker 2: Thanks guys, This was actually really helpful. I really appreciate
Speaker 2: you helping me out with this.
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